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At this point in my marriage, my wife doesn't take out her PMS on me like she used to. A woman will not go PMS crazy at people like her supervisor at work, her nanna or her doctor. Why? Because she fears her supervisor, hurting someone she loves or getting someone she respects offside. Now, why aren't you in any of those three groups?
/r/askMRP21/11/18 07:06 AM
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Simple. You don't. It's a bullshit complaint. Work on yourself and the issue won't matter.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 01:31 AM
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What's the reason for a message when she gets home after a night out? So you know... 1) ...she's home safe? 2) ...she's not fucking Chad?
/r/askMRP19/01/18 07:24 AM
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You still didn't make it clear that you didn't like that she didn't message. You hoped your nonverbal behaviour would make her realise the error of her ways and be a good girl. Covert contract.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 07:21 AM
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First post in MRP, no background If the thing she did annoyed you or you thought was wrong, you should have said something about. Shutting up and not telling her and leaving her guessing is just plain dumb. The really stupid bit is that you tried to get her to connect the dots later by you being a butthurt little pussy. And she knew you were butthurt too.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 06:21 AM
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But it seems like a grenade to him. Even if, in reality, it just makes a little POP!
/r/askMRP19/01/18 01:55 AM
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It seriously doesn't matter one bit. If she has an attachment to her Grandmother's name, that's her choice, but taking your name is not a deal breaker.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/18 01:55 AM
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"You know hun, I thought about it and you're right. The kids will go to bed too late and it is a long drive for everyone. I'll leave them her with you while I celebrate my birthday with my parents." That's the MRP equivalent of pulling the pin from the grenade
/r/askMRP19/01/18 01:29 AM
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You're not going to turn it around by being an indecisive little Beta. Answer yes or no, don't fluff about with your answers. "I was planning on it, but I can find something else to do if you don't want me there." It's shit wishy-washy answers like that above that ruins any respect she has for you. Take on MRP properly and you may have a chance at salvaging this sinking ship (I think it has already sunk TBH). Set out your MAP and hit the milestones. If nothing improves in 6 months, you need to s…
/r/askMRP18/01/18 01:51 AM
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You should just kill the puppy and move on. She doesn't want you there. And you know it too.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 01:09 AM
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It is all Power Play. Telling her to come and get it is a good move. You're learning the ways of The Force.
/r/askMRP16/01/18 05:27 AM
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Just ignore. These comments are a general measure of how shit you've been in the past on getting on top of jobs that need doing. It tells me you were so lazy that it got to the point where even expired food annoyed her. You need to OYS. Why did it take two weeks for you to notice the spare room light was blown?
/r/askMRP16/01/18 05:26 AM
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Please and Thank You are good manners. Use them. Won't be a problem if you use Please without sounding needy and don't say Thank You when she fucks you. The goal of MRP is to get you to the point where you telling your wife to do something, sounds like asking. And she never says No
/r/askMRP16/01/18 03:04 AM
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Why is your son alone at night when you're there?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/18 05:46 AM
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It is definitely a worrying time. Not just for myself, but I'm worried to see what sexual environment my son will be entering in a few years.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/18 01:52 AM
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I can't help but think this guy is a troll. It reads like some crappy BP erotic fan fiction.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 04:49 AM
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Also, askMRP has a much lower standard of post requirement. If you have any doubts about your post, askMRP is the place to cop less crap.
/r/askMRP22/12/17 03:14 AM
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That sounded like a nice DEER to me. She is your ONLY option, right now. She is not my only option. If I up my SMV I'm confident I can easily have other options / abundance. But I have slacked and im not in good shape. You're not there yet. You're looking way too far past your next lift. At least you're honest when you say you've slacked. Until she's not your only option, she is your only option. Get to fuckin' work.
/r/askMRP22/12/17 01:42 AM
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I think he thinks its his only option... Hence why he needs to keep improving and become the prize.
/r/askMRP21/12/17 06:45 AM
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This is probably the most solid and complete #WallOfText I have ever seen on this sub. I'm not even sure the MRP high council could break this down.
/r/askMRP19/12/17 07:52 AM
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My son is early teens and I had to have a chat to him about the possibility of girls sending him partial or full nudes in messages or snapchat/etc and making sure he lets someone (i.e. adult) know if it happens. It will make sure if there is any accusation of any request from him for the content, he has someone that can back him up that it was sent unsolicited. Sad times we live in.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 02:32 AM
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Very dangerous times.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 01:52 AM
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You could always keep doing what you're doing now and she'll eat herself into an early grave. You and kids get to stay in Dubai and you keep getting all the fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 06:43 AM
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I had the exact same shit test early on. Fast forward 6 months and she loves it. She just doesn't want to make an effort YET. It will happen. Just STFU and keep moving forward. Small tip though: Don't be so hardline about your keto diet. Do what you need to do but DO NOT let her say where you can and can't go based on your diet. You can go to all social events, eat a little bit or nothing and keep your keto all other times.
/r/askMRP04/12/17 01:14 AM
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HeadDesk Someone needs to do some reading. Start over there ====>
/r/askMRP01/12/17 08:03 AM
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So last night I started my game early, had some great kino and banter. After the kids were down I specifically and directly put the moves on her and she reciprocated. We were headed to the bedroom. Ugh. There it is. You should never start your game early. Never. You should be always on your game. The moment you 'start' your game each afternoon/evening, you just signaled to her you want to fuck and she has ample opportunity to shut it down. You should be laying on the kino whether you want to fuc…
/r/askMRP01/12/17 05:11 AM
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The research shows that kids from amicable divorces with caring parents turn out just fine. Stick them in the middle of a warzone and it's a different story. Kinda unsurprising, really.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 08:04 AM
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Rule 1) Don't weaponise the kids against the ex. Rule 2) See Rule 1
/r/askMRP27/11/17 06:47 AM
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That's a real mindfuck you've lobbed on him, Bob. A much needed one.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 03:13 AM
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If you get to the place where you completely OYS and lead the way, she won't need to call you out because you'll be virtually untouchable.
/r/askMRP24/11/17 03:32 AM
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As an apparent newbie (looked at your post history), I think all you can do at present is STFU. DEERing in this circumstance, no matter how rational your argument, will only come across as whiny and not change anything. Better to learn from it and move forward.
/r/askMRP24/11/17 03:23 AM
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Tell your LTR that and make her understand that you NEED it. Tears help also.
/r/askMRP22/11/17 08:32 AM
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Well done
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 07:01 AM
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RPBetaRambo
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 06:12 AM
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And when it is brooding + fat, your dick never gonna get sucked.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 03:26 AM
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I still don't get why he's sending his kid to school with Fig Newtons in the first place. Highly refined carbs and shitty sugar. As an Australian, I had to look up what a Fig Newton is. We have something similar called a Fruit Pillow here. Horrid pastry crap on the outside, horrid dried fruit paste on the inside.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 01:11 AM
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Did your wife write it in the calendar that it was 'getting laid' night?
/r/askMRP17/11/17 01:08 AM
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Not everything is to do with money.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 12:58 AM
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"Fake it till you make it." First, you have to be able to fake it.
/r/askMRP16/11/17 02:49 AM
