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LESSON LEARNEDPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:21 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?PrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:03 AM
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STRATEGYPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:04 PM
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RANTPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:31 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:44 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:51 AM
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NAH, SISPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:04 AM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 07:12 PM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 08:35 PM
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#JustLVMThingsPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:52 PM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 02:37 PM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 06:54 AM
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FDS HUMORPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:46 PM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 10:18 AM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill07/10/21 06:41 PM
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RANTPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 05:50 AM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill31/10/21 02:18 PM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 08:29 PM
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STRATEGYPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 06:25 AM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill13/03/22 11:15 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨PrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:55 PM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 06:28 AM
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DISCUSSIONPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:00 PM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:10 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:07 PM
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PrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 04:12 PM
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DISCUSSIONPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 06:23 AM
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DISCUSSIONPrincessTiaraLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 06:14 AM
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She was probably trying to pander to his ideology until it became too ridiculous. That has happened to many women.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 05:37 AM
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For me, NO! Two of the men that I was completely obsessed with was about 5'6 and the other was about 5'7. Omg I found them sexy, smart and I wanted to be with them forever. The problem I find with some short men is they don't have confidence and the look for validation which is not sexy. The first two men were ambitious, had opinions of their own and confident as far as I could tell. They weren't perfect, but they were sexy. I'm dating a short guy right now and he is painfully unconfident. He do…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 02:20 PM
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I would say these types of older men prey on young vulnerable women. For example look at Andrew Tate. He's 35 and claims only women 18-25 are acceptable and he used them to fund his webcam business. Obviously women in that age rage may not have a means of earning money. If you're looking to take advantage of vulnerable women like passport bros and sex tourists and you consider that as "dating options" then probably, but if you're looking for someone on your intellectual and financial level the p…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 09:39 AM
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Personally I think social media plays a big part in people having unrealistic standards. We see snapshots of so called good relationships and we think we can get that. Also people thinking the grass is greener. I don’t think people understand relationships are work. They aren’t just this magic fairytale 24/7.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 06:52 PM
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I had some terrible dating situations in my 20’s so I can’t settle. I’ve come way too far. Nobody wants to be single whether it’s a woman or a man. I guess in society it’s the man that does the choosing, but men have a shelf life too. A lot of these red pill men are delusional about their options as they age.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 06:24 AM
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Well tbh you never know until you try, but attractive women do tend to have more options.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 08:44 PM
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Exactly when I look at older women that got their education they are doing way better than women that did not unless the woman lucked up and got a good man, but men are not reliable means of survival and relying solely on them can lead to abuse. And yes it’s very rare to meet somebody in person these days unless the people frequent the same place on a regular basis. The few times I’ve randomly met people didn’t turn out well anyway, I want to get to know someone and not just stumble upon a stran…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 10:24 AM
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A lot of the time it not worth it to try and convince these males not to follow this junk because they just love to argue with women and try to get us all up in arms. The best thing to do is let him think he knows best and quietly move tf on.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 02:37 AM
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It’s pretty big. Majority of men I meet and know, know about it and agree with it to a certain extent even though they know it’s toxic.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 01:07 AM
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It’s definitely disappointing to say the least, and natural hair slander and colorism is something that I do not tolerate, because silence can be complicity in this case.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/22 01:50 PM
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She was using a lot of sugar baby terminology that I didn’t even know at the time. When her followers were suggesting that she was giving advice on how to be sex workers she said she didn’t know anything about that 🙄. As old as she is she knows exactly what she was implying. Also, the whole blue collar thing was a mess. A white collar man can be just bad as anybody.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/22 12:13 PM
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I’m not too familiar with this, but i believe RP believes it’s something every woman intentionally does. I think the truth is maybe some women do it intentionally, and some may not. I cringe at the toxic things I used to do unconsciously, and the ones I did consciously are even more cringe worthy. Thank goodness for growth! Learn to communicate and have boundaries and you’ll be fine.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 03:58 PM
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I think I just started watching his videos maybe in like June or July of 2021. I had been seeing them around, but I never really paid any attention until he began doing the HyreCar stuff, because I was a frequent renter on HyreCar at that time. They were entertaining, but after that disgusting video I learned how depraved he was, but apparently he’s been saying these things. I guess his new audience wasn’t privy to it. I never thought your mother was an angel, but I can tell he wanted to stay ma…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 08:58 AM
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I don’t remember the exact video, but I definitely remember him saying it, because I was very shocked to hat that he even had kids and I wondered where you two were and I don’t blame you for talking junk about your parents and if not having a relationship with your family is best for you then I don’t blame that either. Parents are humans too and they’re capable of having hidden lives. Maybe everything worked out for the best that you weren’t around him because that coulda have easily rubbed off …
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 02:59 AM
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A lot of Red pill women were/are desperate to find a utopian man, and to get him they were willing to contort into anything even if that means being an ignorant, uneducated doormat. From my experience and I found that these men actually want just the opposite of that.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/22 04:26 AM
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Yeah I expect just about everything he said to be a lie and these scandals are definitely poetic justice. The only thing I’ve ever heard him say about you is you chose your mother over him after the divorce and I guess he was bitter about that which is the most ignorant, immature deadbeat thing I’ve ever heard. Personally I don’t think you have to do anything to discredit him, because he does a great job of doing that himself. He claims he’s not scared of the cops, but I can tell he is. I peeped…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 05:31 AM
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Wow Sounds like he met his match with your mother. I did recently learn of the woman he claimed “got herself pregnant by him for a check” and I wish she would take him back to court with his videos as evidence to why he can’t have custody of the child, I believe a daughter. I also think about you and your sister from time to time and how it must be to watch your father be such a degenerate online. It sounds like he self isolates from any family he has, because I guess you all know the real him. …
