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Its an evolved trait. Selflessness is generally a good thing in a tight tribe, problem is we dont have tribe/community anymore so now its a quick way to self destruction.
/r/MGTOW16/10/17 01:25 AM
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Videogames
/r/seduction06/10/17 11:34 AM
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Im not married, but i come here over the other sub bc of this. Its all fucking "social dominance to attract pussy to you like a fly on shit" posts or dudes whining. Keep this sub lean please
/r/askMRP06/10/17 01:06 AM
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How i treat the gym. Chat with chick. If i see her again chat again then ask them out/get number. No fucking around.
/r/seduction06/10/17 01:03 AM
1

Are you putting yourself in scenarios to be successful? If you sit in your room all day chances are zero. If you choose to game at night your chances are zero.
/r/seduction06/10/17 01:01 AM
1

Best thing from this "be social first pua second" Sorry for the sports reference but guys wanna score a touchdown before throwing a pass. Thats why they get so nervous. You're thinking about how perfect this person is and how you're going to do x y z to them meanwhile in her head she's probably like "who's this" Just chat first, she could always be annoying and a waste of time
/r/seduction06/10/17 12:22 AM
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Go out solo to bars. Flirting at work is a quick ticket to unemployment these days
/r/seduction05/10/17 11:04 PM
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Comfort. In a decent ltr rn. Its good she's great but i kinda want to play the field.
/r/seduction05/10/17 11:03 PM
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Uplifting! On a serious note. You've got two options: 1.) everything has meaning if you want it to. Life is a choose your own adventure and you get to set your values 2.) nothing means anything. Which generally leads to apathy and depression.
/r/MGTOW05/10/17 03:08 AM
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You dont. Just provide solid guidance when the time comes or when they ask for help. Most of us got here bc of a trauma. You need a real punch in the face to wakeup to all the bs
/r/MGTOW28/09/17 10:49 PM
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Must be trolling
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:36 PM
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Probably get more familiar with the language, dont have to be a master but some working knowledge helps. And china is a bit more of a conservative asian culture compared to taiwan or somewhere else
/r/seduction28/09/17 08:54 PM
3

Absolute value in the US? Yes because of the white population. Relative or percentage value probably not
/r/MGTOW28/09/17 07:45 PM
10

Just have a backbone. Women push soft boundaries. Dont let behaviour you find unacceptable slide
/r/MGTOW28/09/17 04:34 PM
1

Text game is a myth. Light screening, and setting up plans thats it
/r/seduction28/09/17 04:23 PM
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Basically any behaviour contrary to the norm will either get you the gay response or asshole response. Let that shit slide
/r/MGTOW28/09/17 04:20 PM
6

Whats the point of this
/r/seduction31/03/17 09:00 PM
16

You'll come back as a feminists cat
/r/MGTOW31/03/17 03:59 PM
1

Why do you care what people think man? You could date someone your age and people would find a flaw. If shes 19 and out of highschool shes an adult
/r/seduction31/03/17 04:51 AM
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You became her supply chain. And her emotional tampon. She tried shaming you to get you back into her frame. Just ghost her
/r/MGTOW31/03/17 01:20 AM
3

They're more radical than the chicks
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:23 PM
3

"She lets me see my friends"
/r/MGTOW30/03/17 09:13 PM
3

"Bombarded with dicks" The best type of siege warfare
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 08:03 PM
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Imo a woman cheating is worse than a man. I cheated on a girl because i was horny and needed to fuck something, women cheat and typically its more involved
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:35 PM
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Thats what he said goddammit
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:14 PM
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He said she wants him to join?
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:09 PM
1

