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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction17/06/12 01:56 AM
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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction13/05/12 07:38 PM
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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction03/04/12 12:47 PM
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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction11/10/12 11:33 PM
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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction01/04/12 05:45 PM
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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction29/04/12 01:42 PM
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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction13/04/12 10:59 PM
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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction30/06/12 01:49 AM
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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction21/05/12 11:42 PM
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IAmTheOmNom/r/seduction23/04/12 10:08 PM
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Wow now I feel awesome that I once made that work. I had a reasons for that: - It was already planned, so she basically only tagged along. - I have a thing going where I go watch 3 Movies in a row (and kinda only pay once) so that there is lots of time for interaction in between and it has a little kick. Still I can imagine a 1000 things why a first date like this is a bad idea.
/r/seduction12/10/15 06:11 PM
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Oh god I cringe so hard when I think about my texting attempts. It is really hard for me, as I also don't text with my friends or my girlfriend, other than arranging stuff.
/r/seduction05/03/13 10:24 AM
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I have to disagree on how unchangeable this post sounds. In real life everything can happen at anytime. There is no real friend-zone. And to give myself some credibility: tldr; Got better at seduction, got double un-friend-zoned, got the girlfriend (best ladyfriend of some years).
/r/seduction26/12/12 03:03 AM
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Um.. so you tell me that there is obviously nothing wrong with you but people still tell you that there is something wrong with you? I can't really evaluate where your exact problem is, since I don't know you, but I guess it's not your looks. Also depending on your previous social skills 6 month might not be close to enough. If you are a completely social awkward nerd who can count the amount of his interactions with girls on one hand. You should rather think in years than in month. Also girls s…
/r/seduction21/12/12 11:47 AM
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Thanks. That last part is exactly what is wrong with a great part of seduction. People get skills but they still miss what is really important.
/r/seduction21/12/12 11:34 AM
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fixed
/r/seduction29/10/12 03:51 PM
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Well. they can be negative if they want to. That doesn't hold me back if it happens I just go separate. But I won't lose them as friends because of that. There are other areas where we get along great hand have loads of fun. And when it so happens that they want some guidance on this stuff here, I'll be happy to help.
/r/seduction29/10/12 02:22 PM
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The most overlooked aspect of this whole thing, and easily one of the most important for a growing player. Don't keep negative company. Cut them out of your life immediately. Pick up people who are positive, well liked, and happy. Win these people over in EVERY aspect of your life. If you're surrounded by good looking, rising, happy, people, you're doing a lot of things right. Fuck you! I'm going to have the friends I want while I have the life that I want. They're not dragging me down. I'm drag…
/r/seduction29/10/12 09:53 AM
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Social Proof can turn you into a God. Doesn't just work like in your example. You can basically do this in almost any situation. My personal favorite is in the club. I'm just talking briefly to everyone, which has an immense effect on the people around. One time I ended up being surrounded by a group of about 20 girls, all wanting to talk to me.
/r/seduction25/10/12 10:14 PM
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I can confirm that half of those had the opposite effect. Worked like a lid on a pressure cooker waiting to explode. o.O
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:03 PM
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hot and cute Pretty much what I got beforehand. Now I get masculine too. I do like 5 minute workouts at home every day. I think it is quite possible to cut that kind of time away from surfing reddit. Took me 2 weeks to get first well visible results. Also it feels awesome to have that extra strength, carry a girl around? Chopping some wood? heavy lifting? no problem.
/r/seduction20/10/12 12:39 AM
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But not in here? I checked.
/r/seduction13/10/12 04:12 PM
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I'd rather think you used a standard PUA line and set off all of her alarm bells. I don't even see where this would be funny in any way in this context.
/r/seduction29/09/12 12:35 PM
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Sounds like you are going about it pretty much the same amount of time as I am and you are better than I am. Congratulations.
/r/seduction21/09/12 12:26 PM
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Somehow I would like it more if the friend-zone really did exist and was inescapable. It would make my life easier.
/r/seduction21/09/12 12:19 PM
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I would, if that fucking parcel finally arrived! Take your time! [...] Wake up earlier. WTF?! You are not my mom. I can sleep as long as I want! TL;DR I did get nothing out of this article.
/r/seduction21/09/12 12:12 PM
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"I'm a free spirit, hard to catch." - I think I have that one from some movie.
/r/seduction21/09/12 12:08 PM
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Go over your name fast. So she'll likely not remember your name. Then tease her for not remembering or use it as defense hen you forgot her name. Happened a few times to me. really practical.
/r/seduction21/09/12 12:06 PM
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one syllable at a time Would be great for my name since it's really complicated and only one syllable.
/r/seduction21/09/12 11:58 AM
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Well actually this would be even better if only one still went for the blonde.
/r/seduction12/09/12 11:54 AM
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Confident body language may be more important to attractiveness than anything else, but it's easier to feel like the shit if you don't look like shit. This, and a thousand times this. You don't need to look good, but it definitely helps. It changes your self image in a positive way. If your self image doesn't match what you look like, you are gonna have a bad time.
/r/seduction12/09/12 11:36 AM
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3) LAUGHING AT YOUR OWN JOKES I've noticed that many time I do the exact opposite. I only start laughing at my own jokes after someone else started laughing about them. I have the suspicion that I do this because I fear, that my jokes might not be funny and if nobody laughs I can act as I didn't find it that funny either and can just move on. 7) MOVING YOUR HANDS AROUND WHILE YOU TALK Had this one night where every girl I talked to walked into my gesticulation and hit herself. Really weird night…
/r/seduction07/09/12 12:05 AM
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You act like leading comes on it's own as a byproduct of something else. Which is untrue. Leadership needs to be learned and you need to put your head out and take the lead ... and probably, at first, the fall afterwards, to learn how it is done. Though you are right copying mannerisms is not the way to go.
/r/seduction07/09/12 12:01 AM
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Nahhh, don't you love it when she is standing on her toes just to tell you something? I certainly do, but I also don't want to be an asshole.
/r/seduction06/09/12 11:58 PM
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Just one thing. On the phone the equivalent of a direct contact staring contest is a silence contest. If a hard question arises, don't be the first to talk. I've had this in many business or law related calls and the one to talk first always starts to reveal all the vital information first. Which in turn gives the other one the strategic advantage because he doesn't have to reveal any of his side.
/r/seduction06/09/12 11:55 PM
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I always go Mooooo.
/r/seduction06/09/12 11:49 PM
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They have no problem switching to low-status/non-dominant behavior when it fits the circumstances. Actually you are not switching to low-status/non-dominant behavior ... or at least you mustn't. It is way more effective to know the strengths of your comrades and select the best one for each situation to lead. The thing that I found most helping for gaining leadership is having a clear opinion and rapidly making decisions. Most of the time this will directly lead to people following you, because …
/r/seduction06/09/12 11:46 PM
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Damn, I have that planned since some time. I need to finally do it.
/r/seduction06/09/12 01:07 AM
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Ok. I do Number: 1, 5, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 15. nice how I got all those middle things in a row, because they are all connected and that is exactly where I lack. Usually, when I go to a club or bar, where you can dance, I immediately start having fun there, easily make nonverbal and, after getting into it, also verbal connections with people. Hell I even get approached by the girls! And then, then I feel like I have no idea where to go from there. Usually a short conversation or a little bit of da…
/r/seduction06/09/12 01:07 AM
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That's what I was thinking.
/r/seduction05/09/12 03:38 PM
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Haha. When I read that I thought, my whole life is an only PUA vacation. One year here, one month there, another 2 weeks over there. But really the best is home. I only realized this now, after one year away, but I have an unbelievable strong social net here. I'm the leader of my group of friends, we are constantly pulling new people in and we always have interesting activities and plans going. And most people in the area are so secluded and only accustomed to people being negative, that being a…
/r/seduction09/08/12 02:24 AM
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Be happy about it. it's just warping your mind and having almost the same things in multitudes of different situations with completely different names and you need to remember all of them correctly. The problem on this one wasn't even calculating, it was just knowing in which weird space you are floating right now.
/r/seduction08/08/12 10:24 AM
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Those are just all the skills you need to seduce .....
/r/seduction08/08/12 10:19 AM
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No one wants to purposely freak out a woman (well, most don’t). Stop looking at me!
/r/seduction07/08/12 10:39 PM
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Since I'm in Germany ... I'd guess she is 16.
/r/seduction03/08/12 01:19 PM
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So happy I read that.
/r/seduction03/08/12 01:14 PM
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I say "Ok I'll share a drink with you" If it turns out I don't like her for whatever reason, say she only wanted a free drink, I'll just take my drink say goodbye and leave. If I really don't want to have a drink with her I just reply: "Why?" They usually don't have an answer and get really angry. Note: The girls I say this too are usually the ones I already suspect to be only fishing for free stuff.
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:22 AM
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Hehe did that one last week.
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:19 AM
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For me overcoming my fears is actually 95% of my whole game. I always get as far as I can overcome my fears. When I once managed to turn off all my fears, I and the girl landed inside some bars bathroom after a few minutes.
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:31 AM
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Because she is contemplating why nothing happened till now and searching for reasons not to get with you.
/r/seduction15/07/12 07:33 PM
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Sure. you can't know how he will react if you just got to know him that night.
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:56 PM
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Really? I always thougt it was only the guys that had a problem with that.
/r/seduction14/07/12 02:11 PM
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This resonates pretty good with this TED talk.
/r/seduction14/07/12 12:23 PM
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Whereby tony stark is the less ridiculous choice.
/r/seduction13/07/12 03:10 PM
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why do you buy Teriyaki sauce? it's incredibly esy to make. When you buy the rice, you'll probably already have enough to feed yourself for the next week from nothing else. Also be smart and buy the biggest package you can find since they usually have the best price/quantity ratio. And rice doesn't go bad Veggies are tricky. Usually it's smarter to find a small greengrocery. In my city I've found out that basically the whole city (over 3 million inhabitants) is delivered with the same chunks of …
/r/seduction12/07/12 01:09 AM
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Rich girls are hot because their moms are hot. Already made my day. Still the article is horrible seduction wise. The article tells you how to become her puppy dog. But what you (usually) want to be is the prodigy that rocks her world.
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:34 AM
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Yeah like: 5 Kilos of Onions? Sure, no problem. 15Kilos of potatoes? Go for it.
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:33 AM
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You should try my meatballs or my prize winning saltimbocca with glazed carrots even my potatoes are spectacular. notice that the two main dishes also could be sexual references. o.O
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:19 AM
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Sure cooking is cheaper! I'm living in western Europe and managed to feed myself good with 10€ a week. Because I cooked. It's not like I couldn't have cut that down even deeper. I agree on the not faster part though. Just pop a pizza in the oven wait 30 minutes and done. This is entirely different when cooking. Not to mention microwaving food.
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:11 AM
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Tell that to my grandpa. He just needs to touch a pot and somehow manages to break everything. He is a pro at eating though.
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:09 AM
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o.O Really? Isn't that taking all the PUA stuff a little bit to far? Can't you just take a normal cooking course like everyone else?!
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:06 AM
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Impossible. I remember that time where I talked to some girls and my girlfriend back then was completely sure they were hitting on me and I shouldn't talk to them anymore. I tried explaining that, even if they were hitting on me, nothing would happen as long as I didn't want it to. Impossible.
/r/seduction11/07/12 08:55 PM
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Nah that wasn't to far. That would still be in the realm what guys can to to each other too so she shouldn't be offended as it obviously wasn't explicitly sexual.
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:54 PM