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 02:40 AM
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I don’t see how anyone could hold a conversation with them. They’re just flaming trolls and very inarticulate. Everything they say is clearly scripted. One of them had an interview with Grant Cardone and it was so embarrassing. Grant was getting so frustrated with him and it’s clear why he doesn’t engage men on Grant’s level, because they would effortlessly embarrass him.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 08:36 AM
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Why are you trolling every sub with this? Keep exposing your ignorance for everybody to see.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:20 AM
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Be yourself. One of the worst things I see “ugly” people doing is being too agreeable. It’s boring an an attraction killer. It’s ok to have differences, boundaries and standards. You don’t have to like everything a person you’re into like, and also be respectful. Billie Eilish has that quote “give an ugly guy a chance and he thinks he rules the world” Years ago we would say “have you ever given an ugly guy a chance and he started treating you like you were the ugly one” women used to be indiffer…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/22 06:20 PM
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Yeah I would say it is a cult,and cults are usually masters at sniffing out vulnerable people that are either naive or freshly experienced some kind of grief like a break up of loss of a loved one. Being from a broken home is definitely a recipe for being lured into one of these cults. They tell you everything you want to hear in the beginning like how other people are to blame for not seeing how awesome you are and if you worship this leader and follow their rules then your life will be great. …
/r/ExRedPill21/01/22 08:30 PM
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Pretty girls get played everyday. Looks matter, but as a woman if a man mostly wants me for my looks and doesn't care much for me outside of that then I don't think I'd bother with him for long. Men overcomplicate dating by being lazy. Just like anything worth having relationships take effort.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 07:56 AM
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Its the confirmation bias. You want someone to confirm all your woes and give you solutions on how to confirm them even if the solutions are absolutely unrealistic and ludicrous
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 02:34 PM
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These people have lost their ever loving minds. The only woman I can see agreeing to this would be gold diggers or women with trauma/low self esteem. Wow that a total shit storm.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 08:59 PM
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That and they see it as a business opportunity whether it be a monetized social media platform, consultations, courses, conferences etc. All of it is fake. These people are just as average as anybody and there is no magic spell.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 10:58 PM
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People trying to teach you game are just trying to make you a loyal paying cult member. All you need to do is have boundaries, have standards, be authentic and honest. Also have mutual respect for women. These people trying to trick women are creeps and that's why they can't successfully maintain a relationship with the women they seek. A lot of these men are either being played or abusing sensitive women that they actually don't like.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 06:06 AM
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Embrace yourself as much as you can and be unapologetic about that, as long as you aren't being abusive. People respect others that are genuine, authentic, have standards and boundaries and don't just go with whatever they think the other person wants to hear or likes. Practice just walking up to women and genuinely giving them a compliment and be more specific then just calling her "beautiful, pretty or gorgeous"; without expecting anything. If you're somewhere and you notice that you may have …
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 01:42 AM
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Value is a definitive word. The context of the word slut you're using reads as if you have no standards and if that's the case then what are you complaining for? Just pick up literally woman that would be willing to screw you no matter her perceived value, and even those women have the right to have standards and don't have to screw you without their standards being met. I also said previously that LV has characteristics in regard to how men could have been phrasing it. Stop trying to be lazy. N…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 04:08 PM
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I can see how women think penis is abundant and LV. Lol even you just said you basically want to be a slut. I was under the assumption that men did have the privilege to be a slut, but maybe just not with the type of women they want to be a slut with. I'm not discriminating against mentally unwell women or hustlers for that matter if you just want to be a slut, but with mentally unwell women that can get very traumatic for them and you which is why I say be honest. Mentally ill people are probab…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 09:03 AM
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Don't wreck your brain trying to figure out these men. They are not mentally well. Many of them are psychopaths, narcissists and liars. My tips are be honest and with women. Honesty is a very attractive trait. Also be confident and not victim minded. Penis is abundant, but its only low vale if its attached to a pos like these spineless, brainless red pillers. Everything on earth is abundant, but its the characteristics that make some things more valuable than others. A lot of these men attract w…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 08:29 AM
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Sorry that happened to you, but yeah I think its just human nature for women to "nest" so if we don't feel financially secure then we panic, because it seems to be a threat to our survival. Idk what happened, but it looks like you were doing the best you could. It sounds like you were genuinely into her, but she wasn't so you shouldn't see that as too big of a loss. I guarantee if you keep that mindset with the right woman then you will be very successful in dating. Like I said before though mak…
/r/ExRedPill25/12/21 05:39 PM
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As a woman it was the "you don't need college, just use your beauty and your body". That rhetoric is very dangerous for women because it could cause them to get stuck in relationships or even worse if they are discarded. I think this is one of the only reasons TRP promotes hypergamy so they can trap uneducated women or even trap women that gave up their ability to earn a livable wage.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/21 05:05 PM
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Yeah I think these men's issue is they are spending money on women that probably don't like them to begin with. Even I learned that its takes more than money to truly make a relationship work. I have no problem with transactional agreements, but if we're talking genuine connection then there's no amount of money in the world that can make me like somebody if I just don't like them. With that being said I used to date men and not want to come off as a user/gold digger so I constantly got the shor…
/r/ExRedPill25/12/21 04:51 PM
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I think my attraction fluctuates. I don't want a man to be too extreme on either end of the spectrum. I want a man to be himself. I do like a dominant man, but these men interchange dominance with abuse.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 06:44 AM
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I think what will help you is finding a woman that wants to take things slow and go at a pace that you are competent enough for and I think at 23 there are many women in this category. Don't feel pressured into divulging so much about your private life too soon instead take it slow and let things naturally progress. Also there are wonderful e-books on amazon that are not red pill/ pick up artist related to modern communication. You could even try reading books targeted towards women to see what …
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 12:48 AM
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All relationships are different so I think it depends on what works for the people in the relationship. If I make $250k a year and my man makes $65k then I don't think I'll sneeze at his money. He can still afford to contribute and do nice things for me, and I think my income may give us some breathing room for him to do that. Some people are just not in a good financial place to date and that includes men and women. What bothers me is this movement of women expecting men to fund their lifestyle…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 11:08 PM
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Men can justify all these "boys nights out" but they get "suspicious" when us women get together without them lol. If more women were loyal to each other the way these toxic men are then boy this world would be something else.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 08:17 AM
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Yeah the whole "women are emotional and men are logical" argument gives very much trying to mimic dar triad personality. There is nothing wrong with being "emotional and its completely normal too. I could never be in a relationship with a person that saw being emotional as a flaw. Or being non-emotional as some type of superior trait. A person can't simply stop being emotional unless they really do have these dark traits and in that case I wouldn't want to be anywhere near them to begin with.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 03:34 AM
