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Blue Pill ExamplePurpleDrank88/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 04:08 PM
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PurpleDrank88/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:15 PM
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PurpleDrank88/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:46 PM
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Trp.red
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:28 PM
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Hard to give you advice without knowing what you want to happen. Are you trying to LTR this chick again or you just want an FWB/plate?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:16 AM
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Honestly a part of it is just how confident you are in yourself as a person. The more confident you get in who you are, the more you will notice IOIs. If you're not confident in yourself you will subconsciously not notice IOIs because "who would be interested in me?" Once I became more confident in myself, I started spotting the subtle IOIs all over.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:13 AM
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This is a good reminder as to why exactly we say don't shit where you eat. It's not because of some BS like it's frowned upon in general in an office setting or that it could be awkward if things end up not going well. It's because you can literally lose your job in today's climate with literally zero evidence presented against you. And not just lose your job as in being let go; I mean lose your job as in getting terminated for cause and anytime a future employer calls your former company they w…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 02:02 AM
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No offense but there's nothing that sounds more un-red pill to me than two guys arguing about how red pill they are
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 08:41 PM
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It's essentially a doctrine that exists to prevent a party to a divorce from purposefully quitting their job so that the court can't hold them liable for payments to their ex-spouse. It actually does make sense from a legal perspective, but unfortunately gets used on men more than on women since men are more likely to have to pay money in a divorce than women
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 04:31 AM
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Totally agree that the system is biased against men obviously, but I have seen this concept used against women in the cases where they've been found liable to make payments, so I wouldn't call the imputed income concept itself evil...it's pretty sweet the times it works for the guy too lol
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 04:29 AM
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Idk...while I don't actively seek out women in relationships, I don't outright reject a girl who has a boyfriend either. It factors into the calculus of whether or not to sleep with her, but it's not an absolute bar to doing so.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 02:52 AM
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You're way too in your own head on this...if you want to fuck this girl again text her and ask her to hang out. If she's DTF then great. If she's not, oh well who cares. You shouldn't give a fuck. There's a million other girls you could fuck instead of this one if she's not down. There's nothing special about her. Also, hate to break it to you but a girl who hasn't banged a lot of guys isn't usually the type of girl who you meet in a bar who then ghosts you and subsequently contacts you a week l…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:08 AM
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Respectfully, I think you need more sidebar if you're focusing this much on social media.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:58 AM
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I think you make a good point about attention, but I think you're also missing what I think is another key aspect of this scenario. You're a photographer who shoots models, which means that she can come over to your place and try on lingerie and rationalize to herself along the lines of that she went over with professional intentions to show you what lingerie she could utilize for a shoot and the rest "just kind of happened." Females love that ability to make themselves feel like they weren't a …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:42 PM
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When you say you add a new plate every three weeks are you saying you hook up with a girl off an app every 3 weeks? Or that you decide one of the girls is worthy of being a multiple hook up plate? Where did you get your information on the algorithms? Haven't used dating apps in awhile because I got bored with them, but last time I checked all of this stuff on the apps' respective algorithms is all theory with no confirmation.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:27 PM
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This. Nothing better than being amused when someone is talking shit to you.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:28 PM
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Don't sweat the college social experience too much. I certainly didn't have social skills when I first got to college. I developed them over time, joined a frat, started trying to develop my game, etc. I developed my social skills during college as I said and then honed them in the years of my early 20s after college. Trust me man, you have 10+ years of good times after college. Don't worry if your behind from day one in undergrad, you will get there over time and your years after college are so…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:27 PM
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What do people define as too much or all the time with respect to drinking? Are we referring to multiple week nights plus the weekend or are we referring to long drinking sessions on the weekends? I frequently engage in the latter with my friends on Saturdays (sometimes Friday nights). Bar hopping around a major metropolitan area, gaming chicks, etc. is enjoyable. I don't think there's anything wrong with going hard say Friday and Saturday if it doesn't otherwise affect your productivity. Of cou…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:23 PM
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Just to play devils advocate here, even if a man was the same from sleeping with 100 women and thus could not be trusted, that's not what we're talking about in this thread. OP gave no indication that he slept with 100 women. He is asking about his fiancé who has slept with a lot of men. So your point, even if taken as hypothetically true, is not relevant at all.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:17 AM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP04/04/18 03:57 AM
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Couple of comments... 1A - I don't think there's anything wrong with responding to the pic and trying to set up a lay. The mistake is in wasting time lavishing her with compliments about how sexy she looks. Just cut to the chase. You get a naked pic or whatever then respond with something short and to the point about how she should get herself to your place "that's my girl. Come over later so I can tear those panties off" "that ass is going to look great bent over my couch tonight". No fucking b…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 03:56 PM
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I didn't read your entire post, and I don't disagree with the general theme obviously. However, from a legal perspective the first comment you quoted isn't really all that off base. I don't like the make amends part or whatever, but the point about it being enough to take you to court and sue you over is absolutely true and people need to realize that and be careful when they're in the middle of a custody battle. Your spouse will take something like that and run with it and their lawyer will try…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 01:01 AM
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I mean I think you probably have to in order to get off. But I would fantasize about, say, a fuck you've had or some chick you think is hot IRL rather than some unrealistic porn star or crazy porn fetish.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:02 AM
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Following her to her vacation spot? Bad move. You look like a clingy beta. If she wanted you there she would've invited you, even if the trip was planned beforehand
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:59 AM
