PrimeDirectiveFML01 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Is a cuckold secure in his masculinity?	Discussion	PrimeDirectiveFML01	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 11:20 PM

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1	Women have total control of the dating market People's first reaction to realizing they can't have you is to scoff and degrade you. Then weeks later it sets in as a problem they can't solve. Saying absolutely no to women is what actually builds you status imo. The more you reject the more it seems you build value. That's just a weird observation I've made about women and it applies in consistent environments especially. I think it's because it shows you have no pity for them and most women are pitied so much. You don't need to do all this s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 09:29 PM
1	Women have total control of the dating market On the other hand, automod, my friend, women don't even have control of themselves. They are absolutely desperate for male attention and base their lives around how to best get it. The basic bitches do this sexually so that's what we see the most. Most people don't evolve past their primal needs and master them so they continue to suffer as they deserve. Modern women are slaves begging for pity and freedom from their dependence on men's attention. Everything they do is about fulfillment of this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 09:19 PM
1	Most attractive men know they are attractive, and the whole “you’re probably not as good looking as you think you are” nonsense is just a deflection and shaming tactic to once again divert attention from reality "yeah I spend my day rolling in the mud with pigs but it's because I stumbled across a pig farm and I think it's funny to see how silly they are lmaooo losers." Rolls in mud	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 12:50 PM
1	Is a cuckold secure in his masculinity? Tbh this was my hypothesis and why I crafted the question as such.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 11:36 AM
1	Is a cuckold secure in his masculinity? Tbh this was my hypothesis and why I crafted the question as such. However I think there is some really weird schism about sort of "transcendence" and non-attachment in a way. But if I was a Jedi monk I wouldn't have a relationship with a woman I loved anyway. The idea of letting a woman I actually love sleep with other men - just the idea that she would want to, is really heartbreaking and disgusting to me. It would kill my love and respect for her instantly. But if I had no feeling for her, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 11:34 AM
2	Is The Patriarchy Real? They must have had a lot of other economic and social benefits as well. Also in terms of hindering women's reproductive strategies aren't we really just talking about repressing promiscuity? There's grey area to the benefits and hindrances of that too. I think the structure itself gets portrayed to be some sort of intentional evil machination that men came up with purposefully to spite women and enslave them but that to me seems pretty hostile to think and propagandized. Is it accurate to compar…	/r/MensRights	16/07/23 11:23 AM
3	Is The Patriarchy Real? Why do men do this to women? Is it because they are evil sick oppressors? What is the purpose for Patriarchial societies?	/r/MensRights	16/07/23 11:12 AM
1	Is The Patriarchy Real? This really is the important thing to understand imo. I ask this question to people all the time now when it comes up "why did men create the Patriarchy?" It's interesting because people don't really know. They say "because they are assholes and wanted to control women !" Or something like that. It's like, really? You think men did that? I don't think they understand the implications of what they believe. If men did create a system with the sole intention of oppressing women and abusing them the…	/r/MensRights	16/07/23 11:10 AM
1	People equate "ick" as a female phenomenon. I think men experience ick at the same level, it just manifests differently. The outcome/result is what causes controversy. The way women treat other people is really what gives me the ick which I guess is different than a lot of men. But I can't stand being around women who have a lack of emotional immaturity and are bound by ideologies which benefit them at the expense of having true empathy for other people. Same goes for men though. They just get sorted in to relationships based on periphery to my center. 99.9% of the people you meet in your life aren't going to be truly compatible with you for a serious intimate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 10:47 AM
–	If women are responsible for vetting men, would it have been acceptable for Sarah Brady to privately message his texts to Jonah Hill’s new partners? I think people should be able to talk about almost anything. I'm not a free speech absolutist. I think it's distasteful and sort of pathetic that she released these texts and the majority of people seem to feel the same way. It's just on the line of touching some interesting social themes which is why it's relevant I guess. It shouldn't matter. If a desperate ex texts the chick I'm dating and that chick doesn't want to date me anymore it just says that she's not capable for communicating, thinki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 10:35 AM
1	Marriage 2.0 is much better than Marriage 1.0 80% of men in jail come from single mother households. Unfortunately there is very strong evidence that men without father figures and raised by single mothers are much more likely to experience negative outcomes for a variety of reasons, many speculation, and the truth is probably a combination of all those things. Suffice to say a healthy father figure in the child's life is very important for long term personality development so at the very least we should be dealing with more intelligent cus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 10:07 AM
