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And executed it smartass. Just need to hold down an income stream next time.
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/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 11:01 PM
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Really. I’m surprised Projection. I keep telling you there’s a reason I understand your bullshit. But which to choose The human experience is finite. To choose one door is to close another. I guess I always thought I was immune to all that. Charging through one door after another. But 40 has a way of forcing you to reconcile it. Time for some psychedelics I think I have many practical notes on this if you’re for real.
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/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 04:13 PM
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Going 0-100 when the time is right instead of awkwardly interspersed throughout and losing momentum. This is the way. Absolute abundance. I simply went out for a few hours after work last night and came back with 3 solid numbers from hot women. How did this work specifically? I’m planning on being single again soon and want to stick to IRL approaches.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 10:05 AM
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Quite. Try breathing pause squats as a warmup, back off or main move. Google “Greg Nuckols breathing pause squats” for articles/videos.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 09:57 AM
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It ain’t the program, it’s the execution 🙂
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 04:26 AM
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There are some common, and sometimes opposed, “dreams” all of us carry about women. One is basically the female gay bro to drink, play vidya, watch sports, whatever-your-thing-is with and then suck your dick. I was dating my latest cool girl: tall, blonde, athletic, successful, confident, ultra high libido. The polar opposite of my ex… by some strange coincidence. Our first sleepover she said “I’m setting my alarm early, because what I really like is a quickie before work but if you just start f…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 04:15 AM
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It is.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 06:53 PM
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real man greatest resource Fuck no you’re not red pilled. This is like the actual definition of the blue pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 06:20 PM
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How old are you guys?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 05:49 PM
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having the skill to create attraction What are you top notes here?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 03:56 PM
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You are skipping something dude. Maybe it’s the food part. Just thinking aloud: I married the mousey, motherly introvert type. It was fine, not saying it was awful and I got her out of her shell sexually in the end. But, looking back, I had objectively better relationships with more extroverted, adventurous women that I had more in common with. It just always felt off something. I realise now that what I lacked then was the ability to polarise a woman like that. Having watched it play out now ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 03:07 PM
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He means you’re not squatting to any kind of depth.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 12:56 PM
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I’d say it seems like you’re losing a little love for princess peach now that she’s off her pedestal but it’s not my place so I won’t. Jim Wendler explaining in his own words his program rarely works for anyone: QUOTE One of the things that I..changed my mind on [is] “you only need to do the main lifts as part of your workout.” I didn't think this when I was a kid, and I didn't think this when I was powerlifting; it was only after…20 years of training that I could get away with…just doing the ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 06:52 AM
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Google “Athol Kay’s wife” and consider whether this is the right guy to learn Game from
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 02:50 PM
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Wraps are good to stave off tendinitis imo. I use elbow sleeves for the same reason and knee sleeves when I squat. The latter are pretty stiff so I get a little strength out of them too. Unless you squat super wide, you might want to look into weightlifting shoes too. They’re not cheap but they do last forever.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 01:27 PM
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RP is a praxeology, not a philosophy. Use the tools how you will. All this stuff about being a religious nut is ego defence. That’s why you sound like a passive aggressive tool.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 05:38 AM
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There’s an odd combination of projection and hamstering going on with your beliefs on sex. “Lasting longer” does not make it hot or good for the woman. pushback Shit testing too hard too fast Doubt
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 03:57 AM
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Nice, I actually had pro/staged pics to start off with but abandoned them at a certain point. Might try it again in combination with my other tweaks.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 03:24 AM
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I’m not dieting but checking today’s food now, I had: 50g whey shake 900g skyr 400g chicken (in fajitas) = 260g protein, plus the tagalongs from the other stuff in the fajita meal In your situation I’d eat nothing at all (google snake diet) or just shakes until I was under 300lbs but that’s me. I think six months is a crazy amount of time to diet and can’t imagine many people being successful with that approach. NB I’m fine with being hungry and Idc whether I enjoy a diet (or a workout tbh). Tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 08:01 PM
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Seeing the code in the matrix. Like it. All you have to do now is just stop trying to dodge the bullets all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 05:08 PM
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Any recommendations on teeth whitening? I used a UV home kit for a while. Definitely worked but was a lot of hassle and I’m not sure how great the accompanying paste was for the enamel.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 04:57 PM
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I think the idea PUA of having something more important than pussy has been co-opted into these corporate America style spiels that are kind of dumb tbh but I never had an issue with putting myself first. I worked through all my DEVI stuff with a practice girlfriend. The casual encounters since then have been rough and fun but not as emotive. OTOH I know IZ doesn’t have an issue. Maybe we’re just shy. got my online profile to click What did you go with here?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 04:41 PM
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If you Google “Greg nuckols breathing pause squats” you’ll find articles/videos on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 04:31 PM
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I’m not sure what’s worse: asking MRP what to do with your life or listening to a woman. Best not to do either. My knees were sore when I weighed 215lbs. I can’t imagine what kind of violent anal rape yours are experiencing. I’d consider dropping the weight and switching to something like paused front squats. Pausing and breathing in the hole will work your quads and core hard as well stretch out all your shit and improve your depth and ROM which, if your squat and deadlift are equal, is probabl…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 03:14 PM
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If deadlifting is your only grip development: you don’t have any. I use liquid chalk and straps. So does Eddie Hall and every big deadlifter ever. I pull slightly less with straps than with a mixed grip - I’m able to get my lats tighter that way and the bar sits way lower in my fingers - I mainly prefer not having any torque on my spine and sparing my hands a little so I can do more overall volume. I also train my grip and forearms directly. If you’re still pulling baby weights or on a minimalis…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 02:48 PM
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act like a bit of a jerk Find your asshole spirit animal. Mine is Archer. Bracing for the DL is a little tricky. Most people seem to do better with a different kind of brace from squatting. Specifically less air. Assuming you don’t use straps, although you should, try and take your breath up to, then just an extra sip of air if you need it before pulling. This is best done with your hips high: I’ll stick my butt up in the air to breath again mid set, then bring my shins back to the bar. Others a…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 01:08 PM
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measuring how much you want it You were doing surprisingly well but completely derailed here.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 11:26 AM
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All your relationship problems boil down to failing to recognise and pass shit tests. This is what happens when you’re too “Authentic” to learn about Game. If you get a hard no, stop, if you don’t: just fuck her.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 10:45 AM
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I’d be wary of mind reading girls: a lot of women will actively conceal their interest and vice versa. It’s not a helpful feedback loop imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 10:02 AM
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how do you do that in practice? A+A when a straight answer isn’t really needed. Change the music, take the last piece of food, ignore the story about her day I’m not that great at that, so I have my girl wait on me hand and foot Sex is helpful too. I think it probably is good to say no more even to fairly reasonable requests. Over correcting is just a very practical way to reset/recalibrate. should you actively attempt to provoke shit tests some do. I’d considered saying this last week but wante…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 09:45 AM
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it is to be expected I’m gonna suck a bit at first Says who? Reminds me of a funny appraisal I read: “sets low standards and consistently fails to achieve them”.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/23 07:09 AM
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You started off strong but then gave a waffling armchair diagnosis and that made me feel sad for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/23 06:59 AM
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What is projection?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/23 10:42 PM
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“Formal power” lmao. Blue pill belief in imposed hierarchy. HTWFAIP is worse than Goggins. You’re asking a C level exec who is very well known, and very well remunerated, within his vertical. Nothing I have ever posted conflicts with this. Again your projection and solipsism is on par with the average MRPer: rampantly out of control. STFU. Aloofness is a very attractive quality. In lovers and leaders. Ego control is very effective at home and in the workplace. I… don’t know how to say it more si…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/23 05:49 PM
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Goggins, Jesus Christ and the Punisher. The holy trinity of the blue pill. Mods pls ban this time wasting cuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/23 04:08 PM
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If you’re adding weight then it’s all good but if you’re constantly stalling and getting injured… might be time for a rethink. Run through things like High bar squats, front squats, leg presses till you find one you like, can consistently add weight to and aren’t getting injured
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 07:55 PM
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Here’s another awesome and pretty out there write up on lifting and diet that formed many of my years: https://www.reddit.com/r/leangains/s/Ojdc1OfTMh
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 06:21 PM
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Quality content is measured in downvotes. This has always been the case.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 04:10 PM
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Stronglifts is an awful program. As is the “Eat Less” diet plan. Read the r/fitness wiki. You don’t need to go to bars. I learned Game hanging out at an ice rink when I was 14. It is just flirting dude. You are meant to be one rung up the food chain. You aren’t going to make it until you get over this.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 03:35 PM
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Guys do this every week. It is not special. What I’m saying is: I do not care. I am unpacking my own thoughts. Nobody reading this cares. Your wife, colleagues and all the people you subject to your emoting IRL don’t care either. You are deluding yourself that people are listening to you. They aren’t. If you accept this thought, you will find yourself doing it less.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 02:56 PM
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Deadlift 85lbs Your lifts suck badly. I’ve been doing one handed “waiter walks” with an 80lb kettlebell recently. What are your goals? What is your training/diet plan? Game is not something I will ever learn in my current day to day life Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 09:38 AM
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Lmao. “4 plates” means per side dummy i.e. 8 plates total. Anyway back squats are gay. And at 6’1” I doubt you’re built well for them. Decompress it with dead hangs and reverse hypers but you might want to try Animal Pak Flex. I tried it in desperation and swear it started working the same day.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 05:22 AM
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Last wedding I went to the bride had her “best friend” make a speech. Which was basically him lamenting his perfect girl was marrying someone else. Pure savagery.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 05:11 AM
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Have you started to reflect on why comments roasting you are getting upvoted and your responses are getting downvoted? Cucks in a barrel. Attaboy u/2wo2wo3hree
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 03:24 AM
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Sure field reports from >5 years ago are fine
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/23 03:49 AM
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I don’t agree. With any of this. Sepean used RP basics to fix his marriage. Then went about his day. No wheel spinning. No endless words about finding his ego inside his frame that turned out to be his vulnerability this whole time. You can go way back. >5 years minimum. And find similar results but it’s a lot of work. will not be congruent with your own This is not worth a word, a breath or even a thought. Take this from someone who comes back once a year: everyone that thinks they’re a special…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/23 03:28 AM
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Yah I was at a bar with an American in it too last night. Super annoying.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/23 03:07 AM
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Maybe this is helpful: I am not reading any of your responses. Because I don’t care.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 09:18 PM
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Eh I wouldn’t read any others. There’s a limit to how helpful watching failure is.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 08:58 PM
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The big question seems to be - why am I so anxious? You are doing it again. Right now. Soothing the injury with thoughts of being special. You are not especially anxious. You have completely average tolerance for anxiety: low to none. That’s why your outcomes are so average.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 07:13 PM
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Exactly. There’s a role for this kind of thing. Nothing makes a woman’s day like a dozen roses sent to her office. I personally just enjoy making someone that happy. But they can only really appreciate it if they know it’s a whim from a guy who knows he doesn’t need to do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 04:56 PM
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This. By coincidence I gave my girl an oil massage the other day. First time. Her shoulder was sore from the gym and being an old man I sympathised. But, importantly, I went out of my way to violently face fuck her a few hours beforehand so she could relax and enjoy it for what it was. And honestly because I’d feel like a complete tool if it played out like this OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 04:42 PM
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The validation I get from this I misspoke. I meant actually being funny - like my comments. Self flagellation is just another form of narcissistic conceit. “I did this but I’m not really like that”. the other doesn’t It does. It quells anxiety. You eat, drink and talk excessively to do this. Then you yearn for the drive to do something meaningful. “Drive” is unresolved anxiety.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 04:13 PM
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Having anyone buy your clothes is just wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 10:43 PM
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I find it so strange that fans of objectivism and Jordan Peterson will turn around and argue that words mean whatever they feel they mean because Buddha liked rice or something. The definition of Oneitis runs long but it’s pretty crisp. Yes essentially it’s the idea that one woman is irreplaceable (or “wife material” as u/mrjames_dgaf would tell us) i.e. that your long term qualify of life would significantly decrease without that particular woman in situ. The “itis” is because it’s prevalent an…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 10:30 PM
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It’s nice to see you commenting. I noticed in your post history you’re one of the few with more posts as an OP than from the peanut gallery but it’s probably just what you need - it’s way easier to see your own bullshit when it appears in others.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 10:02 PM
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Neither of those are definitions.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 09:42 PM
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I recommend you read all u/sepean ‘s posts too - from oldest to newest. He flicked the switch too, worked through the many forms of shit testing and then distilled it all into nice theory posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 07:45 PM
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I’m not understanding the issue here. Love, commitment etc aren’t Oneitis. I fucking DOTE on my girl. Dates, flowers, songs at bedtime. We take a bottle of rose wine to the park and talk about our deepest, darkest shit. And yes, ngl, I have passed up pussy for her. One day it could be someone else on the park bench next to me. Or her. I know she knows that and I make no pretence otherwise. I think understanding that makes the whole thing sweeter.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 05:16 PM
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Don't really know how to improve yet Just STFU. The reason you struggle to is the same reason you can’t stop drinking or eating or whatever it was: you don’t like discomfort. Just do it, a little each week. STFU. Bite back one explanation. Skip one beer. Go to bed hungry. Be a little anxious your missing a text message. All neurosis is an escape from suffering.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 05:09 PM
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Humour is a very masculine quality imo. ego stroking and self-flagellation These are exactly the same thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 05:05 PM
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Well done. No notes. this was a little outside of my comfort zone Just give it time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 03:49 PM
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How you phrase things is important.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 11:50 AM
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How you phrase things is important.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 10:04 AM
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QUOTE If a bitch begins to respond to your Indifference Game by becoming depressed, distant, disinterested, or disrespectful, then it means you have carried your indifference too far when you should have been applying control. She can detect the disparity between your feigned indifference and the amount of time and emotion you've actually invested in her. She is interpreting your lack of control not as indifference, but as cowardice and a reluctance to lead her. Pay attention to the above-mentio…
/r/askMRP16/10/23 02:55 PM
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I have to laugh every time I see bullet points… for reasons… but yeah I think this is how u/razzmatazz32 often lists his own magic formula. I don’t want to get all woo-woo about this but personally I think it probably is more helpful to think of it as “just be” attractive. You can’t tell me you don’t know how to do it. I don’t believe that. Every guy in my high school knew what “being alpha” with girls was. Sometimes you just need to give yourself permission. It can also be very hard to stop ham…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/23 01:10 PM
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This was the comment I always thought I was a special snowflake that needed a tailored solution, like u/mrjames_dgaf still does, but this is how I was called out on it myself four years ago. “Petulant dictator” lol. Not very attractive. I did a post and had a few exchanges with u/alpha_wolflord9 on Control Game but having unpacked a lot and experimented with it, I’ve also experienced that women know exactly. And I mean to the minutiae. How to please you. It really is just about being their bigge…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/23 12:12 PM
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>Having a goal of “making your kid laugh” is dumb af in my opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/23 11:19 AM
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This is n=1 but I’ve had good results apologising. My apology game is so tight I had a girl talk about it 6 months later. I was sulking one night. Of course I still expected, and accepted, all forms of domestic and sexual servitude from her but she was visibly aware I was off my game. The next morning I walked up to her as she made coffee for us, gripped her firmly and said: “look… I was upset last night. And it had nothing to do with you. I…” she shushed me. And told me to say no more - she was…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/23 09:24 PM
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I've seen the line here, "a woman knows exactly how to please you." My experience has been nearly the exact opposite years into marriage. I’ve been on both sides of this and only really fully squared that circle when u/razzmatazz32 coined the “aloofness trap”. First, I had to become attractive, then shed the fear of rejection, which took six to eight months for me. Which explains this.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/23 09:13 PM
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Sorcererking wrote that four years ago. The mental model you need is: “you take the shot you got”. You are trying to figure out what you want in life? You literally wrote it out. If you want to wife up one slut over another, then you just fucking do it and mitigate the risks. But, while I very rarely parrot the line that lifting solves everything, you should take a hard look at the fact your lifts are the same as one year ago. Sounds like you’ve only just started fucking your girl too. This begs…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/23 01:25 PM
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What if I told you this: When you sit back and try to live your life like a spectator (or a petulant dictator) this is what you get. No one is going to run up to you and make your life interesting and fabulous. You're not special. No one loves you just because you're here. Either get in the game or stop complaining that no one will pass you the ball. You chose your circumstances; own them, even change them if you must. But above all else: CHOOSE, FFS. Would that resonate?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/23 07:27 AM
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/r/askMRP12/10/23 04:07 AM
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Missing the point due to ego defence which is exactly my point.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/23 03:41 AM
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you’re being a dick and I don’t want to deal with it This is fine. No problem. The goal isn’t to become a better punch bag. Always best timed before leaving and letting her hamster spin ofc.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 07:44 PM
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maybe someone has a different mental model that helped them If you guys didn’t get so hung up on how awesome (you think) I’m claiming I am now, you’d stop and wonder how it is that I can skewer your weaknesses so easily
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 05:54 PM
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Some people see covert contracts hiding in every shadow. Reciprocity is the foundation of human society. Boundaries and expectations (should) be the foundation of any relationship. I like romance. I do flowers, sweet gestures etc that is the standard I set. If it isn’t reciprocated, I don’t get butthurt but yeah my attention drifts to those who meet my expectations. In any case the answer is just be attractive, don’t be unattractive. Then people will earn your attention just fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 04:45 PM
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Feels are fine. Her pussy was probably soaking wet. Well. Until you dried it out apologising…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 04:34 PM
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As always: action is your friend. Go to a store, or order from an app, calorie dense foods. Stock up in advance and eat the same shit everyday.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 11:46 AM
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>it is haaaaaard to put on weight I took my weight from 125 to 215lbs and you can’t gain 1lb?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 11:08 AM
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Stop looking deeper and just do stuff. Focus on behaviour that boosts attraction: pass shit tests, be aloof, game other women, lose weight - by dieting not by “eating clean”.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 10:48 AM
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Caretaking is Nice Guy behaviour 101. One of many conceited beliefs in the hypo agency of others. And the wider narcissistic need for Perfect Love.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 06:31 AM
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Choreplay? Wtf.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 06:01 AM
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I’m sure it’s 60% protein in the Leangains book. Nevertheless, this is a diet/exercise regime with some balls. Good for you for going after it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 03:44 AM
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that would be awkward Lol you have ASD. This is some Madonna/whore thinking right here. I probably shouldn’t be telling you this (but then another MRPer did let me in on it): there is a Secret Society of men and women who enjoy sex. Escalation is the code. Everything else is kayfabe.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 03:35 AM
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Now THAT I wasn’t seeing This is the same story as when you had the cast. There’s a reason I chose being compared to a puppy as the subtle shit test in my recent post but for the avoidance of doubt being called “cute”, “nice”, “like a brother/therapist/best friend” are all shit tests. Of course you probably won’t get them at all if you demonstrate intent. As Cad said on Kino “if you’re not touching nipple within ten minutes, you’re not going fast enough”.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 03:25 AM
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I know it’s a never ending task of eating right mindfully This is some platinum plated fat people logicteehee right here. Count calories.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 03:16 AM
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Who is setting your goals? Are they based on what others are telling you, or what you actually want? You should have a goal to make your daughter laugh at least once everyday What is it like to have zero self awareness?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 08:21 PM
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It’s a good post. u/Inchargeman has also wrote about this at length. “My wife doesn’t x”. Women are constantly conducting a survey on their partner. Just know what you want and you’ll communicate it. They know exactly what to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 07:25 PM
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Don’t do ultimatums.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 06:30 PM
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What’s the actual fat plan? “Eating clean” is meaningless (Albeit it might have got you down from 400lbs). I live off gummy bears and alcohol and am lean.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 06:24 PM
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There’s something a little off with your mindset here but I’m not sure what it is. My girl did a bunch of pinch grip chin-ups on my mezzanine the night we met. I respected it so much I fucked the shit out of her all night. I admire her body. Kind of worship it in a way: I have her undress in front of me everyday. It’s a turn on for her. I don’t need to tear her down to build myself up. I think you might just need more faith in being attractive yourself. PUA isn’t complicated: women are meat robo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 06:19 PM
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Studies tell us most women’s desire is responsive, most of the time. RP tells us all women’s attraction is responsive all of the time. Whichever lens you use, does not mean that it is not genuine. Quite the opposite.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 06:04 PM
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athletic Wdym? Are the ones you’re fucking fatties? Just double down on everything that works with the others: Kino, asshole game etc. You need more not less.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 05:58 PM
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You are doing a better job of that this week but practice will make perfect.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 03:11 PM
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kind of half hearted Shit testing. This is why I said: don’t worry about her tone or whatever Watch what she does, not what she says: she hung around naked she kissed me quite a bit longer than usual She is falling in love again. That’s nice. She will get frightened and ask if you’re just using her for sex etc. all that good stuff. Stay the course. Keep not listening to her. As a wise man once said: everything is proceeding as I have foreseen it. Btw, tell her to ask for the dick when it’s in fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 01:39 PM
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Dumb, ineffective program revealed to be dumb and ineffective. Read the r/fitness wiki. It is a good resource.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 11:31 AM
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You already are. In general I think the two common issues seem to be: 1. A need to be desired, the way you desire and 2. An inability to accept the desire they get. How successful would you say you’ve been applying the Sex God Method? Idgaf about your wife: are you able to experience and express your emotions during sex?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 10:34 AM
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40/60 is pretty normal imo. If you want better, you’ll need to consider TRT/steroids. Seems like you’re considering leaving your marriage because you want Genuine DesireTM but divorce will not solve that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 09:28 AM
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we just talked Try more Kino next time. This dude was clearly dtf.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 09:19 AM
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Go to the Accessibility settings on your phone, change the side button shortcut (or non I phone equivalent) to “colour filter”. This lets you snap the phone to monochrome and your brain will immediately lose all interest in it. I’m all for self discipline but save it for where it counts.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 08:55 AM
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”Well, how long do we have to wait? Back of the class dude but it’s a good example that even not understanding something as basic as a shit test isn’t the end of the world if you at least pretend you’re hot. “This Naked Mind” is good for examining the underlying thought process behind your drinking. “Sipping Fear and Pissing confidence” has been recommended a few times too but I never got round to reading it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 08:53 AM
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5’9”
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 05:03 AM
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320kg shrug. 160kg zercher squat from dead stop on the pins. 120kg behind the neck push press. 120kg high pull. 10 x dragon flags. All @ 85kg bw.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 03:50 AM
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You suck dick by choice dude. Don’t forget to take it out and breath occasionally.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/23 03:14 PM
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People in this thread not realising they’re a cliche. You boys need to sit in a dark room and have a serious think about why people doing what you “totally-could-do-if-you-wanted-to-you-just-don’t-want-to” triggers you so much.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/23 10:30 AM
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I just see a bunch of guys getting triggered. FWIW I followed this social experiment very closely. Artistic is an understatement but it did not result in any anxiety ridden craziness. Cuddles are fun but not required.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 03:26 PM
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I think most comfort is really self serving. It’s better to channel it like this or you just end up hamstering how being a plowhorse is sexy. I agree with the OP but give out comfort in spades because I like doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 01:47 PM
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Real talk dude. Women don’t “settle down”. They just “settle”. There just aren’t enough alpha, dominant guys on the planet for every woman. Most of them probably never met one. There is no upside to comfort for a woman. It’s just all that’s left.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 12:48 PM
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Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 12:25 PM
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I get what you’re saying but I think this is just hamstering what you want to do (be beta) back into the Disney dream. Actual “alpha” traits cause anxiety in women. And that turns them on.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 11:17 AM
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Those are straps. You want these. I recommend you read the r/fitness wiki and recommended programs too.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 07:27 AM
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Damn man. You are a smart motherfucker. Obviously that’s always been the case but now you’re a smart motherfucker that has game.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 09:34 PM
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Lmfao. Incel outed.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 08:43 PM
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As sexual strategy goes, this attitude seems likely to produce poor outcomes. And then you say real men hate flirting and women and should spend their time cutting down trees. Ok. Do that then.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 04:48 PM
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Use wrist wraps to treat the symptoms but I’d guess the pain is caused by going ham on curls.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 02:10 PM
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Terrible idea but I get a sense there’s a lot already going on here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 12:44 PM
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Having a persona helps and is itself a very attractive quality. I find AM and comedically high levels of bravado come very easily to me, so I tend to push into the absurd but always with a smile. Context matters though: I am jacked and have a resting bitch face. So I probably get away with more clowning around than the average guy. Maybe not though. Humour and a DNGAF attitude are displays of social dominance. Anyhoo, if you flip it and imagine a spectrum with a genuine, offhand compliment on yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 10:50 AM
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Immersion is important. Have you read Sex God Method? I found identifying which of his archetypes I was most like and over correcting against it very effective.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 10:38 AM
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I’m seeing the Frame, or high level narrative, of a relationship and the concept of Mental Point of Origin being used interchangeably here. While counselling against controlling the Frame of an individual interaction. I don’t think anyone is ever above the tactics. And if their wife isn’t fucking their brains out, they demonstrably aren’t. Separately, I think you can overplay and hide in OI too long. It builds attraction early on in a relationship but thereafter it’s silly to pretend you’re not …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 09:40 AM
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If you like researching this stuff in the interim, I recommend starting here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 04:59 AM
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Shots fired 😑
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 04:20 AM
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Your own response is pure conjecture with no examples. This is classic Learned Helplessness. If sex is the problem: try it. If something else is the problem: do that then.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 04:18 AM
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just be yourself Ex military, DnD nerd spouts definition of blue pill. No surprises there. The rest is almost right though. Although ironically I find it a far more try hard way of expressing virtually the same sentiment.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 04:17 AM
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Who gives a fuck about the other pov? Are you the protagonist or not? Getting laid everyday and still can’t find a way to an enjoyable sex life? I dunno. I like it. I have an imagination. Guess i can’t help you there but it must be like 1% of problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 10:31 PM
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Nah man. You’re good. Also, women can’t “smell” anything. Yeah they’re likely a little better at sub communication. Until you spend a while doing this. Then you’re at least equal. They aren’t psychic. I see girls get it not only not right but dead wrong all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 09:30 PM
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Lmao. Troof.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 09:09 PM
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People don't really 'lose frame', or 'hold frame'. You either have frame or you don't. Eh. The quest for the cheat codes to a problem free life takes many forms.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 09:08 PM
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Take 50% of your max on the back squat. Go down into the hole. Breath in and out five times. Come up and rack it. Google “Greg Nuckols breathing pause squats” for more. Don’t overthink it or read articles on it. Work up in 10kg or 20kg plates until you fail. I pull 240kg. So I do 100kg for 2-3 reps. 140kg for 1 rep. 180kg for 1. 200kg for 1. 220-250kg for 1. Most people pull better stiffer. So less is more here. For shrugs, rack the bar above the knee (go higher, just shy of standing if you need…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 07:55 PM
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Try not to think of it as “getting” something. You make opportunities for shit many girls (most girls?) like. They don’t know it. Or the fear being laughed at. Or maybe it is all about cavemen. Doesn’t matter: they test you. But you hold the Frame and if they want to play along they will. If they don’t, you’re OI (little easier for me in this example as for sure I do actually do that one for the girls - doesn’t do much for me other than proving to myself it works).
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 05:43 PM
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Either this is next level projection or bargain basement trolling.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 04:36 PM
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women who enjoy sex, need therapy I don’t know who I feel worse for: guys like you or your girlfriends your probably so alpha just wrong. That’s my point. she complains about you to her guy friends Women in love bragsplain to their orbiters for sure but id guess it’d be the romance to guys and asshole stuff to girlfriends. You’d know better. Keep rocking that fedora bb.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 06:25 AM
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Living the life. Well done on girl 2. I briefly dated a model that would set up awesome dates ending in blue balls then lure me out for another one. If I’d just fucking whipped my dick out on the second meet, we’d be married by now.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 08:08 PM
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All women have narcissistic personalities. All women want to be fucked hard by someone better than them. This is all red pill 101. why would one like to do it with wife? First time in my life I’ve been left speechless I think.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 06:32 PM
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If you want to drop the SL lifts and do this for everything: Day 1 same Day 2 Front squats 8x5 Breathing pause squats 6 sets of 5 deep breaths at the bottom of the hole with the bar on your back. Start at 50% of your 1RM. Go up every time you get to 5 breaths and can stand. Deadlift work up to 1RM Hamstring curls or Nordic curls 5x10 Calve raises 2x50 Day 3 Pendlay row 6x3 Shrugs 5x8. 125% of your DL max MINIMUM - use straps, chalk and of course: maximum effort DB row 5x5 DB hammer curls 6x6 (on…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 03:39 PM
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Exotic looking guy at 186cm you should slay. One thing I’d point out is that it is Frame, Game and Looks in that order. I know hot girls that have fucked guys of every race, shape and size because they’ve learned the “masculine” ones they’re actually attracted to (I.e. the ones with Frame and Game) come in all forms. That being said looks matter and set the stage to an extent. My look isn’t going to work for you but imo the most bad ass looking Asian guys, actors, bb’ers, models, influencers etc…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 01:50 PM
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What is this mysterious “demographic” you speak of?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 01:29 PM
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I know a MRPer that’s been going over to the girls’ places for a year while living with his ex. He spins three plates like that. Yes it is a limiting belief. Interestingly he does a funny bio but I’m of a view it’s all about pictures and the bio can only hurt you. Same with 3+ pictures. The girl will see something she doesn’t like. I’d stick with a one liner. All the apps have slightly different user bases. I get most matches on Feeld, then Tinder, then Bumble, then Hinge. I think it’s telling y…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 01:24 PM
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Yeah I just use the app to set the first date. Is there a reason you’re not using Tinder? Trying to get wifed up already? The dates sound a little try-hard tbh. No fucking way I do anything more than 30min and a coffee for a first Meetup by day. I do a few drinks at night but fully expect to f close. I’ve probably filtered out a few doing it this way but OTOH anytime I’ve went outside that, it hasn’t worked. Your look sounds a little… “boy next door” to me. I’m a pussy cat IRL but I have a hyper…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 01:05 PM
