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ShamwowTseDung/r/seduction19/01/12 06:25 AM
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After a brief skimming, I see that all books of that title ("The Definitive Book of Body Language" ) are by the same authors. Pick one, it won't be much different from the others.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:47 AM
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Co-sign. Google is not your friend. Period. More importantly, they will delete your shit without notice.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:33 AM
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It's not literal. It's phrased to make it catchy, easy to remember. The concept of Alpha is getting ridiculous here You, coming to save the day with your own concept, blend in just fine. You could've just stopped here. he's built mates
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:10 PM
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can't While other things may require lengthy advice, and maybe from someone closer than across the internet, I'll say that this word is a guaranteed confidence destroyer. You may not be able to get over it at this moment, but if you feel that you never will, then the confidence to do as you wish will never take place of your doubts.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 06:59 AM
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I talked to a girl...about how to have a conversation. Yes, the topic was about having conversations. My "opener"? "So..." That was it. And it went on from there. Her: "????" Me: "I started, it's your turn" Hilariousness followed. You (and others who feel the same way) don't have an issue with a lack of topics. I think you have trouble figuring out the real problem is. But in case you really think you can't do it: You can talk about anything. You're sitting on a goldmine of shit to talk about. G…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:22 AM
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That's why they're average.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 10:23 PM
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Personally, I stop after each chapter, or after some concept (even if it comes from just a single page) that I really want to understand. For example, in OP's post are several ideas that can be expanded upon. I'd focus on each idea before moving on to the next, instead of taking it all in at once to then try and take notes or remember all that I've just read. But, at the end of the day you do what you can handle. Sometimes I'll go over several concepts at once, usually if I believe they aren't t…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 10:00 PM
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IDK where I got it from, after all these years, but I was impressed upon with the idea of mental digestion. Just as the body needs time and energy to break down food into usable resources, your mind follows a similar process with your thoughts. Reading a book, or taking advice without making sure you understand it (through various methods) may be the mental equivalent of eating a huge healthy meal, to then have massive diarrhea afterwards. You haven't gotten the best of what you've taken in. How…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 05:30 AM
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Trigger warning: Now we know how to keep you away from what we don't want you to know.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 07:54 AM
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Group dynamics. Staying away from the bad apples. "Those that make us look bad".
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 07:52 AM
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Actively making choices is not the same as blindly jumping into something, just to try it. If your reasoning ever includes "...just to try it", I'd say you're making a choice. Those who truly don't know never try, they just do. I assume you are here on TRP to learn about sexual strategy[...] Nah, just the shits and giggles. To many, this may be as serious as a profession. If you understand that analogy, you could call me a hobbyist. For the rest of what I'm reading, I think I get your point. Loo…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:54 PM
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Go post this @ asktrp It's not your fault. Sidenote to our reading public: Ya know, to prevent shit like this, you could add something more noticeable, especially whenever someone tries to make a new post. Other subreddits do it. Demanding people to read the sidebar is like asking someone to read the car owner's manual before they drive.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 07:42 AM
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This was a hard read. And incomplete at that. So I edited it. But here's some advice. Look at the words you write. Think about the message you are trying to convey. Judge whether the word choices you make have accomplished this task. Simplify sentences. Find your own voice, don't aim for a 'philosophical' or 'intellectual' tone. Think of your audience. Will they understand, and not just because you think they will? And so, we begin... Anything between the brackets [] is an addition. Feel free to…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 07:18 AM
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And don't forget. Fat (and carbs, and..etc) went from "bad for you" to "good for you" (or vice versa, depending on the subject) over the past years. Gotta love science. And bribery. It's just business sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:15 AM
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I so badly wanted to ignore what you wrote once I started reading. I even started to argue as I grudgingly went ahead and read anyway. It's not until I finished that I was reminded to be humble. I never totally dismissed the idea of learning from your elders. I do disagree that your elders will always and only be those more physically developed by time. That last bit is just a nice way of saying 'aged'. The real world isn't as 'basic' as your theory suggests. One of the few truths of life is per…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:06 AM
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List of carcinogens: Everything. Potentially, of course. It's about as futile as avoiding germs. Unless you like bubbles? EDIT: Added the link.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:37 AM
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There is little to learn from us below 30 but there is a lot to teach us. It's almost as if you don't go outside, or use the internet. Where do we start? Shit, the guys who created the very platform you're using right now. Yeah, they were in their twenties. I'm tempted to use your age as an excuse, but I know better.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:17 AM
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Nah mate, stuff like this: are a woman ruled by your knee-jerk emotions Yeah, that definitely implies it. Keep 'em coming, I'll be here for a while. EDIT: I just have to point out, for anyone who's reading. Notice the projection?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:12 AM
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So, shut up, don't make choices, and do this....but not that? Isn't that how you make a choice? EDIT: While I may be being an ass, I do agree that it's important to try things out. And push yourself past what you think your limits are. I'd say very few know their limits, others choose to create their own limits. Mental prisons.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 01:59 AM
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I almost feel like guys under 30 shouldn't be able to post. That type of rigid thinking is what really needs to be stricken from the universe. But without it, we wouldn't have an upstanding example of how poisonous a limited mind can be.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 01:56 AM
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It is true that it wasn't clearly pointed out: Mark Manson - "the subtle art of giving a fuck"
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 01:46 AM
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one person's opinion is subjective. I think you're a troll, but to anyone who is reading, take this guy's advice like he should, and stop valuing the opinion of other people more than your own opinions. Unless you enjoy being a robot, getting fed instructions on how to live your life by everyone around you. I'm not one to judge.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 01:34 AM
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There is a ton of information here, but noise ratio is quite high too. [...]Even with tons of info here, I am not entirely sure I can recommend this reddit to anyone or to past myself. This isn't exclusive to reddit. That's life. I haven't found a place in the world that doesn't have some ugly alongside the really good parts.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 02:13 PM
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This might be it
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 01:44 PM
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The thing with experiences though, it means more when you have them, rather than having someone tell you about one. People will likely believe themselves first before they believe anyone else. find something that relaxes you and allows your mind to flow without stress or other thoughts This is what I do when I ~meditate~ sit still in one place. shrugs I co-sign on getting into the state of flow with whatever you like doing/working on. When you can just do something for hours (though time seems t…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 01:24 PM
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just finds someone to be interesting/funny/weird looking in a non-sexual context? I know this may sound confusing given the subreddit that we're in, but if you just want to be social, these tips work just as well. second thing im unsure is the part where a girl will meet your stare with her eyes, look away and back into the eyes - can't it just mean that shes curious why the guy is looking at her or that she just wanna make sure that a guy is staring at her eyes without anything sexual in mind? …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 07:14 PM
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If you think you'll be creep...chances are you will be. Don't you guys believe in 'fake it 'til you make it' over here anymore? Meaning, it's all attitude, or like some other guy said, it's a mindset. It's hard to explain beyond that, as someone who never believed talking to people anywhere (which IMO is basically what this is), was creepy or weird. In fact, I probably should be the last guy to listen to because of this limited perspective. But if you're still listening, IMO it's weird that talk…
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:41 AM
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And only those who come here every day would notice. ;D That's not to say you don't have a valid point. I'd say, if you find yourself in a situation where nothing has changed for some time, there are a few things you could do. What's listed below is a sample: sit back, get comfy, and enjoy it wait for the situation to change (through various ways) do something about it I personally used to just read threads posted by the chosen ones endorsed members, as well as any flair that piqued my interest.…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 11:19 PM
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Well, you've been around. Maybe,...just maybe..he hasn't? Just a thought.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 10:44 PM
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Everyone and their mother is going to give you reasons why you would want to lift, but no one is answering the question you're asking- why do you care? That's a question that YOU must answer. Don't live a life full of activities you do because other people tell you to. You're not a robot, here to do whatever someone programs you to do. Take responsibility and do what you want to do. You obviously have no reasons to lift, yet, besides everyone else does it. Well then, stop lifting. It may be cont…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 07:50 PM
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This. Too many people try to mold themselves to fall in line with pieces of information, instead of looking to see what that information can do for their lives, and how they can grow with the useful parts. In other words, don't ask what you can do for the red pill, ask what the red pill can do for you. /u/Indi05 , you said it yourself best: Just do what you truly believe in But don't fall to narcissism, and think you're already the best you can be. One day, you may see that the toughest person y…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:59 AM
