PuaJIT Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	[FR] "First" sarge. Solo. "First" k-close.	PuaJIT	/r/seduction	23/06/11 12:55 PM
5	Advice for a British traveller in Europe?	PuaJIT	/r/seduction	01/07/11 08:48 AM
1	Rationality lessons learned from irrational adventures in romance	PuaJIT	/r/seduction	04/10/11 08:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I just dumped an HB10 because... I genuinely don't know how you've interpreted my posts to mean that.	/r/seduction	30/10/11 10:18 PM
1	I just dumped an HB10 because... I think I actually agree with the main point: there are girls you don't want, girls you're ambivalent about, and girls you want. I just disagreed with the specific bit I quoted.	/r/seduction	29/10/11 02:45 PM
3	I just dumped an HB10 because... If a girl is worth any effort at all, then she's worth everything you've got in you to give. This is a nice soundbite, but it's not true. To be precise: if it's true for you, then your utility function is very different to mine, and I hypothesise to the majority of people's.	/r/seduction	28/10/11 09:08 PM
2	So I had my first kiss last night. At 19. There's still hope, forever aloners. Mine was like that at a party. I think this was a girl who had tried to get my attention on two previous nights by sending people over to say "my friend fancies you", and this was her last resort. I wasn't especially drunk, but I think I remember wondering if she was trying to shove an avocado from her mouth to mine, until I realised what was going on.	/r/seduction	10/10/11 12:06 PM
3	[FR] Failed to remember one of Seddit's lessons, paid the price. I feel that "never apologize" is missing the point of the rule. Don't apologize if you don't mean it, ie. don't apologize for something that you're not ashamed of. And don't do things that you'll be ashamed of. Possibly you should lean towards not apologizing anyway. But that's lean towards, not avoid at all costs.	/r/seduction	05/09/11 02:05 AM
3	LMR, alcohol and rape questions. Given that I'm a bit future-orientated and young, the last thing I want to do is commit rape. Yeah, that's the problem with rape - it can totally ruin a promising career. If you've got no future prospects, go for it! (Kidding - I get that the sentiment is more "I don't want to do anything that could potentially lead to being accused of rape, let alone actually rape anyone".)	/r/seduction	14/08/11 09:48 PM
2	4 years later, still no approaches... Well, there's a difference between attempting something and failing, and failing to attempt. The latter doesn't help you to learn or improve. However, you may be right that rewards for success would be more effective motivation.	/r/seduction	12/08/11 05:56 PM
2	I need your advice, guys. I'm a very good dancer but I suck at the dance floor. I have the same problem. I wouldn't say I'm very good at dancing, but I'm not bad; and I am good at having fun and not caring if I look stupid. But when it comes to getting a girl to dance with me... My usual approach is to extend my hand to her. Sometimes it works; so far that's led to a k-close and no conversation. Sometimes they either don't notice, or pretend not to; I suspect I'm not positioning myself well, but if we're dancing with separate groups of friends I'm not sure how to position m…	/r/seduction	11/08/11 02:07 AM
2	[FR] At the mall. On the precipice of something...my instincts are just so wrong...crash and burn. need pointers, however I'm in good spirits. What could, should i have done differently for a number-close? Attempt it. I don't think you needed to do anything else differently (though there were probably things you could have done better); you just didn't try to get her number, so you didn't get her number.	/r/seduction	07/08/11 12:47 PM
1	[FR] A view of the other side - night game from an introvert's perspective Alone AFCs are extremely obvious. To be precise, obviously alone AFCs are extremely obvious, but that's vacuous. You don't know how many people were there alone without you noticing them.	/r/seduction	31/07/11 04:41 PM
1	If you're asking "what should I say?", you're doing it wrong. I guess this is in reference to Second, be yourself, if you're saying things that aren't you, you will come off as fake and girls can sense you're wearing a mask and you will lose them. Fake it till you make it is about becoming a different person. You fake it at first, but then it becomes reality. Then you can "be yourself" while doing thing which were not previously "being yourself". I think that the OP is generalising from one example. If you are not an interesting person (for example), then …	/r/seduction	25/06/11 07:14 PM
5	If you're asking "what should I say?", you're doing it wrong. The subtext of Gantznaught's post was not "why are there conflicting opinions?" but "how does this reasonable-sounding advice reconcile with this other reasonable-sounding but seemingly contradictory advice?"	/r/seduction	25/06/11 06:59 PM
2	[FR] "First" sarge. Solo. "First" k-close. I didn't.	/r/seduction	23/06/11 02:18 PM