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Field ReportPuempelsPurpose/r/seduction18/10/12 05:06 AM
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0

I'll say what I say to my dog when he tries to pick something up that will inevitably give him the runs: Leave it.
/r/seduction27/10/22 02:26 AM
1

You say people who say it doesnt matter are refusing to acknowledge reality... what about you, fixating on being tall and jacked, while citing proof of its lack of necessity?
/r/seduction23/10/22 05:26 PM
147

You went out with a loser, move on
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:08 PM
9

This is not the way lol. Just say "hey, sorry that came across the wrong way. You're basically like a cousin/sister to me and I just wanted company. I hope you know that I value your friendship and now that I know that behaviour crosses a line for you, I'll never do it again" That said, this is not a seduction question lol
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:55 PM
1

Do you think that your response wasn’t equally anecdotal?
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:17 AM
3

If I go for a 15 minute walk around where I live (mid-sized government town, DT) I will see at least one of each and often a handful every single day.
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:04 AM
6

Nah, there are guys with no money and average looks who date gorgeous women. And then there are well above average dudes who date average/slightly above average women... and usually those women are smart/high-achieving.
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:56 PM
1

I don't believe you're actually this dumb so I'll assume you're just being a little obtuse
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:59 AM
14

Hahahahhahaahha. You're gonna be on your deathbed, look up at your wife, and your last thought is gonna be "I hate this woman and she hates me." What a huge loser you are.
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:54 PM
46

Is it possible that you just find men more attractive?
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:00 AM
1

Heh, you don't sound like a nihilist to me ;) I would say, just take the pressure off of yourself. It will likely go nowhere and you shouldn't feel too bad about that. Even if you were experienced, skillfull, a real pro, you are still generally more likely to 'fail' than not. Just the way things are. In your opening message (what you wrote) you shared your thought process, but in a very direct and declarative way. A response saying "I didn't think I'd get this far," "I was hoping you would text …
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:15 PM
1

Sad Box indeed. Grow up.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:12 PM
4

Anyone telling you one thing or the other here is just taking a guess... and not an educated one. There's not enough detail at all. Either way, don't come here for advice unless its the basic "work on yourself" stuff, in which case you are still better off looking elsewhere.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:20 PM
1

lol you are a fucking loser brother. you are going to ruin your life and it will be entirely your fault. cheers.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:50 PM
2

You are completely deluding yourself if you think this is entirely, or even predominantly, about your height.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:47 PM
1

because that's all it warrants. She sent you a picture of your profile, its kinda funny, you shouldn't address the likes she has no matter what, and there just really isn't much to say. If my gf texts me a dumb meme or pic of something unserious, all I would say is "lol nice" or something like that, unless it was something interesting that warranted more. The worst thing you can do is make a big deal out of it... although at this point its been 12+ hrs so I would just say "sorry I missed this lo…
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:15 PM
1

Every other post here is wrong. Just say "lol nice". Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:46 PM
5

Not trying to get political - just chiming in because you are asking. I'd fuck a cop, but would never date one. And I am only saying it because you are asking, but I am just inherently suspicious/distrustfal of anyone who is a cop. Not trying to say ACAB, but I think there is a greater # of young people than ever who just don't have a lot of respect for police. On an individual level, let's call it "guilty until proven innocent".
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:27 PM
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Brother, this is cute as hell. And a perfect example of how it's done. Would you have gotten to know her if you approached immediately? Maybe... probably not. Would you have gotten close to her if you didn't have interests you were passionate about and engaged in? Maybe... but probably not. Hope the relationship is a good one, OP.
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:44 PM
1

Oh, for sure. Its a vicious cycle and an echo chamber, and its a derivative of the incel movement. I'm not getting into the whole social political aspect of inceldom, but the whole idea of "I don't match the image of the medias ideal male and therefore there is no use in trying to better myself or work at becoming an attractive partner" really, really needs to die. It's the belief that there is no chance that actually kills these guys chances. The definition of self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:36 PM
1

Lol I dont think you know what "activism" means. Read the comments - OP doesn't want help. He wants reinforcement that the deck is stacked against him and that finding love/affection is impossible.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:32 PM
1

Sure, but fear of being imminently burned alive is logical if you are in a burning building... much less logical if you are in the middle of a lake. Being concerned about not being able to find a partner because you have a weak jawline is not a logical concern.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:25 PM
1

It's not a real concern, it's an imaginary concern.
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:56 PM
1

Big difference between being conscious of it and fixating on it.
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:56 PM
1

Lol, you're deluded. Those things make it easier... lacking those things, on their own, will not make it difficult.
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:55 PM
1

You're inventing a problem in your mind.
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:55 PM
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You're sure talking and making excuses like one! I'd recommend you just take care of your body, mind, and passions (aka be physically active, go to therapy or undergo self-examination of another kind, and commit yourself to your goals) and just let the rest fall into place. Seducing a good woman, or even many good women, should not be difficult. If it's a struggle, its because the preconditions are not in place.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:15 PM
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lol at this subreddit turning into r/incels
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:09 PM
4

Here is my practical advice to you: for the next 3 weeks AT LEAST, only approach/flirt with girls you wouldnt get intimate with. Keep informal notes on how those interactions go. Reach out to me in 3+ weeks to update me and I will give you further counsel.
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:48 PM
15

Instead of focusing on "what would a cool guy do", focus on "what would a normal guy do". Cool guys aren't cool because of what they say and do, but because of how they conduct themselves on a consistent basis. And, more importantly, you can be nothing more than a normal guy and get plenty of really great women. Obviously this is overly simplistic, and it doesnt mean "just go with the herd"... it just means that women don't need you to put on a show for them. Honestly just be a good listener and…
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:05 PM
13

