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Man if I could package up that validation feeling I would make a fortune. Important to recognize that and what it does to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/26 12:20 PM
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Yeah that guy knew what he was talking about.
/r/askMRP10/05/26 07:58 PM
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Think about what is step one, and take a look at your post where step one applies.
/r/askMRP09/05/26 09:42 PM
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Posts like this are why basics are important.
/r/askMRP09/05/26 09:11 PM
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I remember that.
/r/askMRP15/04/26 12:13 AM
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Good comment.
/r/askMRP11/04/26 04:57 PM
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I had to think about this. ILYBINILWY is not the same as I resent you, but it could be. Women resent men all the time. ILYBINILWY is more "I've already slept with the man that I wanted more than you", and she is already checked out. In your case, she had a emotional affair. Are we talking she sent a text to some guy, or did she have months and months of constant texting, including pictures, deep ILYs, and plans to remove your spleen to help his unfortunate cousin-in-law's second friend twice rem…
/r/askMRP11/04/26 04:56 PM
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This is not a case where she is asking you to hold your purse at the mall. Don't be a dumbass.
/r/askMRP24/03/26 04:36 PM
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Mods can see and approve the posts that get caught in a filter.
/r/askMRP21/03/26 08:25 AM
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It really is insane. A lot of what you see on AskMRP runs along the lines of “What did you expect would happen if you did xyz dumbass thing”, or “The solution is so obvious that even someone with half a brain could do the obvious thing, why can’t your dumbass self see what’s right in front of your face”. Assuming you had a normal marriage and a normal relationship, if your wife came home and started being egregiously disrespectful, any normal man would not tolerate that shit and shut it down har…
/r/askMRP17/01/26 07:20 PM
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Do you not understand what a boundary is? This also speaks to a deeper issue. She doesn’t respect you. Which isn’t saying much - you have a lot of guys here who also don’t respect you, myself included. Now why do you think that is. Maybe you don’t respect yourself. Maybe you should start there, and find out why you don’t respect yourself enough to have basic boundaries.
/r/askMRP15/01/26 11:05 PM
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You need to shut up more. You are worried about what you might say if it comes up, when you should be worried about hitting the gym, gaining weight, being attractive and not unattractive, and a million other things. Let’s play a little game. Say she is getting her feelings at work and comes home with a few comments about her coworker. She says them to you. Do you a) respond like a autist; b) go full Rambo and smash her phone; or c) shut up and go about your day. Look. There are things you can co…
/r/askMRP14/01/26 11:32 PM
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You've got a pretty long anger phase coming up, just a heads up.
/r/askMRP11/01/26 05:25 PM
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That’s some good stuff right there.
/r/askMRP08/01/26 11:44 PM
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Why is this not the top comment
/r/askMRP10/12/25 06:29 PM
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Your mindset will change if you view having sex as a reward for her good behavior as opposed to your current needy validation-seeking approach.
/r/askMRP05/12/25 09:50 PM
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Just so you know, you can't word vomit your emotions to her and expect things to get better. You talk about being authentic, but even you are saying that what you are trying to do is piss weak. So you were in a shitty situation, now you're better mentally and physically, wishing you were just emotionally connected, and now you want to open up your feelings and tell her things that you felt over the last few years that you never told her? This will not end well. But hey, make sure you post about …
/r/askMRP01/10/25 03:18 PM
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A classic post right there.
/r/askMRP01/10/25 03:13 PM
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Your mouth is your own worst enemy.
/r/askMRP29/08/25 05:01 PM
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It is a great book, well worth reading. As people dig more and more into the sidebar, they find more resources like this. It all depends on how deep down the rabbit hole you want to go.
/r/askMRP27/08/25 12:48 PM
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OP’s removed post from 3 months ago, for your viewing pleasure ———————— My girlfriend of 3+ years was in love with me and loyal to me and basically the perfect girl. We went through a lot together and she has supported me and helped me in so many ways. I’ve been through the sidebar and I’ve been doing PUA/red pill for 10 years. I would consider myself intermediate - advanced. However recently I’ve had a string of bad luck and unfortunate circumstances. Business has been challenging, had a medica…
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:13 PM
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He should have fixed this two years ago. I didn’t check his post history. Two years he has had the opportunity to get his shit together. What a waste of time.
