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Appreciate your replies and feedback, really do. For the record, I already tapped it, she's an ex, and will remain as such.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 03:46 PM
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I'm not sure I wrote this correctly because you didn't fully understand what I was trying to convey. by feel weird, I mean I would give a look, actually a smirk with beady eyes. it's worked very well, for me. I think because at first she's like "who's this idiot, he expects me to take his hand at random?", then the smirk lets her know it wasn't at random, that she's "the one", or some lame shit that lets her justify sucking my penor by end of night. smirking in general works really effing well f…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:41 PM
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Understood. As you know, sometimes we don't realise the value of something until it's gone. In the example of my LTR, my ex knew if she wasn't putting out, I'd find a girl who would, immediately. She knew never to withhold sex. I've actually now made a point to every girl I've been with letting them know if they withhold sex, I don't play that shit, at all. A power play like that is a relationship deal breaker (for me). It shows an inability to properly communicate, and communication is key to m…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:32 PM
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Clock hours isn't even a real thing. It's made up by some person, and is no different than everything around you. No one will have the right answer on this because there are too many variables. I go to bed late (~1am), wake up relatively early (~6-7am), and find some of my most productive hours are 10-noon, 7pm-whenever i crash. I call myself a nighthawk, and my mom thinks i'm handsome.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:29 PM
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Just proving a point. I'm young tho, so take that into account. End well, your relationship won't.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:21 PM
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I don't really do clubs, but in Uni I did the same hand move. It worked really well for me. And even if she doesn't take it, she'll often give you a look, so I just shoot back a look like "wtf's wrong with you", make her feel weird for not taking my hand. Often ends well too. Lifes simple when you cut out the bullshit.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:17 PM
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Him: I'm going to Germany for a conference Me: Great city, long flight tho, enjoy that. Him: I have seven presentation there…you know... Me: Sounds like you''ll be busy working. Will you have time to drink and explore? Him: And I am invited by the organizer of the conference for dinner to his table ... Me: Cool, hope your luggage doesn't get lost. You literally have nothing to be jealous of. Travelling for work, is a lot of work, and often little play in the corporate world. When you own your ow…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:06 PM
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Never experienced what you're experiencing rn, with any woman. Was with one girl for 4 years (longest relationship to date). Got sex literally whenever I wanted, even during the toughest of times and while we were splitting up/moving out.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 02:57 PM
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Seriously this. You can't soft next a girl you're marrying, but you can give her time and space. It's clear she's your everything, and you're likely hers too by the sounds of it. At the end of the day, if you can tolerate this behaviour, and are willing to work/communicate with her afterwards, then continue to do it. It's working well :) She needs to better communicate to you why she's upset, there's always a reason. I think she's no different than any other woman in the sense that she just want…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 02:30 PM
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Oh ok.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 05:19 PM
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Uh, hello...rules don't apply to me. You're not me, so follow the rules of life. it was just a fact. i've chosen to spend time replying, there is no argument here.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 05:09 PM
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you can't make someone do anything. but in your case, I'd probably refrain from talking to her, like at all.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 05:05 PM
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Give this a read if you'd like: http://www.businessinsider.com/its-not-bragging-if-you-back-it-up-2011-5 You've claim I'm useless, and bragging. Your entitled to your opinion, but that's all it is - your opinion. Lucky for me, your opinion is just based on the dumb shit you think up in your head. Probably a coping mechanism your brain uses to keep your body calm, and to justify the life you currently live as "good" or "ok". Sadly for you, I live in the real world and talk facts. I don't feel a n…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:57 PM
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Yes, I'm clearly insecure too. Although, it's not bragging if it's true.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:27 PM
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Couldn't agree more - I'm the epitome of useless. I literally spend my days doing whatever I want, which usually involves sleeping, reading shit online, and discovering ways to make more money. Cause I really love money. When I'm not busy making money, I usually just drive around in some nice clean whip that gets attention, and just do me. I like doing this cause it raises my personal brand awareness. People love to chat and know who the young guy is whipping around town in a Maserati, plus girl…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 03:40 PM
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"I'm the prize", like really? This must be one of the dumbest comments to ever been typed, and a terrible viewpoint. You're going at relationships thinking you're a prize to be won? LOL A prize compared to who?...yourself?...cause no woman would ever think you're a prize over a guy like me. We're not in the same league. I'm all for self-respect, taking no bs, drilling down to the point and not wasting time. But to consider yourself more valuable than someone else, good luck with that mentality i…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 01:40 PM
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There's some interesting advice here, and I think it's easy for people to chime in when they're not in your shoes. This girl is a "slut", likely has feminist view points and is certainly liberal about sex. Who cares if you wheeled her off Tinder. None of these points make her not "wife" material. She is wife material, to some guy out there. Remember, there's always someone else that would be happy to have what you have with her, right now. The better you understand what you want from your woman,…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 01:34 PM
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i need to know - where do you find the time?
