PracticallyJesus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	Approach Anxiety for Beginners: Permission to Suck		PracticallyJesus	/r/seduction	20/08/20 03:40 AM
3	How do I move past my sexual repression?		PracticallyJesus	/r/seduction	16/08/20 06:23 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Cold approach from a girl's perspective Indirect needs to be relevant to her or the shared situation. Of the three examples she gave, two were about her and one was about the situation they were sharing (being in a bar - also indirect in bars are a little easier because the intent is implied by the venue). And yes as you said, your intent should be made clear through body language/eye contact/tonality, either when going direct or indirect. If you've opened indirect, done your best to convey intent non-verbally but you can tell from he…	/r/seduction	20/12/20 01:08 AM
1	Cold approach from a girl's perspective Super late comment, but having read your replies to some comments, I think I can see where the problem is arising, Most cold approaches are done terribly. This is because it takes a lot of practice to do it well, and guys often stop doing it as soon as they get good because that means they've gotten results and settle into a relationship. This post seems to be less about cold approach in general and more about a specific cold approach along the lines of 'Hey you're pretty.......' and waiting for…	/r/seduction	20/12/20 12:56 AM
4	Just lost my virginity at 20, and learned a whole lot about myself My exact experience. Found out at 22 that I had phimosis and a short frenulum and the doc said I needed a circumcision, without mentioning any alternative. I almost went through with it until I did a bit of research and ended up getting a frenuloplasty and using phimocure to stretch the foreskin. Still going with the stretching but I’ve definitely made a ton of progress with it.	/r/seduction	17/11/20 01:33 AM
–	Opinion: Oversimplifying strategies/mentalities/etc. is counterproductive to those with anxiety. It actually is useless if you live in a big city and you're cold approaching strangers. There really are no external repercussions for fucking up. They might tell their friends but you'll likely never meet them, and even if you do it's not like they know you're that guy who awkwardly hit on their friend that one time. Yes rejection can be painful to you personally, but only if you let it. Giving a total stranger the power to decide your entire worth as a man is a ridiculous thing to do. She's ma…	/r/seduction	21/08/20 02:03 AM
1	I feel inferior to other guys in dating. There are always bigger, more handsome, richer etc. dudes and I feel insecure. How should I overcome this feeling? I've struggled with this as well, but I'll share a mindset I thought up the other day. Viewing life as just a game, each one of us is playing a totally unique character. Real inner confidence is derived from how well we play our 'character'. Nobody who's born super good looking and into a rich family feels truly confident because of those two things. They're unearned and not at all impressive. Grinding it out in the gym for years and building your physique is something you feel confident and pro…	/r/seduction	15/08/20 11:26 AM
2	You're not a "nice guy" You're a pussy and scared of rejection. It sounds like what you're talking about here is congruency. A shy guy forcing himself to act like a dominant alpha kinda guy won't work because something will give away the fact that it's all a front. So while it's true that behaving true to yourself is always better than not, because you won't be fooling anyone anyway, it doesn't mean that's the end of the story. It's about conquering the inner demons that make you shy and scared and building that inner confidence to the point where behaving i…	/r/seduction	15/08/20 10:00 AM