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passing shit tests http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tbe57/the_bitch_shield_is_just_a_screener/c4l6mgk
/r/seduction08/05/12 11:12 PM
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plowing = staying congruent
/r/seduction07/05/12 06:19 PM
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scarcity
/r/seduction01/03/12 01:16 AM
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"I know. It's crazy, right"
/r/seduction22/02/12 01:49 AM
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give value unconditionally
/r/seduction09/02/12 08:58 PM
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Mexican bars
/r/seduction31/01/12 08:11 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hs8j9/not_giving_a_fuck/c1xxbq5
/r/seduction26/01/12 10:42 PM
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I read this article a year ago when I was just starting out and it completely changed my game because it allows you to TALK TO EVERYONE.
/r/seduction25/01/12 02:36 PM
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After all we've been through!
/r/seduction25/01/12 03:29 AM
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Here let me help.. what's your number?
/r/seduction25/01/12 03:29 AM
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YES http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fpd8s/refresher_on_passing_shit_tests_agree_and_amplify/
/r/seduction24/01/12 09:20 PM
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Yes and for $20 i'll tell you my secret to weight loss.
/r/seduction24/01/12 04:38 PM
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agree and amplify
/r/seduction24/01/12 04:36 PM
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Where they got the name: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=3&mn=1214599039490669
/r/seduction21/01/12 01:30 AM
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realize that if you approach a girl and do not completely fuck it up she will be glad you approached
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:14 PM
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Take the outcome-independence from the assholes and leave the rest
/r/seduction19/01/12 02:28 AM
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It will be strange at first because it is not normal for you but once you have had a few positive experiences it will become normal and people will love you for taking the time to talk to them.
/r/seduction09/01/12 07:04 PM
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None of those girls have boyfriends. He is sucking because he isn't anticipating a positive response when he goes in. EDIT: he's being bold instead of confident.. see #19 http://www.seductiontuition.com/tyler-durden/25-points.html
/r/seduction09/01/12 05:06 AM
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I keep a list on evernote of people i've met so if I see them again i will know their name.
/r/seduction08/01/12 09:13 PM
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Men and women are both attracted to value. Sexual attraction is mostly caused by attraction to two types of values: social proof and positive emotions. Men are attracted to both. Women are attracted to both. Most people only know about social proof value which includes looks, money, popularity and prestige. Seduction teaches you how to create the second type of value and how to share it.
/r/seduction02/01/12 07:52 PM
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I followed the same path and can confirm that it works. Took me almost 18 months though.
/r/seduction10/12/11 03:00 AM
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Here is Tyler from RSD's take on the same topic
/r/seduction05/12/11 09:29 PM
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Freedom from outcome is important but it's also important to keep the other side in mind. Intent + Freedom from outcome Intent: Play to Win Freedom from outcome: The Keystone of Attraction
/r/seduction30/11/11 11:46 PM
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Wear a condom.
/r/seduction30/11/11 10:05 PM
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Realize that nobody notices what you are doing with your body unless its really strange.
/r/seduction28/10/11 02:43 AM
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Hot girls don't feel that hot because they get used to it. Just like rich guys don't feel that rich after a while because they get used to it.
/r/seduction25/10/11 01:46 AM
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Talk to Everyone
/r/seduction20/10/11 11:53 PM
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I was in this exact situation 12 months ago. For me it turned out that the girl just had a massive ego she needed to satisfy but actually hates guys.
/r/seduction19/10/11 10:28 PM
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Refresher on Passing Shit Tests - Agree and Amplify and WHY IT WORKS (self.seduction) , Who thinks we need a list of "dismantled shit-tests?"
/r/seduction14/10/11 12:36 PM
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Bad excuse. You always need to play to win.
/r/seduction14/10/11 12:33 PM
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You just convinced me that I made the right decision completely cutting off communication with my oneitis from my AFC days.
/r/seduction01/10/11 12:27 AM
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You continue investing time into a girl that you have already invested a lot of time in because you don't want to have wasted your investment. While at the same time your chances with other girls are much better so the rational decision is to stop investing time into your oneitis.
