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| 1 | [FR] Super Exciting Facebook Story (lie), Plus a Life Lesson For the Noobs (not lie)And why the hell wouldn't you. Women love a man who knows his socio-economic history, everybody knows that. Rollin' like Marx, yo. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Useful seduction facts.I've got you tagged, my man. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 01:02 AM |
| 19 | Useful seduction facts.I don't know why, but somehow I see this ending at: "Ahem, eh, hey, ah, miss... Excuse me, but would you happen to have a shot of penicillin in that there handbag? My clap's acting up again." Eternal fame for the dude who gets laid using that as an opener. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Flirting for noobsThis was delivered at a good time. Thanks man. Good work. Surprisingly it's not even manipulative, as these guides tend to be sometimes (don't give me that 'we're-all-about-confidence-shtick, I know that, I've been here for ages, it's still a problem sometimes, especially with step-by-step guides). Ehm, anyway, awesome, upvote! :) | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Women Who Own iPhones Lose The Ability To Love - Underneath the topic, you MUST keep gaming your SO, while in a relationship, or lose her.RooshV is so incredibly melodramatic... I'm sure it works for him, but the forced lack of maturity really shines through in his writing, and it makes me wanna take some distance from what I'm reading, rather than go forth following it. | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I totally messed it up. I've never had such a shot to my self confidence in my light. Help me!!Dude, calm down, we all have an off night sometimes. You got into a negative spiral with drunk -> awkward -> awkwarder. That sucks, but it's happened to the best of us. Learn from it, realize that it doesn't say anything about you as a person, and learn to laugh at how incredibly awkward it is. Shit dude, this could've been straight from a The Office gag reel. If you look at it that way without taking it so fucking personally, it's gonna stop being scary very fast. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game: Intro & My Story (Preview of My Upcoming Seduction Guide)I've been in and out of this game thing for about 1.5 years now, and I haven't read any material on it in many months. I'm actually gonna read this, all of it. Digging your devotion, Tofu. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 04:48 PM |
| 4 | How to gain social capital in collegeWhile this is a good question, I find it to be a bit fundamentally retarded too, no offense. How to gain social capital? By being fun and going places, ya genius. And why even call it social capital? What's wrong with the term 'friends'? Those are people, not some kind of currency. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 01:08 PM |
| 9 | Watched a TED Talk on body language today. Thought it was relevant to seddit.'dude what are you doing' 'I RUN THIS SHIT' | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Watched a TED Talk on body language today. Thought it was relevant to seddit.voice classes Dibs. This tip is golden. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 01:11 PM |
| 1 | 10, 5, 3, 1I guess, yeah. I think the main thing is that anything that challenges 'the doctrine' is treated with extreme suspicion, which I find a bit unsettling, since it demonstrates insecurity, the one thing we come here to fight. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 08:31 PM |
| 3 | 10, 5, 3, 1While I don't agree with you, I can't help but frown at how much trouble this community seems to have with detached disagreement. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 12:10 PM |
| 2 | I'm going to a "write on your shirt" party tonight. What can I write on it to get some attention?I've seen better. Upvote for making me lol though. | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Seddit.. I am normally pretty good at talking to girls but.. I just saw a girl who I think is "the one" and i literally can't say one word to her.I had something very similar not long ago, OP, and what I did was this: put it in perspective. Retreat for a few days and think it over. Then return and see whether you can deal with it. Seriously man, she's just some girl, you have to consider the possibility that all of this is in your head, and hardly at all related to who she is. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Can anyone distill 50 Shades of Grey, once and for all?don't be dismissive or mocking Well, maybe not mocking, but I can't help but tease her on it... My initial reaction is always 'oh, you poor thing, you have to resort to that to get off?' I know this is a bit condescending, but I can't help myself... Anyway, after the initial tease (which doesn't have to be harsh, mind you) it's a good segue into 'so what do you like about it?' 'bla bla bla (the romance)' 'bullcrap, you like it because it's kinky. that's 90% of the book.' Of course you wanna do t… | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone distill 50 Shades of Grey, once and for all?It's an incredibly dumb book, but it speaks to two things that many repressed girls love- A) hot-but-abusive man sweeps you off your feet B) kinky sex thinly covered with shame to make it socially acceptable It's porn, but it's porn with just enough disguise to make it acceptable to talk about. That's why it's selling like hot buns. You know how guys talk about this chick or that chick they fucked? Chicks can't do that without being shunned and branded sluts, or at least that's what they've been… | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 01:07 PM |
| 1 | sort-of [FR] - Chivalry and Blue Balls in a College TownIt seems she is. Thanks, I'll think it over and move on. Edit: I'm not talking to her, though. I forgot to mention that. I don't think we're on speaking terms to begin with. The hangup is purely in my mind, it seems. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?Sounds like a splendid tactic :) | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?That's very dapper. Really, it's good. Upvote. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?OH YASS! This is awesome. I love doing this too, but you gotta tell it like it's no big deal and shit like that happens to you erryday. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?Not to be a dick, but did this ever work? | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 02:09 AM |
| 12 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?I like that with the last words replaced by ...AND DIRTY F*CKING LIARS | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?Indeed. You can tease them, but don't fuck with them outright. A girl I once (in youthful innocence! a year ago...) did this on had a cube made of steel with spikes sticking out of it. I mean, fuck. Either way, this routine (it is a routine) is a question of interpretation/cold reading as much as following the rules. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?This is fun, but for the love of god watch out that you don't take that shit too seriously. Yes, her answers can be very telling, but if you take it seriously while you're asking the questions you'll look like the carneval psychic. And the carneval psychic is fun to hang out with for about five minutes. Plus, the game has made this thing really well-known. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 07:06 PM |
| 20 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?Seriously, that's either gonna fall really badly, especially in Europe, or really well, and then you may not wanna date that person. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 06:44 PM |
| 14 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?So I haven't been to seddit in a while, and I gotta say, this thread is gold. Other than that, Ask her open-ended questions. Ask her about her passions. Think about her motivations, her emotions, it'll help enormously for bonding experience and keeping the conversation alive. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?Common sense. Plus, this is a rather judgemental and irrelevant argument to pursue, so let's leave it. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 06:31 PM |
| 0 | General Patton's letter to his son defines leadership and confidence. READ THIS for motivationMeh, while there certainly are gems in this letter, and I thank you for posting it, I can't help but find it rather authoritarian, judgemental and archaic (for obvious reasons) on the whole. Still, if it helps some of us here along, why not? | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?It is? I haven't seen that a lot. If it's true that's really sucky, though. And it'd explain the aforementioned circlejerk. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?Mostly because we have a bad rep as manipulative assholes. Back in the mystery days, this was entirely justified. Nowadays, less. That said, this thread is a fantastic circlejerk of justifications. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 04:55 PM |
| 5 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?While this is a good explanation of why we talk like that, it doesn't make Raeko's points any less valid. The consequences are still the same. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 04:54 PM |
| 3 | I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMAThis attitude is what has always impressed me about your work. Don't make a big deal out of what you're doing, don't overcomplicate it, just use common sense and be cool about what you want and what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 11:33 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Upcoming AMA with Cajun this Sunday at 9pm ET!This dude is great. Looking forward to seeing him answer shit. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 09:08 PM |
| 2 | To PUA's: Are you happy?Is Mystery not bi-polar and narcissistic anymore? | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 09:04 PM |
| 2 | To PUA's: Are you happy?Yeah, I am. And here's why. Because I meditate. Because I (try to, and usualy succeed) care little to nothing about the opinions of most others (don't get me wrong, I try to be kind to everyone if I can, but if people dislike me, well, why's that my problem?) Because I don't define myself by the women I fuck. Because I think positively. Because I have practiced as much introspection as I could at my young age, and damn, it's worked wonders to figure out my world-view (half-way) properly. Because… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Innergame, seduction, and psychonautThis is very interesting. I've been thinking for a while now that psychonaut and seducer are very close to each other. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.Also women were not people with rights, and men were largely uncultivated and dying of silly diseases. You're romanticizing a historic period to convince yourself that what's essentially a great disrespect for women is a good thing. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.I agree. It shows a lack of empathy. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.Heh. If it weren't for the fact that he's not shown himself to be a gentleman, then yes, he probably would. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.Lol. That's wonderfully immature. Good luck, mate. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.Right, which makes you, to put it in binary, An Asshole Also, re-reading your comment, you seem to have some seriously 18th-century views on women and their qualities as people, lol. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 04:41 PM |
| 7 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.This is not true, because A) sometimes communication between couples sucks, and the dude can't help it, B) sometimes girls are just unfaithful, and there's a million possible reasons for that that don't include her 'needs', or at least what would ordinarily be her needs. Also 'i live my life regardless of social views of my actions' sounds nice in theory, but if you put it this way, it's just a blank check to be a total fucking asshole to people. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 03:39 PM |
| 17 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.No, that's not the bro code. The bro code here is ???. The bro code doesn't speak about fucking another man's girl when you don't know him, 'cause he's just no bro. That's why it's easy to rationalize to yourself as an ok action, because you don't get to see the consequences, but it's still an objectively shitty thing to do, because you're willingly and knowingly helping some girl disrespect and hurt herself and her man. That said, I'd have serious trouble resisting the temptation as well. In fa… | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?Absolutely. A slightly worthless one in many people's eyes, but a skill nonetheless. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?Ah, I thought you'd met him at one of the meets :) Still, your judgement does not credit him very much... After all, Karma does not seem to equal good-person-ship, relative as that may be. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?So as someone who's met karmanaut, what's your opinion of the guy? | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?Heh, I didn't know there were videos of that. I'll check them out sometime. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?Or so we hope ;) Anyway, cheers dude. See ya around. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?At least you're not karmanaut. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?Did people kill it? | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?"Dr. Awesome" | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?Why, Dr. Awesome, you truly have come to the place where we have the most awesomergencies. Didn't even realize that was you back then. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?Because the whole industry is a giant cash scam. Duh. That's why we go on forums like these instead of watching their material all day. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 02:02 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] We are not spamming you.:O Dude. I feel fuckin' old now, but when I joined it was less than half of what it is now. Seddit really exploded. Jokes on r/pickup, lol. | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 03:03 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] We are not spamming you.It's r/pickup, a rival subreddit full of incredible douchebags that got banned after they spammed seddit's userbase with advertising for weeks. | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 03:01 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] We are not spamming you.Oh yeah, I got that one too. objectifyfemales, what a witty play on the cliches surrounding pickup and seduction! /s | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 02:59 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] We are not spamming you.Oh, it was banned? Awesome. Fuck those cunts. You don't invade a place full of constructive advice with a giant, misogenist circlejerk and THEN ON TOP OF THAT pretend to be somehow superior while intrusively spamming their userbase. Oh, and then, after you've lost and been banned for your childish bullshit, you continue your childish bullshit with spam accounts, lol. Oh well, they'll get tired of it soon and fuck off. | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Seddit has a problem and so do you.What nobody has explained to you is that this community has changed a lot, at least on reddit. The culture of seminars, bootcamps, routines and nlp that you're referring to does not exist any more. The material that seddit is mostly based on grows from inner game (aka being ok with yourself and others), and is really much closer to self-improvement than to seduction in the classical sense. That said, some of the sentiment remains, and denying that would be stupid, yes. It's more a problem in ind… | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Seddit has a problem and so do you.Wow. Ok, I'm pretty sure this is a sort of anti-joke, but before anyone takes this seriously- We'll all be dead soon, so why the fuck would we spend our lives properly, that's your reasoning. Instead of: we're only alive for a short time,let's make it enjoyable for ourselves and others. In short, fuck that nihilist bullshit. Making up excuses for being shitty to others does not cast a good light on you. And who the fuck upvoted this comment? It doesn't add to the conversation, in fact it sets th… | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Seddit has a problem and so do you.Note: The playful pushing away after a hug isn't a bad thing. But it should be spontaneous, and fun. Not contrived and conniving. Ha-haa! My attraction factor was raised by 1 by sudden playful push-pull kino-routine nr. 15X. | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Seddit has a problem and so do you.This casts an interesting look on Tyler in contrast to most other methods... In fact, it makes me want to rewatch and re-evaluate the blueprint. I do agree with your larger sentiment by the way. The newer stuff is mostly based on confidence, and there's nothing wrong with that, but underlying it is still this tendency to see all of this as an abstract, a game, and to devalue women and ourselves by identifying ourselves with success or failure at that game. All of this instead of being awesome an… | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:55 PM |
| 22 | What's a good way to disqualify yourself?SOME OF US ARE RISKTAKERS | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Some little tricks I use. (Online game, texting)And then she sees you're playing a cute little night elf, and she'll think lol noob | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 06:54 PM |
| 5 | [FR] S-Closed a girlTIL we have as many terms for getting laid as the eskimos have for snow. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 10:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] S-Closed a girl"If dating is the game, then marriage is winning the game." "Yeah, if you're playing in the women's league..." I dislike the show, but that line was funny. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 10:07 PM |
| 17 | What is your original romantic/seduction move that has made you the most proud?Nothing to take too seriously, and nothing seddit-specific :) Basically what sneakatdatavibe was saying is that he became an extrovert whereas he used to be an introvert, and that your personality type doesnt make you expresionless, but you just are, therefore, work on it. | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 03:09 AM |
| 1 | What has caused you to say "no" to an attractive woman trying to sleep with you?Yeah, that's probably the best way to put it. There's a certain responsibility that comes with that, however, and that can be strain. Still, you're right, and it's worth it. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What has caused you to say "no" to an attractive woman trying to sleep with you?That's good. I intend to sometimes forget those exist, because I surround myself with crazies. That needs some work. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 02:18 PM |
| 6 | What has caused you to say "no" to an attractive woman trying to sleep with you?I have a problem on this front. I love the crazies. They're the only ones that I can really satisfyingly connect with (both giggity and non-giggity). I guess the trick is in keeping enough distance between you and her to keep the drama manageable, and to have thick skin/not fall for her bullshit when she brings it. | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What has caused you to say "no" to an attractive woman trying to sleep with you?Who's peas, herpes? I hardly know 'er! | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 01:59 PM |
| 5 | Playing it cool when someone tries to AMOG you.Meh. If you read his FR, he didn't do anything to offend the other guy. Granted, he hit on his girl, and the guy reacted in a completely idiotic way, when OP wasn't really a threat to him. | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 04:20 PM |
| 10 | Playing it cool when someone tries to AMOG you.Oh man, you just crushed him, didn't you. Did you by any chance knock him out in the club for calling your cousin a slut, too? | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Playing it cool when someone tries to AMOG you.Lol, silly amog. Have a drink and be chill, k? | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Cut contact with superflake, now she wants back inSpoiler alert: Chances are she's crazy or otherwise not really a good bet. Don't do shit unless she initiates. | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly wellThanks man, I absolutely will, and right back at ya. :) | /r/seduction | 15/05/12 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly wellYeah, I agree with your point about quality over gender roles. That said, I think it will do some of the lurkers some good to hear an actual woman talk about women for once. The tendency to objectify 'females' around here still pops up sometimes. But yeah, the upvoting went a bit on the overkill. Anyway, sounds like you're living in tumultuous times, man. Sorry to hear that there are such drastically bad things going on, I hope it all evens out in the future, especially with the good giving you … | /r/seduction | 15/05/12 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly wellYeah, that makes sense. Also the fact that, no offense to any of you fine folk, this place has kind of a bad rap : / Anyway, how you been bro? :D | /r/seduction | 15/05/12 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly wellThat's gentleman's game for ya, folks! | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly wellPlease do! I'm sick and tired of this being regarded as some sort of boys' club :P | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 08:16 PM |
| 6 | Words of advice to those who get good at this...I'm not even 18, and I also (used to) live in a relatively small town, and I managed to go out and pick up chicks for like 2 months straight last summer. Success was limited, but personal growth was enormous, and life has improved massively since. I'm not saying that to pressure you. I'm saying that to show you that where there's a will, there's a way. Change your mindset from 'obstructions' to 'objectives'. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 07:48 PM |
| 2 | The "Bitch Shield" is just a screenerHeh, I can imagine. He doesn't exactly seem easy to replace : / | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 11:49 AM |
| 4 | The "Bitch Shield" is just a screenerI lol'd. Pray for medical advancements, bros. | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 02:12 AM |
| 2 | The "Bitch Shield" is just a screenerHoly shit that was badass. | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 12:03 AM |
| 6 | The "Bitch Shield" is just a screenerDid he move again? | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 12:00 AM |
| 1 | [NSFW] I (22f) have been trying to seduce this guy (24) for a year, but I keep on pushing too much or too little. Help?The things you do for insecurity, eh? | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 01:04 PM |
| 1 | [NSFW] I (22f) have been trying to seduce this guy (24) for a year, but I keep on pushing too much or too little. Help?You seem to have been misinformed, m'lady. | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Texting trick that has never failed metoo Can't half-ass this nazi-schtick now. | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Texting trick that has never failed mePrecedent Sorry, my Grampa's German Genes took over there. Anyway- Yup. I agree with pretty much all of this. Also, goes to show that you can have routines up the yinyang, if you're still an AFC inside you're not gonna fill them out properly. | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 12:33 PM |
| 8 | Texting trick that has never failed meThe thing is, a tongue-in-cheek attitude doesn't come across via text well. If you haven't been alpha with the girl in question before, she's just gonna assume this is more of your needy/try-hard shit. You're very much caught in what the girl projects onto your words when you're texting. | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Club Bitches'well where's your suit then?' slow clap | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 10:53 PM |
| 0 | You guyssssss. <3Kudo's brother. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 12:53 PM |
| 12 | 100% is easy. 99% is a death trap.You don't say. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 08:31 PM |
| 16 | 100% is easy. 99% is a death trap....And that's why all this isn't really motivational. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 08:08 PM |
| 2 | How to Internalize Seduction ConceptsI just wanna say thanks for putting out so much awesome content lately, Tofu. You're a hero. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 02:19 AM |
| 20 | [FR] Absolutely epic night. Four-way with porn star, crime scene investigator & ex-cheerleader MILFSo I'm pretty sure that when Nietzsche wrote about the Ubermensch, this is what he had in mind... Goddamn it Tofu, I'm jealous. Awesome job, mate. Edit: Aw, man, look at what you've done! These poor kids will never get out of that slump! :P So much for leading by example, eh? | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 08:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I can't believe how well this is working... AmazingGood graces, how dare I! I demand a flogging. | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 06:23 PM |
| 28 | [FR] I can't believe how well this is working... AmazingAnd that's coming from the honorable sir FuckShitWank after all. | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 03:45 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Recent Spam Targeted at Seduction MembersFuck those guys, man. That place is a great example of the cliche douchebag pickup artist community. Seddit may be of lower average quality, but it's a much more realistic, share-oriented place, whereas their little community is a massive OMGLOOKATMEIMSUCHAMPUA circlejerk. Their system of only letting pros submit FR's etc. just leads to a small elite, instead of, like this place, focussing on giving the masses progress. It'll pass. Good on you for raising awareness. Edit: Also, the openly hostil… | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 12:29 AM |
| 1 | My review of the Simple Pickup guys and Tyler Durden (RSD) after having seen both in field during the past weekAwesome as usual Tofu. Quite amazed by your write-up of the Tyler Durden experience. Sick shit is sick. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Reconnecting, reestablishing rapport, attraction, and intimacy with an exMove on. Maybe keep in touch every now and then but treat it like random happenstances. Expect nothing. Don't focus on it. If there's anything there let her flock to you. All else is a waste of energy. Also, no offense, but this is kind of an /r/askseddit post. | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 08:17 PM |
| 3 | The Friend Zone KillerThis kind of shit is why I love you guys. Thanks for being... Just... thanks. This made my day. | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 12:58 AM |
| 8 | The Friend Zone KillerThis is... Machiavelli would be so proud of you. Have a victory bro-fist. | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesAlright man, cool! | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesBlueprint is definitely VERY different and, in my opiinion, FAR superior to transformations, man. It provides all the mental tools whereas transformations and the like provides practical tools. However, there are a million sources for practical tools, and hardly any for mental tools, especially not as comprehensive as the blueprint. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesMore than once. Definitely worth it. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesExceptions granted ;) I'm just saying be careful with her ideology, because, as said, it can properly screw up your worldview if you go overboard with it. There's a reason any real philosopher will laugh in your face if you proclaim yourself an objectivist. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesBeing an individual and being a screwed-up individual aren't exactly mutually exclusive, are they? Besides, here's what I meant with nihilism with a twist; what objectivism implies is that you can do whatever you want, because there's no 'objective' way of judging. A carte blanche to be a total asshole, something Seddit of all places should be aware of, seeing as how seduction has a history of being associated with some less than reputable characters and techniques. You may disagree with this in… | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 06:13 PM |
| -1 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesNo, not quite. The values of objectivism can fit in one context but not in another; applied to seduction, sure. Still a little dubious, but not the worst source. In general, however, objectivism is a very unsound philosophy, and not exactly the best thing to confront yourself with. Also, you forgot one thing; there's a group of impressionable newbies that's neither for, nor against Ayn Rand and the like, and should at least know the dangers of these ideologies before delving into them. In fact, … | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesNaw, man. I have hardly ever seen anybody here hate on it. It's universally accepted as the ultimate turning point between routine-based and natural-type game as the mainstream. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesExplain yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 05:50 PM |
| -1 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesYeah, you do, but why do so more than necessary? | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesThe thing with the Mystery Method is that Magic Bullets is basically the same, but condensed. And I'm saying that as an avid Mystery supporter. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 03:21 PM |
| 9 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesIt really doesn't belong there. Ayn Rand's pseudo-philosophy of objectivism (nihilism with a twist) can really screw you up as an individual if you're stupid enough to take it seriously. Any self-improvement based on that is dubious at best. Edit: To prevent more of the same ccomments, let me specify; yes, there are good things to Ayn Rand's books. But they can be better taken from other sources, without having to go through all the other, philosophically and, quite frankly, morally unsound poin… | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Seddit's Most Recommended: Books, Videos, and WebsitesHow is that not on the list. It's like the cornerstone of everything we do here. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Over heard a guy say this today while he was on the phone. It was brilliant.Reminds me of gambler's old idea for comfort-building; Motives & Emotions. Ask about those instead of just asking about the bare proceedings. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Tyler Durden at 22 years old, with Mystery.No no, stay. If you're gonna get help somewhere it might as well be here. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 08:49 PM |
| 16 | Tyler Durden at 22 years old, with Mystery.Mystery Chode After the women that guy's banged? Doubt it. Not by this community's standards. There's a difference between a weirdo and a chode; Mystery is quite the immature madman, but he's not a lame person. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 08:06 PM |
| 21 | “I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.”Simple as fuck, you escalated way too late and you dodged a bullet; a woman that links attraction to money isn't a woman you wanna date. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 10:53 PM |
| 1 | IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMAI think if you go to youtube and watch through some of the video Tyler released over the last year or so you'll probably find some of the stuff he said about it. he also talks about how RSD had serious trouble getting out of debt about five years ago and the like in the blueprint. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 03:31 PM |
| 2 | IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMATyler doesn't make all of RSD's profits. In fact I think he doesn't even own RSD. I think Papa owns most of RSD and Tyler just does a lot of management. So, no, I don't think Tyler is richer than Style or Mystery. | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 10:35 PM |
| 2 | IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMAYeah well it didn't really work, did it? Mystery and Style are way more famous (and probably rich) than Tyler. Nobody lost anything in the long run, and Tyler grew up to be a better since. I don't think it's all that big a deal, and apparently neither does Neil. | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 03:38 PM |
| 3 | IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMAI think those are quite petty conflicts if you see how everybody got out of the deal with a win in the end... | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 11:33 PM |
| 9 | IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMAInteresting point: Neil's book made Tyler famous, and indirectly made most of his/RSD's money. Tyler made Neil's book way more interesting, and in the end Neil wasn't really hurt by any of the events, they were just petty squabbles if you look at them from a distance. Why have hard feelings? | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 09:45 PM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Changes to Neil Strauss AMANeil's a smart guy. He'll manage to answer quite a few questions in 15 minutes. It's not like we haven't been warned to get our questions done before it's time, right? Personally I think it's pretty cool of him to stop by here at all, seeing as how he's handed most of his seduction-work over to his underlings. Let's just make the best of it. | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 02:45 PM |
| 19 | [FR] Follow up to 14 rejectionsAs a nerd, Giggity. | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 02:22 AM |
