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PsychedelicDoc/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:03 PM
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ADVICEPsychedelicDoc/r/RedPillWomen20/04/16 05:40 PM
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I haven't seen this anywhere so far, but here goes: "I have a sarcastic sense of humor" or "I am fluent in sarcasm." Anything about sarcasm or a dark sense of humor. = He's a verbally abusive asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:33 PM
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It's going to alienate people unnecessarily. There is no need for that. I can see what you're saying and most likely vegetarians or vegans will like it, but why alienate meat eaters when it's going to turn them off from your argument?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:56 PM
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I can see some of your point, but eating vegetarian (10 years depending on form) was not good for my health for many reasons. I really respect people who do it but I just couldn't because I ended up with so many digestion problems exacerbated by it that I literally couldn't function or eat much of anything anymore. I'm so, so much healthier now that I eat meat regularly and it goes against everything I believed for a long time but I can't fight reality. It's not fair to shame people for that. Fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:35 AM
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I had a man do things like this for years and I was smitten. Ultimately he would just ghost me because he didn't know how to commit or not be a fuck boy in his late 30s and early 40s. He's not HVM, IMO, if he does nice things. He needs to commit, period, or he's worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:03 AM
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I get it, too, but men shouldn't be the only ones who get to choose who they like while their object conforms. I feel like it's totally up to him every single time. Blech, patriarchy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:42 AM
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We have to hit them where it hurts them, not about their emotions or looks but in their finances and egos. Hmmmm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:27 AM
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I am their age. If they even have kids, it's a knock down of about 5 points just for that, usually because they "always come first" or are their "everything".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 12:48 AM
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Their girlfriends do NOT look like that. Please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:21 PM
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Ha!!! Let's add, "Just out of a long-term relationship, looking for something casual." I'm not your rebound, loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:19 PM
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This is just a big glob of fat with eyes. There are no visible bones or muscles at all! It takes men a tiny amount of weightlifting or cardio to slim down to a normal BMI. I like to exercise and eat healthy, dude, so we wouldn't ever match on basic lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:16 PM
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The left arm? On the right side of the photo? That's her wrist, curled up. Edit: I see that you noticed this. Oops!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:01 PM
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This is what ghosting was made for! The absolute correct reason to ghost another person, right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:23 AM
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And these same men shame women for having a "high N count" (multiple sex partners). Is sex empowering for us or not?! Please decide for us, all-powerful menns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:56 PM
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"The seven year itch" has been well-known for a long time. Take care of yourself, sis. They're only loyal to themselves. Trust me on that. The rug can get pulled really damn quick with no warning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:10 PM
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We should have an update in 10 years. 5 years in is still just a honeymoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:30 PM
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The best part is that you need men less in your 30s and beyond. You're not willing to put up with the shit you put up with when you were younger. The pool sucks at any age, but you can speak your mind and set your boundaries when you're older. It's a great time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:53 PM
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It's really sad to see young women giving in to men's desires because they want to please them, thereby further encouraging male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:02 PM
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Gay men are the MOST misogynistic! Listen closely when they talk about women's bodies, periods, etc. They are literally DISGUSTED by actual women. They think they get a pass because they're "feminine" but they don't have any use for women in their lives - most gay men are only surrounded by men because they prefer men in every way. They start to think they're doing US a favor by advising us to act like men in order to get men. No. That's not how it should work. Gay men are to blame for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:00 PM
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Every man. Ever. They're born and raised to have everything handed to them. Full stop. I love her for doing this. Dang, she was a little girl for so long and look at her!! I'm so proud of millennial women like her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:27 AM
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I smell an alcoholic. This is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:05 AM
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What guy pushing 40 just wants to "make out"? Ha, that's all they have energy for after beating off to all that porn! They fall asleep really easily, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:00 AM
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"Let's just sign the papers and see where it goes. I'm not gonna lie, you look like a loyal breadwinner!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:13 PM
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Right? I'm tired, SO tired, of it being ALL about them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:06 PM
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He seems to be portraying himself as a bad ass who doesn't smile. It kind of scares me, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:41 PM
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This is how gay men talk about women's bodies - it's all gross to them. Big pink gaydar flag!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:35 PM
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The best you can get from this is spending time with a man you really like. That's it. And that alone better be worth it because it will never progress further than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:33 PM
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Sometimes I fantasize about responding, "Want to get married?" or something similarly bold and outrageous so see how they'd react. I imagine it would turn them off in the same way. Tit for tat, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:25 PM
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Every man I've been with has been very explicit about how he cleans his penis. I haven't seen this problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:46 AM
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What do you mean by green tags? I'm a middle aged woman who's been around a bit and I love sex with the right man. It is mostly due to one who blew me away and showed me what was possible in my mid 20s. It doesn't take away the disappointment so many women experience, but it IS possible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:31 PM
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Yep. The foreskin preserves the nerve endings so that the guy doesn't have to jackhammer to feel it intensely. It's more similar to how our bodies operate. It's not necessary for good sex if you have a guy who knows what he's doing and moves with you as you grind and explore, but it helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:20 PM