1	Is a cuckold secure in his masculinity? I'm inclined to agree with this based on the things I've seen from men whose partners sleep around but the men themselves don't actually enjoy it. I've noticed a consistent discomfort and cognitive dissonance so so far I'm of the opinion that it's pretty much universally painful to them even if they are very open minded about sex and comfortable and casual about it. It's an interesting and complex topic about nature vs conditioning for sure. Thank you for the reply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:54 AM
–	Is a cuckold secure in his masculinity? In nature a cuckold is not a fetish at all but rather an unwillingness paternity fraud, as happens often in human society too. That's the nuance I was trying to control for tbh. Thank you for your reply though nonetheless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:51 AM
1	Q4M: Would you rather be needed by OR wanted by a woman? A lot of these men have been so emotionally abused by society shaming them and women's poor behaviour that they can't see their own inner worth and beauty. When I was younger I felt the same way. Like my own psychological growth and my views and opinions were meaningless, like many young women feel they are only valuable for sex, many men learn they are only valuable for resources. It appears to be a logical argument because it is utilitarian. There's been no chance or opening to explore what is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 08:54 PM
1	Q4M: Would you rather be needed by OR wanted by a woman? I want a partner who feels like a friend first, someone I can trust and love and who brings out the best and me and me them. Relationships aren't needs, they are privileges that bring out the best of people and create a better quality of life. The only way to make someone need you is by creating resource dependence or some other device and that is immoral imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 08:49 PM
2	Feminists are waking up to a world without men and boys adhering to strict male gender roles, and they don't like it! Solution? Redesign masculinity to be more gynocentric. I appreciate this comment a lot friend. Thank you for sharing it.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 08:44 PM
–	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world How do you know women were held in shackles? Because that's what you've been told or because you've looked at history and determined it to be true for yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 08:39 PM
–	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world Women are outperforming men in universities Isn't that because of affirmative action and lowering standards?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 08:28 PM
–	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity Yeah I was going to gender my comment but then I remembered all the fuckboys I've seen be like "hey ma hey ma", get rejected and suddenly go "ah you fat slag anyway". I think it's great to entertain possibilities but never be disappointed when they don't turn out to be true. People can dream and be realistic, it just requires some maturity and happiness tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 08:06 PM
–	The response to the Jonah Hill situation has demonstrated that women will demonize men at every turn, and take zero accountability for their problematic dating behaviors/role in making dating what it is today "so after dating for a while I realized that for things to get more serious, I want you to quit your job and stay at home" (or something like that). That's a boundary. It's saying "for me to feel comfortable moving forward, this is what I need you to sacrifice, otherwise best of luck". It is a lot to ask, but it's still setting a boundary on the expectations of the relationship which influences him directly, therefore it's a personal boundary as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 07:55 PM
1	The response to the Jonah Hill situation has demonstrated that women will demonize men at every turn, and take zero accountability for their problematic dating behaviors/role in making dating what it is today She was angry because she couldn't get what she wanted from the relationship without making sacrifices. That's why the jealousy boiled over much later when she regretted not being a little more sacrificial and wanted to tear him down. This is her consolation prize and she will gladly take it at his expense. Narcissim at its finest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 07:45 PM
–	Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinity The ick" happens when a woman's perception of a man doesn't match who he ends up being. Good observation. It also says a bit about the myth building we do in our heads based on very superficial things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 07:35 PM
1	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' You definitely have the best for others in mind. You're very admirable.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 07:25 PM
1	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' Your attitude is a bit more serious now eh. Not so glib and taking the piss anymore are you? You, like all people who do what you do, benefit by feeling morally superior to those around you and having yourself reinforced by them. It isn't necessarily good or bad. One can still do good things and evil things at the same time, but it's very clear what your actual motivation and intention is. It seems like the fun is over here for you isn't it?	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 07:11 PM
1	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' Exposed for pretending to care about the suffering of others for your own selfish benefit and agenda.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 06:58 PM
1	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' Yes you're such a good and noble person! Oh my it breaks your heart doesn't it??? And yes as far as me well, I can't understand either it's just awful isn't it??? It's ok to lose and be exposed for what you are. You're just digging your own grave now so keep at it.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 06:48 PM
