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DeplorableRay/r/askMRP20/09/18 01:29 AM
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1

This is the definition of beta behavior.
/r/askMRP18/01/24 01:28 AM
6

You’re 19. You’re going to suck at life until you’re at least 30. Being 44, Ive been around long enough to know that a dude without significant support can’t make much of himself until then. You’re still a baby, honestly. You’re learning to walk and you’re stumbling because you’re learning it on you own. Amongst my closest friends from the Army, we’ve come to the conclusion that even in our 40’s, we’re still learning basic shit any good father could have taught us at 12.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 06:34 AM
10

Nobody’s coming to save you. You’re either going to do it or you aren’t. Nobody gives a fuck about your feelings. What choice do you have?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 06:20 AM
1

Who’s name is in the house?
/r/askMRP10/10/23 06:50 PM
1

You should worry more about being attractive and when you are, this shit won’t matter. Dread is what you’re looking for, and this isn’t it. Go to BJJ, that’s more attractive than being creepy with your wife.
/r/askMRP20/07/23 02:09 AM
3

So you’re saying she isn’t excited about the possibility of having your child? Just trying to help with the framing here.
/r/askMRP04/06/23 01:45 PM
1

That’s definitely some glass half full shit. Kudos to to you.
/r/askMRP07/03/23 07:15 AM
7

So would a handful of 8 balls. 🤣
/r/askMRP27/01/23 06:05 PM
7

Going from 13% to 10% in three months is absolutely brutal discipline. That takes most folks a good year.
/r/askMRP27/01/23 01:57 PM
12

Have you read the terms for posting here? Have you read any of the sidebar? Where are your stats? Or did you just assume you could come here, take a shit on the subreddit, and assume everyone is gonna validate your feelz?
/r/askMRP26/01/23 08:41 PM
7

But is he wrong?
/r/askMRP26/01/23 08:33 PM
9

Nobody asked you to post this bullshit. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/askMRP26/01/23 08:30 PM
-1

This explains your shitty strength. What a shame to be 6’2 and not lift for strength.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 09:04 PM
0

You can’t find your optimal 8-10-12 rep weight ranges without knowing your 1RM. You should be doing reps in the 70-80% range of your one max rep. I’m sorry your ego is to fragile to find that out. Do you even lift bro?
/r/askMRP12/12/22 08:42 PM
1

I don’t think anyone here is gonna let some dude with these lifts tell us not to skip legs day. I’m just saying, maybe put in some fucking work first, and then give advice. If you’re not aware of your 1RM, then you aren’t doing weightlifting right. IMO.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:23 PM
1

Deloaded from what? These are female lifts
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:05 PM
4

So why come back?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/22 09:52 PM
0

Lol
/r/askMRP03/11/22 10:31 PM
1

Thanks for your opinion.
/r/askMRP03/11/22 09:18 PM
3

This is it. But six months could be a fad or a phase. Maybe she doesn’t believe you yet. Tell me, OP, have you had your main event? I’ve been pulling that rope for two years, for the sake of the kids. Main event was 1 year ago. I’ve been looking for a reason to use this knife.
/r/askMRP03/11/22 01:11 AM
2

See the sidebar concerning dread. Also, your frame and boundaries suck. Is this something you will or will not put up with? Covert contracts will kill your here. Communicate clearly and follow through.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 03:18 PM
3

It doesn’t happen as fast as some of us would like. I was very overweight, and my mind matured much faster than my attractiveness. It was frustrating. I didn’t start noticing abundance for almost three years. Read the books, lift the weights, stfu, and find your mission. Enjoy the journey.
/r/askMRP26/10/22 01:09 PM
3

You’re not “waiting for results.” You focusing on making yourself more attractive. Not for her, not for your coworker, only for yourself. When you’re fuckable, you’ll know it, and they’ll know it. The world will let you know.
/r/askMRP26/10/22 12:57 PM
2

Tell us “anon” if you don’t we can’t help you. How big is she?
/r/askMRP23/10/22 10:19 PM
2

Calling bullshit on being submissive during sex. How much does she weigh bro?
/r/askMRP23/10/22 07:55 PM
2

This ain’t it.
/r/askMRP05/10/22 09:37 PM
1

She’s dreaming of a strong man to come into her life and save her, and you’re worried about how rude it is to be silent. Your road is a long one.
/r/askMRP05/10/22 09:36 PM
5

Ya’ll didn’t complain, huh? Lmfao, ya’ll still complaining.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 10:02 PM
2

We all bow under pressure. That’s literally everything they’re teaching here. Do you even know what a shit test is? I agree, you should do more studying and less typing.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 04:33 AM
15

He’s a brand. A brand that took a hit. He’s trying to fix that. Maybe you write a piece about not following brands if that’s your advice, which is good advice. But this is nothing but salty tears.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 10:00 PM
38

Maybe you should stop looking for saviors. Tate is in Tate’s frame, and it appears that you are, too. Maybe I’m missing the part where he owes you something…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 09:44 PM
101

Don’t let fish teach you how to fish. This is basic shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 12:31 AM
9

Of course they are, duh?!?! Why do you think they found this place? The point is to help those guys out. Some of us have our own ideas of what that looks like. If you don't like it, go be randomly angry somewhere else.
/r/askMRP09/09/22 12:26 AM
10

I wouldn’t suggest skipping any of it. If you’re looking for a shortcut, you’re sure to be disappointed.
/r/askMRP08/09/22 09:23 PM
4

Find the sidebar and read up on the concept of dread. That’s what you’re really looking for.
/r/askMRP08/09/22 05:57 PM
4

You’re putting the cart before the horse. Are you attractive? Good frame? Once you make yourself fuckable, gaming/flirting will be an after thought and will flow easily.
/r/askMRP08/09/22 05:04 PM
1

Jesus Christ, dude. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/askMRP07/09/22 05:15 AM
3

But what if it was his ego? What if he’s just owning his shit? Seems legit. Nothing you responded with was helpful.
/r/askMRP06/09/22 11:25 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askMRP06/09/22 07:27 PM
8

Idk, she can respect him and have a girls trip if she wants. Any man with good frame and established boundaries can handle that. Sounds like she really needed a vacation from this guy, though.
/r/askMRP06/09/22 07:10 PM
6

You dig your own holes. You must be new here. Sidebar, lift, and STFU.
/r/askMRP06/09/22 07:06 PM
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If she was yours, and cared about what you thought, she’d be sending you pictures of her holiday and wishing you were there. That’s what gives me that impression.
/r/askMRP06/09/22 07:01 PM
37

It’s better to be a commodity than an ATM. Hit the gym bros.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 01:56 PM
1

I noticed you do mountain biking. Trestle is one of the best.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 01:22 PM
3

What’s the most troubling part of your relationship?
/r/askMRP04/09/22 02:37 PM
8

If you think lifting isn’t more of a mental boost than a physical, clearly you’ve never lifted anything.
/r/askMRP03/09/22 04:08 PM
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You’re in the right place. Read the sidebar and come back to us in 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 08:19 PM
1

Touching? Bro, your girl is fucking other dudes and you still want her, that’s what’s really touching.
/r/askMRP30/08/22 06:44 PM
24

