Yes I have read the posts from the sidebar about inner game, and yes I have watched The Blueprint Decoded, but simply reading sentences like "Be a leader among men", or listening to Tyler Durden talking about what happens when you gain confidence (without telling you how to obtain that confidence) for 40 hours just didn't help me that much. I try to talk to as women as I can thinking maybe eventually my mindset will eventually transform to that of a confident one, but one awkward interaction after another, it didn't, and I find myself more frustrated than before, and confidence deteriorated.

I would like to think I'm handling other areas of my life pretty well, I'm getting good marks in an excellent uni program, have a really good job, and have amazing friends. It sounds corny but, when every single friend of mine has a girlfriend, I'm just really curious about the feeling of being in a relationship with a girl I love who loves me back (virgin for 21 years now).

I don't mind spending some time reading a few books, or spend some time everyday doing some mental excercies on a routine basis, as long as it works, I will try your suggestion. Thanks so much in advance for all your help!