/r/seduction01/10/11 12:26 AM
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I prefer "you should join me" but i will try "maybe i'll let you join me".
/r/seduction01/10/11 12:13 AM
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"I hope she knows what to talk about, because I sure don't" is Tyler from RSD
/r/seduction28/09/11 12:26 AM
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This works every time. It works because it is human nature to want to stay in the emotional state that you are in. When you stop giving her attention and for example focus on checking you email she feels the drop in attention and will initiate to get your attention back.
/r/seduction28/09/11 12:09 AM
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no other guy had the balls to talk to her not-drunk.
/r/seduction27/09/11 11:12 PM
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have you seen the RSDfreetour youtube channel?
/r/seduction27/09/11 11:00 PM
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and girlschase and Tyler from RSD videos.
/r/seduction27/09/11 04:33 AM
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also called breaking rapport
/r/seduction22/09/11 11:47 PM
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You need to lower your standards of what is worth talking about. When you walk up to a girl you already have lots of value as the person initiating value so anything you say will be accepted. Statements usually work best: 'it's hot today","i like the michael kors watch","i can't believe it's already been 6 weeks since school started". The girl will respond and give you something to respond to and the conversation will expand.
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:33 AM
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This should help you.
/r/seduction21/09/11 08:02 PM
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i like it
/r/seduction20/09/11 04:15 AM
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Sit perpendicular to the girl and make a statement about anything that's on your mind or that you noticed about her. Don't ask a question - instead rephrase it as a statement.
/r/seduction18/09/11 10:45 PM
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assume attraction
/r/seduction18/09/11 10:40 PM
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look them up on facdbook if you got the last name
/r/seduction18/09/11 04:56 PM
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classic RSD video about this
/r/seduction18/09/11 12:48 AM
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If you're getting results you are doing it right.
/r/seduction17/09/11 09:36 PM
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I like the portrait picture on the 1st street bridge.
/r/seduction15/09/11 01:41 AM
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I haven't seen this covered by anyone yet. Good insight.
/r/seduction11/09/11 10:19 PM
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figure out a way to eavesdrop and then join in the conversation.
/r/seduction11/09/11 07:27 PM
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low risk approaches are always creepy. sit by her and run some game.
/r/seduction10/09/11 11:27 PM
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Experiences like this always help me become more outcome independent because I realize that this is pretty much as bad as rejections can get. Puts stuff into perspective.
/r/seduction10/09/11 06:10 PM
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I can confirm that girls planning dates is bad. Because girls usually don't try to move the interaction toward sex it won't happen as long as they are in charge.
/r/seduction10/09/11 12:41 AM
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Shit test => Agree and amplify
/r/seduction07/09/11 04:15 AM
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I say "guys" even if it's a group of all girl because that is more congruent with my personality.
/r/seduction06/09/11 02:23 AM
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I hadn't even realized I was doing this. Basically you tend to put on a mask that isn't even as cool as the real you when you don't feel entitled to a girl so that when you fail your ego can blame the mask. This is really stupid, but until you realize that you are doing it you can prevent it. Damn ego.
/r/seduction03/09/11 12:56 AM
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I find that it helps if you add a hoop for her to jump through first. Make her guess your occupation (or age or nationality) before telling her.
/r/seduction26/08/11 09:09 PM
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"Yeah I do that. I could probably get you a discount."
/r/seduction26/08/11 09:07 PM
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Charisma = strong frame control. EDIT This is definitely worth the read if you want to understand charisma: http://www.seductiontuition.com/swinggcat/demystifying-charisma.html
/r/seduction26/08/11 08:31 PM
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Chase women. Don't chase woman.
/r/seduction24/08/11 10:23 PM
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Not quite. Instead of being a dick just compliment the guy on something worth complimenting. This will still work because he will react to you while you are judging him outcome-independently.
