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u/DennisReynoids
/r/seduction25/11/19 03:43 AM
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I feel like the mods do a pretty good job of challenging content posted on here. Guru's or your average posters.
/r/seduction24/03/19 06:42 PM
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That's my bad for missing that. Honesty is not the right word. What I should have said is I'm glad you found something that works for you and isn't that toxic. Idk how to describe it better lol.
/r/seduction22/03/19 02:35 AM
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If OP likes to interact with women at this pace that's perfectly fine but to be actively dating and make an effort to go on 4 dates without really escalating is a lot of work. Comfort doesn't always equal attraction. I also don't believe that if I'm trying to maximize getting laid that I'll necessarily be attracting "sluts". In my case it's just the opposite. "Sluts" or girls that are easy are more superficial and sleep around mainly on looks or personal problems they may have. When I go out to …
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:28 PM
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All in all I get what your saying and I'm glad you found something that works and is built on honesty. However what gets you to the next level of success can keep you from the next level of success. It sounds like not being needy is what elevated your game but it sounds like you're being too platonic. Have you tried moving things quicker or tried date 2 in a fun environment where you can be a little more bold? Like I said earlier, if it works it works but I'm curious on what your thoughts are. T…
/r/seduction20/03/19 08:43 PM
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1) you didn't come off as aggressive, you came off as needy 2) you should soft close before you hard close Example: You: "Do you like wine?" (Soft close) Girl: "Ya I love wine!" You: "Let's grab a bottle and watch a movie at my place" (hard close) The soft close is meant to smoothly lead the conversation in the right direction.
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:48 AM
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Yea that's it.
/r/seduction14/03/19 10:57 PM
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I don't use dating apps but you could read the playing with fire blog. Pretty sure it's dedicated to how to hook up with girls on dating apps
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:01 PM
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Do you have any videos or infields on day game? One thing that struck me about this video is when you mentioned the problems with the whole "Hey I thought you where cute yada yada ..." Approach as well as adding in a false time constraint. I'd be interested in your thought process for cold approach. Thanks in advance!
/r/seduction03/02/19 03:41 AM
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I liked this video more then I thought I would. There's definitely advice that feels unique to your experiences. Also you sound a lot like Ed Wuncler the third at times.
/r/seduction02/02/19 07:57 PM
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What your referring to, self-confidence, addressing your insecurities, having the right mindset, that's called inner game. (You can find a more indepth explanation in the side bar probably) Both inner game and outer game (most often reffered to as just game) are important for different reasons. Inner game is important for medium and long term success with women and relationships. Outer game is important and more relevant to short term success with women. 1 night stands, hook ups, that sorta thin…
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:07 AM
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First off, you're probably putting too much pressure on yourself. Relax and take a deep breath. Self improvement and success with dating/women takes patience. It's easy to have failure after failure accumulate and start to level yourself. Do you have any goals? Do you do any sort of prep before you go out to get into the right state of mind? Are you relying on friends to meet girls or are you going out yourself and approaching? You should try consistently going out to parties or bars with just 1…
/r/seduction01/12/18 07:57 AM
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I'm sure everyone on this sub would agree. Read "Models" by Mark Manson
/r/seduction25/11/18 08:45 AM
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There's not much that can separate yourself from other kids in highschool other than status. Status isn't necessarily an easy thing to get in highschool. Try living a cool lifestyle. Pick up a sport, go to parties, get your drivers license, get good enough grades to get into college. The worst thing you could do is to do nothing. Highschool isn't all that important. You can definitely have fun but everyone has more fun in college. Leading an attractive lifestyle in highschool is a prep to gettin…
/r/seduction16/09/18 01:55 AM
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Start talking about your husband around him every chance you get. If you confront him about the flirting things could go less then well let's say. If you go to HR you could be messing with his lively hood. Husband talk is an instant boner killer and he'll take the hint. Edit. Grammer
/r/seduction09/09/18 02:38 AM
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I don't think you have to choose between how many people you talk to and the authenticity of a conversation. You can be authentic and have a light hearted, fun conversation. You can be authentic and have a more deep, substantial conversation. However I don't think many people would be interested in having an authentic, deep convo with someone they just met at a bar, at least not at the bars I go to (loud music, long lines to get drinks, lots and lots of hot girls). I definitely understand wantin…
/r/seduction10/08/18 03:20 AM
