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| 2 | Are there any circumstances where marriage for a successful man is worth it?And many other prominent political positions. And not just the US. Look, I'm not going to suggest marriage is a good idea, quite the opposite, but these are legitimate examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/15 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Are there any circumstances where marriage for a successful man is worth it?Social/political status, though this is less and less relevant. I can't imagine a non-married person being elected President of the US anytime soon, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Ask us any thingI would prepare for him to possibly feel hurt, insulted, and end the relationship. If it were me, I would want to know sooner rather than later. The longer you wait, the more I would feel deceived. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Ask us any thingSome people consider sex to be the most intimate expression of their desire and affection for their partner. To hear that "you're not so much into it, but don't mind it either" could be very negatively received. It might kill whatever passion they feel. I don't want sex all the time, but when I'm having it, I want the person I'm with to enjoy and want it, too, not just feel it's something they do to please their SO. If it were occasional specific acts, that's one thing, but I wouldn't want to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Ask us any thingThank you for the answers. I'll probably give test-e a try after another year or so of lifting. I'm most concerned about finding quality product. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Ask us any thingWhat will you say when he asks you why you have sex with him, if you only enjoy the cuddling? Do you think he might feel deceived? Do you think he might reject you? Personally, I would never enter or continue a (romantic, sexual) relationship with someone that identifies as nearly asexual. Friendship? Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Ask us any thingDo you think it was most effective because it was the first, sort of like a second round of newbie gains? How difficult was it to obtain Test-E? If not doctor prescribed, how were your concerns about quality of product addressed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Ask us any thingWhy don't you tell him about your near asexuality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Ask us any thingAgreed. I'm just being a pain. I doubt this person is doing GVT to cut weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Ask us any thingWhat has been your most effective AAS, or combination? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Ask us any thingDo you intend to tell him? Do you personally enjoy the sex you're having on some level, other than the fact that it makes him happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Ask us any thingGerman Volume Training does 10 sets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Ask us any thingHow much do you curl, bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Ask us any thingIs he aware of your near asexuality (if that's still an accurate self-description)? If yes, when/how did you tell him and how did he react? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:35 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The underlying assumptions of TRP are false, leading to inefficient dating practicesYour link goes to an empty comment, at least on my phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Has feminism destroyed the Western Birth Rate and Western World?Because of feminism? No. I would guess that security and affluence reduce pressure to have (more) children, and feminism is possibly more likely to be promoted in such a "comfortable" environment. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographic-economic_paradox | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Do any blue pillers support the fat acceptance movement? If so, what about short acceptance?http://journals.plos.org/plosmedicine/article?id=10.1371/journal.pmed.0050029 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 03:06 AM |
| 0 | Does TRP think that women in an LTR don't care if their partner respects them as her hypergamy is satisfied?Define deference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Do any blue pillers support the fat acceptance movement? If so, what about short acceptance?http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/health/news/9359212/Obese-and-smokers-less-of-a-burden-on-the-NHS-than-the-healthy-who-live-longer-report.html http://www.nytimes.com/2008/02/05/health/05iht-obese.1.9748884.html http://www.forbes.com/sites/timworstall/2012/03/22/alcohol-obesity-and-smoking-do-not-cost-health-care-systems-money/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Watch out, lovers who lie! Sexual assault by deception could become a criminal offenseIt's just makeup on the bank account, Trollio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Watch out, lovers who lie! Sexual assault by deception could become a criminal offenseFinally, some justice! "Women are the biggest liars ..." - Chris Rock* www.youtube.com/watch?v=dD9kg93LvzU (*" ... but men tell the biggest lies" is also from this bit) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 06:08 PM |
| 2 | RP: Do you believe BP men generalize women for the opposite of AWALT?And it's not as if there's only one short, fat, hesitant guy playing that passive lottery. He's looking for that 1 in 8000 (that he believes is 1 in 8), but he's part of a very large pool of short, fat, hesitant male peers. They are still in competition with each other, and the odds get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 05:13 PM |
| 18 | From an Antisocial kid to Alpha male"Unfair?" Boo fucking hoo. Life isn't "fair." It certainly wasn't "fair" to OP, but he took control of his life in the ways that he was able to. It's not OP's responsibility to respect a relationship that couldn't withstand such a bold approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 06:02 PM |