/r/seduction22/08/11 09:50 PM
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I wrote about this recently: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ixudy/how_i_overcame_approval_seeking_to_find_a_new/
/r/seduction07/08/11 08:27 PM
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TRY: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fdmm3/whats_your_favorite_lmr_solver/ AND http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d0tfm/the_full_stop/ If that fails you keep this in mind: http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/ghj8y/a_perfect_10_has_been_talking_to_me_recently_i/
/r/seduction04/08/11 04:45 AM
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Use any opener and assume she will follow you wherever you are going. If she doesn't follow you she will have to come up with an excuse for it.
/r/seduction04/08/11 04:44 AM
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"You're cute.. Are you friendly?"
/r/seduction03/08/11 01:45 AM
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"I love sleeping with you"
/r/seduction02/08/11 01:26 AM
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You can if you isolate.
/r/seduction31/07/11 09:12 PM
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In order to be good with any woman you need to be good with all woman first. Welcome to seddit.
/r/seduction23/07/11 10:34 PM
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lots of good related videos on the side. like http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3UFqEbsgzw&feature=related
/r/seduction13/07/11 06:10 PM
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No worries 30% downvotes is usual. I like your idea. Edit: I would make .../lastnite the hompage and the homepage a link titled Galleries.
/r/seduction02/07/11 11:39 PM
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I love boyfriends!
/r/seduction02/07/11 04:40 AM
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Dress sexy.
/r/seduction30/06/11 08:25 PM
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Start by approaching easy targets. That means anyone whether an old grandma or an unattractive girl whatever is easy for you. This will build your confidence and will allow you to move on to more challenging targets like attractive girls and if you keep pushing yourself any girl. So talk to everyone and grow some balls by becoming more confident.
/r/seduction27/06/11 04:08 AM
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You have to create the perfect moment, it doesn't happen by itself. This means you need to consistently kino to see how she reacts and then isolate as soon as possible (assuming kino is positively recieved). Once isolated it is the perfect moment.
/r/seduction27/06/11 03:00 AM
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validation fling
/r/seduction25/06/11 11:12 PM
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The way to be outcome independent is to not have any expectations. It also helps to have a lot of girls in your life - even ones you don't want to sex.
/r/seduction17/06/11 08:25 PM
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It would seem that "I am no better than anyone else" would lower your self-esteem but it truly does help your self-esteem. It only hurts your ego. I also like "others thoughts only affect themselves"
/r/seduction05/06/11 06:55 PM
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You seem to be losing outcome independence when things start to get serious and this causes you to be reaction seeking. That's unattractive. Also make sure you're confidentally escalating kino all the time. That could also be your problem.
/r/seduction29/05/11 10:03 AM
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No it means you have to assume attraction until she tells you otherwise.
/r/seduction14/05/11 12:48 PM
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The car gave you confidence. Bitches love confidence.
/r/seduction05/05/11 02:49 AM
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just call when you get the number and it will be in your recent calls
/r/seduction30/04/11 04:45 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=0uaszy7do4A
/r/seduction23/04/11 03:46 PM
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And this explains why I do so great at parties.. I'm worried about having fun and being social but not worried about anyone's opinion. Plus I get strong intent and lay on the kino thick. saved.
/r/seduction21/04/11 04:34 AM
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edit:formating
/r/seduction04/04/11 06:13 PM
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you: hey i got to go but we should talk again her: blah blah you: what's your number?
/r/seduction04/04/11 05:42 PM
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he's doing overt kino when he should be doing incidental kino.
/r/seduction13/03/11 12:32 AM
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agreed so i edited the text into my comment.
/r/seduction04/03/11 09:02 PM
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source A few nights ago, I went barhopping with a friend of mine. We both talked to truck loads of women and used practically the same material on them. But by the end of the night my friend’s results were so bad he felt blessed with an unlikable self. My experience, however, was the total opposite. I felt like Satan with pitchfork in hand, inciting one girl after the next to engage in some naughty mirth. Is it because of my looks? Is it because I have some impalpable quality about me called “ch…
/r/seduction04/03/11 06:16 PM
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Give value without seeking approval.
/r/seduction03/03/11 05:46 PM
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and it reminds you that rejection is no big deal.
