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Same here. My grandmother did all of what I mentioned above PLUS a part time job. The problem was, was that there often were not a lot of jobs which women were allowed to do 😔
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 05:20 AM
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Activate the energy core to gain power up and all teh wahmon.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 03:22 AM
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I know what you mean. RP is like this crazy (not so) secret society which has to be seen to be believed! I honestly watch TRP videos for a good laugh -- kinda like the feeling you get when you go to the circus... the shit that they say has to be seen to be believed!
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 03:22 AM
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Very true. The idea that SAHM just sat there drinking cocktails all day is made up! Women worked hard. Running a household was difficult and time consuming without microwaves, washing machines, dryers, vacuums, steam mops, etc). Clothes were made (or at least repaired) at home. Women were expected to be the houses cook, cleaner, nurse, seamstress, repair person, teacher, etc. Society is very different now.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 03:19 AM
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No, because I don't think RP will ever gain enough popularity to be more than a fringe idea. RP does proport to solve a number of issues facing society, but RP isn't the answer. The hormonal birth control has given women the ability to fully participate in the workplace (both in management of difficult periods and choosing when to have kids). We can never go back from this. I think women are slowly turning towards more traditional roles, if out of necessity (the cost of childcare, cost of colleg…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 03:16 AM
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Looks like pseudo science to me.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 03:06 AM
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The concept of self esteem is relatively new, and I think it comes back to the 80s and 90s disney-esque ideals. Think about it... why OUGHT you hold yourself in high esteem by DEFAULT? People can be very awful and wretched and evil, and I think those people holding themselves in high esteem exacerbate their problems. Self worth is only good of you have qualities which are worthy (should a serial killer have a high sense of self esteem?). These concepts (self esteem) are different to the inherent…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 01:33 AM
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This doesn't seem like it is healthy, bro. You're concerned enough about it that you're seeking advice online, so I'd say deep down you know it is a problem. You're in your 20s, which should be a time of connecting and reaching out and meeting people, it doesn't seem healthy that you are not connecting. I know lots of people and pro-sex work on reddit but I disagree. The people I know who pay for escorts are maximising the short term in sacrifice for a long term. It seems as though it is inhibit…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 01:27 AM
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It’s only a problem if you think it’s a problem I know you mean well, but I disagree with this. I've known multiple people with crippling addictions (drugs, alcohol, sex, gambling) and the last thing they'll ever admit is that they have a problem. It's always better to get a second opinion, particularly from the people who know you best in the world.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 01:18 AM
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Also, why does this photo smell of insecurity?
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 07:27 AM
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Reporting OP for misleading caption. I see no men in this picture.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 07:24 AM
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Joe Rogan I don't see Rogan in the pic...? Didn't think he was specifically in TRP group...
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 07:22 AM
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SECOND THIS. I question if OP is genuinely interested in improving (ie. Putting in the hard yards). You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 10:28 PM
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Sounds like you're on the right track, bro. It's good you can see where you need improvement. It's important to meet in person as soon as you can (keep it non confronting and low key, ie. Going out for coffee, walk in a park, etc). Sometimes chemistry disappears when you're in person. Scent is really important with women and attraction. The witty person you meet can be awkward in person.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 10:10 PM
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Maybe she realised you have low self-esteem, are needy, and just wanted a body to have sex with (rather than wanted specifically HER). Not trying to be a dick here, trying to help.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:07 PM
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because if I was very good looking she most likely would of behaved different and not used me for attention in the first place Take some personal responsibility for the situation. She didn't use you so much as you allowed yourself to be used -- she didn't force you to do anything you didn't want to. You could have put your foot down at any moment but you didn't. Your problem here was not setting appropriate boundaries and not being up front (communicating) about what you were expecting. Next tim…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:04 PM
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The best piece of advice I ever got was from a dear 90-year-old lady, she said "You can't help who you fall in love with, but you can help who you spend your time with." People who always complain that they fall for toxic, manipulative, nasty, mean people need to review the people who they spend their time with. Working on yourself and being the best version can help you identify these people and not waste your time being friends with them!