Am I missing his point? What is this?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 09:44 PM
3

These are cheat codes.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/22 10:44 PM
3

Are you attractive?
/r/askMRP27/08/22 02:53 PM
2

Because this place really helped me, and I’d hate for it not to help you because you just “skimmed” the material. That’s basically why we’re all here. For you, f*ucktwat.
/r/askMRP27/08/22 02:09 AM
1

You’re e-reader doesn’t have these functions? Just admit you didn’t do the work.
/r/askMRP26/08/22 01:59 PM
1

It’s called comprehensive reading. Use a highlighter, page markers, and a notebook. That should help you out.
/r/askMRP26/08/22 01:14 PM
1

Maybe you should go to the sidebar and read something. If you don’t recognize that phrase, it’s a tell you probably haven’t read anything.
/r/askMRP26/08/22 12:16 AM
1

Good news. Sometimes a little beta can go along way, you need both. I have had to manage similar situations on my journey, and I made some mistakes with that. I find it helpful to keep a calendar with my hobbies so the spouse knows when I’ll be doing things way in advance, and the calendar acts as my boundary. I don’t even have the discussion anymore. I point to the calendar, and she just deals. Oddly enough, the rope pulls and she starts doing her own calendar, and suddenly the ships has a dire…
/r/askMRP25/08/22 04:42 PM
1

So, just her feelz. You know you’re not responsible for others feeling, right?
/r/askMRP25/08/22 12:34 AM
1

Other than her feelz taking a hit, what other real world consequences would there have been had you decided to go?
/r/askMRP24/08/22 08:16 PM
2

In your mind, end everyone of her statements with “right now.” What she wants righ now might not be what she wants tomorrow. AWALT.
/r/askMRP24/08/22 04:00 PM
1

Dude, you and I have a lot in common. You done trestle at winter park, yet?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 05:37 PM
1

I’m a MRP guy. Many people come here from different places in life looking for different things. There is no step by step process where you’re at stage “x.” People come here to fix being unattractive. Sure, I get what you’re saying, you find yourself along the way. The sub is exactly about what the sub description says it is.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 04:30 PM
1

You’re making a lot of assumptions.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 04:20 PM
1

It’s the logical conclusion to self improvement, sure. But this sub is intended for sexual strategies, getting your shit in order to be attractive is a by product of that.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 04:14 PM
1

If you are new to exercise, getting a trainer can help you lean in to that. No sugar and oils is an easy way to maintain a good diet.
/r/askMRP23/08/22 03:11 PM
0

Have you read the description on the home page of the sub?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 01:12 PM
-6

I’m pretty certain that TRP is a sexual strategy community. Congratulations on not hating yourself anymore.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 10:52 PM
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“A woman naturally has less sex drive…” for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/22 05:19 PM
1

Most parents are miserable and get divorces around age 5. The ones that work, work because the parents put each other first and raise their (own*) kids together. Take from that what you will, but just because something is normal does not mean its working. *This kid is not yours and you will never have the authority that being his real dad will provide. Therefore you will never be raising this kid "together."
/r/askMRP19/08/22 10:31 PM
2

Just pointing him in the right direction. I wish him luck.
/r/askMRP11/08/22 10:24 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/askMRP11/08/22 09:03 PM
3

What’s requiring you to put up with this, I’m confused? Dread is probably the answer your looking for. Go work on yourself.
/r/askMRP11/08/22 12:50 PM
22

Is this an example of everything not to do?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 09:51 PM
1

My take? You’re angry because you do not have an abundance mind set. There are plenty of women on this planet, and some of them would love a shot at you. Statistically, it’s absolutely true. Internalize this. She gets first crack at your libido, and that’s it. Your dread game must suck, and she’s seeing through it. Make it real to her. Set yourself a boundary. Stick to it.
/r/askMRP09/08/22 07:34 PM
4

You become so valuable that your time and attention actually mean something.
/r/askMRP07/08/22 05:47 PM
1

I won’t argue with any of that.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 12:26 AM
2

That’s just so obvious that I didn’t think to address it. Either way, the idea that making more money, to make her happy is way out of frame. That falls more in line with your mission, than with your relationship.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 12:14 AM
8

It’s the same problem. You both want something that you don’t have and don’t know how to get it. And from the sound of things, your wife doesn’t in fact fuck you, you just fuck her. Oddly enough, the answers to both of these situations are the same.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 12:08 AM
10

There are actually good questions. Those questions occur when someone is actually reading the sidebar, and finds something incongruent. What you’re doing is showing up to class and asking the teacher to review last nights homework because you didn’t do it, not because you didn’t understand it.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:40 PM
6

Maybe this is literally in the side bar and we aren’t here to hold your hand like a toddler, or your wife, for that matter. I’m beginning to believe your problem is that you want everything spoon fed to you like a baby.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:29 PM
5

“Alpha” is what makes her wet. Your money doesn’t do that. Remember, the pool boy gets it for free. Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates aren’t dropping panties.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 10:38 PM
5

Earning power does not equal high value. There are an infinite amount of ways to be valuable. Maybe OP could be more physically fit. Perhaps he could improve his social skills. It might be as simple as not not being a giant pussy. If she’s banging you for cash, it’s the cash she wants, not you.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 09:51 PM
4

This is patently false.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 09:14 PM
5

Is this a troll post?
/r/askMRP20/07/22 06:17 PM
2

Covert contracts for as far as the eye can read.
/r/askMRP07/07/22 06:11 PM
1

Autist much?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 05:39 PM
0

https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/21/kill-the-beta-2/
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 07:47 PM
2

“How easy would it be to revert back to my old ways” This essentially means you’re still stuck in your old ways. Once you see yourself for who you were, it will disgust you to think about your “old ways.” Until you have throughly killed your former self, he will continue to haunt you. Back to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/22 01:53 PM
1

I wouldn’t call it a medical diagnosis, but I have a chronic condition where I just can’t seem to keep my mouth shut. And while this condition has gotten much better, the one thing I did to make it better was owning my shit. For instance, I once outed a friend for being on tinder. And while I used to try to play it off or act like it’s no big deal, I now just admit I did it and apologize. Try to do better next time. I found that people can be pretty forgiving if you act like an adult about your …
/r/askMRP26/06/22 09:44 PM
1

I could fuck her for you if you can’t decide.
/r/askMRP19/06/22 12:53 PM
1

Honest mistakes. Fucking is fun, and you had a kid. You seem to like that kid, which I get, because I like my kids, too. Opportunity cost doesn’t get its due here at mrp, but it’s exactly what we’re talking about here. What is the next best option. Even if they’re all shitty options, one of them is “next best.” You want to see your kid everyday, and they’re trying to find out how much shit they can give you before you trade that outcome. Given your situation, I wouldn’t have done much different.…
/r/askMRP17/06/22 10:18 PM
1

She has no urgency to keep you happy. In womanese, this is the same thing as showing you the door.
/r/askMRP17/06/22 09:24 PM
7

