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I've had too much experience with this. If this guy has ever had any feelings for her, which he likely has, he will end up screwing you over eventually. When you guys have the inevitable fight, he is going to be the white knight there for her. He is going to let her cry on his shoulder, he is going to tell her how horrible you are, he is going to stroke her ego and tell her that she deserves better. She probably won't leave you for him but she will leave you for another guy. My last girlfriend h…
/r/seduction13/03/15 08:51 PM
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I'm having this problem right now too. You just really need to tell yourself that your life would be fine without her and force yourself to go out and pick up on other girls. When she texts you from now on, keep your responses short and simple then end the conversation before she does. Make plans to hang out, but don't let oneitis take over until you're sure this woman is the one and she's ready to commit to you.
/r/seduction20/02/15 01:48 AM
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I've had success with women for a while, but up until a few months ago I was seen as a nice guy who gave off non-sexual vibes and sometimes seemed like great friendzone material. I practice pick up, but I wouldn't call myself an "artist" quite yet. However, I have been succeeding in giving off a more sexual vibe, and for the first time in my life women are using words like "hot" and "sexy" to describe me and more women are wanting me than ever. As others said, be a man. Dress well. Take care of …
/r/seduction20/02/15 01:31 AM
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There isn't anything wrong with the friendly vibe in my opinion, just make sure you make your intentions known at the same time. It's good to make them feel comfortable with you. If I had to try and put a number on it, I'd say only 1 in 10-15 girls rejects me when I go in for the kiss. Godspeed. Didn't even realize it was my cake day until you pointed it out, but thanks!
/r/seduction09/02/15 07:21 AM
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Damn, I have the exact opposite problem. When I manage to get over the anxiety and approach, I'm pretty good at closing. Get into her physical space- burst that personal bubble. Lean in close to talk to her, touch her on the shoulder when you make a joke, put your arm around her, whatever. Then make some sort of comment about her eyes. As soon as you do this, she'll look at you and you'll lock eyes. This means she wants you to kiss her. If she's clearly into you but avoiding eye contact then it …
/r/seduction09/02/15 12:02 AM
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Damn, this is cringey. He is obviously upset by it and reacted in the worst way possible- like a 12 year old girl who passive aggressively posts photos of every semi-fun moment, trying to make everyone jealous and seek approval. It's sad, really.
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:03 PM
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He obviously was sad though. His posts wreak of someone who is so upset that they try to overcompensate and appear happy.
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:01 PM
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It's all subjective. A lot of people will tell you that it's in the eyes- if she's maintaining eye contact with you and her pupils dilate, etc. Yes, true in some cases. Don't listen to the bullshit. That's why you really do just have to go for it. In my experience I would say that more often than not when a girl is into me she makes eye contact for an extended period of time she looks away because she is so nervous- the polar opposite. I then proceed to tease them about being horrible at making …
/r/seduction19/01/15 05:13 PM
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I understand that these questions would build rapport and establish connection, but the problem I have with all of these is they seem very canned. I don't know how I could bring them up organically without making it seem like I memorized them and am giving them a verbal survey.
/r/seduction17/01/15 03:22 AM
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I'm in the same boat. Also on holiday. Use this time to reconnect with family and old friends. Realize that they like you so other people you meet will as well. Instead of dreading being alone with your thoughts, welcome it and do some deep self reflection. Work on yourself. Once you're stable, girls will pick up on it and be attracted to you. Best of luck.
/r/seduction26/12/14 12:07 AM
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That's something that has taken a lot of work for me. I know where you're coming from, I've been there. Truthfully ask yourself: Do you like yourself? Are you comfortable with who you are? Do you genuinely think you are a quality person who women would be lucky to have? Think long and hard about it. If you can't answer "yes" to these questions then you need to work on yourself. You need to figure out what your weaknesses are and conquer them. If you're like me and can confidently say "yes" to al…
/r/seduction25/12/14 08:51 AM
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Ok, I guess what I'm confused about is what you mean by "surprise". You just tell them you're gay, pretend to be gay, then just try to lay a kiss on her out of the blue later on?
/r/seduction25/12/14 08:40 AM
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I agree. It's hard for me to keep my cool. I'm just not a fighter- I don't want to fight and the reality is there is a good chance I'd get my ass beat so I don't really have much of a choice but to remain calm and cool and take the high ground.