| 53 | [FR] Follow up to 14 rejectionsWhat does that teach us, kids? Nerds are awesome, so fuck it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 06:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] tested what you asked. And I'm still drunk while I report back, fresh as can be.Great job, mate. Would love to see you pull the same kind of grandeur for daygame. These FR's are awesome to read. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Tonight gentlemen, I'll test what you've not tested yourself.Lesson: almost everything you say and do is arbitrary, as long as you do it right... | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Tonight gentlemen, I'll test what you've not tested yourself.You owe us that goddamn FR now broheim. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 11:07 PM |
| 16 | Tonight gentlemen, I'll test what you've not tested yourself.Those are by far the most fun. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 11:07 PM |
| 41 | We are Simple Pickup AMAThe scientific term for that is 'gangbang'. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 01:04 PM |
| 1 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.Amen, my brother. Amen. | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 12:13 AM |
| 2 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.This is true. The ideal situation is that leaving your comfort zone isn't a big deal to you anymore though. | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 11:03 PM |
| 2 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.I'm beginning to see that more and more. I only started getting some success with this once I abandoned everything I'd learned and just went with the natural flow. This personal change gave me some understanding that I needed to back up all my knowledge. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 01:45 PM |
| 3 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.Goddamn it man, this mindset. That's all we really need out of this place, isn't it? | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Zarathustra (Nietzsche) on Chasing vs. AttractingOnly thing that I wanna note here is that I got that feeling of intangible too, but I only got it after I started seeing the light without it. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 01:46 AM |
| 6 | Zarathustra (Nietzsche) on Chasing vs. AttractingWhile it's very ignorant to cast this stuff off as 'a bunch of intellectual BS', I'm going to give you an upvote for a very important point you hinted at: this shit is interesting, but reading it all the time sucks us into thinking that it's a substitute for learning lessons that you can really only understand after you learned them for yourself. | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Zarathustra (Nietzsche) on Chasing vs. AttractingFunny, 'cause I do wake up in the morning thinking 'I'm gonna be happy today!' However, I must admit you probably do more productive things with your days x) | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Good response to "You're funny!"Don't equate me with the geeks on here that think that they can master social interactions by abstractly mapping them out, mate ;) Of course there are things that you just don't do/say, but you hardly come across those. If you have real confidence and playfulness, hardly any of these lines come across as (too) weird or stupid. That doesn't mean, btw, that I'm saying 'let's all only use lines!' but what it does mean that, whatever style you use, 'real' confidence is key. | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Good response to "You're funny!"I'm not arguing the validity of the term. I'm aware of the roots it has in psychology and NLP. I'm arguing the usefulness of teaching it to people, especially newbies, as it is abstract, and will thus easily lead to people having a wrong idea of what they should be doing should look like. We tend to forget, especially the keyboard jockeys among us, that this is a practical field, not a theoretical one, and the endless perpetuation of abstract terminology isn't helping there. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 10:06 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Date + lay, learned about what makes a good dateYour username scares me. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Good response to "You're funny!"I'm not gonna deny that there's some truth in that, but you won't even get to this point if she isn't already somewhat into you. At this point the only thing that's important/that you can control is how you handle yourself, so there's no way you'll embarass yourself if you show that you are comfortable with the situation. Doing this with a little cockiness just adds to the glorious moment of confidence. Edit: Just reread this, and I really like the formulation of 'getting tingly down there.' Mak… | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Good response to "You're funny!"Nah man, I don't even like the term 'stronger frame.' That itself is an abstraction that just removes us further from the actual social happenings. I've found in the past that that mindset hurt me more than that it helped; for an experienced man in this game that isn't a problem, but feeding that lingo to newbies (like SolDios obviously is) is not helpful. 'Just be cool' should be enough. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Marijuana and seduction. The single most amazing experience I have ever had.Yeah, dude, you wanna watch out with that. You don't usually learn a lot when you're high, and you don't wanna be dependant on a substance for your game. Now, I know what you're gonna say: "But this was just once!" This is true, but it nonetheless needed to be said. Take the experience, but don't give into the urge to try and recreate it any chance you get. Won't be healthy. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 03:47 PM |
| 2 | I hate myself.The material lack probably grew into a general mistreatment of self, so while not the same, the two are most probably connected. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 03:44 PM |
| 33 | Good response to "You're funny!"That's in your head, man. The thing is that you have to have the confidence to back these lines up before you can use them without coming across as skeezy, but that's not because the lines themselves are. It's because you don't have the balls to handle them yet. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 03:41 PM |
| -1 | Good response to "You're funny!"These threads are so basic. These things are so easy to figure out, and I think they really belong in askseddit. "Thanks. I know." with a cocky smile or an :P emoticon. Edit: "Heh, you're adorable, you know that?" also works for me. Fun-condescending (AKA: Cocky/Funnny) is always a good way to go. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Honest Question: Why Are You Here?I'm here because I'm not getting laid. But that's not all. While I've made tremendous improvements in confidence, happiness, and (I hope) personality, I still have a long road to go in personal devlopment. I was a needy, geeky kid in high school, and now i'm a cocky, geeky kid waiting for a study. While this is a lot more comfortable, and allows me to focus on artistic development as well as other forms of soul-searching, it's not the place to be yet :P Honest question, honest answer, I'd say. E… | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 03:37 PM |
| -4 | I want to hook up with a MILFFuck downvotes. Reddit just sucks at handling digression and dissent sometimes, and your point was good. | /r/seduction | 19/12/11 07:00 PM |
| 2 | I want to hook up with a MILFI'm seventeen and I've had (Hawt) older women come on to me quite blatantly more than once. So yes, it's distinctly possible. Youth is probably what they dig the most. | /r/seduction | 19/12/11 05:47 PM |
| -3 | I want to hook up with a MILFI'm seventeen, and it's on the edge for me, too, baby. | /r/seduction | 19/12/11 05:46 PM |
| 3 | [Study] Oxytocin amplifies your inner extrovertThat's cool, but it's abstract, inapplicable information. While it's nice to know this kind of stuff, Seddit, please don't focus on it. It's a poor substitute for any genuine improvement. And this is coming from a guy who was stuck on pickup theory for months without any success. | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Study says men misread womens sexual cues (xpost from r/psych)Captain Obvious to the rescue. | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.Aah, I see now. We misunderstood each other. I didn't quite see how your comment went in the same direction as mine, but upon rereading it makes sense. But anyway, yeah, sure, you do make sense :) | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.Sense, you stopped making it. | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.this is definitely true, but these nuances aren't usually appreciated by the average tv watcher, so the association still comes to pass. | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 01:24 AM |
| 6 | Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.Isn't it hilarious how, thanks to TV, that phrase gets associated with the person saying it being a douchebag, whereas the person saying it is actually being a good person? | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.I was prepared to leave a 'WTF Seddit, I fall off the grid, and this is what I return to?'-type of post, but I can forget that now. Good speech, OP. Edit: Reread. In fact probably the most important speech on here in... Ever? This is the great unresolved issue of morality, right there. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Basic Routine StackEh, I guess people dislike them because a lot of totally asocial newbies see them as the holy grail, a shortcut to social skills... And so they stumble about, dropping these routines and lines, botching it, or doing them right and just coming across as weird instead of fun, and it gives the routines a bad name. You´re right, these routines are fun, but only in the hands of a person open enough to actually be fun. | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Are you in, or are you out?Definitely provide further info on this ASAP, the community must see results. | /r/seduction | 30/11/11 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Are you in, or are you out?This is good. This is progress, as it requires balls, and will thus provide fertile soil to grow and nurture them on. I'm definitely in, OP has provided a groundrule for bossness. | /r/seduction | 30/11/11 10:38 PM |
| 1 | The results of my social experiment (What girls seem to find attractive)Have you had your bear-mizwah yet? =D | /r/seduction | 28/11/11 02:42 AM |
| 2 | So I'm sure Barney Stinson is an amusing hero to some of you. What are your thoughts of wearing suits all the time?Haha, yes, that one was so hilarious xD My point is mainly that such tricks wouldn't work well IRL, and if they would, they'd be quite unethical :) | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 09:29 PM |
| 3 | So I'm sure Barney Stinson is an amusing hero to some of you. What are your thoughts of wearing suits all the time?Actually, Barney isn't that much of an idol IMO. Hilarious, but not much of a rolemodel. Most of the shit he does is blatantly wrong, seductionwise :P ...But in my experience, wearing a suit helps. It's like peacocking, only classy. Shows that you know your shit. Edit: Lol. Downvotes? Are they for the unpopular opinion, or do you guys really fail to see that most of his stuff is hiding his personality rather than showcasing it? | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 08:47 PM |
| 1 | HB: So are you going to buy me a drink?They're coming for us! | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 02:27 PM |
| 3 | HB: So are you going to buy me a drink?It's a shit-test, pure and simple. You don't supplicate, damn it! | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 02:26 PM |
| 2 | HB: So are you going to buy me a drink?Here's my favorite. Jim Morrison-esque half-smile. Lean back a little. Make steady eyecontact. "No." Hold the ensuing tension for a few seconds. Then look away (IOD) and resume being awesome all around. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 02:26 PM |
| 11 | "Talk to everyone" has started hurting meThe shit people can make a big deal off x) Bro, don't worry. This is entirely inconsequential as long as you don't strain to see threats where there are none. If anything, enjoy your 'infamy.' | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Any casual herb smokers find that smoking ruins your game?Stopped smoking pot: drive to do things increased. Started smoking pot again (though admittedly shit weather and collective hibernation also played major roles): went into state of inertia This is on the grander scale of things, but I guess still relevant. You choose. | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 01:14 AM |
| 12 | What's your best first date greeting/intro?Something that worked for me is to, in this situation just go "Girl please". And pull her into a hug. Works better if you add a witty pseudo-butthurt remark. Sets a strong frame, y'know :) | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl here: Things I learned this week in the realm of seduction.Why'd you be sorry I feel that way? :P I don't see what everybody is getting all worked up about. And, I disagree (respectfully, of course). I think that bit makes the difference. | /r/seduction | 20/11/11 11:53 PM |
| -2 | Girl here: Things I learned this week in the realm of seduction.There's a difference between having a little locker-room talk and, as said, validating yourself due to poor self-esteem? Cutting the quote short of that kinda took the context away x) | /r/seduction | 20/11/11 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl here: Things I learned this week in the realm of seduction.And what? What's the big deal? Edit for clarity: No condescension intended, rather honest curiosity. I wasn't aware that anybody was insulted. | /r/seduction | 20/11/11 10:47 PM |
| -3 | Girl here: Things I learned this week in the realm of seduction.Why would I. I said it, I might as well stick by it. But see, a slut isn't a girl that had sex with a lot of guys. A slut is a girl that validates herself by having sex with lots of guys, due to low self-esteem. The difference is, more or less like you said, in not being ashamed to admit it. So don't get me wrong, no insult towards OP intended. Furthermore, why'd that comment be so hurtful? A) nobody does that, and B) are you gonna tell me that if you'd go around asking random people 'hey, d'you… | /r/seduction | 20/11/11 10:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm uninteresting and lack ambition, but besides that I'm a pretty good catch. How do I get a long term girlfriend?Don't worry about all of that right now, man. You can deal with that once you find a woman you like. First things first, no? Right now, you're best off working on getting those good traits in yourself projected better. I suggest you read the sidebar of r/seduction and look around a couple of the threads here, that should give you a good idea of how things work. | /r/seduction | 20/11/11 08:13 PM |
| -17 | Girl here: Things I learned this week in the realm of seduction.That would make you a bit of a slut in the long haul, I think... | /r/seduction | 20/11/11 07:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR]: I moved my way out of the friendzoneYou bet it does. I once was locked in mutual seduction with my female best friend for seven consecutive nights in a row before we finally fucked. It was like nuclear fireworks. | /r/seduction | 20/11/11 01:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm uninteresting and lack ambition, but besides that I'm a pretty good catch. How do I get a long term girlfriend?Alright bro, this kind of post belongs in r/askseddit, I think. Apart from that, this is a pretty big question. I think the fact that you are 'uninteresting' needs to be examined more closely, and then changed. Work on confidence as much as being passionate about something. Chicks dig that. I'm just assuming you're pretty much new to the whole seduction thing? | /r/seduction | 20/11/11 12:25 PM |
| -3 | mPUAs of Seddit - [pics] Can you help me out with major sticking point? # closing and k-closing constantly, but having trouble f-closing.This thread is either gonna be totally forgotten or it's going to turn into a real gem. | /r/seduction | 19/11/11 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Ladies and gentlemen, I ask for the cure to love-shyness.sideBLOCK. | /r/seduction | 19/11/11 11:53 AM |
| -1 | The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't.Hey, I'm brave enough to try and fail. | /r/seduction | 19/11/11 12:50 AM |
| 14 | The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't.Already this short thread has become a gem. | /r/seduction | 18/11/11 05:07 PM |
| 1 | TED Talk: Paul Zak: Trust, morality - oxytocin (how to get girls to trust you)I can see how that works, yeah. | /r/seduction | 18/11/11 04:47 PM |
| 2 | TED Talk: Paul Zak: Trust, morality - oxytocin (how to get girls to trust you)I hate to disappoint, but this is what we call 'social conditioning at its peak.' | /r/seduction | 18/11/11 01:45 PM |
| 6 | Seduction, I have no knowledge of your ways. I'm a poor 27 year old college student, average looks and social skills. I drive a shitty car. I have sex with various women 2 to 4 times a week.I don't think this post is redundant at all. Reading it makes me think that, fuck, I may have been doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 17/11/11 04:59 PM |
| 1 | The No-Fap rule. Really?I don't think it's good for confidence, kino etc. etc., but see, you pile up an enormous hormonal drive, and that makes you approach more. | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 06:15 PM |
| 4 | A little bit on inner gamesigh Alright, back to abstinence. | /r/seduction | 15/11/11 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Be Authentic, Find SuccessWhy can't it ever be simple... I'm not saying 'easy', I'm saying 'simple.' | /r/seduction | 11/11/11 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Guy friend says he wants a wingman but really just wants someone to hold his hand through it. Advice?Teach him game, man. Teach him what you know, and from there you can wing him if you need to, but winging him/holding his hand without him having a clue what it's about is worthless (and, yes, tedious). Show him that he may need to work on himself. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 06:18 PM |
| 8 | A perfect night of seduction.This is awesome. I'm jealous :P | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 06:16 PM |
| 12 | Mindhacks for Outcome DependenceYou both disturb me. And thus, you do me proud. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Wingmanning. This is how it is done.Sounds like a guy who doesn't give a flying fuck. Like a boss. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Be Authentic, Find SuccessEh, the Blueprint delivers basically everything you need to understand PUA. This is a little more limited. ...But yeah, good post. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Be Authentic, Find SuccessYou got any tips on that then? I'm having some serious curiosity here, lol. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 01:10 PM |
| 20 | Mindhacks for Outcome DependenceAn old one I like is "picture her giving you a blowjob" or "picture her taking a dump". Either way, cool post dude. I've struggled with this. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Wingmanning. This is how it is done.This is awesome. Good job jean-baptiste. Good job indeed. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 01:05 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I can't turn it offSort-of, yeah. Console yourself with the fact that you get laid, I don't. Oh, and besides, I just turned 17- you're probably old-school compared to me anyway :P | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Text To Sex: The Rapid Sextcalation LadderHeh. I guess Reddit doesn't take too kindly to advertising. | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 09:42 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I can't turn it offNice FR. Let us know how that pans out :) It's awesome to see you old-school dudes post your experiences, man. | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 09:24 PM |
| 9 | A little help with a 3some? Having some hang-ups [F]FMAlways do your duty to the community. | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 09:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - My first approach... in the sauna...That's basically the same, man :P | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 07:42 PM |
| 3 | A pattern I came up with, field-tested with some success. I would like to hear your opinions.To anybody seeking the underlying concepts: 1) Never give women a straight answer, unless it's no. 2) C/F, obviously Also, not giving straight answers can be hilarious, IE: "So what do you do [by day]? "I'm an ass model. Don't laugh, it's a really competitive business!" | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 05:44 PM |
| 10 | [FR] One Crazy Night for an AFC....Emergency doctor, hit man, dealer, crouppier, hitman, cop... | /r/seduction | 07/11/11 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Some of my routines. Enjoy.And, yeah, I know. We've both had our little thing for those, my friend. | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Some of my routines. Enjoy.Heh, Sed5, you old routine-fetichist. Cheers! :D | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 04:24 PM |
| 2 | The secret of good text gameYeah, I guess. But many a rock star has accidentally gotten rich and squandered it all in a few years, right? But yeah, maybe Mystery finally grew up once he got his prized HB9 preggo? | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 04:00 PM |
| 2 | The secret of good text gameEh, I hear he's pretty rich nowadays. And a dad. That really freaks me out, I mean, come on. That guy couldn't raise a girl! | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 03:18 PM |
| 1 | "AMOG" starts throwing sunflower seeds at wingman while he's in set. What would you have done?Option A: Laugh with the guy. "Aah, this guy! He's like my little brother. rubs AMOG's scalp I love it when he plays these games, man. He reminds me of careless childhood days." Then step between AMOG and set, facing set, practically blocking him out. Option B: "Dude, quit it. You're being juvenile." turn away if AMOG persists: "Dude, you're being annoying. Don't you know this kind of shit is rude? You're upsetting the lady." further ignore if AMOG still doesn't get it: "Hey man, I know you need… | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 05:47 PM |
| 3 | How to choose good friends?I'm sure this is a very unproductive opinion, but I always just thought that, like that special lover, the really good friends can't be summoned, only found at random. I guess the only suggestion I have is: be screening and show scrutiny. I don't know about any unwritten rules, though; the only one I've tried to uphold so far is keep friends and business separated (and I didn't do a good job, TBH). | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Rainy Day Game Thread, Go!Epic win, that idea. I'm stealing that (IF I EVER FIND SOME FUCKING SNOW!) Do you have any other suggestions, mighty CurveBall? :P | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Was too tired to go out on holloweenDude, shit like that happens. The trick is finding balance between the drive to improve yourself and accepting yourself, I guess. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Was too tired to go out on holloweenDude, shit like that happens. The trick is finding balance between drive to improve yourself and accepting yourself, I guess. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Was too tired to go out on holloweenOk, first of all... You need to let go of that thing with your ex, my man. You are a male human being in the prime of his life, and there are 3.5 BILLION females out there, of which hundreds of millions are waiting for a stud like you. Does this sound cliché motivational? Well great, because I'm sure that will find its way into your brain. Pep talk aside... Listen- you're in a rut right now. I need you to accept that fact, because that which you resist persists. See it like this: "Heh, silly me,… | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 04:02 PM |
| 2 | I'm STILL not getting/missing the most important piece of all of this - getting them attracted to youAnd besides, there's more to marrying somebody than conventional phsyical attractiveness, isn't there? :P | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm STILL not getting/missing the most important piece of all of this - getting them attracted to youAlso non-needy tonality, let's not forget that one. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Anyone Else Notice this about Girls in Public these Days?I'd say it's A) the urge to constantly be connected, B) hunger for stimuli, and C) a protecting barrier against the outside world, not necessarily guys trying to hit on them. So here's what you do. You go up with a smile, and give them the universal gesture for take out those fucking earphones. Problem solved, /Thread, really. :P | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 03:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Halloween Party, F-Close. PART 2You win. There's very little else to say. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 03:50 PM |
| 1 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...Mind. Blown. I'm moving to Berlin in a month. The possibilities! | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit if you could, what would you tell the 16 year old version of yourself (keep it related to seddit)?It should. Because Fuck Yeah. Actually, Fucking Fuck Fucking Yeah! | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 01:45 AM |
| 1 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...Oh come on :P | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit if you could, what would you tell the 16 year old version of yourself (keep it related to seddit)?13 y old you was probably fine just chillin', wasn't he? We have an advantage because of our incredible youth. Expanding that even further would be a bit ridiculous, I think. I mean, we're already gonna spend a large chunk of our formative years with this. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Saying "not giving a fuck"That last sentence is basically the whole manual of natural game, isn't it? Frogma, you boss. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Getting into state. Two kinds of approaches.Taking right action FTW. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Hey Seddit if you could, what would you tell the 16 year old version of yourself (keep it related to seddit)?You, sir, have my admiration. /17-y old | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 01:37 PM |
| 12 | Hey Seddit if you could, what would you tell the 16 year old version of yourself (keep it related to seddit)?As the 16 year old version of quite a couple of you, Thank you. Edit: Crap, just turned 17. I retract all of the above :P | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 01:31 PM |
| -19 | How exactly does one go about approaching girls in a loud party setting?I hate to be this guy, but there's a really simple answer. By being a boss. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 12:26 AM |
| 1 | So theres been a lot of bitching about scales...Myeah, in that scale, as well as the old one, we still have to struggle with classifying women of the highest attractiveness as such. It still puts them on a pedestal, even if 'hot' has been replaced by 'awesome'. | /r/seduction | 29/10/11 12:22 PM |
| 1 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...God-Damn-It. Why is there no Halloween in Holland? Also, hey Tofu, thanks for doing this. Quick question ('i need a female opinion'); is there a tip for growing more balls faster? (beautiful mental image) Cheers! | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 12:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Green EyesCommunicating disinterest is not a bad thing! In fact, it builds attraction, even though it breaks rapport. Either way, this is minor. A big fuck yeah to you, sir. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 02:04 AM |
| 11 | [FR] Green EyesTurning your attention to the cashier fast is not bad at all. It shows that you aren't all that outcome-dependant. Don't make a big deal out of trivial shit like this :) Also, yeah, maybe you could've pushed for longer to get her number, but it's no biggy. You still won, and that's awesome. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 01:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR]Met a girl who I shared a cab with. Everything went amazingly.Well there you go. You know what nerdyness is? Smartness for humble people. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 04:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Met a girl who I shared a cab with. Everything went amazingly.You. Dah Man. (☞゚ヮ゚)☞ ☜(゚ヮ゚☜) who da man? you da man! If I could, I'd chestbump your dorky asian badass. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 02:21 PM |
| 5 | LTR vs. PUA. Is it worth the trade?The key is to be interdependant, not codependant (needy), I guess. And, indeed, they aren't easy questions. But I guess they're the questions I'd ask before getting into an LTR. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 02:06 PM |
| 7 | LTR vs. PUA. Is it worth the trade?Do you love her? Do you think she'll make you happier than the potential competition? Those are the questions you should be asking. An LTR isn't about loss or gain, it's about emotional purity if you ask me. So, if you think you can answer these questions positively, then go for the LTR. If you can't, PUA will satisfy you more. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson (of Practical Pickup fame) has a new blog. The first article, "A New Masculinity," is essential reading.You do sound a little bit drunk here. Hope you had a good time out there! ;) | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Mark Manson (of Practical Pickup fame) has a new blog. The first article, "A New Masculinity," is essential reading.This is fucking amazing, and he's right. Another quote from fight club: We are the middle children of history. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 01:26 PM |
| 1 | wow, things around here have really improved!This is true! Killer shit. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 12:50 PM |
| 2 | wow, things around here have really improved!See, this is what we call a social robot. Well played, haha. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 01:47 AM |
| 15 | wow, things around here have really improved!Hooray! | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 10:18 PM |
| 38 | wow, things around here have really improved!And a very, very big thanks to our new mods, TestMyPatience & PUACurveBall; The awesomest. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Not giving a fuck - The story of a young man's awakening.I must read this once a day for... probably 3 years. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 01:06 AM |
| 1 | As long as you smile it doesn't matter what you do; you can pull off anything. Is this inner game?We've created the matrix, gentlemen. | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 12:14 AM |
| 2 | As long as you smile it doesn't matter what you do; you can pull off anything. Is this inner game?Oh, ouch. My sympathies for your suffering. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 05:25 PM |
| 6 | As long as you smile it doesn't matter what you do; you can pull off anything. Is this inner game?Doesn't have to, as long as you're happay (H) | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 04:49 PM |
| 8 | As long as you smile it doesn't matter what you do; you can pull off anything. Is this inner game?It has a lot to do with seduction. The shit that lady says very directly relates to being self-amused and confident, two major factors of what we call inner game, no? | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 04:35 PM |
| 8 | As long as you smile it doesn't matter what you do; you can pull off anything. Is this inner game?First 2 minutes were a big 'is this the right video?' After that, AWESOME BROAD! | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 04:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I become funny in a sexy way?This is so key it isn't even funny. All my fuck-ups are massively related to this. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Hey Guys, It's been a while. What are your 5 quick tips?Never give a straight answer to anything, unless it's 'no' (take that with a grain of salt) and enjoy every second of it. I've unintentionally come across as creepy wahaaay too often lately, because of lack of fun. | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 09:45 PM |
| 4 | I spoke with a girl on a bus.All this goes to show is that there are plenty of fish out there, mate. Don't stalk this one, find another one! | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 07:08 PM |
| 3 | An Exercise in VisualizationMyeah, I meant in the context of seduction, but whatever. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Two major problems: no car,no place to bring the girl back to. How would you go about it?I think this belongs in askseddit. But that aside- We need a general guide to logistics up on Seddit. It's one of the major areas of seduction, and nobody ever references it. Also- Don't try SNL's as much. Go for pulls on day 2's. | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What to say when girls complain about their boobs being small?This shit belongs in askseddit, seriously. And here's the tip- tease them on it; agree and amplify. | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Lost Frame, Think I friend zoned Myself, Failed Miserably.Video? :P Anyway, yeah, I know, I do that too. I've done it quite a bit (due to inertia, long story) lately, but it's useless. You're progressing, and that really is the only fucking thing that matters, so fuck yeah. | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 02:20 PM |