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Red pill is disgusting and they deserve to be the punching bag. They negatively affect so many people’s lives so I think these anti red pill channels are fighting the good fight.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/21 10:04 AM
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I think a lot of these tactics work on women with trauma, and I heard somewhere that predators know who they can prey on and target those people. Women with trauma may fit the bill for the way red pillers describe "all" women, but that doesn't make the way they treat them correct. They're really just scum for preying on society's most vulnerable and weak. A lot of women with trauma are actually really great women too, but they fall into the hands of these pathetic individuals and become worse th…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/21 07:09 PM
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lol i would be pissed if I waited for some of these men. So far out of all my sexual partners I've only had one really good one. Some of these men truly need to humble themselves, because a lot of them don't know what they're doing. And shockingly some older men still don't know. I guess this is also why some women are exploring themselves sexually and getting with maybe younger men that are willing to learn. I have nothing against virgins, but all women deserve to know what true pleasure feels …
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 02:10 AM
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Women like to be provided for, and I don't think that's going to change, but all this top 20% stuff idk. A lot high earning men I know that didn't marry in their 20-30's seem to rely on transactional relationships which may work for them depending on their personality and lifestyle. That's where a part of this cope comes from that women in their 20's want men in their 40s. No, some of these men can just afford to buy a woman in her 20's or just pretend they can until the gig is up. I've dated ac…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/21 05:51 PM
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I'm so sick of this culture. People are gonna play hard to get until their hard to want. Everybody isn't going to go for that. I get the "don't be needy" thing, but when is actual communication going to come in to play? What are you going to say when you actually get a chance to talk to her? I think honesty is the best policy and the right ones will stay. If you're busy then that's fine, but still make time. Tbh I'm over the games and I'm not chasing people. If a person wants to play hard to get…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 11:26 AM
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older is fine, but 10+ years is a red flag imo and experience. And exactly I know ever 20 something yo isn't vibrant or mentally healthy. That's why I emphasized that. The ones that aren't are the very ones these creeps go after. These predators know How to pick perfect victims.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 07:03 PM
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lol reminds me of the bdsm world where submissive men are usually successful and powerful in real life and these cringe doms are usually the opposite. This famous rapper says he loves for his fiance' to tell him what to do and boss him around. That was very interesting to me.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 09:41 AM
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I just saw a true crime video that said pedophiles tend to have low self esteem, and seeing this whole red pill idea that a man reaches his sexual peak at 40 and women in their 20's find that attractive is very telling. These disgusting men have to be delusional to think a vibrant and mentally healthy 20 something year old will find most of them attractive. The cope is toxic. Gross.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 09:35 AM
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I think I saw one of his videos and he tries to be logical, but his bitterness overrides that.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 06:30 PM
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I'm a woman and I've learned to dial it back on self help just because it can be a bit mundane and repetitive. That being said I do enjoy "Academy of Ideas" from time to time for philosophy, I like certain finance channels that help with budgeting and figuring out the economy, I like automotive channels just because that's my thing right now (niche down on your hobby, because it can make you relatable to women and men.) I like learning in general. Self help doesn't have to be self righteous. If …
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 03:09 AM
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Wowwwwwww thanks for explaining! The attorney that he did the panel with did tell him that he committed a crime and he was shocked to hear that. He’s so ignorant. Then he said the panel was a mistake when he found out he was loud and wrong by saying him as a 30 something year old man could legally sleep with 16 and 17 year olds. That’s what happens when predators want so bad to be right that they get their legal advice from the literal children they are committing crimes against. This man said t…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 06:56 PM
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He is a legit MONSTER. He's not worth doing anything over, because he is going to do it to himself. He already ousted himself. I can't imagine how he can show his face anywhere seeing as how flashy he like to be. He's pure filth and the law will catch up with him. The thing that gets me is he stands by everything he said. WOW. Zero remorse for the victims.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 07:29 PM
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This is why to TRP “feminism” is the enemy. This is why a 25 yo woman is too old for them, because surprise surprise that’s the age scientist say the brain fully matures. In science there is no one under 25 that is “mature for their age”. I think the age of consent should be at least 21 globally. TRP doesn’t want grown women advocating for children hence these laws. The laws are mostly created by perpetuated by men, usually over 25. Anytime a woman speaks out against this exploitation she is cal…
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 09:43 AM
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What gets me in these pill communities is the utter entitlement. I’ve seen men that want the best of the best women that are educated, fit, beautiful and high earning and these men are below mediocre and refuse to work on themselves. Also on the other hand I’ve seen women think all they need is a new wardrobe and a makeover to attract a high earning, attractive, fit, white collar 🙄 man. It’s some kind of wired self hatred mixed with entitlement. One blessing the Internet has given us is a peek i…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 10:35 AM
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Lol I remember when I had graduated high school and my boyfriend worked the graveyard shift at fed ex and I wanted to marry him! None of this blue collar/white collar ever crossed my mind. He then went to the navy and his sexy score went up even more on my eyes!
/r/ExRedPill07/10/21 08:41 PM
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Yes I agree. However whatever field I end up working in full time I don’t think I would mind dating any man whatever field he’s working in as long as he’s hard working, I’m attracted to him and we get along. All of this pill stuff has been a curse as well as a blessing lol.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/21 08:38 PM
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Tbh working in a bakery sounds really fun. Gordon Ramsey paid this guy’s 4 year tuition that wanted to go to school and open up a bakery! He told the man when he finishes school all he wanted was a loaf of bread from his bakery 😭 REAL RECOGNIZES REAL! I feel like we live in upside down world or something? Lol
/r/ExRedPill07/10/21 08:11 PM
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The fact that he even made the video and posted it says a lot! When I first saw him it was on the dating app bumble and I immediately thought something was off with him, but then I saw him on YouTube and thought hmm maybe this is a decent guy. I honestly still wasn’t physically attracted to him, but he’s just a disgusting person. He’s another Harvey Weinstein. He looks like he’s let this lifestyle suck the soul from him. The older I get the more I realize some people don’t get wiser as they age.…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 03:09 PM
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Lol it’s very delusional and embarrassing. It maybe for a woman that wants to live the sugar baby lifestyle, but if a woman wants any type of respect from a man this won’t really work. These women don’t seek to be middle class housewives either. They want the 1-10% of earners lol honestly it was beginning to look a lot like prostitution and one of the “teachers” even said that housewives are prostitutes. Lol yeah, that wasn’t for me. Call me crazy, but I want to have feelings for the man I’m in …
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 01:53 PM
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Basically what people would call “pick me’s” lol I’m so embarrassed to say this, because the man I went on a date with was a lawyer and he was initially attracted to my intellect. Anyway they believe women don’t need education, looks are everything, a woman should be in the kitchen and cleaning, and most of all what’s attractive to women is the hypergamy aspect where she does all this in exchange for a man with a lot of money that will spoil her. Lol spoiler alert is all bs just like rp. I do be…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 01:44 PM