Dude, you’re doing this backwards. When you’re valuable enough to fuck, she’ll know it and come to you. Go find your fucking mission and focus on that. Go back to dread level one and start over. Remind her that she gets first the first crack at your libido, and when she doesn’t, you move on. This is too much energy wasted chasing validation and entirely too many covert contracts. You might not smell it, but it’s making her nauseous.
/r/askMRP17/06/22 02:44 PM
2

You could do nothing, and then get on with fixing your own shit.
/r/askMRP08/06/22 09:25 PM
5

Those wins are for you. Your wife doesn’t care, because she probably won’t believe it without seeing it for herself, which only works if she believes you can seal the deal.
/r/askMRP03/05/22 03:33 PM
5

She should be the absolute last thing you should be worried about right now. The go plan is the same as the stay plan.
/r/askMRP01/05/22 05:24 PM
1

If you have to ask if these are your options, you’re either out of other options or you’re mentally lazy. Stop emoting and start thinking.
/r/askMRP13/04/22 12:52 PM
3

We’ve all read the sidebar, right? This reads like a book report. Great information, but isn’t this just a form of mental masturbation? How about a field report on an action and an outcome? Otherwise, this isn’t helpful, unless you haven’t read the sidebar yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/22 01:18 PM
33

I think the real red pill is that human nature doesn’t change. We may have more accurate info of the state of that nature, but it’s always been this way.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 10:53 PM
4

Lol. This is ridiculous. You came to the internet to ask strangers how you should handle your road rage. Guarantee you don’t lift or read. Try finding some stoicism in your life. Not letting little things bother you is a superpower. Being above petty squabbles is a lot more alpha™️ than getting butthurt about a parking spot. JFC
/r/askMRP07/03/22 04:30 PM
17

Lol, who gave you permission?
/r/askMRP28/02/22 01:18 PM
9

I’m not sure you can be helped by internet strangers on this one. However, you don’t seem to be very outcome independent. Your frame is terrible.
/r/askMRP22/02/22 08:20 PM
5

I bet you have a lot of opinions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 08:39 PM
10

The is what Titanic was really about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 07:28 PM
3

This is a classic case of you not being outcome independent. If you want to make her coffee, make her some fucking coffee. Who cares about the covert contract? It’s only a power play because of how you respond, and in this case you’re responding with your hamster.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 04:04 PM
4

Did the chiefs lose or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 12:27 AM
1

Where is she suppose to leave them?
/r/askMRP08/01/22 07:56 PM
0

Try not giving a fuck and focus on yourself. She’s not a pet that you swat at for shitting in the house. You don’t own her. Who cares if she’s on her phone? Is someone needing a whittle attention? Maybe if you were more interesting and less of a little bitch, you’d get some.
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:24 PM
1

Yeah. You’ll find a lot in common with the main character. You both have the same world view. Looking in the mirror is the best way to see yourself.
/r/askMRP30/12/21 01:55 PM
1

Maybe you should spend some time browsing MRP. This question is better answered by the men on the other side with experience. You seem to have this pov that it’s with AF or BB, but in truth it’s having both and learning the balance.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 03:05 PM
1

Catcher In The Rye, by JD Salinger. You're quite the Holden.
/r/askMRP10/12/21 10:54 PM
1

Scratch my post, you're clearly admitting it. That's fair.
/r/askMRP09/12/21 07:47 PM
1

This reply makes it clear to everyone that you haven't read a damn thing. DYEL?
/r/askMRP09/12/21 07:45 PM
5

Retarded? Yes. Anything you read on the sidebar should have left you with some idea of a balance between alpha and beta. Mostly it just sounds like your aftercare sucks.
/r/askMRP04/12/21 09:31 PM
1

This is about to get nuked. May god have mercy on your soul.
/r/askMRP30/11/21 04:38 PM
1

This has a lack of abundance written all over it. She doesnt respect you because you have no options. Time spent at the gym will get her attention. Time on your phone, not quite. You're not pulling your attention away from her, you're pulling it away from a nonproductive endeavor and placing yourself in a productive one. Has nothing to do with her.
/r/askMRP25/11/21 02:54 PM
1

"It's like she's unwilling to acknowledge my improvements and almost seeming jealous or angry." This is whats really bothering you. Put her on your rope. Save yourself first, the marriage will follow or not.
/r/askMRP28/10/21 04:01 PM
0

This is not a true statement.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 05:54 PM
3

Funny how all the guys saying read the sidebar, have no idea what this guy is talking about. Sounds about right. Good luck with your search.
/r/askMRP28/09/21 06:44 PM
7

When did stfu and leadership become mutually exclusive?
/r/askMRP14/09/21 04:31 PM
2

Autist much?
/r/askMRP14/09/21 01:16 PM
1

We all knew you had shitty frame from the first words you wrote. How about you just write your post how You want to and let us decide if it’s garbage. You literally started this post in our frame. Read it again.
/r/askMRP10/09/21 08:51 PM
4

You’ll find that in the gym. I would assume most of these problems would be solved with 17% bf and a 400lb deadlift. Just sayin, women don’t treat guys like this, they way yours treats you.
/r/askMRP24/08/21 10:52 PM
1

autists.... lol, yeah, spell check got me.
/r/askMRP19/08/21 04:54 PM
3

His sidebar series is a good companion to the book, particularly for those artists among us.
/r/askMRP19/08/21 04:46 PM
15

Rian is the only one I’m subscribed. He’s easy to listen to and there’s never some flex for authenticity.
/r/askMRP19/08/21 03:56 PM
1

It’s all but a given that she’s been sleeping around the last two years, can’t be certain, but she hasn’t been dreaming about banging you, for sure. I’d go find yourself a lawyer. Have a conversation about your options and know where you stand. You’re about to be inundated with boundary tests. I’d have a long conversation with yourself about what those are, and stick to them. And stfu. Also, just so we’re clear, you should stfu. For real. Did I mention shutting the f*icy up?
/r/askMRP05/08/21 08:57 PM
18

She is just dreading the idea of having to come back to you. If she was really that into you, she wouldn't have left for two years. Let me guess, you're paying for everything, too...
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:51 PM
1

The go plan is the same as the stay plan….
/r/askMRP24/07/21 07:29 PM
-1

When you aren’t weaponizing sex for a particular outcome or covert contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:29 PM
8

I can’t get a divorce or have an affair, but I’d like some long term strategies for getting a divorce or having an affair. Dude, do you read this shit before you post it?
/r/askMRP17/06/21 08:47 PM
1

Let’s play a game. Can you guess how many sentences start with “She?”
/r/askMRP17/06/21 08:05 PM
2

There's no dread. You aren't attractive enough, yet. What do your numbers look like?
/r/askMRP13/06/21 01:21 AM
9

Don’t wish the game was easier... wish you were better.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 06:43 PM
2

8-9’s don’t have these issues. That’s a damned lie.
/r/askMRP06/05/21 09:48 PM
-1

What do you think you look good in? Find your own style. If you're hitting the gym, try blue jeans and a white t-shirt.
/r/askMRP23/03/21 12:55 AM
7