| 5 | You have lived your entire life as an alpha male, spinning more plates than a circus clown and avoiding being tied down by relationships. The problem is, you're old with no family/kids to support you and you're unable to clean your own shit. What do you do now?A marriage is no garauntee of a lifelong supportive partner. Children are no garauntee of support in decrepit years. Avoiding the "tied down" relationship of marriage does not mean friendship and other relationships are excluded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/15 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP (or just men in general) over-exaggerate the prevalence of female promiscuity?Anecdote: I'm friends with a naturally very attractive woman in her mid-twenties. She's not what I would call a "party girl," a "slut," or even "flirty." We were having a conversation about sex and relationships one night, just the two of us. She made me swear to secrecy and then confided that (a couple years prior) she had slept with her yoga instructor ("but only a few times, because he was hot, but too much of an asshole"). She and her close friends are all very liberal and sex-positive. I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/15 07:28 PM |
| 16 | The red pill in as few words as possible.Hard to beat that. "Cynicism is an attitude or state of mind characterized by a general distrust of others' motives believing that humans are selfish by nature, ruled by emotion, and heavily influenced by the same primitive instincts that helped humans survive in the wild before agriculture and civilization became established." (from Wikipedia) | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY Things you've learned from PurplePillDebateWhat if "deep feelings" do develop? Does this mean your hypothetical husband can develop deep feelings for an extra-marital partner as long as they are not deeper than his feelings for you? What if this hypothetical husband would actually be happier with the extra-marital partner than with you? Do you limit the happiness of the person you love for your own (selfish) reasons? Strong love doesn't just disappear over time, especially if it's maintained. This strikes me as somewhat tautalogical (or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/15 07:23 PM |
| 1 | SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY Things you've learned from PurplePillDebateOutside of one night stands, which I don't find very satisfying, I develop "feelings" for every woman I sleep with. I wouldn't describe it as "love," but there's some kind of emotional connection that is created. Where and how do you draw the line? On the other end of this, how can one promise to maintain an existing feeling (presumably their love for you)? It's said that this sort of thing takes constant work and attention, but feelings can still change regardless of the time and effort expende… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY Things you've learned from PurplePillDebateHow does one commit to emotion? Feelings are fickle, even with constant attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/15 11:36 PM |
| 1 | SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY Things you've learned from PurplePillDebateSexual exclusivity doesn't really matter to me Great! Same here, so long as everyone's safe and clean. it's romantic/emotional commitment I need Dealbreaker. I'm out. Anyways, what are your parameters for romantic/emotional commitment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/15 09:54 PM |
| 1 | SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY Things you've learned from PurplePillDebateWhere would one find these libertine slut-lovers? Hello! Let's get a drink and talk about sex. (I should warn you that we can have a great time together, but I'll never be exclusive, and I'll never "commit") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | What if you HAVE to get married? You have no choiceIf you are going to do it you have a decent set up. Tons of work. ... You have to be less invested into the relationship then she is. I don't disagree with either statement, but how do you reconcile the two? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 03:49 PM |
| 7 | What if you HAVE to get married? You have no choiceI am fine with the stability and structure that comes with it What stability? Sure, there's structure, but prisons also have structure (and a level of stability and commitment not garaunteed by marriage). | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Question for Redpillers - does this affiliation affect how you might think about veganism?OP was pointing out a supposed link between a moral policy in one instance and the other conflicting, possibly. And your similar assertion is just as tenuous and ridiculous, especially in light of your selective quote removing a diet which you support and roughly follow yourself. Keep grasping at straws; you almost have enough for a whole man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Question for Redpillers - does this affiliation affect how you might think about veganism?Blah blah blah... I agree with LCHF to a degree. However, I prefer mediterranean which is similar. Paleo often ends up being LCHF. Similar for Mediterranean. Your selective quoting is silly, especially in light of your own diet. Hitler was supposedly a vegetarian towards the end of his life. So what? It's just as stupid for you and OP to link diet to a group that isn't about diet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Question for Redpillers - does this affiliation affect how you might think about veganism?I see you (intentionally) dropped the LCHF part just so you could make your broad statement. Brava! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Making Up For Missing OutAgreed. I still don't think the effort is worth the diminishing returns, but I appreciate that you advise against marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Girls: Do you ever, from time to time, like to act "pouty" and "playful"? If so, what are things that your SO does in response that you enjoy?Although the responses didn't really go in that direction, it could also be suggested that this is a form of manipulation (e.g., pouting got me what I wanted). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Making Up For Missing OutThis is why, even if you manage to find (or create - hah!) a unicorn and marry her, you are still a fool for thinking she will be forever loyal and won't want to "make up for missing out." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 07:53 PM |