Oh buddy... have you ever fucked? Have you ever had a girlfriend? I say this not to put you down, but to stress that you need to walk before you run. Getting women is pretty easy, but it is almost impossible if you are not calm & collected.
/r/seduction09/04/22 01:55 PM
5

How old are you?
/r/seduction09/04/22 01:32 PM
46

I think you nailed it when you said "idk what is"... That is not a mating call. That's a mating red flag. Jesus fucking christ dude. All you can do now is live with the embarrassment and DO NOT try to escalate/be sexual/be flirty whatsoever unless she STRONGLY reciprocates. I would normally just say "unless she reciprocates" but I feel like your bar for reciprocity would be significantly lower than mine. EDIT: also, Jesus fucking christ, stay away from other peoples laundry. That's so fucked up …
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:48 PM
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Tell her "I know we both enjoy spending time with one another, so this time, sushi's on you." When you're out for sushi, take her out for a drink or two afterwards. Flirt, touch, etc., and then say "I want you to come home with me... I'm not going to pay you, though. I want you to come home with me because you want to." Either she will or she won't. I don't have any experience with escorts, but if I was in your shoes, I would either fuck her for free like you want (assuming she is in) or I would…
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:58 PM
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While this is overly simplistic, I think a lot can be learned by just looking at OP's submission history. The people who post either fatalistic BS or "Johnny Bravo" one-liner BS tend to have embarrassing submission histories. This guy, meanwhile, just seems like a guy who has some niche interests and loves talking about them. If you enjoy life and are passionate about things, people in general will like you.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:22 PM
2

Proof of concept.
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:17 PM
1

Selfishly, I love it.
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:40 AM
2

Lmfao this sub rules
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:14 AM
1

Obviously its not just that, but if you have money and a good attitude/lifestyle, yeah, you can land women like that. I would argue that he's probably not happy at all and that theres not much value in chasing women like that after your mid-20s, but that's just me.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:35 PM
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Lol. Anyone with money/rich friends and decent looks can sleep with women who are just as attractive if they live in NY or LA or even MTL. Hell, lots of people do so without those things.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:27 PM
21

Damn, that's so embarrassing... I can't believe my dick was so dry that she felt she had to resort to that. She must barely even view me as a Male :(
/r/seduction13/02/22 10:08 PM
123

Nah, I showed her a meme I made about being 5'7.75 in a format that was popular on 4chan 9 years ago, told her she reminded me of a less respectable version of my mother (she's my best friend, by the way), and then pointed to dudes who passed by & assigned them Greek alphabet ratings
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:07 PM
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This reminds me of the time when a girl pulled my cock out and started slobbering on it. Women are just so mysterious!
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:03 PM
2

.... seriously?
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:05 PM
2

Lol you're retarded
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:05 PM
3

Hey, you should go to Las Vegas. They have the worlds largest Ferris Wheel! Oh, and also drawing millions? Whores!
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:07 AM
-2

Are you having an aneurism?
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:23 AM
-1

lmao ok
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:35 AM
0

or... maybe.... its a misunderstanding! maybe... they were asking "are you ok?" because she was drunk, or they didn't know where she went! maybe... they "warned her" about him to the extent of "I know you like him a lot and want to date him, but just know he hasn't settled down in the time we've known him. He's a great guy, but he may not be looking for anything serious". You seem bitter and paranoid, dude. And have a very low threshold for "evil".
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:14 AM
1

Women arent evil beings lol. So long as OP is respectful and non-confrontational (which is absolutely how it should be approached), no harm will occur. If approached as a "sensitivity" thing (i.e. "the way she spoke gave me the impression that you dont think highly of me or you think I'm some creep and as someone who respects you and considers you a close friend, that hurt me") there is almost no way for it to go badly.
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:49 AM
5

I actually used to do stuff like this all the time lol. I wouldnt want to wake up next to a lady who I can't make laugh. I used to tell a long, emotional story, sparing no detail, fighting back tears, about my ex-girlfriend, my baby, Belle, who lost her toe in a factory accident during her job as the safety inspector for a cheese company. I won't say which one. It was Baby Bell Cheese. And, as compensation, they gave her a lifetime supply of cheese. But, when I found out... well, I'm ashamed to …
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:38 AM
5

"So... I've been thinking. Do you think its possible to ever truly grasp our own mortality, or do you think we just sink our teeth into a subconscious denial of death at a young age, when we realize the horror that awaits us, and hold on until to that denial until it consumes us... until the ever-denied becomes undeniable? And, more importantly, can we ever be fully engaged in life if we are always partially engaged in this practice of denying our morbid eventuality?? And, moreover, did it hurt?…
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:33 AM
2

lmao nice to meet you pot. The names kettle.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:24 AM
8

You are inventing hypothetical women in your head and physiological pseudoscience to be wary of, you seem horribly adjusted and just kinda stupid
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:02 AM
6

lol imagine raising a kid with you
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:10 AM
1

Lol dont do this at all, jesus christ
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:33 AM
2

Just be relaxed, hug her hello, give a kiss on the cheek if it feels natural. If you're watching something with her, nudge her, bump shoulders, just be playful and relaxed. Grow more touchy, stare her in the eyes, kiss her, and then just go from there.
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:53 AM
-1

Lol. This is a problem you have created in your head. If you don't like it, find other ways. I did ok on dating apps, but back when I was single I could have gotten laid even if I didn't own a phone. Women will go on a date with you spontaneously if you approach enough of them well enough, and if they do that they may very well fuck you at the end of it.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:47 PM
1

When I lived at home I would just fuck girls in the basement or even the furnace room lol. Had to be quiet but w.e.
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:42 PM
1

It should only really matter insofar as it predicts future nondesirable behaviour. I'd be much more concerned about a woman who was inexperienced.
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:30 PM
9

