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both. stick around and you will see
/r/askMRP10/01/23 08:30 PM
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that sub makes for great entertainment during the day
/r/askMRP10/01/23 08:22 PM
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you bitch that no one is giving you advice.... someone who knows their shit comes in and gives you advice and then asks you to lay out a plan your answer is to get physically fit oh and then bitch more about an internet loser that hurt your feelings you are so fucking pathetic it is laughable. not even because you dont have a plan yet... this seems like day 1 for you so that makes sense... but be because you cant stop complaining people are mean to you. you need more of a plan mate getting fit i…
/r/askMRP10/01/23 06:02 PM
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this makes you sound like a baby... at this point you gotta be a troll you are so ridiculous
/r/askMRP10/01/23 05:50 PM
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you sure about that?.... are these guys posting online and getting all huffy over some text on a screen? your wife wont fuck you because you are a man baby and have ZERO control over your emotions.
/r/askMRP10/01/23 05:17 PM
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you sound like a baby wearing adult clothing. what you are failing to see retard is that your inability to take shit from online losers is directly related to why your wife lost interest in fucking you. you took away all anxiety when you married her and then put a baby in her. Then you became more beta and fully entered her frame.... the way you are with all these comments numb nuts.... now she sees you as a weak man living in her frame. so again you baby wearing mans clothing your inability to …
/r/askMRP10/01/23 05:15 PM
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do you even know where you are posting bud? this isnt a nice place full of nice people. if you cant take the heat and own your bullshit you are useless to your wife, to your self, and to this group (save for some entertainment) ​ why did she keep that mate?
/r/askMRP10/01/23 04:59 PM
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Odds are your tone is either constantly bitchy, you're monotone, or you totally lack any type of enthusiasm. All of which make you an absolute horror to spend any personal time with. Stoicism is great when you are dealing with conflict and the oak is great during a storm - but when things are going well nobody wants to be around a guy who sucks the fun out of everything because he chooses to be unemotive. yeah not enough enthusiasm that sounds about right as that is who I am/was so losing that w…
/r/askMRP09/01/23 11:15 PM
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You don't "suggest sex" you go for it. Sounds like you're needy and clingy. A nice guy™ this I have to admit Im in a similar state... I suggest and we fuck 1-2x a week..... I gotta move away from suggesting (thats her tool) and just doing
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/23 11:09 PM
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gotcha yeah dont hold on that that anger. thanks mate. some basic shit but I dont think im all that enjoyable to be around.... got some direction on how to address that? I think im being neutral but I keep hearing im acting mad or grumpy or too hard to please. ​ ​ maybe I ought to read those anger phases posts now
/r/askMRP09/01/23 11:00 PM
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Are you resetting daily or multiple times a day despite your wife's bad attitude? what does this look like?
/r/askMRP09/01/23 10:49 PM
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covert contract you are doing those things so she fucks you (enthasitcally) or lets you fuck her. stop do that shit cause that is who you are - outcome independence.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/23 10:40 PM
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I mean I dont know, that shit works pretty damn good for me. so I dont know -I do know it is your fault, but not sure how though
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/23 10:38 PM
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what is getting rejected for you? sounds like you have conditioned her that you are going to badger her for sex and that turns her off. get still be having sex 1once a week but ALWAYS be turned down when you initiate. your approach must suck.... im not saying you should dance around but I expect you are badgering
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/23 10:27 PM
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I don’t shame sexuality and go out if my way to sincerely praise the behaviors that I most enjoy. yeah sounds right out of SGM - not its specific methodologies but the general tone it pushes... dont ever ever ever shame any sexual interest in your lady unless you want her to clam up. the crux is me being more valuable clearly
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/23 05:09 PM
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I have spent the year training a sex-fiend. was the sex god method useful here? or The Enlightened Sex Manual?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/23 08:44 PM
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crisp and clear thanks! and that 10000% makes sense and why open marriage is silly. thanks
/r/askMRP04/01/23 06:11 PM
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such a simple answer and thanks I suppose I was only using my lens where the house finances are nearly 50/50 with my wife make a touch more... so the finance side doesnt really present a con. There are others cons.... but why live with a lady you are just fucking is the other end and that kinda makes the difference I suppose. ​ and do your point.... "what do you want" assuming there is a blanket yes or no to any approach is dumb of me. It all maps back to what I (or any guy here) want. ​ thanks …
/r/askMRP04/01/23 06:09 PM
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Im not pro open relationships but how is it different than making your wife a plate? I assume because the guys who's wives purpose this are such shits they have oneitus and are very unattractive
/r/askMRP03/01/23 05:48 PM