I did this with a positive outcome. But I warn you, if you don't have your shit together... if you are not her best option, it will not work. This is a exercise in demonstrating value, and it has to be real value.
/r/askMRP09/03/21 05:23 PM
2

I see this post being locked in 3...2...1...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 11:30 PM
6

The correct answer is both. I do two weeks heavy, two weeks light. If you don’t change up your training you’ll plateau and overwork/use your muscles. Best advice is to find a trainer who can put a program together based on your body type and goals. All advice here is worthless because we don’t know where you’re at.
/r/askMRP29/11/20 06:13 PM
26

This dudes concerned about looking weak at the gym. First thing you could do is find some balls/frame and give zero fucks about looking weak at the gym. I’ve never met a gym bro who’s first instinct is to bully the new guy. That shit is all in your head.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 09:37 PM
2

That’s why you keep options. Desire is non negotiable.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 09:07 PM
3

Solipsism. Dual female dating strategy. Putting women on a pedestal, covert contracts... this post has everything.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 03:10 PM
1

How did Rational male not make this list?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 10:13 PM
1

We’ve always had the keys to our own prisons. We’ve just been to scared to use them... or something like that...
/r/askMRP28/07/20 03:05 PM
1

You use the word "she" 19 times in this vomit.
/r/askMRP05/07/20 05:40 PM
3

Remember, you don’t “have” to be married to do this.
/r/askMRP27/06/20 01:40 AM
0

Idk, man. Sounds like something a dude without an ass or chest would say.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 08:29 PM
2

That’s the best damn preworkout.
/r/askMRP20/06/20 10:54 PM
2

Do you feel like flirting? Do you feel like giving her affection? What dance is the monkey performing tonight?
/r/askMRP20/06/20 10:43 PM
13

There’s no such thing. Lmao. Well played.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/20 05:35 PM
3

Great advice.
/r/askMRP09/06/20 03:43 PM
38

Men looking to start a family (likely the guys she’s looking for) cannot do that with a 40yo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 06:25 PM
3

Yikes.
/r/askMRP25/04/20 06:30 PM
3

Bro, the price for being stupid in my house is push ups. The more severe the infraction, the more push ups they have to do. I have two boys, 11 and 6. It works well and you're building their frame and confidence. Yelling, time out, taking away their luxuries all require you be be the opposition. If you are emotional at the moment, like I can get, then do the push ups with them. Shows good leadership. I always tell them, if you're going to be stupid, you might as well be strong.
/r/askMRP14/04/20 01:39 PM
7

I used to think my wife had a low sex drive, turns out she just wasn’t into a weak piece of shit that needed validation. I got my shit in order and smashed it at the gym, now I get sex when I want, enthusiastically. She can’t submit to a chump. If all else fails, dread dread dread.
/r/askMRP07/04/20 03:40 PM
9

They know. Trust me, I’m 40 and I’m seeing it all in slow motion. When the attention from the men she “wants” attention from stop calling, they know.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 04:05 AM
1

How is this not locked yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:18 PM
6

He doesn’t even tell us how old he is... My advice? Fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 07:12 PM
14

I wouldn’t call him beta, he’s more dark triad. His tweets serve his purpose towards his mission, even if they come across as glib. Your post here, however, fits your description as beta man-child. Mostly because you’re over emotional and triggered. Do you honestly believe he’s the most insecure on the whole platform? Are you in his frame, or is he in yours? Your visceral response to his tweets is what he’s after.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 08:45 PM
7

Getting ripped and showing her where the door is has been very effective for me.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 04:12 PM
3

Solipsism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/19 07:13 PM
1

Are you following her cycle?
/r/askMRP02/11/19 02:21 AM
2

I lost 125lbs on keto over for years, still have the weight off. I do intermittent fasting now, because I need the carbs for lifting. Keto is a scientifically proven to reverse diabetes and regulate hormones. Its not a fad diet, it is the balanced diet you speak of.
/r/askMRP26/10/19 04:47 PM
1

You missed all of the AA/AM readings didn’t you?
/r/askMRP10/10/19 06:33 PM
1

Projected morality. Hey, I can appreciate where you’re coming from, but not all of our wives are high sex drive and take subtle hints. You do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 04:06 PM
1

I took the television out of the bedroom. Solved so many problems.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 03:00 PM
2

Be more attractive than the television. Clearly you’re not hitting her feelz, thus the TV.
/r/askMRP07/10/19 10:31 PM
0

You’re right, my bad. I’ll stop calling you faggots for having a circle jerk. Please forgive me.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:19 PM
-1

Did I hurt your feelings? This is Reddit, if you don’t like my comment don’t respond to it. Lmfao.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:36 PM
-3

And I’m telling you it’s a waste of time. Plenty of good women with tats, plenty of thots without any. Why are you spending mental energy on tats? If YOU don’t like them, fine. It doesn’t mean there’s something inherently wrong with tats. That’s classic solipsism. I don’t like fish. I don’t sit around wondering why, I just don’t eat it. I don’t like tats either, that’s why I haven’t got one. You do you.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:31 PM
-2

You guys are so spergy. I usually visit MRP, and this is why. You guys can’t seem to manage getting to the gym and eating right, yet here you are getting autistic over tats. It really could just be that people like them, and there isn’t much more to it. When you’re high enough value, you can pick from chicks without tats if you wish. Be higher value and this is a non-issue.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:57 PM
1

Lift. Bye girl, headed to the gym.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 09:39 PM
1

Winner has to fight Dad.
/r/askMRP07/09/19 05:08 PM
1

That’s too bad. But I’ll stand by it. Even Bezos had to alpha the fuck up to get any kind of pussy, and even he was taken to the cleaners. I’ll stand by my statement. Money does not a wet pussy make.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 09:22 PM
0

It’s called beta bux for a reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 08:03 PM
7

I hate to break it to you guys, but money doesn’t factor into your SMV. If she’s fucking you for your money, it ain’t because your hot. That fireman, pool boy, and even the goddamn mailman can tap that shit making nothing if they’re hawt enough. If your using money as a lure, you’re fishing the wrong way.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 01:33 AM
36

I don’t get it. You had a pleasant conversation with someone. Does this not happen very often for you?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 07:19 PM
7

Most men here don’t have fathers to rely on, or I would suggest him. I think most men find a place like this because they don’t have other men to rely on. Maybe you found a place here.
/r/askMRP16/08/19 08:56 PM
1

Women don’t slap guys under 20% bf. I know this sounds like a stretch, but you’re not attractive. Women love assholes that call them out on bad behavior, but you aren’t anywhere close to earning that right yet.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 05:08 PM
3

Man, is 10 months really considered an LTR? Like that’s not even a year? You two haven’t had a second Christmas yet... next that shit.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 03:45 PM
4

Congrats. You were a better option than a blacked out drunk. Round of applause from the crowd, and the cookies are in the back.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 05:42 PM
5

I think you’re here for a pat on the back and validation. I also think this is basic side bar shit. This entire site is full of thoughts on this very subject.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 02:38 PM
3

Definitely not acting outcome independent for sure. Best line? "Have fun, babe, hope you get what your after..." If she fucks him, then she fucks him, and you move on. If she comes home with a check and sucks you dry, then great. You get to control you. I welcome this as a test of her loyalty to you. You're just insecure.
/r/askMRP31/03/19 07:14 PM
2