Just go. Its still an invitation. Just be assertive in person lol
/r/seduction30/03/17 02:53 PM
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I go to school in canada, fem groups host this shit all the time and no one goes. We have HeForShe club and its got like 4 members
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:49 AM
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Yeah I've been in an LTR for 2.5 years. Have yet to argue or fight, and she acts like a unicorn. But im not letting myself get lazy. The reason she's like this is because my game is tight not cause shes "different" or a "good girl"
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:37 AM
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First off, dont buy these peoples courses they're shilling. "Be yourself, be the best you, fucking kill it, be abundant, run dread game" Its all the same stuff just repackaged. The reason you went back to normal is because you lost your edge in the LTR and went back to bad habits.
/r/seduction30/03/17 02:19 AM
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Yes and yes.
/r/seduction30/03/17 02:17 AM
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The whole community is about generating emotions.. what are you talking about lol
/r/seduction30/03/17 01:59 AM
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China is gonna grow a generation of trannies and clean house in the next olympics loool
/r/MGTOW30/03/17 01:40 AM
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Basically i find most girls will be different initially and maintain that for maybeee a year or two if its an LTR but eventually AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:32 AM
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Not yet, but im 6'3 235 and play football at my college. I only did it cause the guy was a sloppy drunk who wouldn't leave the girl or me alone and was being a prick. Typically i just like to be nice to everyone in the bar or club, if people like you they'll help you out, plus getting in a fight could get my athletic eligibility revoked so gotta be careful
/r/seduction30/03/17 01:18 AM
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Body position to box them out, take the girls hand and lead her somewhere else, builds attraction,and gets her alone. If its a dude who's orbiting just freeze him out. Im a pretty big dude and I've whispered "take a walk" in an orbiters ear before, he deserved it.
/r/seduction30/03/17 01:03 AM
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Move to vietnam
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 10:03 PM
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Lmao. None of this happens in the west. And if your good looking feminists wont open their mouths to you either.
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 09:59 PM
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Yup, they're animals over there fuck em
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 09:42 PM
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When a woman acts like that you dont engage. Be quiet treat her like a kid throwing a tantrum then ghost her for a few days, if that doesn't straighten it out she's a psych patient lol
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 07:11 PM
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Gravity is undefeated
/r/seduction29/03/17 07:10 PM
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Nice straw man lol india is a shithole with mass rapes occurring frequently. Completely different scenario.
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 07:06 PM
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In india they gang rape women on buses. Different culture man
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 02:57 PM
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Aging stars are like dying suns flickering into irrelevancy. The second female stars get old they become feminists. I view it like a cry for help
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 01:56 AM
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Meh, mens fault for allowing it. What level of cuck pays a chick he saw on tinder
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 01:16 AM
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I hope this isnt just to be friends
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:40 AM
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Its snapchat. Who fucking cares? Either talk to her in person or text to swt up a date. Constant communication doesnt build intimacy
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:31 AM
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Why paypal care? They're taking a few cents of each transaction. No one is actually getting hurt, except for cuck cuckerson and he deserves it
/r/MGTOW28/03/17 01:54 AM
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Informative.
/r/MGTOW28/03/17 12:07 AM
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Playing to the crowd.
/r/MGTOW27/03/17 11:55 PM
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Let the betas piss their money away lol
/r/MGTOW27/03/17 11:30 PM
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Jesus Christ. Why write a post. Just ask her out and find out lol. This is just a rejection buffer post. Rationalizing inaction as gathering info.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:27 AM
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Put it in her ass
/r/seduction26/03/17 08:44 PM
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Just go for it. You'll be able to get away with more mistakes than the average guy
/r/seduction26/03/17 06:08 PM
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Lean meats, no breaded stuff. Tons of vegetables. Basically avoid packaged stuff and treats. All the big diets (paleo, keto vegan) do the same thing in different ways. They limit the simple sugar and processed foods intake.
/r/MGTOW26/03/17 03:48 PM
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Birth control in the water is negligible. Sedentary lifestyle lowers testosterone. Obesity also does. Fat cells release estrogen signalling molecules. Ultimately its diet+laziness thats doing the most damage
/r/MGTOW26/03/17 02:47 PM
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"Setting up parameters of out relationship" You lost right there. Wtf is that. That kills 90% of the excitement and sexual tension aka the things you need to escalate and get laid.
/r/seduction26/03/17 02:39 AM
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I dunno man. Have you talked to some of the men around these days. No vision no ambition. Sportsball, swingystick and budlite. I dont condone the cheating its grotesque. But the men have to be responsible for their relationships.
/r/MGTOW26/03/17 02:04 AM
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This. I recognize the op. Super anxious, over analyzes everything non stop.
/r/seduction26/03/17 01:59 AM
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Do you pick up women with your résumé?
/r/seduction26/03/17 01:57 AM
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Jesus what a messy room
/r/MGTOW24/03/17 10:39 PM
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I play football in college and being in a relationship with a single girl is the way to go. Too many guys get in shit and lose scholarships because some crazy bitch accuses them of something or gets pregnant.
/r/seduction24/03/17 10:06 PM
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I always thought she was just playing the feminist card as a ploy to manipulate them and make money. Nope just a fat retard
/r/MGTOW24/03/17 07:53 PM
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WINNER
/r/MGTOW24/03/17 07:47 PM
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Side note. Care positions (vet,nurse,teacher) tend to be overwhelmingly female, so it might be a biased sample
/r/MGTOW24/03/17 06:55 PM
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Her special tipped the scale. It was so disgusting and bad that people are over her
/r/MGTOW24/03/17 06:52 PM
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These is just called priming.... basic psych phenomenon.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 06:42 PM
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Dont get a dog. Way too much work and you're sorta punishing the dog because of your lifestyle. A cat wouldn't be bad they're a bit more independent
/r/seduction23/03/17 05:17 PM
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Then dont marry a crazy bitch lmao.
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 12:26 PM
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Those arguments are wormholes. If he's a nice guy let him live in his version of reality, especially since it hurts no one. Its like veganism. I'll attack aggressive ones. Nice ones are just living different
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 01:28 AM
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You seem to be very very very insecure.
/r/seduction23/03/17 01:24 AM
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What does this argument get you? Isnt it a waste of time? You'll never change a persons view on something like that, especially since he's a jew himself.
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 01:24 AM
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Hmmm you do whatever you want to then post a recap here. Asking what to do is already a reactionary frame
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 01:20 AM
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Not your money, who cares?
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 01:03 AM
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You cant really then. Sack up and be a man. "This isnt working for me" or i want to be single if she is "trash" like you say she is it should be easy. But if that was internet bravado and you've got feelings then be honest with yourself and figure out what you want. There shouldn't be dissonance
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 12:53 AM
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Just tell her it isn't working out and you want to see other people. Or Just stop talking to her.
/r/MGTOW23/03/17 12:50 AM
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Why are you bent on going after this one.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 12:32 AM
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Elephants in the room 1.) he's short 2.) he's overweight 3.) he's black (yes it makes a difference) He NEEDS to lose a lot of weight theres no way around it. Diet exercise the works. Being short he's going to have to pursue short women. And understand that he will be rejected. And the black thing just affects it even more. Women tend to see black men as a temporary thing or a experiment so he's got a very specific pool to date in. Just get him to lose some weight. That should be the first and mo…
/r/seduction23/03/17 12:22 AM
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A man trying to make a living.
/r/MGTOW22/03/17 10:52 PM
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If logistics are bad its not a fuckbuddy. A girl sexting you vs actually fucking is a world apart.
/r/seduction22/03/17 09:27 PM
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They cant pass healthcare laws but a chad extermination law will be passed? Lmfao get the fuck off the internet
/r/MGTOW22/03/17 09:26 PM
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Betas will get more desperate. Western society will start to look like arab society where the 5% get all the women
/r/MGTOW22/03/17 04:57 PM
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You didn't fuck her, whats the point of all this work lol
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 04:50 PM
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Why'd the kid run his mouth.
/r/MGTOW21/03/17 10:48 PM
0

Roses are red violets are blue, I've got a gun get into the van.
/r/seduction21/03/17 12:48 AM
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Sex drive. Ill have a good chick, but still need to fuck some on the side. Slippery slope
/r/MGTOW21/03/17 12:28 AM
50

If you're just fucking her (just one of your plates) who cares. If its a girl you might want kids with it's absolutely worth knowing.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:31 PM
1

Ask her out. Easy way to find out lol
/r/seduction20/03/17 02:41 AM
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This is a wakeup call. Ive been noticing this too. "Look at this dumb gold digger rawr" posts non stop Isnt mgtow about seeing past those women and not being reactionary?
/r/MGTOW20/03/17 01:11 AM
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Ya man, you're at step one, its only up from here. Women CAN be great, but the majority are shitty, especially when they age. Im lucky because i got ruined at 17 and my brother introduced me to this stuff very young. Now 21 and killing the game. Save your post and look at it in a year. You'll be in a way better place
/r/MGTOW20/03/17 12:25 AM
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First id say get some hobbies and productive interests, those will help. Find a way to make money on the side and get paid in cash so it goes unreported. Do the best you can for your kids. On the woman front, you nailed it with the dont marry thing. Date younger and set tight standards. If sex frequency isnt ideal you dump, bitchiness dump.
/r/MGTOW20/03/17 12:16 AM
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Gucci mane didnt do time for this
/r/MGTOW20/03/17 12:01 AM
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Troll post. Byee
/r/seduction19/03/17 09:44 PM
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Prostitution would devalue womens primary source of control and influence. They inherently know legalizing it would cause some problems
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 09:17 PM
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Sheckles dont earn themselves. Get that penny son
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 12:47 AM
5