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 06:07 AM
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This has truth to it. If all men wanted was sex then all relationships where sex is infrequent or impossible (can be for reasons such as sickness, disability, post partum, having young kids, stress, ED, seperation by distance, etc) then these relationships would be doomed -- but that isn't the case.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:44 AM
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I think so many women also get drawn into TRP for that reason too... for all the talk of RP men not "simping" they sure do simp after the girls who subscribe to TRP ideology, it can be very validating but also you do end up seeing the hatred they have for women. The expose videos are so good, TRP gurus are so hypocritical.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:26 AM
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Wow... so that was about 12 years stuck in the RP, right? I'm glad you finally made it to the the other side, brother.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:23 AM
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Cute saying, Rich. Can you cite your statistics on that? What he means is that if HE took away money HE would have nothing to offer women.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 06:15 AM
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Shire, man. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Hope you can heal. This is a positive step and exactly what this community is for.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:39 AM
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... and what about all the Disney movies? I've presented more examples than you have, and you keep on bringing up the same two (Outlander and Fifty Shades (the later of which has been debunked by all the posters here)). Yes, women do tend to like men who are in shape, but again, men prefer in-shape women. It's the whole BDSM bad boy thing which I think you're referring to which is actually repulsive to many women. Honestly, I think you may be hanging out in the wrong circles if this is all you s…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:36 AM
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Again, fantasy is different to reality. Do you think most men want to do to women what they see in porn? (I'm talking especially about the more hardcore stuff). What you fantasise about isn't necessarily what you want done to you or what you'd do to others.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:33 AM
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Very true. RP reduces people to value based on arbitrary characteristics (whatever they define as "alpha" and then the no-value "betas" (same with women)) which is straight up cult behaviour to create and "in" and "out" group. In reality, we all have inherent value amd dignity regardless of our external characteristics, because we are all human. The dehumanising approach to single mothers is just disgusting. RPs literacy treat them as sub-humam blow-up dolls useful for only sex.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:14 AM
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Nope... can't say I did 😂. But whatever gets you to the other side, man. Welcome to the exRedPill.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:10 AM
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He suddenly said "I could take you into the back of the shop and fuck you". I thought he was going to rape me right then, nothing really would have stopped him. I just froze in fear and said nothing. That's horrifying and disgusting. Sad thing is, is that literally happens all the time to women.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:08 AM
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Welcome to the other side, may your days be filled with less toxicity, love, and may you be blessed with a fantastic relationship built on trust and mutual love and maturity! They also hold hypocritical standards for women like a woman who has more than one partner they are defective or unable to form emotional attachments with their partners, but advocate for men to build a rotation of women. Literally one of the most toxic RP beliefs IMO . I get why dudes watch these guys but in the end it doe…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:04 AM
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I think Jordan Peterson summarised it well... It's not that women want a BAD man, they want a man CAPABLE of badness, but who chooses not to. There are, at times in life, when a man needs to be dangerous (to defend his family, fight for what is right, etc). A man who is not capable of being bad/dangerous will not be able to defend his family. I think that's why the "reformed bad boy" genre is so popular. In reality women know the bad boy can never be reformed and they generally don't marry the b…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 12:58 AM
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I have no interest in aggressive, raw sex. Great, so do most women! Where on earth do you get the idea that women actually want aggressive, raw sex? From porn? From erotica? The sex in this is not what women actually find pleasurable -- they're fantasies.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 10:17 AM
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Literally just go on any goodreads list and have a look yourself -- you just don't want to see the evidence in front of you because you don't want to be disproven. Mr Darcy from Pride and Prejudice comes to mind, millions of women love him, as all of Austin's books and their modern movie adaptions. Alistair from Dragon Age. The Princess Bride. Literally every prince in every Disney movie ever. All nice guys. idea of a woman being with me because I am the more stable alternative to the men she fi…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 05:49 AM
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The bible is also one of the best selling books of all time. Does that mean everyone in the world has read the bible? Have you read the DaVinci Code? LOTR? These are all best sellers too. By number, the most popular genre for women is romance, not erotica. The men in these stories are far from the Christian Grey stereotype, but again, they are just fantasies -- ideals -- and that's why women read it. You missed the point of my previous post -- just because someone immerses themselves in fantasy …
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 07:51 PM
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If women's taste in men is as varied as you say, why isn't that reflected in the media popular with straight women? All erotica aimed at straight women is about women sleeping with buff alpha males. It is varied. You're just cherry picking your examples. Erotica is also a small subset. Lots of women don't read erotica (erotica for women just doesn't have the same widespread saturation in the population as porn does for men). You're comparing something that is extremely bias and not based on real…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 07:21 PM
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True, ultimately the taxpayer pays for everything. Aussies pay a annual tax levy for healthcare, but for most people it is under $2,000AUD per year. For low income earners it is $0.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:27 AM
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NP sorry, I did go back and edit my post with more info cause I accidentally hit post before i finished lol 😆 Great videos, been watching them recently, keep it up!