Don’t listen to what they say. Watch what they do.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 07:47 PM
12

Then you haven’t experienced this yet.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 06:52 AM
2

lol
/r/askMRP11/02/19 02:04 AM
2

I don’t know anyone who has 1RM’s at those levels and doesn’t know exactly how much they weigh all the time. Those are next level fitness numbers that don’t exist without excellent nutrition and weight management. Now, I’m definitely calling bullshit on those numbers. You don’t get there not paying attention to your weight.
/r/askMRP07/01/19 02:14 PM
4

Those ten pounds aren't your problem at those numbers. You must be actively unattractive on purpose. I'm tempted to call bullshit on your numbers, or your weight, but I don't care that much tbh.
/r/askMRP06/01/19 11:26 PM
2

How are you so bad at dread with those lift numbers? You may need to provoke some competition anxiety. What dread level are you on?
/r/askMRP06/01/19 10:26 PM
9

I think you give too many fucks. He left eleven dollars? Use that to buy him and yourself a beer, and while your drinking them, tell him if he acts like that again, that you won't let him back into your house. My $.02.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 11:47 PM
1

You're essentially asking if there becomes a level where her hypergamy will come to expect a certain level of alphaness. The answer isn't in your your actions, but in her options. If she is going to have a difficult time finding someone with your qualities, your probably doing enough. As long as your SMV is higher than hers, she's not going to be considering any branch swings. Maybe, and this might sound crazy, you just start enjoying things and don't take your foot off the pedal.
/r/askMRP01/12/18 10:06 PM
2

Who cares if she’s a step ahead? You want to fuck and she isn’t. She’s probably fucking another dude anyways. Nothing she does should matter to you.
/r/askMRP28/11/18 04:14 PM
7

Why didn't you just tell your wife you're going to find someone else to fuck instead of sneaking around? I never understood this.
/r/askMRP27/11/18 11:09 PM
27

Of course. This graph, however, illustrates hypergamy. Just because it was kept in check, doesn’t mean the nature of women changed. They’re just open about it now and it’s more accepted. This graph most likely stands the test of time. Women’s selection process has always been the same, controlled or not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/18 03:30 AM
38

They’ve always been like this. What do you mean then vs now?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/18 03:18 AM
3

This was my first post here guys, been enjoying your takes for too long without giving back. Thx.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 07:59 PM
2

Now I'm sure I like you.
/r/askMRP14/11/18 02:35 AM
1

Shutting down during ovulation? You're not confused, you're in denial. They only want their #1 during tat time. Your genes are being selected against. You're not attractive enough.
/r/askMRP09/11/18 09:43 PM
2

I don't know if I like you or I hate you on this sub, but you are certainly very fucking interesting. Cheers.
/r/askMRP09/11/18 02:39 AM
2

You’re in the wrong place.
/r/askMRP08/11/18 03:15 AM
1

Troll.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 01:32 AM
4

We all start from a different place, but the goal is to be better. For some that’s unfucking your entire life, and for others it’s just getting that twinkle back in your wife’s eyes. Find your faults and fix them. If you need our opinions, ask us.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 10:28 PM
1

Your lifts are fucking embarrassing. If you want to sit around and cry, cry about those numbers. Stop initiating texts altogether for non-logistical conversations. If she wants to text you, she will. For fucking real dude? You’re on the internet bitching about “texts” from your wife. We’re all a little pathetic, but this is a new level. Your problem is that you’re unattractive, if that helps. That’s what I’ve got for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/18 10:23 PM
1

You may underestimate how many austistic fucks there are on this site that will take CICO for face value and rationalize that candy dinner.
/r/askMRP13/10/18 01:37 PM
1

I think the calorie in calorie out mantra is a good starting point. To really be successful, you need to understand nutrition. 2000 calories of steak and eggs are not the same thing as 2000 calories of sour patch kids. Read up on intermittent fasting, glycemic indexes, and insulin responses and you'll find what diet will work for your particular body's needs. And sugar is poison. Literally. None of your calories should be sugar when you are cutting fat.
/r/askMRP13/10/18 01:32 AM
1

I think you want to build muscle before you cut. It's easier to build muscle and lift heavy with a little bit of fat on you.
/r/askMRP13/10/18 01:24 AM
2

What is your bench press max? Also, you don’t know what dread is yet.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 01:27 PM
2

You’re biggest issue is that you’re unattractive. Women don’t play this shit with attractive men they fear losing. You’re first move is to start dread levels immediately.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 01:24 AM
3

Hypergamy gives no fucks about how good of a husband or how good of a father you are. Get the fuck to work already.
/r/askMRP08/10/18 11:04 PM
1

It's the one thing you can't fuck up. Do not go dad bod... ever. If she finds you attractive, that's where you are adding value. Just because she's got some bread, it won't satisfy her hypergamy alone. You have to add value in the positive in absolutely every other category. I know some other guys in here might look at this as "you being in her frame because you have to marry her, follow her here back to the states, and be financially dependant on her." I'll give you an alternative. They say a w…
/r/askMRP01/10/18 01:09 AM
1

Women with money aren’t looking for money, they are looking social status and looks. Keep those up and maybe you can start that family. After all, the only benefit to marriage for guys is stability for their children. IMO. Her age may matter here though.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 12:21 AM
1

Rollo's book was the most influential of all the side bar material, personally. Granted, it's more philosophy than "how-to." Red-pill, for me, has been more of an enlightenment to the economics of sexual behavior and the understanding of hypergamy. That's Rollo's lane. The rest of the side bar was just good information for navigating said epiphanies. The "how-to" part. YMMV
/r/askMRP30/09/18 08:07 PM
2

Opportunity cost is a filter on each action I take, but can also be exhausting. Of course not doing it can be exhausting as well. I like where your heads at.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 07:50 PM
2

If your SMV is higher than your girls, I'd say go for it. I was in the same boat as you and I pulled the trigger. Just keep feeding those feels and dread and you'll be alright. The opportunity cost is lower than you think, and there really isn't much to lose. How old are you?
/r/askMRP30/09/18 07:24 PM
1

If your SMV is higher than your girls, I'd say go for it. I was in the same boat as you and I pulled the trigger. Just keep feeding those feels and dread and you'll be alright. The opportunity cost is lower than you think, and there really isn't much to lose. How old are you?
/r/askMRP30/09/18 07:24 PM
3

How old are you?
/r/askMRP22/09/18 11:32 PM
2

This is shitty frame. How old are you?
/r/askMRP22/09/18 11:11 PM
0

It just seems like that’s not something you do much. The guys I know who workout regularly don’t have these kind of problems.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 01:58 AM
-4

DYEL, Bro?
/r/askMRP21/09/18 01:16 AM
1

Excellent deduction.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 09:19 PM
1

I’m jacked and I love it. Slide into my DMs and I’ll show you what I’ve been up to getting there.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 12:45 PM
1

I don’t initiate at the gym. Ironically that’s how you get IOIs at the gym.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 12:43 PM
4