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I weigh 190lbs at 5’9” and totalling 700lbs more than you. So more like 24% for sure. Plenty of fat to lose. Big health benefits to unlock. All my family had high cholesterol too. Meds. Stents. The whole thing. But they were also all skinny fat, smokers. I stopped being those and that must have fixed my genes somehow. I tied and failed to quit smoking several times until one day I stopped and slept for like 12 hours the next day. That seemed to help somehow.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 12:50 PM
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Not so fast. What does “dress well” mean? Specifically. What do you wear on dates? I think insta dates make more sense too but I’m a tinderella. If I had more time I’d do Meet-ups again as that was best of both worlds. For OLD should be 2-3 photos. No more. I do a one line bio but you could A/B test a longer one. I’m average height and with a potato head and I still get matches like that. Keep texts to logistics. Couple of messages, then line up a date on Tinder. Straight to logistics for an n c…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 12:15 PM
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Well done on just fucking your wife. Doesn’t have to be harder than that. I went through a phase of randomly groping my girlfriend and making zombie type groans while dry humping her. While she acted annoyed, or at least unresponsive, she once admitted that me “acting like a caveman” turned her on. I replied “I’m not a cavemen. I’m an old guy. A dirty old homeless guy”. This turned her on even more. Literally any form sexual contact arouses women when you DGAF. Shit testing is a sign of this. Se…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 12:02 PM
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Canned meat slightly but even then, it’s more that I don’t like the taste. I rotate these things periodically, so really don’t believe it’s an issue. My blood work is always good. The benefits to having high LBM, low bf and good cardiovascular fitness are astronomically higher for general health than fretting over micros.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 09:56 AM
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I’m not understanding how you can be out gaming and on apps “for weeks” and not fucking. What is your style like? How do you dress? Do you Kino? Go for closes? What is really going on here?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 08:39 AM
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Your wife’s bitchiness and your mediocre sex life are linked. You are not fucking her hard enough nor in sufficiently demeaning ways.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 08:29 AM
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There’s no major failure here. You had a boundary and she filtered herself out. Red pill isn’t magic. It gets girls, not “a” girl. Use it to get another.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 08:19 AM
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Protein is easy. No problem. Just spend some one off, quality time in the supermarket looking at the nutritional labels. I look for about 10g protein/100g. Find things like Skyr, quark, cottage cheese, sandwich meat, protein puddings, beef jerky. Canned sardines, canned goulash meat. If I need some radical new idea, I’ll go in the vegetarian section - there’s a lot of good tasting options there these days and usually you don’t even have to cook them. 2-3 packs of something like those a day and a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 08:17 AM
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Your TDEE is the change in bodyweight vs what you eat. Use a reactive TDEE spreadsheet.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 07:55 AM
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A quick skim I can’t see anything about how terrified you are of your wife’s emotions or incredulous you are at the stories people tell on MRP about laughing at women. But you don’t have to be Freud to see this is a pretty odd way of introducing yourself: I’m a recovering 21 year old virgin I think your problem might be you think this is some kind of root cause. The smoking gun that if you could rid of, you’d be in the clear. It isn’t. Look around MRP. There are guys with massive body counts tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 10:01 PM
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Your diet and fitness section is amazing. I need to go easier on the 5x5 marks. Read the r/fitness wiki.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 09:23 PM
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You ramble and DEER a lot. It might be high estrogen from the fat but have you read WISNIFG? Guess that should be the goal Putting it on a pedestal will keep it permanently out of reach. Just do it today. Shit tests come from an increase in attraction or anxiety. This both hot and out of character, so you should anticipate one here and prep accordingly. Hold Frame and she’ll do it. If you pussy out and eject, just laugh at her and let her hamster spin over it. I’m not joking btw: this is the sin…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 08:05 PM
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IR 7
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 06:20 PM
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Banging for roof.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 04:45 PM
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I’m homeless, unemployed and don’t do any chores. My girl takes care of all that and chokes on my dick everyday. The reason “sprinkling alpha” doesn’t work is because this sub is full of white knights who have no clue what it actually means.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 04:16 PM
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If you can feel bone anywhere on your body, you should eat the fucking chair you’re sitting in.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 03:05 PM
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So to get your bench up to 225lbs in 12 weeks (Yes 225lbs). You’re going to want to do a few things: Bench at a higher intensity to get used to heavier weight. Buy some wrist wraps and learn how to use them. Do some assistance work: direct arm work, upper chest work, maybe lats and traps (but I have to say these never worked for me). Dial in your technique. Gain some body weight. Any plan that includes those will work but I realise non-meme programs are scary. Don’t worry baby bird. I’ll feed yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 11:30 AM
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I meant when she’s talking about her day or whatever. I know a MRPer who “gives her three sentences”. I’m a little more lenient because honestly I think it’s cute but yeah just tell her to stop talking. Sometimes I’ll unzip and tell her to finish her story after sucking my dick. But anyway “verbal intercourse is optional” as we say. I’m not understanding why you can’t make the dinners for everyone else and then have a shake. Or take all the carbs out of yours but whatever. If I woke up fat, I’d …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 10:58 AM
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I got you bro: hanging like that was exactly what led up to me blowing out my lumbar. I love dead hangs. Do them every week. And they’ve kept my blown C disk pain free. BUT if you get low back pain like that: you’re letting your core loosen and your pelvis is tipping back, pulled in by tighter lower back muscles, and compressing your L disks. Keep doing the hangs but have a little tension in your butt and abs. Then everything will decompress evenly. Back extensions aren’t great for this but reve…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 10:47 AM
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I see you make all these comments and imagine this is you in real life.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 09:53 AM
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Generally I’ve found what works is to try 3-5 different stretches/exercises a day and by day 10 you’ll stumble onto a fix. After trying a ton of things, this instantly fixed my golfer’s elbow. You could probably get the same effect twisting a rolled up towel. family dinners People always say this… family time, example to the kids etc (I see the latter somewhat differently) Not sure if this is just habit, WISNIFG or an excuse but: A) it’s 1-2 weeks and B) you are never going to get and stay jacke…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 09:49 AM
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I just commented a link on resetting your hips. But honestly what’s easiest is to sit down, bend over a little, take your right arm, make a fist, put the elbow against inside of right thigh - up near the knee, wherever it’ll plant solid and give you some leverage - fist against left thigh. Squeeze knees together against the “bar” your forearm is making. After a few seconds of ramping up the pressure, you should be rewarded with a distinct “pop” and the absence of pain. I had crippling lower back…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 09:35 AM
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The only weakness you have is extreme scarcity. You should be fucking someone else already.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 08:56 AM
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You can fix any type of ache with google. Fat with a PSMF. Listening to your wife by not doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 08:53 AM
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Great. Interested to hear how it goes. I missed off my list: simple commands are a great way to start. Crawl here. Lie here. Wrap your legs around me. Easier than saying totally abstract stuff. As I said, physical dominance came easy to me but maybe that’s worth a note for exactly that reason. Hair pulling, choking, spanking are obvious but couple of odder ones that can be hot: Stick your fingers in her mouth. You can start off putting the thumb at her mouth. Maybe when she’s on top. Get her to …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 06:46 AM
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Dirty talk is something I enjoy now. And that is one thing I never thought I’d say. I was always rough, dominant and totally silent. I’d even watched porn with the sound off because it turned me off. I think he calls this the “sex robot” in SGM. I can promise the enjoyment will come with practice. Enjoyment requires competence, competence requires practice but practice is not always enjoyable. Few things you can try: Grunting and heavy breathing during sex. Line your mouth up directly with her e…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/23 02:58 PM
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I read your OYS but didn’t give feedback because it’s a meaningless pile of garbage. Same as all your DEERing replies. You will never develop Frame as long as you continue to be so easily wounded On combing through it, I see one mention of a fact: you can’t fuck. Question: do you talk dirty to her? All this requires is a “yes” or “no” btw. Try not spewing a word salad at me and you might learn two things.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/23 11:56 AM
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Don’t get too invested in time wasters. I do one and then move on to another the following week.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/23 11:48 AM
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Get your T and sleep checked. Are you fat? Do you have sleep apnea? From your stats it looks like you’re skinny fat. And possibly vegetarian. Shoot your self full of T and eat some steak.
/r/askMRP02/10/23 09:53 AM
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actually try This is it though. I think the PM therapy helps you work through the cognitive dissonance that comes from actually acting differently and experiencing that it works but then… probably wanting to go back to your natural inclinations anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/23 12:42 PM
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some way of monitoring progress with lifting. It’s customary to add up the weight on each side.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/23 03:25 AM
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being alpha means authentic belief in yourself No dude. Just no. This is like opening the window for one of those tiny flies and watching it continuously not go out of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 10:13 PM
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What you’re describing isn’t red pill. It’s basic adulting. The banal “self improvement” for the masses aka building a better beta that every blue piller spends their life stuck in The people who come here each week to spam OYS with their latest habit, their thoughts about one day working out, their realisation that “I’ve been afraid my whole life” and other tedious insights into their revoltingly average lives should all be tracked down and perma-banned on sight imo but I am not a mod so I just…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 02:49 PM
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let’s agree that we disagree This isn’t a thing. One of us is correct and one of us is incorrect. That’s how reality works. People with more relevant experience that led them to successful outcomes are more likely to be correct. Furthermore some people’s experience has yielded such poor outcomes as to remove all credibility completely. For example: I deadlift 240kg at 85kg bw and bench 140kg and you do not. Given that you can’t, you are simply unable to fully appreciate the depths to which I fin…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 12:06 PM
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I disagree. I think creating unrelated goals that would require different approaches, and expecting to have any success, is the definition of foolish. You are what you do. Case in point, you “swallowed the red pill” in 2015 but because that is in reality a meaningless statement you are still skinny-fat 8 years later.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 10:59 AM
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Are you to learn sexual strategy or soccer?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 10:21 AM
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tell me something I don’t know. Every high level soccer player lifts weights. That is how they build speed.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 09:12 AM
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There was a poster - who I miss - who really highlighted what is actually important in all the noise of this. He was a SAHD, no job, no "mission", was working out but still looked like shit, dead bedroom, wife had ILYBINILWY him but he didn't let any of that hold him back. He gave his wife a safe word and just started fucking her. He fucked her whenever and wherever he felt like it. Hard. Rough. He slapped her. Called her a whore. He came on her face, in her hair. He said he did things that woul…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 08:48 AM
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Yes. See other comment. Its lonely at the top.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 08:32 AM
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She doesn't do well with the degrading dirty talk. Slut is a no, haven't tried whore but I think if slut was a no... Shit testing aka the outward manifestation of tingles. This will happen everytime you find a boundary worth pushing. Finding them and pushing through is the process by which you will make her your prison bitch. There are things my gf "doesn't do well with" but the body doesn't lie. Watch what she does, not what she says. Start small, pass the tests, build some confidence. Once you…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 08:29 AM
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Do you know her fantasies? I do. She wants to be tied up and all that good stuff etc but she wants to be pushed to that ASD causing anxiety and beyond. However they manifest in her. “No” is real but everything else is kayfabe.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 12:22 AM
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I have a lot to say on this subject. What triggers her? What is her comfort zone?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/23 12:13 AM
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dressing like a clown LPT: ease into these things. You can get those half masks for dirt bikes with a clown face with fucked up teeth.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 07:57 PM
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Thats exactly my point: what you agree with or don’t agree with, doesn’t change the universe.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 06:13 PM
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Good for you dude. Let’s take the easy one first: the experience thing. I was in a relationship for 15 years. She was a virgin, I was not - by a thin margin. The mousiest, most introverted library assistant I could meet now has more bodies on her. My next gf used to talk quite brazenly about her sexual experiences. And, as a frequenter of subs like this, I was super curious. Then we slid into a relationship. She started qualifying these tales. I started getting butthurt by them. Madonna/whore is…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 04:14 PM
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You are what you do. Not what you think. Confidence isn’t something you have. It’s something you do. deal with my insecurity If you’re not doing any of the things an insecure person would do, then it’s dealt with. Then you can just pat yourself on the back anytime you “feel” insecure because you’re not.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 02:50 PM
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it’s likely that I’m not getting her best Of course this totally isn’t an issue. You’re clearly well past that but if it was, just in theory let’s say, it is a totally solvable problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 01:31 PM
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SL is an awful program that I’d never recommend to anyone. I train around herniated disks and was able to overcome sciatica (and the upper back equivalent) with Google. Have you been to a doctor or physio? I can’t believe they told you not to exercise. The worst ones out there would have you doing something everyday.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 09:13 AM
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north face and Patagonia Don’t know what the hair situation is like - and please don’t tell me (I can only take so much basic) - but if you self identify as something like a metal guy, look at how metal guys dress. Not their fans.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 04:00 AM
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Read literally any biography of any of the coolest people you ever heard of and have your skull blown wide open
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/23 03:46 AM
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My situation may be slightly different from others on TRP Goes on to define the marriage bait and switch under my confident persona I am insecure Under my shoes, I have feet Under my calculator, I can’t math Under my car, I have to walk Under my spoon, I eat soup with a fork Under my money, I am poor We say shit tests are flirting but apparently you can get gas lighted into a full existential crisis.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 09:57 PM
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This routine is kind of like what I see in my periphery vision at the gym but I still don’t understand it. How can someone teach middle age and not understand something like how to use a lat pull down machine? And then they put on their street clothes and walk among us? Horrifying.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 08:29 PM
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Preparing yourself for a raw beginners program that advocates squatting with an empty barbell. The de-evolution of the human race continues.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 08:26 PM
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you sure talk a lot One day, this will never not be the case. Lmfao. See comedy like this is why I keep coming back.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 08:22 PM
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If it’s capitalised, it must be true.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 08:21 PM
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I’d caution you that I’ve never seen anyone here have success with these kind of mental gymnastics If you’re hungry, is food external validation? When did becoming a swami become the end game here? Sounds like one of the infinite variations of attempting to live a problem free life to me. Human interactions can be tricky. Someone should invent a place to exchange notes on strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 08:16 PM
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Like the theme of my overall post Take your word for it. I never read them.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 06:52 PM
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Not bad advice in general but I find it unconvincing when directed at a 46 y.o. noob.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 06:50 PM
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Based.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 03:15 PM
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>You either are something or you’re not
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 12:37 PM
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This is what “ego lifting” actually is but at least you have some self awareness. Good for you. My advice is to pick 1-2 short term goals for the weight room. Say a 12 week time frame. Can be either aesthetics or strength. They are strongly correlated. When you do that, one of the many efficient paths should reveal itself. Then it’s just a matter of picking what’s fun but at 46… efficiency is going to be key. But if you want to earn your man card from MRP, Medhi-from-Stronglifts or Pavel for jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 12:25 PM
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I don’t imagine switching to machines Why? but why do you say this? What is your goal?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 12:03 PM
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Lifting In your situation, I think you’d be better doing a machine based, PPL routine. Squat afterwards if you must. Learning goblet squats, then front squats then back squats is a good way to drill the movement pattern.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 11:57 AM
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Due to injuries Not your fault dude but it is pretty exhausting reading 5-10 versions of this every single week. Nobody makes progress without training Year round for several years and nobody trains year round for several years without getting hurt. Use machines, cables, dumbbells, bands or literally anything that doesn’t hurt. Best case you’ll build some muscle but at the very least you can preserve range of motion and flush the area with blood, which is the process by which the body heals. I w…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 11:07 AM
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some tense energy This is projection dummy. You are a socially anxious nerd and nobody else gives a fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 10:49 AM
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Neediness/lack of origin were not part of my many flaws but I remember feeling like that all the time, up until my late teens. Then I went backpacking for three months alone. As far I can remember, the whole trip I was just lonely and bored af but the second I stepped off the plane on the return I was a totally different person. Not saying anyone needs to head off to Tibet but I think the cure is just immersing yourself in your own company through some pursuit and generally forcing yourself to b…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 10:48 AM
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There’s been a few like this recently. Indistinguishable from r/relationship_advice I’m not sure how or WHY anyone who believes this stuff would come here
/r/askMRP25/09/23 05:07 PM
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What, specifically, did you learn from it? And what actions sprang from this newfound knowledge?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/23 03:53 PM
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I dunno what mystery you think there is to unpack here. Do you think aliens built the pyramids too?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/23 10:38 AM
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Now reread all your responses this week and see what, if any, engagement you made purposefully. This is why nobody fucking cares about whatever pantomime you put on for your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/23 10:01 AM
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Pensions can be valued as-is and transferred without cashing out. That can be advantageous. I’d rather have 100k cash now and transfer >100k in a pension. As could leveraging who gets to stay in the marital home. The inevitable asymmetry of perceived values is the basis of any negotiation. Honestly though, if you’re going into a marriage thinking like this: it isn’t going to work.
/r/askMRP22/09/23 05:38 PM
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I used all the options listed, within the legal framework of my jurisdiction. The divorce will be very cheap (for me). You just need to understand the jurisdiction you get married in (assuming you’d likely divorce there). Whether: premarital property is separate - the majority of the world splits the growth in property, not the grand total, irrespective of pre-nups; prenups are binding. In mine they’re iron clad and irrefutable; whether all growth is considered mutual. In some cases eg making mi…
/r/askMRP22/09/23 10:11 AM
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You are putting MRP on a pedestal because if you can’t be perfect, then you need MRP to be. Guarantee you’re missing 80% of what would actually help through this kind of unhealthy narcissism. I recommend you read NMMNG and work through the exercises, as well as reread the opening sections of WISNIFG - the premise, bill of rights etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 09:27 AM
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But she says she doesn’t like it when I’m too alpha?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 08:53 AM
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Arguing requires a counterpoint. Ironically this is the only one you’ve presented so far Your problem is none of these are “back-and-forths”. They’re circles. If you want to understand the difference between an actual dialogue and self soothing your ego, look at the difference between your two responses here. One serves no other purpose than a feeble attempt to preserve your ego to a random internet stranger. Do you think that’s what frame is? Since this is a teachable moment for the class: the …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 08:13 AM
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Jfc reading the Hamsters Guide to Wheel Spinning. Awful recommendation. For both of you. “What feels good” = “deeply blue pilled” for you two right now. before I had MRP basics anywhere in place The basics are all there is. Your problem is you don’t have any of them in place.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 08:04 AM
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how do you do that without DEERing Scarcity mentally. Oneitis. I'm just not 10/10 enthusiastic about this chick. I can tell because she's really lowering the effort threshold and I'm still not enticed. I think there will be more, and one of them will be better, and I'll re-evaluate my decision at that time. Weak sauce lifts. True. Been doing only compound lifts for a week. Low back is sore but not broken. You are the one who pushed me to challenge my back, and it's been good so far. DEERing I do…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 07:59 AM
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A fucked up back is part of the natural aging process. The average spine has significant degradation, including herniated disks, above the age of 26 (IIRC). My lower back could stop a small calibre bullet, and I only train it with deadlift variations and front squats, but what I’ve found more important for back health is traction. Particularly moving traction. I regularly decompress my spine with dead hangs/hanging leg raises done from a chin up bar. Reverse hypers are also a good option - I do …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 12:27 PM
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Seems like you might have the method of dieting backwards. Weigh yourself everyday, under the same conditions eg after you piss in the morning, put it in an excel sheet. Compare the average of week 1 to the average of week 3 (and so on). Divide the difference by 2, to get your average weight gained/lost per week, as measured over 2 weeks. 1lb of fat = 3,500kcals Add or subtract multiples of that amount to gain/lose weight as desired. This is how you diet based off your “true” TDEE. There are lot…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 06:54 AM
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Scarcity mentally. Oneitis. Weak sauce lifts. DEERing. If you think this is progress then I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 04:56 AM
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It’s whatever. I’ve lived in ten countries and rarely spoke fluently. I can say you’d likely make more teaching ESL - or English at a private school - than being a paramedic in South America. But finding a way to teach medical care in English would be smart.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 09:37 PM
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Eh prove it. I’ll wait.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 09:35 PM
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Having a crush on a post-wall grifter who wants to sell you something isn’t the same as having a plate.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 02:39 PM
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On the extra kid I said “we are not having another kid.” + “because I don’t want to”. Did the job. PSA: no one posting in this place should be running around firing live rounds.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 01:51 PM
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Don’t put authenticity on a pedestal. Be John Hamm.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/23 05:48 PM
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There isn’t a single fact in this word salad that I can rationally respond to.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/23 09:03 PM
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You’ve said before she is a sperg that you tread on eggshells around due to her eating disorders etc. you are a textbook captain save a hoe.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/23 07:11 PM
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U/sorcererking had a good analogy years ago that goals are across the sea but the swell will often obscure the path between peaks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/23 03:41 PM
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Probably why there’s like three guys in this sub that look like they lift. Read the r/fitness wiki or lurk on r/weightroom
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/23 01:08 PM
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This is just WISNIFG. You won’t “get caught”. Why would you? Just STFU. If she somehow gets sent a dossier full of secret camera photos just say “what did you expect to happen?”. What will she do? Why are afraid of having any power over your own life? But anyway: your lifting is diabolical. Shows how much more important approaching and escalating actually is. 150g+ protein Smh.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/23 10:20 AM
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building back from deload Lmfao. You and everyone else. You can’t get strong like this. Eat something and do a real program.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/23 10:12 AM
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Total hogwash. Its a marathon not a sprint This is a tragic recipe for mediocrity. Weight loss, lifting and life in general is not a marathon. It’s a series of sprints. Going as fast and hard as you can, for as long as you can, is the only way to break homeostasis. Anyway there are literally millions of people training their balls off this second. The fact is that your hardest day will always be someone else’s rest day.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/23 09:10 AM
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HIT Method Read the r/fitness wiki and use an actual program
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/23 10:08 AM
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It’s more obvious seeing someone else write it that you should soft next number 3 even more decisively than the other two. I fall a little more in the middle on physique: if I lose 3kg these days, people on the street freak out. It does influence men and women and it does cover a multitude of sins. I’m 88kg, >1,300lb total at 5’9”. So I’d be way more focused on adding mass in your situation. All that being said, if you’re already hot enough to meet, 3KL is right: it wont make a difference in clo…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/23 04:29 AM
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I’m not a fan of making new definitions for things but I think it amounts to the same thing. I.e. if you stick to pursuing what you want, over time, then anything else becomes interesting, amusing or irrelevant. Focusing on the practice helped me to unearth and refine my views on a lot of subjects and scenarios which again amounts to the same idea of WMP/Stone having a clear “elevator pitch” of who you are and what you stand for. I’ve always found self disclosure and realism - “vulnerability” as…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/23 04:11 AM
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How did this manifest for you Usually I had built up some “rules” like not call a certain contact or not spend a certain amount of money on a project or not do any travelling related to it or a deal had to be a certain size or it must be done by a certain date. Then I’d realise the whole thing was be way easier if I just did that one thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/23 04:00 AM
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Trying to be the ideal man, who “Has his shit on lockdown 24x7”. Lmfao. Literal definition of the “Nice Guy”. And now you DEER…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/23 03:19 PM
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Good work on the job Rule 9 This is super passive aggressive tho. Groce. Work on frame Yah. Good idea. Like I said to another poster: eliminate “what is not Frame”. It can be easier sometimes.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/23 03:15 PM
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Jesus. If a hot girl meets you by her place she is not interested in your divorce. She went out to suck a dick but then shit tested some creepy nervous dude who fell apart. You ruined this poor slut’s evening you know. This was When-Go-Back-On-The-Market-I-Feel-Guilty but it would have been something else if not. Learn to STFU. Do not blast sand into a girls vagina. Let them earn some information. I can’t remember fucking a new girl who knew my surname much less about my ex, kids etc. Get on Tin…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/23 01:55 PM
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I’ve done 3x1 Year stints of unemployment/no revenue in the last 15 years. Each one basically led to doubling my income but - obviously - tough times when you’re in it. Those 36 months were full of networking, trying to put together projects, reading, writing, interviews, giving and getting free advice. Lots of “Fake work” in other words. When you’re doing a lot of Fake Work, either rest or play is going to suffer. One piece of advice Johnnyapocalypse gave me is that I do Fake Work very hard and…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/23 11:17 AM
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This, I gave my ex a ride to the airport when I kicked her out.
/r/askMRP12/09/23 04:28 AM
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Maybe act like it sometime then.
/r/askMRP09/09/23 10:58 PM
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dug this one out for you
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/23 04:13 PM
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Owning your shit has nothing to do with alpha/beta. “Disciplined”, “productive”, “motivated” etc are just descriptors of behaviours. You are what you do. Just do stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/23 02:57 PM
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This is you dude.
/r/askMRP09/09/23 12:25 PM
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You don’t get to make comments about her then claim you’re totally not focused on her.
/r/askMRP09/09/23 08:14 AM
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I recommend you either journal or talk out with a bro what the worst case scenario is here and make peace with it. That being said, I highly doubt your wife will divorce you because you said no to her one time. Seems like everyday now half a dozen people tell you that what she does, doesn’t matter. Thoughts follow actions, not the other way about. You don’t get to make posts about her and then claim you’re totally not focused on her
/r/askMRP09/09/23 06:01 AM
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wife material What actually is this though? If it’s an attractive, educated, submissive virgin from a nice family, I can confirm it makes zero fucking guarantee.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 05:22 PM
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I’m not a fan of Rip’s advice on squatting. This fixed it for me years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 04:08 AM
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A side effect of OYS was I became a much more concise writer - and speaker IRL.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 04:06 AM
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I’ve went from 210lbs to 180lbs in 30 days before. Losing 3lbs a week now and I’m lean af. I use a method I call the “Suicide Cut”. This is because it: a) makes you want to kill yourself and b) makes you feel like you are killing yourself But it’s essentially a protein-sparing-modified-fast in the same vein as the Velocity, Snake, Apex Predator diets. Take a protein goal. You’re a pretty big boy so I’d go 250g. Pick some protein rich, low fat, low carb foods e.g. shakes, cottage cheese, skyr, qu…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 04:02 AM
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Unintentionally hilarious.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 03:40 AM
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The solution according to who? I think you didn't read the part where I'm asking how to better handle it. It’s a good question though. If you want to walk off, just do it. Checking if that’s MRP sanctioned response is just calibrating against your wife with an extra step.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 03:35 AM
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The ol’ double tap.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 03:31 AM
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my wife gets pissed and cops an attitude This is the shit test. It comes after you talk back.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 08:40 PM
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“Addictive behaviours” lol. I’ll make the bold claim that I am more of an addict than anyone else in this sub. I call them “behaviours”. Don’t give it so much power. Pick and choose what you do and when.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 08:34 PM
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You handled the life plan shit test (and the sex talk one too) very well. Well done. Always nice to give one or two opportunities to get onboard before nuking it. You are meant to be out having fun after all.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 01:25 PM
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Joking aside, you should enjoy the ego fluffing. You earned it. But other than that, try not to put too much stock into it. Try ignore it the same way you ignore the rest of what she says and keep focused on yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 01:18 PM
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The “movie”, “glass of wine” etc is as much plausible deniability as you need. Yeah. It probably won’t always work but if they want a second date they’ll do it. If they don’t, they’d probably flake anyway. Don’t forget the average girl on OLD is going to have a body count double yours. I’m testing Feeld right now. Seems good. Lot of kink leaning girls but plenty just wanting FWB. This post is accurate ime. I just do the first meet at a bar for me to check they’re not a catfish.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 12:35 PM
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you’re big 174lbs She sounds sweet.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 11:19 AM
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I’m monagamish so I don’t bother unless the fish is jumping in the boat. That being said, the hottest girl I’ve met travelled one hour to meet. Fuck knows what was going on there. I can’t imagine travelling 30min for pussy but in this case I’d do a coffee/walk during the day (so as not to waste an evening), then next date would be straight to mine or theirs for a movie.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 11:15 AM
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I’ve had decent success with the secret code” “meet me at this bar, because it’s close to my place”. Check them out, invite back to mine and 0-100 there. One thing I’d say with OLD is start light Kino early on - unless you got catfished lol - otherwise by the time you decide you’re into it, it’ll be too late to start.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 09:54 AM
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Reporting from the front lines: as I swipe through tinder today, 33% ish of the profiles say things like “no fuck bois”, “no one night stands”, “here for something serious”. Which of course means “every time I’ve been attracted to someone on this app so far, they’ve pumped and dumped me”.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/23 07:03 AM
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Just for perspective, my gf sent me her first nude between our first and second dates. Full glamour style photo shoots within weeks and, frankly obscene, videos in a few months. That’s wife material. If you’re thinking of wifing up one that won’t even show a nipple while dating, then I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/23 01:21 PM
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current LTR is excellent wife material This is just Oneitis dude. They are all excellent wife material for the right man starting over is always easier you will never pull higher quality than in your mid-late thirties and Once again, with your stats, you are way below your potential. Self defeating writing? Not sure exactly which bits of my writing you are referring to. Probably all of it. I also see very little happiness, humour, optimism or ambition in your writing, lifting, flirting, long ter…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/23 01:13 PM
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He is paraphrasing Ghengis Khan who had a massive body count. Both literally and physically. If 1 in 17 males reproduced historically, you can either take that to mean you’ve a large chance of being a pussy or that the vast majority of your male ancestors was hard af. But it’s really both: we all have hardwired responses to power dynamics. As it refers to sexual dynamics, the web of lies, born of male white knighting and female plausible deniability, that covers up this truth is the matrix. The …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/23 09:53 AM
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I think it was probably more like this. Which would explain the Natural Order. You’re dreaming a different dream.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/23 07:09 AM
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Yes. This is all very “something something lifting, something something family activities, muh budget”. Cool. Why do you tend to so many people? Who is sucking your balls? When are you going sky diving? Will you see Rome before you die? Or will you just get high, vidya all the next day and close a big deal the day after? - either is fine imo but it’s both for me. Build a house, paint a self portrait.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/23 09:51 PM
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Think about big bills all the time. Make a vacuum. Make people come to you. baby steps mode Yeah man. You likened it to the gym. Someone told me to start with “do I really want a coffee now?” Etc. if someone asks me something routine or innocuous I do try to pause and think, “do I want this?” from time to time. Most people live their whole lives asleep. Just try and wake yourself up as often as you can.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/23 09:34 PM
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100% this. It’s not about running the Cube on your wife. It’s about staying in your own head.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/23 05:42 PM
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The “game” stuff in MMSLP is awful. Just practice flirting with women. If you need ideas to try read the old chateau heartiste blog or models, mystery method etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/23 08:12 AM
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Forget about your wife and how you should treat her. What is your idea of awesome? Be that.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/23 08:03 AM
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You’ll feel like the Prize when you have options. That comes from knowing you can seduce a woman, not looking for one’s that might be desperate enough to seduce you. The hierarchy for female attraction is always frame, game and looks. And first thing: your frame sucks. Those girls giving you IOI’s would be turned off by what you’re saying here and would inevitably signal to them and I think you know that. Your wife will face the same problem everyday.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/23 06:46 AM
1

