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| 0 | Had one of the worst first date scenarios ever, but saved it by staying composed and in controlThis is the kind of situation that would’ve been easily resolved if you had planned everything in advance. Scope out the bar you’re gonna take a date to so that there’s no guesswork. Have a list of backup plans for if your original plans don’t go over well. You prob would’ve saved yourself the 30 min drive if you had been to the bar beforehand. Dates are for executing your plans, not trying to make them up on the fly. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle ultimatums?Except the no response thing and then pretending like it didn’t happen never works. Women are predictable, emotional creatures. But they’re not stupid. It’s not like they just magically forget what they said or that you didn’t give an answer. It’s always better to just address the elephant and outright say you’re not going to entertain her tantrum while she’s having it, and that you’re available to talk once she’s calmed down. If she never calls back, problem solved. You dodged a bullet. If she … | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Friends and LosersI just came here to read all the wannabe alphas trying to act superior and offer their own version of OP’s post in a condescending way, like “this could all be summarized as...” like they think they know wtf they’re talking about, lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | If you’re in a good, healthy relationship that you want to keep, how do you deal with the desire to fuck over girls?You don’t, you juggle multiple plates and then shrug when one breaks bc you can easily replace it. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 10:54 PM |
| 6 | Am i exagerrating if i say that in todays culture, 98% of women are not "wifeable"?We don’t negotiate with terrorists. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:54 AM |
| 3 | ex from start of year text me happy new yearsAn ex of mine literally just did something similar. There is value in having a friend who is an ex, as long as you have 0 interest in her and know how to maintain your boundaries. It’s good to have women around who are friends in general. It provides social proof and they can open up doors for you to their friends and network, etc. So don’t always be so dismissive. As long as she’s not walking all over you, taking advantage of you, loading you up with her bs, etc., it may be good to keep her aro… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 12:52 AM |
| -3 | Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later.You’re proving my point exactly. Hence why I said I rarely keep women as friends who I’m interested in sexually but who aren’t interested in me. It doesn’t work. They’ll never offer any other value to me, and I won’t give them the time of day to offer any value to them. So no friendship is formed. It’s common sense. | /r/seduction | 09/12/20 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later.Who said I’m a virgin? Lol, I know my value and it certainly isn’t measured by how many women I keep as friends. Fuck that, lol. | /r/seduction | 09/12/20 11:07 AM |
| -4 | Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later.Real talk: this is easier said than done. Many men, myself included, refuse to be friend zoned by women they are interested in but who aren’t interested in them. I’m not going to be someone’s emotional tampon to listen to her drama, or guy problems or whatever shit her own female friends won’t even listen to. You have to be an exceptional girl for me to find value in keeping you around. Even if you introduce me to your female friends, they are themselves likely to disqualify me as a sexual partn… | /r/seduction | 09/12/20 10:09 AM |
| 7 | Rejected all the time and it's making me depressed.You should balance a healthy load of women friends with women you’re interested in romantically/sexually. If you come across as being too hungry for a date or to get laid, women will smell it on you a mile away. Sometimes it’s better to keep your intentions hidden so you can get closer. A lot of women have trust issues and are usually damaged by some prior relationship or experience. So you have to play it cool for a bit before you strike. You can usually juggle multiple friendly women at a time… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Vetting prostitutesWhat about those who use Snapchat? Do you consider those real or fake? | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Should I end a happy and fulfilling LTR because of the fear of missing out at age 22?No dude, trying to deny reality is horrible advice. The fact he’s even having these thoughts at all is a red flag. It’s ultimately his decision what he chooses to do, I’m just some rando on the Internet. But if he’s going be honest with himself and what he wants, then he’ll realize there’s more world out there to explore than his 4 year relationship. He has a chance to end things civilly and peacefully so he can pursue that exploration. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Should I end a happy and fulfilling LTR because of the fear of missing out at age 22?Yes, absolutely do it. 27 M here and I just did the same thing with my ex of 4 years. Take it from my own experience, if you’re having feelings of “missing out” now, they will only grow stronger the older you get. You will be tempted to cheat and grow frustrated of your current LTR. The only fix is to go out and scratch that itch of “what if.” I’m not guaranteeing you’re going to find any women right away, but you will eventually. You already have a 4 year relationship under your belt. That’s ba… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Swipe LEFT on hot girls who have their snapchat and instagrams in their biosI already do this. Glad to see I’m not the only one. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Don’t blow your opportunities.I’m only speaking for myself here, but the issue I see for guys nowadays is not the embarrassment or shame of when a girl rejects you. It’s the potential #metoo claim that she could invent if your approach was particularly bad. What one guy believes to be assertive/aggressive pickup tactics may be perceived as stalkerish behavior by some women. So the last thing a guy wants is that woman to go spreading rumors and bad press to other women about how creepy you are. Then at that point, you’re in t… | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 04:51 AM |
| 14 | Guys, how do you deal with competition ? (Girls opinion also wanted)Love this. So fucking brutal, hahaha. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 87 | Whenever you’re wondering what you should text, ask yourself whether she’s wondering the same thing. If not, her value is higher than yoursYeah, no. This never happens OP. A girl has too many options to worry about what she’s texting you, so this doesn’t work. However, that doesn’t mean you should worry about what to text her. Don’t overthink it. If she’s not interested, move on. | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 10:11 AM |
| 0 | What's the point of wielding power if not for the fuck of it?Or you can follow directions and just PM me about this. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 01:04 AM |
| 0 | What's the point of wielding power if not for the fuck of it?makes a note Well, let's see, Pleight will not be a part of our group. Who's next in line!? | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 01:04 AM |
| 0 | What's the point of wielding power if not for the fuck of it?Little did you know you're actually working for that guy. But he's buried you so deep in paperwork that you've no choice but to suck it up or look for other shitty work. Yeah, looks like he's forgotten about you. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How does ghosting work? What if the chick keeps contacting you again and again and maybe wants to work things outThis is exactly the kind of advice I wish all RPers would internalize. All the newbies are looking for some special trick or tactic to game chicks. They want to stop and strategize their individual situation rather than doing what you want. If you wanna fuck, then fuck. If you don't, don't. If she's not onboard, she was never onboard. Hard next. Move on to the next one. RP really is a very systematic numbers game. It took me several years to finally internalize that. Instead of wasting your time… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 11:23 AM |
| 1 | In pursuit of power: getting around the frat guyI don't think so. All of you have horribly misread my post--which leads me to believe that most of you probably just spew out what you read on here without thinking for yourselves. I was describing a stereotypical type of guy, not any guy in particular. And before any of you give me your bs about how "clearly i was talking about someone in particular" let me preempt you all and say that even if I was merely concerned with one guy, I already know that that kind of preoccupation wouldn't resolve t… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/16 09:48 PM |
| -3 | In pursuit of power: getting around the frat guyYou seriously must be fucking retarded. You clearly don't understand jack about Machiavellianism. Not surprised, most of the newbies on here don't seem to understand it either. I guess I better take my question to a real TRP veteran because I seem to just be getting newb responses from betas that have only recently swallowed the pill. Get on my level, asshole. Come back when you've sufficiently read the sidebar and are ready for the advanced theory stuff. No shit you're only as valuable as your … | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 11:52 AM |
| -6 | In pursuit of power: getting around the frat guyWay to not respond to the substance of the question, bro. I've been on here long enough to know the basic TRP tenets. What I'm asking is what a Machiavellian power grab would look like here. Assume I have the confidence, the SMV, and the abundance mentality in check. And no, it is not scarce mentality. Even someone with abundance mentality still needs to know how to power grab at critical moments, and I don't see anything anywhere on here that instructs how to do that. Now answer the question. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyThis was a really good post, so I wanted to chime in on something you said that really resonated with me as I was really internalizing TRP. The part about developing an abundance mentality and going about your day if the girl isn't interested is key and couldn't be stressed enough. The thing I noticed when I was BP and really desperate was that every rejection I received felt like the end of the world to me. It's not supposed to. I had never been laid and I desperately wanted someone, anyone, to… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out, got a maybe.I'll repeat to you what forever changed my view of women: nothing about women is confusing. In fact, women are actually very straightforward. The only one in confusion is you. If you think you're getting "mixed signals", or a "maybe", or "some other time", then there is no hidden message. The ambiguity itself is your answer. Aka, ambiguity = no. If a woman really wants