ProbablyAMonkey Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
111	Farewell to my friend	ProbablyAMonkey	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/04/17 03:35 AM
7	AMALT?	ProbablyAMonkey	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/07/17 05:00 AM
3	Coming after trip	ProbablyAMonkey	/r/askMRP	18/11/16 04:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Anyone delt with unfounded paranoia along the journey? As someone who is still working through similar issues every day, SteelToeShitKicker's response hit the nail on the head for me. Lift, lift, lift. I started lifting last December. I had dicked around in the gym a little bit in college, but had never seriously lifted. I started Stronglifts 5x5 from the beginning. I didn't really "get" why everyone said to lift, but I did it anyway. It's like a fucking drug. More than any other thing I've learned from MRP, lifting has the been the single change in…	/r/askMRP	02/07/17 04:29 AM
2	Wife came home late for third time in a month so I cancelled our weekend beach house trip. Am I over reacting? Seems you've got a lot of responses already, but here's another way of looking at it. If you did something your wife didn't like 3 times, and so your wife decided to punish you by backing out of a family trip, and she wouldn't even tell you why she was backing out, would you learn your lesson? No, you would think she was being a passive aggressive bitch, and you'd be right. The moral of the story, don't be a passive aggressive bitch.	/r/askMRP	02/07/17 04:13 AM
4	Heading off dead-bedrooms following birth of first kid Married 10 years, together 15, 3 kids under the age of 9. 1st pregnancy was physically tough. Wife had tearing. Didn't have sex for several months. I think both of us were scared. Sleep deprived, stressed, nervous. Took a while for things to get back on track. I dig what you said about "duty sex" for getting pregnant too. First kid took us over a year to get pregnant. Second kid was an accident. Irish twins. 2nd pregnancy wife was very sick--gestational diabetes. Much better recovery, sex in mon…	/r/askMRP	20/06/17 02:03 AM
2	Turning down duty sex So your 3-month post partum wife is exhausted, you send her to bed to get some rest, then change your mind and come into the bedroom like a big nerd with NO game, offering to cum on her chest? And You think "I didn't handle it badly?" Wtf, is this a troll? If not a troll, learn about DEVI / Sex God Method. Even better, let her rest when exhausted. IMHO first six month after pregnancy should be strictly off limits for higher levels of dread and should largely be considered as an exception to many…	/r/askMRP	19/06/17 03:53 AM
4	It's amazing I can't comment on anything but my personal experience with my wife. She has always had irregular periods (like 30 days, 25 days, 65 days, 65 days, 25 days, etc). Never regular, and mood swings like crazy at different points in the cycle. Wiped out during Shark Week. She's been on the pill (about 4-5 different kinds) for maybe about 7-8 years of the about 15 years that I've known her, and every single one of the pills killed her libido, most flattened her moods out (in a bad way), and on all of …	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/06/17 01:50 AM
1	Farewell to my friend I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who replied. It was a fucking rough day (and week), but hearing so many other men talk about how important their faithful friends are was really moving. I'm not going to lie, I bawled my eyes out, but I was also there for my kids and wife. Special thanks to u/TheFamilyAlpha who really hit the nail on the head. "Honor the life of your dog by living a little more 'dog like' in your life."	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/04/17 01:32 AM
1	Handling nosy questions with weak red pill Why are you long distance for two months now? And, you've started RP after being long distance for a month?	/r/askMRP	28/02/17 04:26 PM
2	Shit tests abound... Awesome post. Thanks for the insights and the Aurelius.	/r/askMRP	27/02/17 10:27 PM
2	[FR] I'm back after experimenting with lowered alpha to keep my wife's hyperjealousy in check Can you give some specific examples of what you've done to "dial down the alpha"?	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/11/16 04:36 PM
0	Starfish/sex turn downs I think how she takes your response is primarily dependent on what's going on outside of sex. I'm a noob, swallowed the pill about 5 months ago, and I have been moving slowly but steadily along dread (and lifting 100% consistently--that's been the best part by far). A few nights ago, after the kids were in bed, I was getting flirty with the wife. She's giggling, etc. Score! We go upstairs, brush teeth, and I start kissing her. Instantly get the weak ass "I'm letting you kiss me but I'm not into …	/r/askMRP	08/11/16 03:19 PM
7	FR and questions I'm going to dissent a bit from what's been posted so far in one regard. Without knowing more of the backstory, most doctors say that sex isn't even allowed until ~6 weeks after birth. You'd be just around that point now, right? Plus the preggo/breastfeeding hormones can do some crazy shit. Postpartum depression possible? Wife and I have 3 kids aged 8, 7 (whoops), and 3. Each pregnancy and recovery was totally different. First two were awesome, wife was horny as shit until the very end of pregna…	/r/askMRP	07/10/16 07:59 PM