/r/seduction25/12/14 08:39 AM
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Anymore elaboration on this? Sounds like this idea has potential.
/r/seduction24/12/14 09:25 PM
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This is what I do. Don't stoop to their level and engage them. Take the higher ground and be the bigger person but make it clear that you're not going to play their game if they try to push the boundaries. The other day, I just had one of these guys literally scream in my ear to "shut the fuck up". I calmly said "Well, that was rude" and then just ignored him. They are emotional, the key is not to get emotional back. The girl will respect you more for this.
/r/seduction24/12/14 09:22 PM
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I just went through a bout of depression for a couple weeks because of this. The ideal thing is to just not get oneitis to begin with. That's easier said than done though- every once in a while someone will come around that makes you lose all your rationality and fall for them. It may not be the case for you, but I discovered that my depression was caused because I refused to accept that I was feeling sad because this girl dumped me. Once I realized that sadness and disappointment are completely…
/r/seduction24/12/14 09:11 PM
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Go for it. It's my original routine (as far as I know) so it's going to work really well because girls haven't heard it before. I hope it doesn't become overused now but I felt I really owe this community and wanted to give back.
/r/seduction05/10/14 04:50 PM
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You can tell them to do it, they don't need to ask. Make a joke that you're kind of drunk and she needs to send you a message like that because you might not remember her the next day. Of course you will, but it makes for playful banter and I would maybe consider it light negging because it's basically saying "I find you really attractive right now but you're not that special/I have other options so I might not remember who you are"
/r/seduction05/10/14 04:48 PM
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Best of luck. It definitely works the best when you're a little drunk, hence the need to send you a text with a description so you remember them. Of course I was going to remember this girl no matter what but it makes for playful banter.
/r/seduction05/10/14 04:44 PM
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I agree. I also like to find a way to verbally lead into it. I never say beta stuff like "Can I kiss you?" or anything like that though. My bestfriend/wingman uses your routine and has really good luck with it. I'm going to stick with mine when I can though because it's my original thing so it's almost 100% guaranteed the girl hasn't heard it before.
/r/seduction05/10/14 04:42 PM
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Holy hell, this is horribly written. It had some good insights but most of it was rubbish.
/r/seduction06/06/14 10:37 PM
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Red flag, exactly. Maybe still worth a romp or two but nothing long term.
/r/seduction09/03/14 02:54 AM
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I'm going to give a pessimistic view and say that if it's already at a point where she's directing accusations at you, then this relationship will be ending in T-minus 10... 9... 8... Very pessimistic. We actually have a very awesome dynamic, and we've always been able to "agree to disagree". Everything's fine. It wasn't accusations in the context of a fight, more in the context of a discussion.
/r/seduction04/06/13 04:55 AM
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I disagree with your opening statement. Making judgements about feminists based off of a few immature, crazy man-haters is just as bad as them making generalizations about the seduction community as being a bunch of misogynistic assholes. I also care about what my girlfriend says because I care about her and enjoy having discussions with her. Besides, if I'm able to have her see my point of view it only helps the overall image of the seduction community. Besides that, there is truth to what you …
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:04 AM
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These are awesome, logical points that I completely agree with!
/r/seduction04/06/13 01:57 AM
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Luckily, I think it's the prior.
/r/seduction04/06/13 01:03 AM
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This. When you break a heart it's not a good feeling. But to answer the question, yes I have. She fell in love with me because I kept my alpha attitude during the whole relationship while still being a gentleman. That's the key. Have a soft and polite side, but just make it clear that you're running the show and you're not afraid to tease her or put her in her place. Also always have something fun to do.
/r/seduction15/11/12 12:47 AM
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This?
/r/seduction13/11/12 11:08 PM
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She has a boyfriend. Drop her until she's single.
/r/seduction20/05/12 06:44 PM
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Bring a blanket to lay down on or man up!
/r/seduction15/05/12 06:24 AM
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A car, on the beach, or in a park.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:09 AM
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Shitty "music"? Yes.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 08:08 PM
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I notice that this is a trend among fat or other unattractive chicks. They're frustrated because they don't have guys talking to them so they become jealous of their friends and try to prevent them from having a good time while at the same time getting back at the guy who chose her friend over her.