| 2 | I keep on seeing threads to not get married – so does this practically mean you'll most likely never have kids? Also, what if you come from a trad. culture (India, China, etc)/arranged marriage, and you want to find a girl that makes the same or higher than you? Then what's the loss?Cypher: I know what you're thinking, 'cause right now I'm thinking the same thing. Actually, I've been thinking it ever since I got here: Why oh why didn't I take the BLUE pill? Cypher: You know, I know this steak doesn't exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, the Matrix is telling my brain that it is juicy and delicious. After nine years, you know what I realize? Ignorance is bliss. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 03:50 PM |
| 9 | Question for Redpillers - does this affiliation affect how you might think about veganism?This post is all over the place. As far is it goes, the most common diet advice I've seen in TRP is for paleo/LCHF. Presumably, the lifting advice also goes with a high (enough) protein diet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 04:23 AM |
| 7 | BP: Given the choice between having romantic relations with someone IRL who browses r/TheRedPill or r/foreveralone, who would you choose?Their TRP straw men are as horrific as their imagination allows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Are there any actual penis enlargement therapies that work?Nothing is more important than duck size. My mallard is massive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | What is Red pill? What is Blue pill? And why does/n't the purple pill discussion matter?Why PPD doesn't matter: see recent video by CGP Grey titled "This Video Will Make You Angry" about the nature of ideas and debate and discussion within/among groups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Beating "the wall"http://i.imgur.com/SeHM7h.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/15 08:58 PM |
| 0 | On marriage and familyYeah, this supposed age divide in opinion is laughable. Hell, there are older married guys saying they wouldn't do it again given the option. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Marriage: Red Pill on Hamster Mode.Did I just read "I see no reason to get married because of the poor material benefits for me"? Is that supposed to be a paraphrasing of my comment? I could tell you about a lot of reasons that got me married, but we would run into pure taste debate here, which is pointless. So, nothing tangible. How does it taste? Nevertheless, to conclude from a pure benefits perspective, you may find out a couple decades down the road that there are situations in which you'd rather introduce yourself with your… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 01:40 AM |
| 0 | On marriage and familyYour village-by-marriage may yet be smaller than another's village-by-other-association. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 12:34 AM |
| 0 | On marriage and familyNo, I didn't miss it. The point is that others can provide that role. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 12:30 AM |
| 6 | On marriage and familyIt seems you see yourself as a noble savior of civilization. I wish you luck, but I'm going to enjoy 'the decline,' such as it is. As for your example, you may be the first I've seen to cite in-laws as a good reason to get married. Why can't a father's own relatives and friends provide this role? I'm an awesome "uncle" to my unrelated friends' kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Marriage: Red Pill on Hamster Mode.Make sure you do your research. A common misconception is that prenups have an affect on assets acquired after marriage. In most cases, they do not. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 08:23 PM |
| 4 | What preferences are people allowed to have?What about the first part of my question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 06:52 PM |
| 6 | What preferences are people allowed to have?Height is easy to see, and hard to fake (within reason). Sexual history is hard to see and easy to fake. If partner promiscuity is important to a person, when and how is a polite way to inquire about their promiscuity? How can you be sure of the validity of response? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | What preferences are people allowed to have?And for height? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 06:08 PM |
| 3 | What preferences are people allowed to have?And if they ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 05:18 PM |
| 2 | What preferences are people allowed to have?What are the polite ways to reject someone for being too promiscuous or too short? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do BPers (and the general Reddit community) only hate the TRP communities, instead of hating "natural" TRPers and TRP qualities in regular people?Surely, some of them are swarthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Marriage: Red Pill on Hamster Mode.OK. I see what you meant. Thanks for clarifying. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Just stumbled upon TRB, TBP and TPP, are my assessments correct?Very few debate in good faith, and most people are just talking at each other. There's a new CGP Grey video (This Video Will Make You Angry) that is somewhat related. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Marriage: Red Pill on Hamster Mode.I am married because I got married. That is the only reason I am still married. I am taking a long term view of it. There are benefits. Did you actually list any of those benefits? I couldn't find them. Unless you mean religious satisfaction? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Marriage: Red Pill on Hamster Mode.Kids, kids, kids. People act as if it's impossible to have children without marriage, as if it doesn't happen every damn day and throughout human history. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Marriage: Red Pill on Hamster Mode.What benefits does marriage provide a father that proof of paternity does not? The mother can separate either way (with or without marriage). Extended cohabitation and support, depending on local law, may be roughly equivalent to divorcing and paying alimony, but that doesn't seem to be a good reason to marry. As far as I have seen, this argument really boils down to 'get married because that's what women want/demand.' | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Minimize endocrine disruption by storing your food in polypropylene or polyethylene bagsBesides, cooking in a cast iron skillet is badass Definitely. And a properly seasoned cast iron skillet is plenty 'non-stick' already. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 04:13 PM |