/r/seduction01/03/11 11:25 PM
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"Girls are attracted to.."
/r/seduction01/03/11 04:47 AM
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Abundance mentality is the attitude that no girl is a big deal because you can meet another one like her in no time. This attitude makes your time seem more scarce to the girl and puts you in the ideal position to seduce. Abundance also means that you surround yourself with girls. This second part of abundance gives you preselection and social proof.
/r/seduction01/03/11 12:00 AM
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"Confidence. Abundance. Escalation."
/r/seduction28/02/11 11:34 PM
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whoa.. epiphany.
/r/seduction28/02/11 09:25 PM
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Dissecting shit test passing measures (Tyler Durden)
/r/seduction25/02/11 06:00 PM
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Conquer Your Campus has a lot of Entourage Game techniques in it. They just call it being a "20% man".
/r/seduction25/02/11 02:11 PM
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Influence by Robert B. Cialdini
/r/seduction25/02/11 03:28 AM
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I've got something to say about giving value instead of taking value. Go on..
/r/seduction24/02/11 05:03 PM
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actually that's probably better since the other girls are less likely to flake.
/r/seduction24/02/11 04:20 AM
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Friend zoning her into your entourage would have been the best move.
/r/seduction24/02/11 03:40 AM
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f-close and repeat.
/r/seduction24/02/11 01:36 AM
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and then merge sets for social proof.
/r/seduction24/02/11 01:14 AM
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Where can I learn more Entourage Game techniques?
/r/seduction21/02/11 07:15 PM
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So a proof of the concept of ASD.
/r/seduction21/02/11 06:31 PM
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Dissecting shit test passing measures (Tyler Durden)
/r/seduction21/02/11 03:46 PM
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(6) Who's more in their head, who's not -this is the same as above but internally, things like vomiting words gets her trying to piece together the conversation. The more non sequitar, the more she is in her head trying to understand what you are saying, this is why it is so important to... I disagree. Confident men are concise. However, I do agree with 14.
/r/seduction21/02/11 03:27 PM
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And all I did was say "What can we get for free?". It worked well but does anyone have any advice on how I can improve my use of social proof to get free drinks?
/r/seduction20/02/11 05:16 AM
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Like I always say: women are attracted to men with balls.
/r/seduction18/02/11 06:16 PM
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I was where you are now less than a year ago and all I can tell you is: don't be scared to fail. Girls love guys with balls and if you fail you will learn more from it than if you spend 10 years reading seddit.
/r/seduction15/02/11 03:16 AM
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The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/seduction15/02/11 01:00 AM
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In other words: don't be outcome dependent.
/r/seduction08/02/11 06:24 PM
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Although they don't realize it girls also all use the same shit tests to test the authenticity of your confidence. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f7m42/dissecting_shit_test_passing_measures_tyler_durden/
/r/seduction07/02/11 06:33 PM
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So like in the AFC Adam video.. you'll have to make a how to post if that works out.
/r/seduction02/02/11 03:46 PM
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especially the faked preselection with the 3 intersting things girl and the are you spontaneous venue change line.
/r/seduction31/01/11 04:33 AM
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The guy had been talking to the girls for two hours and made real no progress. He wasn't going to get anywhere with them.
/r/seduction31/01/11 03:14 AM
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not too bad but it is a tad reactive if not delivered correctly.
/r/seduction28/01/11 11:18 PM
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Arrogance is unattractive because it's bragging and bragging is unattractive because it implies that you are low value but trying to compensate and that you are seeking approval. Confidence however shows that you are high value and don't have to do anything to be approved.
/r/seduction27/01/11 06:55 PM
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demonstrates social competence and confidence.
/r/seduction27/01/11 06:19 PM
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Open high energy and easy sets to warm up. Those successes will give you the confidence and social proof you need to be in state.
/r/seduction27/01/11 03:34 AM
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confidence is sexy.
/r/seduction23/01/11 10:37 PM
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OP should link to this at the top of the story text.
/r/seduction23/01/11 12:42 AM
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smooth.
/r/seduction21/01/11 11:26 PM
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this is the correct answer.