Good mindset. You survived and you realized nothing bad actually happens. Good stuff!
/r/seduction18/03/17 11:55 PM
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Yeah punish people who are pricks not some girl who was friendly and earned her tip. This is dripping with resentment and low self esteem tbh
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 10:10 PM
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Dont worry about imo. As long as the conversation as a whole doesnt have that vibe its no biggy
/r/seduction18/03/17 07:23 PM
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I just stop replying to texts lol
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 11:37 AM
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They're men with a mental health problem
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 11:28 AM
3

I think throwing away religion has added to this. Im not religious at all, but it does provide a moral framework for a lot of idiots who would be aggressive if left on their own. I think most avg people are either neutral or nice, our brains tend to register negatives easier than positives its a survival feature.
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 10:46 AM
1

Alright you got awareness What are you going to do about it though?
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 02:36 AM
0

Well, what are you going to do about it? Not worth worrying about unless its actionable
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 02:10 AM
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Basically live by AWALT. If some girl proves it wrong sweet if not you're already prepared Id rather know first aid and not need it than to need it and not have. Some girls are less AWALT than others, but even those girls will pull basic bitch behaviour.
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 11:16 PM
2

I have the same thing with facial hair. With a beard i can get girls to blush and stutter. No beard not as much
/r/seduction17/03/17 11:00 PM
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Shes 40. Fuck that noise
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 07:30 PM
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Looks like autistic miss piggy.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 06:27 PM
2

You can change the notification display so itd only say "1 new message from vinny" I actually do this.. it works
/r/seduction17/03/17 05:57 PM
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Then stop dating.
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:43 PM
2

Trad cons dont push for a genderless society. Its up to the individual man to stand up for himself and not put up with garbage. Become the Chad. Serve noone
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 02:23 PM
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The real veteran move is change the chicks names to mens names in your phone
/r/seduction17/03/17 02:11 PM
-1

I'd take more tradcons vs more lefty sjws
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 01:59 PM
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Don't act like a friend?
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:56 PM
2

Tailor. You're probably not going to fit into regular sizing
/r/askMRP17/03/17 01:46 PM
2

Anger phase i see
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 12:43 PM
3

Nope. I still expect her to pull stupid shit once in a while only chumps believe NAWALT
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 11:01 AM
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Always push. Or you'll end up writing posts like this 😉. But hey at least you're getting dates
/r/seduction17/03/17 02:57 AM
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Yup. With my girlfriend. Filipino. Family woman, polite and submissive, loves to bake. I've dated alot, white women are terrible. Slobs and drama queens.
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 02:34 AM
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Shes my escort susan, gives me a good rate😉
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:49 AM
5

Im a self aware chad. Follow mgtow because i saw a feminist destroy one of my teammates. Lost his scholarship and got dismissed from the campus over a gesture.
/r/MGTOW16/03/17 10:55 PM
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Delete her number. The end.
/r/seduction16/03/17 06:48 PM
1

Yeah i only do aggressive stuff like that i person. Your vibe dictates their reaction
/r/seduction16/03/17 04:03 PM
3

Talk to another chick
/r/seduction16/03/17 02:59 AM
1

I want to learn math because i dont understand math. So how do I understand math? What do you want man lol
/r/seduction16/03/17 02:31 AM
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Hmm no porn no fap only release you get is sex?
/r/seduction16/03/17 02:07 AM
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Its on battlenet... dorks battling for theoretical supremacy
/r/MGTOW16/03/17 02:06 AM
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Its really easy to tbh. Lots of guys are hyper sensitive on here and react to trolls.
/r/MGTOW16/03/17 01:34 AM
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Until your desire to get laid is greater than your fear of rejection nothing will change.
/r/seduction16/03/17 01:10 AM
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She's was probably being nice and letting you off easy. She'd become "friends" with you then "not want to risk the great friendship you have" later on. Or she's one of those girls who will take forever to fuck.
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:58 PM
2

Simple answer: no.
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:36 PM
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And shes the one posting about it not him. Key distinction imo
/r/MGTOW15/03/17 11:28 PM
3

Yeah I've never tried.i personally think its an industry that preys on men's insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:40 PM
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Its the same argument as looks. Do good looks help you? Absolutely. Will a bigger dick keep chicks on the hook longer? Most likely. Is it worth stressing over? Probably not. But if PE is something that helps your confidence why not
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 06:25 PM
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To be fair, he went for a run which helps his fitness, and spent nothing compared to the average guy who'll drop $100 on a promposal
/r/MGTOW15/03/17 06:22 PM
-11

If you go after shitty women yes
/r/MGTOW15/03/17 02:43 PM
3

Probably give off the friend vibe. Being slightly dangerous or intimidating (not over the top of course) is better than being super nice and supplicating
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:29 PM
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Exactly. To all the guys on here I recommend going after the chick, doing whatever you think will work then posting a recap on here afterwards. Asking questions puts you in a needy state of mind
/r/seduction15/03/17 01:39 PM
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Depends. I can walk through calculus easily, cant draw for shit though
/r/MGTOW15/03/17 01:10 PM
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Dudes who feign friendship thinking it'll lead to sex. They hover around women like planets orbit the sun
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:58 AM
1

If you're talking about online dating/tinder ive never used it. Approach in person
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:29 AM
1

If your relationship makes you feel like you're declining leave it. You're probably super young too so who cares Only fucking one girl and locking it down is your end goal for life?
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:27 AM
-1

Exit the relationship
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:24 AM
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Stop texting so much. Get the number, text her something simple, set up the date. Text game doesnt exist. You'll never increase your chances of fucking through in depth texting.
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:16 AM
1

Lmao so you didn't get anywhere with her, shes talking about another guy. You're obviously in the friend zone. Delete her number.
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:15 AM
1