| -7 | Minimize endocrine disruption by storing your food in polypropylene or polyethylene bagsThat's fine. Ingest whatever you like, as long as it's easier for you to scrape the eggs off the pan. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Minimize endocrine disruption by storing your food in polypropylene or polyethylene bagsGlass, steel, and iron. Avoid non-stick or other "feature" coating. Don't be a wimp; just scrub harder (and learn how to properly care for your iron tools). | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 11:03 PM |
| 6 | Minimize endocrine disruption by storing your food in polypropylene or polyethylene bagsYup. Often sprayed on the interior of canned goods. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 10:58 PM |
| 77 | Testosterone FactsI have sources if there is an interest. Yes, always. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 03:43 AM |
| 9 | Would you "spin a plate" that has her own soft harem?One of those things is being up front that we are not exclusive and thus not requiring them to be exclusive. No. I agree with being honest and open (mostly because it's easier, not because it's RP), but you can set whatever standard you want, double or otherwise. Spinning plates is a reference to concurrent relationships, which defines the spinner as non-exclusive, not the plate. I don't think there's much to be gained (quite the opposite) by requiring plate exclusivity, but it's not an essentia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/15 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Would you "spin a plate" that has her own soft harem?Are you saying you wouldn't like a snowball from an Eskimo brother, delivered by a third party? You're such a conservative prude! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/15 12:31 AM |
| 11 | Would you "spin a plate" that has her own soft harem?As always, it will depend on the individual. Some want their plates to be exclusive, others don't care, and some might even encourage a plate not to be exclusive (to avoid attachment). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 09:10 PM |
| 1 | [GAME] Chateau Hertiste's "The Difficulty of Gaming Women by Age"Any place that people gather near (or on) a college campus. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What do western men get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?Citizenship. Maybe, a tax break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 09:47 PM |
| 64 | At the age when women hit the wall.peg a guy for marriage I'm seeing this phrase more often, and it's hilarious. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Whats worse to be, a physically unattractive redpiller or a physically unattractive bluepiller?Thanks, Joe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 02:15 AM |
| 9 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)Only if you believe in fairy tales. Why do you want to marry? Would you do it without the tax benefits? Would you do it without the promise of alimony (where applicable)? Would you do it without the associated status and titles (husband, wife, married)? Would you do it without any ceremony or wedding or other celebration (other than alone with your spouse)? Would you do it without the dress, the gifts, the rings? What does marriage really, actually mean to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 12:02 AM |
| 11 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)Maybe you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 11:37 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)Children can be raised in a healthy environment without marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 11:26 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)Marriage is for the wealthy and nobility. I don't understand the point of modern marriage. EDIT: That "satisfied, committed, monogamous relationship with a woman for your entire life" can be had without marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 10:20 PM |
| 11 | If Blue Pills, particularly women, are so disgusted by Red Pill stratagy, why not just not respond to it?Guys shouldn't be hard to get, and playing games isn't fun. "Girls shouldn't be hard to get, and playing games isn't fun," is the lament of every sexually unsuccessful guy out there. From the peacock mating dance to human 'day game,' aware or unaware, everyone seeking a mate (for the night or for life) is part of the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Red pillers, why is Christian Grey only 27 if women are supposed to find men in their late 30s and 40s more attractive?What I have is the fact that before people get married they tend to fuck that person. And what about every sexual relationship before marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Red pillers, why is Christian Grey only 27 if women are supposed to find men in their late 30s and 40s more attractive?If you say so. I'm not disputing the 'actual evidence' of marriage statistics. Can you show that marriage statistics are representative of pre-marriage fucking? Or are you suggesting that women only fuck men they will eventually marry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/15 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Red pillers, why is Christian Grey only 27 if women are supposed to find men in their late 30s and 40s more attractive?Call it whatever you want. The theory holds up well enough in my experience and the experience of people (both men and women) in my life (at least those that are candid or can be observed). Marriage statistics are easy to get. I doubt you'd find much reliable data on fucking, let alone pre-marriage fucking. Perhaps you could extract data from a dating site to see what the response rate is relative to age difference. Still questionable, but it might get closer to the "concrete evidence" you seek. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/15 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers, why is Christian Grey only 27 if women are supposed to find men in their late 30s and 40s more attractive?RP theory roughly states that a young woman will fuck an older attractive man (alpha fucks) but settle for and marry (beta bucks) a less attractive man than those she was fucking while younger. If the woman is seeking a provider for her, and especially her children, a closer age becomes preferable (all else being equal). Marriage statistics aren't necessarily 'backwards compatible' to the types (including age gap) of sexual relationships before marriage. Call it whatever you want. You might also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/15 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers, why is Christian Grey only 27 if women are supposed to find men in their late 30s and 40s more attractive?The only 'evidence' I can offer is anecdotal. Marriage statistics are easy to obtain, but I doubt there's much in the way of reliable surveys on actual dating practices (especially with regard to the more casual end of the spectrum of sex and dating). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/15 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers, why is Christian Grey only 27 if women are supposed to find men in their late 30s and 40s more attractive?Marrying? Yes. Dating*? I'm doubtful. Settling for and marrying the similar-age provider would fit into RP theory just fine. EDIT: *Dating being a sexual relationship without marriage, including one night stand, fuckbuddies, friends with benefits, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How accurate is this adage at describing a difference in sexuality for men and women?You might be right about the LTR context. I've known too many women who have sex for validation (in that they do not feel good) to agree that it applies broadly. As for quotes, I'm partial to Oscar Wilde via Mrs Allonby: http://genius.com/Oscar-wilde-a-woman-of-no-importance-act-2-annotated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/15 09:10 PM |
| 0 | A Feminist's Perspective on 50 ShadesDid you discuss your support and enjoyment of the film/books in your Women's Studies classes? How was that position received by the class and teacher? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/15 04:27 PM |
| 55 | Butch-dyke feminist takes high T, and it shatters her worldviewYou might find Norah Vincent's story in "Self-Made Man" interesting as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of feminist Masha Gessen?the institution of marriage will completely lose its meaning What meaning is left at this point? Even the notion of marrying for love is fairly recent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Powering through LMR becomes potential assault when it's done in an everyday-threatening way, even if she "can say no any second"Agreed. Also unfortunate is that essentially means votes can't be used as ANY indicator of community support. Regarding endorsed contributors, are they specifically chosen to "represent" the community? What does it mean when they contradict each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 10:17 PM |
| 19 | Powering through LMR becomes potential assault when it's done in an everyday-threatening way, even if she "can say no any second"Honestly, this place (PPD) is a stupid joke. Very rarely do people debate in good faith. It's all caricature and logical fallacies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Powering through LMR becomes potential assault when it's done in an everyday-threatening way, even if she "can say no any second"Well, that's a lot better than just saying "I think ...". As for your point, one of the two top posts (the other appears to be a anti TRP) tells him not to be so aggressive. To be fair, an endorsed contributor supported the aggressive behavior but was also downvoted almost as much as the advice to be less aggressive was upvoted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Powering through LMR becomes potential assault when it's done in an everyday-threatening way, even if she "can say no any second"Actually linking the post would support your position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 09:01 PM |
| 6 | How did I handle my separated wife?If you want to maintain or increase custody time, you are doing this exactly wrong. You were overly emotional, threatened physical violence, and left your child when it was supposed to be your turn. That's a lot of ammunition to use against you. Get your anger issues sorted. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 08:49 PM |
| 2 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.Maybe we don't disagree after all. I reread your original post on this string, and I don't actually see that you disagree that "just be yourself" is bad advice, only that those that decry it as bad advice are lacking social (and other?) skills; can't think outside the box, etc. Those people obviously need help, and more than advice to "just be yourself." It is bad advice for them. They need more, like the supposed expanded meaning from the OP. If everyone else already understands the supposed ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 06:05 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.Haha! Offended? I don't know where you get that idea, Internet Stranger. It's not a straw man. Someone is seeking advice. You give them a vague phrase and expect that they should know the deeper, expanded wisdom contained within that vague phrase. If they already knew all of that, they wouldn't be seeking advice, or, at best, it's just encouragement to continue doing what they're doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 05:29 PM |
| 6 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.So the people that actually need advice are too inept to understand that it's not so simple, but who gives a crap about those losers? The rest are people who already know the supposed expanded advice contained in "just be yourself." Doesn't this mean it's not advice but just encouragement to do what they already know? It's shitty advice to those that need it, and no advice at all to those that don't. EDIT: I don't see how your twist on "man up" is at all relevant to your point or this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 05:08 PM |
| 3 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.I also like to accuse those seeking help of being too inept to understand my vague pablum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Apparently I do not exist, and neither do the vast majority of women I know. That's weird.Your counter to me pointing out OP's potential confirmation bias is my own confirmation bias? That's unconvincing. It's confirmation bias all the way down. Actually, that's a pretty good description of the participants of this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 04:33 PM |