Try doing the writing-shapes-thoughts thing and only post what you’ve done in the past tense - even this comment is a future fantasy.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/23 06:26 AM
1

We are all retarded on this blessed night
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 12:09 PM
1

ghost of Christmas yet to come, donedreadpirate, breaks it down for you, and every other poster, two years ago here
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 07:42 AM
3

I’ve read all the classics What actual RP content have you read though?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 07:38 AM
3

Women don’t leave. They branch swing.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 07:27 AM
2

It’ll be a little uncomfortable at first. This is Learned Helplessness. As soon as you see you don’t burst into flames. In fact she’ll be sweeter after. It gets easier. No need to talk just laugh at her, say “miaow” whatever.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 07:23 AM
3

manufactured outrage For outrage, just flirt with her friends or tell her to STFU. But the emotional palette is broad. Demeaning women works well. But even just withdrawing and focusing on yourself is very emotional for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 07:19 AM
4

This is turning into a bit of a dog pile but for the right reasons. I guess all your high school girlfriends lived in Canada too. But you’re probably fine. She’s more likely to go feral if you keep on like this and that should wake you up. I tried playing nice too then had to fucking drop kick her into reality in the end. No good Nice deed goes unpunished. On the mountains of pussy “future you” will be getting, it will suck, you will make mistakes and then you will get over it very, very quickly…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 07:05 AM
2

On flakes. On nudes: this is just basic Control Game. You start with an expectation “send me a photo”. No photo, punish with withdrawal of time and affection. Yes photo, a small reward. Then “send me a photo of you in X” and so on to specific poses. I ended up full circle on this and ended up at “surprise me”, so she puts a lot of effort and creativity into them. Well done on your photo but you pay too much attention to her response, which will always be some combination of genuine shyness, inse…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 06:38 AM
9

My worst fear when married was I’d miss my kids so much I’d regret a divorce. Spending 1-4 week periods away was pivotal for me realising that wouldn’t be the case but, as soon as we separated, I had a real light switch effect and realised, as long as I know they’re safe and happy, my need to be around them is very low.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 06:19 AM
3

much more of a huge comfort test Your hamster is a beautiful specimen. Majestic even. No: your wife wanting to be fucked by other men is NOT a good sign. day-trading Gambling habit how blow jobs could be equated A blow job is the equivalent of smashing her cervix through the mattress. One partner is clearly putting in more effort than the other but you both enjoy it in different ways.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 06:12 AM
3

Mine is pop bottles and fuck models.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 04:30 AM
2

After a few months, it’ll probably be useful to go through NMMNG and do all the exercises in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/23 02:24 PM
2

She did that time. Our last few years together were really pleasant. But sometimes the grass just is greener. That move improved every aspect of my life. As did my subsequent divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/23 11:08 AM
2

I dragged my ex all over the world and tried to appease her in each place. Terrible. Then tried it her way. Even worse. Finally the last move I just did it for me. When she asked to follow I said don’t come out here unless you intend to be happy. Much better.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/23 09:26 AM
2

Signals must be potentially costly to be perceived as honest.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/23 09:10 AM
2

In what ways are you a drunk captain? What does that have to do with her feeling alone?
/r/askMRP26/08/23 05:57 PM
1

Pure, raw, fear based, hamsterbation. There is nothing to be gained by taking it slow.
/r/askMRP25/08/23 11:50 AM
2

While valid, this is also a way of rationalising your biologically programmed behaviours. All your mom was, was AWALT. You just missed out on the experiences that reinforce AMALT or, in their absence, the role models who would model the skill of suppressing your instinct to caretaker. In reality nature and nurture play a part but I think it’s helpful to acknowledge both their roles to avoid backsliding, anger phases or swallowing a blue pill like MRA, RPC or Jordan Petersonism. I.e. you’ll never…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/23 11:26 AM
2

I realized where my fear of rejection comes from Where? WISNIFG was a godsend for this How?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/23 10:13 AM
2

she’s definitely going back to Australia Doubt. If you’re her top option, she will follow. And then announce it was her idea all along. From experience. And if you’re not. Well… I can’t really imagine but I doubt following her will improve things. One of you will have to make suboptimal career, social, lifestyle choice and, again from experience, I can tell you if you don’t stick to your self interest then no good deed goes unpunished.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/23 10:06 AM
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There’s a lot of taking this WAY too seriously. You do not have to be a Spartan warrior weaned by wolves to stand up to a little woman. You do not have to be a superior man. Keep basic adulting off the pedestal and you will go further, faster.
/r/askMRP25/08/23 09:30 AM
14

It’s as simple as choosing to sidebar and STFU.
/r/askMRP25/08/23 08:33 AM
2

This is fine but in time you need to practice withdrawing - in order to experience there is nothing to be gained and everything to be won by just not indulging this behaviour.
/r/askMRP24/08/23 09:32 PM
-10

When actually you believe laughing at a woman’s histrionics is a crime. Lmfao, dying over here.
/r/askMRP24/08/23 08:17 PM
0

Here we have typical “be a better beta” advice
/r/askMRP24/08/23 07:18 PM
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You didn’t. You’re just replying to another bloop who thinks he’s on r/relationships
/r/askMRP24/08/23 07:16 PM
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Good. I call my girl a whore in a teasing, AM way though. The assumption it’s an insult says everything about the readers here. Your problem is all this endless DEERing. You act in a way you wan to. Good. Then you get shit tests. Oops you must be doing something wrong? No. That is just how life works. Have you read any of the sidebar? How about the TRP sidebar? Do you have any leaning toward the idea that women think differently from men?
/r/askMRP24/08/23 07:14 PM
1

You are replying to an awful comment that characterises your scenario of not being angry and her being disrespectful as you being angry and her not being disrespectful. And then tells you should apologise. This might actually be your wife. How has following her relationship advice been going for your so far?
/r/askMRP24/08/23 05:09 PM
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it was amazing how to easy it to was to not get in her frame He says… while posting on askMRP to divine the meaning of her mouth noises. You did a couple of things wrong here. You mention STFU. This involves not talking. However you then go on to describe lots of talking. Furthermore, nowhere do you describe how you punished this undesirable behaviour by withdrawing your time and attention. Tell me that you at least laughed at her or told her to shut her whore mouth?
/r/askMRP24/08/23 04:14 PM
-2

Being alpha is not Rambo. Far from it.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 09:53 PM
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Don’t be cheeky. You literally said “you can avoid all this… by being as… (beta) as you can be”. Sorry: no. Nothing to do with getting fucked. you need a balance So you DEER. So scream the rest of the sexless, blue pilled subscribers. You know what, think Imma keep my own counsel on that one. Beta is for YOU. Your LTR does not need or want it.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 09:46 PM
4

valuable (beta) This comment right here officer. Expecting beta behaviours to earn sex is the definition of the classic covert contract the OP alludes to. That’s the equivalent of a woman saying if she ate more cake in sweatpants, her husband would want to fuck her. It’s ridiculous when viewed from the opposite genders perspective.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 08:36 PM
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90% of communication is implicit, not explicit. The very definition of Frame is the implied context of an interaction. There is nothing wrong with not using overt communication. Pretty much the definition of social skills. Expectations are also a thing. I don’t just expect sex, I expect an LTR to beg to choke on my dick. If a woman isn’t fucking you, your frame, game and looks are not on point. Getting them on point and expecting women to do whatever you tell them after is not a covert contract,…
/r/askMRP23/08/23 07:53 PM
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It’s not that. The stay plan is the go plan. That’s it. No extra steps. No hamstering what “other” “value” she adds. And let’s be clear: enthusiastic fucking is the bare minimum.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 03:24 PM
1

Eh. You were doing really well up until here.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 12:47 PM
1

There’s an easy way to avoid confusing her motives: stop listening to her and stay out of her head.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 12:36 PM
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Because you can’t negotiate desire. But attraction is not a choice. So just be attractive and don’t be unattractive. It’s way easier.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 12:33 PM
3

Big three programs are fine but a lot of it is really just teaching you how to flex bone harder. At a certain point, you do need to bodybuild to induce hypertrophy. Especially for the upper body. Especially if you’re off the bell curve in limb lengths. The latter because it both takes longer to learn how to press and squat effectively and also that they (could be) less effective anatomically. You’d also want to dial in your diet for some cut/bulk cycles. 12 week runs of GZCL, Deepwater, 5/3/1 BB…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 12:30 PM
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Well the most optimal path is clearly to ditch her then meet, date and promote another woman to LTR when she earns it. You’re welcome.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 11:53 AM
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Do you believe wifing up a woman that won’t fuck you is “optimal”?
/r/askMRP23/08/23 11:25 AM
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Statistically one of the many women waiting to fuck you must be rich too. Why not be with her?
/r/askMRP23/08/23 11:08 AM
3

Yes. Bossing around a woman is just weak and useless until you’re attractive but, when you are, you have no idea how far it can take you. But the order of the sequence is key imo: 90% of the time a woman wants to speak overtly it’s shit testing or verbal intercourse. Always wait for the signs of submission. If in doubt: STFU. And anyway a submitted woman will be probing you non stop for ways to act right. Just be consistent in your thought process and you’ll sub communicate most of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 09:50 AM
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I thought it was in regards to people being defensive on MRP. A bit off. For me it’s a much broader model of how all social interactions - including seduction, or even control, work. Agreed, but I believe there's some value in establishing expectations based on your values, people can do as they please with that information. This is a losing proposition and the reason I keep circling back to the same concept. You have far more influence over this than you think. You have a reality distortion fie…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 08:52 AM
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Relationship I’d be very wary of this beta bucks perspective. I’m homeless and unemployed and all that means is my girl has to pay for everything as well as be my 24/7 fuck toy. Correlation doesn’t equal causation.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 07:46 AM
3

Say more. No
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 07:34 AM
2

Aloofness is an extremely attractive quality. You’d be surprised how effective it is in the workplace. Just commit to the program and practice it. In time you create a vacuum where your wife and others will come toward you for guidance. See my last comment to someone else about Mexican standoffs. Then it’s just a tool in your toolbox and you’ll find your own balance.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 07:23 AM
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You don’t wave your gun at people telling them what to do. Eg how your wife should act, announcing to people you’re now going to be selfish. And you don’t DLV Eg psychoanalysing your wife, judging others. You wait (Indifferently!), and ideally DHV, until people lower theirs (Inception) at which point you can tell them what you want (Control).
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 07:15 AM
1

What is your program and diet like?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 07:11 AM
1

/u/hornsofapathy I forget if we’re still doing flairs - I can still see them on the app version - but it used to be traditional for guys to be nominated and this dude and and /u/mrpwtf are absolutely on it this season.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 10:36 PM
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I mean it though bro. Follow this program, don’t wife up your current tart, coffee girl or single mom, and you’ll give birth to yourself in six months.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 10:04 PM
5

6’4” Bench 172.5x7 Have you tried trying?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 09:51 PM
3

Looking at your height, lifts and current “possibilities”…. bro you are not even close to your final form. By an order of magnitude. And that is an awesome thing. I am honestly jelly. I don’t know what your story is. And I don’t care. But I would eat something, take steroids, put on way more mass than you have, learn to game and go “main and two sides” in perpetuity.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 09:46 PM
4

I look at it like this: Women have two pedals to steer the relationship: stroking your ego and playing wounded. Men have two pedals: Indifference and Control. If you ignore both their pedals (And I do mean both: you ignore compliments as easily as the “big meanies”) you are left to steer the relationship. You jam the indifference pedal down hard. When the women comes for direction, you ease it up and use control. The signs that they’re ready are both covert and overt and also apply to every othe…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 09:32 PM
2

Yeah i sympathise: arguing in front of the kids was always my ex’s trump card. She knew I would never compound her shitty behaviour by calling her out. I did it one time. Didn’t happen again. Women will take as much leyway as you give them. Referencing the kids is a DEER. They see conflict in every aspect of their lives: from the playground, to Pixar, to their mom sperging out. If not at you then a cashier. Show them healthy conflict for sure but at least show conflict. And anyway it’s a light s…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 09:00 PM
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Respect a hard no. Don’t get yourself into trouble. With that being said, on more than one occasion I’ve been in the uncomfortable position of leaving girls curled up in a ball and low key worried the next move would be a call for an ambulance or the police. Acted like it was nothing - then and the next morning - and invariably after this ass clenching pause, they’d turn around and breathily whisper “that was the hottest sex of my life”. Don’t wait for the green light. If you’re doing it right, …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 07:50 PM
2

Haha I skimmed this earlier and it reminded me of that exact thing. And yeah: sometimes I just shove my girl over and start fucking her apropos of nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 07:08 PM
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Finally: someone who did everything right. Women love to snipe in public because of course you’d never make her look bad in front of others but… if you did then you’d be some kind of beast… and that’d just be awful… ooh my stars. I just kept repeating that I wouldn’t tolerate it Lmfao bitch was drowning in her panties. There is nothing wrong with being angry. It is a valid emotion and a very social one. There are too many wannabe Goggins’ here on a quest to become the worlds greatest punchbag. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 04:43 PM
2

You don’t have to have “a Talk” about the D/s stuff. My girl wears a day and night collar, crawls around, cooks, cleans, follows her rules 24/7, writes in her submissive journal etc all that good stuff. We never had a talk, I just told her to do stuff. Big picture, I think you’re probably better off making up your own rules and approach. Golfer’s Elbow The Theraband, flexible exercise pole instantly fixed this for me. Order one off Amazon. Voodoo floss bands helped me with tennis elbow. The low …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 04:26 PM
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100% this. RP works on all woman, all of the time. Its just hard to see sometimes when you’re in it. Which usually boils down to too much listening to what she says, not watching what she does.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 04:19 PM
5

Your advice is fine. Don’t qualify yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 02:46 PM
2

sympathy / motherly That’s shit testing. Ignore. Keep it sexual. Do you even Kino?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 02:26 PM
2

Alcohol and prostitutes are awesome. I’d honestly rank them on a par with drugs and pornography imo. I recommend you read WISNIFG and practice it. Your goal is to spin plates. What are you doing there? Do you even tinder? What about Meetup, night or day game? How’s your social life? Are you meeting women through friends?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 11:59 AM
4

Damn I was on the edge of my seat for a second. Guaranteed that if you hadn’t “laid out your vision”, she would have sucked your eyeballs out through your peehole. no more negotiating desire Just say no man. Its like an old timey demon, from a Grimm’s fairy tale, who keeps popping up in a new disguise to tempt you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 11:04 AM
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Learning game is a covert contract But not though. it’s not authentic You mean it’s not “congruent”. Having social skills would be congruent if you had them though. to seduce them if I want to Try this with zero game and you’ll find out what a real covert contract is.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 10:30 AM
2

Invert baby. Always invert. Don’t worry about what Frame is. Make a list of what it isn’t: DEERing, butthurt, concern trolling, moralising, narcissistic injury, parasocial investment, internet tough-guying and yes: scoreboarding others online or IRL. Seek it out and, like pornography, you’ll know it when you see it. Then just practice not doing it. There is no difference between what you do and what you are. if you act like you don’t give a fuck then who knows? maybe you don’t.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/23 06:38 AM
2

Yeah man. My advice for dialling up your social dominance: do not negotiate with terrorists and definitely do not monkey dance for them. That in itself is DHV and more likely to make them roll over than any manipulation ime. If and when someone demonstrates they’re engaging in good faith: feel free to open your heart chakra to them. Until then, they should be met with irreverence and dumb-assery.
/r/askMRP20/08/23 09:52 AM
5

WHOOOOSH
/r/askMRP19/08/23 09:56 AM
1

No joke I was meant to be in Hannover tonight. Next time bb
/r/askMRP18/08/23 11:19 PM
3

You too dude you fucking nailed that first part 😎
/r/askMRP18/08/23 07:39 PM
2

Lmao here we see the master at work
/r/askMRP18/08/23 07:37 PM
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I mean it’s fine. Superficial charm is a thing and I’d even go further and saying being positive about people is a good mindset. But not everyone has made that same pact and being an undisguised fucking asshole has its place. I got on a plane a while back and there was a guy in my seat (front row) taking a call. Something about the posture between him and the attendants told me he was just perched there between arguing with the attendants. Anyhoo, I tapped his shoulder and pointed to the seat. H…
/r/askMRP18/08/23 07:34 PM
11

Acting out HTWFAIP is how everyone ended up here.
/r/askMRP18/08/23 06:29 PM
1

Sorry dude: TRP is quarantined. here you go
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/23 11:12 AM
12

Lmao. All the secrets of intersexual dynamics are contained in this reply.
/r/askMRP18/08/23 10:19 AM
14

The worlds dumbest game of chicken: her trying to get you to tell her no, you trying to get her to get you to tell her no. You will never outearn the inability to say “no”.
/r/askMRP18/08/23 08:58 AM
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I read some stuff about what a woman said and stopped reading. Respect a hard no. Everything else is shit testing. Stop pouring sand in her vagina and even that might let up. Edit: non quarantined link here: https://www.forums.red/p/theredpill/319705/women_want_to_be_owned_gaylubeoil
/r/askMRP18/08/23 07:32 AM
3

I don’t agree with the common wisdom that porn lowers your libido. It increases it. Obviously. If you cut it out, your libido is going to flatline and then return to, probably a lower, baseline.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/23 04:31 AM
1

Huh? I fully endorse that post. Great way to develop and calibrate a persona. My girl will see a show like archer and say “this is exactly how dumb you act but I know it’s just an act”. The second part is a rationalisation btw.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/23 04:25 AM
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I relocate every year or so - usually internationally - have lots of old friends and make new ones easily. Most important: say “awesome, we should hang out” at the end of pretty much every conversation. Sounds like you have more than enough of a base already. Arrange drinks with you and one or two others from unrelated groups I.e. introduce people. So text guys from college, tell them to meet you and your bro from work and vice versa. Help people move house. Join a BJJ class or whatever has guys…
/r/askMRP17/08/23 03:00 PM
1

