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She just bought a cat actually
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:19 PM
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Agreed. My own anxiety caused problems no doubt
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:15 PM
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I understand. I’m just proud that for once I didn’t give in. And I wanted to make sure that was the right move as I didn’t want her thinking I was giving in once more.
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:40 PM
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Well I’m in therapy for my anxiety and attachment issues but she has deep issues I suspect as well. I think she has borderline honestly. I actually feel for her in that regard but I don’t excuse the behavior. I know she likes to drink and I sense that she’s hurting from something too. Anyways I’m not here to rescue her but it’s hard when I’m highly empathic and I notice this shit
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:08 PM
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Yup and she looks stupid for trying that. Maybe she will actually respect me now. And she definitely has self esteem issues
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:04 PM
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She doesn’t have any power over me. I think I made her look stupid when I ignored her and she went and deleted me out of spite. Or so I will reach out idk
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:02 PM
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Why bother testing me if she doesn’t have interest? It’s almost a cry for attention
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:52 PM
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I’m trying to understand female behavior as this tends to happen quite often. Most agree that she was looking for a reaction or a boost in ego. I didn’t give her shit and you’re right, it doesn’t matter. She looks stupid now for trying that
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:07 PM
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I’m not contacting her at all. If she reaches out then maybe things could change but I value myself too much to chase her anymore
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:03 PM
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I didn’t block her. In fact she blocked me on the phone and that is why I have been in no contact. I was chasing her and wouldn’t leave her alone. That’s why I’m confused she attempted contact on Snapchat.
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:55 PM
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Definitely immature. Almost shocking at her age
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:29 PM
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Haha guess it depends on the people involved. Could be like left over pizza as well, still tastes good the next day.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:50 PM
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Thanks. That’s what I’m thinking and wanted to relay to her with my actions.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:32 PM
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No kidding. If she wants to talk why can’t she hit me up like an adult? Early on in the relationship she had avoidant tendencies. Didn’t want to communicate when something came up. So who knows man chicks are weird
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:26 PM
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I’m just confused why she would take the effort to test me after 2 months. Seems rather dramatic and pointless
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:05 PM
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I am still interested but I don’t want to give her my attention until she earns it
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:55 PM
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I’m doing good but I didn’t handle correctly? I thought ignoring her was “cold” and I didn’t want to be petty and show her that she still gets to me. I wanted to show her that I’m strong enough to not to take the bait anymore
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:25 PM
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I’m not giving her the silent treatment. She cut me off so I left her alone like a mature adult. If she actually gave me something to respond to I would have considered it. I have attachment issues I’m working in therapy among other things. I recognize my own behaviors helped steer this off course so I’m keeping an open mind
/r/seduction23/08/21 04:35 PM
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I’m willing to meet her halfway if she cleans up her act. Like I said I did things that were immature and disrespectful to her as well. We got along great before I changed into a needy individual
/r/seduction23/08/21 04:25 PM
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Yup thanks. I read corey Wayne’s book and I’m starting to understand women and attraction
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:57 PM
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Does this raise attraction for her? I normally chase her
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:51 PM
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Would that show her I took back the power and control by not giving in anymore?
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:50 PM
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Oh ok. Yeah she’s not scared of losing me. She assumes that I’ll always be there waiting. Maybe blocking her challenges that assumption. I do want another shot with her but I won’t chase her anymore.