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I understand that. I heard it does “work” but only in an abusive fashion. The last man I was most attracted to was so open and vulnerable. Aww he just melted my soul lol. Not in a “nice guy” way, but he was very accountable, responsible, and ambitious. I was consuming “female red pill” type content at the time and he saw right thru that. I learned a lesson that day! Being yourself is the most attractive thing you can be. When I first me him I was myself to the extreme and that’s what he was atta…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 10:56 PM
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If I didn’t want to know why would I have asked. Your childish and probably a predator too.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 10:45 PM
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😂 wow
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 10:44 PM
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Wow I wasn’t ready for that last part! Kudos to you! I wrestle back and forth with if I want to wait until marriage because the temptation is real! I’ve been 2 years celibate and I recently owned up to the fact that watching adult videos is a problem I have too so I stopped 😭. Waiting until marriage seems like a great thing to be.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 09:52 PM
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I’ve never thought a man’s height was particularly attractive. I’ve always been more attractive to shorter men for some reason. Maybe they hike up the masculinity or something idk. The tall men I dated were very romantically lazy. I don’t miss them period. I’m 5’7 and often wonder if men think I’m too tall for them, because I do get comments about my height a lot, but overall I don’t care. I want a confident man that’s not insecure about being with a “tall” woman.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 02:56 AM
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I was apart of the hypergamous community and they sort of align with red pill. The woman in followed believed women don’t need to go to college all they need is a rich husband. Looks were of the utmost importance. It’s all a big contradiction to me. I have some traditional beliefs, but they aren’t as extreme as those communities. Things such as “female dating strategy”, level up, pink pill, femininity content is just too cookie cutter, manipulative and extreme for me. I personally don’t believe …
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 05:54 PM
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This is what happens when people with unchecked mental illnesses get on a platform and are allowed to appeal to other people with unchecked mental illnesses. i just watched a video on how people with narcissism make for great reality tv, and that's the case and point here. This man is so drunk on power fueled by his mental illness that he can't even help himself. A healthy person would have some kind of healthy shame about spewing this disgust publicly for the world to see.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 01:39 PM
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A lot of these controlling nazi red pill men don’t want us to know or get what we want. It’s very abusive. It’s extremely pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 09:35 PM
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wooooo THIS THE COMMENT! And we're coined the crazy ones, but all kinds of mental health disorders are unofficially normalized within men. This reeks of personality disorders, bipolar, schizoid, adhd etc. And there's nothing wrong with having a mental health disorder, but they need to be addressed instead of driving women up the wall.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 08:23 PM
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It’s the demon logo lol.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/21 02:42 PM
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Personally yes I think they are red pill.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 07:58 PM
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I want to report him, but his wife is so brainwashed so she keeps protecting him.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 07:44 PM
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Yeah I’ve stepped back and if she reaches out I’ll let her know. Tbh I’m afraid to contact her myself. He monitors literally everything she does. I think he’s so used to it because i was at their house watching a YouTube video on my phone and asked me what I was watching lol sweetie I ain’t the 1, 2 or 3.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 05:10 AM
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He wasn’t conservative, I was somewhat trying to me. If I met him now hmmmm idk how things would go that’s a great question. He actually ghosted me, because I was being super weird trying to be submissive blah blah blah lol. He’d probably be more into me, because I’m in tuned to being myself more now, and idk how is feel about him, because he had a lot of growing to do still, but so do I. Depends on if we were both trying to grow at the same pace. He was definitely trying though. I regret follow…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 09:39 PM
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So true! I’ve been both women. One free and having zest for life and then putting out my light thinking that’s what men liked. I ended up running off a very good man trying to play the conservative airhead, because when he met me I was wild and free lol. Now that I’ve staunchly against all that high value bull junk those men do get a whiff of me and scatter. They stumble on their words and nervously laugh when they hear me speak, because I will not force myself into a corner to make them feel bi…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 05:08 PM
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One friend in had dated this guy since she was 13 and they got married at 22. He cheated on her when they were like 15/16 (they were already sexually active and stuff). He full on left her for another girl that went to the high school he went to so my friend transferred to that high school and got back with him. I didn’t think it was a great idea, but he tattooed her name on his chest so that was good enough for her. I think he also got sick during their college days and she ended up completing …
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 04:55 PM
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🙄 marriage is not bad. Marriage to the wrong person is bad.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 04:23 PM
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Yes she knows he watches the stuff, and she tries to ignore it and says he’s just watching “his YouTube stuff”, but I don’t think she realizes how dangerous it is to ignore it. She really thinks he will change, but who cares if he’s already curing you and beating you? He’s also said that he’s not going to deal with anymore black woman LMFAO that’s the most funny part. The delusion is real fr. They have cameras all over the house, he has a tracker on her phone, he hacks her email and social media…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 09:47 PM
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😳 30+ years!? I used to hear about those long marriages and think awwww now I get curious about the truth. As a woman I used to want to be married so badly and now after seeing friends and family’s bad marriages I’m glad I’ve at least learned the truth about marriage and it ain’t a Hollywood movie.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 09:05 PM
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His wife won’t cooperate, and the domestic abuse hotline said if she doesn’t cooperate the police won’t do anything.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 08:04 PM
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I called the domestic abuse hotline yesterday and they said unless she presses charges there’s nothing I can do. I’ve told her time and time again she’s in danger and she does not listen. He has her very brainwashed.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 08:00 PM
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It’s a weird place to be right now. I use dating apps and I’m a pretty attractive woman, and I’ve been on dates with men that seem to get very beside themselves if I show them the tiniest bit of respect. Personally I just believe in being kind, and courteous, but I will get very unkind when they deserve the treatment.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 06:56 PM
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News flash, they all get into it for the money. Like Scarface said “first you get the money, then your get the power, then your get the women”. Red pill is a lot of guy’s vehicle to that.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 06:51 PM
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I think they want to see us women destitute so they can abuse us.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 01:43 AM
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Lol and they say this as if they can pay a woman’s bills. What a lot of these red pills want is a live prostitute or sex slave which is completely disgusting.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 01:41 AM
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This one guy says texting and talking on the phone should only be used for arranging dates. I kinda agree. Theres only so many dates you can go one so maybe 2-4 dates a month I would think. Who has time to date more than once a week? Unless the relationship is exclusive, but still. I’m an adult I got stuff to do. There’s also this guy that says people should talk almost daily for 15-60 mins. Sometimes I’m just not in the mood and in the beginnings stages I don’t want to share every bit of my day…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:54 AM
3