/r/seduction07/05/12 11:27 PM
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It's what ever you make of it. I was horrible with chicks and didn't have any luck until I got into a LTR. I just got out of it a few months ago, and it has definitely boosted my confidence anyways. The chick I went out with is really hot, if I could keep her steady with me for 3 years, why can't I at least score one date with other hot chicks? The other thing that helped boost my confidence is a job. I work in sales so it helped me practice small talk and persuasion. TL;DR Scoring with a girl w…
/r/seduction03/05/12 02:10 AM
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My roommate at the time thought it was really weird that I did that. I hate those AFCs. They don't understand how to live and will bring you down with them.
/r/seduction30/04/12 08:30 PM
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You're right. It seems like they don't know what they want.
/r/seduction26/04/12 07:36 AM
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"Oh my gosh, I love so-and-so!" Don't you know that love is the new like and like is the new love? Here's a translation of that phrase: "I'm so excited you mentioned his name! We're such good friends I just consider him one of the girls!" Sounds like he's currently friendzoned, but there's always a chance he may not be forever...
/r/seduction26/04/12 12:22 AM
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Well done! You got message across while keeping it fun and above all, classy!
/r/seduction21/04/12 01:46 AM
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Simple answer: no. I have a friend who is extremely good looking, but he lacks confidence and is a complete pussy when it comes to talking to girls. Sure, chicks love him when they first see him, but not for long once they actually get to know him. On the other hand, you can be average looking and confidence will definitely make up for that.
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:04 AM
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Telling them to grab lunch with you instead of asking is more assertive. I'm still a learning noobie too, but I'll either say "let's" or "we should".
/r/seduction17/04/12 12:07 AM
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Time to dump that friend, OP. I had a friend that did similar things, ever since I stopped being friends with him my life has been a lot better.
/r/seduction16/04/12 11:51 PM
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Seriously, who does that?! The only "friend" that would do something like that is trying to cock block you out of jealousy.
/r/seduction16/04/12 04:32 PM
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As someone who just got out a LTR that turned "cold", this is very inspirational. Thank you! I'm working on putting myself in the mindset that no chick is out of my league.
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:07 PM
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But why would you want a forced "yes"? If a chick is going to reject me I want her to be able to do it easily so I don't waste my time. I don't want to pressure her into saying yes and then getting stood up because it wasn't sincere.
/r/seduction10/04/12 05:24 AM
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Coffee is boring but watching TV isn't?
/r/seduction02/04/12 09:09 AM
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No I have not! Didn't know they make that much of a difference.
/r/seduction31/03/12 03:41 AM
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I'm having an issue with this too. They could be doing it deliberately, it could just be because they're really flakey or they are in the middle of something or maybe the message didn't get to them. In case it was a mistake, maybe "accidentally" sending a message to them that was meant for someone else and then immediately texting back "sorry, wrong person!" would be a friendly reminder to respond to the last relevant message. Any thoughts on this? EDIT: Wouldn't you know it? I was bummed becaus…
/r/seduction28/03/12 11:54 PM
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How about constructive criticism? What's your suggestion?
/r/seduction27/03/12 09:31 PM
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It could be followed by that. It all depends on the girl. If she has a good sense of humor then maybe I'd state the obvious and come back with "eating dinner!" I also like what Wordslinger1919 said... Look her up and down and grin. "I haven't decided yet."
/r/seduction27/03/12 08:40 AM
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This is awesome. Definitely alpha.
/r/seduction27/03/12 08:39 AM
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Maybe turn it into a joke? "Yes, it's March 27th" If there is fruit with her meal, point to it and say "No, dates are little shriveled fruits. That's a grape/apple/melon/etc"
/r/seduction27/03/12 07:33 AM
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Maybe she knows that, but just make sure you know that.
/r/seduction27/03/12 04:10 AM
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What about for people that finish really quickly when it comes to sex? To me, it seems like a lowered libido would be a good thing because I could last longer. Just my experience. What about for guys that are so horny they try ridiculously hard to get girls and come off as desperate?
