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Some femoids througly enjoy a man that has no fashion sense beyond t-shirts carhartts and Levi's....basic can be best
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 02:56 AM
8

Follow your gut. Period.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:27 AM
1

Nice self stroke
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 03:32 AM
1

Have you factored the role of climate collapse into these population growth diatribes?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 03:06 AM
1

If my microwave only worked 1/3 of the time I'd trash it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 12:25 AM
1

Have you dated in similar shoes? No. You're clearly making an opinion based on RP hypothesis. RP is a pseudo scientific hypothesis not a theory and not reality. I had no issue finding never married, no kids, good career, strong men....and multiple. My husband and me are both attractive and had dated people much younger but at the end of the day it wasn't any of that stuff that mattered. Scarcity is in your head and it's a bad mentality to have.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 01:53 PM
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When I was dating at 32, I had marriage offers from the younger ones...AND had a 12 at the time daughter. I wouldn't generalize your husbands comment to OP. She has a lot of qualities that young women may not, while these arn't always as valued by the undeveloped men...occasionally they are.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 01:09 PM
1

I wouldn't, automatic hard no for a lot of girls
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:20 AM
5

The minute after you get your $100 block every number and social media account of hers. No contact and sincerly knowing that you deserve better than that piece of trash = closure.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 11:21 PM
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I doubt any guy is going to seriously worry if you are "doing something just to please him." It's hot and awesome to occasionally do things not because you want to but to please someone. As long as you want to the majority of the time that's what counts.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 11:18 PM
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If you care about an n-count an open relationship isn't for you?
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 10:42 PM
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A society of wage slavery and proles. At the end of the day most men are prags to their job and government.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:59 PM
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Lol...right. I think he is neither an evolutionary behavior expert nor psycologist and his opinion about what is natural is just that...an opinion. I'd find someone with opinons are more conducive to a respectful adult relationship. I'll be honest if my alpha fiance' said that crap I'd leave...he's smart enough not to blame his shitty behavior on pseudo science and say childish crap.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 07:57 PM
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x2 on "isn't alpha" He sounds like an emotionally unhealthy immature child who would rather blame his behavior on RP theory than address his issues. He doesn't sound like a full grown man worthy or respect from a full grown high value woman. It's troubling you are internalizing his issues and rationalizing this behavior. I'd consider therapy or at the least some self study. Run as fast as you can, increase/recognize your value and then find someone high value who you value and who will value you…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 01:45 AM
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Hard wired mating preferences? No. I'm referring to facial symmetry, waist to hip ratio and youthful features. Those would be most important and make-up or fashion arn't going to change those features to a large extent.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 03:36 AM
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Keep in mind that for 99% of our evolutionary history women have not worn makeup so mens "visual creature" preferance is not likely in anyway tied to it. I don't think we can blame biology or evolution for his sillyness,
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 02:11 AM
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A mistake both women and men often make...
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 10:54 PM
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As I said, the whole thing is immature. Immature for the guy to be focusing on this nonsense and immature for the woman to care. Seriously, if a man said something like this to me I'd look at him and walk out of the room. I can't imagine respecting someone so childish in the way a woman should respect her man. A grown man should be more worried about important things.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 08:36 PM
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He sounds very immature and I'd question him as worthy of a LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 07:24 PM
11

Yup, can confirm
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 07:22 PM
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Plenty of women like guys that don't gym lol, just work on other pursuits and interests. An intelligent interesting guy trumps a gym bro anyway.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 05:54 AM
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I never said lust and connection are mutually exclusive, they are both equally important for any LTR. It's my opinion that TRP addresses the latter somewhat poorly and could improve there. TRP crafts it's own strawman in the sidebar to some extent and could improve by not generalizing certain aspects. It's easy to highlight the differences between the sexes and identify needs but a much different discussion when it comes to long term mutual satisfaction. TRP is a starting point for discussion no…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 01:16 AM
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Nope, still disagree. While you can use the same theory to get sex it doesn't translate into a LTR based on connection...that takes an individualized approach. One theory can't make you connect with every woman on the planet and fill unique needs/wants.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:13 AM
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I think it goes a little deeper than that. It reads like teenage drama. Advice being focus on yourself for awhile and self improvement.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:17 AM
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There's also the issue of it being someone feminine to be overly focused on image. Gym bros can come off as gay/feminine/douchy.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:19 PM
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Those are correct but flip flopped. Ie..men are interested in love when they're done spinning plates and find their n10. Females are generally always interested and care less about the n or plates.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:15 PM
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Consider focusing on your english and composition studies instead of females
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:11 PM
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I think she's just a good girl and doing her husband a solid by including them
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:09 PM
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All the other dudes (if she is attractive, you arn't the only) are likely texting her constantly or more than for logistics... she's probably just wanting to feel you out a little and make sure your date is worth her time
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:00 PM
1