It kinda is. I don’t think that’s wrong. You’re replacing “bad beta” with “good beta”. My big struggle with it has been why train a girl when I plan to move on. I had some good notes on that attitude being the wrong kind of misogyny. I.e. it’s kind of “captain save a ho”. Just woke up to a blowjob. Texted her how to do it last night. I thought that was redundant but what just happened opened another door for me. Tonight she’ll get back from her business womaning, cook me fajitas and dance for me…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/23 03:33 AM
3

why not act totally out of character yeah man
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/23 04:36 AM
2

Pretty sure that would be choosing with extra steps.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/23 04:24 AM
2

UGL is not risky. That’s just “reefer madness”. The labs people use have hundreds of reviews, post hygiene and lab tests etc this stuff is cleaner than anything you buy out of Walmart. But as I said, I’d go doc first. Tons to learn if you’re going in cold. Took me a year to go UGL. it distracts me from seeing my own issues Yeah man and more besides. I’m glad to hear you’re giving it a shot.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/23 04:23 AM
3

I am not sure I could release without eating the fish Flirting and cockblocking yourself. Celibate but with a lot of extra steps.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 07:41 PM
2

Feeding the right wolf. Good stuff man. Just stay the course and don’t backslide. If one or both of you can’t, then you might get a Main Event but that shouldn’t change your course of action.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 04:34 PM
1

It’s not a covert contract if it works. It’s cause and effect. 90% of human communication is implicit. doing it for someone else and not for me Has nothing to do with covert contracts
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 04:29 PM
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That’s just shit testing dummy. She’s checking to see what colour the wolf is. Act accordingly. Adjust your speed to you, not her. I hold frame very easily because I have the emotional responsiveness of depleted uranium. Your autism may vary. Never forget she doesn’t want what you think she should want. Thats the whole idea of the red pill. She wants a man that honestly doesn’t give a fuck about her. You can hamster that to mean “leadership” or whatever but the fact is, If she woke up next to Ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 04:00 PM
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I just want to be clear this is not about my ego. LMFAO! 🤣 Thanks dude. Tough couple of weeks for me but this brought a grin to my face.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 03:30 PM
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recovering Nice Guy Probably. You’re conflating two concepts for starters because you’re not able to separate your egotistical needs from basic adulting. Respect has to be earned for starters. It belongs to someone else. And the harder you chase it, the further it’ll pull away from you. The idea of valuing an 8 year old’s “respect” so highly that you’re posting here is just sad and the idea of expecting a child to respect you because “god told her to” is patently absurd. If you don’t like the to…
/r/askMRP15/08/23 03:21 PM
2

surround myself with those who share the same values Getting better but this thing is still here. Anyhoo re TRT I’d recommend it. If you’re in the states, it’s dirt cheap. Get a doc or defy or whatever to set you up then go UGL for forever. I think a month’s supply is like $15 or something crazy. Getting past the needles happens the second you pin for the first time. Then it’s just like brushing your teeth. You could leave it a year or two but it makes everything easier. I lifted for 15 years na…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 12:55 PM
5

I am a regular cuddle monster but I also like enthusiastic, sloppy, noisy blowjobs. If I cuddle my girl too much, respond to her texts too much, listen to her too much, be too available (more so emotionally than physically), even fuck her too much, she’ll complain about having to do the latter. If I dial it back, stop listening to her, don’t cuddle her, don’t text her and just fuck her when and how I feel like it, she fantasises about being able to do them. Then she comes looking for cuddles and…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 12:32 PM
2

I found dating thots easy but struggled with retroactive jealousy when I caught feels for them. It’s just a hallmark of Oneitis aka scarcity aka emotional neediness aka the infamous “slide into betadom”. Any time I recognise and course correct on that, by focusing on myself, my jealousy magically dissipates.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/23 05:43 AM
1

Maybe I didn't add enough here. I enjoyed the variety myself, and as a consideration to her comment I will keep it in mind for future ideas. I'm honestly not sure where me being considerate of her feedback gets blurred into her having the frame of the situation. Point out what I'm missing... Heh
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/23 05:32 AM
1

Afterwards she commented "Great idea, anything that can incorporate our competitiveness is good." So I will work to incorporate that more in the future. Heh.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/23 10:59 PM
2

You come across as someone who doesn’t lift. No one wants to fuck that
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 09:50 AM
2

doesn’t sound very attractive. What do to with this perspective I don’t necessarily know. Maybe it’s not useful at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 09:46 AM
1

Your whole post is rationalising why your wife wouldn’t act right and tinderella’s don’t turn up to fuck you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 08:42 AM
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What I’m saying is: you are blaming your wife. But, looking back, it’s more obvious to me now that I did a lot to try and get my wife to shoot the puppy until I grew the balls to do it myself. The periods when I was contented her behaviour turned around just fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 07:39 AM
1

Doubt. Your SMV is probably just very, very low dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 06:52 AM
1

Its not a mindset for me. Just a tactic. My mindset is that she “feels” like a sex object but “thinks” that she is very important to me. I got shit tested on it of course but I also kind of lucked out on getting a girl that gave me constant feedback in actions and words that she liked it, otherwise I don’t think I could have taken it so far. Now I’d do it with any new girl in half the time. I balance it out with a lot of affection. I would think more than anyone here: cuddles, love letters, flow…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 06:42 AM
1

You need both. And actually I recently got a wake up call that my indifference game was not on point. No major damage or anything but once you have steak on tap, you don’t go back to burger. This was more like still getting steak but the waitress complaining about having to prepare it. I dialled back the time and attention and she’s scrabbling to ask how I want my steak done. But I’m stretching this metaphor to break point. What helped me bridge? Just mindset. Trusting in the program. Faking it …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 06:12 PM
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There’s some good notes here and I’m glad things worked out for you. It did remind me though… I was making the same noises about trying etc etc etc at a social event. Everyone was nodding their heads. Then this hot divorcee snorted and said “the men always say that RPeed” dismissively. I thought a lot about that afterward. I guess we’re both lucky a horrible wife literally forced us into a position we prefer.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 01:33 PM
2

Business projects are emotional rollercoasters Sometimes you just need to white knuckle through the dips. Sounds like a lot of imposter syndrome and projection on your wife and the rest of Oz. Practicing the skill of not judging or denigrating other people was one of the best things I ever learned here. 10/10 recommend. As to friends, hobbies, pushing into fear etc. Just do what you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 11:32 AM
11

It’s funny because it is purely sexual. If he wanted her awesome company, there would never have been an issue.
/r/askMRP09/08/23 10:28 PM
1

I know we (including me) want to believe this but I am starting to doubt it. I think the relationship ends when the alpha decides. Or just notices that the beta thinks they’re in one. I’m not convinced girls ever experience desire for beta characteristics, there’s probably just not enough hardcore alphas to go around.
/r/askMRP09/08/23 10:00 PM
31

A beta put in bucks, while alphas fucked her in the ass for free. What is unclear? Do’s/don’ts: If it’s not a hell yeah, it’s a hell no Desire cannot be negotiated Women experience sexual desire based on what they sexually desire Women do not desire what you think they should desire Men that women desire, pump and dump them regardless of how you think they should react to the women that desire them A woman can generally get casual sex easier than the equivalent man and therefore don’t experience…
/r/askMRP09/08/23 09:30 PM
1

I’ve got worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 07:48 PM
2

Nitpicking on the second part. I wouldn’t say “a blowjob would really help”. If you’re noticeably stressed/depressed, chances are it won’t come off as A+A/AM. It’ll sound either neutral or, worst case, asking to be breast fed. In that case, the former is response (I’m dealing with it) is good but I think broken recording a non-response (I’m fine/I’m not interested in talking) then nuking it is better. If not (and she just thinks I should be stressed/depressed for whatever reason) I flirt back an…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 07:30 AM
2

Interesting, thanks. I DM’d you already btw.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 07:17 AM
1

I am comfortable running ‘nice guy game’ The antidote to this is Kino. I am not saying grope a stranger but anything from a playful “you stop it” shove to a “good talk champ” pat on the shoulder drastically changes the context. I work back from Cad’s advice on dates: “if you’re not touching nipple after ten minutes, you’re going too slow”.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 07:11 AM
1

The comforting shit test is a real and recurring Achilles heel for me. It’s so tempting because a devoted girl will want to support you. And she will get feels from it. But it IS a fitness test and it will play out accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 07:02 AM
2

i dont actually think this is where you’re at. but it’s a good post and as an aside, I’ve really went full circle on this and realised of course you can get genuine desireTM . You just need to be hot af from the woman’s pov, not yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 06:57 AM
1

Blue pill but with extra steps.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 06:22 AM
1

Powerbuilding is real: you just go ham on everything for 90 minutes, 6 times a week but I’ll DM noods and we’ll take it from there. Just need to get my body glitter. What’s your take on the total volume comparison between HIT and high volume being not dissimilar? I think John Meadows did an in depth comparison between Ronnie Coleman and Dorian Yates (where they basically moved the same tonnage when you included warm ups) but I was never able to find it again.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 06:08 AM
2

Yeah I figured I just hate fanboying these kings: /u/inchargeman Origin story: https://reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/s/fgdYbHU6DZ I think reading all of /u/sepean ‘s post history, in order, from oldest to newest is also a good shout for you. There’s a wealth of crisp, condensed theory posts at the top and excellent Field Reports and comment sections at the bottom for context.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 05:50 AM
3

Context matters. Telling a bunch of Cheeto munching minecraft fans to blow up their marriage is not going to boost ratings. If you look at the subset of guys that had everything but their brain together: they all sorted their shit out in under 6 months, as in full harpy to sex slave, and regretted not going faster. All they had to do was flick the switch. Check out ICM’s story and Sepean early posts. Conversely there’s a lot. Maybe even the majority of guys here. That will get some kind of SMV b…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 05:13 AM
1

The bulk of my lifting was HIT but I’d always do 2-3 sets of the big SBD type compounds - actually I was always a big advocate of it here. It just doesn’t seem to translate into more isolation based stuff for me but it might just be that I don’t “feel” done. I’ll DM you - I will eventually die training the way I currently do.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 04:00 AM
2

I think the fear of going to fast is largely in the man brain. I’ve “upped the alpha” overnight and seen an immediate improvement. Slipped into beta one week and dipped another time. Recovered and 4 hours later was getting even better than before. Women seem to re calibrate very quickly. And anyway, there’s no benefit to slowing it down.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/23 10:07 PM
2

how to move forward The time to talk is after you have the SMV to back it up but… also not later. The words to say depend on you. In the index of Jack10 comments you’ll see one titled “hopes and prayers”. I used that model - but I share that with the caveat that both my and the OP’s marriages ended in divorce. I think, within the context of your last couple of posts, you are making progress. My advice is run with it some more and pick your battles later. WISNIFG seems to be key for the “better b…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/23 10:04 PM
3

if you can’t get it anyway, then that’s just sour grapes.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/23 04:10 PM
1

So many cheeks clapped. Must be like your marital bed when you work late.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/23 12:24 PM
3

Europe ADD comorbid diseases anxiety I’m in for a tough one! she, she, she, she, she Choosing to believe you or your wife are special snowflakes is really not going to help. Anytime she shit tests you, you will be forced to try and match it to the sock puppet version of her in your head. Instead of not noticing at all because you don’t listen to her mouth words and don’t give a fuck what she’s thinking. Pretty sure Horns wrote all that stuff after he’d done the basics and essentially the point o…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/23 09:01 AM
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This was a rollercoaster of her thinking you might be hot. Testing you overtly and covertly to check if you were. You giving mixed results. Her reacting with mixed responses. That is 80% of young relationships. You are always most likely to be in the longest checkout line like that. On the other question: to get over someone, it’s best to get under someone else. I have extensive experience with being both hung up and moving on and can say this always worked for me. In future, just stick to your …
/r/askMRP07/08/23 10:03 PM
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I’ve been there: plowhorsing by day and minstrel performance all weekend. Saying you’re not going out because you’re focused on other things is not weak. You don’t need to (and shouldn’t) discuss it either: just broken record “because I’m focused on X”. I’ve done that in a shitty BP relationship, held frame and she sucked it up and in a happy RP one where she found ways to have awesome nights in and long lies for me. Perfect time - before getting married - to find out if she will give you the la…
/r/askMRP07/08/23 02:54 PM
1

The post makes it abundantly clear you do both. Doing one without the other is awful. Whether the juice is worth it is down to the quality of the woman and whether, deep down, you actually want to be married or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/23 09:00 AM
2

Lmao. I do love bringing all the Karens out.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/23 08:25 AM
2

that post has been written. Some dudes even tried all three. But I agree it’d be awesome if you tried WWICMD? For 12 weeks and write a FR. I think it’s helpful for people to see the same tactics unfold in different ways.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/23 09:51 PM
1

This is amazing. Literally the bluest comment I have ever seen in this forum. And i don’t say that lightly. “Obviously I have intrinsic value. Logically my wife will see and respect that and act accordingly”. Good luck with that one dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/23 09:48 PM
1

Sounds like a touch of depression dude. When you have a girl that’s crazy about you, you will see the value. Someone gave me the same advice and he was right.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/23 08:50 AM
1

No you
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/23 08:45 AM
2

I have a 405 squat Do you have two legs?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 11:36 PM
1

Tell her to try harder. If you can ride out the storm after that one, guarantee your marriage woes will be pretty much over.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 09:14 PM
0

Stretching is pretty much the worst thing you can do before lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 05:26 PM
1

I took meth, fucked my girl 12 times the other night and was only able to cum like three times. IDGAF. I often have to fuck her 2-3 times to cum anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 05:21 PM
0

I’ve never got that. Half a bottle wine always seemed to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 05:19 PM
1

I hate to be reductionist but objectively the biggest problem you have here is being 150lbs. What is your plan to gain weight?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 05:18 PM
1

it wouldn’t be much at all Cheeky bitch. Nuke that shit: either walk off wordlessly or tell she should be grateful you dick her whore mouth but either way give her 24 hours on ice. I go too hard too fast with withdrawing Probably not though. That’s probably the thing keeping her fucking you to date. You probably relapse too quickly. Guys here often say: yeah learn falconry or whatever then you’ll have less time for your wife. A real alpha spends his time making doll furniture not worrying about …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 05:10 PM
2

Bro if you’re negotiating how you’re allowed to fuck her, you are not getting comfort tests.
/r/askMRP05/08/23 05:00 PM
1

Well you might suck at it but at least you’re ego invested.That can take you pretty far ime. We weigh the same and I’m 5 inches shorter than you. Granted I am far stronger but if anyone’s telling you anything other than train and eat more: they’re not an expert.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 03:51 PM
2

You’re not. And it does. Source: someone who lifts way more than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 08:53 AM
2

Deloads work for people training their balls off with high volume. Which is never the case here. And even then, all it does is reduce the fatigue masking strength so you can compete. You need to fucking reload dude. More volume. More intensity. Above all: more food.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/23 09:17 AM
0

more will be on the table soon What and why?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/23 03:59 AM
2

It’s probably not a great idea to resent your wife. Especially over “bait and switches” on life choices aka “being a woman”. It’s women all the way down. There’s nothing wrong with divorcing her if she’s old and fat and gross or for any other reason that crosses your mind. If you can’t do better, then work on that. If you can then prove it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/23 05:10 AM
1

When even your girl tells you to just A+A
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/23 05:03 AM
1

Gronk like bad stuff. Definition of a blue pill. You should really chew that one over.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/23 08:38 PM
1

The classic content is what you need.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/23 11:37 AM
2

Dread is something your wife experiences. Not something you do. Why isn’t she experiencing it? Probably because she knows you won’t walk. Under any circumstances. You can protest that if you like but she’s the one that knows. Women have a special sense for this. For me, and the rest of the sub I’m sure, your Oneitis bleeds off the page. That and your apparent obsession with what other people think of the stage set of your life, lead me to think that the root cause is seeing her as an ornament in…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/23 10:49 AM
2

Sure. Scrubbing your house for a lazy whore, lest some 15 y.o. girl judge you screams assertiveness. Don’t listen to what she says: watch what she does.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/23 10:06 AM
2

The way you victim puke to your wife and the type of advice you gravitate toward paints you as someone very conflict avoidant. Your wife probably isn’t feeling any dread because she knows you are frightened of her. You really should read WISNIFG.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/23 09:29 AM
2

SAHM’s wilt so you’re just reaping what you sow. That said, you absolutely can dread her into cleaning: it’s just one of the situations where you need to spell it out. If she’s not picking up what you’re laying down, it’s because she doesn’t feel any dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/23 07:25 AM
2

I haven’t read it but Goggins sounds like a joyless, plowhorse. So probably ideal for the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/23 07:17 AM
1

Lmfao. Ngl: this shit has fucked with my head so much over the years that I often look at that pillow and think “bitch needs something for her knees, am I too beta??”.
/r/askMRP01/08/23 09:40 PM
3

I don’t remember you but it’s true: I’m awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 09:35 PM
1

1/2/3/4 plates What even is this? 1 plate? I hope this is for an OHP? And even then… you “aspire” to press 60 kilograms? Jfc, I feel sick.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 07:25 PM
2

Who pointed that out? I want to go to their home and stab them. Squat depth is irrelevant. Unless you are literally getting judged at competition. Tell me one reason why it matters otherwise? Every single competitive Olympic lifter’s knees cave in a squat. Watch the last Olympic. You think they don’t know how to lift? The human body isn’t a stick man drawing of levers. It’s three dimensional, asymmetric, organic and composed of multiple layers of support and corresponding inserts. “Lower back te…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 06:42 PM
1

“Too heavy” and “Poor form” are meaningless container words. What is your actual goal?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 06:06 PM
1

The first part is just DEERing and, on a technical level, more awfulness. Flirting with other women is a good idea for lots of reasons. But Game isn’t really about being high value. You can be the highest value man in the world and not get laid if you don’t approach. Fat, ugly guys fuck all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 04:13 PM
5

Look at it like the nature of the dog chasing the car: it wouldn’t know what to do if it caught it. As opposed to some nefarious scheme to manipulate you. You will find it far easier to shrug off now and far easier to forgive when she turns sweet.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 03:46 PM
5

I really encourage you to discipline yourself on this one thing for 6 weeks and report back.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 03:12 PM
1

Its like how anyone who uses the term “buttwink” or “deloads to work on form” will never accomplish anything in the gym. Bang, Models, Mystery Method, Rules of the Game et al are the same book. Approach, build comfort, attract etc there is no difference in the method. Just more or less palatable notes. You haven’t found any insight here, in fact your unique take turned out to be “just be yourself”, which is what landed you here in the first place. You need to observe what’s common amongst this p…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 03:06 PM
1

good girls Lmao. Nice Madonna/whore complex. brutal honesty what’s wrong? Good god, no. For anyone that doubts men have hamsters: a book on flirting becomes a manual on how to dry out pussy in the wrong hands.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 02:03 PM
5

it’s like dealing with my kids, but these are grown men and women although he is a white Christian Not as bad as the last two weeks but maybe you need a swear jar or something but for judging people. Some people have a wristband they swap arms with when they catch themselves in a bad habit. Wrt the first comment, /u/man_in_the_world gave me a spanking on this exact same thing years ago. If you aspire to be a leader, passive-aggressive asides like this are to be avoided. You just paint yourself a…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 01:59 PM
5

Yeah man, learn to see the funny side of the little woman. And show her it. Girls aren’t looking for their father. They want a daddy.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 12:16 PM
1

Acknowledging your needs is fine but unless you want to invest in a ton of lube: you need to find your sexual vibe. The TRP sidebar is (allegedly) required reading to cover these basics. There’s mountains of material on Game on Reddit in general. Try the 60 DoD sidebar post on Game for example. I like Chateau Heartiste personally. A little goes a very long way.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 11:59 AM
2

It’s good that you’re getting your logistics and whatnot figured out with your wife but all this navel gazing will not help. It’s navels all the way down. Finding my true selve You already are yourself. If you’re a grumpy prick with no friends. Then just be lighter and take up a team hobby.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 10:24 AM
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On the third day, however, the nature of the rejections shit tests went from soft to harder and more excuse-like. Making me horny with whatever and then rejecting shit testing hard for instance (which I now recognize as an attempt at controlling my emotions shit testing, a no-go for me). This got my antenna up and I redirected my focus and attention to other things. I dial back the comfort and attention I am giving her, and she tries to frame this as me treating her ‘superbad’ shit test me. When…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 10:17 AM
0

Lmao. Unless these other guys have a de-aging ray, a portable liposuction unit and the inability to form long term memories then yes: it’s pretty fucking common to lose attraction to your wife. 11/10 recommend divorce in this case, as it allows you to enjoy the numerous other benefits.
/r/askMRP31/07/23 06:29 PM
-4

Just back from some ego lifting at the gym but I had a case like this recently so wanted to elaborate. I took some meth recently that helped me fuck a girl 12 times in about the same amount of hours for a personal record. Previous best was 10. Between pushing the variety through that, being high and alcohol besides, I was telling her the latest thing I wanted her to do then grumbled in a butthurt way that I’d told her to do it before and she never did it. Probably because of that gayness, and al…
/r/askMRP31/07/23 08:38 AM
0

Yes. Punish her and tell her it’s explicitly what it’s for. Otherwise she won’t be able to adjust her behaviour to do better for you.
/r/askMRP31/07/23 08:09 AM
-1

Punish her.
/r/askMRP31/07/23 07:30 AM
3

Am I crazy for thinking that "I just get it"? Is it possible to start making changes and shit to just work this quickly? We weren't in a bad place when I started my red pill journey, but the change has been fast and surprisingly smooth. It should work straight away if you just do it. But I tend to agree with 3KL: the guys thats sole measurement of progress is their wife, tend to get locked into an emotional, multi-year rollercoaster. e.g. read Horns’ year of owning his own shit (even numbered po…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/23 09:31 AM
1

I could decide my goal would be to play video games, drink beer, and jerk off all day. I could set that as my standard, meet it, "be my own judge" and be "right" in my own eyes Yes. honestly my wife would probably leave A look around the denizens of MRP tells us this concern is likely unfounded. But if you were doing what made you happy, why would you care if she left? Serious question. (and I would agree she should in that scenario). I encourage you to unpack why. What you think she should thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/23 09:18 AM
1

You need to demonstrate you’re a member of the Secret Society. You tell ten girls to meet you at a bar/park/landmark “because it’s near my place”. Some will flake, jump on another dick or worse try and string out the conversation for whatever reason. Two or three of them will just say “OK” and be there in an hour or at least the next day. Establish you’re not a psycho and invite them to yours for wine. Fuck them. Bang. First day lay.
/r/askMRP29/07/23 02:23 AM
3

Oh yah that makes more sense. Actually it’s super important: you can’t stoic away sucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/23 01:01 AM
1

Pretty sure that it was self inflicted like always
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/23 11:46 AM
3

Do you get regular massage? Tried dead hangs? Broomstick stretches? Hi-rep hammer curls? The last one probably best if it is really the bicep.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/23 11:23 AM
1

Where is the tendinitis and are you on gear? I recently became an expert in the former.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/23 06:02 AM
1

every relationship is transactional.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/23 06:01 AM
2

that being said, I’d probably bail if it had went as far as your case.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/23 05:50 AM
6

Miaow. Someone woke up in his fedora.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 07:44 PM
1

Yeah that last part is dead on for me. I cringe looking back at all the times I self deprecated to the point of systematically dismantling her fantasy. This is probably the post that had the single most impact on me. The assumption of “hypoagency” rears it head in many forms.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 04:38 PM
4

Bro this only ever ends one way: I engage, humiliate you, you crack, ask me for advice and then delete out in shame. Honestly I don’t even jerk off to them anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 03:13 PM
9

With my ex wife it worked and was probably what was missing from our marriage - I already had the 60 DoD checklist - but I didn’t want her anymore. With the gf I just moved for work and decided to replace her. I’d went into it knowing that and that was also my safety net from wifing up immediately post divorce. That just wasn’t part of my personal plan. I saw some other women and she made the long trip to visit me as often as I let her but I still struggle with the (me being) non-exclusive thing…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 11:26 AM
4

Your first statement is nonsensical. I’m talking about a structured way of building your control of the relationship. Women like it. It makes them wet. It’s like… they see it differently or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 06:47 AM
2

5’9”, 148 lbs Been there. What’s your plan to bulk? The muscle doesn’t just sprout out like mushrooms.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 08:19 PM
-6

ChatGPT is a little coy but definitely red-curious
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 08:09 PM
2

Maxing out the indifference. If she adds value praise it. If she doesn’t know how, tell her. If she can’t, get rid of her.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 07:44 PM
-12

🍆
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 04:15 PM
-5

Seems to me you’re conflating the terms because you object to the connotations of the latter and offer nothing in support of your argument. So far, for me, it’s like the guy said after jumping off the Empire Building: “so far, so good”.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 04:14 PM
1

Transitioning from dating into an LTR.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 07:39 AM
1

It really doesn’t matter. You’ll never not be retarded. As soon as you think you’ve stopped, you can no longer course correct. Anyway things come in seasons.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 07:32 AM
2

I’m not sure the ex thing was wrong. Sure mate guarding is unattractive but enforcing reasonable boundaries isnt and anyway Control is part of a successful relationship. My gf was single and whoring around for years before we met. She gets hit on IRL weekly and would get the odd booty text from an ex about monthly. I think she quite enjoyed smugly texting then back that she was with her boyfriend. One night we were watching a movie, she checked a notification, snorted with laughter, lay back dow…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 06:41 AM
2

Long before MRP I set a squat PR while my wife was in labour. Benched the first day home with a newborn. I had my logistics tight, a crystal clear boundary, and owned my shit to a T. Do not let your wife (or yourself) gaslight you into thinking you don’t have 2-3 hours a week to invest in your own health and sanity.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 06:22 AM
2

Not everyone can or wants to fix a broken unit. If and when she respects you, she won’t be less retarded. Would you go through the same thing with someone else? I highly doubt it: just don’t get remarried.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 04:32 AM
2

What people think of you, their poor moral standards, “the state of the world”. Nothing impedes getting better than hamstering ways everyone is worse. If you’re a reader, try “Meditations” or “a Guide to the Good Life”, by William Irvine.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 04:22 AM
3

