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I've noticed an improvement in my own results by doing the things I said. I can only imagine that it would also improve other people's results. I'm not saying this is how to attract girls on tinder who otherwise wouldn't talk to you, obviously nothing is going to do that.
/r/seduction11/07/14 12:01 PM
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I have about 50% actually follow through and go on a date. I just meant she agreed to go on a date, probably should have worded it better.
/r/seduction11/07/14 11:59 AM
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That's kind of the point. If they are responding to you on tinder then they're attracted. You just have to not blow it or bore them to death while you build a little bit of comfort, and then go for a date close. That's really the gist of what I'm trying to show here, hence "basic" in the title.
/r/seduction11/07/14 11:40 AM
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that's hilarious. If you really thought your POF date was hanging out with some dudes she knew you should have bounced immediately though. Fuck that noise.
/r/seduction30/05/14 01:36 PM
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Stolen.
/r/seduction27/05/14 11:47 PM
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There is a ton to be said about tinder game and I take a similar approach. I just like this 3 minute rule because it takes zero effort or finesse, and the benefits are huge. Really good bang for your buck. PS: 7/12 is an amazing conversion rate. You should write about it.
/r/seduction27/05/14 02:51 PM
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I have to disagree with this somewhat. Direct approach is great, but it can be too much for some situations. When a girl is heading somewhere on the street and you come up and go straight for "you're cute", you're going to startle her. She hasn't had even the few seconds it takes to look at you and see that you're not a threat. If you put her on the back foot right off the bat you're screwed (not in a good way). I prefer asking something dumb like "excuse me do you have the time/know where a goo…
/r/seduction26/05/14 01:35 PM
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There are a lot of things you could have done better, but the biggest thing is trying to go from zero touching to kissing. Even worse than that is asking to kiss her. There's a ton written about kino, but to put a simple message to it: when you escalate properly, you'll just fall into the kiss. It's not some big "move" where you're jumping a huge gap you've created by failing to display interest and failing to act congruently with your desires. edit: and while i'm thinking about it, your message…
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:34 AM
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three things that could holding you back: How you carry yourself. It's one thing to be having fun, but you also should work on good posture and eye contact. Looks. Not your facial aesthetics, but how you dress and how your body looks. If you take care of yourself you'll look like you do, and girls pick up on that. Calibration. If you were getting defensive no's from a lot of girls you were probably coming on too strong, or only doing a half approach. Coming on too strong is pretty obvious, tone …
/r/seduction03/05/14 06:01 PM
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No time like the present. Good luck
/r/seduction03/05/14 04:57 AM
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I've watched my recorded skype calls a few time to work on my tone and posture and all that. It's massively effective at giving a way more objective view of what you sound like. I'd even be willing to record a call and send it back to you if you wanna chat about game for 10-15 minutes or w/e. Feel free to PM me.
/r/seduction03/05/14 03:22 AM
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Getting a # doesn't mean shit. I never # close a tinder until we agree to meet up. Having her number is basically the exact same thing, only she forgets what you look like.
/r/seduction01/05/14 03:36 PM
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Her: "aww, thanks buddy" Me: "no problem creep" Playful tone. Completely flips it, girls can't stand being called creep.
/r/seduction24/04/14 11:00 AM
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Nice fr. Would like to hear more on you cold reading her nationality and profession. I'm guessing she was a stripper?
/r/seduction24/04/14 12:46 AM
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Yes they do...
/r/seduction29/03/14 12:23 PM
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Something I've been experimenting with the last few weeks is messaging a girl right away when SHE matches YOU. You get the notification. wait 1-2 minutes, opener. If they're swiping, they're in the perfect mood and they're bored. Girls have a very short emotional memory (IE the girl that is in love with you making out with you on friday night, and then doesn't want anything to do with you on saturday morning). Get in there while they still remember swiping you right. Seems kind of silly and like…
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:06 PM
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displays intent and is venue appropriate. Why'd he lose you here?