A whoore.
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:12 PM
1

I lived with my parents for a year when I was 25, wasnt working at all, wasnt doing any formal education, was in average shape (fit but not jacked).. I would bring women home from random coffee shops all the time... I was intermittently seeing 5 women before I met one I really liked, cut things off with the others, and have now been with that girl for 3yrs. You are making shitty excuses dude. Your failure is 100% your fault.
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:16 PM
1

Oh, damn, you've been to a bar before and had the worst experience? You should give up in that case.
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:12 PM
3

Oh, damn. You should give up in that case.
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:12 PM
97

Have you considered dating lads and just shagging birds on the side?
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:22 AM
1

Honestly, those lines you came up with are almost worse. Not quite, but jesus christ. Get out of your own head, dude. Just be pleasant and engaged, if youre attractive that is generally enough.
/r/seduction31/10/21 04:38 PM
1

You need to find your life exciting, or at least fulfilling, or at least containing things that you are passionate/excited about. Thats it.
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:17 PM
-10

This is absolutely not true, or just poorly worded. Women will 100% give you the opportunity to go further, be that suckin, fuckin, or dating, if they are not put off by your looks. Most of the time that guys get laid, its because they are just above the level of being completely physically unfuckable to that particular woman. This shit is so incredibly easy for us guys unless you are UGLY. Even if you're a moderately huge pussy, it's still very easy.
/r/seduction09/12/19 03:35 AM
4

Lol nah youre gay as hell. Not homosexual, but extremely gay
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 10:40 PM
1

You're retarded. I'm 5'7 and slightly above average and I've slept with ~50 women, many of whom are gorgeous, have an amazing girlfriend, and I dont even like to sleep around. If youre unable to get women, you're either a) 17 or younger b) horribly deformed or c) a massive fucking loser. I am pretty certain that you're c). Well, you can change c), luckily for you... and actually quite easily! And, best of all, all you need to do is not be a huge self-pitying pussy in order to get lots of women! …
/r/seduction06/05/19 04:41 AM
4

Wow, the fact that this post is upvoted is pathetic and really shows how far this sub has fallen. Whats the point? Did anyone doubt that there are shallow women? Does anyone doubt that there are shallow men? I guarantee you there were a huge amount of women who didnt put up with this shit. Yes, its easier for a super hot guy to get dates on a hookup app. But to actually get and keep a woman you need tons of other tools, which are tools that anyone can develop. Focusing on the ONE tool that cant …
/r/seduction30/04/19 05:06 PM
6

It's actually a line originally penned by famed New Orleans poet Lillian Wayne.
/r/seduction09/12/18 07:45 PM
1

You are a very good looking guy. If you were confident, proactive and not so in your head you would have the potential to sleep with almost any woman. It is not what is outside that is causing you to fail, it is what is inside. Work on it. Look at the way you are communicating with people in this thread. Youre refusing to listen, the only thing you talk about is how hard it is to be you, how hard done by you are, how you look at girls and - gasp!!!! - they look away and so clearly you are unattr…
/r/seduction14/11/18 07:38 AM
6

If you have her #, check snapchat. It will show a name associated with a phone number. Another option: show up with a friend. Say you just bumped into them on the way and have your friend introduce him/herself. In responding, your date will introduce herself, unwittingly, to you. Or, just say you forgot!
/r/seduction06/11/18 08:40 PM
10

Make a plan that you're happy with for yourself and then invite her along for the fun. If she says yes, awesome. If she says no, well, you already have your fun planned and her absence shouldn't take away from that. If she does say yes, just be yourself. Have fun and don't worry about rushing anything or proving yourself to her. If things aren't going well conversationally, don't blame yourself - instead, sit back and give her the opportunity to guide the conversation. If she doesn't have the de…
/r/seduction19/06/18 07:40 AM
1

Obligatory bone-dry Millhouse.
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:20 PM
6

Who cares, right? You're not attracted to her.
/r/seduction14/01/18 12:00 AM
2

I'm gonna go ahead and disagree with the top comment, with the giant caveat that you should only ignore u/robobvious if you are confident in who you are and your ability to a) attract a woman and/or b) understand the vibe of the night. She definitely doesnt think of this a date and she definitely has apprehension around that ambiguity, but that doesn't need to be a dealbreaker, as long as there isn't a difference between "you" and "date-you". You can easily go, have a good time with the both of …
/r/seduction19/11/17 08:00 PM
9

That's when you dart your eyes from side to side and say, "now hold on a minute! Are you talking about S-E-X?"
/r/seduction29/08/17 10:04 PM
2

The first one, especially, is great
/r/seduction29/08/17 10:02 PM
1

I would go with your birthday line but make a "big deal" about how thats evidence of you trying to make things work. Obviously this is a joke. Play it off as a joke and she'll realize that your age really doesnt matter.
/r/seduction29/08/17 10:01 PM
1

Bail.
/r/seduction24/07/17 07:51 PM
1

Glad I can help.
/r/seduction24/06/15 04:05 PM
13

god, no.... this is basically what he did, but worse. There is no one line. You play it off like an exaggerated version of how a girl would if guys came up to her asking her to suck their dick. "You're, like, the fourth girl to ask me that tonight. Am I giving off a vibe? blah blah blah" Don't act offended, be sarcastically insecure. They are going out there expecting an answer in the exact same vein as the one above. The one below (/u/beegreen) is a bit better. Surprise them. Zig from their exp…
/r/seduction24/06/15 07:31 AM
3

I totally agree with you, man. What I do, and what I'm good at, is I am able to form an opinion and recognize how it moves in real-time. Which I know sounds kind of abstract, but its a valuable perspective to master. Women appreciate honesty, or at the very least are caught off guard by it... they DEFINITELY respond to it. If you are able to recognize how you feel about something and express it well, women will find it intriguing. Often for me this means taking a second to pause, consider what s…
/r/seduction23/06/15 06:53 AM
6