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This situation is somewhat similar to another thread I remember from a little under a year ago. I went and found it in the search, see the link below. A lot of solid commentary there. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/68tpsn/ltr_going_on_friends_vacation_to_europe/?st=JDGPM3JK&sh=db380e56
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:58 AM
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You don't need to stop fapping completely. No porn is really what's important. If you need to rub one out on occasion, do so. Just don't do it to any porn or other forms of media.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:53 AM
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I see the point you're trying to make and I agree that some of the advice on here can be a bit too black and white at times. But I really disagree with the "logistical difficulties" comment. If that's what's holding you back from breaking things off with a woman then you're just letting your hamster control your life. You live with her at her place or a joint rental? Pack up and leave. Anything you can't move out easily you can go back and get later if you really want it. Pack everything you can…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:52 AM
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Really late her, but just as an aside, remember that an LDR isn't actually a relationship. Think about it, in an LDR you're getting zero of the little benefits an LTR provides because your girl isn't there. All you're getting is the ALLEGED commitment of someone several hours away that she will control her hypergamy and not sleep with somebody else. Risk benefit analysis is heavily skewed toward the former. Just something to keep in mind in case your mind starts wandering toward maybe getting ba…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:46 AM
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That's how you know you're dating a crazy chick. Get rid of that girl immediately. The not insane girl will be generally happy about you increasing your smv (although yes she will be insecure, but that's just a bit of dread a hamstering and isn't bad as long as it doesn't cause her to be crazy)
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 04:32 PM
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Whoa hold on when did he admit it happened essentially as she described? Someone responding and apologizing because he had no idea he'd made her uncomfortable is not admitting to her narrative of events. He was clearly trying to be nice and defuse the situation. In no way did he ever say that anything that she later described in the article was accurate. She never told him no and is now trying to loophole this into the definition of sexual assault by referencing "non verbal cues" when she could …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:38 PM
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I see the point you're trying to make, but it's not a fair expectation. Going down that road is an extremely slippery slope that could essentially lead a guy to being guilty of rape just because he didn't pick up on "negative non-verbal cues" which would be such a vague and ambiguous standard that you could basically fit anything within that definition. Many feminists have already come out and said that that would be an absurd expectation as well and that a strong woman would've said "no" clearl…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:34 PM
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Yeah, the value you provide her is that you're the beta bux that she keeps around for beta providership even though the sex isn't good
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 12:01 AM
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Depends on the state I believe
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 02:59 AM
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With respect to Atlanta, you can apply the same part about former sorority girls and college circles to most southern cities. Went to grad school in the south in my early to mid 20s and it was the same thing in every southern city I visited. And it's shocking too because you'll have these smoke show girls hanging off these chubby ugly dudes wearing their baggy vineyard vines clothes and it's like am I in an alternate dimension?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 06:47 PM
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Kind of an aside and not really answering your question (sorry), but I just wanted to note that this "once a cheater always a cheater" line doesn't really make as much sense in the context of TRP. The whole point of AWALT is that most women will cheat under the right (i.e. hypergamous) circumstances. If you are LTRing a girl, you should be accepting that there is a chance she will cheat on you unless your SMV is high enough to prevent it, and being prepared to dump her and be comfortable being o…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:21 AM
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I think male friends are highly subjective and if you are LTRing a girl then you need to do your diligence on these male "friends". I don't think it's impossible for girls and guys to be friends, I have a couple who are totally platonic...but I do think whether you are truly friends or not totally depends on if the guy isn't interested. If the guy was/is interested in the chick at all, then it's really a LJBF situation where the guy is biding his time. As to your example, I dated a girl who had …
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:18 AM
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With all do respect, this is really not a good response. Chicks will see right through that as passive aggressive and all you'll have done is now motivated her to do something with a dude while on the trip...you can't outslut a chick and this passive aggressive response will totally lower your SMV in her eyes.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:13 AM
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It's possible to steer them away from it. You have to just set boundaries at the beginning in a way that doesn't sound controlling. I.e. "You are totally free to do whatever you want, but I just want you to know upfront that I don't really date girls who do X. So if you want to do X that's cool let's just keep this casual"
/r/askTRP21/11/17 03:46 AM
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Not trying to be a dick but the vast majority of women I know who went on study abroad/exchange trips when I was in college fucked at least one (but usually a lot more than one) guy...even those with boyfriends. You will be an ocean away and she will be drunk and some guy who is "exotic and interesting" because he's a foreigner will be running game on her and she will succumb to it. I wouldn't date a girl who is going to study abroad
/r/askTRP21/11/17 03:43 AM
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Trust me. Date a few more girls and you'll see. Girls will even agree with you that when they get in relationships they put on wight and then once they're single again they're like shit I gotta get skinny again
/r/askTRP21/11/17 03:41 AM
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TBH I don't think you need to lift and join a combat sport to feel like idgaf when you talk to a woman. I mean, sure it might not hurt but what really works is truly realizing that none of them matter. They're not special snowflakes. They are just winners of the genetic lottery...all they've done is be born with good looks that make them think they have some sort of power by turning down the legion of beta dudes who try and hit on them. They are literally not special in any way and there are mil…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:40 AM
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Can confirm. Spent like half of college not trying. When I turned it around and started putting in effort I had two of the best years of my life. Never waste a single minute of college. I wish I could go back and do those two years over where I didn't try
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:34 AM
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Brutally straightforward and sexually uninhibited? Usually a red flag for craziness and/or a slut. Not always, but in my experience it's usually the case. You work in finance so I'm assuming you work and live in a city (I work in PE in NYC). If so, you don't need this LTR shit bro. You're in your early to mid 20s you should be fucking every girl you can and not trying to turn hoes into housewives. I'm about to turn 30 and would love to be in your shoes again. You've got it fucking made brother e…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:25 AM
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Seriously. When she said she was mad he "like tried to turn things around" I was like wtf....bitch you literally just got nailed with all these dudes but he's the one who was turning things around?? What???
