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184	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men.	CMV	PurpDragonPrime	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:00 PM
1	Capitalism has contributed to the incel epidemic among young men by pushing relationships into later stages of life.	CMV	PurpDragonPrime	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 01:56 AM

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1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. That's a really interesting read, thanks. I'll have to think about this more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 03:52 PM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Yeah I've found playing hearthstone that there are a lot of bots in the game who just auto-pass the turn to farm gold. I'm F2P so I only have like 1 decent deck but it's fun every now and then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 06:07 AM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I've read some reddit posts on "people's worst experiences at MTG stores", some of the stories you read about people's experiences are RIDICULOUS. Don't get me wrong, I've met some really chill people too, I think the bad experiences just stick out more in our memories.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 01:24 AM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I agree! I'd like to clarify, I very much enjoy doing all of these things and I would not consider myself a social outcast. I was trying to not give off any "cel" vibes with my post, the point I was more trying to get across is that it seems harder to me to make friends as an adult than when I was a lot younger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 01:06 AM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I've been rock climbing a few times, it was pretty fun. Escape rooms are also something I've always wanted to try out, I'll give it a shot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 01:04 AM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. There is a difference between asocial and antisocial. Antisocial means you are violent, manipulative, basically dark triad type stuff. I actually think that psychopathy is now referred to clinically as "antisocial personality disorder" or something. Asocial means you just don't interact with other people. Those aren't the same as being introverted. Introverts still spend time with people, have friends, and go out and do things, just not as often as extroverts who are out and about all of the tim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 02:08 AM
2	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I live 30 minutes away from a city with 5 million people. I don't go there much because the drive and the traffic are arguably the worst in the country. I'll take a look into some of those things though and see if there's anything local maybe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:34 AM
9	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. In regards to step 3, I'm not scared of girls. Maybe in highschool, but not anymore. I'm more scared of making girls uncomfortable. I don't want to step on anyone's toes and I'm starting to remind myself of the 40 year old virgin even though I'm not a virgin. "I respect women so much I don't even talk to them". But it seems like all of the messaging that men get, at least on subs like these, is something like, "girls at clubs just want to dance, leave them alone! Girls at the bar just want to ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:27 AM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I've never been to a con. I'd be interested in going one day. I'm also interested in going to Dreamhack, that always seemed pretty fun. I missed my chance a few years back because of school schedule unfortunately. Also, you mean to tell me that none of them want to date anyone there, like, at all? Are you sure? I thought these places had like, nerd speed dating events because it's the one place that nerds converge annually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:24 AM
2	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I'm sure it helps to an extent but it doesn't get you through the looks filter. A deep voice in a body like mine seems pretty asymmetrical to people. It isn't nearly as big a factor as people with higher pitched voices think. It's more something that your partner will appreciate over time but nobody is going to be attracted to you because of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:22 AM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Yes, looks are important. Yes, to some people, they are the most important thing. This is just a really verbose way of saying "Rule 1 Rule 2", that isn't what my discussion is about. If women are filtering you out based on looks, that's tough. It's happened to me too, PLENTY of times. You just keep taking your L's until you find someone who's standards you meet, and you keep bettering your looks however you can until that happens, that's all there is to be said about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:19 AM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Having female friends helped me in a dating sense because it let me relate to women without feeling nervous or anxious. It was a stepping stone I needed to take because I hardly hung out with any girls in highschool. It's incredible how much of a difference it makes, just talking to women. A lot of men can't get women because they literally NEVER TALK TO WOMEN, they view women like an alien species that can't be touched or understood. It creates the spiral of rejection, self doubt, rejection, se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:12 AM
7	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:09 AM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Developmental disorders comprise a group of psychiatric conditions originating in childhood that involve serious impairment in different areas. There are several ways of using this term.[1] The most narrow concept is used in the category "Specific Disorders of Psychological Development" in the ICD-10.[1] These disorders comprise developmental language disorder, learning disorders, motor disorders, and autism spectrum disorders.[2] In broader definitions ADHD is included, and the term used is neu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:08 AM
2	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I would expect no less from a group of MTG players. I've had cards stolen, I've had my decks insulted, I've had people rage at my friends for losing against them in a draft tournament with no stakes... the MTG community is just built different man, I don't know what the fuck is up with most card gamers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 12:57 AM