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Watch how they act when discussing topics they hate.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:50 AM
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even if a book disagrees with Red Pill principles, you should still read it if it has value. Don't restrict your information to only shit you agree with. Everyone, feel free to ignore everything else on this page (and your life), except this. Disregarding information just because you immediately "don't agree" with it- or dislike the author- will ensure that you will always be enslaved. Don't fall for the tendency to think your first thoughts matter the most. Not many are experienced enough for t…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:48 AM
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I'm only typing this because I know some people are still in that opinions-are-facts stage in their lives, and there's some opinions here that I believe (in my opinion) should be disregarded. OP, you aren't alone with your txt response. Unlike what /u/SkorchZang, which still confuses me at this minute (he labels "blue pill" what is actually "red"), that was fine for the situation. Personally, and being the douche I am, I'd probably just txt back "ok". But you got the gist of it - there's no hard…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:30 AM
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My main deal is just that some people just aren't worth the time. But that's me.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 02:28 PM
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Same. Can't stand a broken record- when something is said enough times, I'm just going to take it as face value. Plus I'm impatient.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 10:28 PM
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You can't rule out physical aspects If you think I suggested or implied such a thought, feel free to quote me. What I do rule out is: advising others to do the same things you do, because they work for you, therefore they must work for every other individual...??? You can't tell me passing shit tests is purely mental I'm telling you it's purely mental. Otherwise it's dumb luck. Putting aside the aforementioned statement (with it's intent to be douchey), it all stems from the mental. You give phy…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:40 AM
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Thing is, it's always been like this. IMO, the main issue is that someone takes his opinions, to laud them to the world, as fact. When hasn't that occurred, in the history of man? Excuse me while I pull statistics out of my ass, but 98% of what you read is no different from this article. For he who seeks guidance, we are prone to make the mistake of always following others. I see it as a stepping stone in our development, from beast to man. If it's not this article, it will be another one, and s…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 06:41 AM
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Unless you're one of the many individuals who like to live their lives according to how others think they should, why care?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 12:55 AM
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You keep reading this sub day in day out and you dream about doing the things some naturals or guys that broke out the beta lifestyle post . Go out and do them. Great advice. Mind if I add a little? As another old person (as if that means anything), if you're to tout your age as a barometer of your experience, you shouldn't mind the repetition. That's something old people know, what with the "history repeats itself" quote and whatnot. For my next comment, I bastardized your quote for my own evil…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 12:40 AM
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Passing shit tests when you've got a shredded physique and a killer devil smile with holding eye contact is easy. It's a mental thing, not physical. /u/StevenAFrench (and the many others), this is something you'll have to experience yourself. Part of it works because the insult 'asshole' isn't really an insult, but a means to keep you in check, or to test your reaction as a means to feel out discover your personality. Communication isn't used only to share thoughts and ideas...but that's a lesso…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 12:30 AM
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Firstly, this is not a matter of ego or pride to me. Secondly, while I could address the many points you offer, I wish to instead clarify my argument, in hopes that it mitigates the large task ahead of me. I'm not advocating we ignore anyone who doesn't have firsthand experience, just supporting the safe bet one makes when they choose to do just that. A bet that becomes more safe, the more valuable the expertise is. Partly because there are experiences only known to those who do the work firstha…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:49 AM
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Abundance mentality is one thing, but outcome dependence, in reference to another individual? You can be easily manipulated by simply pandering to what you like and don't like. You claim outcome independence, yet you have absolutely no say in the outcome that you are already being manipulated into taking. Well, that only happens in the hands of someone who knows what they're doing. Did this past election teach us nothing? How about "fake news"? Shit, most news in general? Politics? Business? Wom…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 06:10 AM
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They may understand it. They may be able to put it into words and even portray it better than the actual 'walkers'. Bullshit. You wouldn't ask the world's greatest basketball sportscaster how to shoot the perfect shot. Well, you wouldn't, if you didn't want to waste your time. Only someone who actually plays basketball would know that kind of stuff. It doesn't just end there though. That knowledge is also something they cannot explain. They can guide you, they can even let you know if you're doi…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 05:30 AM
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Your parents led you to the fork of the road. Now you must decide whether it will be up to you or them, as to who decides which path you will head down next. This is for those who wish to claim responsibility for their lives, and in return, have control over how they will live it.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:45 AM
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Suddenly I feel the need to clarify a few things. I don't want you to think I'm denouncing the idea of being a good person. I am one myself, and it's part of the reason why I responded, as I drew some similarities and thought I could offer advice. In regards to people-pleasing, I merely suggest the focus be changed to a "me-pleasing" state. Of course, win-win situations for all sides would be great as well. I'd like to add one more idea to support my suggestion- and to make it more clear that I'…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:38 AM
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To: And if he's a real beta, I can't even see how this girl would chose this guy as a boyfriend. \ Girls that like to party and have three way sex is not going to settle down with some "nice guy" as a boyfriend. Yes, I know they want resources, but in this case, what is this guy bringing to the table? and: I just can't even see how a guy can't pick up on the signs of a girl that would do some shit like this. It's cool (and completely fine) to be skeptical, but may I suggest you extend that minds…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:49 AM
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leaving or ditching the date to talk to another person seems like a weak move to me It's called having self-respect. You leave when the situation is no longer a benefit to you, or when staying would be an affront to your standards and beliefs. Arguing with someone over a done deal though, no matter how sugar-coated the excuse is, is the real insecure move. No one leaves you to be alone the whole night, even if it's to catch up with friends- well, no one with some social grace. That, or you aren'…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:31 AM
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where and how can I improve my balance of these two characters? Stop swapping masks and start having standards. Instead of being an asshole to get an effect, do it when it's necessary. Be not the good-guy/asshole "paradox", but the good-guy with a strong backbone. That requires having boundaries that people cannot cross, things you will not tolerate, and become an unpleasant person to enforce. Of course, some tact is necessary to avoid being an insecure dick- you can't just be any kind of asshol…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:02 AM
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Fuck what lucius is spewing, he's clearly projecting and writing what he would do in that situation, with his own beliefs and perspective still in mind. And fuck you for settling with whatever anyone writes back to you. You have two choices: Live life the way you want to, or the way someone else does. You seem lucid enough to know where you're fucking up (stop being lazy). You're also already aware of the fact you're in a nice place to be taken advantage of (moving back in with the ex), so stop …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:14 AM
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A little explanation from the man himself, here. and the relevant quote: PS men desire sex. They don’t care how they get it as long as it’s easy, quick, and not a lot of trouble. For TH men, the hunt is just as important as the sex, if not more so. Note: He self-describes himself as a PS man.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:22 AM
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What the majority speak of is not necessarily the truth.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 09:21 PM
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You extended my arguments too far to make it too extreme, to try to disprove my point. I read a post about how keeping yourself physically fit (through one of many ways) is a waste of time, solely because it will not immensely increase attraction from the opposite sex. That was no mere reduction, you've written something quite similar in your opening paragraph: So many guys on here think that working out a lot at the gym will help dramatically improve a guy's chances with getting females' attrac…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 09:06 PM
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I'd say perspective is what's important. No matter, you've only been around for a month. To assume you've learned all there is to know about anything in such a short time is a foolish move. Especially when you're asking questions like these. I personally didn't see anything horrible in what happened. It seems you think the goal was the lay. Well, it may have been your goal (and that's fine), but it's not the aim of TRP, in my opinion. Whatever you learn here (or anywhere), it's upon you to decid…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 04:38 PM
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1) I mean I do like this girl and all. Sometimes she behaves unacceptably. On one hand that is totally normal. Two different people see the world in different ways. The lucky ones get to share some of those views. Yet, on the other hand those two things (to enjoy that which may also bring you discomfort) do not have to come in the same package. Many people find sharks fascinating as animals, but few would consider just swimming near one. Unless it was a whale shark (who carry different teeth, an…
/r/askTRP15/12/16 03:49 AM
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she just said, "if you ever talk to me like that again you'll be single so damn fast" She's assuming that she's the best thing you've got going for yourself right now. In regards to her x-mas text, I would not communicate with her until after break. But that's my style. She will try to get in touch, just to make sure you still think you're nothing without her. On the small chance that she doesn't, that may be a sign you might want to leave her. At the end of the day, this is happening over a ver…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 10:29 PM
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Am I the only person who comes on reddit actually interested in discussing shit? To reddit?, oh no. In my experience, online and off, very few are interested in more than being "right" and "making a point", things that do nothing for me in terms of seeking perspective- one of my reasons for discussion. As for self-control, I agree that it is indeed a valuable trait. Moreso to those who actually want that sort of thing. Don't be surprised at that statement. It's a sad day when you see people will…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:12 PM