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None of them has ever liked it. Sure. It puts her in a position where she has to prove her worth to you and not the other way round, which is way more comfortable.
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:47 PM
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Which he did.
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:45 PM
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If the situation permits it I will quickly organize some cigarettes. Usually only takes turning your head and asking the next guy if he has a cigarette for the lovely lady. And obviously for me, since I've put in all the effort. ;) Otherwise it would be a cool idea to have gum cigarettes on you.
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:44 PM
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You should do what you want when you want. If having sex with different patners starts to feel empty, then you probably should try something different. Instead of going out and meeting people, like usually, the last week I just stayed at home didn't do anything and pushed all my duties away from me. Why? Because it liked it and really didn't want to do anything else. Sooo just go figure out what you actually want at this point and then do it.
/r/seduction10/07/12 04:56 AM
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Oh it's actually quite easy. I usually have some light kino established before and she is generally comfortable around me. And then you can get it in the the conversation like: "Gosh! I'm so tired." * headbump* Or "I have to tell you something" * headstouch* "There's no beer left." * untouch* ... it relies somehow on the motion of "putting heads together", which basically is seen nonsexually, which is why the barrier to do it is quite low, but it establishes a secret interaction between you and …
/r/seduction09/07/12 03:56 PM
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... I know I should. For me this is more about anxieties than anything else. Hm ... does "close your eyes" really work for you? I'd imagine it going horrible for me. How do you time that?
/r/seduction09/07/12 03:33 PM
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Yeah. One time a girl wanted to tell me something and by accident she banged her head against mine (it hurt). After that I just repeated it in a pleasant fashion and the effect was amazing, I was at the verge of a K-close within 1 minute after opening.
/r/seduction09/07/12 03:30 PM
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My personally preferred compliance test is just touching (lightly bumping) foreheads. It's great since it's unusual so there is no social convention to it, it's unambiguous to her, but could be interpreted as something friendly from other people. If she is fine with that she will also be fine with a k-close in a few. ... before which I get cold feet and don't do it, but oh well that's how far I dare to go right now. I'm working on it.
/r/seduction09/07/12 04:29 AM
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By being non reactive. A beta searches for the girls reaction and gets bummed out, even cranky if not everything goes his way. If she doesn't comply just be fine with it, take a step back and go on with whatever you were doing before. Then try again later.
/r/seduction09/07/12 04:20 AM
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That is the typic direct approach. And since I've tried it, I can tell you that it is not creepy at all.
/r/seduction09/07/12 04:15 AM
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I generally just go for the little finger. but yeah basically.....
/r/seduction08/07/12 11:38 PM
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Why do you care about someones age in the first place? ... As long as it's legal at least.
/r/seduction08/07/12 11:34 PM
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That is just plain approach anxiety. Everything before that is not actually approaching.
/r/seduction07/07/12 08:28 AM
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o.O why would you want someone to see your car? Are they important in your life? If someone would actually pull up to me to show off his nice car. I would pity him I would pity him for his sad life. While sitting in my mothers compact car. What is really important in your life? They or you? You are the ONLY important thing in your life! I think what you are missing is a god complex. And I don't mean that as a joke. The other people are just ants crawling around you. You are nice to them because …
/r/seduction07/07/12 06:36 AM
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Fake it until you make it. They can't tell the difference. They really can't. I never believed this when people told me, but now I've lived it. I've only used that one for fun, because I don't like faking anything about me, so I've invented random facts about things and told them to people with a straight face ... had like 10 minutes conversations about this stuff and every time I was trying to figure out if they got it or if they really believed me ... till now they believed me every single tim…
/r/seduction07/07/12 05:01 AM
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Hahahaha yeah that happens to me all the time too. It will be fun when I'm back in my hometown with my new approaching skills. I imagine me talking with some girl and every few minutes a girl friend runs up to me, wanting to be protected. Huge DHV.
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:37 AM
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And how can you be charming if you are dancing near to a girl, staring at her to see if she looks at you and then smiles? That was pretty much your advice.... I do get where you are coming from. But what in your head went this way .... went a lot different in the guys head. I have a friend with which I go out often. And she usually flirts with a lot of guys. When it happens I usually saw the guy approaching and after some moments I look again and they are practically making out. I wasn't so good…
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:29 AM
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Hat es weh getan? ....
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:14 AM
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... Where were you? France, Spain, Italy? This is all sooo relative and the cultures are so incredibly different in that tiny spot called Europe.
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:07 AM
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Nah. You just need to pick the right infos from it .... although it's pretty obvious. Girls don't like to be grinded from behind. (at least on surprise) Average german guys go way to slow.
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:04 AM
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But obviously it satisfies womens fantasies.
/r/seduction06/07/12 12:38 AM
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OP does X, I want to know why If someone was asking something like this about my FRs I would be totally happy and would probably send a reply back in the length of the original FR.
/r/seduction05/07/12 11:38 PM
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Damn, I'm starting to think I'm going to have to read this book. :/
/r/seduction05/07/12 11:35 PM
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Noooo! I did it. Didn't like it. Started behaving partially like an ass to her. Not good. I don't like friendzoning. I like being friends though.
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:01 PM
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What I do is: I make myself rules and hold them for a while. And then some day I break em intentionally. Like don't drink. Only go to bars. Never ever visit this stablishment again. Meditate every evening. Only talk to guys for one day ... It really doesn't make much sense but it somehow works for me. Also it makes my lifestyle ever changing since I set myself up for some stuff all the time and then contradict it by doing the exact opposite.
/r/seduction01/07/12 03:58 AM
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every night for a month .... damn every night in a week made me stop drinking. (well for the most part at least)
/r/seduction01/07/12 03:53 AM
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Computer science! "Let us go to your place and I'll fix your hardware." o.O Damn this could actually work.
/r/seduction01/07/12 03:52 AM
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people aren't even sure asperger's is a real sickness. I think "not giving a fuck" is the prerequisite to learning everything beyond.
/r/seduction30/06/12 05:41 PM
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hm I've read that before. ... but I had forgotten that it was this good.
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:00 PM
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Just googled Washington Square. Looks like a park to me not like a square o.O. I was more thinking about something like union square. But well it really doesn't matter. Basically you can approach everywhere. You should just to try to get out of that creep, disturbing head-space. What you are doing is offering her a nice conversation to make her day more interesting. Reading can be done any time, talking to you only now. I like to either talk to girls sitting down somewhere on some stairs or hast…
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:42 AM
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Umm... how often do you go out and actually practice? To me this sounds like you just don't have your body language and voice in check.
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:23 AM
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to maybe meet a couple of interesting people and have some decent conversation and I feel like that is pretty weak. That's not weak at all. It is a nice goal to have. And practically that I how I always go out. Girls happen on the way. Btw. I never f-closed like that. so you are kinda ahead of me. ;)
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:18 AM
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Maybe you should post that on /r/askseddit.
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:00 AM
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Ask yourself this: why would she go to the park to read and not just do it at home? Also Squares are a really good place, I think way better than parks. And, if you are able to bridge the gap between tables, coffee-shops are nice.
/r/seduction30/06/12 01:58 AM
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.... Gay bars ... I honestly have problems keeping my shirt on in there ... every time after, I know how hot girls feel all the time. Because of that I don't go there anymore without a gay friend ... who will mark me as the not gay friend or a girl that promises to protect me all the time.
/r/seduction28/06/12 10:10 PM
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Well if I would have said "actually" I would have had to exclude fake democracies with non secret votes and other stuff. so "literally" is the correct word to use.
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:23 PM
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I'll judge you. Not because you search for an advanced type seddit but because you don't vote. There are literally no good reasons to not vote.
/r/seduction27/06/12 05:34 PM
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Everywhere. Seriously, the girls that go to clubs are the same that you find everywhere else.
/r/seduction27/06/12 03:30 PM
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Plays into what you say about making her come to you. I'm not into those kinds of games Heh. You've read my previous posts. Yeah it plays into that but it is not the same. I didn't ignore them nor was there any tactic behind this, it just happened because I am this generally nice and open guy. You've probably also read the one FR where I actually did intentionally ignore one girl which I wasn't into. It probably only worked because I could already see that she was interested. Girls have made a t…
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:22 AM
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here let me leave this ring with you since you like it, ill get it next time i see you. Heh yeah you would notice that. Since it seems unusual. But it conveys all the right things. Or the negging. It depends. I think one or two well thrown negs are very normal and natural .. sometimes I do it and only afterwards realize that this was basically a neg. Whereas on the other hand when someone is starting something like a negging war or uses some of the well known lines "you can dress her up but you …
/r/seduction26/06/12 10:00 PM
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I didn't see the original post. so from the comments I figured it was something like: "Oh 18? I'm sorry, you are to old for me." And that can totaly be used in a playful negging way.
/r/seduction26/06/12 04:52 PM
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That's a neg in real life. And it can work if performed correctly.
/r/seduction26/06/12 01:44 PM
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Nah I think in a direct approach that can work. You already put your cards on the table, no need to play games from your side, so just get what you want and get out of there. If she still feels the need to test you, you jump through those hoops. When I approached my last LTR I just said "Hey, can you give me your number?" and scene.
/r/seduction26/06/12 01:41 PM
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Oh wow, I thought you were 35 or something, FTFY BTW, most girls I know look for older guys. So what I've seen 18 and 23 is still in the range of smaller differences.
/r/seduction26/06/12 01:33 PM
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If there is a PUA that runs natural game .... would that education about them help you? I'd guess no, but I want to hear your opinion.
/r/seduction26/06/12 01:32 PM
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Definitely. I've been trying to improve myself for the last 9 years in various ways. And only when I naturally started to open sets ... it was that I discovered this community. Or else, before I had known of it but never considered it any good because of all the canned openers and stuff that were predominant some years ago. So for me it seems like me and this community have come together in the exact right point of time.
/r/seduction25/06/12 10:48 PM
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... I tend to do social proof, DHV and other related stuff somehow automatically when I get to the point where my personal progress permits it. Also I think it's fun playing with those concepts. Which sometimes makes me come of as really weird. ... But that's fine, since I'm having fun and learning a shit-load about human interaction.
/r/seduction25/06/12 08:00 PM
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Probably should stop walking round half naked.....
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:57 AM
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Well she certainly was interested when I reciprocated the kino at first. I don't think she just wanted to play games. she wanted to take a guy home.
/r/seduction25/06/12 05:37 AM
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Yes. (well obviously only if it's true)
/r/seduction24/06/12 02:34 AM
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Yeah. that people ask if I'm alone happens to me all the time too. I don't even spend much thought on the question anymore.
/r/seduction23/06/12 05:09 PM
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What will make things better is being happy with yourself enough to give yourself permission to go find a lady, and that if one doesn't come around, at least you are happy with yourself. Pretty much sums up what this subreddit is teaching.
/r/seduction23/06/12 02:32 PM
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Those interactions were basically not bad at all. I suspect that your worst problem was that you didn't feel right about yourself. And projected that in your interactions. I mean, what was that about running to the toilet? After the third time people probably started to notice that weird guy that runs to the toilet all the time. Just relax and learn to be comfortable with yourself even in daring situations.
/r/seduction23/06/12 02:13 PM
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Yeah the fun thing is that the things I have the most anxieties about are the same things in which I never got rejected. Since I realized this I know that I can achieve way more than I do if I just can overcome those stupid anxieties. One of those things for me is the K-close.
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:27 AM
4