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Ladies, find a man that gives you thundering vaginal orgasms! You will miss that shit. It helps if he's had a long relationship, is sensitive to your needs, wants to learn, and (this one can be major) is NOT circumcised!! Uncut men are sensitive lovers. I miss that kind of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:22 PM
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I didn't think that, but that's an entertaining take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:56 PM
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Oh, totally. I'm just curious. I wasn't considering him at ALL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:55 PM
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Oh, obviously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:54 PM
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Mental health pro here. Borderline PD is seen by trauma-informed professionals as complex PTSD (C-PTSD). C-PTSD is not a diagnosable disorder, but it is a result of interpersonal trauma (emotional abuse) that is often repeated over and over again and can look mild until you look at the big picture over the long-term. That said, there is an attachment component to it that manifests as insecurity that is triggered by other interpersonal interactions, especially if there's perceived abandonment or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:51 PM
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I LOVE stubble!! I'm at risk of being a pickmeisha to any dude with stubble no matter what he looks like otherwise. Beyond that, beards are gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:50 AM
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I'm in my 40s and I've started to see a huge rush of men calling themselves "alpha" on dating profiles. It's an immediate swipe left. Seriously, are you really "alpha" (although no one really is, but let's pretend) if you have to tell me? It's always been fairly common for men to emphasize they want "something casual" and obviously to post shirtless pics or whatever. I've been known to use their analogy - dude, I'll send my selfie in my wedding gown right over to you. It's hot, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:20 PM
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Oh, we had OLD 10 years ago. We had it 15 years ago. I'm so old and tired that I met my last partner there, who seemed wonderful at the time and later destroyed me by ghosting me via email after 7 years and that was 7 years ago. And I did a lot of OLD before him for several years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:39 PM
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Men are wrong about the wall, but let's stop objectifying women to prove them wrong or this will never stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:48 PM
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YES. It's pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:05 PM
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But you’re a female, why the fuck would you admit or even care if it happens. And this, my dear, is why you are in a place in your life where you are seeking validation from a male-dominated pickup artist internet fringe group. Good luck with that attitude. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:58 PM
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You're choosing not to see the possibilities that directly reflect your point of view for commitment. Period. A woman has sex with a man just so he'll marry her and so that she can control him through sex? What kind of a sick, fucked up world do you live in? It's just as weird as your description of the man playing along to getting married. If something like this appears to happen, your perception is what is driving you to say/think that. Not reality. I work professionally with couples. I see a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:43 PM
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Why are you being so obtuse? How can it be that difficult to understand that commitment can be given and withdrawn at any time? It's a constant give and take opportunity. Sure, divorce. Also, withdrawal of multiple kinds to include extramarital involvements of several varieties. If you choose not to see the other side of male-female interaction this way, you are choosing to not extend yourself. If it's a game, both sides are playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:02 PM
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Passionate lovemaking. Not the shit fucked out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 01:56 PM
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Just imagine you change everything and throw your girlfriend down, and fuck the shit out of her. That's her fantasy anyway. No, that's your fantasy. Take it from this old lady: she would much rather have snuggles leading to a slow, erotic, loving, and sensual evening with the man she loves. Stop watching so much porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:11 AM
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Usually nothing changes with the guy. Um. Huh? Do you expect this to be taken seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:05 AM
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Perhaps your words below say it best: Usually less sex commitment. That’s when women use it as a reward for doing stuff or buying himer stuff if she hasn’t already before marrying having sex with herim. As the other poster said: Once there's literally no more commitment sex to possibly give (marriage they're hooking up), does the man woman typically receive unlimited sex with commitment from his wife her partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 09:39 PM
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The same thing that happens when she starts sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 06:58 PM
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Does the equivalent happen when the woman has sex with the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 06:55 PM
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Men take advantage of the fact that women want more emotional long-term connection. He teases her by hinting about being a couple, but leaving her disappointed and frustrated by not giving her a promise of a future together. He's happy with going out on occasional dates, but she wants to live together. He seems to take pleasure in getting her all worked up by having her meet certain members of his family, leaving a toothbrush and change of clothes at his house, and by calling her pet names, know…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:02 PM
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What possible basis do you even have to comment such a thing? Are you a dancer? No. So you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:59 AM
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Yes they do, because most dancers train in ballet for the technique in addition to what they specialize in. And starting young is ideal, so as a boy going to any dance class is going to be rare and stigmatized. I was a professional dancer. Men have more opportunities. They're more sought after. In any form. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:29 AM
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True alpha right here!! It takes a real man to navigate the dance floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 08:08 PM
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Hot. They're better in bed, healthier, less likely to get fat or complain of pain or lack of mobility, and they are more open in their personalities. I'm trained as a dancer so I have much respect for men who dance. They have to overcome a LOT of stigma to train. They're lucky, though, because they have more opportunities in the field for sure. Any man with a little talent will rise to the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:52 PM
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Good question. I'm aware that most historians said they were more egalitarian. I didn't say it was ALL of history. It's been a long time since our ancestors were hunter-gatherers. We can either consider that in this argument or examine the cultures that still exist in that way--would that support OP's argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:25 PM