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I think vegans get shit on so frequently because they make other people feel insecure about their lifestyles. Or maybe because they're just different? It's kind of a trend, if not an unsanctioned tradition, to give shit (and reasonable suspicion) to an outsider. Time will pass, and if you're deemed "cool" enough, we will welcome you with hugs. Don't expect the nugies to fade out so soon though. so they freak the fuck out whenever anybody slightly implies it would be a good thing for everybody to…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 09:40 PM
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You have a really odd, incoherent way of writing. This sentence is the equivalent of eating empty calories. Where's the substance? Something to work with. For instance: I said they're inefficient. More inefficient in my view and from my experience than cold approach. Efficiency in terms of what?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 01:05 AM
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Fuck this "oh no it's not cold approach" because you piqued her interest whens he saw. I piqued her interest in what I said and how I made her feel. I led the conversation to where she could open up and people love that, and I made her laugh and have a smile on her face the entire time. That's what piqued her interest, even though I'm not the best looking guy. Do you consider it a cold call if you're contacting someone who has shown interest in your product? I also have a hard time believing you…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 11:34 AM
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You'd think otherwise if you were more foolish and reading these comments.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 11:23 AM
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Is gaining a social circle that provides you with a steady stream of women more efficient? No. ITT people with no business savvy whatsoever. On what planet do you think you'll grab more numbers of people interested in your product on your own, versus a guy who has MORE people THAN JUST YOU (social circle) collecting information that they could turn over to him, even when he's asleep? Or, in somewhat 'red pill' terms: What fisherman catches more fish than a fishing company? More on that soon. ///…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 11:11 AM
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the truth is that that boy had no idea how to fuck and the girl was starfish fucking...then she was embarrassed or could not admit that she got fucked after the game on Friday night and it was horrible. Or maybe not. The reality just might be that the jocks and cheerleaders led glorious lives in high school, and still do through college, and so on afterwards. Let's not seek to paint all our perceived "mishaps" in a favorable color, attempting to console ourselves. Besides, at the end of the day …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 06:42 AM
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The snowflake attitude can be tiring for some. No need to spew BS about something you don't enjoy. You have the right to do what you want. So does everybody else in the world. Nothing special about that. To get on topic: This is more to the novices: Know your current limits. I know some are totally down with the "pain is weakness leaving the body" mindset, but the signal isn't always wrong. Even a rubberband breaks when you stretch it too far. I fucked up, running with some (at the time) minor p…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 09:49 AM
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Such profound words in response to an ambiguous phrase. Triggered, anyone?
/r/seduction24/06/16 10:37 PM
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That's not paraphrasing. That's jumping to conclusions, after blowing shit out of proportion.
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:54 PM
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I never thought that this was something you had to do.
/r/seduction18/06/16 11:37 AM
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As usual, I read the title and thought this was some fluffed up BS. But I always like to give things a chance, so I let the video play as I procrastinated elsewhere on the web. Note: I despise sitting through videos while trying to obtaining specific pieces of information. That said, I actually came away with one thing (out of many that might be useful to others) that will keep me thinking about my approach in the future. For a tl;dr, skip to the end- the "keys" are listed on a whiteboard. If th…
/r/seduction18/06/16 05:01 AM
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Someone looking to improve the sound of their voice (for giving speeches, singing, etc) will benefit from recording their voice because it offers a different perspective on their vocal skills. It provides new insight that will help them as they practice, to shape their voice to sound they way they want. Athletes and musicians do it as well. There is often lots of useless movement that goes unnoticed during "the moment" that can be seen afterwards and worked upon to guide the performer towards a …
/r/seduction18/06/16 04:45 AM
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For those who don't know, the Charismatic is one of the various archetypes/models that the book introduces. The aim is to give you guided advice, based on whatever type you identify with, to use in your journey as a seducer. That said, it's no surprise some people (non-Charismatics at this moment) find this piece of text useless. Well, that and maybe the lack of what might be necessary context.
/r/seduction18/06/16 04:18 AM
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I got the joke, but I thought you might need this for the others.
/r/seduction18/06/16 03:27 AM
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Kinda racist to expect (or think something is wrong) for him to like black chicks just because he's black.
/r/seduction17/06/16 04:16 AM
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First you dodge, now you deflect make false accusations and name-call ? Adieu, my good man. EDIT: Shame this all is, I saw your other post and site, keep up the good work. Though may I say it's strange that you yourself posted a similar list, a smaller size of course, could I not just run over and use your argument against you?
/r/seduction03/05/16 02:54 AM
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[deleted] What is this?
/r/seduction03/05/16 01:13 AM
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We'll ignore the hyperbole in the first sentence. I'll focus on this: This is 99 discrete pieces of information a person has to keep in their head at one time, while they are talking to a girl. As I said before, no one expects you to jot everything down and pull it out for each "approach" that you do. Stop with the absolutes. No one but you is saying that you "have to" this and "have to" that. Knowledge that you really understand doesn't come from 2 minutes of skimming reading and cramming memor…
/r/seduction03/05/16 12:21 AM
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With that kind logic, would you kindly explain why someone would read a book? I can't say I've seen the suggestion that you digest this in one sitting, if you choose to direct your attention to this information at all.
/r/seduction02/05/16 11:59 PM
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So...just because you supposedly already know everything here, this list is thereby useless for everyone else. Okay. Why not do one better and post your own groundbreaking insights? Also, instead of trolling around the boards moaning and groaning at shit you "already know", may I suggest going outside and finding something to do? This obviously isn't for someone such as yourself, so why stick around? In the outside world, you'd see how much "common sense" isn't common at all, and how many people…
/r/seduction02/05/16 11:54 PM
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[deleted] What is this?
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:18 AM
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ITT: The goals OP sets for himself. You might wanna make a list of your own.
/r/seduction16/12/15 12:44 PM
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Yeah, no fun & games around here.
/r/seduction09/12/15 10:17 PM
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but the tldr is misleading away from the easiest thing to take away. And what would that be? I'm interested in learning.
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:18 AM
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Given that this is sold as a product for the kindle...... From what little I researched, you still have to acquire the kindle app to read on your non-kindle ereader.
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:15 AM
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He just said it worked for him, so it must be doing something right. Let's just ignore the reputation and reviews of many other people, for now. If it's not good enough, care to say more than "it doesn't work"?
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It gives people an "Oh yeah?" mindset while they're reading it and they become more likely to shit on it. At the same time, they'll already have gone through the link, acquired the book, and started reading it. The hard part is mostly done. What more could you ask for as a producer/salesman/businessman?
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Try going to whatever amazon server is hosted for Australia (like so), as the trend in here seems to predict.
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If you don't approach, your success rate will be very small. If you only wait for her invitation, your succes rate will be very small. Wrong, your success rate will be very high, since you're only going after people proven to like you. This is what "don't fuck up" game is, your "work" is just to make something happen, or screw it up. What you might be thinking of is a "notch" count, or number of women that one has bedded. Yes, that number will be low because you're letting the women come to you,…
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I'd say this post is important to note, even though it'll soon fall into the abyss, to be found by those ready to receive.... There is a lot of attention placed on approaching cold, which could be compared to setting up a business and advertising to everyone that you like. But how many know that an important part of business is recognizing the group of people more likely to want something similar what you're selling? Just ask any successful salesman what he'd rather do- sell to random cold leads…
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Stop wasting the remaining time that you do have being gloomy and spend it being awesome. You only get one shot at life, do you want to spend it laying down and looking back? I also co-sign evolutionape's post. I started writing something similar, but the info is already out there, and better developed than what I could put down. If you like where you're at, it's only because of what you went through. Would you really lose what you've got to have it another way?
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People who DGAF have the balls to do what everyone else wishes they could. That is admirable. Not to mention, by NGAF about results (to an extent), they explore and reach new heights that others can't.
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I think It only helps by giving you a social circle with social proof. Co-sign. Even then, it's possible to be at the bottom of the totem pole. Don't rely on external tangibles to do the work for you. It's like always receiving the best hands in a game of poker, but not knowing how to play the game.
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It's only hard in the beginning, like all kinds of development are. Not to mention it feels easier if you actually like what you're doing. Once it's part of your lifestyle, it's not hard at all. Women have their own problems too. And they aren't "drowned in dick" as you think. Or rather, dick that they actually want. But hey, you can sit back and let life happen to you (this is more acceptable to do among the feminine population, and this is also doing life on easy mode) or go out and make somet…
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because she said the last thing. Then it's you who's unable to continue. The ball is in your court and you're stuck in one place. Don't hold a conversation to entertain the other participant, have some fun yourself. If you can't continue the convo, it's because you aren't interested in having it. So talk about something that does interest you. I can't expect her to fill in the silence Why do you think that you can't? Whatever the response, you can always ask her to explain her response. "Fine." …