/r/askMRP30/06/25 12:07 AM
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Now I remember you. Yeah you were the one who got the ILYBINILWY. Yeah, you’re fucked. Still overloaded with covert contracts.
/r/askMRP30/06/25 12:05 AM
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What do you want? It’s one of the main questions here. All I see here is someone who is letting life happen to them. Someone who is whining that he didn’t get a cookie from the cookie jar, then throwing a tantrum when he didn’t get his way. I have to ask, how boring are you? If you have boring sex over, and over, and over, and over, sounds like you’re pretty damn boring in life. Look, if YOU want to go get divorced, go get divorced. But if you don’t, and you have that single fuck saying hey mayb…
/r/askMRP29/06/25 10:57 AM
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The Oilers did not, in fact, bring the cup back to Canada.
/r/askMRP27/06/25 10:43 AM
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“Shrimp is the fruit of the sea. You can barbecue it, boil it, broil it, bake it, sauté it. There's shrimp kebabs, shrimp creole, shrimp gumbo. Pan fried, deep fried, stir fried. There's pineapple shrimp, lemon shrimp, coconut shrimp, pepper shrimp, shrimp soup, shrimp stew, shrimp salad, shrimp and potatoes, shrimp burger, shrimp sandwich. That—that's about it.”
/r/askMRP27/06/25 10:41 AM
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What I do know is when life feels unfair, I always double down on the exact same actions and make no changes. Man I thought I was the only one who did this.
/r/askMRP23/06/25 11:46 PM
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Your mindset needs to change. You don’t view yourself as the prize, which is why you are concerned about being left on delivered, and whining to AskMRP. The questions you should be asking are, why don’t I view myself as the prize; why do I want to get married in the first place; why did I skip leg day and every other day; will the Oilers bring the cup back to Canada or not; why is my frame collapsing after a non response to a text message. These are the questions you need in your life. Not how d…
/r/askMRP06/06/25 11:34 PM
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This post is a great example why Frame is Step 1.
/r/askMRP20/05/25 07:41 PM
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This shit is precisely why there is a disclaimer on Dread while pregnant.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 05:47 PM
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Front door pulls. Build habits first, the gains will come.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 08:00 PM
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Good analogy.
/r/askMRP05/05/25 07:25 PM
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It will only get better if you make it better. You think you’re the only one coming in here with problems? I have seen a shit ton of guys over the years with problems way bigger than yours. And you know what they did? They got up, off their ass, and worked at their problem piece by piece. They took care of themselves, while you can’t even do that. They endured and made it to the other side. Will you? I’m not in the habit of giving people answers, and I’m not going to give you any here. But you b…
/r/askMRP21/04/25 02:05 AM
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This is the answer.
/r/askMRP26/01/25 09:34 PM
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You mean no one cares about my Batman origin story?!?
/r/askMRP24/01/25 09:17 PM
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Do you need a validation cookie? That’s most of this post, by the way. Writing about killing your ego when it oozes through this post. All you posters having panic attacks about something new, when everyone just needs to chill out and focus on the basics.
/r/askMRP24/01/25 08:37 PM
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Longest OYS I’ve ever seen.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 08:15 PM
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There’s like a handful of guys who went down from 300+ pounds to normal weight over the years. The rest fail and fail hard. The guys who succeed are the ones who are examples of what to do. The guys who don’t, well they are a example too.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 08:12 PM
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I’m in agreement with you. The amount of bullshit that I see people willingly tolerate around here is mind boggling.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 08:10 PM
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You may want to visit a lawyer now as opposed to post business degree job, from a financial standpoint. Realistically your marriage is already over, you are just resisting that transformation.
/r/askMRP15/12/24 06:33 AM
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Meh I’ve seen worse.