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DRP is too close the DeRP
/r/askMRP16/11/17 02:13 AM
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DRP? Or RPD?
/r/askMRP16/11/17 12:26 AM
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Excuses...
/r/askMRP16/11/17 12:25 AM
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Did anyone see that DEER that just went past?
/r/askMRP16/11/17 12:24 AM
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Almost. But we know how to beat the game
/r/askMRP10/11/17 03:28 AM
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But it's being presented as a domestic violence issue. Kinda funy in a weird way.
/r/askMRP10/11/17 01:47 AM
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Could it be your addiction issues blinded you to what was going on? By 2006, I was on a pretty steady path to becoming a drug addict and an alcoholic. Even though I was not there yet, I was having a really hard time controlling my temper/anger and eventually my wife moved back home (cross country) with the kids. I visited every 2/3 months, and we were still fucking, but did not get along. Sounds like you didn't spot it because you weren't there. You have to make a choice here, let this shit eat …
/r/askMRP07/11/17 06:12 AM
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I think your anger is misplaced massively. Look in the mirror and kill that fucking ego. It's all your fault here. Your drug and alcohol issues pushed her away. You weren't worth being married to at that point and she found comfort elsewhere when you were separated. Question for those whose wife had/has cheated. was disgusted by her worthless husband FTFY
/r/askMRP07/11/17 05:16 AM
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Going by the quality of posts in askmrp lately, you can't blame my cynical nature.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 07:10 AM
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This is going to be one of those NASCAR crashes that when played in ultra-slo-mo seems to go on for weeks or months. [Grabs popcorn]
/r/askMRP06/11/17 06:20 AM
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They're pretty awesome. Haven't had the chance to see them live yet.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 01:35 AM
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Best advice ever.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 01:30 AM
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The next line is the important part. And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; Also, it's risking winnings from gambling. It's not money you really had to begin with or earned.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 05:32 AM
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It's not as if all those BP deadroom folk have anything else to do with their time
/r/askMRP03/11/17 05:30 AM
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"The Man in the Arena" It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 04:07 AM
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"Invictus" Out of the night that covers me, Black as the pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be For my unconquerable soul. . In the fell clutch of circumstance I have not winced nor cried aloud. Under the bludgeonings of chance My head is bloody, but unbowed. . Beyond this place of wrath and tears Looms but the Horror of the shade, And yet the menace of the years Finds, and shall find me, unafraid. . It matters not how strait the gate, How charged with punishments the scroll, I am t…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 04:02 AM
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Incorrect actually. I thought it was Oscar Wilde too. Snopes has the line here.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 03:37 AM
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Feels a bit off to me as well. I don't think this dude has internalised anything from the sidebar. Or OP is a blue pill troll.
/r/askMRP03/11/17 01:24 AM
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From the outside, suicide seems selfish. But from the viewpoint of the person contemplating suicide, it seems selfless. Having been on both sides, I can see the both sides of the coin.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 01:14 AM
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You have a lot to fix about yourself. Get on it.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 05:01 AM
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You wrote a thesis and can't even get your grammar correct? FFS
/r/askMRP20/10/17 03:40 AM
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I think he's just fucked over a perfectly good relationship just so he can tell his mates he got some hot strange on the previous weekend and his missus still makes him sandwiches. I completely understand the idea of non monogamous relationships or polygamy, but this isn't it. It's not about having multiple meaningful relationships.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 07:58 AM
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"Remained loyal and still my hormones are telling me to fuck random women." Your hormones aren't telling you that, your ego is.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 07:40 AM
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Is she at least giving value in other areas?
/r/askMRP17/10/17 04:52 AM
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Sounds like it. I immediately think 'What an idiot', but then I remember my position as post-MRP-enlightened male. The blue-pill mindset is a horrible one.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 06:02 AM
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Anyone using 'riding me hard' for a verbal bollocking hasn't really experienced a woman riding them hard I'm guessing
/r/askMRP13/10/17 05:58 AM
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So he created the shit test by posting a pic on FB?
/r/askMRP13/10/17 05:54 AM
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There are a few lists of 'rules for my son' out there that embody the ideas of being a man. This one includes many rules that apply to you too.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 02:46 AM
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Excellent advice
/r/askMRP13/10/17 02:41 AM
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I found that once I started reading, I couldn't help but put things into action.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 07:39 AM
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Hindsight is a wonderful thing. Better to wait until the kid is 6-12 months before starting anything. Much safer that way.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 07:13 AM
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This is not the time to start changing the power dynamic in a relationship. There is a massive upheaval in emotional, mental and physical load about to arrive and more change will not improve the situation. Humans, especially mothers, are pre-wired to care for baby ahead of anything else. Starting to mess with that right now won't end well for anyone. And will probably result in your brother just being seen as an arsehole, and divorced.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 07:11 AM
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The comments in the linked post say it is karma. But I reckon there would be a good crossover from /r/relationships and /r/deadbedrooms, so their thoughts are pretty useless.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 07:04 AM
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His wife is having a baby, it is probably the worst time for him to start down the MRP path. Don't.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 07:01 AM
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That was quite a puke. Can you add a TL;DR to sum it all up? If you can summarise it properly down to one or two salient points, it might sound like you're on the right track.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 05:26 AM
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I bet she'd strap on and have a go at you though.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 04:00 AM
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Tells me you aren't as far through the MRP process than you think...
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:10 AM
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On a related note, there's an organisation in Australia that is trying to get men to hang out together again. Men's Shed The Australian Men’s Sheds Association recognizes a Men’s Shed as any community-based, non-profit, non-commercial organization that is accessible to all men and whose primary activity is the provision of a safe, friendly and healing environment where men are able to work on meaningful projects at their own pace in their own time in the company of other men. A major objective i…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 03:04 AM
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I was watching Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom on the weekend and, since discovering MRP, it took on a whole new meaning for me. Excellent post /u/Rollo-Tomassi
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 02:55 AM
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I bet their marriages are well and truly fucked too
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 12:55 AM
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Thanks for the props, man. Live daily for those small wins.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 12:52 AM
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I see the request for pre-marital counseling as a nice little money maker for the officiant. The issue you may run into as an MRP advocate is that it will not fit with the probably blue pill view of marriage the officiant has/promotes. Waste of time most likely.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 03:05 AM
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I've also noticed that men over 50 who have had a vasectomy are usually the most docile betas of all. They even start looking like women.
/r/askMRP02/10/17 04:19 AM
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Very good point. Changing my view from bitchy to insecure definitely alters the situation. /u/BobbyPeru suggesting more comfort might be the right solution here.
/r/askMRP29/09/17 02:12 AM