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:44 AM
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I'll be 20 pretty soon though. The only thing there is to be nervous about is getting sucked in (or worse: played). A lot of single moms out there are looking for a nice guy they can suck in to act as a father figure and support their kid. Just resist the temptation to become involved anymore than casual dating and you'll be good.
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:42 AM
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I just got out of a three year relationship. I was your average frustrated chump until I decided it's really not that hard to put yourself out there and take some risks. Don't let age difference intimidate you.
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:36 AM
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I'm in the same boat. I'm 19, going on a date with a 21 y/o who has a 1 year old. She's really cute, nice, and we have a lot in common. I'm not dropping her. Why would I? Nothing bad can come from it. I'm going to keep dating her and escalating. I'm going to make it clear that I'm not looking for a serious relationship, but I'm not going to say it directly. It could offend her. I have a feeling that these chicks get that a lot, so they're probably used to it and somewhat understanding of it. But…
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:20 AM
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It's hard to tell without being there. But in my experience, girls always use that phrase as a test. They want to see how desperate you are to talk to them. They want you to keep asking them and asking them over and over, they like the attention. When I notice girls trying to get my attention in this way, I just ignore them and wait for them to come to me and tell me without me prompting them or starting the conversation. I think asking her to go grab coffee/lunch/dinner/the casual bite to eat w…
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:08 AM
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This is one of the most inspirational comments I've ever read.
/r/seduction26/03/12 11:30 PM
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I've thought about doing this, I really should start. What percentage of them would you say actually contact you?
/r/seduction26/03/12 04:14 PM
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I'm no expert, but so far I've had the best luck just telling them instead of asking them. Instead of asking when she's free and relying on her to plan it out, tell her to meet you at location A at B time. If she's busy, you're SOL. Try a few days later.
/r/seduction26/03/12 08:07 AM
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People want you to talk to them. Just because someone doesn't initiate conversation doesn't mean they're not interested. If you have good posture, smile, and speak with confidence there isn't anyone who isn't going to want to talk to you. No one is too good for you. This week alone I'm going out/hanging out with two girls that I never thought I had a chance with a few months ago. Now I finally got myself in the mindset that I can get anyone I want, it's always worth a try.
/r/seduction26/03/12 07:53 AM
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I stutter sometimes too. Two ways: 1) when I am caught off guard. But this isn't really a big deal, doesn't really happen to me much. 2) When I spend some time carefully formulating the exact phrase I am going to say when I approach people. I corrected it by turning off my brain and just making quick decisions. If I want to talk to a hot girl, I just talk to her instead of taking a minute to plan it all out.
/r/seduction20/03/12 01:33 AM
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This is disgusting. Not funny.
/r/MensRights27/01/12 07:59 AM
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What the hell is spacedicks? I went on it and can't tell... is there any sort of theme more specific than disturbing shit?
/r/MensRights28/12/11 07:47 AM
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Tyler mentions that one of his biggest turning points was when he realized that sex is no big deal. It's just something that guys and girls do to solidify a moment. By making a big deal about it, you are suddenly putting it on a pedestal and hurting your game by doing it. This statement right here just changed my life.
/r/seduction10/11/11 10:14 PM
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I knew what that was before I clicked on it.
/r/seduction19/09/11 04:29 AM
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we are trying to get all possible countries from A to Z This sounds like a fun idea
/r/seduction05/09/11 08:03 PM
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They all dug the fact that me and my buddy were from Canada too, always a great conversation starter when you're on foreign turf :P I know, right? It's almost like cheating. Did that with some Puerto Rican chicks, they seemed to also dig that I was American yet knew some Spanish.
/r/seduction31/08/11 11:00 PM
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it's only awkward if you make it awkward (fixed for spelling) This. Once I accepted this, things got so much better. You have to learn to just not get awkward. If you're awkward, the chick picks up on that and feels awkward too. If you're confident, out-going, and laid-back the whole time then so will the chick.
/r/seduction31/08/11 03:50 PM
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Now she hangs it over my head all the time, "I'm gonna go find guy friends to hang out with, we'll see how you feel about it". I tell her, "go ahead, i completely trust you". This seems to frustrate her. My girlfriend (of two years also) does this too. I just assumed she was an extremely jealous person, I didn't think it was normal
/r/seduction21/07/11 04:06 PM
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I usually stand with my hands in my front pockets with my thumbs out. I suppose that's better than having my whole hand in my pocket, right? But I'll give the back pocket thing a try.
