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Thanks homie.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 11:36 PM
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You too bro
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 11:34 PM
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Best of luck with you and yours brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 11:32 PM
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You made a big difference in my life man. Peace
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 11:30 PM
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I want to thank you above anyone else bro. You helped me through some real dark times. For that, I'm forever grateful.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 12:38 PM
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You mean a metaphorical 2x4 right?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 09:03 AM
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Try The Browning
/r/askMRP29/01/19 08:32 PM
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In a perfect world I'd go 5x a week and it would only ever be an hour. Unfortunately, my schedule only allows 3x, so it is what it is.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 07:52 PM
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There is an old post by u/88Will88 that I can't find (did he delete) about how you don't want a divorce, but a legal separation. It also goes into detail about keeping it as friendly as possible until the separation is complete (and probably even after that if you have kids). He was a divorce lawyer and explained how it's his job to take as much of your money as he can. Remember this.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:06 AM
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For sure. His children's peers surely wouldn't make fun of them cause their mom is a tramp. You wanting other people to know is petty as fuck. Also, you look like the loser who's wife was fucking around. Nothing gets a girls wetter than a guy who couldn't satisfy his wife.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 02:35 AM
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Question is, why is this quote so threatening to you that you need to post up about it? Because TRP and Incels are banned and he needs a place to vent about how unfair he has it due to womenz. OP should get a month off to think about whether or not he wants to be part of this community.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/19 10:33 PM
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You're overthinking way too much Guilty as charged. Stop trying so hard to RedPill. It'll do little more than make you do mental gymnastics while putting you in a perpetual state of anger. Understand it's a journey with no destination and it continues to get better. OYS, lift, read and STFU. It'll happen naturally if you let it. Eventually you won't care what your wife thinks and you'll take solace in knowing you're doing the right thing. Eventually you won't need to think other women want you b…
/r/askMRP21/01/19 10:19 PM
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Get some distance between you so that you can gain some better perspective and operate in your MAP and not your emotions. You really need to reset every fucking day. No exceptions OP, you'll be amazed at how much more clearly you'll assess this situation while you sit in the locker room drinking a protein shake after killing it at the gym for a couple hours.
/r/askMRP21/01/19 03:34 PM
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"Ya, but her ass isn't as nice as your's, so were still straight"
/r/askMRP21/01/19 03:30 PM
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I have one the bottom of the stairs at water park. "Never again"
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 11:06 PM
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Probably just a BP dude who's trying to be funny.
/r/askMRP15/01/19 09:49 AM
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When I was a child, I believed in God. I was scared of going to hell for swearing and because I stole candy once. When I was a teen, I was an Athiest. It was edgy, plus I didn't have to worry about being judged for my actions or lack there of. When I was in my 20s, I was confused. I immersed myself in the scientific rhetoric of atheism to further fulfil my desire to be judged by myself alone. Ultimately, this left me with a feeling that the the devout Athiest is as ignorant as the devout Christi…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 09:10 PM
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That should be bracketed beside the book in the side bar. (Don't fuckin actually talk about this shit with your wife!)
/r/askMRP07/01/19 02:17 AM
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Sometimes even them admitting their fault is unlikely. I find women only assume fault with indifference. So it doesn't even matter. If you're looking for women to take accountability, you're living in her frame. Women apologize with actions anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 10:06 PM
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I'm not saying to walk around all day saying sorry every time a mouse farts, but in certain circumstances it is appropriate. Ya, I should have clarified that.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 06:47 PM
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Honestly? You're asking a parenting sub for hooker advice?
/r/RedPillParenting06/12/18 02:05 AM
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How fuckin old are you? It writes like you're an adult, it reads like you're in grade school and it smells like you're a troll.
/r/askMRP29/11/18 10:00 AM
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That squat is gonna put a lot of strain on you in the future bro and you'll be slamming the bar into your neck. If you can't get on a rack, I'd suggest you clean it and front squat. My 2cents anyway.
/r/askMRP25/11/18 04:54 PM
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By "strict" do you mean "clean"?
/r/askMRP25/11/18 04:49 PM
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Lol. That's the most senseless downvotes I've ever seen on this sub. Have another one and lets get this thing rolling. edit: I'll upvote your OP though
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 06:10 PM
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Maybe he has fuckin ADHD for all you know? Maybe he just like to write that way? Maybe you don't understand his post so have to write something negative? Maybe, maybe, maybe But - you can definitely fuck off - and - wait for it - nobody will give a fuck
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 05:41 AM
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There is no "As soon as possible" in something like this. You need to establish habits and embrace the idea that you're making a lifestyle change, not that you want to get to XYZ weight/bf%. If you approach this as a path to a goal on a schedule, you'll never get there. Eat less calories, lift more weight. Pile up consecutive days of compliance. Consecutive days of compliance should be your metric. As cliche as it sounds, focus on just doing it right each day. It's not a race, but a marathon tha…
/r/askMRP19/11/18 10:45 PM
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Why the fuck would you have kids with a woman who can't adult? Honest to god dude. You should really know if that woman has what it takes to be a mom. Having children with the intention of being a single dad is fuckin idiotic. Also, newsflash, what the fuck makes you think you'll be the single dad and not weeeknd dad who gives 25+% of his wages to a woman who makes up all sorts of shit about you in court? Shit bro. Stop being such a fuckin tard.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/18 04:21 AM
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By the probing you did, if you really think about the meaning behind the responses she gives, you'll find out more about how she actually feelz then you ever could by asking her about something. The knowledge one can gain on a person through effective power talking is so underrated.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 05:53 PM
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"who cares what your wife thinks." Some real shit there
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/18 12:25 PM
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My daughter made a speach at a family wedding recently and she looked as if she wasn't gonna be able to pull it off. Fell apart twice, digged down and got it done. I can't describe how much I wanted to save her, but also how proud I was of her for it. When I hugged her in the hall of the church, I was full of tears. My wife looked at me like I was a pussy 😂
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 11:59 PM
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I really liked "Here's you example" by GargantuanBlarg29. Was exactly what I needed when he posted it. Sad that he left, but I guess that's kinda what should happen. Men move on from MRP and be men IRL.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 11:55 PM
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I'm late to the party, but as I've often said, "One of the most dangerous things is a Jealous Beta". I can only imagine a drunk one being worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/18 02:38 PM
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I’m going to get my dick sucked and I’m going to get her to suck my dick sound similar but they’re worlds apart. Some of that RP zen right there
/r/askMRP27/10/18 02:22 PM
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I took it from u/Rollo-Tomassi essay. I think it stands for "FI sympathizers". Maybe I got that twisted though
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 08:32 AM
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As men, it's of the upmost importance to associate yourself with several men who share in your belief of the importance of the male imperative. While you can't simply shun all symps for not sharing the same views on the world you do, you need men in your life who you can confide in.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 01:19 AM
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Frame is Everything
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 12:57 AM
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It's less about what we condone and more about a man doing what he wants to do to yield a result he wants and fully owning it; up to and including the deterioration of his marriage.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 01:29 PM
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See, you can't win if you answer yes, and you can't win if you answer no. The only choice is not to answer. But you can't STFU, because that's stupid. So you have to flip it. "Well, I wouldn't say you're fat, but you're not exactly skinny". My wife loves these fogging style answers
/r/askMRP14/10/18 10:34 AM
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A weak one at that
/r/askMRP14/10/18 10:27 AM
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I periodically have to drop the "Don't fuckin talk to me like that!". She always goes silent. Then 5 minutes later, she is acting as if it never happened and the day carries on. Sometimes you need to put a bitch in her place. A few weeks back we are drinking some beer at a party. I'm chilling on a chair and chatting with a female friend of mine. My brother GF comes steaming over and goes "Drty! Can you fuckin believe your brother just...". I cut her off mid sentence as I stand up face to face wi…
/r/askMRP14/10/18 03:43 AM
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You know, people put as much effort into a response as you do to the question. You give no details in your post, so I'll give you the same. Probably a bad idea.
/r/RedPillParenting14/10/18 03:37 AM
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Fuckin Steve. I'm still not convinced he was the most dedicated troll that any RP sub has ever seen.
/r/askMRP14/10/18 03:34 AM
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RP can't fix spergs. Lol. I liked that one
/r/askMRP12/10/18 09:25 PM
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I'm riding a fine line at 5'8" and 195lbs. 5lbs more and I'm obese. Scary stuff.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 04:23 PM
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learn to be comfortable with the discomfort This goes so much deeper than being assertive. IMO, it's one of the most important things you can do in life; finding comfort in discomfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:31 PM
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My favorite is in a busy supermarket, I'll put on my angry muslim face, as I have that generic ethnic look. You should see people move. It takes everything in my wife not to LOL. Sometimes I'll even play the part more and grab her by the arm to drag her along. Really could give a fuck what people think of me.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:30 PM
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Did you end up getting the phone with her old mans help in the end?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:25 PM
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You should see me on my alt account
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/18 11:25 PM
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I can't fathom what it would take to live at that %. Unless you're one of those natural bean poles, it seems like the juice couldn't possibly be worth the squeeze. I mean, it's your life and if you're comfortable doing, all the power to you bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/18 01:12 AM
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I bet you have a really exciting life to sit at 6%...
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/18 12:10 AM
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True
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 12:50 PM
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Too much of a pain in the ass
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 10:10 AM
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I don't wanna go to there that much
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 10:09 AM
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That's got a good ring to it
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 08:31 PM
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Well, just make sure you use the same user name you old prick.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 07:39 PM
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It's true. Even a link to MRP got removed immediately.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 05:57 PM
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I hope it's seen that way
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 05:55 PM
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Yes
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 04:56 PM
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Well, if it's not banned, why has every comment I made in there gone, as well as the sub itself?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 04:27 PM
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My point was not to slander you, but to say that 5x5 is great to get really strong. If you want a wicked body, much more is needed though
/r/askMRP30/09/18 04:05 PM
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The lack of fat on your stomach comes from the kitchem. The definition that is there due to lack of fat comes from the gym.
/r/askMRP30/09/18 01:05 PM
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IMO, 5x5 makes a good template, but you need more than those 5 lifts. You're crazy if you think a sculpted 6 pack comes from comounds, if you think the bent over row is gonna be enough to build really defined lats or that not pressing dumbells once a week isn't a recipe for future failure.
/r/askMRP29/09/18 10:37 PM
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"Let's see how this goes. If it sucks, you can say I told you so." That's awesome. I'm definitely going to use that.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 05:08 AM
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"You don't need to add an egg when you're making X" "Look, it says on this website right here that when making X, you really should add an egg! I'm right and you're wrong! In your face asshole!" "Do you you wanna be the one to finish cooking this shit? No? Then shut up and grab me an egg. Please"
/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:04 AM
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You keep frame, by being wrong and not giving a fuck that you were wrong. By owning the fact you were wrong. By not allowing her to manipulate you into submission by the fact you were wrong. Frame has nothing to do with being right or wrong and everything to do with how you see the world; how you face the world. I think Jesus was even wrong once?
/r/askMRP26/09/18 03:36 AM
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100%
/r/askMRP24/09/18 02:12 PM
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u/rain_stone has all high scoring posts archived. Perhaps he can chime in here?
/r/askMRP21/09/18 04:51 PM
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I know what you mean about kids growing up in one house. It shapes all of my other decisions. Understand that is a very unpopular opinion around here and very much limits your potential for success with your wife. If you're wife isn't making your life considerably easier, than staying together for the kids is futile IMO.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 04:31 PM
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You really need to pay attention to his gym comment. I'm the guy who spent 18 months on dumbells and did nothing but grow biceps. Been 7 months at the gym and the gains are indescribable. I still do dumbells at home for an accessory for arms, but 5x5 compounds have built every part of my body. I'll also add that if you don't turn your wife's desire around, latent anger will always be residual. Believe me, I know this bro. You can apply all the MRP tactics you want, but if your wife won't play ba…
/r/askMRP21/09/18 03:46 PM
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Agreed
/r/askMRP21/09/18 11:57 AM
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Be a man. Stop being a pussy. Be an adult. Stop being an extra kid to your wife. Be attractive. Stop being unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/18 06:22 PM
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That's why a second account is a must for reddit. I participate in lots of those subs to a degree, but they never know I'm an RP advocate. They may suspect it and remove comments though. We really can't shit post all over reddit with these accounts..
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/18 05:56 PM
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It depends on how dead your bedroom really is. How dead is your?
/r/askMRP20/09/18 05:35 PM
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You don't even give the occasional bro nod?
/r/askMRP20/09/18 05:33 PM
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She blackmails your parents That seems oddly specific in that comical lists. You wanna tell us anything bro?
/r/askMRP17/09/18 07:31 PM
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Don't do it bro. While most enjoy the odd lick of a tasty vag, it's in no way worth the elevated risks of mouth cancer. Fingers arr a safe bet, but as always, you do you
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/18 01:37 AM
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You better hope she isn't as tough as Johanna too or you'll be coming on here some day asking what to do when your wife beats you ass.
/r/askMRP16/09/18 08:24 AM
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i get complimented everyday for just being very attractive You and me both bro. Story of my life 😒
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 01:15 AM
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I have a friend I may have to deal with in the future in this regard. He was always the alpha of the group. Sold drugs, kicke ass, great at sports an always had a hottie in HS. Well, 15 years later he is overweight, out of shape, bald, wear poor fitting clothes and is in a relationship with an ol ugly chick. There is this chick who has the mega hots for me. We are partying one night at my brothers and in typical fashion, she's Keno to the max. I see him a few days later and he says "She is dying…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 04:45 AM
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My emotional affair was fucked up. Pretty sure I'll fuck her in the near future. She just went ASD/LMR crazy and I took a couple steps back at that point.
/r/askMRP15/09/18 01:27 AM
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It's a scale out of 1 - 10.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 01:12 AM
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You always advocate the importance of frame. That's a really good explanation man.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 10:17 AM
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I'm 5'8" and 195 with a soft 6. I'm trying to hit 210 by early next year. Obviously I'll carry fat while doing it. Who gives a fuck though? Cuts are easy. Lean bulks are tough. My advice, don't be scared to gain weight. You'll lose it easy if you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 10:33 PM
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Passion/Commitment/Intimacy = Couple who love to hate each other
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/18 02:32 PM
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That's some real shit right there bro. From the heart. Guaranteed nobody will ever give it to OP like that IRL. OP, this is the only comment you need.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 05:10 AM
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As sure as the sun rises in the east and sets in the west, so will trashy hoes always attracted shitty dudes
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 07:28 PM
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This is true. We like to paint all women as cheater in the RedPill world. The reality is men and women both cheat. Women are more likely to cheat if the guy is of higher value. Right place, right time, right alpha Men are more likely to cheat if they think they'll get away with it. Right place, right chick, right circumstances
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 07:02 PM
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It’s always about changing something about me Then you can very well not partake in those discussions “the way I speak to her.” It's not in line with the way her little lap dog speaks to her “The way I treat her” It's not the way her little lap dog treats her “I just want to be loved” Read: "I just want to be able to control you like a little lap dog" “I just want your attention” Read: "I just want to be the center of your attention cause then I control you like a little lap dog" Well she does e…
/r/askMRP04/09/18 01:28 AM
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So when you have one of these "talks", what is her desired outcome? Is it a net positive/negative for you? Does she use these "talks" as a means to control your behaviour through manipulation?
/r/askMRP03/09/18 09:43 PM
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Why do you have to have a conversation with her that you don't feel like having?
/r/askMRP03/09/18 08:59 PM
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I was making a joke. You do realize OP is a BP troll right?
/r/askMRP03/09/18 06:23 PM
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"We need to sit down and talk about this" "No, we don't"
/r/askMRP03/09/18 06:00 PM
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I'll bet she fucks him better than all those guys. No doubt a chick who wants her husband to preserve photos of her sexual past saved her best for him.
/r/askMRP03/09/18 05:27 PM
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I wouldn't have had kids with my wife if I didn't think she was a shitty mom. This I can say with absolute certainty. My DB on the otherhand, is on me for thinking I could cash in on relationship equity at some point. Shits on me, so I own it. We all dig our own beds.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 10:33 PM
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You'd be amazed. When I started lifting a while back, my wife took close notice. When I hit noob gains, she started not eating very much to stay skinny. Now that I'm packing on muscle, she talks about possibly going to the gym. I figure once I'm jacked, she'll decide to go. Also, vetting for a women to gave kids with is important on so many levels. I can't stress that enough.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 09:34 PM
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Who said anything about arguing? If you're arguing, then you're negotiating with her to makes changes. Those changes will be disingenuous and they won't last. Plenty of men lead their wives into a gym. Non force their wives in.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 06:25 PM
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While I often agree with what you say on this forum, this is wrong way more often than its right. A lot of dudes are deadbeats.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 06:23 PM
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Not my experience in my observable surroundings. Most women want the father to have the kids half the time so they can have a life, but the guys were deadbeats that don't want anything to do with the kids or are in/out of jail. I'm also Canadian too though. So our child custody cases go a lot differently.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 04:28 PM
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If he is doing his share of the workload at home, being financially responsible and being a good father, he will get spilt custody of his children; or at least split care. While there are isolated cases where guys lose their children for no reason, they are far from the norm (most men lose custody by not fighting hard enough) and shouldn't be the reason for accepting a women treating you like shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 03:47 PM
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And yet she's the one being abusive to you. She does it because she can..... ....he fuckin lets her. Ive said it before and I'll say it again: People can only treat you like shit if you let them
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 03:02 PM
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Have you frequented MRP? (Can't link it or they remove the comment for some fuckin reason)
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 02:59 PM
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Where did he say "Judge or Force" them? Pretty sure he said "Lead" them.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 02:54 PM
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Because people won't make any and our country will be ran by immigrants in another 20 years.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 02:39 PM
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Or he's just a lazy bitch....
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 03:26 PM
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I got the same email PM from old lester. Word for fuckin word!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 11:00 AM
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There is two reason men fear being cheated on IMO. That they weren't man enough to prevent her from fucking someone else. That people will find out the drty's wife was fucking some loser, thus by extension, drty is even more of a loser than him. It's the ultimate blow to your ego. Once you've unplugged, you have the power to use your ego to make yourself a better man. That she will get pregnant and literally cuck you. This fear is real shit. Don't believe? Tell me there wasn't multiple part of T…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 01:53 PM
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Solid advice for the gravity challenged contributors.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 06:19 PM
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I think it's an amazing book for showing people just how much they are a product of their past and everything that happened in it.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 06:04 PM
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While I was never good at getting women, I was always very understanding that Jerry never got the girl and when he did, she was gonna use his ass.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 06:01 PM
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Prenup (why get married anyway) Prepaid visas, cash stashed at your moms, etc.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 01:06 PM
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That's no excuse. I'm quite capable of formatting paragraphs VIA mobile. Don't be such a lazy fuck and people will actually read you(r) shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 05:37 AM
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Upon reading about “The Red Pill” she discovered an online group “Dedicated to the manipulation of women for sex” (truthfully not far off) and was disgusted by it What does that mean? All of this has bubbled up several times in different fights and arguments, and EVERY TIME I have DEER’d and supplicated to her emotions. EVERY TIME I’ve said what needed to be said to calm her down and appease her. And EVERY TIME I believe her respect for me has diminished. At least you're honest I am terrified of…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 02:35 AM
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She asked me permission to stay out with friends earlier this week, I told her to come back and she did, with no pouting I hope this didn't come off as a mate guarding/insecure beta move. Give this a read I've started calling her out on little shit too Like?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 02:01 AM
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She asked me permission to stay out with friends earlier this week, I told her to come back and she did, with no pouting I hope this didn't come off as a mate guarding/insecure beta move. Give this a read
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 01:58 AM
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My advice is you get better at reading people. In your heart if hearts, you always knew Bob sucked. Being aware of his potential explosions always gives you the upper hand. Again fuck Bob and faggots like him.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 01:52 AM
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I may be of the minority here, but fuck Bob. If my wife wanted to hang out with her best friend and her beta didn't like me, tough tit. Next time they wanna hang out, best believe I'll be chillin if it's what I wanna do. If Bob can't handle it, then he can sulk like a little bitch. That's his problem, not mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 12:30 AM
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HEALTH Really struggling to maintain grip on my DL. Chalk helps, but it still wants to slip on my late reps; especially in my late sets. I'm also wondering if 5x5 twice a week is too much for a DL? Otherwise, the rest of my lifting is going great. MARRIAGE She was pleasant as always. Lots of keno and making out. Banged once. She tried to give it to me more the way I wanted, but it felt forced and she was in no way gonna orgasm from it. Regardless, I enjoyed it for a while and gave her a little o…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 12:05 AM
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I meant, worst case scenario is she gets mad at him. Which doesn't really matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 12:03 AM
1

Get mad?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 07:45 PM
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"Can you put on child A a sweater while I do yadayada?" Child A, go find a sweater "Can you read a story for child B, I'm busy with laundry" I'm busy too "Can you give the kids breakfast?" Ice cream for breakfast guys!! "Can you feed the rabbits?" Feed them to who? "Can you help dress up the kids?" No, I'm sending them to school naked today Once you start batting these out of the park, she'll stop pitching them. Also, don't kid yourself into thinking these are shit tests. They are compliance tes…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 10:18 AM
3

People are extraordinarily aware of their sense of touch. If someone 'accidentally’ rests their knee on yours, they may not act like they realize it, but they definitely know that it's there. This is so true.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 06:11 AM
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Based off of your own description you are an underemployed, overweight, short-tempered, lazy, computer game playing, easy to piss-off faggot. That is not very attractive The hamster runs deep in some
/r/askMRP28/08/18 12:26 AM
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Here I am at 5'8"/ 190/14% wishing I had more muscle.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 12:24 AM
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While this post poses an interesting view of marriage (that I agree with), it's also a great addition to the age old question of "how does one define frame?"
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/18 08:43 PM
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She isn't cool with you getting yours, but you're cool with her flashing/sending pics to your friend? I suggest you let her fuck your friend. Surely, once she has, she'll see how important sex is to you and be ok with you getting yours on the side. All the best bro.
/r/askMRP27/08/18 06:59 PM
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You'll be amazed that once you have the frame to no longer need to even have a conversation with her, that she just...wait for it...follows your lead You - Babe, we are doing X this weekend Her - I may have plans with my friends You - OK Bet you in short order on the day of X, she comes.
/r/askMRP27/08/18 05:43 PM
2

I feel like this is the most hypocritical thing I do in my life. I never have the ringer on, but when I need to get ahold of someone right now, mother fucker does it ever make me mad that they won't answer
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 09:44 PM
2

So The most underrated answer that can practically be used in every circumstance.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 09:42 PM
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As someone who is married with kids, I often wonder if it blew up, what it would be like to explain it to them as they were adults.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 07:18 PM
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How did the conversations with your father about his relationship with your mom go?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 06:54 PM
2

Damn you and your fuckin fancy double spaces
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 03:57 PM
2

Then fuck her. Anything that happened before her, apart from sacrificing babies to the dark lord, is non of her fuckin business. This may be hard to do with you being such a pussy and all. No less, there are a few books right over there that really help a person become assertive----->
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 12:50 PM
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If it was before her, it's none of her business. Kind of a key part to include in the OP...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 11:21 AM
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Yet at first glance, it's oddly satisfying that someone uses paragraphs on reddit. Unfortunately, upon further inspection we realize that OP doesn't really understand paragraphs, sentence structure or proper grammar.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 10:18 AM
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No wonder our ancestors put these dumb bitchy assholes in menstruation huts Go hate on women elsewhere faggot. She treats you like shit because....guess what....you're shit.
/r/askMRP24/08/18 12:59 AM
1

The classic struggle
/r/askMRP23/08/18 05:44 PM
2

Did you fuck her?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 04:17 PM
2

I also have a lingering desire to not be married. Fence sitting sucks. I’ve been doing it for two years. Sick of her shit, want strange or wanna keep the family together for the kids?
/r/askMRP23/08/18 03:56 PM
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Well, I'm north of the border with you man. Realistically, my wife is an amazing mother and my kids would never choose me over her; nor would they choose her over me. She wouldn't take them on me, nor would I take them on her. We would go 50/50, week/week. I cam say this with almost 100% certainty. While I vetted poorly for a sexual partner, I was very aware of her maternal skills. Regardless, I still don't like the thought of her getting a step dad VIA necessity. If she got one and left me for …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 03:05 PM
2

I'm done with 3, I'm fully going to start working on 2, with an understanding that 1 is always a risk.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 02:33 PM
1

I don't think I'll ever go full CAD mode.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 02:13 PM
1

While it may seem logical, it's not something she feels like doing...or something like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 10:08 AM
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Thanks bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 01:10 AM
2

Yep
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 04:30 PM
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My best interest is my kids, until they leave. Maybe that's a purple pill belief, but I own it and am not changing it. It may go against everything advocated on this sub, I simply don't give a shit. I will not have some other fuckin loser involved in the upbringing of my kids. Plus, my wife and I get along amazingly and our children grow up in a very happy and stable environment. With that said, On the contrary, I've never heard her message more clearly. She will not come around. She just won't.…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 04:00 PM
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You are not hearing her message. On the contrary, I've never heard her message more clearly.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 02:49 PM
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No. She reads books about suffering jewd during the Holocaust or starving Irishman during the potatoe famine. She loves misery
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 02:14 PM
1

I'd postulate she doesn't want to fuck period
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 09:21 PM
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My strategy was just to tell her that I was going to fuck her and how, and do it. Turned out she preferred that; no pressure on her to be the sexual one bit very happy to follow instructions Gone down this RD a couple times and will never go that way again unless she specifically request it. Bad results every time How is your wife physically? Mine became better in bed when she lost weight and gained some body confidence. HOT
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 08:58 PM
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until she knows your capable of burning it all down, you really don't know what she was really feeling IMO, you failed to find out by letting her off the hook. your strategy in that dialogue was suitable for comforting a hamster on overdrive; but that's about it. I wasn't trying to put her in a box. My goal was to get some real talk out of her We should end it she wants you to shoot the puppy or way more likely a power play Her actions support the latter more than the former since that night I h…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 08:56 PM
2

