What has been your experience successfully sharing MRP values/MRP sub to someone?

screechhater · 2017-12-22T11:38:10+00:00

I told a guy in a round about way that his wife was there to extract energy from him. Told him to note how if he came home dragging regularly, how that would influence her and vice versa.

Then he asked me if I had anymore advice, I said I saw some crazy assed shit reddit site about getting more pussy for men. Seemed like it had some decent sounding shit but some of it was pretty fucking crass so NSFW or the wife.

He lifts regularly and changes into khakis and nice wardrobe before going home. “Tapping dat ass regularly” now

bogeyd6 · 2017-12-22T13:33:49+00:00

This place is alot like a rehab center. You cannot take a blue pill junkie and somehow open him up. He has to be at rock bottom and wanting to change his life. No forcing it.

SteelSharpensSteel · 2017-12-22T11:42:40+00:00

Generally, you don't talk about fight club. Why? Because people don't want to get unplugged.

I meet up with a buddy of mine who I've known for 20 years. Good friend. I can talk to him about this, but that's it. He listened, but wasn't at the point where he wanted to look into it. We're still buddies. Occasionally I'll talk about progress that I've made with him.

Rian_Stone · 2017-12-22T15:16:20+00:00

lol, I mentionned I was going to florida once to talk about it. My buddy laghed, asked if I learned how to 'man' from a book.

So no, I have not.

Idunnowhy2 · 2017-12-22T15:35:24+00:00

One guy totally bought in but went full Rambo like while I was hanging out with him, got into a huge fight with his wife - wasn't ready for the heat, and then blamed it all on me.

Another guy nodded, didn't reject it but just wasn't that interested. Then his wife filed for divorce and he was ready to hear it.

Another guy's wife told him he wasn't allowed to hang out with me, LOL.

I don't tell anyone any more.

BostonBrakeJob · 2017-12-22T08:11:27+00:00

I gave my buddy my audible sign in info to listen to NMMNG. Pretty sure his fiance listened to it and he didn't bother. He seemed interested when it was mentioned, but I also eluded to his choreplay being a bitch move (I danced around it for him, it's not the askMRP sub out there in fantasyland)....my guess he got a look at the rabbit and didn't wanna go near the hole.

DeeMooreDeeMarriet · 2017-12-22T14:32:25+00:00

Tried to help my three time loser brother see the light of the red pill. No dice. Blue pill to the core.

Leviticus59 · 2017-12-22T15:34:40+00:00

I tried it with my closest friend. At the time I was BP, and had just discovered RP a few months beforehand. My friend was a life-long poster boy BP. I got visciously attacked for suggesting there might be a different way to look at life and solve his chronic business and dead bedroom problems. It ultimately ended our friendship.

nexttin · 2017-12-24T16:54:11+00:00

Friend 1: I started him explicitly with the Way of the Superior Man when he was knee deep in a marriage with an overly dramatic, personality disordered trust fund heiress (I discovered this book long before RP when I was dating my future BPD wife). During his divorce, ramped it up to the Rational Male, direct links to MRP and the sidebar. He's eyes wide open now, with a better woman and in a better relationship and we talk RP regularly. I'd still categorize him as Purple Pill as of today, mostly related to his ho-hum pace and desire for self improvement.

Friend 2: Another friend, married with two kids, dad bod, dead bedroom and living an unsatisfied suburban corporate drone life with an overly anxious wife. I shared Way of Superior Man with him but he didn't bite. After the second year of him complaining about dead bedroom, I threw Athol Kay's MMSLP at him. He started putting it in action and said it was 'working like magic'. But now, seeing progress and getting a taste of "his old self" he wants more, for himself and his family. After two deep conversations over drinks about red pill concepts (without ever calling it by name), he was ready. At this point, he was stating self evident RP truths on his own. I linked him to MRP, askMRP and the sidebar. He's working on his MAP and dread game now. Wife is complaining about his changes but he is happy and excited about them...he's getting his balls back.

Friend 3: Not really a friend, but an acquaintance, hopelessly steeped in BP thinking, who crashed at my house for a month after finding out his wife had been having a multi year affair. I dropped some RP truth bombs on him but he wasn't particularly receptive. Poor guy was so BP he actually re-proposed to his cheating wife. Within weeks he texted me asking for advice. I gave him Way of Superior Man. It's had an impact. He's at least living life on the edge and pushing himself to get on mission and improve. That said, if I were a betting man, it'll take another hard fall for him to really open his eyes.

tldr Every friend and situation is different. Context is key. MRP provides a rich toolbag of content. Pull and share content from the toolbag depending on the context.

