Sunday Reflection Thread - What did you learn over this week?

shichiro · 2012-04-02T01:36:31+00:00

Look at every opportunity as if you will never EVER have it again. otherwise you risk loosing out on someone you may have otherwise connected with.

PrincePUA · 2012-04-01T21:54:51+00:00

If you go out with the solid aim to have fun, you will likely have fun and get results

If you go out with the solid aim to get closes, you will likely not have fun and by extension may even lower your results

Its all about getting into that frame of mind (for me anyway), and I achieved this through making a point of having a good time, and then opening sets - for me as still a bit of a beginner anyway

2012-04-02T02:09:35+00:00

I've learned that I've been out of the 'game' for a couple years, and I have to go back to the material. I can pin-point my mistakes and it sucks. I'll have to go back to the books, man.

damn, that one-itis.

spydrpua · 2012-04-02T03:01:48+00:00

Some men will cockblock you even if they have no plans of competing with you for your target. They just want to watch your approach burn.

NuPUA · 2012-04-02T05:06:38+00:00

Talk to everyone.

thr_pkc · 2012-04-02T00:44:52+00:00

Be confident.

I know everyone probably knows this, but just last night I walked around a party like I owned the place, despite only knowing one person there, and was treated as though I really was the owner of the place. I wrote a FR about it, but the TL;DR version is essentially I K-closed a girl and stayed at the party while others were getting kicked out.

So remember, confidence, confidence, confidence.

kongzilla · 2012-04-02T03:06:16+00:00

A little bit of a mini FR here but please bare with me here. I hadn't gone out since new years but this past weekend a few friends and I went out last night (saturday night that is). My intentions were pretty simple, A) Get trashed, B) Have a good time. Both were done, being at a nice bar I was in my element without trying to be. Basically, everyone I walked up to and started talking to was super receptive. It dawned on me that if you are having fun people will want you around because they to want to have fun.

Now, one of our friends brought her work friend who happened to be a music professor at an undisclosed university started talking to me. Now the thing is I'm 22 she is 35, I've always had a complex about older women. However, this wasn't an issue at all ended up getting the K-close really easily and free music lessons if i do so choose.

Tl;Dr-Learned being a fun outgoing person gets you far in the game

MonkeySteriods · 2012-04-02T05:32:16+00:00

Long periods of [only] warm approaches will get you lots of numbers, but will fuck up your ability to do cold approaches or game.

Title	Sunday Reflection Thread - What did you learn over this week?
Author	sithyiscool
Upvotes	8
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Date	April 1, 2012 9:06 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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