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:20 AM
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I agree with this. Nothing wrong with getting a roster of other females to hang out with in response, but you don't TELL her you're doing that in connection with her going out with some dude. Then you just look whiney and passive aggressive so the effect of your attempted dread game is nil because no woman dreads losing a whiney passive aggressive dude to another chick (or would even think the chick would be interested in fucking you)
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 11:51 PM
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Also, not sure what your workout plan is, but you don't need much more than 45-60 minutes...so that should help cut out a little bit of time
/r/askTRP31/10/17 01:19 AM
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Take her out to nice dinner, maybe get her a bouquet of flowers. A mix tape and a love letter would be over the top and beta IMO. Most LTRs don't last much past 2 years anyway so don't worry about making too big a deal out of 1 year
/r/askTRP31/10/17 01:13 AM
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As a lawyer I am going to jump in here and saying you guys are making a lot of asinine comments that you really have no idea about. First, all of this is subjective and depends completely on your states specific laws. There's no such thing as universal laws when it comes to self defense and use of firearms. Generally, just because it's 6 on 1 does not in itself create a reasonable belief that you're in fear for your life. It's totally fact and circumstance specific and would require a much more …
/r/askTRP29/10/17 06:12 AM
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To be fair, I wouldn't say the promoters are an issue if she was just setting up the club deal. That's how it works. You out in your reservation request and you and the promoter set up the deal via text. Not a big deal. Obviously, promoters do fuck girls they bring to the club, but they also text to set up bottle deals with tons of girls they don't fuck. The Australian guy though, that's another matter.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:20 AM
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"She only worked up the courage to meet me in person after she had spent six months going to the gym and getting in shape." - aka there was a guy I decided I was more attracted to at the time so I was fucking him, and then a couple guys after him, and then I was looking for someone new and remembered I had your number so I hit you up for my next ride on the CC
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 04:01 AM
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People say this all the time, but I'm not sure I 100% agree with it. I've met plenty of quality women who enjoy drinking. Obviously, it's never a good sign if the girl is partying and/or getting out of control drunk with frequency, but I don't think the pure fact that someone likes to drink, say, two glasses of wine at a dinner or happy hour means the odds are very high that they don't have their shit together. I do agree that someone who doesn't drink at all is pretty likely to have their shit …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 02:42 PM
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Used that for lack of a better word. Some of it involved trickle truth about certain people and paying attention to details about them and their history. But you can also get a good idea if you want to go look at old social media posts and pictures, for instance (provided your girl has a lot of her old stuff still up, which most do), things her friends let slip, messages guys send her (if she happens to read them while you're with her and you see it), etc. etc.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 08:46 PM
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I hate to break it to you bro, but there's no way her number count is less than 10. I was dating a 24, almost 25, year old chick one time...gorgeous, had dated a guy for 3 years from 20-23, was a really good girl. Didn't lose her virginity until 17, almost 18. Very respectful, conservative family, didn't party that much. Just an overall great caring, nice, and loving girl who you might look at and say "she's gotta have a decently low N count all those things considered, especially since she's on…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 04:50 PM
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Somewhat disagree with you here with respect to getting huge being the only attractive thing. I'm about 175-180 (so not that big, obviously) and I've had girls (even girls who typically hook up with bigger dudes) go crazy over my body because I'm ripped. Does being bigger generally help a bit more when you're fully clothed, sure. But I don't think it matters as much as you think since you can also tell if a guy who weighs about less is in great shape when he's fully clothed. In my experience, wo…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 08:21 PM
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I think it's about both frequency and location of the GNOs. If she's just going out to a bar every now and then with her girlfriends and not getting hammered and dancing on tables/grinding on dudes/getting drinks bought for her, then that is likely fine. If she's going out frequently and/or going out to places like night clubs and/or getting hammered when she goes out, that's a problem
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:49 AM
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Go out yourself, but this should be clarified to say don't talk to her about how you're going out. I'm not saying lie, but don't be all like "yeah me and the boys are going out to rage." It will just seem passive aggressive and like you are trying to compete to see if you can make her more jealous than she has made you. You'll never out compete a girl in the I'm going out to get hammered and have a one night stand department
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:47 AM
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Agree with the other commenters who said that the minute they asked you to lie, they made it your business. If they hadn't involved you then I would have said it's not worth saying anything and getting involved. But they're asking you to blatantly lie to a married man and tell him that his wife isn't cheating on him. That's fucked up and if they want to involve you in that manner then they should incur the consequences
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:22 AM
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She wants what she can't have. I think you know what's going on here. She's only interested because you declined being friends and basically proved you had the ability to walk away. Girls hate that shit, it takes you out of their frame and puts them into yours. The minute you start hanging out with her again she's gonna try to beta the fuck out of you while she fucks other dudes. Trust me, I've been there
/r/askTRP02/08/17 01:39 AM
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Boosts your ego and makes you feel like she still wants you (consciously or subconsciously)
/r/askTRP02/08/17 01:37 AM
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The sex god method talks a lot about this. Mental attraction/emotion/connection is Abbie component of the female orgasm
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 03:58 AM
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You shouldn't be afraid of being alone
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:19 AM
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Video games and tv do do the same. Just in varying levels. For me, quitting porn was really because I got tired of having it effect my sexual performance and libido. Being able to fuck a girl like she's never been fucked before was way more rewarding than watching some porn actress get fucked by another guy. Constantly masturbating porn makes you feel like a little bitch. Quitting porn makes you feel like a man.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 02:00 PM
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I think part of it is all the dopamine spikes you get from masturbating. You masturbate a bunch then you burn out on dopamine a bit/make your brain more resistant to its effects, so you get a bit of brain fog from that