/r/seduction18/07/11 03:53 PM
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I always put my hands in my pockets. My arms and hands feel awkward just hanging at my sides. What do I do with them? If I cross them it makes me seem disinterested. If I put them on my hips it makes me look mad.
/r/seduction18/07/11 05:42 AM
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I don't know how he got away with that...
/r/MensRights29/06/11 03:48 PM
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This same thing actually just happened to my girlfriend's brother. He was arrested, put in jail, and charged with a felony. After a very expensive lawyer, he was fortunately able to get it reduced to a misdemeanor and 2 months of work furlough. He just finished his sentence and got back the other day, but now he's on 2 years probation and isn't allowed to be in the presence of minors that he knows. This is complete bullshit. Especially since the chick herself admitted she lied to him about her a…
/r/MensRights29/06/11 03:22 AM
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Shaving is a major nuisance. Coming from a guy, it's really gross, I'd leave my shirt on if I were you. You're not telling him to shave or groom it though. You're just discouraging him and being an ass.
/r/seduction30/05/11 03:30 AM
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The reason I am being hostile is because you are being a real prick to OP for something he can't help. Furthermore, I don't understand how you can consider several long strands of hair growing out of your nipples not disgusting. Come back to this thread when your balls drop.
/r/seduction29/05/11 11:39 PM
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You're just pissed because you haven't hit puberty yet and grown your own.
/r/seduction29/05/11 10:29 PM
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Not necessarily. A lot of girls are just naive.
/r/seduction18/05/11 05:26 AM
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yes please. extra butter.
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:35 PM
2

No offense, but you sound like an arrogant asshole. Yes, you're right. Yes it's good you helped the kid. But you don't need to go rubbing it in his face and blabbing to everyone.
/r/seduction16/05/11 03:41 PM
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I think you're being too hard on the kid. Yes, he's a stupid high school kid. But he's still learning. Don't expect him to be perfect. He knows the risks, he's going to have to experiment and figure out things himself.
/r/seduction16/05/11 03:37 PM
1

Well obviously if she wanted to date you that bad she wouldn't need to be pushed into it. Don't fuck up a relationship just to get your dick wet. Not cool.
/r/seduction15/05/11 07:32 AM
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Don't be an ass and try to go for a girl with a boyfriend.
/r/seduction14/05/11 01:57 AM
1

Maybe they feel that if you don't ask their name or number first it means you're not interested in them? Someone needs to make the first move.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:01 AM
1

Hmmm... what if he told her afterward? What does everyone think? I see that turning out well because if she is mature she may like that and come back for more. It could tell her hey, I'm not shitty, I'm just inexperienced but could get better.
/r/seduction14/04/11 03:54 AM
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I notice that too
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:09 PM
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I'm pretty sure this guy was joking... I don't understand why he got down votes. Obviously this isn't serious.
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:32 AM
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or maybe she's using you for the sex and is serious about the guys who buy her stuff? o.O
/r/seduction07/04/11 08:29 PM
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Sounds like she's just an awkward person. Either that or what you were saying made her feel awkward. Oh well. I don't even bother with chicks who get awkward too easily. They're a waste of time and energy. P.S. I maybe would've ejected earlier. But it sounds like in this case it wouldn't have really mattered either way.
/r/seduction07/04/11 04:20 AM
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Job well done sir.
/r/seduction05/04/11 04:37 AM
1

In my opinion, #2 and #3 should be switched around.
/r/seduction05/04/11 04:14 AM
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Didn't you kinda bring this dilemma upon yourself by pursuing a chick with a boyfriend in the first place? Props though for refusing to go further until she breaks up with him.
/r/seduction24/03/11 04:15 AM
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Yeah, that's true, I could see how the making out thing could throw things off. Chicks just don't make sense sometimes. Actually I take that back. Not sometimes, a lot of times...
/r/seduction22/03/11 06:45 AM
1

Yeah, they didn't really go to the bathroom...
/r/seduction21/03/11 05:52 PM
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