Thanks bro
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 08:14 PM
2

Unfortunately, you're probably right
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 08:04 PM
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The fact you've been here for so long and still can't see that all the advice you want is being givin to you, shows that you just can't see the fuckin forest for the trees. The answer is to do what the fuck you think you need to do and own it. Christ man! How do you get her to overtly communicate her needs?!?! If you fuckin paid attention to anything around here, you'd realize that she won't do that; especially when you feel she should! My opinion? r/red-sfpplus(don't know why his user won't wor…
/r/askMRP21/08/18 07:47 PM
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True. I simply don't know how, or rather she refuses to see it any other way. She is a stubborn bitch who'd rather let her life burn before her eyes than admit her own error; let alone actually fuckin do something about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 07:35 PM
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Maybe your wife equates the two. I suggest leading her out if that mindset if she's never going to be the one that's interested in sex. She doesn't equat the two. I've tried to lead her out of that mindset, but as its said, some women don't come around.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 06:56 PM
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Where to begin. Been a while since I OYS'd. Truthfully, I've became complacent with the success I got and have been having fun in life for the most part. Anyway, it's been a while, so I'm gonna throw one out here. HEALTH I spent way too long working out at home and not getting the gians I should/could have been. No less, I joined a proper gym in March and have had good results. Between compounds and heavy arm work, I've really put on substantial muscle. At 5'8/190 with a soft 6pack, I look bette…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 05:25 PM
2

I'm a free mason. It brings little to no value to my wife and kids. My wife shits on me for it all the time. "such a waste of time", "you guys are nerds", "you're so gay in your little fuckin apron". My favorite responses are usually something to the effect of "good thing I don't give a shit what you think" or "you're just jealous that I look fuckin good while you play your iPad in pajamas on the couch". Then I grab my shit, give her a kiss and go out the door. The problem for you, is you're a f…
/r/askMRP20/08/18 02:46 PM
3

If you don't intend on staying with the bitch, don't knock her up. Do you know what it would feel like to have your kid every weekend and then having some beta instilling BP values into your child 5x a week?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 10:01 PM
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I honestly don't have the answer for that. It was a disaster though. Not long before it happened the guys other brother was paralyzed in a car accident. My brother is very feared in term of how tough he is though. I've heard countless people say how they would never wanna fight him; and lots of them were big dudes.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/18 12:59 PM
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Cause he's a beast. As a cautionary tale though, there can be very real damage done to someone by only hitting them once.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/18 01:01 AM
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My brother is the most calm and chill guy you'd ever meet. He's also very feared. One time, a guy was at his house and started causing a scene. My brother played it cool and worked towards escorting him off the property. The guy threatened my brothers family. He showed his anger and broke the guys neck with one punch. It's things like this why people fear his anger. Growing up, my dad was a chill dude. Sometimes he was grumpy, but that didn't really matter. On the rare occasion he got mad though…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 10:26 PM
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I hate men who think the sole purpose of life is to move boulders and strive for the highest level of socioeconomic success for obvious validation, yet fail to understand the simplicity of life and what it's really all about.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 06:23 PM
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Were you still high when you wrote this?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 06:14 PM
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Your women should fear your anger. People should in fact fear your anger. You anger should be something people see so rarely, that when it does come out, they are on guard and usually work with you towards achieving whatever goal their stupidity is preventing you from meeting.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 06:10 PM
5

Sure half of a mortgage goes to someone else, but half goes towards your purchase. With renting, 100 goes to someone else.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 01:41 PM
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I hope you can see the underlying motive in your desire for her to Fuck him and make this thing a whole lot easier. Buh Bye....
/r/askMRP14/08/18 03:50 PM
1

It's so painfully obvious. Although sometimes I have a hard time telling whether they are trolls or just complete idiots...
/r/askMRP13/08/18 03:27 PM
3

Shaving a fat man looks retarded. Looks like a baluga whale
/r/askMRP12/08/18 05:56 PM
4

The man himself, Daniel Rose, is Asain.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 07:37 PM
6

You can swear on reddit homie
/r/askMRP10/08/18 03:59 AM
1

Id say your b list
/r/askMRP10/08/18 03:53 AM
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Sure, you can't stop her from going to the bar every 3rd Saturday of the month, nor should you try, but that isn't something my wife does.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 03:52 AM
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Your friend is nore likely to let a good one go because he is scared to get hurt, than he is to actually allow himself to be in a vulnerable situation, where if not handled correctly, he very well could get hurt.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 11:00 AM
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The reality is she could be. So long as your doing your best to live you life by your terms and have done you due diligence to make sure she isn't, there is little else you can do. WomenPeople cheat. It's a fact of life. If you let the possibility consume you, you'll only hurt yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 06:32 PM
1

I also suggest u/88Will88 post on divorce
/r/askMRP08/08/18 05:48 PM
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Reddit is a complex network of hiveminds that wish to tell you how to live yours. Understand, all that matters is what you want. Whatever anyone else says you want doesn't matter. Never forget this.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 04:29 PM
2

Next time you'll fuck it up too. It will slowly get easier though.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 12:28 AM
4

The Test I thought you did ok. The thing you will notice as the longer you act the way you did, the less you will give a shit about her reactions. Eventually she'll just follow along. Congruence is key here. Sometimes my wife says "Baby, can we please go to X place. I've been craving it all week". At this point, all that matters is what I want. If I really didn't give a shit and was just picking something, I'll go where she wants....but if I really wanted where I'm going, that's where I'm going;…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 01:24 PM
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It's not beta nor alpha. It's simply doing what needs to be done. It's not going to make her wet, but it's also not going to dry her out. It becomes an alpha/beta thing when you want to use a certain faucet and she doesn't like that one. For it to be a relevant post to the sub, you should have spun it how you did the renos you wanted, she faught you on it, you didn't bite and in the end she benefited from your leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/18 02:54 PM
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The real problem with this whole post, you operate entirely out of her frame. She controls everything and you play along. You need to get yourself to a point where your needs/wants are your mental point of origin. Once you start doing what you want for yourself, life gets a whole lot easier. See what I did there?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 01:31 PM
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2/3rds beta Fuck that. Get married, have a few kids, get a mortgage and try being 2/3rds beta. She'll eat you alive. Understand that doing dish and laundry aren't beta. Shit needs to get done. You're the leader of your team, so you must lead by example. 10% beta max.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 02:59 PM
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My BIL has done a couple stints, hasn't worked in 6 years, sponges off his mom and is possibly the most alpha man I know. What happens is guys get caught up on the self improvement element of TRP and can't see the forest for the trees.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 07:53 PM
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He's butt hurt about a wedding ring. Imagine his reaction if when he finds out she was dancing with some dude while out with her single friends.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:30 PM
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I would say that being "good" and being "nice" are mutually exclusive. IMO, I see it as: "nice" - being pleasing or agreeable in nature "good" - being positive or desirable in nature You can be a "good guy" and be RedPill, but you can't be a "nice guy" and be RedPill.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 01:24 PM
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I find people who stay in toxic situations, are themselves toxic on some level. Which, after reading you ridiculous view of this situation in the OP, seems to hold true again. Fuck you're an idiot.
/r/askMRP03/08/18 02:46 AM
1

Yep
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/18 01:38 AM
2

Now now
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 11:27 PM
1

I never thought of it like that
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 02:40 AM
1

A lot of times it goes unnoticed by her if I keep it mild. But when I get really toasted, or have a few drinks, it's just never a good outcome. They are the original buzzkill!! They want to see your reaction. As long as you don't get as drunk as her friends husband's, you're cool. If you happen to take the lead and put on a performance, you'll hear about it for days; maybe even weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 02:23 AM
1

That's great stuff man. It also speaks to me personally. I'm not a good guy with an edge. I'm very aware of my shortcoming and have understand that I need to take that final step to fully unplug. My problem is, I fear if I unleash the monster within me, there is no going back. In my heart of hearts, I'm a piece of shit. If I let the real Drty come out, I'm not sure how the world will receive him or what I will end up doing...
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 01:51 PM
2

If you were, you'd be on the hunt for a replacement. You're not. You're not trying to succeed perhaps? Maybe a coverty contract? Afraid you may accidentally stick your dick in a new girl if you try... Maybe afraid you can't, even at your best? All of that at some level We should all have these quiet moments of self reflection. I sure as shit won't project them to the outside world, but the only way to know is to do. Yep And by then, medium is the message anyways. The way your wife responds to yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 05:06 PM
1

Unfortunately you're totally right. I've hit a point where my life is so much better due to this place, yet I'm sick of getting denied sex, so I've became complacent. Fuck thats gay to say. I've worked so hard and now I'm admitting I'm sick of trying to succeed. Thanks bro. I needed this. It really hit home.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 02:48 PM
3

Frame. You are so wrapped up in her frame and she knows it. So long as you half ass your MRP, she will dictate how this all plays out. Even if she makes you think you're in charge.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:40 PM
1

BZZZT. No one cares about anyone more than themselves
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 01:01 PM
3

That's always been my issue. My wife is fuckin awesome; minus her not giving her pussy up more than a few times a month. I know that sounds stupid because everything is about sex except sex, but she makes my life so easy. Dread has had mild success, but I gotta ramp it the fuck up hard and never stop. The second I stop having to actively remove my attention, she recends. It's purely out of fear and not attraction. The juice isn't worth the squeeze IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/18 01:00 PM
1

It was because she had to throw out 30 mins of work and go back to the grocery store to buy the stuff and start over. Also, it was to see if I was her little bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/18 12:57 PM
3

It's not about changing your diaper. My grandmother just turned 99 and has several in home care workers that do various health related tasks for her. With that said, she would be fucked without my father and the things he does for her. He does these things for her cause she did so much for him. If she was shit, he wouldn't be doing fuck all for her. You shouldn't bank on your children, but if you do lots for them, they should reciprocate.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/18 02:18 AM
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When I'm planning my boys birthday party today and my wife explodes because I got the wrong pudding. I STFU and went about planning the throwing star activity for the boys. She tries to act cold for 2 hours. Then one of the boys mom shows up to drop her kid off and my wife knows she has the hots for me. She instantly changes to happy and comes over to kiss me. No apologies or anything necessary. That's frame. She still holds out on her pussy to a few times a month. She's just to power/ego driven…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/18 07:27 PM
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If you view friendships and love in the same category, you're an idiot. Love is built out of desire, romance, achieving a common goal, trust and sacrifice for one another. Friendship is built out of companionship. Nothing more. They are completely mutually exclusive. The problem arises when people start putting expectations on their friendships that you would expect from a spouse. Friends will be in your life to level you choose to have them in, but a lover is either in it or not. If you go into…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 04:47 PM
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IMO, where you fucked up is the unfamiliarity with the location. I'm all for letting kids do their thing. Shit, we are having a big BBQ today at a trailer park with 200 people and my 6, 8 and 10 will be free range all day. Ill see them when I put them to bed at 12. The difference being they know this place and the people. My 2 cents anyway brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/18 02:01 PM
2

If I need to talk to your wife to get a straight answer we cant be friends. I have a friend like this. Albeit he's my wife's BF husband. Still sad AF though
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 03:09 AM
3

Setting yourself on fire to keep other people warm I'm using that on one of my best friends next time he bitches about his unfortunate life.
/r/askMRP19/07/18 01:23 AM
2

Sure. How do you know rocknrollchuck?
/r/askMRP19/07/18 12:48 AM
5

Looking at your numbers, you're a beast of a man. Of course she has always responded to that in a sexual way. Unfortunately, you've probably always let her treat you like shit. So having never done anything about it, naturally, she continues. The difference now is you can see the forest for the trees. Good thing you're in a place to fix that and your miles above the vast majority who arrive here. OYS weekly with a detailed mini FR of how she has disrespected you and what you did about it. Be hon…
/r/askMRP18/07/18 10:44 PM
3

Dread fixes sex. Frame fixes respect. That's some real shit right there.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 10:38 PM
10

Awesome post. So simple, yet so elegant. The amount of men who don't understand this fuckin disgusts me. Nothing drives me more crazy than when I text a homie "What's up Saturday? I'm having some people over for a BBQ" and the response is "Not too sure? I'll run it by the wife and see if we can make it". Mother what the fuck is that shit?!?! This train is going where it's going everytime. Sometimes my wife need to remind me it's making a stop I forgot about and the schedule needs to get adjusted…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 10:18 PM
4

Then do us all a favor and fuck off
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 10:13 PM
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Dear, MRP I'm a fuckin pussy. I'm to scared of my wife's and I'm scared to take control of my life. I don't want to do the necessary work to take the reigns. Are there any pros to not being a big pussy and owning my shit? I feel like my wife will never submit to my leadership, so I'm really trying to weigh the pros/cons of being a man/big fucking pussy. Thanks Signed, The Big Fucking Dripping Pussy
/r/askMRP18/07/18 06:19 PM
2

Monkeys don't let go of one branch til they have a secure grip on the next one. Sometimes they leap for the next one. This comes with the risk of crashing down the tree, fucking falling on every branch til they hit the ground. Typically not something monkeys do very often.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 06:02 PM
19

Men cheat to stay in a relationship. Women cheat to leave them. Was posted on MRP yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 05:59 PM
1

People always say how cleavage on a man is forearms. This is false. Cleavage on a man is a lower abdominal V. Which sucks, because any old chubby women can have cleavage, but only the most disciplined of men can have that stomach. It's not fair, but hey, neither is life.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 03:15 PM
1

What's your daily caloric consumption?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 03:11 PM
1

I'm arrogant at the best of times. When I drink, it's doubled down. Regardless, I don't change. I may say something to you that I wouldn't say sober, but as I love to say "a drunk persons words are a sober persons thoughts"
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 09:28 PM
5

I heard he banged 2 separate married women
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 09:26 PM
3

It's too bad you can't see the forest for the trees. This has so little to do with belittling that dweeb an so much to do with taking a lighter approach on life and not getting your ego invested in nonsense. If I made an assertion an you started laughing at me, I'd probably AA the shit out of it. You'd know I wasn't gonna bite and that would be that. Then if you continued to push it, you'd be the one who lost frame and was viewed as the overreactor the next day.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 09:24 PM
11

Men cheat to stay in a relationship. Women cheat to leave them. That's some real shit there
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 05:35 PM
1

I got kids and raising them is my mission for the next 10 years. Believe me, I've been at this for a while and I know the odds are highly stacked against me. With that said, my wife is only on control of my sex life....with her.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 03:25 PM
0

One needs to be tight AF on their game 24/7. I can't pull it off. Atleast, I haven't been able to pull it off with my wife yet. While I've used RO to improve the quality of my relationship immeasurably, I've not been able to get the sex I want.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 12:26 AM
2

I'd argue that it's possible for a man to be Alphabux, but it's far from easy
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 07:12 AM
1

He's projecting his pragmatic views on you and your projecting you male superiority onto him. All that matters is what you want to do. There is no RP answer.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 03:10 AM
10

While I think that's crazy, you seem to know what you want and have fully owned it. That's some masculine shit. Also, the Ramones even sucked back in 91'
/r/askMRP13/07/18 03:08 AM
2

There is a big difference between knowing how to handle yourself around losers and actually befriending them.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 01:34 AM
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If she is giving you everything you want, it's not against the rules to make her feel special. IMO, it's a long winded comfort text that she knew she would fuck up if she tried to say it in person. To pass it, give her a little bit of comfort IRL. Don't respond to the text. Or, keep ignoring her and don't be surprised when she starts fucking an orbitor because she wants to feel love. Regardless, it's your decision to make.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:16 PM
4

Now is the time to take control over your wife. If she cries, hug her. If she needs to be alone, pat her on the shoulder and leave. If she wants to babble on, listen attentively. If she wants to yell (about something other than complaining about you) let her. When she needs leadership and is trying to find a way out of the grief, gently lead her to a better place while always acknowledging the loss. She needs a rock.
/r/askMRP10/07/18 07:11 PM
2

She meant "ILYBINILWY"
/r/askMRP09/07/18 07:05 PM
5

😔 keep your head up bro. If you keep that attitude, things will get better for sure.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 11:00 PM
23

Nah. I know lots of couple that both parties are short, fat, poor. A short little fat chick ugly chick who wants a family is well aware she'll probably need to go looks matched to get it. When you start to get into median SMV women is when they think they can have it all. What most people fail to realize is that Incelism is a mental health/disability issue. Most Incels I know IRL didn't have a positive male role model in their lives. They lack that confidence that comes from hanging out with the…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 07:20 PM
7

If you eat a shitty dry cupcake with no icing, it's pretty gross. Now if you take that same cupcake and put the most decadent icing you can possibly make on top, suddenly a lot of people would describe it as a decent cupcake.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 05:09 PM
114

I would love to see a static on how many Incels grew up to single mothers or families where the father is a selfless bitch to the mother.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 05:03 PM
2

I suppose that was a poor choice of words. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:37 PM
6

And here I am working a regular old blue collar job with a wife who literally does whatever I say, minus fuck me on command. She puts out, but not as much as I'd like. In all honesty, I think finding a women who is nearly flawless in every part of your relationship who also fucks your brains out is a rare commodity. The unicorn so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 02:56 PM
8

But, as u/weakandsensitive has rightly pointed out, MRP is gay, and will always be gay. Faggots like us invariably have relationship and other tendencies in common to make us useless faggots in the first place. Seeing other queers fuck up and get advice from reforming butt pirates allows for personal growth. Can't we go with like losers or dumbfucks? I mean, it's not like we're in r/GRP. Plus, it's kinda insulting to homo's comparing them to some of the autist tards who plague this place.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 03:19 PM
2

I make em wear safety glasses. I remember when the band snapped and almost took my eye out as a child. Other than that, they'll live.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 05:19 PM
1

If she knows you're not going to talk when you don't want to, she'll stop being ridiculous.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 03:23 PM
2

STFU. She is harping on you and you're passive aggressively trying to impose your superiority. If you just STFU out the gate, you wouldnt have had her harping at all. Also, the only time the women drives is if the man is drinking.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 02:10 AM
1

Talking too much = Validating her feelings
/r/askMRP04/07/18 05:22 PM
1

The lifting thing really confuses me. I can't see how after 2 years you can only squat 20kg. Even if thats the weight excluding the bar, it's only 90lbs. At 6'4" and 190+ lbs, that's just unfathomable. Have you tried this
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/18 05:30 AM
3

So long as you try to solve her problems, she will always look at you as an emotional tampon. I'm not saying don't help her out when she asks, but don't go looking for something to fix. The only thing you should be trying to fix is you. Posting in depth mini FRs every week is so important. You constantly have people pointing out where you're fucking up. It's also why being as honest and transparent as possible is key. Otherwise, you only lie to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/18 03:29 AM
3

No progress on lifts recently - simply haven't carved out the time for it. Not much motivation for it, to be honest. Need to get back into a 3 day / week routine and just grind it out for a while. Sometimes I don't want to go to the gym, but I never regret going after the fact. Health/Fitness As above, I've not been lifting for a few weeks now. I backed it off because I was getting sick of constantly being sore, coupled with no visible gains. No excuses though - if you don't put the work in, you…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/18 02:43 AM
2

I don't broken record on my wife. You look like a spaz and it keeps you trapped in her frame. STFU would have been the best. Like STFU right before you pushed her to see what was wrong. Her problems are her problems and her feelz are her feelz. If she wants advice, she'll ask. You really could have done without this whole stupid situation that surely took up way to much time by just STFU and continuing with whatever it was you were doing before you got concerned with her bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/18 02:20 AM
6

Kinda like when I let my boys go free range with their sling shots. Suddenly they turn into gangsters and nothing is safe.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:09 PM
9

100%. I just wish people were quicker over here to call people faggots as we do on the other sub
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:28 PM
7

Sounds to me like you're a man living his life as a man who wants to get what he wants to get without pedestalizing or supplicating womens poor behavior. Pretty RP IMO. With that said, on MRP we say Being married is RedPill on Hard mode. We also say Being married in an open relationship is RedPill on Nightmare mode. Recently I stated on a thread that Being married with submissive (edit- sexual) tendencies is RedPill on Suicide mode. Good luck if you try for an LTR bro.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 09:27 AM
283

Understand two things: 1) Redpill is a toolbox. Use what you like and discard what you don't in an attempt to bring you happiness and self actualization. 2) Redpill is infested with Incels and men who blame women for their own problems. Being completely oblivious to the fact almost all of their problems are of their own doing. Don't let the women haters spoil the sub for you.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 06:35 AM
2

Everyone seems to be bagging on you man, I'm pretty indifferent to your post. The way I see it, you don't want to be with her, so bounce. I also like how you don't go into ego protection mode. Shows me you aren't lying to yourself about your motives. Still though, this post by u/88Will88 should be remembered. It's one of the highest upvoted posts for a reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 04:03 AM
2

There are far too many charitable guys who waste their time on people who don't deserve while not charging anywhere near enough (just read r/askmrp). I'd do it for $250/hr because it really is high end therapy - and I don't have any interest in your bullshit. Redpillcoach does though. There are far too many people who go into in depth breakdowns of people's shit posts. So deep that the whole message they try to convey gets lost in translation twice over. So often the best piece of advice is a on…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 02:48 AM
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as long as the red pill doesn't face censorship we always win This, IMO and not a popular one at that, is why there should be some sort of filter for the incel plague. I'm not saying remove the comment of ban them. Maybe just green users saying "stop being such a little bitch"?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 08:24 PM
3

It's funny. There is so much lifting, gaming, financial, etc advice on here. Yet if one simply learned how not to be manipulated and left, his life would be immeasurably better.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 11:37 PM
1

Fear of Cheating =/= Fear of Being Replaced
/r/askMRP27/06/18 10:19 PM
1

Isn't that how all women work?
/r/askMRP27/06/18 10:18 PM
2

STFU and report back in 6 months
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 01:25 AM
1

I always thought you beat your step dad up for being hard on you. Now I know it's cause he made you sift rocks. I hate sifting rocks.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 12:50 AM
2

10 - Happiness is a frame of mind that can be consciously controlled, so is anger and all the other negative emotions. I say this, because you have hit a good stride in realizing this bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/18 11:03 PM
1

If you end up having relationship issues down the road you had better believe this will be reflected upon as you manipulating her and cheating. If she ever cheats, this will be the reason.
/r/askMRP24/06/18 11:43 PM
4

don't post too much on here, just work on yourself Post on the OYS thread OP
/r/askMRP24/06/18 11:41 PM
1

An angry jealous beta with a gun is something I could do without in my life
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 10:32 PM
23

I don't see how fucking married bitches could "fuck you up" You know, getting your head caved in isn't in most dudes best interests. Fuck whoever you want, just understand that shit can come with unfortunate consequences.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 06:43 PM
2

I also wanted this big ass electric fireplace that goes on the wall. No dice there though.
/r/askMRP23/06/18 06:13 AM
4

Well she really did love Steve. Not as much as u/ReddJive, but close
/r/askMRP23/06/18 01:49 AM
3

I asked for the TV when I bought my house. They needed the sale more than us. We got the TV
/r/askMRP23/06/18 01:48 AM
5

You will deserve to lose 40% of your gross while she fucks other men in your bed while raising your children to hate you. That is so elegant
/r/askMRP23/06/18 01:45 AM
1

Lmao
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/18 01:08 AM
6

Was gonna ask how you got that flair. Read this comment. No longer need to ask.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/18 01:06 AM
7

Alpha widows are major negative equity. never offer her best hypergamy never turns off slows down always comparing you to Chads that you'll never measure up to delusions of grandeur Those negative assets alone can't become positive, even if she has money and looks
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 05:53 PM
7

Homosexual Bottoms = Male Sex Drive + Female Hypergamy
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 10:30 PM
2

Alpha AF
/r/askMRP20/06/18 10:15 PM
4

Women don't want to hear your opinion about abortion, feminism, child support and the worlds shitty view of incels. It sure as fuck doesn't create attractiom either. At best it causes her to try to goad me into an argument I won't have and her subsequently going to sleep on the couch. I can tease her about all sorts of shit without having to attack team women.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 06:33 PM
5

Don't do this OP. This old bastard has made a reputation for ruining askMRP marriages.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 10:45 PM
2

women are hormonal roller-coasters at the best of times it won't get better on it's own could should have OYS/askMRP stop being such a fag
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 07:05 PM
7

I honestly think back in my porn addicted days when I used to read literotica, thid was actually a story I read.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 07:02 PM
8

I find plugged in men in the 50+ range a sad sight. Little to no chance of ever opening his eyes to the realities of intergender dynamicsnin the 21st century.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 02:21 PM
6

Because it's trivail bullshit. Two scenarios are possible: she forgets about it and life goes on she doesn't and leaves you, in which case good riddance, cause you don't want to waste your time with cray-cray Without losing my shit When a man loses his shit, it should carry weight. A man should only lose his shit when absolutely necessary. Is your GF being a fuckin child really worth losing your shit?
/r/askMRP15/06/18 01:58 AM
1

don’t bullshit yourself that you aren’t leaving gains on the table if you never have carbs. I found this. Keto didn't do it for me
/r/askMRP15/06/18 01:36 AM
78

Being Submissive in an LTR = RedPill on Suicide mode
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/18 07:44 PM
2

And there are betas who have supermodel women who suck their cocks dry. While it happens, it's not a regular occurrence. So it's unnecessary to factor into the equation.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:05 AM
2

Girls don't need fo get out in the world and learn how to win?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/18 05:29 AM
5

Once you said "my phone is almost dead", then the phone dies, it's over. If she starts chirping about yada yada yada, laugh it off or tease her a bit. If she becomes incessant, go do something that doesn't involve her being stupid. Rinse and repeat. It'll stop if you're congruent. The reality is your still a sack of shit in her eyes, so it's the natural course to treat you as such.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 03:31 AM
2

that slut VP sally It's irrelevant whether Sally is in fact a slut or not. All that matters is Sally is causing her discomfort and women hate discomfort. It's like how every girl has a chick at work who is destroying her. In reality, she is just sort of a bitch. If you're not careful, you can turn your woman against someone just by saying the wrong thing. Women are comical creatures.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 07:35 PM
2

"When given" the opportunity to share an alpha to begin with. An HB 4 won't be getting Chad cock, but because the pool is so slanted due to this phenomenon, she can usually lock down a 6 cause of the lack of available pussy.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 05:00 PM
2

My wife caught in the garage with candles on a pentagram sacrificing puppies trying to summon the dark lord. She forgave me. OP should be good.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 02:12 PM
4

What if he is watching porn with ugly chick's already?
/r/askMRP11/06/18 09:25 PM
2

As long as you are getting your protein intake, I think carbs help on a bulk
/r/askMRP11/06/18 09:23 PM
6

What value does this post provide me as a member of this community? This is something you could have summed up in a few sentences on your OYS. You do OYS don't you? I get it though. You think because you discovered RedPill, you are now free of the burdens of society. You're not free of it until you're doing everything out of your own frame. Speaking of frame, this whole post is in your wife's frame. Get out of her frame bro
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/18 04:18 PM
3

Nevermind hooked. Even a casual user of hard drugs is out of the question for even friendship.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 04:10 PM
1