| 24 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.I've never heard this expanded version of "just be yourself" until fairly recently, seemingly as a response to how ineffective the advice is. When I received this advice in my youth it was not offered with any additional detail other than "just be yourself and you'll find someone who loves you for you." While it certainly doesn't suggest being fake, it offers no actionable advice and might as well be 'don't change anything about yourself in an attempt to increase attraction.' "Just be yourself" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 03:32 PM |
| 2 | On the definition of hypergamyThese are moot points. Now, look up the history of the phrase "moot point" and tell us again how language is immutable. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 12:31 AM |
| 12 | Apparently I do not exist, and neither do the vast majority of women I know. That's weird.Like you said, "it was pretty obvious." The less obvious did not cause this reaction and were probably seen as naturally attractive (or good at maintaining attraction). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 10:33 PM |
| 17 | Apparently I do not exist, and neither do the vast majority of women I know. That's weird.Ah, thanks. OK, so it's the standard "doesn't work on me and my friends" line. There's a saying that goes something like "You only notice the bad toupees." I think that's appropriate here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 09:51 PM |
| 19 | Apparently I do not exist, and neither do the vast majority of women I know. That's weird.Women are not turned on by guys who do exactly what they want; being helpful or being a "nice guy" does not work. Didn't you just use several paragraphs to tell us that women really like guys who do exactly what they want? EDIT: Was there supposed to be a double negative in there? Your next sentence advocates treating women like princesses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Can Women Be Human?Yup! It's my favorite love poem. I also think it demonstrates some RP ideas, even with the 'disclaimer' at the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Can Women Be Human?It's right there in the word: huMAN! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 09:07 PM |
| 0 | Can Women Be Human?Are we talking about real women or Tumblr other-kin? And no, that advice isn't good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Reiterating some general advice for men from a woman's point of view...Did I make it a big deal? It's in the title of your post. I chose to in this case to add some credibility to my advice. It had the opposite effect. Your ideas should stand on their own merit. (I agree with your post, for what it's worth.) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Age difference in heterosexual married couples, 2013 US Current Population SurveyThanks, Biden! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 02:36 AM |
| 2 | How can my boyfriend get out of paying alimony to his psychotic ex?Seek local legal assistance. Are there no lawyers for low income people in Canada? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Age difference in heterosexual married couples, 2013 US Current Population SurveyTRP would probably say at least two things: Guys are aiming to be among that 7.4% and TRP is a framework to get there. Marriage is one thing, fucking is another. What would these numbers look like for all the other types of interactions prior to marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/15 10:10 PM |
| 8 | Former Solicitor says: "everything TRP believes about divorce is basically garbage."Whatever excuse makes you feel better about yourself. You clearly have time and energy to continue commenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/15 09:55 PM |
| 14 | Former Solicitor says: "everything TRP believes about divorce is basically garbage."Defeat disguised as sloth. It would appear you are the one without a leg to stand on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/15 09:50 PM |
| 15 | Former Solicitor says: "everything TRP believes about divorce is basically garbage."If he's grasping at straws, it would be easy to refute. Instead, you suggest his points are irrelevant because of his character. I'm not surprised that you resort to fallacies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/15 09:34 PM |
| 21 | Former Solicitor says: "everything TRP believes about divorce is basically garbage."OK, you don't like his ideas and language, but what about his actual points? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/15 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Why does RP fear marriage?Why do you "fear" being not-married? What does marriage actually provide beyond an otherwise committed LTR? A marriage is, above all else, a financial contract. Does a business man feel 'fear' when a prospective business partner offers him an unreasonably risky (for his business) contract? Or does he recognize a bad agreement and refuse to sign? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Why geeks will inherit the earthWhat is the limiting factor on the population of peons? Without direct gene selection or breeding restrictions, that sort of evolution seems unlikely. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 02:21 AM |
| 2 | An Actual Conversation About Marriage and Divorce Coming From the Mouths of College-Aged WomenI was chatting with a 19-year old, pretty, outwardly reserved/conservative intern recently. Without any prompting on my part, she said that she and her girlfriends always joked that "your first marriage is for money, second marriage is for love." Awwww... isn't that so romantic? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 10:21 PM |