Hate to break it to you but it sounds He's gaming her, you're the chump she's gossiping to. Use your head Did you two fuck? Make out or anything on your dates
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:10 AM
1

Dont answer to that shit. She basically said her body wants to fuck him.
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:07 AM
1

Post a screenshot man
/r/MGTOW15/03/17 01:27 AM
2

Most are orbiters some are dating. Both tough approaches, they'll defend the girl
/r/seduction15/03/17 01:11 AM
1

You dont. Move on
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:51 PM
25

Say nothing. Try again in a few days
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:38 PM
5

Treat you better-sean mendes Current girlfriends ex sent her a link to that when he found out i was fucking her
/r/MGTOW14/03/17 01:23 PM
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This whole post is a blue pill diary masquerading as red pill theory. Why are you following this chick so closely? Focus on you not some random girl you pined for back in the day.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 02:21 AM
4

Haha I've never read that book! I read rational male and a bit of roosh, but decided to figure things out by experimenting
/r/MGTOW14/03/17 12:19 AM
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Treat yourself like the buyer. "Why should i give this woman my time?" Vs "i hope she spends time with me and gives me attention" If you can internalize that you'll be miles ahead of the average simp. Dudes treat women they've never met with absolute reverence despite not knowing anything. Read rational male. Internalize it.
/r/MGTOW13/03/17 11:49 PM
7

insert motivational line
/r/MGTOW13/03/17 09:27 PM
1

Typical flakey behaviour, dont sweat it or react to it.
/r/seduction13/03/17 06:03 PM
1

Chat her up, a few minutes in "wait i never got your name" or something like that
/r/seduction13/03/17 02:37 PM
0

Ya based of social media black women seem hypocritical and very aggressive
/r/seduction13/03/17 02:28 PM
1

Im a white guy and the same thing happens to me with asian girls. I guess its a variety thing?
/r/seduction13/03/17 02:23 PM
2

Why dont you try out both, or create your own ideas and see what works best. Mystery is a big guy with presence and is an entertainer, your personality might not work with that style of game.
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:25 PM
5

Its all about your value. When im heavier (around 235 14% bf) girls will get pissed off if i see other chicks. I model in the summers and cut down to around 8-10% bf chicks couldnt care less. The cheating outrage for men happens because the woman perceives her man as low value and beneath her, so when he steps out on her it shatters her worldview. At least thats my take on it
/r/MGTOW13/03/17 12:55 PM
4

Stop wasting your time with this chick lol
/r/seduction13/03/17 12:45 PM
7

There's different types of mgtow guys. Some seem pro man and happy. A lot seem to be aggressively anti woman and bitter, they use reddit as a vent
/r/MGTOW13/03/17 12:27 PM
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You've been used to shit sandwiches for years and now you got a ham on rye. Your skepticism is warranted
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 11:43 PM
1

Lol my dad told me that line when i was 13.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 11:27 PM
8

Fuck like you're about to go to prison. I actually tell myself that all the time.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 11:20 PM
9

What are you scared of? You're in a perfect situation. If you go for it and she rejects you you'll be done school and never see her again, especially if you're going to college. On the flip side, you can fuck her then never have to see her again. Either way you're building up your skillset
/r/seduction12/03/17 10:51 PM
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Theres concrete baggage (kids, debt, health conditions) lower value and rightfully so. Im not dating Suzy the amputee anytime soon. Then theres abstract baggage that are potential turning points and can raise value (bad breakups, crazy ex's, abusive parents). Most of us on here benefitted from a brutal blue pill relationship early in our lives
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:25 PM
2

Leading focus away from school content during the "study session" and getting a bit more personal. Get the number. Ask her out on a real date asap. Don't wait for another study session or you risk being slotted into the nice guy orbiter position.
/r/seduction12/03/17 10:08 PM
8

Limerence explains a lot of guys approach anxiety. They project the traits they want in a woman into every woman they see despite never speaking to them before. Its a chronic condition that comes in waves even in vets. A guy will see a chick and go "omg shes so perfect i bet shes x..x.. and x" meanwhile all you really know is shes got an ass. In reality girls are usually kinda boring, they've never needed to be interesting to get male attention.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:06 PM
2

Add more chicks to your roster. She broke your cold streak and is currently your only source rn. The more you date the better odds you have of finding a chick thats worth your time. Good luck.
/r/seduction12/03/17 09:45 PM
0

Healthy
/r/MGTOW12/03/17 09:41 PM
1

Thats why i said try. Im 21 im not experienced in this. If its really bad you're better off divorced, staying together could be worse for the kids if you guys are at eachothers throats. But always weigh out the pros and cons before making a decision like this
/r/seduction12/03/17 09:41 PM
1

If you have kids, try to work it out. If not, get out. Lifes too short
/r/seduction12/03/17 09:36 PM
4

If you arent trolling: Red pill is about living in reality. You're fantasizing about someone you barely know. Calm down and go with the flow. You've already put her on a skyscraper sized pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 09:25 PM
8

This sounds like a troll post or someone who hasn't read anything about red pill if im being honest
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 09:16 PM
1

Thats the challenge. But honestly dont listen to your friends. Its nothing but positive. It opens up another box of moves for you. And at the very least it helps you stand out in a sea of chads
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:22 PM
2

Your goal. Get 5 chicks numbers written on your cast.
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:16 PM
11

Well. If you can now see the whole chessboard while everyone else is just a pawn you better be making moves and kicking ass. Most people are shit in general, especially dudes now, i think they're more venomous than the women. The women are amplifying shitty aspects of their natures. Men are adopting feminine identities and behaviours. Realizing this actually makes me happier because I value the cool men and women in my life.
/r/MGTOW12/03/17 08:06 PM
1

Ya it seems like a way of acting humble, but in reality people use it to squeeze compliments out of people. "Usually im leaner" translation "please say i look good"
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 07:21 PM
1

Ask her out. Stop wasting time.
/r/seduction12/03/17 07:06 PM
1

Agreed, women want you to lead. Shoulda hit her up a day or two later and lined up another date that was more intimate. Plus you kissed and it was going well. Why not continue to escalate?
/r/seduction12/03/17 07:05 PM
80

Ya this one seems like a slam dunk. Dont overthink
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:23 PM
4

Never self deprecate boys. Weak move
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 05:16 PM
17

Walked up to a feminist and said "i identify as an icebreaker" She actually laughed and played along
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:57 PM
12