Pfff I don't believe you. You have plenty to be confident about. You just don't see it because you take it for granted. You have all the tools you need to reach anything you want.
/r/seduction22/06/12 03:55 PM
4

You don't have to fake anything. I never fake anything. Just get confident, because you know that you are, if you are not then don't. And don't be an asshole just because you know that is not who you are. Just start to take risks, see the good things in your life, work on yourself. You don't need to become an asshole, actually this community tries hard to not be assholes. I've always ignored the "fake it till you make it" rule.
/r/seduction22/06/12 03:51 PM
2

Damn. I just came back from going out. ... I definitely had a "dirty high" .... Actually the police pulled up in front of me to see if I'm crazy or on drugs. ಠ_ಠ Edit: I think what I wanna say is: Validation makes me feel like I'm high on drugs. But you can't be high on drugs always or it won't be fun any more. When I'm back to my normal state it feels like a Zen like state. Which at the same time makes me look at the people in the night like they are crazy ... until some interactions later ... …
/r/seduction20/06/12 04:01 AM
1

How does a girl know that before she actually did sleep with you?
/r/seduction19/06/12 02:39 PM
1

Hell, even search Tumblr tags for "hot guys" Doing this actually made me feel better. People will notice, especially your regular friends - don't be worried if they're shocked or taken back, possibly even offended. It just happens because of change, people like their friends being the same I ecpected this to happen ... and for one new group of friends I had (like since a half year) it really did happen ... they were like "WTF, who are you?" Though with my long term group of friends the only thin…
/r/seduction19/06/12 02:35 PM
1

I think this will help me a lot. why is this not in the sidebar? This is like the inner game guide to escalation. not like the other stuff that tells you: first you do that, then you do that, then .......
/r/seduction19/06/12 01:44 AM
1

Well if we would do it somewhere in Europe I would probably be in for it. But part of the fun was that I didn't know anybody and went out with different people every night.
/r/seduction18/06/12 09:48 PM
1

Definitely! It's cheap. I went out with different people every night and the people in hostels are usually very nice and cool. Also it is a whole new experience in lifestyle. You should try it.
/r/seduction18/06/12 09:14 PM
11

Yeah to me he really seems like a douchebag. Not the type of man I want to be.
/r/seduction18/06/12 12:29 AM
6

Nah he should try to be who he likes to be and while he is doing that he can still try to get to know girls. If he thinks he is to fat he should start loosing weight. If he weighs 100kg and likes it he should stay like he is.
/r/seduction18/06/12 12:04 AM
1

Ummm actually it was a single example of many many girls not having a problem talking about where they are from. I dunno why your experience differs. Maybe it's the culture in your country?
/r/seduction17/06/12 11:47 PM
1

but it didn't loose me either. thats what I'm saying. I've never seen this as a very sensitive topic.
/r/seduction17/06/12 11:23 PM
2

Heh I've waited for this comment. The thing is I won't buy a girl a drink if she just wants to use me to get a drink for free. But when she uses the drink as an excuse to spend time together it is a really different story. I just say that we'll share one and if things go well we'll do. If not I can still walk off with my drink any time.
/r/seduction17/06/12 05:18 PM
1

Hahah. It's not like I have some kind of crazy routine that drops their panties when I get their ethnicity wrong. It is more like if you have a real reason to believe that someone is from somewhere specific it shows them that you not just said that they look Chinese because you think every Asian looking person is from China. For example I once met a girl and guessed that she was Australian. She answered: "No, I'm from Denmark, why did you think that?" Me: "Oh I just thought you have a fitting co…
/r/seduction17/06/12 01:29 PM
6

Yes this is a good analogy.
/r/seduction17/06/12 01:13 PM
3

Definitely. In real world there are so many possible situations that you can't be prepared for any of them. What really helps you is practice because it trains your brain to work quickly and solve the problem right in this moment. It is the same as doing sports. For myself I think I've noticed this most with remembering names. There are all those tips that tell you how to remember names, like making associations. At first none of them worked for me. But recently it started working, it is the sam…
/r/seduction17/06/12 01:08 PM
1

Just approach whenever you think you'd like to say something to someone, there is no number. Or if you are talking to ... for example a waiter, don't just say the most necessary stuff, if they don't seem too busy you can talk a little, see them as normal human beings like everyone.
/r/seduction17/06/12 05:30 AM
1

Actually the best reply here.
/r/seduction17/06/12 05:25 AM
1

but getting the question wrong will cost you points. Except you have a good reason ready as to why you thought that.
/r/seduction17/06/12 05:18 AM
1

Heh. I naturally find myself making those kinds of lists every summer.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:05 AM
2

If you need a laboratory rat. ... take me! Seriously though. Any insight is appreciated.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:00 AM
2

That is why I'm at this subreddit! I don't know .. but I kinda want to avoid the being an asshole phase. Thus I think right now I'm finding myself at a phase best described as "dancing monkey". Any tips on avoiding being an asshole?
/r/seduction08/06/12 02:55 AM
1

That's ok. The same happens to me with laughter, when I think about it.
/r/seduction04/06/12 09:44 PM
2

Definitely. And yo can get to know all these places while walking through the streets and daygaming.
/r/seduction02/06/12 09:34 PM
9

Not it is not. Take that from a computer science major. What is superior is completely dependent on the situation. Try being in a social setting and getting all logical with people. It won't work. But when you try to sense and feel the mood of someone and go with the flow. then you can have wonderful interactions with people. But when you plan your day, or go to work or whatever and you try to have a feeling decision making process, you won't succeed because your feelings tell you that you want …
/r/seduction01/06/12 12:10 PM
0

I went to one of the top 100. It was crap and nobody cared. Thank god I went away from there. If I had listened to what I people told me I wouldn't have gone to college. Even would have gotten a way worse graduation after school. In the end I surpassed all of those peoples expectations and have even seen those fall who were said to be better than me.
/r/seduction01/06/12 11:52 AM
1

Verbally? sure. Physically? Oh lord please don't let me sink so low.
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:45 AM
3

Yeah that is the right mindset! Evey small thing is a success. Back then I started this because my friends didn't want to go out with me. .... Fuck that!
/r/seduction31/05/12 09:08 PM
1

well in 365 subsequent days .. is probably hard to have one for every day. But like this it is more like: "Do something unusual every day."
/r/seduction31/05/12 04:32 PM
4

What did you do? Did you have a goal?
/r/seduction31/05/12 04:29 PM
3

Do that all the time. Works great for me. .... usually takes me the first 1-2 hours to loosen up and start having fun. How did it go for you?
/r/seduction31/05/12 04:29 PM
2

Oh yeah?! I went to San Diego to do that. ;)
/r/seduction31/05/12 04:26 PM
1

While I agree that this is a really cool thing to do and also very interesting. Most of that isn't scary at all.
/r/seduction31/05/12 04:15 PM
2

depends what new means. why? I don't see a problem with my comment.
/r/seduction30/05/12 07:11 PM
3

You shouldn't try to become like him. It is really easy and non satisfying. Try to be better than him. Also: that prototype of men probably also only gets a one night stand every half year or so.
/r/seduction30/05/12 01:02 PM
2

I hope not all of it sounded like you. that would be sad.
/r/seduction30/05/12 12:57 PM
7

Don't do it! I only skipped my workout session once in 2 months ... and that was because I slept at a girls place.
/r/seduction30/05/12 12:53 PM
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Haha I ain't even mad. I see how girls crave those guys. Women have bad taste. Fun thing is that I feel in no way inferior to those guys. I just pity the girls falling for them. One reason for that I don't feel inferior to them is that I can destroy a guy like that with 2 sentences. And If I can't .... it is because he is on the same way to improvement as I am, he just came from a different place. And we'll get along just fine.
/r/seduction30/05/12 12:39 PM
1

But is Like my study beard. And my way too small band t-shirt that says: "good day" Funnily this outfit also got me a lot of positive attention.
/r/seduction29/05/12 07:43 PM
4

I was also thinking of those "Just rape that bitch. It's what a PUA does." kind of messages ... which I not only not like but "are destructive to seddit."
/r/seduction28/05/12 11:23 PM
6

You Are Not Different or Special This catched my eye. Very true and hard to accept at first for most. I'm going to give it a read.
/r/seduction28/05/12 11:17 PM
0

Jeahhh ... sometime you need to wait till the 3dr or fourth response till you get something good. But it is usually not hard to see which ones are the good ones. I've actually gotten into a habit of quickly looking in peoples posting history to get a guess on what level they are operating.
/r/seduction28/05/12 11:09 PM
1

So that is where all those X-post from seddit threads are coming from?
/r/seduction28/05/12 11:06 PM
0

To get stuff there that is actually giving valuable lessons for everyone. AskSeddit is for when you have a question that specifically concerns you in your personal situation.
/r/seduction28/05/12 10:58 PM
0

I usually don't flag since I mostly think that downvotes suffice. But since you asked for it, I will flag the next horrible post I see on here.
/r/seduction28/05/12 10:54 PM
3

I'm on askSeddit all the time trying to give good advice as I'm not a total noob anymore.
/r/seduction28/05/12 10:52 PM
2

Everything that is "in my head" is completely under my control and I won't let anyone tell me any different. And that is why nothing of it can hurt you if you don't want to.
/r/seduction27/05/12 09:13 PM
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Spendt a saturday night in a church .... with a girl .... o.O And I am an atheist ever since I've been born
/r/seduction27/05/12 05:33 PM
6

go to the park.
/r/seduction27/05/12 05:31 PM
2

No. I have a friend who is like 2.10m and he had a GF which was just 1.60m.
/r/seduction27/05/12 11:17 AM
1

I have a friend who sometimes does the same. Letting herself being chased. Truth is, whenever she does that with a guy it is because she is not really interested in him but can't rationalize it because at the same time in her head she wants a guy. But then when the right one comes around she is up and gone and I couldn't even blink once.
/r/seduction27/05/12 11:11 AM
2

I'm sorry I dropped my pencil, could you please reach that for me? You only want to stare at my ass.
/r/seduction27/05/12 11:00 AM
1

I'd risk that any time over not doing anything at all. Also you can avoid awkwardness by just not being awkward, but natural and open. Maybe take a step back. She'll understand. And if you really fucked up and she hates you, which should happen rarely. You can still ignore her .... which would have been the outcome if you hadn't tried in the first place.
/r/seduction27/05/12 03:05 AM
2

I'm the same. I could probably share a before and a in-between story. (though the real before story would be like 8 years ago, when I started with self improvement on my own terms and experiences)
/r/seduction26/05/12 11:58 PM
1

But in theory it can work everywhere. That's what I wanted to say. Some places are more accepted for it but there is generally no distinction if you can adjust to your environment. I didn't know about the guys history though. (I'm not psychic, though I wish I was.) Also, I always thought that a guy and a girl together in the elevator was code for makeout. ...Probably watched too much Greys Anatomy though.
/r/seduction26/05/12 11:49 PM
5

You can approach women anywhere, just not on that bus, or in any other sort of closed environment. Wrong! You can approach women anywhere. Period!
/r/seduction26/05/12 09:04 PM
6