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I'm gonna have to disagree. Depending on the environment this works well for me. Anecdotally speaking, I feel like most guys stand around for a couple of hours and finally work up the courage to talk to 1 girl they think is super cute. They didn't warm up or open anyone other chicks because they made excuses to justified their lack of actions ("She looks too slutty", "I just saw her talking to another guy, probably her bf", or "she's with her friend she probably doesn't want to be bothered"). Wh…
/r/seduction10/08/18 02:59 AM
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I love the idea of not settling down when you first walk in! I'm looking forward to trying this out. I always follow the talk to the first girl you see rule. Get it out of your system so any approach anxiety doesn't build up. My game is pretty much "planting seeds" through out the night. The key is casual openers that build attraction and not comfort. You don't want to come off invested in her and that it's a big deal that you approached her. Always try to end the interaction on your terms. Buil…
/r/seduction10/08/18 02:23 AM
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Ok I'll believe that you have taken action because there's no point in arguing. This should be a community that supports each other. I said that because this whole post sounds like something a young adult might post who hasn't had much life experience if I'm being honest. Personally for me I like going out and getting girls. If you've done that and don't enjoy it that's totally cool too. Everyone is different. I'd suggest you read Models by Mark Manson. It goes over healthy ways to attract women…
/r/seduction31/07/18 08:54 PM
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Bingo
/r/seduction18/07/18 06:41 PM
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I can tell you haven't take much action in life or with women OP. Anyone following their dreams knows you don't have to choose between following your dreams and picking up women. You could dedicate one or 2 nights a month to going out to a bar for 2 hours and try to take a girl home. That'd only be 4 hours a month dedicated to "chasing" women. It'd be naive to think you can just keep your head down and never run out of steam. You need balance in life. Seduction is a skill that can be used not ju…
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:10 PM
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Thanks for sharing. That's what a lot of pick up is. Small realizations through getting out of your comfort zone and new experiences.
/r/seduction16/07/18 01:52 AM
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A comedian named Brent Morrin has a joke about his ex leaving him for a magician funny enough.
/r/seduction16/07/18 01:50 AM
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I'll be honest, I struggle with this sometimes too so take my advice with a grain of salt. The key is to either flip what they said to a positive or go along with the joke and exaggerate the joke as long as it's not self deprecating. What I recommend is to totally ignore what they said and say something back. Someone said something about the boots I was wearing because they had a Cuban heel. They where feminine, very thin and sleek. I didn't even justify why I was wearing them that's the key. I …
/r/seduction13/07/18 11:30 PM
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You're already too invested in her. Start working out, eating better, and maybe pick up meditation. Just relax. You're in your 20s. You're supposed to say the wrong thing once and a while. The worst thing you could do is nothing because there will be a time when it's too late to chase girls. Focus on yourself, pick up some challenging hobbies, and don't compare yourself to other people. Life is yin and yang. Everyone has pros and cons about them. Don't compare yourself to other people it's a los…
/r/seduction13/07/18 10:54 PM
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Use this subs side bar for a general guide. Honestly though I'd say to to a lot of girls. The guys who lose the most win the most.
/r/seduction12/07/18 09:39 PM
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What type of dates are you taking them on? Would you say the dates have a "relationship"/intimate vibe or a fun casual vibe? You could also invite a girl you're talking to to come out with her girlfriends to a bar to meet up with you and your guy friends. That way it's not really a date but you can still try and close. There's that underlying premise of casualty.
/r/seduction12/07/18 06:39 PM
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I'm only 22. I know that's young lol. I tried around 7 things before 1 stuck. The questions I asked myself where to figure what I wanted to do. 1) How high is the ceiling of my career? For example if you wanted to be a chef. There's a pretty high ceiling. Meaning you could have goals of opening up a 5 star restraunt in Beverly Hills or having your own TV show. If I wanted to be a paralegal. The best I could probably do is work at a prestigious firm. 2) What would I actually be doing everyday? 3)…
/r/seduction29/06/18 12:58 AM
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I've never thought of it like that but you're right. I approached a girl who was trying to figure out what she wanted to do with her life. "As long as you are trying to figure it out and not letting life pass you by, you'll figure it out." I told her. I then brought up a story of a woman who was in her 40s I believe, who got diagnosed with cancer. She came to the realization that she hadn't been following her dreams. She wanted to be a violinist. Well she ended up beating the cancer and 4 years …
/r/seduction27/06/18 08:55 PM
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The majority of this subs advice involves stepping out of your comfort zone. It's not easy but there isn't really an alternative.
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:49 AM
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That's why I'm sharing it lol. I've had my fair share of great, okay, and bad interactions. I'm sharing this to learn from it and see where I went wrong.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:45 PM
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Ok this makes a lot of sense. I thought because she approached me I could use that to my advantage and turn the tables so to speak. Great reply, thanks!
