So yesterday after writing this I kinda motivated myself to go out, after I was like meh before. As always it was a good decision. Trying to keep this one shorter.

So I went to the City Center and just started asking where I should go best on a Monday night. It wasn't really a good opener since obviously they'll send you away as quickly as they can. In retrospect I should have asked where they were going. But it didn't really matter since after some approaches I hit jackpot. I open a set with one guy and 2 HB8. Turns out the guy is one of those that attract people in bars. So I'm instantly locked into a 2set of gorgeous HB8. It's actually them that suggest we should make a group for the night. I'm leading the conversation, being funny, making them qualify, high fives, fistbumps, and carefully throwing in some kino (probably to careful). I get them to actually do my weird robot/bird dance-move and it's funny as hell. They do some cold reads on me notbad. My t-shirt gets mentioned, which is kind of a law of nature, I love that shirt. Eventually I run out of crazy entertaining stuff so we just dance. Always pushing and pulling a little by dancing only with one of them and ignoring the other ... only a little. One seems a little more receptive, so I go for her, which was a good feeling as it turns out the other one had a boyfriend. So we start being little more sexy dancing closer and so on. While the other one is actually heavily flirting with some random guy and later complaining that she can't do more ... guys, don't let your hot girlfriend out alone at night. ;)

We decide to bounce to the next club, our goal are free drinks. Which we get. A bunch of random guys invite us 3 for drinks. (I only later realize, that they disqualified themselves with that already) But at this point I loose my frame, mostly because of the language barrier, so I decide go for the other girls in that club. First I dance with some group that has some awesome moves for a short time. A little later after I come from the bathroom I open a 6set with "Hi", holding my hand out, "I washed my hands". Boom goes the bomb! She almost held my hand, but at this point pulled back, elaborated what I just said and then the whole group went out in laughter for what felt like 2 minutes, they are all over me, but after a while I bounce back to my original group.

I'm getting there at the perfect Moment, the guys with the drinks start to bore them, so I start some joking and animating them all to dance, at some point I somehow manage to touch all 4 of them at the same time, which was kind of an awesome moment, as I'm physically pulling everyone into my frame. So I re-separate my girl and now it's on. We dance jokingly imitating the group of good dancers I mentioned earlier, but it gets quite sexual, full body contact, at one point I'm standing over her holding her down laying on my arm or at another I'm pushing her against the wall, our heads move closer, rolling of on our foreheads ... but damn! I couldn't get myself to k-close. :/ I know I could have done it.

A little after, the girls decide to leave, I #close my girl and say I'm going to go out some more.

Which I do. I let myself bring to some bar where I get another free drink and chat up some more girls, I get the facebook of a girl from one of my favourite cities, just doing a little networking. On my way home chat up some company ...

So what I see as my sticking points is: Keeping up a conversation for a longer time, kinoing faster and more aggressive and overcoming that last barrier to actually k-close.

What perplexes me is that I didn't get any shittests from the girls, again! As tofutofu said:

If you're getting zero shit tests, you're probably not pushing things as far as you should.

.... How far should I have pushed it then? That would suggest that I should have k-closed after the first 15minutes and then directly taken her home ... o.O

Also, I suck at textgame, any tips how I could take it from here? That night I sent her "Hey HB8, this was a fun night, we should do it again.