/r/askTRP14/04/17 01:22 AM
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confirm. this approach ends well, 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 01:21 AM
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this x10
/r/askTRP11/04/17 07:40 PM
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your only problem, isn't really a problem at all. here what i'd do, but you do you. stop seeing girl A, be unavailable hit up girl B when girl A leaves town. if girl B dislikes girl A like you've claimed, then it's almost too easy. bitches love stealing from other bitches. ProTip, its usually easy to fuck your ex's friends, but remember, it's a 2-way street, so be prepared.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 07:39 PM
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sensible thing to do: not care...cause really whodafuck cares. next time set the time. lesson learned.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 07:34 PM
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this, exactly.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:37 PM
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goes both ways. will continue to write however the fuck i please. thx tips.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:59 AM
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this is a good point, think 'famous' actresses, most have high counts. committed to women with high n-counts, probably would never marry tho.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:42 AM
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lol @ makin' your first mil is not much work for someone who knows what they're doing. this sentence doesnt even make sense. lemme tell you the facts, unless given to you for free, it is a lot of work, and you never know what you're doing.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:37 AM
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is it true - friendship will never return to "normal" once you've slept together? interesting thought, seriously. one i'm going to be testing shortly. i'm not sure acting "beta" is helpful. the approach that i've taken is showing a blatant lack of respect for her as a woman. ie. my ex had cold sores, and slept with +/- 20 guys or some shit. so i'd bring up these topics, ask questions like "do you think men will ever value a woman who's fucked so much cock?". basically i'd hurt her, and make her …
/r/askTRP19/03/17 11:38 PM
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no where near 30 yet, but my mission is mo money. i don't see this ever changing.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:30 AM
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i'm curious how some people find the time to stir up and deal with drama. you text her some passive-aggressive shit, catch her off guard, and are now scheming how to handle it. like can we trade lives for a day? i just want your free time. grow-up.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:26 AM
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unfortunately for you, this guys right. fix your lack of game.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:18 AM
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not a great sign, but girls also like attention and validation and options and shit. my experience when they're into you, they're into U.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:14 AM
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it's called culture. when you travel globally, frequently, you learn about this shit. there's some spots i'll hit up specifically when i just want to party and fuck cough Prague cough
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:12 AM
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gay bff zone. whats it like in there?
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:07 AM
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there's no putting in the mood. women like to fuck, and are hornier than guys. make it known her feelings and thoughts are perfectly ok. you do this by coolin in person and making her feel comfortable to be herself around you.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:06 AM
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exactly. it already will never work out.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:03 AM
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I think I agree with Zaitzev on this one - you need to dump her and not look back. But you're likely not emotionally prepared. you need to stand up for how you feel, cause it's a slippery slope. once that rock starts moving downhill, there's no stopping it. she should always be respecting you, it's as simple as that.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:02 AM
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agreed.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 01:47 AM
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I do this when I love the girl. So i've done this twice. By "beta", i bring up convo that degrades, and devalues her. ie. you fucked 20 guys, that's kinda slutty no? why would i want to lock down a girl like you who's been through the team? eventually they've realised a lack of respect for them, and broke it off. i don't recommend this approach, instead, i recommend honesty because it maintains her respect for you.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 06:08 AM
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tbh responding is difficult. i'm unsure how her being an ex relates to abundance. also, why working with her matters. you're right - it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 06:01 AM
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i like this post, in some ways I can relate. sometimes its hard to find the time to pursue women vs everything else there is to knock off. women are exhausting af, and eat time, but they're fun. when money becomes insignificant, time and energy becomes your most valuable assets. although you may not relate to this specifically, i think you realised how you like and don't like wasting your time and energy. if you follow your approach, it might yield 1-2 bangs per year, assuming you have some "gam…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:45 AM
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I don't think so, i'm forming an opinion based on what i'm reading in responses. when you say your comment, followed by "that's not abundance", i immediately thought, "well it's not not abundance". we can pursue new things, fuck new/old things, and still have a heart for someone.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:33 AM
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LOL, she's a milf, and i take it your early / mid-twenties. around my age :) we know girls are horny af, like all the time. so it's a given sex is on her mind. she's older, so she's wiser and more experienced than you. because of this, she'll always have the upper hand. recognize the situation for what it is, she's making contact, making effort and wanted to know who you are. question is, why? she's trying to sniff out the type of man you are, and i feel like you demonstrated one without balls. …
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:24 AM
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my ex showed me reddit and this sub, we shared a laugh..i'd never used reddit before. i told her, and now you, this sub is interesting. a lot of this can be applied to relationships in general. but holy fuck, it lacks a guy like me. nothing can replace real life experience, real examples, and pure honesty. listen, i get the whole "she's an ex, she's dead to me", "abundance mentality" shit. i think i've been struggling with this sub because i just never been one to take a cookie cutter approach.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:12 AM
