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Psychological-Point8/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 05:40 PM
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Don't leave the house. However hard it's going to be just ignore her and take care of the kids as best as possible. Best of luck.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 03:10 PM
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I'll flight out and give you a few slaps to get you to understand wtf you trying to do. That ship has long sailed buddy. You have to move on bud
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 08:17 PM
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Nope.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 02:57 PM
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Got mine at 27 and divorcing this year at 33. No way in hell am I going to ha e another kid. Plus women have and can Lie about there birth control use. Plus who knows if you get with someone younger then what you plan on seeking out.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 09:37 AM
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Guinea pig go weekweek
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 04:06 PM
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Kids will be kids. All you can do is leave the porch light on for them, always open for anything. It's on them to want to talk to you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 05:53 PM
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Head to the bar for a celebration drink. Then get back on the horse in the am.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 03:46 AM
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I've opened up to two friends who are married, guess what. They also have issues that people don't see just by looking at them at social functions. Every couple has problems.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 09:02 PM
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Take the car to the bank or better yet carmax. Two can play that game
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/24 03:00 AM
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Do your homework as prescribed. Get them shower baby's knocked out
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/24 03:23 AM
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Spiritual wedding at that. She pulled the divorce card once it can happen again n probably will. You can get paper work done that a marriage with the government grants automatically.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 01:25 AM
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The chances of that happening are slim. Usally women file and if there capable of doing it once then down then down the line it can happen again. I won't be held hostage to someone who can't make themselves happy.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 09:39 PM
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Everyone goes into marriage that they will beat the 50/50 odds of staying together. Now it's my responsibility as a father to my two kids to let them know exactly how it is when they get older.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 05:55 PM
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Divorce is terrible and in my mind it should only happen if the marriage is truly in the shit in the likes of some sort of abuse. Regardless everything you feel and how she feels needs to be addressed in either counciling or through courses of some sort. People are so quick to quit when it gets rough and they lose out hope. My 2 cents but it's truly on you both to do the work to get back to where you want to be at.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 03:53 AM
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Stay strong and don't whatever said pull you back Into a bad relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 02:45 AM
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Stand your ground and everything should be 50.50
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 01:34 AM
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Some of those cards are great. The ever elusive house shall be gotten at some point
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 11:29 PM
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Don't feel bad at all bud. Her lost should be none of your concern since your free of the marriage shackles she had on you. Be grateful for what you have and don't be a dickhead either. Better days are ahead of you.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 05:53 PM
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Is your name on the lease? Mortgage? You have every right to be at home! Don't let them force you out. If you have to break in that is perfectly fine and legal.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 03:48 PM
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I will never remarry in the traditional sense of getting a marriage license from the government. Wedding, rings, all that goes into it. I will do along with getting individual things done with a lawyer that is automatically granted by the government. It's a huge ask of someone but I have to be transparent about it from day one. I'm 33 atm and if it happens it happens, if not I am at peace with myself being g alone.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 12:40 AM
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Have you seen that video of the guy who is looking for a husband, in order to be a two income household.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 10:11 PM
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Mine tryst to justify her cheating and doesn't acknowledge it as it since she was physically and emotionally out of the marriage. Like really? Out of the marriage but you said I love you the day before you told me you wanted a divorce. Sad pieces of shit tbh.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 08:55 PM
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Chris brown said it best. These hoes ain't loyal.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 07:16 PM
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cant alimony end if she remarries if its in the divorce stipulations? as far as the pay raise dont tell anyone about it since you could be on the hook for me right?