Probably has daddy issues and hebis everything her dad is not
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 12:54 AM
10

I said to my wife last week something like "Maybe I'm just a piece of shit, but I can't help think that societies collective support for how awesome step dads are is merely supporting/encouraging women to continue making poor decisions". She looked at me as if to say "You're right but I'm not going to say it aloud"
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 08:28 PM
2

I love the "accidental" tackle in touch football
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 08:11 PM
4

If he ever finds out and suspects you've been faking, wrap your lips around his cock and don't remove them until you swallow. He'll know that wasn't fake.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 05:00 PM
16

I stifled progress a lot at the start by yapping too much. I actually think anytime I mention something about the gym I trigger a "drty the fuckin faker" response. Shit, even if I mention something manosphrian, she reacts with disdain (unless I word it in a way that she agrees with). Except, the "fake drty" has been around so long now she realizes he's here to stay. If I could go back, I would have shut up about self help books, intergender dynamics and my hatred of feminism (I can vocalize my l…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 04:58 PM
1

If fuckin hate the name Chaz. Honestly, if I ever meet a guy named Chaz I'm gonna make fun of him for his name.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 04:31 PM
1

How long can you fake it for him is the real question?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/18 04:29 PM
0

I've seen them more likely to hook up with guys who've been divorced 3x. The knee slapper being they're both shitty relationship material. So it's no surprise when they tank again and lose even more of the money they barely had to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:00 PM
2

As a married man who is very social in large groups of other married people, I have a better insight into this than someone who isn't here. We are coming at each other from the wrong angles. My original comment was just how important the social perception of marriage is for females. In no way have I recommended dudes to get married or that women won't fuck you dry sans reach around. In her immediate consciousness, she wants the ring to show off. In her hindbrain, she knows that it gives her secu…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:58 PM
1

And then they move... They have half your income for life and most likely your house which is now up for sale... Not exactly struggling for money will she? I would think you could use you "psychic powers" to have the foresight of knowing whether any givin woman was going to fuck you over. Show me where this stigma is in social media? On the TV?? I'm just speaking from what I've witnessed in the real world. Not what I've read on FB or seen in movies. Women carrying the baggage of a 2x divorcee is…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:32 PM
3

If I could go back, I never would have signed a marriage certificate. I'd have given her the ceremony, dress, party and some non-binding vows, but no way would I sign that piece of paper again.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:21 PM
0

Damn right there is stimga attached to a women divorcing. She may be told not to pay attention to it and that causes her to be willfully ignorant, but they know that after divorce they're reputation has changed in certian communities.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 03:11 PM
2

I caught my bag in the clippers once. Holy fuck did it bleed. The most frantically I've ever ran around the house screaming, next to the time I sprayed Muskol directly into my eye.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 02:09 PM
6

A little know fact. Women value marriage as a social standing. Go listen to the old Alpha Widows on PPD. If a woman can't get a guy to marry her, she is viewed as a "forever girlfriend". While this shouldn't mean fuck all to you, it shows why they'll always want that ultimate commitment.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 02:04 PM
2

You're really defending the fact she didn't fuck him. How can you possibly know? I'll bet half the users in this sub have been cheated on by their wives, just like half the users have cheated on their wives. Your actions don't match your words with your responses. Your hamster is the one falling off it's wheel bro.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 01:54 PM
3

IMO, this a tough situation to navigate for someone who doesn't have frame or a "Noob" if you'd rather. He will fuck this up and never find anything out. In fact, he'll probably push her towards that cock with his antics. OPs has is to accept he probably won't find out if she did see this guy. From there he either accepts that it could have happened and move to a position of not letting it happen again, or assume she did it and deal with it from that position. Only he can know what he should do.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 01:50 PM
1

She is more interested in your betabux than your hawt bod.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 01:36 PM
2

She failed your shit test bro. Good job.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 01:33 PM
2

Oh you have idea bro. Last week I tried to explain to my wife that by scrubbing dishes in a clockwise direction, she is negatively impacting the Coriolis Effect of the planet. It didn't matter how many words I used or how pretentious I was, she just couldn't grasp it.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 01:30 PM
2

The best regiment is the one you will be able to do consistently. Same as you diet. With that said, some variation of compounds is what you should do
/r/askMRP08/06/18 12:55 PM
10

Everyone does. One of my favorite sayings is: Abs on a skinny guy are the same as tits on a fat chick. Not impressive
/r/askMRP07/06/18 10:36 PM
2

It was a shit test bro. The question is, did you pass it?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 10:33 PM
6

You can cut down to 8%BF and have abs sitting on the couch. You can also squat 300+ and have them at 13-14%
/r/askMRP07/06/18 10:26 PM
1

How far you've allowed that pendulum to swing into beta determines how mad that book will make you
/r/askMRP07/06/18 10:22 PM
4

I can't recall which book it was in, but pretty sure it was in a sidebar book. Ya. It's a tough one to remember
/r/askMRP06/06/18 08:56 PM
1

It's called RMV. Relationship Market Value
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 07:58 AM
1

Well reread it. You really don't seem to know what you want. You've been on MRP for a long time and haven't internalized shit. You're lacking a.... what's the word I'm looking for.... mission. Find out what you want, then do that.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 07:40 AM
1

Have you read "The Way Of The Superior Man"?
/r/askMRP06/06/18 06:24 AM
2

Not since polyamorous monarchies has there been a time where so many men have been intentionally left out of the breeding pool. Feminism has created "strong, independent, don't-need-no-man" women who lack any agency for their reproduction. These women fuck and get pregnant by men who not only have no intention of commitment, but also have no intention of raising said child. All is well though, because "strong, independent, don't-need-no-man" women can raise children all on their own. The result …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 04:19 AM
1

Any Friday she can go to her suit-pants wearing job, act like a bitch all day without consequence, get paid, go to a bar, get picked up by some dude, get fucked, then get on her her social media and talk about the hottie she just scored with. Rinse and repeat. She is losing the game of life, but she chooses to make her own rule-book that says she is the winner. Up until she is pushing 40 and "settles down" with the guys she insulted for all those years. Fuck that's good.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 03:21 AM
2

I still hang out with my bro on the regular. His kids are my kids age and we do a lot of family functions with my other siblings and all their respective children. He is a very high functioning alcoholic. No less, this will be his demise when death comes calling.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 01:57 AM
3

2.8 lbs per week for 52 weeks = 145lbs. OP weighs 216. In a year from now on this diet, he will be down to 71lbs. Get to work OP you faggot.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:53 AM
1

Did homie from the OP pull it off?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 01:27 AM
13

My best friend is a beta. I wouldn't say he's BP, but he's just too unassertive to grab the bull by the horns, so his wife runs the show. I've subtly tried to RedKnight, but I don't think he wants to jeopardize his "happy wife, happy life". This doesn't mean he isn't an amazing friend. He'd literally do anything for me as I would for him. The trick is to know RP exists and use it to uour advantage without telling the world about your magic tricks.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 01:21 AM
2

Then learn to play Wonderwall at parties and the sky is the limit.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:17 AM
2

Empathy is a common feeling within human beings. It's understandable you'd feel it for what you're doing to her; not that there is anything wrong with that. I'd say if you put the work in on MRP, you could mold her into anything you wanted. Then you wouldn't have to come here to ask such stupid questions. You have her already living in a state of Hysterical Dread. Use it to your advantage to make your relationship exactly what you want. Or don't and wait til she cuts your cock off in your sleep.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:16 AM
1

"It just happened"
/r/askMRP06/06/18 01:11 AM
3

I've watched my brother go through the 4 varying degrees of denial with his alcoholism. At 50, he is now at stage 4 with zero desire to do anything about it. Further more, his girlfriend of 2 years is in the exact same spot. Fuckin kills me to watch one of the most Natural Alphas I've ever met in my life deteriorate like this 😔
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 01:05 AM
2

More specifically, how you react to this.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 12:55 AM
1

So do you know your TDEE and are eating at a consistent deficit?
/r/askMRP06/06/18 12:54 AM
2

“progressed to real whores eventually” I postulate that's far more common than is talked about here. Presumably cause most men know the potential of their SO finding their account.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 12:53 AM
1

If she had kids, no doubt about it.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 06:16 AM
9

If only Incels realized their role in modern society is to support womens poor decisions by being the oh-so-lauded and prestigious stepfather
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 06:00 AM
2

It should be stickied in the sidebar: "While we demand you read NMMNG so you can see why you're such a pussy, understand that Dr. Glover is a highly masculine Purple Pill beta. Take the book in MRP stride"
/r/askMRP04/06/18 11:42 PM
31

I though it was pretty funny. Someone commented that she planned on taking him. If he hit it, all it took was a witty resume that he probably drew up in 5 minutes. Decent return on his investment. Plus weddings are fun shit. You need to lighten up bro.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 06:21 AM
2

If you don't challenge yourself by having friendships with different minded people, life can be rather drab.
/r/askMRP27/05/18 08:02 PM
2

So then it's 100% of married men are beta?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 07:33 AM
1

A woman who is over 6" has it as bad if not worse than a guy who is 5.5"
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 04:54 AM
1

The marreidredpill sub says otherwise
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 04:51 AM
5

I'm only postulating, but if the the 70/30 rule is true, I'd bet that of the 30% of divorces initiated by men are more likely to be alpha and the 70% of men who get served are more likely to be beta.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 04:35 AM
3

Just because you're an Alpha now, doesn't mean you can't be friends with Betas. If you carry an attitude that you're better than people because they're "leftists", you will certainly be conveying a negative vibe that will keep people at bay. One of my absolute BFs is a Beta through and through. Guy would give me the shirt off his back and do anything in a time of need. As I would for him.
/r/askMRP27/05/18 04:30 AM
1

People can be children. Take 6 men in an army tent moose hunting way the fuck back in the bush. The level of immaturity there is pretty high. Especially when we all get high before bed. The giggle fest is like 6@6y/o's having a slumber party. If your women is always acting like a child, your women sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/18 12:31 AM
6

If you want to be the kind of guy who fucks girls who have boyfriends, best learn to accept lying as an intricate part of your arrangements.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 12:27 AM
2

The 3 little dots in the upper right. Then go community info
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 03:35 AM
2

This. Say she goes around telling people "One time I caught Marriedman85 sticking a cucumber in his ass". People who matter may have some pickle jokes for you, but if they're people who truly care about you, they'll think she's a cunt for talking shit. In fact, one of those people will probably call her out for being such a cunt and telling your secrets. End of the day, move forward, not backwards.
/r/askMRP26/05/18 12:39 AM
1

Takes time bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 07:02 PM
1

I feel a similar way actually. The more love I give, the more I feel in return. Subsequently the less I give, the less I feel. Maybe as humans we are somewhat connected more than we want to believe? I also love you too man. Lol
/r/askMRP24/05/18 07:02 PM
3

Me too
/r/askMRP24/05/18 06:59 PM
1

Sound way too close to gerbilling for my liking
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 09:21 PM
1

He actually responded to a few comments below. 100% thought this was a BP troll
/r/askMRP23/05/18 09:15 PM
5

Soundz to me like shez gettin a serious case of the dreadz! I recommend you double down on the Rambo. To much of the Dreadz can be dangerous though man. Keep tha comfortz goin. If you're not careful, her hypergamy is gonna blind side ya and she'll be cuckin ya wit Chad JR brah.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 07:19 PM
1

Damage has probably already been done by your lack of dominance over the dog. Tough to teach an old dog new tricks.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 06:58 PM
2

So every time I go near my wife, my dog flips the fuck out. Like I'm trying to hurt her. It used to be kind of funny, That's gotta stop. The dog would be straight up kicked out of my house. How big is the dog? So on the one hand, it feels like I'm getting what I want. On the other, I can't help but think I'm just rationalizing a lower sex drive. I don't really feel like I'm killing it here. If I want more/better, I am capable of obtaining it. But not wanting it kind of feels like failure. Only y…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 05:19 PM
1

"your legs fallen off, have they?" There is a book in the sidebar that has a real simple answer for this. Something you shouldn't feel guilty for doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 04:18 PM
1

There really is no difference
/r/askMRP23/05/18 02:26 PM
2

Nope Use your time as you see fit with an understanding that people will judge you based on how they perceive the value of the life you choose to live. The essence of your frame is knowing that what other people think of your actions means fuck all, provided you are being honest and congruent with yourself. The fact you have passion for something, irregardless of others opinions of it, transpires into true confidence and the frame of a man who values his time. Just know that if you fake this, pe…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:25 PM
-1

I linked my old post about it in different comment on this thread. It is 100% what I will say to my boys.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 01:26 PM
2

It is a tough pill to swallow, but once you do, love truly can't hurt you no more.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 01:24 PM
2

So in that regard its less about you and your identity, and more than you just need to act like the animal you are and stop trying so hard to intellectualize it. This is so elegant. Sometimes, this seems so much easier than it is and we need to simplify it.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 01:56 AM
1

What other thread?
/r/askMRP23/05/18 01:29 AM
2

If you've been giving your buddies free beer every Saturday for 10 years and then suddenly you start asking them to pay you for it, it stands to reason they may not want to.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 10:52 PM
1

Absolutely. After unplugging, I see very little difference in the love I have for that steak and the love I have for my wife. They're both just good feelings. Would you say it's BP to think that the love from a women is something more concrete grounded intimate/personal?
/r/askMRP22/05/18 10:50 PM
2

You and me both
/r/askMRP22/05/18 09:01 PM
2

Sometimes we'll sit out at the patio and have a couple beer after the kids have gone to bed. Give your wife a few drinks and nudge her in the right direction and she will say shit that sometimes you almost wish you didn't hear. Be warned though, all it takes is one wrong response on your part, she does a 180° and is trying to demand you sleep on the couch. Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 08:47 PM
2

Arguing with the purple hair feminist, BP cucks and Alpha Widows over there can be rather infuriating. I find it amusing though how often they indirectly prove so many RP truths.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 08:40 PM
5

You could have just went through my post history you lazy fucker
/r/askMRP22/05/18 08:35 PM
1

Nor would I. Although I would have done a couple things differently and never found this place. Suppose hindsight is 20/20 though.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 07:52 PM
1

You can love your children yet if they continue their lives constantly making the same mistakes and looking to you to bail them out, at some point that love stops. The children must go on their own. That's why I said "barring disaster". Although, in my experience with children who continually make the same mistake, so much of that falls back on paradigms created by poor parenting. It is not a mistake to love. It is a mistake to tag that love to a condition or an action. Never underestimate an Al…
/r/askMRP22/05/18 07:49 PM
1

I know where you were going with it and I wholeheartedly agree
/r/askMRP22/05/18 07:41 PM
1

with that they need to love you for what you want That's going to be disappointing bro. She will never love you for that.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 07:38 PM
1

One of my best friends is married to one of my wifes good friends. He has became the shell of a man within not only the confines of that marriage, but life in general. One day my wife goes "no way could I bring myself to fuck a man who is such a pussy". It's one thing for a women to think it, it's quite another to say it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 07:36 PM
1

I made a post a year ago about how a father should prepare his son for this inevitable. Ties in quite nicely to what you're saying.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 06:05 PM
2

I'm getting closer to that point.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 06:03 PM
10

A lot of regurgitated fluff that we all reiterate here on the daily. Decent read though. What makes it an excellent post and should have been the focal point, was how much it sucks to be a women. I watch all the chicks I know struggle with their emotions daily. When you have a stoic frame, it's actually saddening to see the hurt from daily confusion. I have so much empathy for them after my time in this place.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 02:46 PM
1

That's cause your wife is a wicked bitch like mine. I've seen women who don't mind a little vulnerability.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 02:41 PM
1

I don't pretend to be 2 different people on reddit, but I have a second account for fun. Say what you will about honesty, but if I went anywhere else on reddit with this account, I'd be downvote dog-piled constantly. With that said, my alt account is pretty congruent with my beliefs on this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 02:35 PM
3

Well if you really don't want to lose your kid, I'd start by getting her to return from her "vacation" with the child, lest it become the childs primary residence and you having to go there to have access.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 10:16 AM
1

downvote dogpiled That's fuckin funny. Story of my life on my alt account. Oh, ya, double standards and shit. Terrible stuff.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 10:11 AM
1

Paging u/BluePillProfessor. We need some bearded flair the OP.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 04:59 AM
2

At 9 do you explain technique?
/r/askMRP17/05/18 12:08 PM
1

Once I accepted and fully internalized AWALT, my life and by extension my marriage, became so much easier. I think on some instinctual level she knows that I view it like this too.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 05:39 AM
14

Find a girl, tie the knot, pump a few kids into her and tell me if showing her you love her by making her happy (genuinely) is still working for you. You're on a form of men who have done just that and are now reaping the rewards of a shitty marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 04:49 AM
4

Costco can be a real bitch to navigate when it's busy. A mean mother fucker with dark skin, big arms and a "get the fuck outta my way" look helps so much.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 04:05 AM
0

My point isn't that there aren't benefits to nofap. It's that your reason of needing less food and sleep is ridiculous. Unless you were jerking off sooo much that you were physically exhausting yourself on a daily bases?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 10:56 PM
2

On Thursday morning I said "why did you want me to make that big fuckin plant stand if you're not going to put any god damn plants on it???" She said "it's hard for me to find the right ones, yada yada..." Thursday she worked evenings and I took the kids to do groceries. I got 30$ worth of random discount flowers and stuck them on the plant stand. No words were needed and she loved it. I also got what I wanted because I like plants all over the house.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 09:43 PM
4

need to sleep less/need less food TIL - keeping your balls full of cum not only lowers your TDEE, but it actually decrease the amount of sleep your body requires The fuck outta here with that pseudo shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 06:36 PM
1

If she is doing it in front of the kids, I would take action. The issue is, have you put in the work to command that kind of respect yet?
/r/askMRP13/05/18 06:29 PM
1

The trick is to realize you fo your fair share with the kids and then figure out a way to not feel guilty for leaving.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 01:20 PM
6

Lift like crazy. Become the man that if she leaves, others will come crawling to Go meet those cops and coworkers. They will respect your space and you never have better acquaintances or friends seriously. I'm skeptical of this. While there are some good cops, most are shit. Couple this power trip mentality with our proPTSD society and you don't get very many dudes that actually make for good friends. Furthermore, cops marriages fail at disproportionately high numbers. Good chance someof those d…
/r/askMRP13/05/18 12:58 PM
1

Apologies. I'm used to MRP. On the real though, is telling someone to stop being so weak actually harassment? edit: nor was the contributor I commented on flaired
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 10:51 PM
1

I hate military press
/r/askMRP12/05/18 09:56 PM
1

While it seems unrealistic to someone lacking willpower, it doesn't make it any less true.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 09:41 PM
1

Hunger is s state of mind. Stop being so weak.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 06:57 PM
1

People only give gifts to special people. This has less to do with "G" being special and more to do with you not being special. Stop worrying about your wife and start worrying about yourself. Your hamster for lack of muscle is weak sauce. There are no shortcuts to respect. It's earned for a reason.
/r/askMRP11/05/18 02:40 PM
3

Why don't you see if you can suck their dicks?
/r/askMRP11/05/18 02:37 PM
1

My old man is struggling after retirement with this. He was good for the first 2 years, but once mom retired, they drive each other nuts. He has to go do shit just to get away from her.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 08:52 PM
6

That's fuckin beta shit. The only logical fear of her getting another man, is the possible negative impact said man could have on your children. Anything else, including what you just said, is weak and not congruent to all the other facets of living within one's own frame.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 08:51 PM
2

If your wife sees you like Tommy, leave and start over. You'll never get it back.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 06:43 PM
2

This is where doing it for yourself and not her is so important. She can tell the difference.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 06:39 PM
5

So no actual dread is involved whatsoever and your wife is fucking tired of seeing you so much. Tried to explain this to.my buddy the other day. He looked at me like I had a dick growing off my forehead. Some people just don't want help.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 06:34 PM
10

WTF is this shit Steve? If I was a mod, I'd make you right a 500 word apology as an edit or I'd fuckin ban you. This belongs in r/showerthoughts
/r/askMRP09/05/18 10:12 AM
3

You're trying to make decisions as a man who has frame. You have no frame, so you can't fake a framed decision. You'll have to do what you feel you need to do, but don't expect her to treat you with the respect she would treat a man she respects. Read, lift, STFU. It's a journey. Unfortunately for you there is a bridge at the start of the trail.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 02:26 AM
2

When you aren't a faggot anymore, r/grool comes a calling
/r/askMRP08/05/18 07:22 PM
6

And that rejoicing is senseless and does little to nothing for improvement
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 07:20 PM
14

Is this really what you spend your fuckin time worrying about? Stop being such a little bitch and either be the guy who's taking post wall women on sexcapades or be the guy who just looks at these stories with sadness cause he's banging young hotties. This attitude is toxic for your well being.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 08:44 AM
3

Don't be scared to put on weight! Take whatever you're eating daily to maintain your 11% and add 800cal. Do it for 4 weeks while adding 10lbs to every lift weekly. Weigh yourself again. If you aren't putting on weight, add more calories. If you are, stay at that intake. The weight will come off. I repeat, don't be scared to put on weight! edit: good job all around on the first year though
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 05:54 AM
2

Well, I often look like the long lost cast member of Jersey Shore. So she starts doing the fist pump, pushup, chapstick
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 12:55 PM
1

I know if I entered my marriage with the understanding of women that I have now, one of two things would have happened. I would have never allowed my attraction to diminish in her eyes or I would have never married her. I can 99.9% guarantee this. Best I can do now is repair the broken, which has been easier said than done, while living a much happier life simply due to my proper understanding of masculinity/femininity. Or leave and start fresh; which I'm not willing to do until my children move…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 09:38 PM
2

“What’s with this new thing where you won’t answer my questions or just give me some BS half- answer? Is it some kind of power thing? It’s bullshit.” I didn’t know what to do with that. I said, “I don’t really know what you’re talking about.” "I'm sick of your shit and I'm done listening". Then fog/STFU with frame til the cows come home. Rinse and repeat until she knows this is now the norm.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 02:46 PM
6

The question is why? I really like drinking IPA. I mean ones that are hoppy AF at 7% alcohol and cost about 3.35% per 473mL can. One of my absolute favorite pleasures in the world is sitting at my dining room table and drinking on of these. You know what makes it so much better? Sitting at that table with someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 02:13 PM
1

5 boneless skinless chicken breasts is roughly 1000cal 2 peanut butter sandwiches is roughly 750cal 1 cup of grapes, 1 cup of bell peppers, 1 cup of carrots, 1 cup of strawberries, 1 cup of apple slices is roughly 250cal Whats the least filling way to get 500cal of those 3?
/r/askMRP03/05/18 01:16 PM
7

Classic "watch what she does and not what she says"
/r/askMRP03/05/18 12:07 PM
5

I'm not sure whether my wife gives me the gay or jersey shore shit test more.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 12:48 AM
1

As a metal head, I disagree with 2. I wear band tee's. Albeit, I wear ones that fit nice and are complimentary to my physique.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 12:37 AM
6

The hamster wheel runs fast with middle aged women
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 10:01 PM
1

A persons advice says as such about them their posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/18 02:27 PM
2

"I'm scared for my life living in the same house as him little bro" my sister on her husband when he was addicted to TRT
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 01:39 PM
147

If a dude comes here, picks up the tools provided and decides (while not promoted) to find a girl and get married. If he does so with the knowledge of RedPill and goes into this relationship with the best understanding of gender dynamic, thats a success. BluePull just tells men to go all in on feelz and BlackPill just tells men you are guaranteed getting fucked. RedPill gives actionable advice. Nobody sees that though
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:04 PM
1

Looks like my mom's text font
/r/askMRP30/04/18 03:38 PM
2

Understand he is anger staging. Half the guys who come here suspect their wife cheated at some point and it gets fueled with anger. I'll bet you well over half of our wives have actually cheated; yours not discluded. If he is married and if she continues to transform more and more into what he wants, why leave and get fucked in court? Or if he really can't get over it, go fuck someone and then feel good knowing all is even. My two cents anyway. edit: this by no means is me telling you to stay if…
/r/askMRP30/04/18 03:36 PM
5

you should be able to squash this behavior She will be on one about "Your leaving this weekend and you are leaving tonight too?? Honestly, how many nights a year do you spend away from the house? How many have you spent in our whole relationship? I should be able to have a month off...blah, blah, blah". I may just grab a disinfectant wipe and say "How the fuck is there always so much dirt on this door frame?!" Then proceed to clean said door frame. This is a twofold solution. On one side, it sho…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 01:51 AM
15

hey, don't talk to me like that This has so much power if you're worth a shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 01:30 AM
5

At 24, the possibilities are endless if you apply MRP to your relationships out the gate. Want a girl who fucks you all day/everyday? Done. Want a girl who let's you tie her up and cane her? Done. Want a girl who bangs you with a strap on? Probably done. Although I'd have to assume being an alpha with submissive tendencies is RP on suicide mode...
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 01:26 AM
4

I am starting to catch on A time will come when you see it right after it happend, a time will come when you see it in real time and finally a time will come when you see it before it happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 01:21 AM
1

A variety of compound lifts and eating enough food. Don't be scared to put weight on. It comes back off. This should be all you need for the next year or so.
/r/askMRP30/04/18 12:41 AM
1

She is disappointed that she is married to such a shlup
/r/askMRP29/04/18 10:13 PM
3

Practical Female Psychology. I highly recommend it. If I was to say an order, I'd say read it before TWOTSM. No less, they go together quite well.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 11:54 AM
1

Did you read PFP?
/r/askMRP29/04/18 11:04 AM
3

It's not tit for tat if you have frame.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 02:52 AM
1

If he has no frame, he can't pull off disappointed without the butthurt.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 02:32 AM
2

If you have the frame to pull it off without having to DEER up a storm, show her what it feels like to be late. Like show up at home 3 hours late after your event...if at all.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 02:30 AM
7

A time may come when your wife will come into the kitchen bitching about some nonsensical shit. You'll be cooking, listening to music and having a beer. As she is all flustered about whatever pointless drabble that's consuming her, you'll run your hand across the side of her head, say with a smile "you should really do this with your hair more", then go back to whatever you were doing. She may say something, but probably not. More likely she smiles and calls you an ass. You'll say something like…
/r/askMRP29/04/18 02:26 AM
2

They are fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 01:55 AM
1

If it was weekly, I wouldn't consider side pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 01:54 AM
1

Either ironing your shirts or lifting weights. WTF do you think!?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 11:59 AM
1

Probably just checking to see if she could make you jealous. She did and she knows it. You're beneath her as of now. Or maybe she is just looking to climb the tree to bigger and better guys? Such as life I suppose. Better you keep hitting the iron and let her fall when the time comes.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 09:07 AM
3