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:22 AM
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Great video debunking RP ideology. Dread game is just another pseudo scientific ideology of the RP which just puts a label on RPers treating women how they want. Another place to look is the wealth of research conducted by psychologist John Gottman. His models could predict if a couple would divorce within 4 to 6 years with 80 to 90% accuracy. His "four horsemen" of negative behaviors that are most likely to lead to and therefore predict divorce. They are criticism of a partner's personality, co…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:12 AM
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In this circumstance, the analogy falls short. Largely, people are the experts in themselves (especially when it come to what they like and don't like). RP PUA often say women like to be treated badly, humiliated, dominated, ignored, etc. While this may work for some women, this is so off putting for most women.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 05:05 AM
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While women fantasise about Jamie from Outlander, men watch porn with women who have DD breasts, curvey arse, DTF every second of the day, blonde hair, ect... does this mean that small-breasted women, no arse, etc will never be found attractive by men or find a fulfilling relationship? You are also cherry picking your examples. What about Edward Cullen (Fifty Shades is based off Twilight), girls were obsessed with him and he is a 100 year old virigin. Stop comparing yourself to fantasy and immer…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 04:55 AM
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Posts like this remind me how screwed up USA is. You can get a psychologist or counselling for free in Australia with an approved mental health plan through your doctor. I have no idea what I would do if I was in the USA and unable to afford mental healthcare. Genuinely interested in responses for USA citizens on solutions too.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 04:39 AM
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Judging from his post history, 100% troll post.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 03:34 AM
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Fragile ego. Very insecure. Seems unable to take criticism. Also never has anyone on his show who can meaningfully challenge him on his beliefs. One of bigger arsehats of the RP community.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:55 AM
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Not to mention self-congratulatory and vain. He strikes me as the type of boss who would make you laugh at his unfunny jokes or fire you.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:32 AM
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Honestly how could these men not be depressed knowing that their partner is with them only for the money? That they are not wanted for their personality, their values or anything about them, just the money -- because take away the money and I'll guarantee that these women would ditch that man in an instant. And money can only go so far, some sugar babies wouldn't be with a man in their 70s or 80s no matter how much money is involved. Also, have these men talked to a 20 year old? Some are nice an…
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 05:35 AM
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Yes to all this! It's as if their reason is just a justification to do what they want rather than an adhering to an internally consistent world view. The sad thing is, is that man men get sucked into the RP because they either went through a bad breakup or divorce, or they are unsuccessful with women -- and their solution only makes these problems, from a society-wide perspective, worse.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 05:24 AM
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Honestly, if a dude brags about his sexual prowess, my automatic assumption is that he probably sucks in bed. Ain't that the truth 😂 people become better lovers through multiple encounters with the SAME person Also very true I laugh when RP gurus boast about how good they are at making women orgasm. I guarantee that 90% of those women are faking it.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 09:30 PM
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Literally every person in this sub is trying to help you and have offered helpful advice and tips. You've shot down everyone and dismissed their suggestions and ideas. The problem isn't with the message, it's with the listener. I don't think you genuinely want to be helped. You want everything to be better without changing a single thing about yourself, or worse, that everyone changes for you. A therapist isn't just for people who a traumatised. They can be helpful for anyone who needs a fresh p…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 08:55 PM
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Yeah, definitely messed up thinking! Peak RP toxicity.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 08:51 PM
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Having read through your other posts in this thread and glancing at your post history, I'd say your problem is not your looks, but your mindset/outlook/personality. You seem really depressed and down, mate, for real. Find someone to talk to, whether it is a professional psychologist or just a friend. Mindset and good mental health changes everything.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 05:45 PM
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Tinder is toxic AF. Don't judge anything about reality from there.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 05:38 PM
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Holy shit can this be pinned on the top of this sub?
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 05:36 PM
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Right! It baffles me that RPers think they can rack up as many "notches" as they want and then when they're ready to marry they're going to find their mythic virgin unicorn bride waiting for them... RPers don't seem to place much thought to a woman's thoughts and wants (other than reducing her to a superficial creature who wants a rich, handsome man (never mind about his values)) and who can be "fooled" by externalities and PUA techniques (sure, these work on some women).
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:44 PM
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Great post, video and thread. So sad I didn't get to post before you streamed (doing a follow up soon?) So many good points made here, I'll add a few more: demeaning to men -- RP reduces men to external factors (height, penis size, income, cars/house/clothes) and implies that all that matters demeaning to women -- covered well in the thread already obsession with a woman's virginity while encouraging men to "spin plates" with as many woman as possible, of course, when you're done spinning plates…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 10:09 AM
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Yes to all this!!
