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False AccusationProfessionalGoat551/r/MensRights02/12/25 05:36 PM
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DiscriminationProfessionalGoat551/r/MensRights22/11/25 04:57 PM
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Field ReportProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction26/04/26 01:25 PM
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Inner Game ProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction22/03/26 08:54 PM
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GeneralProfessionalGoat551/r/MensRights25/11/25 03:10 PM
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ConversationProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction18/04/26 01:31 PM
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Fundamentals ProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction18/04/26 03:09 AM
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Field ReportProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction29/03/26 12:45 AM
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Inner Game ProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction05/03/26 12:28 AM
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Fundamentals ProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction05/03/26 11:21 PM
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ConversationProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction12/04/26 02:30 PM
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Fundamentals ProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction08/04/26 09:59 PM
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ConversationProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction23/04/26 09:55 PM
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Field ReportProfessionalGoat551/r/seduction18/04/26 02:00 AM
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That’s odd, So everyone ghosted you You didn’t go on one date ?
/r/seduction01/05/26 06:53 AM
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Fuck it. Damn if you do damn if you dont. Youre fine bro. You were cracking jokes being yourself, it’s on her not you. Now if you were being uptight and not grounded you’ll still be facing the same issue in most cases. Because she’ll hit you with the “no spark” Look at how couples interact socially in public or watch family members with their significant other . In most cases they are very playful and jokey. That’s how you wannabe on a first date.
/r/seduction01/05/26 06:46 AM
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I’m not starting to notice that women’s empathy and kindness is a lot of times performative.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:51 AM
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To be fair bro. This story should be used while explaining to the boys how you slowly built up the courage to approach that resulted into dates. You’re not giving anyone advice by just telling women hey. The only thing you’re doing is getting use to cracking your lips to random women. Which means You’re on the right track though. I’m not coming down on you. I’m just saying. This is a step 1.5 process you’re trying to give advice on . This is the most basic of a step. This is a build up phase to …
/r/seduction29/04/26 03:00 AM
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And guess what ? You’re supposed to accept it because “patriarchy.” 🙄
/r/MensRights28/04/26 09:31 PM
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Exactly brother. I think a lot of us miss that when first start out. The only young men who don’t are the ones who had older male figures coaching them.
/r/seduction26/04/26 06:21 PM
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That booty was nice man. Whew. Can’t lie. She won’t lying through text when she said she was focused on Glutes for a long time
/r/seduction26/04/26 01:48 PM
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Trust me I know bro. When I’m in an abundance mindset and don’t really care that’s where everything falls into place. The only difference between malicious me (trying to be something I’m not) vs the real me treat a woman right etc etc is probably the give a fuck meter. I genuinely don’t give a fuck it works out. But when I’m In scarcity omg this has to work out mindset. I blow the first date like a dad does a balloon at his child’s 7th birthday party
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:59 PM
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Wait until you run across the new gaslighting discussion where women say “stats say men benefit more from marriage, so therefore it’s not something they should be scared of and women should be scared of marriage.” Even if you’re a good man that does ALMOST everything right (I said almost because you’re going to lack in some areas because you’re human) should be afraid of marriage. Because a lot of women are never happy. Even the most stern and set women have moments of where they don’t appreciat…
/r/MensRights25/04/26 04:10 PM
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I just want everyone to get along. Black, white, brown, beige, purple and green. Men and women. It’s insane how hate from women on to men is socially acceptable And hate from non whites on to whites is socially acceptable. Off topic: They’ll say women aren’t socially equal to men. In what system in the United States can’t women do the same thing men can do? I’m genuinely trying to find out. I’m open to new info. I’m not talking about people scoffing at a woman doing male dominated XYZ. Because l…
/r/MensRights25/04/26 12:18 PM
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Really are. Fake compassion. Very performative. My homie had a cancer scare, he had just met this girl. They only met twice. In between 1 and 2 he got his cancer scare. She was all compassionate blah blah. When he left her crib the second time, he went to handle his business. I stopped hearing from him as well. He finally was cleared. He said he tried to reconnect he said she was downright CRUEL to him. Told him to fuck off and blah. Was so cruel. It’s like bro I understand not being interested,…
/r/seduction24/04/26 11:57 AM
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I experienced assault from my ex. Along with SA. Don’t laugh because this is about to be some sucka shit. My ex kept cheating on me. And I stayed, but this version of cheating she was doing was her staying in communication with an ex and sending nudes and etc. on my birthday she told him that he would always have a piece of her pussy. I found all this out. Long story short. This killed my sexual desire for her. I kept turning her down for sex. So one night I was half sleep and she was playing wi…
/r/MensRights24/04/26 12:42 AM
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Damn. 2/3rds ?
/r/seduction23/04/26 10:50 PM
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You’re right. There’s too much flexing for me to believe a lot of these dudes approach.
/r/seduction23/04/26 10:06 PM
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I just got an incel because I pointed out the fact that this chick is crying about being slowly ghosted when I’m pretty sure she’s ghosted men before. So because I pointed that out I’m incel. But if you look at my hinge at phone you’ll see otherwise. The term incel needs to die like high water pants.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 10:00 PM
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Depends on the context. Is it overrated? Maybe. But I’ll tell you this though. Women have this thing they do. It’s where they start to feel like they can do better, especially if you are swaying from your masculine identity. Even if they had genuine desire (excitement about you) for you. So imagine you take that same process and apply it to a man that had to “break” her down to get her. If you had to “break” her down, to get her and you do get her. 8/10 she’s going to feel like she could do bett…
/r/seduction23/04/26 10:46 AM
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Shitttt, facts. Don’t let a woman feel slighted. This is why I tell men who live a playboy lifestyle. Never ghost a woman outright. If you plan on ghosting. Established evidence that your last physical interaction was consensual etc. Now I’m not saying using women for sex is right, but come on. Falsely claiming grape >>>>> being used for consensual sex
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:33 PM
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Bro tell me about it
