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| 4 | The Art of the Alpha; Approach AnxietyThanks dude - I think alpha is a bit of a loose term for everyone to agree on, but I'm all about becoming a better man, glad you like it for that | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 01:38 AM |
| 5 | The Art of the Alpha; Approach AnxietyThanks man :) I don't know if there is a universal definition for being alpha (we've all got different wants/desires, and an alpha I think can be summed up as someone who satisfies all these) - but if you've got something out of this then awesome! | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 01:36 AM |
| 4 | The Art of the Alpha; Approach AnxietyI will be doing a post similar to this on a weekly basis, doing my best to tackle the definition of alpha - I will be editing this post in the future, so please offer your well-informed influence :D | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 12:31 AM |
| 1 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookDo you believe you can do anything whatsoever to influence how others receive your presents or how desirable they find spending time with you? I am a firm believer that we have a strong control in how others see us, and by extension can influence others to like us. Your own experiences don't allow to state your opinion as the truth. and thats the truth, sorry :) Seriously though why are you posting me this, now? I don't practice pick-up right now as I'm busy with other areas, but I think a lot o… | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 08:26 PM |
| 1 | 22year old antisocial virgin with manic depression needs help from all you fine gentlemen at seddit...so your wants have started to bother you..... well re-evaluate | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:06 AM |
| 3 | 22year old antisocial virgin with manic depression needs help from all you fine gentlemen at seddit...well if you want to be alone with your own thoughts and devices..... then whats the issue? unless you don't want that then..... what is your discomfort (at which point you say something like you're unsatisfied/unhappy with current situation), to which I say why do you want what you're not happy with. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 01:53 AM |
| 11 | 22year old antisocial virgin with manic depression needs help from all you fine gentlemen at seddit...Only read the tl;dr, I'm sure the latter is heart-wrenching but its late. "antisocial" - if you are antisocial, then what why would you be posting this? Theres a difference between antisocial and poor-social skills, so lets immediately trim that fat "introvert" - Nothing wrong here whatsoever, however being an introvert means your comfort zones haven't been pushed, so start doing social things... push them, it gets easier... will forever always be a little bit of a challenge at times.... does ge… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 01:37 AM |
| 8 | AFCs on /r/amiugly could use our help...There are and always will be an endless volume of AFC's However it isn't a very good idea to introduce (especially people you don't even know) to the Pick-up community. This isn't exactly the best kept secret - pick-up (or seddit for that manor) isn't a secret society where people only discover it through being introduced by someone. If these people are truly frustrated with their lives, then let them make the first step in the door - rather than grabbing them, placing them at the front of the d… | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 11:13 AM |
| 1 | was drinking with a friend, met some girls at the pool, completely fucked it up and weirded them out...you could copy this reply and paste it on about a fifth of all new posts here | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Alright, I admit it. I need helponly read the TLDR Best advice to give: if you're interested in becoming less analytical (which is a beautiful thing to have), then you need to get out more - when you have so much "on" you won't have nearly the time/effort to analyze everything to death, so get more going on if you want to have more success with anything socailly - Read EVERYTHING in the sidebar, make notes - then read the top 100 all time seddit posts, ALL OF THEM, again take notes, then you'll recognise that you're passion fo… | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 08:34 AM |
| 3 | I'm really, really tall. Seduction advice.I think height just gages who is more 'accessible' to approach, the 5'5 girls are may feel intimidated, but the girls who are 6'0+ are going to be checking you out, praying that mr.tall sees them fit to approach! On a side note mystery is 6'5, which is still abnormally tall and given he wears massive boots exaggerating his height, hes doing pretty well ;) | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Kino escalation. Sober vs. IntoxicatedSober Pros: More aware of reading the interaction -> more aware of how you want to esculate Have absolute control over what is happening -> shows you off as confident in a way alcohol can't Cons: Can come across as creepy if you're uncomfortable with the actual escalation/interaction If there isn't a natural flow which has to be there if you're flying sober, then it will disrupt the flow of the interaction Intoxicated Pros: Can influence you to push your comfort zone, which can lead to situation… | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 04:22 PM |
| 5 | "Aww, you're so sweet/cute!" Seddit, how do I react to this?Well if you're calling someone out on being sweet, and they attempt to counter your statement with something... like sneaking the word 'seduce' in there (which isn't desperately 'sexual'), and that creeps you out?..... Well to be honest it sounds like your standards of 'sweetness' are simply too low if they're completely blown out and abandoned by a single response (not a remark, but a response to an otherwise poor statement; ie there is no substance behind telling someone there sweet, there is … | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 11:11 AM |