Thats why its called "game" its meant to be fun. Even rejections. If you take it too serious or personally it'll be hard
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:11 PM
1

Since last year 10 dates, 4 bangs. Two of which still come around. The key is dont talk to chicks that go at the same time of day. Mwf i go at 11 Tue,thurs, Saturday i go at 4pm.
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:09 PM
1

Yeah why not. Im friendly with everyone there and chat people up so girls dont think im creepy. Easy to get rapport but you obviously cant escalate at a gym
/r/seduction12/03/17 03:38 PM
2

Lots of guys in the anger phase
/r/MGTOW12/03/17 02:21 PM
1

Always remember that women are not nearly as nice as you. She would take your money then fuck a random guy. Her finances arent your responsibility. You'll grow out of it with experience
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 02:17 PM
1

Try to apply red pill concepts as best as you can. Text less. Ask her out on a date. Then post a detailed recap here so you can tweak afterwards. Its better to do it that way.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 02:16 PM
1

Man you're worried about running the bases before you even get a hit. The only thing you MIGHT have trouble with is keeping plates, but even thats unlikely. Go slam ass man
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 12:28 PM
4

Exactly man. Most of us have gone through something similar. Trust me when i say you're better off pursuing other girls. Uprooting you're entire life and chasing her is like wearing a neon sign saying "i have no other options" you'll get clingy she'll dump your ass and you'll be in a foreign country all alone
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 11:58 AM
4

This is how murder suicides start. Move on. Based off this you sound inexperienced. Tons of women can make you happy. You wont be lonely dont worry about it
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 11:24 AM
3

More women in rotation
/r/seduction12/03/17 03:55 AM
1

You cant sulk your way to success with women. Your attitude is shit.
/r/seduction12/03/17 02:15 AM
1

Anything anyones said you've dismissed, you dont want suggestions you want pity. There are dudes on here who've started out as obese virgins and worked their way to success. People have had it worse. Sack the fuck up
/r/seduction12/03/17 02:09 AM
3

"Three course meal on you followed by a long walk on the beach or maybe just coffee?" Something like that, basic shit test
/r/seduction12/03/17 02:01 AM
1

Heres how i think: id rather push it too far and get rejected than be too passive and never know where i stand. In regards to kino, do small things first, build up. If she's leaning in and not saying anything about it its good. If she steps back or angles herself away calm it down. I approach at the gym and have only been called creepy by some girls fat feminist friend. Its all in how you say things
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:48 AM
1

You've already made up your mind. Try to brighten up. Maybe get your blood work done you may have hormone problems
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:43 AM
1

You're in college you have mass access to women your age rn it'll change in a few years. Its only going to get harder if you quit
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:26 AM
1

Im howling rn. Advanced functions all over again
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:12 AM
6

Soy.
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:54 AM
2

1.) ask her if shes been there before, chat about anything 3.) have fun you arent fucking her who cares 2.) overthinking it
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:52 AM
10

Nothing wrong with trying but if this chicks acts the way he describes its pointless. Apply the passion to someone else
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:24 AM
66

The cheating is expected. The fact he felt guilty is the truly sad part.
/r/MGTOW12/03/17 12:04 AM
3

Breaking news: water is wet
/r/MGTOW11/03/17 11:57 PM
190

Men are chemically castrated from day one "creeping" is evolutionary successful behaviour. Anyone who hates on it is full of soy products and self loathing
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 11:14 PM
17

I can taste the soy from here
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:12 PM
39

That sets up for a toxic relationship.
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:01 PM
2

If you're young id say start seeing other chicks man. Not worth stressing over this. Once you see other girls you'll have a better idea of whats acceptable behaviour. Live by your standards not hers.
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:52 PM
2

Then shes childish or cheating. She took you back right?
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:33 PM
2

Dont care about Anything, say what you want. She's just hot. Could be boring and bitchy. Do you think shes stressing about any of this? Young guys tend to give girls they dont know attributes that havent been shown. Just relax man
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:27 PM
4

No texts at all. She'll contact you. And if you don't text her it might cause some dread which is always good
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:22 PM
3

Problem is if you act cocky funny like that you better be able to pull it off in person. From what he says i dont think he can.
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:20 PM
11

Send her a pic of you doing the exact same pose "my legs are better" Honestly no clue highschools changed jesus Edit: invite her to the next party. Talk there. Side note: you cant talk in person with words, but messaging is fine? Grow some balls. She can still reject you hard via messages and post screenshots. Always talk in person
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:08 PM
13

Sack up and go on your own. You cant learn with a crutch
/r/seduction11/03/17 09:43 PM
6

Rule 1 for college. Dont use a fishing line use a net. Talk to more girls man
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 09:34 PM
1

Good stuff guys. This subreddit needs more field reports.
/r/seduction11/03/17 06:30 PM
1

Talking in the future read please
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 06:14 PM
4

Needs more information man. Go on some more dates. Afterwards post a recap with details.
/r/seduction11/03/17 05:57 PM
2

Focus on school and your body man. Dont worry too much about chicks. Have fun but dont stress. If you plan on going to college a good body is basically enough to get pussy. Especially if you live on campus.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 05:26 PM
3

No clue man. Depends on the girl i guess? Im about 6'3 225-235 So maybe its the size thing? Ive lifted since freshman year of highschool and im 21 now so my physique is on point. But i think my game is avg at best.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 05:24 PM
1

Even when youre older a car is unnecessary. Uber exists and is probably a better option if you're meeting for drinks
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 05:14 PM
8

agreed. I think im reasonably attractive and when i dont give em attention ill get the "hey stranger =]" texts or the "hey long time no see we should chill" texts It depends on the demographics of your location too. My college is infested with needy engineering majors who smother girls.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 05:11 PM
1

Yeah i was suprised at how highly i thought of women i never talked to just because of looks. Worked that out of my system. Once you date a few you realize most women are kinda boring.
/r/seduction11/03/17 05:02 PM
4

I dont know man. I've never done that type of thing before. I try to not get hung up on a particular girl cause im young (21) Personally id just pursue some other girls. But if you want her try something then post a recap so we can give critiques
/r/seduction11/03/17 02:29 PM
1

Would you fuck other chicks while you two are "dating" if no just date her
/r/seduction11/03/17 02:21 PM
36

If you are a savage keep fucking her while you start getting side pieces. These hoes arent loyal so why should you be. But if shes been good to you just dump respectfully dont want to create more damaged girls
/r/MGTOW11/03/17 02:17 PM
3