/r/seduction18/04/26 09:13 PM
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I wish some people posted proof of life. Some of you be anonymously flexing with no proof.
/r/seduction18/04/26 05:16 PM
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I definitely get that. lol
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:10 PM
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It’s practice. That’s all it is if someone chose to go that route.
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:52 AM
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I get that. You don’t want to create bad habits.
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:46 AM
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Oh no I’m not saying don’t go for the women you want. I just want men to grasp the feeling Of how he should be around the woman he’s insanely attracted to. Sometimes you have to take 3 steps back to take 6 steps forward. Because it’s easy for me or anyone else to say “stay grounded.” But the guy doesn’t have XYZ to go off of. The best way in my opinion is for him to emulate that feeling elsewhere. But I get your pov.
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:27 AM
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I get that. Do you have issues interacting with women you are attracted to ?
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:22 AM
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Flirting, lite sexual innuendos, can curve that.
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:21 AM
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Yup. Practice.
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:14 AM
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It was top golf you can’t really engage while you’re hitting the ball. So she was on her phone.
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:57 AM
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What are you talking about? You’re just rambling nonsense.
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:36 AM
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Every loss is a teachable moment you can learn from.
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:35 AM
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No I said don’t go into any date with “expectations” I worded it wrong.
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:29 AM
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I don’t care. It’s a loss. I’ll expose my losses along with my wins. People can learn from me losing.
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:23 AM
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Oh it’s fine. I’m just giving out reports good and bad. It’s being transparent with other men.
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:21 AM
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I see your pov. But dating apps don’t help with in person. Presence, charm, and etc. you need to actually talk to women in real life to build that skill. Everything will always circle back to in person. You can’t avoid it.
/r/seduction17/04/26 12:04 PM
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And this was actually my worst fear about radical women. Imagine a man that’s facing a false allegation and he gets a woman with that mindset on his jury. This is nothing to laugh or play about
/r/MensRights16/04/26 01:50 AM
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A lot of Young men are oblivious to the manipulation tactics of young women. Women will ghost, play games, and give off wishy washy energy. And you see what happens is these young men are left confused so they go seek out an answer to why women ______ and that will 9/10 lead them to the very thing women hate red pill/manosphere content. Unless a young man 18-23 had an older man in his life directly coaching him on how to navigate the mind games of women while also giving him a high sense of self…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 11:28 PM
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Try not to focus on other men too much. You’ll never see another man through the eyes of a woman. Focus on elevating who you are as a man. Trying to solve on why this regular man (non rich or famous) got this girl will drive you insane. As far as your race..I can’t say. But tbh, like one person already commented. Dating apps are a tool that should be in your back pocket. I rather you approach women in real life and throughout the world vs relying on apps that most of em are barely even on. You’l…
/r/seduction14/04/26 03:09 AM
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Craft your bio based on what you want. Your goal is to attract women into your orbit that will follow your lead. So whatever you want out of bumble craft it.
/r/seduction13/04/26 10:19 AM
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Game is about staying true to yourself. Game isn’t about women it’s about yourself. You can’t have game if you don’t know yourself. No pick up line or tactics will work if you don’t know yourself as a man. A man that has game isn’t going to get caught up in his feelings about a situation where he agreed to be casual and now the woman is maintaining the definition of casual and now he’s butthurt. When you have an emotional response to a woman you are smashing being cordial with you outside the be…
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:51 PM
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Because most men don’t have game. Regardless of looks. Men that truly have game will not care if you treat them like a friend While he’s banging your back out.
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:13 PM
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Lmao this is funny. Now that I think about it. Have I ever seen a baddie baddie in RL. Hmmmmmm. But to be fair the way society is set up now you really don’t need to leave the house.
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:55 PM
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Another thing I wanna add. You’re not going to be compatible with MOST women. Even if you’re smashing. At some point you might realize she isn’t the one or she might make the choice prior to sex or sometime afterwards when she realizes you aren’t going to date her exclusively . And like you said you probably are the best option for her but since you can’t make her FEEL a certain way she’ll pass you up. It doesn’t define you. Because more importantly she doesn’t even know 0.3.% of who you are as …
/r/seduction12/04/26 04:44 PM
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The reason why I’m telling this story is because I want a lot of you men to understand what you could be potentially dealing with when you first meet a woman. Obviously this tactic she used wouldn’t have worked on a guy who was more self aware. But point is some women at times will subconsciously or consciously burn you. Some women see men they lack feelings for as disposable tools. That’s why it’s important to understand the game and have a view of self that’s so high not even Thanos could ratt…
/r/seduction12/04/26 02:34 PM
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You feel the energy. Some women that wants physical contact will give it off. Some are more clearer than others. A trick I do is this. Try to get close, not in a creepy way. But a way that makes sense. Talk to her in her ear so she can hear you better. Stand in front of her and bend down toward her ear see if she turns her body away. If a woman keeps standing directly in front of you and doesn’t position her body away from you THATS A GOOD SIGN. Most women even if they want you to tongue em down…
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:52 AM
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BRO. FACTSSSSSSS. Women are notorious for this ghosting shit. You think I give a damn if a man who she likes doesn’t see you as girlfriend material yet. Nope. Go and apologize to the men you ghosted that saw you as a potential girlfriend then I might consider feeling a drop of empathy
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:58 PM
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You’re actually playing the winning hand. The way you date is how you meet the right one tbh. That said that’s not your issue. It’s about you. Who cares what they ask. Those same women probably have ghosted guys that actually wanted a relationship with them only to be in a situation with a man like you (not saying you’re a bad person) that prefers the wait and see method. So if they wanna lash out in anger, tell them to fix their dating methods. Lashing out at a man who is clearly trying to see …