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:42 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction13/04/18 01:14 AM
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From what I've experienced there a 2 types of girls with all guy friends. The first is some what of a Tom boy and doesn't vibe with women mainly because of the dynamics between other women and usually hangs out with a tight group of close girlfriends or a group of fairly beta guys. The other is girly girl who sleeps around and hangs out with a fair amount of above average masculine dudes. She lightly flirts with a couple of them and gets a touchy with some as well. From what I've seen usually th…
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:32 PM
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There are quite a few more in depth resources out there on push and pull but gist of it is keeping a balance of interest and disinterest in her. By doing that you won't come off as needy and she'll maintain more interest in you if you arn't always validating her. I can't think of a great example but let's say you're hanging out. Maybe you tease her about her outfit and say how she looks like a mime because she's wearing a striped shirt. She could have thought the same thing earlier but decided t…
/r/seduction21/03/18 11:10 PM
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I wouldn't say it's not normal at all. Every girl is different. Some like getting all lovey dovey, some just roll over and go to bed, other won't leave the next day lol. Honestly though just play it cool. Do some push pull and see how things go. Don't over think it. Girls most of the time have other options so any light feelings she felt those next few days could fade away. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
/r/seduction21/03/18 04:22 PM
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What do you say when they say they're busy?
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:10 AM
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Truth!
/r/seduction11/03/18 06:05 PM
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Not even trying to talk shit or rip on you but... I checked out your profile to see if you where active on seddit or posted anything on dating to see if you could back what you are preaching. Just based on on your beta Tinder profile description I can honestly say whatever you think you know about girls is wrong. But hey that's what this subreddit is for lol. You should be getting advice on women and dating from other men. Not other women. Trust me brotha Edit: From his Tinder "I heard girls lik…
/r/seduction10/03/18 06:12 PM
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I've never been a fan of asking someone out when they're working unless there in the place by themselves. Believe that one day you will overcome it and that you'll laugh at all the bad experiences you had starting out. That's what makes success taste so sweet!
/r/seduction10/03/18 05:30 AM
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I read an article, unfortunately I can't remember the authors name but he has a lot of success in pick up, (he's in his 40s I remember him saying that) The point of the article was if you miss an opportunity to sleep with a girl she will most likely move on. She will most likely always have other options and doesn't need to continue putting effort into something where there were 2 nights of you building up a scenario of you two sleeping together and then nothing happened. How I think you should …
/r/seduction10/03/18 04:42 AM
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Your problem is that you're ONLY using the Axe body wash. Try the deodorant, cologne, and hair gel. (In addition to the body wash of course)
/r/seduction10/03/18 03:52 AM
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You could either go with the Hey, I'm here on holiday and was wondering What are some cool things to do in X?
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:54 AM
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"I actually Hoverboard everywhere." (Referring to those io hawks) This response only works if your tone and delivery are right. I'd say it super proud, sarcastic, and confident.
/r/seduction11/02/18 04:26 AM
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"Nah Jezebel taught me better." Or "No. I Don't think Jezebel would approve of that." Jezebel is a feminist column so say it sarcastically. I haven't had to use it yet but I definitely think it would catch some of em off guard.
/r/seduction11/02/18 04:21 AM
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You: Name! You: How we livin? Her: reply You: Awesome I was just hitting you up to see if you wanted to grab a drink on Wednesday night? Don't prolong asking her out just get right to the point within four or 5 texts. And if she asks, make it clear it's a date. Better for her to say no then to waste your time.
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:04 AM
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I see you're getting a lot of questions so I'll keep it concise Without going into my background and experience with game. I will say I'm a newbie but have little approach anxiety when it comes to night game. After a couple drinks I feel comfortable and relaxed approaching. I'm starting to develope a charismatic cocky funny game because that's what feels the most natural to me. My problems are Sometimes I feel like i'm too funny to the point where I come off as a little goofy, the girl/girls are…
/r/seduction04/02/18 05:44 AM
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Never really had to deal with that. How ever In The Game by Niel Strauss which you mentioned you read. Extra mask lost his virginity at 26 or 27 (I can't remember). You're not the youngest but you're certainly not the oldest. Once you lose your V card all the pressure, shame, and frustration vanishes. It's easier said than done but you shouldn't want to change because you hate yourself you should want to change because you love yourself. Read up on the concept the abundance mindset. It's not so …
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:54 AM
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My advice is dont put to much pressure on yourself. Everyone starting out goes through the same difficulties. Id also say try not to study too much as I think it can sometimes hurt a beginner as it might cause you to over think stuff and act less natural. Find what instructors/YouTube channels that resonate with you the most that you'll feel comfortable implanting their techniques into your game(inner and outer). In one of your replies I saw you mention you got rejected 7 times in the past week.…
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:16 AM
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Her friends are testing you. You have to win them over. Don't try to hard to win their friendship meaning don't try agree with everything they say. If they tease you, tease back. Tease them if they say something dumb. I'm saying tease because you don't want to be a dick. Then they will shun you and turn her off of you. Also girls talk to their friends about guys talking to them all the time. It means nothing. Most of the time it's just to look cool in front of their friends.