| 6 | It Never Ceases To Amaze Me How Much Backing Off Gets Them To ChaseIf I were you, mate, I'd just see this all as very amusing from now on. Treat her like a little child. She wants silly games, cool. Poke fun at it. Push and back off in such rapid succession that it becomes ridiculous, even, but whatever happens, stand above it all. Watch yourself play the game, and be amused by it. | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Lost Frame, Think I friend zoned Myself, Failed Miserably.Alright alright alright- Before I even read your story- NYCProwl, You are awesome at this. I've read your posts lately, you're doing fucking great. ABUNDANCE MENTALITY, MOTHERFUCKER. So you fucked up here? Well shit, son. According to your username, you're in the world's PUA-capital, so get back out there right fucking now and get yourself a new one! I bet you that within 2 minutes of leaving the house you'll have seen at least 3 HB's to open. This wasn't a failure, it was a lesson, and you've o… | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Honest question for AFCs:I think so too. No, but it's no biggy. Girl had a fight from her mom, lacked cell phone. So her mom called the cops; the girl called her mom; the mom called the cops again, the cops picked her up at our place. It was still fucking weird, since none of the involved had ever met the girl before. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Honest question for AFCs:Interpunctual hilarity. Bravo. Slow Clap | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Honest question for AFCs:Heh. Yeah, I went down and chatted her up a bit. I think she liked me, but... how do I say this. When I was about to get her FB or something, the cops came in. Yeah. That's pretty fucking weird. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Honest question for AFCs:THis is a good question. Also, this- There's a really hot girl (solid 9, blonde, perfect figure (drools)) I've never met before, standing in my living room RIGHT NOW, as I'm typing this, using our phone. Sadly, my dad is standing next to her. Now that's a question of how bad do you want it. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 05:52 PM |
| 13 | Honest question for AFCs:Truth. I approached a totally non-receptive (but increheeedibly hot) lady yesterday, who was sitting at the tram stop. The dude next to us made huge eyes. At first this freaked me out a little, until I realized: the dude is fucking impressed at my huge, steel balls. And that's how that works. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Assume attraction, don't assume sexThe terrible truth. It's a hard lesson to learn, man. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 02:51 PM |
| 2 | ON GIVING VALUE: Why you're not being invited out to do cool thingsAnd a new piece of the puzzle was found. Cheers. Welcome back, Tofu. You the man. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Small FR. Think of this as reinforcement that confidence can go a long way.Solid IOI's there, you are In. Good job, mister. Confidence is all. | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 12:29 PM |
| 1 | The New Paradigm Of Social Momentum in 2011Well Fuck yeah. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 11:50 PM |
| 1 | What are the top five stories you always tell on a date?Alright son. Sit down by dat fireside, and poppa gun' tell y'all a story of the good ol' days, when poppa was still a lil titnibbler at grampa and gamgam's place. So one night I sit at my computer, guitar in hand, writing music, right, and all of a sudden I see this mouse running around the room. It's really startling, flitting from one dark corner to the other, and eventually disappearing underneath the closet. At first I was a bit freaked out, because, you know. Mice in my house! But then I re… | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 11:48 PM |
| 1 | What are the top five stories you always tell on a date?There you go. | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Consolidated Seddit hacks with attraction/Comfort/Qualifying banter list. Contribute your own!Amen. | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 12:51 PM |
| 1 | How I Beat the Friend ZoneAww Yeah. Technical sidenote: What did part of the trick was giving her time of no friendzonefrndbone at all, to learn to desire him, and then returning as the übermensch. All of a sudden: Value! :D | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Direct = good attraction and sluggish comfort. Indirect = sluggish attraction and good comfort. What gives?This is very interesting. That does it, I'm done indirecting for a while. | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Food for ThoughtHowever, a confident alpha is just as much of a process giver as the massage, he can basically escalate however he wants. This is so fucking true for ALL seduction! | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 02:08 AM |
| 6 | What are the top five stories you always tell on a date?Meh, it's not said that you should take each others stories. Getting advice on wording and storytelling would be worth it though. | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 01:58 AM |
| 2 | What are the top five stories you always tell on a date?I second friskmym33t. You owe it to science, boy. For me its... 1) Saving my friend from scientology ("And I'm telling you, Marty, the next time these people call, you're gonna grab that phone like a venomous snake, and, by god, you're gonna tell them 'Listen. I have no interest in your religion, I practice voo-motherlovin'-doo!'") 2) Tutu story part 1: Drinking with foreign Dignitaries 3) Tutu story part 2: Amsterdam on a cloudy day; a longhaired kid in a tutu. 4) Something about the band I was… | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 01:57 AM |
| 1 | I'm struggling to learn more.The thing is that almost all the seduction stuff out there is a newer version of the Mystery Method. In fact, for some methods it's so much the foundation of everything that they kinda take the same structure as MM and see it as something you just take for granted (see: Jon Sinn, RSD). This doesn't even mean they're selling the same material, but almost everything has its origins ultimately in the Mystery Method. I do agree that selling every new detail as a whole new holy grail is shitty-lame, … | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Consolidated Seddit hacks with attraction/Comfort/Qualifying banter list. Contribute your own!I think it's important to realize none of these need to be taken literally. The idea/feel/thought/gist of it is what counts, and being able to implement that is the joke! | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Alright GuysRight on all accounts, honestly. This is good. | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Edits & Updates to SedditThis is amazing. You dudes are fixing it! | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 01:33 AM |
| 1 | New Seddit Moderator!Ah, that explains! In the past I always deleted my posts and then reposted them, thinking it was some kind of bug, but this explains. Oh well, I'm just glad that somebody is gonna take care of something now :P We are such sheeple. | /r/seduction | 14/10/11 10:57 PM |
| 2 | New Seddit Moderator!CurveBall, endless thanks for doing your thing to save this community first of all. I think redirecting AFC posts and downvoting bad posts is entirely legit, as long as it's done politely and as long as the people that do so give feedback. I think most people will agree, so consensus there shouldn't be too hard to find :) Furthermore, could you explain the spam-filter? Because I've found quite often that, upon posting something, it wouldn't show up anywhere... And, I mean, I'm not exactly a spam… | /r/seduction | 14/10/11 10:02 PM |
| 1 | NEWBIES READ THIS - IOIs & IODs, Qualification, and more!Thaaaaank You. | /r/seduction | 14/10/11 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Should we start downvoting any posts regarding individual women?Well... We used to have Mods for that shit, but I guess now it's just us. So, yes. Politely remind them that we have askseddit for these AFC posts, and then downvote, explaining to them that it's for quality control, and nothing else. Also, POST MORE QUALITY CONTENT! But I guess that's not really an easy order to follow anyway. | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 01:15 PM |
| 25 | A few videos that I thought were helpfulNow, see, this is what Seddit needs. Quality Fucking Content. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Did the regulars/mods stop posting?Honestly, I find this true. It seems that this problem is very recent. Mods, help us please. We are a group of little kids waiting to be guided. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditIndeed. In a way, I've always believed that confrontation is a part of growing past old demons. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 03:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Back from L.A. tripYou, sir, have Lorded. Makes me proud to read :) | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 12:58 PM |
| 17 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditDude, I can barely comprehend how hard that must've been, but you can be really proud of what you've accomplished by holding your ground. It's a landmark in personal growth; realize that, and see how it reflects on you. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Straight to the point. Tough love on why your game isn't as good as you want it to be.Tough Love You had me at that. This is what I need. I felt pretty caught by some of the points. One thing that keeps coming back is this: It's all about building momentum! | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 02:42 PM |
| 1 | I've been away for eight months and come back to. . .this. You guys need to stop overthinking things!Goddamn it. I'm afraid the dude may be very right. | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 02:18 PM |
| 10 | So I had my first kiss last night. At 19. There's still hope, forever aloners.Tell your wingman that he's fucking great, but that he's on thin ice here; waiting to text for that long could make her lose interest. It's true, don't text so soon that you look pushy, but don't wait for a week either. I think handling the cheesy old 3 day rule could be pretty solid here. | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 12:25 AM |
| 3 | So I had my first kiss last night. At 19. There's still hope, forever aloners.That's ok. It's ok to be a man and cry. | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 12:21 AM |
| 3 | So I had my first kiss last night. At 19. There's still hope, forever aloners.Cocky Funny up the ying/yang, like a goddamn boss. I'm fucking amazed, bro. Edit: by the way, her starting about that other guy was most likely a shit-test. Good job avoiding! | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 12:21 AM |
| 3 | NEWBIES READ THIS - Attraction & ApproachingAnd to the sidebar with this. A structured guide for newbies could solve a lot of seddit's whiny questions ;) | /r/seduction | 09/10/11 12:52 PM |
| 1 | So, I had a crush on this a girl.Aarrrrrgh yay. AKA Aw yeah. | /r/seduction | 09/10/11 12:57 AM |
| 1 | If you haven't found it yet..It makes him a clever businessman to me, honestly :P (nothing agains pixar, it's awesome) | /r/seduction | 09/10/11 12:55 AM |
| 1 | So, I had a crush on this a girl.I know right? totally made my day when I found it. Posting is called hoisting now. That's soooo cash! XD | /r/seduction | 08/10/11 02:10 PM |
| 2 | So, I had a crush on this a girl.First sir, now captain? Well well well. Did you set your preferences on piraty, too? :P | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 08:18 PM |
| 2 | So, I had a crush on this a girl.Onward and Forward, mate. I advise you finding more girls to crush on/socialize with, it will make the loss of a single one almost not worth noting. | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 08:09 PM |
| 1 | So, I had a crush on this a girl.For future reference, this belongs in askseddit, I think. Apart from that; did you notice any discomfort when talking? Did you do anything to piss her off? If you didn't, you cockblocked yourself by pushing too hard. you messaged her twice in a row, that's too stalkerish. Take note for future reference, my friend :) | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 07:47 PM |
| 8 | Since RSD deletes negative reviews from their forums, here is a mirror of one before it disappearsI've always wondered about this. I'm a huge admirer of Jeffy (read his book, laughed uncontrollably) but the fact that his teaching isn't groundbreaking doesn't surprise me... He just strikes me as too negative a person, so the yelling/quitting is understandable. How many students were there? Makes me wonder whether TD does better, as he's 'so passionate about teaching'. My main point of wonder is why he didn't demonstrate more or gave productive feedback. He's a professional, after all. | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 07:31 PM |
| -1 | If you haven't found it yet..Will all of the above please go fuck themselves? - WolfInTheField. what, I can't quote myself? | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 04:49 PM |
| 1 | If you haven't found it yet..This is a good quote. That aside, why do people treat Jobs like a hero? He was just a very, very clever businessman, and a very, very smart technician, if you will. He was good at what he did, and he influenced many lives. Granted. But he did so not to better the world, but to make a profit, and he did it by employing the same semi-slave labour as most other companies. He was a great businessman, but a great man? a hero? I doubt it (sorry, I know that rant does not belong here) | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Bestof? More like worstof. Let's set this thing straight.I don't really get the point of this post, tbh. | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 04:41 PM |
| 1 | 90 day challenge!I'll give you one tiny nuance on point 5- don't read and stuff, but POST FIELD REPORTS! These are awesome for everyone, and it's very good to be able to measure your progress by means of FR's. Great idea btw, though I'm skeptical as to whether you'll be able to pull it off. Where do you plan on finding 5 strange girls every day? :O | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 03:07 PM |
| 1 | A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)Awesome :) Now go out and do it! | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Myths of Inner GameShit man, some of that hit home. Fuck this, I'm taking a shower and going for a walk. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 01:22 PM |
| 1 | A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)Me too. I'm going for casino royale and quantum of solace for today. How 'bout you? | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 03:18 PM |
| 1 | A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)Whose exactly? xP | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 03:15 PM |
| 1 | A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)Nothing makes me think that. I'm just very fascinated with these people, and so rises the urge to incorporate parts of them in me. Also, yeah, I'm the best at being me, but am I the best me I can be? ;) Trying to answer that question can be very risky, as I've found that, especially with stuff like incorporating other personae into your own, you can lose the way quickly. | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 03:11 PM |
| 2 | A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)Makes sense. I long to incorporate personae like Bond and Morrison (who was more of a persona than a person, as he carefully crafted his own myth) in my own personality. I guess I'm a bit of a dreamer/actor... :P | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 10:02 PM |
| 2 | A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)I watched a bond flick when I was 9, and it taught me about sex. Then I watched more of them as I grew up, and I realized the man was a pussymagnet. Now I discovered this community, and realize that the ol' double-O is good for a couple of big O's, if you know what I'm saying. The movies are such an awesome way to learn about shit like tonality, frame and body language. And I like the part with 'my own flavor of bond'. Finding my own identity has always been hard for me. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 09:34 PM |
| 12 | A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)Dude, we have so much to talk about. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 07:58 PM |
| 19 | A Smooth and Casual way to GET HER NUMBER. :)This is basically the first thing most of us learned :P But if some newby picks this up, it's good advice. I also like this one: Man up and fucking tell her that you think she's hot/cool/awesome, and you want her number, like james bond on acid. :D | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Any one been to a bootcamp for seduction? which one is the best one in your opinioin?Whose bootcamps did you assist on? :O Edit: NVM, read thread. Impressive! | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 04:35 PM |
| 2 | “I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot...and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why... I succeed.” - Michael JordanMine was more motivational :P Also, there are several versions of this ;) | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 04:33 PM |
| 2 | “I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot...and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why... I succeed.” - Michael JordanYes, I'm sad too. This is a sad, sad day. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Seddit's favorite resources? Boot Camps?Well, no, not really, Magic Bullets is by Savoy/Love Systems, and they released it after Savoy and Mystery had their falling out. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Any one been to a bootcamp for seduction? which one is the best one in your opinioin?Myeah, I think that if you pay 3000 bucks for that shit, it should really be a high-quality thing. Letting newbie instructors run bootcamps without proper (m)PUA supervision strikes me as fucking retarded. I did hear that RSD run some awesome bootcamps, though. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 12:55 PM |
| 2 | “I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot...and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why... I succeed.” - Michael JordanA lil bit. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 12:53 PM |
| 1 | On to the next.This is good. You did good. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 12:52 PM |
| 3 | “I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot...and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why... I succeed.” - Michael JordanLook- I still mysteriously like that meme, but that was just misplaced, bro. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 12:47 PM |
| 2 | “I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot...and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why... I succeed.” - Michael JordanDamn Reposts! But let's roll with it- it boils down to this; there are no failures, only learning lessons. | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Seddit's favorite resources? Boot Camps?and here I am never having read that Did I miss much? I always stuck with the oldschool Mystery Method shit... | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Just go for it already. What the hell are you waiting around for?Kinda bittersweet, is it not? | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Seddit's favorite resources? Boot Camps?I think for most of us it started with The Game. It gave us an idea of what this is like, how it works, basically. Second, the Blueprint Decoded by RSD has become the backbone of the inner game of probably 60-70% of sedditors, probably. After that, I got a lot of structural game from Mystery Method. Yeah, that's right, the old dude is still out there. In the end, my current favorite resource is Seddit, honestly, at least for discussion. Edit: I am curious about bootcamps, but there's another thr… | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Losing the gameLook- you need to get your priorities straight. I hate to say this, but consider the option of putting seduction on the back-burner, just applying it to friday/saturday nights and maybe some random moments outside, and letting it rest apart from that. I guess your main problem in this situation isn't with Seduction, it's with school. The stress has your mindset going destructive and negative, and that's your actual problem, not the lack of approaches. Do a bit of meditating, reframe your experie… | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Any one been to a bootcamp for seduction? which one is the best one in your opinioin?I'm quite astounded by the negative review of the Love Systems boot camp. 90% of it doesn't shock me, but the lack of constructive feedback enrages me. As far as I'm concerned, that's 95% of being a good teacher. So what the fuck, LS? | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 11:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Finally seeing some progress againVery good, the parts about push/pull, roleplaying and teasing are awesome, inspirational. Gotta try the claw sometime... :P | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Here's a big-ass [FR] for you fuckers...It's worth considering. I guess I'm still trying to find my way with all this new emotional/mental perspective/freedom. I am tempted to doubt you just a little bit, but I'm gonna trust you guys' judgment. | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Direct Game Vs. Indirect Game'Ereyago. | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Texting/Talking Banter List. Take it or leave it.Save'd. | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gfWell, first of all, you could tell her about all the canned seduction stuff. That way, when some game-reader comes up like a mystery-impersonator, she won't be able to take it all that seriously. Furthermore, you could just be non-needy and keep attracting her. Thirdly, learn how to amog in subtle ways. As in- try to befriend them, be nice, be gentle, be the bigger man. If they don't realize they're doing it wrong, start amog'ing them, but not in an ungentlemanly way. You don't wanna show that y… | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm 'creepy', yet girls still love me. Is this a shit-test?1, definitely total shit-test and drunken wenches joking. Proceed with added steam :P 2# might have actually creeped them, due to bad delivery may be (you be the judge of that). However, strong frame recovered. Treating it like a shittest turned it into one, if you know what i mean. | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Direct Game Vs. Indirect GameFair enough, but I was asking about the popular norm :) | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Direct Game Vs. Indirect GameDidn't we have the ol' distinction of Direct is mainly for Day Game and Indirect is mostly for Night Game? That's how I've always played it. Also, Direct is all about high passive value, Roosh is very right there :) | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 12:22 PM |
| 1 | How would you read this?Depends. Did you escalate? | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Day 6 of no masturbating...I've done this too. It fucking sucked, but the drive I gained from it was pretty amazing. I should return to abstinence again, it's quite powerful. I'm quite astounded by what self-esteem issues people connect to the simple act of jerking off, though. I never sensed any of these implications, man. | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 01:36 AM |
| -1 | The quality of this subreddit is decreasingNo, just make it more clear that newbs should be redirected to askseddit. Srsly, stop whining, you lurkers. | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Anyone have their own personal success stories -- Where you went from being a "loser" who sat home all day with no friends and no girlfriend - to having a life with friends, gf, and more?Success is relative, but here's mine. I found a new way to live. I found a new way to see life. I went from boring, depressed and lonely, to having to take the evening off from socializing, just to recharge my batteries for a bit. And, no, I'm not getting laid like a rockstar yet, but what the fuck? I've come a long way from the AFC that I was. The rockstar thing is coming later. | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 12:37 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Got a number and a peck on the cheek from an absurdly beautiful girl.Don't get too attached. What you got is awesome but if you don't get more, you can't get caught up in it. HOWEVER! Go for it! | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 04:37 PM |
| 0 | How the fuck did this happen?Bro, this shit is uncool, but it reeks of potential one-itis. Drop it fast. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 03:58 PM |
| 1 | women never want to sleep with me again after the first timeI hate to say this, but honestly? My first thought is that the sex may be the problem. Maybe stop by on r/sex and evaluate your skill? I have no idea how you are in bed (sadly, im so lonely! :P) of course, so this is all very hypothetical, but maybe that's the problem. Other than that- go through your whole routine of picking up and fucking a woman. Is there anything you do that might make them uncomfortable, long-term? Are you building enough comfort, treating them respectfully, and keeping the… | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Seddit, how would you have fixed my fucked up night?Well, dude, shit like this just happens. The emotional headaches of women around you are not part of your game. Some things are just beyond your control :) Just imagine, though- If these women had all come in in slíghtly different circumstances, you woulda/coulda banged all three of them. I'm not saying that out of machoism, i'm saying that to make clear that you are awesome at this, and you're doing great. If you didn't get what you wanted tonight, you're gonna get it soon. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 01:22 PM |
| 1 | So she flips her hair...thank god, I'm not the only one too lazy to read all of that :P | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 12:54 PM |
| -5 | Do drugs help you?O.o | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Do drugs help you?A friend/Wing of mine picked up a girl last night while royally stoned and pretty drunk. It depends on your personality, but it's possible. HOWEVER you won't learn shit. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Here's a big-ass [FR] for you fuckers...It's a hilarious line, please do. Ichigo advised me to make a total fool of myself to realize how little it matters, and it did that quite well. I think you may be right. I'll think about all of this a bit more, because, as said, what she talked about hit home. However, you're definitely right in that in the end, it's all being comfortable in your own skin. We'll see where it leads. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Here's a big-ass [FR] for you fuckers...I was about to start counter-trolling you, when I realized that A) Seddit did my work for me by means of the ol' downvote, and B) the results are probably on my side. Are you improving yourself, skele1tonjelly? Judging by the fact that you're arguing with a 'giant faggot' who's juvenile enough to call himself 'wolfinthefield' on the internet, I doubt it. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 12:50 PM |
| 2 | What does it feel like to be attractive and desired by many? - QuoraIt feels like being a rocket engine. It feels like there's a fire burning within. It feels like there's a light shining from you. It draws their eyes. So much so that your eyes start laughing, almost mockingly, into theirs. sorry, were we not answering that actual question? ;) | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 12:28 AM |
| 2 | The age old story: "Don't stick your dick in crazy"Oh brother, this is a risky one. Only do it if you are aware of and ok with the potential shitstorm. Also, consider whether you are preying on her in a weak moment or not, or whether you think you can give value here. | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Guys I'm in Hyde park, London. Gimme some challenges!Why do people like you troll forums like Seddit? And do you realize how badly you are doing it? | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 12:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with depression?The thing with depression is that it makes you think that there's no other way. You don't wanna change. Fuck that. First lesson- you are not your mind. What else is there? Seddit is an amazing place, but you are best off seeing a therapist right now. If you don't wanna do that, you're A) giving in to depression and B) at least read the inner game sidebar here. There really isn't much more to do right now. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Guys I'm in Hyde park, London. Gimme some challenges!Wow. I'm fucking disapointedthat Seddit didn't give you anything better than that. Here we have a kid who wants to improve, for fucks sakes. Next time you're outside, do me a favor, and step it up in a gradual fashion. Here's my daygame challenge: First, make eyecontact (intense eyecontact; project thoughts ranging form 'hi, you are cute.' to ' i wanna fuck you.' to random girls) with every HB you see for 30 minutes Then take 15 minutes to rest, before you go to the next step. Say hi to everyone… | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Pick A Person: The very AA unfriendly gamehehehehe, this is gonna be so much fun. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 08:02 PM |
| 1 | HELP ME!Oh brother, you need to gain experience. There is no quick fix. However, I have two tips for you. One- Relax. When you feel yourself clogging up, take a deep breath, and tell your mind to shut the fuck up. Internally laugh at the clogged-up feeling in your gut/chest/head/throat, wherever. Two- Realize that this one doesn't matter. This date? no big deal. This girl? no big deal. There's thousands of them around where you live, I'm sure, so please, stop worrying. If you fuck this one up, you'll le… | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 07:45 PM |
| 1 | I think I've been "defriendzoned". What now?We need to go deeper. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 07:33 PM |
| 3 | What do you offer to do as an activity when you invite a girl over and aren't explicitly sexual about it?Duely noted, lol. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I think I've been "defriendzoned". What now?The escalation will tell. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Seddit! Give me Advice.See, you are this caveman already, why not go caveman a bit further. You don't have much to lose. I recommend a cromaxperiment, el jeffy style. Call. "Where d'you live?" "gives answer" click Get over there. Cavemanmoar. Get les resultates. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-closed my first HB9; still seeing her. Her turn on? Confidence. Also, being pushed through my AA scored me a hot FWB.I'll save it for when I"M NOT FUCKING SMASHED WITH WORK. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:51 PM |
| 3 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?it's a shit-test, only from a girl-friend/guy- Agree and amplify in a playful way. Maybe even escalate a little, by tickling her or something to highlight your words! :P Also, nothing is awkward unless you let it be awkward! Your inner game needs work, bro. Edit: Ah, nevermind, of course CurveBall, the old bastard, has already pre-empted everyone by giving the best, most comprehensive comment ever. Honestly, I'm in awe a bit :P | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 09:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-closed my first HB9; still seeing her. Her turn on? Confidence. Also, being pushed through my AA scored me a hot FWB.Enlighten me on what exactly that is and who did it? :P | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 09:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-closed my first HB9; still seeing her. Her turn on? Confidence. Also, being pushed through my AA scored me a hot FWB.Dude, can you give more details of how these interactions specifically went? Great fucking job by the way, really good! | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 09:02 PM |
| 4 | The single sentence you need to say in your head whenever you have doubts about approaching a beautiful woman.I imagine them giving me the most amazing blowjob ever. Works too. Also works for ramping up the sexual tension in silent moments of EC. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 05:22 PM |
| 1 | The single sentence you need to say in your head whenever you have doubts about approaching a beautiful woman.Mine is It's No Big Deal. Works pretty well, too :) Awesome post anyway, fuck yeah. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Just wanted to say Thank You!Watched it twice, fully intend to watch it two more times. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Just wanted to say Thank You!You, sir, are living the dream. I'm proud to be part of this community in moments like these. Enjoy every living, breathing minute of it, brother. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 09:18 PM |
| 1 | people call us Asshole, how do feel about this?People reject you doing it because they don't understand it, because it's different. Fuck that. Serious, you gotta ignore that. Treat it like a child whining for candy- with a gentle pat on the head and a 'one day you'll understand'. It's pretty arrogant, but it works. You can NOT care about that shit. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 12:50 AM |