I have lots of girl friends so I get asked this question once in a while. I've learnt that the best approach, rather than being cheeky (which is still pretty good) is to be honest/offer honest objective analysis/appraisal. Being honest not only shows that you are confident/not insecure and jealous, but it also shows that you are comfortable recognizing beauty without NEEDING to relate it back to sex. Example: "Hmm. He definitely has a strong jawline, but his nose is kind of big. I have brown eye…
/r/seduction27/05/15 01:32 AM
1

Different people are good at different types of game, and different people use tinder for different things. I hook up with about 10% of my matches - and about 30-40% of my matches aren't even down to talk. Another 30-40% are down to talk, but are just looking for casual conversation. Then, there are the girls who want to date and get fucked by an attractive guy. It's a mixed bag, but as long as you get more than a match every few days its pretty easy to find a girl to sleep with.
/r/seduction11/05/15 06:58 AM
2

lol
/r/seduction05/05/15 11:23 PM
1

I think you fucked up by giving her your number again, pretty soft and ineffectual. You should have seized the moment and been a man, even if really she was just jerking you around. She probably wasn't interested, but you could have turned it around if you acted assuredly. Make your move in the moment, don't post about it here. If you're posting about an isolated interaction here, it's already too late. On to the next one.
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:55 PM
3

Tinder is fucking great if you're to the point. I used to have very little luck translating to dates, but in the past month I've pulled 4 girls off of it, all 7's or above. This is out of about 75 matches, so it's not like I'm swiping right on everyone. These are all girls I would genuinely be attracted to in the real world, girls I might try to date under different circumstances. I'm currently out of town, and sent this message out to about 8 girls: "Here's a Hail Mary for you: Only in town for…
/r/seduction02/04/15 01:25 PM
3

"yeah, awfully fly for someone who's insecure about their looks" "hm, I was wondering why I hadnt kissed you yet.. yeah, that definitely adds up" "if you truly believe that you look awful right now I think you have bigger issues to deal with" Now, I probably wouldnt say any of those things but they are fun to come up with. I would just say "yeah...." and trail off, shoot her a smile, and go on to give her comment the attention it deserves - none. Or, better yet, I'd probably tell her she looks n…
/r/seduction29/03/15 07:18 AM
3

Yeah, I'd say this is exactly it... if you are driving away the people closest to you, that will eventually happen with all the new people you meet. Sounds like you've painted the shutters but the wood is still rotting. Now, thats a little extreme... but I feel as though you really look at your behaviour, and talk to him about what he dislikes about you, you can learn more about yourself and really take your improvement to a whole new level.
/r/seduction25/01/15 07:12 PM
5

One thing that I found pretty laughable is "if you do cool stuff, you have cool photos." Actually, let me clarify, I found it really really fucking lame. I've been atop damn near every climbable mountain in BC (exaggeration, but I do a ton of it, be it through hiking climbing or skiing). I'm not a model though, I don't see the normalcy in taking photos of myself in normal events, so I have maybe one photo on top of a mountain and it only features me in the background. I think in general you have…
/r/seduction21/01/15 04:38 PM
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1 - there is no best thing to drink. 2 - there are moments when I am content drinking beer. I am not, however, content with sitting around and drinking beer. Big difference there. Sometimes I masturbate and am content, but I'm not content with sitting around masturbating all day. I believe that is what he was trying to get across.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:48 PM
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I've stopped reading this sub for the most part because I found it lacking new insights, and while this isn't exactly a new insight it's a very clear and digestible way of looking at it. Quality post. I might send you a message to discuss a few ideas at some point.
/r/seduction02/01/15 06:31 PM
2

Cool!
/r/seduction17/05/14 12:22 AM
1

I'm the same. I just rely on the fact that women will see me for what I am and they will either immediately or eventually recognize that as what they want. I don't go to clubs very often but in terms of girls I have ongoing relationships with, that approach is pretty much 100% for me. I know I can become the man in every girls life if I'm just being myself.
/r/seduction27/12/13 02:50 PM
2

Haha, don't worry man. The pitfalls of being 16. Parents have a huge amount of influence. By all accounts, youre doing a whole lot right. Even if you did something wrong, its the thing you did right that matter more. You saw something you wanted and went for it. Some people never learn to do that.
/r/seduction19/12/13 05:54 AM
0

Good post. Also, I find it funny how every city seemingly lacks beautiful women... which is made even funnier by the fact that just today San Francisco was named the most attractive city in North America.
/r/seduction11/12/13 07:56 PM
1

Just roll with it... "Way too young! Isn't it exciting? Blah blah blah..."
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:15 PM
1

Again, I entirely agree with that, but this guy clearly doesn't have the ability to do that just yet. He has never kissed a girl, despite having several opportunities. This shows an inability to make the final move
/r/seduction28/11/13 08:40 PM
1

Well, then youre at the same place as before. Clearly we're dealing with an extreme case here... as I said, I would give that advice to basically no one else
/r/seduction28/11/13 06:41 PM
0

Get to the point where you have that 'almost kiss' moment, move your face a little bit forward, and say "kiss me". I wouldn't usually recommend doing that but if you need her to make the final move you can at least be aggressive with the penultimate move.
/r/seduction28/11/13 09:46 AM
12

I would assume the "bouncer" role... "Ladies, hands off the talent please"
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:28 PM
3