| 66 | "Aww, you're so sweet/cute!" Seddit, how do I react to this?well this isn't a shit test, but you're right in thinking its not in your favour. "Oh you're so sweet" "I bet you say that to all the guys you're trying to seduce!" It does add a subtle layer of sexual intent (you're jokingly pointing out that she's trying to seduce you), she'll immediately try and cover herself ("NOO! I'm not trying to seduce you, I'm just saying you're really sweet"), to which you evidently do a sarcastic "Riiiiiight....." (then wink) (then laugh together), Boom! | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 10:38 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to ask uni friends out during semester break?well I think you're treating this as too big of a deal, so relax! A text can never be "forceful", it is however "impulsive"....... but.... so? Impulsive is good! In terms of your 'trial run', I'd say it'd be better to suggest what how you're going to catch up, "do you fancy going for a coffee/drink sometime this weekend?", its a very mild display of dominance, and the lessing back/forthing with texts = less flaking possibility | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Hello seddit. I am nervous around this girl.this is really an /r/askseddit post, thats why your getting downvoted | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 10:15 AM |
| 5 | I mumble and its driving me nuts.Keep being aware of it, and it'll naturally deplete, stick at it champ! | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you create/join a social circle, Seddit?sorry to be that guy but /r/askseddit should be for questions, seddit is for exchanging and sharing ideas As to your question, I don't think approaching people to be friends with, should deviate from your regular approach. And if you're really struggling to find people to interact with you may have to resort to the bar/club scene | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 10:11 AM |
| 1 | The less I check out other girls the more I get checked outI don't think that's entirely true, there is more than one way to check out a girl. Obviously you don't want to be gawping or starring at them, but I think if you meet the gaze of an attractive girl then you can immediately spark attraction, IF you go straight for her. Checking girls out shouldn't negatively affect how often you get checked out, but if it really is then I'd probably say change the way you 'check them out'. | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 09:58 AM |
| 2 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookThanks, I'll certainly grammar-check the next post. | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 11:03 AM |
| 1 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookSorry man, I'll work on the grammar in the next post. | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 11:01 AM |
| 1 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookAbsolutely! Its important to remember that all the information in the community should be left to your own interpretation, otherwise wheres the fun? Its all suppose to be fun!! | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 11:01 AM |
| 1 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookThanks man, although I think there is something to be said with the 'alpha talk' (I interpret alpha as pretty much the persona you want to be), its a hard one to talk about as its different to so many people. BUT there are some universal traits, I'll be delicate about it in my next post ;) | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 10:53 AM |
| 1 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookYeah by the time I got to 'sexual intent' I kind of slowed down, so sorry for not going into detail on much. Well 'man up and do it' isn't really great advice as you already know that (whether you care to admit or not) ;) Kino can't really be forced, as its HAS to be a NATURAL process within the interaction. Maybe to start easing into this 'natural frame', I'd recommend start by greeting acquaintances with a handshake and friends with a hug, if thats not too out of your comfort zone. Sometime ne… | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 10:49 AM |
| 3 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookI've found that through non-sexual relationships with women that there is a lot to still 'bond' with, ie I have a different kind of fun with female friends, than say guy friends I'm not saying that I'm not sexually attracted to these people (and who's to say there not to me?), but there are benefits socially with having female friends - I think you've inspired me to make a post on it sometime next week :) | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 10:42 AM |
| 5 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookabsolutely, I'd rather offer guidelines than specific instructions with seduction - I'll probably do a post about defining an alpha or atleast some qualities relevant to not "giving a fuck" ;) | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 01:46 AM |
| 7 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookThanks :) I'll be sure to re-read thoroughly the next post, thanks for showing interest | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Libido has sharply decreased, how do I motivate myself?maybe his "point" is after 3-4 weeks, pretty much if OP faps when 'forcing' it, maybe he should wait until he doesn't need to force it (which, yes, maybe beyond the horizon but I think 3-4 weeks is still a short period to give up on) | /r/seduction | 19/05/12 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Libido has sharply decreased, how do I motivate myself?Sounds a little abstract, but seriously try visiting /r/NoFap From my own experiences once you've lasted a week your body WILL become more excitable and you won't even need to consider 'effort' to become sexual or attempt that frame when opening a set | /r/seduction | 19/05/12 01:08 PM |