/r/seduction13/01/11 11:54 PM
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This is why I love seddit. Articles like this break down mystical phenomenon like charisma into understandable techniques that you can be learned with infield practice.
/r/seduction11/01/11 12:47 AM
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I feel ya. I just submitted a new post inspired by this.
/r/seduction10/01/11 07:16 AM
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I got it. I was trying to come up with a solution IF it did happen because something similar is bound to happen to one of us.
/r/seduction10/01/11 07:10 AM
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Why did you make out with the cock block?
/r/seduction10/01/11 07:07 AM
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That's pretty bad. If this happened to me I would assume that the girl is just trying to make me jealous. So the best move would be to not get jealous and instead make rapport with her friends while completely disregarding her side conversation.
/r/seduction10/01/11 06:40 AM
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Fix the number and call.
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:27 PM
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This is me a year ago. It lasted 5 days.
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:23 PM
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call her to setup a day 2 and http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e7ffa/dont_friend_girls_youre_interested_in/
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:19 PM
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Related: when you arrive at a house party start with the highest energy and most fun sets to build up your momentum.
/r/seduction08/01/11 10:15 PM
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He's a little bit more direct than I am on a cold approach, but he gives a good justification for flirting: flirting is a way to gradually increase sexual pressure to force some IOI.
/r/seduction08/01/11 06:17 PM
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agreed. it's a shit test.
/r/seduction07/01/11 11:11 PM
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“I feel funny bringing this up, but I realized we never actually talked about this. Are we supposed to be seeing other people?”
/r/seduction07/01/11 11:10 PM
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The Highball also has private karaoke rooms that have isolation potential..
/r/seduction07/01/11 11:08 PM
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35
/r/seduction06/01/11 09:23 PM
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Hoffbrau Haus in Munich?
/r/seduction06/01/11 12:28 AM
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I've noticed that not being outcome dependent helped my game out a lot. This article is the inner game equivalent of not being outcome dependent in your outer game.
/r/seduction06/01/11 12:27 AM
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masturbation.
/r/seduction06/01/11 12:25 AM
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You don't make one big more. You make microescalations as detailed in the DiCarlo Escalation ladder.
/r/seduction04/01/11 07:13 AM
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"Talk to everyone" has been the best advice seddit has given me and makes me the life of most parties I go to. But I can't get over AA in situations outside of parties and other social meetings because I don't have an excuse to take a strangers time. I know that false time constraints help but do you know any other advice/books about talking to everyone?
/r/seduction03/01/11 11:15 PM
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That's why you gotta Talk to Everybody you meet. I'm working on a post right now that explains how to party with seduction in mind based on my recent experiences with seduction at parties. And my definition of a club is a dance club and a bar is like a cafe where alcohol is served.
/r/seduction02/01/11 08:20 AM
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I've never had success at clubs. I much prefer house parties and bars.
/r/seduction02/01/11 07:04 AM
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You need to work on inner game and be less outcome dependent. Once you don't care about the outcome of sets you'll be free to have fun and be the life of the party like TofuTofu does which will make a K-close inevitable.
/r/seduction02/01/11 06:46 AM
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I look forward to it.
/r/seduction16/12/10 11:59 PM
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I'd love for you to do a post with tips and techniques for "talking to everyone" like you did for "How I go from number to first date".
/r/seduction16/12/10 06:22 AM
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Don't Compromise.
/r/seduction14/12/10 11:43 PM
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Does you knowledge about sex just come from experience or is there any reading material that you can recommend?
/r/seduction11/12/10 02:04 PM
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DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/seduction09/12/10 05:49 PM
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That's undeniably true which is why finding a girl that does understand what actually happens rare. Rare enough, in fact, that I thought it was worth linking to.
/r/seduction08/12/10 11:30 PM
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I agree with you cheddarchexmix, but doesn't this girl's idea of good pickup agree with our techniques? She only complains about bad PU.
/r/seduction08/12/10 11:01 PM
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TofuTofu and Reseddit live in Tokyo and they are doing great over there.
