Messaging wife (logistics only)

drty_pr · 2017-09-04T22:05:01+00:00

Sent her a message telling her I booked some tix

While you should have surprised her or some shit, this is irrelevant to your question, so I'll leave it alone

No reply but 5 mins later...(she saw my message)

This shows that not only were you anticipating a return, you were dependent on it. Though this neediness can't be seen in this particular series of messages, you most definitely portray it in your daily life. Get out of her frame.

sends me another message asking me to read/review something

This is actually the shit test. She has a mixture of feelings here. She consciously wants to know if you're her still her supplicating beta, but she subconsciously wants to know if you're thrown off by her bullshit or not. No response is the only response for someone who doesn't have frame yet.

This is why texting for logistics is so important to a noob. You have no clue the implications nor how she receives the few words you send.

Sidenote: Bare in mind she will harp at you about not answering, but really, do you care? You shouldn't. They are only words.

chachaChad · 2017-09-04T01:31:52+00:00

Hey mommy look what I can do!

I bought you something. Why isn’t your pussy wet?

matrixtospartanatLV · 2017-09-04T01:41:55+00:00

Ask for an RSVP.

If she asks why, tell her you didn't get a response from her.

Does she want to go or not?

Don't say you'll take someone else, IMPLY it by forcing the RSVP.

If she refuses by the 3rd request to answer, then plan to go by yourself or with someone else.

simbarlion · 2017-09-04T02:06:14+00:00

My wife does this. Its fucking annoying.

In my case it is either indifference (needed no answer, she already knew she was going....But oh since you're there....)

Or, power play. Don't answer her q's if you don't want to. This is tit for tat and not recommended afaik.

It's really a non issue, but I too get sucked into such semantics.

AustralianArm · 2017-09-04T01:16:06+00:00

Are you looking for a cookie? Are you waiting for a pat on the head and a 'Good boy!'?

You told her what you did. That's all you need to do. It's done.

hystericalbonding · 2017-09-04T01:03:13+00:00

You just deleted your last question. That's annoying. Against my better judgment, I'll reply anyway.

Is the way she handled this a shit test?

Stop overanalyzing her actions and inactions.

Who's your backup if she flakes on the event? That would be my only concern.

screechhater · 2017-09-04T11:15:22+00:00

Yes it's a series of shit tests to a certain extent

Read Way of the Superior Male

Read MMSLP

"You guy until the count of 5 to get you choice on the counter then we are leaving, 5, 4, ......."

UEMcGill · 2017-09-05T15:11:27+00:00

What's the problem here?

Sounds like she's got it down pat?

Communication is 2-way. If you sent a message that said, "Bought Tix to go see XYZ" does she owe you an answer?

Maybe if you sent a message that says, "Bought tix to go see xyz, is your schedule clear?"

Context is everything.

Title	Messaging wife (logistics only)
Author	alwaysdoubledown82
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	September 4, 2017 12:56 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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