The really funny thing about this is that you, when you find yourself in a situation like this, are having the exact same brainless questions. At least I have
/r/seduction26/05/12 08:46 PM
1

... Or with your DSLR ... makes better quality than the old scanner too.
/r/seduction25/05/12 02:37 PM
2

I've failed tons of times and I've never succeeded at all. Then you just need to fail some tons of times more. Once I actually started trying I felt genuinely good about myself but it all went away once I realized that I'm not getting anywhere no matter how hard I try. That is exactly it. Why would you stop feeling good about yourself just because of that? You were happy where you were, weren't you? It doesn't matter how fast you get anywhere. You are way to outcome dependent, get rid of that! I…
/r/seduction25/05/12 01:44 PM
2

Well I just morphed Mr. Bean and Quentin Tarantino together and it doesn't look too shabby. Look here. You are just like this because you have no self esteem. You make yourself who you are. And right now look at what you are saying about yourself. ... You are not attractive, you are ugly, you are bad at sports, you are awkward, you are inexperienced. How do you think experienced people got experienced? By failing! Failing like you. But in comparison to you they didn't give up. All you are tellin…
/r/seduction25/05/12 01:01 PM
1

Who cares? me too! I was always the last to be elected for sports in school.
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:52 PM
2

When I get this line I usually don't do the best answer dunno, just can't. Sometime I ask her friend if she has a boy friend too. and it's just too funny how she looks then comtemplating with herself but eventually says that she has a boyfriend too. The I usually go to the boys in the group ask them if their girls are always that weird and just keep having fun. One time it was realy funny as a third girl joined the group and was immediately like "OMG you are sooo cute" whilst the other two girls…
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:25 PM
1

It is just weird and invasive when you think so. Just act normal about it and everyone around you will do so too. Also you might get blown out by some set. But don't worry, for al the other sets around it looks like you just had a nice chat with some of your friends. So you even earn social proof from getting blown out.
/r/seduction25/05/12 09:54 AM
1

Probably at this moment I would just invite her for another drink. And if you don't want to ... just leave it. Really doesn't happen that often to me, now that I think about it .... I do get many drinks for free though.
/r/seduction25/05/12 05:10 AM
1

I didn't see it as advice. but as his experience. I also only buy drinks very very rarely.
/r/seduction24/05/12 10:48 PM
2

Well. Europe. But I thought this is no problem in america either. But still I wouldn't buy drinks just like that. Would probably go around and talk with everyone there until the girls get interested in who I am (because I obviously know everyone) and want to talk to me.
/r/seduction24/05/12 09:32 PM
2

Weird. Where are you from? Over here you practically never need to buy a girl a drink.
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:49 PM
1

I think she looks unfriendly in the video too.
/r/seduction24/05/12 05:39 PM
10

Those things are so subjective that there is no real best possible.
/r/seduction24/05/12 05:30 PM
18

Really, look at this and it is a 100% clear why nobody hits on her. I wouldn't hit on someone that makes a face like this. Also she is not my type.
/r/seduction24/05/12 05:28 PM
3

Practicing with no purpose of improvement seems illogical. And it is! But you don't practice to get laid tonight! now! immediately! You practice to get good with women in general and if the first definite success is in 2 years that is still fine with you. Also, don't pretend ... I see that "fake it till you make it" concept here many times. I personally don't like it. I like to find real reasons for why a single situation isn't that world changing for me. My preferred reason is: I'm learning, th…
/r/seduction24/05/12 12:01 PM
2

THis has nothing to do with how many women you want. It is in every case a good idea. And it is not about "not caring" like "you aren't important for me" it is about "not caring" like whatever "you choose to do it won't get me of my path".
/r/seduction24/05/12 11:55 AM
1

Definitely. But also leave no option untouched that won't escalate into a fight. (Social proof ... it's invaluable) Also being straight up and putting them in their place while being honest and not escalating into something bad is even more valued by the people around you. And damn it feels good.
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:55 PM
1

Definitely. But also leave no option untouched that won't escalate into a fight. (Social proof ... it's invaluable)
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:47 PM
1

Lol here's what I would do: "HEY It's TIME TO LEAVE!" I ask why? and he says "Because you talk to my girlfriend, xyz" (it's the same till here) I respond "Oh! Cool. Nice to meet you. You have a really beautiful girlfriend ....." Actually he already lost by complying to the question. the AMOG that didn't like me just answered: "You have to leave" over and over. No need to make an enemy out of him. Most guys react positively to it. And it gives you much social proof, which is very useful since I u…
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:43 PM
1

Can you give an example of your method of "pointing out the obvious" ? I was talking about AMOG fights. The kind where someone gets hurt. And every few month is quite a lot. I think I'll stick to my method since it never got me into any fights.
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:27 PM
1

Ok. that is an answer to the question. I like your thinking.
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:01 PM
0

Thanks man I think this is the best guide to texting that I've ever read.
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:45 PM
2

The boyfriend would never punch me as long as his girl likes me. I've done it and didn't get punched. Also I would never try to take away ones girlfriend. He didn't want to understand any of that so he spend the night being mad at me and I didn't bother. Offered him my friendship a few times. So, how often do you get in fights?
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:30 PM
1

Somebody recently posted their theory that all shit tests are IOIs because they wouldn't be testing you unless they were interested. I actually take all Shit-tests that way without even thinking of it. I really wondered for some time why I didn't get any shit-tests until it came to me when I replayed some conversations in my mind. And I realized that, because I took it in a nice-funny way, I actually choose the best responses that would have been given on here.
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:10 PM
2

She's like a sister to me, and she considers me her brother. Same here. We introduce each other to new people as brother and sister and act as gatekeepers. It really is a shit-test of us. Only the ones that pay attention and are nice to my sister or other friends get through. Also I realized that I think I never get any shit-tests, but in reality I just think of all the shit-tests I get as jokes or IOIs.
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:07 PM
1

Huh?! Of course, as I wrote before, in that case you just ignore him. May I ask as to how often you get in fights?
/r/seduction23/05/12 09:51 PM
1

I've kinda had the same problem. I didn't always want to be high energy or always low energy because I am not always one of the two, but my state switches. The key is to be high energy or low energy whenever you feel like it. Probably it is a good idea to start as high energy when you are opening, otherwise they might not develop interest in you. Later it gets easier to chill back and let the others talk and do don't really bother with them, you are the important one, do what you want, concentra…
/r/seduction23/05/12 08:33 PM
1

So what has caused you to say "no"? I hate to break it to you but it would have been completely legal.
/r/seduction23/05/12 06:56 PM
1

And I really mean this. ;)
/r/seduction23/05/12 06:43 PM
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Try to be friendly to the guy. Be his friend, help him and expect the same in return. Sometimes they just have a bad day. If so, don't bother, just ignore him. If it is visible that the guy has no stance in trying to AMOG you the girls will continue to like you. For example I once went up to a group and saw that the guy there was trying to get with that one girl. So I just continued to DHV the guy to the girls, which made him friendly towards me and DHVed me for the whole group. I then went on t…
/r/seduction23/05/12 06:40 PM
2

Hey. Play your Diablo3 I'm going to play it too. (when I finally get a new PC) But that won't get you a girl. also para-sailing in itself won't get you a girl. though it makes it easier o get out with people and thus to get to know them.
/r/seduction23/05/12 04:35 PM
1

I was boring but I am not anymore.
/r/seduction23/05/12 04:10 PM
1

I think so since you described me.
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:44 PM
5

Ah well It turned out as a win/win for everyone.
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:25 PM
1

Why is that gross? taking a monster shit is cool as hell! ... don't forget to take a picture after. ;)
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:24 PM
1

jolly rancher?
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:21 PM
2

You'll still have to use condoms.
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:12 PM
3

You need more upvotes!
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:09 PM
1

You should be using condoms either way. ... just sayin. I know that condoms are only 96% secure and if its because of that I can understand.
/r/seduction23/05/12 12:56 PM
1

I only had that once. fell straight asleep. got used by my girlfriend that night, didn't even notice. XD
/r/seduction23/05/12 12:54 PM
2

nothing will happen.
/r/seduction23/05/12 12:48 PM
6

So to all you nice guys who are a little boring I say get out there and enjoy your life for you first., then you can share that awesome life with someone who also has an awesome life :) Yeah. most guys enjoy their life for themselves forever. I mean it is basically correct. You need to live for yourself and enjoy that. But that is by far not enough to get a woman.
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:21 AM
3

A vibrator is not made to replace you but I guarantee if you put the extra 15 minutes into the girl and only her pleasure [...] it will pay off in the end for you 10 times over. This and a thousand times this. ... Really dunno why guys are so afraid of vibrators for their girls.
/r/seduction22/05/12 11:41 PM
1

I always tell myself that I won't go home until I didn't approach at least once. And then you have to only go through with that rule.
/r/seduction22/05/12 07:43 PM
1

No. also in favour of the big majority of men. If some alphas rake up all the women ... the rest will go empty handed. he himself says that at another point.
/r/seduction22/05/12 11:04 AM
1

I see what you mean. And you are totally right. For someone that worries too much it might be bad, but I was guessing that someone in a leading position already has some balls. Still I'll make a little notice. At least for me it was always more of a problem that I would say Something like: "Hey, let's go to this really awesome place. ... Why, yes I know exactly where it is." And then I would run somewhere in the green with a bunch of people for hours and they would wish they never followed me. N…
/r/seduction22/05/12 12:34 AM
1

thanks, fixed it.
/r/seduction22/05/12 12:13 AM
1

Well with the feminism I'm also on his side. But when he talks about a female based society and how marriage was an invention by women to tame guys ...
/r/seduction21/05/12 11:44 PM
0

What he says of society .... can't agree with any of it.
/r/seduction21/05/12 09:48 PM
1

... o.O lol!
/r/seduction21/05/12 04:45 PM
2

... Sorry, but you have issues.
/r/seduction21/05/12 03:27 PM
1

You need to look interesting. I definitely approach more girls that have something that separates them from the others. Or something that indicates one of her interests. Those that have a bitchy or boring feel about them won't get approached.
/r/seduction20/05/12 11:35 AM
2

Though I think it is a good idea to start working on yourself. Don't delay to start with seduction or it will only get an excuse for you not to go out. Almost all of the worst things you can change in evening. Shower, shave, buy a decent looking shirt and you are good to go. Doing more of that stuff will mostly work as a bonus. I've been doing push-ups for he last month and I love to see how my muscles grow and how I can do more and more of them. What is much more important is learning how to ha…
/r/seduction16/05/12 02:41 AM
3

Giving value. Is every time you actually do something of value to someone. For example you make a party and invite people. Or stretching somebody some money. Though I think you should be careful with things involving money, since money might easily imply a business type relationship, but you want to have a communal type of relationship. Giving value is also ... just being there. If people like you and want you somewhere ... by actually going you are giving value to them. I just gave you value by…
/r/seduction14/05/12 03:21 AM
2

I actually thought about that a little. I didn't want to say evade because it would seem like I didn't get into trouble in the first place. But rather express the fact that I was able to get out of troubling situations in a positive way. Elude seemed to be a good choice, but I'm not a native speaker so please correct me.
/r/seduction14/05/12 01:42 AM
2

Don't worry. a light touch on the shoulder is never creepy.
/r/seduction13/05/12 03:08 PM
1

