PriestessUntoNoone Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	TRP mindset too deep rooted in me - can't stop On Sexual satisfaction: Virtually all hetero men vastly overestimate the importance of their dick to the whole enterprise for women partners ... I will also add to this: my husband and I have the best sex when we're emotionally in tune with each other, and he's listening to me in the bedroom. If I feel like he's being pushy and trying to get what he wants instead of making it a good experience for both of us, the sex starts sucking. There's more to sex than just the physical act; not being taken…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/18 05:27 PM
2	TRP mindset too deep rooted in me - can't stop There are other medications that don't stunt your sex drive; my husband and I are both on anti-depressants and have good sex drives.	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/18 05:23 PM
1	TRP mindset too deep rooted in me - can't stop The only person who can convince you of anything is yourself. Until you're in a mindset where you're willing to believe what is being said here, you will remain unconvinced.	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/18 05:23 PM
1	The parts I DO think are true Why such a big value on "excitement"? Things don't need to be exciting to be of value or good. Roller coasters are exciting, but I would get sick of them pretty quickly. If I had to choose between floating down a peaceful river in a canoe for 4 hours or riding a roller coaster for 4 hours, I would choose the canoe. Just because it's not "exciting" doesn't mean I won't enjoy seeing a lot of beautiful scenery, enjoying some time in nature, getting some sun, and feeling peace with myself. There's m…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/18 05:17 PM
3	Self Image and leaving the Red Pill I'm going to make the assumption that you're a woman, so forgive me if I'm wrong here. I scoured the Women's Red Pill board and other RP websites for the longest time and tried to cement into my mind how a woman should look and behave. I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I've been in a similar situation; I grew up Mormon, which is a very conservative religion, and I went through a lot of anxiety and angst because I wasn't what the church expected me to be; I was smart, competitive, a tom…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/18 04:55 PM
2	No faith in long term relationships But why is it that we get any instant gratification at all from cheating? Why would it even be appealing at all in the first place, unless the relationship was bad? Because affairs are often built on fantasy. Real relationships have ups, but they also have downs. Disagreements, pet peeves, arguments, these are all part of relationships, and they aren't pleasant. That doesn't mean a relationship is bad, it just means that the two people in it are human beings who don't always agree and aren't per…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/18 04:40 PM
2	No faith in long term relationships That's what gets me so down. The fact that the spark doesn't last, and that you lose that sense of magic. Sparks don't last, but sparks are just there to light the fire. My husband and I are in the "glowing ember" stage of our relationship, I would say (been together 2 years); there's still a lot of warmth and friendship and affection, but it's not the same anxious excitement we felt when we first dated. Don't you think its sad that someone who used to excite you so much becomes dull A lot of th…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/18 04:27 PM
2	No faith in long term relationships It's fine now because we're still in the "honeymoon" phase. But it's only a matter of time. This is what happens, people get bored. I've been with my now-husband for over two years now, and we haven't gotten bored with each other. More comfortable with each other, yes, but not bored. I don't get butterflies when he walks into the room anymore, but I do feel a pleasant warmth in my chest. Just because we're used to each other doesn't mean we're bored with each other. We're together because we are…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/18 04:20 PM