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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Last update on KidnappingThis is wild. I’m glad they have you. Keep being the best dad you can be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife Kidnapped the kids | She's a fugitiveWow.. keep us updated on this | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?We filed on December 23 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Thank you for your encouragement | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?How do you feel about another man being in your son’s life? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How do your kids get along with their step-parent? If you are a step-parent, how do you get along with your step-kids?What happened to the comment?! I came back to read it again and it’s gone… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How do your kids get along with their step-parent? If you are a step-parent, how do you get along with your step-kids?What happened to the comment?! I came back to read it again and it’s gone… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Thank you man. The divorce is not final yet and on different days I feel different feelings and think different things. Sometimes I’m ok, sometimes mad, sometimes sad, etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Thank you for your response. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Thank you man! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 05:01 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Do you have boys only? Or girls too? Are they still small? I have two boys that are still small. If I had girls idk what I would do. If my boys were older maybe I wouldn’t be so worried. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 05:00 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Wow.. I am sorry to hear this… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 04:37 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?I’m sorry you went through this and are going through this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 04:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?I’m glad to hear this! Thank God for our kids! They help us get through this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Good way to think about it my friend! I was thinking the same. I’d live life and be the best dad I can and if I’ll remain single so be it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 03:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Good that you don’t feel threatened. Yea as long as bio dad is a good dad that helps a lot. And yea my stbxw is changing her last name back to her maiden name. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Oh I see haha. Did you move on? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 02:26 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Ouch. Sorry man.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 02:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?You have kids with her though right? It’s not just the one she already had before meeting you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 02:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?I worry about that too… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 01:58 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Wow… I am sorry. This is wild. Does she know about his history? Is your son small? Are you getting in the divorce decree that someone with that record cannot be around your son? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 01:57 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?See, having her kids call another man dad is crossing a line. This is something I would absolutely not be ok with. My stbxw said she would not cross that boundary. I hope she sticks with that and doesn’t change her mind down the road. If anything, I will teach my kids myself to not call another man dad or father. That is not cool. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 01:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Good mindset. Are the boys still small? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Would you have felt this way if your ex moved on right away? While your kids were still small? If years pass, I too would not be as worried if my kids are bigger. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 01:45 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Ahh I see. Do you have a good relationship with your daughter? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Great to be confident in yourself! You are right. If you are a good dad, no one will replace you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 01:43 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?If my boys are that big maybe it won’t bother me as much. Thanks for your response! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 05:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Dang. Seems like you handled it well. I feel like I’d get jealous. Especially about another guy being with my boys. Are your boys older? Mine are still small. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 05:12 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Does he respect you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Thank you for this. How old were you when your parents split up? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone been through this before?Why did you guys break up in the first place if everything was so good? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/25 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Didn’t want the divorce/ blessing in disguiseBlessings to you as well my friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/25 05:00 PM |
| 10 | Didn’t want the divorce/ blessing in disguiseI am happy for you! This is how I am starting to see things as well. My divorce is not final yet but I am accepting it and seeing that it can be a blessing in disguise. I also plan on getting closer to God, becoming the best version of myself, and being the best dad possible! Do you have kids too? Mine give me joy and purpose. They are helping me get through this easier. Keep on staying positive my man! And God bless you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/25 04:02 PM |
| 4 | When did life get better?All we can do now is try and be the best dads that we can be. At least we have our kids. Sorry to hear you aren’t doing much better yet. Don’t give up hope! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 06:12 AM |
| 2 | When did life get better?I wouldn’t be able to tell you because I am in the middle of a divorce now. I’m thinking everyone is different and takes a different amount of time to heal. How many kids do you have? Are they still very young? I’m worried about my boys the most. They’re still small and I’m not ok with another man potentially coming into their life anytime soon. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 05:59 AM |
| 3 | How to get over it?How long were you married? Do you have any kids together? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Finally did it... she blocked meDo you have any kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/25 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex?Affair partner | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 02:36 AM |
| 1 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?Do you know if your son gets along with your ex’s partner? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 02:35 AM |