/r/seduction11/04/26 01:42 PM
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Why you think men who are decent looking (ripped bulky) and a decent height struggle with women they want. Because a lot of men like that (not all) lack the grounded personality that attracts most women. Don’t get me wrong. You’re gonna get some booty off your looks at times. But you will notice there will lapses with the women you REALLY WANT and that’s because a lot of men don’t know how to have fun with women they truly desire. The biggest cheat code I learned is to take ALL expectations off …
/r/seduction11/04/26 01:05 PM
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Women aren’t exactly the most centered of people. Their wants sway because they are loyal to their emotions. Which is why you can one day be good with a woman and the next she ghosts you. It’s important to have fun. If she wants to be friends oh well. Why is it a loss on your part ?you can use her to get yourself more women or into circles you normally wouldn’t be invited in. When you’re having fun and treating your interactions with women as a fun time. You’re not overly concerned about sex or …
/r/seduction10/04/26 08:30 PM
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IWomen act like they were complete angels in every single interaction with a man. You’ll have women that will come across a man that doesn’t mean her well he’ll play her and it ends . She will then run across a good man, who means her well. She’ll then lose interest and instead of just being honest with the genuine guy she’ll ghost.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 04:46 PM
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Great mindset. You walk this Earth like a GOD. Rejection doesn’t change YOUR GOD status. YOURE STILL A MOTHERFREAKING GOD. Keep approaching, keep thriving. You got it bro.
/r/seduction09/04/26 09:21 PM
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Coming off as a performative man will turn the most interested woman off at some point Some men are so performative when it comes to women that they don’t even realize they are performing. The minute you stop performing and bask in who YOU are as a MASCULINE MAN, I bet your dating life trends upward.
/r/seduction09/04/26 09:19 PM
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I’m not getting no broad no flowers on a 1st date. Lmao. A first date is supposed to be grounded and getting to know each other mixed in with a half a cup of flirting. Basically it should be fun. I advise any guy not to don’t do that bs. Less is more with women. You SLOWLY build up to things like that. But it’s a plethora of suckas that’ll do that.
/r/MensRights09/04/26 04:29 PM
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Exactly. Have fun and do you. You adapt the game that suits you. You have men who wear a size 10 trying to fit a 14. Be yourself. Mold the game into a size 10. That’s why discernment is important
/r/seduction08/04/26 10:08 PM
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Have fun with her. Lightly flirt and just have fun. Read her responses to your flirting. Just be you. Pretend she’s a homeboy but instead of it just being banter just add in a little bit of flirting
/r/seduction08/04/26 08:39 PM
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Who knows. Can’t really be concerned with what women think especially one that rejected you.
/r/seduction07/04/26 08:25 PM
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A man that has been falsely accused will be paranoid of every sexual interaction with a woman. Imagine knowing you done nothing wrong but you’re paranoid because the dynamic with you and said women didn’t end on good terms. But because you were falsely accused you sit and wonder if you’re gonna get a knock on your door. You know even though you’ve done nothing wrong the right prosecutor can take you through the wringer..that shit fucks with you.
/r/MensRights05/04/26 03:47 AM
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That’s fair. Some of the worst women I’ve encountered messaged first. Also remember this bro. Some women are extremely stubborn they’ll match with you and will be praying to whatever god they believe in that you make first contact because they have it in their mind they won’t message first.
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:18 AM
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Depends how old you are. Tinder for me feels like 18-26 app.
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:14 AM
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Be grounded. Hold frame. Make jokes, tease, and etc. also make her feel understood don’t necessarily agree but make her feel like you understand where she’s coming from. Also let her do most of the talking
/r/seduction29/03/26 11:28 PM
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I was already out. I wasn’t even going to go on this date initially. I had two dates lined up at 8:30. I canceled one. So I was in the area. If I would’ve went back home I wasn’t going to come back out. So I went to the restaurant and waited. On my old throwaway insta which I placed below you can see the timeline. @huntthelies2001 I sent the top golf girl a text at 7:36 when I pulled into the parking lot of the restaurant. And the other thread is the point of this post.
/r/seduction29/03/26 02:19 PM
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Okay then. Stfu.
/r/seduction29/03/26 02:14 PM
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huntthelies2001 ^ go to that instagram and see the screenshots. I had two dates lined up at the same time. I was luck warm on both. I canceled one so I chose to go on the other one.
/r/seduction29/03/26 02:09 PM
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I was already in the area because I had two dates lined up including that one. There’s a reason why I told her I arrived an hour early after canceling. @huntthelies2001 ^ On instagram it’ll show the screenshots of me canceling one and deciding to go on the other. So no I didn’t arrive an hour early just to do it.
/r/seduction29/03/26 02:06 PM
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huntthelies2001 ^ go to that instagram and look at the screenshots
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:59 PM
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You want to see the text where the girl was pissed that I canceled prior to this date? I will literally post the SS on a blank instagram and give you the handle. It’s not personal. You want me to take it personal. It’s all fun. I’m just sharing a story don’t let people play with your time. If you had a time slot they should show within a designated time. Not 30+ mins late. There’s nothing to be mad about. The date didn’t happen because I chose to leave. Why would I take it personal when it’s a f…
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:54 PM
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Not frustrated and no not a pattern. I have a low flake rate. Women 9/10 shows up on dates with me. People are making crazy assumptions 1.) I had a date prior lined up at top golf which I canceled. 2.) I was an hour early because I was already in the area because of #1 3.) I was lukewarm on both women 4.) I was actually relieved she was late. So I just upped and left 5.) The restaurant was a slightly below mid tier Italian restaurant. People hear reservation and think 4 star restaurant. Hell no.…
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:46 PM
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No. It was a slightly blow mid tier Italian restaurant not expensive. Even cheap places offer reservations nowadays.
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:38 PM
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I know. I don’t owe her anything. I choose dinner because that’s what I wanted to do. Just like prior to her I had a date at top golf (which I canceled) I just picked it. Not to her benefit but it was something I wanted to do.
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:37 PM
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Don’t have a life ? I had a date lined up prior to her I just canceled that one and hesitantly decided to go on that one. I was already in the area. None of this is personal. It’s all fun, but I’m not sitting in a parking lot way past 8:30 after a designated time.
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:33 PM