No wonder her husband wraps it up
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 05:55 AM
1

People love generalizations because they're lazy and it makes thinking easier for them.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 04:49 AM
8

Some crėme dė la crėme right there OP. Quit being such a little fuckin bitch.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 04:19 AM
1

You a FAM?
/r/askMRP28/04/18 04:17 AM
3

The nuts. That's the funniest thing I've read all day. I literally LOL'd. In all fairness, I'm taking this as a feel good story at your expense bro. Sorry. My wife is an amazing first mate. She cooks, cleans and takes care of the kids over her 50%, plus works full-time. She is funny, smart, responsible and hot AF. When she needs advice she doesn't hesitate to ask and likewise, can give me solid imput...without making me look like an idiot. We drink together often. I do what I want, when I want w…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 04:08 AM
2

I have a friend who thinks like this. I don't understand it. In his case I think it's an excuse for antisocoal behavior. I'm very social. It's more a matter of people living up to my standard. False expectations if you will So everyone doesn't suck? No, that's not true either. That's Disney-like...imagining the whole world is full of fun, good-natured people. That's a self defeating mindset. People who think like this constantly set themselves up for disappointment Instead, the world is full of …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/18 02:41 PM
1

Friends that are girls - friends LTR - Long Term Relationship Girlfriend - Someone you fuck whom you also enjoy their friendship
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 01:23 PM
5

LTR = Long Term Relationship I'm a married man and I can have girlfriends. I can't have LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 10:47 PM
2

Better to appear a fool, then to open one's mouth and remove all doubt..
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 03:49 PM
3

Give less fucks. If your relationship is worth a damn, it'll survive you STFU for a while. If it doesn't survive, then it's shedding dead weight.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 01:46 PM
7

People suck. If there is one thing that I've takin away from RP, it's that the majority of people suck. Likewise, I'm sure to the majority of people I suck. We all know this innately too. I'd postulate a lot of the stress that plagues the weak of our society is a fear of this too. A big part of the unplugging process is accepting this and finding comfort within this discomfort. Take my wife for example. Smart, attractive, funny, responsible, etc. Yet she carries herself in a way where not only d…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 12:37 PM
3

Depends if I brought my kids or not. If the kids didn't come, all of this holds true. If the kids did come, I feel like Randy Quaid in the vacation movies.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 07:47 PM
2

Had plans to do a beer run with my homie wife - "so do you're taking me out for lunch today" me - "maybe" wife - "well, I wanna go out for lunch" me - "I want a blow job" wife - "yak, yak, yak" Homie shows up 30 min later. me - "I'll be back in time to get the kids from school" wife - "I thought you were taking me for lunch" me - "I love you" Walk out the front door. She is fine when we make supper together that night. lmportant point here, zero fucks were givin. It's all just shit tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 07:03 PM
34

TL;DR - Man stops giving a fuck and realizes he can get everything he wants, but that nobody is going to give it to him, so he has to take it...and then he gets it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 07:39 AM
7

Sounds like the setting for a Greys Anatomy style drama
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:26 AM
1

meathead gymrats Read that as methhead gymrats
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:06 AM
49

Buddy - "Hey drty, we should start going to the gym together" Me - "I kind of have to go with the time that best suits me" Buddy - "Well just shoot me a text 20min before you're leaving. We can spot each other and keep our motivation up" Me - "Sure, I'll send you a text so you can meet me at the gym, watch me put in headphones and then take them out an hour later, put my shit on and leave"
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:01 AM
5

Also good: maybe, we'll see, let me think about it
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 12:06 AM
1

the women that do go... ...go to look at men
/r/askMRP19/04/18 11:27 PM
2

Your wife's friends opinions should mean as much to you as how much your gym clothes match. Less actually. Much less. They will yak, cause that's what bitches do. Yak. Give less fucks.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 11:57 AM
8

Just some food for thought. You use the word sex 27x in this post. Chances are, if you come off thirsty for it from her as you do in this post, she finds you needy. Again, take that as you choose.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 09:18 AM
4

video game players They like to be called "gamers"
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 04:46 AM
1

I've always viewed The Mission as simply putting myself in the position to get what I want when I want it. The less fucks that I give about trying to take what's mine, the more satisfied I am in obtaining it. The needs/wants are ever changing, but the method of achieving them is stationary. Masculinity
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 03:24 AM
5

There is a difference between playing video games once or twice a week for an hour or two and screaming at your Television.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 02:57 AM
1

You know how you feel when you meet someone who is really interesting and you just get caught up in their aura? That's how they look at you. If you don't know the difference, it isn't happening.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 11:01 PM
3

Not to mention only answering questions he wants to. In my experience, the hard to answer questions on MRP are the ones that have the answers you need.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 10:59 PM
22

It's better to be the guy who was banging the young hottie at the gym behind your woman's back, then to be the guy who's women was banging the young stud at the gym while he was at home jerking off.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 10:35 PM
9

Read that yesterday. That man gets it
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 01:55 AM
1

If one has to do things that make them unhappy to make their marriage happy, it's a net negative. End of the day, the marriage should be at minimum a net neutral; only if you have children. No kids? Leave that bitch if you're not a substantial net positive.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/18 04:46 PM
1

I'll give ya +1
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/18 04:42 PM
7

You're too old for those young apes old man.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 10:58 PM
3

Lol. It serves my allegorical purpose.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 09:57 PM
2

Ya. Sticking Natives on reserves has done such a swell job of westernizing them. They basically live the same quality of life as your average suburban Joe.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:54 PM
9

Chances are if he gives no fucks, she goes
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:47 PM
1

Is she on medication for depression?
/r/askMRP11/04/18 08:59 PM
2

Seriously OP, this is all that matters... OYS or fuck off
/r/askMRP11/04/18 06:13 PM
1

What about blue waffles?
/r/askMRP11/04/18 07:04 AM
6

Just Figured It Out With A Quick Google Search You Lazy Fuck
/r/askMRP11/04/18 06:42 AM
3

Green Curry Stir Fury green curry paste onion bell pepper zucchini garlic coconut milk cilantro soy sauce Place on top of a plate of rice with baked chicked and cashews.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 06:37 AM
2

My wife gets all pissy if she gets home from work at 8 and I never left her anything. "Would you have ate Tacos if I left you some?" "I don't like Tacos" Conversation over. I know people may frown at Tacos, but I only use 2 shells and pretty well nothing but meat and cheese, with a scoop of sour cream. I eat loads of rice and chicken, but I need to get 3 kids to eat as well. They get tired of rice and chicken.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 02:55 AM
-2

Makes me think of the 19 year old at the gym who eyeball fucks me and does nothing for her whole hour but work on her legs, ass and stomach. Chatted her up a couple times casually. I'm married with 3 kids, so it's probably not in my best interests, but it's still fun to pretend.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:28 PM
1

my dilemma is whether I owe it to her and the kids to give it another shot This is all that matters in the whole post. You don't owe anyone shit. If you truly believe that you want to give this family another shot, then you do it because you know it's the right thing for you. One of the most important parts of the pill to swallow is knowing that you and you alone are the complete master of your destiny. It's a big element of operating within your own frame. What drty_pr or RP4life think about yo…
/r/askMRP04/04/18 06:15 PM
4

Your real problem is not unplugging. Everything you described is a result of BP conditioning. If you really unplugged and you really wanted to get back with your wife, you would and wouldn't be asking.
/r/askMRP04/04/18 02:21 AM
1

Lol. Definitely not how I pictured you. I thought you were done with her?
/r/askMRP02/04/18 08:57 PM
0

This insults me as a Canadian. I thought only Americans fucked their cousins?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 04:12 AM
1

I just shrug 125lb dumbells and hold every rep long as I can. Seems to do the trick. Plus it really pops those veins.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 11:12 AM
1

They almost banned me for being RedPill. Apparently next time I'm gone.
/r/askMRP01/04/18 10:57 AM
2

Most MRP users are lying to themselves if they deny that there is a burgundy contrast on the edge of their red. With that said, if she wants to leave, she knows where the door is.
/r/askMRP01/04/18 10:52 AM
2

Her parents were reclusive and didn't work. She moved out at a really young age and managed to get by quite well. She has a strong work ethic, she has always had an attitude of not needing/being better than anyone. It's pretty hard to dread someone who, while may have an internal fear of losing you, is so invested in their ego that they'd rather watch it burn to the ground than show weakness.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 03:12 AM
2

A lot of guys like the meme "curls for the girls", but isolated arm exercises will give you those biceps. I do compounds on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. On Tuesday and Thursday I do 3 curl variations and heavy ass shrugs. This has really helped boost my arms.
/r/askMRP01/04/18 03:06 AM
1

My wife grew up with pothead parents who were antisocial and broke. This has created a very different monster to deal with.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/18 02:36 AM
2

Squat is everything. IMO, it's the money lift.
/r/askMRP31/03/18 01:34 AM
1

this guy Curious as to why you chose "that guy"? No homo of course. Lol
/r/askMRP28/03/18 06:31 PM
1

WILYFAG That's enough reddit for today. Lol
/r/askMRP27/03/18 07:38 PM
15

When Chad actually decides he wants to fuck her, and he will, she is gonna be all over that. Doesn't matter what she says. NEXT her man and I've never told anyone to do this. No way she'll respect you again after this if you take her back. Her telling you about how hot Chad is, leaving out that he is joining them for drinks, then telling him she wants his cock is so much disrespect. You'll never trust her again either. Maybe she just wants you to kill the puppy?
/r/askMRP23/03/18 08:02 AM
9

The fact you first posted in RP over a year ago and you're still wasting people time with some shot like this. Fuck off. If you actually swallowed that pill back then, you wouldn't be asking such a stupid question right now.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 03:35 AM
1

My point is I can very easily keep a happy family together for my kids. I get along great with my wife and we live that happy family thing. I actually really do like her a lot. I'd just like a better sex life. I could easliy get some on the side. The way that little 19 y/o was eyeball fucking me at the gym tonight was all the proof I need. Needs to be someone with equal risk though. Preferably a milf with fat sugar daddy. Regardless, I'm no longer bitching on MRP about my problems. I'm well awar…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 01:28 AM
1

I'm hoping mine has another 10 years
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 11:01 PM
1

1) having a happy family and kids is mutually exclusive from having a happy relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 10:02 PM
1

Neither a troll nor fishermen. Merely a leach.
/r/askMRP19/03/18 09:47 PM
1

That all escalated in a rather odd way...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 08:33 AM
1

I hammer 60's for 3x10 every Tuesday/Thursday. Although this didn't happen over night and took 18 months of 2-3x a week practice.
/r/askMRP14/03/18 02:15 AM
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End of the day, he shouldn't have told his kids. He did so because he's a weak sauce little faggot. He lost all of his power when he turned that wench against him. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer The only reason he posted that shit on that shit sub is because he's a validation whore who hoped the BluePill Reddit hivemind would approve of his bullshit. My empathy isn't for his situation, but his lack of frame and masculinity that allowed him to become a man dealing with a situatio…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 01:13 AM
2

As she should, but if she isn't, it on the captain.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 10:17 PM
1

oh he would kill you for sure, maybe me too Eeek! Maybe she is just saying that so you don't rat her out? Maybe not? Not worth that risk one bit. I've had this debate on the main sub a few times. Someone who found TRP, squats 300lbs, trains in jiu-jitsu and kickboxing doesn't make them tough. I have friends who have grown up from single moms, spent their teenage years fighting/selling drugs/going to jail, cleaned up and now live the white picket fence life style. Their wives can cheat like any o…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 02:34 AM
2

Lot's of shit in here, but just know this: If your daughter gets her period and isn't prepared, mentally/physically/equipment, that's some epic level fuckin parental failure bro
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 02:07 AM
44

My wife is boring, responsible, smart and down to earth. The sex isn't what I'd like it to be, but at least she is pleasant to be around, not stressing me out and is an amazing mother. When I see what other dudes put up with, I'd take what I have any day of the week.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:33 AM
10

Thank god Trump has takin the tariff off steel traveling within North America.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 10:13 PM
10

The Hovering Pussy DryerTM
/r/askMRP09/03/18 02:28 AM
1

Invite him in for a 3some and show him up. Only way you'll know for sure
/r/askMRP08/03/18 04:55 PM
5

I would postulate that it's less of a give him sex in the honeymoon stage to hook him in and more of a 6-12 months in his true beta colours show through.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 03:14 PM
1

OP never forget your accomplishments are her accomplishments! OP never forget your failures are your failures
/r/askMRP07/03/18 02:09 PM
11

I'd also add: Ask yourself, why are you so scrared of your wife and why are you such a pussy in general? Once you honestly answet that question, stop doing it
/r/askMRP06/03/18 02:45 PM
1

Everyone has givin you the advice you already need, but I got one more thing. My wife can become a real mess when she gets drunk. I have a firm boundary of only allowing her to drink beer.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 06:54 AM
3

As everyone is full of useful advice, I'll give you a little off topic piece. Your wife will shittest the fuck out of you when you start trying to learn this shit. Pay her no heed. Do you and she can go fuck herself.
/r/askMRP04/03/18 06:51 AM
5

I slip up from time to time. Steve, I'm gonna be honest with you man. Your problem has always been your lack of frame. I tried to tell you this when you PM'd me after you got banned when you first came here. You didn't listen then and you still don't listen to anyone now. Just look at the way you DEER to every fuckin comment on this thread. You're still giving way to many fucks and not shutting the fuck up nearly enough. Your frame fuckin sucks. Sure, you're banging the chicks you want and are h…
/r/askMRP04/03/18 06:42 AM
17

Watching your father interact with other men is one of the most important skills he teaches. But he doesn't so much teach you, as youl learn through observation. Look at any man who can't interact with other men. He struggles with almost everything in life.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 05:33 AM
1

Do you prefer this? Or are you more of a fan of "this"? You can always double down on "this" Though
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 07:00 PM
2

Family are friends at one of the highest degrees. When you have children, you create people to have the most meaningful bonds with in your future. On St. Patricks Day, I could go party with a bunch of friends and people I don't really give two fucks about. Instead I'm going to a bar with two couples that my wife an I hang with, my parents, my brother and his girlfriend, my uncle and his son. We'll all be coming back to my place for dinner and drinks into the wee hours. I fuckin love drinking wit…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 02:53 AM
1

Why feed the trolls guys? Now fuck off and get a life OP.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:33 AM
1

There was a sub called r/realalpha. They have a lot of interesting moral generalizations like you. You aught to check em out.
/r/askMRP27/02/18 08:38 PM
15

If one must share weakness, do it with one of your best friends. Keep in mind though that the best way to rid yourself of anxiety is to face it head on, deal with it and realize that you can always fix your problems on your own. Your feiends will grow tired of you quickly if you use them as emotional tampons.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 03:13 PM
1

If I met my wife at work tomorrow, she never would know the the shitty man I could allow myself to become when things got tough. But, as the adage goes, if my aunt had balls she'd be my uncle.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 07:54 AM
2

What are the odds that she loves this crazy shit? Crying about losing the family to whoever will listen gives her more feels than the DDP cock ever could? That she doesn't have real friends becuase women know she ain't friend material? That when she is in the heat of a feux-main event, the negativity she is overtly displaying brings her more pleasure than being your little subservient wife ever could? The reason I ask is because I grew up around a lot of disfunction. Not in my own family, my par…
/r/askMRP23/02/18 05:46 AM
1

I say to myself I am, and I can actually envision it, but I really don't want to She knows this. Guaranteed.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 05:37 AM
1

I still want a traditional family where I can raise my kids I think we all want that. It's why we come here and don't blow up our marriages. but I am not blinded with the Disney dream, I can see it for what it is. This is one of the most important pieces of the MRP puzzle. Seeing marriage for what it is. A mutually beneficial arrangement, that has the capability of being very fulfilling at the same time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/18 05:08 AM
1

Than why would it fuckin matter? Your dad is the man who raised you. Biologically, maybe your mom cucked him? Who gives a fuck. He spent his whole life raising you to be a man. If you feel the need fo get a secret test that will potentially give you the answers you don't want, you're a faggot. Better way to look at it, what to you possibly have to gain by doing so?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 08:18 PM
2

the question though is are you self regulating the amount of chips you're willing to push onto the table because you fear losing the one. I have no fear of losing her. If she wants to throw in the towel, I've made my intentions very clear how that will go. It's not about me losing her. It's about me wanting to keep her. There's a distinct difference there.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 12:08 PM
1

Thanks for the clarification
/r/askMRP22/02/18 12:00 PM
1

We've I been together since just after high school, so no. I know it's hard be pragmatic from that perspective, but from my observations over the years, most women really suck. When I killed my oneitus, I went through a period of hating her. Now that I view her in a different light, I like her more than ever. It's fucked up to say cause having limited sex isn't my most desired outcome. I can't really describe it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 11:01 AM
2

This has been on my mind a lot lately too. Do I accept the future I see with my wife. I've come to realize that the sex will never be in the volume I want. I hate the term asexual, but everything she does, not only says, points in this direction. This hasn't changed the light I see her in, but it's kind of deflating. My problem arises from the fact I really love her. From sitting on the couch drinking, to making out in the grocery store, to laughing at fat and ugly people behind their back, to d…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 07:31 AM
1

There is no beta male of the group. What you are alluding to is a Sigma I was always under the impression this guy is Omega. A very successful, smart, handsome dude that is a natural leader. People always like him and respect him. He just doesn't have girls all gooey for him. The type of guy that with no females present, most men would think he was an alpha.
/r/askMRP22/02/18 06:11 AM
2

I'm curious how HKJ does the things she does. I wouldn't even want to be in the same room, let alone do partake.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 06:15 PM
1

I've gotten into heated debates about how I'm all for lesbians adopting children, but they need to understand the importance of making sure they have a positive male role model in that childs life. You'd be amazed at how often that statement is met with fanatical resistance.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 05:49 PM
2

And even he wasn't immune to female nature. RP is simply an eye opening experience. What you do with that new vision is on you. There was a post on TRP a few days ago that summed this up quite nicely.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 05:17 PM
1

Is your father a good man?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 05:12 PM
9

I've pondered testing mine. I mean they are 6 and older, but it would be interesting to know no less. Even if they weren't biologically mine, I'd never tell them. They are mine, but how I proceeded with my marriage from there on out would be greatly effected.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 12:02 AM
1

Meh, is what it is. Wasn't really asking a question because I already know the answer. She won't change. So either accept her as she is or find someone new. As of now, my kids growing up in one household means the most to me. Maybe that's a beta trait, really don't care though. I know that's what I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/18 08:21 PM
1

My wife is very masculine in that she prefers to view life with deductive logic opposed to emotional feelings. That's been my biggest challenge in terms of MRP. She believes that we both stand at the mast of the ship, side by side, hand in hand as complete equals. Knowing she would fully be able to drive the ship without me. The funny thing is that being so masculine, she doesn't tolerate any weakness. She truly expects an emotionally stoic man. If I display any weakness, she loses respect for m…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/18 07:58 PM
10

Him: "So how is old lemonviolin these days?" Her: "Oh you know, same old, same old. Sometimes I just feel I'm not getting everything I want out of life though" Him: "That's too bad 😔. Do you wanna grab a coffee and talk about it?" Her: "I'm married. I can't exactly be going out for coffees with ex's?" Him: "Good point. You can come here? As just friends obviously" Six months later Her: "You just couldn't connect with my emotions the way he did!" LV: "Maybe if you were connecting my dick into you…
/r/askMRP17/02/18 07:15 PM
1

Her: "honey would you go into the kitchen and grab me some scissors?" You: "no" What's the absolute worst case scenario in this event?
/r/askMRP17/02/18 06:52 PM
2

People can give you all the advice you think you want to hear, but until you stop being pussy, she will continue to treat you like a pussy. Until you start acting like a man, you wife won't respect you like a man. Until you can lead your family through this mess, you will be a mess of a leader. You see, even when I was at my worst state of drunk captain, I wouldn't have stood for this shit. The fact you have allowed this nonsense to go for as long as it has shows not only how sad you are, but wh…
/r/askMRP16/02/18 12:50 AM
7

My wife cycles up and down in this kind of behavior. Going from short, a-few-days to a-couple-weeks of "normal person" behavior then months-to-a-year descent into drama and near-miss divorce, and a similar time frame to pull back up to a short period of relative peace and contentment. That's fuckin awful dude. If you don't have kids, GTFO. True you're fuckin up in with finances, but when you pull it together, do you really think she's suddenly gonna stop being loco? I have my problems with my wi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 12:27 AM
1

I've had comments removed by linking to MRP as well. I wonder what the reasoning is to it?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 07:50 AM
1

If you aren't a troll, which I highly doubt, and you did in fact hear about this place from an acquaintance, don't you think you would read a few posts first and realize we are all assholes? If you aren't a troll, which I highly doubt, and you want advice that doesn't make you feel like a pathetic excuse for a man, go to r/relationships. They'll go a nice roundabout way of telling you how pathetic this story really is.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 07:24 AM
2

I read it somewhere that like 98.3% of women whose husbands don't know what a fucking paragraph is can't reach orgasm with him.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 07:10 AM
2

No. If you try to copy people's responses from here, it won't be congruent to who you are and you'll look like a dumbfuck. Whatever you say in situations like this needs to be in line with your own style. I would probably say "Yep and I was really enjoying it too before you came in here flapping your beak". Then hold a stare til she looks away, smile and go back to eating my sushi. (fuckin nasty shit BTW) This would be expected of me cause that's how I normally talk. Furthermore, the only reason…
/r/askMRP14/02/18 07:06 AM
1

is that how you greet people? Go back and try again For the win
/r/askMRP14/02/18 06:50 AM
2

Time will tell.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/18 07:59 PM
1

and she's special because you're choosing her. this is the yang to the yin or actual "dread" of MRP. the gut fear of loss. Some women may never fear losing you. Right to the point they do lose you and then they never actually wanted you in the first place. you can master the first 5-6 levels (passive dread) to the highest order but if you still believe "i would never leave my wife" for reasons; their will be no dread. I think cause I've accepted my wife will never fuck me to the extent I want an…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/18 02:33 PM
34

Men crave to be respected by a women who desires them. Women crave to be desired by a man who they respect
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/18 02:04 PM
2

If you took every cliche that a guy posts when he finds askMRP and put it all in one, this would be it. There is a post about dread by u/BobbyPeru on my home page right under this. I honestly thought that's what I clicked and this was satirical. 59 FUCKIN TIMES YOU SAID SHE OR HER. Whose frame are you in bro?
/r/askMRP09/02/18 01:23 PM
1

Can you blame her for expecting you to clean her windows? I mean, if you've always done it, she will just pool it into some of your "manly duties". The inner beta in all men who find this place have a hard time not doing the "nice" thing and cleaning that window. It's also no surprise when the wife shrew gets testy for it not (sp) being done anymore. It's like you said though, this is the core of developing a frame. When you stop complying to nonsensical demands, she stops asking.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/18 06:49 PM
10

It's very PC for an RP writeup. Well played.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/18 06:18 PM
5

He probably means someone who smart, responsible, peaceful, sexual, faithful, beautiful, etc. Basically a snowflake.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 07:55 AM
5

Women act shitty because men let women act shitty. My wife was going on about how crazy her mother is and how she doesn't know how her father deals with it. I said "she is like that because he allows her to be". It was funny because while she wanted to disagree with me, she knew I was right. So she just said nothing.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 08:28 PM
2

A trade. Walk out of community college as an electrician and you'll never worry about employment again. Become highly dedicated to that trade and you'll be making 45$ an hour no problem.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 03:02 PM
6

I wouldn't buy a drink for a man "I wouldn't buy a drink for anyone except the women I'm presently fucking." Grabs girls ass and hold the stare with him until he looks away
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:41 PM
1

A lot of people who are brought up in disfunction believe they deserve nothing better. You can't do much to change this. They gotta do it one their own. One of my good friends had a horrible childhood. Consequently, he fell for a women who is cluster B crazy. She treats him like the scum of the earth. He is scared to walk around his own house. I postulate taht she's actually trying to get him to have a heart attack to claim his life insurance. I always told him to leave. His excuses where our da…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:04 PM
1

I've talk with friends before. They are all about intergender conversations, until you drop some truths. Everytime I've done it, they clam up. Say something like "well if she isn't giving you yours and if you are ready and willing to fuck her anytime, is it really cheating if you're not cheating her out of anything?". His reaction to that statement will tell you if the Red Knighting is possible.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 01:36 PM
4

He believes that if he makes the meat of his post about "finances" and throws that she may "cheat" in there at the end that users will think it's about the cost of the trip.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 01:04 PM
2

Bench, seated curls, tricep extensions, etc. don't require the use of your knee. With a bad knee, you can still very much make a customized work out plan and achieve substantial goals.
/r/askMRP30/01/18 02:19 PM
2

weak Men are just as fucking conniving and selfish as women are Problem being, very few men aren't weak. I can't stress VERY FEW enough.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:44 AM
1

I've never hit 10%. I intend on it within the next month though.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 11:38 AM
1

Me too. I envy that sweet bicep vein. It's there, but it's off to the side and not nearly as defined as others.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 11:13 AM
1

ioi you might want to stay there and let the heavy weights make em pop ?
/r/askMRP25/01/18 06:40 AM
1

Kids need to experience disappointment. A lot of the helicopter parents that I know do everything in their power to prevent their kids from feeling the discomfort of it. Well guess what? Life can be disappointing, so kids need to know how to be content in discomfort. It's your responsibility to ensure they get this. Also, kids need to know that their actions have consequences. I see so many parents whose kid fucks something up and they go out of their way to fix it for them. They need to know wh…
/r/askMRP25/01/18 12:59 AM
1

One of the best posts I've ever read her bro. I mean it. I have a question though. If one chooses to separate by the means of a legal separation, do you still need to meet infront of a judge, justice of the peace or some sort of federal clerk? How do you finalize it so she doesn't decide 2 years down the road "Fuck Drty! I'm gonna kill him in court!"?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 03:41 PM
2

BODY Not much to say here. Keeping on my cut. Going over my 2000 limit half the time, but only by a hundred or 2. Going under about the same so it's close to evening out. Down to 176. I'd love to take a photo to post, but I'm so tatted up that it would just be a picture of a big black box. MARRIAGE Making her work for me seems to be having somewhat of an affect. I initiated the other day, got the turning away from my lips rejection. Told her to have a good day at work and fucked off. Hardly spok…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/18 03:30 PM
1

Spinning plates is DL11-12. When you hit that point, you realize that nothing you can do will lead her towards where you want her.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 11:21 PM
9