| 1 | FR[12]: Invincible.I told her that of course I want to meet girls, but I'm not just a shallow guy trying to get around, and that I just wanted to live life to its fullest. This. Is. Awesome. Edit: How that fawk are you an AFC, my brother? You are doing awesome! Fuck results, those will come. You have something pretty rare- you can BECOME the party. So Fuck Yeah. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 12:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I just daytime #-closed a solid 9 on the tram, can I get an Amen?Crack! Sorry :P But no worries, bro. I'll see ya at 10-fucking-30 tomorrow morning :P | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.Thanks dude, that sounds potentially awesome :D I'll go and lurk highseddit a bit more... Also, thanks for the primer on meditation, I'll give it a read. Edit: I just did a 15 minute meditation/affirmation. Very interesting. I am the lizard king, I can do anything. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is Key, couldn't of gone any betterGood for you bro, any advice as to how you got the lady so into you? | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Two quotes that stuck with me after reading Vin DiCarlo's The Attraction CodeUpvote for the music quote. The first one has to click for you, otherwise it don't really do much. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.Could you, like, link me that or something? It sounds interesting...! That said, this is gonna be worth it. I've always hated physical strain, but I guess it's time to grow up. Edit: How do you game at your young age? I'm having some trouble not getting into clubs etc. or not being taken seriously sometimes. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you say "I'm still a virgin" without losing value?By only saying it if you have to, and not giving a flying fuck when you do. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.I'm 16, so, fuck, this is new. But hey, it's a minor price for a rise in confidence. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] HB7.5 F-closeAww Hell Yeah. Good fucking job, mate! See what being genuine and having fun combined with PU-skill can do for you? :D | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Don't chase women, they'll chase you [...] they're like horses in a pastures sometimes, you walk into a pasture... and they'll come over and investigate... - Morgan FreemanNow that´s a tight frame. That´s a natural, kids. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.I'm fairly drunk atm Cheers! And, yes, solid advice as per usual. I guess the part with getting comfortable will be very interesting. I'll push that a bit more when I next get the chance. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 12:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just daytime #-closed a solid 9 on the tram, can I get an Amen?Oh fuck yeah! Lookin' forward to it. And, yes, pushing the envelope felt good, man. Like a wave of relief washing over me as soon as I gathered up the balls to open my mouth. Cool to see you 'round here anyway, mate ;) | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.Conclusion: i should start working out! | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I have not seen that, care to explain? I think we can have the KKK/tradition satirically noted and then pass it on. Also, our mountan men multiracial militia needs to have a bit of a party at this point. the hallucinogenic moonshine could actually ad quite a bit to the story at this point, perhaps induce an epiphany or two, though this is optional. It will mainly make for a lot of fun. We'll return to the sidekicks later, I'm sure there is at least one of them among the militia's ranks, since th… | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 12:08 PM |
| 1 | A "cute" opener I tried last night.I'm not! Not even! :P But srsly, I was being srsly serious in that comment, srsly. Gambler is a boss. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 12:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just daytime #-closed a solid 9 on the tram, can I get an Amen?True, I got lucky with her stop being mine. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How can I be more of a leader, because I'm tired of being reserved and quiet.I think Being a very charismatic (aka: intense, which comes with being very sure about what you're saying and doing, and not giving a shit about whether other people will resist you, also not blinking much) and at the same time very relaxed and speaking with a good vocal projection can give you a good headstart. Also cultivating a certain mystique about yourself. Love Systems' Beyond Words was full of stuff to do for that. I did my homework! XD | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 12:01 PM |
| 1 | A "cute" opener I tried last night.interesting... | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 11:58 AM |
| 1 | A "cute" opener I tried last night.Nuance- There's the 'wing-girls' that were on some DyD seminar that seemed legit. This is yeaaaars ago though, and in the larger view not that noteworthy. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Hehe, I was just kicking around ideas. I like how this swinging from one end to the other and then finding its center in every stage. To be fair, I pulled every American stereotype out of my ass that I could right there. We already had enough wacky ideas, so I'm not offended that you think it's a bit too much :) I'm glad I threw the televangelist in though :P And, indeed, fox news is just for pure satirical, maybe even symbolical value, I don't want to get into actual politics, that would destro… | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 10:53 PM |
| 1 | A "cute" opener I tried last night.Gambler? Now that's social proof. I guess I am gonna have to have the lady looked after sometime. I'm done with theory for the time being though, so I guess it's gonna have to wait. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.The secret is that the harder you try, the less it's gonna work. That much I know. How to get back in instead, that part I haven't mastered yet. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 10:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I just daytime #-closed a solid 9 on the tram, can I get an Amen?True dat, I'll find a time-spot for it. And here we meet again, fellow Zep-fan. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 07:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just daytime #-closed a solid 9 on the tram, can I get an Amen?I'm busy all day tomorrow, so no can do. I texted her 'enjoy the rest of this awesome day, wolfinthefield'. + some stupid/funny question/joke ping at the end as a little ping. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 07:25 PM |
| 1 | What if...This. Happened to me today too, life's good. Life's sweet, can't complain - Brad, RSD. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 06:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just daytime #-closed a solid 9 on the tram, can I get an Amen?Very good idea! Now, I've already texted her, but I don't wanna become too invested in this óne girl, since that'd make me too outcome dependant, but how about I give her a call... Say, 2 days from now? On monday evening, maybe? And then just fluff, maybe run a routine as a conversation starter, and then set up a meet? I'm as much asking for advice as I am brainstorming right now, but the call thing sounds very solid. BTW, the C's/U's thing has become sort of a crutch for me to transition out of… | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 06:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I just daytime #-closed a solid 9 on the tram, can I get an Amen?This is very true. I'm currently passing up my saturday night out because I just want to chill, but I'm def gonna go daygame more tomorrow. I just felt soooo fucking relieved after I took her number, since the dry spell lately has been kinda lame. But yes, you are very right. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I love this. Srsly, every second of it is gold so far. We are gonna take every stereotype the US have ever known, and we're gonna take it all into one big surrealistic, symbolic shitstorm with the statue of liberty bent over on top of it all. We're gonna have fonzie hung from a tree for sympathizing with black people, a televangelist jesus-lookalike is gonna be carried around by the rednecks on a walking throne, and bigfoot zombies are gonna have a secret deal with fox-news to keep them hidden i… | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 05:18 PM |
| 4 | A "cute" opener I tried last night.Dude, I hate coming off as sexist, but I've never heard good pickup advice from a woman, unless she took it from the game/DyD. I can imagine her book being worth a read for understanding the impression we make on her better, though. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.Because I'm so used to speaking English,e ven though I'm dutch, I guess my choice of words stands out a little. Sometimes I take a bit longer (though I've replaced 'uhm' with tactful breaks already, f yeah) or I choose more difficult words, I guess. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.That's actually not even stupid. Next time I night-game, i should try that out. Thanks bro. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.Try to elaborate? Sorry, I don't quite get what you mean yet. Try even harder when I already come across as tryhard? | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks....And we are underway. Or- ...And so it begins. Either way- We are, and it does! F yeah :P I guess we'd definitely have to move out of Mississippi fairly soon, since there aren't that many mountains for bigfoot etc. to hide in there, i guess? by the end, he's more Hunter S. Thompson Fuck Yeah. That is definitely a nice direction to send him in. As long as he's not prone to suicide. Unless that'd make an awesome plot twist. But we'll see whether that works :P Shall we have it start with a newspa… | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I could [FR] this, but there's not much of a point. Instead, I have a question.Myeah, I thought I had that down. It's fairly hard for me, it turns out. This lady gave some very interesting advice btw, that can help me fix the problem. Sidenote, I think at least 10% of the women I run into are psychologists or brain-afficienado's. Very strange. I guess that's my mind filtering resuts for how applicable they are. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 10:33 AM |
| 7 | How can I be more of a leader, because I'm tired of being reserved and quiet.I second this, and raise you a rephrasing if anybody needs one: "how to be low-energy, yet stay the center of attention?" You, OP, however sound like you needs to open up more in general! Could you elaborate on what you mean by 'I hate talking'? Because being silent ain't gonna get you tail, brah (I generalize, but you get the point). | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Seddit, I know you guys are the only people who can make me feel betterThis, a thousand times. And not just for exes and breakups. Wisdom is with you, brother. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 01:53 AM |
| 2 | A newbie's note on Abundance Mentality. Life changer.Yeah, that catches the gist pretty well. With my ex girlfriend it still spoils my day whenever she enters the vicinity, honestly. With aforementioned ex-oneitis (not ex-gf), I used to believe (and reality proved me right, of course) that my life would go down the shitter every time she entered, unless I really needed her presence. I've kinda decided that I'm old enough to drop this childish, pseudo-metaphysical/symbolical bullshit now, and stop giving this batshit insane lady any kind of power o… | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I call dibs on Mississippi; the river itself has such beautiful connotations that any travel on- or around it is almost a literary freebie, if you know what I mean. I'm ok with travelling writer, that fits what I meant by Omega-Male-type personality pretty well, actually- I hadn't envisioned it as a personality in total isolation, but one that is very comfortable in it. Honestly, I'm not all that well versed in American literature/culture (which is also why I only just learned that C vs A had a … | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.mhm... I just realized I did rip off CB/A :P I actually dug that movie, Olivia Wilde was hot, and I didn't make the fatal mistake of taking it seriously... I mean, come on. Cowboys. And aliens. Oh, and when it got boring, indians. And you couldnt shoot them, but you could spear them. Yeah, no, ok. ....Anyway- Ok, no more cliché's. What profession does this man have? is he an alpha, a beta or an omega male? (i vote omega, I think a lone-wolf type of personality would fit the epic surrealistic que… | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 07:15 PM |
| 7 | A newbie's note on Abundance Mentality. Life changer.Heh. My old one-itis just resurfaced today. I just realized- fuck that. She'll get no more attention than any other girl out there. In fact, I'm off to go collecta couple numbers, bitches! =D | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.hehe, fair enough :P Shit, we unleashed a LOT of potential fast here, man. Wanna start waking up with no memories in the arizona desert, or with a call from washington? | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I like this :P We should writ a book about this. Needless to say, bigfoot himself was at the heart of all of it- he hid the WMD's and framed Saddam and his sandn*ggers! Srsly though, shit's hilarious. Now it's time for me to get pumped and GET THE FUCK OUT THERE! | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 06:05 PM |
| 1 | First [FR] First Approach (After Class) (Failure)Fuck yeah. That is the best you could say. If you pull it off, internet-chestbump will ensue. PM me or post another FR :) | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Like bambi? looks up expectantly, bleary-eyed | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 12:59 PM |
| 2 | I just want to be noticed (I'm 17)I don't think you understood his comment. Doing something risky isn't the point. Doing something that's an achievement for YOU is the point, and then not sharing it with anybody only means you actually did it for YOU and not for anybody else. Also, you are basically advising to be passive/agressive, and honestly, that sounds unhealthy. OP, I highly advise you ignore this comment. No personal offense to Tarblz intended. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 12:58 PM |
| 1 | First [FR] First Approach (After Class) (Failure)I'm not even gonna read this (because it's 4:30 am where I live), but THERE IS NO FAILURE! You approached! FUCK YEAH! You are awesome. Fuck it if it didn't go anywhere. You grew some big, fat balls. You did it. You learned. The next step is to realize that you should think more positive, and after that life becomes a golden land of awesomeness. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 02:35 AM |
| 2 | I just want to be noticed (I'm 17)As a (i guess slightly more experienced) 16 year old, THIS. And thank you. It needed to be said. Sadly, it's still a bit general, but I think OP (and me too) could internalize it. Hell, we should. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I am so impressed. I'm gonna sit here, in front of the fireplace, and listen to you tell it, grampa :D And is there any of the hallucinogenix left? :P Srsly though, nice. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Now we're talking. That story better have tits though. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Mind. Blown. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?I will summarize all of mine, and probably all of the below: "I can't do it, because I'm being a pussy, and I'm trapped in my head." But more specifically? I can't do this, because it's not natural for me! I had a big problem with this; it all felt so fake. It still does when I'm not in state. A bigger problem? I can't do it, because I lack the confidence. This is also a symbol for 'I can't do it, because I'm too geeky/asocial/stupid.' Fuck these limiting beliefs! We who are gathered here are me… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.More GG, more skill. - White Ra And I don't even fucking play Starcraft! I had a pretty bad one not so long ago, but I already FR'd that. In general, my blowouts look like this: No response from the chicks. Everything gets a bit awkward. Chick: "so why are you still talking to us?" or "you know how rude it is to interrupt people?" when I open. And then I say 'pleasue meeting you' and leave. Like a boss. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Because you were trapped in an 10-foot-deep manhole, into which you had fallen due to foggy weather, while looking for the yeti's lair, with no food and no water, except for the mud that the rain washed in every night. Somehow you managed to access Reddit from in there and make this account. ...How could there be any other explanation?! | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:46 PM |
| 1 | A little variation to the Neil Strauss street approachThat you immediately, or at least very quickly in the interaction, show your interest to the target. Common application: 'Hi/Excuse me, I saw you from X (X = over there, across the street, etc.) and I couldn't helpt but think how cute/gorgeous/awesome/stunning you looked (or any other compliment; the more specific, the better!). I would've kicked myself all day if I hadn't come over and talked to you. shakes hand So, hi, my name is mommathecat, who are you?' :) ...Or whatever goes along those li… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Flying to LA RSD Hotseat to see Jeffy and TylerFair enough. I'd love to hear some stories of that, man. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Flying to LA RSD Hotseat to see Jeffy and TylerAh, that makes a lot of sense. How are the expectations of that thing? I'm a bit skeptical from what I've seen so far. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Flying to LA RSD Hotseat to see Jeffy and TylerFunny, here I was always thinking that LA was the PUA capital of the world? (Wait, you're from... LV?) Also, where is Mystery anyway nowadays? I thought Tyler lived in LA. TIL. That sounds like tight (inner) game anyway, fuck yeah. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Need some advice -- what would you do in this situation?1) In what environment did this happen? 2) You're getting too caught up. Sitting and simmering don't help (so good job asking for advice :) ). You could directly ask her what went wrong, and tell her not to give you crap. Chances are you won't be albe to salvage much of it after that (though you might!) but you could learn how to avoid this in the future. 3) You're getting too caught up pt. 2- Don't catch oneitis here, for god's sake. If it doesn't work out, NEXT the lady. If it don't work it do… | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 03:19 PM |
| 3 | A little variation to the Neil Strauss street approachYou might wanna try direct approaches in the daytime, dude. It's good to build your comfort levels doing this lowrisk/lowreward style approach, but I think you'll have more success going direct during the daytime. That said, this area is very new to me too, so don't mistake my advice for a statement of authority. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Flying to LA RSD Hotseat to see Jeffy and TylerOh shit bro. Well, then I wish you the best of luck, it sounds like an awesome rampage will ensue (though I don't know whether LA is still sargeable these days?). | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Flying to LA RSD Hotseat to see Jeffy and TylerDamn brah! You better post results ;) How long is it? 1 day, 2 days? | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain the why and how of Disqualification?Can we PLEASE get a really big-ass DQ'ing thread going? Curveball already hinted at great expertise here. I think this is a greatly forgotten part of game for a lot of us... | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Inner-game horrible - feel like I'm going nowhere.Good memory, I am 16, but nope, I'm not in highschool. That's why I have so much time to waste here. And, yes, it's extremely counterproductive. It makes you think 'with all this shit I know, I should be able to do this and this and this, when in reality, i still suck!' ...Whereas just approaching makes you go: 'Oh, I suck. But this is so much fun! :D' and then you improve and genuinely start making other people's day with it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 11:48 AM |
| 1 | I wanna see what people think, What is this girl thinking.There may be somehting there. Usually the rule is 'always assume attraction' and 'always be gaming'. However, if you have a GF, let it show you that you are an attractive dude, and then let it go. Unless threesome. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 11:45 AM |
| 4 | Liking the recent Text Game posts. Heres a line i used today, what do you guys think?the shotgun part may have been a bit freaky, other than that awesome line. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 11:42 AM |
| 4 | Flying to LA RSD Hotseat to see Jeffy and TylerMAKE JEFFY AMA (fuck tyler, we know all about him already :P) No, but srsly- tell us how it was! I'd love to go, but I'm half a world away. Maybe some of the dudes in bayareaseddit could dig the trip? Edit: I thought Tyler was out of RSD doing selfhelp? o.0 Edit 2: what does an endeavor like that cost, anyway...? | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 11:31 AM |
| 8 | Inner-game horrible - feel like I'm going nowhere.I have this so badly it's not even funny. I lurk so much, I overthink this stuff so much. I'm basically here 24/7 xD Thing is, it's addictive. You get offered a new piece of the puzzle, a new holy grail, at least once a day. (that said, I've been giving more advice than receiving lately, but still, I should cut back. A lot.) | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 02:59 AM |
| 1 | I wanna see what people think, What is this girl thinking.Different question: HOW did she say hi? How did she look at you, what'd she say? Most importantly, what was her body language like? | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 02:57 AM |
| 5 | The glance, the look, the f*ck-me eyes. What do they actually look like?I love how you apparently just had that at the ready! XD | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 02:54 AM |
| 2 | The glance, the look, the f*ck-me eyes. What do they actually look like?I think I watched a movie about that not so long ago... | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 02:52 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Date 5, Mission AccomplishedAwesome dude, I'm glad you made it! The part about her period grossed me out a bit though xD No, but srsly, fuck yeah! | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 02:50 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Goo Goo Dolls, Night 2Fuck yeah! :D Sounds great dude, looking forward to reading it. It's 4 AM here, so it's bedtime for me anyway, but I'll see it when it pops up. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Just a little mental gambit...Hehe. I can respect that. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Just a little mental gambit...Hm... I have actually never considered trying to deprogram the mind from this stuff, but who knows what it might be good for in the future. In the meantime- your quote is not from the blueprint-age, i think, because during that time Tyler had just lost all of his fat. I'm not sure, though. I did see the anger in Tyler's eyes every now and then though. That's also why he freaks me out a bit. Anyway, will definitely check out Eckhart Tolle. I always thought the dude was way old! TIL. Thanks a lot. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Just a little mental gambit...What bullshit? I'm genuinely curious, because I've always been amibvalent towards TD, but I can't deny that the Blueprint has been monumental for me. Also, I dig the pic of Tolle a lot. I should start reading some of his stuff- my mom is german, so I could read it in the original language... that'd be awesome :) Also- what's the point of PUAhate? :S It seems almost like a pickup adaption of 4chan - everone to hate on everyone with (mostly) unfounded accusations. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 10:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Frame control, closing both of a two set, a GOLDEN opener, and bitches love pizzaIt's funny how much we fall in love with certain groups of dudes while trying to get laid with tons of chicks xD | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I stop acting needy and scaring them off?there ya go! | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Just a little mental gambit...Are you saying that as a TD hater or a Tolle fan? Also, wasn't Eckhart Tolle German? The name certainly is... Besides, why are you thinking that? | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Just a little mental gambit...Ah, is that where it's originally from? I know TD quotes it a lot in Blueprint, and he's the total Tolle fanatic, so I guess that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 03:17 PM |
| 3 | A Rant on Negssome were shy in high school, some were just broken up with, others just wanting to get better with women. I'm all three! :D Other than that- not a bad post. You gotta realize that it's not even about negging or not negging, it's about knowing what you can pull off *when!*** Edit: also, delivery is e-ve-ry-thing. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Do I stand a chance with a turban?I'm not here to have a trollfight over spirituality, in whatever form. Have fun with your beliefs, I'm here to learn seduction x) My comment meant to provide perspective rather than start the massive discussion that would probably come from it. Edit: I'm a bit disturbed by 'polite mask'. That sounds like, secretly, you're a total ass, but you mask it for other people? :P | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Just a little mental gambit...No, that goes: Excelsior! I've just been fired! Like a boss! =D | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Just a little mental gambit...You are not your mind. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Just a little mental gambit...I can't help it, that still makes me smirk. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I stop acting needy and scaring them off?Maybe you haven't developed an abundance mindset yet? I hate to do this, but... we have a sidebar... You sound pretty advanced though, so maybe I'm not helping. Btw, are you Dutch, or why does your name end in NL? :P (I am) | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 11:00 AM |
| 6 | Do I stand a chance with a turban?You're overcomplicating this, I think. Let the man experiment. Our advice is but advice, the man should find balance for himself, by his standards, not ours. Also, in honesty, denouncing sikhism as 'just' a destructive force strikes me as a bit disrespectful and ignorant, no offense. I'm sure thousands of people gain solace and enlightenment from it, even though I agree that it makes no sense to have your beliefs fuck up your life's needs. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Just a little mental gambit...'Erayago! Edit: Like a boss. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Just a little mental gambit...Myeah, I'm sure there's better shit you can do for a good mood. As said, this ain't no magic pill, just a little mental gambit :P | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Just a little mental gambit...We need to go deeper. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 10:36 AM |
| 0 | Newbie Challenging The RulesYeah, don't get me wrong, I'm not a mysogenist. What I meant was that the term 'bitches' seemed fairly fitting for women who seriously practice shit like this. I don't think it's unreasonable to say that it is more or less the blueprint of being a bitch, is it? That said, let's consider it mechanical and misguided. Rather a tad arrogant than a tad agressive, ey? :P | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 10:36 AM |
| 7 | Just a little mental gambit...You, sir, are getting it. Besides, how does that thought not make you smirk? | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Ok Guys, You Ready?Fuck That. She's seeing the awesome in you. This. And besides, always see the awesome in yourself. You are so worried about the wrong things, OP! Guess what? She laughs at your jokes, she sends her friends over to tell you that they love you? She asks about you? The lady is into you fair enough, my friend, and you have nothing to lose by making a move. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 01:02 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Very first cold approach! both success and failureDude, respect. You almost #closed your first open. You have any clue how good that is?! Don't worry so much, you did great! One thing you have to work on (like most of us do) is an abundance mindset- there are billions of women out there. F it if this one slipped away, you'll get a hotter one. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Tips for first date with a stripper?Other than that- dudes, are you jealous or what? Let the man have some fun! Do it like you'd always do it- get to know her! see whether you actually connect as people! after that you'll be well aware whether she's playing you, and until then for fucks sake assume the benefit of the doubt. It's not like you wouldn't notice if she were squeezing you for money. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Tips for first date with a stripper?...Unless the sex is so diabolically hot that your brains get positively fucked out, in which case you won't be able to resist anyway. But hey, rather a satisfied vegetable than a sad dude with a permanent boner =D Who needs self-respect anyway? | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Tips for first date with a stripper?We should get a serious post on strippergame up on here, man. That stuff would be awesome to read. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 12:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm Outta the Dive, and Coming AliveThank you, I'll do my best :) I'm not sure what it has in store for me, but I'm very eager to find out. That said, as long as you stay true to your core self and your moral compass, I'm sure I'll end up without regrets. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Newbie Challenging The RulesIf the shit mentioned below doesn't immediately work, I advise to move on with that stuff. This is potential deep shit. If she wants to play games, move on, seriously. You don't want that manipulative crap loaded on you. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 10:40 PM |
| -2 | Newbie Challenging The RulesI'm so glad that bitches (yes, i refer to them as bitches, because the exploitative, control-freakish rules shit pisses me off. i mean, come on. we all know girls like this, and do we want them MORE for their bitchery? doubt it. we have selfesteem, don't we?) drop their control quickly for a man they're really attracted to, otherwise this thing would be a massive bitch to deal with. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 10:39 PM |
| 1 | FR: Day Game, having fun, jumped the gunI'd love to get into it a bit. Where d'you daygame, and is there any special way you learned to do it? | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 09:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm Outta the Dive, and Coming AliveI can't stop now x) I love this game. I'm not quite sure what you mean by context, and either way I hope to gain it the fastest by forcing myself into as many social interactions as possible. The game to me is as much about self-improvement as it is about getting laid. I think it's pretty useful to do this NOW, since chances are I'll never have as much time for it later in life as I do now (I don't have school, since I graduated last summer, and now I'm taking a gap year). I agree on the frustra… | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 08:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm Outta the Dive, and Coming AliveI'm not, unless the bouncers are lenient. I mainly play terracegame. There are a few 16+ clubs around here that I should try out, but I'm not that enthousiastic to try them, as they have a sucky-ass reputation. And, yes, I'm aware that I'm young as all hell, but what can I do? ;) | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 07:57 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Executing the Apoc OpenerDid you Kino? Maybe she was intimidated by the environment and waited for you to make a move/get it over with? | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 02:38 PM |
| 2 | FR: Day Game, having fun, jumped the gunI think where you fudged it is A) not building comfort before making a move and B) losing state over her rejection. Other than that, you learnt, displayed balls, and that's great :) I need to do more daygame too, man! | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 02:35 PM |
| 1 | 15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learnedIt works really well for me, man :) You gotta be able to pull off the hat though, otherwise it may appear a bit over the top. I originally started wearing it for peacocking purposes in the first place, actually, but kept it because it worked very well. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 11:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm Outta the Dive, and Coming AliveYou bet it does. Last night I felt like I could start improving again, which was awesome. Now to go for Calibration and Kino again. BTW, I found that I barely even use routines anymore lately. It's like... I'm in state. I'm awesome. Ladies notice it, I don't need to demonstrate it. It's a cool realization to know that you are, in fact, an attractive man. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 11:16 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm Outta the Dive, and Coming AliveFuck Yeah. Thanks dude. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 11:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm Outta the Dive, and Coming AliveYeah, but ladies in general usually think I'm 18/19, which is massively funny to me, since I have a bit of a babyface. Can't wait for these stubbles to turn into a beard :P | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 11:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Honestly guys, I have no silver lining for you.I never got that vid! X D Edit: Magnolia forever, babeh. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 01:37 AM |
| 2 | 15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learnedBlazer, dress shirt, MOTHERFUCKIN' COWBOY HAT, BIATCH. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 01:17 AM |