Rebuild your finances for you. Your wife has zeroed you out and you probably won’t be able to get past that.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/23 08:37 PM
2

Well hello again Mr Droopy Drawers. You need some Inner Game in your life dude. Try writing down five things you’re grateful for everyday. Try tipping and giving money to hobos. Discipline yourself to stop moaning and judging people. If you meet someone that got a promotion or won the lottery, just say “holy shit dude that is awesome and I am so happy for you”. Then STFU. It doesn’t have to be more complicated than that.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/23 07:37 PM
0

I feel like this is the most normal and relatable OYS I've read so far. You should get tested.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/23 06:21 AM
4

Do not base your actions off of what a woman says. If you get to truly understand this, 90% of your problems will go away.
/r/askMRP25/07/23 06:05 AM
2

Lol this guys gets it
/r/askMRP24/07/23 08:48 PM
1

My cuddle baseline is very high. I’m a house cat.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/23 07:55 PM
6

Lmao 🤣
/r/askMRP24/07/23 04:07 PM
7

Yes
/r/askMRP24/07/23 03:36 PM
12

There’s a lot wrong here: Being in a LDR Being in a LDR with a fat bitch Failing shit tests Listening to women Arguing with women Oneitis Oneitis for a fat bitch Oneitis for a fat bitch with intent to marry Personally it wouldn’t bother me but good that you called her out I think if you were annoyed. Ignoring all the excuses and rationalisations after would have been the move. As would flirting with the friend.
/r/askMRP24/07/23 02:45 PM
3

Serious question, what do you expect to learn here that you didn’t when you posted this on the other relationship subs?
/r/askMRP24/07/23 02:37 PM
-7

It is pretty lame not to drink in a bar
/r/askMRP24/07/23 02:28 PM
2

I don’t think it’s anything to worry about - I think you’re right in that if the trust levels are high, the “sub drop” or whatever you want to call it, isn’t as pronounced.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/23 11:52 AM
1

That can leave a woman tense and needing to cool off on her own. One girl told me it was her fight or flight response and she was wired after. The times she looked like she was going to call the police or an ambulance were always when she’d enjoyed it most.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/23 06:52 AM
5

That this ended up the top comment is disappointing and pathetic. Not surprising but disappointing and pathetic. A bunch of sitcom dads hoping if they lose a few pounds their wife might suck their dick. Words cannot describe how much more there is to life for a red pilled man
/r/askMRP23/07/23 09:55 PM
2

There’s too many guys here talking about things they have no experience with. You have to support the kid, married or not. Not married you don’t have to support the wife. Tax, buying power, “losing half your shit”, this is just sad and desperate.
/r/askMRP23/07/23 09:31 PM
-1

🤢
/r/askMRP23/07/23 03:59 PM
-1

The story you tell of your own life is a list of other people’s accomplishments.
/r/askMRP23/07/23 10:54 AM
-7

It’s way better when you’re not married to the mother.
/r/askMRP23/07/23 10:52 AM
0

They really, really don’t. You’re rattling off the symptoms of poverty not divorce.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 11:06 PM
1

I don’t get it. You stated the sample size proves your point but not mine?
/r/askMRP22/07/23 11:00 PM
-3

Some of the most successful people in the world didn’t grow up with their biological father. So what actually is your point?
/r/askMRP22/07/23 09:34 PM
0

I’m pretty sure you’re the one not reading that paragraph in context.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 05:13 PM
2

And straight from your link: the difference between children from intact and non-intact families is a small one, and the majority of children will not be adversely affected in the long-term The only facts presented in more meaningless waffle about preserving by-gone institutions, religion etc. Ladies and gentlemen: the male hamster at work.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 05:02 PM
0

They objectively don’t though. That’s why you both feel compelled to resort to shaming language like “broken”. I challenge you to Google it and come back with a single fact supporting your view instead of these vague rumblings about “real” “men” “raising” “strong” sons.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 04:53 PM
-2

It doesn’t though. It’s just a world salad of moralising and virtue signalling. You guys need to take a HUGE step back and think on why you’re here, in this specific forum.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 04:09 PM
-3

In both their cases dummy. Does Bezos look Cuban to you?
/r/askMRP22/07/23 03:39 PM
-2

No. You are.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 03:32 PM
2

No as in “rough sex”. Do you fuck her hard?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/23 03:30 PM
-5

TIL Jeff Bezos and Steve Jobs sucked. The real life dataset of billions tells a different story to this. It’s like… a red pill or something?
/r/askMRP22/07/23 03:28 PM
5

One would assume he’s on a red pill forum to explore rational reasons, not imaginary ones.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 03:27 PM
3

Thanks mum.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 03:26 PM
10

Try PIV
/r/askMRP22/07/23 02:48 PM
18

There is no reason to get married. Cue hamsters.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 02:00 PM
1

We’re all gonna make it dude.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 01:42 PM
12

jacked I bench 220 English not my first language Yah so “jacked” doesn’t mean what you think it means. You’re new to red pill but in a nutshell: all women are for the streets and none are marriage material. And that’s ok. Go check out any OYS thread on the main sub and think seriously if you want that to be the rest of your life. /#cuckedbyallah
/r/askMRP22/07/23 11:29 AM
1

this is the exact method Martin Berkhan (formerly well known trainer) used to sell to clients. and what I did for years.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/23 04:30 PM
3

Joking aside, I would 11/10 do this to make new bro’s: the demographic is right and there’s no way to not participate.
/r/askMRP21/07/23 03:14 PM
9

This is a cultural take. Where I’m from: men talk. We sit, 4-8 guys at a table, and talk. No TV. No sports. Just talk for hours while drinking endless quantities of beer (Laterally mixed drinks have made an appearance but never wine). This is why I don’t need to read u/Blarg_risen ‘s guide but… you guys probably should. u/zed_sin check it out.
/r/askMRP21/07/23 03:11 PM
1

I used to mod a bodybuilding sub and everyone with a diet philosophy was fat af. Just count calories. At least until you’re in the land of the living.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/23 02:37 PM
3

Lmao
/r/askMRP21/07/23 01:15 PM
28

A lot of people swear by BJJ. Getting tea bagged by some dudes in pajamas is a real bonding experience.
/r/askMRP21/07/23 11:46 AM
1

What’s the actual problem with your marriage? DB? Also what’s your diet like?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/23 06:08 AM
1

After 25 years as a skeleton, I eventually took my weight from 140lbs to 200lbs. The big change I made was having a plan, counting calories and hitting my goal 365 days a year for several years. Eating random things at random intervals is not going to move the needle.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/23 06:02 AM
3

At least some studies show talking about goals gives you the same dopamine response as achieving them and is therefore a disincentive. I’d say that’s consistent with my own observations IRL.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/23 05:55 AM
1

Re. Snuggles. How rough are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/23 05:51 AM
2

Exactly.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/23 10:12 AM
4

This tradcon, MGTOW, incel mindset coupled with your judgemental attitude toward others, is the definition of blue pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/23 06:42 PM
5

Psychoanalysing your wife and trying to fix her problems will turn her pussy into sandpaper. Words cannot express what a waste of time this is. She’s a grown women. Give her a container and she will fill it. Maybe you just thought about something else for a split second those weeks ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/23 12:42 PM
6

There’s no big mystery here: you uttered the most erotic word a woman can hear. “No”. And she thought you were hot. Your grammar is fine and several dudes in the sub are from north europe so drop the snowflake syndrome.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/23 07:23 PM
2

I used it for this reason: I’d make an excel table for a bulk, gain 0.6lbs per week, assume 66% was muscle and stop when I hit a threshold bf. Cut back to 10-12% ish. Rinse/repeat.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/23 07:09 PM
2

this and the navy formula are statistically comparable to DEXA in accuracy. Bioimpedence scales are famously inaccurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/23 12:36 PM
1

Did you resolve this while in your LTR and if so what were the results? If not, was it just easier to implement for you with a blank slate? I’m not really understanding your question. You mean my former marriage? Yes it definitely worked there. But it does require effort. Not a lot of effort. And of course it becomes easier relatively quickly. But more than I’d been putting in. And that’s the problem: when you really understand that you are totally in control of the output you get… well the juic…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/23 08:05 PM
1

So what was your experience applying control game to your LTR? It’s the long Game: push hard, get shit tested, pass test, her attraction deepens. Maybe it’s authentic desireTM , maybe she just needs to rationalise her behaviour. Doesn’t matter: by the time she’s in lingerie and a collar cooking for you in her apartment, where you live rent free, and deepthroating you every morning before she rushes off to work and you go back to sleep: either her pussy or her hamster will have long since confirm…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/23 07:41 AM
2

doesn’t have to be more complex than this. Back in the day I really was the best of all betas: jacked, high earning, a leader, reliable, the “involved fatherTM”, never asked for a particular sex act for fear of the infamous “validation”, great social skills. The perfect machine to turn a pussy into an arid desert. You know: what 90% of you guys aspire to. I just didn’t know how to treat a woman who’d won the Prize, like she needed. All Indifference Game, no Control Game. No I’ve got a younger, h…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/23 04:12 PM
2

This helped both my shoulders and posture. What I do these days is 5 sets of hanging leg raises at the end of 3-4 workouts per week. Once I can’t get a good rep, I hang from the bar until my grip fails. Sometimes I’ll do lat shrugs too which also really worked for my aesthetically.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/23 03:26 PM
3

Nice. If she works hard at that, she can work hard for you. So this is simple improve your Frame, Game and Looks. You should game other woman and/or set up a tinder profile. I’m not telling you to cheat but seeing what’s out there will do wonders for your mindset. Seeing what you can realistically get is your best feedback loop.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/23 07:49 AM
2

Plan to get your weight up to 180lbs and divorce well.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/23 07:45 AM
1

Caretaking your wife’s depression and inability to adult is a terrible idea that will end badly.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/23 05:41 AM
1

Is your wife a SAHM?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/23 05:33 AM
3

Based on what? Let’s skip to the end: nothing. Dude obviously has nothing to gain by staying. Everything to gain by leaving. It’s just too close to home for most of the sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 10:34 PM
3

Then you are arguing with yourself. No surprise. Thoughts (frame as you call it), follow action. Not the reverse. Some old cuck rationalising “leading”/gaming/buying flowers for some old whore will never amount to progress. Why would it for you? Of course you’re not a cuck so it’s TOTALLY different and you’re WAY more satisfied with your life. He can just shrug off all this baggage and have a life that is objectively better in every way. Fundamentally different really.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 10:10 PM
5

I forget what your story is but I’m sure you could learn from the realisation that this is awful, gay, pointless and undirected advice that serves to rationalise whatever shit situation you’re staying in. Just be happy for this dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 09:35 PM
8

There seems to be a little flip flopping between blaming your wife and blaming yourself. Generally as soon as anyone says “I have accepted X is all my fault” I immediately stop reading but in this case, I think once you accept your wife’s agency and that she’s a hoe and a shitty garbage person, everything will make sense. I can say there’s zero downside to your post D vision. 10/10 recommend.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 05:23 AM
17

No. Focused on all the wrong kind of details. Don’t worry about why your wife is a bitch. Worry about why you are.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 09:09 PM
13

“Muh childhood trauma”. Kind of the ultimate shit test: the bottomless rabbit hole of rationalising WHY one specific woman acts like a woman. AWALT
/r/askMRP09/07/23 08:30 PM
11

https://www.pokerstrategy.com/news/world-of-poker/Why-you-have-to-let-weaker-players-win-occassionally_101770/
/r/askMRP08/07/23 04:59 AM
3

I hate to be one of the traffic wardens of MRP but you are so right and it is a pet peeve of mine that so many people write off pursuing something they want as the infamous “covert contract”. “Was tempted to go to the fridge because I was hungry but quickly identified that covert contract and starved to death successfully.”. You should do a post on it dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/23 11:28 PM
53

“The goal of stoicism isn’t to be a better punchbag”
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/23 10:24 PM
2

Nobody’s asked me about kids yet. Can’t wait. “RPeed have strong seed”.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/23 01:51 AM
2

I’ve confirmed this is not the case Lmao. I said this so many times under way more “hookupey” circumstances. They are all looking for a relationship. Only their risk tolerance varies. she doesn’t even text me Tight Dread game. Keep your guard up.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/23 09:52 PM
5

Lol life goals. Last time I was asked if I had a 5 year plan, I said: “no… pretty sure I’ll be dead from an autoerotic asphinxiation incident in a Bangkok hostel by then”
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/23 08:01 PM
1

Exhaustive write up here.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/23 02:02 PM
2

Idk personally. I ascended from the mortal realm many years ago. But there’s probably a reason the manosphere universally preaches it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/23 12:47 PM
1

Maybe you just need to get your lifts up.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/23 10:15 AM
1

No to both. Being attractive to, and getting a woman aroused, before fucking her has been around exactly as long as the human race has existed. Privacy and a condom are simple logistics. Covert contracts are defined in NMMNG and don’t seem to be related to this but conflating initiating with “neediness” could be a sexual shame issue as discussed in it. In the sidebarred 60 DoD post on Game, which you should have read (right?), you can go a few links deep into Inner Game. Navel gazing about the n…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/23 09:00 AM
6

I used to do it when I wanted to take a break because I’m dirty, filthy crack whore and it was the easiest way to make I don’t pop back in.
/r/askMRP30/06/23 03:45 PM
1

Doing something intentionally is not a covert contract. If my gf talks back, I tell her to kneel down and open her mouth so I can face fuck her. That is not a covert contract, it is just logistics.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/23 04:24 PM
3

“Tingles are generated from the defensive crouch”
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/23 04:20 PM
26

A lot depends on the context but I generally regret not calling out bad behaviour more.
/r/askMRP29/06/23 03:19 PM
3

Semi regular does not sound like an obsession. Just a shit test based on her own security/ “playing wounded”
/r/askMRP27/06/23 09:15 PM
5

Lmao, you nerd. Outed half of the sub here.
/r/askMRP27/06/23 09:13 PM
2

She doesn’t want to know what you think she wants to know. She wants to know what she wants to know. And that is her responsibility.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 09:10 PM
2

When she says something that pisses you off, you squash your response. When you want to fuck, you squash that too. Great frame dude. Winning.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 09:08 PM
2

Some girls love sex. Like literally cannot get enough of it. But their experience is just a kind of free use/sex doll thing. How do you know it’s not that?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 08:48 PM
2

Im being a total hypocrite here because I had to be told this so many times but: don’t initiate “the talk”, “the talk” Is socially retarded. Woman probe. That’s how they communicate. When she does, just be truthful “you tried monogamy”, “your not sure” etc watch any movie written for woman and this is what the alpha love interest they’re hung up on tells them
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 08:21 PM
1

After 4 cycles of BBB you’d probably crush some PR’s over a 3-6 week cut doing some low volume, high frequency, high intensity stuff like one-lift-a-day or Simple jackd.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 08:17 PM
0

OLD makes ordering pussy more convenient than pizza. If a tinderella won’t meet up in the next 12 hours, just move onto the next one.
/r/askMRP25/06/23 09:56 PM
1

Lol. Irony.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 02:30 PM
1

Somatotypes and clean vs dirty eating were conclusively disproven after their invention and subsequent reinventions in the ‘40’s, 50’s, 60’s, ‘70’s, ‘80’s, ‘90’s, ‘00’s, ‘10’s… what’s next bulletproof coffee?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 02:28 PM
6

Just wild
/r/askMRP23/06/23 09:38 AM
1

Riding does not interfere with lifting. Any form of cardio should be synergistic. Just try trying.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 04:13 AM
1

I think I was here once and that it’s almost an intersection between SGM, NMMNG and WISNIFG. I don’t really have advice on how to get past it other than it’s still projection. You still see her as an equal, entitled to an equal experience. It just isn’t like that when it works. You will be using her and she will get off on being used.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 08:39 PM
2

It’s an asymmetry of knowledge thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 08:04 PM
5

Except that it will. If you only go when you’re healthy, rested, uninjured and it’s convenient, you will never make progress. Re-read this comment every month for the rest of your life to confirm.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 11:46 AM
2

Karelin's life story reads like a Greek myth. He was born on the frozen wastes of Soviet Siberia in 1967, a 15-pound baby so ridiculously massive that this dude's 5'6" mother probably also deserves her own article on this website just for somehow popping him out. His father was a truck driver / amateur boxer who encouraged Karelin to do two things – be a man, and cut his hair short – and from an early age, the harsh, -50 degree snow-covered wilderness of the Siberian forests made Karelin strong …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 10:21 AM
3

Be a bull in a china shop
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 10:34 PM
2

6’ tall, 165lbs and worried about body fat? Lmao. Maybe you should try trying.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 09:24 PM
2

Be patient 48 I mean…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 09:20 PM
1

Yes that is the answer to every problem in life. How tall are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 11:38 AM
5

Shit tests come when you’re pushing your comfort zone. Not hers. If she wants to try it and finds you’re confident, non-judgemental and down do it too, then she’ll try it. If it’s too far, she’ll just say “no”. /u/killingtheblue had a good rule of thumb where if he got resistance, he just asked “are you sure?” One time and 90% of the time she changed her mind. Usually it’ll be more like “you expect me to do that?”, “you think I’ll do that for you?” Than “oh my god I’m calling the cops”.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 11:30 AM
2

These behaviours aren’t contradictory. They’re just two sides of the same coin. She defines the frame of your relationship with her push/pull game and you are squarely in the middle of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 11:05 AM
1

Your kids’ nature has nothing to do with your parenting.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 11:01 AM
7

Taller girls need to be dominated to feel feminine. Tie her up, choke her slap her, tell her to crawl everywhere, ask permission to get in bed or to suck your dick, tell her to tell you she’s a “insert-racial-slur” whore etc buy some gummy bears and make her beg for treats. Just do stuff that turns you on. If you don’t know what turns you on: watch porn or read fetlife or an Anne Rice novel. The theory isn’t going to be far off. I think post hoc feedback is healthy but don’t ask her what she wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 10:54 AM
3

myocarditis Do you have a reason to believe you’re at risk of this?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 10:39 AM
5

We both love each other very much and want to stay together /thread
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/23 08:13 PM
2

There’s two ways to fail the marshmallow test.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/23 06:35 PM
2

It’ll be fine dude. We’re all gonna make it.
/r/askMRP08/06/23 08:27 AM
8

What, specifically, is the question?
/r/askMRP07/06/23 09:35 PM
11

This post is dumb. And gay. But also: Tony Stark is stoic af. The first 10min of Endgame is fantasy level stoicism. Endless other examples in the marvel shows. Classic hamsterbation.
/r/askMRP22/05/23 08:16 PM
9

Lmfao /thread
/r/askMRP22/05/23 06:53 PM
2

Leg drive has a lot to do with your arch and both are ultimately about how hard your upper back is pressed into the bench. A few things help: Training dragon flags on the bench let’s you feel the “sweet spot” of where your traps should touch the bench (people who aren’t me can still get a lot out of the negative); Don’t squeeze your butt (that straightens your arch); With leg drive specifically there’s two strategies: 3.1 go like 80% and “drive” hard as soon as your raise the bar. To practice th…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/23 10:08 PM
2

Fuck I hate Huberman. People seem incapable of understanding that what we dismiss as broscience now, was what was most plausible and en-trend then. Just read the r/fitness wiki.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/23 09:33 PM
12

Would you say that When You initially Said No, You Felt Guilty?
/r/askMRP03/02/23 03:42 AM
2

I’ve read this before and really liked the “thermonuclear option”. Speaks volumes about mindset in a few words: you do not need to have an affair to act this out. Women are perfectly capable of the same level of histrionics over anything and you should not take any of it seriously.
/r/askMRP02/02/23 05:34 AM
1

Trading notes Stop sputtering Cheeto dust at a random interwebs comment and you might seem like you have some frame. If you act like you have it then who knows… maybe you do?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/23 09:28 PM
4

Please Mr Hamster, tell me more about what you had in the past? 1rm Goals: Sq 120kg, B 100kg, DL 160kg, Pr 60kg I know you guys start sputtering Cheeto dust every time I talk about basic athleticism but there really, actually, factually are crack addicted dwarves in their forties who lift more than this.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/23 09:06 PM
1

What do you do for a living? High level, no details. Do you make shit? Sell shit? Are you a broker? Spreadsheet guy?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/23 09:33 PM
2

STFU
/r/askMRP10/01/23 07:59 PM
3

Do you ever stop and wonder what the “red pill” is? Seems to me it’s become a container term for “being awesome”, “being self actualised”, being “masculineTM”, “leading your woman”. It once was the acceptance that men are hard wired to put themselves out for women - whether the woman earned it or not - but women are hardwired to suck a man’s dick when told - whether the man had earned it or not - and maybe we (the men) shouldn’t just adjust our behaviour and and act accordingly? Tl;dr: “when I’m…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/23 12:31 AM
2

I think I would have got the validation of more enthusiastic sex too easily Lmao. Some people are just born to lose.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/23 06:00 PM
2

How old are you dude? Because what I’m hearing is you saying is: “I know by objective measurements everything would actually be better but I’d still think I was a lazy, fraud inside that needed constant self-discipline to maintain the outcome.”. And I’m here to tell you that this is called “being an adult”. If you really do just want fucked better, then any rando off Tinder is always going to respond to you more strongly than your LTR and if you have improved, they are going to be hotter. I don’…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/23 05:59 PM
4

Fact: a new girl would take you lightyears ahead of wherever you are now. Next question.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/23 05:29 PM
2

OP
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/23 12:24 AM
3

There are always references to your age and this tart’s age in your OYS posts. Multiple within this one. Are you with her because she’s fun? Or because you’re “dating one woman ten years younger”? (IIRC from a previous post). OTOH I’m not against celebrating life. So if it’s not masking a shit gf then: why not brag? I know I could replace my girl with multiple girls quickly How many guys on this sub do you think would echo that if asked? Of those fifty thousand, how many would you really take se…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/23 12:10 AM
1

Lol, I just got that 🤦‍♂️
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/23 11:58 PM
2

Lmfao heroic but predictable and meaningless DEERing. Change the record teapot.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/23 11:56 PM
3

Just text her “I am going to make you feel like a whore” with zero context, then put your phone on plane mode if you can’t STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/23 11:54 PM
4

All of your woman problems can be solved by laughing at her.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/23 11:23 AM
3

Maybe you do have physical limitations. You’re pretty old to be getting off a couch for the first time for starters. Testing and experimentation is how you figure those out. But that’s not what’s going on here. Your writing is negative space: all the things you didn’t do last week and all the things you imagine doing in the future. What to do with this observation? Maybe… shut the fuck up? It is a recurring theme here for a reason. Instead, I dunno… actually do something? Anything. Write about i…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/23 10:37 AM
1

You are on point dude. Lmfao. 150lb dude pontificating on form and flexibility? Bitch until you can no longer feel bone on your limbs: you need to be eating non stop.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/23 02:28 AM
3

Fitness Your writing is truly art. Like a symphony: a single theme expressed through infinite variations of DEERing.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/23 12:01 AM
7

Why are you looking for pointers on how to polish a turd?
/r/askMRP29/12/22 10:24 PM
18

lmfao
/r/askMRP29/12/22 07:28 PM
5

Another week, another excuse for skipping the gym 🥱😴
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/22 12:02 AM
21

It sucks that all that stuff happened to you dude but like Dr Good Will Hunting said to Good Will Hunting (in the movie Good Will Hunting): it’s not your fault.
/r/askMRP19/12/22 06:27 PM
2

We should be here to suspend disbelief and practice a specific thing. The idea that alpha = good and beta = bad effectively becomes “everything I like“ = alpha and “what I don’t like” = beta and that will tie you in knots.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/22 07:30 PM
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Perspective is your problem.. These terms were defined years ago. Read the Rational Male, Pook, Whisper, HSP etc. 100% of the guys who reinvent the wheel here are not successful.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/22 01:14 PM
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self confidence must be verified.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/22 01:51 AM
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Validation is awesome. There’s so much double talk here. There seems to be some weird trend where the less you enjoy seduction and sex… the better? But also never masturbate. Driven by hunger, a fox tried to reach some grapes hanging high on the vine but was unable to, although he leaped with all his strength. As he went away, the fox remarked 'Oh, you aren't even ripe yet! I don't need any sour grapes.' People who speak disparagingly of things that they cannot attain would do well to apply this…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/22 01:35 AM
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Alpha vs Beta I would say alpha behaviors are those done from one’s own frame of reference and for one’s own purposes and/or benefit. They tend to be more direct and done openly. Beta behaviors are those done in someone else’s frame (approval seeking) and/or for someone else’s benefit, at least initially. They tend to be for some indirect benefit. Lots of “nice guy” habits fall into the beta category. Lmfao. Ten thousand times no. Worst take ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/22 01:25 AM
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Because her bitchiness, post-preg bod and lack of dressing hot are all impermanent states. But you don’t really believe this right?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/22 11:19 PM
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I’m big on the basics this is all just failure to recognise Indifference vs Control Game.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/22 10:38 PM
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It’s probably more helpful to measure, and be ok with, your drink/drug intake in absolute terms than relative to your peers.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/22 07:36 AM
2