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there's nothing to prove. we will never compete. we run in two different social and economical circles in this life. these are my opinions, take them with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:00 AM
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mind explaining what makes you think i'd be insecure right now? because I speak my mind? i tell it like it is? i share personal info? give real examples from my experience? is it because i don't fear hiding who i am? you haven't yet realised that EVERYONE is insecure in some way, shape or form. everyone. you add no value. i hope one day we just exterminate your kind. unfortunately, we need you lower - upper middle classers to do shit we don't want to do.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:56 AM
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appreciate your reply. i did do, say, and reacted how I wanted. i was curious on how others handle an ex who drops lines. i fell in love with her, felt mutual. and truthfully, I haven't decided. i want her to be happy, and atm i can't provide her with what she wants. so it is what it is. i don't really think about "abundance", i do think about time and how it translates to money, or personal happiness. i have new and old options of course, but finding time is the toughest part.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:47 AM
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every detail matters, i already think you're dumb af. you likely will brush it off like you don't care, and maybe online you can get away with it. irl, you work for guys like me, and we'd send you back to pass the 5th grade before ever letting you touch base with one of our 'clients'. i'm not better than you because i can spell, because i have more money, more opportunity, a larger network, drive ideas through quicker, or am better looking, younger. i'm better than you because you don't add valu…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:30 AM
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it's not even hamstering. it's just thinking things through, having a vision for the future, understanding the situation, recognizing the game plan, and sticking to it. idk, i think this is what's made me so successful in business, and with women. plus i'm really really ridiculously good looking. and it's saw not seen.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:25 AM
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it's not about playing the long game, or not playing the long game. you and i are two different animals, you can tell by how we react. i actually enjoy patience and self-control. i like the fact that i know i could make it a short game anytime, yet i choose not to. for this reason i find it hard to ever take advice from you. everything matters my friend, everything. no two people are the same cut. some will move mountains, some will want you to move 'em. when sex becomes regular, you don't reall…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 04:08 AM
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cool story bro. i hate to be "that guy", but it'd be grammatically correct to use a period instead of a question mark. you could be right, but there's always the other end of the spectrum. to me it's a given; just a matter of when. &nbsb; 3 reasons it's a given: * she initiates contact, or comments on my shit. * we don't chat, just sexual innuendos. * never gave her the opportunity to make sweet sweet love to me. &nbsb; sure, maybe you would have her over within 72 hours. afterall i pulled it of…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 12:36 AM
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Interesting comment, I'm not sure what you mean. I thought I've given you clear context, and a real-life example of how I keep a girl in the options list with very minimal effort. This has been on-going for years, and we've hung out only once. I have 0 doubt that I will eventually bang her, when I decide and make time to pursue in person. I was just looking to hear your funny and witty comments, but am left disappointed with the outcome. guys like me don't need to "think" abundance mentality, we…
/r/askTRP16/03/17 03:11 PM
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You're still wrong, as I'm neither. I disagree - nothing I typed goes against TRP theory, it actually aligns well with the "frame" subject. Re-read my recommendation. Don't try to counter, or think about a response, just read it and let it sink in. It's not about how to behave with women, it's about listening to what someone is telling you, understanding it, and reacting accordingly. So read my recommendation, understand it, and react accordingly. Right now, you're just reacting to your own thou…
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:24 PM
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is this not the never get laid sub?
/r/askTRP16/03/17 04:38 AM
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did you want me to post it over there?
/r/askTRP16/03/17 04:38 AM
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look this is just fucking terrible advice. please realise she did say "sometimes I FEEL like YOU DON"T even CARE about ME". there is no "prize", we're all human. so listen up. when a person is vulnerable with you, you don't get selfish, pretend not to care, or drive them away with negativity. in my experience these actions will never end well, and you don't get what you really want. there's nothing wrong with actually listening to someone. i'm not saying jump through hoops, talk it out then and …
/r/askTRP16/03/17 03:23 AM
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well it's important to know, so here, let me spoon feed you: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Five_Love_Languages
/r/askTRP16/03/17 03:13 AM
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Cheers to not giving a fuck, you do you, she will follow. You don't say anything to this, you don't discuss it, you don't hash it out, nothing. patience is a virtue, so here's what you do - you change your behaviour a tiny bit. I tell my team actions speak louder than words, because I fucking believe it and women do too. Understand her love language, and next time your away on business, take a moment, and focus on creating a positive experience for her by catering to her love language. if she li…
/r/askTRP16/03/17 03:10 AM
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Is her love language even gifts?
/r/askTRP16/03/17 03:05 AM
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we're having a baby, naming it Broseph
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:24 AM
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Hold up aaaayyyyy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1KeB2U_R_T4
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:11 AM
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Insecurity is a relationship killer. If you love her, let her talk to her ex. Your pride hurts? Suck it up buttercup, this isn't about you. I feel like you believe the worst case scenario is her fucking her ex. It'll hurt your ego to have a fast one pulled on you. You likely have pushed the boundaries a time or two yourself, so it drives your insecurity. Worst case is the fact she doesn't love you. And if you loved her, you'd trust her. Get out before your insecurity eats you. Unfortunately I kn…
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:00 AM
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Good news is, you'll survive.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:49 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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