| 2 | 15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learnedI had a massive problem with this lately! I was so unnatural, it was terrible, I lost all my natural charm, instead of amplifying it. I was also terribly chronically out of state. Tonight I broke this pattern, which was awesome, FR coming soon. Either way, this is an awesome tip we must not forget. Great post, mate. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 01:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Honestly guys, I have no silver lining for you.I'm going to force myself to think this, over and over. Also, I just watched something so fucking motivating that I don't even know where to start. Gonna post a link to it in a minute. | /r/seduction | 17/09/11 01:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Honestly guys, I have no silver lining for you.I think I've gone off course. I'm going to try the most basic stuff I know, to calibrate, tonight. I think it's all in the mind in the end. | /r/seduction | 17/09/11 01:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Honestly guys, I have no silver lining for you.Thanks dude, I'll get back to you tomorrow. Tired as fuck right now. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 11:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Honestly guys, I have no silver lining for you.Yes. I have, and so far, I've enjoyed the journey lots. But if the journey starts to take you back instead of forward, it's frustrating, isn't it? | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 11:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] one hell of a week. Could go either way tomorrow. (Warning: rather long)That sounds decent. I'm a bit worried about how assy that comes off, but I think you can pull it off with some soothing kino or w/e floats your boat. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Need help on date with a hard to get girl.Reminds me of the 5 C's of the bad first date. That shit solved this. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 02:19 AM |
| 2 | PracticalPickup: You Signed Up For Awkwardness - must read for 90% of the people that pass through here!Turrrrtle! | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Question concerning eye contact.This is all HUGE. I'm gonna reread this tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 02:08 AM |
| 1 | [FR] one hell of a week. Could go either way tomorrow. (Warning: rather long)Also, sorry for doublecomment, but how do you show empathy without becoming the therapist? I have this problem a lot. Maybe you got her buyers' remorse buy crossing the line between makeout and foreplay without closing the deal. Look it up, Mystery spoke of this a lot. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 01:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] one hell of a week. Could go either way tomorrow. (Warning: rather long)I like monday, a lot. Proper txt game. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 01:45 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Don't eject too quicklyPremature Ejection Disorder. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Need help with AA, kino, leading and being assertive and being confident about yourself? I have found a secret weapon.Fuck. I already got told I needed dance classes. I'm afraid this is on the list now. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 12:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR of an old, forgotten night] Severe blowout: What would you have done?I don't think she was nearly into me enough to bounce her away from all her friends... Though part of that is lack of inner game. Thanks though, I hope I can hold frame next time for added win. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 12:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR of an old, forgotten night] Severe blowout: What would you have done?Duely noted. Back to ship, men! (yes, i just put my preferences on piraty. that's fucking awesome, man) | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 08:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR of an old, forgotten night] Severe blowout: What would you have done?I actually have a text-file with lines to AMOG people with, funnily enough. However, he was more rooted int he set than I was, and after he did that the discomfort level for everybody was pretty high, so defying him probably wouldn't have helped me much further. However, it woulda been good practice to amog him... Ah well, you presented a good idea, i should reread some stuff on this. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 07:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR of an old, forgotten night] Severe blowout: What would you have done?Yeah, it's hard for me to stay on the fine line between 'disrespectful' (which woulda made me the douche) and 'nice guy' (which is, of course, weak). I'd love to try your approach next time shit like this happens, who knows how beautiful that could get. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Why doing is better than just readingFuck, we had the same thing. We're having a bit of an Indian Summer right now though, so I better get ready to leave in about an hour (it's 7PM now) | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 05:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR of an old, forgotten night] Severe blowout: What would you have done?Haha, I'm gonna remember that. Thing is, whenever I see him HES WITH HBREDHEAD, arm in arm, in fact. That explains a lot, doesn't it? But yeah, I always feel how much I have the highground, since I hang around with, basically, all the regulars at the plaza where this happened, and the thing is- he knows he was being a douche. I know he was being a douche. Everyone knows he was being a douche. So whenever he sees me he just kinda hides in his hoodie. It's actually pretty funny to me. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 05:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR of an old, forgotten night] Severe blowout: What would you have done?Fuck Yeah. That's what I thought at the time too, but my inner game was so weak that I kept questioning it for like a week. Hence I posted it when I remembered it (with a smirk, to be fair :P) | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 05:15 PM |
| 1 | PUA Tracker iPhone AppHeh, that'd be pretty cool. Looking forward to it. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Are there any sedditors in Texas looking to get out there? I want a wingThen it MIGHT help if you'd specify this stuff a bit more, mate. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Are there any sedditors in Texas looking to get out there? I want a wingIsn't Texas the size of half of Europe? | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 02:19 PM |
| 1 | PUA Tracker iPhone AppIt's funny how you project all these negative intentions into a purely practical application :P I don't think the rating is the point of this thing, the tracking is. I don't have trouble seeing the use of it. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 02:12 PM |
| 1 | PracticalPickup: You Signed Up For Awkwardness - must read for 90% of the people that pass through here!I like how many IOI's the chick in the vid is giving the bouncer :P Also, I did something like this, I went opening a couple of sets in Amsterdam while wearing a tutu and cowboy hat. Surprisingly good results (no closes though, that shit would never have worked :P). | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 01:10 PM |
| 1 | PUA Tracker iPhone AppIt interests me, yes. The psychology of the troll, I bet you could make a good book out of that. Or at least understand them, so you can troll them back so well they just leave. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Why doing is better than just readingI'm in The Hague, Netherlands, my friend. And yeah, it's not great for sarging. My school ended in May, and until I get a job I'm basically your ol' night owl. How is Illinois these days? :P | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Why doing is better than just readingEmbrace the faceplant. I found a new mantra today: 'Relax the mind. Become the Awesome.' Worked pretty well so far :P Still sounds tough though, either way let's just fucking do it (for you tonight, for me tomorrow; it's 4 AM here). | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Why doing is better than just readingYeah, I know, me too. Dude, I went to the city tonight, originally to practice pickup, but just before I left the house a friend texted me 'wanna watch the devil's double?' and I refused to refuse that... So we watched that instead. The problem is, finding sets on wednesday night is hard enough where I live, and after the movie there were only a few sets of 20-something year olds left, and I chickened out. I HAVE to open at least 5 sets (if possible more like 10) tomorrow, otherwise I'm gonna fe… | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 01:25 AM |
| 1 | shattering limiting beliefs: "I can't get laid because I live at home."It does. I'm just wondering where the line is ;) You can have all the confidence in the world and still act like a total fucktard around women, right? | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 01:04 AM |
| 1 | PUA Tracker iPhone AppWhy do people like you troll forums as awesome as this? | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 01:03 AM |
| 1 | PUA Tracker iPhone AppPotentially awesome. Let's save this until it's applicable to me :P | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Why doing is better than just readingIt's funny, I haven't been hardcore sarging in 1.5 weeks, and spontaneously these 'GET THE FUCK OUT THERE!' threads are all over seddit. Funny how the mind sees what applies to it. And Fuck Yeah, Let's get out there, guys! | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 01:01 AM |
| 3 | PracticalPickup: You Signed Up For Awkwardness - must read for 90% of the people that pass through here!To not even think Been here for a while. Remembering this still sparked a bit of an epiphany. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 12:59 AM |
| 6 | PracticalPickup: You Signed Up For Awkwardness - must read for 90% of the people that pass through here!I like that it was very no-bullshit and practical, and the revelation that by going through the awkwardness phase, you're on the right path (pain period). However, this article denied one really fundamental thing. Whatever you do in this pickup game, it's going to improve you as long as you ACT. And guess what? It's going to be a fuckton of fun, too! If sarging weren't so much fun I wouldn't be doing it anymore, man. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 12:58 AM |
| 1 | The Libertine Series, Part 1: Become a RegularThis is interesting, but very David Wygant/specific. Then again, ABG. Solid! | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Videos?qqnq's being a dick, sidebar has no vids even though it's fucking amazingly chock-full of good info. That said, my recomendations? Mind of Mystery (By mystery method), The Blueprint Decoded (By RSD), Beyond Words (by love systems), and Cocky Comedy (by Double Your Dating). That shit combined gives you e-ve-ry-thing you'd need. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 02:31 PM |
| 2 | i may be wrong, but it seems to me that "spitting game" is the most peculiar mix of making bitches laugh and being subtly condescendingTitle is really just an analogy for Cocky/Funny, man :P | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Making it sexualKinoKinoKinoKino Roleplaying Misinterpreting shit she says like she wants to fuck you, and believe what you say, too. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Virgin curseI got seduced by a girl I thought loved me. That solved shit pretty effectively. Funnily enough, in hindsight I pulled a total mPUA on that girl without knowing it. I accidentally did everything right, lol. ...Anyway- DO NOT ADMIT TO BEING A VIRGIN IF YOU CAN PREVENT IT. It's almost stygmatizing. Unless of course, you actually want to lose it to a girl that you love, in which case you should wait. I hate to lie to people, but in this case it's just crippling, man. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Operating outside of my comfort zone, one-itis, aiming out of my league, and dealing with ambiguity. In other words, I need help. Please.Don't plead for help with us, mate. It comes from a wrong mindset. We'll help you anyway, don't worry ;) That said, the first thing I can tell you is to relax. There's many ways to instantly relax yourself and slow down this huuuuge flow of thoughts you have, look them up or ask me and other sedditors for them. They're great for putting you out of your head, as that's where most of your problems are. Once you've done that, there is a beautiful, beautiful inner game guide in the sidebar of this b… | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 02:20 PM |
| 2 | shattering limiting beliefs: "I can't get laid because I live at home."What practical solution do you need for this, though? was OP not making excuses for things he could do anyway? That would account it to inner game. What we're discussing here is whether OP's monetary issues were RELEVANT to PUA, not how to solve them. That said, I agree. Sometimes the Inner Game movement get's too dictatorial/goes too far. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 02:17 PM |
| 2 | shattering limiting beliefs: "I can't get laid because I live at home."That said, he would probably be even better if he at least groomed himself nicely and showed that he cáred about his surroundings. Note: There is a milewide difference between showing that you cáre and showing that you can spend MONEY on it. The latter is unnecessary, the former is part of attraction. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Emerging of PatternsFuck, that's gonna be difficult. My problem is that I always have the perfect battleplan, but once I'm doing it I usually don't think of it anymore and hence never properly execute it. It's that fine line between being in your head too much and forgetting whatever game you haven't internalized yet... On the plus side, I watched Beyond Words by Love Systems over the last two days, and it shows that you can be way more sexual just by your body language (Fucking awesome dvd's anyway, these guys don… | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Help Seddit, I choked. (Approach anxiety)Yeah, you'll be very good at it by the time you're done, probably. But within 10 000 hours, your approach while practicing can have such vastly different consequences that giving ANY number other than A LOT is just retarded. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Help Seddit, I choked. (Approach anxiety)Yeah, you'll be very good at it by the time you're done, probably. But within 10 000 hours, your approach while practicing can have such vastly different consequences that giving ANY number other than A LOT is just retarded. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Help Seddit, I choked. (Approach anxiety)I was about to think of some really pseudo-cocky/funny answer, but really I'm just glad it helped :P | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 12:57 AM |
| -1 | Tips for handling multiple girlsShit man, I'm gonna save that. Not that I need it, but you never know... | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Tips for handling multiple girlsActually, don't do either. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Cougar tips?Holy shit I laughed my ass off at that. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 12:40 AM |
| 7 | Help Seddit, I choked. (Approach anxiety)Here's what you're gonna do. You're gonna visualize yourself doing this, opening, and every thing going great ten times. This is almost as good for gaining experience as actually approaching it (though it's obviously no replacement). Then, next time when a situation even remotely like the one you envisioned occurs, you will remember your visualization. You will tell your legs to START MOVING. And while moving, you're gonna tell yourself: "IM THE MAN. THIS GIRL HAS THE LUCK TO GET TO KNOW ME. IM … | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 02:18 PM |
| 6 | Help Seddit, I choked. (Approach anxiety)that 10 000 hour rule is such bullshit, man. honestly. | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 02:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Keep at itFuck, I heard gunwitch 'shot a bitch in the face', but what's the story here? It seems such a glorious downfall within the community, the guy used to be a legend. | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Do any other slim sedditors have some troubles sometimes? How do you feel about your size?dude, like you wouldn't believe :P like imkumaryo said, don't let this affect your selfview, but fuuuuck, i have trouble finding fitting clothes, man. i was in a really big shoppingmall in oberhausen, germany, 2 weeks ago, shopped for 5 hours and didn't find ONE piece of clothing i liked/fit. comes with being 16, small and skinny. Edit: You think you're the only skinny one here? Really? Bitch, please :P | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 01:24 PM |
| 1 | What makes us happy?We do. | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Having moderate success, but now some problems...he sent me that too, it's gold. | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Having moderate success, but now some problems...You made an elemental mistake here, and it reveals kind of the mindset you're coming from ;) Instead of replying to the comment that had the solution, you replied to the comment that shared the problem. Stop focussing on the problem. Focus on the solution; being Awesome and being secure. Force yourself to think that it's alright over and over, force yourself to realize that there's more beautiful awesome girls out there, and that EVEN IF this one would cheat, that'd be her loss more than yours. | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 01:08 PM |
| 1 | What's a good response to, "I can't believe we did that, I never have sex on the first date!"?Hehe. I'll remember that. Now to go and nail a chick. | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Am I imagining this?...You actually are getting checked out more, but even if it were just you imagining it, it'd mean you're doing it right. Furthermore, this is probably not because of the workouts, but because of the added confidence it gave you. That translates to how you carry yourself in the world, and tadaa! Chicks dig it. Awesome, anyway! | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 12:43 PM |
| 2 | What's a good response to, "I can't believe we did that, I never have sex on the first date!"?Yeah, I guess. Hell, it might actually take the tension out of the situation. Delivery is everything, I guess? | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 01:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Emerging of PatternsDude, I'm watching this shit right now. These guys aren't fucking around! This is awesome, tons and tons of concrete exercises, no banter, all rockhard content. Awesome stuff! | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Some of you may have trouble finding the motivation to go out. Watch this, and then try again.Hehe, well crap. I never got the average guy's fascination with sports, man, so maybe I'm hitting the wrong nerver here, ey? | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 08:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally starting feel like I live with abundance.I got into it around may, and have been really sarging since july, and I haven't been anywhere near this kind of success. you lucky bastard ;) | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 08:03 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Finally starting feel like I live with abundance.Christ, I'm jealous. Good job mate. These FR's are worth reading, very motivational. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 07:54 PM |
| 2 | OKC first date: f-closed, now how to keep momentum?I'm hard now. Srsly though, awesome job dude. Now don't overthink it. You both had epic fun, chances are she feels like more. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Use this material for good, not evil.If you feel really bad, you can call her, tell her you don't expect anything but that you're sorry you lied. Other than that, this is an important realization to have. You have nothing to regret, we all fuck up at some point. Making ammends may help, but the important thing now is that you learn. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 07:36 PM |
| 14 | What's a good response to, "I can't believe we did that, I never have sex on the first date!"?'...That's what they all say.' (yeah, i know, after that line you'll never tap that again. but it's worth it to me :P) | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 07:30 PM |
| 1 | [Not an FR] I'm Fucking Proud.How I can improve whats happening. This. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 02:32 PM |
| 1 | [Not an FR] I'm Fucking Proud.Pretty good! A little more detail, that would really get my blood boiling. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with physically aggressive AMOGs?Actually, I think you dealt with it pretty well. You escorted the lady out of the dangerzone, you acted maturely by not taking him seriously/not seriously considering his request for a fight, and you avoided a tumult. You did pretty good, man. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, sorry if this was posted before, but I'm new here. Any advice for a newbie?Yeah, I've argued over who Tyler Durden/Owen Cook really is in the past, but the results of the Blueprint speak for him, even if he's a bit incongruent with what he explains in there sometimes. On some level, I'm still a bit creeped out by TD. But goddamn, the Blueprint helped me a lot. It taught me how to think without depressing myself, i mean fuck. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, sorry if this was posted before, but I'm new here. Any advice for a newbie?Oh boy. You just missed out so bad, man. And I say that as somebody with serious mixed feelings towards RSD and their work. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, sorry if this was posted before, but I'm new here. Any advice for a newbie?Hehe, don't worry mate, we get this post at least once a week, I think. Go to the sidebar and hit that stuff, go through it, try it, and then ask us more questions. Always here for you, dude :P | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with physically aggressive AMOGs?This. I've been confronted with this a while ago, and whatever you do, stay calm. Dealing with this properly (as demonstrated by CurveBall) is a huge DHV and the best AMOG you could do. Technical shit aside, you should in no way unnecessarily risk getting your ass kicked by some douchebag, and do the mature thing to do. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 12:25 AM |
| 30 | A Common Blindspot to SuccessYou have NO idea how much I've been waiting for this. Saved. Edit: Another one for the sidebar...? | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 12:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Emerging of PatternsHeh, I never even knew Keys to the VIP existed. Go figure! I'm immediately gonna check out Love Systems' stuff on body language, who knows, maybe I can get something interesting out of it. In general though, getting out of my head may do the trick already. I'll just have to focus on this next time I'm out. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 10:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Emerging of PatternsBeyond Words sounds interesting. Are Love Systems still up to a lot nowadays? That said, how do we break through this feedback cycle? Rise above it, stop caring, and get out of your head? This is so easy on paper :P | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 09:24 PM |
| 2 | [Not an FR] I'm Fucking Proud.Shit, my name's not Paul, but I was being a total douchebag. If you wanna hate on Paul a little, do it here. I probably deserve a reality-check can take it right now haha | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 09:22 PM |
| 3 | [Not an FR] I'm Fucking Proud.Fuck Yeah. You, sir, get it. Remember, though, that what you see in other people is also a reflection of yourself. Henceforth, if I am the proverbial shit, lest we forget, so art thou! :D Edit: I'm pretty proud of how that got more medieval as I went along :P | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 08:42 PM |
| 2 | [Not an FR] I'm Fucking Proud.Nope, I'm afraid not. Am I not getting a reference here? :P | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 08:41 PM |
| 2 | [Not an FR] I'm Fucking Proud.That just made me go... wut? ...Wow. Yeah. Yeah, I can get into that. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 05:35 PM |
| 1 | FR[9]: Elated with life.heh, that was pretty awesome. Enjoy mate. This community is cool. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Bros before hoes - up until what point?Call him on it. Losing your dignity to this guy is not worth it. I think your reasons for not doing it are just excuses your mind makes up so you can pussy out of it. You have a problem with this guy, so why not voice it. You don't have to be a total dick about it, but tell him that you think he crossed a line and you expect it to not happen again. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 04:31 PM |
| 1 | FR[9]: Elated with life.Guys, help. I'm out of the PUA headspace, and it's really hard for me to get back into the right mindset. I feel like my confidence done died. Any tips? Besides, Awesomejob Sillymallard. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman in my city Groningen in The Netherlands.Klinkt prima, als het ooit zover is laat ik je weten! | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys, Some Nights...Hot damn. I wanna F-close too :P My confidence is pretty low right now, I have no idea why exactly. Time to drop this retarded mindset and GET. BACK. UP. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman in my city Groningen in The Netherlands.Fuck, ik ben Hagenees. Zo dichtbij, en toch zo ver weg...! | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 12:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR]First TimerGood job! Maybe you should learn some structured game, to ad to the natural approach you just did, but other than that. A make-out on your first night out, fucking hell dude. I am impressed. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 12:16 PM |
| 16 | First girl I smiled at on the street who responded positively was a prostitute. Go figure.Also, damn it just got more sexist in here :P | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 12:13 PM |
| 24 | First girl I smiled at on the street who responded positively was a prostitute. Go figure.Don't lose hope, grashoppah. The fact that you went out and tried that is a start, you need to work on ONLY thinking positive thoughts. Just throw all others out. Reframe negative experiences. Like this: 'the only chick that smiled at me was a hooker vs. i think i just made one lady's day a bit brighter, and I think that was worth it. also, i took an important step forward by even trying this, and now i can go from there, even if the results didn't rock my world.' | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How to open when you have her number but she doesnt have yours?Call her, or if you're too pussy to do that or she doesn't answer, leave message saying: hey nickname it's me, snsdfour3v3r (helluva nickname btw) I'm kinda going in and out, but if you can, try and grab a hold of me. Cheerio. (Or whatever you wanna tell them/ask them; on voicemail this is more or less the message i leave usually.) Edit: Realize that chicks oftentimes don't answer the first call to see what kind of message you'll leave. No shit! | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 03:16 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The Emerging of PatternsYeah, I wonder whether there are any good resources on improving one's calibration available? I'm reading a book on body-language by Joe Navarro atm, that's helped me a bit, since I started watching that more, and found some of the more subconscious IOI's (like scratching the front of the neck), but I guess finding IOI's is but the tip of the iceberg... I also think there's some vicious circle involved, because I catch myself being insecure about what I'm doing mid-set sometimes, which probably … | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Guys, Some Nights...I had one this night, actually. How prophetic this post turns out to be. I went out to sarge and ended up fucking up logistics and whatnot and opening NO SETS AT ALL. That SUCKED. But I think we may have found the beginning of a breakthrough in the meditation after, so what the fuck. Reframe, Regroup, Return; Conquer. Edit: Glad it helped, of course! | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 03:07 AM |
| 1 | [FR] HB8 D1 Kino a.k.a. "Armrests Must Die!"Well, she let you play with her boobs/sort-of finger her, but you couldn't get a kiss? o.0 I'm just surprised. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Must I pursue sex ASAP to be successful?No problem, I'm glad it came through, especially without offending anyone. We all know how touchy our beliefs can be. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Silver lining?It's ok :) It's not all that special, but FB closes aren't bad, I think. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Targeting one night stands?Yeah, I think that's what's holding me back :) If I was more sure of myself, the 'mistakes' I make would probably not matter to them, since I wouldn't even register them myself. Also, that being sexual. Curveball dropped an awesome post/comment on that, so I hope I can integrate that :) | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Targeting one night stands?And how'd it work out? Not to be a dick, just curious :) | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 04:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] HB8 D1 Kino a.k.a. "Armrests Must Die!"How did you not tongue-down that? | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Getting to the next level...how do you guys do it?MOTHERFUCKER. Curveball, you are... You are... You are... Thanks. Well. I guess I kinda found the 'fundamental missing element in my game.' Edit: I think pulling this off would also make me so much more comfortable in the interaction. Damn it, man. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Must I pursue sex ASAP to be successful?This. Even if you've been with them for a year they might turn out to be crazy. God, this. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Must I pursue sex ASAP to be successful?I don't want to tread on your beliefs here, but in my experience, sex is something sacred in and of itself if it's with a special person; fucking a more or less strange woman for the sake of finding out whether she's compatible, and sleeping with the woman you want to marry will feel very, very different. What I mean by that is that it's almost a different act if done with a person you love, and hence the practicalities of it may themselves protect your view of sex as something sacred. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 11:42 AM |
| 1 | In need of desperate helpNo problem! Learn from this, mate, and life will become so much more beautiful :) | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Guys, Some Nights......mmh, no, that's not what I meant. I was reffering to game-specific downers, if you will, so I specified: 'maybe you're stuck on a plateau etc. etc. etc." :P | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 11:35 AM |
| 1 | From Open to CloseHehe, that sounds reassuring. I fucking hated having to beat bowser though. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, i think i have a serious case of Oneitis and i cant seem to help myself.Yeah, i know. Stupid emotional universe, denying me my pleasures. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Guys, Some Nights...Fuck Yeah. Me too, hopefully. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 11:32 AM |
| 0 | Meeting girls on their own turfOh man, even in my oh-so limited experience, when her friends join you've lost; you can get social proof by being alpha around the friends, but escalating with them around is just crap. Or am I making a capital mental mistake there? | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, i think i have a serious case of Oneitis and i cant seem to help myself....Sadly. Edit: If it were, I'd be getting my dick sucked right now. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 02:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] HB lesbo. . . wtf? (k close and # close)Sounds really good dude, Go for it! (So... We all agree all lesbians are bi...?) | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Guys, Some Nights...Good for you that you've never had a downing experience then. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 02:11 AM |
| 2 | From Open to CloseTired as shit now, but it's been saved. It all looks so easy on paper. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Living in a van in Manhattan to increase quality of lays.Sounds like a worthwhile experience to me :P Good job, sir. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 12:33 PM |
| 3 | [FR] “Ahhh it’s no big deal. You could use the exercise.”. Oops.damn, what a detailed field-report o.0 Well, good job. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 12:11 PM |
| 2 | In need of desperate helpIt will DEFINITELY help you there. Enjoy mate. Edit: Keep us updated. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 01:21 AM |
| 5 | You know what feels amazing?Fuck Yeah. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Appropriately Inappropriate SexUpboat. Shit's hilarious. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 11:04 PM |
| 1 | In need of desperate helpThat thing is expensive as hell, isn't it? Anyway, you may wanna watch it more than once, I just finished my second run through it and, honestly, I'm kinda amazed :) was the first thing i watched when I got into this, so a lot of it rings more true now than it did then. But yeah, there's tons and tons of gold in there, starting at not caring what people think of you and ending at knowing of your impenetrable self-esteem. I hope it helps :) | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 10:13 PM |