I worked at a summer camp for 3 and a half weeks. I made out one girl on the 3rd day, fucked a different girl in the 2nd week til the end of camp, then fucked 2 different chicks at the end of the year party. I would say I am probably a 7/10 in appearance so its not like my looks blew everyone away or anything. Here's how I did it. Step 1: Always be more invested in your job/the kids than the other staff AKA DO YOUR FUCKING JOB I played with the kids and generally ignored the female staff in favo…
/r/seduction13/11/13 04:56 AM
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I would point to the coworker who asked the question and say, "wait, I thought we were dating..."
/r/seduction12/11/13 07:35 PM
1

I'm pretty sure she saw it was a joke. I've walked up and kicked a girl in her butt and walked away, and she came up to me later. He did with words what I did with my butt-kicking. It's all the same thing.
/r/seduction28/09/13 12:29 AM
1

Not really, if you're kidding both times. Shit, I've sat down next to a girl, poked her belly, smiled and said, "I'm gonna put a baby in there. He will be named Mr. Mortimer."
/r/seduction27/09/13 11:54 PM
2

You really think that he's offering commitment?? I brand so many chicks as my girlfriend, even upon just meeting them, even if I have no sexual interest in them... it's just a way of teasing. Sometimes I'll pretend to forget a good female friends name and just call her wifey #7. And guess what? She thinks I'm a funny and silly dude. It's all just playing around, buddy.
/r/seduction27/09/13 11:07 PM
2

She's not interested in you because you are a chick friend to her. If you take a step back, it should be to examine/improve yourself, not to make her need you.
/r/seduction22/08/13 02:52 PM
1

You don't approach the girl, you approach her parents. Think of an open ended question or compliment that you know you can build on, and then about 3-4 lines into your dialogue, you address her as part of the ongoing dialogue. If she's receptive, you keep going and then include the parents every once in a while. If she's not, you go back to the parents for a bit and either leave, or, if youre enjoying the conversation, wait for her to chime in or try to bring her in again. It's easy and its just…
/r/seduction19/08/13 01:19 AM
31

Say, "thank you, I'm adorable."
/r/seduction19/08/13 01:13 AM
0

Not really related but I'm almost Neil Strauss tried to hit on my mom yesterday in Jerusalem.
/r/seduction08/08/13 02:11 PM
1

Joke about it dude. "Look into my eyes girl... no, both of them."
/r/seduction09/06/13 11:02 PM
1

Don't wear a fucking iPatch bro. Who gives a shit about a lazy eye? The very results you sent me to predominantly displayed Paris Hilton, i.e a woman who is literally famous for being a drunk party whore who oozes confidence AND a woman with a lazy eye. Sure, she is better looking than you, but who cares? I used to have a stutter and a nervous lisp, and guess what? They remedied themselves when I started being social. I have social anxiety, yet I am one of the most outgoing people you'll meet...…
/r/seduction09/06/13 11:00 PM
3

Yeah I am feeling the same right now. Need to get back on my grind. Went from getting at least multiple girls every night to not even talking to anyone.
/r/seduction02/06/13 04:05 PM
2

You want a real easy one? Give her a light kick in the ass, smile, make eye contact, and slowly walk away. Only tried it 2 times in bars but it has a 100% success rate for me... and I'm not just talking about getting the girls to talk to me.
/r/seduction14/05/13 03:13 PM
-3

"Oh, honey, I'm dating everyone" sweeping motion around room.
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:40 PM
2

Any sections specifically to focus on? I'm reading way too many other books right now.
/r/seduction05/05/13 08:02 PM
-9

"I love you. Bye!" Works like a charm.
/r/seduction15/04/13 07:41 PM
1

hand of god?
/r/seduction14/04/13 08:56 PM
11

I stick my finger in her mouth and say "imagine this but half the size and sweatier." Just kidding, although I do have a friend who used to go around discreetly slipping his finger in peoples mouths and it actually got him some ass. What I usually do is look into their eyes, touch their leg or shoulder depending on our bodies positions, and say "if you keep looking at me like that, I'm gonna have to kiss you." It's an oldie, it's simple, but its fucking powerful as hell. Hasn't ever failed me, b…
/r/seduction14/04/13 12:01 AM
4

I love this... some chick calls him a predator, I point out that I bang and date older chicks all the time, several downvotes ensue for no reason, and she responds like an absolute child. http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1bz4ll/what_would_you_think_of_a_guy_in_his_mid_20s_who/c9bsv6v?context=3
/r/TheRedPill09/04/13 09:01 PM
4

I don't think there is a single person not welcome here, as long as they are here for the right reasons - namely, to better themselves and society.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/13 06:11 PM
22

The problem with seddit is it's really hard for some men to learn to love and cherish women. Mostly because a lot of guys spend their whole lives being shunned by and uncomfortable around women, and it's really really easy to blame women - especially since they (aka everyone) can be rude at times. I think this is probably the largest obstacle to becoming a true man... maybe not a "PUA", which I do not in any way consider myself, but as a viable and exciting sexual partner. A lot of guys who are …
/r/seduction09/04/13 06:02 PM
3

Honestly though, I have this happen to me to. Normally girls who I'm texting are more courteous than that, so if they say no or make an excuse... whatever. At least they are dignified in their actions. If they don't respond, I'll maybe send out one more text a while later seeing whatsup... and if they don't respond or act cold, I delete that number. There's no sense wasting your time on someone who doesn't value your time. A perfect example of this is "Kristen". She was an absolute bombshell - l…
/r/seduction09/04/13 02:07 PM
1

Relevant.
/r/seduction09/04/13 01:54 PM
6

Just say "hey superman". Dudes LOVE that shit and its a guaranteed IOI and kino. He will melt in your hands with this one simple line.
/r/seduction09/04/13 01:53 PM
3