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I keep the comfort and kino up when her attitude isn't shitty. And when she is shitty, I'm still having fun.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 07:06 AM
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Yep, total narcissist. Your ego is bigger than Ben Hur.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 02:02 AM
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just don't want to fuck it all up You must just do that, but you'll be in a better place for the next one. Conversely, if you don't fuck it up, you've made your current relationship much better.
/r/askMRP19/09/17 02:24 AM
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You think you not carrying through on what you whined about is not cool? What if what you whined about wasn't worth whining about? So what if she asks "Why aren't you doing what you complained about?", all you need to say is "I guess it's not that important to me any more". Done. Take her down off the pedestal and focus on your own shit.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 07:31 AM
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Dude, dude. You need to stop giving a shit. Why are you worried if she messages when she lands or whatever? Did you hear about a plane crash in the vicinity of her flight? No? Odds are she is there safely. You staying in touch regularly just lets her know you're a puppy wanting attention. Be your own man and create some mystery. She'll start wanting contact when her hamster starts spinning. And, yes, it is a covert contract you expecting her to copy your behaviour just because you do it. Just do…
/r/askMRP18/09/17 05:37 AM
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Seems to me that continually punishing your wife turned you into a woman and she didn't like it. You probably gave off the vibe of being butthurt with her. Withdraw affection and time but still be fun when she's in your realm.
/r/askMRP14/09/17 04:58 AM
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Probably wouldn't have allowed myself to get into a situation like that while driving in the first place.
/r/askMRP12/09/17 03:41 AM
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fist officer Unintentional gold :)
/r/askMRP12/09/17 03:40 AM
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Focussing on the long game of improving yourself and OYS will be of much greater benefit than worrying about the day-to-day.
/r/askMRP12/09/17 03:00 AM
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Sounds like she doesn't have a lot of faith in her Captain at present. Don't reassure her using words and hugs too much, just OYS and rassure with your actions. She wants dependability, not "It'll be alright" as everything circles the drain. Make it happen, don't say it will happen.
/r/askMRP12/09/17 02:41 AM
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Oxytocin is a wonderful drug. Calms and connects even the most crazy animal.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 01:34 AM
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Keeping a good frame is a pretty key part of owning a bike. In fact, it is pretty core to the entire thing. You looking 26" or 29"? Definitely go discs though.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 12:45 AM
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Occam's Razor would suggest she took a good dump and cleared the brick from her back passage.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 06:15 AM
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I think the evasion just creates more drama than it is worth. You come off as a jerk firstly, and untrustworthy secondly.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 06:11 AM
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My response would have been: "Xxxxx was having some issues with his girlfriend. Just helping him out with some advice." Done.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 06:10 AM
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Nothing like a minor intelligence leak to improve OpSec procedures.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 06:13 AM
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I predict some pre-MRP Blue Pill history here...
/r/askMRP07/09/17 05:12 AM
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I bet this is just a resurfacing of an issue that happened pre-MRP, right?
/r/askMRP07/09/17 05:06 AM
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You fucked up. Being evasive when she wanted some comfort. Bad move. Move on and don't be such a closed off tool.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 05:01 AM
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Boobs are more socially acceptable when women can take them out in public to feed their baby. A guy is going to jail if he gets his cock out in a Starbucks
/r/askMRP07/09/17 02:27 AM
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You did screw up by not making sure your wife felt like her boobs were better at the time. If she challenges you when you get home, what ever you do, give her some comfort that her boobs are more awesome. "I like her boobs, but I love yours" "I don't like her boobs that much. I can't do this" [grab/hold boobs] Be fun, be silly, get an eyeroll. But don't deny your comment if it's the truth.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 02:26 AM
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Thanks bot
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:41 AM
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Advice C - Just go caveman and do it for you
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:32 AM
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"Boobs are nothing to be ashamed of. Except if you're a 300 lb man"
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:31 AM
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Maybe smoothies are just horrible food?
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:28 AM
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This is gold. Reading this just made a few things fall into place for me. I haven't had a 'main event' or anything, but my wife is now looking to me to lead her ALL the time now. She defers nearly all her decisions to me and doesn't question mine. Used to be the complete opposite.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:18 AM
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No worries, man. No Aussie is clueless on what fuglies means :)
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 02:22 AM
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Excellent FR This is the part that MRP newbies can't wrap their head around: I'm doing better at not caring if I get laid, because I know things change quickly and I will get laid soon
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 03:47 AM
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And that 20% of the women are the fuglies, redhead soul stealers and lepers.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 03:07 AM
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RIP Floyd
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 03:06 AM
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I was angry for becoming a schlub that just expected my wife would put out 'because that's what wives are supposed to do'. For an intelligent guy, I was incredibly dumb. But my anger didn't last long when it hit me that the only way to go forward was to fix myself and concentrate on being happy for me. 8 months on, massive improvemernts have been made. Weight gone, strength up, life enjoyment up, interpersonal relationships are way better.
/r/askMRP05/09/17 02:07 AM
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"Dependopotomus" Brilliant portmanteau
/r/askMRP04/09/17 04:54 AM
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Are you looking for a cookie? Are you waiting for a pat on the head and a 'Good boy!'? You told her what you did. That's all you need to do. It's done.
/r/askMRP04/09/17 01:16 AM
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/r/legaladvice might offer some better help
/r/askMRP01/09/17 06:23 AM
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Breast feeding is not a contraceptive. At all.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 06:21 AM
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YOU need to be more careful about where YOU put YOUR sperm. Never leave responsibility for birth control in other people's hands (or mouths). Up until you've been given the all clear that the snip is successful, be more careful.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 05:45 AM
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That's a massive rodent. I'd suggest skipping the shotgun and just going for a Barret Model 82A1 with hollow tip bullets to kill that hamster
/r/askMRP01/09/17 05:43 AM
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Big Red? I don't get this reference
/r/askMRP01/09/17 05:22 AM
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Have you had it done yet?
/r/askMRP01/09/17 05:18 AM
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If she uses affection as a weapon, you need to just do you and dole out affection, flirt, game, etc with no expectation of getting anything back. If she responds, winning. If not, her loss. Go do guy stuff in between slapping and squeezing her ass. Also, don't be scared to get shave foam on your lady. Kiss her properly and have some fun with it. And kill that fucking hamster. With a shotgun to the face.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 03:50 AM
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Yep. Very apropos. Tom was definitely in Cameron's frame there. He thought he was stud extraordinaire and then became an smear on the dash.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 02:50 AM
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That made me really laugh. The art of comedy is the timing. And the absurdity.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 01:34 AM
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Car rides with a really shitty first mate are a great test in frame. If you lose it, there's a good chance you'll kill one or both of you.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 12:27 AM
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Chalk it up to experience. Start working on yourself. Next
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 03:31 AM
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Move on dude. SHe's probably getting fucked by that other dude as you read this...
/r/askMRP29/08/17 08:05 AM
1