Why? I know the berlin clubs. they are nice but not that different. ... btw are you from berlin?
/r/seduction12/05/12 09:18 PM
8

On some things in your post I have to disagree on: 1-Talk a lot! You can also let the girls talk and it will work. Depends on your personal type really. 4-Compliment a girl on anything except her looks. Not true. You can make her compliments about her looks as much as you like. When doing direct game it is actually the only sincere thing to open with since you don't know any of her other qualities. 5-Try and get her to laugh as much as possible. When she laughs you are probably building attracti…
/r/seduction12/05/12 02:22 PM
1

I'll find myself thinking about what I'm doing, which leads me to feel slightly indecisive, which projects indecisive behavior and body language, thus eliciting reactions tailor to such, which validates my perception of being indecisive, which causes me to project indecisive behavior... That is actually a good thing! You are already able to convey how you feel and can interpret that body-language of yourself. Now you only need to start controlling how you feel and get yourself into a positive fe…
/r/seduction12/05/12 02:10 PM
1

This is a thing that is hard to conquer. Literature like always will only help you to a certain point. What helped me the most was investigating people. You can do it everywhere in the train, on the street. Look at them and notice how they move, when they talk to friends how their body-language changes, how it is towards you. try mimicking them or being intentionally open or close towards them. Apply the things that you read and see how they work in real life ... they almost never work literally…
/r/seduction12/05/12 02:01 PM
4

Isolating does not mean to wait until she is alone and then talk. It means to get her to a private conversation even though she was with other people beforehand.
/r/seduction12/05/12 01:47 PM
3

Yep have it ... Close anxiety. Not with numbers ... since as everyone says: they are worthless. But with K-close and further escalating, light kino is no problem though. It's getting better every time I go for it but the girl still has to make it painfully obvious so that I make a move. Maybe it is a good idea o get myself rejected. As you said, it takes a lot of the pressure.
/r/seduction12/05/12 01:33 PM
0

I go to a club to pick up women. When you are confident and comfortable talking to women you wont seem weird at all many women are also there to pick up guys. Those all girl 2- or 3-sets mostly are.
/r/seduction12/05/12 01:18 PM
3

You care too much about your environment. Just have no expectations and try to have fun. If you don't talk to anbody ... just dance like nobody is waching, really who cares? The other people are just to shy to dance how they would like. If you talk to people just have fun and enjoy yourself. If they tell you to fuck off just ignore and keep having fun. ... seriously ... I've been rejected by girls like 4 times in 3 month of heavily going out ... and everytime it was hilarious. Or it might be tha…
/r/seduction12/05/12 12:00 PM
1

... this explains so much!
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:10 PM
0

With my luck with texting I probably wouldn't work. o.O
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:05 PM
3

Damn, in hindsight there were a .... lot ... :/
/r/seduction11/05/12 04:43 PM
1

You should see it an a correlation to all people who play and not to your personal impression. ;)
/r/seduction10/05/12 09:55 PM
3

Nobody thinks you'll win the lottery either, but every day so many people do. Damn ... that analogy sucks. because so little people win the lottery.
/r/seduction10/05/12 09:25 PM
1

Yeah. More than a year is definitely too much time to sulk. But I understand you. My first "breakup", was with her like 1 or 2 month, took me a 1/2 year to get over her. On the other hand by that time I've already had 2 new girlfriends. I really don't like to sulk after a breakup. I want to get out and see the nice sides of life. So I get out with friends and eventually get to know girls too. Though I have no Idea what I did in that 3/4 year to get so many girls, if I did I wouldn't be here righ…
/r/seduction10/05/12 12:38 AM
0

Sure. but let's say I hang out around here two hours a day. XD The 4 hours going out being social every day takes a lot of time. I'd actually do it more but I soon have exams coming up. Maybe that's why I feel that I have no time right now. ;)
/r/seduction10/05/12 12:22 AM
3

Wao. I'm impressed. really. I definitely believe you that you go out much. I also go out almost every day. ... Though I do daygame over the week. Since otherwise I'd probably wreck myself.
/r/seduction10/05/12 12:19 AM
1

How long are you out of the relationship? Don't worry, it will get better. :)
/r/seduction09/05/12 10:37 PM
2

Do you live on a lone island?
/r/seduction09/05/12 10:36 PM
4

Right now I have a 2 to 1 ratio .... but 10 to 1 somehow seems unrealistic. You actually do this?
/r/seduction09/05/12 10:19 PM
1

Well but I have a deeper connection with my hands ....
/r/seduction09/05/12 10:08 PM
1

... I really don't think so. REALLY.
/r/seduction09/05/12 10:07 PM
1

Thank god my reason to get into this wasn't to find a girlfriend nor only to have sex.
/r/seduction09/05/12 09:47 PM
2

It felt like I saw more scripted stuff in there. The thing about if you she likes direct or indirect approach I've definitely seen from some PUA before. I personally go totally random because I'm just to lazy to learn lines. Which makes my game turn a little James Marshall style. It's easier when she talks and I only throw in a question once in a while. ;)
/r/seduction09/05/12 06:35 AM
2

Nope. this is usual in an almost word to word translation in other countries too.
/r/seduction09/05/12 06:23 AM
1

Get rid of all the bullshit that reminds you of her, delete her and all her friends off facebook, and tell all your friends that you need them to promise you that no matter what they see or hear, you don’t want any updates on her life. Bah! Come on! Why would you do this? I wouldn't deny what was a big part of my life for a long time. Though you shouldn't glorify it either. (still friends with all his exes)
/r/seduction08/05/12 11:52 PM
7

Don't beat me guys, buy I kinda hate this vid.
/r/seduction08/05/12 11:46 PM
1

Whatever works man. But you are right. there went an insane amount of memorizing into that approach.
/r/seduction08/05/12 11:39 PM
1

Yeah of course I'm trying to push further ... but well I'm still not good at this, still kinda shy, and so a # is often what is happening. Also sometimes even your flakes can surprise you. See this. Which probably happened because I got myself incredibly preselected the night I got that number. If you had a ONS ... would you get her number afterwards?
/r/seduction08/05/12 11:19 PM
1

I usually just do it to an extend where I stand out a little to most other guys. Like really bright colours, t-shirt where everyone has a suit, suit where everyone has a t-shirt something like this.
/r/seduction08/05/12 10:24 PM
1

... I or they would have had the courtesy to go home.
/r/seduction08/05/12 10:17 PM
1

Who cares about getting laid, when you can have fun with girls? ... Btw. How can anyone see that you are not getting laid? Are you branded on your forehead or something? for all other I support ProphetVA.
/r/seduction08/05/12 10:16 PM
2

Maybe just tell her that you do it with everyone and snap a photo for the phone contact? ... Damn I need a newer phone for those things. It's also one of my greatest fears to not remember her face when I meet her again.
/r/seduction08/05/12 09:33 PM
1

Cool. Really good Idea. I'm going to try to keep this in mind for when opportunity arises.
/r/seduction08/05/12 08:41 PM
1

I don't wanna say it's a bad habit but it gets impossible to handle at some point. I also do this thing with scribbling in little notes about the girl so that I remember some key points.
/r/seduction08/05/12 08:36 PM
4

That's why I'm always going on the kids playgrounds. ... And obviously drag the girls with me.
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:45 PM
1

All you need is Practice. In theory it is not hard to be yourself. You already know how to to this, don't you? ;) What you need to learn is that people won't kill you if you are acting like yourself and you need to get rid of the social norms that hinder you in being yourself.
/r/seduction08/05/12 10:18 AM
42

As long as you are congruent and confident you actually can do the weirdest and dumbest stuff and they will still like you. Last time I was out I told my girl so many conflicting stuff so many things that could be interpreted as DLVs and tapped in every last one of her shit tests. The thing that made the difference was that I was completely natural, confident and all in all emitted a "I regret nothing" aura which left no place for insecurities, just weaknesses that I have no need to hide. Let's …
/r/seduction07/05/12 07:23 PM
2

hell accept you o.O ummm .... no thanks?! if he's a douche and thinks he's better than everyone I would say he's not worth your time And is probably not a real alpha. Because he already feels threatened by some betas.
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:21 PM
1

I really don't think so. Those people only hide the times in which they weren't alpha.
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:18 PM
3

... Hm compared to me there are no high value males. ;)
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:16 PM
-2

Alone the title seems to push you in the wrong direction. It should be more like: Always go out alone never come back alone
/r/seduction05/05/12 06:46 PM
65

Jep I have started from scratch last year in a new country with a foreign language. Here is my advice: Be open and friendly. Casually talk to everyone. Stick around for longer when you have no real reason for it and people don't mind. This can be really strong for taking a friendship further. Find other people who are searching for a new social circle and invite them all the time. This will not only make you friends with people it will also make you the leader of the new forming group. (mind tha…
/r/seduction05/05/12 01:08 PM
5

... I'll try it. Can't hurt either way.
/r/seduction04/05/12 01:22 AM
1

seems like he is on the path to the dark side. Tell him, that he's an asshole.
/r/seduction03/05/12 09:32 AM
1

And what happens when I go too far and fuck it up badly? I don't wanna kill myself. But definitely a right statement. The really complicated thing about this is to calculate the risk.
/r/seduction01/05/12 02:07 AM
2

Jep. I meditate before sleeping. I feel that when I do it I need less sleep. And also ... but this might just be my imagination ... my dreams seem to be more vivid.
/r/seduction30/04/12 10:04 PM
0

Somebody give this guy an oscar.
/r/seduction30/04/12 09:50 PM
4

Lock it down while you still can?! What if the relationship with a good guy just didn’t work out? This blog makes me paranoid and afraid of ending up alone, but I’m drawn to it still. It honestly depresses me- all the good guys are disappearing and girls who want a good guy have to be fucking amazingly perfect to get him? Umm. Jeah I think that is a perfect stereotype. She wants a "good guy" but doesn't want to be "fucking amazingly perfect" for him ... isn't that kind of the equivalent of a bet…
/r/seduction30/04/12 08:31 PM
1

No. Most guys are on the "Nice Guy" path which is probably the worst of all.
/r/seduction30/04/12 08:21 PM
8

So the only two types that are getting Sex is the Player and the whole Package. That being said: Fuck the other two types! Those are the ones whose genetics won't survive into the next round. As I see it the whole PUA community works in the direction of the "whole package" while embracing the type of the player on the way there. Which is actually the most rewarding strategy. And since the PUA community is largely made up out of non naturals, we all already know how to be the nice guy, so nothing…
/r/seduction30/04/12 08:17 PM
3

Not nessecarily. I don't remember where I saw it. but one PUA had a video in which he told that many times he is just standing somewhere in the club, watching over his students, the whole night. And girls go up to him an tell him how cool and confident he is. Happened to me once too I sat down in a club and thought fuck it, I'll take my time off now. No 5 minutes go by and one of the hottest girls comes to me.
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:07 PM
1

Don't ask the guy. he will say yes. You need to ask the girl. And I do this because if she really has a boyfreind she will tell you: "no, my BF is over there" or something. But if she is single she will make no such remarks. "so how do you know each other." will only get you the social status in between those two and she stil could have a BF.
/r/seduction30/04/12 11:59 AM
2

High five with a very open hand. I actually do this with guys and girls. Only that when doing it with a guy I turn it into a handshake. Awesome work with the singing.
/r/seduction30/04/12 02:22 AM
3