/r/seduction07/01/18 04:49 AM
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I'd honestly say keep what little online interaction you have with her going and start talking to other women. You don't know her that well and you're already putting her on a pedestal. In my experience it never turns out well. Build some confidence. Start small if you have to. Talk to 1 girl a week, pick up a challenging hobby, set a new goal to achieve every month like doing 10 push ups a day. It sounds like you need some inner game advice rather than dating advice. Grow a little bit as a pers…
/r/seduction07/01/18 03:53 AM
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Everyone's game is different. Some people think a great opener doesn't matter and there is some truth to that. However, a good opener can really get some good conversation rolling about stuff that isn't the norm. (Where are you from, what do you do type questions) if I see a group of girls standing (or sitting) around silently I'll ask "Are you guys people watching?" This almost always works and the question is harmless. They never are. From that point pick a target and start pointing people out…
/r/seduction07/01/18 02:29 AM
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Thanks man, great advice!
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:35 AM
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Aight ¯_(ツ)_/¯ live and learn
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:31 AM
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I'd suggest you pick up hobbies you really enjoy that will challenge you. Once you start progressing you will build some confidence outside of Game. Pick up an instrument, drawing, or start going to the gym. Set achievable goals.
/r/seduction06/01/18 04:09 AM
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How do you meet guys outside of school? Instagram or house parties. Find a guy that looks appealing based off his insta page. Like 3 of his photos and follow him. He should follow back and DM you.
/r/seduction06/01/18 03:55 AM
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Patrice O'Niel. There's a lot of good content on this channel. https://youtu.be/43stErWRn1A
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:19 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11ng7n/above_the_game_intro_my_story_preview_of_my/?st=JBZWU2SD&sh=3089f265 Read the part about proper body language and approach in person. You can evoke more confidence in person than in a DM.
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:11 AM
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For a girl friend, maybe. If you're tryna hook up with her, then no. She's probably some what insecure and doesn't get a lot of attention from guys. You should try and make plans before you become her texting buddy. Take her out, show her a good time, and try to close.
/r/seduction04/01/18 01:30 AM
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I wouldn't say I've gone from zero to hero but I've made a lot of progress. I'd say try and talk to girls your height or shorter. If a girl makes a joke about your height, she's probably testing you to see how you handle it and don't take it personally. Also read The Game from Niel Strauss. His pick up tactics are a lil out dated but it's a great story and very relatable.
/r/seduction04/01/18 01:19 AM
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I'd say let her go and not worry about it. If she wants to text you she will, but if you text her now you might come off as needy. It's been long enough where the flame is probably gone. Learn from your mistakes and move on. You can't change her but you can change how you can interact with women. Hope this helps
/r/seduction04/01/18 01:11 AM
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Do you know why he deleted his posts?
/r/seduction03/01/18 07:09 AM
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What happened to TofuTofu? A lot of his FRs and posts are deleted?
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:00 AM
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I would pull back a little bit. Talk to her less don't be mean and don't be nice. After a week or 2 of pulling back text her on a friday, telling her you're going out to some bars with some of your friends and that she should meet you there with some of her friends. This way you don't look needey and it doesn't matter if she's busy or not because it looks like you have a life and she's just coming a long for the ride. If she says she down and Her and her friends meet you there the next step woul…
/r/seduction03/01/18 12:44 AM
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You should have opened with a question. You have to earn their trust before you hit on them. If a girl wants to get hit on by a guy she'll go to a bar. You can't blame them for being rude or stand Offish as it most likely is a reaction of a cold approach. The question should be something random that could possibly lead to a conversation something that's going to make them think and isn't threatening or douchy. Or easy to answer like directions. When you said that joke about a retail store. It so…
/r/seduction03/01/18 12:20 AM
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If you see a girl you like check her out once or twice tops. If anyone of those times you check her out and she looks like she can be approached, count to 3 and open.
/r/seduction02/01/18 11:57 PM
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You should have been more direct. Don't ask her when she's free, ask her "Do you want to grab drink Friday?" Nothing like "What are you plans this weekend?" She might not know or tell you she might be busy because she wants to keep her schedule open. Also invite her to go out with your friends. "Wanna grab a drink Saturday? My friends and I are hitting some bars around downtown." or whatever the hip part of town is. This way you don't look like you need her and she's coming along for the ride. S…
/r/seduction02/01/18 10:51 PM
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I can not agree more. Seriously this is what you need to hear not what you want to hear.
/r/seduction02/01/18 10:33 PM
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She probably felt she went a little overboard with the first message, maybe some friends influenced what she said. The last message might have been her way of trying to fix what she said earlier with out looking to desperate. I would have responded to the first message with something like " I never said anything about you dropping all your plans I just wanted to see you, I don't want to ruin anyone's night. Happy New Years" This way you you give her very little emotions to feed off and you make …
/r/seduction02/01/18 09:58 PM
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