What’s the story with the friend? 29 and hanging around with the same deadbeat friends from high school/college?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/22 09:44 PM
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You might be a little dug in here.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/22 09:40 PM
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A lot of that is a form of reward. I don’t have the answer but I think we all need to think a little more on the nuance and context of whether to A+A, fog etc or to NUKE.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/22 09:06 PM
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I question why anyone would do this if they’re not attracted to their wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/22 04:22 PM
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🦌
/r/askMRP12/12/22 11:21 PM
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Lifting more than you is ego. Justifying weak numbers isn’t. Got it.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 10:36 PM
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I got you bro.
/r/askMRP10/12/22 03:58 PM
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I wish I had his whimsical style but it is straight truth and never more relevant: I look around, I look around and what do I see: Muh form; Muh programs; Muh functional strength; Muh good chemicals; Muh wrist size; Muh back injury. Jfc. For the love of god. Jesus. Mary. The holy saints. The unbaptised babies. For fucks sake: just STOP. THINK about what you want. Set some fucking goals. And act accordingly. I weighed 55kg until my twenties. Now I weight 88kg. Mainly of LBM. I have two serious il…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 01:14 AM
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You get back in your hamster wheel “lead” moar.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/22 11:50 PM
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I really don’t know why you post one paragraph of excuses about lifting each week. If it’s not a priority in your life, just say so.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/22 09:32 PM
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Jesus what a waste of time. I don’t warmup and hit rep maxes in the 1-3 range every week.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/22 09:30 PM
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I don’t know how much you weigh but Ive surmised that you are twig. No form tweak, squat shoe, program or deload is going to help you more than gaining weight. Eat more. All your lifts will go up.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/22 09:28 PM
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covert contract the future dude I’m fucking dying over here
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/22 09:25 PM
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Lol, don’t sweat it dude. Muscle memory is a thing. But the ice cream is a good idea 👍
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 08:45 PM
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Pumping your ego and playing wounded are the two pedals of a woman’s relationship vehicle. If you haven’t experienced the former, prepare to embrace ploughing.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 08:15 PM
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Weight classes are really height classes in disguise. If you’re 10-20kg underweight you are not going to look like you lift. IDGAF how much you deadlift. Seriously: I deadlifted 210kg at 70kg bodyweight. Full DYEL mode. You need to build the block before you chisel the detail. Your height in cm - 90 is not a bad goal but the Casey Butt calculator, FFMI formula or here should be used as a model. In my case I bulked from 55kg to 80, cut to 70, bulked to 85, cut to 75, 90 to 80, 80 to 90, 90 to 83,…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 08:12 PM
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Anyone who uses bodyweight multipliers has identified themselves as one of the mythical “wee folk”.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 06:26 PM
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I pull triple bodyweight and squat 2.5 times. I never did a form check, or found a scientific study that helped but I did have to take my bodyweight from 55kg to 85kg. You need to forget about form and eat something.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 04:51 PM
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Lmao Step 1: touch a weight. Step 2: realise its heavy. Step 3: deload to work on form. Step 4: spin your wheels for a few years and then announce you have “low T”.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 04:07 PM
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Never drop the weight. Do not drop the weight. This exactly how you get strong and precisely why so few ever do. Form is irrelevant and also gay. If you’re getting to the freeze out stage, your escalation is on point and not the issue. You go on to psychoanalyse the girls and qualify yourself however.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 11:36 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/22 09:44 PM
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Solipsism too. A lot like the women people come here to complain about. All these ideas about tactics and enemies are driven by your fear of other peoples’ judgement, your desire to never be a moment’s trouble, to follow all the rules and to lead a problem free life. Projection includes the tendency to ascribe motive to others. In this case your motives. Is it so hard to believe that other people are not manipulative nice guys trying to outmanoeuvre you? Imagine if very few people think of you a…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/22 07:55 AM
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Google “metabolism”. Ask yourself if you really know what the word meant. Also I think he’s just asking why you’re so fat. The high body fat, low body weight populace is actually why BMI is so detrimental to healthcare - not the infamous “jacked at 300lbs” unicorn.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/22 10:55 PM
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the enemy From the guy that doesn’t understand projection. Lmfao.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/22 10:51 PM
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My biggest aesthetic gains came from shaving my abs and upper arms. Navy formula is under rated. Statistically as accurate as DEXA - if you take honest measurements - I like the strongur.io app. It’s statistical analysis but it also ties bf to lifts which has great goal setting benefits imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/22 09:03 PM
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Now you lost the ones with LMR? At least one of us is confused.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/22 06:30 AM
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Bro this is 2022. If the deed isn’t done 4 hours in: one or both of you are gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 11:24 PM
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At that weight and with those activity levels, what are you eating to maintain that level of bf? Are you sure you’re not the first person on MRP to underestimate? You are almost the only person to not clock in at “15% bf”.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 11:23 PM
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It was good until your last line. Still reactive. Still in her head. Living in fear of how the little woman will react. That being said, I think if you just keep LARPing a little longer you probably will have a couple more bust ups and just internalise that it makes zero difference to your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 11:21 PM
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🍆
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 11:03 PM
1

No. Wait. This is peak broscience.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 09:42 PM
1

You don’t have to find any magic words to fix her feelings. Her problem. You say it’s over and broken record that. Basic stuff and believe me I’m speaking from experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 06:21 PM
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Peak broscience.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 01:35 PM
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I think what you want is probably just a blowjob, a hot shower, a good book etc. When you die, all that’ll happen is the average FFMI of the human race will go up.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 01:49 PM
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When I die, I want it to be a big deal. This is just sad.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 12:28 PM
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I’m sure you’re very clever IRL but believe me: you are not as smart as you think you are. Your replies are filled with projection. If you do this much mind reading with your wife, no wonder you’re both a mess. Try answering a specific question, with a specific answer and then just… stopping. STFU is the first skill you need to develop. Practice it everywhere, no exceptions.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/22 01:58 PM
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If you’re worried about form, do things that don’t require skill or flexibility. What you really need to do is get some specific goals. One or two. No more. Then read the r/fitness wiki.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/22 11:57 AM
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Career/Money Look at what you’re writing here. You are fucking negotiating against yourself already and best case thinking of maybe, someday making more money on the side? Lol wtf. Don’t disqualify yourself. If you want a raise: ask for one. Get some feedback. Hearing “no” is not the end of the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/22 12:28 PM
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Arthur Saxon never squatted or deadlifted. Or Dorian Yates. West side barbell famously only did the competition lifts on competition day. I’ve heard D1 athletic programs never include conventional deadlifts. I’m not sure on that last one personally but it’s make sense to me if they focused on something like the trap bar for hinging instead. I pull >230kg and squat 180kg on any given week and don’t train it. I’d squat more if I spent a week getting used to the bar on my back and maybe a lot more …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/22 10:00 AM
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Someone recommended this to me: https://www.painscience.com/articles/mri-and-x-ray-almost-useless-for-back-pain.php If you want to read something but I just go off of what works.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/22 08:11 AM
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Every single person over the age of 30 has spinal degradation. Often including herniations. 90% of your issue is your head. I’m not saying you’re imagining it, I’m saying it creates a very real pain feedback loop. Look it up. The other 10% is probably tight muscles that impinge a nerve somewhere. Deep tissue, hot tub, hanging from a chin up bar help. I ground out a troublesome knot in my shoulder with a theracane once, though it took 30min every night for a week. Squatting and deadlifting is a w…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/22 08:03 AM
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🐹
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/22 01:09 AM
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The dude is going to hamster this away faster than another doctor finding nothing wrong with his back.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/22 01:22 PM
2

innattention is actually the master tool Whoosh
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/22 10:53 AM
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It’s all just noise unless you’re willing to walk away. That’s the difference between getting your needs met and trying to get someone to meet your needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/22 06:35 PM
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You are hamstering contradictions where none exist. No, doing something intentionally is not a covert contract. Taking driving lessons is not making a covert contract with the universe that you will learn to drive. Making coffee is not a covert contract that there will be coffee in the mug when you drink it. You don’t really call up your office every morning to check if it burned down before you drive there do you? Yes expecting your wife to blow you because you’re the “captain of your ship”, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/22 12:57 PM
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The idea that attractiveness is quantifiable and repeatable is the foundation of TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/22 03:11 PM
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Being attractive isn’t a covert contract. It’s like going to the gym and expecting to get stronger… oh wait. Yes you can lift with a newborn. I hit a squat PR while my wife was in labour and pressed the day they came back from hospital. We lived next door to my gym. That helped. Next apartment I got squat stands and weights for the basement. The key was telling my wife I’d make sure she had what she needed but that I needed my time in the gym and she was expected to work around that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/22 11:10 PM
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A Hamster’s Guide to Co-dependency.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/22 02:32 PM
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It’s a PSA dude. You need to work on your DEERing.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/22 01:00 PM
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My back has hurt since 2009. Get a massage.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/22 10:07 PM
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However shit you’re doing, she’s worse. By definition. As soon as you move. She should follow. You can hamster the “tow rope” is 1,000ft long. But don’t make it 1,000,000.
/r/askMRP03/11/22 12:44 AM
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A world record holding power lifter told me years ago: “yah 90% of what you guys call ‘injuries’ would go away with a deep tissue massage”. This has got me through what initially seemed to be a “career ending injury” more times than I can easily recall.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/22 12:23 AM
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This isn’t a jab at you specifically but I am amazed at the guys here week in and week out that can’t lift because muh back injury, muh schedule, muh tummy hurts, muh Life got in the way etc. I’ve been lifting every week for 15 years and it was convenient approximately twice.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 11:05 PM
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All men are addicted to porn. It's addictive. I bet I'm 100% addicted to heroin too, I just haven't tried enough of it to find out. Lmfao. That is so true and so well put. And btw studies show that 9/10 heroin addicts hold down a relationship and a respectable job. Probably because the internet didn’t tell them they couldn’t.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 11:01 PM
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Fuck off with your case study. You think you’re doing better? Autistically trying to get your gf’s permission to go to a sex party and not going, is the same as not going. Your “be attractive” list is good choreplay? And your gf still doesn’t want to fuck you? Back of the fucking class dude. Btw I’m 175cm and squat 100kg for 30 reps.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 10:55 PM
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More Nice Guy hamstering. How can it be your fault if you’re the prize? Maybe your wife is just a bitch that needs reigned in. If she doesn’t shape up, there are others.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 10:43 PM
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You aren’t working on anything though. You’re doubling down on what got you here. Try implementing something from the sidebar. When is the last time you said “no” to Princess Peach? Did you feel guilty?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 07:28 PM
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All you are doing is being a better beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 03:01 PM
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Do you even Tinder?
/r/askMRP30/10/22 03:46 PM
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Its hilarious to me that Game, lifting, style etc is now written off as the infamous “covert contract”, when apparently what you actually need to do is to “lead” someone. I want you to imagine your wife isn’t a clay pot or whatever and that you’re both adults with agency.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/22 12:34 PM
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For dudes that are travelling internationally and do plan on getting a workout in, Google the local CrossFit gyms. They’re everywhere, always have awesome equipment, and, if you’re visiting from abroad, they always let you train for free.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/22 12:18 PM
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If I plough my field faster, then I’ll be given time to live my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/22 10:17 PM
1

I deadlifted 225kg, sleep deprived, hungover and with a slipped disk yesterday. Am I doing it wrong? If so, I probably shouldn’t have shrugged 270kg after it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/22 12:43 PM
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You won’t solve it with mental gymnastics.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/22 06:31 AM
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are you a woman I’m trying to impress? Lmao. This is funny on several levels.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/22 06:10 AM
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It’s Learned Helplessness.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/22 05:38 PM
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Pedantic. Must be a real hit with the ladies. But let me phrase that better: what do you do, or plan to do, because you decided to do it, all by yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/22 04:31 PM
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What in your life or worldview do you consider contemporary?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/22 03:08 PM
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Noun tradcon (plural tradcons) (politics) A person of traditionalist conservative politics. traditionalist (plural traditionalists) A person who adheres to tradition, especially in cultural or religious practices. A person who believes in the traditional teaching of Hell as eternal conscious torment for the wicked. conservative (plural conservatives) A person who favors maintenance of the status quo. (politics) One who opposes changes to the traditional institutions of their country. I call thes…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/22 05:46 AM
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I’d be wary of the typical RPC/MRP epiphany that “women aren’t attracted to fat guys”. What if it meant that “even if you’re thin, being a tradcon ploughorse isn’t going to work”.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/22 10:17 PM
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The secret diary of a plough horse. Question. What do you think “the red pill” actually is?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/22 12:18 PM
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That’s fine. “Hold frame” as they say. A&A etc is good for once or twice but if it goes on and on just nuke it. I’m absolutely cheating because I am just dating and these girls have no idea what a retard I have been and still am but with those caveats: I just slap them (lightly) and say “do as you’re told” when it gets annoying.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/22 10:10 PM
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whatever it’s called “Omega” I believe. Congratulations. accusing me of using her as a sex toy These are also shit tests. Women often do as they’re told in the moment then shit test later to decide whether it was hot or demeaning. Praise is definitely important but it’s got to be a “job well done” type thing not “oh wow I cannot believe you did that for me for the first time ever!”. Compliance should never seem “surprising”. It should always be expected. At this stage, a good answer is just “yea…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/22 08:42 PM
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“Don’t work towards what you want. That’s a covert contract. Do unrelated stuff and what you want will magically come to you.”. Love it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/22 08:32 PM
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I have no judgement or expectation either way. If pressed I’d say losing 15lbs in 3 months is a very unusual thing for a comfortable, middle aged and married woman and that could be a good sign. Some hamsters never understand the concept of a maze to begin with.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 10:06 PM
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If you want her off SSRI’s, you should state it and let her decide. You’re both adults. Trying to hide/hamster away what you want is weak sauce for multiple reasons. That being said, when you whip the mask off the super scary scooby doo SSRI boogeyman don’t be surprised if there’s nothing but a low quality, asexual woman underneath. Personally I’d want those cards on the table as soon as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 07:55 PM
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Lmao “Give me a recipe” “For what?” “I told you: I like cooking”
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/22 01:58 PM
1

Junk volume is a meaningless term in the absence of any clear goals, which is also why I couldn’t begin to recommend a program to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/22 12:45 AM
1

Who knows but throwing shurikens isn’t progress for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/22 12:35 AM
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Interesting take on a guy with objectively the same stats but subjectively different values.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/22 10:05 AM
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intermediate lifter chemicals (natural) good drugs Vaguer by the second. But the fact that you don’t want to be attractive, you just want to “follow the rules” and justify it all sounds very familiar.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/22 08:21 AM
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Maybe you lack the experience to see how vague and misaligned these are. Attractive is easy: shoulders, traps, honourable mention to upper chest and arms. SBD won’t get you there. Or at least it’s a very indirect route.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/22 04:52 PM
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Lifting is a means to an end. Nothing more. If you just wander around with vague notions of being bigger, being stronger, having abs, an awesome powerlifting total, a human flag and looking good naked you will not achieve any of them. Why, specifically, are you lifting?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/22 03:26 PM
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Epicest of DEERs.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/22 07:10 AM
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AFAIK there’s two active users on MRP that look like they lift. Out of 50k. Coincidence? Maybe take the advice with a pinch of salt and get on r/weightroom In the meantime, close grip and/or incline bench, trap bar deadlifts and front squats are your friends. Also machines for high reps. Worked for Arnold and the entire 90’s WWF lineup.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/22 08:05 PM
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I think the diet approach is fine. I often think most guys starting out should fast for multiple days to get down to an honest 15%. Why not? You’ve no muscle to lose and anyway “muscle memory” is a thing. When you consider you can lose 3-5lbs of fat a week with no ill effects but gain only 0.2-0.5lbs of muscle, the math makes sense to me. And I’ve actually done it. Definitely wouldn’t drop lifts though. Many people have had success with this approach but they usually lift very heavy, very low vo…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/22 01:15 PM
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“Ready” for what? To tell your wife off and face the consequences? What are those exactly? If she left, what would you miss? The moment you realised you weren’t happy and showed up here, you were “ready”.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/22 01:04 PM
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fail under the bar I think this will be a good experience, however you need to “commit to the rep”. Don’t get it halfway up (past the sticking point!) then go “ehhh” and fold up under it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/22 10:20 AM
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If I had a back problem, I wouldn’t deadlift. If I could only deadlift 30kg, I wouldn’t deadlift. If I wanted to build strength, I wouldn’t deadlift. If I wanted to be more aesthetic, I definitely wouldn’t deadlift. The only reasons to do a conventional deadlift are if you compete in powerlifting or you just really like it. The same applies to back squat and flat bench btw.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/22 10:18 AM
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Here’s a red pill for you, and everyone else using this excuse: if SHE isn’t fit to look after the kids… guess what the law says?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 05:31 PM
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The moment I see the word “mission”‘I immediately stop reading but I would guess you’re overthinking it. When you go after your own self interest, people will often think you’re a dick. YOU will often think you’re a dick. It’s just how it is. You can try and avoid that, hang out here, lift, work on your mission etc but don’t ask why nothing has changed in 3-5 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 03:34 PM
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Doing something intentionally is not a covert contract. That said female attraction springs from Frame, Game then Looks in that order. When is the last time you told Princess Peach “no”?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 11:17 AM
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That college chick is having the time of her life getting her daddy issues smashed out of her and would probably pay you. Why did you stay married?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 11:09 AM
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I’m not sure there’s much difference between going after your own self interest and being what other people would call a dick. Maybe the only difference is their comfort level with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/22 09:41 PM
1

One caveat though: praise is easy. There’s a reason why this place can be an echo chamber of “You just need to praise her” at times: men love to avoid conflict and just hand out more carrots. Carrots are to keep your donkey headed the right way. If you want the thing to move in the first place: you’re probably going to have to use the stick.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/22 03:06 PM
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This is where routine can help. I started giving my girl the same cushion for her knees months ago. Now anytime she gets angry, I just toss it on the floor.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/22 10:56 AM
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I’m referring to the book in the sidebar, No More Mr Nice Guy, where the phrase “Nice Guy” was coined. Are you lost?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/22 03:35 PM
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Bullying and verbal abuse is Nice Guy 101. They even wrote a book about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/22 07:38 AM
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Future you is taking on a lot. Still. Better to leave it to that guy. Everything is where it should be in his situation. He’ll never make the mistakes you’d have to go through now, or face rejection and in other words: live a problem free life.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/22 07:37 AM
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I’ve not gotten over this fear If you believe your wife is this retarded, you should divorce now and take the kid yourself. 168LBS You don’t have to wait for a Main Event to magically solve all your problems. Just ask her to do shit. Small shit. Whatever she’ll do. Say please and thanks and praise. Over time you ask for bigger shit, stop saying please, stop saying thanks but keep praising.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/22 06:13 AM
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This is all very interesting but how much do you squat? Please put it in terms we can understand like pounds on a bar, through a full range of motion.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/22 06:02 AM
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Dismissiveness is fine. Listening to a woman will just drive you mad. Save the comfort for when she’s earned it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/22 05:38 AM
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The relationship is her job. And her disposition is for her to manage. I think less emotional investment will take you further than caretaking personally.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/22 05:34 AM
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IDGAF about your philosophy, your whore wife or whether you live with her or not. You can and you should control people. You will never get your dick, balls and whatever body parts you need, sucked, the way you want them sucked as often, as you want it done, unless you adopt that approach.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 09:58 PM
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This. I highly fucking doubt Marcus Aurelius ran the Roman Empire by throwing his hands in the air and saying “waddaya gonna do?” anytime he had a problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 11:50 AM
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It’s really not. Seems more like the rationalisations of a man-child with depression to me. Maybe you’re not as in control of your reasoning as you think.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 06:37 AM
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I don't believe the world operates in any manner that would allow me to control anything except the way I reason about things. This is a patently absurd statement.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 10:39 PM
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They contradict because bitches are built to obey. Hiding behind Indifference is how everyone from MRP to Mystery failed at relationships.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 06:09 PM
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Hypergamy is monogamy. That being said when you are not a woman’s top option, she is not automatically going to cheat. Sometimes she’ll instigate a dead bedroom. In that respect I’m not sure your situation is that different from anyone else’s. I won’t project my ideals on them. I’ll just accept them as is Until you realise these statements contradict each other, you are going to struggle finding a consistently successful sexual strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 11:58 AM
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I agree you need to lean into conflict and state your expectations at a certain point but there’s a nuance to it and it does need to be a statement imo. Not something that’s talked through at therapy. I don’t think you’re trying to negotiate desire here but I do think it seems like level 9000 DEERing. I think you need your wife, your therapist, us, everyone to understand why you’re divorcing and why you aren’t the bad guy before you do it. If so it’s a waste of time and energy. But I have no ide…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/22 12:21 PM
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This is the kind of quality content I subscribed for.
/r/askMRP26/08/22 10:16 PM
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Reason must be a slave to passion. In other words, reason is a tool to get what we want but we can’t reason out what we want. The good news is we don’t have to. We already want it. Looks underwhelming when I type it out but the moment I stopped trying to reason out what I should want and just own what I actually wanted: everything clicked for me. Looks like you’re still trying to reason out what you should want. Wrong tool. Flip a coin. What do you pray it’ll land on when it’s in the air?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/22 04:58 AM
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I can’t see why someone wouldn’t take 50% of their net as free capital instead of the next 50 years with 100% of it tied up somewhere they don’t want it 🤷🏻‍♂️ But I’ve alternated between rich and broke more times than I can clearly remember, so I’ve lived out the regret of the latter many times. Also: I don’t give a shit about money. What I’m saying about the open marriage is: If sex with your wife is unsatisfactory enough to do that… why wouldn’t it stay unsatisfactory? I’m an old fashioned guy…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 10:34 PM
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I would still fuck her, in this scenario Would you though? If you lost the fight, why would you win the rematch?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 04:01 PM
1

