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Such a shame even memes can't be posted here anymore. The website just isn't the same and honestly, with that switch you unfortunately lost me. Discussions ssem to have become so much more alike and even success stories don't seem to be shared anymore. Missing the old days 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/23 02:47 AM
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I don't get it. The website can still be screenshotted and all of the the posts as well, right? Edit: I listened to the podcast and didn't realize the subreddit was private. I completely understand the reasoning of the mods but just find it a shame it's all on the website now. I probably won't be checking it as much, it's difficult to navigate and the app is as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/22 04:05 PM
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I will! Should I be reporting my own post? 😂 (All jokes aside, sorry again)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 02:45 AM
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My bad, sorry! I saw similar posts here and just posted this here too 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 02:42 AM
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This really opened my eyes. I had no idea how badly I was looking out for myself until your post. I'm a naturally really empathic and forgiving person, which is why I need to start vetting even more. Also, I now realise I was blinded by his looks, career and status more than anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 02:33 AM
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Thanks for the tough love. Was much needed. Your comment made me realize I've been way too much up in the clouds, primarily because of his looks and career. I just needed to hear it from other people (who don't know him) to do what I know I should've done earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 02:03 AM
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Thanks for this reality check. Needed it. I didn't know his age when I met him btw, he looks way younger (in a way of having good genes). I'll definitely reread the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 01:59 AM
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Completely agree. It's not even logically correct to blame everything on the mother. Great post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:56 PM
103