Are you the MRP comic relief? Like the Kevin Hart of RP? What your point?
/r/askMRP20/09/18 12:41 PM
2

I've had offers, randoms from the gym, chicks at the bar. Haven't pulled the trigger though.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 05:17 AM
1

I suppose just because I'm less angry doesn't mean I'm not still angry. Thanks.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 05:12 AM
1

5'6, 220. She's lost about 40lbs.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 05:07 AM
3

But everything you dislike about her is completely 100% rooted in the past. You can't see through your own bullshit you're so thick in it. Thanks. I think you nailed it.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 05:04 AM
1

When I dropped that line, it was met with intense mate guarding as she knew who the 28yo was. My dumbass did it to make a point, I had a frame problem that day.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 05:01 AM
3

Again, I'll second this.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 04:54 AM
3

Fuck it. Maybe you're right. I might still hold contempt for the past. I've read that post sometime ago. It was written for me. I would like to think I've owned it, but none of these epiphanies are binary. I find myself understanding some of these concepts deeper as I see the bigger picture. I don't hate my wife, it's actually quite the opposite. I see the value she adds in so many areas of my life. However, coming around to desiring her sexually, has not so easy for me.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 04:53 AM
3

Affairs aren't my style. She's explicitly aware of my options, and that is about the dread I can handle on that front. RP may be amoral, but I have my own set of boundaries, and that's one of them. I'd prefer to just be upfront about it than try to be covert. Can't say I haven't thought about it.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 04:44 AM
5

That's not me.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 04:30 AM
3

All of this. I believe it’s mental also. Marriage 2.0, it’s got a name, but it doesn’t have a meaning.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 02:40 AM
5

I actually lost gains in deadlift and squat as I skimmed down.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 02:31 AM
7

You want to feel like you’re over it, but every once in a while I’m triggered. You may be right.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 02:29 AM
6

This. Her being easy. She doesn’t have a lot of seduction tools in her toolbox.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 02:28 AM
3

It’s both. She could be more feminine in both appearance and socially. I’m past the anger/resentment. I understand why she didn’t want to fuck me and I don’t blame her for it.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 02:26 AM
3

Yeah, she is. She’s been working on it, with steady but slow improvement. She’s even mentioned to me how I’m inspiring not only my family, but also extended family and acquaintances. People comment to her about it around our gym and social circles. I’ve just been at this so long, even before finding MRP. I’m just burnt out. I found my strike zone, but it’s like I’m pitching perfect games for no-decisions and never getting any runs.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 02:23 AM
2

I don't think this is a fitness/shit test. I think mommy (your 43yo mommy) just has issues with her oldest teenager making plans because you are a bad decision maker. The recoiling wife, the lowered desire over the last 3 years, the pity sporadic startfish sex, the passive agressiveness, ect. What you have is a wife who doesn't respect you. She saw the wall coming and decided you were beta enough to help her have some kids. You did that for her, and now your just another AFC without options. Be …
/r/askMRP09/09/18 10:03 PM
8

This isn't swallowing the pill. Looking at yourself in the mirror and asking yourself "Why would any woman want to fuck me?" and making decisive efforts to unfuck yourself is swallowing the pill. This is just one of many things that will happen to you before you decide to drag your beta self in front of the mirror and kill that motherfucker before he kills you. Until you do that, this will be the way of all your relationships. Sidebar/lift.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 09:39 PM
41

If chicks are getting a piece of your pussy, other dudes are getting a piece of it too. I'm sorry, I called it your pussy... it isn't. No kids? No problems, move on. Sidebar/lift.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 09:20 PM
2

My own form of AM.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 02:02 AM
2

I wish I had more to offer than sidebar/lift. I will add however, that my (not teenage yet) son and my wife have a stronger dead lift than you. I'd tell you not to take that personally, but after reading your post, I'm sure you will anyways.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 11:57 PM
4

Solipsism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 09:27 PM
80

Stop listening to what women say, start watching what they do. Ideology<biology. Trust me, they’re still into masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:39 PM
7

Really? He isn’t talking about just making friends, he’s specifically asking about making couple friends, that both he and his wife can enjoy. I have plenty of friends my wife doesn’t particularly want to take to a spend a night on the town with. It makes red pill sense because social proof is one of the basics. He wants to make friends that he can display his value with in front of his wife. We’re all here because we lacked/regressed from a state of personal frame. Perhaps this is a weakness of…
/r/askMRP13/08/18 07:58 PM
3

Lots and lots of emoji's. Say as much as you can with only emojis, leave the rest for her to guess.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 01:32 AM
2

Are you married?
/r/askMRP29/07/18 12:47 AM
4

39, as of yesterday. This. I have service injuries, was once about 300lbs, and have degenerative joint disease. Got a trainer, work down the weight slowly and eventually hit 200lbs. He helped me modify exercises until I was able to complete the big three with good form. 475dl, 265bp, 315sq. When I started, I couldn’t walk up the stairs without gasping for air. I feel like I owe that guy my life. Getting help is better than staying in a bad situation. That’s why we are all here right? Because we …
/r/askMRP16/07/18 12:56 PM
7

This is the best fucking question I’ve ever read here at askmrp. Kudos, you’re off to a good start.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 11:58 PM
2

“The subject is against the grain to a blue pill beta. I haven’t internalised RedPill truths properly and the ones I have I don’t know how to defend (stfu, aa, am) when confronted....yet.” Why do you feel the need to defend yourself? Is she doesn’t like it, show her the front door. “The fact that I had only about 6 things in my reading list in total, of which 5 were TRP didn’t help.” -Didn’t help what? That you can’t make mommy happy? We aren’t here to make our women happy, we are here to make o…
/r/askMRP30/06/18 08:24 PM
13

You own your shit. Tell her you’re “working on you” and stfu. It’s none of her business. Who cares what she thinks? You aren’t allowed to read the internet? Did she not give you permission? You have a frame problem. I’ve never once in my 2+ Years here had to hide anything. She has come across some material and asked me about it. Since I don’t give a fuck, she doesn’t give a fuck. When you respond with emotion, that’s when they give a fuck. She doesn’t care what it is, only how she feels about it…
/r/askMRP30/06/18 01:35 AM
3

Sometimes these acronyms get used so often that you forget about the one time it was explained about 700 pages ago. I still have to go back and look sometimes, especially when they start using acronyms for book titles. I get it.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 05:31 PM
6

Delete your account.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 03:03 PM
1

I’m just suggesting maybe you get a checkup. I did early in my journey and found that I was low. Hitting the gym really helped level up. It explained me not feeling like my self and my depression. Once I fixed it I felt like myself again. It helped explain why I had become so off track. Kudos on your drive.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 06:06 PM
2

Do not discount an elevated testosterone level due to the lifting and confidence. A T boost can be responsible for most of those changes you are seeing. Keep it.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 05:38 PM
1

Nobody is dreading you at 20%. Get to 16% and you're getting close. Also, if you're only gaming at night, at 11pm, then you are doing it wrong. Lift, game, be attractive, dngaf. DNGAF. It's not a problem if you don't care what she thinks.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 01:38 AM
2

