| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 31 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post. | PrimalTruth | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 12:52 PM | |
| 25 | Groundhog Day, perfect example of an AFC to Boss. | PrimalTruth | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 05:01 AM |
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| 1 | Seducing smart and sophisticated ladies/u/doingthisforme In my experience, you are right on the money. I would also add that the women more prone to logical and analytical thinking get a LOT out of being able to witness/vett potential mates doing something they are skilled/passionate about, more so than women who operate without much internal reflection or dialog. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 10:48 AM |
| 1 | If you're not satisfying her, ask her these questions in bed... this might as well be poetry...If I did this with the chicks I fuck on the casual and semi regular, they would lose respect for me and my reputation would tank - which would make my girlfriend really sad. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Books to read after The Game and How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleI second this notion, and I move to amend with The Alchemist and Manual of the Warrior of Light by Paulo Coelho. Your life is what you make of it. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 12:00 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being envious of better looking people? [Inner Game Help]That was a great piece, thanks for sharing. Worth the read, takes about a minute. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 11:55 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop being envious of better looking people? [Inner Game Help]I will never get tired of seeing that quote! Good points all around, well said. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How to handle this amplification in a shit test?Hah, nice! It's the thought that counts, but delivery is key for sure! | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.This is so very true, and why I steer clear of vanilla chicks for the most part. I don't just go out to get laid, I'm out being social and meeting women because I want a relationship, to have a good time, and assert my status by being as much of a boss as I can be, building people up, fucking with them, just having fun with all of it. That being said, I see ZERO relationship potential with a woman who isn't self aware or accepting of her own sexuality, and then from that point on, I have no inte… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 06:33 PM |
| 2 | [QuickTip]When initiating kino avoid staring at the point of contact. Play it subtle by being focused elsewhere and let the physical interaction come of as something natural or unforced.This is it exactly. Pick your battles, win your wars. Excellent point. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 06:20 PM |
| 1 | [QuickTip]When initiating kino avoid staring at the point of contact. Play it subtle by being focused elsewhere and let the physical interaction come of as something natural or unforced.Hmm, what kind of intensity are you talking about Oreos? I never break eye contact first unless I am not interested in the girl at the time, or at all. I do not consider eye contact to be staring, and a wicked little smile or a shit eating grin does wonders during the eye contact. There is no reason for her to question my intentions, she sees me coming towards her, she hears me say hello, she sees my hand extend. Often times it works wonders to not even break eye contact when she does, so that w… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 06:19 PM |
| -4 | [QuickTip]When initiating kino avoid staring at the point of contact. Play it subtle by being focused elsewhere and let the physical interaction come of as something natural or unforced.So when I walk into a room, make eye contact with a HB8, walk up to her, say "Hello miss... ?" shake her hand, grab her by the shoulder (while holding her hand), pull our faces close together, having never broke eye contact and say in the most assertive voice I can must with a huge fucking smile on my face "I don't know who you are but I'm going to find out" and then we fuck that night - I'm doing it wrong? What if I am intense as a firey fuck and I enjoy being that way!? What if chicks dig it (… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 10:58 AM |
| 2 | How Do YOU meet people? I'm 23/F with social anxiety. I have no friends, and I'm SO bored with my routine life. Advice?I've seen some really good advice from the posts in this thread, but I for one disagree with all of it. Here's why; You need to act before you think. Turn your fucking brain off. How!? Learn how to meditate. Not some shitty religious or spiritual shit, literally learn how to slow your brain down and find "the zone". Every artist, musician, athlete and anyone with a highly honed skill they are also talented at will tell you the same thing - when they are doing their craft, the whole world fades a… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.What I look for - non verbal displays of submission, being defensive while flirting heavily, opening up more when kino gets involved, smiling and giving me a challenging look when I manhandle them (physically move them) but not resisting, etc. It comes down to ME shit testing THEM, displaying confidence and asserting dominance in both coversation and physical space. Once I get a feel for a girl I give em a test, an order basically - go get me some water, show me your phone, show me your