| 5 | girl sleeping at my house don't know what to do ahhhthis post is ridiculous | /r/seduction | 19/05/12 10:48 AM |
| 6 | Starting the conversationI've only read your first sentence, so I'm sorry if this isn't applicable - Girls are people, I'm a very high-value person (or thats how I see myself), so I'm gonna go start a conversation with these girls, either they realise my awesomeness and things go well.... or there the kind of girls who aren't getting to know as they clearly prefer there own company to others As you get better you move more girls into the group worth getting to know BECAUSE you become more worth knowing/conversing with | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 08:10 PM |
| 5 | People think I'm gay. I'm not.Read the HELL out of everything in the sidebar, cherry-pick the ideas you like, put them into practice Too make an incredible long description, short: ALPHA = Confident, Happy, well-groomed, Polite, Fearless, Living in the moment without the depression of the past or the anxiety of the future seriously though its in your interest to read like everything the mods have put there, its all gold | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 08:05 PM |
| 2 | People think I'm gay. I'm not.Why does everyone think I'm gay? to answer your own question and thats because I'm scared of talking to girls If people ask if your gay, the ALPHA thing to do is to go all camp and say "oh you can't be serious darling!", you'll share a laugh and they get the message that you're not (as opposed to a "no I'm not gay, I wish you'd guys would leave me alone and stop asking me" kind of repsonse) | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Dads of seddit let me ask you: Do you teach your sons these lessons, that your dad never taught you?ahh no worries, well some of the stuff IS to do with manipulating, but alot of it is to do with being able to evoke interest in the other party (not necessarily manipulating), but being a dad may shift your gaze about your daughter ;) | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Why do i feel as if most of the stuff on here invokes neediness?well not everything works (or is) for everyone, like you said, the genius stuff is great (for you), but it may even repulse others. I'm sure your upbringing has given you specific values which WILL differ to some of the content on here If you really wanna get your "dick blown", then kill the part of you which is "analytical", if you have the time to analyse everything you do then you're clearly not doing enough ;) | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do i feel as if most of the stuff on here invokes neediness?Ok, for now lets scrap the term 'neediness' - maybe replace with a nice word like DESIRE - I'm not overly educated on psychology, but I think everything comes down to a desire (or need), there is even a need to not come across as needy? There are lots of people who don't look up into 'seducing' women and just do it there way, and it works for a lot of people! But with the whole network here, there are some people who do 'need' better skills to pick-up girls, but there are many who just want to s… | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Dads of seddit let me ask you: Do you teach your sons these lessons, that your dad never taught you?I'm not a parent (far from it) anyway I just wanted to comment about "daughters how not to fall for it" I think you're misunderstanding the whole concept of what 'seddit' stands for, GOOD pua's always leave people better off than before the initial encounter, ie if a pua is 'opening' your daughter, then thats probably a good/better thing than compared to someone who knows the average amount about interacting. Just wanted to say, what WE as a community do is NOT a bad thing (or something to tell … | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Check out this article. Interesting take on /r/seductionhaters gonna hate.. ;) | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 06:03 PM |
| 15 | This isn't really pick up related, but this phrase (in its simplicity) has been extremely motivational to me.I hate to be that guy but "we're" ;) but I like the phrase, every reason to take every risk | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 11:43 AM |
| 5 | I need help getting a four-year crush.whether you care to admit it or not it sounds like you have some oneitis - If you really want this girl and you've already got a pre-existing relationship with her its pretty simple, Either ask her on a date or get on with your life No, it really is just that simple | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 11:41 AM |
| 2 | 7 more TL;DRs to celebrate Seddit at 50k.Its scary to think this world is growing exponentially, I can't really see/imagine seduction being a mainstream thing in our society. I suspect game will be a craze for the 90% interested, mass-self-improvement just doesn't sound like it could happen | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I just came off as a little too eager in front of a girl Im interested in. What's the best way to salvage this?Use /r/askseddit for specific scenarios | /r/seduction | 06/04/12 09:16 PM |
| 2 | To all the newbies who want to share there back-stories and tell us what there gonna change with there life (TED talk) [3:16]I really think this is a bit of an issue with seddit as probably 1/5 posts are kind of people saying what they are GOING to be doing, rather than what they've already achieved | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 04:44 PM |