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:52 PM
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Just downvote them.
/r/seduction07/12/10 05:34 PM
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I still sometimes have similar problems when I care too much about succeeding with a girl. Outcome dependence causes you to not take risks and makes you worry, ruining your game. So try caring less about individual successes and up the number of approaches. It doesn't matter how many times you get rejected, it only matters how many times you don't get rejected.
/r/seduction07/12/10 03:43 AM
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A bird in the hand is worth more than two birds in the bush. And sleeping with other girls never ruins your chances with HB 9-10s.
/r/seduction04/12/10 10:18 PM
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http://www.google.com/search?q=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.gunwitch.com%2F&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a#sclient=psy&hl=en&client=firefox-a&hs=f5w&rls=org.mozilla:en-US%3Aofficial&source=hp&q=site:http%3A%2F%2Fwww.gunwitch.com%2F&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=&pbx=1&fp=7b9141da4f416ce8 click on "cached" and then save the text from each page.
/r/seduction04/12/10 05:56 PM
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Great Idea! This opener fits my personality perfectly, so I will definitely be using it tonight.
/r/seduction02/12/10 11:29 PM
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it's in here http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/
/r/seduction01/12/10 04:30 AM
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"I like boyfriends!"
/r/seduction01/12/10 02:58 AM
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For I-Statements you just throw out something about yourself like "Today has been a good day" rather than asking "How has your day been?". I-Statements are better because they are easy to reject and show some commitment if accepted. Don't know what the vacuum is..
/r/seduction30/11/10 04:49 PM
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He's trying to say that you need to disqualify yourself.
/r/seduction29/11/10 04:05 AM
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I'm in the same situation with a girl right now except only one room mate.
/r/seduction29/11/10 03:40 AM
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NO NO NO. Ultimatums do not work with women!
/r/seduction19/11/10 02:49 PM
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Solution: The Full Stop
/r/seduction02/11/10 07:18 PM
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second one should be easy to get out of though, right?
/r/seduction20/10/10 05:00 PM
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Always assume that she wants you. Unless you have much better chances with someone else in her immediate social circles the worst thing that can happen is that you become a rebound boy. But that's still better than nothing. Listen to Nike: Just do it.
/r/seduction19/10/10 09:59 PM
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You gotta push and pull. "You can cook!? I love a girl who can cook.. Too bad that you're not my type."
/r/seduction19/10/10 09:12 PM
0

"i've missed you" hug
/r/seduction11/10/10 11:45 PM
1

Go for it! You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. If worst comes to worst you still learned something from the experience. And do a FR! EDIT: only way you'll get hurt is if you become to infatuated with her.
/r/seduction11/10/10 12:24 PM
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You either don't have enough comfort or you set off her ASD. Another possibility is that the girl decided she wanted to make out with you at the beginning and so there's actually no emotional attraction.
/r/seduction07/10/10 04:03 PM
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terrible negs because they are insulting
/r/seduction05/10/10 07:40 PM
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You can find the answer in Conquer Your Campus or in the Magic Bullets Social Circle Chapter
/r/seduction05/10/10 12:10 PM
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You can't win them all but buying drinks is a major IOI so you were doing good. Just too much push at the end.
/r/seduction04/10/10 10:13 PM
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AFCs lie about what they really want and are pushovers. You're neither in this situation so all is good.
/r/seduction04/10/10 09:58 PM
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This is very beta. It's just a fancy ultimatum.
/r/seduction01/10/10 06:04 PM
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if it's working then you're doing it right.
/r/seduction30/09/10 10:04 PM
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No, his WW should give him tons of IOI - thus they don't look forced.
/r/seduction30/09/10 12:15 PM
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She needs to give you lots of IOI and you need to not be impressed by them. That should work.
/r/seduction30/09/10 01:30 AM
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He's just doing the full stop. It works.
/r/seduction30/09/10 12:15 AM
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In this particular situation i'm actually going to LJBF her because she has a lot of social proof and she's fun to hang out with. But i'm still interested in what you would do if you wanted a LTR.