| 2 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?Keep on being a great day. When he grows up even more, he will understand and see what effort you and your ex put into his wellbeing. Sounds like you are on the right track. Thank you for sharing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How do your kids get along with their step-parent? If you are a step-parent, how do you get along with your step-kids?Thank you for the long and detailed response! I truly appreciate you my man! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?How did he take it when he was 5? And did you or your ex remarry? How has that been on him? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | How do your kids get along with their step-parent? If you are a step-parent, how do you get along with your step-kids?Wow! What a big family. I only have 2 kids and have my hands full 😅 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/25 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?I’m glad they were older and were close to you and bonded! I can’t imagine how hard it would be for someone to divorce when their children are only infants or toddlers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/25 02:06 AM |
| 3 | How do your kids get along with their step-parent? If you are a step-parent, how do you get along with your step-kids?I’m thinking about being single for the rest of my life and being the best dad I can be. My wife is the one divorcing me and open to a new partner. I’m worried about another man being in my kids lives. I feel threatened by it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/25 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?Oh I see. So they were older. I’m glad you at least have a good relationship with them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 11:16 PM |
| 5 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?I’m glad that you and your son have each other. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?How old were they when they said that? | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | How do your kids get along with their step-parent? If you are a step-parent, how do you get along with your step-kids?Thank you for sharing. Do you have any children of your own? | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 10:58 PM |
| 3 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?Wow. Sounds like you have an amazing daughter. I am glad you two have each other. Thank you for sharing. I wish you and your daughter the best! | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?Thank you for sharing. I am glad you have a good relationship with your kids. Keep up the good work as a father! | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex?Thanks for sharing! | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 04:48 PM |
| 2 | How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now?Thank you for sharing. I wish you well! | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex?Sorry you’re going through this… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/24 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Not sure how to deal with this.My wife is divorcing me and we have been married only 9 years. I have little children. It’s hard. Can’t imaging being with someone 40 years and going through that. But atleast you can look at it that you had so many memories to make even if she does leave. At least you saw your children grow up and it wasn’t hard on them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Not sure how to deal with this.Ask her why she doesn’t love you anymore. Ask her what is love to her. Ask her if she is talking to someone. Ask her if there is something you can do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/24 07:54 AM |
| 8 | 2 months separated and not getting easierYou are not alone. My wife was the same. She is so creative and always made the holidays and celebrations super special. Today we filed our divorce paperwork and it’s starting to hit me hard. I feel like crying as I am typing this. I also have young children and I already miss my family and stbxw even though we are still living together for 2 more months. I also wish we could work things out. Hang in there buddy. If you need someone to talk to you can always dm me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/24 06:42 AM |
| 1 | I have summited the mountain. 10 years this month.Any plans to date or do you want to stay single? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/24 12:43 AM |
| 3 | I have summited the mountain. 10 years this month.Did you remain single? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 11:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over your ex when she is the mother of your children and you still love her?How long have you been divorced for? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 04:50 AM |
| 5 | How do you get over your ex when she is the mother of your children and you still love her?Likewise! Best of wishes to us both. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 03:49 AM |
| 3 | How do you get over your ex when she is the mother of your children and you still love her?Good way of thinking about it, dad. It’s how I’ve been thinking it similarly as well. Our kids need us and we need to be strong for them. It’s ok for us to cry and feel emotions, but we can’t let this destroy us. We can’t change the past. We can only change the present and affect our futures. Our kids depend on us to be the best that we can for them! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 03:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you get over your ex when she is the mother of your children and you still love her?I’m glad you are doing somewhat better. Time heals all wounds, at least that’s what they say. It might never fully go away but the pain should hopefully lessen over time. I know everyone’s situation is different and so that matters as well. Thanks to this group we know that we are not alone in going through this. Other men out there share similar pains. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 03:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you get over your ex when she is the mother of your children and you still love her?I’m sorry for your pain brother. Stay strong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Why?Wow… this is sad but true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/24 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Why?Well said. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/24 05:11 AM |
| 5 | Why?You have a point, sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/24 05:10 AM |
| 11 | Why?Dad, you are doing great! Keep on being the best dad you can. You’re an inspiration. Those kids need you more than ever during this time. You cannot control her behavior, you can only control yours. It seems to me that you are making the most out of this situation. No other man will be those kids dad! You are their dad! No one can replace you. I’m rooting for you man. Stay strong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | WTF!? I just received (expected) paperworkThat’s why there are prenups | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Wife “wants us to be great co-parents” but she is asking for it ALL…What is a hick state? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 07:21 AM |
| 5 | A man aloneHang in there brother. Your children are blessed to have you as their daddy. Keep doing the best you can, at least for them. I’m rooting for you my man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 07:18 AM |
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