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Yes, an hour early. I was in the area because I canceled a date at top golf prior to going on that date. I had two dates lined up I didn’t really wanna go on either. When she was late I bolted. I wasn’t mad I was actually relived she was late and I don’t care.
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:30 PM
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Throw away what opportunity? She was late and I left. Why would I stay in a parking an extra 30 mins past a designated time. I wasn’t even mad.
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:28 PM
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I had another date lined up, which I cancelled prior to that one. So I arrived early just because I was already in the area. Me arriving early has nothing to with me not valuing my time. Me sitting in a parking lot past 8:30 while I wait is me not valuing my time. Because there was an arranged meeting, what I do prior to the date is MY TIME. My time starts being wasted when the person I had a slot with is late.
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:27 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction29/03/26 12:55 AM
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I love you
/r/seduction28/03/26 03:04 PM
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I bet you if you stop calling she’ll text first. May not be tomorrow but give it a few months. You’ll get at least ONE text first
/r/seduction27/03/26 10:36 PM
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I like it. Instagram could easily defeat dating apps if used right tbh.
/r/seduction26/03/26 10:11 PM
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You must be referring to the slow ghost method. Instead of like you said directly communicating it they slowly ghost. Sounds about woman.
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:23 PM
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Right, Some women make HORRID choices. But, over here acceptance or rejection doesn’t change our self view of oneself. We chalk it up and continue being a beast in life.
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:22 PM
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I’m going tbh. I would say go for it. But your mindset about this particular girl makes me say nahhhh. You’re placing this woman on an imaginary pedestal based off her looks. You’re down by 14 just off this mindset alone.
/r/seduction23/03/26 07:13 AM
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Yup. It’s human nature to wonder. But that curiosity in us can breed needy behavior, unless we tame it.
/r/seduction23/03/26 07:03 AM
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You don’t fear women. Your ego fears rejection
/r/seduction21/03/26 10:03 PM
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I wanna see a guy troll and make a progressive dating profile where he wants the women to lead and pay the bills. A man living by that mindset will expose a lot of hypocrisy
/r/MensRights11/03/26 03:59 PM
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Look how women in the Epstein files are glossed over. It’s made to be about rich white men. While the women get a pass. Look how women’s role into American slavery gets glossed over. A white woman owned my ancestor. There is also an argument that when women get into power they are more cruel and cold than men.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 10:14 AM
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The game is a game. My sister has 3 kids by the same guy and she still has the standards of a childless woman and ghosting men that’s willingly to date her. We all know you can’t be too picky with 3 kids.
/r/seduction09/03/26 03:10 AM
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EXACTLY. She made it more difficult. She even started to filibuster and included in things that didn’t apply to us which was odd and it confused me.
/r/MensRights06/03/26 10:44 PM
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Just talk to her the way you would talk to friend but add a romantic spin to the interaction..
/r/seduction06/03/26 10:37 PM
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She was trying to cut the date off and instead of just outright saying it. She was dancing around it and then she would place how she felt onto me. The phone call we had was basic. It wasn’t spectacular or bad. Just basic. Because we didn’t hit it off on the phone she assumed thats a reason to cut ties. Which is fine. Her choice. But she tried to project those feelings onto me. But I know that I can’t quantify if you’re a good person for a LTR based off a basic hour long phone conversation. I ca…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 10:32 PM
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Use the environment, make it mostly about her, include action/purpose in your interaction. Meaning at the end. You say “ you’re cute take my number, give me ring/text tomorrow, we’re gonna go out.” Be clear and direct on your purpose.
/r/seduction06/03/26 05:33 PM
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I don’t necessarily trust what women say. I had a debate with a woman the other day about her being passive and projecting. This was in regard to a date cancellation (which I never had an issue with never bitched about it) my issue layed with her projecting the way she do things on to me and being passive and filibustering. We never met btw. As I’m explaining or texting she starts talking about women’s safety, red flags, and boundaries. I’m like what does women’s safety and boundaries have to do…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 11:41 AM
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Which is why I said at times. Because in the past when I had weak social skills I still got laid. But it came back to bite me with the woman I actually wanted. I’ve had women fuck me off the strength of being attracted to me
/r/seduction05/03/26 12:17 PM
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It’s normalized. Sadly.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 11:08 PM
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Women and sucka men freak out at Mansosphere spaces that teach men to develop self respect and not let women walk over you. But will ignore comment sections like this.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 11:03 PM
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You can’t have game if you don’t know yourself as a man. Game starts within and works outward. When you know yourself, NO ONE CAN TELL YOU ABOUT YOURSELF.
/r/seduction28/02/26 01:00 PM
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A tip an OG told me is to engage with the environment. Be present in the moment. So basically you just pick out something in the environment to make lite of or engage with her about. And then you twist it and pretty much use verbiage that makes her feel good or something that makes her think of feeling good. You could say “Nothing like reading _____ on a sunny Saturday morning with no immediate responsibilities.” It’s easy bro. The environment is your friend.
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:08 AM
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Honestly bro, I wouldn’t recommend anything below 24 if you’re 28. The reason being is a lot of those women especially college women ARE INSANELY IMMATURE. I deal with a lot of cutting off women or women phasing out because a lot of women take things personal. So if a 27 year old woman is taking a non Text back so personal imagine that 20 year old.
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:11 PM
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lol. This is nothing but a passage from a smutty book.
/r/seduction24/02/26 06:56 PM
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That’s actually good. Based on what you’ve said where you kind of stumbled at was giving off boyfriend energy too soon.
/r/seduction24/02/26 05:01 PM
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“Men aren’t lonely enough.” I have no issue with being alone. Having a woman isn’t who I am as a person, it doesn’t define me. This type of misandrist rhetoric doesn’t work on men like me. I can go into mass detail why but that’s orbiting into a whole different dimension. But I will say this, I can be as solo as a mountain lion. I’ve trained my inner self so much over the years I know I can go out in a weekend and hit the town, and have at least two women i am casually talking to by weekends end…
/r/MensRights24/02/26 05:00 PM
31