There really is no "old" you or "new" you. It's just the "now" you. Learn form the past, focus on the future, but live in the "now".
/r/askMRP22/01/18 10:55 PM
13

Your theory fails to put any attention on female solopsism and the rationalization hamster. How will she ever get over your raw alpha attraction and your devine bed skills oh great green pill? She'll go shopping, buy a new outfit, go to a bar and be swallowing a new load that night. Nothing is more important to her than herself, so she will easily hamster you out of her mind. She may miss fucking you, but bitches don't have time to lay in bed night in/out thinking about an old fuck. This notion …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:40 PM
4

Did you get the tramp stamp?
/r/askMRP22/01/18 04:00 PM
22

I've said it before and I'll say it again. I don't care how many plates you can lift, how good you are at martial arts, and how much you DGAF. If you're banging someone elses women, you're putting yourself at risk. Nothing is more dangerous than a jealous beta with a love for guns
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 04:21 PM
3

To an extent. If you don't verse yourself in intergender dynamics, you run the riskprobability of becoming a better beta. Every man should read The Rational Male Book and The Book Of Pook.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 04:02 PM
15

I'll tell you one thing. If your wife was your ride or die, she would have your back with these bitches. Sounds like that's not the case though. So what does a man do when he is forced into a situation he doesn't want to be in? A situation he doesn't want his family in? (Don't kid yourself homie, these bitches are fucking up your daughters too) Hmmm? Follow the side bar and become the type of man who can say "I am so sick of the toxic female environment that is your/my family. My family will be …
/r/askMRP21/01/18 12:52 PM
5

My story before this is all available. My story after this is still unfolding.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 01:45 AM
21

Wife "My mother thinks I should make sure I'm fucking you enough or someone else will". Me "Well, she isn't wrong". Wife "Wow. Just wow. You know where the door is". Me "Yep. Go use it if you want".
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 11:57 PM
13

The fact that you're here in the first place, asking this question, shows you're a pussy. It's alright man. No shame in admitting your failures in a place where men come to stop being failures. The reality is she won't stop treating you like shit until you stop being shit. So what to do? STFU When she asks you to do something, either do it and STFU or don't and STFU. She will get all pissy and start yammering on about some trivial shit. It'll get under your skin. You'll be dying to defend your e…
/r/askMRP20/01/18 09:52 PM
3

It took me a while to get back to this, but ya, that is just it. This next portion of my journey is going to be slow and tedious with very little advancement, but I know that looks won't be the deciding factor in who I choose when that time comes. As always, thanks for the words man.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 04:06 PM
1

It's not about killing your ego, it's about checking it. Knowing that it's ever present in your thought process and using this knowledge to prevent making reactionary decisions; thus making methodical ones. Plus, the more you understand and control your egos driving forces, the more you can use it in real time to your advantage.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 03:41 PM
2

put a space between your bullets and the first word
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 03:13 PM
7

My wife said one day and I kid you not "I'm giving her shit for something completely irrational she just did and it's like looking in a mirror and giving myself shit".
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 10:11 AM
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There is a self-fulfilling prophecy in there too. she doesn't respect you so she treats you like shit/she treats you like shit cause you let her/you let her cause you're a beta/you're a beta so she doesn't respect you Break that loop
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 08:47 AM
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BODY - Continuing on with my 2000 calories a day cut. Sometimes it's hard to stay under that, but if i go over a bit here and there, shit happens. Down to 182 from 190 2.5 weeks ago. This has by far been my best crack at putting on muscle yet. Can't wait to see the final result when I get back down to 11%. MARRIAGE - Trying to not be an autistic fuck, while also trying not to be give myself away for free is tough. It seems to be having a positive effect though. While I can't make myself physical…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 07:45 AM
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I’m pretty on top of the house (both indoors and outdoors) to be honest. I should have put this in there. I’m never in that spare room. Ever. I have no need to be in there. It’s almost a sitting room, hence, a spare. You'll hear a lot about a DEER response on this sub. Thats what this is. A better response would have simply been: I'm never in that spare room. Also, should I not have said anything about her expired food being that it was right next to mine? Why? What honest response could you get…
/r/askMRP16/01/18 07:43 AM
3

Same goes for hair appointments. Nothing more sad than a man who has his wife do this. That, and when you text a bro to see what's up this weekend and he says "I'll run it by the wife". Fuck that makes my skin crawl.
/r/askMRP12/01/18 06:01 PM
0

This - I have to say - doesn't feel 100 natural to me Becoming a man who can say what he wants and NGAF what others think is unnatural. Especially if you've allowed yourself to become the type of man who seeks his wifes approval. You know what needs to be done, now go do it.
/r/askMRP12/01/18 05:55 PM
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This is you trying to get her to feel a certain way. Stop. Her feelings are hers to manage I'll add to this. If you don't like her mood, change it. And don't change it by discussing it! Change it by being fun and a kind of guy who she wants to be fun with.
/r/askMRP10/01/18 04:07 PM
2

Eggs, chicken breat, rice, veg til I can't eat anymore, chocolate milk, bacon, all kinds of cheese edit: protein shakes in surplus
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 03:04 PM
2

You "exposing" yourself is masculine behavior; attractive. You controlling her with manipulation is feminine behavior; unattractive. It's only natural that this would happen. Bare in mind your changes are new. She will test you like mad. It's also possible probable that she is a LSE women. She put up with your abusive behavior because she felt she deserved no better. When you really start becoming a better man, she may resist even. This is where your leadership will be so important. You have to …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 04:49 PM
3

My OYS last week was kind of a puke. Apologies for that. I basically hit that "fork in the road" on my MAP. One direction was my wife is fucking me as much as I'd like. The other is I do something about it. If I'm being totally honest with myself, I never really threw away that covert contract. Noobs take note: If you don't throw that covert contract away completely, you could be like me. 18 months into your journey with residual oneitus and a pipe dream of a women who hates having sex fucking y…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 04:19 PM
1

Did you not read his OP. He is "wife protecting"
/r/askMRP08/01/18 09:24 AM
1

Times are changin bro
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/18 12:09 PM
1

Just curious, I haven't seen any posts with your height/weight/body fat%. Be honest here: are you fat? Who has the higher SMV? 5'8 at 190. Body fat would be a little high cause I just ended a 21lb bulk. At 169 it was 12% though. Does she have saggy boobs? My wife's boobs pancaked after the baby. I would tell her I didn't care, but it doesn't matter. She also got a rash from breastfeeding. She's very self-conscious about them so I rarely see her bra-less. They sag a bit but they are still really …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 09:26 PM
1

Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 08:44 PM
1

I'm not killing it financially I have money, but I will definitely take a hit. I'll get back where I want to be in short while, but it's still a little unnerving facing those uncertainties Are you in great shape physically? Yes Do you slay shit/comfort tests with ease? Always Put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself if you're giving her a reason to be attracted to you? Yes Would you fuck you? Yes Have you told her about your desires/needs? She isn't stupid If you can honestly assess that you'r…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 07:10 PM
1

Exactly. It won't be easy, but it's time to take it to this level.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 11:25 PM
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yeah, that's kinda strange. it's like she's on the beach. was it cold in the room or does she always do this. Almost always. Or if not, she turns around agreed, that is a terrible indicator - in vino veritas Yep. Thinking back, this has been the case for so long too can't remember if you have yet; but you know never point a gun at someone unless you plan on shooting them; and never shoot someone if you don't plan on killing them. in other words, see a lawyer or two first. I haven't said shit and…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 11:23 PM
1

My FMoFY would be something very close to: Optipn 1. We divorce. I'll have everything ready if she chooses to go down this road. I'll get fucked somewhat, but really, most of us would. Option 2. We legally separate. A lot of people like this option. If we do, it would be on my terms. Terms that would be very favorable to her as well. If she wants to fight it, see option 1. Option 3. She looks the other way. I say "looks the other way" and not "open" very deliberately. She will not be fucking oth…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 02:16 PM
1

There's only one way to accomplish this.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 11:25 AM
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How clear have you made it that she isn’t cutting it? She knows I'm very dissatisfied sexually Does she know this and not care? Yes Know this and not want to admit it (to herself)? Yes What is her reason for not wanting to get on board with your ideal of a good marriage? No fear of me actually leaving Do you think she fears losing you or losing everything you’ve built (house, life together with kids, etc)? Yes, but I'm going to have to take it to the brink to see just how much. Basically, I'm at…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 11:25 AM
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I had a realization recently. My wife is never going to change. She is a stubborn bitch (self admittedly) who wants to have her cake and eat it too. It's rather funny because we kiss all the time, make out in grocery stores, flirt and keno constantly; yet sex is just too much for her. Why you might ask? She straight up isn't attracted to me. A few weeks back I'm laying in bed. She comes into the bedroom, takes off her hoodie, t-shirt, tank top, puts on another tank top and then takes her bra off…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 09:35 PM
2

Apologize =/= Sorry
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/17 06:58 PM
5

True. I was more referring to him in his particular situation.
/r/askMRP24/12/17 02:33 AM
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Your children are close to the age of being gone. Can you stay with your cheating wife for 6 years? Can you handle knowing that she is still fucking him on the regular? Still kiss her good night? Can you listen to her talk about family, your relationship and values, now knowing not only the truth of her actions, but also the realities of Red Pill? This shit will eat you alive! You could go bang an escort tonight. What you'll get is a short dopamine dump, followed by a first hand look at females …
/r/askMRP23/12/17 10:57 PM
1

I kinda figured your wouldn't be able to keep your RP shit on the DL after that show
/r/askMRP23/12/17 10:04 PM
1

Then not an issue of passing/failing a comfort/shit test. It's quite simply you not having a strong enough frame. This is why you care about something that doesn't even matter to her. (Hense her back to normal state in the AM) You knew you were right when she started dropping shit on you. From what I gather, you failed this test through your subcommunication. Albeit not a total crash of frame, but enough to make her smell weakness and come back at you with the same shit next time.
/r/askMRP23/12/17 04:09 PM
2

Timeline expectations are fluid based off the type of man you are, the type of women she is and how far you've let this shit go before deciding to fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/17 03:58 PM
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While in the midst of Phase One, it's easy for NGAF+STFU=Autistic Tard. I think it's almost to be expected a bit. Learning to NGAF, while STFU is a crucial element. When she is on you about some billshit, it's hard to say nothing while simultaneously not caring. Your inner beta is screaming at you to use logic to arrive at an egalitarian end. You really have no clue how subcontext works, so it's only natural to be really confused here. This only adds to a mans anger phase. It isn't until you dev…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/17 03:56 PM
1

Was your old lady cool with the whole "Rain Stone speaking at the 21 Convention" thing?
/r/askMRP23/12/17 02:30 PM
1

What was she like in the morning?
/r/askMRP23/12/17 02:28 PM
3

Because your knee is fucked, you can't bench? Can't curl? Can't row? Can't OHP? Can't etc... Stop being fuckin lazy.
/r/askMRP23/12/17 02:05 PM
3

It is. Next time you check in, it'll be u/deleted who posted this.
/r/askMRP21/12/17 11:56 AM
3

I got a good buddy. He is BP, but the kind of guy I can really count on. Plus he's funny and we both enjoy quality beer. He is also my wife's best friends fiancee. A couple weeks back I was helping him moving a few things. We were casually chatting about intergender dynamics, leadership, etc. I thought I'd throw a truth out there to see how he reacted. I said "You know the problem in my relationship? Mrs. Drty has zero fear of losing me. How can she not take me for granted if she thinks she does…
/r/askMRP20/12/17 10:22 PM
1

is commando and option No. Too much discharge. has she seen a doctor or pursued hypoallergenic options She has seen a doctor. I'm trying to convince her to use to cup and reusable pads. I think I'll actually have to buy this shit myself for her to care enough. "would you rather be married or right" I'm honestly not sure man. Women are always right is a pretty common meme. My wife is one of the highest representations of this I've ever seen
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 06:26 PM
1

My favorite example of this was a year ago when we were watching UFC. Tyrone Woodley was fighting and all the girls were laughing at his big ass. They were making jokes, but looking at it like if they stared long enough, he would come through the TV. Watch what they do, not what they say, or something like that.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 12:07 PM
1

Just when you think you know someone... 1/2 oz. weed, and a few cases of whippets in my bag and a 9 mm under the seat
/r/askMRP20/12/17 11:49 AM
3

What I took away from that book wasn't really the message as much as the medium he delivered it. It's all about reaching a flow state within your masculinity.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 08:29 AM
1

It's all frame. You're out of yours and stuck in the frame of the porn. It knows you're giving too many fucks, so it's shit testing you by making you insecure about yourself. Your failing the test by being insecure. You need to reframe it so you're in control of the porn, not the other way around. It boils down to will power and your lack there of.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 07:52 AM
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Frame then we get in an argument (again) over a small thing that we always argue over and there is never a resolution. Shit test. I try multiple times with the “agree to disagree” and move on. I give her the last word and move on, and she still keeps coming back to it. Why try multiple times? After the first time, STFU. After the second time, get up and go do something else. This won't have to happen too many times before she gets the point. I flat out tell her we are done with talking about thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 07:40 AM
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Great post man. The analogy may be foggy in ways, but the underlying point holds true. FRAME The other day the wife had an opinion on a trivial issue I didn't agree with. She made her point, I made mine, she again tried to push her point, I told her "I can see why you feel that way" and left the room. She followed me and attempted to goad me. I said "you're not going to change my mind and furthermore neither of us are wrong. It's simply an opinon. Now I'm making bacon, so fuck off". She huffs aw…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 02:09 AM
4

BODY - Since I started lifting, I've tried several bulk/cut cycles. Everytime it felt like I put in 10lbs of fat and lost 10lbs of fat. This time I've tried a lean bulk for 3.5 months. Ive put on 15lbs over that time and very little of it is fat. I intend on cutting starting January 1st, but at a very small caloric deficit, with a very high protein diet. Hopefully within 2 months I keep around 10lbs of it and am leaner than ever. SEX - Not a huge frequency change here. Fucked with the kids in th…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 01:14 AM
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She thought she was content marrying a beta No women is actually content in a marriage with a beta. They are restless, reckless and full of contempt for their husband. Literally watch a women who has her poor behavior supplicated by her man. She will accept that foot, take a yard and feel she deserves a mile. Every fuckin time.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 12:23 AM
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I don't think he even reread this wall of shit. If he did, he would realize how badly it needs paragraphs
/r/askMRP19/12/17 07:59 AM
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Fuck. I feel like I just wrote this man. So much of this I'm feeling right now. The way you describe your wife is so similar to my own. I'd bet she says she would do quite fine without you, and she believes it too? The difference between us and say u/innominating or u/InChargeMan is that they started way less behind the curve. They've always been Apex Alphas. They were killing it here in no time. This isn't to say you can't achieve that level of success sexually, but it's gonna take a lot more e…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 07:52 AM
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You're one autistic fuck. Stop wasting my time asking me "if it's ok to bang your buddies wife". If you wanna fuck her, give her your "big dick" (which isn't really that big homie). Just know that you run the risk of losing your wife and friend in doing so. The real solution here is that you look to the sidebar, STFU, read and lift. You're a validation seeking whore. Stop that shit. It's gay AF. edit: sp
/r/askMRP15/12/17 10:18 PM
1

It's because rape is the worst thing that can happen to a women. To a female, nothing makes them feel more powerless than having their greatest power takin from them. This is deeply ingrained in their psyche. Don't believe me? Hang out with a couple women for a few drinks. Then casually guide the conversation where the topic of rape comes up. Watch their reaction. Guaranteed they become tense, on edge and very defensive. The girls you work with put less stock in the father being killed, because …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 09:58 PM
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Doubt you're ready for this but for what it's worth
/r/askMRP15/12/17 04:16 PM
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We had an arbitrator helping negotiate a contract at work a while back. When the company asked him "how do we get to middle ground on this concession?". He simply said "you don't, someone has to blink". Marriage counseling would be the same difference.
/r/askMRP14/12/17 10:16 PM
1

That's a talk I'm gonna have very soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 08:09 PM
1

Ya. I never opened the door to my parents room without knocking again though. Trying to teach my wife this a normal lesson fornany kid to learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 02:40 PM
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Maybe just explain to your wife that you saw a doctor and you have erectile dysfunction and he does not recommend viagra as it can affect your heart, or some other bullshit story to get you out of fucking her. Lmao. Fuckin guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 06:12 PM
8

100%
/r/askMRP11/12/17 03:28 AM
3

I remember specifically when I was a child and I learned why mom and dad always have the door shut on Sunday mornings.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 02:53 AM
2

I'll add if one must get some shit off his chest, be fuckin sure it's done to another man and preferably a masculine one as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:43 AM
1

Mrs. Drty's Diary: Day 1 - "Fuck I hate people. Seriously, no wonder your fat. Fat people stay fat by eating doughnuts" Day 2 - "Fuck I hate people. If you buy things you can't afford, of course you're not going to have money when you need it." Day 3 - "Fuck I hate Drty. Doesn't he know when he does things that cause a ripple in MY life, it pisses me off!" Day 4 - "Fuck I hate that bitch who complimented Drty on his shirt. I know exactly what that bitch was thinking!" Day 5 - "I love animals" Da…
/r/askMRP09/12/17 09:30 AM
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You should. They'd hate it and love it all at the same time.
/r/askMRP09/12/17 09:03 AM
1

How exactly were these "cuckold fetishes" affecting your relationship? We're you nust wanking to videos of some dude letting his wife get plowed by other dudes, or was this an actual part of your sex life?
/r/askMRP09/12/17 09:02 AM
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Her "we need to talk" You "ok, we'll talk when I get home" Any communication from here til you get home, be it call or text, is met with radio silence. Then when you get home, go about your night as normal and make her approach you on "the talk". It shows her that you really give no fuck of "the talk". Plus it really takes her sting out of "the talk". The only reason she wants to have "the talk", is because she knows "the talk" makes you nervous.
/r/askMRP09/12/17 08:55 AM
2

This is why you're rather enigmatic in these parts. Very few men are millionaires who can drop their wives with as little fallout as you can. I'm not slandering you, only pointing out you're of a different variety than the majority here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 10:39 PM
2

If you didn't give a fuck about XYZ and were looking to hang out with her, then make yourself scarce. Get friendship from another source. If you actually wanted to watch XYZ, watch it because it's what you wanted to do. Regardless, next time she sends you some shit like this, either ignore or "maybe". Stop giving her your attention for free.
/r/askMRP06/12/17 09:56 PM
1

I think it's little more than sexualized jealousy
/r/askTRP06/12/17 09:38 PM
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It is clear that she wants to see if she can get a better guy. When last she was on the dating scene, there were lots of tall guys who were in shape and wanted to buy whatever she was selling. Her dream is that there's still one or more of these guys out there. So she's going to branch swing up during the trial separation. If it doesn't work out, she can always just settle for you. This can't be stated enough. Hypergamy is what it is. It's an unpleasant truth for a man who hasn't spent a good ye…
/r/askMRP27/11/17 10:38 PM
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I was offering more That shits weak sauce. It's the covert contract of it all. I'll bet in your heart of hearts you're not really dumbfounded that you feel the way you feel right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 10:04 PM
0

Either read the god damn sidebar or fuck off. It's that simple. Do you really think you can take the lead from your wife when you can't even fuckin lead yourself to the answer of such a simple fuckin question?
/r/askMRP27/11/17 07:15 PM
1

I would argue that masculine isn't synonymous with attractive. You can be stoic, confident, decisive and a leader and not have girls getting wet. You don't need to be jacked and dress well to be masculine, but without it, your attraction is sure to struggle.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/17 11:40 PM
1

Don't think he is in a position to be guiding yet, judging by this question. He needs to put in the work.
/r/askMRP26/11/17 10:34 PM
3

For me, Practical Female Psychology was the "oh shit" moment in my journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 09:50 PM
1

The first time I laughed in her face at how ridiculous she was acting and then proceeded to go back to doing what I was doing, changed my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 09:48 PM
5

Can she feel it the same through the fake tissue? Honest question
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 09:30 PM
2

I've never been sprayed before. Thank god. I like to think it would go down like this, although I guess is it would be dependent on her mood. If the kids were bugging her or she had a bad day at work or some shit, she'd flip, I'd laugh and do it myself, she would call me a piece of shit, I'd admit to my shittery, the sun would come up the next day and she would forget about it. Awesome FR though man. IMO you calm, cool and collected approach was the ticket here.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 08:45 PM
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I thought that was her cum...
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:09 PM
1

I hope you realize that everything that is wrong with this post is your fault? She was always angry, most likely, because you were a bore. She got her feelz from shitting on you instead. Women can only treat you like shit when you let them.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:23 AM
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If I'm at the deer camp and the exhaust falls off her car, I want need to know she will be able to get it to the mechanic, describe what's wrong and get that car fixed! Maybe she needs to get ahold of me for direction, but chances are good she can pull this off. If you're married to a women who can't handle something similar to this, you're fucking up.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 05:49 AM
1

What would the typical conversation be prior to getting this shit test?
/r/askMRP21/11/17 03:17 AM
2

You can't spit red-pill truths all the time though Every man know in his heart of hearts that RP is truth. Nothing wrong with saying "you could have saved that 60 grand and lost some weight instead tubby". He knows this too. The only reason he wants to buy the car is because it's easier than putting in the work.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 01:26 AM
2

What does your maid prep for her to eat?
/r/askMRP21/11/17 01:05 AM
2

When she left the bed, she did so to get a reaction out of you. By you going down to her, you proved to her you're below her still. When your daughter got sick and you went down to tell her about it afterwards, you further proved you're a beta. Essentially you need to focus on removing yourself from her frame.
/r/askMRP19/11/17 04:00 PM
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I can see how a couple people didn't puck up on that blatant sarcasm and DV me but you? Edit: For the record I didn't DV you
/r/askMRP19/11/17 03:52 PM
2

Lol
/r/askMRP18/11/17 11:45 AM
1

Why do you think you should apologize? Her feelz or your realz?
/r/askMRP17/11/17 10:45 PM
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Now that she knows what a shit test is, they will be no longer
/r/askMRP17/11/17 10:26 PM
6

I agree. Make him a mod.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 10:23 PM
4

The reason you DEER, in the example of the sunglasses, is not to make others feel good. It's ego protection in that you want others to think you are the type of guy who makes people feel good. That, plus a fear of confrontation. Both of which are results of you being a pussy.
/r/askMRP13/11/17 07:06 AM
2

How do you find time to even scratch your nuts?
/r/askMRP11/11/17 02:57 PM
1

What ever happened to the trolls that tried 😔
/r/askMRP08/11/17 04:44 PM
2

I would put it in the past as you seem cool with it due to the fact you were in such a shit state. I would crush that marriage with my new redpill lens as I can somewhat relate to the damage on your child aspect. I would lift like my life depended on it. Dress way better. I'd run through the steps of dread and have her hysterically fucking me; from a position of having nothing to lose. This....and....fuck whoever I wanted on the DL from here on out. Only way you could truly get over your neighbo…
/r/askMRP08/11/17 04:42 PM
1

BODY - Trying hard to pack on weight for my biggest bulk yet. Started 7-8 weeks ago at 5'8", 169, 11-12% after my morning shit. I'm now at 180 after my morning shit. Guys who do cycles. Is there a sweet spot in terms of adding too much/not enough weight? FRAME - For the first time in ever, my wife hasn't bitched about me going hunting. In fact, she is even PMSing. Although I don't play PMS anymore, it still stands to reason that she is drawing more into my frame constantly. SEX - Been busy AF th…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 03:17 PM
2

all white and natives Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 02:23 PM
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They'll be far more likely to remember a guy who was really fun to hang out with than a guy who left his mark.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 10:44 PM
1

I would suggest to OP that instead of trying to make his desires and reasons for working out hers, he talk to her about what HER desires are and try to attack the problem by getting her to operate from a base of her own desires. She won't become motivated any other way than operating from her own desires. For real? You think having an open conversation about his wife and her weight/health is going to net positive results? IMO, this is terrible advice OP. Work on you and forget about her. How can…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 07:15 PM
2

Lol. DEER much? Would I prefer a burger with bacon? Yes. Am I content with a burger without bacon? I want a burger with double bacon and double cheese. Of course I'd still eat a burger though. She's definitely overweight (which she knows) but not fucking morbidity obese. She is 50lbs over weight. You're 5'6". She is shorter than you no doubt. 50lbs at anything shorter than you is very overweight. She has had a multitude of health problem which I think are related to an unhealthy lifestyle. We ar…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 04:17 PM
3

You're so full of shit. Sure, you may enjoy fucking her fat ass, but if you showed up at a beach and she was in a bathing suit and your friends wife was looking fine in hers, you know how you'd feel. The reason you tell yourself it "her overall health", is your BP conditioning. Don't feel bad for wanting your wife to be as hot is she can be. You can lie to yourself all you want, but don't fuckin bullshit a bullshitter.
/r/askMRP07/11/17 03:20 PM
1

I like to think I would. Regardless, they're hypotheticals cause my youngest is 6.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 12:56 AM
1

Can concure. I was that guy when I first came here
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 07:43 AM
1

Missed your words around here man.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 07:09 AM
1

I'm not saying kiss and tell, but should it get blown up, I'd rather be the former over the latter in my comment
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 04:05 AM
1

I had it out with her somewhere before too on my other user name. I assumed because she was a slipknot fan, she would be cool. I was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 04:02 AM
1

At that point does it really matter? Even after say 3 years, would you really give up on the child you have spent those 3 years raising because mama is a trifling hoe? I don't think I could knowing how close to mine in that time.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:21 AM
5

Ug's inner beta broke free through his oneitus for mimi. Ultimately causing him to lose frame within the community by killing og.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:44 AM
2

I've been thinking as of late it's better for your image to cheat, on the chance she is aswell; opposed to finding out she was and being that guy socially.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:28 AM
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Even a beta using shaming tactics against an alpha is done in an attempt gain access to pussy. It's their way to try to neutralize competition.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:27 AM
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It's your house. Why would younot go home to it?
/r/askMRP02/11/17 09:35 PM
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Hey, I'm not saying I wouldn't go down that road, or at least try. What RPalt wrote, has gone through my head hypothetically probably a few times too many. Although I think in my marriage, my wife would turn into a maniac. Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 05:09 AM
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My realization of this was some years back. I was hanging out with my parents and my mom was going on about her friend who got beat up by another one of her boyfriends. My dad goes "Well what the hell does she expect? If she keeps dating guys who beat women up, she is going to keep getting beat up". IDK why, but this had such an impact on me. Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 04:17 AM
1

