there was this girl in my condo whose always had my interest. One Friday night we happen to walk in at the same time, so I invited her over to chill. we cooked a late dinner (her frozen spaghetti gravy, and my noodles cause I can compromise). we ate, got to know each other a lil bit, watched a movie and fooled around, no fucky. I didn't really chase after, had another girl in focus. plus living in the same building, she knew what i was about, and apparently used to give my ex dirty looks, according to my ex... rolls eyes  

times passed and she's moved to wrap up her masters, i still feed her attention from time to time, but not much. i've been so bad, but patient, it's actually brilliant. truth is, i think she gets too much attention anyways. my gut tells me she's wanted me to "give a shit" about her since the beginning. not dine and dash. maybe one day i will, but likely not tomorrow.  

lately she posts a lotta insta food pics, and koodo's cause they're perfectly plated. to me it speaks volumes to her personality. she's likely to be a corporate lawyer, and they tend to run as a very process oriented mentality. ie. they like things wrapped in a perfect bow. so here's my latest, after not chatting for a few months.  

i post insta food pic tagging and egging her. she comments back that we're now competing.  

  • I DM her (around midnight): you know it's been pretty hard lately
  • her (mid-afternoon): cause i'm winning ?

 

what do you think a good follow-up would be?  

feel free to ask me anything.