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"Hey, what's up" "I'm fine" "Just fine? How has your day been going so far" "It's alright" "Alright huh? So that's all you're out to do everyday, live an 'alright' life?" "yadayadayada" "blahblahblah" Like pacg said in his/her opening sentence, it's up to YOU to get into a deep conversation. First know that the conversation depends on both of you to survive. Still, on your part, you have to map out how long you're willing to carry on. If you don't want to talk to someone, you usually keep things…
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Why are you trying to get into a relationship with someone you haven't dated, and seems like one you barely know? I know it's cold outside (cuffing/cuddle season), but don't be in such a rush. She probably senses this vibe from you, you're skipping levels. Some would call this moving too fast. Just focus on getting to know her, she might not win your ideal wife checklist after all. Now, for the title question. Knowing when someone is interested just takes gut feelings (after building up experien…
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Yes, but it's more out of your control than under it. Say you're applying for colleges/universities. You got rejected by your first choice. And your 2nd, and 3rd choice. So you went with #4. Skip a few years, you're in your junior year. You've settled into the life you've made on campus. Networked a bunch, and got some internships under your belt. Even got a few good relationships with some companies that might hold you down when you leave. Made a few good friends, some you know you'll have stic…
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What do you like to talk to people about? Also co-sign this book.
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Too much questions, not enough statements. Start giving her shit, tease her. "You know, you say you wanna chat but......." Come on, conversationalist. It's true that people like that exist, but if all you're going to do is try one thing then give up, you can't jump to point the finger elsewhere. Hell, you could incorporate your rant into a game. Get her to write more than four words, anything she can imagine. Have fun with it, don't wait until she starts feeling good to do so yourself. Otherwise…
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but not factoring the environment in ANY kind of analysis is foolish. So is writing this post based on the opinions of the few. People say a lot of shit, do you really and readily believe without any actual references? I'm not saying some girls don't like being "approached by a confident guy", but know that acts of confidence for one can easily be seen as something else for another. One guy gets vulnerable, another guy goes caveman with it. 100% of people on this earth like to have fun. Does tha…
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she would see other people now I'd helped her [blah blah] Mate, she opened up to you. Which is more realistic - she goes out and tries her luck with every stranger she meets, rather than hang around someone she's already comfortable with, someone she knows she can be herself around? You think she believes her colleague will welcome her with open arms the way you do? If so, she's probably already done more than you think. Then what? She'd be out of your life, but that doesn't mean you lost a part…
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However, she never initiates the convo! Yep, you're dealing with a girl. Oh my! Just take her out and see what happens. Not only is it important to initiate in the traditional sense (go patriarchy), but it is equally important on the self-improvement side of things. You can't let life happen to you if you've got dreams boy. Does a farmer buy seeds, then sit on his ass and hopes the seeds will leap from the jar into his acres of land, sprout a bountiful harvest, completely healthy and free from p…
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I've gotten many comments telling me what's wrong with me, but without further explanation, or getting to the root of the problem, or how to fix it. 1) You might be seeking validation, as others have said. That can be the root actually. When people complete a goal, they tend to be satisfied, and then bored, because there's nothing else to do. That's why you set more goals after that. Like a ship going to a port. Once it's there, the journey is done. Until the captain chooses another destination …
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You're using your feelings as an excuse. You don't have to be "in the mood" to get shit done. No bullshit, it is hard to understand, and then do it yourself. But like all other skills, over time, and through action, you will get used to it and get better. Not only that, but you can actually make yourself feel what you want with practice as well. A certain group of people get paid (too much) for their work, and this skill helps them do it really well. But let's not put life to the side just to gi…
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the way I was feeling/acting Until I try it out for myself (don't hold your breath), I would say it's this. Things are to random to make a serious claim. No one but you knows what your average day is, or the kind of people you meet. You could've just ran into the type of girl that finds your style attractive that day. BTW we stared into each others eyes for a easy 5 seconds You. Must. Approach.
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Ego. Neediness. They want the stud who barely notices her. I'd say they want the stud who won't blow his load if she even inhales in his direction. From personal experience, having someone hold you in high regards for no reason is a huge turn off. IMO, no girl interested in you (and with a healthy self-esteem) wants to be ignored by you. They actually feel hurt when you do that. Outcome independence does not mean you start ignoring shit. The goal is not to ignore the girl. It's to stop attaching…
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I don't think her comment hurt as much as your low self-esteem. I doubt she's a 10, and I don't care what she models for. I'm quite certain you're just blowing up her value way out of proportion. This is what pussy on a pedestal looks like. Just wanted to get that out there. You're mindfucking yourself right now. Ugly or not, don't add to the bullshit you face in life. I think I'm quite the homely fellow myself. But I still somehow get attention & attraction, often without saying much at that. S…
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from attraction study. Is this an actual study, or are you referring to your personal journey. If the former, context pl0x. (Links)
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At the end of the day, remember to go for what you want, don't settle for just those who like you.
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I think it's more about who you are when doing these things than it is what things you know how to do. Something something personality. In a sense they help, as in help you become more focused on yourself instead of fucking things up with a girl. It's one part of your life that you get to be you no matter what. Relationships come with some compromise IMO.
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Next time you add in " what about you, do you travel?" or something like that after you tell them where you're going. There are some people who hear you're going to x and then just say "ok" or "that's nice", because they think they can't relate or contribute. Just because they don't travel, or maybe they don't think the experience they did have is worth sharing. You, my friend, can prove them wrong. To me, learning to hold conversation also includes leading people along the way during a chat. In…
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Sounds like you hold these new ppl to be more important than your friends. Why is that? Or you could just be human, still developing your social skills. Being with friends versus with strangers are two different situations. Don't expect to behave the same way in each. You know the details of your life better than I do right now. All I've got is a block of text. In any case, a daily dose of I-don't-give-a-fuck should remedy this problem. I see too much importance being placed on these strangers. …
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explore but I don't know how to convey that when I am talking with women I'm not sure if you are saying you want to talk to people about traveling OR you're getting in a rut when people talk to you about hobbies/traveling. If it's the former, let the opportunity present itself. You don't travel so ppl will think your cool, do you? If the moment comes, let er rip, if not, oh well. You're still a cool guy without that one thing, yah? I feel somewhat like a douche or a try hard saying that I love t…
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Looking back at my confession example, is that really a group being formed? Your stories are told in secret to someone you don't have to actually spend time with. Even then, I think that definition is pretty sparse, if that's all it takes to be social, to be around people. But if that really satisfies how you live, I won't argue against it, I'm personally looking for a little more. With regards to this subreddit, personally I usually don't associate myself with many ideals that people here agree…
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I made the mistake of talking about it with my close friends. If it's a mistake, can they really be friends? That's one way to live...not being able to share your interests with people you give that title. OT: I agree with the guys saying that you are outgrowing your friends. This change is a threat to them IMO. Do a reverse-intervention and let 'em know what's at stake.
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I'd rather have people offended than bored Why give them a chance to dislike you, when they can hate you instead? Seriously though, I'd say to jest with taste is key, Hitler IMO doesn't fit the bill. If it works for you, so be it.
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reads title Stop asking yes-no-good-bad questions. Who, What, Where, Why, When, How. If you want detailed answers, YOU must take the lead and make people elaborate their answers. Use them well. I just have to keep searching for questions until[...] Don't search. It sounds like you're talking for the sake of talking and not to delve into an interesting topic/perspective. This is boring, IMO. This is what small talk is, to me.
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Dude, as long as you know you can say anything and make it sound smooth, you're good to go. That's a bold move you're going for right there, and if you plan on going with it, then I already say you have the confidence to make it work for you.
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I cringed while reading this. You already know you were pretty nervous, and I agree with geetar when he says to stop worrying. Other than that, it looks like you know what to do already, if you can keep the class entertain (hopefully not at your own expense). Just be comfortable, learn how to relax and succeed where you failed the first time in your approaches (do it earlier, give yourself less time for discouragement).
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Im confused. But from what I can make out your assuming im a cheater? WOAH! That's coming from far out of left field- by no means am I making that assumption! She won't leave him because since he treated her like shit she thinks she's shit and no one will want her. What I mean to say is that, when I read your sentence I thought: It's like an attractive person telling themselves that they are unwanted, yet they are constantly bombarded with members of the opposite sex every day who are fighting f…
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[...] and are just with them because they don't think they'll be able to find anyone else. Not everyone goes for people with low self-esteem. That's combining the low confidence, and the high tolerance for bullshit (staying in a situation that's (IMO) both painful and nonsensical, by choice). BTW- Help me dispel this confusion concerning that scenario. You're with someone you find unattractive, only because you don't believe there is anyone else out there for you, YET you're able to have one or …
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Quick to insult, slow to refute. Continue by all means (you're making a trend out of baseless statements), you're making me look good.
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I tried but I guess I just didn't get there fast enough Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!! WHAT HAVE YOU DONE?!?!?! Never admit your failures on someone else's term. Now, the fact that she took the time to msg you concerning this news tells me you failed to strike while the iron was hot - you were long gone into the friendzone before this event took place. If this was ever a shit test, you'd be dealing with a childish being who does not deserve your attention.