you, she will go through leaps and bounds to make it clear. She will move mountains to make sure you get her message. But don't … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Cut off a girl at work after reading TRP. How to not seem butthurt about it?Your story happened exactly to me almost a year ago. I was a total BP and fell for a coworker. We used to text exactly as you described, I'd buy her lunches, we'd hang out, everything short of being alone and being intimate. Long story short, I asked her out, didn't get an answer, she got a bf, I rage quitted, and haven't spoken to her since. Admittedly, I got hurt when I totally saw it coming. So I tell this to every guy I see in the situation that I was in: if you see it coming, get out of the… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Don't Be a People PleaserSo this is an interesting write up. Often when I find myself engaging in PP behavior it's because I am deliberately doing so in my attempt to manipulate their emotions and develop rapport. The way I see it, leave them with warm and happy thoughts of myself so that if I need to use them later they will be happy to oblige me. It's a Machiavellian power play. Give them the compliments, the encouragement, the stuff they want to hear. So how do you reconcile that with cutting PP behavior? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Ruminating about the past is stopping me from moving forwardYou don't ever get over it and the feeling never goes away. It sucks, but some guys just win more than others. So how do you get past this? Your best revenge is always your future success. Invest in yourself, then never stop investing. Go out and bang as many girls as you can. And keep doing it until you want to. If you're not into the girls your age, then go for the younger ones. Be the guy that would have stolen your dream girl when you were 21 and watch other 21 year old guys observe you in e… | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Best way to approach a girl from work?"Please don't date coworkers." I can second this. Do NOT shit where you eat. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Nerds can be Alpha too: FR after half a year down this rabbit holeI've come to a similar conclusion myself. I think it's fine if you've ultimately chosen not to help out other nerds. The issue with nerds is that they tend to think they can reason their way out of any problem. However, given that most nerds have probably been sitting on their ass in front of a computer all day trying to learn shit they find on the internet, it's clear to me that whatever it is they think they're learning isn't helping them become Alpha. So let them struggle and find their own w… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Nerds can be Alpha too: FR after half a year down this rabbit holeSo I've been on TRP for a little over six months, including some unspecified time when I sort of left the sub to sort out my internal game. Timeline doesn't really matter as much as the "truths" I was trying to convey in my post. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Nerds can be Alpha too: FR after half a year down this rabbit holeSoz bro. Perhaps you can write all my future titles for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Nerds can be Alpha too: FR after half a year down this rabbit holeThis is actually going to be a follow up post of mine. I realize I never fully articulated the distinction I was trying to make, so keep on the lookout for a future post. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 03:00 AM |
| 2 | IM's Machiavellian MaximsI was actually going to post something with similar conclusions, but wow, OP hit the nail on the head. These maxims should all be internalized just like the 48 Laws of Power. Great article. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 12:06 AM |
| 10 | Nerds can be Alpha too: FR after half a year down this rabbit hole"The nerds do so well with women, after they get their body together because they had the mind required to push the limits." That's precisely the point I was trying to convey. It's not that Machiavellian game in itself is bs. It's that beginners have no business using it because they don't have the experience to know what they're doing to pull it off effectively. I'd agree that after a nerd has swallowed the pill and gotten his body/game together, then he can start experimenting with Machiavelli… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 09:16 AM |
| 12 | How to Filter out a girl like a JediIf you're into that kind of trash, lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding pullback from other betasThis was sort of what I suspected, and now you confirmed it. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding pullback from other betasAnd what if she is already surrounded by a bunch of thirsty betas who are talking to her? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 07:24 PM |
| 3 | How would you respond if someone said you aren't attractive?This one is actually really good, holy shit. If you don't get it, going after girl that calls you ugly = implying she is no better. What a way to smack a girl back down to earth. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 12:26 PM |
| 1 | If I ask a girl to coffee does that make it clear it is a date?I've had the same question. Just based on the question alone, do women interpret this as a date? | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 10:53 AM |