/r/askMRP15/12/24 01:43 AM
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At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.
/r/askMRP09/12/24 04:10 PM
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Good to hear.
/r/askMRP01/12/24 12:02 AM
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I wrote something you should read.
/r/askMRP27/11/24 11:31 PM
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Man I haven’t had the silent treatment in years. OP should be so lucky!
/r/askMRP20/11/24 03:46 PM
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Duty sex is a real thing. Don’t suffer in sadness. Toolivelybedrooms can help you.
/r/askMRP08/11/24 04:48 PM
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You should read that book “When my wife gets a dog I feel guilty.”
/r/askMRP26/10/24 11:27 AM
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Way back when I started that happened to me, plus my wife suddenly had an interest in making my favorite cookies.
/r/askMRP11/10/24 08:37 PM
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Don’t marry crazy. I mean all women are like a 4 crazy, but your girl seems more like a 6 pushing a 7. Don’t marry immature women who emotionally blackmail you.
/r/askMRP07/10/24 11:32 PM
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Banning, beatings, they’re all the same. I got a good laugh out of this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/24 10:03 PM
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You reap what you sow, after all.
/r/askMRP19/09/24 11:27 AM
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See what you have here is called negotiated compliance. Genuine desire > negotiated compliance.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 08:28 PM
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I regret I only have one upvote to give.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 02:08 PM
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Good job on the STFU and the ignoring of poor behavior.
/r/askMRP23/08/24 09:48 PM
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For the viewers, take a look at frame throughout this post. This is yet another example of why frame is step one, because without a strong solid frame, you will crumble, just like OP.
/r/askMRP22/08/24 11:05 PM
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Meh, I only know my wife’s phone password in case she dies or is seriously injured. She knows mine as well. I could care less otherwise.
/r/askMRP12/08/24 01:48 AM
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Normally I would agree. The things that stood out to me were the complete and utter lack of affection for a very long time, the lack of wedding anniversary present, and the excessive controlling behavior. But the biggest thing was not just the lack of respect but the active maliciousness. You can see it in his post history and here. Patterns, patterns. Personally I think it’s over when someone crosses the line into malicious behavior. Like you’re actively working against the other person in a no…
/r/askMRP11/08/24 04:10 PM
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I second this question. I read your post history. Why are you with this woman? And why do you allow her to treat you so poorly?
/r/askMRP10/08/24 08:29 PM
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Many times people come on here with situations such as these, and essentially the marriage is over, the guy just hasn’t realized it yet. What OP is going through right now is resisting the transformation of moving through a divorce. Eventually he will wake up and realize that he doesn’t really want to be married to someone who treats him so poorly. Years of this treatment is enough to call it.
/r/askMRP10/08/24 11:08 AM
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What deer said.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/24 02:44 AM
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I agree with this. It reminds me of when my wife and I were dating. She was working crazy hours at the time, and still intentionally made time to come up and see me. If she wanted to see you, she would.
/r/askMRP04/08/24 11:19 PM
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So I was talking with a coworker at lunch, and he was lamenting that he had this convoluted way of doing expenses with him and his wife, they have separate accounts, and he pays for the mortgage and school, and he was complaining that she doesn’t pay her fair share. And it amazed me how much shit this guy was tolerating. The lack of frame, the lack of even a decent plan, a vision, etc… He, like you, allows his wife to walk all over him from a frame and financial standpoint. Of course, you can’t …
/r/askMRP04/08/24 10:35 PM
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Your frame is weaker than your finances.
/r/askMRP04/08/24 08:46 PM
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I know this is a minor point OP, and good on you for how you acted and how you handled this entire situation, but I liked the part where you realized you were doing the dancing monkey improvement programme. So many people don’t realize this, even after years at MRP. Good stuff OP. If you think about it, do an update post in a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 09:28 PM
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Very accurate comment.