/r/askTRP17/07/17 04:54 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong, but since when do guys walk up to random girls in the middle of a bar and just start making out with them? I guess maybe if the dude is blacked out or something, but I've honestly never seen this happen at any bar or club I've ever been at
/r/askTRP17/07/17 04:44 PM
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I've done something very similar with a past girl. Told her if she wants to date me then date me and move on from the exes, but I don't get involved with someone who is constantly bringing up exes. Never mentioned them once again
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:55 PM
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I mean why would you go cold on her for that? This seems like a strange response just because your dick was painful for her
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:09 AM
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If you actually did what you said you did (using a spermicidal condom AND still pulling out and cumming in the condom, not cumming in the condom inside her) and you never barebacked her in the past few months, then I really don't think there's a way it could be yours. Maybe like a .01% chance? In the future btw, if you use a condom and want to make sure it stayed intact the whole time, fill it up with water afterwards and see if anything leaks
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:04 AM
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I find starting slow can definitely help sometimes. Cumming early is all a mental thing so if you can start slower and break past that 2-4 minute barrier it may give you that mental boost that you need to relax and enjoy it and then you'll last a normal amount of time
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:58 AM
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I think you handled it pretty well. The only thing I might have done differently is not said the "you should hang out with Bob some time" part, but other than that everything was good
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:48 AM
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This
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:05 PM
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Don't cheat on your girlfriend. Don't be a dick just because AWALT
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:05 PM
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You've probably been there before so you don't need this advice but I'm gonna say it anyway. Right now it's easier to keep your head up cause she's freaking out and hitting you up and trying desperately to get you back so that makes you feel high value, strokes your ego, etc. Just make sure that when she stops trying to get you back you don't fall into the pit of "what she doesn't want me anymore?" and try to start getting her back. Seen too many guys do that vicious cycle.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:01 PM
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Love that fucking song
/r/askTRP23/06/17 02:59 PM
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Why were you dreading her so much? Was she behaving poorly or not giving you what you wanted out of your LTR? Dread should be used when you're not getting what you want out of the relationship, she's disrespecting you or not behaving like a girl in an LTR should, etc. You don't just dread the shit out of your girl for zero reason. Sounds like you took the dread to almost nuclear levels here for no reason whatsoever unless there's more background that you're not telling us If everything was going…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 02:55 PM
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I agree. However, as we all know, what women really want is someone who can be both a provider and has very high SMV. Sometimes, I have seen women in their 20s throw that person away solely because they have found someone who is more alpha and has higher SMV (but may not be able to be as good of a provider) because they're "in their twenties so they just want to have fun." The point I was really trying to make is if you are a 25 or 26 year old woman and can find someone who has both high SMV (sa…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:21 PM
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Okay so maybe he used the wrong word in your opinion when he said need. Whatever. We all know why he means. He means that due to thousands of years of evolutionary programming, women are programmed to be hypergamous and look for the best option that they feel can provide, protect, etc. No one is saying that women NEED men in order to survive to see the next day in 2017, but it's all subconscious evolutionary programming. Nor is it trying to be offensive to say women are hypergamous...were not in…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:15 PM
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I can't remember what book it was but Tom Brady mentioned his favorite book was essentially about how you can't spend time worrying about everyone's opinion of you. I operate like this: the only people who's opinions of me I really care about are my family, my best very close friends, if I have an LTR then her opinion (to a certain extent obviously), and also to a certain extent certain coworkers (unless they're nuts, like if you have a boss who is a total psycho or a prick to you). Anybody else…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:09 PM
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You don't want to be a priority for this girl. What's really happening here is that you're subconsciously putting yourself in competition with her boyfriend. You want her to re-affirm your value and eliminate your insecurity by "choosing" you over this other guy. Don't take that the wrong way, not trying to insult you just speaking from my own experience. You shouldn't give a fuck whether you're her priority over her bf. You should have other girls going and when this girl wants to hang out mayb…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:04 PM
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I agree. If a family is a goal act like it. Don't spend your 20s riding the CC and then looking for a provider to have a family with once you hit a wall. Control your hypergamy and start working toward your end goals of having a family now rather than years from now
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:58 PM
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Read the 12 levels of dread (can't find the link right now). The thing to note that I see people on here say all the time is that you should only be implementing dread if you're not getting what you want out of your LTR or she is engaging in bad behavior. You don't need to dread just for the sake of dreading (having a high smv will operate as implied dread in itself so you don't need to), you only need to step up the dread if she's behaving poorly. As far as this specific situation, dreading won…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:51 PM
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Lie about it for sure
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:19 AM
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She cheated. Not you. It's not your job to get on the phone with her and be her life coach because she's freaking out that her bf is pissed and her relationship is going to shit. She deserves it
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:16 AM
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This is passive aggressive. If you want to flirt with girls as dread then fine, but to say that to her will usually just make you look like a passive aggressive little bitch
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:14 AM
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Pain is temporary. It may last for a minute, or an hour, or even a year, but eventually it will subside
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:09 AM
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One thing to remember is that most people are insecure. You're sitting there comparing yourself to these guys and thinking about how much better they are than you, and I guarantee some of them have some reason they think you're better than them