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/r/seduction03/08/12 06:40 PM
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Generally speaking, ____ matters when you allow it to. Think about this: There will be people who like you as an Asian but don't like you because you're fat (hypothetically speaking). Are you going to whine about that? OH, so you lost weight. Now people don't like you because you wear glasses. Got contacts? Now they don't like you because of this, then that, and then the third. My point is, stop focusing on the reasons why someone may not like you - that's focusing on their perception of you, an…
/r/seduction03/08/12 06:33 PM
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There was a guy in AskReddit :he blurted out the details, and she ended up taking a huge hit to her career, if not completely losing it. Wasn't much of a big icon anyway. From what I read, she was normal as fuck. A bit of a cokehead as well. Here's another from a different forum if you're interested.
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:33 AM
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Generally speaking, I think it's more about being comfortable in your skin, no matter what. There's a ton of laws in the unwritten rules of "how to be a man" and "how to be a woman" that people sacrifice a part of their nature to follow, in order to be accepted by society, or just their own peers. Then there are the rulebreakers who weave around some of these laws: back in the days of the dreadful phrase "no homo", it'd be any person who'd do something others perceived as homosexual- and not men…
/r/seduction02/08/12 05:39 PM
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Hasty conclusion is fallacious. I'd want to see what he knows that I don't, so I can use it as a learning experience in dealing with people of a similar mindset, or handling a similar situation in the future. Oh and his obvious joke of a comment leave the subjective bits out of your argument. Opinions don't count as supporting points.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:55 AM
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So you're still connected to the world, you just decided to go after this mysterious girl from the past? I still don't get it, and I stand my ground: some things from the past should stay there, without you actively reaching back for it. Until they get involved with your present time, move on - you did ask for advice, but you don't have to comply- I shouldn't matter much. I'm from the internet, a place you don't want intertwined with your reality to the extreme degree. That and I don't know anyt…
/r/seduction01/08/12 06:50 PM
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2 years ago? Sounds like oneitis. Prescription: 1 dose of dropping her like the bad habit you're currently feeding, and a daily/weekly(/monthy if you are feeling queasy) dose of opening random girls you're interested in. Stop only when you feel the sensation of shame from the realization that: had you talked to 1 different girl per MONTH, you would've potentially connected with 24 girls, who have friends who , have more friends- and getting to know just SOME of these people would've landed you i…
/r/seduction01/08/12 07:11 AM
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Sounds like you'd look avg to me, one tall guy to another. props on the FR, chuckled at the part where you talked about your game. I didn't think you meant it when you said you wanted to mess with people :P.
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I'm sure almost everyone would agree that the man in the situation is responsible for his actions, no? You want to insult my intelligence for an upvote?, here - it's on the house. One big difference, who's leading who? You want to turn the tables around, do it correctly - some of us know the story already. Any woman in a solid happy relationship won't cheat; if she does cheat, then it's purely by her choice and she would've probably done so eventually. influencing someone to ______ is absurd, bu…
/r/seduction30/07/12 05:57 PM
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Blah blah blah aside, you've got to be naive if you think people can't be influenced to make a decision tailored to your preference. Yes she was at the club, yes she chose to go home with you, blah blah, you can still get people to do what you want, an effective way is to get them thinking that they wanted it first. Strangely enough, I just happened upon this comic not long ago with an insight that could get you thinking. That said, you ended the night with her crying, whatever the reason, unles…
/r/seduction30/07/12 05:28 PM
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You're not alone. Seems like there's tons of guys who wouldn't mind going back to the house of a girl who rejected them, with a new chew toy in a desperate attempt to appear as if all is well and they've moved on, meanwhile, she's out somewhere fucking a guy who actually piqued her interest. I guess if that's your style, go Alphas!
/r/seduction30/07/12 10:00 AM
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your vag.
/r/seduction30/07/12 09:44 AM
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/r/seduction29/07/12 08:50 PM
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/r/seduction29/07/12 08:38 PM
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/r/seduction29/07/12 08:18 PM
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Then she said "fuck you both" to me and her roomie. Well that was weird. No it was not. She's DTF, you're just DTConverse - with her roommate instead. Not what she hoped you came to her place for.
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Yeah, I shouldn't have phrased it that way, but what I meant is that if you have a problem with that, the power to change it lies within you.
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/r/seduction24/03/12 12:56 AM
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I don't know how involved you want to be with her, but I'd say don't tell her then, show her that you're interested. It's easier (for me, at least) to show that you've moved on if you get rejected. I wouldn't take her response to her friend too seriously, especially being a high school teen, she could've been lying or just spewing a few words for many silly reasons that I definitely understand looking back at my high school days. One thing, the time you seem to be spending on her, if you're thin…
/r/seduction03/03/12 05:38 AM
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As one still living at home with the 'rents - I know how you feel. Back to the post. Good shit. Favorite points: Stop figuring out how to talk to someone and just TALK. You need to understand sometimes someone will not want to be approached by you, or will reject you, or just not like you. That doesn't automatically mean something is wrong with YOU or it is YOUR fault. The opposite of the above statement is also true. Sometimes people will like you and you don't know why (you're saying all the w…
/r/seduction03/03/12 01:45 AM
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The more commonly known name to this technique.
/r/seduction27/02/12 10:00 AM
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Try not standing up straight after a good set of deadlifts.
/r/seduction27/02/12 08:00 AM
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r/nofap - subreddit where redditors aim to decrease, if not completely stop, their time spent masturbating.
/r/seduction27/02/12 07:58 AM
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Tone.
/r/seduction23/02/12 03:34 PM
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This is great, another person discovers WWWWWH. Enjoy the gifts of communication my friend!
/r/seduction23/02/12 03:34 PM
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This is from a more philosophical stand point, there's this video: [1] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA Philosophical? That shit? ಠ_ಠ Anyways I'm guessing it's an ego thing. Another thing that likes to be stroked.
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:15 PM
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which is closer to overweight Bullshit calculations are bullshit.
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:10 PM
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Great FR, and an even better self-analysis. Just up your confidence man. I can't say more than you've already figured out yourself. Don't disappoint yourself and overcome the obstacles you've already noticed.
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:47 PM
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May be helpful. *From another poster.
/r/seduction20/01/12 06:12 AM
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This guy has the solution.
/r/seduction20/01/12 05:24 AM
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Explicitly speaking to you alone. Just as your interpretation of my views will never come close to my true thoughts, your interpretation of the post will never come close to what actually happen. Piggybacking what frogma wrote (he's free to disagree if he's reading), because of the said statement above, you're not yet qualified(whether that changes in the future is up to you alone, as of right now you seemingly don't want that to change) to make any decision on the matter, and to connect it to m…
/r/seduction19/01/12 09:43 PM
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The blogger is the male. How have you made it this far without gathering that information? I mistakenly referred to the redditor as the blogger, of the blogger in question. My apologies. I think I understand your view now: when a dude says "I fucked a girl while she tried to stop me," it's prejudice to assume that the man fucked a girl while she tried to stop him You're generalizing (read: making things up, and then applying them to my views), and then establishing on said generalization as if i…
/r/seduction19/01/12 09:37 PM
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Explain why my "interpretation" is suspect. [...] Everything is still being blown out of proportion. Great for creative classes, not for reasonable statements. Your insistence that we should withhold judgement is ridiculous. Withholding judgement, based on preconceived notions, is wrong? Now we're getting somewhere... Your choice to not judge the blogger's words at face value[...] It's strange that you hold a mere blogger's words to be truth above all law. For all we know this never happened, hm…
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:36 PM
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I wouldn't normally give someone so much shit on their writing [...] No offense taken, it's all for the better. I am referencing the quote above. I've made some changes to the quoted portion, feel free to continue with the criticism where appropriate.
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:16 PM
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First tell me what you think, or what confuses you, then we get go on from there.
/r/seduction19/01/12 07:57 PM
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No one can know 100% of the facts, therefore no one's understanding of any account of anything is valid. You just reworded your previous statement, which I already told you was incorrect. That shouldn't stop you from taking the words of the blogger in this story, utilizing a very fundamental ability to interpret the English language, and deciding for yourself if what is described is moral. That's not the problem. The problem is doing all this within a single day and believing the approach to be …
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:21 PM
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Really figure out who your enemy is, what created your enemy and so on and so fourth I agree I agree I agree. This is key, IMO. I've already experience one case where it seems, as I've said before, people aren't treating this as serious as they claim to be. It's not just this single instance where this phenomenon can occur, and for that I also agree this would be a great discussion for anyone to have. I remember a post where this similar thought was expressed about war, and you already elaborate…
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:36 PM
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the entire thing does hinge on your interpretation Here goes more proof for my case, which frogma (below) points out in a more blunt manner. Anyone who feels qualified to judge it one way or another is a fuckin idiot. It's not the absolute truth, and no attempts have been made to get as close to that as possible. Here's the formula being used. Make up your own interpretation, judge accordingly. In other words, form opinion, treat it as fact.
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:03 PM
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Let me start by saying, I'll probably need to come back and re-edit this as I'm not with the clearest of thoughts at the moment. Then again, when am I? That said, anonymous internet post. That's the thing I'm talking about. It's an anonymous post, yes, but we've been told that this is a real occurrence. This isn't a case of "the internetz iz srs bizness". Or am I wrong to treat it as a real deal and I should just make loljokes for karma and move on? It's just a conversation about whether this st…