Yeah! I hate that about people. It's really hard to find nice and outgoing people that are ready for whatever crazy shit. .... Right now I know like 2 ore 3 people of that kind and damn whenever I have too much contact with them we start doing incerdibly crazy shit.
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:56 AM
1

Jeah. some people are like this. But other people tell you that you are sooo cool for doing this and they would never have the guts. .... Those guys are the ones you wanna hang out with, they are the interesting ones.
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:53 AM
5

Heh, a good way to reframe this for self motivation.
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:50 AM
2

There is no chicken and egg paradox. If you have no social proof just walk up to someone and talk to him. even if you have a bad conversation, for everyone that saw this you've just buildt social proof. Also these concepts are in no way gender specific, a girls perspective should be exactly the same as a guys perspective.
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:47 AM
4

Of course, there are also women drawn to the whole lone wolf type, but it doesn't happen often. Most of the time it's just ignored because you have other qualities. They are drwan to the lone wolf because he is a wolf he has an alpha aura. Nobody is drawn to a lone lamb.
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:45 AM
1

Definitely! It's just weird standing there alone. It's way better to have 2 or 3 nice sets opened around the club so you can easily have a few words, don' have to walk to far and can be seen with different people. I especially prefer a stable mixed set for that. A set of 4 hot girls that is constantly hit on by different guys just isn't a good environment to relax.
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:40 AM
1

You hav no social proof or preselection. you'll have to construct that for yourself. Don't be the guy standing lonely in the corner, waiting. You can either be the guy who is confident as fuck just sitting and drinking his drink or you can be the guy that is talking and joking to everbody . I can tell you, being the just confident guy is waaaaay harder.
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:35 AM
2

Just because a cock blocking friend says that a girl has a bf, doesn't mean it's true. Always verify with someone else. The friend could just be jealous of the girl. Or if the girl is near some friend of her. Ask her if he is her boyfriend. They are not expecting this and will answer truthfully. (usually) Plus they don't want some friend of them to get the feeling he'd have a shot.
/r/seduction29/04/12 10:00 PM
1

Ah. Ok .. so I've used it wrong. And was actually walking away. Thanks.
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:49 PM
1

Yeah well ok. I could understand that. But no reason to be grumpy about it the whole night. You mean this set with the 6 set? It really wasn't that good in my eyes. España baby. Yeah. Textgame is my most hated point about this. But I'll try.
/r/seduction29/04/12 04:12 PM
1

Right now I'm in Madrid.
/r/seduction28/04/12 03:30 PM
1

What? ... WOW. 150NOK are like what .. 25€? Just for entry into a club? Damn I pay 15€ and have 2 drinks included. And that's expensive for me. For a good night out I usually spend around 10€-15€ ... and I have 200€ per month planned in for going out. :) I'm not joking that I would never have guessed that.
/r/seduction28/04/12 02:37 PM
60

I negged her by saying we should slow this down a little bit and went back grinding. That was no neg. You basically just told her you are not ready for makeout and only want to grind. It would have been a neg if you turned away from her at this moment and left her wanting more. Your neg just didn't come off right and that explains the rest.
/r/seduction28/04/12 12:19 PM
3

... really? I never would have imagined.
/r/seduction28/04/12 12:10 PM
2

Where do you live?
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:16 AM
2

You can do this in many of the bigger places. Here I can bounce in between clubs and every time I do I get a free drink. Also, when your game is good many people will want to give you a drink. :)
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:15 AM
2

Heh. I always have my two specialities ready to impress. Other than that you can cook together, do dumb shit and it really doesn't matter if your meal looks like exploded vomit afterwards.
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:10 AM
1

Hm.. I'm personally at a level right now where I can open a whole club without problems but I still suck at escalating and getting dates. So what I've seen is: I don't really get a kick out of opening anymore. The first times it was an adrenalin rush and even though everything went wrong it was still the coolest thing ever. Now it's like well cool, now move along. The biggest thing about this is getting over the initial AA. Though when I text a girl or try to escalate in some way. It is like the…
/r/seduction27/04/12 12:01 AM
1

You just found out there is more to life than the acquisition of women. :-) Lies!
/r/seduction26/04/12 11:54 PM
1

I know. That is why you love me.
/r/seduction26/04/12 09:56 PM
2

... this will come in handy when I'm in my 50ies.
/r/seduction26/04/12 09:55 PM
3

Just ignore. Whenever somebody told me he was better than me or I wasn't good enough for something ... I came out way ahead of them some years later.
/r/seduction26/04/12 07:43 PM
0

hitting on a girl is nothing ethically wrong. While actually hitting someone is.
/r/seduction26/04/12 07:19 PM
1

Yep. that's what I'm saying.
/r/seduction26/04/12 07:17 PM
1

It's not a poor mentality. somebody deliberately did something really bad and needs to learn that his actions have consequences. When somebody bumps into your car you would also go to your lawyer, wouldn't you? Isn't it much worse to hurt you than to hurt your car?
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:22 PM
1

I never got beaten ... at least since 3rd class. Not even threatened often. And that is while I crawl through all the dark and dangerous places where everyone tells me there are bad people and I'll get immediately beaten if I go there.
/r/seduction26/04/12 12:03 PM
2

Why not?
/r/seduction26/04/12 11:51 AM
2

you are awesome man.
/r/seduction26/04/12 11:51 AM
2

I would also want to forget that memory if I haven't had mud at home.
/r/seduction26/04/12 11:48 AM
1

I know this kind of girl. Speaking just by looks they are usually a 5 or 6 ... but I would always rate them as an 8 or something. Damn we played this game since middle school in my social circle and it was always clear that it is subjective. In hindsight we even realized that we kind of had collective delusions where we actually believed a girl was more pretty than in reality. Just because her social value was so high. And we all realized that sometimes an 8 was just a 3 for your buddy. This sca…
/r/seduction26/04/12 11:31 AM
2

I would definitely appreciate insight on this topic.
/r/seduction26/04/12 11:17 AM
2

I think you both have a point. It is not your responsibility to make sure they keep their promises. But at the same time it would probably leave the girl and her boyfriend better when you don't do anything with her until she makes a clean cut. Which corresponds to the rule "always leave her better than you found her". So I think it is in no way ethically wrong for you to do this ... but it is ethically wrong for her. What everyone has to decide on their own is: Can you fit this in your own perso…
/r/seduction26/04/12 11:05 AM
3

I personally also wouldn't actively try to seduce a girl which has a boyfriend or is married. It is just against my personal morals. But if anyone else thinks he needs to do this ... well I mustn't like it but I can definitely accept this and I have friends who did similar things and I have the same kind of respect for them as ever. What I really can't accept is when someone doesn't value the girls he is with and talks badly about them. When I hear something like that it always makes me wanna pu…
/r/seduction26/04/12 10:51 AM
2

OMG! all of this please!
/r/seduction26/04/12 10:44 AM
2

... when you jump out of the window you can fly.
/r/seduction26/04/12 10:41 AM
4

Yes, in your face. happy birthday to the ground. The cake is a lie!! sorry guys, couldn't resist.
/r/seduction26/04/12 10:39 AM
8

Somehow half of the community seems to think everything a girl says is always a shittest. I highly disagree with that! I mean I'm sure that within the next week a thread will pop up with the title: "Obvious shit-test: 'Do you want cake?' But how to react?"
/r/seduction26/04/12 10:36 AM
1

that's why the scale is not and never was objective. it's a subjective thing as to how you see her.
/r/seduction26/04/12 10:31 AM
3

Start to work together. I've seen it on myself, because I had no experience I got in the way of an alpha friend (he helped me much) and he was giving out a kinda angy vibe at me afterwards. Well and you gotta love when two groups of men in the club are after the same group of girls. "Hi, nice to meet you!" = "I hate you. Get away!"
/r/seduction25/04/12 06:20 PM
2

Slow blues.
/r/seduction25/04/12 12:23 PM
13

My ex said that about me. so I'm the antithesis to your thesis.
/r/seduction25/04/12 12:20 PM
2

Damn! Work will be keeping me from approaching the next 1-2 days. Don't gimme that crap about loosing a habit! I will miss and crave for approaches.
/r/seduction24/04/12 10:30 PM
0

"Don't you ever wonder how you would have turned out given you were raised in a world without societies norms?" Yep. You would have ended up being nobody.
/r/seduction24/04/12 11:17 AM
1

The most crazy thing that happened to me last week is ending up in a church Saturday night between 12pm to 1am talking to a girl about religion and finding god for one hour. Followed by being locked in the center of a 10 set. Followed by being owned, a girl looks up and screams "watch out!" Damn I love that weird stuff that happens to me all the time. And it only happens when you get out and are open to anything life throws at you.
/r/seduction24/04/12 10:35 AM
1

I like both. Indirect openers have the advantage of directly jumping into a topic and making the initial conversation very much easier. The downside to this is that you ... or at least I need some kind of situation to do this. Since I always talk about something directly concerning her. The advantage of an direct opener is that I can just walk up and say what I think. It directly spikes on attraction and makes her smile. As to how long I stick around before closing ... I would guess I usually st…
/r/seduction24/04/12 10:24 AM
0

Yeah. I wouldn't approach from behind. Seems creepy to me too. I approached her from the side. She was more like "why the fuck is that guy talking to me?" Yeah, I guess I just got caught up in my head. Really? you would wait 1-2 days? the guide told me to do it within the first 24 hours. Thanks for your reply.
/r/seduction24/04/12 09:47 AM
6

Well to be fair, there are swingers and stuff. They are committed to each other but still have sexual relations with other people.
/r/seduction24/04/12 12:08 AM
7

I agree. My new shirt went slightly pink in a washing machine accident. The girls like it. And damn, nobody is going to think you are gay when you are all the time in set flirting with some hot chicks.
/r/seduction23/04/12 11:15 PM
1

It will work, but everything is quicker in a club. When you are quiet and confident just one second longer than usual it will already build a lot of tension. Then you can continue to charm her and build in another pause some time later. But when you are already locked into the group many times the girls will not wait this one extra second and keep the conversation going themselves
/r/seduction23/04/12 07:32 PM
1

Damn, I hate you! Good work.
/r/seduction23/04/12 12:06 AM
1

Yeah, exactly and when you think of it like that you obviously want to say yes. Because you want to raise her comfort levels. I think it is really unusual to use as a shit test, since it already implies that she likes you by which she made a pretty huge investment into you. When you do the "I'm not sure yet" or related things ... you are just giving her a DHV. Which is good but it's not about diffusing anything.
/r/seduction22/04/12 11:57 PM
4

Why does nobody here say Daniel Craig? Wahahaha. Just kidding. XP
/r/seduction22/04/12 10:10 PM
2

"Ewww!"
/r/seduction22/04/12 09:53 PM
1

Yeah I don't think the rules change one bit here.
/r/seduction22/04/12 09:52 PM
1

Well I suppose she wouldn't just walk up to you and directly ask you that. Girls are afraid of rejection too. And if she did that she probably would be rejected. When the you already got to know each other and you mutually invested in each other I don't see a problem with saying yes.
/r/seduction22/04/12 09:50 PM
2

Cool for me it's 2%.
/r/seduction22/04/12 09:44 PM
24

Haha I would probably answered: "I need to go to the grocery store tomorrow."
/r/seduction22/04/12 03:10 AM
24