| 1 | To all the newbies who want to share there back-stories and tell us what there gonna change with there life (TED talk) [3:16]Man you should probably spend more time in field than correcting grammar mistakes - But seriously I think seddit is overwhelmed with these kind of "As of today I stop being an AFC and start......". | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Got rejected todayenjoy the success's and learn from the mistakes | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Feeling Inspired, Starting the 5 Approaches per day challenge tomorrow!Good luck, it'd be an achievement to do this for even just 3/4 days, especially after the whole anxiety issue(s) - keep us posted | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 12:32 AM |
| 9 | Having a hard time getting girls to followup on hanging out.I like to send a text within the 24 hours of closing, personally anyway - I'll normally send a text saying the obligatory "nice meeting you" (or similar message), BUT I'll also tag on to the end of it something like "also I think you might have my wallet xD" - obviously she won't but it'll kinda encourage her to reply essentially saying she doesn't have it, THEN I'll reply saying essentially "Ah no worries I found it in the microwave?! so how was you're night?" Now she's already 1 text into the … | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Having a hard time getting girls to followup on hanging out.Maybe you're leaving it too long from close to text? Or maybe you're not building enough attraction/comfort on the first initial encounter - I think this is a universal problem across seduction, I think the only way to reduce the 'flake' rate is to just improve your form/appeal on the initial encounter Maybe consider checking out some text-game posts as well | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Need a pick up line for a : We've known each other for a while, Let's go out now : scenario.For people who you want to re-connect with, if its been a while (like a couple months atleast) then I'd send them a text saying something like: "saw 2 ducks in the park fighting over a piece of bread, made me think of you x" If she is interested she'll respond with whatever, and then you can the pointless discussion in a jokey way relevant to her reply, and from there ask her how shes been, blah blah blah fancy getting a drink or whatever? - I can't take credit for this 'idea' but I've used succ… | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 12:11 AM |
| 3 | What is the single most important article or report that you've ever read online? (Either from seddit or elsewhere).I don't think anyone one article can stand alone as being the single most important - i.e. without the other information from other articles, it is arguably useless (unless if it covers the absolute universal fundamentals) Honestly read the absolute shit out of Everything from the sidebar - then it'll be easier to isolate articles on specifics rather than the ambiguous "important" | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Hugs and putting arms around girls just feels unnatural. (But I'm fine with other touchy kino)well if your approaching with the frame of mind that "ok seddit's telling me to do this weird stuff so here goes", then your gonna have a bad time! - I personally don't think thats stuff weird, and when I do do it, it doesn't feel unnatural - its not really a huge part of game if you can kino in other ways, there are very few things which are applicable to universal good game (confidence, personal hygiene etc... | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Hugs and putting arms around girls just feels unnatural. (But I'm fine with other touchy stuff)well if your approaching with the frame of mind that "ok seddit's telling me to do this weird stuff so here goes", then your gonna have a bad time! - I personally don't think thats stuff weird, and when I do do it, it doesn't feel unnatural - its not really a huge part of game if you can kino in other ways, there are very few things which are applicable to universal good game (confidence, personal hygiene etc...) | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 05:41 PM |
| 18 | [FR] Five approaches EVERY SINGLE DAY for the entire month of March.very impressive, this game is all about consistency and being persistent - out of the 34 numbers how many day 2's did you get? | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 03:48 PM |
| 2 | how i make exchanging numbers fun for girlslol at the "hot lesbian" instead - good idea, builds a stronger connection/comfort with you (or even just a quick laugh) | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 09:59 PM |
| 5 | Sunday Reflection Thread - What did you learn over this week?If you go out with the solid aim to have fun, you will likely have fun and get results If you go out with the solid aim to get closes, you will likely not have fun and by extension may even lower your results Its all about getting into that frame of mind (for me anyway), and I achieved this through making a point of having a good time, and then opening sets - for me as still a bit of a beginner anyway | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 09:54 PM |
| 7 | [FR] - Great night, 2#-closes, 1-k close, funnest night I've had in the past few weeks :Dhttp://i.imgur.com/PGJCl.png - its pretty high maintenance xD | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Seduction Tip: Bringing a girl home for the first time.I agree with 46xy's making your life interesting, instead of just makign it seem interesting Although it doesn't hurt having a guitar facing your front door ;) | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 11:31 AM |
| 4 | Confidence, confidence, confidence!Going out of your comfort zone is essentially working out your social skills. If you persistantly face your fear eventually you'll be able to do this "work-out" without breaking a sweat, leading to you facing even greater fears. Good post, it really is all about confidence and abondoning fears social conditioning has raised us with | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 12:12 PM |