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:59 PM
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Alright, after skimming the posts over there some more, I've decided to put in more effort into this. I made one more move to discuss my stance against this whole matter. It expands my thoughts already stated somewhere in this thread. Enjoy..
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:29 AM
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Brief and skimpy sentences are all the proof you have, and in some courts that's good enough. But is that fair enough? To think in a subreddit where the posters are constantly reminded to be as detailed as possible in their field reports, it's ironic how that notion gets thrown out the windows for anything else. I'm not defending anyone, and I clearly don't agree with one member representing everyone, e.g. by those who write stuff like PIPA or every president ever known. It's just scary how fast…
/r/seduction19/01/12 05:22 AM
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This context is limited. There's 3 truths. His story, her story and the truth. This should remain between the male and female who actually underwent this experience. A third party need only enter if the female actually felt tramautized afterwards, i.e. the guy doesn't think he did anything wrong but the girl does. Said member should then clear it (the problems and the event, all fully detailed) up with the two of them FIRST before doing anything else. EDIT: Expanded because this felt somewhat ha…
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:39 AM
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I feel this thread may also be of assistance.
/r/seduction11/01/12 08:22 AM
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How to hold a convo? Start here. That or it could be my inability to hold a conversation about something I'm not interested in. It's good to know your abilities to converse improve when you're interestd. Now you should probably learn to take interest in all things whether or not they interest you for the sake of finding out things that do once you get deep enough into convo. It's hard to speak from my perspective because I'm already out on a mission to be more open-minded, so my love of learning…
/r/seduction11/01/12 08:17 AM
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I just mean people wanting to talk to me Yeah, not what I meant before. For this I'd say go up and talk to them. It's one of those things I've been thinking about. If you want something really bad and you're able to get it for yourself, why not just do so? Don't wait for people to approach if you want them to approach you. If you're capable, go out and meet them instead. On the subject of getting people to comment on your fashion style....I'm not a Floridian, but that outfit might not be "it". I…
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:50 AM
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Are you fair skinned (very light)? I hear darker colors work for people like that. I'm contemplating on whether or not this is a troll post....where do you live if a nearly complete pink outfit doesn't get you noticed? Also, what do you mean by getting interest? That could be defined in a number of ways.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:26 AM
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High value to me is something along the lines of not letting others make you afraid to be yourself. High self-esteem. It's hard to build on antifolus' post as I haven't read the book, but I'm guessing these suggestions by Carnegie often ask you, the reader, to be less selfish and more selfless. In doing that you must remember to not give other people power and control over you- that's not what being selfless is but the lines between the two are easily crossed by the confused. I don't think you h…
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:11 AM
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I tend to keep the focus away from myself. The pitfalls of strongly disliking attention whoring. Never wanting to appear one myself.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:24 AM
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I just like to see the color of people's eyes. I don't know if I ever had this problem - it was something I heard that made you get respect, so I did it and mostly still do. Mostly meaning the moments where I don't want to appear as if I'm staring from afar while walking towards someone...I just can't stand being stared at - so I aim to not stare at others.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:18 AM
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Shitting on people is not a good thing in general. Message sent: Whatever you're doing or however you're acting is bad. I'm beginning to have this knack to generalize opinions/advice/statements/etc, in the good way of course. Meaning, sometimes good advice can be applied in more than one situation. Another thing on words: Generally, they are what they mean to you. Call me a slut, I'll thank you and go about my business. Say it to one of these kids (even the grown ones), and well...you know how f…
/r/seduction11/01/12 05:52 AM
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Throw intelligent words around without any explanation, add on some more common sense on topic, quickly change the subject= appear brilliant. ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction11/01/12 05:46 AM
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You obviously know more than anyone of us, as all we know about you is what you write here- so feel out the situation and act appropriately. In this case you could say you're not looking into getting a relationship at the moment.
/r/seduction11/01/12 12:44 AM
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'Cause it's just another activity where people can possibly connect, amiright or amiright?
/r/seduction11/01/12 12:00 AM
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beginning to question your experience after reading novelty name. ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction10/01/12 11:06 PM
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how can he know how attached to them he will be if he never has sex with them? One becomes emotionally attached only through sex? Thanks for the tip...time to bond with all my friends, relatives and immediate family. ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:59 PM
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In general. Expansion, bitches. Learn how to work that mind like a shovel and dig deep into that of other's. What/Where/Who/Why/When/How/If. Have at it.
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:57 PM
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Since when was a phone number the equivalent to a condom/wedding ring? ಠ_ಠ Sack up and explore the opportunities. Life is more than sex.
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:53 PM
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she was forty minutes late finishing dinner with her girlfriend. I probably should have rescheduled, but whatever. FUCKING HALT. NEVER LET THIS SLIDE AGAIN. EVER. Then again, after reading the whole thing, plus another redditor's post....I agree. She's handling you. Waiting for 40 mins may have be the turning point. Too bad there's not enough information - as you've claimed to forgotten it. I'd also take a stab and say whatever went wrong started in that convo, but who knows. Also I hinted EXPLA…
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:50 PM
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Anything that grabs attention really. And if you have tons of confidence combined with a fuckless attitude, I mean anything. [Insert relevant SimplePickup link here]
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:41 PM
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The easiest way (IMO) to see it is thinking of what an unattractive personality is.
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:38 PM
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It's basically telling you to chase after people instead of making them chase you. That's how you see it, but it's not necessarily what's possibly being said. Instead of being said chode and seeking people who are interested in you, strive to find out more about a person; become interested in them for whatever interests you, from shared interests or a desire to expose yourself to things unknown- ideas, culture, perspective, etc. It sounds selfish but this could be viewed as an exchange between: …
/r/seduction10/01/12 10:35 PM
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'Cause bitches love money. Oh wait. I see what you did there.
/r/seduction09/01/12 10:02 AM
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Too tired to be a douche, but threads like these probably come by the boatload, and I mean probably as applied to here on reddit. In general, a day without this stuff is one hell of a weird day on the 'net and in life. Search anything about regret, being young, making the most out of life on reddit in general. /r/AskReddit will keep you reading all day, the number of comments there easily reach into the thousands. I advise against this. Might help to do it on google to. Just do the above and add…
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:48 AM
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Do what you have to right now. Fixed. Doing what you want includes procrastinating. Ask me all about it, some other time.
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:43 AM
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Oh no, the only poon you'll get has gotten away from you. How can you ever live now? ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:29 AM
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Are you trying to date everyone you meet? If so, stop that, it probably shows. Just gathering from what I've read, in the way you typed it out.
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:27 AM
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It can go both ways, i.e. in this case she is "beneath" them. Unless this post is trying to capitalize on a stereotype, well then.... *knock knock * "Who's there" "Generalization" The downside of seeing multiple meanings.
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:26 AM
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I, along with/or several people I know, am/are shallow. FTFY ~From your neighborhood friend, Generalization.
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:22 AM
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Read name. Not sure if srs.
/r/seduction09/01/12 08:23 AM
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You can apply that same notion towards everything, generally speaking. Good and bad, two sides of a coin; which side do you want to see? ON topic: Not much of a success story, always got to keep moving no? Also used to spend 40hrs (or more) a week on games. Funny I only noticed it as 8hrs a day until I read a post ITT. Socially awkward in high school (what I refer to as the moment my life went downhill, ironically speaking as I read that- I know I'm not alone), got made fun of- fell into the hyp…
/r/seduction09/01/12 05:21 AM
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I met last night Herein lies the problem.
/r/seduction09/01/12 03:17 AM
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Treat em like any other girl is the key point. Work is work no matter how outrageous the job is. Leave work OUT OF IT. They may bring it up as a shit test, so be on the lookout for that. and don't come back without a FR. ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction06/01/12 06:29 AM
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The world is a very small place and you'd be surprised when you will bump into them in the future. I go through this at least once a week. If for nothing else, do it for this.
/r/seduction22/12/11 05:49 AM
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people are too wrapped up in their own s*** to judge you Dammit, you've taken away my message. You really need to get on with your life and stop living like you're doing broadway for others. This is about you, and you only get to do it right the first time. Everyone else can join the ride or fuck off, either way don't care, you're top priority. About failure, learn to embrace it. I'll be the first to beat anyone when it comes to making fun of myself. I laugh when I trip or screw up in the gym (s…
/r/seduction17/12/11 03:45 AM
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To basicallly get over it - there's nothing to fix, it's done and over with. Go on about his business and he can decide in the future whether he wants to talk to her or not. He should learn to be comfortable and enjoy himself wherever he goes, she'll notice and think his past act was a one-time fluke.
/r/seduction08/12/11 01:29 PM
1