I like to think what RPalt says is exactly how it would happen, but I also think it's kind of like RPerotica.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 03:53 AM
1

It's probably subjective to our individual situations aswell. I'd go out on a limb by saying your wife isn't a stone cold bitch like mine. Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 03:31 AM
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There is a key distinction between what TFA is trying to attain through RP and what you are. Regardless, the most important part of RP is for one to use the information to get what one wants out of life. Sidebar material on both subs and what is prescribed by both, is that males and females are inherently different. Men of MRP have families. You can say all you want about it, but the realities a man who has a wife, two kids and a mortgage aren't the same as a man who is in second year university…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 03:21 AM
1

Accept it by saying "thanks babe" followed by a kiss. It's important to note the distinction between minor transgressions and a boundry you're looking to enforce. If it's a hard line in the sand, do not accept the apology in a monor that makes your think you've absolved her of the error. Accepting the apology and letting her off the hook are not the same thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 01:32 AM
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Long before I married my wife, she was in a very questionable situation one night. She denied and cried her eyes out. TBH, it still kinda bugs me to this day when I think about it 11 years later. Those tears she dropped on my shoulder as I hugged her with my weak ass beta arms were her admitting what she did. Me not kicking her to the curb was me accepting it. Water under the bridge now homie. BTW, I play minecraft too.
/r/askMRP02/11/17 12:47 AM
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Basically, don't come to askMRP with question after question of "I had it out with the Mrs last night and into this morning before I went to work, she has been texting me non stop, I'm ignoring them but what should I do when I get home?" Go to the OYS thread, read through to see how others are doing them, then make one. Be honest, people will call you a little fag (which you probably are), take the advice and try to apply it to your life that week, then repeat. It's not to discourage use of askM…
/r/askMRP02/11/17 12:35 AM
2

My advice to my boys will be "Rent a hall, let her get the dress, have someone say some vows, party til the sun comes up and do no sign that fuckin piece of paper!"
/r/askMRP02/11/17 12:26 AM
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Id like to add, don't let her apology cause you to lose frame. If she fucked up and apologizes, for the love of god don't say "it's ok baby*. Give her a kiss, a hug, make a joke or change the subject. If you in any way make her think you're ok with it or that it's "sorta my fault too", you lose frame and accomplished nothing. In fact you reassure her of your inferior value. After an apology, STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 12:04 AM
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To touch over on MRP sidebar. "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" Manuel J. Smith and "The Book Of Pook" are both very good for unplugging.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:53 PM
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If you read the sidebar, lifted and had frame, this would be a very easy decision for you to make. So get on with getting to a position where you can easily make it. In the mean time, don't get this women pregnant until she proves to you that she is worthy of your seed. Chances are you're a beta that she knows will always be there to raise the kid half the time if shit goes south. Don't have kids with a wing nut who turns you into a child support check who sits her kid 50% of the time so she can…
/r/askMRP27/10/17 08:57 PM
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What you really should be doing is leading her to a position to be able to make a decision herself. If my wife wants to sign my daughter up for a gymnastics class, she does. I have full trust in her as my partner that she will make the right decision. If she doesn't, I'll let her know through actions that she fucked up and then do it myself next time. OYS doesn't mean you're a Nazi who controls every detail of the family. It means that you know the outcome of every action is your fault. She want…
/r/askMRP27/10/17 08:49 PM
1

I definitely don't bore her. I don't manufacturer drama either though. This has given me a perspective I haven't really thought about though. I'll see what happens
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 09:19 PM
1

I may be guilty of making my wifes life too drama free
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 04:18 PM
1

When crossing you books out add 2 of "~" the on each side for the desired results
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 12:39 PM
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You need therapy bro. Or OYS. You have demons that need to be dealt with. You've done nothing here but defend why you're justified in having confidence issues. You won't realize you deserve everything you want in life til you realize you are your own judge. You can't appreciate your success in becoming the man you want til you appreciate yourself. You need to understand that happiness is a conscious decision you make. All you have shown in this post is the you lack frame. Notice how much I said …
/r/askMRP25/10/17 06:06 PM
1

Totally
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 04:11 PM
2

I do need to expand because those details will remind me specifically why and what has led me here and what I will do next. What I also mean by that is as a Nice Guy TM, you don't really realize where you're going wrong in specific situations. Writing them out in honesty, realizing how fucked it is and hitting send anyway, only to have people call you out on it is where the true growth in OYS takes place.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 04:10 PM
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Now that you're becoming someone who fully respects himself, this shit is gonnna be a problem. I suggest you slowly start to plant seeds that this is getting played out. Then when you set the boundary, she will be ready for it; or at least know it's coming.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 04:05 PM
1

I just don't seem to put fat on the same. Probably just bro science
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 04:01 PM
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I wear button ups aswell. Just defending my choice to wear black t-shirts with jeans. I'm certainly no techie and I definitely look good in them. Fuck you very much.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 06:25 AM
3

Is your wife an alcoholic or are you guys just British?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 05:54 AM
1

I've had SOOOO many workouts that I didn't want to do. I was lazy, tired, hot, unmotivated, shit even hungover. I'll tell you this though, not once did I ever regret it and everytime I felt better than I did before.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 05:48 AM
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Be gone to r/realalpha with your science and rational debate
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 05:33 AM
1

Love seeing you with the green homie
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 05:27 AM
1

Way to give him the old 1-2, fake him with a left hook followed by an uppercut to the solar plexus.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 05:09 AM
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I like your brutal honesty. That goes a long way towards killing your former self and helping you transition into the man you want to be. You're young with only 1 kid, don't settle for mediocrity. While it's easy to write your whole OYS on how much of a faggot you are, but it's not how you grow. Especially from this experience with your wife and friends. (They all fully know whatnthe fuck went on there. Don't let them bullshit you, but also don't expect them to own it.) I suggest you post next w…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 05:06 AM
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Your problem is not your honesty in your OYS. Your problem is failing to accept the advice given constructively. Take for example this this comment. All 4 of your reponses to zeteo's quote are DEER's in their own right. The reason you did is ego protection. I'm of the belief the single handed most important aspect of the OYS thread is to kill that ego. You should never feel a need to defend yourself. So long as you do, you're limiting your progress because you're unable to objectively see the er…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 03:44 AM
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What's wrong with black t-shirts and jeans?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 03:01 AM
2

At 18% BF, you're technically still fat. Albeit, you're slimmer than 80% of the male population, you still need to worry about losing weight more than growing muscle. I wish I did this sooner. When you hit 13-14%, it gets a lot easier to manage what you eat vs what it does for your muscle development.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 02:57 AM
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I can relate to living with the parents. Mind you I rented a mobile off them on their property, the same still applies. The resentment from the wife and the shame you keep bottled up. I'm 2 years out now and it's one of the best decisions I've ever made. Otherwise you seem to be in a great spot man. A lot of men show up her with their chin held high and an ego that was fed from their birth mom and been reinforced by their wife mom. Keep in pushing bro. Your life awaits you. A little criticism if…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 02:16 AM
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A big part of the Mental Self prong of the Trident is knowing what you want. So many people get caught up in life trying to live to others standards. When I hear a man say "I'm going to get married because that's what you do", I want to slap his across the face. I'm a blue collar man who simply wants to live a carefree life. I want to raise healthy well adjusted children. I want to be debt free by 45. I want to have a great social circle of men who know what they want out of life. I want to love…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 01:34 AM
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I get asked why I'm not on Facebook "I only have so many fucks to give in a day. I can't be wasting them telling people to suck it up because life isn't fuckin fair. Otherwise, I may not have any fucks left to give when I really need one" It's my run around way of saying Facebook is for complaining little bitches.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 01:13 AM
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HEALTH - I've been on a bulk for the last 2 months. Went from 169 after my morning shit to 177 after that shit. Would like to get to 185 before I cut back down to 169. LEADERSHIP - My wife has finally felt the tension of that 1000' rope. She has hit a weight she hasn't seen since before she got pregnant with our first 11 years ago. In typical fashiom she says she "doesn't like it" or she "is too skinny". Her actions don't match those words, so meh. ** SEX/MINI FR** - Had an interesting occurrenc…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 12:49 AM
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When I found this place, I was a mess. Our of shape, dressed like a bum, drank all the time and most of all I didn't trust my wife. Then as I delved deeper into the praxology of MRP, this insecurity got worse and my jealousy also got worse. I finally got to a point where I realized that my lack of trust in her was squarely rooted in my own beta conditioning. I realized that I'm actually the prize and she probably can't do better than me. I realized she most likely isn't cheating and thinking lik…
/r/askMRP25/10/17 12:46 AM
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If your woman never gets moody or bitchy Now I never said that. Lol I'm going to try and look at it a little differently for the next little bit. Thanks for the insight man.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 12:18 AM
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My moment was when I never turned the light off in the bedroom as I walked by to my side. She was still up getting into her PJ. She asked told me to go back over and turn the light off. I wasn't having it and went to bed. She went nuts. Up in my face, calling me down, ultimately going to sleep on the couch. I woke up in the middle of the night and she had came to bed at some point. Prior to that, I would have gotten up to turn the light off to shut her up; thus giving myself up to her frame. Thi…
/r/askMRP24/10/17 09:41 PM
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Do people wives actually ask them to get off the couch and get them a drink? Or is it a metaphor for how supplicating some men can be?
/r/askMRP24/10/17 06:40 AM
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I'm with ICM here. I just don't think my wife gets off on this shit. I'm not undermining your assertion, only saying that certain women would respond differently to manufactured drama. You used bogey as an example. His wife is the type who would follow him into the next room bitching him out. My wife, not a fuckin chance. It was said to me by the boss in a PM that my wife is very masculine. Albeit slim, sultry and hot AF. I've tried hard in the past year to create drama and she simply doesn't bi…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 05:29 AM
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Whatever you're doing while you procrastinate about what you should be doing, stop doing it. For me it was pot and alcohol. So I quite smoking up and cut my alcohol consumption down to a social level. Now instead of wanting to do nothing and hangout with fellow friends who were looking to get fucked up, I do the jobs on my list that need to get done and have fun with hobbies.
/r/askMRP24/10/17 04:12 AM
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"200lbs is no questions asked divorce, but you know I'll probably leave you before that"
/r/askMRP22/10/17 08:42 PM
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And if she is as hot as he said (gorgeous hot blond European), she'll have no trouble finding a new cock either.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 08:43 PM
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That's a great analogy
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/17 04:36 PM
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I suggest cuckolding. That way he can get the commitment he craves, while she can get the cock she craves. It's really a win/win for OP. Besides, it's so trendy these days.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 02:56 PM
1

Those are some stats.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 09:35 PM
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I've often wondered who he was
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/17 09:26 PM
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If anything comes out of this whole debacle, it should be Stop worrying about other people and worry about yourself. The reason your feelings are getting hurt and you feel a need to debate other users on their beliefs, is because you're an egotistical little bitch. Stay the fuck out of me and mine unless I'm asking
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 11:38 PM
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Just yesterday the founder of your beloved new sub was promoting a man to give his 2 year old child melatonin to sleep. Instead of, you know, creating proper sleeping patterns through consistent parenting. What a joke!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 10:28 PM
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I gave him sound advice. Learning not to DEER is one of the best things I've learned from RP
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 10:17 PM
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I told him he shouldn't be moralizing RP on his first post. He told me to write a scientific study on it and he'd pin it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 05:32 PM
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-Defend -Explain -Excuse -Rationalize It's something people do when they can't own their actions. I had no sleep last night and worked in the morning(defend). Hopped up on espresso(explain+excuse). Not that concerned about my grammar and spelling(rationalize).
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 04:09 PM
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but in a self-amused way Under my breath but so my wife can hear "just what that fat fuck needs; more McDonalds"
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 05:36 AM
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At MRP, we call that a DEER my friend.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 05:30 AM
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more STFU like it happens all the time. Walks out of the bathroom laughing with another chick. Wife "what was that all about". OP "oh nothing". Then grabs her hand and keeps going with a smile.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 01:06 AM
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The part about the young teacher was. Proof IMO that OP lacks the abundance or there would be countless stories to withdraw from.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 12:17 AM
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Lessons learned: Don't be afraid of your wife a pussy
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/17 11:50 PM
3

I've seen that play out too often. Best of luck man.
/r/RedPillParenting15/10/17 11:32 PM
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So sheltering your children from what you don't want them exposed to is the best way to teach them it's erroneous ways? Ok bro
/r/RedPillParenting15/10/17 06:14 PM
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Are you for real man? You avoid Beauty and the Beast cause you're a homophobe? Let your kids be kids. They need fo experience everything so they can make a formulated decision on how they want their lives to go for themselves. My kids love Sponger Bob and Teen Titans. Both shows have a very femcentric protagonist. Doesn't mean the shows aren't funny. Even Fin from Adventure Time is kinda feminine. Again hilarious. They learn masculinity from watching you be a man. By watching you lead your famil…
/r/RedPillParenting14/10/17 07:38 PM
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Because, don't we have a responsibility to train the kids to AVOID just this type of woman? Otherwise, the kid may end up with a woman just like her. One of the reasons I divorced her was that I could no longer allow myself to be a shitty role model for my kids, who were watching their mom lie and cheat. Maybe that's a factor, but the main reason you should have left is for you. The kids will be gone before you know it and then the rest of your life is about you. The kids will see you are a man …
/r/askMRP14/10/17 10:28 AM
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She's in it no matter what so make it work for you Best piece of advice on this whole post
/r/askMRP14/10/17 03:02 AM
2

eating wise, i stick to as much as natural products as they come. Meat, veg, fruit, dairy. I am off grains for a while, i think this is where the issue lies. This was my point. You are fat. You need to eat a caloric deficit. Sure cutting carbs is good, but bottom line is you need to diet. At 20%, if you eat in surplus, you will gain fat not muscle. When you hit 14-15%, it gets better. At 11-12%, you can eat in surplus and gain very little fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/17 02:14 AM
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i am struggling my self to get down below 20% It's because you're fat. At 20%, your body isn't sure whether it should be producing muscle or fat. What's your stats? How much do you eat? What are you eating?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 11:53 PM
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It's ego control. They are all variables that are beyond your control; if you're not looking to eliminate them from you life that is. Otherwise, laugh at them to yourself and keep in moving forward. I partied with 3 couples last weekend. 1 was a guy who goes out of his way to make sure he doesn't disagree with his wife 1 was a guy who will argue incessantly with his wife to a point of total frame loss 1 was a guy who is simply defaeted All 3 are good friends and would go out of their way to help…
/r/askMRP13/10/17 10:32 PM
2

Those are.fun as hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 03:09 PM
1

I know. Resilient BP conditioning is all
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 11:52 PM
1

When you want the subcommunication to be almost explicit. Vs When you spend too much time wondering how what you say is going to interpreted. Instead of owning how people will perceive with IDGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 09:35 PM
1

There is a difference between a practical level and an over analytical level. You need to find the happy medium.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 08:37 PM
2

The subcommunication I related was "she has sweet tits and I definitely not only noticed, but liked them very much" I said it as "fucked up there", because my wife has small tits and hates that I like big ones. Doesn't matter if I tell her hers are fine and suck them like I'm going to get a drink, it still makes her insecure. Obviously I didn't apologize. Last time I truly apologized was a year ago when I blew a firecracker up in a flower pot and covered her dirt.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 08:33 PM
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Intimacy as a whole
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 12:34 PM
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I'll go against the grain here man. I like this post. You could have sugar coated it and sold it entirely different, but you didn't. I appreciate it's authenticity. Looking back at your posts about banging a chick on a ski weekends and on hiking excursions, while they were humble brags, there was also an undertone of confusion. This FR really shows me for the first time since I've followed your story, you aren't bullshiting. IMO, frame is strong here. I may be totally wrong in saying so, but fro…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 01:48 PM
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Don't be a lazy fuck. What I mean is make a post giving your position on the issue. Close it out with props for a discussion. Post it on the main sub. Maybe nobody touches it, but I doubt it.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 10:06 PM
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Been a bit, but here it goes. BODY - Hit a landmark here. Body fat at 11%. Been on a bulk for 5 weeks. Put on 6lbs and still at 11%. It's as if my body doesn't want to put on fat anymore? LEADERSHIP - Same old shit. Killing it at home, busy AF, etc. I really don't give a fuck what you recently did to your garage, so I doubt you do about mine. DREAD - Hit a landmark here too. For the first time yet, my wife has made a serious overt remark about the dread. Took the wife out for lunch 2 weeks ago a…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 10:04 PM
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is there a way to spilt of this discussion and continue it in a post of its own? Make the post yourself
/r/askMRP10/10/17 06:14 PM
1

made her mountain into the mole hill that it was They are almost all mole hills. 95+%.of the time anyway. When it is a mountain though, don't turn it into a volcano. Simply climb the mountain with a smile and come back down the other side.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 04:26 PM
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I didn't do that for you This kind of statement has so many undertones. Not to be over used but very effective. Sometimes I think out loud. Wife will give her two sense "why are you going to do it like that?" or some shit. A simple "I wasn't asking you" completely shuts that shit down on the spot. Although usually I'm more apt to be playful, sometimes I'm just not in the mood.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 04:13 PM
1

I had a mirror situation to that a year ago. I always made them at night. She would bitch saying "I'll was going to do them in the morning!". I slowly stopped doing it all together and she has done it ever since. Hardly a word other than the occasional "fuck you kill the lunch department babe" with a slap in the ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 04:06 PM
1

There is no doubt. If I don't drink coffee by 11, my head starts to hurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 04:02 PM
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Speaking without words is the only way to get a message across. Funny thing is, I do it with everyone. Women and betas alike; not just my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 03:53 PM
1

Best thing I've read on here in a while. This should be on MRP as well.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 02:40 AM
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You know what cures that feeling in the pit of you stomach? When you rid yourself of oneitus and start getting IOI from any chick you see throughout the day. When you put in the work around here and are now worth a shit. Read, lift, STFU. Edit: Sp
/r/askMRP06/10/17 02:04 AM
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The thing that gets me is this new breed OYS shit. Guys who think that becoming a better plow horse is the key to becoming a real man and leading family. Bobby says it best that the importance of frame is so underrated. How can someone expect their SO to follow suit and pull her share, when they not only have no frame, but don't even understand what it is? You can OYS til the cows come home, but if you don't have a frame to pull her into, she isn't going to play ball.
/r/askMRP06/10/17 01:24 AM
2

I just assumed everyone did that little shuffle while the cock was still serving as a cork to try to reach the toilet paper.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 09:22 PM
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doesn't need to obey me She isn't going to obey you bro. She isn't a fuckin dog. As time goes on, she will realize how little you need her and either pull up her socks and contribute appropriately or she will decide that it's not worth it and fuck some beta behind your back that will supplicate her shit behavior til it's a safe time to branch out. Such as life. This is one of those things you need to think/talk a whole lot less about and let your actions speak for themselves.
/r/askMRP05/10/17 06:37 AM
1

First off, your attitude comes off as overly pretentious. The way you need to tell us about the specifics of your chores is cringy AF. Chances are that you are communicating to her with the same mild condescension. It's really got that "look at me mommy" kind of validation seeking about it. Stop it. Secondly, the way you talk about her, both in your OP and the comment section, screams of oneitus. You defend her as if her reputation is more important than that of your own. As long as you continue…
/r/askMRP05/10/17 04:16 AM
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To a man with no frame, this is next to impossible because: A) when she questions him after the fact, he will DEER the shit out of it B) she knows he's a pussy, so she will call him on it to the 9th.
/r/askMRP05/10/17 03:22 AM
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On the sode note. Some of the best advice I got on here was stuff that was really hard to read. When someone says something and you think over 3 different ways to answer it, he is onto something.
/r/askMRP01/10/17 01:41 AM
1

My point is you're only 6 months into a relationship and you're talking like she is the one. If shit like this is bothering you and you can't deal with it as a man should, this relationship is the least of your worries. You need to spend some quality time lifting, working on the sidebar and developing yourself as the man you want to be. If it doesn't work with the one, after you have done the necessary work, there will be plenty more one's out there. You're in a fortunate situation that most men…
/r/askMRP28/09/17 11:55 PM
2

I can't tell if this is sarcasm or....
/r/askMRP28/09/17 11:40 PM
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I think you should sit her down and have a meaningful conversation about how texting other guys makes you uncomfortable. Be sure to sit there and let her give her side of why she should be able to. Productive communication is the key here. Also, you can't reassure her that what her ex thought about her is wrong too much. It's going to take a lot of heartfelt compliments to make her feel attractive. All the guys on her phone that want to fuck don't make her feel special the way you can. Furthermo…
/r/askMRP28/09/17 07:08 PM
2