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 09:42 AM
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I don't think it's that drastic. I think there's a lot more threats to society than men trying to sleep with multiple women True. But the point still remains -- the more men "spin plates" the less "marriageable" women there are (as defined by RP ideology), so it really is shooting society in the foot by doing it. Although my argument is making the assumption that marriage as an institution is an inherent good for society. Also not to mention, the more a man "spins plates" the more chances there …
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 09:15 AM
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I think it depends a lot on where you live. Sometimes, in certain areas/neighbourhoods, white guys are seen as less attractive. In other areas it is Asian men, or black or brown men, it depends on the area (harsh reality). Sometimes, some women may just not want to date outside of their race and this can sometimes be because of difficulties with relatives accepting a partner from outside of their race, or cultural differences that you wouldn't understand. Fishing in the right pond (so to speak) …
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 06:09 AM
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I have a hard time believing this. People can be ugly, but to a certain point it does come down to some choices. I'm not doubting your self assessment, but perhaps there is something you can do to help yourself? Have you tried: - facial hair (maybe coverage isn't good yet, but you will eventually get the hair to cover undesirable facial structure) - clean skin (can achieve with good skincare, healthy eating sunlight) - glasses or contact lenses (change the shape of your face and some suit differ…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 06:00 AM
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I love that phrase, be "your best self". Be the best person you can be be constantly be working on yourself. And your motivationa matter too.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 10:42 PM
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Sorry I have sexual desires You asked me to be honest and I was. No one is upset you have sexual desires -- literally almost everyone does. But some desires and helpful and some desires hold you back-- some desires should be acted on, and some should not. Some desires are context specific and are helpful in some situations and unhelpful in others! To a woman who doesn't know you, telling her you want women to want your dick comes off as desperate and needy. To a GF or trusted sexual partner, bei…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 05:42 AM
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His writing is long-winded and self-congratulatory, LMAO this is so true. I thought I was going crazy when I thought that the man has no grasp on effective, clean writing. He can't even be concise during a podcast, such a drain to listen to. The fact that he is the best that the RP men can come up with is hilarious to me. Also, notice how NONE of these RP gurus (Fresh and Fit, Rollo, Rick Cooper, etc) ever speak to anyone who can meaningfully criticise their ideas. While research does show women…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 04:38 AM
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To be frank, the desire you have for women to be tripping over themselves to get on your dick comes across as desperate and is off putting. Most women don't feel this way about men's dick (only in porn). Which makes me wonder, are you watching too much porn? It messes with your brain. Try to detox! In terms of "inauthenticity", you're right, it was a bad generalisation on my part! I meant it in the context of finding finding a LTR through common interests. A lot of men present a surface level of…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 02:37 AM
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I second this! A well-developed, mentally mature 18 year old is going to seem like a baby compared to a mature 28 year old. The problem is, is that a lot of people stop developing in certain points in their life. Growth and change are constant.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 02:28 AM
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You're right, I have no way of knowing what you're like IRL so maybe you are a really great person. If that's the case, keep on trying to improve yourself. There is always work to be done. If your self assessment if false, then work on yourself will go a long way. Either way, you win if you improve yourself. It does, however, sound like you are down on yourself and you do really want to be wanted, which indicates there are unresolved issues within you. Two pieces of advice to address your questi…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 09:17 AM
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Totally untrue. RP reduces people to their base nature (lowest form of evolution, think "monkey brain") without recognising our higher cognitive level. The alpah/beta dichotomy is completely untrue as well and has been debunked many times. Like attracts like -- healthy, emotionally stable, well rounded people are not attracted to unhealthy, unstable, crazy individuals! Lots of RP men are insecure, emotionally stunted, immature -- they attract lots of insecure women (often using predatory pick up…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 09:05 AM
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Second this.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 08:56 AM
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No, but your motivations matter. Go to the gym because it is the best thing for YOU. Getting in shape will have a raft of other benefits including better mental health, overall health, improved mood, and confidence. These benefits also attract women. Lets face it... looks are important, but they are not the be all and end all of finding a LTR. Being in-shape (and I'm taking about just looking healthy, not looking like Mr T) may help you attract a women's attention, but your personality is what w…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 08:49 AM
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It's hard, everyone does want to be wanted. What you feel is valid. One of the Red Pill lies is placing too much emphasis of external things (money, status, penis size) and little emphasis on internal qualities (honesty, integrity, generosity, etc). The type of woman who will have a successful LTR are the ones that place more emphasis of internal quality, not RP externalities. Which is to say, women care more about the person than the dick attached to it. Work on your internal qualities first an…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 08:41 AM
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