BobbyPeru · 2017-12-22T05:57:44+00:00

It’s very difficult to red pill someone because the BP brainwashing runs so deep in society. If anything, I’ll throw out a vague RP concept to a guy and see how he reacts. Generally, it’s not successful though so I don’t try much.

I will say this though- a friend of mine introduced me to TRP main writings, and I was hooked immediately.

JDRoedell · 2017-12-22T13:00:28+00:00

There’s three types of men; those who know something isn’t right and want that answer, and want to be unplugged, those who will absolutely reject RP truths (the majority) and those who are open minded and rational enough that they just MIGHT see the light and out of curiousness will want to be unplugged the more they know.

I have a friend I’ve known 25 years who I think is in this third camp. He is in a sexless marriage where he’s an amazing husband, dad and provider. His wife gets everything and he gets nothing. I’ve thrown him some RP scraps to see what he does. So far he’s eaten them and last time we were having drinks when he was in town for business he told me how nothing has changed and he asked me my opinion on what to do. He’s still a “maybe” but he’s a strong maybe .

PeggedByOwlette · 2017-12-22T15:48:52+00:00

Shit no. They fight it tooth and nail.

I have one friend who has been spinning plates his whole life that I can talk to about this. He had never even heard of the red pill. For years he was using the language "irons in the fire" when he was talking to me about what therationalmale.com calls spinning plates. I sent him to the site and it validated his entire life experience, mine aswell because he could put my experience with woman into context now that he had it all written and articulated like on TRM. 2 of his plates he has been spinning for over a decade. We have been friends for 30 years.

I have another friend going through a divorce with 3 kids. Red pulling somone like that is pretty easy.

Everyone else? I drop a name like Athol or Rollo or somone from the manosphear to see of they respond. So far, nothing. I was direct with an old friend if mine and he told me I was an asshole for reading anything red pill.

I tell all the young men (trainers) at the gym to check out the rational male.

straius · 2017-12-22T17:52:16+00:00

I've even gotten a beta bp "that's a terrible idea and she would hate that" when I told him he should surprise his girl with dinner plans and just start doing things like that unannounced with a place picked out already, etc...

Sure as shit left it at that. Lol

short_n_harsh_dude · 2017-12-22T18:04:44+00:00

Nah, I've stick to the rule since day one. I don't talk about the fight club. Although I drop some RP Truths here and there, just to see how they react. As you all may know, the BP world gets shocked. Aways.

JDRoedell · 2017-12-22T19:46:17+00:00

The truth is often weird.

SgtSilverBack · 2017-12-22T21:58:16+00:00

How about instead of suggesting MRP you think of it like mentoring. If you teach OYS, it MAY lead to MRP for a very small percentage of them but either way you are setting examples of things you value and more then a few may adopt good solid masculine values even if it isn't solid red pill.

DJiamuzak · 2017-12-22T22:25:33+00:00

A long time friend was bitching about his wife. Slept on the couch the night before, blah, blah. (Unrelated to this bitching but she had cheated with a ‘muscle guy’ years ago. He decided to stay in the marriage.) He seemed like he was pausing for advice. I told him there was this Reddit forum which talks about wives. He shut me down hard saying, “I don’t need that. I don’t want to drudge up old feelings.” Sometimes people just want to tell you about their problem, then someone else about their problem...

DeplorableRay · 2017-12-22T22:34:50+00:00

A well placed, inconspicuous copy of RM has worked for me twice with good results. I never tipped my hat to either of them with regards to the content or MRP. I don’t know if they know it’s me that provided the book, but one of them, I believe, tried to covertly thank me.

It’s a shame that it’s so difficult to share this info.

NoCoast82 · 2017-12-23T05:49:30+00:00

I have learned so much from the suggested reading that I have shared the it with my older brother, we were both living life expecting we could just be our self and the right person would come along.

We literally had a discussion 17 years ago about how just being our selves wasnt fucking working!

Trying to to get my game strong to pass this on to my son who is already 13. If I had read the rational male when I was 18 I believe my life would be a whole hell of a lot different.

snatch_haggis · 2017-12-22T09:55:05+00:00

You can hold a horse's head under water, but no matter how much he struggles, you can't make him drink.

[EDIT: Damn, colorful hyperbole is wasted on you fuckers. Calm down.]

Title	What has been your experience successfully sharing MRP values/MRP sub to someone?
Author	Darkomantis
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Date	December 22, 2017 5:18 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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