| -2 | Like taking candy from a baby. Give me some feedback.10/10 Would use this script in the future. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | A question on intentions and post-rejectionBump | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Metalaggeddons Lesson 5, stoicism meets value, how to achieve the zone.Excellent post. Ditto to adding me to the list if that pdf ever emerges. I'd happily take life advice from a philosophy major any day. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Male/female double standard?Because sperm is abundant and wombs are not. So this is the biological argument. Whenever I hear about slut shaming, it always sounds more like a moral argument to me. Hence when I ask why is it "acceptable," I'm wondering what the basis for the moral argument is. Is this purely religion? If so, why does the moral argument seem so focused on women when men are equally capable of pumping and dumping? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Situational help: how to handle text from flakey female friend?Edit: Added tl;dr. It's not oneitus. If you read my post, my issue is whether it is better to hard next or to keep up appearances because I might profit professionally/socially in the future. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you give old girlfriends closure?You should have ignored the text. By responding to her, you gave her apology an existence. If you haven't spoken to her in 6 years, why should you care how she feels about you now? Even if you became a serious alpha since then, the fact that you tried to verbalize how you've "grown up" is evidence to the contrary. Being more mature is not something you simply declare, it is something that is exemplified through your actions. In this case, the mature thing would have been not to justify how you w… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/15 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Academic literature and helping other BPs swallow TRPOne more tidbit: How would you best advocate explaining TRP concepts to someone who hasn't ever read the sidebar? For example, during my debate, explaining the idea that women hit "the wall" was quite challenging. It seems other people would confuse the concept of the wall with women hitting menopause, but clearly they are two different things. How would TRP respond to critics calling for scientific evidence of this event in a woman's life? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/15 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Grand list of red flags?Makes sense. But what about other red flags? My question is more about what I should be looking out for. Has anyone ever compiled a list of questionable behaviors? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/15 07:11 AM |
| 2 | How do I deal with a Hot-and-Cold "friendship", whilst maintaining frame?Serious case of oneitus. I've been there bro. You're playing a dumb game back and forth when you could be approaching other women. You want to make her jealous? Next her and move on. Develop that abundance mentality and never look back. Then if/when she comes crawling back to you, and if/when it's convenient for you and for your self amusement, you can set things on your terms. Have more self respect. Any other action and you will be wasting your time. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/15 02:50 AM |
| 1 | what i have learned in three weeks on the red pill about oneitisCan confirm. I lol'd because this exact sequence happened to me in my BP days. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Don’t eat where you shit: a lesson from making every mistake in the TRP bookThis all happened pre-TRP. The last time I spoke to her was right about when I discovered TRP. By the time I had been able to digest some of the reading material, it occurred to me just how much I was being used. There were so many red flags that I never bothered to consider because I convinced myself she was a snowflake. I can't say I am 100% over my oneitus - I haven't put myself out there enough to develop the abundance mentality. But I know what I need to do to get it. For me, the biggest sc… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | GF has a secondary Instagram accountSome of the responses on here make me think there needs to be greater clarification on IDGAF mentality. Seems to me the sides are "drop a questionable plate if she's being questionable" and "don't put up with her shiz, do XYZ to bring her in line." Rather than me making a new post, perhaps others would like to chime in on this? | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Question on how to make small talkSo I think the bigger issue for me is the fact that I don't particularly enjoy shooting the shit. I realize that no one is just going to open up to me or start discussing 17th century literature or some bs off the bat. But that's besides my point. How do I go about changing my fundamental perspective on small talk? In other words, my question isn't so much how to small talk, but rather what do I need to do to facilitate it? My issue is that I don't think anyone is worth the time shooting the shi… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/15 10:20 AM |
| 1 | What does a day in the life of an Alpha look like?How do you structure your free time? I'm assuming this is your schedule on weekdays, so what about weekends? Is that more about whatever you feel like doing? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 10:03 AM |
| 1 | What does a day in the life of an Alpha look like?How do you structure your free time? I'm assuming this is your schedule on weekdays, so what about weekends? Is that more about whatever you feel like doing? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/15 10:01 AM |
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