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No, just that I'm hungry and need nourishment. I'm only able to eat and drink what I have access to and am capable of buying (financially and physically, as well as what the store stocks).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:37 AM
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So, if I only have one grocery store in my town that sells one brand of milk, and I choose to buy that milk, I'm making a choice and a statement about what type of milk I like to drink. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:09 AM
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It's not about rape. For much of human history, women have been economically dependent on men. Their gender roles dictated that they raised children while men leave the home and work. This automatically put them in a position to accept whoever could provide for them. Obvious example being a large part of the world where dowries are historically given for a wife and it's the man's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:49 AM
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Your two examples are somewhat equal in their oppression based on the work they are selling based on their sex and what they are expected to offer society. Neither would willingly do either job without being paid. The male worker is being exploited for his time and physical labor (which is ultimately going to be more valuable than $15/hr), and same for the female - the ultimate exploitation is of her sex. The man, I think, will get to walk away with slightly more dignity if he happens to be youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:26 PM
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Yeah, help out the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 01:58 PM
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I said the exact same thing(s) in a different comment. Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 01:51 PM
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That is the entire goal of TRP--massive gaslighting into submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 01:41 PM
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Please, let someone mainsplain to you why you're wrong. Paragraphs await. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 01:00 PM
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Your analysis of the picture smacks of The Fox and The Grapes. Not at all. I skip past groomed photos such as the one on the right because it signals a guy who is so into himself that sex itself will be unsatisfying. I've been there - hanging out with someone who makes the counter like a bad porn story? No thanks. I'll reward the (same guy) other photo every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 12:55 PM
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Wrong. And you missed my point about the wedding dress comparison completely. This is what men find attractive in themselves--muscles, etc. What women love are dresses; so they dress themselves in ways that THEY think is hot (a wedding dress, to be stereotypical) because they think men like it. They don't. Enter the male equivalents: shirtless muscle selfies and dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 02:09 AM
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It's almost as if... gasp...we know what we find attractive as a sex, while men don't!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 02:05 AM
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I don't even know what you're claiming. Never mind. With Facebook as your source, I can see there is no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:22 PM
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He's slightly more attractive because he's smiling, his skin is less pasty, the photo is clearer, and his posture isn't slumped. No woman is going to drool over a photo like this on a dating site. He's showing his ego by flauting his body and that's a turn off. If either of them were posing with a puppy, helping a fellow human, or engaging in a fun life event (any of the above with a shirt on), it would be more attractive to a woman. These photos are the equivalent of a woman wearing a wedding d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:30 PM
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You'll have to work harder to support this link between intelligence and quality of life due to exogenous testosterone. I'm a psychologist. Saying it doesn't make it correlate and correlation doesn't equal causation. Women's magazines have been marketed to what people think women want since the beginning of time. That doesn't mean anything. Plus, men in their 30's and 40's are experiencing a decline in testosterone, so what does that say? Probably that they're marketing the magazines (read: adve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:24 PM
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Lol, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:54 PM
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How does that make them smart? It doesn't make them more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:51 PM
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It's not anyone's personal fault that, for some reason, men think normal weight looks skinny or weak. I've never been overweight and I don't want a man that is. I probably should move to California, but then you still have the problem of men's over self-indulgence in their favorite sport (surfing, snowboarding, cycling, whatever) that their woman better also take up or hit the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 03:43 PM
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I'm not admitting that here, but it isn't that other planet, California. Are you a man? I'm sure the men here think the guys are all "in shape," ie tons of muscle on top of fat. I don't see it; I see fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 03:25 PM
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In contrast guys in their 40s are just entering the peak portion of their careers and tend to have fewer mental health issues than earlier in life. There also seem to be a lot more middle aged guys who remain physically capable (even guys with a few pounds around the middle). This is deluded thinking. Go on any dating site as similarly-aged woman, and 99% of the options are men who don't groom effectively (unkempt neckbeards), are overweight or obese and think that "hitting the gym" and lifting …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:48 PM
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Yeah, not to nag about dinner. That's why she kicked him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 02:09 AM
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Reminds me of inviting a date over for dinner and at first he agreed. Then he later cancelled because he said he was "not looking for a relationship." Um, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 12:53 AM
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It's not just the wine. He sat there and then asked when dinner was going to be ready? We don't know the details of that but, dang, it sounds entitled on his part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 12:50 AM
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Confidence with sensitivity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:00 PM
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literally throws you onto the bed and pounds you into the Stone Age... Please don't say it like that to women. What a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:18 AM
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How about the truth that whatever a woman (or collective womanhood) does is subject to scrutiny? Everywhere you turn, it's judgment and questioning what women do or say. You don't see the same debates about men. Are they making a sacrifice working full time? How about as a stay at home dad? When they take off work for family reasons? When they work over 40 hours? Even without considering men, will anything a woman or mother do ever be ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:51 PM
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Sandwiching your reply between two personal insults is a juvenile way to have a debate. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:22 PM
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Even assuming abortion is difficult, inaccessible, unaccepted and unapproved, that doesn't take away reproductive rights or body autonomy. By definition it does. Circumcision is a straw man distraction. I'm not talking about circumcision, although I totally agree with you. It doesn't take away from the burden women have of being forced or coerced into a poverty-inducing life sentence (parenting) while men can seek independence and autonomy from that responsibility. If you don't want to even hear…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 07:14 PM