putting me down in front of our friends I take a hard stand on this myself man. A lot of people frown against the verbal bitch slap, but I simply don't tolerate public ridicule of any sort. IMO, that's one of the biggest boundaries a women can cross. I cringe when I see some guy letting his wife disrespect him in front of the group. The fact that she does this, coupled with telling you what to do, shows you're really lacking in that frame department.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 06:50 PM
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But the reality is, MOST women are decent, functioning adults that don't have a need to shit test their men. MOST is a little bit of an overstatement IMO
/r/askMRP28/09/17 06:37 PM
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I was unaware he was a liberal who let other guys fuck his wife. Thanks for that
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/17 02:02 AM
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I was taking my wife out shopping and for dinner a few weeks back. We are both getting ready in the bedroom. I personally don't really like the top she is wearing (makes her look old, I like her to look like my sexy little alt bitch). I casually say: Me - "that's what you're wearing?" Her - "what's wrong with it?" Me - "nothing" said with a smile Her - "you're such a fuckin dick!" said with a smile as she is taking the shirt off Me - "you didn't have to change" still smiling Her - "well actually…
/r/askMRP27/09/17 03:17 AM
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Well he handled it like a pussy from a passive aggressive position of weakness. So the results he can yeild will be impacted by his faggotness. "he must be ok with me lying to him". "You won't not lie to me anymore". Said with stoicism and a smile. The next time she lies, have a hard consequence for it. I'm not saying you have to leave her, but she better be sweating bullets that you might. This works a lot better if you're worth a shit in the first place. Moral of the story, become the best you…
/r/askMRP27/09/17 02:30 AM
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You're back! I sure hope this time you stick to contributing your knowledge of lifting/nutrition and avoid going back down the concern trolling/moralistic path.
/r/askMRP27/09/17 02:15 AM
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"I still can't stop laughing about dog-2 eating shit directly out of dog-1's ass!" While it's funny, I'd rather use it as a good start to flirting when I see her in person "How is your day going baby?" Alot of guys will say you should be busy doing things so you don't have time to be texting this kind of shit. I say it's just needy. "Don't forget to send a note in the kids backpack telling the teacher x, y z." This is logistics and acceptable to send. The problem with excessive texting is that y…
/r/askMRP27/09/17 02:03 AM
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When I first started here, there was a guy who week in/out had a big problem with his wife having a clit on for some military dude at his kids school. TFA said something along the lines of "Go up and talk to him. Chances are he wants to know that there is someone there who isn't too scared to start up a conversation. I know, because I am that guy". That really stuck with me. When guys try to AMOG me, I'll always approach him and make sure both he and my wife know that he doesn't intimidate me in…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 02:08 AM
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You wrote a post and you obviously believed in what you said, or you wouldn't have said it. WAS calls you an autist and you fold up like a cheap lawn chair with some kind of half deer/half faggot shit. I'm not saying argue him and get all defensive, but have enough conviction to stand by what you said pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 01:43 AM
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Stress is impossible to mitigate from your life. Live with it, learn from it, accept it and as you said, grow from it. Once you truly learn to fond comfort in discomfort, life gets so much easier.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 11:30 PM
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It's alright to be scared of your wife. Actually it's not alright to be scared of your wife, but it's understandable given the society men are raised in. The good news, is if you want to stop being a pussy and actually become the type of who does what he wants when he wants, you've came to the right place. 1) Read "No More Mr.Nice Guy". This is a great book for men who are spineless pussies. Read it slowly and internalize it. 2) Start lifting on a strict regimen. Eat clean and start losing your …
/r/askMRP24/09/17 10:45 PM
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Everytime I read this, I almost get a tear in my eye. A guy who is in a screaming hard rock band and plays a lunatic most times when he acts, is actually a beautiful person. I'm getting this framed and hanging it in my garage.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/17 11:05 PM
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We just finished banging when she comes back into the room with Her - "I'd like you to stop shaving your pubes" Me - "Nope" Her - "Why not?" Me - "Both cosmetic and comfort" Her - "Well I've stopped shaving myself" Me - "I happen to like grass on the field 😆" Her - "Well I do too" Me - "Nope" That was the end of that conversation. His frame game is lacking as well. For the record OP, by you not saying anything, you gave the appearance of not being sure whether to use option 1, 2 or 3. She sensed…
/r/askMRP22/09/17 10:21 PM
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"The reason big beards and (those stupid looking haircuts with the saved side and the comb over on the top, I don't actually know the name) are so popular right now is that they give the top of the heard a squared shape while also giving the appearance of a chiseled jaw line; thus looking masculine" Source: my brothers, girlfriends, gay hairdresser brother.
/r/askMRP22/09/17 10:08 PM
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I wanted to invite my uncle and cousin I am inviting my uncle and cousin you don't have to be there STFU Do you see the difference?
/r/askMRP21/09/17 10:59 PM
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It's so raw, because even something she was supposedly doing for him, ends up being for the other guy. I could only imagine the sting of that. Not to mention her leaving it in the fridge, knowing damn well he may find them? What a horrible human being. I don't believe in karma, but people who treat people as this cunt has treated OP tend to be the type of people who make really poor life decisions; ultimately ending up wasting away at a bingo hall, only to go home and drink a box of wine with he…
/r/askMRP21/09/17 12:50 PM
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It does.
/r/askMRP19/09/17 05:49 PM
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Well he is 4 months. I'm 14 months and I just had the "Jesus how do people resist this" last night. Lol
/r/askMRP19/09/17 12:25 PM
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Very few men will ever find the sheer benefit/quality of a marriage better than TFA. He is a man among men and I owe so much to him for helping get through the anger and realize how good of a women I actually have. Thanks for giving him props where its due. To echo your sentiment, sometimes you end up shopping with your girl for something that's lame. Never be bored. Shopping for shit with your woman is, IMO, one of the best times to game her. I'll start groping up mannequins, make fun of stupid…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 08:45 PM
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Fuck a coffee press for tea! I got ya covered homie
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 11:08 AM
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Step 1 - Relax. It's never too early to STFU. If your marriage fails because you didn't text her back, life will go on. Step 2 - Kickboxing is cool and all but you need to be lifting heavy ass weights often. Also lose the beer gut. Step 3 - Read the sidebar. I highly suggest NMMNG. You seem to be suffering here quite badly. Step 4 - Don't try to over MRP it. Take it in stride. You'll fuck up, everyone does, just get back on the horse and keep going. Step 5 - Ditch the wife goggles. When I came h…
/r/askMRP18/09/17 10:15 AM
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Can't say I do.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/17 05:42 AM
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Why you care if she contacts you everyday I don't know. What I do know though is that as long as you care about her contacting you everyday and as long as you're not the type of man to command that respect, she will continue not doing so. She wants to know you don't need her. That you're not only fine without her there, you're doing fuckin fantastic! (Sidenote: I sure hope she found out about the lingerie party by Facebook, which would still be cringy, but less cringy than you actually showing h…
/r/askMRP18/09/17 05:38 AM
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What the fuck sort of a Shakespearean enigma is that?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/17 04:17 AM
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And women cheat for different reasons than men so it would be over You actually believe that shit? People cheat for different reasons. I don't plate, but I would say going down that path, you need to accept the fact she may too; and be cool with it. You said it in the OP that you don't give her enough time. Maybe she wants to fuck a beta who makes her feel validated in a way a guy who never makes time for her can't? Your hamster is running wild in this shit bro. Catch it and put it back in the c…
/r/askMRP18/09/17 12:52 AM
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To follow up on what Bobby said, guaranteed if you ask her about it again, she wil have conjured up some bullshit and you'll never get the answer you wanted. This was your opportunity to deal with it OP and you fucked it up by confronting her. You should have spoke in the actions not words to get the best result. The question you need to ask yourself is "what do I do now?" Do you leave her cause she possibly cheated on you 2 years ago? Do you call her out on lying and draw a hard line in the san…
/r/askMRP18/09/17 12:36 AM
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This is where your frame comes into play. Right now, you are still the little pushover faggot she has been with for "x" amount of time. She provokes you because she knows you will respond. With the first exchange, regarding the missed call, you held frame and she knew it. This test about going to soccer was a higher level shit test. No doubt to test you on the frame from the missed call and probably other little tests you've been passing. She came at you with guns full blazing and what did you d…
/r/askMRP17/09/17 12:36 AM
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The ship is going out for one day on a Tiger Cruise. Just a day/pleasure trip for the benefit of the passengers. The FO has informed the Captain that they will follow in the Captain's gig. The Captain spends all morning getting the ship ready to get underway as the FO neglects their duties. At the Captain's call, "Single up all lines!", the FO informs the Captain, angrily in front of the passengers, that he cannot and will not leave until the FO says he can. The Captain responds by jumping overb…
/r/askMRP17/09/17 12:01 AM
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My qurstion is, how have you set a boundary and subsequent consequence for another transgression of similar nature? I know you practiced stoicism and framed the exchange around your desires, but how do you know she doesn't do this again or lie about some other bullshit? What do you do if she does? Is she aware of the consequence or that there will be a consequence? Will you fillow through with the same frame you approached this issue with?
/r/askMRP16/09/17 11:29 PM
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One of my favorite sayings, "she can only treat you like shit of you let her".
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:58 AM
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Use one of these ">" for the proper quote format
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:27 AM
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What would you say to some of the senior guys on MRP who effectively manage their alpha/beta and thus have a fulfilling sex life in a monogamous relationship? Curious is all
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:25 AM
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Those are high profile examples. If more men start standing up to this bullshit on the general level, the results will be a snowball effect that ultimately gets to the higher profile levels you speak of. The amount of men I know who support the happy wife, happy life mantra, combined with the men who engage profusely in ridiculous arguments with there wives (arguments that not only draw you into her frame but also fuel the mean old misogyny fire), makes up the vast majority. I have very few frie…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:16 AM
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The uncomfort of saying something that shuts the room up and has all eyes now on you, is quite liberating when you have became man enough to take comfort in it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 04:20 AM
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My wife loves to read books about people, namely women, suffering in the past, mostly at the hands of men. These books are all wrote by feminists. She believes that because women suffered these injustices (apparently), that men are still responsible for these actions. Whatever book she is reading, I can guarantee she will try to goad me into some ludicrous argument based on that theme. I sometimes engage, because that's what she really wants. When I'm annoyed I stop. When I'm not in the mood, I …
/r/askMRP16/09/17 02:12 AM
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We never lied to our kids. When they asked, we told them the truth. I could give 2 fucks if they ruin it for other kids. I'm not raising other kids. I'm raising mine. In actuality it's a shitty concept that should be abolished. Think about a child's thoughts on "cousin sally got Xbox one and an iPad from Santa, I got a skateboard and some DC shoes. Why the fuck does Santa give her more when she is a total cunt and I'm a pretty good kid?". Don't even get me started on teaching kids about satan an…
/r/askMRP16/09/17 01:59 AM
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Plot twist: Mrs. WillRockIt is actually Alphaphux
/r/askMRP16/09/17 01:36 AM
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i do have a mission in my life My mission: I want to have my mortgage paid off in half the time I'm allotted to do so, as to be able to retire at a young enough age. I want to cultivate great friendships with people who return an equal value to me. Not saying all friends need to add that value, but a man needs homies. I want to have time to do my outdoor hobbies and indoor hobbies. To own the stuff it takes to do them without going into debt getting it. I want to spend lots of time with friends …
/r/askMRP16/09/17 01:17 AM
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Weak As Fuck
/r/askMRP16/09/17 12:49 AM
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shes a melted pile of shit at 33. Lol. I'm imagining so funny stuff. In all fairness though, he looks can't be solely determined by her mother. There are multiple other factors at play here. If her mom is fat, but her dad is a bag of bones, she very well may have his metabolism; thus be skinny. If her mom looks like a total cunt bitch day in/out, but your wife is generally happy and smiling all the time, chance are good she won't have that ugly cunt face, because her skin will wrinkle to smiles …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/17 12:38 AM
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I struggled with that so hard in the beginning. Telling myself "I'd love to go hang with my buddies tonight, but I'm working nights for the next 3 nights and I won't have a chance to have sex. I'll stay home andtry to get laid." When you aren't into it, your game is WAF.
/r/askMRP15/09/17 05:08 PM
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Actually I'd say less country boy and more metal head. Bare in mind I look far cleaner and well dressed than any of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/17 04:04 PM
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My style is probably best described as part clean cut country boy, part Mexican gang banger. Not sure how that works for average chick's? Some seem to love it though. I need to work on holding the conversation for longer periods of time/sexualizing my presence with random girls. This post is top tear stuff man. Best thing I've read on here in a while. I truly thank you for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/17 06:14 PM
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At some point, guy's have to stop trying to MRP so hard. They have to use the tools that are given to forge the life they want. I postulate this is a phase a lot of men go through. Similar to the anger phase.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 11:00 PM
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Maybe you could...like...post a pic or something? I mean...how am I supposed to answer? I really need some context here man.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 06:07 PM
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I feel like the expectations to always be fun and capable just wear me out There is your problem. Be fun amd funny in the way you want to be. If your wife doesn't enjoy that guy, fuck her. By putting expectations on how you should act, you're not only living in your wife's frame, you're also living in the FI/BP frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 07:19 PM
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I like this man. I remember following your story in great detail. This is the first time you ever posted something where you fully understand your own role in your happiness. You are far from out of the water, with regards to your past and how you move forward. Both as a man and a husband. Regardless, I believe you will be approaching life out of your frame. Which is all that really matters bro. Good on ya.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 05:49 PM
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I DEER by saying "I didn't think you would want to come as you seemed busy" Yep. Full on DEER man. Probably just STFU or "maybe next time". Chances are good that you wouldn't have the frame to start making fun of her for PMS She started screaming that we don't walk away from a fight "You want to fight? I'll give you a fuckin fight" as you are walking towards her with a look like you're going to kill her. Then tickle her til she begs for mercy. There is a good chance she wants the fight so badly …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 07:16 AM
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Chad is metaphorical more than anything. Simply the type of guy that a givin girl wants to fuck. For your wife, chad is probably a laid back dude who doesn't over analyze the fuck out of his life.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 02:15 AM
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You create it with your confidence, lifting, SMV, etc... You create it by not giving a fuck. Clearly by this pile of shit you posted, you still give a lot of fucks.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 01:06 AM
1

Im not overly hairy. Basically what I can reach is where that I have hair. If I were a overly hairy guy, I wouldn't do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 08:51 PM
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Lool at those triples you karma whore!
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:39 AM
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Lool at those triples you karma whore!
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:39 AM
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Lool at those triples you karma whore!
/r/askMRP07/09/17 09:39 AM
1

Before reading "Way of the Superior Man", I suggest reading "Practical Female Psychology". PFP sgows you what women want in a man. WOTSM shows you how to be him.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 06:56 AM
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Best OYS on here man. I love someone who owns their shit. The only way you can fix your shit, is to first realize it's shit. Keep on grinding.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 06:05 AM
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Also caved when wife wanted family to go to a movie and dinner. Good suggestion, I booked tickets, but wife wanted sit down nice dinner, which was a disaster after a long weekend on a school night. Kids were too tired You failed the shit test right here. That was the plan you wanted and you changed your mind for her. You lost face and entered her frame. Not only that, but subconsciously she blames you for being a pussy and listening to her. When you make a decision, own it. It's better to accept…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 05:58 AM
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I personally climb in the shower at normal temp. Then shave my lower back. Fully lather my body and shave my junk. Put shampoo on my hand and fully turn the hot off. Wash my hair and rinse off. All the other being comfortable with the discomfort shit is true, but for me it's how awake you feel when you get out. Not relaxed at all. Wide awake and alert.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 05:17 AM
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A cold shower during a Canadian December. Ugh. When I first started them last winter I, I could hardly breath. You get used to it though.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 05:13 AM
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Stop thinking if you do a-b-c, your wife to do x-y-z. Very little of the physical things you do will result in behavioral changes within her. The success you're seeking in this part of your MAP, is something she has to do on her own. This micromanagement of how you touch/kiss her wil have very little affect on her actions and quite simply, keep you buried in her frame. Speeking of her frame, you're all up in that bro. Minus you part about lifting, the rest of your OYS is about her. If you're thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 04:52 AM
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Awesome.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 02:01 AM
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Your words say "I want to be heathy", but that bowl of ice cream every night says "I don't want to be healthy". Quit wasting my god damn money pretending you want to be healthy! Doubtful you could pull this off without seeming butt hurt, so just STFU. Also, stupid shit like this takes away from the authenticity of the askMRP. Add shit like this to you OYS.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:10 AM
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I know I'm still keeping score on certain things (she reminds me), so I'm focused on not doing that and living how I should, not expecting anything from her in return, etc This will be far easier said than done dude. It's hard not to bitch when someone is being fuckin lazy. Congruence is the key here. Be happy while taking care of business around the house. She will start pulling her weight, or the weight she can, when she stats feeling left behind; or she won't. Such as life. most importantly m…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 12:46 AM
2

Did you actually say that?
/r/askMRP07/09/17 12:21 AM
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The problem with this whole leader mantra, is that a lot of men actually think she needs to say it or some shit. This is one of those exact situations where you watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 12:03 AM
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BODY Going pretty good here. Lot's of sleep. Lifts have progressed fairly well. Diet is honed in minus drinkin a little too much. Tends to happen in the summer. I need to quit drinking craft IPA is what I need to do....except it's sooo good! TIME Having very little to myself this summer. Kids on holidays and wife working full time, plus trying to accomplish some big projects, means very little me time. Kids are back to school yesterday. Thank fuckin god! I haven't fished all year. Partly because…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 10:15 PM
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Sent her a message telling her I booked some tix While you should have surprised her or some shit, this is irrelevant to your question, so I'll leave it alone No reply but 5 mins later...(she saw my message) This shows that not only were you anticipating a return, you were dependent on it. Though this neediness can't be seen in this particular series of messages, you most definitely portray it in your daily life. Get out of her frame. sends me another message asking me to read/review something T…
/r/askMRP04/09/17 10:05 PM
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You may be the biggest pussy I've seen on here yet. Why would she respect a man who absolutely doesn't respect himself? Start the OYS thread. Go read it right now and have one prepared to post tomorrow when the new one gets loaded on. Make sure you give a couple detailed examples of exchanges you have had in the last week or 2. Remember to keep completely honest because you're only lying to yourself otherwise. I mean when you proof read it and realize you fucked up, own it and post it. People wi…
/r/askMRP04/09/17 08:50 PM
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Men began controlling womens hypergamy upon the advent of monotheisms.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 08:09 PM
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That it's what I knew all along, but thought I was a "bad" guy for thinking it.
/r/askMRP04/09/17 07:52 PM
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How do you act at the grocery store? How do you act when dropping the kids off at school? How do you act when you're hanging with your boys? Act like that.
/r/askMRP03/09/17 02:54 AM
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That's half the battle then. Friendships are formed over time. Keep hanging with them. Try to isolate them a bit and chat more personally. Be fun, but don't be a showoff clown. Be yourself and they will respect you for being real. Or is there a gap with these dudes that you think is holding a friendship back?
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:21 PM
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Means nothing except an attempt to rattle you. And rattle you she did OP. The fact that you gave such a trivial comment aby attention at all shows your lack of frame. Get better so these things stop happening, cause you no longer care.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:15 PM
1

Do you hang out with these people you can talk to?
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:11 PM
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If you really internalize what the Litz said... She feels fuck all for you, you are her orbitor ...you'll kill that oneitus bro. Been down this road recently myself. Killed my ego a bit, but it was needed and I feel way better after the fact. In all fairness, and not to dissuade you from seeking help for your depression, but you're really painting yourself the victim. This isn't helping you bro. Remember, everything you complained about in your post is your fault. Own your mistakes and they beco…
/r/askMRP02/09/17 06:37 PM
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A very simple but stern and matter of fact "I'm not making a speech aunty". Then hold the stare with a slight smile. This is where you bring her into your frame and she actually respects you for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/17 06:15 PM
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For those who are confused about what a DEER is ☝
/r/askMRP01/09/17 12:29 PM
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My BIL is a total dick head. My wife definitely thinks he is hot (even though she denies it when I tease her about it, her body language says otherwise) He is overweight. Been on disability for fuckin years. Probably will end up in jail again for something someday. Wastes piles of money on shit he can't afford. Total mama's boy. Great dad though. But guess what? He isn't part of my nuclear family, so IDGAF. Only the factors in your life that are within your control are the ones to worry about. E…
/r/askMRP31/08/17 01:40 PM
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You sound like a butthurt little baby about wanting your wife to be home instead of going out. Guess why she wants to go out? Because she knows you care. If you truly don't care that she is going out, she won't go out. But you care a lot. Your post is oozing in carez. (also the fact you need to tell us you know where she is shows you're concerned about where she is) I guarantee you thought by going out with your buddies and not making supper on the night you normally make supper, you were thinki…
/r/askMRP30/08/17 10:44 AM
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Ya...50 year old teachers aren't 8/9
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/17 06:15 AM
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Trolls aren't even trying anymore. Come on guys. Fuck! Remember that guy who came on here impersonating a cuck? That was some fuckin dedication. I really wish I remember the context to his post, but fuck that was a funny thread.
/r/askMRP29/08/17 06:43 AM
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It actually is rather funny to me how TBP seems tk demonize MRP the worst; as if we are older and should know better. We regularly blame men for being shit, not taking responsibility for their action and being fuckin pussies. Likewise, for the most part, men of this community rather like women in all their hypergamic irrational glory.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 06:38 AM
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Fuck I just like they way you spit it man. Nobody puts together a few paragraphs and brings it around full circle quite like you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 05:29 AM
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Embrace your inner Narcissist and you won't ever be lonely again This a million times over. Fuck the world, because it's fucking you if you don't
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 05:09 AM
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When she comes at you with this shit in the morning, what's a typical reaction? Be honest
/r/askMRP28/08/17 12:02 AM
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NMMNG is all you should be reading right now
/r/askMRP26/08/17 07:45 PM
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She can only treat you like shit if you let her because it takes two to tango. People just don't get this! Leave, stay, change the subject, don't engage her, DNGAF!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 01:18 PM
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Keep it real
/r/askMRP26/08/17 01:10 PM
1

I would say under this context, it's only "cheating" if you are denying her sex. You would be "cheating" her out of her needs. Provided she is getting all your dick she wants, you're simply getting your own needs met.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 01:08 PM
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I don't want to blow up my marriage. If I did due to my own actions, I'd own that shit. It doesn't mean I have to want to. The one chick that I really do like, who I like a little too much if I'm being perfectly honest, just got divorced. That means that's no longer an option, because the circumstances that drew me to her have changed and it's no longer worth the risk. The right circumstance will arise, or it won't, and I'm cool either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 12:30 AM
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Your wife made the decision to go, so she owns the consequence of driving home alone. You being concerned about doing the right thing for the baby is bluepill conditioning. If you feel you're doing right, you're doing right because that's what you want to do. Don't let people tell you how to feel/live your life. As for the MIL, I'm going to go against the grain a bit here. If you truly feel she is going against your boundaries, you can say something to the effect of "Look, Mrs. Trprules and I kn…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 05:31 PM
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Not at all. Every person in my life, is in it in the precise way I want them in it. As I said, I know where the trust ends. Another one of my best friends is a gossip queen. The last person I would tell something personal to. Yet, one of my favorite people in the world to party with. Also a guy who I could depend on for anything and would do anything for. An alpha knows this about his homies.
/r/askMRP23/08/17 01:14 PM
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Since everyone has already made good work of calling your shit down, I'll tell you what else stood out to me; your friend selling you out. You should figure this out. A man needs to know who he can trust. Casually say "oh BTW, did you mention to your wife how I wasn't a big fan of Mrs. Throwaway99912 going kayaking?" then watch. You'll know if he did by his reaction. Don't confront him, just know for next time. I'm not saying to disown him if he did, but you'll know where your trust with him end…
/r/askMRP22/08/17 10:43 PM
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"And you think that's appropriate for a married women?" and watch what she does . That's the response right there. You drop that with some confidence and matter of fact demeanor, she won't be able to hide her intentions. The question is can OP pull it off without being a little pussy...
/r/askMRP22/08/17 10:33 PM
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Im getting there man
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 01:13 PM
2

Lol. First time s chick that hot gave me the time of day.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 02:34 AM
1

Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 04:22 PM
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I wrote a pile of shit twice to this and deleted it both times. I initiate a lot and get denied a lot. Now that I've fixed myself, getting laid more is a top priority. With or without her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 08:41 PM
3

Don't get me started on the problems of letting your mom coddle you
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 08:18 PM
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WhiteTrashKiller
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 08:15 PM
2

Your advice was always highly valued to man. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 05:01 PM
1

Thanks for your contribution as well. You have a great cut on how you see things man. Variety is the spice of life.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 04:59 PM
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Thanks man
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 04:57 PM
3

I've got my 1yr MRP anniversary coming up Looking forward to it bro
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 04:57 PM
2

keep in mind that your wife saw your sorry ass , as a sorry ass likely when she married you and a long time thereafter. This is such a pivotal part of the whole process. WTK put it so perfect in a shit post I made a while back. I actually miss that guy alot. He truly is the fillet mignon of MRP. Next, decide if you want to keep her. But keep in mind that this is a decision you should own. Commit to it for your self rather than to the marriage or her. or commit to leaving, or any other option. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 04:56 PM
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I certainly didn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 04:51 PM
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what makes you think she misses her beta? That was kind of a double edged sword sort of statement. She wants me to be all loving and cuddly and shit, but at the same time despises it. Watching this struggle within her mental state is actually quite comical. your selling yourself short. you increased volume 300% and went from starfish to a screaming wench. True killing this thinking, which sounds factually incorrect given her immersion and accepting your leadership IHMO, is where the next level f…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 04:49 PM
3

This is part of my phase II.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 04:45 PM
1

On your physical side- are your shoulders wider than your waist? Good reverse pyramid working? Abs peeking through? I have a very big upper body naturally actually plus a thin waist. The navy calculator says 14% and that's the method I've used. I'd wager it's lower, but it's only a number to use as a metric. Abs are trying hard to define themselves. Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 04:42 PM
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It's been really tough lately. Wife's new job has her working til after supper. Kids on summer holidays. Was just on 3 weeks myself. Trying to get so much shit done around the house. Hamster hamster hamster. While this has really helped on my health (lifting, dieting, alcohol) and getting my castle in order, I need to make time to get out and do me more again. As much as I love the kids home all day, school will be most welcomed when it returns.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/17 02:03 PM
2

"I'm pretty sure I just seen your sister getting a golden shower on Pornhub"
/r/askMRP11/08/17 06:06 PM
1

This is where I am right now
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 06:00 PM
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She wants to work on "us" because you caught her off guard and she doesn't have a back up plan...yet. She doesn't want you to fuck anyone else, cause then you'll see what you have been missing and never get back together. Is that really hard to see? You've been here since February and don't see that? Furthermore, how can you take anything she says or does right now seriously? She thinks that she has your play book because you fuckin told her about MRP and she is right. You also mentioned her dis…
/r/askMRP11/08/17 04:23 AM
1

Your ego is what causes you to answer this question in a manner that aims to slant the OC, instead of seeing the insult for what it actually is. You're thirst is pouring through your text.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 08:59 PM
1

It takes two to tango
/r/askMRP10/08/17 06:39 AM
1

Don't listen to these guys Ray. It's not her fault. I mean, she is probably bored to death from sitting around doing fuck all all day and wasting your money. A girl needs to live you know. She's just getting it out of her system now. Once you knock her up or adopt, she will stay home while the kids aren't in school, then she will start working and stop staying out getting drunk on weeknights.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 06:35 AM
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Is there anything that is stopping her from leaving you? Religion maybe? Cause the way I see it, she is begging you to kill the puppy because you're a total pussy and she has no respect for you. How could she? You say you've read NMMNG, but the fact you let her shit on you once you walk through the door leads me to believe otherwise. Frame man. Also, why the fuck do you want to stay with a women who hasn't fucked you in 3 years? Religion? Fear of losing the kid? Or do you simply enjoy being trea…
/r/askMRP10/08/17 05:36 AM
1

The real joke is always in the comments
/r/askMRP09/08/17 12:46 AM
1

It's anger. Name calling. "Delete her" "you're disgusting" followed by a million questions to how I met her. When it happened. Shit I don't want to answer or even remember She asks you a million questions because she knows you'll respond. Develope some frame and the bullshit usually dies out with it She knows I've slept with a lot of ppl and it "disgusts" her. If I tell her I slept with her. It will be a week worth of drama. And for what? She doesn't need to know. She knows women want me. She se…
/r/askMRP08/08/17 12:02 AM
1

She leaves the top lid of the toilet up and the cats go into the bowl WTF!?!? Who does that? That's beyond unacceptable. Tell her to buy a fuck cat bowl so they can drink like civilized animals. I did that. I put the bottle on her car. She asked why I did it. I ignored her. And she went and threw it out lol That's the gayest shit ever. You put it on her car and she threw it out? Oooo. That showed her. Next time she leaves garbage in your car, go dump the whole recycling bin in hers. Or...just th…
/r/askMRP07/08/17 11:50 PM
1

Leaves her clothes lying around? Stuff them in her closet Doesn't rinse dishes? Let them get out of hand by boycotting it Trash in your car? Move it to her car I'm not sure what the fuck you are talking about with the cats and the toilet? Leaves her hair dryer out? Hide it Long story short, quit being a pussy. Have fun with it. She will figure it out real quick. It's great practice for working on STFU and frame as well.
/r/askMRP06/08/17 02:44 PM
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The post oozes in fear of his wife.
/r/askMRP05/08/17 04:36 PM
1

A lot of hamster in that. Could have easily just said he's attractive. You try to down play his SMV with negatives. That's beta defense and weak as fuck. Stop being a faggot. Anytime I've sent a chick a surplus of texts, I wanted to fuck her. Chances are pretty good he does too. Maybe talking to your wife about his problems gives him good feelz, but it also gives her them too. What do you actually plan on doing? Are you man enough to handle this situation from a position of power and own it? Thi…
/r/askMRP05/08/17 04:35 PM
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You don't mention his SMV? That's kind of important. If he is a beta bitch, chances are low she wants to fuch him. Although it remains a possibility. Before you begin to slander him, you need to view it objectively. Can you see why women would want to fuck him? If you can, so can your wife. If he is fuckable and she is sending over 100 texts, that's a bad sign dude. If you confront her, you'd better have a rock solid frame man. Her reaction will tell you all you need to know. Remember the words …
/r/askMRP05/08/17 02:40 PM
1

I have a post I've been working on for the main sub about how becausr you've followed some rules on a side bar, banks 150k and can squat 250, he isn't shit in certain circumstances. It'll get there eventually.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 06:37 PM
1

I get mixed responses on here when I advocate stoicism, let alone anger. I couldn't agree more though that one needs to get angry periodically to establish dominance.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 05:46 PM
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It's the same with women and children. Don't get mad and you always have the upper hand.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 03:58 PM
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They don't sound like good friends man. I know that when my wife starts shitting on my friends about thier life choices, I squash it. They probably laugh about it when you're not there though because they're pussies who give a homie the silent treatment instead of real talk. On the real though, you're investing way too much time and feelz into something so trivial. Either they come around or they don't. The sun will come up tomorrow. You said it yourself they are long-distance-friends. You handl…
/r/askMRP04/08/17 01:16 PM
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Some friendship last the tests of time, some don't. Don't dwell on trivial shit like this. My question is now that you have seen these guys in this light, if you look back through this same lens do, do you see them as the friends you thought they were?
/r/askMRP04/08/17 02:30 AM
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My son son was mad at me once and said "Well you're poop dad because you're brown!". I had to keep a stright face and try to teach him a lesson about people's pigments. I was fuckin dying laughing inside though
/r/askMRP04/08/17 12:01 AM
1

Are you concerned about the whole thing going tits up if you get caught with your hand in the cookie jar? I mean, I'm not entirely sure what you want? Do you feel guilty? Do you want people to tell you to leave? To tell you to keep plating? In all fairness, most guys won't get to the level you're at in terms of pussy, body, etc. Yet, a lot of guys seem to be happier than you on the daily? All that matter is what you want. I always looked at you as one of the top guys who has his shit together on…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 04:11 PM
1