The coffee meetup was with one of her friends (SAHM post wall) that cheated (>6 month cheating) on her husband (huge money earner but beta as fuck) and now she can't handle all the suspicion he harbours for every activity she does. The guy should have divorced her arse but he still loves her. Blue pill as fuck. He wants to keep trying and has yet to take control of anything in their marriage. I will not try to red pill this guy. At all. Ever. After being dragged into this shitshow of a relations…
/r/askMRP29/08/17 08:03 AM
1

Pertinent question. I'm curious as well.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:18 AM
1

Sidebar is over there ---->
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:16 AM
1

You know that saying (usually said by absolute cunts too) "If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best"? That saying is just an excuse for them to be cunts and you let them get away with it. The real saying should be "If you can’t handle me at my worst, you're actually a man I don't deserve".
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:14 AM
2

He Rambo'd this shit http://gph.is/2cTozwy
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:05 AM
3

I've learnt to set the standard you expect. If you can take care of doing it all without breaking a sweat while still working, looking after kids and socialising, your wife will learn she has nothing to complain about when she has to do it.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 03:31 AM
2

Yeah, I found the same thing. Once you do a ton of work getting to a good place and not as much work is required, you feel a bit lost. Go find new hobbies or lift more.
/r/askMRP18/08/17 03:50 AM
1

One big thing of note is that I go away for a week for work and then have a week off so she has to be the alpha of the house when I am away. When I get home she's exhausted from the kids so asks if I could take some of the load which is only fair I think. I have tried to own it i.e I do the dishes and some laundry (always mine first) when I see it needing to be done and not waiting to be asked, but I feel that it is framed as "Captain can have some R&R now that the first officer is home and can …
/r/askMRP17/08/17 07:15 AM
5

OP: "MUMMY!!! These mean men called me a faggot!" OP's Mom: "Ummm, no offence but they're right." OP's Wife: "Yep. Spot on loser faggot." OP: <foetal position in corner, crying the Mississippi>
/r/askMRP17/08/17 05:26 AM
5

Definitely sounds like it
/r/askMRP17/08/17 03:36 AM
7

BP for 11 years (I usually add an error margin of 50% to that figure), 4 months in to MRP... That means you have probably another year until she values you again. Keep up the initiating, if you get a hard no, just go do something else and keep working. It will come.
/r/askMRP17/08/17 02:46 AM
7

So, let me get this straight, your LTR is telling you that she wants to be with you forever(*) but she seems more and more disheartened lately and you haven't made up your mind even though you feel she provides value to you? She wants you to make a decision. You may think you have only eased up on the alpha. Sounds like you've gone full indecisive beta. Have you two talked about a possible future you may have? Kids? Housing? Careers? Life goals? Marriages aren't something to go into on a whim or…
/r/askMRP15/08/17 05:03 AM
20

Call over a staff member (or grab the plate and head to counter) and inform them of their mistake and see if it can be rectified. The shit test was already in progress the moment your wife received her meal and found the ribs were horrible. Her words blamed you for the poor ribs, what she really meant was that you didn't stand up for her and take control of the situation by getting it sorted with the staff. No woman wants to be the whining bitch from table 23. So she wanted you to lead the way. …
/r/askMRP14/08/17 06:22 AM
8

She wants space, you have two choices... 1) Give her space and let her kick your balls in a box 2) Ignore her, grow your balls back and stop being scared of the harpy cunt You also sound like you haven't digested any of the reading. At all. Have you even read anything other than this subreddit?
/r/askMRP10/08/17 08:03 AM
11

Confirms my suspicions. Jealous hambone
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 07:48 AM
9

Your wife is on your boat, under your command, yeah? Definitely sounds like she is. You have no need to worry. Bitches be cray... Extra detail request: Is crazy woman married?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 06:01 AM
5

Just order two of the same thing. She won't eat all of it so you get 1.25 meals :)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 07:57 AM
2

Next.
/r/askMRP21/07/17 05:39 AM
4

Virgin till 27, very Catholic family... ** shudder **
/r/askMRP21/07/17 01:12 AM
1

Not one thing in this post tells me that you're gaming or dating your wife. At all. Sounds like she just wants more of your time for her, not for the kids. Sounds like a comfort test for you. Do your weekend plans include any activities just with your wife or do the kids eat it all up? I see: Fishing - 2 boys House - Solo project? Lake outing - Family Date your wife, keep it fun.
/r/askMRP21/07/17 01:06 AM
5

My SO has got to the point where she asks me to choose a dish for her as she has 'food envy' when she chooses hers and sees what I get. I go with what I want, she used to get what she sorta felt like and wouldn't be judged by others. I know what she wants better than she does sometimes. AWALT?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 12:58 AM
9

Being asked for a foot rub is your woman initiating. Cos no woman will ever let their man give another woman a foot rub.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 06:28 AM
13