Too much too soon. You gave off boyfriend energy too early. You don’t need to overly compliment a woman. She knows you find her attractive, you risk coming off as a try hard. Some people don’t respect what comes easy. Prior to her low energy texting. How often did yall text throughout the day ?
/r/seduction24/02/26 04:53 PM
7

You make your reality brother. You’re only a loser because you see yourself as one. For years a lot of men in different spaces preached gym, money, and etc. But the most important part is inward. We spend so much time focused on outward things we neglect inward gains. External gains are AMAZING. What good are external gains when you are anorexic inside. As I’ve gotten older I realized something. Internal gains might be a little more important than external gains. Keyword I said little, because I…
/r/seduction22/02/26 06:14 PM
89

People need to take a step back and think about an ACTUAL 10 or 12 year old boy. Look at the naivety of the kid. Look at the innocence of that kid compared to a 24 year old or even an 18 year old boy. Now imagine a 27+ year old woman. Look at how she moves about life. Think about her sexual experiences. Now say to yourself. REMOVE YOUR HORMONES. WHY IN THE FUCK IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN THAT OLD OR ANY WOMAN FOR THAT MATTER TO BE HAVING SEX WITH A CHILD. Disgusting behavior. I think of my 10-12 yea…
/r/MensRights22/02/26 05:18 PM
2