Just go for it. If you're getting deep prolonged stares from her and shes leaning in towards you it should go well
/r/seduction11/03/17 02:15 PM
1

What do YOU want? Relationship? Single? Figure out what you want and the decision makes itself
/r/seduction11/03/17 02:14 PM
1

I dunno I've found going with a slighty more serious vibe has worked better for me. The lines good but too playful for me.
/r/seduction11/03/17 02:12 PM
2

Imo it seems a bit weird. Especially if i said it im a 6'3 white guy
/r/seduction11/03/17 02:05 PM
1

I dont think i could pull it off. But it well definitely get her attention
/r/seduction11/03/17 01:52 PM
1

Ya. I feel like at least half the guys on here are theory junkies and dont apply things irl. I was that guy before. All of the superiority feelings with none of the risk.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 04:09 AM
5

Whining doesnt serve any purpose man, we cant help without you actually giving details about your approaches. Are you tall, fit, good looking, well spoken? What'd you say? How? Without details you basically published a sad diary to the internet. Plus you seem to have a mopey attitude Who cares if a few chicks rejected you go out with your boys and have a good time
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 02:56 AM
1

Start going to different places regularly. Gym, volunteer somewhere, dance classes, anything really. The hobbies will help you relax and make you more interesting. Will give you more things to talk about when you date
/r/seduction11/03/17 02:17 AM
1

Dread is push pull. This is more push push push push fuck off
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:50 AM
1

Hmm then just slowly spend less and less time with your girl and break it off.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:41 AM
1

Semesters almost over right? Start talking to other girls on the down low and dump your ltr after exams
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:27 AM
1

The weight loss is huge. The discipline it took will carry over into game if thats what you want to get into.
/r/MGTOW11/03/17 01:07 AM
1

Thats badass! You lifting regularly?
/r/MGTOW11/03/17 12:53 AM
2

I think this is a big problem for beginners. They view game with a particular girl in mind. Early on see girl approach girl. If you wait you'll start to build stories in your head. Well at least i did.
/r/seduction11/03/17 12:31 AM
3

"Something came up" You dont owe her anything lol
/r/seduction10/03/17 11:38 PM
6

Easily manipulated ones are
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 11:30 PM
2

I stated up front that it wasnt serious or scientific too lol.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:06 PM
1

Talk to her in person.
/r/seduction10/03/17 09:47 PM
2

Absolutely. Thats why you use w/h ratio because that represents core adipose distribution. Bmi is used because of its ease not accuracy
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 07:58 PM
2

Absolutely. Thats why you use w/h ratio because that represents core adipose distribution. Bmi is used because of its ease not accuracy
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 07:57 PM
1

Stop complaining man. Theres guys on here who grind threw tons of rejections. You havent been rejected once
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:54 PM
4

I know. It was a joke with a prof we're friends with. Only for fun.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 07:53 PM
1

They're just people man. Dont let them have that much control over your emotions. Easier said than done of course but thats the goal
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:19 PM
1

Shouldn't the approach itself be your goal. If you approach count it as a win regardless of outcome. Baby steps. How old arw you?
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:16 PM
1

Approach other girls. You've built up a story in your head about this one already. You're self aware which is good. When you get nervous realize you're giving value and attributes to someone you've never met.
/r/seduction10/03/17 06:45 PM
1

Ya thats a good point. Everyones going to think the grass is greener somewhere else
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 06:13 PM
-7

Lmao it isnt that serious. And at the time i was 17 turning 18 and to me i felt like a fag. Over analyzing things a bit?
/r/seduction10/03/17 06:10 PM
3

Do you think the uk is worse for men than the US or Canada?
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 06:05 PM
1

Shit, im at waterloo right now i party at western once in a while.
/r/seduction10/03/17 05:57 PM
1

100% thats why if you neg a chick playfully its almost like they short circuit for a second. Usually playful negs work great.
/r/seduction10/03/17 05:55 PM
1

You go to western?
/r/seduction10/03/17 05:51 PM
7

Absolutely. Based off Bmi im "overweight" but im 6'3 245 and play football. I think some sites will classify overweight based on waist circumference or waist to hip ratio. In men overweight is bmi>25 an W/H > 1.0 In women its bmi >25 W/H >0.8 Those numbers are more representative. But rarely measured because of the cost and time it would take
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 05:32 PM
26

I don't disagree at all man! I think the overweight number is more concerning because those women are the ones who try to change social norms. Everyone knows the behemoth is a fat cunt. The amy schumers and lena dunham body types are the ones that lead to mass changes in society.
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 05:25 PM
7

Better stat- 63% of people in the US are overweight (bmi >25) to obese. Edit: heres a link https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/Pages/overweight-obesity-statistics.aspx
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 05:21 PM
2

The man that'll pay that much? Lol
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 05:14 PM
1

Question: have you ever been brutally rejected before? I'll tell you a secret, that brutal rejection you imagine is an outlier, it rarely happens especially if you're a nice leaning guy which you seem like. So in reality you have nothing to be afraid of. If i were you id be afraid of the regrets id have in the future
/r/seduction10/03/17 05:08 PM
6

I think the best answer was bonobo ape.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 05:04 PM
1

Humans select for specific traits in general. But as to personal preferences who knows/cares. If you're having a good time it doesnt matter. I like asian girls. No clue why.
/r/seduction10/03/17 05:04 PM
11

100% this. Obviously dumb feminists, race baiters, homosexuals and everything in between exist. But you rarely ever meet these people unless you go out of your way to. Your life perspective is all about focus. If all you think about is homosexuality and race thats all you're going to see Its not the op's fault completely, guys on here obsess about this shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 04:48 PM
2

Clear goal. Actionable. Add a time frame and specific numbers ie. approach at least 2x per day it'll help
/r/seduction10/03/17 04:40 PM
2

Hmmm talk to some other girls line up dates. If you're texting the girl you already asked out frequently cool it down a bit. Dont invest too much in this girl anymore. If she hits you up or responds to a future date idea then go for it but dont do too much else.
/r/seduction10/03/17 04:18 PM
1

Openers arent that important. As long as you can get them talking it isnt too big of a deal. Your game once you start talking is probably more important.
/r/seduction10/03/17 04:15 PM
5