| 12 | Finding the red pill paradigm works really well as long as the woman believes it.Why are you using intentionally inflammatory language about people in your social circle? I don't see a problem calling something as you see it, but what do you have to gain here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/15 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?Stupid terminology aside, this isn't hard to do if you're reasonably attractive. When someone becomes newly single, there's often a period of dating several people simultaneously before (possibly) settling on one. Most people seem to accept this multi-partner phase early on in the dating process. It's simply a matter of never leaving that phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Red Pill Men interested in marriage: hypothetically, would you sleep with a woman who was an amazing unicorn in every way other than wanting a relationship with you (or being chaste)?I've been called a man-whore ... about 2 minutes before she took her clothes off. She's lucky she was wrong; I don't charge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill what is your response to this video on male distaste of female promiscuity?Thank you! It's shamelessly stolen from my favorite love poem - "I Fuck Sluts" by Bo Burnham. I'd find a good YouTube link (only some videos have the full poem), but I'm at work and I try to avoid meetings with HR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill what is your response to this video on male distaste of female promiscuity?I fully support your plan, though I don't have any desire for marriage or kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 09:39 PM |
| -1 | CMV Women Want Hyper-Masculine Men Not DweebsNo one? Tell that to Ronnie Coleman's wife. http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=446101.0;attach=490223;image | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 09:15 PM |
| 6 | Call to Arms. Time to go nuclear.It's solid advice if you care even a little about your professional reputation. If you don't care about losing your job or losing that reference, go ahead. Who cares who's fucking her? There are other hot women out there. Abundance. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 06:52 PM |
| 2 | How easy would it be for a high SMV guy in his 30s to sleep with a lot of different women if he wanted to?You don't have to go to frat parties to enjoy the concentration of young women at a college. There should be plenty of opportunities off campus. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Why come to PPD to debate TBP?When I first stumbled on the reddit form of TRP, I saw it as it is often described - a set of tools to help craft the life you want. There seemed to be more emphasis on making sense of these social frameworks - both what was observable and theorizing on the underlying causes. As with any group, the larger it gets, the "signal to noise" ratio gets bad, and earnest discussion fades away. I actually had more hope for PPD, but earnest discussion is also pretty much gone here. Part of that is due to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | GSS data on # of lifetime partnersWhat are the ages surveyed? These charts are hard for me to believe for 'western' people in their 20's and 30's. Hell, even my free-loving hippy parents and their peers make this a tough sell. It's impossible of course, but I'd love to see a chart with a breakdown by relative (physical) attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/15 07:07 AM |
| 1 | GSS data on # of lifetime partnersApparently, reddit's user base is throwing off the curve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/15 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Men are shit. AMALT. Why am I wrong?Yup. Ain't humanity wonderful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/15 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Female MasturbationWhen outrage is your goal, there is incentive to take everything too seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/15 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Female MasturbationOr, perhaps, a little humor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/15 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Female MasturbationOf course! Still better than the +5 if each digit were used individually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/15 08:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm so glad that TRP wasn't a thing I knew about when I was like 17.Do you similarly refer to other guesses (educated or otherwise) as "facts?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/15 02:01 AM |
| 3 | "dont judge me for my past"HPV is similar, needing only skin to skin contact (and might not show symptoms for a while). | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I'm so glad that TRP wasn't a thing I knew about when I was like 17.I know for a fact that I would be miserable now Hey, that's a neat trick. I wish I knew, factually, how I would feel if I made different choices in my past. Does it work with any other ideas and observations, only those you currently disagree with, or just TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/15 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Female MasturbationEvery time she uses a ... different set of fingers it raises her N-count by one. A sound endorsement for fisting! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/15 12:08 AM |
| 1 | A BP View Part 3: Find Your ConfidenceThink whatever you like. The skills are good to have, I just disagree with the order of actions and the mindset it creates - especially among those without experience and confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/15 10:19 PM |
| 8 | Continuous Shit Testing is akin to Mental Abuse, especially true in some marriages.Gaslighting isn't shit testing. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Is TRP failing to give feminism proper credit?As someone who has no interest in marriage, children, or "saving civilization," I am thankful to feminism for allowing me access to more promiscuous women and (to a much lesser degree) less societal pressure to commit and provide. From an RP perspective, I'm "enjoying the decline." I'm sure I'd be less thankful if I still held to the fantasies of yesterday. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 09:11 PM |
| 1 | A BP View Part 3: Find Your ConfidenceShe Comes First is geared toward committed relationships Yet your guide is presumably written to help those who have trouble getting to that committed relationship stage. The Ethical Slut is geared toward the opposite I think many polyamorous people would disagree that such relationships aren't "committed." Again, the techniques may be outstanding, but if I had to advise young awkward men attempting to get TO that relationship, I would recommend showing her your desire, passion, and lust FIRST -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/15 08:40 PM |