Removing yourself and your family from an organisation that will fill heads with lies is a great move. Be the head of your own religion. Decide on your own morals and who/what you do with your life. MRP is the Religion of You.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 03:09 AM
2

That show is the epitome of Blue Pill pussy. Scared of his wife, scared of his mother, and his father is a pussy. Everyone Loves Raymond should be the video lesson package in how not to handle women for MRP beginners.
/r/askMRP18/07/17 01:19 AM
1

Hence why I called it a soft option. I should have titled it as the pussy option in hindsight.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 07:18 AM
2

Is your wife less religious than yourself? That could explain her lack of doing so.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 07:15 AM
7

I could imagine her thinking, "this guy didn't even care that I gave him a compliment that he begged for for years, what a dick." Sounds like you're still thinking more about her than about you. "I think so, thank you" Your response said all you needed to say. You think you like it and you appreciate her saying so. That's it. You're not being a dick at all.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 04:55 AM
4

Option 5 - Anonymous letter to other wife telling her to look into her husband's cheating ways. That'll get her hamster running. No detail even needed. Make sure you send it from another town/city than your own and don't handwrite it. That's the soft option that doesn't involve your wife finding out you've been snooping.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 04:49 AM
1

Thank you. I was over thinking it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/17 01:40 AM
1

Update time... Down 6-7 lbs in the last 3 weeks. Not bad in the depths of winter when comfort is craved. Need to keep going. - Aiming for 8 lbs during July Haven't had as much time for reading as I'd like. Am rereading WISNIFG and it's a hard slog when you don't get enough time to focus. - Not sure where this time will come from right now Failed a big shit test earlier this week. Seems like the SO deliberately set me up too. Wondering how I should go forward when she sets me up like that. Some t…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 08:48 AM
1

Can I just ask, what parts did I not adhere to?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 01:59 AM
7

Being evasive is different to AA/AM/Fogging "I can't help it if they start chatting to me. I do seem to attract hot women." grab ass and wall kiss
/r/askMRP30/06/17 05:31 AM
14

And the award for DEERing like a mofo goes to... Stop engaging in her shit tests and trying to explain everything. Fog your way through it or play it off as nothing. You are so deep in her frame you need a ladder to climb out. But you only have a shovel.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/17 05:24 AM
2

It's amazing isn't it. But don't let this little win allow complacency to creep in. You need to keep working at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/17 05:35 AM
3

A lack of shit tests is a great big fucking tell that she has checked out emotionally.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 02:45 AM
3

You raise a good point. But divorce rape is a real thing too. Doesn't matter if she has no options, a 34 year marriage as a SAHM could be worth a sizable chunk of OPs retirement fund.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 02:26 AM
3

This right here is the truth. Don't give her any reason to go Chad-hunting by being the only guy she wants. And he's at home. OP has some serious issues with his own frame and needs to work way harder.
/r/askMRP22/06/17 07:11 AM
2

Figured this wasnt the hill to die on A more eloquent way of saying "Pick your battles"
/r/askMRP22/06/17 01:45 AM
1

That's the twist :)
/r/askMRP20/06/17 05:33 AM
1

Hold firm. Things are changing and she is reflexively testing the new boundaries. If you cave and DEER your way through it, it will further prolong the massive shit tests because she won't know what is going on.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 05:33 AM
2

So have you got her back by DEERing yet? Or are you nexting?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/17 07:22 AM
3

I never realised that dread came along with shit like this. Ceretainly explains why sex has been on the upswing lately. She's initiating more. Open to more stuff. Different times of day. It all makes complete sense though. MRP is a neverending learning journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/17 02:50 AM
2

I did, I did, taw a putty tat!
/r/askMRP16/06/17 12:46 AM
1

Might help to tag him: /u/BluePillProfessor
/r/askMRP15/06/17 04:43 AM
2

You've recognised it as a power play. If she wants to come along, let her come along. But don't let her stop you from doing what you want. At least with her there, you've got someone to hold the baby and let you enjoy time with the other two.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 02:06 AM
2

"Hudson, sir! He's Hicks"
/r/askMRP15/06/17 01:57 AM
5

Morpheus: The pill you took is part of a trace program. It's designed to disrupt your input/output carrier signal so we can pinpoint your location. Neo: What does that mean? Cypher: It means fasten your seat belt Dorothy, 'cause Kansas is going bye-bye. Too late now buddy. You've swallowed it, the trace program has picked you up and spat you out. What are you gonna do now? Sit there and wish you were an blue pill schlub harbouring repressed anger directed outward? Or, take what you now know, tha…
/r/askMRP15/06/17 01:54 AM
4

Let me tell you where this leads: You'll wake up in ten years living a life that isn't yours. You'll look at your house and feel like it's not really your house. That's not really your job. Those aren't really your wife and kids. You'll feel like you could walk away from everything and barely even care because it's not really your life. Your life somehow hasn't actually happened yet. David Byrne and Brian Eno had that thought back in the 80s: https://youtu.be/98AJUj-qxHI
/r/askMRP15/06/17 01:44 AM
6

I think it's a multiplication thing...
/r/askMRP15/06/17 12:07 AM
6

You forgot to add "beta faggot" to your RP extremist quote
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 12:02 AM
13

As with any belief system, the people who take it to extreme limits are a bit loopy and give the moderates a bad name. Be it Islam, Liberals, Conservatives, Feminism, Red Pill, etc. The silent majority just get on with doing their thing, usually with great success and fulfillment, while the fringe get all the negative attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 12:23 PM
4

'that bitch' is generally a bit of fogging and generally delivered in an amused tone. It short circuits her emotions a bit and can get a laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 11:22 AM
10

You have to seem to be involved in the conversation without saying too much. Whether it be a little joke here or there, a simple 'that bitch' when she's talking about a bitch, etc. You have to be involved a bit. She needs to know her audience is listening.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 05:38 AM
20

Since finding MRP and starting to own my shit at home, work and other, my wife has started coming to me to discuss issues she'd normally stew on for days and be grumpy and bitchy. Now while we're chilling on the couch she fills me in on her issue(s) with all the feelz and emotions, I listen with minimal comment and she directly asks for my advice. And she carries it out. She used to do this when we were first together but that slowly disappeared as I became a Beta schlub. Looking back, it is ama…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 05:35 AM
14