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Good fucking luck in the dating marketplace being a cheating ho with kids. didnt even think of that ha, wont be hard to find dick it will be a bit harder to find a new husband she respects... but she didnt respect this one so maybe that wont matter
/r/askMRP19/12/22 07:09 PM
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send some photos to help with the situational assessment and her contact info
/r/askMRP19/12/22 07:03 PM
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I am asking how to act - because I am not going to walk out the door tomorrow - I have four kids and need to get MY shit together ( my actual shit - documents etc ) at home. how to act---- get your shit together.... you answered your own question. Be neutral withy our wife... as you would a random lady at the store.... your wife is dead to you. ​ stop caring about Fixing this marriage ... that is her job. Fix yourself
/r/askMRP19/12/22 07:01 PM
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they don’t know what the fuck they are doing neither does your wife or any woman you are going to encounter.... so dont get angry at them it brings you down and makes you unattractive
/r/askMRP19/12/22 07:00 PM
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how hot is your wife? I know of a couples therapist you may dig, well she will at least
/r/askMRP19/12/22 06:52 PM
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no one can tell you what to do here, because no one even knows what you want. I dont think you even know that. they can tell you what they would do, after ripping you apart for being in this situation in the first place, but you aren't them even if you should be them. yes talk to lawyers yes hit the sidebar those 1st three books need to be ingrained in you. ​ what should you do? your wife is dead to you or at best a plate that you fuck now and again. you now own all aspects of your life (food, c…
/r/askMRP19/12/22 06:37 PM
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37 yo 193 lbs, 6'2 married 8 years, together 16 years, kids 2 year 5 years Doing Grey Skull Bp 180 2x5 - 1x8 Op 120 2x5 - 1x9 squat 185 2x5 - 1x10 Dl 290 1x5 Readings: Read NMMNG 3x, WISNIFG 2x, MMSLP, Rational Male Year One, The Mindful Attraction Plan, Smart phone dumb phone, currently reading Sex God Method
/r/askMRP19/12/22 06:25 PM
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well this trial with clomid is kinda showing me that yeah I prob will
/r/askMRP15/12/22 04:18 AM
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yeah I am at a place that specializes in it and did the whole blood panel. they have been pushing injections and I have been hesitant. my guy pushed good rx for injections I look up jay campbell, thanks mate.
/r/askMRP15/12/22 04:06 AM
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wives desperate to fuck something other than a beta... the bar is low... fish in a barrel
/r/askMRP15/12/22 01:54 AM
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well getting too cuaght up in your SMV is gonna fuck you but your mindset that you are shit will fuck you too.. unless you use that to make yourself better
/r/askMRP14/12/22 11:57 PM
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this is the rock solid truth. In the situations where the wives really are THAT high that the guy cant really overcome it are they just fucked? - if he thinks he is he is I would think there is his actual SMV vs her perception of it relative to his (the later mattering more to get the hamster going). Of course he should bring his up as far as it can go but there is gonna be a limit to how far he can go... or am I just full of shit. it is theory and retarded and seemed to help me get past that. b…
/r/askMRP14/12/22 10:54 PM
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here we were all thinking they were dumbasses.... come to find out they are just going to where the iron is hot and the husband is dumbenough to ask for it
/r/askMRP14/12/22 09:47 PM
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You sound needy as fuck so you might want to work on that as well. a hot wife he has onietus for... so lots of validation seeking (being needy) and covert contracts ​ ask me how I know
/r/askMRP14/12/22 09:36 PM
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" whether that is the right response. Any thoughts or suggestions on how to think of this situation would be helpful." right response for what? what do you want?
/r/askMRP14/12/22 09:31 PM
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I think you would benefit from the pretend she is dead mindset you now own all things about your life (money, work, food planning, career, health, social life).... and your goal is to make all of them more like how you want them to be... do that and make sure you are talking up ladies ya dig to help get you over your oneitus. ​ im pro individual therapy.. every other comment here calls out the issues with couples
/r/askMRP14/12/22 09:22 PM
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def silk
/r/askMRP14/12/22 09:17 PM
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dont be too focused on phases and where you are. ​ focus on using the tools and how they land. over and over and over
/r/askMRP14/12/22 09:12 PM
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that is how I read it too... we should be counselors
/r/askMRP14/12/22 08:35 PM
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I know, ive been here a bit... took a brake and came back. Rian stone is pretty good no bs. like I said still fall into deering now and again I expected to get shit on and to get some good info.... both were true
/r/askMRP14/12/22 06:07 PM
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I do fall into the trap of deering for sure.. always need a reminder to not have that knee jerk reaction
/r/askMRP14/12/22 05:50 PM
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yall are more helpful than the TRT and T subs. Why do I need to come off eventually? thanks for the info.
/r/askMRP13/12/22 05:02 PM
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yeah I can see that. I do feel better but also kinda off too. it is a net improvement overall as long as the side effects wear off. Im not 100% sure I like it yet... even with some of the benefits.