She friend zoned me? I'll be off elsewhere...not waiting for her to give me a second look. Too much time spent on someone you probably barely know is only for people who get paid afterwards. <- Not really a member of seddit. Just strollin through. All said IMO One question I'd ask is how many of those girls are BSin themselves that their guy friends are still interested in them. Too much of this: "Like yeah, he'd definitely bang me" Sounds full of it. A lot of variables to be considered in this …
/r/seduction08/12/11 04:39 AM
19

Ever rode in one? Want to? Set up date.
/r/seduction08/12/11 03:16 AM
1

act like it didn't happen. getting her number? try talking to her and building rapport first. the number will come.
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:42 AM
2

it happened again, I'm thinking the mods don't like me...
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:40 AM
1

Basically forget about her and do your thing, focus on your priorities and don't forget to have fun. She'll stick around as you two take the same class, so she'll notice how relaxed you are (as you should have been when you talked to her) and you can decide to take your chances - or not. Forget about your first impression, you need to learn how to stay comfortable anywhere, anytime when you want to. Drop it. It's done and over with, you can't clean it up - but you can move on like you don't give…
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:16 AM
1

Just wondering: Was my post removed or is this something to do with the things going on in the server today?
/r/seduction08/12/11 01:48 AM
1

set your eye on another girl or your priorities, let there be known that insert notasinglefuckwasgiventhatday.jpg Seems like you're placing too much importance on this girl. She's this and that, but you haven't talked to her much. I'd say forget about her and go about your business, since she's in class she'll be around. Focus on enjoying yourself, she'll notice and then you decide whether you want to get a crack at it again, or not. I hate to make this metaphor, but it should be more like a gam…
/r/seduction08/12/11 01:30 AM
1

will be waiting for ya, and scan for myself- no problem.
/r/seduction05/12/11 03:57 PM
2

11k comments...mind specifying a bit?
/r/seduction05/12/11 07:04 AM
2

I don't drink.
/r/seduction05/12/11 07:03 AM
3

fake personality = fake tits. the equation pretty much explains it all.
/r/seduction28/11/11 04:28 AM
1

I know how it can turn out to be a bad thing...but is that really a bad thing? Wondering from the perspective of wanting to raise kids myself.
/r/seduction27/11/11 11:04 PM
1

if you eat them you're testosterone builds up, or so the broscience goes...here's a good luck to myself on enjoying the final years of school life :| First few years have gone by and not much has come from it. On another note, birthday coming up this week...need something to bring back my old life-loving, reality bending, crazy self.
/r/seduction27/11/11 10:58 PM
3

Is all this hostility the norm in this subreddit? I'm completely unfazed, but rather amazed.
/r/seduction27/11/11 04:33 AM
4

currently wondering if this is actually worth a reply. I'm tempted to get involved in what may be a lost cause.
/r/seduction27/11/11 04:07 AM
4

ask for directions if you're taking the train/bus. did this with one lady (married) before, I actually wanted directions but it led into us waiting for the train and conversing for quite a while. Was unexpectedly entertaining, as I don't converse with strangers IRL as long as I do with those online :| . Basically if you notice people who aren't doing anything, like you are, chat 'em up on something about the area and move in from there. Not as creepy IMO.
/r/seduction27/11/11 04:00 AM
1

Grab your balls, realize they exist. Then walk up. Ask her if she wants to see a magic trick. Make sound appear from the insides of your mouth. Call it talking. If she wasn't Asian, I'd be sure I know her...but you know...
/r/seduction13/10/11 02:35 AM
2

$2,000 to learn how to talk to a girl? Damn I'm definitely in the wrong major. Now, I don't believe you should pay that amount for this stuff period. But besides that point, the service seemed horrible. I felt like this guy was just hanging out with buddies while improving his game, I swear the only thing motivating him probably was that he spent so much money on this. These are my impressions based on one bootcamp with Jeffy[...] Anyone else thinking he probably had something more sinister to s…
/r/seduction07/10/11 08:29 PM
1

The problem was that he waited two years. Finally someone with some reasoning.... 2 years being around someone and you expected to get a kiss? I didn't want to say it outright, but you didn't need crystal ball to see how that would turn out. Girls don't stay attracted that long. This is debatable. I want to stereotype OP as the nice guy, cause it's easier and quicker to make sense of. But unless he put out more details in the thread that I won't read, we don't know what went on in those 2 years.…
/r/seduction07/10/11 05:41 PM
1

First number I got out of my mom's vag was slapped to my wrist so I wouldn't forget. And I didn't.
/r/seduction07/10/11 05:40 PM
1

Where's the point OP? Downvote? Upvote? Downvote? Upvote? I'm running out of petals...
/r/seduction07/10/11 05:24 PM
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Smile and say something. (IMO, screw the polite talk. It's sounds fake/rehearse/insincere. Had a convo with a lady the other day and I ended it off with what you said. I instantly felt like a dweeb. It was not me at all, what a way to represent myself- especially after spending a good moment with her.) I've been in this myself, except I ignored the cashier. But, what I would have done is called her on it. In my case, it was point blank clear she was interested- staring my way, even one time her …
/r/seduction07/10/11 05:16 PM
1

Bang the cray broad. But as long as they don't know each other, what's the problem?
/r/seduction07/10/11 05:02 PM
2

I'm going to say you don't know what morality is, versus me thinking you're a nice guy. The real case is that, since she's working, she'll be inclined to be nice. It's problematic because it'll be hard to tell if she's into you or just trying to upsell you on something. That convo, from what I can tell, was basic worker-to-customer chat. She was probably being polite that time. maybe i should have stuck around or was walking away the right thing ? Hell no. You're a male, if not a man. You should…
/r/seduction07/10/11 04:53 PM
1

I meant I knew what this post was supposed to be about, but I found myself distracted by one of the major examples used in it rather than the main idea.
/r/seduction06/10/11 03:25 PM
3

3 is all that I live for.
/r/seduction06/10/11 03:19 PM
4

Am I the only one not caring about AA and focusing on what I see to be a failed attempt at making a myth out of fact? Then again I just reread this was from a feminine perspective, a feminist at that. BTW I've read a another motivating post but I forgot where it was. Basically described a girl's average day, it was pretty sad- and pretty similar to the life of a nice guy. If I find it, I'll definitely re-edit.
/r/seduction06/10/11 03:00 PM
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“Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.” FTFY
/r/seduction06/10/11 02:45 PM
2

"Only this time I'll actually take her advice" *runs* hint hint
/r/seduction06/10/11 03:09 AM
2

I know all too well. You've got to approach, or maybe stay away. I can definitely relate- I hopped on the train for a ride home and this chick across from me would not stop looking my way for the whole ride. I just put on my hood and ignored her. Sometimes I wonder, other times I shiver.
/r/seduction06/10/11 03:05 AM
2

She stared me down from across the hall and I met her eyes and held... and held You sure she wasn't staring for this? JK I keed bro. Sounds like you've enjoyed yourself at the mall today, got to give you props and say keep up the good work. Having fun is what it should always be about, IMO.
/r/seduction06/10/11 02:58 AM
0

So a every night a girl you've never met ends up kissing you and you're questioning whether she does or does not want to have sex? Or are you worried about your ED problem? The latter makes moar sense.
/r/seduction06/10/11 02:35 AM
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I've been told this by a guy I went to school with about my braces, when I first got them. He told me to stop trying to hide my teeth, especially when I laugh, or else people would notice and make fun of me. I stopped hiding, they never cracked a joke (at least infront of me)...notasinglefuckwasgiventhatday.jpg Oh yeah, what my point was is...this ^ guy's post should be upvoted to the top edit: changed "they cracked a joke" to "they never cracked a joke", and the following to read what I origina…
/r/seduction05/10/11 08:54 PM
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Adding to the ignore list as implicitly requested. trolol, I applaud any efforts to get more men into your pants. but all you had to do was ask.
/r/seduction05/10/11 08:37 PM
1

In the end, the world is a stuffy place, why not liven it up a bit with a convo with a stranger? Pretty much this explains it all for me.
/r/seduction05/10/11 03:09 PM
3

and a whole bunch of other romantic comedies. but girls eat that shit up, so I guess living out a fantasy is cool?
/r/seduction02/10/11 02:05 AM
1

TLDR. Seriously though, this cliche has been beaten to death far too long. In a nutshell, "Don't be yourself- IF you dislike the idea of change/adapting to different situations". That's all that has to be said, IMO Honestly, how the hell does one write nearly 2000 words of text for something that doesn't need that much explanation and only just a couple of examples to process over?
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:25 AM
1

doesn't mean much, but you have my respect. may return a reply to answer your questions later.
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:00 PM
2

Alpha is bullshit. Sorry to break it to you. Gee, and I didn't think you'd figure out what quotations mark were used for... It's choosing to set arbitrary limits on yourself and others that have no connection with the reality of the way things work, and even removing yourself from the race unless the rest of the world acts in the exact way you want it to So I must be like everyone else if I want everyone to like me; aka being fake/hypocritical/living a life worse than one without a purpose And I…
/r/seduction21/09/11 08:10 PM
2

based on a stupid fucking ideal lowering standards for acceptance? how's that "alpha"?
/r/seduction21/09/11 05:45 AM
1

just because these girls, has lived their process, and they had been formed to be a good wife. I've heard otherwise :/
/r/seduction21/09/11 05:44 AM
1

fuck her. OMG. she's just one girl.
/r/seduction16/09/11 03:44 AM
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wait wut? who's the guy who has friends and who's the guy who doesn't? yeah, that's right. Don't ask for advice and then play the wannabe guru role. ---Oh, probably another reason you can't make friends. Surprise!
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:52 PM
1