Oh god. The audacity of some men is immeasurable. Happy she's now free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:47 PM
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I got sick reading this 🤮 happy she got out, but the children are stuck for life, damn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:44 PM
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I feel you. Likewise for me. These guys are just so used to women catering their demands that they're surprised a woman can have standards at that age. They expect women to have no self worth. So they have no idea what happens when a woman does have it and puts clear boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:58 AM
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Such a good point! And how she's getting love bombed/doing it herself (?). Not sure on that one yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:55 AM
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Can someone tell me what's up with these celebrities and involving blood in their marriages? (Cf. Angelina Jolie doing the same) Maybe it's just a sign of their mental stability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:53 AM
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So glad this post is stickied! Society brainwashed us and guilts us about not going 50/50, but it's only ever to the advantage of men. Can't even come up with one reason how going 50/50 would be beneficial to the woman involved. Not one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:04 PM
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Omg Justin Bieber's songs are a garbage fire, I 100% agree. Can't stand him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:37 PM
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Have all of my upvotes!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I know it's a loaded question! I'm dating again myself and noticed how in the early stages it's sometimes difficult to tell the difference , so I thought it might help others as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:00 PM
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Round of applause for listening to your gut, standing up for yourself and your friend!! Well done and great to hear how FDS practices help people IRL 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:37 PM
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He'll try to somehow portray himself as a HV, paying for things but never too expensive. He knows you're out of his league and clings onto you for his dear life (but in a non obvious way). He wants to use your network in any way, shape or form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:48 PM
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Yes. This counts for family too, I've come to realise my dad is a LVM unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:46 PM
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Oh god, I just read the first sentence and then knew I didn't even need to read the rest of that post. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:45 PM
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Never. Not once. Its difficult to find a man who's deliberately single, because most men prefer regular sex or company (even if it's bad) over being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:44 PM
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To everyone saying it was a publicity stunt: why would they even quarantine together? Have you even seen parts from his documentary 'Wonder'? Very clear in that documentary they were a real couple and were in love. I do however think, that since Camila gained so much weight (in comparison to how skinny she was before) did play a part in the spark fizzling out and their breakup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:04 PM
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OLD app: Turned a man down after he told me he broke up with his ex and called her a whore. Wasn't actively checking OLD afterwards and when I reopened the dating app he messaged me "Please reconsider I won't push but I'd really like to meet. There aren't a lot of attractive women on here and your kind of attractive." Quickest block and delete!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:58 PM
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Yeah. Clearly. What's the thing with the WiFi network being another than your home network? Could you explain the reasoning behind that? I'm not super tech savvy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:07 PM
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Good idea! Maybe go shopping too, buy something nice for myself. You don't know how much I held back not shouting "and daddy is clearly a prick". Only because the child was there and I didn't want to embarrass her (the mom) further, I didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:55 PM
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I would scream from the crowd 'RUN WHILE YOU CAN' in stead of enabling his subpar behaviour by laughing. And that coming from a man, who's not even that attractive from what I can see (beer bellies typically aren't a sign of looking after yourself). I feel for her. Wish she discovered FDS and would've dumped his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:05 PM
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If you watch Manifest - the dad Ben is a HVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:23 PM
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Thanks so much for sharing this! Happy you found a HVM that's also handsome. Any insights in your change around moment (if any) and journey getting there (apart from the FDS Handbook of course) are very welcome! Btw: by the sound of it, you're gorgeous yourself! (And I mean on the inside ❤️)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:50 PM
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Completely agree. Wanted to respond the exact same thing. The general demographic on Reddit isn't representative of the whole population and you'll only find HVM and HVW to a much lesser extent, unless you're on this sub of course ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:57 PM
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This is so true! On all fronts. It's so saddening to see magazines that have a substantial influence on young girls abuse their power to make them pickmeisha's and make sure the next generation of NVM/LVM have disillusioned girls who'll accept their crappy behaviour thinking it's the norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:52 PM
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He's been (rumoured) to have been drugging Britney with her dad. Also he took the opportunity to speak out on several matters with the Free Britney movement, without her consent, before the legal case even. Telling everyone she was happy and they had nothing to worry about. He also moved in with her quickly, seems to me like he's using her for money and might want lifelong child support from her (like her ex).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:18 PM
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Wow. Her own mother gave her dad the idea of the hell she was in. I do hope she doesn't follow through with having children with her user NVM boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:21 PM
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This is the exact reasons why I don't want guy friends. Always hidden agendas and not showing their true colours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:08 PM
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The only real solution is to make your own decisions. Believe in your own strength. You know better than to be abused and only you can break the cycle of abuse. It's so alarming when people tell you you'll end up alone for high standards. The only thing you'll end up without is an abuser. Better to be alone a little longer than being abused. You're not a pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:00 PM
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This is so relatable. I think everyone can relate to this in some way. Either a crush that's not putting in effort or an ex coming back in an underwhelming way. Side note: proven to be true - men sliding in DMs slide in those of other women at the same time, they just want to see who'll take the bait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:42 AM
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Just checked: she's 31, he's 42
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:51 PM
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Thank goodness someone is finally calling him out on it. Happy the YouTuber himself has over half a million subscribers and uses his platform to raise awareness. Wouldn't put it past Leo to contract his relationships with the women until they've reached a certain age. Huge red flag he's known her since she was 11. How does her mother not say anything about this? I'll never understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:29 PM
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She has probably only ever known abusive, toxic and codependent relationships. I'm a firm believer in the principle you get the love you think you deserve. Also: another red flag, like you said, she's pretty young, which makes him even more predatory to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:15 PM
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Notice how he starts with the humiliation and then only says he loves her for 2-3 more years? Toxic, abusive relationship to me. Screams like he's treating her like a maid, he'll end his 'contract' with in 2-3y. God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:41 PM
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Congrats!!! Keep killing it 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:40 PM
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This post is so uplifting and great! Always heartwarming to see FDS'ers uplifting other women ❤️🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:36 PM
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Party for all the women seeing the light! 🥳🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:34 PM
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Oh god. What a disaster waiting to happen. I sincerely can't understand what goes on in the brainwashed mind of this woman. Hope she'll eventually see she's living in a fantasy world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:34 PM
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I LOVE THIS! Some suggestions: Demi Lovato - Sorry Not Sorry, Little Mix - Power, Little Mix -Strip, Jojo - High Heels, Anne-Marie - Ciao Adios, Anne-Marie - Bad Girlfriend, Anne-Marie- Don't Play, Mabel - Don't Call Me Up, Mabel - I belong to me, Mabel & AJ Tracey - West Ten, Mabel - Bad Behaviour, Sabrina Carpenter - Sue Me, Dua Lipa - IDGAF, Lizzo - Good as hell, Doja Cat - Boss Bitch, Selena Gomez - De Una Vez, Kygo & Selena Gomez - It Ain't Me, London Grammar - Lose your head, Bebe Rexha - …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:41 PM
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Wth?! And these commetns: "You should just let this go" lmao. The only thing she should let go of, is him, boy byeeeeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:54 PM
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Ahhhhh, makes my heart so happy to hear that! Thanks for sharing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:34 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:33 PM
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It should be emphasized more that men do these things for women they love. I'm super happy for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:00 PM
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This is heartwarming and beautiful!!! Your mom sounds like a badass woman and great mom! (and your dad too, obviously!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:49 PM
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It's the lie told by male dominated society to brainwash women and prevent the female empowerment movement from making sure this industry disappears (in its current shape) as it is damaging to women in all sorts of forms. (Not even mentioning how exploited women usually are in the industry). Let's be honest here - if society didn't brainwash women into thinking this is "empowering", the protests in recent years would also have entailed women protesting against this abuse. Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:37 PM
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This is so painfully true and accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:59 AM
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YES! I feel the same way, the more women will have standards, the more they will put themselves first and a societal change will be there in the long run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:57 AM
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Same here, when in doubt, it's obviously not a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:56 AM
5