... Would you really think this is a shittest?! When a girl tells me this I would rather think it is a confession on her part. Thus my best answer: "Yes!" (or no, if not) Damn I like a lot of people. It's not like I commited to anything with saying that.
/r/seduction22/04/12 03:04 AM
1

Well, I tried to tone it down with the drinking that night. Of all my friends there I was certainly the least drunk. In total I had 3 drinks that night. One beforehand and the 2 they sell you together with the clubs entry. I try to not be dependent on drinking, I think the fact that I was out with my friends really helped me much more.
/r/seduction21/04/12 04:47 PM
1

Well I certainly would if I could. ;) But yeah I think it is more important to just have fun. And when I can't enjoy myself in a social situation, how can I get anyone else to enjoy my company? Also this is is really good groundwork. I know most guys here would rather hear that I k-cosed 10 girls in one night and then had a 3-some but that is just not the truth when you are an intermediate beginner.
/r/seduction21/04/12 04:40 PM
1

.Yes some things will have to wait. or actually they will never get done since ther is just no time.
/r/seduction19/04/12 09:18 PM
1

Yeah definitely! ... I miss doing that with my friends. Hopefully I can convince a girl to do this with me soon.
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:19 PM
2

Maybe I should finally get a console. but then again .... 2 controllers and a nicely fitted raspberry pi might be enough.
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:17 PM
1

Then again I recently saw this midget having an incredibly hot girl on either side ....
/r/seduction19/04/12 08:55 AM
2

Seriously, how can anyone maintain a yes-no friendship/relationship? You'll get worn out so fast. And it's not fun at all. When I meet people like this I always try a few times to initiate and if there is nothing coming back I move on. And this is not solely about setting up a meeting or something, every relation has it's own rules and sometimes I'm always the one calling first, but it is still a genuine interaction but the other one is giving in a different way.
/r/seduction19/04/12 08:38 AM
2

Only that I usually forget about people ... or at least how they look, pretty quickly.
/r/seduction19/04/12 05:23 AM
2

Are you mocking me?
/r/seduction19/04/12 05:11 AM
1

It really may be. I once bought a drink for a girl that I just met. But in that Situation I knew she wasn't there for the drink, but for me.
/r/seduction19/04/12 05:08 AM
1

only when you are stupid. In Berlin a cocktail will come your way for 3.50€ in a bar. In a disco it will be on average 10€. In Madrid a Cocktail will cost you 5€ at a Bar but they put in much more alcohol there. In a disco the entry fee will be usually 15€ with 2 drinks included. Any further drink inside will cost you 10-15€. Those are the usual prices. When you go to the right places you can always get away much cheaper if you want to.
/r/seduction18/04/12 11:02 PM
2

Yeah. When a man says "May I buy you a drink?" he is devaluing himself. He is basically saying: "I'm not interesting enough to keep you company so, can I buy you something so that you will bear with me?" Of course this is for first interactions. When you are on a date or something the girl has already given him enough value so that both know that he is interesting to the girl.
/r/seduction18/04/12 10:55 PM
-2

Who's your daddy? XD
/r/seduction18/04/12 10:48 PM
1

That: "In that case, how about you make me as sandwich first and then I'll oblige" Makes you not sound funny and playful at all, no wonder it doesn't work for you. How about: "Yeah but that's so boring, let's turn things around this time."
/r/seduction18/04/12 10:39 PM
1

What du you think about saying: "So what are you going to get me?" when you arrive at the bar?
/r/seduction18/04/12 10:35 PM
1

Yep the only time I bought a drink for a girl was after a bartender asked me "you really only want that?" looking over to my girl ... which had proclaimed that she doesn't want to drink anymore beforehnd. But well I asked her again and we went for a shot. ... damn I should have cleared the logistics with my friend there beforehand. Since that night I could have gone home with that girl. (I had some dumb luck that night since I definitely played baaaadly)
/r/seduction18/04/12 10:32 PM
1

Yeah. whereby it's usually that people give me of their drink. I once had guys buy me drinks. They had to or the girls I was with wouldn't have stayed either. We were playing the "get drinks for free" game. :D
/r/seduction18/04/12 10:25 PM
1

Then just skip the conversation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7sY83egXIlA ;)
/r/seduction17/04/12 11:07 PM
3

Ok rephrase so she doesn't notice. "Haha your ass wiggles when you talk. That's adorable." ... I know that was really dumb but i don't care
/r/seduction17/04/12 11:04 PM
2

Damn. My most embarrassing story is actually pretty good and I never get to tell it to somebody.
/r/seduction17/04/12 11:03 PM
3

People are afraid to go out alone. So they plant the idea that it is weird. But acutally, at least if you ask me, it's totaly cool to do.
/r/seduction17/04/12 11:24 AM
1

I usually say: "They needed to stay at home" Dunno if it's a good answer or not.
/r/seduction17/04/12 09:36 AM
2

Haha I always thought they didn't see me.
/r/seduction17/04/12 09:22 AM
1

Well yeah. As a student I'm not going to throw away half a months income. I usually buy vinyls that cost 5-20€. And I'm sure to not sell my beloved AV-Receiver. For me this is not about buying some expensive stuff. It's about having some old-style technology where you can actually still see and touch what is happening, since the rest of my life revolves around some high end digital technology that nobody understands anymore.
/r/seduction17/04/12 09:12 AM
1

Haha. I hate my current appartment sooo much. None of the stuff is mine since it came complete with all the furniture and I only stay for one year so it really wouldn't make sense to invest all that money that I don't have. I recently bought some candles in case I get a girl to come over ... so that I then can blend out my appartment and get some shimmering light where it doesn't matter that badly how I hate it. ;)
/r/seduction16/04/12 11:58 PM
2

1- if you have traveled, something from that country like a small flag or souvenir This is a good Idea I will keep that in mind and take something with me when I'm leaving here.
/r/seduction16/04/12 11:54 PM
1

... I have my vinyl collection which I intend to put up with a nice oldstyle turntable ... well when I find one that I actually dig. I collected many 40-50-60ies classics and soul music. I think this can set a really good mood. Well right now it's really incomplete but when I get a place for some time longer it will work.
/r/seduction16/04/12 11:52 PM
1

I don't see the problem. Damn stop overcomplicating things guys. Everybody knows that this scale is influenced by many many factors.
/r/seduction16/04/12 11:14 PM
1

Yup tsetting goals is really important.
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:59 PM
1

What would you say? "I'm sorry, I have a girlfriend"?
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:58 PM
1

She is only out of your league when you think she is out of your league. If you really wanna go for it, then do it, experience is always good for you. But at your current level, mindset and everything, expect to fail. And what all the other ones said.
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:56 PM
1

Damn ... we're lesbians ... is this even a shittest or an invitation?
/r/seduction14/04/12 12:18 PM
1

So I'm made of strawberries? :D
/r/seduction14/04/12 11:33 AM
1

Yeah. I know. I usually defuse the boyfriend without problems. As I said, my mind went totally blank.
/r/seduction14/04/12 11:31 AM
1

Nice to see you are feeling about it the same as I. I hope it will easier quickly since I kinda liked doing this.
/r/seduction14/04/12 01:21 AM
6

Yes, the guy behind the counter.
/r/seduction13/04/12 11:04 PM
2

"I am a stalker. .... and I just overheard your friend saying your name." :D
/r/seduction13/04/12 08:37 AM
17

... First thing I thought about death note. Which would have been a pretty good example for how to behave. 1. develop god complex 2. bring girl to throw away half of her life for you 3. still ignore her. ;P
/r/seduction13/04/12 01:35 AM
2

... Hehe just failed today in first attempts to do direct game (where does all this new AA come from?!). This is exactly what I told myself. Btw. I really liked the lotus analogy.
/r/seduction13/04/12 01:18 AM
2

Girls told me I should die freezing. I learned, it's to warm here to freeze.
/r/seduction12/04/12 10:15 PM
1

... the last girls said maybe ... o.O
/r/seduction12/04/12 10:06 PM
1

All girls are in your league! :D
/r/seduction12/04/12 09:14 PM
1

Dunno maybe something like: "Hey, I'm a pilot. Let make a trip to Hawaii tomorrow."
/r/seduction12/04/12 08:24 PM
2

Cool. So how do we do this?
/r/seduction12/04/12 08:22 PM
1

Damn! I always wanted grey hair, I would feel like a silverback ... wanna switch?!
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:34 PM
3

Then you just don't sell it right.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:31 PM
11

Actually that last one sounds like barney.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:31 PM
2

"I create stuff." Now you are free to develop a god complex.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:28 PM
3

hacker.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:28 PM
8

... Superheros don't have a day off. They wear their cape underneath. Wanna come back to my place and see my cape?
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:27 PM
2

Cool. I am also thinking of doing this. But never had the guts/forget it all the time. I'm sure it's funnier to say that I'm a hacker than just saying I'm an IT guy.
/r/seduction12/04/12 02:25 PM
2

Damn. Very good Idea! Maybe I should prepare myself for such situations and come up with some sentences beforehand.
/r/seduction12/04/12 01:48 PM
2

My suggestion: Do something crazy.
/r/seduction12/04/12 08:54 AM
1

... no way! At least for me this doesn't work.
/r/seduction12/04/12 08:51 AM
1

WTF?! My friends would love you! I mean Japan + Technical ..... In my Group everyone has something like this. For example one of my friends is building a clock out of old style Russian display lamps right now.
/r/seduction11/04/12 06:25 AM
1

WTF you are getting rejection messages?! Damn! I always have to get my glass sphere and make a prophecy as to see if she still wants to communicate with me. Then again I didn't have any dates ... so the sphere is quite heavily calibrated to no.
/r/seduction10/04/12 11:47 PM
2

...40 minutes? only? Beat 5 hours. ... long trainride.
/r/seduction10/04/12 08:58 PM
1

Don't you ever have the urge to talk about your quirky freak things that almost no woman is interested in? Also competition isn't a bad thing. under friends it will push you further than you have ever been before and there are enough girls out there for at least you and your friends.
/r/seduction10/04/12 08:49 PM
2

Nope. You're not alone. In my hometown I am usually in a group of 50% girls. And they are by far the best wings. Only thing you need to do in return is protect them. And I love protecting girls. Also we always have some fun bets going and push each other.
/r/seduction10/04/12 08:37 PM
5

Boast about it! And most importantly make sure to tell it to everyone that doesn't know it yet!
/r/seduction10/04/12 06:50 PM
3

You are presuming correctly.
/r/seduction10/04/12 06:42 PM
1

... was I the only one thinking of douchebag?
/r/seduction10/04/12 03:03 PM
1

Maybe then go for an instant date.
/r/seduction10/04/12 03:01 PM
1

They usually call back.
/r/seduction10/04/12 02:57 PM
1

"Genetics boy all pure genetics. Except those parts that are plastic surgery."
/r/seduction10/04/12 11:29 AM
2

.... I think this wasn't meant in the context of seducing a woman.
/r/seduction10/04/12 11:12 AM
1

In a week .. I think about 15. Edit: Scratch that I've thought about it more throghly, I counted, and the result was somewhere between 20-25 girls that I approach in a week.
/r/seduction10/04/12 10:36 AM
1

... The actual meeting happens so fast that you won't see it most of the time. After that for you they are "with someone they know". I once was in a disco with a girl friend of mine and while she was standing right beside me I met a girl and started dancing with her. My friend later told me that she was astonished how that happened. For her it was like in one moment I was alone and in the next I was with a girl.
/r/seduction10/04/12 09:45 AM
7