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So? That doesn't mean it's easy, accessible, accepted, approved, or not threatened to disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 05:24 PM
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Biggest example: Reproductive rights and lack of body autonomy. It is exclusive to females and the biggest oppressor of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:55 PM
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Are you a man? No woman would say many of the things you say here. wanting it once every second day is actually moderate to moderately low That is perfectly average. That might explain why touching his package seems to turn you off even more, or you're really not attracted to him at all. That is not true at all. How in the world would these two things be related? It is well documented that women's sexual dysfunction is frequently psychological, and stress is a huge factor. It's also highly corre…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 01:22 AM
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Totally agree. It's all projection and men are the ones thinking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 03:57 PM
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I've been suicidal and I work with suicidal people. Trust me, a random smile from a stranger isn't going to solve their despair. It might even make them feel emptier because it's random and not getting to the bottom of their distress.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 03:39 PM
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Why would you randomly smile at a stranger, unless you're trying to get something from them or you're specifically helping each other with something? I'm an introvert and would rather be left alone in public. Even eye contact has drawn unwanted conversation with, mostly, older men who leave my day worse off by their conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 12:27 PM
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I want someone the same or slightly taller than me for that reason. If not for heels being much more sexy footwear, equal height would be ideal. I don't want to reach up or down significantly to my partner when sharing affection. Personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 06:14 PM
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Pretty much. Except... never? Never ever ever? That sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 01:28 PM
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Both short(er) men and tall(er) women don't prefer that match.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 04:11 AM
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It's not the same. Breasts are only for sexual attraction while height is a practical matter, albeit loaded with gender role stereotyping. I am a tall woman so dating a man at my height or shorter means I'll be towering over him when I wear heals, which even men don't like. I'd prefer to be with a man who isn't embarrassed of the Amazon woman he is accompanied by.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 12:49 AM
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He reveals his disinterest in a basic relationship or connection early and often, either by his words or his behavior (or, not keeping in touch). I know hot men who are great in bed, and great people, but I'll be damned if they can keep a woman around for any length of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 09:24 PM
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For a woman, a slow PC can be equivalent to a new, good-looking man who doesn't show an interest in doing what she needs. Does she have the patience for that, or does she goes with the tried and true body that does exactly the right moves to get her to her happy place? No offense, but dumb analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 01:10 AM
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Sigh. Ok. As with every twerp, you are right because of the sidebar and your perspective on your experience. I won't continue wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 10:18 PM
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Why are they married in the first place? Because they actually do GAF. Affairs are never just about sex. Yes, partially they are, because married sex is a joke (hence my other argument), but there is a thrill to it that goes beyond sex. And I work in this field, so I'm familiar with the research and outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 01:24 PM
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I think women only appear to "hit on" or "be more interested" in married men. In reality, they're just more comfortable with these men because they don't believe they're being sexually pursued by a creep. It's like TRP says about "beta" men--they're cozy, reliable friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 01:21 PM
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Please. Married men aren't getting laid, and TRP knows this. And if he's sleeping with a woman outside of his marriage, he's probably not limiting it to one, so--real STD potential. And married men are less averse to attachment, so more likely to get clingy than some random chronically single dude. I disagree with your premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 12:46 PM
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Cheat? No. Ask for a rearrangement where he can sleep with others? Yes. Cheating is lying and deceiving. Be open about it, or you're a true twerp and a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 06:07 PM
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Zzzzzzzzzzzz.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 01:38 PM
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Haha, ok. I see you've read the sidebar. Good job. I will continue to avoid men like you, and I sincerely worry for women you interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 12:36 PM
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First and foremost, I said women don't put sex on a pedestal like men do. The way you describe the pedestal is not how men see it. That's what I meant. The rest of what you said makes sense, in a way, practically. However, according to the precious red pill, and really most female-centered dating theory, sleeping around to find a relationship is a bad strategy. It's not about having "no problem getting fucked by the Chad I was attracted to," it's about being manipulated into sex by someone who p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 12:03 PM
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How does that equate to putting it on a pedestal? I'm talking about saving the goods (what men put on a pedestal) for when it is proven he's not gonna treat me like a piece of meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 12:29 AM
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How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 09:41 PM
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Important, yes. The holy grail of validation, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 02:47 PM
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As a woman, you don't know that until you give it time. That's why you sleep with guys you don't care about right away, because it doesn't matter how it turns out with them. With the guys that matter, you wait because you don't want to treat it like it's meaningless. Most guys will fade after sex and a few weeks' time, and if you really like him it will be devastating. If you wait, at least he won't throw you away like a slut after you fuck him, because you still have your dignity. I've slept wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 01:03 PM
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the best part of you No. He forgets about her the next day. It means nothing to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 12:59 PM
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Because women don't put sex on a pedestal like men do. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 12:54 PM