K. Are you gaming her during the day? Do you have hobbies that you regularly prioritize to move on to? Have you followed the dead timeline? Are they hard “no’s” or is she looking for a chase? Most importantly, why even care if she thinks you’re butthurt? What matters is that you aren’t, for you. If you have the confidence that you can get it elsewhere, she’ll know. When she knows, like really knows this, she will believe that you aren’t butthurt. Until you’re attractive enough and don’t give a f…
/r/askMRP19/06/18 12:39 AM
2

You missed the part of the sidebar that covers frame and dread. Which is basically everything.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:21 PM
1

Side bar.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 10:14 PM
0

Stopped reading at “BP 85.”
/r/askMRP12/06/18 10:30 PM
1

Here’s the deal. Those traits will attract women, but not for the reasons you want them to. A fat ass millionaire who can’t fuck for five mins will get a woman. But the pool boy and landscaper with solid bodies sweating to make her home better has a better shot at her best sex. It is what it is. That’s the game.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 10:28 PM
3

Once a week this sweet young lady shaved my head and trims my beard. Best $15 in my budget.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 07:33 PM
4

I'm here today and have Drew to thank for it. I found him somehow on Twitter and participated in the live/first run last year. I think this program is a great. And his advice is solid. Thanks again Hunter.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 01:45 AM
2

There is a difference between accepting yourself, and others accepting you. You can not like yourself and guarantee others won’t, or you can like yourself and hope others do. Hoping others do is a bad strategy. You have to like yourself, and you need a strategy for others to like you. The idea of RP is to give you the tool box for improving both. NMMNG is about accepting yourself internally. While material referring to dread is about how people view you externally. A lot of the material is about…
/r/askMRP04/06/18 11:15 PM
2

They don’t care how long you’ve been there.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 08:43 PM
6

You are an orbiter. They want your attention, not your dick.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 07:47 PM
4

I could have wrote this. 100% accurate.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 02:16 AM
1

Why don’t you just pretend you didn’t hear her, or immediately change the subject when she brings it up? Just act like it was never a problem or issue. Because it isn’t.
/r/askMRP16/05/18 07:01 PM
5

There’s no way a woman finds you attractive, but won’t have sex with you because of a beard. If you were attractive enough to dread, she’d fuck you. Keep lifting.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 11:50 PM
3

I'll take it, you could use less cookies.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 04:05 PM
-1

Don't fire your personal trainer. This in anecdotal at best. If you hired one, it's probably because you needed one. I have one and my results have been perfectly fucking acceptable.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 12:30 AM
1

What an amazing problem to have.
/r/askMRP05/05/18 01:21 PM
1

Just respect the iron. Heavy lifting is awesome if done right and can be down right debilitating if done wrong, especially the dead-lift.
/r/askMRP30/04/18 01:02 AM
2

Can you afford a trainer. I tried apps, p90x, the whole bunch. Only a trainer can size you up and make the best recommendations for your goals and health. I used to weigh 300lbs, now I’m at sq 305, cp 265, dL 470. 196lbs as of this morning. With my military injures, he put me on the right path establishing a solid core before lifting heavy to avoid re-injuring and inflammation flare ups. I really recommend one. Even if you only see them once a week for planning.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 11:48 PM
1

Be attractive.
/r/askMRP17/04/18 12:33 PM
3

If she doesn’t support you on your birthday, she’s not your girlfriend.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 04:58 PM
1

Omg. I love a good story. Kudos.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 02:18 AM
3

Hypergamy gives zero fucks about your feelings. Be higher value for the next plate, this dish is finished.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 09:43 PM
1

That’s the only option, ever, if she cheats.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 04:13 PM
3

Pull ups. Still looking for excuses.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 06:17 PM
1

Coming off of a deployment can be tough. I've been there. If you have some leave saved up, I would take it at the end and use that time to get your shit in order. Being in the military is very stable, very structured. Being a civilian is not. the transition was tough for me as I had to find meaningful employment and get back to school. I wasted time after my separation that I had wish I had got back. If you know you are prone to getting fat, becoming a victim, and failing to lead, I wouldn't giv…
/r/askMRP17/03/18 01:40 PM
2

This is really weak frame.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 04:06 AM
1

A well placed, inconspicuous copy of RM has worked for me twice with good results. I never tipped my hat to either of them with regards to the content or MRP. I don’t know if they know it’s me that provided the book, but one of them, I believe, tried to covertly thank me. It’s a shame that it’s so difficult to share this info.
/r/askMRP22/12/17 10:34 PM
5

Save it for the toddlers. If the baby can’t talk, you don’t know it’s misbehaving or actually needs something. In this case, it sounds like separation anxiety from seeing mother come and go (no object permanence.) Letting a baby cry it out while already feeling lonely isn’t good for the bond and trust. Hardly bad behavior. I have two boys, and they are well behaved.
/r/askMRP21/12/17 12:52 AM
4

It’s a baby dude.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 09:50 PM
12

Congratulations on reading the sidebar.
/r/askMRP16/12/17 01:46 PM
7

So many of these Autistics will take you seriously. Lads... don't do this.
/r/askMRP10/12/17 03:10 PM
4

It’s not that’s she’s too tired, it’s that you aren’t attractive. Women will walk in the rain for five miles to chads house. Fix yourself.
/r/askMRP02/12/17 05:54 PM
7

I get a massage every week as part of my fitness goals. My masseuse is a thot and a hot mess. The wife always playfully asks me if shes getting my groin good enough (I have and old injury that flares up.) Its almost a form of dread because these two see each other around the gym and my wife always asks if she getting my groin well enough. At one of these encounters between the two, the masseuse responded "not as well as I'd like to," in a joking kind of way. That led to a pretty good time that n…
/r/askMRP30/11/17 03:03 PM
2

What man starts a post with, "Husbands?"
/r/askMRP24/11/17 07:05 PM
1

This has been the most difficult part of the process. Health, wealth, image, all that dread creating all those feels. You start to improvements, but you're invested now. It's really a waiting game.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 02:53 AM
2

I've been hitting the req's. Lurking, listening, waiting for the right time to really devolve my experience with the group. This post is the exact reason why I haven't. I've been in Warrant Phase for sometime now, thinking maybe what I'm doing isn't going to get the reaction that I've been seeking. It is a classic covert contract, imho. I figured if I could actually figure this out, maybe I would have something to add to the group. Reality is that things have become much better, for the both of …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 02:16 AM
1

You can be in your frame, OI, and still want your wife to be enthusiastic. If that is his desire, then he is within his frame. She just isn't in his yet.
/r/askMRP23/09/17 02:51 AM
2

Is this some sorta brag post? She seems perfect. Includes you, but doesn't get clingy. Respects your privacy on social media. Isn't clingy, respects your privacy.... isn't clingy. And she fucks you? What are you complaining about?
/r/askMRP14/09/17 12:12 AM
1

Dude, you're not even married. Read Rational Male, today. Then read it tomorrow, again. She just told you that you are not her "one." She is not your "one." There is no "one."
/r/askMRP07/09/17 06:00 PM
0