You should only be improving your choice in women. I don't really know the girl or your relationship with her. There could have been signs from the beginning that would've let you know this was bound to happen - but on the other hand, she could've hidden it really well. That's why I say if she cheated on you, it's not your fault. But if you knew her type and you still got upset when shit hit the fan, it's on you. But don't think you're the reason someone else fucks themselves up. That's a messed…
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:49 PM
1

think happy thoughts? I remember walking and a person approached (gender doesn't matter), so I looked at my feet and remembered reading somewhere about doing just that and the advice that you should be thinking "gee I look like I have really low self-esteem". So I thought about that and chuckled. Boom. Instant smile, locked eyes, and the person returned the feelings and so on, you get the point.
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:34 PM
2

It was the girl proposing the date in all of them you could've ended up dead. true stories.
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:28 PM
2

+1. many people like free shit. you plan a lot of fun free shit. many people like you. simple mathematicks.
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:26 PM
2

and it was actually my fault it's may be your fault for going out with her, I don't know how she's been before. BUT it is not your fault she cheated. and if you were friends with that roommate before it happened, stop hanging the fuck out with him. unless you like to keep enemies close - cause that isn't a friend. Man up. edit* and why I didn't kick his ass any guy who fights another guy over a girl who cheated (read: she did, not he, unless you're bi...) on him should be glad to know: while you…
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:19 PM
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hang. out.
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:16 PM
1

Weird, I always loved this but never thought to give it back.
/r/seduction09/09/11 11:17 AM
2

You want a fuck buddy who doesn't act like a fuck buddy? Of all the stupidest... Alleviate my pain and tell me you're a lesbian, or you're in middle school, SOMETHING... cause if this isn't some feminine bullshit...
/r/seduction05/09/11 02:22 PM
1

I'm not big on PUA terms, but I will say I view negging as humbling someone. Not treating them like crap. That's called being a dick. Don't you love it when things are taken out of context and then blown out of proportion? (Sounds like something a chick would do.) As if some people enjoy being spanked. Not that that doesn't turn me on...
/r/seduction05/09/11 09:30 AM
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the environment, use it. fuck a script, YMMV I find it strange to hang out at a place you don't like to be in. I mean, It's only natural to have something to talk about if you're doing something that interests you, and sharing that experience with another person. The conversation should be flowing out of your mouths with no hesitation. So if you like going to bars, and you meet other people who like going to bars, guess you have something in common, like the bar. Well, what goes on in a bar that…
/r/seduction05/09/11 09:24 AM
2

the advice was to be honest (about something that's really innocent at that), and this is the reaction? such an ass backwards response leads me to believe you're a female, no?
/r/seduction05/09/11 09:15 AM
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as someone who's used to being myself, i.e. doing what I already do, not fixing wheels that aren't broken, I'll try to tactfully say PUA is not for everyone, like say me. TLDR: How can someone who’s functionally asexual go about getting a girlfriend? I'll suggest being more social. You can fake being outgoing and all, but it will backfire on you sooner or later. I think we've become doomed to thinking all things must be easy and handed to us as quickly as possible, with all these different pills…
/r/seduction05/09/11 08:39 AM
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and now so have I. I mean I've lost the game.
/r/seduction05/09/11 08:16 AM
2

Problem is I don't know what to do now...this girl is a friend and shut the front door. she says "fuck no" (sarcastically), then comes in for the kiss. We ended up going for a dirty swim, then getting into foreplay in the truck if this is what your friends do, I don't want to even think about your relationship with siblings and relatives. you guys did all this on the first meet up and you're worried about getting married to a broad? I do wonder about the customs in whatever part of the town you'…
/r/seduction05/09/11 02:24 AM
1

Very Old Mystery Bootcamp: Tyler was a Creep seems to be the original post, but the videos seemed to have been all taken down, who knows. I tried using quotes for an exact search on the youtube title above, and that forum was the only result. may be under another name? I think there are other videos of the guys, probably want to check out the bootcamp vids but yeah... as for: it's on youtube somewhere. or look up 'put all rsd mastermind links here' and maybe a certain forum will have it. nothing…
/r/seduction04/09/11 03:49 PM
1

if someone, n00b or not, just gets the question out of the way then it makes the flow of the thread better for the next 10 people that don't understand the reference and are too afraid to ask that theory works better in class, cause most of us are all learning. you wouldn't ask a calculus teacher about the Pythagorean theorem, would you? You wouldn't dare even dream of it. I know oftentimes we ( or rather I) carry our own experiences into our posts, and that even common sense isn't all that comm…
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:40 PM
2

no one downvotes you for acting like an ass because you didn't pamper the truth with sugar, spice and all things cuddly in order to appear PC and please the masses? as they did with this guy's post I'm sorta liking this subreddit.
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:14 PM
2

not for asking a question, but for asking simple-yet-already-answered questions. you'd have to be inexperienced (only exception IMO) with the internetz to be unable to handle a common task like researching on google. otherwise, let the downvotes flow.
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:13 PM
1

you're cute" is like a big IOI not in high school, at least my HS.
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:11 PM
2

I'd say it's more "there's a time and place for everything" than to just disregard that totally. It also helps to screen people you wouldn't want to hang out with. I'm all for keeping your vocabulary set to a specific group of people (which is a pet peeve of mine, people who speak in terms of their professions to those NOT IN THEIR PROFESSION) but apart from that I'll speak how I usually do and if someone if put off by that, most likely they'd be more off put about other things about me. It's al…
/r/seduction04/09/11 01:58 PM
1

my teeth are kind of off-colorish, the bottom row is buttery yellow for sure but not many give a damn because of my attitude. I used to walk around with a chipped tooth and no one gave me shit about it, I mean NO ONE. I didn't care, so why would they try? if you're gonna be pissy about it, people will pick up on your vibe and feel the same way. I remember when I got braces, a dude I know told me to not be afraid of showing my teeth when I laugh, or else people would make fun of me. Some people a…
/r/seduction04/09/11 01:40 PM
1

alone in the house. alone. I guess you guys can hit the books. Wtf? Doesn't shit just naturally progress into a horizontal tango?
/r/seduction04/09/11 01:35 PM
1

not an error if she's crazy. crazy and clingy.
/r/seduction04/09/11 01:34 PM
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as I was forced to sit across from her move your chair? I send her a text message apologizing for some of my behaviour today wrong move. apologizing? give her a chance to relive what you feel was an awful event, even if she didn't think so before, she'll definitely think so now if you have to apologize about it. stay sober. I don't drink myself, but don't people hook up in bars and nightclubs? Not saying that you could've used this advice for yourself, and although I haven't been in the seddit f…
/r/seduction04/09/11 01:31 PM
23

what ever happened to being good with your hands? I can't let anyone go without switching to my last resorts mr. hand and mr. tongue
/r/seduction04/09/11 01:25 PM
1

I heard you've done your fair share of CPR training, I'll be the dummy just once.
/r/seduction19/08/11 05:46 PM
3

did she not say she wanted to be friends? confirm your response. telling her you still want her "puts the ball in [her] court" especially after you just told her you just want to be friends. flipflopflipflop, leave that mess to the women.
/r/seduction18/08/11 04:05 PM
7

"Certainly not my penis, come fix it."
/r/seduction18/08/11 04:00 PM
3

sorry. try again tomorrow.
/r/seduction28/07/11 07:31 PM
1

upvoted. great advice belongs at the top.
/r/seduction28/07/11 04:53 PM
2

this. don't get caught in analysis paralysis. just remember to say "hey" and let it flow from there. also, don't try to approach every girl in the world (ie, ATM girl, IMO) . i know that's given as advice in some places to help you get comfortable and build confidence, but I say learn to pull out your A game whenever you feel like it instead of acting like it's a mission you have to complete. Less stress, less thinking. you could think of all the wittiest things to say, but if you don't have the…
/r/seduction27/07/11 04:25 AM
2

i would've said i'm coming to meet said friend, and flirt with her just don't appear clingy, or like you were actually looking forward to being with her and only her.... shit happens, go out and fish again or flip through the phonebook...
/r/seduction27/07/11 04:14 AM
1

it's not that....serious?
/r/seduction27/07/11 03:57 AM
1

stop calling her often, keep the convo short, only to set up time to meet up. i personally dislike anything that doesn't allow me to get some face to face time. but besides that, you're not here to be her shoulder to lean and cry on, cut the "talks until sunrise" crap, make a date, meet up and whatnot.
/r/seduction27/07/11 03:26 AM
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/thread
/r/seduction27/07/11 02:10 AM
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introverted women.
/r/seduction22/07/11 03:04 PM
1

grammar usually comes to the rescue. "this guy, fucking man!" proceed to kneeslap
/r/seduction22/07/11 02:52 AM
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