| 1 | A BP View Part 3: Find Your ConfidenceFair enough. I haven't read it, so I can't really agree or disagree. The book came up because we were discussing oral sex in general. They were the ones to bring up how they felt the concept (of the book) was a turn off. Not that it was suggested for technique, but they all recommended The Ethical Slut (though a few were quite unethical in their actual practice). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/15 06:03 PM |
| 1 | A BP View Part 3: Find Your ConfidenceI haven't read it. They implied that they had. The general point seemed to be this: although the physical techniques may be good, the focus on her pleasure first was a mistake. They wanted to feel a man's raw desire, and a man so overcome with that lust is not (even able to be) focused on her orgasm before his. This insistence on her pleasure first pushed sex towards a performance and put too much pressure on the woman to uphold her part of the performance before the show could go on. As far as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/15 05:16 PM |
| 1 | A BP View Part 3: Find Your ConfidenceAlmost all of my very liberal, very sex positive female friends have openly mocked the book, She Comes First. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/15 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Diffused Tense Situation With Savage-like SexIn that context, a history of improvement in this area, I think you did very well. If there is a repeat, call her on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/15 11:04 PM |
| 9 | Diffused Tense Situation With Savage-like SexIf you aren't interested in continuing tell me now because I'm not going to put up with you acting like a child Results in: wants me to not give up on her even when she's getting fussy Talk is cheap. Seems to me you set yourself up for a repeat. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/15 07:29 PM |
| 3 | 6 Months on TRP - been mentally broken by a large Dildo fmlFor girth, it's well above average. Length is still above average, but less so. howlongismyschlong.com | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/15 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Evolution and Natural SelectionMost of red pill theory is based on social constructs from the agricultural age. Is it? I thought it was based on observation and evolutionary psychology. I'm talking about attraction and procreation here, not the social constructs (marriage) or ideals (love) that are attached after the fact. However, it's possible that (sufficiently enforced) arranged marriages on a broad and consistent scale could exert a kind of evolutionary pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/15 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Evolution and Natural SelectionPerhaps my question was too vague. In the context of the OP, do you think the development of agriculture displaced or significantly altered attraction triggers within humans? Or, are all those old attraction triggers still more or less in place, and agriculture's effects are primarily seen in offspring survival (post old attraction based mating)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/15 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Evolution and Natural SelectionAh, more deflection. Do you think, when those birds mate, that they're suddenly more attracted to the new bill shape? Or are they still responding to their mate's song (or size or color) or whatever the primary attraction factors were before the new bill? Perhaps those old attraction triggers are still present, but the new bill shape allows the offspring to survive and multiply more easily, pushing the less effective billed birds out. You point out that evolution acts on population. There's no c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/15 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Evolution and Natural Selection"Rapid evolution" can occur, but are these very recent changes sufficient to create that kind of pressure? You reference a couple things that are only a few generations old. Are today's poor, strong brutes having fewer surviving offspring than the rich, weak geniuses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Evolution and Natural SelectionAgreed. I was being 'generous.' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/15 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Evolution and Natural SelectionYes. Are you? You reference birth control, paternity tests, and jobs and an environment that are not as physically demanding. These are very recent factors in human evolution. Do you feel they negate or outweigh the impact of a much longer period of prehistory? Furthermore, do you think the new environment replaces other evolutionary responses, or instead impact other aspects of life? The modern brute may still have more offspring than the physically weak genius whose fewer offspring have a bett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/15 07:32 PM |
| 6 | Evolution and Natural SelectionDoes 10,000 years of a new environment outweigh or negate the previous 200,000? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/15 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Real love vs loving a mask"Trick" was the word the OP used, presumably in a negative sense. My point was that the "trick" of building attraction and the fantastic notion of some more ideal love may be rooted in the same evolutionary soil. Perhaps love is not any more grandiose than any other element that gave our species an advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/15 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Real love vs loving a maskMaybe 'love' is also "falling for some evolutionary trick?" Perhaps this 'love' is what helped early humans gain an advantage (in mate and offspring support/protection) over non-lovers. Maybe this 'love' is like a drug, and you will forever be chasing that unattainable high of your first 'love,' sometimes telling yourself that a different, 'deeper' sort of love will be sufficient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/15 05:20 PM |
| 8 | 6 Months on TRP - been mentally broken by a large Dildo fml6x5.8 is not average, especially girth. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 04:23 PM |
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