Hmmm...
/r/askMRP04/09/17 10:16 PM
1

Could be considered a form of dread, however.
/r/askMRP04/09/17 06:38 PM
1

Luckily I have deadlifts this evening. -This was all I understood.
/r/askMRP31/08/17 01:36 AM
39

Main event? For some of us, this is a Monday.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 02:11 PM
3

Taking an economics class and understanding economics are two different beasts. It has to click for you. Until it does, it's just an idea. Useless until you understand how it works for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 01:36 AM
1

Not getting shit-tested is not something to brag about. Two weeks in your work out's, hey? You haven't even began dread yet. Shit tests, and passing them, means your getting somewhere. Don't be amazed by what she does, or what you can make her do. Be amazed at/when you make progress on being a better you.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 07:17 PM
1

I was fairly alone at the beginning of my choke. I started doing the things I was suppose to be doing and I found myself in the company of like minded individuals. May not be RP per say, but like minded nonetheless. Once you start working on you, especially at the gym, you'll find your support. Knowing where to look for it is the hard part.
/r/askMRP18/07/17 04:48 PM
1

Sounds like dread is working.
/r/askMRP18/07/17 01:19 AM
3

Simply by improving yourself, you create your own net. Successes build confidence, particularly those apart from sex. If you can be successful outside of your relationship, you have more to fall back on. This is good from a number of angles.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/17 02:03 AM
1

I should have explained: I didn't tell her to try to create dread; it's because we have an explicit, verbalized agreement to tell each other when these types of things happen in order to foster loyalty and trust. Is this a covert or overt contract?
/r/askMRP01/07/17 08:21 PM
2

I'm not sure who's frame you are in, but (spoiler alert) it's not yours.
/r/askMRP01/07/17 07:57 PM
2

All we need is a bunch of noobs giving advice to each other. This will end well.
/r/askMRP01/07/17 07:51 PM
1

If you've been reading the side bar and OYS, there's nothing to worry about. You do you, you make you better. If she is cheating, then you have a choice, but no need to dwell on it. It's the ONEistis that will ruin your progress.
/r/askMRP01/07/17 07:23 PM
6

Is this a joke?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 03:29 PM
2

Isn't this just a basic comfort test?
/r/askMRP26/06/17 01:21 PM
9

The best thing about this post, is that I still know nothing about his wife. This is strong frame. Being self aware is the hardest part of this journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/17 01:00 AM
2

This has value and intrigue.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/17 03:02 AM
5

Whose frame are you in exactly? "Spoiler Alert" It's not yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/17 06:52 PM
2

My patience with the kids is the greatest benefit. It's been night and day.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 06:32 PM
3

I do this in the gym. As I took the pill about a year ago, I became angry with myself. Angry at how I had let things become so fucked. When I started lifting, the lifting was hard and I was angry that it was hard. Then I had that moment, standing over a deadlift. I decided I was going to pick that up and put it down. It was going to be a success, and I was going to be happy for myself for the success. When I put it down, I could feel myself drop the anger with it. Since that day, I bottle my ang…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 06:23 PM
3

I would stay focused on you and improving your lot. Let the ladies decide this one for you. As long as they both want you, the better you are for it. Your GF may or may not last and/or your wife will move on. My advice is to take your time. Let this sort itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 06:07 PM
4

He just described the worst shit test I've ever known about. She wasn't just trying to keep him in her frame, she was dead set on smashing his. She was calling your bluff. Glad you made the right call. You keep her in your frame by being the best fucking father you can be, and hopefully the girl won't turn out like her mom.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 06:00 PM
25

You should take notes on how the boyfriend treated her, and then do what he did.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 01:29 AM
3

This is why I come here.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 01:09 AM
1

I'll give you an o/u at 4.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 12:57 AM
1

I can confirm that.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 09:26 PM
3

If shes sexting other guys, shes banging them too. Bet me.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 09:19 PM
4

This is shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 12:41 PM
5

If you want to go for a run, go for a run. Too easy. This is a comfort test, and a shit test. You pass them by going on your run. Simple. Btw, you are deep in her frame. So deep, that you question your own fucking ability to go for a run. Not go away on vacation for a week, but for a run. I bet you can't even run for more than 15 minutes anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 08:11 PM
1

This has dread written all over it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 01:17 AM
2

Why wouldn't I? It was good advice. Cheers. I hope for those that saw my progress, they were inspired by it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 09:54 PM
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I've been a quiet lurker here for over a year. Read everything, lost 75lbs. Being beta is like being backed into a corner. Your job is to own your corner, make it the best fucking corner you can make it. Make your corner so fucking amazing that people would rather be in your corner than keeping you in it. Fight. One extra rep. One less carb. STFU. After about a year or two, you'll start to prefer your corner to anywhere else. Bitches will be lining up to be in your corner. I have the proof this …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/17 08:08 PM
3

This shit is why I come here. Very timely piece for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/17 09:33 PM
2

This.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/17 02:05 AM
2

Why was it a problem that she slept with someone while you were separated? This is confusing me.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/17 01:28 AM
1

Next her. Move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/17 12:54 PM
3

"But I'm still pissed about the ring thing, and wondering what the hell that is all about." Get out of her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 01:01 AM
3

This may have been the most covert whining I've ever read on MRP. This is nothing we haven't been educated on in the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/17 07:18 PM
1

Sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/17 05:38 PM
1

Don't get petty. That won't help anything. Emotions will be high, and you need to stay in your own frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 01:39 AM
2

I was going to recommend AutoZone.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 12:32 AM
1

Next her.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/17 06:18 PM
1

Nice read. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 02:01 AM
4

Find something productive to do, then you won't be wasting your time. You're so deep in her frame I'm wincing at my computer.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 03:08 AM
2

Right? You know he knew better, that's why he didn't use it in the title. Good show though, this is harder for people than most believe.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 02:38 AM
2

Are you? Are you really?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/17 11:47 PM
2

Exactly what I thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/17 02:44 AM
2

Can you see the [Removed] tag under your headline.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 10:54 PM
1

Bro, my wife is a doctor. Trust me, if you are going to medical school, you'll be working plenty.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 01:30 PM
2

It was most likely removed by the moderator.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 01:27 PM
1

Do you even lift, bro?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 02:01 AM
1

Is it AMA day on MRP? How is this post anything but noise?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 01:47 AM
1

I've had submissions rejected for less than this bullshit. Do you even lift bro?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 01:45 AM
3

This is betabux. The point is to find your confidence, not pay for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 01:46 AM
1

You could stop paying her bills.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 12:42 AM
5

I'm in. Followed on twitter.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/17 09:48 PM
3

I would love it it my wife didn't talk to me. Ha! Is this one of those posts for what not to do?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 01:41 AM
1

Hard to find other fans of Laphroiag. Way too peaty for most. Kudos on your taste.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 02:40 AM
23

Friendly reminder that red pill effort cannot achieve blue pill goals.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 10:36 PM
3

I admire your bravery in bringing this to MPR. I imagine this concern is already noted by your husband. If you really want the best advice, I would go to him about it. He is the only one who will know what "doing enough" means to him.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 01:16 AM
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