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I've never thought about it that way. It wasn't my original or even 2nd or 3rd career, so it was a progression that ended up making sense. I never wanted any kind of "desk" job, and although this is sedentary (more so than anything I've ever done) it is a good compromise now that I'm older. I like the variety of it--the writing, the people, etc. My brother is an engineer, too, and it seems horrible!! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 04:04 PM
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Hey, comrade! Therapist here, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 02:59 AM
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The rest of the sex drive is more or less societally created. In a society that did not promote sexual pleasure and promiscuity, and one that shamed such behavior, you would likely not be much more sexually active 40+. I actually don't think that's totally true. A woman's sex drive literally increases with age. At least it did for me. I'm still fertile, I think, but I don't worry about it as much because I like sex for sex's sake, and that has increased since my mid-20's. When I was in this so-c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:53 PM
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Oh, honey, that's what makes TRP so fun to read! It's so, so wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 11:13 PM
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I'm on the high side of your older category. And women over 40 can still have babies, not that they should. But yes, I suppose what you said is true about sex and men staying around, although men are less likely to totally bail themselves when older, albeit not necessarily commit. do you prefer younger or older men? I prefer men around my age. Slept with a man in his late 20's a couple years ago and he was way too immature. I broke it off and never looked back. Have you had any lesbian experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 11:10 PM
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Meh. I'm an older woman and I'm more interested in fun. Marriage is overrated. Plus, our sex drive increases as we get older, so visual displays in men become more appealing, although that's still not saying much relatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 10:08 PM
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don't you think a woman watching a football team or other group of virile healthy men might feel the same way? Something like this, perhaps? Female here. Generally, that's a big fat NO. It's nice, but it's more funny because the men just seem so into themselves. They do it for their own vanity, not for women. Perhaps the boldness is more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 10:05 PM
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I'm not sure exactly what HIIT stands for...high intensity something?...but as a female I don't see results from lifting, mainly because my fat (when I have it, I'm super thin) collects around my middle. Lifting doesn't do anything for that. Cardio does, hands down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 04:07 PM
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I wasn't responding to the OP, but I actually don't think cardio is useless for weight/fat loss. It depends on the activity and the person, such as their weight at the outset and their nutrition. If nothing changes in one's crappy diet but the person starts walking...yeah, not gonna happen. However, if the person already eats healthy and minimally, then adding high intensity cardio like running can certainly result in weight loss and changes in the body. I've seen it clearly in myself and others…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 02:33 PM
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Unless you're aiming for competition levels of bodyfat, cardio is not needed and simply a needlessly time consuming and unpleasant way of generating a calorie deficit, and on a calorie deficit it can easily be overdone and lead to muscle loss. LISS like brisk walks are much more appropriate than getting hammered in a spinning class; the point is more to get blood flow to stubborn fat areas than to actually burn calories. The reasons people participate in cardiovascular exercise go beyond weight …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 06:09 PM
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I may have to, because people in this sub never back up their claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 12:24 PM
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The plural of anecdote is not data. Cite it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 03:20 AM
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Please remember to cite the statistics for actual (false) rape convictions that result in prison sentences. Then, the actual statistics for sexual assault in prison. I would really like to know how "good" that chance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 02:06 AM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 01:55 PM
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Ugh, if there's anything I cannot stand it's a toddler or young child. Anything under 10 I avoid like the plague. I love cats - you can place them in the litter box as kittens and they know to use it, can leave them alone, and they don't talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 12:28 PM
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Not sure you answered why you would have them around if they were so ugly and stupid, but ok. Here goes. Does it help fulfill your quota for outrage porn to think that anybody successful must be insecure, manipulative, or evil? You're purposely using words and meanings in ways I did not to frame your point. I did not cite success or evil. You've continually misinterpreted the word "insecure" as a personality trait when I used it as a style of interpersonal interaction. Clearly you portray yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 01:54 PM
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That's sad. I never wanted them and never regretted it, honey. Find groups for childfree people. We're all like this. Edit: I'm so glad you were joking. That gave me palpitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 12:28 PM
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I know you said "most," but I'm a woman who never wanted them. I'm giddy at the thought that I've never been knocked up and got to live my dream of childfreedom. I don't fit in any of your 1-4 criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 12:24 PM
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I don't know if this is a common feeling, but I would guess that a lot of women have at least a tiny shred of "baby fever." I'm about 40 and I've never once experienced this baby fever that you speak of. Okay, maybe once (literally one moment in time) when I thought about bonding with a man I loved in my mid-20's. But otherwise...never again. I find it very strange how women talk about babies, act toward babies, and desire them. They're just stinking, whining balls and chains to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 12:19 PM
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Yep. Exactly as I thought. Dismissive. You are misunderstanding the meaning of insecure completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 01:23 PM
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https://jebkinnison.com/bad-boyfriends-the-book/type-dismissive-avoidant/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 07:24 PM
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If they aren't good enough, why have them around at all to begin with? It's pretty obvious that the gaming part is entertaining, which is exactly what insecure people do--manipulate and push people away while citing the other person's problems. I'm telling you, you're feeding off of each other. Getting the hint that someone is keeping you at a distance will trigger any abandonment issues a woman has. And they'll be there somewhere, because a woman who keeps a healthy distance is clearly no inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 04:33 PM
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I recommend you do some research on attachment styles. You're describing a classic case of avoidant (you) and preoccupied (her) styles, which are both considered insecure and tend to feed off of each other. You are clearly instigating that behavior and mindset in insecure women, even though TRP has misled you otherwise. In other words, you're pushing them away, which is the opposite of confident and secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 01:49 PM