When I was 22 I dated a man that was 17 years older than me and it was one of the worst dating experiences of my life. After him I vowed to never date an “older” man again. I see now how disgustingly inappropriate that was. The way he behaved at times were childish and manipulative. I thought I was dating someone that would be a mature leader and he was none of that. Now when older men try to hit on me i definitely do not take them seriously and I do kind of pity them. Like why can’t you get a w…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 07:30 AM
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My ex told me he would never date a woman with daddy issues again meanwhile he was still kissing his mommy on the lips at 24 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:20 PM
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🤢🤮 throw the man AWAY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:37 PM
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I’m with you on this one. Sex and all that is a tricky thing. Once she’s hooked it’s going to take an army to unhook that woman. My dad is 65 and tells me he’s dating a 26 yo. She’s younger than 4 out of 5 of his children. I’m not saying a thing. I already know it may be a doomed relationship, but I know it will end up blowing up in my face if I say something/warn her. I’m not putting myself in the line of Fire for people who will do what they want anyway. Then when she does get fed up she will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:20 PM
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Last week I unfollowed all those subs. It was just too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:53 AM
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I thought I was going crazy. What’s with the lube these days? I dated a man and we had a VERY thriving sex life with no lube. The last guy I saw pulled out lube and I was literally clueless. Like when did this become “a thing”? Never understood lube. Still kinda don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:49 AM
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Lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:36 PM
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It’s the competition that women feed into when that say this. It sickens me that women think boyfriends and husbands are unicorns. When they say this it’s from a braggadocios place in my opinion. I know a woman that does this with her husband and yes he may be awesome, but she values the relationship too much and wants to rub it in everyone’s face since most women she know is single. If a woman has non-single friends that can relate to this sentiment, fine, but screaming this to single women is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 05:11 PM
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Lmao I AGREE! And it’s a long story why I dreaded anyone that I wanted to perceive me a certain way to never even pick me up from my door. It’s got worse. This is why I say it’s so important for mothers to love and value their daughters at home and to lead by example showing them what it acceptable and what is not. He came from a very in tact family and they welcomed me with open arms. I was not used to that type of acceptance or behavior from parents. Especially parents of their status. He was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:03 AM
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Women must treat their daughters better. I used to do this in hs and my grandma tried to tell me to get him to come to the door, which when I told him he did. He was and is 100% HVM. I only used to run out the door because I HATED being home. My mom was very abusive, dad absent and family dysfunctional. If I have a daughter (which I want one day) I want her to feel loved and valued at home,not like she needs to run away from home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:18 PM
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Sounds like you’re thinking WAY too highly of these males which is a mistake a ton of us have made. The other responses are amazing I would just like to add NEVER put any man on a pedestal at any point, which can turn into an unhealthy obsession. A lot of these men love bomb at the beginning and that effectively puts women in chokehold for years. Don’t let what should be a 2 week thing a 2 year thing. Know when to cut men off and let go. If he wants to chase you for years let him, but don’t be t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:32 PM
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This is pof and if you are a pretty lady just take some pics, put a little effort to describe yourself in a unique way in your bio and watch the messages pour in. My popularity is very high for whatever reason on this app and I believe I was live for one hour one day and got 1k viewers from all over the world as well as earned the diamonds that be converted into money. These men be fighting in the chat LMAO. I don’t think I will ever meet anyone from this site IRL, but this can be a legal stream…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:11 AM
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And expect women to just ignore that hairline starting from behind their ears and oh don’t say anything about it, then we’re evil LMAO 🤣😂🤣😂 I dated a man with a harsh receding hairline and I kid you not I dated this man for 3 years and he wore a beanie alllllll the time including shower and sex. I should have flamed him when I had the chance. My sister was encouraging me to do so, but I was too much of a “nice girl” to do so back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:37 PM
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Lol long? This message was the furthest thing. These OLD apps are the only access these poor males have to women that they would never be able to have in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:01 AM
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Girl they AREEEEEEEEE. I went on a date with a 28 year old and he didn’t know if he wanted to be mature or immature, date older women or women his age. He was a fucking cocaine snorting, cigarette inhaling mess. He really reminds me of Big Ed from 90 day. He’s honestly cute and I think Ed was too back in the day, but eats like shit just like Ed and I just see him every time I see Ed. These men think they will be James Dean forever. Whoops better die young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:52 AM
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LMAO I’m a seasoned woman actually older than this male and I do not bother with younger men. Maybe the younger me would feel bad, but chilllllllle I’ve been on the rodeo for YEARS. My only hope is to inform younger black women of these men to not internalize this self hate and maybe non black women to dodge a bullet if they care, but he may be better matched with one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:45 AM
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Honestly I can’t even blame those women for using these men to get what they can. Just leave black women tf alone because I will IGNORE! That pains them lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:16 PM
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Boom! He could have left it at that! That’s what the other men do lol. They get in that inbox and start giving all kinds of complements lol at least their smart enough to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:59 PM
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They want a seat at the table by way of white, Asian and other non black women and that’s the real tea! It’s seen as a social upgrade for them. They want all the spoils of war without actually going to war! That’s why a black man that doesn’t treat black women with respect will wine another woman. He just wants a seat and that’s fine with me. Be gone dusty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:58 PM
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This is why when I see black men with non black women I NEVER get jealous. Some of them are really in love and things, but a ton of them are running from self hate and I wouldn’t want this man abusing an innocent black woman who does no deserve that poor treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:49 PM
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An insult, poor grammar and admission of laziness lol . He really did himself in. This is why they date pick me’s. She would have laughed it off and probably given this person a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:46 PM
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Yes us women can be too loose lipped and men suck it all up and wait you spit it back out into our faces. I used to feel guilty for having “secrets” but hindsight being 20/20 everybody has a past and men aren’t entitled to know all of our perceived mistakes. No man is entitled to knowing EVERYTHING about your past. Even my dad told me I never have to explain myself to anyone and I see what he means. I recently another man tell me that too. Tbh men really prefer to not know. Let them put us on pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:35 PM
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It stands for online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:31 PM
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Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl. I will NEVER take OLD seriously. It’s full of entitled and lazy men. It’s great for promo if you want to build an online presence tho lol. Especially with all the new live features and we can also make money from it. They give you these “diamonds” and you can convert them to cash 😜.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:45 PM
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Yeah I saw a segment on Oprah where a woman jumped in front of an SUV, got ran over and became paralyzed to save her children’s lives and the husband left her smh. Never freaking settle. Anything could happen and settling for a LVM is too risky and being rejected from LVM can be such a blessing in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:34 PM
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It’s weird af! And tbh it’s feminine af! Like dude are you attracted to me or jealous that I’m going to get more attention than you? Last time I checked ALL women have a beauty routine and even women of other races don’t just roll out of bed looking like the crypt keeper. We all do a little sprucing up. The hair thing is just stupid and ignorant and any black man coming to me with that hair bull crap is not getting one bit of respect from me. I don’t want to hear any of that “da whyte mane holdi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:28 AM
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Lmao tbh he’s such a great guy he deserves a chance 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:11 AM
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Lol imagine typing that foolishness out, sending it and thinking you’re going to get an actual chance. Lmao come get ya mans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:14 AM
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They’re the main ones screaming from the roof tops about how the white man is holding them back all while trying to hold black women back. Nice try, but nope not gonna work over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:11 AM
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Lol it’s not a secret. I’m no kid. I know the truth and I’m open to dating outside of my race as well, but not for the reasons black men do. Black men are such an embarrassment to be honest. No man of any other race does this to women in their race and plenty of them have been abused by their mothers too. It’s deep why they hate black women and it has nothing to do with their mothers and other things it’s all about being jealous of white men and men of other races, yet being too LAZY to do anyth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:57 AM
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🤣😂🤣😂 that’s what I’m sayin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:50 AM
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Yes it’s self hate. He doesn’t want someone he think may have hair like his because he hates his own hair which is very sad, but don’t bring that self hate and low self esteem over here! My self esteem and self worth is high af and would NEVER entertain such a loser. I can already tell he is very abusive from this comment alone! Good luck to all the women who pass the hair test LMAO. I’m an actual adult and while I maintain my hair to the utmost I have plenty of other priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:46 AM
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My head stays up. This is one of hundreds of messages I get and he’s definitely not my type. He can look at me and tell I’m out of his league and that’s his problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:36 AM
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LMAO you’ve perfectly summed up the trash that has been trending lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:34 AM
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When I was 22 I dated a 39 yo and I thought I was soooooo special lol like “picked” lmao sound familiar. Your post is Golden I hope young women hear you. I certainly learned my lesson. Hindsight does not always have to be 20/20 when wise women are sharing real life experience and giving great advice on how to avoid these bad traumatic experiences. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:20 PM
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This is why as a black woman I HATE being called sTrOnG and qUeEn. Those are code words for I’m gonna walk all over you, abuse you , misuse you and praise you for silently enduring this. No thanks. Men that call women sTrOnG are cringe af and men that call me qUeEn get massively ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:01 PM
