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| 1 | [deleted by user]Is it really a lie if you are being awesome and talking to all those people? You're doing it man, you're being more positive by shutting down that part of you that was making you not talk to people and be social. I think that quote rings true. I mean it seems to have played out in action through you today. It seems like it's working though right? I mean from what you've said, you were talking to people all day, and that's the kind of practice it takes to be a more social butterfly type of person… | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 08:31 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I'm glad to hear that man! Stay confident and don't let rejection bother you. You seem like you'll be just fine based on your attitude in these comments. You seem like you really want to try to get better at it and that's what really matters | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Totally makes sense. I was never terrible around women growing up, but I wasn't the best. I had anxiety and all that but it wasn't really bad. I looked at lots of friends of mine like they were naturally better with girls. Then I realized it's not that they're necessarily naturally better, they would just actually put themselves out there, go talk to girls and put themselves in the situation to be rejected. They were practicing and getting better. While I cared too much about what the girls thou… | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 07:12 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah basically. Part of getting more confident is learning the "not give a fuck" mindset. If it's not a woman you met through friends, why would you really care what they think of you? Not like them finding your approach awkward is going to affect you next approaches. Know what I mean? The next girl you meet won't know how things went with the last girl you talked to. Clean slate every time. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 06:52 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I saw you posted something about being a computer programmer? I bet you felt retarded when you first decided to learn programming. But you stuck with it, kept trying and acting like you were a better programmer than you really were, and soon it became natural. It's just practice. Being social and dating is the same way | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 06:43 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah basically. The placebo effect works even if you know it's a placebo. I do this and it helps in many things besides dating. Skateboarding for example, if I'm trying a trick I'm nervous about landing cause it's difficult, I just repeat "You're fucking dope. You've got this. Fuck this set of stairs." to myself and it has always helped me commit to my tricks better. Same with approaching girls. Tell yourself you're awesome and she already thinks your cute. It will help you be in a better, more … | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 06:36 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Be cocky to yourself in your head. Tell yourself you're the shit over and over until your confidence returns. Maybe it's dumb but it's what I do and even though I know it's me telling myself that, it seems to work. "Fake it til you make it" kinda thing. There's nothing else I can really say except you gotta try to learn to brush the rejection off easier and try to not let it affect you as much. Easier said than done I know, but it's all I got. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 04:35 PM |
| 1 | How should I try and seduce my roommates sister?As I said in the description I have already talked to him about how I feel about her. He has no problem with it I'm also not just trying to bang her. I'm interested in trying to date her. I just want to try and make the transition from "her brothers friend" more smoothly | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 05:08 PM |
| 17 | If you don't kino, expect to be friendzoned 90% of the time.Someone has sand in their vagina | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 11:10 PM |
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