3	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I understand your point of view. I'd like to say first and foremost that I'm not an apologist for the gaming community. There are so many toxic man children mother fuckers who I've met playing online games, and at card stores playing MTG. I don't go out to commander nights anymore because most of the time the people you meet there are tryhard, sweaty, stinky bozos who take the game way too seriously and talk trash to you while they dunk on your with their $15,000 reserved list deck. I also used …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 11:48 PM
2	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Yeah but we're talking about a subset of maybe 10-20% of the population at max. Like I said, all of this only works if you're extremely good looking, otherwise, you need to look at least decent, and have social proof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 11:12 PM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Well, yeah. But you could say that about any single character trait imaginable if you believe that no other quality surpasses looks in the order of importance in a partner. And perhaps that's true, there's evidence to suggest that it's at least a very large determining factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 11:11 PM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. It's an interesting question. I'm not sure what the answer to it is. I started playing video games when I was three years old. I learned to read playing video games. I made all of my friends playing video games. I think that I used them as a way to distract myself from a rough home life when my family got divorced and I kept it that way throughout middle school and highschool. I always had friends, and I hung out with them often, many of them were like me in many ways. But gaming and reading boo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 11:06 PM
3	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Well I plan on getting my shit together, financially at least, because I've got nothing better to do lol. So that's at least a box I can work on ticking off in the meantime while I live at home. Dating has to be put on hold until I get out of here anyways, and the amount of money I save living with my parents for free will pay off all of my student loans on its own in 3 years maximum, so I'll at least have my mid to late 20's to figure this all out I guess. I just want to focus on making more fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 10:53 PM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I guess I'll have to make a real social media. I really despise social media though, it seems very vapid. I don't consider reddit a form of social media because this is all anonymous, it's more like a forum than a website like facebook or myspace. I've met a lot of people in online communities but only for the purposes of online things like gaming, but not IRL. I should look into it more but I've been so focused on finishing college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 08:31 PM
10	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I'm not trying to vilify it. I identify heavily with it. I think that many people reach a point where it's extremely unhealthy though. They give up on even the basics of self care. That usually doesn't happen until one has no hopes, no friends, and no life. I still have aspirations, close friends, my health, and my head together. But I can see how without the little support network that I have right now, that could all slip away very quickly. Welcome to the NHK was a really great anime that expl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 08:26 PM
8	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Well fuck. One of my friends is married, about to move into his first house with his wife. The other is a guy who's a year out from graduation, working nonstop as a teacher's assistant. My ex, who I still talk to all the time, is also a shut-in like myself. I guess my snowball finally hit critical mass and imploded. This is largely my own fault though. I made a lot of friends I really shouldn't have. And I made the hard decision to cut them out. Not sure where to go from here asides from getting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 08:24 PM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Well, things like autism, or psychopathy are legitimate developmental disorders. I don't think that we're headed towards a future where people are going to be gene-editing humans because they don't want a "left handed bastard child". And it isn't even clear how much of these different types of traits are the direct result of a certain gene being present, or whether or not the environment activates these genes over time. Many of them, if I had to guess, could be general within most of the human p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 08:19 PM
8	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. How did you meet her at the gym? I always hear people saying that the gym is like, top 3 places not to talk to women because they find it invasive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 08:04 PM
3	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Thanks for reading it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 08:01 PM
3	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Well, I suppose not, but if he's even meeting women, how introverted is he really? All of the women I've met in my life were through friends I met through school, or through chance encounters at a job, or on campus. I feel like introverts enter adulthood and all of the social circles that school provided to us through forcing us around similarly aged people for multiple days a week, for years, just vanishes. It's like the rug being swept out from under you, but under the rug is a bottomless pit …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 08:00 PM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Can you elaborate further? I'm not quite sure what you mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:52 PM
2	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I don't think there is anything wrong with introversion. I love my introverted hobbies, and I do enjoy reading books. I've been picking my way through a couple books recently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:49 PM
10	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. We sound very similar. I think our personality type is one that isn't talked about enough. People in these cringe as fuck "pill" camps seem to paint people into very extreme categories and pictures. Hopeless turbo virgins vs gigachad thundercock chads or whatever. But most of us are just confused normal dudes who can socialize just fine in the right environment and have plenty of fun around chill, introverted people. But the things we're drawn to aren't inherently social and it makes it hard to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:47 PM
5	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Well it looks like we are in the exact same boat then. "It is kind of awesome but also kinda sucks". Hit the nail on the head. I'm extremely excited to start making money, hopefully use my degree, pay off my debt, move out of my parent's place (for the third time), and enjoy life on my own terms, doing my own shit and not feeling guilty about it. But college was a sort of unicorn island full of incredibly cute girls. I got with a handful of them and that's more than I was expecting, but the real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:43 PM