Someone linked a great forum thread on GSLP a few weeks ago. It’s in my comment history somewhere. Reading that answers a ton. The Hypertrophy Coach app is great too: 7 day free trial is enough time to watch all the videos and see what some good routines look like. Neither have any magic answers but they’re good explorations of what matters and what doesn’t.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 03:14 PM
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You could pick a better program. The recommended routines in the r/fitness wiki is a good place to start. SL 5x5 is not one of them. There’s some decent bodybuilding apps out there these days too. You could pick lower skill lifts. I think most people should either front squat or leg press for aesthetics as opposed to back squatting. Or at least go high bar. And incline over flat bench. Deadlifting is gay. But I think the right path will come into focus when you just prioritise adding weight to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 02:22 PM
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I had to lower the weight Lol. You and every other DYEL guy here. Deloads, “programming” and perfect form are the magic beans of a generation. PSA people: if you ever actually discovered “correct form” it would make you lift MORE weight.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 05:47 AM
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There were a lot of advantages to it in my case - different ways of valuing it etc . Jurisdictions vary but I think at a high level it’s always going to be a civil case with no burden of proof. A lot depends on legal prep. I don’t get the open marriage thing. My ex offered it. Just confirmed her status as a lazy, gold digging whore imo. What do you gain by removing the one sliver of value she adds to your life?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 05:42 AM
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“When I want something, I feel guilty.”
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/22 09:03 AM
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sometimes I wish I was one of those guys who could clear conscious hit the reset button without a second thought You already are what you think you need to be. Sounds like you want to be how you imagine /u/impatientzen (or maybe me) was. The thing is, “who we are” is just a description of our past actions. The only thing that separates you from your ideal is two to three seconds of mouth noises. At rest we are all Schroedinger’s bad ass. I can tell you that I did feel enormous guilt before, duri…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/22 09:38 AM
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mission As a few people have pointed out: this is the placeholder of someone with no self awareness or frame. But I also think the idea that these two styles are in anyway opposed or mutually exclusive is in itself retarded. likely career beta conceived Good? I’m still reaping the rewards of being a hard working, ambitious and ruthless career beta earlier on in my life. Don’t assume beta = bad and alpha = good. main effort remains… accountability Demonstrably not. noticed a lot of covert contrac…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/22 09:16 AM
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Having been here for years, there’s a ton of reasons for coming here. Many of which never involve the dude being a cuck. Actually I’d say it’s in the minority and I’m not aware of any great success stories from that start point. These cases are really when people start talking about “saving the man not the marriage”. Gaslighting themselves seems to help some dudes cope. For a period of time at least.
/r/askMRP01/08/22 11:53 PM
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Followers of Pythagorus had to show their commitment by being silent for five years before he would accept them as students. I think there's something to that. Five years you say? Wow. He must have been an awesome mental point of origin. Wish he was still around. Still. At least we can follow MRP. there’s no checklists, and to have one suggests some common goal Whoosh.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/22 08:10 PM
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Don’t sweat it dude: everyone that can get good work out of those types learnt the hard way.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/22 04:51 PM
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deloaded Lmao.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/22 10:34 AM
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Eh I don’t have the patience to read OP’s. I just comment on comments unless tagged. Just thinking aloud here but I’m curious what you think of this in a more general sense. I feel like congruence and authenticity are put on pedestals at times, which just feels like the quest for cheat codes to me. writing on the windows like Russel Crowe Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 08:53 PM
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Don’t apologise: I don’t care; It’s gay. Just move on. Nobody gains weight in a deficit btw. More science.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 08:14 PM
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It’s almost like basic tradcon types are completely deluded. Even if it did harm your kids: you could still do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 06:58 PM
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I’m sure you know but I think the solution is the same as anything else: try it, see what you like and keep doing it. I get my gf to beg for candy like a dog and/or stuff it into her mouth while talking dirty, cuddle on the sofa but her ass has to be uncovered and facing me etc I think there’s ways to do it that are still fun. And also demeaning 🙂
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 10:16 AM
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Congruence is the model I tend to use. However I think there is a time for identifying comfort/shit tests too. I guess I flip between the two concepts now. One’s kind of “day to day”, one’s kind of “maintenance mode”. That being said: If a bro is going to be congruent in that his actions, speech and thoughts are inline: I do hope his thoughts have been unfucked first and; A certain amount of maintenance is always going to be necessary. Desirable even. You can’t not calibrate to someone. Otherwis…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 10:17 PM
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What is it that holds you back? Is it purely autism? Or some kind of PTSD?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 08:10 PM
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I love how you skewer other dudes’ hamsters on these precise issues, then gloss over your own. Mrs Mommy Martyr is a hindrance to your enjoyment of the kids and a net financial loss anyway you paint it. I’m divorced and still the sole provider for my kids. Got one off my payroll tho. High price for a lifelong companion. Get a dog. Or a 22 y.o.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 07:51 PM
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Cuddling a slut is peak alpha 🙂
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 01:50 PM
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When I’m really feeling my oats its on the sofa, like 20min into an evening movie (1), then when put her to bed (2), when I wake at 5am (3) and then once more before work (4),at 8 I guess. But 2-3 times a week I’ll drop the first and last sessions. 4 x 3 = 12 You can’t spare 12 minutes a day to focus on your relationship?
/r/askMRP19/07/22 12:00 AM
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I was looking forward to the pokes Oh I don’t agree with it. I’m just not attacking it. Right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/22 09:05 AM
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Yeah gf was apologising for taking too long to do sie thing the other day. I said I like that you have to struggle with it. That turns me on. Sploosh.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/22 10:38 PM
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That’s funny, I actually edited the strikethrough a couple of times (unsure whether to place it on the latter or former description): wasn’t sure how to express it but the point is that “type” of loneliness is unrequired codependency imo. The rest I think is just personal perspective but I can’t wrap my head around all these words in all honesty. Nobody is attaching your worldview bb.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/22 10:36 PM
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I’ve never understood the concept of an “LTR”. A person you don’t have kids with is nobody. Trade up. If you can’t trade up, trade down and build yourself back up or just stay out of the game a bit until your market value is on point.
/r/askMRP15/07/22 08:06 PM
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This seems to be a very long list of very specific confessions. A very short list of very vague goals. And no actions at all. So if writing reflects your thought process, here we have someone who spends a lot of time refining his feelings of shame, very little time aspiring to do better and no time at all practicing things that might improve his lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/22 05:23 PM
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I mean you should literally look up dictionary definitions or clinical resources that detail the current (albeit socially constructed consensus) definitions of emotions and use those terms. Not create new ones. Again. You can’t navigate your emotions if this is how you draw maps locked up in the basement King of Cups right here.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/22 01:49 PM
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You DEER with “a glimpse of the solution” then go on to state “the answer”. Now I know it’s not satire and I’m wondering if you are mentally handicapped in some way. I hadn’t learned what to replace it with Likely. the answer is self love Doubt. I could be wrong but I think the answer is you don’t “replace it” with anything and just live with the liberating, but also scary, feeling of not needing any form of hugs from the inside. Or out another way: there is no generalised, panacea for this. You…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/22 09:22 AM
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whether I should be reframing it My girl cleaned up my kitchen last night while I watched TV. Would it have been more dominant of me to take the sponge out her hand?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/22 08:37 AM
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I honestly can’t tell if this is satire.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 04:57 PM
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make my own “right” and own it instead Nicely put. I think this breakthrough actually sounds legit for once and just something you need to keep reminding yourself of
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 04:55 PM
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/u/futilefighter don’t hide from the issue by handing out carrots and then whining about how your donkey is just getting fatter. Only the stick will get her moving. I’m not saying shoot her full of holes day 1 but if you don’t address the issue, set an expectation and weather out the inevitable histrionics, your donkey will not go anywhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 04:47 PM
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Yeah we bandy about the term loosely here at times but l learned a lot from the strict DSM Definitionand examples. 10/10 recommend Dr Todd.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 04:35 PM
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Exactly, this is the a paradox. If I still valued or indulged myself in getting excited about whether she’s pushing to get fucked again, I’d start calibrating against it and I’d have already lost. Honestly it’s a good reminder for me 🙏
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 03:45 PM
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It’s also more than too though: there’s stuff she likes because it arouses her directly but there’s also stuff she knows I like, that she encourages, because she is literally aroused by the thought of me being aroused. In the latter case it’s almost like the more out there it is, the better because then we both know she’s doing it explicitly for me. So texting nudes is fun and validating but when she’s told to do it at work, right now, and “do this and not that”, that’s when the act itself becom…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 03:43 PM
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my fault Gay And you wonder why you’re angry? Edit: I just read that you’re a cuck. So you’re trying to redirect your anger at yourself because your “wife” likes to choke on strange cock (and not yours)? This is all wrong dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 05:18 AM
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So you’re genuinely fun with other girls. It’s just faked with your boring, bitch wife because she is not fun. But you’re going to make it seem genuine to both of you? And what was Dancing Monkey again?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 12:03 AM
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instead of a girl that is ashamed of her body In the last few months I’ve dated professional models, dancers, gymnasts and athletes. Actually: exclusively. It’s become my thing I guess. They are all ashamed of their bodies. They also all send nudes. On instruction but then proactively. They do it not because they desire me but because they want to feel desired. Sound familiar? Stop trying to fix a womanperson from being a womanperson. Just fucking tell them what to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 11:54 PM
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Solid advice. Btw wisdom is learning to take your own advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 11:37 PM
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I am not a clown I am a clown probably 80-90% of the time. It’s just in my nature. 20-10% of the time I’m tired, moody and withdrawn with zero explanation. This ratio is panty soaking.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 11:26 PM
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I just skimmed this so I don’t know the context but I think the anger thing is less complicated than we make it. If it’s “anger” I.e. we’ve been wronged by someone or something, you either take it up with them or stick your tail between your legs. If it’s this sub-clinical-narcissistic-rage that we all seem to be afflicted by, periodically then maybe just consider that maybe you’re not that special.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 11:23 PM
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What if having “shit under the surface” was perfectly normal. Preferable even. And you just lived anyway?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 11:14 PM
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This and btw looking for the paint-by-numbers rules is the NMMNG intro, never mind chapter 1.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 05:29 PM
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Not being able to prove it scientifically doesn’t nullify the concept It does. That’s literally what “The Red Pill” means. A sharing of notes on what can be empirically observed when you remove overt and covert societal contracts. As opposed to arriving at palatable answers by debate. Seems to me that your reply is nothing but a blue pilled narrative of container words and logical fallacies to shame away the threat to your ego identity. Lucky for me: I don’t care. But all that being said, you ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 04:53 PM
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Do you understand the difference between what you want to be the case and what can be demonstrated through the scientific method? If so, what, specifically, is a “father’s presence” and what are the objective benefits to your children of it? If you just like playing house then, as I said, have at it. Family AlphaTM is one of the most common LARP roles here.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 04:13 PM
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value system So are you disagreeing Basis value systems or facts?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 03:56 PM
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Enthusiasm is not different from any other sex act. Yes you can deal with shit sex by nexting and starting over. You’d likely make that judgement on how far apart you were, what (if any progress) you were making, how important it is to you now and in the future and what other qualities she brings. Or, more likely, how ego invested in the relationship you are and your level of scarcity. At no point does what is in her head need to effect what is in your head. At no point will you “know” you have …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 01:10 PM
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I’ve said before but I think LSD, meditation, long walks, journalling, therapy and just not thinking about it all work AS LONG AS you do it with an end in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 11:47 AM
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Absolutely but I had an insight into this from a girl telling me what porn she liked. She told me she liked girl on girl stuff. Especially with toys. I was really surprised because she’d convinced me she was 0% gay on the Kinsey scale and I knew she loves rough dicking. Therefore I assumed she’d watch that. She explained that because she knows how stuff feels, she can put herself in the girls place more easily I.e. it’s her own body sensation it helps her connect with, not “picturing” the act. E…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 11:43 AM
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One thing that’s really working for me is text game. Dirty talk type comments are good but more recently I’ve just sent images or memes that are funny and sex based and the odd random instruction mixed in.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 10:57 AM
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At 62 weeks in, I’ll reluctantly concede there are levels to this and you’re stuck on projection. Not the most basic, macro kind. But in this micro area of your wife’s reaction to sex. “When I fantasise about how my wife would feel if she actually fucked me the way I wanted, I feel guilty.” Here’s two points and a note. 1. What is “leadership”? I believe it’s not “not mistaking a throne for an army”. It’s the second guy gets the throne, and the third and the fourth etc but he isn’t a leader. Not…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 10:05 AM
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you’re not far off this either.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 04:43 AM
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This seems to be a very long list of very specific confessions. A very short list of very vague goals. And no actions at all. So if writing reflects your thought process, here we have someone who spends a lot of time refining his feelings of shame, very little time aspiring to do better and no time at all practicing things that might improve his lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 04:39 AM
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You’re spot on dude. A 38 yo has zero actual reason to define his present day self by being “bullied” >20 years ago (one would assume).
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 04:33 AM
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Lmao
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 04:26 AM
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I grant you permission to get a divorce. Feel better? Feel free to tag me next time you need to make a major life decision. I caught myself judging You got skullfucked with the phallus of my knowledge but it’s still on you whether to swallow my wisdom or not. Although I have to say it sounds like you made your mind up. I didn’t read but I guess your wife is some fat post wall shrew. Don’t forget you can take on a mistress and keep your family together. My ex proactively offered this as I kicked …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 10:31 PM
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Quite.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 05:19 PM
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This. You make a link between it and fat melting off to reveal your physique. It’s kind of like how you learn to love DOMS and freak out if you don’t get it. Right now I am insane with hunger and fucking loving it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 05:17 PM
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Could be you’re hardwired to protect eggs. Could be you’re conditioned by society to do so. Or your parents. Maybe you’re just a pussy. It’s anyone’s guess really.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 03:10 PM
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when I do withdraw she doubles down When I withdraw I feel guilty. If only we had a method to address this. Who cares? She is compliance testing you. Right now she just needs to tug your lead twice instead of once. Why would her happiness be the measure of effectiveness? Is it your expectation that she is going to enjoy being removed from the top of the food chain and placed at the bottom? Happy wife, happy life? she expects apologies Jfc. Who. Cares. Fuck I guess 3KL has a point.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 02:42 PM
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a bit extreme It’s not. It’s 101. Interesting that you couch it in shaming hyperbole. You have absolutely no responsibility for her feelings. You can judge your own actions by your own standards and nobody is going to come down from the sky and stop you. She’ll be happier too: right now you’re having an affair with a little homunculus version of her that lives in your brain.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 02:28 PM
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Sounds like something an organism seeking homeostasis would say.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 01:56 PM
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Hogwash. “Listening to your body” is what keeps fat people, fat, weak people, weak and shy people shy. Your body is lying to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 01:46 PM
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This is well put and actually I think better than this. Which just leads to hamstering about what MRP “is”.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 01:34 PM
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Third week, third time I’m observing that thoughts follow actions not the other way around. Here’s some homework for you: make a Tinder account. 2-3 everyday pictures. Not you riding a bull in good lighting, not shitty, just what you look like. Set the parameters from your age down to 18 and use a boost. 6pm today is ideal. I am not telling you to go out and cheat. Just turn it on and see what you can get.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 11:35 AM
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You know what: I had the same thought after writing that. Maybe I just haven’t come to terms with how many time wasters there.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 11:28 AM
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Take it up with the manager Karen. For dread. Consider the difference between men and women in their reaction to emotional vs physical cheating. The Superior Man can talk about individuals and vulnerability all he wants but that has been demonstrated so robustly it is as close to fact as we can get. Your wife calibrates based on your emotional investment level not your shit lifts (assuming you even lift) or whether you flirt with a waitress. And she is so finely attuned to it as for it to be a n…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 10:35 AM
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No idea. I only know what I shared. And even if it is. So what? You’re free to invest, ego or otherwise in whatever you want. Statistically it doesn’t make any difference to life outcomes AFAIK. But to continue my own situation: Objectively they did need me around pre-school, for reasons, I did that. Thereafter, they are cared for around the clock. They’re educated by others. They have medical. They have friends. They’re surrounded by family. I pay generous child support that their mother spends…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 10:32 AM
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I didn’t read all of this and I don’t think I need to, to tell it’s typical MRP 2.0 hamstering. Or “the blue pill” as it used to be known. Rule 9 killed this sub. Aided and abetted by the Way of the Superior ManTM. I understand the rationale but rule 9 was never intended to take the focus of fucking and tactics. It was a misguided attempt to get guys write from their perspective which is really asking too much. Here’s a red pill for you: there is no difference between a happy wife deepthroating …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 09:52 AM
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I love my kids. Super proud of them. But I don’t miss them. Even once every two-three months is almost too much at this point. This happened the second I accepted they really don’t need me in their lives in any objective way.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 09:42 AM
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Yes I’d do this to failure. Generally I think -10% weight, shooting for +1 rep is a good goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/22 08:24 AM
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Rereading that thread, I agree with a lot and basically have basically done LP for 15 years but there’s one more thing I do that isn’t in there and that is I almost always train in a reverse pyramid. I can’t understand why JP would still do sets across and then an AMRAP. The former is way more in line with Dante et al. I know people say “something, something CNS” but, objectively, that just isn’t how the nervous system works. Eg His example is benching 225x5, 225x5, 225x8 I’d much rather do: 225…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/22 11:44 AM
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The strongest nations don’t need fortresses Lies sound true when told in Latin and objectively, this did not work for the Spartans or anyone else who tried it (Though fortifications allowed China to exist as a contiguous nation for thousands of years). The only people who truly do not calibrate their behaviour in any way, wander the streets pushing shopping carts filled with tin cans. Whatever you put on your pedestal, will always lead to cycles of narcissistic rage and depression. You should st…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/22 12:07 PM
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You think way too much. There is no observable difference between doing all the right things for reasons and just doing the right things. if you act like you don’t give a fuck, who knows: maybe you don’t?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/22 11:06 AM
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Why is it “fake”? Why is it an “act”? Doing something intentionally is not incongruent. Doing something for the purpose of achieving something else is not a covert contract. This like saying teaching kids to “loop and swoop” their shoe laces is making a covert contract with their sneakers.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 05:36 PM
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Pay attention to anytime your voice rises an octave replying to her 🙂
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 05:28 PM
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By the way the job move fits exactly with what I’m describing and what can be good is when you cross that niche with another one: unique certifications, training, technology. You don’t to be the best in a competitive field. You can be the ONLY person who covers a narrow one.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 05:21 PM
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Over praising. Yeah that’s a tough one. I have some experience there. I will say it’s not over praising if they earn it though and you can control that. The best thing you could do for both of you is to push her up to that level. Really look into Control Game in the original Whisper and HumanSockPuppet essays is my suggestion. Similarly, a note from the other side, I used to exhaust myself dreaming up dates. Now my gf does that for me. Always be careful of putting too much on yourself. If your w…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 04:57 PM
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Lol. Going back to the OP. Everyone has Frame. I think people over complicate the definition. It’s simply the context in which you communicate. If you choose to communicate by trash talking then that’s part of it. I think most would argue internet trash talking is a waste of time but that aside, I don’t see any indication of you “losing frame” here. Mission. Another buzzword. What should it really be other than striving to be happy? I think Manson et al use it in the PUA context of having someth…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 03:49 PM
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Oh I can see exactly what size your little pee pee is.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 03:01 PM
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Jesus. Reading the OP… Fat. Poor. Canadian. Can’t play chess. No friends and your own wife doesn’t want to date you. You have a mountain to climb dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 01:52 PM
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Do this for me big boy: go measure your waist.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 01:41 PM
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Haha yeah that popped out at me too. This is all essentially what I attempt to articulate in my own lifting comments. Good resource 👍
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 01:38 PM
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Ronnie Coleman was 240lbs @ 10% bodyfat. You should Google Casey Butts calculator or read the “what is my genetic potential?” Series on strongerbyscience and set some goals that aren’t completely absurd. Edit: dude is right - it was Arnold that competed at 235lb.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 08:59 AM
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a slow somewhat painful realization that your standards getting too high for the bitch Very painful and very true.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 08:54 AM
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i think to myself “you stupid slut” I’ve had good results just saying stuff like this out loud when it crosses my mind but reading the rest you should probably keep it to yourself until your SMV is significantly higher. Looking at your stats and lifts… you might want to take up lifting weights for starters. I don’t want to joke around and be a funny guy because I think that would make me look beta Jfc. I don’t think you could have a simple concept more wrong. I actually want it with my main plat…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 08:01 AM
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STFU and not DEER-ing have been hugely beneficial Lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 07:27 AM
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Fuck that is an awesome thread. I’ve always considered GSLP marginally less shit than most LP routines but this was really eye opening. And I had already read the Greyskull Method book (maybe it was the 1st edition). I’m a massive fan of Dante and Pavel too.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 07:18 AM
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I guess it’s one of those the dose makes the poison situations. Unbridled addictions will always get in the way of happiness ime. why UM, Life areas, missions, OYS and other spreadsheet type activities are useful I’m sure but just seem like trying to bottle lightning to me. Every structure is necessarily a Bed Of Procrustes in the end and my view is that if you lock your shit down too tight, you won’t let life’s little random gifts in. To give a single, isolated example, you mentioned you wouldn…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/22 12:45 PM
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The act of trying to consciously construct the “right” narrative will always make it the wrong one imo. But I’ve never been good at the existential stuff. Suffice to say, I think you guys are two control freak peas in a type A pod and you should let life happen to you more.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/22 08:59 AM
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There is no narrative that optimises happiness now and in the long term, the same way there is no onion. Just another addiction. The rest I agree with.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/22 06:19 AM
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In hindsight I think it’s really the only question that matters. Do you actually like family life. Seeing the kids everyday. Picking up after them. If so then just do what you want. Your wife will fall in line. Loving your kids is kind of a given but you have to like that life too.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/22 06:04 AM
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15% BF A little higher but not a million miles off. not sexually Inner game Good that you went out, got and internalised this validation. But you don’t have to keep pressing on if you don’t want to. Sitting in the fence will only hurt ya butt. And not in a good way. Real talk, there is only one important question on this sub: “Do you like your KIDS?” The answer may surprise you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 09:54 PM
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There isn’t an onion and there never was. But I agree with the rest. 169 Stop smoking cigarettes.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 08:39 PM
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This is a really interesting exchange. I agree with a lot of what /u/impatientzen cites, have done for years, but also with a lot of the redirection. But what’s fascinating to me is you are both OBSESSED with tearing off the consecutive masks of reality to reveal deeper truths underneath. Only to find another mask. Not authentic enough? Aha work is meaningless. True authenticity awaits. Not free enough? Aha nobody matters, not even your own children. True freedom awaits. Guess what fuckers? Life…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 07:56 PM
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As I said to Blarg, I’m not the expert, but I like to get her talking. And that can be very intense. In this example, you could hold her face in a position that forces eye contact, say “tell me you love me” and take it from there. Hawt.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 06:59 PM
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I do the literal stuff and find it works pretty well. Even little things like instead of just cuffing, gagging or collaring her - telling her to fetch the stuff herself works well. Although I admit I still have to force myself into it quite often. But this girl likes being degraded in the role play sense. Honestly for everything that lands, one doesn’t but she’s good with feedback and we’re getting better. Guess there’s no short cut. And maybe, as you allude to, I just haven’t formed the mental …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 06:10 PM
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Yes exactly. The former was always my own stumbling point. Where would you take from here? I’m still working on this myself. Suffice to say that talking dirty to a very literal woman can be frustrating at times.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 05:20 PM
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Something I’d been thinking about since my first comment is all the questions at the end. And I think you’re missing a couple. When you first unmesh yourself from your wife’s frame. Get out of her head and are no longer treading on eggshells in fear of her emotions, I think it’s probably natural to have a sense of “who is this woman?” and a corresponding loss of attraction. Don’t forget that the stay plan is the go plan. You should be sparring with her and learning how to have fun in a non-codep…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 05:01 PM
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I think that is what he did here though. Gave her some space to be emotional. I get the impression his default would have been to sandblast her with words. But for sure the E in DEVI can be the toughest but most rewarding part ime. There’s a deep rabbit hole to be explored there.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 04:51 PM
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I didn’t say anything about it and just let it go Well done 👍
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 01:33 PM
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I think that, as I said, actions shape thoughts. Not the other way around. Sure have an idea of the end point you want. But how would you even know that unless you try shit? Think of it as an iteration loop if you need a philosophical permission slip but just fucking do something. Anything. Again without having read the context, I’d bet /u/along-the-reeds had the best advice for you last week: “Up the alpha bro”. You might like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 11:11 AM
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I do bar hangs for posture, hanging leg raises for abs and hammer curls pinching a 10-20kg plate in my fingers for upper arm thickness. That covers grip for me but just holding the bar, bare handed, as a back off set after deadlifting is also a nice movement-specific one. Forearms yes I like reverse curls and wrist curls, sometimes in a superset. Baseball curls too. A pair of fat grips, or a towel or something, on the bar during on all your arm stuff or rope/towel/baseball pull-ups work too.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 10:51 AM
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You don’t list your work weights but at that height, weight and with you being fat, your DL is probably being limited by being weak. That being said, personally I use straps. I actually lift more without them (I can get my lats tighter mixed grip) but I use a fair bit of volume and want to spare my hands and joints for the rest of it and I don’t want to twist my spine for no reason, and anyway I want a strong grip and big forearms, so I train those separately and more effectively. This is the ap…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 10:36 AM
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This has worked for a couple of guys and here’s a negative correlation: I don’t relate to your issues at all but fighting WAS a big part of my upbringing. I think you might be on to something (for you) here.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 10:27 AM
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Sure you can. Literally MRP. And even TRP to a certain extent. Also… who cares? This is moralising, useless advice and pointless AMOGing.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 10:21 AM
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Little correction here but… we are precise people. I’m not suggesting frame is having an agenda for an interaction. Frame is having an agenda for an interaction. That’s the definition of it. Saying someone “has frame” is a generalisation. It means they have a desired outcome in mind whenever they interact with someone or possibly that they take a second to think before they start playing along to someone else’s agenda. The same way if we said someone “is alpha”, we mean “yah-he-seems-to-be-the-t…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 09:24 AM
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🕶🤏🏻😎
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 08:57 AM
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Actual behaviour is what matters. Not what you think. Behaviours shape what you think. Not the other way about. When we talk about “having frame”, we’re taking a short cut. It’s a descriptor we use for the confident guy who knows what he wants and doesn’t get blown off course by the pushes, pulls, whims and fancies of those around him. The guy that just doesn’t just slip into a limbic, fight or flight, response to other peoples emotions. “Frame” is actually nothing more than an agenda. Be mindfu…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/22 07:09 AM
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I’m glad it landed. I’m in the MRP minority of being a massive GLO fan. For the record, /u/blarg_risen walked me through the latter (Stoney’s) post at length and it was really the last piece of my (last) personal puzzle in many ways. To the outside world I’m naturally “Archer”, “Jack Donohaugh”, Tyler Durden, Deadpool and more and I don’t want to change that. So defining the thread between them and my “other selves” was really key for me. Sometimes ya gotta take it to the DM’s. The underground d…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/22 09:50 PM
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Lmao. When-I-provide-for-a-fucking-lazy-post-wall-Karen-I-feel-guilty. I am genuinely laughing out loud right now but honestly it’s only because I fell for this one for so long. You takeaway your wife’s agency here. You said yourself she’d rather stay home and whine than get a job. No surprise there. Ask me how I know. A&A her complaints away and they’re gone. But while you do you should ask yourself some things: You’re guilty because you’re able leverage 5 hours work into a comfortable living f…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/22 12:54 PM
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The motivation porn reminded me of this. The mindset section of his OP and his subsequent comments are great.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 11:39 PM
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We don’t. If your goal is to be healthy: stop being a disgusting hambeast. If your goal is to be somewhat less unattractive: stop being a disgusting hambeast. Honestly I’m not sure I can state it anymore clearly than that.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 10:48 PM
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It’s true you are super special but you also DEER constantly like everyone else that turns up here. Whether it’s guilt, self doubt or just shame at your lifts it all amounts to the same thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 10:34 PM
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This is what a mindset shift looks like. But well done on a first step.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 10:33 PM
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This is why Europeans will outlive you tubs. Not nuts and olive oil.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 08:58 PM
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LMFAO. You think food quality matters one iota in the quantities you are stuffing them into your fat choked organs? Your fat is a burning building you should be racing to escape. If you think you wouldn’t be far healthier eating nothing but a bag of gummy bears a day but ACTUALLY losing weight: you are fucking dreaming fat man. You are one avocado away from a heart attack right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 08:44 PM
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Fat loss is not a long term process. When these fucking land whales come in, place their Diet Coke next to their bacon double cheese burger tweatteehee to log a whopping 0.5lb weight loss (some weeks) into their Cheeto stained diary and marvel over the numerous health benefits they’ve unlocked, I just cannot wrap my head around it at all. 50lbs at 0.5lb/week (some weeks) is two YEARS. Does anyone really believe they can maintain a 250kcal deficit every day for TWO years? That is not hard. That i…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 08:37 PM