Stop giving a fuck...
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:48 PM
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Wow. That game may get a little beta bitch wife who will put up with said games and do as you wish until she poisons you... Carry out what you've just stated and you will never form a genuine human connection and will never experience the power said connection can create. The OP wants more and rightfully so. How old are you? 21?
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:18 PM
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If he cared what you thought he would be acting much differently. No high value woman would accept his behavior and by accepting it you have already communicated quite clearly. I'd move on swiftly, you don't need to raise a man...you deserve to marry one that's already full grown on his own.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 05:09 AM
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I think the respectful way is to wait until it's asked for. I work with 96% men and they sometimes ask me life or dating questions. Just be thoughtful and respect that someone values your opinion. I think only giving life advice when asked is a good rule of thumb across the board.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 05:02 AM
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The above would easily be enough for me to dump him. He obviously has a huge lack of maturity and emotional issues he needs to sort out before he can be a healthy partner. Hard next.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 04:47 AM
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They like more alpha masculine men around ovulation and more beta men the rest of the time. Hypothetically because the men that look good genetically to women for breeding arn't always the best long term choice for stability of caring for offspring. So....both options are true and it's their evolutionary imperative to both choose the good genetic material but also get the kid raised.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 01:23 PM
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Read about the starvation experiment they did in Minnesota...you're only a little about the 1550ish kcals they starved men to skeletons on. I think you are miscalculating your calories. Also, what's your height? You may need to bulk more before you try to cut. You won't see good definition if there isn't a solid muscle base before you cut and at 10%-12% you should be looking dialed anyway. Sub 10% is hard to maintain and the realm of competitions rather than pure fuckability.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 05:24 AM
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Sorry for the long diatribe, whiskey and the internet don't mix. And after reading through that stuff I'm even more thankful for my man lol.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:48 AM
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I'll be honest, I did read through that communities info and it's description of a red pill woman....and it made me want to vomit. It's a bunch of nonsense written by someome who knows little about feminity or females. I think rp concepts help men feel better and can be empowering as far as hook ups/self improvement but arn't particularly relevant to women or the nuances of deeper human relationships and the importance of being valuable to ones community ....at least as stated so poorly in the i…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:18 AM
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How tall are you? Have you actually had your body fat measures hydrostatically or by a well trained person? You're likely eating more than you think and have higher BF than you think. I'd invest in a food scale and eat only what you've tracked/ weighed to the gram for a week or two.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 01:25 AM
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Also, giving her your phone number before a date should be logistics only and possibly a few teaser texts to express interest. Not conversations.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:36 PM
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Put up a hot girl profile on tinder and see how many dudes you get messaging you...you'd be surprised how many penpals you have. Tinder is for setting up dates not trying to get to know people. Get in get out get what you want. Talking too much without logistics just means she's going to get busy seeing the other dude who actually set up a date.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:35 PM
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All girls like to do different things...beyond netflix, eating and sex. Just get to know here of she's your gf lol.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:00 PM
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Read some books and be interesting...a lot of girls like to fuck strange if it has a little game.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:57 PM
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She's telling you she wants something else and she's keeping you for sex until she finds it.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:55 PM
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Don't use two when one will do. Even your post has too many words. Try bullet points.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:52 PM
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Women changing their minds isn't weird...it's normal. She was flirting because she felt like flexing her charm at the moment and decided she wanted something else later. If she was 100% hard yes attracted it would have been different. Sounds like you have trouble distinguishing authentic interest.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:42 PM
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Lol that's nuts, a bunch of women in a group decoding male behavior is about as useless as the reverse.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:40 PM
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There is another quality they find unappealing (for either sex or LTR), someone else they'd rather have, they're lying about your attractiveness to them or some other of a million reasons.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 01:34 PM
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If you are in the "friendzone" you are basically viewed as undatable or unfuckible unless desperation strikes. If you get a crumb thrown your way after entering the friendzone you arn't getting out...she's wants some sort of attention. And yes girls (particularly the lame kind) keep around a few or a lot of friend zoned men.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:57 AM
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And thank you for not jumping on me for sneaking in lol. I think it would be good for more ladies to read some of this. It seems like most people are automatons who never question social norms.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:51 AM
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From 21-65...so it runs the gamet! It's sort of fun most of the time and an interesting immersion into gender topics.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:49 AM
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Yup...and before you ask why I subscribed, it's because I work in a trade with 96% men. Insights into the male head are useful for me in getting along at work. I end up giving a lot of advice to the work guys on dating and divorce...some of it similar to trp stuff which is ironic.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:52 AM
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I've been a trainer and think for the majority of people (not competition or specific sport goals people) you can accomplish what you need to in 3-4 days at the gym if you hit it hard and maximize time. An extra rest day or short yoga day as mentioned above really might not hurt.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:03 AM
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Any male or female that would even ask past age 25 is automatically a hard next ltr wise due to immaturity. Keep concerns in the relevant/present ie "will you take a full std panel"?
/r/askTRP17/12/18 10:42 PM
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Idk why I'm getting down voted, I know plenty of females who run like you just described 💁 I'd say 20% of attractive woman do it
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:59 AM
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How can you honestly not tell how overweight she was before? Sort of surprised she could hide enough weight to limit your creativity.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:58 PM
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Is there a definition in the sidebar? Or can you explain?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:44 PM
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Tripped in over curiosity....I work with all guys so it's interesting
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:32 PM
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Lol, sure they don't. You've taken a survey of attractive woman?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:30 PM
5