/r/askMRP13/12/22 04:37 AM
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nah man lifting more than me is great, I have before and will again. my numbers right now are not a goal to strive for. being really focused on that 1 rep max is ego driven. my numbers are weak for sure, they will go up im not stressed about that.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 10:43 PM
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yeah is is a warm up for some I agree. still felt pretty damn good the first time I did it.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 09:39 PM
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yeah like weight lifting, exactly like that... leg day specifically.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 09:34 PM
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my goals are my goals man
/r/askMRP12/12/22 09:12 PM
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yeah honestly I can feel the difference it is having but these side effects are kinda knarly... so we shall see what the blood work shows but it sure seems trt is going to be more or less like this but sans some of the bullshit.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 09:06 PM
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you are right if that is the approach you take- and that is a fine approach. I was doing SL 5x5 for a while and then switched to grey skull. So im not doing sets that high.. save for the 1xamrap. instead each time I complete a set I push the weight up in 2.5 increments.. until I fail to get all the reps and de-load, then build back up.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 09:00 PM
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I think 1rm is about ego lifting, unless you are competing. Everyone seems to have a strong opinion on it you are right that it sounded like advice, I dont know all that much and not in a position to give advice. But I can say doing leg day lifted my T and made my life better than it was prior, so to all the retards out there with ED and dont want to make moves on their wives... yeah do some shit to raise your T.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:35 PM
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seemed to make sense at the time. you are right my numbers are low, they were lower, they aren't where I want them to be yet. They will be im not stressed about them, with consistency and time they will get there.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:27 PM
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yeah the doc is pushing injections to get the #s right then pellets. we shall see ​ as for the needle, I brought this up and he called out the longer needle is need ed (to get to muscle). I dont think I quite lean enough though (I expect I am over 20% so maybe that is why) for some reason TRT seemed more serious than doing thing to get my brain to signal to make more T. If however these side effects dont wane it wont really be an option ​ thank for the response
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:24 PM
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squat was 255 bench was 192.5 DL and Op arent de-loaded. yeah suppose they are low but they used to be lower I dont really do 1 rep maxes so I dont know what those are. the numbers will get up there im not concerned about that
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:10 PM
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those werent my maxes but still represent a major improvement from where I was 3 years ago, so hate all you want but it is progress. I de-loaded recently to focus on form these represent that as I work back up lifting heavy is the goal, consistency and form is the path there.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 06:59 PM
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thanks for the input yes my FSH and LSH were tested (in range) along with everything under the sun. My I was able to get my T levels to average 400 with lots of work to get it there, I dont know where they are now but I would say life isnt easier but I shy away from it less. I get that T isnt a magic bullet for my dick or anything else, but I appreciate you calling it out. "The whole process is so much more toxic and complicated that just injecting testosterone to treat the problem directly." pr…
/r/askMRP12/12/22 06:56 PM
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increase emotions and anxiety... dread reduce other flare ups that are not on my terms... making it easier to establish frame to fuck around and found out - try shit
/r/askMRP08/12/22 08:52 PM
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yeah I have not been on this page in a long long time..... is TRP just dead now? I never loved it but still there is value there
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 12:08 AM
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pretty hard to take anything seriously when pepe is featured on your site u/GayLubeOil
/r/TheRedPill06/12/22 10:11 PM
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"Self-help is a form of masturbation" isnt that what red pill is though..... making your life better yourself and using the side bar to do so?.... isnt that what your site is too?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/22 09:57 PM
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oh yeah... ppl or the retards here...... It isnt in my nature to be angry so I couldn't do it all the time.... maybe cold all the time but not angry no ill call out something dumb about the bathmat or dishes or her work lunches not something that matters and not something that would impact daily life.
/r/askMRP06/12/22 09:33 PM
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that redcorn fucker I hate him
/r/askMRP06/12/22 05:20 PM
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I think the issue was that I had trouble figuring out what to even pretend to get mad about (I dont get mad easily by nature so this is fairly foreign... all the more reason to give it a try)... but after some more thought I kinda got it, well see how it goes though. the A&A approach made alot of sense
/r/askMRP06/12/22 01:36 AM
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ilseeificngivitagofrnd
/r/askMRP06/12/22 01:34 AM
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yeah and then drop it
/r/askMRP05/12/22 11:28 PM
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I have had success with agree and amplify
/r/askMRP05/12/22 10:46 PM
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thanks I give it a read
/r/askMRP05/12/22 10:42 PM
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well I suppose im in luck then
/r/askMRP05/12/22 09:38 PM
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shit my zoom doesnt go that far though
/r/askMRP05/12/22 09:34 PM
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do I need to do an ID verifcation for that?
/r/askMRP05/12/22 09:26 PM
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