| 1 | any non-PUA book recommendations that deal with social skills that can be used in other aspects of life. (ex. Work, Networking)http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/q514b/seddits_most_recommended_books_videos_and_websites/ I'd really recommend "how to win friends and influence people" off that list | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 12:03 PM |
| 1 | I hate everyoneIf this is just been on the off-occasion then its probably just a bad spell of girls. But if this is a consistent theme with engaging new girls, then its almost certainly something about you - maybe you should consider the notion you're just not interested in picking-up girls at the moment, that could be why everyones coming across as unappealing (despite physical attraction) | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 11:21 PM |
| -1 | What to do after the opener?I think a successful opener should offer plenty of opportunities to move on to the next topic of conversation, which should Directly link into the next topic and so on, a heavily abridged example of topic after topic: P: Hey do you guys know what time this place shuts? HB: About 2am P: Ahh cool, I'm still deciding if I like this place, I'm new to the area HB: Oh where are your from? P: Oh I'm from fakeville, how about you? HB: I'm from made-up town P: Oh I've had a crazy night out there HB: you … | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 07:50 PM |
| 10 | So I have the opportunity to watch a movie alone with a girl. What do I watch?I'd probably recommend a pixar movie just because its easy going, good atmosphere for conversation during, feel good factor, and it'll be so easy to talk about | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 10:20 PM |
| 3 | How do I prevent from falling into chump mode?First off, for the benefit of those reading, you can really cut out alot of the context (I'm sure Bersuit Vergarbat are a great band but its not really gonna affect my response/input/understanding to the situation at hand), just a friendly remark :) Well it doesn't sound like you were being a chump, originally you were captain Oblivious regarding the opportunity to ask her out, thats not being a chump its just being gormless! ;) Just improve on making sure you recognize opportunities when they a… | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to LJBF hints?I wouldn't let a reply like that phase me, its better to read the text as: "I had a great time meeting you, lets hang out some time" - I'd probably say shes skeptical about doing things with guys shes just met over the weekend, so shes 'building her own comfort' by labelling you two collectively as "friends" - I'd just respond with a suggestion to do something (don't call it a date, but if its just you two then it is heavily implied), and if she FZ's you in person after 'hanging out' then..... s… | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Asking a girl out over FB?first off, memorise your phone number, so in the event you don't have your phone and want her number ask for her number, if she responds positively "Oh I've just realised I don't have my phone with me, shall I give you my number anyway and you can text me or something?" - or something along those lines I think its a bad (terrible) idea to ask her out over facebook, if shes in your fitness class then can you not just do it next time you see her? I really advise against doing anything over faceboo… | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Gaming at a Silent PartyI've been to a "silent disco" and thought it was pretty ideal to game - if the headsets have different channels then you can pretty much rave the night away, like seriously be that guy who's dancing WAY over the top seeing as how a lot of people will be nervously admiring the novelty of the whole event, make eye contact (big cheesey grin), mosey on over - also its easy to have a conversation as you can both turn the music off and hear each other speak, however you're unlikely to address full set… | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Opening in line to get into club/event EASY CLOSEI've used this a few times, its a great way to start a night especially when your flying solo - although i think every opportunity should be seized (or atleast be considered), but this is defiantly an easy way to open | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Ok then, so you want to talk to a girl/guy in a bar/club or where ever you may be. But you cant find that conversation starter. With this to help everyone to break the ice. What topics can you use on a stranger to involve them and get good conversation going.I think observational openers (where you go in and talk about something happening now in the environment) which it sounds like what you did talking about twilight - I don't think "specific topics" are the best idea for opening as more often than not its just a bit out of context. I've found just going up to someone and saying hi, and then making a remark about something going on there and then is a strong way to ensure entertaining but consistent conversation | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 08:55 PM |
| 1 | getting women to fall in loveso you want to make girls fall in love with you? what is your question? | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 08:46 PM |
| 0 | getting women to fall in loveSo you're problem is that you want to avoid making women fall in love with you? well if this really is the problem, maybe earlier on you should establish more 'sexual intent' showing that you're interested in them physically (as well as emotionally) tofutofu did a post on it rescently - that way you're going to come across as more 'casual' relationship rather than them seeing you as the next, "the one". | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 06:44 PM |