That rich guy is a royal douche. Such an arrogant fuck. EDIT: Be careful fitting this to the MRP mentality. Both dudes exhibit qualities that fit with MRP, poor dude probably moreso. Rich dude is owning his career, poor dude isn't Poor dude owning his shit around house, rich dude isn't Both seem to invest too much money in shit things, rich dude on gaudy furniture and paying wife for stuff, poor dude on gold teeth and tattoos, both on smokes
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 05:09 AM
3

Pretty much what I said.
/r/askMRP13/06/17 02:06 AM
4

Women can slim down quite rapidly when they really want to. Common situations: attracting a new guy getting married (most go way too far for this one) when their guy is owning their shit and are way more attractive The 3rd one is the best, because most of the time they don't even realise why they want to. They just do.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 11:57 PM
1

Stop worrying about sex. Stop trying for sex. Focus on improving yourself. For you. The rest will come when you stop trying to force it. In fact, she will come to you.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 11:53 PM
2

Sometimes the messiest failure as a first try makes for the best result at the nth try
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 10:54 AM
4

Here's some tips that work for me. Diet: Don't eat shit. Make all your food from fresh produce. Sleep: Have a sleep routine. Make sure you get 6-8 solid hours of sleep per night. Don't have the TV on in the bedroom when trying to sleep.
/r/askMRP09/06/17 06:07 AM
2

The specific problem I'm contemplating is this. I'm half busy doing something like cooking or cleaning up (now a days no covert contracts, I do them because they need to be done in order for me to feel good in the house) when I'm asked for a favor. A simple question like; -could you do/fix x? This probably seems laughably lame to most of you, but I can not find a good way out of this. If I let go of everything and immediately fulfill her wish that's a DLV, reinforcing a dynamic I'm seeking to mi…
/r/askMRP09/06/17 02:44 AM
1

It's a good guide to if I'm generating the tingles
/r/askMRP09/06/17 02:21 AM
1

I'm doing it for me, but analysing what she says to work out her feelz helps me focus my energies on areas where I need improvement. In this case, I worked out it has nothing to do with me and you guys have pretty much agreed with that. Keep on with the plan.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 05:25 AM
1

That sounds a bit rapey. But with enough dread I can see it having the right effect.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 03:54 AM
3

'known garbage fire' - I feel kinda bad for his wife being referred to like that. But it's not inaccurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 05:53 AM
1

Sounds like she has to talk herself into sex with you. Look up the term 'duty sex'. Keep up the effort and don't stop with the sidebar. Changes will happen. The goal is that she is always ready to have sex with you.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 05:52 AM
6

Pertinent question
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 05:33 AM
2

Yes, it is awesome. I love it. Makes life way more enjoyable.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 05:32 AM
3

This may sound a bit like DEERing but since we're here to help each other, it's now an analysis. "I could always cancel like he had to a few weeks back" - This was a deliberate choice to remind her that this is a reschedule and moving it again is a pain in the butt. "I'd definitely cancel if you said you had a hotel room ready for a lunch alternative." - Attempt at flirting (probably badly), but it did get a sorta smirk that she squashed straight away. I call it a win.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 12:51 AM
2

Frame in that interaction is me carrying out plans I'd made. My personal intentions and not letting it be sidetracked by her hamstering. If she had a valid reason for me to cancel, I would have entered into my decision making process.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 12:47 AM
1

Can I ask, are you on the spectrum?
/r/askMRP30/05/17 08:05 AM
4

Suggested Correction: Sounds like you're at Dread Level 0. It also sounds like you talk too much. STFU is gonna be a good challenge for you.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 07:55 AM
2

One of my main life learnings regarding personal relationships is that the sooner you break the control your mother has on your thoughts, the better you will be. I learnt it early in my 20s with a major health issue. I chose to have my LTR near me and support me through and not my mother. I wanted support, not pity or mothering. It pissed my mother off massively and she held a grudge for a long time (10+ years probably) and even asked me on the eve of my wedding if I was doing the right thing ma…
/r/askMRP30/05/17 02:38 AM
7

I second this. Not intitiating is a great way to get sex out of your head and start a DGAF attitude towards getting it. I found it increased a bit of dread too when I went on a 3 mth moratorium from initiating. The hamster starts to spin as you are working hard to improve yorself but not wanting sex. Seems to be a subconcious reaction to not being wanted, so they try harder to get your affection and to put her back on a pedestal as control shifts in the relationship. Remember the basics of MRP, …
/r/askMRP29/05/17 02:35 AM
3

The scorched earth approach. It has its merits if you have the frame to pull it off.
/r/askMRP26/05/17 06:44 AM
1

Good point. There are always exceptions to a rule.
/r/askMRP26/05/17 01:18 AM
3

Maybe this should have been posted to /r/deadbedroom for some really good bluepill advice. My thought is that it sounds like you need to fix yourself before your wife will want to fuck you again.
/r/askMRP25/05/17 05:10 AM
11

I think there's a definite rule about not sharing your marital bed with anyone, even family. Did you tell your wife you booked a hotel room for her parents? If not, you're trying to lead with your ship mate being blindfolded.
/r/askMRP25/05/17 05:07 AM
1

So much butthurt pent up inside you. Can't wait to hear how tomorrow goes down. I bet it ends in DEERing and a great big pussy (not hers)
/r/askMRP25/05/17 03:26 AM
1

Haha
/r/askMRP24/05/17 08:23 AM
13

Small tip, not everything is a shit/comfort test.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 03:11 AM
4

I get what you're saying but geez your typing is terrible. :)
/r/askMRP24/05/17 03:10 AM
3

Even if she hasn't physically fucked Chad the yoga dude, you can be damn sure she has cum to the thought of it.
/r/askMRP24/05/17 02:37 AM
7

I think the mistake you're making is seeing jobs/roles as being alpha/beta. I don't blame you for this thinking that as we've been raised to see housework as a woman/weaker thing. You can be the stay at home dad and still be alpha. Own your shit completely. Don't do the housework, parenting, finances, etc, just to get cookie from the wife. Do it well because of you, what you want done. And you can still lift, have your own time and have hobbies if you keep on top of your shit. And stop whining t…
/r/askMRP24/05/17 02:34 AM
4

This is a victim puke all in one go. One great big stream of horrid green liquid. Quite voluminous and stinking of cheese. Induces nausea is all those nearby.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 07:14 AM
2