Depends on the gear you use to acheive them. Doubt women like dating a man with mood swings and shrinking testicles.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:37 AM
1

Bdsm is pretty popular these days...
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:35 AM
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I hard next a guy for the same. Tinder is for setting up dates based on perceived sexual attraction and maybe a few words back and forth...not getting to know a person. My first thought is that she's catfishing...or she has a few other plates keeping her busy.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:33 AM
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She's using you as an emotial plate but doesn't value you high enough to fuck or ltr
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:27 AM
1

For yourself? Girls don't need "comfort" to accept dates.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:26 AM
1

Apprenticeship in a licensed trade. You won't have any student loans, won't pay out of pocket, you'll have benefits immediately (if you're union) and there is a huge demand due to the boomers retiring. See what a licensed electrician makes in a major metro, I make more than I did with a degree. I've done both and hands down my apprenticeship has paid out compared to college.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:20 AM
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I'd groom them to be high value and impervious to games. When they are old enough I would have them read some of these forums where men talk about women as spinning plates. They will then be so saddened they'll cut the games and hopefully date only out of mutual respect.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:07 AM
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I wouldn't date anyone who keeps around a opposite sex fan club. Smart females know it's basically impossible to be "good friends" with men.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:58 AM
2

Yes..and more than you think.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 02:42 AM
1

Act like a big grown up confident man and women will naturally feel that way. You'll attract what you put out. Fwiw even a strong housewife could appear masculine next to all the hipster betas running around these days.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:44 AM
2

What she has "gained" is to not have to buck up and be a strong honorable human. She is getting away with behaving like a princess child. Smart mature people know that isn't an achievement at all...but she's stupid, doesn't mind wasting both your time and has no honor. I've witnessed the same in both genders and been in your shoes so it isn't a woman thing....it's a stupid people thing. Avoid princesses.
/r/MGTOW06/12/18 10:22 PM
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If you're up for it go completely ghost....cut off every mode of conduct abruptly and permenantly after saying anything you want to. That's option A and probably most dignified. If you'll be tempted to take her back...do something to offend her enough she won't talk to you again and you won't be able to patch it up. Fuck her rival or sister. Savage but better than giving her a second chance. I'm a girl but my two cents.
/r/MGTOW06/12/18 01:35 AM
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