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This. There is going to be a lot of LMR. You need HEAVY comfort and to ensure her that you're truly into her. I'd be surprised if you were able to pull a SNL. goodluck.
/r/seduction07/09/11 06:52 PM
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At least you got it out of the way. If thats the worst of the worst for you that's far better than most of us. As far as responses go, do you want to spit out some venom or be classy about it? That's what the true question is. There are tons of way of responding. Joke with her about being short, Ignore it, Give her a high five and compliment her on how witty she is, or tell her what a fucking cunt she is. It's all up to you. Goodluck.
/r/seduction22/08/11 12:59 AM
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Thank you for posting this. My sentiments EXACTLY.
/r/seduction21/08/11 10:03 PM
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That's absolutely true in regards to the structured approach people receive from the MM. Thanks.
/r/seduction21/08/11 09:45 PM
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There is always another day, but that's time you just spent watching life pass you by. Grab the bull by the horns and go for it! I definitely understand and respect what you're saying. I just feel there is a time and a place to sit back and relax, a bar isn't that location. You go out at night to see what happens, not to watch what happens. (If that makes any sense) Thanks.
/r/seduction21/08/11 09:44 PM
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Thank you kindly!
/r/seduction21/08/11 09:42 PM
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It's not really the fact that I can't hang out with them and truly enjoy myself, there are just different settings for that. The whole reason to go out is to be social. Not to sit around and talk about what we all experienced that day as if to recreate the fun times again. Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction21/08/11 09:42 PM
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I feel for you. Unfortunately, it was quite the opposite in my case!
/r/seduction21/08/11 09:40 PM
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I understand about the picture. That was merely to see if it's a physical issue thats transferring into your confidence. What places are you trying to talk to women at? It's all about finding your zone. I'm horrible at nightclub game and probably the last person you want to be learning from. Put me in a wine bar/outside club with easy isolation/a house party and I'll own the place without issues. Find somewhere you're comfortable with and start working there. Talk to women that are somewhat attr…
/r/seduction21/08/11 01:40 AM
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Just read this FR and a portion parallels one I posted: "I remembered this trick I discovered in a club in Tokyo... If you're in a club and wanna get a girl's buying temperature up FAST, sit her down on a vibrating subwoofer. Bitches love vibrations." I used a washing machine in mine. It's amazing how well it works. Great FR. Where are you located?
/r/seduction21/08/11 12:52 AM
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Books aren't going to do it for you. It's all experience. How are your conversations with your friends? Are those awkward as well? How about your coworkers? Is it merely an issue with feeling comfortable or is a true social disorder? What type of women are you talking to? Only ones you're attracted to or all women? How are your conversations with random strangers? More info is going to be necessary to help you achieve a breakthrough. Also: Post a picture of yourself if possible.
/r/seduction21/08/11 12:44 AM
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You're over thinking this. Personally I'd hug and give a kiss on a cheek, then lead her to our destination whether it'd be by holding her hand or a hand on her lower back. If you feel the hug is too much, shake her hand. It's really what you feel comfortable with. If you're not comfortable you'll make it extremely awkward for both of you.
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:13 PM
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Congrats! I wish you many more to come.
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:03 PM
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That's true. It's just some things that have helped me progress to where I'm at now.
/r/seduction18/08/11 01:54 AM
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That's true. I'm trying to change that trend. :)
/r/seduction17/08/11 09:38 PM
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Wait a day since last communication, or instead of sending her a text give her a call. There is nothing wrong with a phone call. Then again I'm anti text/anti-Facebook.
/r/seduction17/08/11 08:02 PM
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Strictly looks? Height, cleanliness (for fucks sake people get your eyebrows waxed and a manicure/pedicure), fashionable and fit.
/r/seduction17/08/11 03:02 PM
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There is nowhere else in the world like it.
/r/seduction17/08/11 05:08 AM
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Hey buddy, I have no experience with RSD, but from what I heard they're pretty enjoyable. I'd personally push you towards the ways of working with Fader from Love Systems. I spent a night out with the guy before he started teaching and I was amazed. He played a huge part in the success I've had since. For disclosure purposes; I have not spoken to him in a year and a half. I can only imagine he has gotten better as time goes on. Either way, best of luck and let us know.
/r/seduction17/08/11 05:07 AM
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Thanks dude. Routines only get you so far. I'll be sure to post more.
/r/seduction17/08/11 01:16 AM
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First off im going to apologize about my response because im typing it up on my ipad and the comment box isnt that user friendly when it come to reading what i typed previously With that said, I'm not even sure where to begin. You have serious issues with comfort and calibration. You need to learnhow to calm down and wait before leaping back onto her. You'resounding like you're running a borderline rape. You need to learn when to plow and when not to. The date you posted is a prime example when …
/r/seduction16/08/11 10:36 PM
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That's an eloquent way to say what I was trying to say. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/08/11 10:00 PM
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Just open. If you're nervous then you're nervous. If you stutter and draw a blank, forcing you to stand there like a retard then that's what you do. Some girls are cool enough to continue the conversation as theyre taken back by your boldness, as stated by others. Regardless, just open. Whatever happens happens. 80% of this pickup shit is just shutting off your brain and rolling with it. You'll eventually learn that there are no rules. Things you were told not to do you'll start doing because th…
/r/seduction16/08/11 04:54 PM
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I wouldn't even attempt to escalate with a text message. It's too hard to analyze someones true intentions due to the inability to detect the emotions behind the text. Use the texts to keep her hooked until you can meet up with her again. Create some distance and let her work for you.
/r/seduction16/08/11 01:26 PM
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I can definitely assist with this one. I have the face of a 12 year old so I'm used to get shit tests literally every set. Those days are almost gone. Give me a day or so as I've been rather busy and I'll have something written up.
/r/seduction16/08/11 01:01 PM
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I agree. Save the workshop for a specific sticking point. AA is not a sticking point.
/r/seduction15/08/11 01:50 PM
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That is definitely one of pickups largest conundrums. The reason why they tell you to think that you're attractive is so you just stop caring. If you think you're attractive it no longer matters when you're approaching. You'll display confident body language and won't question your self worth while in the middle of a set. Looks matter, just not to the level that every new guy seems to think. It's easier to tell guys to fake their confidence and gain it through their interactions with women than …
/r/seduction15/08/11 01:47 PM
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What are you texting her before the "Sorry not interested"?
/r/seduction15/08/11 02:29 AM
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"I'm not big into kino, I'm looking for friendzone before any kind of intimacy." Is there a reason for this? Is this an inner game issue? How is your attraction? Do you feel the women are attracted to you or do you think they're just giving you their numbers to get you away from them? Kino is extremely important, it's not something to be ignored or pushed aside. More detail is necessary for us to better assist you.
/r/seduction15/08/11 02:18 AM
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I'd go with this idea as well. If not, I've been out with a couple instructors from different companies (although they were not teaching a class at the time) and have only found myself impressed with Fader from Love Systems (at least I think that's where he is at now.) I just recently got out of a LTR so I'm out of the loop on whats going on.
/r/seduction15/08/11 01:44 AM
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