You're allowed to have feelings. You're human. It's not a weakness. I think the bigger issue is that you're not being a man, just acting it. And she can tell.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 07:10 AM
2

My experience in situations like this is that the BP fucks can't make a decision to save their lives (meals, activities, etc) and defer to their wives on everything. Wives pussies dry up being the mother to an extra child and BP cycle continues. Be that guy who will happily throw an idea out there for anything and everything. When groups get bigger than 4 or 5, usually anyone with a confident suggestion gets to lead the way and the others will follow. Be that dude. Flirt and game your wife ALL t…
/r/askMRP22/05/17 06:27 AM
1

Very meta
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 01:34 AM
2

The Good: way less shit tests coming my way, comfort tests being handled with aplomb, not DEERing, heaps more active cardio happening, wife actively wanting me to pursue my interests, jobs around house getting done well, parenting is rocking along, father/son time plentiful and I am seeing his attitudes and maturity coming along nicely The Bad: diet needs to improve, too much sugar coming into winter, put on 4-5kg, seriously need a payrise or new job The Ugly: last 3 weeks has been a drought in …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 12:03 PM
5

She's got some balls because she took them from OP
/r/askMRP09/05/17 04:14 AM
5

Someone needs to say "Yes." and someone else needs a blow job
/r/askMRP09/05/17 03:14 AM
1

Self awareness is an amazing thing
/r/askMRP08/05/17 11:55 PM
4

My guess is that OP is not validating her enough in more than just FB likes. Flirt with your missus, compliment her, take her out and show her off a bit, then fuck the shit out of her.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 01:38 AM
1

After long discussions with my doctor (who manages my testosterone replacement therapy (post ball cancer, chemo killed the other)), he recommends no vasectomy for me because it causes a drop in T in most men and I can handle that drop the least. Condoms for us during the danger times. Although first 5 days after period and 5 days before period we go bare. Bonus is that Mrs AA loves bare cock so she goes to town after her period.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 12:58 PM
4

The great philosopher Eminem, once said... Hah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:52 AM
2

Probably a good thing. Both of those lines have a fair degree of butthurt
/r/askMRP26/04/17 11:13 PM
2

You're improving and raising the stakes of the relationship, she's trying to drag you back down. You will keep getting shit/comfort tests until she realises that she has to come along for the ride or potentially lose you.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 06:08 AM
3

I think OP might also be a bit surprised his victim puke about cheating didn't fix him. It didn't make him feel better and it made his wife feel worse. I think it turns out the cheating wasn't what was bugging him, it was the porn addiction and other internal issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 02:53 AM
4

The Own Your Shit and make the changes you want to fix yourself. Do it straight away. Don't wait to tell her what you are doing, start and then inform her.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 02:41 AM
6

I think it's hilarious when women raise their darling little 7 year old princesses to be strong, independent and vocal, but when they reach teenage years they bemoan the fact their girls are now strong, independent and vocal.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 02:32 AM
1

Letting the hamster tire itself out is an effective strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 02:30 AM
9

Okay, imagine that your wife told you she cheated on you twice after having an alcohol problem and secretly going to bars... Then after she has come clean and you give her another chance, she then tells you she has been going to bars again. Get it now?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 02:24 AM
18

In my short journey (3-4 months), I've found that whenever I implement a new paradigm or thought pattern, it takes about 2 weeks for my wife to get on board completely. First week I get 5-8 minor shit tests across the week and second week I get one or two major shit tests and the same number of comfort tests. Holding frame is key to the change. If she doesn't see consistency, she will shit test your boundaries looking for clarity and you're in for a battle. Don't move too fast and don't try to i…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 01:53 AM
2

She's the one stomping around searching for landmines, and she feels no responsibility for losing a limb. That right there explains so many things
/r/askMRP20/04/17 10:43 PM
7

Sounds like you haven't managed to trigger her mate guarding yet. Keep upping your SMV.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 01:29 AM
15

"Why you so dressed up?" "When I look good, I feel good.", then kiss her hard. That's it. Done. And shut up about the interest from other ladies. It gets her hamster spinning in the wrong direction. Let her see it.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 01:12 AM
25

Q: If your dog was barking at the back door and your wife was knocking on the front door, who would you let in first? A: The dog – at least he would be happy once he was in. Your dog is pretty much the only unconditional love you will ever experience. You are right to grieve. My condolences to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 02:30 PM
2

Let's focus this down onto you. You set up tracking for some reason. You must think she is cheating, right? You fucked up right there. Every unexplained absence is then a sufficient reason to question. Her hamster is going full pace because she's cheating or she thinks you are. So much more here than you are letting on.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 03:57 AM
1

(I've only been unplugged for about 4 months, so take my advice with a grain of salt). After that corny pickup line, I'd take your advice with a grain of sugar...
/r/askMRP18/04/17 11:41 PM
1

I have often wondered about the correlation between MRPers (and RPers) and autism. I believe I'd register as being on the spectrum but I've never bothered to find out. I'm doing okay at life so far.
/r/askMRP18/04/17 07:09 AM
2

It's standard advice because it's the best starting point and you didn't say if you tried the best starting point.
/r/askMRP18/04/17 05:28 AM
2

Who said you need church to have friends or socialise your kids? You're at university, right? If you can't find members of the female gender with similar interests and are marriageable at university, you're obviously not trying to socialise. Go find a student organisation that involves an interest you have, sports, arts, other and get involved. Quick question: Have you ever been diagnosed as being on the spectrum?
/r/askMRP18/04/17 05:10 AM
9

Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize Basically being a whiny bitch. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5a9521/defend_explain_excuse_rationalize_weak_tools_for/
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 02:56 AM
8

"Can you just get my slippers?" "Yeah, only if you come with me" wink <slap on ass> The rest of this puke is avoided. Edit: She responded with nukes because you were an ass. Search this sub for 'Red Pill Rambo'
/r/askMRP13/04/17 07:39 AM
1

http://www.stopyourdivorce.com/book.htm Seems to be looked upon as a scam artist
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 04:58 AM
6

She's the one that has cheated (multiple times) and you're the one making concessions? Fuck me. You're not as far along this path as you think you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 02:38 AM
5

She comes up with excuses to say that she's not that kind of a girl and she can only do anything sexual when I'm physically present with her Same goes for the attention and talking. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. You feeding her with emotional energy isn't the right way to go about this. Go lift instead of playing the attention seeking game. Up your lifting, read sidebar and level up on dread and she'll come around to your way of thinking. And STFU
/r/askMRP10/04/17 01:24 AM
1