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This is giving me vibes of an older LVM i used to date. He was so threatened by my inevitable independence. When my car broke down he was fine knowing I was stranded, when my iPhone got stolen from his car he offered to buy me an Android knowing I preferred iPhones, when I moved into my first place I asked him to assemble my bed frame and he said I could just sleep with the mattress on the floor for a while (fuck no). He knew I was making decent money seeing as I was working to level myself up h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:52 PM
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The standard is so freaking low. I would like to know if he is requesting sex as well. That would just be cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:43 PM
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I’ve never lived with a man thank god because I can only imagine the uncomfortable horror it would be. I worked for a married couple and the husband was a penny pincher even tho technically it was the wife’s business and she was the breadwinner before that as an accountant. He flirted with me and was clearly a LVM. I couldn’t deal. It’s also a mix of having a poverty mentality that there will never be enough of whatever said thing. That’s actually an expensive mindset to have. I never want to da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:26 PM
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She ALWAYS talked about him doing things for her as if she expected him to owe her. She felt like she wasn’t using her college degree so that had her in a distressed state all the time. She was also in a dire situation where her mother recently passed away and I don’t think she got along with her father. She was an “adjunct” roommate of ours meaning we made a spacious side room into a bedroom for her so she didn’t have the level of privacy we had. I think she expected way more from the male ex a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:58 PM
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Ugh sadly I think this is a woman. She seems young, and wants to be anywhere but at home with her family. I used to do this. Latch on to men because I didn’t want to be at home. I’ll bet he isn’t even taking that good care of her. Even a micro amount of attention is great for some women these days smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:17 PM
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He tried to say he didn’t date her until she was 18 🙄 he basically groomed her and thought he could do the same to me. I’ll be 28 next month so he can only groom me with some money. Which he tried and admitted he wasn’t well off enough for what I’m used to. He thought he was 10 years older than me so (him 34 and me 24). I dated a man 17 years older than me when I was in my early 20’s and never ever ever do I want to do that again or wish that type of mental, emotional and physical trauma on anyo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:06 PM
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Girl the dating streets so fucked some women are happy to just BE around a man that is willing to call her his gIrLfRiEnD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:03 AM
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Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl hahahaha! Girl a man that has been dating a woman since she was 15 and he was 18 officially broke up with her when she was 30. LMAO. He blamed the entire break and all the problems on her of course. Also happened to an old roommate. Dated an older man from 20-30, he dumped her for a woman he knocked up and the old roommate turned lezbo I’m sure from MAJOR trauma. One thing I promised myself was that I would not let a man waste my 20’s. 2 year left and I’m riding this t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:59 AM
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Lol I saw this and I was so confused 😐 he’s really got control over her this early smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:44 AM
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He probably cheated to try and have some power over his wife and it failed. She was like tf BYE 👋🏽 I was doing you the favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:56 AM
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I’m sure she is very scarred after “making love” 🤮 I
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:54 AM
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It’s best to be entertained and informed lol. These are also some of the most manipulative men ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:05 PM
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I’ve been waiting on that from one of these guys. They have all been walking on eggshells lately. I think they sense I dgaf and will promptly block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:12 AM
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Lolllll basically they are man children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:53 AM
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Read this last night and WHEW. Learned something new. Gay cruising smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:30 PM
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I don’t think porn, sex dolls etc. will ever be a replacement for a real human woman. I’ve heard men compare having sex with a sex doll To necrophilia. Porn is said to also be very destructive to male psyche, social skills and physical performance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:23 AM
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Honestly I don’t think they can stop. They’re very desperate and a desperate person will go to many lengths to try and get their fix. I know majority of women are just not biting during this pandemic especially HVW. Which is making men more desperate. Dr. Oz spoke about why men are getting covid-19 more than women and I think this is why. Desperate men. Covid-19 is draining the swamp and exposing men. I mean seeking cuddle buddies during a pandemic!? Does it get more moronic than that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:33 AM
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These men more than likely have zero self worth and are maliciously trying to put women at risk. Then they will find some way to blame the woman. I also think they are not prepared like most women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:21 AM
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I got tricked by the “cuddle” line once. Didn’t have sex, but built a REALLY strong connection to him the first night I met him just from cuddling. A lot of these men have observed many woman and know what makes us “comfortable”. Also eye contact is another strong bond builder. I used to have sex with one man that insisted I look him I the eyes during sex and there is something about eye contact that triggers a difficult to break emotional bond in women subconsciously. It can be used on men also…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:16 AM
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Girl it’s subs full of pickmes confessing about how they know it’s unsafe, but they’re still having risky sex with men. If he was a HVM before this he’s still being one during this time and he’s a LVM he’s still being the same during this time 9/10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 01:15 PM
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I met a white guy I thought was really cute maybe for his age idk. He was 28,29 now. I saw pictures of him when he was younger, maybe 25 and the difference was cray. He was soooooo cute. He does every drug known to man, eats out like crazy, watches a ton of porn and said he’d just gotten out of an 8 year relationship. He still has a very full and thick head of hair, but he told me he gained like 30-40 pounds in 3 years. That didn’t seem like much to me maybe because I really liked him. Then I re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:27 AM
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Girrrrrrrrrrrl why do they do this? One guy’s profile says 27 and in the bio he says 37, divorced, blah blah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:09 AM
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Girl men like that are trash! Leave his behind on read next time and go on a hot date!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:31 PM
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Girrrrrl point blank period. I don’t have time for the crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:46 PM
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Post 2 And that’s exactly why they went silent. So YOU can reflect and overthink it. Which is their purpose for it. A part of the silent treatment is they know they were wrong because you’re checking him. Post 3 So the way the mind works if you’re in silence and they’re not apologizing or owning what they did. Then you’ll start to over analyze the situation and think you were wrong. Now you may say to yourself “next time to avoid this, I’m not going to say anything.” Allowing the behavior!! Post…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:45 PM
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Ugh they always want women to be able to “take a joke” at the expense of our dignity or self esteem. A man once told me something like “he makes the vagina dirty” my respect for him was already declining and at that point I was disgusted. We’d be having sex for years and the situation was going nowhere. If he was trying to push me away he definitely succeeded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 11:55 PM
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It’s always something wrong with a man that is married yet lurks on a woman that he dated way way back. I’ve unfriended married flings from college that always felt the need to make their presence known. I can only imagine what their wives go thru. These men will gaslight women to hell so no explanation is needed to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 11:30 PM
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Charge it to the game. I’ve been there. You’re not getting the money back. He will continue to waste your time and slow drip you $20 here and $20 there and you will still end up wasting more time and money on him by not cutting him off. He already knows your ways and he knows he can manipulate you. You will float like a butterfly when you cut him off and the universe will give you your money back 10 fold. I don’t want to sound all whimsical, but I’ve experienced it myself. While I was attached t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 11:17 PM
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Girl I don’t understand how these people don’t see work as work! I valued my time away from work so much and I NEVER wanted to think about anyone there away from work. We all get lonely, but there are billions of people to entertain outside I work and thank goodness for it. This is also how a woman can get stuck at a job she doesn’t want to be at for years. Unrequited loyalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:56 PM
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Girl I went on a date with a lawyer once that told me he cheated on his ex gf with a coworker then he continues to say “don’t worry she doesn’t work there anymore” this is the fate for a woman that craps where she eats. The man will be victorious, even if he’s victorious anyway I would rather leave with my dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:53 PM
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And if you have any issues contact higher ups and if higher ups are corrupt look into legal action. You shouldn’t be ostracized because you want work at work. Being cordial. courteous and a team player is one thing, but being forced do things outside of your job description is another. Document any behavior that you don’t like if full description. If you don’t value the job start sending off your resumes ASAP and don’t turn down one interview so when they draw the final straw you can send that r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:51 PM
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Wow this is such a great post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 11:20 AM
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The old “you didn’t text me first” 🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:51 AM
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Young equals dumb to these narcopaths. This age divide is something men created to make women fight each other. I realized this when I noticed younger women were trying to bully me because of the favor I was shown because of the professional way I carried myself. But I thought younger was better girl? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:15 AM
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Marking their fake territory. These men don’t want to be controlled and feel trapped. This can actually make this “work husband” punish and abuse them, but these women love being mentally abused so much that they create the avenue for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:11 AM
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Sit back and sip your tea. She will learn or she will repeat the same mistakes over and over again. I’ve also opted out of giving these women advice. They will just call you jealous. Lol ok, but guess who’s not getting pumped and dumped for thank yous?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:39 AM
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I had a friend like this. She came from a better family than me so I knew I had to be more disciplined with my personal life as well. She was married and divorced by 24, then had a baby by a man she met in a 3rd world country. She tried to set me up with his poor friends and I constantly told her I was not ready to date anyone because I was focused on finishing college and building myself up. She’d already graduated and was making good money. I couldn’t afford to make the mistakes she was making…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:21 AM
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I hate when men try and approach me in the grocery store with “what’s for dinner” idk whatever your mother is cooking I guess, because I’m not her 🖕🏾 off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:10 AM
25