/r/seduction30/09/10 12:01 AM
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Let me rephrase my question: How do I continue challenging a high value girl, who has already shown interest but is also interested in other guys, when an f-close isn't possible because of logistics.
/r/seduction29/09/10 09:55 PM
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But it's pretty tough to go back and try to demonstrate to her that she needs to win your interest once you've already shown that interest. This is exactly what I'm attempting.
/r/seduction29/09/10 06:46 PM
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In this situation we already have rapport but aren't going to be in situations that will allow kino (because of ASD). And so I want to make her qualify herself to me to demonstrate higher value. What are some tactics I can use to make her tend toward qualifying herself?
/r/seduction29/09/10 06:45 PM
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And if you aren't sure how to take it from there just follow DiCarlo's http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf
/r/seduction26/09/10 02:17 PM
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You're right, investment is the most effective way to stop flaking. That's the reason qualifying is so important at the beginning. You should do a full post on sexual flirting - it would be really useful for a lot of guys.
/r/seduction25/09/10 02:55 AM
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The first step is the hardest. Good work.
/r/seduction25/09/10 02:49 AM
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You basically make a girl to beg you to fuck her before you do it. I like >to tease girls and build it up slowly until they can barely contain >themselves. Ways to do this: kiss her passionately and stop suddenly >on a whim, push her gently to the wall and go in for a kiss and stop on >a whim, accidentally brush her sensitive areas. I loved you're last two posts! If you're looking to do another post I'd like to hear more about the tactics that you use to tease and build up sexual tension.
/r/seduction24/09/10 07:06 PM
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not funny.
/r/seduction23/09/10 08:19 PM
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First don't let anything she does impress you. Then make sure you do something fun. Then if you get some solid IOI escalate the sexual tension with some kino. Once you're isolated in a sex location escalate all the way using the DEL. When to kiss is the biggest question. And the answer is to tease her about the kiss (not directly) but not to actually kiss until you are at the sex location because a premature kiss will kill your momentum.
/r/seduction20/09/10 01:47 AM
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That's the central reason why it works. Most attractive girls are used to being hit on and so they block out any compliments from guys that don't immediately seem higher value. However if you neg you are disqualifying yourself from being a potential suitor and so the girl doesn't feel that your compliments are biased.
/r/seduction18/09/10 04:03 AM
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That's where the negs come in. You say something that a guy trying to pick up a girl would never say and so the things you say after that won't seem like attempts at hitting on her.
/r/seduction18/09/10 12:00 AM
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POST IT.
/r/seduction17/09/10 03:14 AM
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http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf
/r/seduction16/09/10 09:00 PM
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Technically DEL says that you can kiss but that it doesn't help you unless you are in a sex location. So even DiCarlo says it's flexible.
/r/seduction16/09/10 08:25 PM
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You've got the DHV down. And if you arrive early try securing some social proof by getting into a conversation with someone working there or another customer. Overall though it seems that this relationship is heading in the right direction.
/r/seduction16/09/10 07:15 PM
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It's not that high risk. As long as you don't smell you can pull this off without getting in trouble. Your first impression though will determine her flake-ability.
/r/seduction16/09/10 07:08 PM
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You have to emotionally engage them and make them want you. Read up and go.
/r/seduction16/09/10 05:01 AM
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If it's worth finishing then I will finish it!
/r/seduction16/09/10 04:26 AM
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That worked because it's a high risk opener that showed you that he's confident. And you're not very good at hiding your interest.
/r/seduction16/09/10 04:11 AM
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Is the last fifth of the book worth reading because i'm at 80% but it looks like the rest it is just soapy drama. And I recommend Magic Bullets.
/r/seduction16/09/10 01:21 AM
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I like all of your recent comments ArMcK. Good job! and don't stop.
/r/seduction16/09/10 01:18 AM
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ok so just handle these like any other shit test: pass by not taking it.
/r/seduction15/09/10 05:20 PM
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I guess that's why you like me.
/r/seduction14/09/10 05:37 PM
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qualifying = justifying that you're good enough
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:31 AM
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You've got attraction and some comfort. You just need to make her qualify herself a little so she knows that she had to win you over.