Done
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 05:40 AM
3

YES! I've heard this myself.
/r/askMRP29/03/17 02:02 AM
2

As someone who coaches myself, I respect what you're saying. I left the coach alone for this entire thing for the very reason you stated. And my role is a required club position for every team, Team Manager.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/17 10:07 PM
3

Yeah. I said the same above but you took it to another level.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/17 09:16 AM
2

Not sure if this is a comfort shit test or a shit comfort test. Even though she used to fight with you about wanting pics, secretly I reckon she loved it. It just pushed her boundaries on the slutty side. And thus, she actually enjoyed that you wanted that kind of thing when she wasn't there. It showed that you were thinking about her.
/r/askMRP27/03/17 06:47 AM
1

I got that the other day. Highly amusing
/r/askMRP26/03/17 08:36 AM
3

Don't take this as gospel but the chance that your company has logged all your Google Hangouts chats is quite low. It would take a MITM security certificate situation and they would also have to be actively looking for the traffic. I would keep acting the way you normally do. If your manager brings it up with you, get on the front foot. Express disappointment that someone would acuse you of that. Ask the manager if they've ever known you to be disrespectful to women.
/r/askMRP24/03/17 07:40 AM
2

Which BP subreddit?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/17 05:43 AM
1

Have you read Sex God Method? Maybe working on your DEVI and applying it to your LTR might help control it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 07:48 AM
1

She's the only one I trust and actually can see/want a future with. Yet the itch to fuck elsewhere is still there... Something tells me you're only with the current one out of expectation because she helped you through the bad stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 07:28 AM
3

Red Pill aware men represent an existential threat to women unilaterally making Hypergamous decisions for their lives That, right there, is key to understanding the unknown pushback you get early on in the RP journey. And the really funny thing is that I think my wife is doing it subconsciously as the power dynamic is shifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 02:40 AM
6

You should have left the room to go do something productive when she was finger fucking the phone and you got an unconscious grunt in reply. Let her search you out if that's what she wants.
/r/askMRP22/03/17 02:01 AM
4

Chad, Chad, Chad, Chad!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 04:31 AM
4

Thanks. Making sure I do this properly. Avoiding going Rambo.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 03:42 AM
3

You're winning at being the captain of your ship dude. Keep it up
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 01:19 AM
3

Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry... Not sorry. Oh well.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 01:11 AM
2

Any shit tests/comfort tests come from that?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 01:09 AM
13

I'm only now noticing how big this cultural destruction of the male masculine position in society is. I'm fixing me now and making sure I'm setting a great example for my son.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 12:47 AM
1

Side question: Did current wife read the email?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 12:39 AM
3

I think it's time to get rid of your ego and DGAF
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 12:39 AM
1

Leather shoes are sorted I used to have a pair of dark indigo in a bigger size that I'll be getting in slim straight leg Fitted shirts are key? Haircut is easy, I shave my head and have a well kept short beard
/r/askMRP20/03/17 10:52 PM
1

Unfortunately, I've never been a boxer kind of guy. Briefs only. Maybe I have to change that... I've never been told I've got a nice ass, only that I've got no ass and chicken legs
/r/askMRP20/03/17 03:33 AM
1

"What? You say that like you don't."
/r/askMRP17/03/17 02:15 AM
2

I have coached my son's football team for the last 5 years (head coach for 3, assistant for 2) and have been through tons of moments like this. It is hard as hell to hold frame. I do remember a previous year my son was equal best on ground for a game and didn't get the award. The wife hounded me after about how I should have made sure he got the award. She had no clue how hard it is to find the balance between parent and coach. I completely lost my shit with her and it wasn't nice. Felt terrible…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 02:28 AM
1

Thanks for that. I need to get past the butthurt and DGAF more
/r/askMRP16/03/17 12:13 AM
1

Ahhh sorry. Misunderstood
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 11:40 AM
1

Did you have more success?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 07:19 AM
3

In a pair of girls there is always one bitch who thinks she's better than everyone in the room. You can usually spot them as they're the one controlling the conversation and talking the most. In the bar setting, they're also the one who orders the drinks for both of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 01:19 AM
1

Her mocking needs to be cut off straight away. Make it clear you will not be mocked and make sure the point hits home. And you might need to have the second guessing you in front of the kids chat again. But kudos for keeping frame in the heat of battle.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 05:15 AM
6

When you start studying, put your all into for you, nobody else. Kick that degree's ass and make it yours. Don't forget to lift. Keep that SMV high. Keep the house tip-top and not crow about it. Make out like it is child's play. You don't need to be raking in the money to still be alpha for your lady.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 05:09 AM
2

You are so deep in her frame that you've become her doormat. If you're trying not to be blue pill, you need to try so much fucking harder because it's not working.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 05:05 AM
8

Excellent analogy. Although you must put budgetary controls in place now so it is habit when Captain is in training
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 02:31 AM
1

I am glad to be able to get the gel. I pay for it out of my own pocket, but I can claim about %55 back from my private health fund. I used to get it subsidised by Medicare (our socialised medical system) and only pay a third out of my own pocket but they change the acceptable range limits.
/r/askMRP03/03/17 03:29 AM
1

Yeah, it's a daily gel. My issue with injections is that I have bad vasovagal reactions with any needle. I'm sorta stuck on gel. I've tried with multiple doctors to get them to look into the possibility of using Clomid, but they won't go off label.
/r/askMRP03/03/17 02:41 AM
5

Go read WISNIFG
/r/askMRP03/03/17 01:31 AM
1

I prefer real paper but will do PDF if necessary. I will go get it
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 03:16 AM
1

I haven't been able to find WISNIFG locally yet :( And yes the heavy things is a priority. Currently shuffling numbers and budgets to make it happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 12:32 AM
1

Very first OYS My ownyourshit.co score is 18 Details: 40yo, 186cm, 98kg, married 14 years, wife 36yo, 1 child Story: Marriage has generally been okay, was complete DB for a few years 2010-2014/2015 until Dr told me I had to lose weight (was at 115kg, down from 125kg) and improve my diet. Switched my diet to get rid of all the processed crap and removed most sugar & carbs, pretty much rely on meat, eggs, veg and salad now. Feeling pretty good. When I lost the weight interest from the wife increas…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 05:08 AM
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