5	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I'm 5'9 - 5'10 or something like that. I am average height. Decent face, I have masculine features but not like a model or "gigachad jaw" or anything like that. I have nice hair but my facial hair is patchy and unfull which sucks. I look less like a child with facial hair but some girls find it creepy, others find it cute. I'm about 125 pounds skinny as fuck. Not anorexic or anything but I'm thin. I'm pale as copy paper. I have an estropia strabismus because of a genetic condition. I am lower cl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:36 PM
4	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I feel similarly. I don't want to fall into the trap of disparaging marriage because of how great it can be when it works, but at the same time, I come from a divorced family and the divorce was very, very ugly and traumatized me for many years. But then again, both of my parents are mentally deranged a-typical weirdo boomers who seem like aliens to me. So I don't want their experience to shine a bad light on my own life because I know they're both very, very different from me. And they have ver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:01 PM
5	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I figured that this was so obvious that I just stopped engaging in this comment chain. This person seems to be arguing for a position that seems totally removed from the point of my post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 06:34 PM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Here's the thing though. People say this line of rhetoric a lot but I'm not sure how it works when you get more detailed about it. If we assume there are activities that women might be interested in, that also involve socializing, and also involve doing that in places where there are men, what are they? Outside of parties that you get invited to, being already being a part of an established social circle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 06:17 PM
8	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. An introverted man is only a creep if he cannot socialize. Social anxiety and outwardly-offputting depression is creepy. Stuttering and not being able to make eye contact is creepy. Smelling bad and dressing like a homeless bum is creepy. Hitting on women offensively and not being able to read any social cues is creepy. All of that does not equal being introverted. I'm an introvert, but I'm not a foreveralone turbovirgin weirdo. People conflate the two, it's not reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 06:16 PM
5	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. When did you finally decide to leave the house? What did you do to make it work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 06:13 PM
2	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Are you trying to imply that I am a hobby gatekeeping, women harassing bully who hates women with careers and mocks female artists? What kind of schizo shit is this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 06:12 PM
3	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Would you describe yourself as MGTOW?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 06:04 PM
7	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I think the trouble is that enjoyment, or the lack of enjoyment, creates a positive feedback loop. If you haven't had good experiences socially, that is likely to come across, making it more difficult to enjoy yourself, and consequently it's more difficult to be a person that others enjoy being around. So unless you can break that feedback loop, you might get little or nothing out of it. I feel this 100%. I've been betrayed by a lot of my friends. I've been mocked by many women. I'm generally qu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 06:03 PM
4	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I was born in the late 90's so I wouldn't know. I just don't know how adults socialize I guess. It seems like a whole different ball game compared to college. I graduate tomorrow, for context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:56 PM
5	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I had the same experience, sort of. I changed majors, and then covid hit, so I'm in a whole new department and then the last two years of my college were totally online. I did not make a single friend. The only friends I have were the handful I still have that I met my sophomore year. I'm graduating tomorrow and it feels like covid royally fucked my college experience and my potential for meeting people up, big time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:54 PM
12	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Universities are anything but asocial in my experience. Quite the opposite. But aside from that, I agree. With a small network and no clue where to find women outside of the internet, it seems like changing my lifestyle to hopefully meet some new women would require so much re-wiring of the way I live my life that I wouldn't know where to start.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:53 PM
5	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Due to my personality and I suppose aesthetic (which has evolved over time), my introversion gave off an aura of mystery or uniqueness that attracted women. What is your aesthetic? I think what makes me a poor dating match for women at my age is that younger women mostly want fun & I’m no longer an adventurous fuck-all artist alcoholic & women my age want an established man - including socially. What about women at your own age? Do you date women in their 30's? I'm 23 so I'm not far enough along…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:51 PM
3	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I feel the same. I still talk with my "ex" who I'm in a pseudo long distance relationship with. I haven't seen her since covid started but one time. We sext every now and then, we will want eachother I guess. We broke up because her strict muslim parents do not want her to date a lower/middle class white boy. And with her mom being immunocompromised, and with me moving back in with my parents after covid sent all my schooling online, there was no way for us to stay together once her parents foun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:44 PM
8	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Even if genetic editing grows I don't think there's any reason to believe at this point that people are going to be allowed to "pick and choose" every single chromosome in their child's body. It's mostly going to exist to fix things like birth defects and inheritable illnesses. Arguably, also to make military supersoldiers, low-key.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:39 PM