I think you're mistaking non conformist actions vs overall personality. When we want mates our actions are less conforming. Whats the entire red pill theory and pua tactics. The non conformist action gets us the initial interaction the status, money, style are all separate. Conformity is selective we use it when it best suits our interests.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 03:21 PM
-4

Google it. Google scholar. I dont care if you believe me or not lmao
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 02:59 PM
2

Someone's had a rough morning lol
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 02:51 PM
5

When men have romantic primes the tend to act in a non conforming way. Especially in a subjective scenario Griskevicius et al.,(2006) Essentially to gain attention you need to be different from the herd
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 02:45 PM
6

Avg male testosterone is around 550ng/dl in males 18-30 ish roughly. Your grandfathers was probably closer to 900 at the same age.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 01:51 PM
3

The next evolution of game lol
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 01:50 PM
6

Absolutely. Whats interesting to me is modern men now. Testosterone relates to mens ability to be non conformists and non conformity is how males attract mates. The decline in testosterone might explain why more and more guys struggle so much
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:59 AM
–

Same thing here man. When i was younger i was way too needy and territorial of this girl. She dumped me and I remember being absolutely ruined. I remember sending tons of sappy and frankly pathetic texts to her trying to negotiate a way to get back together. I think we all have a story like this. I worked as a cashier at the time and a few weeks later she went through my line. I turned white as a ghost and couldn't talk. Lol i was such a fag tbh. I was lucky because after this happened i stopped…
/r/seduction10/03/17 10:44 AM
15

Men were a lot more random. Lots of dogs, chimps, stuff like that. Honestly dont remember the numbers wasn't really lookinh at the men
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:31 AM
3

Never
/r/seduction10/03/17 03:42 AM
5

The problem with this forum is some guys become mgtow and embrace what it means (doing your own shit and loving life) while tons just post sad or angry hate rants non stop. They preach they dont need women yet their entire existence is a reaction to them. Mgtow needs more positive guys posting.
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 03:04 AM
4

Whats your major? And what university prof takes attendance. Hasnt happened once yet and im 3rd year
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 03:02 AM
4

Step 1.) build a bigger body Step 2.) build a better male social group Step 3.) find 2-3 things you are passionate about or good at and go hard Step 4.) make sure you're dressing properly and present yourself well. Step 5.)broaden your acceptable range for women. Might have to lower the standards The less pressure you put on yourself with women the better you'll do (usually). Having cool friends and fun shit to do will help alot. Rn your trying to fill a hole with women and the problems are comp…
/r/seduction10/03/17 02:41 AM
1

100% agree. He should plan a date with another chick the next day. Adding pressure and a bad frame based off his post
/r/seduction10/03/17 02:31 AM
2

Ya I agree, typically you just roll with the comment then give her shit in a funny way a bit later. The proposed method seems a bit too much like bargaining to me. But if it works for op all the power to him. Do what works not what sounds like it'll work
/r/seduction10/03/17 02:28 AM
2

Good stuff man. Flaking is super common. Dont take it personally
/r/seduction10/03/17 02:16 AM
2

Move on. She didnt try to reschedule textbook flake. Just delete her number. Edit: Think of it this way, youre on here posting and asking for help, she flaked and probably doesnt give a shit. Not a good dynamic to pursue any further, if you do it makes your time seem less valuable than hers
/r/seduction10/03/17 02:05 AM
1

hmm well just keep improving your approaches get them smoother you may see some better results, good luck
/r/seduction09/03/17 08:25 PM
16

Sell it to who pays more man. chicks come and go cash is forever. plus it'll tell her you arent a simp who will do anything for the pussy. side note, i dont know how you put up with chicks that talk in slang or like a dude, bugs the shit out of me
/r/seduction09/03/17 08:02 PM
1

not weird at all man, try to have a few drinks have fun and see if you can isolate with your girl later on, and if its really going well suggest to go back to your place or something along those lines. hopefully your friends arent clueless and they help you facilitate the isolation. talk to them before hand
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:58 PM
4

hmm whats the demographic of your school? male to female ratio. is it a tough school or party school? If its actually that bad maybe visit another local campus and do approaches. make sure you arent exaggerating though and keep trying. Personally my school is the opposite, my school is an engineering school and most guys are too afraid to talk to chicks so its easy pickings
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:56 PM
40

You're either fucking, or you're acquaintances thats it
/r/MGTOW09/03/17 02:31 PM
2

1.) obvious one date short girls 2.) Try it with you're height listed and without out and see if theres a noticeable difference in date quality. only real way to know what works is testing Find some negs that you can use to give her shit back. i dont have this problem but im sure some other guys can suggest some good ones. i tend to get dumb jock or meathead comments but those are pretty easy to traverse. Just test out different things over and over and you'll get good. the kicker on my football…
/r/seduction09/03/17 02:03 PM
2

This guys got it right. I usually neg playfully with a smirk on my face. because typically most guys wont neg women so you instantly come off as unique. its all in the delivery. but ya man as long as you're calm and cool about it it shouldnt matter too much.
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:27 PM
1

damn. never heard of that, good stuff
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:23 PM
-1

Imo mgtow sounds appealing if you're struggling but if you look at these guys over time they become really angry or apathetic and sad. Take care of business and get laid
/r/MGTOW09/03/17 01:19 PM
-1

You seem emotionally invested lol. Literally asking if anyone has noticed a similar thing. Got no problem with any race. As a college kid ive noticed that the white girls act more masculine.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 01:08 PM
2

Yeah i play in the big ten. Had a pretty good year too. Football makes game really easy
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 02:28 AM
3

One thing id add. You're already so ending energy that could be going to another one. Dont let a particular interest become a infatuation
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 02:16 AM
8

Agree with this. Ive found if nothing happens after date three just cut it off immediately. She'll either A.) suddenly come around and you'll bang. Or B.) fade away. Im only 21 so not as experienced as you guys. So far i find white girls are the easiest, asian girls take longer
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 02:04 AM
1

Lots of missing info here man, when did you plan to meet up on campus(day night?). Typically you should go to a campus/local bar feel her out have a few drinks and if theres a good vibe ask her if she wants to have a drink
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:54 AM
8

Question, have you approached a lot of hot girls and made honest attempts to fuck them?
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:20 AM
6

For myself im in college and play football so style is definitely my sore spot. I get away with it because im tall and muscular. In general though. What you where is good for casual things as long as it fits your body well. A big reason why working out is important. Bald is good. Especially if you had thin hair. Owning a bald head is way better than fighting hair loss in my opinion. Just have fun with it anyways. Your kids are number 1. Your health is number 2 friends hobbies and pursuits should…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 01:18 AM
13