They’re gonna call you a bitch anyway. I’ve learned to expect that and not take it personally. Embrace it lol. And whatever you do NEVER engage in gossip at work. If they are gossiping to you they will gossip about you, they probably already are anyway. That’s why this work husband junk is bs. Don’t make yourself a target. Keep it cordial and be courteous with everyone. They used to call me “nice nasty” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:54 AM
30

For my age I would say “I don’t tell people my age” in a coy way. That may seem petty but it’s my decision. For “children and single” sometimes I would say I’m not single just to get them off my back, sometimes I would just smile and ask them “are you single” and when they would answer I would say “good to know” and walk away. For the children same thing. Basically disarm them by flipping the switch and turning the spotlight on them, chuckle a little to yourself and get back to work. That usuall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:46 AM
5

Lol I ignore them and let them flirt with me. That’s better entertainment. You should see how men worship women that ignore them. I used to walk in class and it would be like “world stop, carry on. Pretty on fleek” but girl do you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:44 AM
16

Well ok different strokes. If you’re with a mature man and you guys turn exclusive ok, but a lot of these men see it as just a work jump off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:33 AM
69

I worked at a job where my coworkers tried so hard to get in my personal business asking me questions like “do you have children” “how old are you” “are you single” and things like that. I refused to answer. They would sleep over each other’s house, get drunk together and hangout outside of work and they didn’t like me because I would leave directly after work. But low and behold it was TONSSSSSS of drama amongst everyone that was “friends”. I quit that job happily. I 100% believe the philosophy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:20 AM
35

