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DISCUSSIONPrettyHeaven/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 05:30 AM
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DiscussionPrettyHeaven/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:39 AM
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Well it's a female thing. I can't associate it with a man. And like I said, it think there are different levels to it. I think black women have a higher level of femininity, but other women can be feminine at some level. It just won't be as feminine to the level of black women. And if you don't have it at all its cool. It's just associated with sex because only a female can truly be feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:58 PM
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Tbh, that sounds annoying. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:28 PM
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Yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying. Feminine is being soft and tender. Its like being feminine is more of a description by my father defintion which i believe in. It's somewhat genetic but also somewhat learned. And if you don't have it, you don't. And I think the problem is less so the concept of being feminine. It's more so the shame of having a lack of it and such. And imo, it's also what many people define it as. I don't think femininity has anything to do with submission and innocence and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:18 PM
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Well he never said that all women have to be feminine to be good. He has said that my mother is less feminine just by nature compared to those women. But he always spoke well about her, saying that she was better looking than most celebrities and that he enjoyed her assertiveness and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:02 PM
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Femininity to you doesn't have to be a role. I know in my family it's less about a role and more like how they speak and they carry themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:54 PM
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What if it's not someone's definition of femininity? Like for example, my father said that femininity is in the way a woman moves and the way she speaks. Like a soft tender (but strong) voice. And just carrying herself in a way that is strong but also soft. He often uses HBCU cheerleaders as examples in the way they move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:52 PM
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Can you expand upon that? Like what makes it so stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:42 PM
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Would you say that men have to be submissive to their woman at times?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 02:37 PM
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Thanks for your response! I think your answer about submissiveness makes more sense. Especially when you consider both side are supposed to submit in some way. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 02:31 PM
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I can of get some of these things but naive, modest, and innocent sounds terrible. I thought femininity was supposed to be empowering. Modest and innocent bothers me because I firmly believe a woman should enjoy her sexuality and it's feminine to enjoy it. I don't mean you should sleep with 50 guys to enjoy it and walk around naked but around the right guy, I feel like a feminine woman embraces her sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:26 PM
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What's submissive to you? And what do you mean by bordering altruism? Are you saying a woman should sacrifice her own needs for others? Can you explain further on that part?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:20 PM
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What is submissiveness to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:15 PM
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What do you consider being nagging and forcing in feminine enegery in your opinion? Like examples?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 02:14 PM
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The taking care (physically) and being caring (mentally) were supposed to be a separate questions. Sorry. I completely butchered the word care in my second question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:01 PM
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Can you define submissive for me? I've heard different definitions of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:01 PM
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So if submission is trust, then does that mean that a man doesn't trust you and thinks you're incapable of making decisions? I hope I don't come off as criticizing but I just hear that it's the woman's job to be submissive but sometimes it's described in a way that makes it sound like everyone is submissive.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 12:59 PM
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So to be feminine is just to have luck then? I mean if a woman doesn't have a pretty face or if they missed out on a banging body ( not like being obese or extremely skinny, but things like being naturally flat chested and such) then does that mean you have to be lucky to be feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:54 PM
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So is a man feminine if he takes care of his body and resceptful of himself? Is it feminine for man to acre about other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:50 PM
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I definitely think a healthy relationship doesn't have a lot of arguing and stress. Totally agree on that. But idk, if he takes your opinion over his own initial opinion, doesn't that mean that he's submitting to you in a sense? I mean if your opinion has impact on his choice and if he were to change his opinion because of it, doesn't that mean he's trusting that your opinion is right? So isn't that submitting to you in that case?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 12:19 PM
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Thanks for your response. Question though. I don't think it's good to argue, but is it okay to have a friendly debate with your husband? I mean men aren't perfect. A good guy may make a terrible choice or not as good of a choice as a mistake. Like for example, my parents lived in Florida for a while and my mom wanted to come back to NY where both my parents' grew up and where their family was. My father wouldn't have went to NY had my mom been adamant about it and it ended up being better for th…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 11:43 AM
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