I have lower than I would like T. Not clinically low but low enough I have had ED my whole life (as in from first sexual encounter on) and in the last 4 years it has gotten worse along with lack of focus and discipline.

I been trying to raise my T for about 3 years naturally with some success but still have the symptoms (ED and lack of focus). For what it is worth my ED is not the worst you have heard of... with LOTS of effort I could get going and could get going with porn... fathered two kids BEFORE getting it addressed. Additionally, my SHBG is high which means what free T I have is taken up by SHBG resulting in little to no sex drive.

I have been on low dose Cialis for awhile and I am a high responder to it which is great. Made a HUGE HUGEHUGE difference in me and my marriage. Yes you do need to fuck your wife well from time to time.

Now I have started Clomid which I am testing before I do full on TRT, also have an appointment with an endo guy but they wont put me on TRT as im not below the range, but my natural path guy and former GP was big on it.

Going on clomid has been good and bad.

The first key "learning" really just made the fact that the situation with my wife im in is pretty much all on me. As I have been on it I am more direct, dominant, address issues when they come up etc etc. Doing so had made everything better, mainly me.

Doing so has had a big improvement on my sex life as well, the issue was always me... if I put the effort in to make sex happen my wife is pretty much always down.. so basically do fourplay (NOT FUCKING CHORE PLAY) and it is almost always party time.

So again I was always the problem.

Secondly, I really really really do need to up my T as in having this drug in my system I am able to take action on the things I know I should be but I didnt in the past... calling out and addressing bad behavior, shaking the lie that you have to be a cold unemotional stiff in order to be dominant (sometimes comfort is needed).

Clomid isnt perfect though. I have some fucking nuts side effects. First of my foot itched... sounds like nbd and it is and it isnt... it was an insane itch and I couldn't concentrate on anything. That passed in time which is nice. Secondly, muscle soreness- when I read that I think well man up bitch you have been sore before. This is different this is the kinda pain that you go to PT for, it is nuts just holding up a glass of water is painful - this has improved but isnt perfect. Depending on my blood work and these side effects Im almost certainly going to go on TRT injections.

If you are here you better pay some fucking attention to your T. Start by making sure you are lifting consistently... DONT FUCKING SKIP LEGS, drink 2x more water than you think, cut the booze and smoking, eat real meat and lots of it, and get your rest. These will raise your T, rising your T will help you get out of the nice guy bullshit and get you to advocate for what you want (what ever that is).

any other retards tried clomid?