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:05 AM
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My opinion is that any girl with a boyfriend who is willing to put herself in this situation (drinks one on one with a guy) is at the very least slightly open to the possibility of cheating. See what you can do
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:03 AM
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I think this is generally great advice with the exception of records being set = definitely time to be cautious. The current market is a bit overvalued I agree, but I think we're still probably two years away from any sort of significant downturn
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:40 PM
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Trust but verify
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:31 PM
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Yeah sorry man. Having a guy friend over one on one to watch a show? How many times have you invited a girl over to watch a movie or show as code for fucking? That's a next right there. Additionally, I've dated a girl with a lot of the red flags you mentioned. Eventually when I tried to break up with her she said she'd tell our graduate school that I physically abused her unless I dated her. Long story short, got a lawyer and gave the school so much evidence that they kicked her out. I was extre…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 12:13 AM
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I never believe a single thing a girl says about my abilities in bed. Don't get me wrong, I know I'm good at oral and when it comes to sex I'm pretty good as well, but I still don't believe it if a girl tells me I'm the best or that was the best orgasm she's ever had etc.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:34 PM
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So many girls in this city are absolutely nuts man. NYC is filled with girls riding the CC and women about to hit the wall looking for the lawyer, doctor, or finance guy. So many land mines here lol
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:33 PM
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Telling her is a sure fire way to have her fuck some guy pretty quickly
/r/askTRP20/06/17 03:37 AM
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I don't think that's how active now works just FYI. There are people at the top of my active now on Facebook messenger who I've never spoken to on Facebook once or have I ever actually visited their profile after accepting a friend request
/r/askTRP20/06/17 03:33 AM
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Fair point. But feeling guilty for doing something wrong doesn't necessarily mean she was cheating on the guy. She may have felt that this dude was from 5 years ago and he's an orbiter so she's just gonna use him to help her move her stuff and didn't see anything wrong with that, and then when her BF pointed out that he thought that was wrong then she was like oh crap I didn't think this was a problem but he's pissed and now I feel guilty/bad. Now, if that was the case then that of course raises…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 08:31 PM
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Not saying your read of the situation is off overall, but you really think the length or amount of texts from the girl is a red flag? I've seen girls send that type of when they're really afraid they've pissed a guy off and they think he might leave. Doesn't always indicate ulterior shady motives
/r/askTRP07/06/17 12:19 AM
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First off, girls who believe these guys legit want to be friends with them are being purposefully naive/not being honest with you about it. No girl actually believes that the random dude who came up and started talking to them and now they're "friends" is actually their friend. But your typical girl isn't going to admit that because if they did it would no longer be acceptable for them to accept all the attention, validation, etc. that those orbiters provide. Here's how I handled it in a past LT…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:28 PM
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Thanks. I don't think it's a past hookup because she had the same boyfriend all throughout college. Not that that means there's any chance of cheating happening in this situation of course. Personally I think she is naive and doesn't really know what the guy wants. I've known girls who did the purposefully pretend to be naive thing before and I really don't think she's being purposefully stupid. Always a chance of it of course though. That was the one reason I was considering saying something to…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 01:38 AM
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The question in your post title seems somewhat contrary to the questions in your post itself. In your post title it seems like you're trying to figure out if this girl still talks to/is attached to her ex. In your post you seem to just be asking if you should get out of the situation because the guy is a psycho and might kill you. Which is it?
/r/askTRP11/05/17 04:19 PM
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Not with proper delivery.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:47 AM
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Piece of advice from personal experience. If a woman ever starts lying and telling people you abused her, get a lawyer immediately and file a cease and desist letter. usually that is sufficient, but if it isn't I'd even go so far as to file a lawsuit against her. That can be enough to leverage them into agreeing to a formal legal settlement where they have to stfu and then you just drop the case without incurring too much in the way of legal expenses. Lies like that can seriously damage your lif…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:41 PM
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Either don't respond or say "I have enough friends, I don't need anymore"
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:00 PM
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I'm honestly not sure why you're even with this person. If she was just a plate and she's kissing other dudes, then fine because she's a plate and you shouldn't care about what she does when she's not with you. But now that you're in a relationship you're okay with her kissing some other guy? "oh but it was just on the lips for like 1 or 2 seconds and they didn't use any tongue" - Are you really so beta that you're going to rationalize this away when you have evidence that a girl is actively che…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 03:57 PM
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With respect to how she is around the friend, I'm not entirely sure how she is around the friend when she's in an LTR. We've been in an LTR for 4 months and she hasn't hung out with this friend that much solo since then. Before she was in an LTR, I know that she used to have to wingwoman the friend frequently. Whether she would do that now, I'm not sure...I know that she has gotten rid of pretty much all of her orbiters since she started dating me, so maybe she wouldn't be down for chatting up s…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 05:04 PM
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Know what your own personal boundaries are with respect to things and stand by them. Be ready to walk away immediately if they are not followed. Taking pride in setting your personal boundaries and standing firm on them will help you be ready to walk away because you'll feel good about yourself for sticking up for your own principles rather than feeling sad because you're losing some girl. Know that you can walk away at any moment because you can easily find some girl to replace her. As another …
/r/askTRP02/05/17 03:32 PM
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Why do you care about leaving evidence? It's not your problem. And you not responding probably just increased your value as well. You were too busy to answer her at the time because you have other shit going on in your life that's more important than some chick (at least that's what it will probably look like to her). Message her, tell her to come hang out at your place, and get it done.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:38 PM