20	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Do adults even have parties after college? It seems like everybody after college does nothing but work and grind online dating like it's a second full time job, that is, if they're not already busy with kids. I've even been told by women before that online dating is the only way they meet men anymore, in any context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:36 PM
14	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I know. A lot of my understanding of this type of stuff comes from watching documentaries about Japan and the men who have dug themselves into this sort of lifestyle trench.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:20 PM
13	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:18 PM
5	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Provide proof that I don't want to fuck an AI sex doll? What point do you think I'm even arguing for here? I don't even disagree with you, why are you linking me studies like we're getting paid to debate on stage here? This is a casual conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:17 PM
1	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Men like I described tend to be the latter but I wouldn't consider myself to be. I've had sex with multiple women, and have kissed or gone to third base with more. And I would consider myself unattractive. I'm average height, pale, scrawny, patchy facial hair that makes me look like discount wolverine, and I still managed to find women who were into that, somehow. I think after college, the difficulty shoots up from "normal" to "legendary" though so maybe I'll be a repeated failure from here on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:14 PM
8	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Aren't a lot of people "boring" though? In my experience, I've met a lot more boring women than men in my life. There has to be some solace for boring bros. And even though other people on the outside might look at me and think of me as being boring, I don't feel bored most of the time. What some people find boring, other people find incredibly fascinating. All of the women I've been with I certainly wouldn't describe as "energetic and exciting" and that's just the way we vibe though. How do bor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:06 PM
15	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. What kinds of activities are these?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:01 PM
21	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. Is the bulk of your point that not meeting people will make it harder to find a relationship? Of course that's true, almost by definition. Yes but the discussion I'd like to have is finding some sort of solution to the issue of men not knowing or understanding where to meet people, particularly women, in spaces that are open for socialization (level 2 / level 1 peripheral environments) that also involve women who are actually into guys who are like this. Otherwise, you seem to wonder if there ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:01 PM
8	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I absolutely do not want a robot, AI, or sex worker. I feel like you're trying to paint a picture of me that isn't accurate, I'm not quite sure what your point is. My point wasn't to say that introverted women don't experience drawbacks to their introversion as like men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:50 PM
8	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I agree with you but that doesn't strike me as being the core issue. People often confuse introversion with being shy, or having social anxiety. I have neither of those things, for instance. I have no problem talking to people in public, at the store, wherever. It's about finding environments that are more than a "level 3 peripheral" location, like a store, or a gym, or a sidewalk in the middle of nowhere. Any man who is not physically gifted needs some level of social proof to meet women. All t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:45 PM
10	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I think they absolutely have less success if you're talking about success in terms of body count or something, but I'm pretty closed in terms of SOI so I don't really find sleeping with a lot of people as a good metric for success. I think that meek, shut in women have absolutely zero problems finding men when they put themselves in social environments around other intelligent, bookish men who aren't total dorks and have the mental capacity to be respectful of women's boundaries. Every girl I wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:26 PM
9	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. That's a big part of introversion too. The exhaustion of it all. Socializing with extroverts feels like work. It's so much easier to just invite the boys over to smoke and play games and watch anime or something but that gets you nowhere with women. Very best case scenario, the women just don't care that you have nerdy solo hobbies. Worst case scenario they think you're some kind of man child. All of the women I've been with have been cool with it and were very intelligent, bookish women themsel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:19 PM
18	Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men. I think most introverts recognize that they could change if they wanted to, but don't know where to go to find something social that they would enjoy without feeling like they're compromising on either their values, or their interests massively. Especially when it comes to either finding a hobby that puts you around women, or finding a hobby that puts you around men who interact with women. It seems like men and women's interests in society, aside from weightlifting, don't have a lot of overlap.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:17 PM
2	Women in a nutshell IME VENGEYENCE	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 11:13 PM
1	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. I mean, not all drug dealers operate on the same level of criminality. There's a substantial difference between me selling weed, lsd, and vape pens to highschoolers in the bathroom way back when, and gang members / cartels who are making and selling bags of meth, laced crack and heroin to homeless junkie degenerates in the hood. There is not a lot of overlap between your local "chill stoner chick" who probably sells dime bags of weed to supplement the income from her full time job, and the dudes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 08:21 AM
5	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. I think when people refer to average in these cases they're not basing that on a literal statistic or study, but more along the lines of "this is what most people make". The median is likely a better measure because the average will undoubtedly be skewed upwards by a small percentage of people who earn an astronomical amount of money. The fact that the average is 54% higher than the median suggests this, I believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 04:19 AM