Yes, I never even got that far, all of it so true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:55 AM
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Yes, it's so damn true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:53 AM
5

This is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:59 PM
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Who are men to say a woman can have no body hair at all, while his chest and back are full of it? And then judging us for the very little and light hair we have at our forearms. Screw them and their hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:50 PM
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And are too bossy and rude when they're direct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:48 PM
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Love her energy and attitude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:48 PM
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This is hilarious and sad at the same time. I'm confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:44 PM
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Jesus. Clearly addicted. I'm in shock honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:39 PM
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Basically you need to elevate my fragile ego, in every way possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:38 PM
2

Damn. This hits too close to home. Never explicitly told me, but I'm sure my ex felt that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:36 PM
2

Oh happy for you!!! How did you meet him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:33 PM
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No-one in their right mind would lie about that to a therapist. That response was exactly what she was telling people not to do. UGhhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:33 PM
2

"Why would I do that" hahahaaaaa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:43 PM
2

This is so amazing!!! Women uplifting and helping each other, yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:27 PM
2

This is hilarious! Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:25 PM
3

HAHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:24 PM
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"Because"??? The nerve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:24 PM
5

Gonna do this with my girls lol, we'll be drunk in no time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:22 PM
2

YESS!! Leave as fast as you can or he'll keep doing it. Much love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:20 PM
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Seriously? Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:16 PM
2

Hahaha this is so accurate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:49 AM
3

HAHAHA 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:45 PM
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If they want to, they will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:30 PM
1

I know I'm late, but happy birthday!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:27 PM
2

Oh this list is so good! I would also love to be mentored!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:21 PM
11

Also applies to sugar dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:59 PM
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That article is so disturbing. YIKES. Especially the note about how one man got out before his wife (Rose McGowan ) went crazy and was the last one to get her in a 'bangable state' WTH?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:55 PM
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Of course they don't. Huge red flag I learned too late unfortunately. Bet my ex is telling all his friends how crazy I am. I'll repeat and quote Taylor Swift forever "No-one likes a mad woman. What a shame she went mad. You made her like that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:51 PM
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We can get a dick whenever we want lmaooo Yes, because it would be so much more convenient for them, then they wouldn't need to put in effort, like true LVM only want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:29 PM
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The sugar baby lifestyle is becoming increasingly popular because the pressure of looking perfect and having the designer bags is increasing due to TikTok and Instagram. I'm sure she'll regret doing this in a few years, especially when the bag is out of fashion. (Also when this video comes up again, it's the internet after all).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:06 PM
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What I don't understand, at all, is how people say this is for incels etc. Like, wth? The only thing this sub does is to encourage women to take good cares of themselves, level up, have standards and support each other? How is that "toxic"? There's not even one valid argument. Haters gonna hate. Honestly, I think the people saying that are just LVM/trolls who are frustrated they can't date us high-value women. Hoping that'll change our minds or something lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:53 PM
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Congrats!!! Love your style and manicure btw! Hope you're very proud of yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:33 PM
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Love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:04 PM
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This categorizes as a "them problem" for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:03 PM
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Hahaha, omg, never realised that's the reason why there's such a backlash. The ultimate proof of patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:47 PM
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Same, this is so gross! Hope you're doing okay and taking time to heal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:17 PM
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YES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:58 PM
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AMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:56 PM
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Learned that one the hard way unfortunately. Edit: pretty sure that when I called him after I discovered his NSFW reddit account (with pictures of him having sex with women) and confronted him (after he broke up with me via text), he'll tell all his new women how 'crazy I am'. To quote Taylor Swift "no one likes a mad woman - you made her like that"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:52 PM
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