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I agree with you I wasn't implying anything. OP just seems like he wants an LTR, which I don't think there's anything wrong with as long as you keep your head right and don't slip back into beta mode. As such, if you're looking for an LTR those are all pretty valid deal breakers
/r/askTRP24/04/17 10:49 PM
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Remember that nothing is special about this girl at all. She's just one flawed girl out of billions of others on the planet and is easily replaceable. As another commenter said, stop putting them on a pedestal. They don't deserve to be there. Their opinion of you doesn't matter unless they think you're the shit. The only person whose opinion of you matters is you.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 08:08 PM
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Plate only. No LTR.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 08:06 PM
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That sounds pretty ideal. You create some scarcity by pushing the date to Thursday, you set the whole plan (tell her where to be and when), you go on a good date, f-close, and then head to a wedding all weekend where she knows multiple single girls will be hitting on you. You're good man, haha
/r/askTRP24/04/17 08:04 PM
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Maybe I'll get downvoted for this, but I don't think you're always going to see explicit indicators that dread game is working. For example, I dated a girl one time who never seemed to be affected by any sort of dread game. And then one night she got really drunk and essentially confessed that the dread game had been seriously affecting her, showed me long convos in her phone with friends where she was essentially freaking out about it, etc. The hampster is always spinning
/r/askTRP24/04/17 08:02 PM
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i think he's saying something kind of similar to number 1. Some undertone of sex should always be there. Ex. if you're sitting at a bar getting food, that's not a bad thing, but at some point you should have your hand under the table rubbing her leg, tell her about how you can't wait to get home and tear her clothes off after this, etc. (I do this with my plates and they're fiending for it by the time we get back to the apartment)
/r/askTRP24/04/17 08:00 PM
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How is this too many deal breakers? All of those that he listed are pretty big red flags.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:56 PM
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This. It's beta if you would be interested in hooking up with this girl. If you're not then sure, listen to her about stuff if you feel like doing so.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:55 PM
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I mean, I can't really answer that question. Who knows what would happen however far down the road in the event that they don,t hang out, stop talking, and then he shows up again. She may have lost interest in him at a certain point or she may be interested in him because he ghosted her for awhile and then showed interest again (i.e. implied abundance on his part). But again, personally I don't think it matters whether he ghosts her, they don't end up going on the date, whether he ever shows bac…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:39 PM
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Certainly get why you're skeptical, and personally I think she's dumb as shit for giving her number out and not realizing what this guy wanted. However, she did tell you about it and cancelled on the guy so I think you are good. This is kind of potentially an unintentional shit test as well. You don't want to overreact. Keep your frame. Not only will that add to your value but if you overreact and go nuts it just gives a girl less incentive to be honest with you. If giving her number out to men …
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:31 PM
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Dude no offense, but you need to pull your head out of your ass here. You're trying to find a way to validate or justify what she's doing so that you can continue to live in a fantasy land. Maybe he would care if he finds out she had a boyfriend (I would bet he won't care, but who knows). But either way that's really not the point here. Why does it matter if he cares if she has a boyfriend or not? This issue shouldn't be about the guy at all it should be about YOUR GIRL AND HOW SHE IS FLIRTING W…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:18 PM
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I don't think any girl would feel the need to "let him down easy" when it's some random dude. I could be wrong, but generally I would think a girl would say "I'm seeing someone" or "I have a boyfriend so I don't think that would be appropriate" if having a boyfriend was the reason she didn't want to hang out with the guy. She's not telling him about you because she doesn't want to scare the guy off, so instead she says she's "busy with friends" when she's hanging out with you. Think about it: if…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 09:39 PM
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So I read through several of the comment conversations in here. Here's how I'd lay it out to you. You checked the convo and she didn't mention you to the guy once. Going to guess he doesn't know she has a boyfriend but odds are he also probably doesn't care. Call me a scumbag if you want, but I've never been bothered by the fact that a girl has a boyfriend. If she's into me and wants to hook up, that's her and her bf's problem not mine. I'm going to hook up with her. You've asked in your comment…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 08:29 PM
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I barely ever snapchat. I'll text a couple times a day, but not too much. It really depends on the girl/how old she is. The younger generation texts a lot more so if you just never text her at all then you're going to be considered flaky, not interested, etc. The key is to not text that much. Nothing wrong with taking a few hours to respond and only exchanging a couple texts a day. I do this and a plate actually said to me this weekend that she wished I had read receipts on so she could see if I…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 01:43 PM
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I agree with what the_shape said above. The only point I would add is that if you did try and push for exclusivity and she said no you'd need to immediately walk away and hard next the girl. No letting yourself be plated. That's the only way to maintain some semblance of value in her eyes (although not that you should give a shit about that at that point). If you do push for exclusivity, I would do it once you have at least two other plates spinning as it will give you the abundance to walk away…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 01:35 PM
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Why are you ghosting her? What's the problem here? If you don't want to LTR her then why do you care about why she said that she's not looking for a relationship? Obviously, this is a possible shit test (i.e. testing how into her you are and/or if she's your only option, among other possible motivators). If your goal is not to be in an LTR, then I think you generally passed the test by saying you didn't want a relationship either (although I don't know why you need to say "who the fuck do you th…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 08:47 PM
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Of course dread game is great and certainly does work wonders. However, in my experience the part of dread game that elicits the maximum rewards is when you're not in an LTR and the girl knows there is a distinct possibility you're actually sleeping with other interested girls. In an LTR, that part goes away bcause if a girl thinks you're actually going to/are cheating, she will just cheat herself. That's not to say that dread game doesn't still work a lot in an LTR, there's just pieces of it th…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:40 PM