I seems like he's not being serious
/r/TheRedPill06/04/13 08:14 PM
1

Exact same thing happened to me, except this girl lived in Cali and I live in Vancouver. I just kept it simple: Hey XXXX, it was really nice to meet you! I'd love to see you next time you're in town. My number is XXX.XXX.XXX. She responds: Hey XXXXX, same to you! Yah of course, that'd be nice. Thanks and let me know if you're ever in California :) Just be straightforward and pleasant! Simple as that for your simple ass, my brother!
/r/seduction03/04/13 05:05 AM
1

Harakiri.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/13 09:42 PM
-3

Yeah, it was forced by society to be subtle. Johnny is a jerk - he's basically Chaz (I think thats his name, Will Ferrel's character) from Wedding Crashers, except he doesn't get women... purely because its geared towards kids. I'm not saying it's not because of a "BP" society, but there are practically NO kids shows in which the main character ever actually consolidates a relationship with a woman. CERTAINLY not multiple women. I also imagine there would be an issue with showing kids a total wo…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 04:27 PM
7

Because you cant have a kids show about a dude who constantly has sex with women. Whether thats right or not is another discussion.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 02:21 PM
3

Great movie. It's one of my moms favorite movies so I watched it a lot growing up. My mother nurtured my mindset a lot growing up and I'm constantly helping her see the world through her own personal lens now. Solid, strong (not feminist strong) female role model is so valuable.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 12:30 AM
1

48 Laws of Power is also some fantastic reading.... but this whole concept is pretty Blue Pill in itself. Learn a lot and realize what to phase into your life and what to ignore. Be your own man, do as you please to make the little world around you better, as you perceive it. Red Pill is internal.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 12:23 AM
1

If a girl is boring, I'll go right for it. Get her to kiss me. If she does, she's in my back pocket. If she doesn't, who gives a shit. Easy as pie.
/r/seduction21/03/13 04:19 PM
2

A bit of a double standard here. I'd fuck Casey Anthony. That said, it's pretty fucked how they say they "love" him and what not. Should also be attributed to the reckless abandon that takes over serial killers/mass murderers. Most of them have a certain charm. But yeah, this is pretty fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/13 04:10 PM
3

Here's a field report I posted a while back. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11obhg/university_study_pick_up/ I ended up fucking this girl 4 days later and we had sex 30+ times over the next 2 months, at which point she got a boyfriend. Also learnt a lot from that situation about the mindset of women - I had all the skills but was only okay in their application. Comment or message me if you have any questions brother.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/13 03:11 AM
2

And that's why I'm waiting a few days and not jumping to conclusions. If she lost the money or something, she can tell me when I contact her next.
/r/seduction11/03/13 09:34 PM
1

They do. My friends are great to go out with. Lots of mutual respect between us all.
/r/seduction11/03/13 05:28 PM
3

Yeah I'm a king of getting friends laid. It's a manner of finding hot slutty girls. One thing that works surprisingly well is getting a girl interested in you and when she's really feeling on you, say "Naw naw you dont want me.. you should talk to (Sam). He's got stories." And then let em be. Even get your friends to tell stories in a group before approaching. Just get it flowing. Tell them what stories to use. Use subtle prompts to completely control the conversation amongst yourselves while ke…
/r/seduction11/03/13 05:28 AM
3

Pump your friends tires, steer the conversation to topics that you know they have great stories about, basically just make them shine. Direct the conversation towards them in a way that will make them comfortable. Expose their passions (obviously in a kind-hearted way). They will naturally light up. The ugliest, most awkward guy at his best, in his sweet spot, will outshine almost any other guy who is just coming with the same ordinary shpiel. Fool proof technique, but easier said than done.
/r/seduction11/03/13 04:22 AM
8

Act like you know (and love) everyone. You are Big Wolf on Campus. Hell, this is your house. Smile and get close. Look goofily into her eyes. So simple dude. College parties are a cinch. I barely even consider them part of my game.
/r/seduction11/03/13 01:14 AM
6

There's a girl I've been hooking up with a lot recently. Really seductive, pretty woman... good head on her shoulders and looks at me in just the right way... overall just checks quite a few of my boxes. That said, I got her tickets to a sold out event a few days ago, but while she was on the way to pick them up, she crossed paths with the guy who hooked me up with the tickets. He saw a sexy woman and, instinctively, gave her 2 free tickets. She comes, tells me what happens, and I say well why d…
/r/seduction10/03/13 11:01 PM
2

I have a lot of close black friends, 2 guys who I chill with a ton and 2 more who are in my group of 10 or so guy friends. They are cool, calm and confident, funny guys who just go out to have a good time and meet people and make new friends. Just like all of us. But I will say, my black friends generally find it easier to find a woman who is into them, even if she might not be quite up to their standards. Of course, there could be a huge difference between Vancouver and... Texas. I feel for you…
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:04 PM
1

THIS is what we are all trying to achieve, people. Digest this mans brilliance and PRAY that what you shit out maintains half the stank of this coherent and decidedly suave masterpiece of a mastermind.
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:36 PM
-8

"Yeah, I'm totally a virgin... I haven't had sex like, 12 times." Wink. Smile.
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:34 PM
2

I'm not trying to be rude, I'm trying to show tough love. And trying to show how stupid it is to think looks are holding you back when, I can promise you, they're not. You need to stop using your average looks as an excuse and work on even more things.
/r/seduction20/02/13 09:03 PM
1

Because he thinks he's uglier than you. You think you're uglier than him. Everyone thinks they look worse than they do.
/r/seduction20/02/13 09:01 PM
2

... You are making excuses for yourself because you're afraid to admit that the problem might not be genetic. Until you grow up, you deserve no pity and no pussy.
/r/seduction20/02/13 09:00 PM
1