Got you. But i think you should sit this out bro. Don’t take another man’s girl or try to. I don’t think you can renter this ordeal with her and not simp. She has too much leverage.
/r/seduction22/02/26 02:22 AM
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Every situation is different. Normally I would say hell no. But it sounds like based on your description, you were the issue. The only issue I have is that she has a “boyfriend,” and there’s something about stealing another man’s girlfriend that doesn’t sit right with me. Those things are prone to backfire. If you do go this route be careful. She has all the leverage if you go back. Also another thing. This guy will be lurking around. So have your head on a swivel, you mess up or start to emotio…
/r/seduction22/02/26 02:12 AM
1

Here’s what I would do. I would have minimum contact. I’ll text her, but it’ll be in spurts throughout the day (I do this naturally because I’m a bad texter and I’m busy) the reason why I’m suggesting you do this is because a lot of men talk themselves out of a girl. The more you talk the more you expose yourself too soon. I’m from the perspective it’s just a first date. As long as plans are set, rapid fire texting is pointless to me. It’s like a part time job. Having to consistently text back a…
/r/seduction22/02/26 12:52 AM
1

I have a question, Are you solely pursing white woman ? You mentioning that you’re brown gives me the assumption that you are trying to date non brown girls. Is that the case ?
/r/seduction21/02/26 07:23 PM
1

That’s the game. Genuinely busy/ with being a bad texter or just having multiple women is the nature of the beast. You can’t really care about how they respond or might think. You have to be focused on you. I set a date with a woman, SS the reservation time and etc. never met this woman before. I didn’t reply for a whole day I get a text the next day saying “you’re cut off.” What did I say back? “Understood, wish you the best.” I’m not about to shape my life to no woman that’s not my girlfriend …
/r/seduction21/02/26 05:29 PM
12

I’m a Christian so this worked for me They rejected Jesus. So if Jesus can be rejected why can’t you ? Jesus was the greatest man to ever walk this Earth. Now I know this wasn’t in the romantic sense but it’s one way to look at it. Even though he was rejected it didn’t change the fact he was still the son of God. My brother idgaf if a woman laughs you black and blue YOU ARE STILL A KING. And guess what you’re gonna move forward and keep going .
/r/seduction20/02/26 07:48 PM
3

Also I would like to add something that can help you mentally. I’m a Christian. So, you have to look at it this way. Jesus was the greatest man to ever walk the Earth. Even Jesus was rejected by people. Granted this wasn’t in a romantic sense but you catch my drift. So if he can be rejected, what chance do us mortal beings have ? Even though he was rejected he is still the son of God. Even though you will get rejected no matter how handsome you are, you are still a king. Rejection doesn’t lessen…
/r/seduction20/02/26 05:35 PM
16

It’s more personal, That’s why you have to train yourself to be immune to the pain of rejection
/r/seduction20/02/26 03:46 PM
5

Definitely wouldn’t bro. When you start chasing behind a woman with next to no interest you put yourself at risk to simp, because you’ll start going the extra mile to get her attention. The old school guys with strong game or the new age guys with game that learned from the old schools. They will tell you, it’s counterproductive to chase behind a woman with no interest. The minute you do that, you’re displaying to her she’s superior to you. And a woman is a human being like a man. The minute you…
/r/seduction19/02/26 12:19 AM
1

That’s what I’m saying
/r/seduction19/02/26 12:04 AM
21

Serious question. Why would you want to flip a red ? First time hearing of this lingo. Nothing beats raw green attraction. Because once you leave her presence, what do you think could happen? The game is about you, trying to convince a chick to go from cold to hot is betraying yourself. It’s a time waste. A woman that you have to convince to be interested in you maintains an extremely high chance of being uncooperative and difficult. Even the woman that have high interest are at times uncooperat…
/r/seduction18/02/26 05:45 PM
6

Doesn’t matter tbh. It’s all about you. It’s about what you want. You don’t bend because of her. If you wanna text her within an hour do that. Some of these dudes try too hard. They’re playing games and not actually being that dude. The thing about games is someone will have a cheat code and you’ll be exposed. There isn’t a cheat code when you’re being your natural self.
/r/seduction18/02/26 04:04 PM
1

Be myself and more importantly she had interest along with sexual attraction. I know it sounds vague but that’s all it is. Of course there are things that can assist you. Like genuinely feeling confident and carefree. But all in all, getting sex that easy isn’t a computer code. It’s simple.
/r/seduction17/02/26 07:28 PM
2

Start small and build up. Get use to talking to women and go from there. Get out your mind. Remember you’re a king regardless of outcome.
/r/seduction17/02/26 06:03 PM
10

This is too analytical and will lead to a lot of men over thinking . She has to like you enough. I went on a pre v day date that cost 21 bucks. Less than an hour later she’s in my car riding me.
/r/seduction17/02/26 06:01 PM
1