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I would not do the work at all. At the end of the day, why were you really going to do the work? You were going to do the work because you thought it would make your GF happy. Sure, you might have also thought that you liked her parents and it would be a nice thing to do to help them out, but at the end of the day your PRIMARY REASON for doing it was to please your GF. She's no longer your GF, so your primary reason for doing the work no longer exists. You're not her bitch, you don't owe her or …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 04:43 PM
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LTRs are hard mode primarily because (i) it can sometimes be more difficult to demonstrate certain alpha characteristics while in an LTR (i.e. spinning plates and abundance theory), (ii) similar to (i), you run the risk of developing oneitis and relapsing into beta mode because you are no longer practicing an abundance lifestyle, and (iii) AWALT - once a woman has your commitment you become less attractive to her (refusing to give up your commitment and making a woman chase it indicates high SMV…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:19 PM
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Yeah the League mostly sucks because of a lot of points you mentioned. Although last summer I did use the groups on there to source 10+ different girls per weekend to a share house in the Hamptons, so it does have its uses.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 04:22 AM
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One tactic I've used when girls talk about some other guy is basically to essentially pretend they didn't say anything and immediately and subtly change the subject to something else (I.e. Just act like you didn't hear them and for example if you're at a restaurant be like "damn the X looks pretty good, what're you thinking of getting?"...you get the idea). If the girl is trying to test you or get a rise out of you, this drives them nuts in their head. Also, don't ask about the other guy at all.…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:54 AM
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Being out solo can be so fun once you just get out of your own head. No one else to worry about but yourself. One of the first times I did it I was out of town at a bar with a couple friends (a guy, his gf, and her female friend who id just met that night). My guy friend got a bit too drunk so his gf wanted to leave and take him home. He asked me if I was coming with and I just said "nah fuck it I'm staying out solo." Had a ton of fun talking up chicks and the gf's friend was super into me the n…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 11:30 PM
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She's a plate. When she's not with him he shouldn't give a fuck about what she's doing. This is mate guarding and may work in the short term but you will inevitably lose value in her eyes later because of it. The only reason OP should do this is if he's considering promoting her to LTR
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 11:16 PM
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This is pretty old, but I was reading old threads today and couldn't help but disagree somewhat on #2. I would change that to say if she's 27 to 30ish and hasn't been in at least two relationships of significant length in her 20's then either something is wrong with her or she spent a bunch of time riding the CC and is now entering her epiphany phase and you should stay away. Not having been married isn't a red flag and I would argue that HAVING kids is a huge red flag.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 07:33 PM
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That was the point of my post... I was agreeing with his point that for guys who don't have a lot of experience sleeping with women, they're going to put it on a pedestal now and then realize that it's not going to ultimately fulfill them
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:07 PM
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I completely agree with this. I've slept with 3 different girls in the past 10 days and have slept with a ton before that with a bad period in between for some months last year when I found myself caught up in oneitis because I wasn't careful. I found myself thinking the other day like "okay sex is fun, and great I've closed 3 times this past week and a half, but what now?" Sure it boosts your ego to fuck the shit out of a girl, and obviously it's fun, but eventually it gets to the point where i…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 03:53 PM
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Don't disagree with a lot of your points, but I also don't think that taking a girl out once before bringing her back is going to kill your chances at getting laid. I'm not taking the girl out to dinner or on some nice date to impress her, but shit if she wants to go have a few drinks at a bar beforehand who cares? Odds are you are still getting laid either way
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 03:47 PM
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Make a move, hook up with her, and just keep doing you. Don't bring up the other guy...who gives a fuck about the other guy? She clearly doesn't if she hooks up with you so why should you give a fuck about him? If you game her correctly, she will be looking to branch swing to you eventually. Not saying you should necessarily let her, but don't give a fuck about the other dude right now and definitely don't bring him up. If she brings him up, give her the bare minimum of polite interest and then …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 09:53 PM
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Look good feel good. Feel good play good
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 09:48 PM
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This is an excellent post and very true. Internal confidence is critical. Think about those times when you've been so on point and confident that it feels like you can't fail...maybe not everyone has had those but I would bet most guys have had at least one night like that where you're just completely in the zone. Are you the best looking guy in the place or the richest or the whatever whatever? Probably not. But when you're so confident and on point you can almost just feel the women giving you…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:23 PM
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Yeah totally agree. Avoiding taking your girl to a place where there may be higher smv men is contrary to TRP IMO. TRP isn't about trying to control a woman's branch swinging like this, it's about being the best version of yourself that you can be while acknowledging that women are hypergamous and will branch swing if they feel they should and that's why you shouldn't focus or care about that. All you should be focusing on is you. This whole "don't take your woman to a game/concert because she's…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 03:25 PM
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I agree with you to a certain extent, but she slept there again tonight so this leads me to believe there's more than just friendship there. Again, not that I particularly care, was just curious as to if I should respond in any manner. But I like your point about comparing the principles to individual extrapolations.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:03 PM
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I get that my post could be read to sound emotional, but I'm really not at all. I was more just trying to figure out what TRP thinks the stance should be when a plate does something like this (i.e. drop her versus keep sleeping with her) since some commenters in the main sub say to drop her. Was just looking for some clarification.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:01 PM
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Good point
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:46 PM
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Lol I don't have oneitis. I'd just seen a bunch of commenters over there talk about dropping plates if they were sleeping with someone else and didn't know what the real view was. But as people have mentioned if it's not on the side bar it shouldn't be considered as TRP views.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:45 PM