wrists, … | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.Sure. I grew up believing that you are supposed to be a gentleman, that women automatically deserve respect and that pussy was this magical thing that you had gifted to you by a woman who was showing you mercy. Basically, I was an AFC. As I grew into myself and realize women were just humans, and they wanted to fuck too, my sexuality really started to boil. One of the main factors is that desire you feel as a man, when you just want to chase some HB9 down, rip her clothes off, throw her down and… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.I typically play with girls who are masochists, chicks who get off or get turned on by pain. So ass slapping is nice, but not enough for these girls. Try ass beating, over the knee, to the point where it will bruise. Biting to where it ALMOST draws blood, or does draw blood... Face fucking is awesome. I enjoy employing breath play with that as well. Or using a belt on her ass and thighs. Or a paddle. Or grabbing their legs and arms so hard that you leave finger bruises. Or straight up slapping t… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:41 AM |
| 2 | How to handle a girl/guy when she/he develops feelings.Before or after you get laid, just be honest about what you are looking for and where you are at. Sometimes you don't even need to, depending on the girl and circumstances. A good example would be "I like fucking your brains out and spending time with you, but I am not emotionally available." If she starts stalking you or pressuring you into being something or doing something you are not comfortable with, just fucking say it. "I'm not comfortable with that, here's why, and I told you I'm not wil… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.I'd say FetLife is the best place to get involved with your local community. There is the events sections where people post the weekly/monthly munches (social gatherings, food/drinks) as well as the play parties and other various workshops and kinky type events. Sometimes bars and strip clubs have night of kink, or there will be random events at various locations, but as far as I know FL is the best resource available. It's like facebook but not as shitty, and with a LOT more privacy settings. I… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.For sure, they are a minority, but as I learned, being a straight male dom doesn't put me in a majority either. I guess the moral of the story is fo never make assumptions and always be on the look out for social cues, non-verbal and verbal. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Dammit Seddit, I'm wasting my fuckin lifeGo out, be social, join a meetup group, go play pool. Talk to people everywhere you go. You have to do it anyway, might as well put some purpose behind it and who knows, you could meet some really great friends and an amazing lover or two along the way! | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.Alright, I posted this link before but here it is again just in case you didn't see it... http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do-you-have-an-inclination-for-bdsm/ Check that out, it may help you along your way! A couple of things; when you go to a munch, keep in mind that it is a social setting only. People dress... normally... most of the time. It's just a gathering of kinksters, to socialize with old friends and welcome inexperienced or new people to the community. Play parties are w… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.50 Shades has introduced many vanilla women to the concept of kink (or that it's OK) and it's appeal. How am I taking credit for that? All I said is that is has expanded my pool of attractive women who are curious about trying it out, and that has only helped my cause. Unless I missed something? | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 07:48 PM |
| 2 | If you could read a single book or blog regarding this community, what would it be?I don't understand the question. I can read many books and sources, why limit to just one? My favorite, non-intuitive book about seduction being The Tao of Pooh. Close second is Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Dammit Seddit, I'm wasting my fuckin lifeI think you would really benefit from a confident, stand up guy as a wingman. Where's your male friends at on this matter, have you spoken to them about it? | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 07:18 PM |
| 7 | How to handle this amplification in a shit test?I usually think it's funny to take it to a whole new, ridiculous level... Her: Are you serious right now, because I totally am. Me: Are you kidding!? I'm so happy you don't mind being my 3rd wife, the others will be so happy! You're bisexual right? What are your thoughts on Mormonism anyway? ;) | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.Going to go through this response top to bottom (heh, heh). Just because you are not dominant does NOT mean you are a beta male. Quite the contrary. One of the most badass motherfuckers I know, who is knee deep in pussy, is a submissive guy. All of the same shit from seduction applies to the world of kink, regardless of where you fall on the spectrum. If I stole your woman I am not sorry. As I said in my post, a lot of these girls can get a little crazy because they are caught in a pickle - they… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.Ah, it is I who should be thanking you sister! I can't do what I do best without good reviews from my counterparts. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.Excellent point, however, I wouldn't try that with a Dominatrix! You have to know your audience... That doesn't mean you can't run game or be assertive with dominant women, it's just a different type of game. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.Haha hell yeah, hell yeah! It's all about attitude and taking shit tests to a whole new level. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.Some women want you to "be in charge" of starting sex, but then when the gates open they like to "take control". Me and those chicks don't get along so well, but for me, I can spot em a mile away and I don't put any effort into bagging them. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.No, actually. It's the vanilla chicks that I think are the weird ones, but I've been doing this a long time. I don't even bother with vanilla chicks anymore, even when I'm out in a vanilla setting there are so many social cues that they are into the kinky shit it's mind boggling. If anything, 50 shades of grey helped my cause and access. And yes, there are a LOT of women who are authentically non-kinky. Ever start fucking a girl, slap her hard in the face and grab her by the throat, only to have… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.Right! There is a lot of public play and just more open talk about sexuality and sex. I mean, how badass would you feel to walk into a room with two chicks on leashes and they are hotter than all the other girls around? Instant street cred my man. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Kink (BDSM) and seduction; my first post.How to answer this without coming off as a cocky, arrogant prick? I shall try. As I am on the dominant/sadistic side of the spectrum, my answer will be skewed that way, and I will be addressing the guys who claim to be dominant. The difference is, my good man, that a Kinky AFC doesn't just shoot himself in the foot, his gun backfires and his hand explodes. Imagine an AFC, then add in a layer of "claiming" to be dominant without anything to back it up. As for a kinky Alpha, well, just like regula… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 06:41 PM |
| 2 | How to handle a girl/guy when she/he develops feelings.Stone cold honesty to the face. Implement boundary protection protocols if trespassing is detected. Be as nice as possible, fire a warning shot, point to the sign that says "No Trespassing: Feelings Will Be Shot Down" then point the barrels at their feet and wait to see if they charge you, run away or go back to the neutral zone. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Maintenance VS Neediness - Where do you draw the line?This needs to be unpacked a bit. Do you meaning when running game on a woman, or inner game? Regardless, you don't give a fuck that's how. Focus on your need, how to communicate them honestly/directly/effectively and your ability to add value to other peoples lives. If a woman can't tell you what she needs she's either fucked up in the head or you are doing a good job. Asking "Can I get you anything?" is polite and can get you laid. Asking "Do you need anything?" means you are fucked and need to… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:46 PM |
| 2 | The critical importance of favors and how people become the unsuccessful "nice guy".For sure man, but, I dunno. I still have mixed feelings about this, but maybe I'm not normal? I grew up in Alaska and we have a different culture up there, where barter is normal and favors have a market place value. Like, I'll build you a fence and you fix my boat. That kind of shit. So for me, the idea of not considering what I get out of a deal is ludicrous, but, I'll still help people out without anything in return. It's just if I can, I will. As it relates to women, it's a fantastic tool fo… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to lie to protect men's feelings?I would also like to add that different cultures go about rejection in different ways and the lying can be for more reasons than just wanting to avoid an uncomfortable situation. Sometimes girls will lie as a shit test, or to humiliate and/or insult you (like the lesbian comment), or to string a guy along because she's not sure if the one she's with will work out, or if she's waiting to see what she can get out of you so lies to you in an attempt to see what more you might offer, or because she'… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:22 PM |
| 3 | The critical importance of favors and how people become the unsuccessful "nice guy".I upvoted this because I want people to read that last sentence, which I disagree with, kind of! There are SOME rules about being a pushover, otherwise the word would have no meaning right? That doesn't invaildate the importance or validity of the point you are making though. One rule off the top of my head is this - a pushover will REFUSE to do a favor because someone else won't "let" them do it, like a parent, girlfriend, friend or boss. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:11 PM |
| 4 | I want to turn a long time friendship into a more intimate relationship.I understand your desire to figure this out, but I feel like this belong to /r/relationships or /r/relationshipadvice. Seduction is about self improvement first and getting the girl second. Kind of sounds like a case of oneitis to me though. Best advice I can give is express interest, do not get fixated on outcome and go about being a bad ass with or without her. Loving a woman without her knowing is, in my humble opinion, doing it backwards. Don't fall in love until you've banged many times, yo… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 11:38 AM |
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