| 7 | You know what feels amazing?All about being a value-giver, right? :) | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 10:06 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Moonlight hike, BJs and Bolt-Ons, Oh My!Daaaamn, bro. This one seems hard to get. Good job planning and executing the whole thing more or less smoothly. On a sidenote, are you aware of things like the freeze-out and such, or were those just not applicable? | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 10:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Cheeta heels HB9 at the supermarket (lengthy)Heh, wow, I had no idea my opinion had value :) The internet is awesome. Yeah, no, definitely view it as the next step! I struggle with it a bit too, but I'm sure you'll be more flexible than I am in applying it whenever you need to. Besides, are there any specific things you do for roleplaying or was this all totally natural/improvised? | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 09:27 PM |
| 1 | In need of desperate helpIt's still on the front page, i think, but if it's not, look up 'How I Rebuilt Myself' If you still can't find it, drop me another line. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 09:25 PM |
| 1 | How I rebuilt myselfThis part about getting your mindset right... Honestly, I'm still not quite sure how to get there (just finsihed rewatching the blueprint)... | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 08:05 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cheeta heels HB9 at the supermarket (lengthy)The one thing that comes to mind is that it was pretty asexual for the chick wearing cheetaheels, but damn, your way of just having playful banter is pretty awesome. Good job, natural. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 05:48 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on approaching someone I've seen beforeYour initial question aside, I think the sidebar might be able to help you a lot. You just have confidence issues in general, the inner game compendium might help there. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Thank you all for your help and support, but I've decided to become a recluse.Dude, I don't think this is the right thing to do. What alternative do you have? Is trying worse than being r/foreveralone? | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Best way to leave when you've been shot down by a girl, or group of?'Pleasure meeting you.' Just that. You don't lose frame, you're not the one being a dick, you show that you don't really care. Don't get angry or anything, that's a major DLV. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 05:29 PM |
| 1 | So Seddit,can I never be honest,or therefore myself?I think the trust issues are talking when you show these needy tendencies. What I advise is treating this like an itch on your balls. Ignore it while in the field. Do some approaches. I hope you get your mojo back :) Work on your mindset- to you, too, I advise reading CurveBallPUA's How I Rebuilt Myself post (is in the sidebar now). It's awesome. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever 'argue' with people, especially when they are nauseatingly loud? Here's what happened with me...No seduction expert advises getting into verbal fights with dumbasses ;) I mean come on, we all know that won't get anybody laid. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever 'argue' with people, especially when they are nauseatingly loud? Here's what happened with me...Keep talking, like he's not even there. Don't even acknowledge that useless presence. Be oblivious to bad vibes. Be a source of calm, grounding energy this way. Loud as fuck? Who cares! keep talking like you can still hear yourself perfectly. If he gets in your face? sit back, laugh a little. Be Completely Unphazed. If he calls you gay, call him on it like you did (good job!). If he gets weird on the girls, THEN you can freak out a little. Why? Because protecting a damsel in distress is hot as f… | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Went to the bar, unexpected turnaround.Good job son! :) | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:47 PM |
| 14 | TIL Oneitus has actually been researched and studied by psychologists. It's called "Limerence."See, this is interesting on another level too: People think oneitis and falling in love is the same thing. It's not. Oneitis is neediness, falling in love is... Well, Genuine Love, which is of course the most beautiful thing. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:46 PM |
| 3 | It's really all in the teethProject good energies upon the world --> Get good energies back! Fuck Yeah! And guess what, bitches probably were attracted, too (H) | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:44 PM |
| 2 | So Seddit,can I never be honest,or therefore myself?This isn't you talking. This is your inner 3-year old talking, the part of yourself that nééds mommy's love. I'm saying this not to be a dick, I've had this myself. You cannot let these tendencies get the better of you, because this behavior is VERY unhealthy and VERY needy. Once you're moderately good at this, they will disappear anyway. It's a barrier in your growth, my friend. You can still be honest at some point, but there's a difference between being open and speaking out of neediness. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:42 PM |
| 2 | In need of desperate helpAlright mate, here are 2 major resources for you: RSD's The Blueprint Decoded is good for your confidence, also the articles in the sidebar on inner game. Yesterday CurveballPUA did an AMA full of gold that people like you could lóve. If all else fails, look up my post on building an avatar, and see whether that works for you. If you want something concrete to hold onto, try looking up The Annihilation Method, but for god's sake combine it with pumping your inner game. You sound like you could b… | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Learn from this natural - Russel BrandWell, apart from general attitude, there's not that much to learn here. The guy is just fucking hilarious. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:36 PM |
| 2 | How I rebuilt myselfPS - Woke up a bit depressed today. Reread your post. Remembered how to think positively. Felt a huge grin rise up. Life's good. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 12:44 PM |
| 1 | A Social Experiment: Building An AvatarOk. The metaphor doesn't really stick for me, but ok, I get where you're coming from. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How I rebuilt myselfI still like this. I'm very honored that you actually put good thought into this, and fuck, good rules to live by. Thanks bro. Hope to run into you guys in real life someday :P | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 12:30 PM |
| 2 | How I rebuilt myselfCurveBall, you amazing bastard, and I mean that in the most impressedly whistling sense. Apart from the stuff at the, top, if you had one tip for a really young admirer, what'd it be? :P Apart from that, this is awesome, a true naturalization of the game. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 01:33 AM |
| 5 | How I rebuilt myselfEven you :) | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Would just like to thank everyone in this subreddit.Cheers mate. You're on the way. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 01:26 AM |
| 1 | A Social Experiment: Building An AvatarThere ya go. I meant the avatar as a reference point to naturalize the behaviors. That said, that doesn't mean the avatar comes up with the right lines at the right times, it's just a figure of guidance in general (as said, mindsets, habits, etc). It's a bit of a vizualization exercise really. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 01:18 AM |
| 1 | A Social Experiment: Building An AvatarSee, this is what I mean by constructive criticism on the idea :) I get your point, I was wondering about that too, hence the part on getting these behaviors engrained in you until they are normal and you don't have to 'pretend' anymore. I guess this could be considered an alternate way to that point where it's naturalized, but I'm not sure whether it's a better one. Either way, thanks, I do hope that this post can help some people, experimental as it is. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 07:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went On Date, Didn't Go So Great But Fuck ItYeah. Also, if she flakes on a 1-on-1 date, you know that she can't bear situations where she's not in control. Then you know she's NOT your girl, probably borderline/cluster-B, and you win by dumping the matter. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Socializing is incredibly exhausting.Yeah, I had the same lately. Any day I don't meet women now/generally socialize now I feel a little sad at the end of it :P | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 04:45 PM |
| 1 | To delete from Facebook or not?Deleting from facebook will show that you care. That simple. Showing that you won't have your boundary violated like this is one point, but you can't do that without showing that you care. If you want to really hit back, though, go fuck another gorgeous girl and then send more lovey-dovey shit on facebook around :P | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Story of bizarre fickleness. What do I do women?? I don't understand!Definitely cut her off, this was dirty and, to me, deceitful. I don't know exactly what went on in her mind either, but I'm actually starting to suspect a bit of a borderline hit here. Don't validate this behavior by letting her control you, let alone stop you from being happy. This is a learning lesson, I guess. Don't develop one-itis over somebody who obviously failed to see what a fucking monster of a man you are. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 04:27 PM |
| 9 | Advice needed: Bike or drive to a date?You're overthinking this ;) You can kiss her anyway, do whatever feels good. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 04:12 PM |
| 1 | IAE usually high throughout the day and successfully get a decent amount of females?Heh. So much for there not being a magic pill :P | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Is porn really affecting us?No fapz --> Hormones --> More No-Fap --> More hormones --> Hormones influence moods --> Drive is created to vent hormones --> Hormonal Drive. The funny thing is that this drive isn't even specific to getting laid. My drive to write music increased just as much as my drive to get laid did. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Socializing is incredibly exhausting.It's a thin line, my friend. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Great way to get girls to come to youu no work! y u no work? | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 01:58 AM |
| 55 | Socializing is incredibly exhausting.This comes with turning from introvert to extrovert. As insanity wolf once spoke - Life Wearin' You Down? GOD IS GETTING AFRAID OF YOUR PROGRESS! AKA - You're doing awesome. Good for you that you vented a little, but please pick yourself up and continue. Don't forget to take a few days/hours off every now and then to chill, of course, but still. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Great way to get girls to come to youno no no no no, she get's on the ol' knees, you unbuckle and unzip or she does it for you, either way, your shit comes off. Use your imagination! :P | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 01:36 AM |
| 1 | My progress - stuck at a plateauSon, that's insane. But fo fuks sake, get some day 2's now, the numbers on the approaches are quite spectacular enough. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Help me build an Achievements List for sedditorsI guess. On a sidenote, this whole achievement thing is fun, but let's please not make this into an 'i got the biggest e-penis thing'... I mean, this community is all about helping each other out, right? btw, mystery talked about 5 for 5 on the annihilation method dvd i think. he said that he had been 'lucky' enough to make it repeatedly, but that he realized it could not be done consistently. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Help me build an Achievements List for sedditorsWhat you call rAFC+ already existed, and is called aPUA or gPUA ;) That said - didn't fastseduction already have the 'levels of mastery' like 10 years ago? | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 11:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pudding wrestling - #/K Close(Jealous) Ahem. Then it's probably self-esteem. Yes, I'm rewatching the fucking blueprint. Yes, I like it. Fuck you, Tyler. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Asked a girl out on a second date and she said, "sorry, I had fun last time but you're not what I'm looking for."This is what Mystery calls buyers' remorse, I guess? | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 11:48 PM |
| -1 | What do you like to wear out to the bars?PINSTRIPES | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 09:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pudding wrestling - #/K Close'You know, I totally seduced you.' 'ehm, no, I totally seduced yóu silly!' 'NO! who do you think you are, bitch?' -Male Ego Destroyed- | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Is porn really affecting us?Well, I disagree that it improves your confidence or state or whatever, but I mainly thought it was useful since it increases your hormonal drive a lot. At least that's what I get. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 09:24 PM |
| 2 | mini[FR]A few quick things on social circlesHaha. Upvote for the fact that we are supermen. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 09:00 PM |
| 3 | mini[FR]A few quick things on social circlesVery interested in your social circle points, I never read up on this. Very cool. Other than that, learn from your mistakes. Running into exes just sucks, when that happens and you remain unphazed you'll know you're the man :P That said, why not combine these social circles? Introduce people! be thát guy! Also, I think you care too much about whether people judge you. If they do, their problem, not yours. About the kryptonite girls... These are usually crazy, in my experience. Just don't let the… | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I want to kiss this girl the next time we meet. Quick tips for how to escalate, and then execute for someone who's never kissed before?Aw, that sucks man. Really great mindset though! currently revisiting the blueprint, so i'm proud now haha. Will check it out in a sec. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Running game as a couple & threesomesFuck Yeah. But PLEASE let us know when and how you did it, this shit is on my bucket list, man. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Running game as a couple & threesomesWatch the Jeffy show, he did tandempickup for quite a while with his LTR, and explains how he did it more or less. It's pretty awesome, please post results... Detailed, explicit results :P | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 06:22 PM |
| 9 | Great way to get girls to come to youDrop all clothes, get on knees, unzip and unbuckle? Sorry, I'm dreaming again. AAAnyway, great job, OP. Sounds like you shot fish in a barrel, but getting to that point is the hard part. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 06:21 PM |
| 10 | Is porn really affecting us?Oh you bet it is. I stopped fapping roughly like 1.5 weeks ago. Since then I've not quite abstained, but cut it to a bare minimum and will keep this going until I get laid. My hormonal drive has become AMAZING, seriously. And interestingly enough? when I did fap again, it became apparent that it didn't go down as fast anymore, either. Sorry if that's TMI, but it's relevant. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 06:18 PM |
| 15 | Gave a guy my number, he texted, and then nothing.. What now?this is just... if i ran into chicks who did this, i would jump and cheer for them. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Gave a guy my number, he texted, and then nothing.. What now?He's probalby just not confident enough to make a move on you. And, GOD, i love reports from chicks going after guys. Restores my faith in humanity, on some level, haha | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 06:09 PM |
| 2 | 30'000 subscribers.....seddit's highest milestone so far!Aw Fuck yeah. The awakening is here, kids! ;) | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 05:01 PM |
| 6 | I want to kiss this girl the next time we meet. Quick tips for how to escalate, and then execute for someone who's never kissed before?Craig who was on DyD's body language seminar had this thing where he watches a movie with a chick, and when they hit a funny part in the movie, he bend over a little and tickles her as they both laugh. Then he escalates from there, tickling and wrapping his arms around her. As it is, she's probably gonna reciprocate. hold her close, maybe with her head on your lap, then suddenly go: 'enough. now let's watch the movie.' Also, at some point i advise looking down, going for eye-contact until she lo… | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 05:01 PM |
| 13 | [mini FR] Gave a cute girl on the train my number, she texted, what would you reply?Oh please, no! haha To be fair, the shittest/shyness there do not call for a player-reply. Either way, this is great win for OP. You're an attractive fucker, mate. I advise to text what meean said. Sounds solid. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl's game?Sounds good :) Just continue down a mindful path, I'm sure you'll be rewarded. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl's game?Heh, thanks! What can I say, bros got style. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl's game?Yeah, see, you've got to let that go. This is like a vicious circle- the more you are focussed on controlling this, the more you'll push it in the wrong direction. Control-freakism is probably the number one trait that any guy worth dating for a girl of quality (like you, i hope ;) )will resent. I understand how difficult that can be though, I've had my share of it (fairly controlling mother, fairly controlling ex girlfriend, fairly controlling past self. damn!) If you want to play this game, th… | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl's game?I understand that you are worried that there's more to this. But honestly? Unless you want to do some very blatantly manipulative shit, you need fairly little other than the above described qualities. Trusting in said qualities and being open to really investing in another person may help. Also communicating openly. Other than that? There's only so much control one can have over these things. Don't be needy, that's a huge turnoff. Accept it as it comes, and you'll be rewarded. That's really all … | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl's game?And approve of his nickname. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 02:03 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Cigarettes got me laid.Kudo's, Upvotes and Awesomeness. Good job all around, be proud as fuck. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 01:59 AM |
| -1 | Help me build an Achievements List for sedditorsUpdate: The K - Kiss-close The N - Number-close What the...! - Fuck-close Yoda - Teach a friend the game Recruiter - Find 2+ wingmen to sarge with Double Kill - have a FMF Threesome Triple Bagger - have a Foursome The Harlequin - Do something fucking ridiculous that results in some kind of close The LORD - Live in total sexual abundance. Only claimable after sufficient proof delivered through field-reports and retracable sources that prove an abundant lifestyle mPUA - 5 4 5? :P The Kunis - Have … | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 01:53 AM |
| 2 | [FR mini style] Facebook girl ->Asked me out rofl. Story insideNext up, this is no joke: I was out with a wingman (natural, big and black, lol) and he told me about the awesomeness of facebook game. I didn't believe him. We promptly walked up to a couple of (retreating; it was late) sets of chicks, and asked them: if you are into a guy you met here, what would you rather give him, facebook or a number? one chick summed the average opinion up best: if i don't really care, rather a number, since I can ignore that. But if i wanna see him again, i'd rather give… | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 01:48 AM |
| 2 | RSD Tim on vocal tonality; This is crucial for all game.Retry later, that's probably best. But if you still need it, here's a more-or-less summary: if you talk, you have three possible tonalities: tonality rising at the end of a sentence (like in a question; this is called seeking rapport). This is unattractive and usually sounds needy. Neutral tonality (neutral rapport) which is basically flat, and then there's breaking rapport tonality, where you go down at the end of a sentence. This sounds a bit dismissive, but it sounds like you're in a dominant… | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 01:45 AM |
| 3 | RSD Tim on vocal tonality; This is crucial for all game.Haha, yeah, I understand your doubts. This provides an unexpected perspective on it all. Family Guy also had had a very funny clip on that stereotypical girl type of talking? where everything is a question? even really dumb neutral statements like: i did the laundry todayyy? The story about the Indians (and especially the way they were perceived) is interesting. Reminds me that breaking rapport does not álways have to be used. Interesting to imagine you having a degree in linguistics, too. The s… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 05:24 PM |
| 3 | RSD Tim on vocal tonality; This is crucial for all game.I guess. I think I should watch myself on thsi a bit more, and I'm definitely not the only one. How much of a role do you think tonality plays in attraction? | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Have you done direct approach game? What do you think of this opener and dialogue?Touche, and thank you. Upvote. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Have you done direct approach game? What do you think of this opener and dialogue?mhm... What would you recommend to lock in, then? there are fairly few conversational threads attached to 'you're hot.' do you follow up with situational randomness? | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Trouble transitioning from Open to # close/first dateI think you need to build some more comfort. Richard (Gambler) La Ruina had a pretty good 80 minute speech on youtube. In the last 20 minutes he extensively explains how he builds MASSIVE comfort with chicks. diggit: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm making progress...Kudo's to you mate, sounds like we're more or less in the same spot. What I did a while ago, and it's no magic pill, but it's great to get in state and it helped me personally with my confidence a bit, is to go into 20 sets just trying to get rejected with something random. It's a lot of fun, I actually went with 'Could you reject me real quick? you have to be creative though, otherwise it doesn't count.' What it did for me is, give me a mindset of total not care, which i then took and used in o… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Have you done direct approach game? What do you think of this opener and dialogue?My direct approach opener is 'Hey, you're really cute. I was wondering whether there was much to you other than your looks? ;)' Go into qualification/assume value. Any suggestions there? | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 03:04 PM |
| 5 | RSD Tim on vocal tonality; This is crucial for all game.Here's a Challenge for those willing to try: speak ONLY in breaking rapport mode for an entire day, post observations. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Introverts of seddit, what do you want from a woman?I don't think that it's your dark humor that keeps it going. I think you may have a fairly unhealthy, but definitely deeper-rooted destructive energy. Correct me if I'm wrong, I'm saying this from a post on reddit ffs. Try to bring balance to good and idealistic with a bit of peace at the home front. Maybe you just need to consciously learn new behaviors in times of fights? All that aside, that's not even the type of crazy I fall for so head-over-heels, but it can usually be found in the same ch… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Introverts of seddit, what do you want from a woman?Tits. No, but honestly, it's about passion, compassion and intelligence. I wrote a whole page in word about my standards in women, it's crazy. I highly enourage everyone to do this, because having real/clear standards about your chicks is A) healthy and B) attractive. Edit: she's not allowed to be too crazy. I've found myself getting rock hard for the crazy ones in the past. That NEVER worked. This fantasy is, for all LTR-purposes, to be dropped. Also, fuck borderline. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 01:46 AM |
| 1 | The importance of frameAlright, that makes sense. Will further drop this shit on askseddit. | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 08:55 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Have you seen my balls? because I can't find them.I think you need to suspend disbelief a couple of times (As in; when you see an opening, push into it, even if you're afraid, and just hope for the best). It'll give you a proper rush, and after a while you won't e afraid anymore, and if you fail a couple of times, chances are you'll even be pretty good at knowing when to push and when not to! :D | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 08:16 PM |
| 2 | The importance of frameThis part I never really got. What does the community mean by building an avatar, and how? I think this is kinda where I screw up- that said, are there any resources for this? | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Stumbled into a #-close, going for the k-close/f-close tonightI hope it went well, by the time I'm typing this you might be getting tongue-down... For future reference, the main tip I want to give you is to plan for everything and expect nothing. Go for the fuck, but if you don't get it, accept that and move on; Intent without outcome-dependance. Other than that, you can make your motives clear with your body-language, and I'm sure you'll do a great job there. | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 02:45 AM |
| 2 | If the ladies are teasing you or picking on you lightly, especially in front of you and other girls, should I consider this a good or bad sign?Remember that shit tests are concealed IOI's - they test you, because they think you're an option. | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 02:37 AM |
| -1 | [FR] "How'd you guys meet?" - "On an online community for recovering pickup artists." - Good wingmanship.Dude, Tofu, is there any video of you pulling shit like this? You're the legend around here anyway, I'm fairly surprised you're even posting FR's these days...! | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 02:36 AM |
| 1 | [X-Post from highseddit] Being genuine.Maybe you do ;) My advice was more for the people reading this in general, especially since most (high-)seddit readers are (correct me if I'm wrong) fairly inexperienced. | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 02:33 AM |
| 1 | IAM The Web Developer For Neil Strauss' Stylelife Academy. Ask Me AnythingNeil accidentally (at least that's the, fairly convincing, reassurance he sent us) sent this mail around about a think-tank style 'society' that he wanted to create, and that he accidentally invited his whole inner circle into. I never quite got that faux pas, but I remember I mailed style back then (and even got a reply, how cool is that!) about it, saying that I didn't quite get what just happened, but I respected him for pulling it off the way he did (or something like that). Also- Damn, Myst… | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 02:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Party, good start, can't close... and then... Surprising f-closeYeah, I think the latter woulda been better too, the former sounds like you're subtly trying to take value rather than giving it... As you said, a bit beta and needy. But your game produces waaay better results than mine, so feel free to reject this entirely :) That said, I'd love to find more lines for this, I bet tehre's some hilarious shit there. | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 02:29 AM |
| 0 | [X-Post from highseddit] Being genuine.Sounds interesting. I advise getting your game tight before doing this, though. That way, you will naturally always know the right thing to do AND you'll do it naturally, fully comfortable with self, and happy with it all :) Or am I totally wrong there? The question has been around for a while for me. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 06:36 PM |
| 2 | IAM The Web Developer For Neil Strauss' Stylelife Academy. Ask Me AnythingFour things: 1) Who would you recommend for the best naturalized game? 2) (fanboy alert :P) What's Mystery like in real life? (and are he and NS really thát in love?) 3) What's the main focus of most of these mPUA's? Making money, or teaching? I have always considered Neil to be really focussed on teaching, not getting rich, though sometimes he's just too nice :P 4) What's up with this 'society?' Not to be a nuisance of course, thanks a lot for this AMA! | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 06:27 PM |
| 1 | First time poster and I need your help seddit.I find it very interesting to find a womans perspective on this! Am I retarded for always thinking it was (at least with most men) a lot easier for women? | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 06:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Party, good start, can't close... and then... Surprising f-closeI'm far from experienced enough to help you here, but I wanna congratulate you on the fuck-close. You did a good job. I'm a bit worried about you trying to 'convince' a girl to let you walk her home though, do you want to elaborate there? :) Also, It'd be awesome if you could post that text conversation on texttranscripts, I think. Just a suggestion. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Are you always "ON"?I thought, when I saw the title, that you meant 'on' as in: in the zone. ...But no. I know how overwhelming the desire to GO FOR IT can be, but in most day-settings I'm just like 'fuck it, that's not worth the time/i'm doing something else now.' | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Smile In PhotosGo and try it? :P | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 06:10 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The Blueprint truly is effective.Well. Time to rewatch that bitch. Damn you, Tyler! | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 06:10 PM |
| 16 | Smile In PhotosThat's actually another way to turn it sexual; you can project your thoughts quite well through subconscious facial movements, so if you meet a chick and you make eyecontact, you can create quite some tension by imagining her on your dick... Just saying, don't become a creeper over this. This is worth an extended post, in fact. Should look into it. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 02:22 AM |
| 14 | Smile In PhotosSeddit: Came for the pussy, stayed for the titties. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 02:20 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Throwaway's Challenge or The Reality CheckNiggah please o.0 I'm looking forward to that story. Welcome in my fucked-up domain, kids. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Seddit...I'm getting the "you're cute" and "you're so sweet" crap from quite a few girls, how do I stop this?DIBS. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Seddit...I'm getting the "you're cute" and "you're so sweet" crap from quite a few girls, how do I stop this?Now, I think I have a problem overnegging, but if you say that with a smile on your face, nobody is gonna be offended, and probably people are gonna laugh. Don't worry so much, man. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 05:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Throwaway's Challenge or The Reality CheckThanks a lot bro, I'm hungry for more already. Thank god it's Friday. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 11:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Throwaway's Challenge or The Reality CheckThat does all sound like a bit of a big assignment, man :P But ok, that's great. Will do. Not that I expect to be stopped by the overload of pussy in the near future, but still. I still have the feeling (and my results mirror this) that I'm doing something fundamentally wrong, and this is mainly what fucks with my state sometimes :P But yeah, I found 1 or 2 warmups done WITH THE RIGHT MINDSET (there ya go! and Fuck it, let's have fun here) are miracleworkers when sarging :) | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 11:58 AM |
| 3 | [x-post r/100sets] Opened sets 5 to 15th and I noticed something changed...[FR]This. The last two lines I don't have as much, but the thing about learning to care less. That. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 11:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Throwaway's Challenge or The Reality CheckHeh, I used to do like 4 sets a night, and just stick with 1 or 2 of them for almost an hour at a time. Have had enough of that though, learning to eject or close at some point was actually a sticking poin tof mine, so I guess I'm going in the opposite direction. Either way, I'll message you after 1 or 2 more nights of sarging. Thanks for the help, looking forward to whatever comes next. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 02:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Throwaway's Challenge or The Reality CheckYeah, I mainly used Who Lies More. I think I accidentally did one Jealous Girlfriend and of course the one direct approach. But yeah, the whole AA thing is kinda done lately, man, and I'm very glad! Anyway, apart from the direct one, they were all just lame-ass stuff straight outta the can. That said, for future reference, doing these canned things, I used to hardly pay attention to delivery, and get good results. Lately I think it'd do good to just practice all of this shit (if necessary in fro… | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you pay attention to "stages" in seduction?Damn it, this is one of the things I don't do properly :P I either get stuck in attraction, or i skip A3, or i move into comfort too early... These things are hard, man :P | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 01:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Rejection Game - A crashcourse in fucking AA up the shitholeSounds good. I'll open my 20-set challenge with it. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on dealing with a straight up Maneater?Oh dude, don't take it as criticism. I get what you mean now, though i hadn't expected such a massive paragraph in response. Besides, just messin' around in the last two lines anyway, so pardon my grammatical incongruence! :P | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 04:26 PM |