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 07:39 PM
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Yea for sure those are all valid points. The biggest is communicate the repercussions of said choices.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 02:50 PM
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Addiction is a real thing and perhaps this is her rock bottom. Therapy is good and AA is a plus aswell. Anything you can do to improve yourself as a person then as a couple should be exhausted before throwing in the towel. Now is the time to put everything on the table as for her wants and needs and same to you. As with any addiction the talk of relapse has to come up if it happens. I'm all for 2nd and 3rd chances but I was in shoes and multiple relapses happens that might be the sign to move on…
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 02:29 PM
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As many before and many after you I for myself say do try to snoop around and see if can find if there's someone else in the picture. My stbxw made me feel like it was 100% my fault but that wasn't the case. Mr steal your girl was in the shadows for months.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 09:14 AM
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If there's a dudd around soon around the time they want a divorce, that dude or someone was there a bit before hand. Only 10 years down the drain brother. Take the time to regroup and live a happy life.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/24 01:13 AM
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its why cheating isnt illegal since politicians are also cheats. make that shit illegal and instantly youll have to build 100 new prisons and jails that same day with the amount of low lifes in there. MY soon to be ex wife would be locked up with the guy, since he is also cheating on his fiance.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/24 02:22 AM
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Mine doesn't acknowledge the cheating at the end of the relationship as that. She uses mentally and emotionally checked out of the relationship....like come on.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 08:22 PM
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Yea definitely do every weekend at the bare minimum if you can help it. Yes you can't do it alone and no one expects you too. Gain help from friends and family when you need it but overall just be a good dad to them kiddos
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 09:30 PM
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That's not to say it's not going to hurt emotionally which it is and it sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 04:20 PM
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I didn't give her more of my time when I was at home since most of the days I don't come home from work. I was basically selfish with my time management. I should of also taken over some of the future appointment scheduling for the kids. Mainly tho I never really opened up to her about my issues and kept everything in.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 04:38 PM
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A level up is a kick in the nuts. Whatever you need
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 04:42 AM
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Slap slap slap slap slap Come back for more slaps if needed. Open your eyes my guy. It's going to be painful for as long as you keep it being painful. She Was your everything and cherish the good times, but it's time to leave the past in the past. Slap.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 04:36 AM
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It's hard and no amount of people telling you one thing or another is going to change it. It's comes from within when it feels It's finally time to move on. Your on your own timeliness no one elses.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 07:01 PM
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Everything is a choice.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 06:07 AM
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Not super unrealistic imo. If there's many flat earth believes there's also other people who would think the same. I'm perfectly happy on being alone aswell. Ceremony is just that a ceremony, then states that do common law marriages.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 10:48 PM
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For me going forward I'll have to be straight up that marriage through the government is not for me. We can do a marriage ceremony and do everything normally done for a wedding. Being open on your needs has to be something that has to be known within the few one or two dates. So you both dont lose time. If asked I'll list all the reasons why, doesn't mean I won't be fully committed. Wills, power of attorneys, etc can be drawn up that are automatic when the government is involved. I'm also in a n…
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 10:28 PM
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Doesn't matter who is in what's name. The government looks at you as one entity. You can have $100 of debt and they can have $100k. You would be on the hook for $50k. Now the company's who wants there money back is going to hunt down the person who signed up for it tho.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 05:03 PM
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Yall can be together after the divorce. No one should hold that carrot in front of someone's face if they used it once already.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 12:13 AM
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All you can do is you. She's shooting herself in the foot by those text and such. Could be used against her. Be smart about everything
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 07:59 PM
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Nope fuck that respectfully.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 01:58 AM
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Next relationship off the first date ama make it know that the government will not see us as married. We can do a celebration and be dedicated to eachother but no entity will kick me out of my house again.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 06:57 PM
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Smoke and mirrors is what social media has become. It's easy to post the highs of one's relationship and the lows should be kept behind closed doors.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 05:49 PM
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She's going to need a job regardless. If i was in your situation i would def wait till she gets a job so she can take care of herself and the kids financially, plus it makes it a little easier for you too.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 03:29 AM
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Schedule an appointment and bring it up how you feel about your whole situation. Her thinking there isn't a problem Is The Problem.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 04:49 AM
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It depends to answer you. You didn't say you've gotten professional help, which should be done prior to you giving up on your marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 03:34 AM
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You can let time do its thing. Hard as it is to let go you have to. There is a million what if's and that will linger for a long time. You have to change the future for yourself now.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 04:46 AM
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Amish mingle app. I'm joking. It's basically a crap shoot for those dating sites.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 02:41 AM
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In my mind I would set up video surveillance cameras for safety reasons you know. Just to catch her saying all these mean things for evidence on your case. Someone who is telling you this shouldn't have the right to there kids until they get help imo. Slowly save up money for filling cost and other small things. Finding a paralegal to file your paperwork and or lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 05:48 PM