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It's pure attachment theory, really--an empirically tested theory, in fact. Two insecure types attracting each other in the only way they know how. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 01:44 PM
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Say what you mean, then. Custody can be partial and not specifying it makes that statement hyperbolic. So, the parent that has the higher standard of living should get primary custody and no child support given, then? In that case you'd have a father supporting the child financially and raising them primarily. The only difference is where the child is living, because the father is still providing more financial support in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:03 PM
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No need to break the heart of someone who is casual (a "plate"), that's the point. If you're breaking their heart and it exhausts you, you're not the kind of man I'm talking about. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 06:59 PM
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Every second weekend is still some kind of custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 04:27 PM
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I've been "plated" by (had wonderful casual, non-exclusive relationships with) a few men who were awesome at it. They offered lots of support in everyday life events and long-term goals, communicated frequently and kept it light and friendly, expressed affection freely, listened openly to my stories about other men I was seeing, and were extremely positive when the "Where is this going?" or "Can we be exclusive" talk was initiated by me. They were so warm and open that I did not care that it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 03:15 AM
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Be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 03:09 AM
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Kid goes to a shitty school, eats shitty food, lives in a dangerous neighborhood with mom. Boo hoo. Take that, mom!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 10:45 PM
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With the track record of CS payments being made, you really think expenses will be reimbursed as required? It's setup this way for a reason. Like it or not (I have no fan to flame, personally), it is not practical to go to a reimbursement model.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 10:44 PM
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No custody at all? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 10:41 PM
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It already is, it just won't admit it. All of TRP ideas about women are simply about men--it's men's points of view projected on women, because that's how they think. Turn it around, because that's where the truth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 08:11 PM
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via a different middleman than handing mom $. There are professionals who will do this and they are VERY expensive. Would you rather the money go to a stranger than the mother of the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 08:08 PM
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Then the child will live at a lower status of living than the parent paying child support. How is that fair to the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 08:00 PM
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There is no way in HELL I would let either guy use my phone!! A nicely dressed guy who keeps space means absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 06:17 PM
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It all starts with just having dinner and escalates to assuming she wants to have sex if she agrees to come over. In the real world, that is. On TRP, many men talk like they feel entitled to the action they want. I don't know any woman who would just go out to dinner with a man for a free meal. That's ludicrous and a man's misguided interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 03:06 AM
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A man who is stronger than you can pin you down and rape you without being explicitly violent. Sometimes they even do it while kissing the woman and being affectionate. The woman resists, he pins her stronger. It escalates. This is not black or white.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 12:31 AM
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If you are that afraid of confrontation that you wouldn't say no if the person tries something, then why would you go home with him if you aren't planning on doing anything? She may be up for some things but not others. The problem is when men assume that women are giving a man anything he wants to do just because of some behavior, be it going to his house, going out to dinner, wearing something specific, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 12:27 AM
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"Violent" is not a personality trait. Every man (person) can be violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 12:24 AM
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You also need to factor in diagnostic issues. Women are more likely to seek help or assessment, therefore they're more likely to be diagnosed. No visit to a provider? No diagnosis. Also, men's depression can manifest more as anger and irritability, which can result in more externalized behaviors that lead to criminal or substance abuse rather than psychiatric interventions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 03:43 AM
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Wow, thank you!! I've been saying this for years and I'm laughed at or ignored. 100% agree with you about family privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 06:41 PM
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I'm saying you can't apply the "make laws and behavior gets better" rule to everything, ie, it's not black or white like that, and your example supports that premise. I'm not mad about anything, I just don't get this reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 01:44 PM
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Also, and I quote you here: With weapons restrictions come higher overall violent crime and homicide. Its a fact thats been proven time and again worldwide. It's not black or white.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 12:46 AM
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Interesting, because murder and speeding still occur a whole lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 12:39 AM
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if the mothers are afraid of being taught a lesson, will there be less kids overall without their needs met. This worked really well with punishment for illegal drug use, didn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 10:17 PM
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ITT: Classic projection. Men are the only ones who generally care about being ripped and about the objective physical appearance of their potential partners, so they assume women like it, too. Not true. In my experience, a man's face is just as important as his body - the whole package. In a body, I want someone like me, which is a body that moves comfortably and with ease, is supple, and can perform life and sexual tasks without undue strain. A ripped guy will not do that. Plus, big guys are ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 07:20 PM
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He's not starving or desperate. He has control over himself. He wants to gauge MY interest before jumping in to satisfy only his lusty desires. He's someone I'd feel comfortable around again. ETA: You know men are always DTF or escalate. Highly unlikely he wouldn't be interested, at least in some way. When he shows restraint, especially at first (through actions or words) that is highly respectable. It may even mean that he really, really likes me and doesn't want to mess it up--in fact, this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 01:55 PM
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I don't understand your first sentence. The bottom line is, what you said is wrong--a therapist is not mandated by law to report to law enforcement a verbal report of sexual violence, let alone "doubts" (laughable!). Period. Furthermore, if the therapist does so, he/she will be subject to potential malpractice claims and ethical violations for not maintaining confidentiality. A mandated reporter and/or therapist is, however, required by law to report evidence of child or elder abuse, and reports…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 05:05 PM