It’s not this deep. Focus on self. Everything is about you. It’s not that you don’t have emotion, you just learned to displace emotion. If it’s not serving you you move forward. The fuck boys are only pursing women with high interest. They aren’t necessarily bending or being accommodating. You won’t catch a man who lives by the game trying to convince a woman to like him or fuck him.
/r/seduction17/02/26 03:44 PM
3

That did come off as creepy tbh.
/r/seduction16/02/26 08:07 PM
1

Just do what you wanna do ?? It’s simple. She’s joining you. You’re moving off what she desires. It’s about you. If she has high interest she’ll join you. Find stuff you like to do or eat and go from there.
/r/seduction16/02/26 08:06 PM
1

You have to create sexual tension. Since yall already kissed mix it up with your words and use kissing to build sexual tension. Be bold be a little risky. But be confident, don’t be jittery while trying to escalate the tension. Be bold. When you kiss, gently grabbed her neck. Try to bite her lip. Everything has to be smooth. Not hesitation or it’ll be awkward
/r/seduction16/02/26 05:52 PM
12

Just ask her on a date again. If she flakes that’s on her. Cut and move on. The low energy texting is irrelevant, as long as she accepts the date that’s fine also to add as long as you aren’t double or triple texting, the low energy texting from her is irrelevant as long as she replies. Don’t based your movements on her. You’re the man don’t sit back and wait for her to initiate anything. Take charge and lead. If she doesn’t respond, move on and find someone who gets on your program.
/r/seduction16/02/26 02:58 PM
3

Never use alcohol as a means to garner courage to talk to women. You can’t always be drunk. Also. Just start small. Just talk to women, but don’t talk with the hope of getting a number (build up to it) just stop them ask for directions and slowly build up. Then compliment them as you depart. Get use to actually having SOBER interactions with women.
/r/seduction15/02/26 11:35 PM
8

Wait to spend money on dating coaches. Build a stronger mental foundation first. The advanced advice they give you will be meaningless if you have a weak foundation. You can’t just stop approaching if you get rejected. Do you stop applying for jobs after a rejection? No. The way you see yourself should not be tied to women. Your confidence and self belief should already be there if you have 0 women the same way it would be there if you had 6. When you shell up and feel pity. You’re betraying you…
/r/seduction15/02/26 01:05 PM
1

Idk why you got downvoted. Like you said it’s a skill.
/r/seduction15/02/26 12:57 PM
10

Stop being so weak minded. You’re making it about her. It’s not about her it’s about you. By you letting rejection define you. You’re giving power to an individual who has no bearing on your world. You don’t get discouraged. On to the next one. Rejection is not a reflection of you. Even Jesus got rejected. So yeah….
/r/seduction15/02/26 05:44 AM
17

Some Men are so desperate for companionship they’ll settle for a woman who is an open hater of men. This crap pisses me off because men who knowingly stay in relationships with man haters are just reinforcing misandry and they make our plight much harder. Simping is dangerous for men and women
/r/MensRights14/02/26 05:40 PM
3

It sounds easy but it’s hard. You know yourself as a man. Don’t live in your head. It’s okay to have thoughts but don’t let those thoughts shape your actions and reality. One thing an older cat taught me was part of the “game” is to find women who like you. You’ll never really talk a woman into liking you. If a woman rejects you or ghosts you. That’s not indicative of you as a man. There’s nothing wrong with you. You were a Demi god before her and you’ll be Demi god without her. TL;Dr Know yours…
/r/MensRights14/02/26 02:40 PM
41

Argue with a woman about politics? Hahaha. Unless you’re a small time political pundit that shares her views and you can talk that talk when it comes to politics, I would steer clear politics
/r/seduction09/02/26 11:23 AM
38

It’s something I wanna say but I wont wanna say I don’t wanna get banned. But all im going to say is. Us fellow men are the shit. We are amazing and we are worthy. We shape our own destinies.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 06:19 PM
5

I remember the early days of red pill content creation (I don’t consume that content anymore, I know enough. It was better when it wasn’t mainstream) they would claim women were like children. Look at that page, or remember everything vile thing you’ve seen on it. And think how would a child act. I promise you. You won’t take dialogue like that serious from women anymore. Because you’ll understand how childlike a lot of women act and think. The only difference sometimes between a woman and a chi…
/r/MensRights08/02/26 12:27 PM
63

I stopped caring about what women say. I care more about laws and legislation that harm men than a woman spewing bs. Women say a lot about men. They say they want xyz but what gets them aroused is the opposite of what they claim they want. They say they want independence but still want a man to pay 100% of the bills. A 20 year old woman and her dad came to an agreement that the oldest she would date was 26. Long story short she liked a guy enough to go against her dad and her own word to date a …
/r/MensRights07/02/26 10:39 PM
4

I know what I’m about to say is biased. But idc. A good looking woman who could easily have different types of men decides to prey on little boys. Just think. Look at her. She could easily get a man her age or younger or older that’s doing well that would demolish her in the bed room consensually. But she chooses to be a predator. (Here comes the bias) she should get mass punishment based off that. 20 years in prison lifetime registry.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 05:38 PM
66