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:48 PM
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She’s 25 and plays these games. Kinda weird lol
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:39 PM
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What should I have done? Ignore her friend request? Or block her once I saw what she was doing? I hate being petty and childish so I thought best to just ignore and carry on with my day
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:37 PM
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Because I played a large role in the loss of attraction as well. She was submissive to me in the beginning when I was on my purpose and in my masculine frame. I guess I am open to another chance because I made mistakes as well
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:35 PM
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I thought by ignoring her I was setting boundaries? When she added me on snap I was open to contact if she had a new attitude. I didn’t engage her when she pulled those tests on me
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:30 PM
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Blocking her shows her that I’m bothered by her behavior. I would rather be indifferent I guess. Like I’m not fazed etc
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:25 PM
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That shows her I care. If she does this behavior again I’ll just confront her and proceed from there
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:22 PM
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Thanks bro. Yeah she’s immature but so was I during the relationship
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:21 PM
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What should I have done? I was laughing when she tried this on me. Should I have joked around with her? I don’t want to contact her because I will once again be pursuing
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:13 PM
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It’s been 3 weeks since we last spoke. I’ve been going to the gym and seeing my therapist. I’m in no condition to talk to her. I have a lot of issues I need to focus on. I just want a chance to speak again someday
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:52 AM
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Because she never wanted to meet up and I realize it’s because was killing attraction
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:49 AM
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So you think we will never talk again? This girl drunk texted me one night asking me to change my behavior. So it appears that my own behavior has pushed her away and she wanted to see a change in my behavior. I want to change my own behavior not just for her but my life
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:30 AM
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Is that sarcasm? I literally have anxiety and told her that which probably scares her away
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:55 PM
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I think we actually do have matching personalities. At least in the beginning we were vibing. I have social anxiety so it’s hard for me to be myself and confident. It all fell apart after I started doubting myself and letting her know how interested I was
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:49 PM
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She was bored so she unblocked me? She has an active social life I figured she would block me since I’m annoying
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:38 PM
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Thanks. I’m just confused as to why she unblocked me. She knows how much I liked her
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:29 PM
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Why would she unblock me? I agree that I need to let go and get on with my life. I just want another chance. I’m tired of making mistakes. I want to take things slow and show her that I’m in control of my behavior. I’m pathetic
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:20 PM
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Ok. I did that once before and after 45 days I reached back out. Maybe I back off longer now
/r/seduction10/07/21 12:49 PM
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Ok. I did that once before and after 45 days I reached back out. Maybe I back off longer
/r/seduction10/07/21 12:49 PM
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I tried a different approach with her for a few weeks where I acted indifferent and she was way more drawn to that. I didn’t put pressure on her to respond or show much interest. So instead she invested more in the conversation and tried to keep it going. Even added me back on social media until I acted needy again
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:58 AM
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What issues with my mom? I’ve always felt that my mom pushed me too hard growing up.
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:57 AM
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Do you think if I put myself out there and let go she will sense I’m over her and reach out?
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:50 AM
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Yup my thoughts exactly. I tried no contact once before with her for 45 days and she never reached out. Probably thinking I would eventually and I did
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:41 AM
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That makes no sense. They fucking annoy me
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:30 AM
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What if she forgot about me? I doubt it but I have anxiety so I do and say things out of fear. That’s why I’m in this mess
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:27 AM
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Why does she need attention? She has my attention then blocked me
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:26 AM
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Lol..
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:26 AM
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Why do they do that?
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:25 AM
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She blocked me once before back in April. She tends to be impulsive like that
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:24 AM
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No shit. I wish I didn’t care but she’s hot and we used to get along. I hope she chases me one day. She did recently until I fucked up Again
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:43 AM
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Why do they play this shit?
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:42 AM
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So she’s trying to bait me into contacting her? She definitely plays games that I know
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:26 AM
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How do I leave crumbs? We aren’t connected on social media but my Venmo is public.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:23 AM
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I’m not texting her. She absolutely expects me to so I’m going to demonstrate confidence and strength and stay silent.
/r/seduction10/07/21 01:57 AM
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Depends on the girl. Some reach out, most dont. Especially if your relationship wasn’t serious. Some make subtle moves on social media baiting you to contact them. This happened with my ex. Another one added me on Snapchat without directly messaging me. Just be cool and after enough time just contact them. Who gives a fuck. Just be ok with whatever outcome. That’s the key
/r/seduction10/07/21 12:48 AM
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