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This document does not even come close to your assertion that a therapist would have to report a client's verbal report of rape to police. In fact, it states that it would jeopardize their safety to do so: Many visits by victims of domestic violence to health care providers in primary care and women’s health care settings will not generally fall into a category that requires a report: i.e. visit for injuries caused by gunshot or knife wounds etc. The visits might be for health problems associate…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 04:17 PM
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Cite that, please. I do this work and I have never seen such a thing. Mandatory reporting does NOT include sexual assault or DV for adults (only children and elders), for good reasons. I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 02:09 PM
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Also, if a woman has doubts about an experience in the past, and mentions it in passing to the therapist, the therapist must report it to the police. That would be a massive violation of confidentiality. Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 12:44 PM
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Infatuation leads to sexual attraction. Maybe you just haven't really found that sweet spot yet. It's worth exploring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 11:19 PM
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Psychotropic meds can lead to a low libido, which you probably know. If you were on antipsychotics, could it be that you have a mental illness disorder that could also include sexual/relational side effects? I'm thinking specifically bipolar disorder or a schizophrenia spectrum disorder (which can be, I believe, related to autism spectrum disorder and its asocial symptoms). Follow what you're attracted to, and if that is nothing, then you probably won't benefit from it. Sex is multisensory and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 11:17 PM
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hurt feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 01:06 PM
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Have you ever even heard of the movie? You need to go beyond looking in dictionaries to apply definitions to real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 12:40 PM
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If you can't even bother to read every single word I type, never mind. Talking to twerps is like talking to walls. Never mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 12:38 PM
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Gaslighting isn't just inspiring self-doubt. I never said that. Gaslighting is a deliberate campaign intended to undermine one's perception of reality via cognitive dissonance. Not sure about the cognitive dissonance part, but otherwise yes. Dread game is not gaslighting. Gaslighting is more like spin doctoring and deception. Manipulation isn't defined by the ends, it's defined by the means. Please explain how this "dread game" is not about the means. If a man naturally produced "dread," through…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 02:57 AM
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They grew up with Wikipedia and the assumption that it knows all. And they're the generation who monopolize these subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 04:00 PM
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Apparently some people (cough...millenials...cough) think Wikipedia is the place where definitions originate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 03:09 PM
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Nope, wrong. Gaslighting means the perpetrator creates situations where the victim doubts herself and the reality of the situation. It is often completely verbal, and "dread game" can be a form of gaslighting because the victim starts to believe she must have done something to cause her abuser to remove affection and create threats, when really the abuser is trying to intentionally manipulate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 12:43 PM
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rape as in they got naked consensually and he stuck it in and she felt uncomfortable all of a sudden. Not rape. Dumb analogy. The closest analogy is a woman who never gets a boyfriend or husband, but even then it can be a source of power for women. Women don't have an equivalent, hence, why TRP exists to bitch and moan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 09:33 PM
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Because all they see are d $o$l $l$a $r $ign$$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 09:24 PM
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I'd be fine with a prenup. Oh wait...just dating? Why would that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 11:53 PM
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Knowing what I know now about TRP, I realize I've always been with beta guys/men. Aggressive and excessively dominant is a huge turn off. I like boring nerds with feelings and consideration. Many times they've knocked my socks off in bed!! They then go back to being boring nerds. I don't want to be tied down, so maybe that "alpha" trait of being somewhat disengaged or avoidant is attractive to me for that reason (although that's men in general). Honestly, when I've been with men who try to "esca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 10:51 PM
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Yes exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 10:40 PM
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That is only a range of 5 years. You can't say that 90% of all women who can have children won't based on such a small sample. That doesn't even include the youngest generation, who could very likely be reproducing much less. There needs to be more specific stats all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 10:40 PM
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9 out of 10 women who can have children will have a child in their lifetime. Citation please. It may be true, but where does it come from? It also would be helpful to know true stats on how many of them marry, also divorce, and divorce in the manner described (wife leaves husband and gets significant cash for doing so).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 07:58 PM
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I've never been particularly interested in marriage. I have more assets than most men I've dated, so I would be the one at a disadvantage. When I was in a LTR, it was with a near-equal who I supported while he accumulated assets at my expense, and he dropped me like a hot potato for a fatter, uglier woman who stroked his ego and wanted marriage and babies unlike me. I don't buy this TRP rhetoric. I'm just fine with male companionship and cohabitation. Eventually marrying with a prenup would be n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 06:41 PM
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Women's Studies is, by definition and history, both a political and an interdisciplinary degree. Most WS departments have historically hired faculty with specialties in disciplines other than WS, but who cross-list classes in both departments--eg, psychology, sociology, science, whatever. It supports their focus which is to promote scholastic contributions surrounding women in all areas. That said, their political agenda (IME) is to promote oppression in all areas as well, usually through the ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 07:33 PM
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As an older woman, it's because significantly older men were always disgusting to me. My younger self would never, ever choose an old man in a healthy state. I know women who do it are digging for gold or facing demons of some kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 06:26 PM
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if you look at it statistically, even just using common sense These are not one in the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 03:13 AM
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It means you're either completely uninterested in (attracted to) him or you have an indication that he has a one-track mind and you really don't want to deal with the aftermath. For me, it's almost always been the latter. If he hasn't done enough work to show you that he's not going to drop off the face of the earth the next day, it ain't worth the hassle--huge turn off. It's like dodging a bullet. And yes, I mean it. I don't want regret, which is what happens when you push through. More true fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 12:55 PM