/r/seduction05/03/14 01:26 PM
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I like RSDJulien's approach on it. He advocates framing the conversation in interview mode questions, then playing off of those things with good tonality. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJ02zPLrbc0
/r/seduction10/02/14 02:49 PM
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Hard to read, but congrats on the success. That first breakout night is FUCKING AMAZING
/r/seduction07/02/14 02:30 PM
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I've pulled quiet a few tinder dates. What has worked best for me is a very generic opener. "hey, how's it going" works well. This is considered a "boring" opener, but I like starting on a bit of a lower note. Much more natural transition into a fun conversation from small talk than the other way around. Tons of nuances to why I like this better but I won't really get into that. From there, make sure you follow the girls pace so you don't come off as overy invested. Basic text rules apply here. …
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:57 PM
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Kind of what I'm afraid of, and new job isn't coming.
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:20 PM
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first tinder meetup for dinner at my place would come off weird I think. I also have a roomie who is home in the afternoon. I might try it out w/ one of my MLTR's though, thanks
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:18 PM
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I liked the beginning, but you lost me at the end. Seems like you're preaching to be completely dependant on the reactions you get from others. At the very least there is a fine line between what you're advocating and outcome dependance/having a weak frame.
/r/seduction14/11/13 02:20 PM
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Really good list. It's worth nothing that these things don't have to be right on the approach. I use most of these after I've opened the set. spin/double high five/Come here all work amazing when worked into the interaction. I'd like to add 11) the "Flying Bear Hug". Go in for the hug, but pick her up off her feet. You can spin when you pick her up if she really embraces being picked up. Works wonders, especially as an overreaction to something good(ie: you both like a TV show/dislike some drink…
/r/seduction05/11/13 08:14 PM
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I would try talking with them about it. Seems pretty unhealthy. Side note that doesn't really apply to you since your parents are actively blocking you: I live with my dad(I'm 26/m) and for a long time I was really in my head about it. I thought it would stand in my way. Turns out a huge % of the time girls give absolutely 0 fucks about it or think it's cute. I call him my 'roommate' and it usually gets a chuckle, then we chill in my room.
/r/seduction05/11/13 07:58 PM
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Great advice. Thanks dude
/r/seduction01/11/13 01:16 PM
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good job taking a chance dude. It's the hardest easy thing in the world sometimes. I don't know how long the flight was, but if you didn't escalate or turn the conversation sexual at any point I think you're going to have problems switching gears to that later. Can't really tell from this, and maybe I'm wrong, but it doesn't seem like you were clear in your intent(assuming your intent is romantic/sexual involvement.) And I hate that you let her # close you. You should have set up a meet up at a …
/r/seduction31/10/13 03:24 PM
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You don't think you have aa, then you described aa when saying why you didn't want to approach. All those thoughts are super normal. The cure is to stop thinking. Clear your head and walk up to them. You'll live, I promise. You could benefit from mediation. I also recommend going to bars/clubs because they're outside your comfort zone. Outside your comfort zone is where the magic happens.
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:20 PM
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Nice pull; Epic wingman
/r/seduction21/10/13 08:52 PM
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Don't compare yourself to others. There's no point. Put in effort and embrace the growing pains on the road to being your better self. It's not easy, which is why it's valuable. You seem like you have don't think you're worth the girl's time. If you quit then you're right. But if you step up and push through the hardship then you've accomplished more than the girls you're approaching have that night, this month, maybe even this year. Be turned on by your actions, fuck their reactions
/r/seduction19/10/13 02:55 PM
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Not sure what you mean by baseline. wings are a few good friends of mine who I'm really fortunate to have on the same path as me; it helps so much. I'm shameless about what I'm doing so any of my friends who are interested have an easy opportunity to join me. I couldn't see myself ever doing the things I did that night the way I did them. It's a trope, but that's because of how amazingly true it is... If I can do this, anyone can. I've read that a million times but now I get it. You can do it du…
/r/seduction14/10/13 02:25 PM
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Fuck yes dude. Hope you kill it
/r/seduction14/10/13 12:32 AM
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Use Binary. 1's and 0's. You don't need a girl to be hot enough to be your wife to warrant hitting on her. It also makes things WAY less complicated, and helps with putting girls on a pedestal. I like to tell my friend with the same issue " Imagine she's on a bed naked; would you fuck her? yes? She's worth hitting on."
/r/seduction10/10/13 08:52 PM
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