Looking for perspective on my current situation -- How do you guys here at TRP recommend I should proceed?

kbryan96 · 2017-03-11T21:31:11+00:00

you're far too invested into this female. At this rate you're only setting yourself up for failure.

Make sure she knows you have other options(a.k.a. dread) or
fade away

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-03-11T21:39:38+00:00

Anytime I see a post begin with: "There's this girl...." my initial reaction is to tell you to ghost this bitch, forget about her, read the sidebar, lift, and get back out there when you are ready, because right now, you aren't ready and its likely you have already dug your hole too deep to get out of and its best to just cut your losses now.

After reading your post, my advice is still the same, ghost this bitch, lift, read the sidebar, forget about her, and get back out there when you are wiser and smarter and game other women.

If you are ever finding yourself asking whether or not you have made your intentions clear enough, you haven't. A man makes his intentions crystal clear to where there is no gray area at all, a vagina pussy doesn't make his intentions clear.

You have waited too long to escalate, women arent retarded, they know if a guy is into them. So since you have taken this long to make a move, she views you as a coward. Even if you were to make a move now and she accepted, she will always in the back of your mind view you as a coward, meaning you have already poisoned the wall and she will never respect you and she will branch swing whenever a better option comes along.

I’d express my interest and let her know if she’s not interested it’s cool. I’d also let her know I know about the other guy.

This would be an ultra beta move. Never spill your guts/emotions to a woman. Never just tell her "I like you". Never get emotional with a woman. Never spill your feelings. Ever. Women want an emotional rock. Never let her know how you feel about her on an emotional level.

And by letting her know about the other guy, thats mate guarding, that's beta behavior. Chad doesn't give a shit about other guys, he either wins the woman over to where there is no other guy, or moves onto other women in his rotation.

There is a post Archwinger made this week. Something along the lines of "If she isnt fucking you, everything else is meaningless". Is she fucking you? No? Why not? Because YOU were too afraid to make a move.

Ghost this bitch and move on.

murvish45 · 2017-03-11T21:34:05+00:00

Rule 1 for college. Dont use a fishing line use a net.

Talk to more girls man

edwardhwhite · 2017-03-11T21:29:34+00:00

Just make a move don't talk about it

TheBunk_TB · 2017-03-11T21:43:04+00:00

Both of you guys are her suckers (fetch it guys). Its time for you to dry up and quit buying her anything. She might be a magnet for p*ssyhounds.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-03-11T23:24:40+00:00

Nothing has happened yet because you haven't tried anything yet. If you're expecting her to say "gee guy, u ask me a out a lot and touch me a lot when we hang out. Do u wanna make out then go back to my place for some anal? Id love that." you better keep waiting and wasting time.

Have u tried to kiss her? Have u tried to get her back to your place to fuck? No. So don't expect anything to happen. You're half escalating, waiting for signals to keep going. And that's what your problem is. Just escalate and escalate until she overtly stops u. That's her signal.

From here, since you've built comfort and Kino already, invite her over to watch a movie with u at your place. Tell her to bring a six pack.

PurpleDrank88 · 2017-03-11T22:54:32+00:00

Make a move, hook up with her, and just keep doing you. Don't bring up the other guy...who gives a fuck about the other guy? She clearly doesn't if she hooks up with you so why should you give a fuck about him?

If you game her correctly, she will be looking to branch swing to you eventually. Not saying you should necessarily let her, but don't give a fuck about the other dude right now and definitely don't bring him up. If she brings him up, give her the bare minimum of polite interest and then change the subject and keep working your game.

Mangoinhand · 2017-03-12T04:10:25+00:00

Your mistakes:

Not focusing on many woman at the same time
You should have went for the kiss by the 2nd meet-up. No later.
Your logistics suck (ie: what is your end game?). Don't meetup where you cannot have her come to your place/her place/hotel.
Texting with her too frequently, for other reasons than to setup next "date"
Haven't been lifting enough
Care too much
Your status is lower than hers (because she is NOT asking her girlfriends on how to get you to make a move -- it is YOU asking for advice from guys which clearly signals in your thoughts/behaviour that your SMV is lower)

Next her and don't look back. Or do what other posters suggested and run dread/fade away. Let her work for you.

Title	Looking for perspective on my current situation -- How do you guys here at TRP recommend I should proceed?
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Date	March 11, 2017 9:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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