1	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' Who is suffering? The victims of sexual assault. That's how anyone reading this can tell you're a moral psychopath. You don't care about anyone's experience, you have a clear agenda of clout and hurting someone else. A convicted criminal is the easiest person to do so with because no one will defend them. If they do, you can just say that are defending a criminal to discredit them. I see right through you and I hope after reading this exchange others will too.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 06:36 PM
1	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' It's easy to know your true colors because you treat this so lightly. People show remorse after decisions which require a lot of self reflection and suffering. People are generally suffering and you're acting like it's a silly fun game. So it's clear who you are.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 06:29 PM
2	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' What you did is still criminal. But good thing he's in jail. If justice was real they'd throw you in together. Two peas in a pod.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 06:18 PM
1	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' See nothing you say matters because it's all emotional pathos, you're also portraying yourself to be highly agreeable and charming, while at the same time disowning the consequences of your actions. So definitely a level of psychopathy at play here. You also don't seem to have conscience or remorse for the situation despite how serious it is. If you were legitimate you would, but instead you're trying so hard to charm your way in to legitimacy and use emotional pulls it falls flat.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 06:17 PM
4	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' It's clear to me you're a criminal. Hope you get arrested and put in jail where you belong.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 06:14 PM
6	Jolie Fortuna 'labelled man she'd never met a sex offender in viral social media post' So basically you started a witch hunt for someone that turned out to be guilty? Is that correct? It's still disgusting behavior. How many witch hunts end in ruined lives due to false accusations? And now you're joyously benefiting from the tragedy of the situation? This is so disgusting.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 06:09 PM
1	Most attractive men know they are attractive, and the whole “you’re probably not as good looking as you think you are” nonsense is just a deflection and shaming tactic to once again divert attention from reality I think this is just a poor understanding of economics. Let's say gold is probably the most stable currency over time - that would be like 9/10 attraction and that's universal across race, culture, etc. Symmetry demonstrates a strong immune system which has energy left over to further develop aesthetic features which is why we value beauty so much. Present mate economics seems to be that sex is at the lowest price it's ever been due to things like birth control and sexual liberation, hedonism an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 01:18 PM
2	Most attractive men know they are attractive, and the whole “you’re probably not as good looking as you think you are” nonsense is just a deflection and shaming tactic to once again divert attention from reality stumbled upon this forum somehow and keep coming back for the entertainment There's no way that's the truth. You should try some genuine introspection as to what you're getting from boosting your ego by being here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 12:57 PM
1	Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex? Everytime I form a connection and some basic agreements with a chick they are down. Then it becomes time to start to act and actually work on it, and she immediately becomes emotional and says I'm acting (most recently: "wack".). They act passive aggressive, borderline abusive and eventually "too cool" for this shit (because they are thinking "I have offers why should I work for anything in a relationship?). It's extremely important to negotiate expectations and long term requirements for long t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 12:18 PM
1	Modern Western Women Are a Historical Abomination Well, also promiscuity was way more dangerous without birth control so everyone had to work together a lot more diligently. Resource scarcity tends to create more regulated environments like in colder clients, which is where long game theory like the patriarchy would become more necessary. In high resource environments like warm weather climates, sex would be a lot more casual because there wasn't as much of a risk having kids. Women often had enough resources to raise their own kids with their …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 11:11 AM
1	Modern Western Women Are a Historical Abomination Well, men aren't either really. It's interesting because some groups are more resistant to lowering birth rates, and those groups tend to be firm religious sects, which I can be banned on Reddit for even speaking in too much detail about. But because their values are more consistent there's more organization across multi generational time spans which gives young people a lot more focus and motivation. So basically, western progressive types experience lowering birth rates mostly because the valu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 10:37 AM
0	Modern Western Women Are a Historical Abomination Because people are motivated to reproduce and build families by the passing on of their own genetics, morals, values, and building wealth etc. It's been the primary motivation to build families for centuries because resource scarcity forced people to consider long term strategies. Due to an abundant and comfortable society along with gender equality we are ability to dismiss the urgency to have children and build families with strong aligning values which removes any motivation to continue build…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 10:27 AM
1	As a woman, this is embarrassing. Thanks for making us women look bad. But if I say bring back muzzles for women I'm the bad guy.	/r/MensRights	15/07/23 09:58 AM