We all slip from time to time. Don't think about it like you have to do x, y, z and you'll become pimpletits. Chances are you'll never be him. Use the tools to become the man you want to be. Your success is your standard that you set for yourself to be happy. Don't over MRP yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 03:13 PM
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The day a redditor tasted another mans semen I'm going to go out on a limb and guess this has happened
/r/askMRP01/08/17 12:42 PM
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You almost had me with the title for a second.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 10:45 AM
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He's a troll bro.
/r/askMRP01/08/17 10:34 AM
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Fuck off
/r/askMRP01/08/17 01:08 AM
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It's BP conditioning that makes you think it's a necessity to constantly engage your children. Of course you spend time with them, but you're also shaping them into adults that know how to get theirs. When they see you hanging out with friends, cooking dinner, building in the garage, etc; they know that you are a man who knows how to get his. You should feel zero guilt for wanting you time. A good gauge is if you feel you should spend more time, you're spending enough. If you know you should spe…
/r/askMRP31/07/17 10:08 PM
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Nothing is more important in life than knowing what you want. If you don't know what you want, you're wasting your time. Time is everything. OP, quit wasting your fuckin time.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 11:30 PM
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This OP. You don't sound like you want to divorce your wife. You sound like having a casual conversation about divorce, much in the same way a couple would have one about where to eat, is easier than putting in the work and fixing you. Ask yourself this, 4 months ago before your dad died, how did you feel? How did your wife feel? How did you kids feel? If that was the best point of your kids lives thus far, you owe it to them to better yourself. Consequently, those same improvements will better …
/r/askMRP26/07/17 10:58 AM
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Being decisive also can put her in a position to make a decision indirectly. If you're indifferent to what you eat, sometimes she will make her mind up without having to actually do it. You say "We are going to eat Chinese tonight". She may go "I'd really rather Italian. I have a craving for spaghetti." You say "Ok, Italian it is." She is now eating what she wants without being pressured to make the decision. Two points though. 1) You can't blame her if you don't like the Italian, because then y…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/17 04:37 PM
2

"Wait a minute! Was he holding your hands while ge fucked you?!?!"
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 03:22 AM
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"...and my girls are coming over later to watch the game. I don't want to listen to you and there husbands clucking about nonsense in the living room. If that's your plan, you guys can take that shit to the patio"
/r/askMRP22/07/17 12:08 AM
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You care entirely too much about what she thinks of you. She knows this and uses your own feelz against you to get what she wants. All women do it. A redpill man sees it for what it is and turns her bitchiness into playful flirting or simply ignores it. The only time you should get mad or hold a hard line with shit behavior, is when what she has done is completely unacceptable to you. Then you drop the hammer. You don't sit there and humor her with a girly fight. So you know, she loves stupid me…
/r/askMRP22/07/17 12:04 AM
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A lot of it boils down to guys shooting too high. There are a lot of ugly fuckin people. Both male and female. If you look like Steve Buscemi short obese twin brother, a below average girl isn't going to give you the time of day. You need to be chasing the ugliest chicks around; because you're fuckin ugly.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 11:25 PM
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They are just another sex, and we're trying to teach you about them so you can appreciate them. This is where the crux of RP hatred resides. A lot of women, and men, like to think there's no difference between the genders. RP not only assures men there is, but shows men how to use these differences to their advantage. Apposed to allowing her to use the difference for hers. There was a comment a while back where a contributor said he showed his sister RP. Her words were "This isn't fair. You guys…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 04:20 PM
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I'm not sure man. My old neighbor had a big black standard poodle and he was alpha as fuck. This is spot on though OP. If you have shown him the pill and he rejects it, he is not a man who will lead you. You need to ask yourself if you can handle being with a guy who doesn't want the reigns? On the bright side though, if he rejects the pill, there is a good chance he'll let you fuck who you wants while he watches in the corner with a video camera..
/r/askMRP20/07/17 12:58 PM
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He was thanking me for the kicks in the ass. I said "You want a kick in the ass? Here we go". Hit send and the comment was already gone.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 11:57 PM
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What do you want? Edit: I just wasted 5 minutes writing a great comment to the one you just "deleted". Faggot
/r/askMRP19/07/17 06:30 PM
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Lesson learned: NEVER SLEEP ON THE COUCH
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 02:57 PM
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forget then and there. lets say she says that the next day or what ever in private? I'd deal with it the same way real question - for the guys who still get this type of degradation : why is she doing it... and in your case, why is she doing it? To test me to see if I'm still a door matt.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 10:53 PM
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You take yourself too seriously. I think there is time for shutting down bad behavior I despise when a women talks down to her man in public. Really when someone talks down to their partner in public, period. That was the point of my post. Don't be scared to have convictions and follow through on setting/enforcing boundaries on them. Also, I'm not an overly serious guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 10:38 PM
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I'm going to disagree boss. She didn't hurt my feelz. It did piss me off. There is nothing wrong with her knowing something pissed you off. A couple weeks back she started on some bullshit about not liking the itinerary for dinner at my parents cottage for Canada Day. I said we would bring chicken for her. She went on a tangent about not doing dishes there, yak yak yak. I STFU and continued on with what I was doing. Within 2 hours of withdrawing all attention, yet being fun with the kids, she wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 01:45 PM
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She wouldn't confront me on it. The risk of a confrontation is too high. She is very egotistical. This is my wife and not yours though... If she did, I'd leave and come home the next day. I'd withdraw my attention for an undetermined amount of time. Next time, she wouldn't be little me.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 01:31 PM
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To fuckin disagree. You're not going to change my mind. You don't like what I wrote. That's cool bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 01:22 PM
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It was insulting to her. She lost face. It was insulting to him. He was too pussy to put his bitch in place. Everyone else was thinking what I said. IDGAF about any of that. It was annoying and put a a stop to it. She got mad. They left. We are all still good friends. Except, she no longer talks like that in a group setting. Pretty sure you just want to disagree with me. So I'll agree to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 11:55 AM
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I don't care what they thought. Pretty sure I made that clear. I added there opinions, because that's the vibe I got. What they thought was really irrelevant and an inconsequential part of my post.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 03:02 AM
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I'm very fun and allof...except when one of my top boundaries has been crossed. I don't tolerate public shaming. Fucking, at this time, was the last thing on my mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 02:59 AM
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To add on to what everyone has already said; it's important that when you make plans to do "x" and she backs out, you still go do "x" without her. Believe me, she won't say no too many times after that.
/r/askMRP10/07/17 01:59 PM
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Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/17 12:53 AM
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IMO, there are 2 types of stress women cope with. Rational and Irrational. Rational stress is something you can help her with. Her - "How am I ever going to get x, y , z done before we leave?" You - "I'll do y for you because I'm not going to be late" She can either accept the offer and pass on the responsibility to you or reject the offer and keep it. Frame is everything here too. If she goes " oh I don't like how you do y. Do x instead". Negative. At that point she has refused your leadership.…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/17 11:04 PM
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The level of commitment you give to a person is based of what they give you in return. I don't expect things from people, but if I feel I'm getting takin for granted, I'll remove whatever it is I'm offering that person. I have a dogs nose for sniffing out someone using me.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/17 06:33 PM
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Solid post man. I can't wait for the second post in this series on split custody.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/17 06:10 PM
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Thanks man. Very insightful.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/17 05:06 PM
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HEALTH - Lifts are progressing. Sleep is 7 a night. Diet is funny though. My weight fluctuates 5lbs so easily. A week of poor diet and I stepped on the scales at 180 on Sunday. Took a massive shit, ran a caloric deficit and I stepped on today at 176. By Friday I'll be 174. Is this common with anyone here? Also drank a little too much. Not in a getting out of hand sense. Simply too many empty calories. READING - Finished SGM. Think I'm going to reread it immediately. Working on The Red Queen. HOU…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 12:49 AM
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"you are middle age stop expecting too much of yourself" This is her way of saying "I hate trying to keep up with you 88Will88. Would you just eat a couple chocolate bars, so I don't live in your shadow?" Ignore that shit. Just because you can't heavy lift, doesn't mean you can't find techniques that work and build a hammered body with it and your diet.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 12:12 AM
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She was hung over. I left before she woke up. When I returned, I talked to her as if nothing happened. Calm and cool. Then I simply left after kids were in bed. Returned home, said goodnight and went to bed. This drove her mad inside. Was very indifferent the next day as well. Best believe after the kids went to bed that night, she fucked my brains out. I acted in a manner of indifference. It was my actions that caused her to out 2 and 2 together. Don't get me wrong, she will get too drunk again…
/r/askMRP03/07/17 06:03 PM
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I probably would have taken the kid and gone to visit my parents or her parents. Where is she? Dunno, she left and bas been out all night. This. Show her through your actions that this is not tolerable. Last time time my wife drank way too much and caused a scene when we got home. I left in the morning with the kids for the whole day. Came home with them and pizza. Put them to bed after I gave them showers and left for the evening. She got the point. Same would apply in this situation.
/r/askMRP02/07/17 04:06 PM
2

That's a great one to show my kids. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 08:30 PM
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You handle it with frame by NGAF. You were going to do it after the gym. Do it after the gym. No need to justify your actions. A man does what he wants, when he wants, how he wants; regardless of others opinions. Now if you leaving your laundry to pile up is actually a problem, that's a different issue...
/r/askMRP30/06/17 12:28 PM
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A leader makes life happen on his terms. Always. Not only with his family, but extended family and fiends too. I used to think I was being a selfish fuck when I did this. Now, I know what I want and I make it happen. We are having a birthday party in a few weeks for my son and my nephew. I want it to be on a "x" day. I send a message out to everyone saying I want it on "x" day. Everyone agrees. I got what I wanted, plus nobody has to worry about when it'll happen. I make every interaction I have…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/17 01:53 PM
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"You believe that true love is out there, and you know deep down in your heart that (insert name) isn't it. Follow your heart." I disagree with this particular part. Seeking true love is what causes a girl to on a string of boyfriends, while looking for "the one". It sets a paradigm of "things went wrong, he wasn't the one, next!". I suggest more of finding someone who treats you decent, isn't a fag and you're attracted to; also someone who you do the same thing for. Teach her that relationships…
/r/askMRP28/06/17 12:31 PM
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Do you intend on fucking strange for the rest of your life or do you intend on getting an LTR in the future that works for you? (Obviously after fucking randoms til you're dick nearly falls off) Your answer is within that.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 05:24 PM
1

True
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/17 03:48 PM
1

I'll lean towards hovering. Not of The Hovering Pussy Dryer TM proportions. More trying to get laid on the couch after a long day and the kids are in bed (never happens). While I'm completely indifferent to her rejections, how can I truly be out of her frame when she knows I want to fuck her? BBP's theory on power playing really holds true in my situation. Since posting this I've withdrew my attention, while upping my dread and also being extra fun. She is doing the whole blanket on the couch th…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/17 01:57 AM
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so does the furniture stay or go? That's the million dollar question and the only thing of real importance in this FR. If it stays, then he has set a boundary of: "If I don't like a behavior, all you need to do is fuck me and I'll let it slide".
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/17 01:20 AM
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This. Also develop frame.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 12:55 AM
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My family life here will be miserable Then don't associated with them. If she wants to be a cunt and throw you under the bus to her family and they want to be immature and "punish" you socially, fuck them! Stay away. You don't need to overtly communicate it. They'll know what's up. Or go on like it doesn't matter. Cause it doesn't. Maybe they don't talk to you the same at a birthday dinner? Then just spend that time with your kids, nieces and nephews. They'll soon come around and see it for what…
/r/askMRP26/06/17 12:54 AM
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Your attitude sounds shitty. If you're bragging to an online community about how awesome you are, it stands to reason you patronize you wife pretty bad. Saying shit like "I'm an amazing husband, even better father" makes me think you are very good at telling your wife this. To touch on u/88Will88, are you going to follow through on your threat? It's imperative to not make threats you won't keep. Are you actually going to leave your wife for "threatening" to take your kids? If you know she can't …
/r/askMRP25/06/17 02:20 AM
3

Maybe he has 4' wide shoulders?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 08:30 PM
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HEALTH - States quo here. Adding some new weight to my lifts, eating clean, sleeping great and drinking a little too much. Nothing new here. READING - Getting pretty into The Red Queen. Great read. Almost done SGM. Reading some other stuff at home for person use. HOUSEHOLD - Keepin everything up to par here. Trying to get my boys to clean, at 5 and 7, is easier said than done. My daughter at 9 has no problems now. Got a little closer to getting my real big job done aswell. Only 1 step remains. *…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 07:03 PM
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This may be my take on reading your posts, but I often get the vibe you try too hard in certain departments. Be it your wife's behavior, your general happy vs angry challenge or your inability to sleep. You need to find a natural flow state where things just happen. Personally, once I start thinking about sleep, I'm fucked. The fact you are wearing computer glasses (pseudo shit bro) and are on multiple Rx for sleep, tells me you're thinking way too much. What exactly goes through your mind as yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 04:10 PM
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She will be advised about it the next time she suggests a get together IMO, bring this up before she brings it up. If you do it during an open conversation, you will get a better result than slamming her with it when she wants a get together. Plus it gives you the ability to have the battle in your terms in your playing field.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 03:12 PM
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Nobody is going to wipe your fuckin ass. Take the advice as givin or fuck off. Notice how when someone gives you advice you like, you agree? Then when someone says something that lays the blame on you, you whine like a little bitch? This very attitude that causes you.to defend your actions to strangers is the same attitude that cause your girl to treat you like her little bitch. Solution? Stop being a little bitch
/r/askMRP21/06/17 11:03 AM
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You can't control people. You can only control yourself and the situations you put yourself in. NEVER forget this.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:17 PM
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She can only treat you like shit if you let her. Stop being a pussy.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:51 PM
2

holy shit it fucks everything up From a guy who is getting fucked daily with great sex. Fuck off and stop trying to perpetuate a bullshit argument. Your post was good and your success, if true, is very impressive. Keep your foot on the gas. For you to come in and start making a non-issue into one is ridiculous.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/17 02:17 PM
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I hope you realize there was a entirely separate conversation, from the one you wrote here, going on at the same time. Unless she was drunk, she was playing you too see your understanding/reaction to human nature. This was a huge subcommunicated shit test wrapped up in free and open chat.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:07 PM
4

I'm really starting to wonder how many posts are BP trolls?
/r/askMRP17/06/17 06:50 PM
1

This is awesome man. I couldn't agree more. NOBODY truly gives a fuck about you. So why should you give a fuck about them? Live your life the way you want with an end goal of getting what you want. Do whatever it takes to get it. Use people, because they are using you. Thinking anything different is lying to yourself. Believe me, when your chips are down, NOBODY gives a fuck. They will see that weakness and take; not give. Always remember who the most important person in your life is.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/17 02:07 PM
1

Thanks boss
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/17 03:41 AM
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and we had a long fight about it Why? Why do you humor her shitty behavior by indulging in the activity she is trying for? Why waste anymore time than absolutely necessary (which is very little BTW) talking about nonsense? Stop being a pussy. Her - "I can't fuckin believe you fell asleep tucking our daughter in! You are a monster Aquitas! I wanted to cuddle and watch Greys Anatomy" You - "I was tired. I no longer am tired" Her - "So you're going to watch Greys Anatomy with me??" You - "No, that …
/r/askMRP16/06/17 01:03 AM
2

Did you send your wife to RPW?
/r/askMRP16/06/17 12:55 AM
1

My point was so long as you treat her like you're her little bitch, she will treat you like her little bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 07:31 PM
1

You predictably answered his mundane question about your fuckin fan, while conveniently avoiding the question that matters...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 05:33 AM
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I'd love the castle to be in order. It is your castle, so it is your responsibility to get it into the order you want I have my possessions squared away, and do my utmost to lead by example. If you're even slightly condescending about this or if it's a covert contract at all, she will resist. Problem is she is a borderline hoarder, stuff everywhere... The struggle is real. My wife leaves shit all over the place. I do my best to put it back where it should be. Or at least where I believe it shoul…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 05:09 AM
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I fight depression when I don't have something planned for the day Do anything. Go grab a coffee. Take a walk in the park. Research a new food, buy it and cook it. There is no excuse for not finding something to do. As time goes on, soon you'll always have too much to do and be looking to shed the fluff. I get restless when I'm at home with no goal There is always a goal at home. That closet looks like shit. Those upper cupboards are driving me crazy. I'm sick of the weeds beside the garage. Thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 04:38 AM
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Jesus man, if I was 6'6", 268lbs at 19.9%, I would be a monster of a man. The world would heed my superiority or I would fuckin squash them! I also wouldn't be texting my wife while I was cutting the grass. She would have no choice but to wait, again, because I'm a fuckin monster!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 04:12 AM
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A buddy of mine who is cut like a brick shit house, does low weight, high rep, real slowly while never allowing his muscles into relief. Seems crazy, but the results are there. I suppose diet is so much of it though.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 03:58 AM
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You may not like this, but you need to stop being such a fuckin pussy. Guess what? So long as you make yourself a victim, you remain a victim. Your wife sound like her attitude is shit. Guess why? Because your attitude is shit. The complaints about a lack of social life are shittests rooted in your lack of masculinity. She wants man who is calm, confident and strong. Not indecisive, insecure and weak. Good job on finally posting and taking the first steps toward not being a little bitch. The oth…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 03:45 AM
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HEALTH - Lost 6 lbs in the last 3 weeks. Kept all the muscle. Want to lose a few more before I add some serious weight and try hard for I big bulk. Kinda torn here too though, cause summer is here and I want to look good the whole time with my shirt off? Fagot problems, but gotta own it. Otherwise diet, sleep and lifting are all going well. Drinking too much though. Summer and BBQ's are always a bad mix. It's all good though. That's when my inner eating disorder comes into play and I hardly eat …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 03:03 AM
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"Catch this then!" Remote comes flying across the room...
/r/askMRP15/06/17 01:14 AM
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A lot of wives will fuck their loser husbands to grease the wheels and keep the paychecks coming. But 5 seconds after the act, they're rushing to the bathroom to sit on the toilet and get that nasty loser-semen out of them A few months into the process, I made a statement in an OYS that this always bothered me. Guys said "when you're alpha enough, this will stop". She now lays on me until I get up. She hasn't fell asleep afterwards yet, but she is fanatical about the sheets.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 12:49 AM
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This a million times over. Learn game, develop frame, grow a stellar body, become awesome and IF you decide to LTR, do it from a position of power out the gate.
/r/askMRP13/06/17 12:38 PM
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Or she wanted Blargs Gargantua. At minimum it didn't hurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/17 08:20 PM
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I'm just glad I found the answers I was looking for so I could stop choking on that blue pill The funny thing is, that when most men discover red pill, it's an immediate epiphany. Kinda like "well ho-ly-fuck! This is what I've always thought, but thought I was a asshole for thinking". Remember, stay fun man.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 10:24 AM
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I think more important than (or at least as) a child support check is her public perception within the community.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/17 12:27 AM
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My thoughts exactly. Very few, in fact only 2 drug addicted whores, have ever let the father have the kids, in every separation I've seen.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 10:02 PM
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Mentality unstable women write men in prison and even marry them (FTFY)
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 09:18 PM
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like the sink is full of dishes, i do the dishes, she gets upset. Let her get all pissy. STFU. Do the dishes again and let her get all pissy. STFU. Soon enough, you won't come to a sink full of dishes too often. You're setting a boundary of "The dishes should be done punctually. If you're not going to do them, I will". Couple this with the improvements you're already making and she will connect the dots. It's important you frame it with indifference and not condescension. Otherwise, you come off…
/r/askMRP11/06/17 08:20 PM
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Yeah is still hurts like a mother but I honestly did not see this coming It's because you hamstered all sorts of bullshit for why she did it and why you forgave her. Now that you see the world from a different perspective, you see both those bullshit reasons for what they are and know exactly why it happened. That does hurt man. Knowing your wife wanted other cock but upon retrospection, realized your provisioning is something she didn't want to give up, so she "made it work". Knowing that you a…
/r/askMRP09/06/17 11:38 AM
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Whats the reasoning behind this? You're busy doing shit. You don't have time to be wasting texting your wife. Not to mention how there is no emotion to text, so you come off as an idiot often What counts under logistics? Good "hey, what time do you want me to meet you at Jens?" "make sure you grab eggs and milk at the store" "don't forget to send that permission slip in kids lunch" Bad "I didn't mean to let the cat out baby" "I'm sorry for what I said earlier" "just wanted to say I'm thinking ab…
/r/askMRP09/06/17 11:12 AM
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Or c) find someone who won't get butthurt by a simple shit test, like that cute boy in IT who always jumps up to helps me. Sure. If you would rather do that than have the courtesy of addressing me seriously, have at it. It was just a shit test, pure and simple. The answer to every shit test isn't to deflect it. Sometimes shit tests happen in way you don't want them to. It's well within reason to exercise a consequence to a boundry you haven't created yet. If you want to apply the "she's just the…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 05:01 PM
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Not at all man. His subcommunication was spot on. His wife isn't an idiot. When she is pissed that her sister's computer is running slow, she will think both "W&S is an asshole" and "I should have just listened to him". The next time she is in a situation where she could either: a) make a joke about something he is trying to help her with b) shut up and listen to his advice. What do you think she will do? Nothing pisses me off more than disrespect.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 12:54 PM
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Don't focus so much on the pass/fail aspect of a shit test. You will always fail them periodically. Look at our mod last week. Focus on spotting them, learning to see them in real time and learning to deal with them in the moment. The more you improve, the sneaker and harsher they get. MRP is a slow process. Take your time and enjoy it. Edit: stupid fuckin link!
/r/askMRP07/06/17 06:11 PM
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👉👌?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 04:33 PM
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your wife's opinion is worse than useless because she is actively sabotaging you Anytime I wear anything out of the ordinary. Never thought of it as sabotage. I guess she is protecting her investment.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 03:51 PM
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At least if he is 18, it's now legal for her to send you pictures of her "date night". FFS man! Stop being such a fuckin pussy.
/r/askMRP07/06/17 10:55 AM
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In that it's night and day different from how I've always looked. Obviously, I've bought all new shirts and pants, but it's still reflective of the way I've always looked. Wearing dressier type shirts would be a polar opposite. Really, I shouldn't give a fuck what anyone thinks. Part of this, is that in a small town, women who appreciate my particular style are few and far between. In a city, it's far more common. If i was to wear jeans, doc martins, a tough duck jacket and a camo hat with a Dod…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 09:02 AM
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I don't quite follow?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 04:53 AM
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Wife got into a very heated argument over the weekend. We were sitting in the outdoor kitchen sharing some iced tea and she starts talking about the yard sale we are having for the main house (community garage sale). I already knew where this was going at this point. She is a female after all. I start asking questions about what she has done to get ready for it and what I need to be doing. At this point, she realized and started feeling like "maybe I'm not doing enough". It must be bogey's fault…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 04:27 AM
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We resolved that we would take a break from the marriage for 90 days. No sex. No big plans. I told her she could keep her friendship with her ex during this time. She says it's over anyways. This is the meat of your OYS. What the fuck is this shit? Guaranteed she fucks her ex during the 90 days because "it was a break Dic Pic!" Honestly, a 90 day break? Was this your idea? Her idea? Or the councilor? Oh, BTW, the councilor doesn't happen to be female does she? You realize that marriage councilor…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 03:04 AM
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So beings our annual thermostat war The struggle is real man. With us though, it's why she shouldn't open the windows on certain nights. If I was you, I'd do what bogey says and shut the vent in their room off. Keep the door closed and open their window if they need. No way should a man who pays all the bills in his house sacrifice his sleep. Ever!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 02:47 AM
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My nephew has gone so far vegan he won't wear a leather belt or work boots and won't wear anything woth wool in it. I assume the only logical next step is something to do with house pets. Where does it end?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 02:09 AM
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HEALTH - Been on a steady here. Gaining muscle, losing fat, looking better all the time. Sleep is great. Diet has been on point. Improved on my alcohol consumption as well and it shows. READING - Poking away at SGM. Can't read at work anymore, so I need to start allowing time at home. Easier said then done. Busy AF all the time. SEX - Still only weekly. It's an obvious improvement since I began this journey. No where near where I want though. I'm finally really internalizing that sex isn't the g…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 01:26 AM
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Say your wife says: "Het-Masteen, I'm so sick of the way you don't clean behind the toaster when you wipe the counter!" Your options are: A) "I'm sorry I don't clean behind the toaster like you do. I'm busy enough trying to clean the mess you left making dinner, getting the kids lunches ready and I still have to give the kids a shower!" don't do this - deer B) "Oh, I didn't notice I missed that spot" said with a smooth smile - fog C) "Right! I'll also clean behind the stove while I'm at it!" as …
/r/askMRP07/06/17 12:17 AM
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Where your theory falls short, is how monogamy has helped our species advance to a point where you can sit on a mobile phone and debate such a topic. Monogamy is the sole reason humanity has advanced to where it is today. Let's look a little deeper: You say how the "top 20%" did the breeding, while the other 80% sat around jerking off. Do you think that children were dubbed alpha/beta through circle wrestling matches and forever held that title? Alpha was a badge that was earned through hardship…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 04:56 AM
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Great write up man. Very thorough stuff. I hope a time comes when I stop being a pussy and can approach chicks like that. Can I ask you something though. Why aren't you actually fucking these chicks? I mean your out of town, so location is no concern. Couple that with the fact that you'll never meet these women again. Then finally we have... "those times we had sex a few weeks ago, that wasnt normal I wouldn't expect that". If my wife talked to me like that, I'm not sure what I would do. The lac…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 01:49 AM
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She wants you to absolve her quilt over getting fat by taking the blame for not telling her she was fat I disagree here to an extent. While it is kinda your responsibility to let her know that she is getting fat, she isn't an idiot. She looks in the mirror getting ready daily. The problem is that OP is a suplicating bitch and she doesn't feel the need, nor care, to lose the weight for him. He said she has lost weight now though. This is because her hind brain is telling her there is turbulence o…
/r/askMRP05/06/17 12:40 PM
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Recognizing that: a) it is a shit test b) she knows you check out other chick's c) she doesn't want a little pussy who cares what his wife thinks about other women Side note: if you're staring at bitches trying to create some lame dread, stop it
/r/askMRP05/06/17 12:26 PM
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Good overall FR. Impressive gains all around. At 169, 10% BF and 3 total lifts of 1000lbs; you must be cut like a side of beef. Great shit man.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 04:14 PM
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I think TFA is an auto-bot that was created to show guys that it's possible to totally kill it every aspect of life.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 10:43 PM
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Getting caught trying to N-close. I have no problem talking as long as I don't have the intention of trying to go further. As I said, pussy shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 02:49 AM
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Not a natural. My anxiety while talking to a chick is so obvious to her. Anxiety from both fear of rejection and fear of getting caught. Need to stop being a pussy basically.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 11:23 PM
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I talked to a few chicks. Never even got close to a GALNUC.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 09:46 PM
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