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I say get the professional help prior to going on a divorce since it will not play out the way you think. There has to be reasons why you feel the way you feel and getting them out in the open might be the way you both can be better.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 09:28 PM
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I would just fine for bankruptcy after it's all done. The system can go fuck itself.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 02:14 AM
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All you can control is yourself no one else. Be kind to yourself since you are a good person.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 07:49 PM
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Maybe sitting down and coming up with a list on what actions are needed to be available is what's needed. Mine asked for more time together but didn't specify how and left it open to interpretation
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 11:20 PM
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All you can do is be available for her and see if she wants to continue on. It takes two but I'm glad you two are seeking help.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 11:07 PM
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Sorta the same situation and man it hurts when they ask why we aren't together. If all goes well I think around 16 I'll let them in on what happened. Relationship advice is what I needed in life and never got and I want that to be part of how I parent them. For them to set therenown boundaries and abide by them and learning to have those hard conversations.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 09:46 PM
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Be strong bud, the road is long and hard but you will get enjoyment from having time with your child. We don't have the answers to everything but we can find it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 09:01 PM
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Get the professional help in both couples counseling and I say also do individual counseling. I've always been on the side of keeping the marriage together unless there is abuse of some sort going on. Your not perfect and neither is she.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 06:53 AM
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It's painful mentally and sometimes physically to live in the same house during the whole process but I wouldn't have it any other way just for my kids. She's the one who filed and wants me out tho. I put my foot down that I'm not going and she can't do a thing about it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 04:29 AM
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Listening to the comments above. End this marriage bro.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 04:28 PM
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She could be worming on herself but also this is in play. Mine future ex put all the blame on me all the while she has a side piece for months before asking for a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 01:30 AM
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Rather just use the atm at a casino and just pocket the cash and store it somewhere safe like the inside of my spare tire area.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 11:45 PM
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Just got to come to terms that it's basically over and Divorce should be done. For me she found someone else before she asked for a divorce and it just plain old sucks. Currently in the same boat as trying to do dating apps but I just delete the account within a day or two. Just got to take time for yourself, eventually we will be ready.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 02:35 AM
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Women are evil vial things. Can't remember but there was a post here on or /divorce of the women accusing the guy of sexual assault. I've been happy on my couch. While the relationship was still good I did sleep in the same bed even if we had a big disagreement.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 12:30 AM
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If you start feeling weak just come on here so I can slap you back Into reality.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 07:50 PM
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Currently in the same situation and Do Not Move out. She can and will try to manipulate you to try to get you to move but don't cave in. Your kids will see who the bad parent is in all fo this. I would not sleep in the same bed as her and get yourself a air mattress. Be civil even if she isn't. It's going to take a better part of a year for a divorce with kids and assets. Now is the time to reach out to friends and family. Remember those people who help you and return the same for them. Best of …
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 06:34 PM
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Sounds like a tough spot but not completely unbearable. Once I'm ready myself I know I'm going to reach out to single people that I know or somewhat know in some way shape or form. Co workers is usally a 50/50 thing. Long distance would probably be your thing unfortunately but don't let it be a road block.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 03:47 AM
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Humans are social animals and I fully understand the lonely part of it. Do you feel you are ready to possibly start dating? Take your new self and your lessons learned and go out there.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 02:01 AM
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No clue 😅
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 09:04 PM
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I suggest getting a room with a hottub. Decorate the room a little and just have a good time
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 08:03 PM
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Depends on the state aswell. So what state?
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/24 10:30 PM
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My wife told me I stopped trying and so she did the same. I was depressed due to a lot of things and I didn't give her enough attention. Months later after she asked for a divorce I found her socials messages and she was cheating months before she asked.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 05:38 PM
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Your a good dad. You should be your only critic.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 04:31 PM
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Can either take it or give a attitude they deserve back. There free to say whatever they want but so am I
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 04:20 PM
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The fuck. From who barred you from your home? If it ain't from a judge then your entitled to your home. Cops won't do shit if you break in either if you have too. Any Google search or lawyer will tell you to stay at home. GO BACK HOME. Will it be hard to deal with your spouse? Yes it will but to fucking bad on her end. Don't talk to her as hard as it might seem and if needed place a camera in the living room while you sleep on the couch. YOUR ENTITLED TO YOUR HOME. ask for your questions Google …
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 06:54 AM
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maybe time apart is what you need, the not knowing what you need is the scary part. i do think you care about your spouse but in order to give it your all, you need to clear your mind. To me it sounds like you need alone time. only questions you can answer.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 01:17 AM
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Cloud storage and a hard backup on a thumb drive for me. The physical stuff can be kept in storage/garage. Your brain memory's will fade so it is good to have it if your future self changes its mind.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 10:04 PM
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Hopefully in the future I am in the same situation you are. My divorce journey is barley starting out and I have a long road to travel.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/23 08:26 PM
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