| 13 | Conveying Sexual Intent Early On: How to Avoid the FriendzoneI've recently gotten stronger with opening and sustaining conversations, its easy to not 'plant any seeds' and get banished to the friend pile within the first few minutes. I think the "Your're my type" may be hard to sneak in, BUT I'm gonna try it out tomorrow night - version 2 is obvious but gold, great post/reminder on sexual intent thanks | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 11:36 PM |
| 2 | I totally frozewell I think asking a girl out and a "life changing decision" its better to look at them in 2 different ways - I think its when you perceive these "decisions" as "life changing" thats when shit gets complicated and you start doubting your own actions - relax bro, no one decision is life changing | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 11:21 PM |
| 3 | What do you do with FB's toothbrush(es)?Buy a 20-pack of cheap disposable toothbrushes for like £2 from any big supermarket, and just chuck them when they've been used - that way you avoid having a graveyard/musuem of toothbrushes occupying your sink xD | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 11:44 PM |
| 1 | New here, my boring story and looking for advice.I don't take compliments well I'm assuming you mean you don't respond well to them - well if a girl does compliment you, be gracious and maybe use it as a means of continuing the conversation example: I really like that shirt your wearing Thanks, it was a present from my mother - its only think shes ever got me I like! I love the colour of your eyes Ha! The other day someone told me my eyes are the same colour as pond water *I think you have a great taste for wine Well rescently I've really gone… | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 11:39 PM |
| 2 | An idea for building the community... Seddit "pledge classes"?I really like this idea, a subreddit dedicated to like 20-30 new/Active PUA's with 1 or 2 experienced PUA'S offering wisdom - maybe start a thread saying something like "looking for 20 fairly active PUA's who wanna join a new 'pledge'", then message those ppl a new subreddit? I have no idea but i really like the idea of closer communities | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 10:36 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Bar 2 # closesInteresting FR - I get the impression that you were too persistent with the HB6 HB3 set, if there really not that attractive to you why did you keep going back to them? I like the goldfish response but I personally would eject or atleast not esculate further at this point, were you just asking these girls if they had bf's or were they all openly stating it? You probably wanna sarge with more mature guys, I guy jokingly masturbating in a club/bar is never gonna make a girl giggle - you probably s… | /r/seduction | 02/03/12 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Template for meeting new girls and #-closing with a more successful non-flaking follow upwho's "they"? xD but that would answer a lot of problems! | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Template for meeting new girls and #-closing with a more successful non-flaking follow upI appreciate what you're saying - I'm not using this religiously, its merely an overall outline for when meeting someone, I'm 100% about natural flow, but I think its from subconcious 'recipes' like these that is our own natural flow - I'm only really recommending this for people who don't have that natural flow, but for experienced guys like you don't need to bother with this structure | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 08:44 PM |
| 1 | TIL the men rate women in red dresses as more interested in sexwhat does this have to do with seduction? | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 06:02 PM |
| 6 | Template for meeting new girls and #-closing with a more successful non-flaking follow upI'm all about having a good time and 'engaging your targets' - I just find that my normal approach doesn't ensure enough day 2's - its only a structural idea, seriously if your against these kind of ideas why are you a part of this community? | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 05:03 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First opening (post seddit), blown oppurtunity, need critiquing.Well first off HB 6.5/7 - seriously what does that even mean? like a 6.75 or a 0.92857.... xD - ANYWAY Pretty brave opening to a girl on her phone, normally I find they'll give just 1 word responses and go straight back on the phone Fuck up #1 was a bad statement, the only real positive response your going to get is 'I'm single' and even then thats not something most girls will say, also its not really that flattering, could easily be mis-interpreted as "Oh I bet your the kind of girl who sleeps… | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Field tested texting advice from Brad Branson of RSDPost like this remind me seduction is both art and science, great post | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 12:39 AM |
| 1 | you gotta help me get this gal backSounds like a lost cause - if your asking for help with a situation which is ongoing almost certainly means youve failed - do whatever satisfies yourself now and when you admit defeat use this as a learning experience and THEN ask questions | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 11:15 AM |
| 6 | Recently Single and looking for some advice..go to the party (obviously!) - if your rescently single and not looking for 'girls' just focus on having a good time, and if you are looking for girls just focus on having a good time | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 12:29 AM |
