Scared to make a move.

murvish45 · 2017-03-12T22:51:39+00:00

What are you scared of?

You're in a perfect situation. If you go for it and she rejects you you'll be done school and never see her again, especially if you're going to college.

On the flip side, you can fuck her then never have to see her again. Either way you're building up your skillset

Woujo · 2017-03-12T23:57:35+00:00

but I see my friends do it so often that it is frustrating to me.

A lot of people lie about how much tang they're getting. Just FYI

Senior year is about to end, and i don’t want to finish high school like this.

This is scarcity mentality. Don't think like this.

This weekend, the unanimous hottest girl at my school of 4000 kids tried hooking up with me. She was the one who wanted to, and tried on multiple occasions. I just never brought myself to do it.

You're too in your own head. You need to stop thinking about gettin it and you will then get it.

wowzaza · 2017-03-13T02:12:47+00:00

DUDE. This is exactly my high school situation. I rolled with the popular and cool kids, so I had lots of hot girls chasing me. BUT I'd be too clueless or scared to do anything.

I blame porn. Quit that if you're watching it.

I'd also recommend doing some self reflection, and see why you're hesitant to make moves. It's most likely a misunderstanding about what happens when you make a move. I'm linking another post because it's sooper relevant. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5yyx85/why_you_should_never_worry_about_going_for_the/

Overnight_Delivery · 2017-03-13T06:50:10+00:00

I would actually recommend NOT plaguing your mind with all the pickup stuff and just do what you know you need to do.

wowzaza · 2017-03-14T13:56:40+00:00

Hey, I'm reading Models by Mark Manson (actually listening to the audiobook) and I think this will really help you.

Like I said, I have dealt with similar issues during my years in high school and have some what overcome them. This book is helping me see how I can go even deeper and take care of it thoroughly!

Highly recommend it, to anyone on this sub actually. It's healthier way to approach "seduction".

IntrovertedBadass · 2017-03-13T07:04:31+00:00

Hey man, it seems like you have a few issue’s. First of I think you don’t have an overall process for talking to women. yes you should at some point move from teasing to more serious talk. Second it looks like you don’t take the opportunity when she practically throws herself at your feet. That might be because you don’t know how to take it from there or you might have some confidence issues. It’s difficult to give good advice based on a few sentences, but my advice would be to a) take action/take risks, b) learn a method that works for school environment and social circles since you are already good at the social part c) learn how to talk to women, meaning a structure and what it takes. If you want I have a few blogposts that will help you with that. One is about how to have conversations that are not just funny, but that build attraction and a connection at the same time. the other is about how to build a group of female friends that help you with your dating life. this would work great for you since you are already quite social, you just need to know how to take that social circle of yours and turn it into a way of dating more women. Would you like me to post the links?

Title	Scared to make a move.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	10
Comments	16
Date	March 12, 2017 10:41 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5z1h24/scared_to_make_a_move/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/scared-to-make-a-move.1421714 https://theredarchive.com/post/1421714

Comments