Women have gaslit the system in to believing if you even question smoke around a story. You are misogynistic.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 10:35 PM
16

MGTOW is 4B. MGTOW was deemed to be anti woman even though the whole point was not bothering women. So if MGTOW is anti woman then 4B is anti man.
/r/MensRights13/01/26 06:03 PM
42

In summer 2024. My ex was consistently cheating with an old flame through text. My sex drive when it came to her plummeted. So I would deny her sex consistently. (I stayed with her for a reason that’s another story, pathetic I know, but focus on the second paragraph) One night I was laying on my back. And she was playing with herself. So she took it upon herself to hop on me and insert me in her. I didn’t wanna do it. But she was already on top so I let her do it. She rode me until she finished.…
/r/MensRights11/01/26 03:48 AM
64

The problem with extreme feminism. It holds the assumption that every man is some boogeyman that’s just in the dark waiting to harm women that they are incapable of emotion. It paints the man who doesn’t bother anyone who is just trying to make it in life and survive as a villain. Who wants to be slandered because of their gender. Even if the shoe is 5 sizes too big.
/r/MensRights08/01/26 12:13 AM
13

Yes. I ended up fighting for my life. She turned a consensual encounter into a grape case. That whole situation was bad luck even down to the text message I sent. Now I have to lie on myself just to get off probation.
/r/MensRights07/01/26 09:37 PM
15

Women always have an excuse for fuckery. You can’t win. They do something atrocious. There’s an excuse. Society treats them like big ass children that’s incapable of free thinking. Woman murders her children.. wait for an excuse.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 04:47 AM
5

I have never fell for that trick. The only time i followed a woman on instagram is when ive gotten her number and we’re having consistent communication. I think dating apps need to crack down on women putting their IG handles on their profile. It dilutes the pond. Now devils advocate. Hinge is different. They have this thing called match notes. Where only your matches can see it. If she has a thing where she says “I’m barely on here message me xyz.” It’s a tad bit more believable. I still wouldn…
/r/MensRights14/12/25 03:49 PM
63

In the last 10 years we seemingly have cared more about the feelings of GROWN ASS women than kids. Outside of a romantic partner I can careless about coddling the feelings of a grown ass woman. You’re an adult you’ll be okay. Now little girls they matter. Little boys they matter. Walking on eggshells just to coddle the feelings of a grown ass woman….FUCK NO.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 12:34 AM
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Yup. Most crimes are just “you piss me off and I can’t control my emotions” so ima just harm you. It has nothing to do with their gender. Men do men the same way.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 06:33 PM
23

I’ve seen posts where men are existing and they are labeled as creepy. What pisses me off is that they are other words in the dictionary. Not everything a man does is creepy. Some men be genuinely unaware and are in their own world not even thinking about you. But yet you label him as creepy. You’re probably paying more attention to him than he is to you.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 03:56 PM
2

I can’t say it’s worse. Because what actual rape victims go through is traumatic. But I would argue it can be equally as bad. Because now if you were fasley accused. Every private interaction you have with a woman will result in paranoia even if you guys didn’t have sex. The anxiety a man will have from being falsely accused is ever lasting. Because you know even if you done nothing wrong you still have to worry.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 03:53 PM
-1

I’m not even talking about the girls. Idc about them . Women don’t own a space, especially if no one’s paying them any attention. I’m just talking about the coughing.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 11:31 AM
-16

He sounds more unaware than creepy.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 03:10 AM
16

Blanket statements about an entire gender “priceless.” Feminist will accuse all men of wanting sex. Yes, all men want sex. But there are a plethora of men who can also push the want for sex on the back end. To say all men’s first priority is sex is a sexiest statement in itself and wouldn’t stand under scrutiny if the Genders were reversed. The reason why I can comfortably say there are men who can push the “want” for sex on the back burner and just learn her as a person is because I am one of t…
/r/MensRights29/11/25 01:49 PM
9

Boom. Right on the nail. I don’t get it. They come off as bitter. Why would any self respecting man that’s aware even take a chance. I’m thinking from a standpoint of a man who wants something real. I’m not risking my peace over a woman with that kind of opinion of men in general. Now if I’m a man that’s only there for her hot cakes, who cares right ? But as a man who’s only interested in intentional dating, i would be fool to pursue any woman who displays hard Misandry.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 07:03 PM
88

Society as a whole needs a soft reset. I just seen a instagram reel that said “things I’ll do to keep a man” and the woman was walking to her car and opening up the car door and the voice over on the video said “nothing.” It’s weird. Even if you’re dealing with the most selfless partner, you have to do things to keep em. Unconditional love only comes from the parents if there is any. People nowadays are odd. Women are becoming so radicalized on romantic relationships with men, that they are virt…
/r/MensRights28/11/25 12:59 PM
8

Gen Z is crazy with the Misandry. My cousin is Gen Z. One hand, she talks anti male on the other hand she can’t stay solo (not messing with a guy) for shit.
/r/MensRights22/11/25 09:04 PM
11

My Cousin drives Lyft and he said women take offense to him not talking
/r/MensRights22/11/25 04:58 PM
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