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Well, it's true that one cannot just agree to disagree with a terper. Okay, fine, sexy boy. You're right, I'm wrong. I'm obviously turned on by your wisdom and want you to fuck me now. TINGLES!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 12:24 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 12:21 AM
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Ok then. I don't really need random Internet validation. Thanks but no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 11:11 PM
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That doesn't answer my question. The logic says that a woman should be monogamous while her partner spins plates. That's unrealistic. Since when is it about proving anything? A healthy woman will have sex because she wants to, not to prove anything. And, no, it doesn't make her man more attractive (to women...Maybe to himself) if he scores with someone else. That's ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 11:10 PM
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So...women can't spin plates? They're supposed to be exclusive to a man who plates them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 06:18 PM
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Yeah, and it's probably lauded by other terpers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 06:17 PM
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Ok, sure. Disregard for others, not confirming to social norms, conning others, irritability, irresponsibility...at least from what I can tell from the writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 06:16 PM
1

Completely untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 06:13 PM
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According to red pill, spinning plates (male) = cock carousel (female). If he's not exclusive with you (or if there's been no agreement), you're not exclusive with him, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 01:32 PM
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No. A man is not attractive if he's a asshole. Also, you write like a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 01:25 PM
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I don't see timid or introverted as weak at all. What about the "strong, silent type"? There's no correlation between those two qualities, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 01:42 AM
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It's treated by hormone therapy and gender transition surgery. That's what works. Not psychotherapy or medication (beyond hormones).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 01:35 AM
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Look up the terms on the dating site. A profile might be considered active if a promo email was opened. I think it's also common knowledge that some of them say a profile has been active for no good reason other than to attract views to promote subscriptions. Jump ahead in your mind and you'll mess up a potentially good situation. Just sayin'...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:19 AM
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I'm talking exactly about that (20f/40m) because that is what was said.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/16 12:29 PM
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No 20 year old woman would ever, ever go for a 40 year old man...ever...unless he's a milionaire!! Men think they can have younger women, but trust me--women think men twice their age are disgusting.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/16 02:26 AM
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When did I say that?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 08:57 PM
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Obviously you down voted my reply, but why is this comment even allowed? It is clearly male-centric, promoting the idea that a 40-yo man would have his pick of 20-year-olds?! Seriously? That's not even remotely realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 05:37 PM
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Um, ok. You got all of that from a few paragraphs. You really can't categorize people that simply. None of this is true.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 05:28 PM
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This happened to me and he insisted over and over that he wanted alone time. Nope. He was cheating and in another relationship already. I would assume this, if I were you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 09:44 PM
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I am sure he knows how attracted I am to him. It's more of a commitment issue at this point, and has been for a while. Or he's just plain not interested, TRP style. Edit: Thank you for the comment. I do appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 09:37 PM
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Doubtful. He's forty and openly admits that younger women find him old and creepy.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/16 12:55 AM
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I do agree that having the beta as a friend is a bad move. Or, at least talking about him to guy #1 (I have, yes) or others. I must keep my mouth shut and my calendar open!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 11:41 PM
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I don't think I could say that. But guy #2 is well aware of where I stand, trust me. And he still orbits...
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 11:39 PM
2

You think I haven't (and then some)?!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 11:38 PM
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I've had meaningful relationships with men. And I've met other amazing men who aren't a downgrade from the cited guy #1. And I don't know if I actually agree that I can only bond with one man at a time. I'm older...life has changed me. When I was younger I definitely couldn't. Also, loneliness doesn't bother me. I've been alone for quite some time. Guy #1 is special. But I can lose him. I get it. Been there before a million times. I get it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 11:37 PM
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"The good thing is for guys a lot of them are pretty straight-forward and know if they want you or not. You don't have to "build up to it" or create attraction by being less obvious or skirting by on the socially acceptable rules of society. You can be pretty blunt and honest without problems. The irony is that the beta orbiter is using feminine strategies of careful social navigating that don't work on women." Good points, I agree. Thanks for the comments. *Edit - still working on how to quote …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/16 12:09 PM
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I know. I appreciate all the commentary on the situations, as I am well aware of it. I really meant my question, though--if someone I'm really into, like #1, doesn't feel the same, am I doomed to downgrade?
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/16 12:02 PM
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Yeah I may be orbiting #1. That's what I'm worried about. I'm definitely not using #2 to boost my self-esteem...I can't keep him away, tbh. He's constantly trying to be involved in my life. If anything, it's for the companionship. But his presence does get annoying and I can only take him in small doses. I've dated and slept with several others since I've known both of them. I'm available. I want a good match. But it's hard to find someone with the best mix of the two (or three or four, dependin…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/16 03:49 AM
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I agree, thanks. I'd rather be single than be with someone I'm not into. I've known the first guy for several years and in a dating capacity for that long. I'm not sure how to interact with him sometimes because he's already shown his commitment phobic nature. But it's definitely a good thing when we're together. Oh well. I'll keep doing my thing and remember not to settle =).
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/16 07:31 PM
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