1.) get fit, you're already on the ball for this one, good job 2.) dont use that line unless you're in a great mood and can say it with some cheek and get away with it. 3.) find some hobbies and build a social circle. Will help you not get needy with any new girls you meet. 4.) practice practice practice. The more you approach the better you'll get at picking up on little details. Imo looks do matter. Basically the better looking you are the easy the early conversation will go. You get more room…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 01:02 AM
0

Anyone else starting to think white women are a waste of time? So far ive found that asian and latina girls treat me wayyyy better and typically take the submissive role much quicker than white girls. Also im 21 in college so the white girls are particularly stupid Wondering if thats just me.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 12:09 AM
1

What ive learned in the last year since going hard. A chick usually isnt fucking the guy shes constantly texting. Shes complaining to some chump who will tell her you're a jerk. Then she'll hit you up at night and come over. General rule- no more than 6 texts per day with a casual girl. Thats gotten me the best results
/r/seduction08/03/17 10:31 PM
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What the guys above said. Just no reactions or cold shouldering bad behaviour. Plus start flirting with other girls with her around. Shes so used to stringing men along that it'd make her meltdown.
/r/seduction08/03/17 10:28 PM
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Make sure you're friendly and chatty with alot of girls there so it doesn't seem out of place. If not you might get a rep
/r/seduction08/03/17 09:37 PM
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All in how you go about it. If a chick gives you heavy IOI's why not? Especially if you're friends with alot of people there when you go and are in shape. The gym turns into a high status setting. Just be careful if the chicks crazy might have to change when you go. In general though, lifes too short to worry about specific settings. See hot girl approach hot girl. Easy formula
/r/seduction08/03/17 08:51 PM
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Who cares what people think man. Try it out, if you dont like it dont do it again
/r/seduction08/03/17 08:42 PM
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Really depends on how good looking you are and how tight your game is. Even if shes got a bf you can still bang. But if thats not your thing dont go for it
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:18 PM
1

Imo you're kinda idealizing someone you barely know. You're young too. Try not to get hung up on individual women (im young i know its hard).
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:14 PM
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Easy. Logistics dont work move on. Unless she's a booty call who comes to your place once in a while
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:10 PM
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Just cause theres a goalie doesnt mean you cant score. The boyfriend thing is a lie 70% of the time. Most dudes she interacts with are needy fags and saying she has a bf is an easy screening method
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:08 PM
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Imo its about what you're comfortable with. Ill go sit next to the girl i want to talk to even if theres empty seats. The Gym is a good spot too if you're in college. Most dudes are such cucks they won't approach there and fit chicks are always fun
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:04 PM
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Use flexible values. Hard 7 soft 8. Much better than just as 7
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:59 PM
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Plus id say treat women like a secondary objective. It sounds like they're your current focus and that adds pressure to it. Overall you sound like you're making good moves. Be proud of yourself
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:07 PM
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I agree. Keeping a primary mission is absolutely key. Women should be a side thing you do for fun and experiment with
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:54 PM
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Pick a type of girl thats different than your ex, unless you're hard set on a particular race.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:52 PM
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woah im a younger you. Currently a redshirt junior. 6'3 235 linebacker though. i saw the girl who sent me into the redpill a few weeks ago. i was back in my hometown for a weekend. felt absolutely nothing though, no emotional pull or pit in my stomach, i was proud of myself. i remember the first seeing her after the break up and going white as a ghost. The Blue pill loser days are embarrassing but a good measuring stick
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 11:49 AM
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i'll look into it a bit later, i've got midterms today and tomorrow. and the gear thing is a bit of a myth, unless you're talking track guys. Football players get tested frequently and in general our physiques arent that great in season. plus gear usually pulls water and other fluids from ligaments and tendons which puts you at a huge risk for injury
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 11:11 AM
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exactly my opinion as well. im not trying to preach vegan. im pretty close to vegan but not completely. it gets a little tricky in regards to essential amino acids at times. plus im in a unique scenario because of football where i have nutritionists and training staff monitoring me. I think it has a lot to do with overall glycemic load. Modified atkins (high protein high fat Moderate-low carb) works in a similar way by reducing the sugar intake and reducing the overall stress. as to the look cha…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 11:08 AM
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Quinoa, eggplant, lentils, chickpeas, trust me man. Basic cooking skills and it really isn't noticeable. Plus fuck eating for pleasure, eat for performance. Do it for a month and the good feeling will overcome any taste barrier.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:57 AM
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You come off as kinda jaded if im being honest. Why do people like having dogs if they shit on the floor? Because its fun when they learn not to. Women are the same way. Love them for what they are not what you wish they were. Tighten up that game. A woman flaking shouldnt be affecting your mood. Detach
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:26 AM
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Thrill of the hunt. If you aren't getting that pursue higher value women.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:15 AM
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Better strategy. Get the girl to move the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:12 AM
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I didnt like the idea at first. But the diet is solid. Its shitty that whiny animal cunts, and virtue signallers are the face of the diet. Turns a lot of people off. I know for a fact that a couple schools in my conference are implementing it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:48 PM
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Not really. Im around 6'3 225 -245 depending on the season (i play college football) and get around 80-90% of my calories from plant based foods. Personally i find it really helps recovery from training. And my Crp (inflammation markers) dropped in half since changing over. Id say around half the other guys on the team, especially the skill position guys are vegan or close to vegan. A lot of the protein guidelines people follow are total bullshit. Our nutritionists have me on 155grams protein pe…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:26 PM
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Im leaning towards this, the only reasons I've stayed in it so long is the college football schedule is hectic, she cheerleads so she travels with us which is convenient. I wish she was a crazy bitch. Would make it so much easier lol
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:05 PM
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I think my smv is fairly high, D1 football, im about 6'2 235 if im in season. she isnt perfect, she gets pretty jealous when other chicks flirt with me and shit like that. but i've tried to assess her behavior as honestly as possible, and there arent any red flags. she'll do crazy shit just not ass. other than that im pretty happy with the bedroom aspect. personally i think its me being so used to being told what to do by coaches, trainers and other people in my life that making a tough decision…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:16 AM
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i would look for a younger girl. if iwere 35 oldest id date is 26
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:08 AM
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Lol it isn't mandatory. Just dont go lol
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