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All people are like that and all people are hardwired to shit test those who (they perceive) perceive themselves as socially dominant. In other words: crabs in a barrel. There are a dozen ways to pass that shit test.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 02:18 PM
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I really liked Blarg’s bowling analogy for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 12:54 PM
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it never clicked the way MRP did A spoonful of sugar is fine but medicine should stand on its health outcomes not it’s taste. And btw your A&A example is a great mini FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 10:46 AM
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”stay relatable” I get a lot of shit for not doing this IRL. Like: at all. Honestly I don’t think there’s much downside to people knowing you are better than them (As long as you don’t go the other way and delude yourself that it matters). If you “need” them - at work or wherever - of course it’s better to take them out bowling and build some comfort. But I don’t want friends or romantic or business partners that can’t get past their own insecurities. My favourite line in fight club is Edward No…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 10:42 AM
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To paraphrase a former CEO (who was actually referring to embezzlement): “it’s not illegal inauthentic. It’s like… a game we play”. FWIW I found it less a question of “asking/answering questions” as “embracing” the answers I already had.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 08:43 PM
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236 (-16 YTD 0.6lbs per week… let’s dig in here. I chose to go out to eat 2-3 dinners and a few coffee shop snacks So at least 50% of your calories this week were yummy cuddles from the inside. my eating plan works It doesn’t. I know what I need to do Probably but are you going to do it? continue Med diet So “no” then. Fat guys never change but for the lurkers THIS is the problem: I feel better when I stay with it In order to lose and keep off a game changing amount of fat you’re probably going …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 06:02 PM
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There is a wider point here too though. Authenticity, congruence and vulnerability is all highly desirable stuff but for the billionth time, they don’t (or shouldn’t) mean bleeding your unfiltered emotions over your wife, friends, colleagues, MRP or yourself. playing a role need not be incongruent or inauthentic. Basics of being an adult I would say. You just need to understand the different levels involved.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 05:29 PM
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Some of us just weaponise autism. https://youtu.be/E00B2O2yhHE
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 04:17 PM
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HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD Fuck I remember thinking that post was so dumb years ago. Now, as a single guy, I see that 90% of your issues with woman are their anxiety you’re hotter than them.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 12:18 PM
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Next time you feel like DEERing practice some quality A&A instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 10:19 AM
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Chihuahua’s aren’t unicorns.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 07:08 AM
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Someone should write a book with verbal tools to combat this. Complete with exhaustive scripts covering every possible scenario one could face.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 07:04 AM
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One of the best notes I got on business was “you can’t manage profit”. You can manage overhead. You can manage revenue. And in combination hopefully make your profit goals. But you can just turn that dial directly. So this: gain 10lbs lean mass Isn’t a very SMART goal. Milestones off a strength standards chart are helpful. Strongerbyscience has some blogs on genetic potential, FFMI and lifts and the strongur.io app links bf %, height, weight and lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 07:02 AM
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I’m not sure how helpful all those old notes are without the original posts or authors to add nuance and context. This seems like a post apocalyptic scavenger dragging home a box from the before time, labelled with the cryptic text “DYNAMITE”. Just slap her (lightly), call her a whore and put your dick in her face. Rinse/repeat. First time she’ll probably just start sucking it because what does she know? Maybe you’re not a pussy and in that case she won’t want to miss out. Second and third times…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 06:35 AM
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I have spoken to a few people who’s fitness opinions I respect with regard to how my lifts compare to my physique. They know that I recently started on TRT and am making disproportionate muscle gains in relation to my lifts. Lmfao you actually can’t let this go. I don’t think I’ve seen a basket case like this since the Trainwreck.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 06:24 AM
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Very well put 👌
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 06:22 AM
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Learned helplessness. I think it’s helpful to understand telling your wife off, won’t trigger any feelings of fear. You’re already experiencing those. They come from you, not from her, so you will continue to feel them when you avoid conflict whether you lay down the law or not. The difference is that IF you DO lay down the law: the world will not end, your brain will eventually catch up to this and you will stop being such a gay, homosexual.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 06:15 AM
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There are many whisper posts relevant here. But this one seems apt.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 09:56 PM
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your latest epiphany is always one of the best parts of my annual trip to MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 04:58 PM
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I honestly could tell she had no desire for sex Did YOU though? My experience has been that a large part of women’s “desire”, or whatever you choose to call it, is reflective. I think a big problem guys run into is conflating DNGAF with pretending you don’t want to fuck at all. DNGAF means you don’t care if it’s her and/or right now and/or about rejection because you’re all cocky and alpha and shit. Or maybe you always wanted a special cuddle from mommy in the first place. Be horny, have frame o…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 02:35 PM
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This again. Doing things for other people isn’t blue pill. Doing things for yourself isn’t red pill. The difference is simply whether you’re evaluating social contracts against the situational context of your self interest. Which of course means what YOU want to do. In this case play houses. You need to learn what words mean dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 01:13 PM
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Checked my weight and body fat too Bf 17% with callipers, weight 116kg At that height, weight and with those lifts your correct bf % = "sausage" Well done on dropping 4kg but you have a long way to go. ​ The rest. This is you. Both of you. Guess which one you are?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 08:58 AM
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Just zip up and walk off if it’s not what you want. That being said: anyone will suck a dick if you leave in front of their face long enough. You should definitely by able to push through that one. Use the power of silence like a car salesman.
/r/askMRP27/06/22 01:18 PM
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I treat it as a core exercise, so I “rest” my legs I.e. drop all the way down and let the weight come “off the muscle” and “onto the bones” of my legs. I wouldn’t want to limit the amount of weight I can force my core to stabilise because my legs are gassed. But if you can do both, you probably should. But my approach was just to do this. Which gave me abs and a lower back that could stop a small calibre bullet. Which allowed me to do very heavy and very high rep squats. Which gave me horse legs…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 06:44 AM
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What feedback did you get on the external consultants? I’ve found external/freelancers need crystal clear direction on tasks. I actually got some great advice on this on MRP. Put everything in writing, anytime something seems like a given, write it twice as clearly.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/22 04:47 PM
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My T dropped 300 points reading this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/22 04:45 PM
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And this is what a thought process with no reference to an external authority looks like 👍
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/22 04:16 PM
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I wonder if you do. If you think I sound like a selfish cunt then I really don’t know why you don’t just say so and/or go on with your day. It’s ok to do that. Encouraged even. But every time you refer to the military, great men, the simple honour in being cannon fodder/a wage slave, MRP or the 48 laws of power you simply reveal you are not your own mental point of origin.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/22 03:40 PM
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You love to talk psychology and it seems your wife sometimes humours you. Good for her. Not sure how long that will last when you start lecturing her. Women communicate covertly and, through the power of projection, it’s more likely what you say overtly just won’t register as it relates to your dynamic but what you subcommunicate, through indirect cues, takes far greater significance than you credit. Hence congruence and not trying to negotiate your relationship or in other words: shut. The. Fuc…
/r/askMRP23/06/22 02:14 PM
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Don’t develop a toolbox fetish.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 07:32 PM
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Maybe it’s true that if I were a different person, in a different place, doing a different job it might be different but OTOH it’s not like I tell people around me I think like this. Maybe I’ve more in common with people that you plow for than you’d like to believe. It’s almost like my approach is… amoral or something. Again I think you should work on the moralising and virtue-signalling-by-proxy. It’s very blue and anyway don’t give people more handles to steer your ego with than they already h…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 06:12 PM
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I've never understood meal prep. And I've been on a diet since 2008. I don't have a food scale either. ​ For me habits are about removing the friction e.g. I relocate regularly and pick a place a with a 10 minute commute to a gym and supermarket and 10-30 to the office. ​ I cannot imagine anything more difficult to adhere to than a weekly menu plan. ​ For diets I just eat the same shit all the time. And its usually prepackaged. So skyr, quark, cottage cheese, whey and/or cured meat for protein. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 02:23 PM
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No I’ve never worked with someone that motivated or inspired me but I admit that I’m not very externally motivated in general. Also I’m not American and was never indoctrinated into this work-will-set-you-free plow horse culture. As to emulating that specific style, I’m not big on self sacrifice personally and, whether in a business or a social context, I don’t see anything useful in it. I’d describe my own style as “aloof and mercurial” and everyone that works for me does things I’m unwilling t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 01:16 PM
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What exactly are you doing weight loss wise? Up until recently I weighed myself pretty much every day for ten years, in the same conditions, put it in an excel sheet and compared the average of the week to the one two weeks ago. Using that weight loss (or gain), and knowing a pound of fat equals 3,500kcal, I always had my precise TDEE and moved my weight up and down wherever I wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 08:41 AM
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10-12% BF No have spent 5 years lifting Bench 203 / Squat 198 / Dead Lift 259 You might want to take up a different hobby. Something, something free T Muh excuses. Have you tried trying? I have not told her or anyone else that I am on TRT Because you’re hiding the badness. the changes I am making Objectively zero though. I am married to the master of shit testing A woman. Also, fyi, being a bitch is not a shit test. she quit being receptive Thought you’d stopped being a pussy but realised this w…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 08:36 AM
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You mention the military a lot. Is this you. I’ve worked with military leaders at the highest level and never been so unimpressed. Actually understanding soft power is very useful e.g. the guy I crushed yesterday was my boss. I still would follow that guy straight into the gates of hell You want to work on that bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 05:27 AM
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But what was DEER tho?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 12:47 AM
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making her life difficult Lol wtf. I presume she’s some fat, lazy, SAHM. And you’re wringing your hands over paying for her and everyone else in your tribe. Lmfao.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 12:33 AM
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This. I think I’ve been spotted two or three times in 15 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 11:52 PM
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I mean the only wrong answer is giving your wife permission to get fat. It’s already got a gravitational pull once the ring is on. She’d happily develop her own.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 09:34 PM
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This is all really well put. I often think on the difference between “dominant”, “domineering” in the workplace myself and anyway the observation Perseaus made years ago about naturals being “magnanimous”. That being said I absolutely crushed someone today but it’s a card best played sparingly. Probably the lesson is that the risk in wielding soft power too often is people will realise it’s soft.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 09:31 PM
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I’ve said this before but CrossFit is fine as a hobby and I know some really fit people that do it. But they all ran a structured lifting program on the side. Just look at the r/fitness wiki. A mod put a ton of work into it and all questions are answered there. Or just Google GSLP or GZCL LP and an adaptive TDEE spreadsheet.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 08:57 PM
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You really should read the TRP sidebar, all the vanguard posts and any of the EC’s that sound interesting
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 07:59 PM
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Lol, once you guys learn what that means you might struggle less.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 03:22 PM
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Mallard cove/TRP EC has some really good guides
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 02:48 PM
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The science of pain is very complex and has more questions than answers really but my own conclusion has been that unless it’s like a lightning bolt that brings on nausea: it probably doesn’t matter. I don’t agree with your coaches article btw but im just one broscientist.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 02:35 PM
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You need to learn the difference between being “hurt” and being “injured”. As well as a healthy distrust of coaches who want you to spend your life (and money) doing rehab exercises. “Sore” knees, shoulders, backs are not injuries. Injuries generally restrict movement, cause sharp, excruciating pain and are often accompanied by swelling and bruising. And anyone serious about fitness is often training around one of those anyway. Credible coaches have people moving as much as they can as often as …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 01:35 PM
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Real men honour their vows 😤✊
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 01:14 PM
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Oh yeah the fat guy. I said this but I’m not a big fan of negative visualisation/catholic confessions. Too cathartic. Back in the day, teenagers would cut oiled up physiques from Flex magazine and stick them on their wall with their own face stuck on top of them. Every kid I knew who did that got jacked. Get some physique goals and fixate on those. Get a style goal while you’re at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 12:53 PM
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I lost my cool and hung up on the phone call Good. not appear needy You can appear horny tho. The lifting stuff seems good. Good that it’s getting hard and you’re grinding away. Not sure what height you are but you are probably fat. You could cut and make progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 12:25 PM
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end of July Lol. Just download Tinder. If you guys had any idea, half of you would divorce on the spot.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 12:11 PM
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There is nothing magical about carbs. And at your height and weight: no calorie is a bad one. You measure how often you stretch but not progressive overload on lifts? Your approach to fitness sucks. For someone that actually shows up, you are doing yourself a major disservice.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 12:02 PM
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I won’t deny it engages guys coming here for sure. That’s my problem with it. I think I called the series a hamster’s guide to treading water at the time and it doesn’t surprise me it’s the dudes stuck in limbo that always link it.
/r/askMRP19/06/22 07:08 PM
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You sound butthurt now. Also it’s not a question, so why post it here? Too timid for a FR in the main sub?
/r/askMRP19/06/22 06:05 PM
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Eh. I think it’s a rambling ode to caretaking, covert contracts and container words. Swings and roundabouts I guess.
/r/askMRP19/06/22 05:49 PM
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Your post is fine. If not particularly informative. One of the flaired guys got his wife on vitamin D supplements with good results. There’s others who came in with crazy wives, are alpha af now, and guess what? The wife is still insane.
/r/askMRP19/06/22 05:24 PM
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Horns wrote a post about this.
/r/askMRP19/06/22 05:21 PM
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I’ve been hitting PRs on almost every lift, but I need to deload What? Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/22 08:47 AM
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At that weight, a raft of your problems could be attributed to it. You must have fucked your endocrine system into a coma.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/22 08:34 AM
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I’d say it’s more like I disagree. I think you fetishise the tools to distance yourself from the task, the same way strangers wear latex to distance themselves from the big, black cock underneath. You have my permission to get divorced. If that’s what you want. You probably don’t know this, and I’m sure he doesn’t remember, but /u/hornsofapathy and I were in the same class. We had a lot of superficial stuff in common in the beginning (and still do) but our paths diverged the day we both asked ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/22 11:25 PM
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You can reread Sepeans post “when to next your wife” if you want more. My story isn’t different from anyone else’s but Blarg also really nails living with a woman whose turn with you is over in this bowling analogy.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/22 04:30 PM
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sex on demand from the wife She is making a baby. Doesn’t count. And btw, real talk: no one who posts in OYS should be allowing babies to be made. You made a comment earlier that a single, high value man your age would never allow himself to be locked down. Why is your case different? You are literally reversing a previous decision. You think it’s coincidence your youngest just hit the age where your wife would be expected to participate in the game of life again? You should start faking it unti…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/22 11:41 AM
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she seemed into it You need to stop looking for green lights and just fucking accelerate on amber.
/r/askMRP17/06/22 11:19 AM
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I'm not really sure why "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is included on the sidebar. It's nice guy dynamite. There are many blue pills. The sidebar is one of them. MRP is another. You didn't really swallow them... did you? ​ Well, he did sell 30 million copies. There's a lot of Nice Guys out there. ​ Tough pill to swallow abandoning one of the few that's worked for me. Who said abandon? ​ It's all a toolbox dude. HTWFAIP is nothing more than an idiot proof toolbag someone threw together…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/22 10:46 AM
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For me it’d be gaining more than 1lb a week. The science is fairly consistent that you can add 0.3-0.5lbs of lean mass a week, so I’d aim for 0.5-1.0lb/week gain (depending on how lean you want to keep it). Always measure over two weeks. Damn. You could literally bulk for 1.5 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/22 06:59 AM
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Not really. We had a sex life when I came in here. I was just really unhappy. When it was better, I was still unhappy. It was the “desire” I was missing I guess. We’d also had a 11/10 marriage for many years before kids, so sex, friendship, support, partying. All over the world. A lot of shared history. It’s hard when that paradigm shifts. There’s no simple way of summarising it but it’s just a combination of resentment at my lazy, post wall SAHM, wanting the validation a hot young thing can pro…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 11:11 PM
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Based.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 07:10 PM
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I read this ages ago and thought I’d pass it on at some point. “The alpha male and reality” has some interesting musings on the role of religion in frame and leadership. https://www.woujo.com/blog/2018/4/26/how-to-hold-frame
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 05:36 PM
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Don’t care. Absolutely won’t click the link. Think on what drives you to DEER like a teapot.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 04:23 PM
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Huberman is just another pop quack and you’re overthinking this. Men have a dual mating strategy. It isn’t complicated. You want your wife to suck dick (one would assume). But if she started gagging and choking on it day one, you’d probably freak out. If she talked brazenly about your sex life to your family or your kids, you’d probably freak out. If she fucked like a champ but lay around in bed all day, smoking meth, you’d probably question her viability as a long term partner. In the same way,…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 04:01 PM
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I've often seen similarities between myself and /u/resolutions316 too. ​ I have to say I did get here: ​ As for the sex I'm with Sepean that if she doesn't put it in her mouth automatically when you zip down your frame isn't there yet. With my ex-wife. With nothing more than just doing it. But my heart just wasn't in it. ​ Honestly I think I was confronting the reality that if it did work, I'd have no excuse to divorce her. ​ Eventually I decided that the whole "its all your fault" mantra is rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 09:54 AM
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I think the dual mating strategy is best understood inverted: Jessica Rabbit is the alpha fucks female. Jessica Chastain is the beta housewife. Jessica Alba is the beta fucks most guys want to marry (often playing characters with an almost perfect blend of physical sensuality and sexual naïveté e.g. Sin City). We are all attracted on a spectrum, with the majority of men preferring a blend and largely coloured by risk management I.e. their own perception of their own SMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 08:06 AM
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Twinsies: we had the exact same spiritual scores this week. I am an atheist btw.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 07:27 AM
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Also this. I sympathise and recently went through something similar. I second SGM as a way forward here. You can and should still be her darkest sexual chapter.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 07:25 AM
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The r/fitness wiki has everything you need to know. Under program recommendations it says “don’t do Stronglifts” for starters, which is fucking great advice. But the best advise I have for you is to leave off googling stuff for now and do the following for 3-6 weeks. Give it a fair try. If it doesn’t work, stop doing it but I think it will. Do the following workout “reverse pyramid” style. You’re shooting hit a rep range e.g. 6-8. The first set is the heaviest weight you think you can get there,…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 12:56 PM
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Looking at your stats… 49 y.o. trying to learn to learn powerlifting? You missed the boat on that by about 20 years dude. I would do some bodybuilding if I were you. God forbid you look like you lift. 6’2” dude getting fucked up on back squats? You ain’t built for it dude. Too fucking tall. Legs too long. Leg press. Maybe try front squatting too but at that height, you’re probably just not built for that either. I would consider incline or close grip bench pressing instead of regular flat bench …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 09:26 AM
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Hogwash. For about a decade my leg day was nothing more than three sets of squats and two sets of deadlifts. But I did them fucking balls to the wall and I added weight or reps every week. If I stalled, I tried new breathing techniques, nose tork or played with my foot position. I didn’t fucking deload. Internally I went to all kinds of places. From the outside every rep looked identical. You are FAR less likely to injure yourself like this than limp dicking your way through endless sets until y…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 09:05 AM
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Not sure what you’re trying to say here. Extra belly fat is overweight and weak is weak. The mirror doesn’t care how long you’ve been lifting. Neither do I for that matter. Get to a gym and stop eating between mouthfuls.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 06:59 AM
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its like…you can always play bowling with the bumpers up, but do you want to? This is a great analogy.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 06:42 AM
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Look in a mirror and say “RPeed” three times. When you feel a finger up ya butt, it’s unlocked butitsnofinger
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/22 06:05 AM
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You might want to read the sidebar 60 days of dread, “Game” post and the links drilling down. Inner game in PUA is pretty crude but in my long life: it’s as far as anyone got exploring the subject.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 10:40 PM
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The income from my business is pretty good; $8-10k a month Good beta bucks but bad sex. What do indeed.
/r/askMRP14/06/22 01:01 PM
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How to rationalise middle class gambling ladies and gentlemen or: DEER moar teapot.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 12:26 PM
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Guess it depends how you define promises but I know if you can’t commit to any future action, it’s gonna get pretty old, pretty fast. It’s a good point though. Do you think people really expect you to keep promises, no matter what. Or would they actually totally understand the concept that you changed your mind under radically different circumstances? It’s always you that makes you feel guilty remember.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 11:50 AM
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Breaking promises is as good a barometer of your self interest than you’re ever gonna get.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 11:39 AM
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I am good at market entry, but bad at exit This is just “bad”. Best KPI a trader has is the number of small losses they take. The wins take care of themselves. If you aren’t regularly closing out losing positions, what value are you adding to managing the portfolio? Someone told me once that paper profits are like some kind of cursed pot of gold in a Grimm’s fairy tale. You try and take the gold out but your hands only pass through it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 10:54 AM
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This is the fix you’re looking for.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 10:44 AM
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120kg Jesus. Ruining every guys prison fantasy of getting jacked. I hope you at least got raped a lot. Joking aside, I had a remote/isolated job years ago, a girl back home (that I married) and I know every one of the feels you’re describing. the stupid part wasn’t making the promises it was sticking to them when I got out Yep.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 10:09 AM
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she sleeps late and doesn’t wake up so I end up baby-sitting I don’t know what the exchange with MitW was but I highly doubt he told you to let your lazy, whore wife sleep all day while you do her job for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 10:03 AM
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Oh yah I meant this: http://www.strongur.io/body_fat_calculator/ The bodyfat calculator. It’s comparable to navy formula but high, statistically is more than comparable to DEXA
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/22 10:24 PM
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All really well put. Cookie cutter routines really grind my gears these days. This is something that’s really humbled me recently too. If you give 100 guys the same workout template, I guarantee “how” they implement is going to be very different IRL.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/22 01:20 PM
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weight 220 I have been initiating frequently Not cool dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/22 11:35 PM
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converted from kg PEAK gay
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/22 11:31 PM
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I structured my fitness goals the same way for years: aiming for lifts at specific body weights with specific bodyfat ratios all with the goal of hitting specific FFMI thresholds. FWIW I got to 25 before TRT. I liked this app too because it let me tie lifts to body weight I.e. I knew when I was able to squat and bench X weight, Y times then I had Z bodyfat and therefore a certain FFMI.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/22 11:30 PM
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If your body is leveraging anything to achieve those lifts… all the more reason to actually lift weights.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/22 10:09 PM
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I think you need to be careful with endlessly deconstructing your thoughts and identity. At the end of the day, you need to commit to something. But my observation is, most people know what that stuff is. They just don’t do it. Maybe the navel can tell you “why” you don’t do it but I don’t believe that what “it” is, is actually all the way down there. You already know who you are: you’re the fat, weak guy, ruminating over a pizza about injecting self discipline intramuscularly and staring into i…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/22 09:44 PM
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Yeah he makes it seem too much effort for sure 🙂
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/22 07:30 AM
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See you do have frame dude. You are a titanium framed, Nice Guy, who believes this stuff down to his very core. Dale Carnegie changed his surname so that people would associate him with Andrew Carnegie. He believed if they did that, they would then buy his guide to people please, avoid conflict, repress parts of themselves and thereby live a trouble free life. Or as Wikipedia puts it “One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's be…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/22 11:43 AM
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you aren't doing anything new here dude
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/22 08:44 AM
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Fuck that is well put.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/22 06:43 AM
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This comment has strayed so far from the context and content that its simply unreal. 15min on Google would show the revolutionary and game changing advances that have been made rehabbing joints for old, weak fucks in the last few years and generally keeping them longer in the game than Darwin intended. I'd like my thots to land with some malleable paper alpha one day. But by all means do your faaaavs.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 10:46 PM
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I would liken it to the company that bought mine. After a few months of my unique leadership style, they told me that they had a very specific culture that favoured the "carrot" over the "stick". I said well, since I've been here I see people really stepping up, working very hard and doing a great job. So maybe the "stick" is actually more effective. They just don't like it as much as your "carrots". But... we're not letting employees pick what style of management we use are we?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 10:28 PM
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Not so much a comment to this as a."tee hee" moment. I think someone commented last week there was only one woman you didn't label a bitch. "Chatty roommate". It JUST clicked for me there's actually one more... tee hee. 6' I'm bringing a tape measure next time we hang out. SVP Downplaying. Congrats again dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 08:31 PM
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I like to quote the man: "this conversation: is over". But only cos I'm a nerd.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 08:28 PM
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It’s the 2/3 rule dummy. 1/3 isn’t going to work unless they’re tied up in your basement.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 05:10 PM
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Not all trap work is created equal. I shrug at least 125% of my deadlift 1RM but lighter snatch grip stuff and power cleans have also been good. It might be individual but I was always able to see the effect really quickly. I am a big believer in forcing the traps to stabilise a heavy, power movement. ​ If you don't want to make the total switch, you could add in front squats as your warmup or back off sets. ​ Similarly if you do these as part of your warmup or back off, you'll blast past 315lb …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 12:51 PM
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A gym buddy did me a huge favor this morning and gave me some feedback on my Squat form, so now I can correct it before it becomes a problem I switched to front squatting for about a year. It was really good for my quads and abs. When I went back to back squatting, although the bar felt like it was going to crush my back, it also moved up and down effortlessly. Just like that peanut Ronnie Coleman told us about. So I don't think I lost any strength. ​ You look good though dude. I would add direc…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 05:59 AM
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On one hand Rollo encourages sharing of his work when one sees another might benefit from it. This just in: internet marketer encourages people to talk about him. ​ 3/3 lift days At your age and level, you should absolutely be lifting everyday. And eating more. This is barely enough volume to sustain life, let alone make progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 05:48 AM
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efficient We don't use that word here. ​ drop sets DC Training doesn't use drop sets. Maybe you are thinking of Blood and Guts. ​ I’ve read Lyle McDonald Lyle was the plausible broscientist of the day. Now we have Huberman labs. ​ Can't imagine what stretch receptors and pathways are real terms but yes I would think it has something to do with clearing waste products/metabolites and/or oxygen deprivation. ​ What in your experience contributes most to hypertrophy results? Total volume taken close…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 05:20 AM
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I walked out on my kids and didn't look back but I still drive safe. No, it's not a given.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 08:56 PM
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You are focused on all the wrong details and anyway red is as weak as kitten. And also fat. You have no clue what “heavy” is for starters. Heavy means “a lot of weight”. It does not mean “a light weight that some pussy can’t move more than a few reps because they’re impossibly weak”. And because he is so incredibly, impossibly weak, the OP is someone who is training with close to 0 volume. I’m serious: heavy is absolute and not relative. If you think me repping out 600lb deadlifts is the same as…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 06:43 PM
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No I am not anti-squat. It’s a toolbox. You should use the appropriate tool for what you’re trying to do. There is nothing magical about squatting. If you’re trying to heal something, you should flush it with blood with skin-splitting pumps. If you’re rebuilding a the musculature round a single joint, you should maximise the hypertrophy effect on that single joint. This “tear down and rebuild the muscle”/“add weight to the bar” is an extremely reductionist model of the human body. It’s taken one…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 06:26 PM
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I can’t imagine why you tools are comparing a third world squat to a back squat. Kind of like comparing waving my hands in the air to an OHP imo. There absolutely is more than one way to skin a cat e.g. my leg day starts with 8 x 2 200kg Anderson squats. And ends with 270kg shrugs. Which for me, at 86kg body weight, is heavy. It’s almost like… two totally different situations or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 05:39 PM
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Cool story bro. Where they low or high bar and how big where their quads? Also what is a naturalistic fallacy?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 05:02 PM
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I truly could not care less little man. You DEER like a teapot and will delete out in a week or two. But for lurkers reading along. This is the typical “real men squat/deadlift” dogma from a bunch DYEL larpers that has guys on OYS 105 who can’t possibly get their 135lb squat up to 140lbs and have deload to the bar for the millionth time. Fact: no one with a decent physique lifts like this. Fact: no one who is strong lifts like this. Fact: no sports physician would ever rehab a joint like this. F…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 04:58 PM
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Yeah that’s it. Pavel’s book Beyond Stretching has some methods to engage/disengage it too. Few one weird tricks: Clean the bar before overhead pressing Stretch your rear delts before benching Step off a box or bench before deadlifting - and stick the landing Slap your ass, hams and quads before squatting Try nose tork They all give me a measurable increase.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 04:48 PM
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Lmfao. Fucking blind leading the blind.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 04:21 PM
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The vertebrae get smaller as they ascend the spine. The hips weaken as they lower. With the pushing power of the typical, north European Caucasian skeleton peaking well above parallel. The body was absolutely not meant to squat. As for the rest, resistance is resistance and a shit physique is a burning building you should be racing to escape by the fastest means possible. But what do I know. I’m too busy chasing girls in their twenties with my wingman Vladimir Smirnoff to follow the latest resea…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 04:14 PM
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This is actually a really interesting subject. I learned a lot about the Gogli tendon organ over the years and incorporate it into how I lift. A lot of gym bro techniques work by either knowingly or unknowingly triggering its effect. Worth a Google
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 04:01 PM
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I don’t think you should bulk until you’re under 15%bf. But like… actually under it. With those lifts, there is just no reason you can’t increase them on a cut. Or at least maintenance calories. I’ve always found calories cycling diets kept my energy and lifts up. So eating maintenance level on three lift days a week and deficits on the four rest days.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 03:29 PM
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