I was expecting a defect. You're homely, but easily average. If you had a shred of confidence in your appearance you'd be above average. You are using limiting beliefs as an excuse. I know tons of conventionally ugly guys who compete with me for chicks.
/r/seduction20/02/13 08:40 PM
1

Stop going out seeking women. Just let it happen. Eventually more and more women will have a better view of you, you'll notice, you'll be more confident and calm, people will start changing their opinion of you and then eventually you won't have this problem. Just be yourself and people will come to appreciate you in time. EDIT: Also, don't make out in public. It's not attractive to the girl your kissing nor the people around you. Give a nice, small kiss. That is the best, it shows youre comfort…
/r/seduction19/02/13 04:43 PM
2

This is exactly the same as my situation and my feelings. I dated a gorgeous girl, famous around my school for her looks... and since then I've had no time for such women. I want a smart and funny girl who owns her sexuality both in and out of the bedroom. That's really what we're all looking for, when it all comes down to it.
/r/seduction18/02/13 10:00 PM
1

Thanks brother. I am going home for reading week in 2 days. I'm planning one night of pints with my brother and a few friends but that's it. Limit the week to 6 beers. I really appreciate this community; for the most part it has allowed me to be a mentor, something I crave in life, but its also nice knowing that the community and the fine men who make it up are always so concerned with the collective. The more I immerse myself in this culture (mostly just the self-loving/respect aspect of it) th…
/r/seduction15/02/13 09:09 AM
2

Sober game is easier. When I'm drunk I lose focus, and while hornier I am definitely far less in-tune with women. My problem isn't that I can't meet girls without getting drunk, its that going out sort of "forces" me to drink. Most of the girls I lay are girls I meet during the day, I pull girls right out of class and the library... drinking is just a nice disconnect for me. Well, not so nice.
/r/seduction15/02/13 09:06 AM
6

I hold my liquor extremely well... most people cant tell if I'm drunk. I generally still take care of my friends most nights. It's my ability to drink so much that hurts though, it hits me a few days later and when I'm drinking 4-5 times a week it just creates a depressive air around me. I don't really know what I'm saying, writing this is the first time I've acknowledged this.
/r/seduction15/02/13 04:13 AM
5

Yeah I know all that. It's not really about getting pussy. It's more about trying to go out and have fun and not have a drink. It's hard to know when you reach that point. I believe I can be a guy who just goes out and has a few beers once a week but its harder to put that in practice than it is to think about... thanks for the support brother, and for the sound advice.
/r/seduction15/02/13 01:08 AM
7

I think I'm an alcoholic though. It's stunting my game. So hard to go out and not drink but I know its hurting me... not sure if I should go out and try to stay sober or just sober up by staying in. Shitty spot I've gotten myself in :(
/r/seduction15/02/13 12:54 AM
6

"I only date girls who tell me they only date older men. Girls who actually like me are too easy." Now I would never say that, I'd just stop trying with them because clearly they are not attracted... but you asked for a response. I gave a verbal one.
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:38 AM
9

Take them to a musical.
/r/seduction14/01/13 07:37 AM
9

Text message maybe "glad you got home safely" or something. I'm not quite sure to be honest. If she brings up your age when you're escalating I would just put a finger on her lips and go back to what you've been doing. If its as constant as you're making it seem I'd get fed up.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:46 PM
40

Her: You're too young. You: Meh, I'm sure you can keep up.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:22 PM
8

This is why I'm exclusively inner-game. I act and react in the field, but I don't do anything thats not natural to me. Being yourself is the only true way to be great at this... but the PUA literature makes it easy for most guys to get into it.
/r/seduction27/12/12 08:57 PM
2

Another idea I had - one which would need to be developed quite a bit from its current state - making a challenge where you need to get a woman to say a certain word... So basically you'll need to slyly manipulate the conversation which is great practice for turning the conversation sexual... The subtleties of guided conversation is a great skill to master
/r/seduction25/12/12 11:16 PM
11

That sounds pretty weak. How bout... talk to someone using only rhymes. Sounds silly at first, but it will make you way comfortable in silences, necessitates clear speaking voice, teaches you not to just... TALK AND TALK AND TALK. Let say you need to make at least 5 rhymes, and it can't be one of your closest 3 friends. So while it doesn't have to be a stranger, it likely won't be someone you are super close with. Here's another: talk to a random woman about a topic of which you have absolutely …
/r/seduction23/12/12 02:43 PM
6

Hi. I run a fallout shelter for puppies.
/r/seduction20/12/12 11:34 PM
6

I only call. Texting sucks. I don't like to waste my time with it. There are definite benefits - more calculated, more easily contrived, less reaction time... basically if you are still following seduction recipes, texting is easier, but if you have inner game down pat and are confident with yourself calling is much better. Gets shit figured out and you don't need to sit there waiting and calculating and considering and all that other B.S that I'm too busy for.
/r/seduction07/12/12 04:03 AM
2

I just went through this, ended two days ago. Real good gal who I liked a lot. Yesterday, walking out for the first time since it ended, I realized how much I had been missing on her behalf. I realized that she was the last girl I actively attempted to pick up, and that made me sad. Then, I went out and spoke to other equally beautiful women, showed them my sexy eyes, and now I have girls who are interested in me. Which makes me feel sexy. Which makes me more confident. Which makes me more appea…
/r/seduction07/12/12 03:52 AM
7

Bud Light is never the answer.
/r/seduction21/11/12 06:17 AM
1

Exactly, my friend. The beauty of that line is it's malleability.
/r/seduction21/11/12 01:22 AM
9

"Kittens are cute. I'm rugged." EDIT: That said, I don't really have a 'go-to'. I just thought of that on the spot, which is what I'd usually do.
/r/seduction20/11/12 11:01 PM
9