| 3 | are IOIs important ?That said, I'm fairly mindfucked by this. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 03:45 PM |
| 1 | are IOIs important ?IOI's Up front are not important, just approach anyway (though it helps once you get them, since it means she wants you there and bitch shields etc won't be a problem). While you're IN SET they are by most methods more important, since you can calibrate where you are by them. If she gives tons, skip all the valuebuilding and kiss. If she gives none, get her down off her platform. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on dealing with a straight up Maneater?Christ you just went metaphysical on my fairly basic argument, man. That said, that's a very interesting principle. Sorry, I can't help but remember something a friend (who got me into this) told me yesterday- Dumb it down some, son. People look like you crazy. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 03:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Rejection Game - A crashcourse in fucking AA up the shitholeThaaaank you. It's great to meet somebody who can vocalize my opinion better than me :) Seriously though, I never proposed this as the magic pill (I assumed the title was over the top enough not to be taken all that seriously), just as a very fun and pretty helpful game against approach anxiety. But hey, was good to hear you guys' opinions, perspective was gained. Edit: now let's see whether i can take the rejection-game mindset and open 20 sets with it and a normal opener tonight. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 03:39 PM |
| 2 | FR[6]: Okay, but not fruitful.Well, good job motivating self. Finding sets can be a bitch, can't it? | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Francis Adams on College Social Circle Game and adding valueUpvote for fantasies of college pussy, hahaha Edit: and for 'falling in love' bit. I'll give that shit a try. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 12:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The Rejection Game - A crashcourse in fucking AA up the shitholeYou stay out of this! :P (guys, Kaevax is a good friend who's been helping me with the whole pickup thing ever since I was a little AFC, so hereby thanks again :) ) | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 12:46 PM |
| 0 | [FR] The Rejection Game - A crashcourse in fucking AA up the shitholeThanks for the feedback. I don't agree entirely, but you have a valid point. That said, as soon as it's a 'challenge' in this style, i'm pretty sure that the whole AA thing gets drowned out really quickly, since it's become a game. Would be fun if I would actually get results out of these sets. Either way, I'm up for it, will report in after more sarging. Sidenote- whether you like it or not, the rejection game killed my approach anxiety for the rest of the night (which is also what i meant by t… | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on dealing with a straight up Maneater?Profound.... So, not to be a dick, but I'm having a hard time seing the connection with NSC's maneater xD | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 12:14 PM |
| 3 | To all the sedditors living with your parents...Haha, just counter-caveman him. 'hi dad yeah that's really cool but listen we're on our way see ya tomorrowwww!' and shove her past him. Bonus points if, upon dad leaving sight, she says: 'he seemed nice.' | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 12:12 PM |
| 2 | To all the sedditors living with your parents...Shit/fuck, and sympathies. We'll find a way around that. Sneak into the basement, keep parents out of it... Or does that feel bad? :S Idk man, but you're doing pretty fucking good. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 02:53 AM |
| 0 | [FR] The Rejection Game - A crashcourse in fucking AA up the shitholeGod bless the simpsons for the MMMM drools jokes, man. That said, yeah, but a lot of us are crippled by it. And yet here we are. Shit works, and even though nothing was closed, I had sooo much fun! | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 02:52 AM |
| 1 | To all the sedditors living with your parents...Drive. That. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 02:26 AM |
| 3 | To all the sedditors living with your parents...Heh. I'm gonna do this once I'm getting lays out of this. Hell, if necessary, rub your parents' face in it, or just wait till they're asleep. This isn't all that difficult. Also, as soon as you noted the word 'selfconscious', you should already have realized that your inhibitions weren't worth a dime ;) | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 02:25 AM |
| 1 | [D2R] Guys, I need you to set me straight.Yeah, me too, it's crazy. It's hard for me to implement this, though... But hey. Jeffy is going to be in Amsterdam tomorrow for a free tour... I'll hit him up! | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Disregard what Jeffy says, but pay attention to his attitude! That's a man who doesn't give a fuck.(ofc he's sarcastic)Yeah, I know, I'm reading Jeffy's book. That's also what made me look 'em up! Dude, I'm going solosarging right now, so now isn't the time, but I'll be sure to look this sh*t up sometime soon! :) Thanks for the tip, I'm marking this unread for later. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Disregard what Jeffy says, but pay attention to his attitude! That's a man who doesn't give a fuck.(ofc he's sarcastic)There ya go. Thanks for the confirmation, and yeah, his cockiness etc etc etc (though a bit over the top in the vid) were my point! :) I found it quite inspirational to watch him, man. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Disregard what Jeffy says, but pay attention to his attitude! That's a man who doesn't give a fuck.(ofc he's sarcastic)Yeah, I'd love to hear form those guys anyway, but that aside. I find his attitude int he vid can teach us something, man. And that was all I had about it :P Edit: TF was that movie! XD | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Had 2 Great Dates, But have to leave for 10 days for business. How do I maintain interest/rapport/attraction when I'm gone?You can send a tentative text once every few days. Tease them a bit, build a little bit of comfort, but stay just a little bit outta reach; wait with answering, stuff like that. You can build attraction by flirting over the phone, but unless you've done this before I think you're best off just maintaining their current level of interest. Bait her with a text every now and then, that gives enough of a gift of missing you without it going stale. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Disregard what Jeffy says, but pay attention to his attitude! That's a man who doesn't give a fuck.(ofc he's sarcastic)Myeah, i expect sedditors to be capable of realizing where to stop in real life, nonetheless looking at him in the vid is instructional, because from what you hear, the man isn't much different in the field. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Disregard what Jeffy says, but pay attention to his attitude! That's a man who doesn't give a fuck.(ofc he's sarcastic)Attitude: The way he carries himself, the way he moves through the world; the way he quite apparently DOESNT GIVE A FUCK. Yeah, I think it is. As said, disregard what he says. Let me reframe this for you: Ignore the content, and pay attention to the form of him in this vid. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 02:12 AM |
| 2 | What are your favourite gambits / playful games?Heh, Yeah, talk about not giving a fuck. ...On a sidenote, there is a mouse living in my room right now. It kinda snuck in here 2 nights back, it's hiding in the wall or something. I see a DHV story coming here, 'cause i like the little fucker so far. Just fed him some random cheese. I'm calling him Gerald. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 02:10 AM |
| 2 | What are your favourite gambits / playful games?Markin' Dah Territorrrrrry (H) | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 01:12 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Every girl you see is an opportunity.Now to get that inner game you speak of. Honestly, I have some fucking behaviors to change, like you wouldn't believe. ABG is the principle to keep from all of this. Good that you're on your way to recovery, man. You sound like you can drop some awesome LR's on us. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesHey, I'm not that easy! I need trust and comfort first. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Disregard what Jeffy says, but pay attention to his attitude! That's a man who doesn't give a fuck.(ofc he's sarcastic)Doesn't the title say 'he's sarcastic of course?' :P apart from the dumb-ass grammatical error there, i thought that'd explain. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesWhat can I say, I'm a flirtatious dude. I can start qualifying you too, if that's what you dig :P ...That said, let me goof off :D | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesShhh! I was trying to play it slow here! Oh bigbear, why do you always have to make everything awkward! are you jealous? :'( | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 10:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] for those who also half doing it right then slap themselvesYeah, i know! the guy who brought me into this shit once instructed a friend of mine to K-close a leaving set (WITH A BOYFRIEND!) with that line. Was a beautiful scene. The balls on him, too. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Look don't matter [cross post from /r/AmISexy]Aw Yeah. There ya go. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 09:58 PM |
| 7 | What are your favourite gambits / playful games?Put a pen on her arm (after introducing the game, of course: what's the three mice race? i'll show you!) ...there was one mouse who was blind. Just tell it when to stop. put pen on arm, start drawing. ...there was one mouse who was dumb. Just tell it when to stop again. put pen on arm, start drawing. ...there was one mouse who was deaf. just tell it when to stop. put pen on arm, ignore what she says; after all the mouse is deaf. go on until she pulls away. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Disregard what Jeffy says, but pay attention to his attitude! That's a man who doesn't give a fuck.(ofc he's sarcastic)This man has TOTAL 100% BELIEF in his own game. That is what most of us really lack. Hypnotize yourself into it if you have to, but this is what makes a really effective PUA i think. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 08:43 PM |
| 1 | What are your favourite gambits / playful games?You betcha! haha | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Any tips on dealing with a straight up Maneater?Don't let her get into her head. I think that's going to make the difference. If she doesn't have your heart, she can't eat it. That said, the sex is, by stereotype, probably going to be batshit insane amazing. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Ultimate Wingman (X-post from /r/videos)amusing, though doesn't really belong on seddit :P | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 07:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] for those who also half doing it right then slap themselveswhich part? :) | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 06:47 PM |
| 8 | My last post on Seddit: Use your eyes.Thanks for the tip, this is very worthwhile! Enjoy the hunting, I hope to see you again in a few months and hear of your crusades, brother. Good night and good luck! | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 02:27 PM |
| -2 | I need help day f-closing an hb7.You could try some patterns... Those are moral grey-zone and more of a setup to seal it safer and faster next time, though. Not a magic pill to get her into your bed immediately. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What are your favourite gambits / playful games?Three mouse race, since it always works. Pen15 club, since they usually don't immediately get it and you can laugh over it. Mystery's TV test, that one is hilarious once you're in comfort. Tried AFC Adam's little kino-gambit too, that was fun. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 02:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR] for those who also half doing it right then slap themselvesDon't beat yourself up over this. Same conclusion as I got from my Day 2 report; get up, brush off, learn something, reframe, move along. Look; you learned something important today! don't weep over this girl, there are plenty out there, and at least you now know that it's time to go get 'em again! Little gambit for future reference, you can save situations like these by going 'i was about to leave, but decided I can't let you go like this...' then close. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 02:02 PM |
| 1 | This guy is so alpha they should invent a new letter of the greek alphabet to put - before - the alpha. Seriously. Read everything from him (except the legal stuff) for some interesting no-compromise perspectives on women and game.He has a good point, but it has little to do with being alpha. It has to do with being a man and not taking shit that crosses your boundaries. See, this is is in fact just one big essay on passing shit tests. That said, he has a very good point, and I think we should all pick up (sorry...) this advice from him, and just stick to our clear boundaries. It's A) a strong man's quality, and B) attractive, since dominant. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 01:58 PM |
| 5 | [FR] While running.... what?Hot damn, that was probably the most pompous thing I've ever read on seddit, hahahaha Well played, sir. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 12:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] kclose hb9Good job man :) Keep going, let us know where this goes. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesTo each his own. Guys like Style have gotten kisses and lays with this over and over, read his archives if you don't believe me. But i understand your skepticism, I have yet to try this myself. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 12:38 PM |
| 1 | [D2R] Guys, I need you to set me straight.Nah, the massive fail is mainly because I generally am not happy with the presented results :) I do have several hobbies I'm deeply in love with, I guess I hit a low point. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 12:37 PM |
| 1 | [D2R] Guys, I need you to set me straight.Thanks. I think I needed that. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesMyeah, if you already have some rapport and a bit of kino, it's not. Remember that women want to be taken, this kind of primal shit appeals to the reptilian brain i guess. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 12:35 PM |
| 1 | [D2R] Guys, I need you to set me straight.I guess that wouldn't hurt. But I want results, y'know :S I feel like i failed massively. Still, your advice is solid. Maybe I'm getting ahead of myself. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and Guidelines....mmmhno. Not i fyou have some comfort you don't. Delivery is everything. Open your mind, son. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Question Seddit..You are lucky you're in college, I just got outta highschool, and chicks my age are fairly heard to fuck-cloe :P Other than that, the general psychological principles still apply, but you can probably adapt some of the stuff to your environment- heck, you're supposed to anyway. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 11:44 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Terms of SuccessGood job learning. Improve your calibration for the future, i guess :) | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with girls you #-close who don't text back?Meh, you can. Chances are I did this on a younger girl than those you usually deal with, as I'm 16, I'm just saying if you really want a number back to life, this worked for me. In general just nexting her will probably not hurt tho. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesGood addition! Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesFor the kino test go back to the routine-stack post, or just google it, it's freely available :) Also, about the TV-test- i was kinda joking; what you do is, hold her from behind etc etc etc, and then ask her what her favorite TV show is. She answers (the whole family guy thing was a joke), and you push her off you, going: guess what, show's over. And yes. The hug test is awesome. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 10:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR#2] An entire week of sarging, an almost f-close, a successful wing, a meh first date, and my first number close from a solo approach at a bar. Life is good.Sticking Points are those parts of your game that need improving. Noting the sticking points you've broken through is also good though, that wasy it doesn't look like only tasks are coming your way. It's probalby the secret of improving to always keep track of your sticking points and work on them properly. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What Makes A Bad First DateSo fucking saved. Just went on a day-2 with a girl i really liked, logistics and control got so fucked up... She had a friend of hers join us, who turned out to be her boyfriend :P Ah well, guess I'm going sarging tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesOf course they'll work IRL, they're field-tested. Just always keep the guidelines above in mind. You can start touching her almost immediately upon approaching, but you have to build it up properly; you can't usually go in with a kiss, right? however, you can give her an innocuous touch on the shoulder within seconds of going in, casually, while saying something irrelevant and looking the other way. then, about 2 minutes later i guess, start trying thigns like the kino test and whatnot... I'd sa… | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 01:47 PM |
| 3 | [FR#2] An entire week of sarging, an almost f-close, a successful wing, a meh first date, and my first number close from a solo approach at a bar. Life is good.Vast improvement, lad! This is really cool, keep it up. I advise you to analyze and possibly post your sticking points up next, that'd probably help for the future :) | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 12:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with girls you #-close who don't text back?either what vampireslayer suggested, or, if you get bored, reopening them a while later with something like 'man, you're such a player! typical hard-to-get-i-never-text-back-chick :P hey by the way, random funny question' Do this in a way that you're flipping the script, acting like she's the player and you're the 10, but not too needy, as you'll give too much power away. Doing this ain't gonna be solid, but it'll give you a chance at getting the number back to life. I've done this successfully … | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesYeah, I don't remember where I first got that. I think it was some audio programme by a guy called Ben Larry. All pretty basic MM-style routines and stuff, but a few of these were gold. With this one, try not to overdo it, as you'll come off as creepy (fieldtested and failed :P), if not you're gold. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 11:50 AM |
| 7 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesLove you too, bro. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesFuck, I actually don't have a clue how those go. Stupid European childhood :P | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesDo tell? eyes glitter wildly | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Do you remember...?Holy shit. That's going in the stack. I have a day 2 up tomorrow. Gonna use that upon going in. Edit: Fuck. We should do an AA thread one of these days, these tactics would probably be gold to the newbies out there! | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 03:11 AM |
| 2 | [sort-of FR] Alright guys, Got a Day 2 coming up! Tips?hahaha, i just posted that :P What shall i say, i dug out the ol' archives :) In fact, we just conversed right there! Thanks a lot for the tips on reframing and avoiding the heavy stuff. Great ideas! | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Kino-Escalation Gambits, Tactics and GuidelinesAlways happy to help! :) | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Do you remember...?Yeah, i know. I used to have terrible AA, but whenever i'm in a good state nowadays, i can just tell myself 'dude, it's really no big deal. you've opened a fucking set before haven't you?' and really, you realize that it's no big deal at all anyway. The AA just disappears. Making fun of yourself in your head also works. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Do you remember...?This. What a short-but-sweet post, kudo's mate. Not gonna alleviate the approach anxiety, i guess, but definitely the self-deprecation after. Solid! | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 01:58 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 4-set opens me, made out with two of themLookin' Forward to it :) If you kids are lucky, I'll be having my first LR up here soon, too... (A) | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Can we make our own 'SEDDIT challenge', a 30 day challenge to truly master this material!?Always :) | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Can we make our own 'SEDDIT challenge', a 30 day challenge to truly master this material!?And so the universe and the man are, once again, in harmony. Awww Yeah. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 11:35 PM |
| 1 | On Assuming Attraction by Brad Branson from the RSD Newsletteryeah, though probably quite heavily paraphrased :P Hey, I live in the Hague, PM me if you're ever in town. I'm not 18 yet, but I'd love to sarge with a fellow sedditor. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Did I mess up?You made no major mistake, good job. Next time push a little further, try not to make her uncomfortable ;) | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 09:30 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Goo Goo Dolls, Night 2I'd say you should stay on this, man. You're can get into those pants fairly easily, she wants it. I think she just didn't wanna feel like a slut in the process, or/and make sure she means something to you. So how about fluffing a little? building a bit more comfort? give her a call and tell her that you had a good time and you look forward to seeing her again soon, gentleman-style. Don't lose frame, though. Keep in mind at all times your intent. She's more or less in control right now, but isn'… | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 08:34 PM |
| 2 | On Assuming Attraction by Brad Branson from the RSD NewsletterHeh, yeah i got the same thing. A bit of a repost, but not a bad read. That said, I'm a dutchy, and apparently I'm missing out on some RSD action in amsterdam as we speak...? | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 06:59 PM |
| 1 | I might be Seddit's greatest challenge yet.Hitting the core of this problem is important, i think. But as said, I'm not a psychologist. If OP figures out this is bullsh*t, I ain't objecting. Long term, i advise finding one or several trusty wings who can note problems like these for you, or at least work on them with you if you find htem yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 06:56 PM |
| 1 | I might be Seddit's greatest challenge yet.hey, he asked for a lot of shit, man. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 06:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Quick summary of my night with TofuTofu, JJJ and other sedditors. Also an awesome direct opener that isolates the lovely young lady you'd like to get to know.It's called NineBall. It's his story. And it's sick. It goes from extreme parental violence and sickness via drugaddiction and pickup artistry to tyler durden, lol. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 05:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Quick summary of my night with TofuTofu, JJJ and other sedditors. Also an awesome direct opener that isolates the lovely young lady you'd like to get to know.You accidentally a word ;) A pity, reading his book makes me fairly curious about who he is IRL, man. That book is insane. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 04:34 PM |
| 1 | RE: The importance of kino and physical communicationNp, glad to help :) | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 03:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Quick summary of my night with TofuTofu, JJJ and other sedditors. Also an awesome direct opener that isolates the lovely young lady you'd like to get to know.Dude! Where was all of this? Edit: read thread, got answers. Winning? Also, Jeffy strikes me as a guy with a very dark energy. Is he like that in real life? And did you see him in set? | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 03:40 PM |
| 1 | RE: The importance of kino and physical communicationYou can find PUA lingo in the sidebar probably, and otherwise just google the terms :) The ol' fastseduction forum (where all of this started, mind you!) also has a list. That said, KINO means Touch! It comes from Kinesthetic. Kino escalation is when you gradually start touching a girl a bit more (which you can do right and wrong, by the way...) to get her more comfortable with your touch. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Things you do NOT Neg/tease aboutDon't neg on things that are really wrong with them. I accidentally negged the chick in my sort-of FR on her being an insomniac. Wasn't a good idea; no serious backlash, but it could've gone wrong if she'd taken it as mor ethan an almost unnoticed sidenote. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Threesome advicehehe, even seddit is dropping disclaimers on us nowadays. | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Threesome adviceDoes that shit work? I never got there, obviously... Also, to OP: Another thing that Style came up with is calling both girls and going: 'Hey, come over, I wanna show you something. I got us a little play-thing.' then leave them alone in a room together for a while. They both know what's happening. That said, this is originally intended for two girls you've slept with on separate occasions, but I thought I'd post it for future reference :) | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 03:31 PM |
| 3 | [FR] 4-set opens me, made out with two of themGood job bro, kudo's. Next time I'd love to see a layreport though =D | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 01:21 PM |
| 9 | I might be Seddit's greatest challenge yet.Alright now- Seddit has some really bad-ass inner game stuff in the sidebar, start with that. When you're through that, get your hands on A) The Mystery Method/The Venusian Arts Handbook B) The Blueprint Decoded. (Optionally: C) The Annihilation Method. Shut up, it IS cool :P) I think by the itme you're through all that, you're gonna have all the theory in your head that you'll need to get this right. The next step is to find a wing! somebody who can push you to progress, somebody who can give y… | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Can we make our own 'SEDDIT challenge', a 30 day challenge to truly master this material!?alright then ;) Seriously, I hate it when people try to sell me that crap. Especially since that TED talk where people applied it to gaming; my generation, apparently, will, by age 26, be made up of 90% master-gamers, and this is somehow immensely useful for the world. My ass. Edit: self-downvote for dragging outside stuff into the discussion, haha | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How can I build attraction?Really, cocky/funny is just part of what we usually refer to as flirting. david deangelo has a whole programme called cocky comedy, which is probably freely available online. you can start by just finding a couple of cocky/funny lines on the internet, memorizing them and using them in the field. This is a fairly crude solution, but you've gotta start somewhere. You have to find some comfort using lines like these, and then start realizing other ways you can do it. it'll take some calibration, bu… | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I do the "handoff"?Good question. As long as I don't really know what it is, I'm not gonna judge you on anything though. Also, alpha as all hell struck me as a bit over-the-top douchy, but that's me, not you, so- i get how it could piss somebody off, but i don't think it should. | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I do the "handoff"?Out of sheer curiosity- why? :P Something about the post ticked me off too, but why would you call a guy who wants to get his bros laid a fag? because he's trying to be 'alpha as all hell?' | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 12:41 PM |
| 1 | For Newbs: Eye Contact With Everyone Is A Confidence BoostI think here we have another important conclusion; see yesterday's Always Be Gaming. Flirt with everyone, and Always Make Eyecontact, and, of course, ALWAYS SMILE! | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Can we make our own 'SEDDIT challenge', a 30 day challenge to truly master this material!?yeah, see, i think that's bullshit. when i sit with my guitar, and i just noodle around for an hour, do i learn as much as when i practice technique for an hour? no. So it's not just the time you spend on it. It's mainly whether you use that time optimally. | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Can we make our own 'SEDDIT challenge', a 30 day challenge to truly master this material!?Rules of the game deals with most of that, really... The problem with Seddit doing this would probably be that we're not all like-minded, and would probably consider different things for this. If Seddit were to make such a compendium (which, by the way, is an AWESOME fucking idea) it should focus entirely on inner game, since we're probably most like-minded there. Think about it- Going from an AFC to a charismatic man in 30 days sounds pretty good... Hell, I'd do that, I bet I'd learn things. | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 12:35 PM |
| 2 | How can I build attraction?If this is that big a deal for you, you might want to use some routines as training wheels. At some point you won't need them anymore, but they help to build value (and thus attraction) if you can't do it by yourself yet. Other than that, Cocky/Funny (in correct measures) helps so massively, it's not even fu- well, it's fairly funny actually. | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 12:33 PM |
| 1 | What makes one charismatic?It sounds very solid. Now the next step to this would be: How could you achieve it that others at least perceive you as being charismatic? What could one do? | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you improve game/seduction skills if you're in a monogamous relationship?Starting a charisma thread right now. Great idea, bro. | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Any more 'story' like books on game?Dude- I'm reading Nine Ball, and it's by far the most fucked-up thing i've seen in a long, long time. Jeffy is the craziest motherfucker ever. | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Finding LA very hard to game inIsn't LA the pickup capital of the world? talk about competition. I guess chicks are more difficult to impress? | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Any more 'story' like books on game?I've seen the jeffy show and am right now reading nine ball. jeffy is creepy in some way, but goddamn he is a beast. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Any more 'story' like books on game?A guy called Jeffry L Allen? | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 11:03 PM |
| 3 | There is a light at the end of the tunnel and it's gorgeousThis vision is what we should all carry along, really. I'm happy to hear that you made it to the other side. I hope to see you there soon. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 10:49 PM |
| 5 | How do you improve game/seduction skills if you're in a monogamous relationship?First Impulse: Dude, fucking not at all. You enjoy being with somebody you love. Second Impulse: ...But if you really need to, apply some game in random conversation. It's fair practice in many situations, just watch out that it doesn't become a violation of said rules. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 10:47 PM |
| 4 | ABG = Always Be GamingFuck this is so true! I realized this a couple of days ago, when I naturally started flirting with some random girls I barely knew. Sadly, this isn't the norm yet. Off we go fixing this. Thanks a lot for the reminder. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How can i play these two girls off eachother?I think we're gonna need one of the admins or someone in here, this could be golden. That said, fuck, you shoulda asked the ABC's of Attraction guys this last night! | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Guys, the first real night clubbing.This, sir, is an awesome, and all-encompassing reply. I'm fucking sad that I won't get to put it into action just yet. Ah well, the will is strong but the flesh is weak. Thanks anyway, this is will be fucking glorious tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Guys, the first real night clubbing.Ok. I guess I'll have to be a wee bit louder tho? :P | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 06:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] the third. First date tonight...K-closed and made some more plans.Hey, thanks a lot! :) It's really cool to have your efforts recognized, hahaha. Dude, honestly, this is fairly unknown terrain for me, too... The pictures are a good idea, they'll probably work. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 06:04 PM |