Are you Milton?
/r/seduction10/04/12 09:39 AM
5

... And they are also not calling numbers. o.O
/r/seduction10/04/12 09:15 AM
1

Yeah the only people that leave voicemails are my grandparents.
/r/seduction10/04/12 09:14 AM
2

LOOOOOL!!! The second one! They get lost in textosphere. But I personally think he is right. When you are calling she has to answer you. You don't have to be perfect when you are calling since you can always correct yourself. It shows that you had the balls to call. I like calling because I hate it to wait for an answer. So I just call and I'll get a response directly.
/r/seduction10/04/12 09:12 AM
1

Jep number closing is that easy.
/r/seduction09/04/12 10:33 PM
2

Yeah. ... State is more or less feeling good and confident. That is why people say that it doesn't exist. Problem is that many use it as an excuse. So don't be dependent on your state be the creator of your state.
/r/seduction09/04/12 10:13 PM
9

I think this really depends on how you serve it.
/r/seduction09/04/12 12:46 PM
2

Then stop playing with fire.
/r/seduction09/04/12 12:40 PM
3

Winks usually imply some secretly shared knowledge. So it might be good after sharing a first smile. But it would definitely be better to just go and talk to her.
/r/seduction09/04/12 12:39 PM
9

"Oh! I just realized we're having sex! So does that mean you're attracted to me?"
/r/seduction09/04/12 12:36 PM
1

Yep, that's pacing. You can use it in various ways.
/r/seduction09/04/12 12:33 PM
2

Hahaha Before I went here I always said that I need a written invitation before I can touch a girl.
/r/seduction09/04/12 12:30 PM
1

You are right, but it is meant that you should disregard the perception that others have of you. So people aren't bound to not comment on your username. Also from What I've seen till now when they comment on your username they do it in a very seddit like way. They don't judge you instantly, they only say that they have reservations againt your username and kind of wait for an explanation.
/r/seduction09/04/12 12:20 PM
1

Wahaha I'l try. I also should pick out something reeeally cheesy and try. It will be a fun night.
/r/seduction09/04/12 03:02 AM
1

Well I think your user-name picks on a spot on which this subreddit can't agree with and is probably really sensitized because of it's perception from outsiders.
/r/seduction09/04/12 01:38 AM
2

Don't encourage that behaviour. The moment I learn a woman has a boyfriend I won't do anything more than on a friendly basis with her.
/r/seduction09/04/12 01:34 AM
1

Take all my upvotes! I've ruined one time now. and definitely moved too slow another ... at least she is still on the hook. ;) Not to count all the opportunities I've had before I knew of game. The really bad thing is that I notice and interpret all the signs correctly but I am not able to act upon them properly.
/r/seduction08/04/12 11:08 PM
1

Tried that 60 years of challenge thing ... fuck it! nothing of this works it only gets me back to my comfort zone and kills me there. I think it might work for people that are too aggressive, but for the usual Socially Awkward, shy guy it won't work.
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:49 PM
1

I actually like it better to go out solo. Or with the right people ... that is also good, but hard to find.
/r/seduction07/04/12 07:57 AM
3

But that was not the question at hand.
/r/seduction06/04/12 08:26 AM
2

Hah you talk about reputation. I already have reputation as being a party animal and doing really crazy stuff with girls. But I haven't even done anything till now! Not even K-closed in the last year!! Well Nobody is throwing stones in my path ... it actually helped me, since everyone wants me at their party. But your reputation is always worse than you are. Well, at least I intend to live up to that reputation. ;)
/r/seduction06/04/12 08:21 AM
1

I don't think you would have been an asshole, he had attacked you first and you only would have to set him to his place ... which at the end you actually did.
/r/seduction05/04/12 05:22 PM
2

Why didn't you start counter attacking him? When you clearly win the alpha place the defeated guys will automatically try to be on your friendly side. The same happened to me a few days back in a club, at first they were like "Meh we'll have to take this one along if we want to get to the girls" and after I had clearly taken the alpha role they were all like "yeah maan you're soo cool, it was really cool to hang out with you". I guess it's the smarter choice to be on the friendly side of the alp…
/r/seduction05/04/12 05:03 PM
2

Imagine this: Hey Guys, today I totally failed! I wanted to approach a cute girl which had an awesome ninja turtles shirt, so I walked over and complimented on that. She just said "thanks" and after that I couldn't think of any more to say so I just left. ....
/r/seduction05/04/12 04:47 PM
2

Love competitions like that one with your female roommate!
/r/seduction05/04/12 04:34 PM
8

Your mom is awesome.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:36 PM
5

"We should hang out some time." "Yeah, definitely." "So how are we going to do this?" ..... Profit!
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:35 PM
1

Which is weird because women as a majority don't suffer from approach anxiety. I highly doubt that. But that's not a problem for them as they get approached.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:29 PM
3

Damn! this is awesome! I 'm always struggling with texting. But this directly gave me idea how I could have texted to that one lawyer girl I met. "Hey HB8, this is your client IAmTheOmNom. The police knows I did it. You'll have to get me out of this, let's have a private meeting in y at x"
/r/seduction05/04/12 10:11 AM
1

When sitting on the ground I'd usually just lean back, supporting my upper body with my arms and stretching out my legs, with one a little bit bent. You take up way more space and you seem incredibly relaxed. The leaning back thing actually works well in more situations.
/r/seduction05/04/12 04:20 AM
1

It's the same as those stories where the girls says "you are too young for me", there should be some examples of this lingering around, only it's the other way round. It's an escape route from the interaction because maybe she was a little embarrassed in front of her co-workers or afraid of her own courage. She wants you to take the leading role and qualify as to why there is no problem.
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:59 AM
2

But then I'll need a Jason mask!
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:50 AM
-3

Umm seems like a shittest to me, probably unintentional. You could have replied something like: "I can still easily keep up with you youngsters" or "That was not the question" (now someone comes along and tells my why my lines are shit. :) ) Well, your reaction wasn't too bad, but I would be really surprised if she called you, since you didn't really pass her test.
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:42 AM
3

Ohh That is one technique I actually learned from my Mother, just waiting until the other one says anything. I made a date today where, as she said she couldn't make it, I just told her "ok then" and waited ... after some seconds she said: "oh but I'd love to go out with you at another time." This is actually extremely helpful for official/work situations too ... just don't say anything until the other one budges first and makes the first step to a commitment, or reveals one of his secrets. It's…
/r/seduction04/04/12 09:33 PM
1

Can I please lend your brain for texting? I can never seem to come up with stuff like that at texting. I solved that Problem now by calling instead of texting. Way easier.
/r/seduction04/04/12 03:30 PM
1

Heh, so maybe I really don't need to care so much about verbal interaction right now.
/r/seduction03/04/12 10:58 PM
1

Heh. I Wanna do that to. But I'm just not at this point right now, this was like the first time I successfully escalated completely on my own account ... and then I had the psychological barrier of the k-close. My subconscious would have just stood there and done nothing, since I'm not at all accustomed to that kind of situation. So it was quite good for me that I steered the interaction. When I didn't interact with her, in that last part, she would just stand sideways behind me and more or less…
/r/seduction03/04/12 10:24 PM
1

Hm, Just read read about it .... how do you know you got as far as you could have, from doing that? And how doesn't that make you care about closing? I kinda always thought about the things he says as part of being alpha or doing push-pull.
/r/seduction03/04/12 09:14 PM
1

There are so many people that recommend that, I probably really should read it.
/r/seduction03/04/12 08:51 PM
1

Jeah I've read it. It doesn't seem to work for me. Dunno what I'm doing. Nonetheless I hate texting, because I can't stand waiting for an answer. I should probably start calling more ...
/r/seduction03/04/12 08:50 PM
2

Damn right, I'm afraid of my own success. because 4 days ago I was still struggling with approaching and now I'm already struggling with k-closes, damn this shit goes too fast. I practically danced like this for the first time in my life with a girl. But you are right I shouldn't be afraid of those social barriers, but it still takes time to overcome them. Next time I'll just go for it. Now I only need an idea about that texting ....
/r/seduction03/04/12 06:04 PM
1

Damn, I would be waaay to lazy to keep count.
/r/seduction03/04/12 01:11 PM
12

Beta.
/r/seduction03/04/12 10:38 AM
1

My last night definitely confirms this. Did some crazy ass moves and everybody loved them ... especially my girl. ;)
/r/seduction03/04/12 09:41 AM
2

You shouldn't confuse yourself, just because some thing work and others don't. So you're good at being alpha. great! So you suck at overcoming your AA. WORK on it! Also I don't think you really understand what inner game means, because feeling awful and confused and having good inner game at the same time just doesn't compute. Inner game is always there with you, it doesn't just appear or disappear on a whim! Even when everything is going wrong, even when you are alone in a corner, weeping, even…
/r/seduction02/04/12 09:57 PM
2

yeah ... but with that kind of attitude I give them a month and they will be frustrated and leave. With pickup there is just no shiny car that you can brag with and a wanna-be doesn't get girls.
/r/seduction02/04/12 06:06 PM
2

I usually take the picture and as the girl comes to reclaim her camera I just start taking pictures of us together. I haven't fully figured out that one either though.
/r/seduction02/04/12 01:24 PM
16

... If a girl invites you to watch "BBC wildlife - Complex mating rituals of chimpanzees in the jungle" (actually exists) at her place .... what do you think is going to happen?
/r/seduction02/04/12 01:17 PM
1

That is not what he meant. You shouldn't have brought her flowers, she hasn't done anything for you. That signals her that you think you are worth less then her and obviously she doesn't want a guy like that.
/r/seduction02/04/12 01:11 PM
1

If it is bragging depends on if you are telling it like you are bragging or just like something awesome that happened to you.
/r/seduction02/04/12 12:17 PM
2

Why wouldn't you talk about this in real life?
/r/seduction02/04/12 11:38 AM
1

Yeah. I also don't know how it turned out so long. What I'd like to know is how I could have avoided that whole mess with texting and finding that girl.
/r/seduction01/04/12 08:16 PM
1

Part 2: After that I approach an HB8 and HB9 which obviously don't want to be hit on anymore as their looks and the guy they send away beforehand suggest. But I say fuck it grab a chair sit myself next to them and again open with "I have a question." I just ask them how much they think it is adequate for a guys and girls to run after another. And who should be at whose bidding. They are nice and elaborate but are way too reasonable, also I don't know what to talk about anymore ;) ... so I eject.…
/r/seduction01/04/12 05:48 PM
3

Say: "Damn, girl! I should have brought my plateaus!" Dunno if it would be a good idea .... but it would definitely be funny as hell.
/r/seduction01/04/12 01:58 PM
2

I once (years ago) teased a tall girl to much about it ... she hated me afterwards.
/r/seduction01/04/12 01:55 PM
1

Heh. I did exactly that, persisting for the number, today. I've overcome the plateauing too. Did like 20 approaches ... I'm not quite sure though, I didn't count. And I came further than before, only a little short of a K-close. I'm going to have to write another FR about this. But now I need to get some sleep first.
/r/seduction01/04/12 04:36 AM
40

Everyone is my friend. They just don't know it yet. That definitely got me.
/r/seduction31/03/12 08:21 PM
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