Demonstrate his value in non-obvious ways... Isolate her friends... keep conversation interesting but don't dominate the room...laugh at all his jokes... basically just insulate him and make him appear to be of high value.
/r/seduction20/11/12 06:07 AM
1

Can I really have sex with any woman by uttering just one simple phrase?
/r/seduction20/11/12 05:07 AM
1

Literally envelop them with your size, hug them gently and hug them from behind... girls love when a tall guy rests their head on them from behind, and girls fucking love tall guy hugs. Height is the biggest physical advantage in the game by far if you know how to use it.
/r/seduction19/11/12 09:52 AM
12

I didn't read much about it because I was travelling without internet when I really got interested in "the game"... I spent an inordinate amount of time thinking about it though. I was aided by constantly dissecting the little theory that I knew and turning it about in my mind while travelling through one of the worlds best young peoples party districts, but for me it was sort of just about figuring out the truths of my world and accepting them and being content with them. As soon as that happen…
/r/seduction19/11/12 09:48 AM
4

That's going to be my new catchphrase when I'm going out... "possibly coitus"
/r/seduction19/11/12 09:44 AM
9

I wouldn't respond, but I would also pretty much give up on a girl who says "We'll see"... for me, that gives me perfect reason to write her off as a woman who I'd be interested in and a woman who is sufficiently interested in me.
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:00 AM
3

This is dumb and you don't gain any credibility from doing this.
/r/seduction16/11/12 06:23 PM
2

This was the most enjoyable post I have ever read on here in all my year of redditing.
/r/seduction19/10/12 05:52 AM
3

Just thought I'd add this comment I made in response to a post asking about texting game. It gives insight into my text conversation as well as a few other texting traits I posses that seem to be advantageous. Here is the comment: "There are two situations in which I text: 1) If I enter my number in her phone, I'll send myself a flirty text from her. I'll give her 5-10 minutes to send her own follow up text (see the bottom of my field report for an example). If a conversation naturally ensues, I…
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:30 PM
5

Awesome name, my Sammy Davis Junior, Jr. friend!
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:29 PM
8

I'm noticing a few downvotes coming in. I don't mind at all - but I would very much appreciate it if you could let me know what you are downvoting based on. Content, terminology, my "creative process", etc. If I get good critical responses I'll probably post more (unless the responses are, "you suck and I hate you" :D)
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:06 PM
1

It is field tested. I ran it last Halloween on a smashing pumpkin.
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:41 PM
1

Glad to know I could help, pal.
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:06 PM
5

Except it's a far less explicit way of "asking". Also, it's merely an indication. It tells you what direction to drag the conversation in. Finally, I do not frequent this subreddit. That said, I get a fair amount of women and, more importantly, am very skilled at networking and making large and diverse groups of friends. Maybe this advice is not typical of this subreddit, but... it works. And this type of gumption works on large scales. If it's "below" you, don't use it. I expect it is better th…
/r/seduction03/10/12 05:30 PM
3

Exactly this. It is essentially fool-proof, unless you are spending halloween in a small and intimate group.
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:50 AM
1

Of course she could say no. I'm going to be at a halloween party with literally hundreds of women. Women like to lead men on. That is one thing they are great at. This does not allow even a slight lead. It lays very clearly on the table what goes on in her head and what your chances are. Obviously you need to read tone but if you can, its a golden roadmap to her thoughts about you.
/r/seduction02/10/12 09:09 PM
12

I'm gonna go ahead and disagree. Your version sounds a little snarky, a little too scripted and also beats around the bush. Not only that, but it doesn't establish what mine does... namely, you are telling her she's a slutty pumpkin. In mine, she either tells you that yes, she is a slutty pumpkin... which means nothing about her costume, but a thousand things about her. With yours, you are merely commenting on her costume. Not nearly as effective, IMO.
/r/seduction02/10/12 07:10 PM
24

No matter how obvious their costume is: Me: "What are you dressed up as?" Her: "A pumpkin" Me: "... A slutty pumpkin?" Immediately determines which girls are into you, immediately shows interest, reasonably funny and will inevitably save you time.
/r/seduction02/10/12 06:30 PM
2

Most important thing is she knows me inside out. You can only do what she did if you know your kid well and know what they can and can't handle. She learnt early on that I could handle myself in most situations so she let me loose. Point is, different things will work for different kids, there's no set formula. Most important thing is taking the time to understand your kid as a person, not just a responsibility. Am I getting a little deep for seddit? This is my first time on here.
/r/seduction15/08/12 04:38 PM
9

No, my mom is awesome. I'm a smart guy but she really let my mind explore and expand as much as possible. She's easily been the person who has shaped me the most. Sure, I made the most of learning opportunities, but she let me travel across the world on my own at 17, sent me to volunteer in Costa Rica at 15 and Africa at 16, let me believe what I want and experiment with what I want... It might be a testament to me that I triumphed, and that definitely gave me my confidence, but if she didn't le…
/r/seduction15/08/12 12:32 AM
12

She was teasing me about flirting with her and said I should get her number, so I said go to the bathroom and I'll have it by the time you're back. She thought it was pretty awesome. Besides, I wasn't going to go to NYC and talk to no women besides my momma. That's crazy talk.
/r/seduction15/08/12 12:19 AM
58

I was just in NYC this weekend with my mother and I pulled two decent ones. I'm 18 years old, for reference. Our hotel was on 52nd and 5th, and I was walking back on my own and was at 59th and 6th. Obviously NYC is extremely easy to navigate, so I decide to play with that a bit. Hot woman, about 26 or 27, approaching... Me: Excuse me ma'am, do you know how I get to 52nd street? Her: Uhhh you just follow 6th down to 52nd and turn right... Me, in childish voice: Oh I'm sorry ma'am I don't know how…
/r/seduction14/08/12 11:52 PM
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