I was ghosted because i wouldn’t give up the cookie on the first date and I don’t regret a thing! I’m not religious and I still don’t believe in casual sex! Casual sex for women is self harm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:17 PM
43

Lol all we need is a couple of women and we can lift anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 02:25 PM
3

So freaking happy for you! I just screenshot a quote by Beyoncé that said “You have to have a life before becoming someone’s wife” I think you are nailing it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:13 PM
7

Lol I’m not sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:00 AM
7

😂🤣😂🤣 All men are crazy hell! White men are a particular type tho 😂🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:00 AM
40

Tough love boo 😘. I had to stop lying to myself and entertaining delusions as well 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:05 AM
7

Please believe me he knows he is capable of taking care of himself, he also knew he could pull your strings and manipulate you. It’s a shame how men can be so pathetic that they abuse women that actually like them. I’ve been there. Always wait for a man to invest in you, because please believe if a man wants a woman he will. If he’s not budging then don’t waste your time or let him waste your time. He knows he’s wasting your time. Never let a man that is not investing in you take you off the mar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:07 PM
2

🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:06 AM
5

Lol facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:05 AM
7

Ugh they are so flipping annoying! If I could wipe him from existence I would. Lol I guess I can in my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:56 PM
10

Yesssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:30 PM
3

Lol cockholm syndrome 🤣😂🤣😂 for sure. A wise woman advised not to kiss a man for the first 3 months of dating because it indicates to a woman’s brain that the vetting process is over and she’s found “the one”. My mind was blown. I stopped casual sex years ago, but thought kissing was harmless.... it’s not. I fell super hard for a man I kissed on the first date. Never again. I’m sure her “man” is getting plenty of free sex and she just gets to be crazy for free smh. Cockholm syndrome is REAL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:30 PM
8

I peeped that “I want to get to know you” as well. Ugh like I would ever let him put his disgusting body on me 🤢 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:15 PM
3

It appears these ugly broke men are very audacious. I guess that’s their strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:09 PM
16

I learned men who brag about their money and things like that are usually bad with money. A high earning lawyer with a bad drug habit taught me that. When I first met him he flat out admitted he makes a lot of money, but he’s bad with it. He was a poly user deeply in student debt and had bloodsucking family members. That 6 figures only goes so far when they’re spending like the wolf of wallstreet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:08 PM
18

Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl I had almost the same thing happen to me, but the man didn’t make 6 figures. This classmate of mines begged me for WEEKS to let him take me to lunch so I finally said ok and went and got a pizza slice with him. When it was time to pay and he said he was only paying for his . I though WOW and paid for mine. He had the nerve to say something like “ if I act right he’ll pay next time” I was rolling my eyes so hard in my head thinking “NEXT TIME!?” There definitely will NEVER h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:03 PM
3

Lol sounds about like my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:57 PM
1

🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🤣😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 11:13 PM
2

He’s a loser and he feels the burn! Good girl, make him suffer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 09:47 PM
13

Like first 5 seconds lol. I was meeting up with a guy and during convo he said he did meth and I said “what?” And he said “what’s wrong with meth?” And basically never brought that back up again. Looking back I should just collected my things left. Later I found out he also did coke and I guess was an alcoholic too. At the time I smoked weed so I must’ve been really high or wanting someone to get high with so I kinda shrugged it off. Looking back now after catching feelings for him because drug …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 05:07 PM
89

Chile I gave an ugly guy a chance once and THIS IS EXACTLY HOW HE STARTED ACTING. I even grew to like this guy. I had to let that btch go. Blocked him on social media because he wouldn’t stop watching my stories fckin weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 02:09 AM
19

Lmao this is the preface of every man who knew what I’d been thru and come along with a dump truck to run over my feelings just to make sure I was dead 💀 Men are a piece of work for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 02:44 PM
2

Bang Bang I’m calling your name 😍🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 01:37 PM
3

Tinder is such a salacious place to me that I don’t think it’s a place for children. Even people with children don’t post their children, but that’s just me. I also don’t have children, but I have nephews an young cousins that I see no point in posting. Thanks for your input tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 06:45 AM
4

🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 07:00 AM
20

Boom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 02:40 PM
9

Just like f*ck boy TI trying to convince women that there can only be ONE female rapper. That doesn’t even make sense logically since there are supposedly more women on earth than men (let them tell it) and we are famously creative and influential in the arts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 05:55 AM
3

We’ll figure it out! But do what you have to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:37 PM
3

🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:01 PM
5

Most men aren’t that smart, but do some digging. Also don’t be afraid to be bold. Ask to see his license. A man recently told me that women set the boundaries in relationships and idk your familial history such as if you had a dad in your life, but I didn’t for a long time so I’m just now learning how to navigate romantic relationships with men. Anyway if he refuses to legally identify himself run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 04:57 PM
5

Those are the MOST peculiar pictures. I never understood exactly what that was about. The ones that do it look the LEAST valuable and lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 03:30 AM
11

WOW! I’m learning to NEVER put anyone on a pedestal especially based on their own word of themselves. Gotta get the googles done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:56 PM
3

When I was on Tinder (which I now think is a dead end app for the most part) I would swipe left in any man that was smiling too much, had shirtless pictures, flaunting random women, drinking and smoking. For some reason i don’t trust a man who’s grinning from ear to ear in every picture. That’s thirst trappy to me, just my opinion. I’ve had bad experience with charmers. I like a more serious looking man. Oh and all that middle finger stuff is definitely not the move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:42 PM
7

Girrrrrrrrl I will do background checks from now on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 10:24 PM
5

Yessss All these ladies on here talking about SnapChat, Kik and all that stuff NOOOOOOO! Get a burner number! I’m not telling them what I THINK I’m telling them what I KNOW! But hey some women like to bump their heads a million times before they learn. I don’t get it .... when someone is telling you good logical advice LISTEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 10:58 PM
-3

IMO it is a thing and I don’t want to get into a relationship with a beta male all because I refuse to believe it’s a thing. It’s totally a thing. Sorry to break it to you, but all humans were not created equal. Men come from all different types of family dynamics and it’s better (IMO) to learn that and not be willfully ignorant. That’s why we need strategy. To vet and weed out the ones unfit for relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 12:56 PM
7

Heck no. That has stalker written all over it. I never ever ever give them my social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 06:48 AM
2

Shut em dowwwwwwn !!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 01:09 AM
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