Everytime I go out to socialize I will encounter the bitch shield, mother hen, or a myriad of fake defenses girls use at the bar. But that's all it is: a lie, a fake line to see how you respond to it, a screening device. And it typically comes out the more drunk she is, the more out of state you are etc.

This last weekend I approach a cute girl at a bar I regular and instantly her friend says: "SHE'S NOT INTERESTED SHES MY GIRLFRIEND," in the typical screeching voice that the bitch shield comes out as (after a while you notice that many girls sound alike when they pull this). I look at her friend and I chuckle to myself: I had met the girl bitching at me earlier that month. Danced and kissed her and SHE had asked for my number.

This girl obviously did not remember me (she was very drunk when we met), but she had loved me the last time, yet she pulls the bitch shield hardcore. That's how I know the shield is a typically fake screening device.

I have experienced countless other examples. I open a girl saying I like her glowing necklace and BOOM a mother hen friend comes by and says,"SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU". My brain laughs at these things, mentally thinking oh shut up she can handle herself, but outwards Ill always be polite and humble in my response. This typically disarms them and gives you a chance to re-engage.

Another example, I am standing near the opening entrance to my bar, on an elevated platform facing the crowd when a new girl enters the bar and stops next me to me. I open her discussing about how it's packed and observations about the flow of the bar. She turns to me and says "You're creepy". (Now, this is after I had made friends with at least 15 new girls over the last hour, so I know Im likeable). I turn to her and respond with something like, "Oh im sorry if I have seem to given you the wrong vibe... (then rephrased my situational observations)" She immediately becomes receptive and starts talking to me about video games. However I decide to leave anyways (other girls were more fun), and sure enough a minute later she passes and attempts to engage me again. And I was the creepy one.