/r/seduction13/09/10 11:28 AM
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f-close = success
/r/seduction13/09/10 12:06 AM
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IKEA has a really good one for ~$70
/r/seduction12/09/10 03:14 PM
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Her: hey whats up? Me: not much you? Her: same Me: So you're copying me? Her: Great minds think alike Me: I'm thinking that you want to hang out after I get back from class..
/r/seduction12/09/10 03:47 AM
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You could have been train guy!
/r/seduction12/09/10 02:39 AM
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1)tell her what you did today. 2)make it entertaining 3) Raise the emotional energy/ tease her a bit If that doesn't work she isn't interested.
/r/seduction12/09/10 02:34 AM
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If you play it right she'll wonder why you didn't kiss her (did she do something wrong?) and increase the overall sexual tension.
/r/seduction11/09/10 05:34 PM
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The last part about DHV is spot on.
/r/seduction11/09/10 02:06 PM
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DHV about why you're here. You have a good excuse to be bragging a little bit.
/r/seduction11/09/10 01:17 PM
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That will only happen if she gets disinterested or because her friends force her. If you think the second will happen then ending it yourself is a DHV but if you're getting IOIs go for the kino!
/r/seduction09/09/10 01:34 AM
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Sounds reasonable. Once you separate though you need to make yourself memorable. The best way to do this is be cocky funny. And to insure that she doesn't take your attention for granted you need to push and pull. If time permits escalate the kino, but most importantly don't number close to quick or else she will forget you.
/r/seduction08/09/10 11:58 PM
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This seems like a good idea. But is that just my old beta-side talking? Thoughts?
/r/seduction02/09/10 11:58 PM
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You just approach them as if they are there for your entertainment. You are interested in talking to them but not more interested in any particular girl than the other girls on your mind.
/r/seduction08/08/10 09:44 PM
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related
/r/seduction08/08/10 08:26 PM
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When i realized I was doing all the right things just failing shit tests and losing girls with my approval seeking and fear of rejection.
/r/seduction08/08/10 04:34 AM
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Just check the top links on seddit
/r/seduction06/08/10 04:28 AM
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My favorite thing about a watch is that girls can pick you up by complementing you on your watch.
/r/seduction05/08/10 06:34 PM
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Thanks for the link to the escalation ladder. Hadn't read that yet.
/r/seduction05/08/10 02:30 AM
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If I said this it would seem like I'm scared of being rejected. But I could see other guys pulling it off sucessfully.
/r/seduction05/08/10 01:28 AM
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Wouldn't this be approval seeking?
/r/seduction04/08/10 08:21 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction04/08/10 02:36 PM
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I'm interested in seeing the FR!
/r/seduction04/08/10 02:36 PM
1

What is A1 and A2?
/r/seduction04/08/10 01:13 AM
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I'm in the same position as you. I'm gonna listen to Ianapua_yet's advice.
/r/seduction04/08/10 01:12 AM
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Be confident, not needy. And if you get IOI escalate the kino. That's all I've been doing and it works great.
/r/seduction23/07/10 05:09 AM
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Very good. You can tell that she was attracted to your confidence.
/r/seduction22/07/10 04:17 AM
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Attention, whores. Lol
/r/seduction21/07/10 11:46 PM
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This should be the official Getting Started Guide for seddit. Props to you.
/r/seduction19/07/10 04:36 AM
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This is what I was looking for. Thanks.
/r/seduction19/07/10 12:32 AM
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You have to make it so that girls have to qualify themselves to you. Not the other way around.
/r/seduction14/07/10 04:10 AM
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Thank you sir. This is really helpful.
/r/seduction01/07/10 06:39 PM
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"hmm 6 years older than me? Okay I can work with that." let her reply then ask her out on a fun date - something immature to show her that you really believe that there's no problem. Also 26/2 + 7 = 20. That's the rule
/r/seduction30/06/10 05:15 AM
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I like your answer the best, as usual.
/r/seduction29/06/10 05:17 AM
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