| 2 | All my friends are musicians/in really cool bands, basically they need not even speak and girls will fall at their feet. I am just a normal guy. I am overshadowed constantly by them, how do I get girls to notice me?This is an opportunity! model them, see how they act, what's so confident and attractive about it, and construct your own identity with this in mind. make yourself just as attractive and interesting as a rockstar, knowing how a real rockstar does it. if you know your game, you can still overshadow them. also, peacocking. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 05:22 PM |
| 1 | PUA Research - Mystery Method evaluation confirms sexist tendencies of men and womenYeah, all this counts. But really, in the end, as long as you are not blatantly manipulative and lieing about who you are? nobody is going to be betrayed. even if you caveman and push to close, you are not doing anything she doesn't want, are you? i'm pretty sure she'd tell you she doesn't like you before you slip the rubber on. that said, trying to give value rather than just taking it is very important indeed :) | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 05:09 PM |
| 2 | A play by play attraction playbook flowchart!Definitely, and I'm very glad we had a healthy one. Enjoy your day sir, and wish me luck, because tonight is probably going to be quite challenging :P | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 05:07 PM |
| 1 | PUA Research - Mystery Method evaluation confirms sexist tendencies of men and womenIt depends on your methods, really. Gaming a chick by just understanding how social interactions work and doing a good job at them is different from acting like something you're really not to get laid. if you're a great person, what the fuck, all the chicks will definitely want you, you just have to show them how great you are. if you're a little schemer with no personal value or confidence, sitting at home thinking of ways to trick chicks into giving him their pussy, chances are you're doing so… | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 04:51 PM |
| 5 | A play by play attraction playbook flowchart!I can't speak for other sedditors, of course, but yeah, this being too basic/inflexible is basically why I'm skeptical of it. I do accept Attraction/Comfort/Seduction, but you don't always have to go through them with the same game plan. I'll check out what other points other sedditors have found about it, there probably are some other good arguments to be made here. Edit: Upvote so some newbies learn something, and hopefully also read the ensuing discussion to gain some perspective on the whole… | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!yes it is :) | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Hey Reddit, my team made this FREE iPhone app to keep track of all your hookupsHoly Shit. This is Awesome. ...Sadly i don't have an iPhone :P | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 04:29 PM |
| 3 | A play by play attraction playbook flowchart!well, let me elaborate- it's a bit too basic. as a newbie, using this would probably help a lot, since it makes you understand the basic structure, but if you get more advanced, always sticking to the same basic structure is too rigid. it's kind of a hit-or-miss approach. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 04:25 PM |
| 1 | My former Oneitus wanted to fuck the other night...mmyeah. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!you bet it is! since there's always something you haven't told them (at least during your first 2 minutes in) they'll hang on your lips. by then, their impression of you is made, and you can drop it, at least drop doing it deliberately (though it happens naturally when you talk to good friends btw). Great to help you Hook. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 04:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] the third. First date tonight...K-closed and made some more plans.I can't offer a lot of feedback here, other than: give her something strong to remember you by, and dont text all the time. I mainly wann give you kudo's for manning up and going for it. It's a tough thing to do sometimes. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 03:22 PM |
| 2 | The next step in your approach after integrating "always assume attraction".I'll integrate Always Assume Attraction first, and save this for later :P | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 03:19 PM |
| 0 | Direct opening lines work better for seductionWhile there may be truth in this, there are too many posts with not field-tested outside research on seddit today. I don't think this is productive. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 03:17 PM |
| 5 | A play by play attraction playbook flowchart!Might help some newbies, but for anybody who has even read the game this is outdated. Edit: No offense of course. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 03:15 PM |
| 4 | PUA Research - Mystery Method evaluation confirms sexist tendencies of men and womenYeah, i quit reading after the first 3 lines, because this interview strikes me as just another that only sees pickup as smart manipulation to fuck hot chicks without really being a person worthy of getting any love. I want a TL;DR if there was anything interesting in there, man. Edit: The only possible use of this thread would be an ethical discussion about the thin line between pickup and manipulation. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Weird response from a girl at a barMyeah, you don't wanna overneg of course, but if you only give her a light poke, and she already refers to herself as a dork, she should be able to take that joke. besides, if she can't, fuck that. there's a milion girls with a sense of humor out there waiting to be seduced. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Weird response from a girl at a barI've had something like this not so long ago- I was running a 4-set (I opened with my all-time favorite opener: what size tutu would you recommend for me?) and didn't have the balls to try and close. When I started/attempted a numberclose, the girl, which had been not been all that into it, almost forced her number onto me, which was a positive surprise. The weird thing is, that as i moved on she passed me later int he evening and went 'that number i gave you was wrong, sorry.' This was in front… | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Qualifier Resources?There's the ol' Mystery Method line... You're beautiful, but beauty is all too common. What are three reasons for which I'd actually wanna know you better? I actually don't do this enough, and I need more of this, too! | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!yeah, tell her the conclusion. you can also teasingly tell the one with the longer ringfinger that it makes sense cause she's definitely the bad girl... instant nickname, too. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 02:58 PM |
| 0 | My former Oneitus wanted to fuck the other night...Go troll somewhere else xP | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!lol. lazy-ass :P | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Request: Field Video CompendiumOh, this is a great idea. I'm all for such a subreddit/sedditcompendium. RSD is selling this shit for tons of money right now, so about 6 months from now we'll probably be able to see a ton of this on the web. right now, however, there's not a lot of this available as far as i know. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Get A Girlfriend In 3 StepsMyeah, this is fairly basic. For an AFC with decent social skills trying to get his life together, this is gold, for a PUA who's in a bit deeper, probably not so much. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Advice for an over-analytical mind? I feel like this has impeded my progress in becoming comfortable in my own skinyeah, exactly. it's been a little bit less in the passing weeks, but i go out with the same couple of guys most nights, and they keep me in state, we have good times, i open some sets and they help me stay in the moment and only analyze what i did AFTERWARD, and not BEFORE or DURING, when i'm way too busy just being x) | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:48 PM |
| -1 | My former Oneitus wanted to fuck the other night...myeah, but if she wants to go back to being just friends, what better way to get it back to a sexual level than extensive touch? | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!dude, it's like the most canned opener ever :P You can just google it, i think. It's basically- 'hey guys, quick question, i gotta get back to my friends in a second, but we were having a debate, because one of us is having trouble with his girlfriend; she found out he's still in touch with his ex, and is now threatening to break up with him if he doesn't cut her out of his life. is she overreacting or is she right?' possible 2nd part: 'this is really a 2-part question, because how it started is… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!I'm currently only on Seddit/highseddit, man, and fairly satisfied with it, too. Multiple-threading means that you start one gambit, then instead of finishing it, going into another one first. Halfway through the second one, you finish the first one. Mystery has a lot of stuff to explain this, mainly what it does is leave an open loop, set you in their unconscious mind as an interesting person, because there's always an answer you haven't given them yet. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:13 PM |
| 2 | The power of the Bucket list.It does! it's an old NLP-motivational thing to note down your goals anyway, so i think a lot of us already have a blueprint to make this kind of bucket-list out of... With proper delivery (a passionately speaking man is a passionately fucking man...) this could be a proper beast. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Really good AMA, you guys. I picked up some really good shit from reading this. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!This is so awesome. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:03 PM |
| 4 | The power of the Bucket list.Dude, I love you. This is such an awesome thing for you, and could be turned into a monster-routine for all of us! This is going straight to the stack! XD | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 11:45 AM |
| 11 | The power of the Bucket list.Holy Shit. You sir. Oh you. You diabolically smooth motherfucker, you. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 11:43 AM |
| -2 | My former Oneitus wanted to fuck the other night...Kino Escalate Like A Boss, I'd say. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!that's usually no problem, improvisation and flexibility are important. Just google C's versus U's though, that's probably everywhere. Ringfinger Vs. Forefinger is this: Take her hand (free kino), and realize: hey, her forefinger is longer than her ringfinger or the other way around. if her ringfinger is longer, she had more testosterone than usual in her system, which shapes a more aggressive/assertive character. if she has a longer forefinger, she had more estrogen in her system, which helps s… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!Yeah, basically get your calibration straight i guess. Read up real quick on IOI's and IOD's, then, when you're in the field, consciously watch out for them until you're aware of them fairly easily. Then, closing will become easier too, because you'll be more aware of their interest! Also, Approach Anxiety is very state-dependent (at least for me). right now, i just woke up (1 PM. oh yeah.) looking out my window, the weather is shit and i don't have anything cool to do today. That's not a mood i… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!Alright now, what's yer secret? xD We all wanna know now. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!Yeah, and prefferably add some really good ones :) I still occasionally open with jealous girlfriend, since that's the first opener i learned (yeah. style kid here.) and it's therefore one of the things my brain just gives me by default. one day, when your inner game is tight, you can open with anything, but for right now i advise relying on something a bit more robust, so that you feel most confident using it! | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!As stated above- practice them (in front of a mirror) til you don't have to think about them anymore. I've had a couple of times when I walked up to a woman and, without thinking, went: 'hey, can i get a female opinion on somethi-' | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!A bit of basic advice for stuff like this- Realize when you're doing it. Realize when you've done it. Have a reply prepared for the next time it happens! Edit: on the flaking thing, either build more attraction/rapport and/or (i'm all for 'and' here) give them nicknames, discuss stuff you have in common and can do together; give them a REASON to want to spend more time with you. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Advice for an over-analytical mind? I feel like this has impeded my progress in becoming comfortable in my own skinThere's some hardship ahead for kids like us. We're here if you need any help. For now i can only tell you to catch yourself in the act whenever you start overthinking, then make just doing it your instant response. You have nothing to lose here, realize that. Also, share with a person you trust and see a lot, so they can tell you when you're doing it, and so that you can stop the habit. Realize also that your subconscious can't just drop one thing without picking up another. Hence i advise repl… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!As said, automate some openers. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!oh christ. Classic Approach Anxiety. I think you need to find a wing who punches you in the face each time you fail to open a set. Also, practice 2 or 3 openers in front of the mirror coupla dozen times. that should help. You sound like going out more, reading The Game and going through seddit's inner-game compendium would do wonders for you. You are massivley overthinking (i tend to do this too) and need to kick yourself into JUST DOING IT. when your mindset is: fuck it, let's do this rather th… | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!There might be a thing on isohunt called the pickup artist book collection... i think it could have whole folder of just vin dicarlo stuff... | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!Amen. Also a metalhead btw. Awesome all along the line. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Inner game; Today I took a vow of silence... So far it's awkward as hellYeah, i know, that's where it comes from. If you don't got the balls for it, grow 'em. Not to be a dick, but because it'll help. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!Fuck TD :P But srsly, I've never actually had to AMOG someone. Only a wing once, but that wasn't serious. Crazy. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!Yeah, I guess. Delightful to have a discussion on seddit that does not result in PUA on PUA violence :P | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Inner game; Today I took a vow of silence... So far it's awkward as hellHeh. To fix this i ran around amsterdam wearing a tutu for a day. Didn't work as well as hoped, but was nonetheless fucking hilarious (and sure, i learnt shit). Fuck it, I'll join. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are some quick tips someone can do to improve their game? I'll start.This. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!I think that that's all delivery, man. But ok, your way here may well be better than what I suggested. Nonetheless the whole situational thing can come off as lame fairly quickly, since she's probably heard a lot of it before... i'm not saying your suggestion is bad, i'm saying you'll need to calibrate properly as to what you can do and what will fail. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 09:46 PM |
| 2 | K-Closing gambit that's worked for me 4/4 timesDibs. And saved, too. Awesome. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 08:53 PM |
| 3 | My friend is good at accentsDamn. That's some proper inner game. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Inner game; Today I took a vow of silence... So far it's awkward as hellI'm wondering the same, yet i consider it weirdly awesome. If you give me a solid reason to, I'll join you, sir. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!I advise reading up on Kino- Vin DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder is still on my reading list, I think you'd benefit from it, too. The second one is probably a bit of an inner game thing... You might benefit from doing something over-the-top/ridiculous (watch out with that, though :P) when this feeling pops up. Should get you back into fuck-it-all mode. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!Tough one. I'd say give them a concrete reason for wanting to see you again. leave an open loop with something interesting you said, talk about something awesome to do together. get her to invest. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!I advise improving your calibration; watch more closely for IOI's and IOD's, gain some confidence in your progress by counting them if you have to, and just GO FOR IT. You can do it. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!Awesome! Here, gentleman, we can do some good work! :) Stack forward with one or two tiny routines, like the ol' C's vs. U's or the ringfinger/forefinger routine; i do this a lot, if you have good energy level, this will hook like 90% of the time. now, i don't know whether the specification 'direct approach in the day' makes this tip less valid, but i'd think it universally works. Also check out mystery's stuff on multiple threading, it's gold for hooking. Why would you do this? Do you mean that… | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Deal breakers.Control-Freakism Passive-Aggressiveness Playing games with me (in courtship, there's always a bit of this, but women who are such bitches that they need to keep this up past that are not worth the time to me. part of setting a clear frame, i guess.) overt rudeness. I used to hang with a lot of fairly unhappy people, and i realized later that they shared the common trait of being, in one way or another, rude. it's such a reflection of poor inner state. Edit: 5: yeah, the wrong kind of religious i… | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Share Your Sticking Points, I´ll Start!Yeah, this sounds like a fairly big inner game thing, my friend. I'm having something equal due to what is described above, and I advise to, when you feel you lack the balls to try something, do it BECAUSE of that fact, rather than despite it. Make it an act of protest, a big fuck-you to all that's holding you back. It may take a while for this to click, hell, i'm not there yet myself, but working towards it alone is already so motivating! :) | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Everyone's probably seen this, but this is still GOLD to me!ah yes, the ol' classic... and people tell me the cube is cheesy :P i find this hilarious though, i still use it on and off. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What song do you listen to to help you get in state?Pretty much everything by Airbourne; Xanadu and 2112 by Rush (yeah. Fucking Rush.) New Millenium by Dream Theater and Bike by Pink Floyd. AC/DC works too, it's such balls-to-the-wall fuck-it-all party-style cockrock. Cool thread btw! Best example of all of the above: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PX7ciQJuvbU | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Turn off, let go, just flow...If it were that easy, eh? | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 01:12 AM |
| 1 | A very powerful tip for day-2's: the personal jokeI have been using this forever, reading this and looking back, you're entirely right. there is a lot of win to be had here. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Turn off, let go, just flow...This is easier said... than done... And i bet you... smoked quite the bowl... Enjoy your night... and the peace you found within... | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Basic Routine Stacki bet you're a really great PUA with that attitude. | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 02:08 PM |
| 1 | TofuTofu's Texting Rule (Reminder on text game)See, i just blew it on a fairly solid number over this yesterday. Crap, i saw the light too late again :P Thanks TT, will remember it for the future. Seems I'm going sarging tonight :P | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Need help with confidence buildingnow, i'm gonna catch crap for this, but old as it may be, it's true- competence breeds confidence | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 12:54 PM |
| 2 | The Door: A Power and Control Patternyeah, how about you don't use this shit. | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Just open!I had the same thing last night, was out with two friends, and the environment was just too target-poor, yet you instinctually need to open... | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Basic Routine Stackyou don't know The Blueprint Decoded by Tyler Durden? o.0 I thought you guys had turned it into the inofficial inner game bible lately. It's a bit overhyped, but it's a very good in-depth program on all things inner-game. | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Basic Routine Stackjesus, don't be so imperial on these things. | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Basic Routine Stackwhy so? :P Edit: ah, nevermind, read the ensuing thread. cheers bro! :) | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 11:27 AM |
| 7 | Basic Routine StackSo? I'm aware that routines are as much to make you feel comfortable as they are for her, but as described above, this is mainly meant as help for newer members of seddit. Routines help, at least for guys like me. Of course, once inner game is down and tight, you probably need to use them less and less, or not at all, but I'm pretty sure these routines are gonna help people. | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Basic Routine StackAww yeah =D Shit, I suck for forgetting that. ah well, it's recently been on here anyway, woulda been too much of a repost x) Ty for reminding me though! | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Basic Routine StackDefinitely do! I'd love to hear how it worked out. I must admit I as of now have yet to try the David D kiss test... Pulling the trigger is another, more major sticking point for me. | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Basic Routine Stackno, you're absolutely right! you have to stop yourself before you turn into the dancing monkey, that's definitely true. it's a sticking point of mine, actually, to stop being interesting and start qualifying faster. I reaaaally like the psychological routines though, they generate a lot of interest :) | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 03:01 PM |
| 14 | Basic Routine StackMeh, i don't have a structured list, but sure, i could probably think of a couple more to post. I'd prefer just posting them on this thread rather than PM'ing them though, because I'm interested in whether it could provide food for a healthy discussion :) The first thing that comes to mind at this point are a couple of patterns that i sometimes use. Not the hardcore manipulation shit though, since that's potentially destructive/corrupting. Here goes: I. Compulsive Attraction Pattern Do you ever … | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 02:56 PM |
| 1 | So seddit, any advice on how to make first contact for a good looking but somewhat shy 15 year old male?Oh dude, if you really want to get into it, I advise to start by reading The Game. That's not where I started, but it's probably the easiest place to come from; Neil Strauss gives you some perspective on both the lifestyle and the potential dangers that come along with it, and give you, in general, some context by telling you his journey. Also, he introduces you to a lot of guys who then deliver most of the techniques and mindsets to pull it off. The Blueprint Decoded by RSD is also useful, sinc… | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 02:02 PM |
| 1 | How to turn my prosthetic leg into a DHV?Just show that it's not a big deal to you (sorry if that made me sound like a dick, let me elaborate-) and that what's happened has happened, and you're willing to move on. Not moping, but progressing, growing with a positive attitude is a very, very hot alpha-quality. Edit: But of course you can joke about it, just don't outright lie. | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel as if Seddit suffers from a serious case of cognitive dissonance because of holding conflicting ideas simultaneously?Implying seddit is a single entity that can only have one train of thought? dude, this is a forum. if we all thought the same, why would we bother discussing it? | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Are there correct and incorrect answers to "what's up" while texting/chatting?Ah, it's up. | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Field-tested opener from yesterday - easily opened a three set: "Entertain me for a minute."Oh, this one is gonna require some balls... Thanks Tofu, i'm gonna try this out asap. | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 01:14 PM |
| 1 | How to get HB8 physically interested?Bait her into coming to you. Make her qualify herself to you. Show her that you're the prize. And for gods sake, keep that frame. Or have you done that already? :S | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Are there correct and incorrect answers to "what's up" while texting/chatting?the fuck. i don't know what's up, but reddit won't let me post atm. gonna do it later, stay put :P | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 01:12 PM |
| 1 | First Hypnosisawww yeah. thanks buddy, i'll take a look. there probalby is something worthwhile in there (A) other than that, i've found some good general hypnotic scripts on the internet, i'll see where these lead. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Are there correct and incorrect answers to "what's up" while texting/chatting?what, you mean of my routine stack? | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Has anybody else found seddit to be strangely addictive?This is an old phenomenon, that was already well known in the way, way olden days of alt.seduction.fast as internet-junkyism or seminar-junkyism. it's the drive to learn EVERYTHING before you go out and do it (or, in a better case, while you're going out and doing it). | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Heading to Europe (mostly Germany) for business next week. Any tips?goddamn me for not knowing what GTL is :P ...ah- well, i don't see how that would be all that different in europe from how it is in the states. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Heading to Europe (mostly Germany) for business next week. Any tips?From watching all the PUA stuff and living in Europe (Holland, but Germany shouldn't be much different, as I've been there a lot, too) I've come to the realization that the whole pickup thing is waaay less known here, so you have a much freeer hand, girls are a lot less suspicious about it. I hope that helps a bit. Edit: Jersey Shore? Really...? ;) | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Are there correct and incorrect answers to "what's up" while texting/chatting?holy shit, this is going in the stack. awesome idea. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 06:27 PM |
| 1 | If a girl recognizes that you are performing a routine on her, how would you counter that?If you're on the Style-Trail anyway, another thing he advises is to go: 'yeah, you totally caught me. a friend of mine was telling me (lalala, some story about your friend being a PUA), and challenged me to try it out.' and take it from there, maybe tell her how routines can't replace a good character or whatever other subtle dhv-spikes you wanna drop. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 06:20 PM |
| 3 | How to make a girl laughIt's a pretty fun little technique, I need more ways to make chicks laugh :P That said, i'm not quite sure about adam lyons, man. i've never really seen him in action. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 06:12 PM |
| 1 | First Hypnosisoh he di'!!! | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Well I climbed Everest, had a foursome with 3 girls. AMA.I WANT THIS. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen Tyler Durden RSD pickup in person?that, admittedly, is true. it's an overlooked obvious, i guess. i don't know, there's something creepy about him, and most of the guys at RSD, at least to me, but i guess i can't say he's a squirming freak. I am wondering whether he has a moral code, though. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 02:32 AM |
| 2 | My take on text game and "dodgy pictures"Goddamn, this is some of the stuff that should just be read by any aPUA and beyond once a week, just to keep the sword fresh. seddit, you amaze me today. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Peak Experiences defined: The Nights You Have That Top All Others and How To Have More of Them.Dude, this may be because the blueprint is awhile ago, whereas i read this right now, but im very tempted to compare how much i got out of the two... | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Lesson 3: Importance of Projecting an Aura of Happiness and Well-beingTofuTofu, dude, you're awesome. | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen Tyler Durden RSD pickup in person?Sorry if i do. i have a real love/hate thing with TD and RSD in general :P As said, i find Tyler's character both fascinating and appalling (at times). | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Used the power of seduction for evil... and restored a missing piece of pride.Oh boy. Well, that wasn't the mature thing to do, but it was in no way bad, unless your motives were... It's not like you 'seduced' her sister. Either way, enjoy the pleasure of tha tmoment, and I htink you're right in having no regrets about this. | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Would anyone like a subreddit of text conversation transcripts of flirting and talking with girls?Definite awesome. | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen Tyler Durden RSD pickup in person?yeah, i awtched the blueprint too, and that's exactly where my original disturbance came from (i only read the game after this, which clarified some things), because in between his nice-guy demeanor, i caught these crampy glimpses of creep in him. You're definitely right in that he's grown a lot since the project hollywood days, though. I guess it's a long hard road out of hell. | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen Tyler Durden RSD pickup in person?that's true. but i mean, there should be a life away from chicks and money, shouldn't there? | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:03 PM |
| 1 | First HypnosisAlright, I'll keep you guys posted on it. I read up on some hypnotic scripts and what not today, I definitely think that there is some serious value to be given here :) | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:03 PM |
| 1 | First Hypnosisyou got a problem mate? | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone here seen Tyler Durden RSD pickup in person?sounds more like a slightly unhealthy obsession than anything else... | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Being self-validated and gaining internally centered confidence.You simply deserve the maddest props for this long, mature, rational and yet respectful comment. I don't know your age, but this speaks highly of your maturity. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Being self-validated and gaining internally centered confidence.TofuTofu, bro, is there any thread on here that you DON'T reply to? No offense of course, you're probably one of the best on here anyway. To OP - Awesome dude, i've had moments like that myself (couldn't quite keep them, as my inner game is still not all that great, but hey, we're progressing, aren't we?) and, yes, they were game-changers. I hope all goes well in this same way for you int he future. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 10:00 PM |
| 2 | I'm trying, guys, but I'd still like your help.Oh yeah, i heard Craig (Grimble) sell a version of this at one of the DyD seminars! It IS gold, thanks so much for reminding me of this, this is going in the stack. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here seen Tyler Durden RSD pickup in person?Can anyone answer this question that i've been sitting with forever... I had the idea that deep inside, he's a squirming, hateful little freak, a person to pity even. Even though some of his stuff is undoubtedly very smart (though the basics of most of it are stolen from mystery). Does this come through when you see him in person? I'm quite fascinated by him | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 09:23 PM |
| 2 | A success story, in more ways then oneYou, Sir, Are a hero of the modern age. Kudo's on everything, Go Forth And Prosper. You have done it right. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?Dude, do you have anything else on the cluster B personality disorders? i've come across these so much it's just out of proportion... | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?You, sir, are a first-grade badass. | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 07:10 PM |
| 1 | LMR, alcohol and rape questions.well, we have some common sense on our side here indeed; real resistance and token resistance will be very different from each other (at elast when moderdately sober). if you want to be entirely on the safe side, find some wings to witness that it was entirely consensual. of course, only do this in cases where you expect her to be crazy enough to sue you for no reason :P | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 11:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Making a Pivot, our Foursome StoryHeh, yeah, I just did. wasn't all that great though... I'm just gonna continue and hope i can break through my SP's. It's weird how much success is dependant on just bien gin the Zone. Though i guess that gets easier once success is on your side. | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 11:11 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Making a Pivot, our Foursome StoryThis. I want this. My deepest Disbelief and Awe, Good Sir. | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 12:40 PM |
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