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No doubt. Makes sense. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:15 PM
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Thanks for the extensive response. Just to clarify, I'm not emotionally invested in this girl at all (although I can see why my post may read that way). Question for you re: the soft next. Could a better response be just not to acknowledge the shit test at all and just keep hooking up with her on my own time? Then the chick tried to shit test you and get a rise/spin the jealousy plot line and you literally gave her zero response on it whatsoever and basically ignored the whole subject, thus givi…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:15 PM
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I don't usually pay attention to how long it takes to text back since she usually initiates it anyway. I'm not a big texter, not a fan of having long convos throughout the day over text, but I will generally respond to a certain extent if texted.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:08 PM
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Yeah, dropping a plate for potentially having hooked up with another guy seems, like I said above, contrary to the whole idea of not being invested in the person and also not understanding the "she's not yours, it's just your turn" mantra that is a core belief here. This was primarily why I posted this question, to get some clarity given the different opinions within the community, so I appreciate the response.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 04:03 PM
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Appreciate the feedback. Like I mentioned in one of my replies to another commenter, I feel like I see a lot of conflicting responses on this point on the actual TRP sub (aka some people say what you just said, others say if a plate is sleeping with someone else you drop them). Good to have some clarification, thanks man.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:49 PM
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I agree with you. Sometimes the TRP sub can send mixed messages on this point, however. On the one hand you have people saying essentially what you just did, but on the other hand there are a bunch of guys saying shit like "if a plate fucks someone else, drop that girl", which to me seems kind of contrary to the essence of TRP and not giving a shit, but there seem to be a good number of people echoing that belief. So it can be confusing at times when you're reading these conflicting viewpoints.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:32 PM
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That's kinda why I asked the question. I'm not "emotionally invested" in this person, I just wanted to get a better handle on how you should respond (if at all) to this in a TRP manner
/r/askTRP07/03/17 03:29 PM
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Fair point. Essentially, we were joking back and forth about various things and then got into a convo about planning dates (should the girl ever plan a date, should it always be the guy coming to her, does the guy always pay, etc.) and I basically said that it shouldn't always be the guy and that at times the girl should be making an effort with some of those things.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:29 PM
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Maybe this will get downvoted because I'm not sitting here calling you a pussy and talking about how you shouldn't have feelings, but I wanted to reply to you because I've been in your exact situation. Almost a decade ago, beginning of my sophomore year in college, my gf of 3 years broke up with me. Similar to you, she was my first in all the sexual aspects and was my first relationship as well. Now I had to watch her run around during her freshman year of college doing all the crazy shit freshm…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 03:42 AM
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When you say she texts you about having a drunk night out, what are examples of what she's saying in this case? If a girl texts me about how she's hungover or something I don't necessarily ignore it, but I just don't engage that much. I respond with something like "haha sounds like a good time" or something along those lines, without asking for any further details of where she was, what she was doing, who she was with, etc. I find that sometimes girls are looking for you to ask those questions (…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:13 PM
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Shouldn't you not care about what comes up when she googles you? Who cares what she thinks about what comes up, whether it's positive or negative or both.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:09 PM
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I agree. The worst part about it is, I've had this situation before, which was what really started me down the red pill path, and now I've ended up in it again and I STILL want to text her even though I KNOW you're absolutely right. One of the things I try to tell myself when I feel the urge is "closure is bullshit" (thank you Laid NYC)...she doesn't care about talking to you and you're just going to give her more validation and control.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 11:36 PM
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I just do shorts and a tshirt. Some guys like having all these workout clothes, seems like a waste of money to me. But to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 07:14 PM
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Who cares if you're still pretty weak. I see guys in the gym doing light weight as their main sets all the time and I don't judge them. The gym isn't about how much weight you're lifting, it's about the pure fact that you're there working to improve yourself. Anyone who would judge that is an idiot. Look up some workout programs and start hitting the gym and doing them. For now, don't worry about what the best workout program is or what the scientific argument is behind each one. If you're just …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:34 PM
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I really like that analogy. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 11:20 PM
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I mean, I'm happy to edit that out if it bothers people or you think I'm bullshitting. The reason I included those points was just because they were things that I was able to look at and be proud of myself and helped my self-confidence, and how it's funny that once you have Oneitis, nothing you were really proud of before seems to matter. I'm not super wealthy by any means (although, I guess everyone has different barometers for what the definition of super wealthy means), but I ground enough to…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 11:18 PM
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This is a great question that honestly I have struggled a lot with myself and I honestly don't really know what the perfect answer is. Maybe I'm wrong here, but I think one of the ways to approach this is to make sure things are operating within your control...i.e. if you want to let your guard down in order to make some more progress, do so, but you should never let your guard down with the HOPE of making progress or with the GOAL of getting her to want to take another step with you. I think le…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 08:11 PM
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With all due respect, what does this have to do with the red pill
/r/askTRP
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You guys need to chill. The guy is asking if he could have played a situation better and you guys are acting like he's got some extreme oneitis and is crying over this girl
/r/askTRP
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How do you know it's in an attempt to bother you? Not saying it's unlikely that's the case, but she might just be an idiot like some girls who mention last guys without thinking about it
/r/askTRP
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