| 2 | IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMAStyle, thanks for introducing me into the world of pick-up - could you suggest a few lesser known openers which you have found successful, many thanks :D | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 05:27 PM |
| 3 | EnergyIf I'm absolutely exhausted (either I've got home after a night out at 5am or I've been up cramming for a deadline) but I need to function during the day in a public place, I'll excuse myself, find a public restroom and essentially wash my face/forearms/neck just to act as a kick-start Although if I'm at the point where I'm physically struggling to maintain a conversation I just simply say "fuck it" and right the day off and try to rest up to be on topform for tomorrow | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 11:42 PM |
| 2 | new here, would love to get involved, how do i start?Side bar - the thing on the right which says "NEW HERE?", good starting point | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 10:10 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Night out, wierd friend reaction #-closes"if I'm out with single* buddies*" when your the only single guy out with friends I've had expieriances similar to OP - granted that there are guys in LTR who are still cool with meeting new ppl | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 07:51 PM |
| 5 | 22 years and I'm going on a first date, could use some adviceWell congrats on getting the first date - I've forgotten where I read it but theres a concept that if you successfully provide 2 of the 3 there'll provide the other: -Comfort -Attraction -Seduction You build comfort from not being a douchebag, you create a friendship which simultaneously builds trust. She's already accepted your date so you should have no problem making her feel secure You build attraction by coming across as a guy who 'adds value' (I don't like the term adding value, but it mea… | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 05:01 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Night out, wierd friend reaction #-closesWhen I go out with friends who are in-relationships they generally tell me off for going off by myself as apposed to just staying with them not interacting with other people - Seriously don't worry about it, they are content with what they have and don't like the idea of losing your company. There hardly gonna open some sets or start a conversation with new people so they want to cling on to the mates there out with. What I normally end up doing is telling them I'm off to sarge or walk around or… | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 04:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Three numbers (Featuring Hot MILF crush, and two minute K-Close)nice FR, I totally agree with once you've already succeeded you feel great and have no regard for outcomes or consequences ("God mode") - sounds like a great night | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Is the Internet a good place to practice lines? And methods?NO - nothing compares to being in field gaining expieriance and practicing/developing lines/routines | /r/seduction | 05/02/12 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.I discovered seddit about a month ago and after a month I really have noticed an improvement on myself with seduction and overall being a better person. The anecdote about putting yourself in situations where you expect to fail but succeed and learn something you didn't expect, I really like that idea. I still really don't know much about pick-up but I've got alot of mistakes to discover and try for myself in the hope of finding methods which work for me. Thanks for the post, enjoyed it | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 05:03 PM |
| 1 | First FR (kind of): Clubbing with drunk friends, few questions, very pleased with my night for a new guysolid advice, thanks alot man | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 01:01 PM |
| 1 | First FR (kind of): Clubbing with drunk friends, few questions, very pleased with my night for a new guyThanks alot for the shit-test breakers :D - good advice | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 01:01 PM |
| 1 | o lordy what have I gotten myself into...tips on making this work out alright?"o lordy what have I gotten myself into...." = your meeting up with a HB and taking her to a formal gathering which she didn't have to attend with you -first off relax, you took a risk asking her and its payed off, understand this is a good thing! -drive her there, don't lunch before hand, if you really wanna do something do it afterwards, atleast then you'll have more to talk about if your intimidated by this girl theres no such thing as a "fake-alpha thing", accept the fact you were (and can b… | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 08:58 PM |
| 2 | The old "Not ready for a relationship" thing-stay friends, espescially if there not in your social circle -get to know there social circles/ arrange to meet up with her and her friends on a night out or something -instant opportunity with a +3/4 set, and they know you're a 'legit' friend - Also if you're sarging with a group of girls, you've gone up atleast 1.5 points on your scale! -if it doesn't happen you've made some new friends reset the whole processs! | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Peacocking?Something I 'accidently' discovered, if you really are fun/brave enough to try - get an apple and tie a hole through it with some string (will take a few mins), and go out with a freaking apple tied around your neck as a medalion! Bare in my haters gonna hate it probably won't grab girls attention but if your talking to them, THEIR gonna ask - pretty much say you lost a bet or you get some fruit energy from its juices (anything which makes you come across as fun) wait for it if you're showing it… | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 08:35 PM |
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