/r/askMRP27/07/24 09:45 PM
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This one, Alex J Anderson, that guy who went to Dubai, the list goes on.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/24 01:54 AM
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I took my ring off, handed it to her, and left the bar. This is why frame is the most important thing. Being in your wife's frame from the get-go. As I mentioned before, you can't fix stupid. Some people are meant to be examples to others on what not to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/24 08:49 PM
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VALIDATE ME!!!!!!!!!
/r/askMRP02/07/24 03:03 AM
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Sometimes I am my own worst enemy. If you read a lot of the OG comments and posts, there’s a lot of talk on why people should be shutting up a lot more. It really is as easy as STFU, sidebar, and lift.
/r/askMRP28/06/24 03:20 AM
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This was also my story, and it happened pre-MRP. One of the few times I was angry, controlled it, and made it clear to my wife that the next time she threatens it she had damn well be ready to go through with it because I would be filing. There hasn’t been a peep of divorce ever since then. I rarely get angry but to fight unfairly with that as a threat, well that’s enough right there.
/r/askMRP26/06/24 03:05 AM
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It’s not about what you say, it’s how you say it.
/r/askMRP26/06/24 02:59 AM
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Two months after finding MRP and hitting the gym, my wife’s hamster was spinning and she accused me of having an affair. All I was doing was shutting up, hitting the gym hard, and shutting up. Keep in mind I like my wife, I do now, and I did then. All I could do was laugh.
/r/askMRP25/06/24 04:43 PM
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I’d watch out for arriving knife sharpeners in the mail if I were you. Just sayin.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 11:15 AM
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Couple of things stand out. First, the fact that you're not attractive, and have been a drunk captain for a while. How can I tell? Your finance issues. You're 47, and let's be honest, this has probably been going on for years. Same as your unattractiveness. It wouldn't surprise me one bit if you've been unattractive for years, having conversations like "I don't know, what do you want for dinner." You've dug yourself such a hole here, and you also are down in this hole, trying to dig yourself dee…
/r/askMRP08/06/24 11:54 PM
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It’s really Own Your Succotash. We swap succotash tips there.
/r/askMRP08/06/24 10:45 PM
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If there ever was a person who needed some dread in their life, it’s you.
/r/askMRP02/06/24 01:52 AM
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It’s like watching a train wreck… horrible, but you can’t look away.
/r/askMRP02/06/24 01:49 AM
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You need to give your wife the gift of missing you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/24 04:04 AM
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Hey, look who it is! It’s like when you travel and run into someone you know.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 11:00 AM
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I laughed too hard at this autocorrect. Winos, winos everywhere.
/r/askMRP03/05/24 07:28 PM
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It’s a trap.
/r/askMRP03/05/24 07:23 PM
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I’m very pro field reports being in the main sub. As long as there are no questions and it’s men comparing notes, it’s fine to post there.
/r/askMRP26/04/24 09:05 PM
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You should shut the fuck up. People need to learn the basics. Ask yourself, is this needy, seeking validation, dancing monkey behavior? If so, shut the fuck up.
/r/askMRP20/04/24 05:35 PM
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It’s not often you see so many red flags in one place.
/r/askMRP19/04/24 02:58 AM
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Your frame is weak and needs fixing.
/r/askMRP17/04/24 08:57 PM
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I’ve written one or two things on this topic, you should check them out.
/r/askMRP11/04/24 10:07 AM
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That is the real question, isn’t it.
/r/askMRP10/04/24 09:28 PM
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Good stuff.
/r/askMRP29/03/24 12:48 AM
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Angry and bad sex. Sounds like you need the anger posts and a reread of SGM. That anger phase is a bitch, isn’t it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/24 12:50 PM
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You nailed it.
/r/askMRP19/03/24 12:56 PM
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Savage.
/r/askMRP14/03/24 06:02 PM
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Sounds like you are angry at yourself. That anger phase is a bitch, isn't it. Especially when you are angry at women being women, or something else that you can't control. Besides the links in my guide on anger, try being grateful once in a while. It will help you out.
/r/askMRP12/03/24 03:40 PM
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Pro tip, it took me about ten seconds to find. You can plug expired web links into archive.is to see what pops up.
/r/askMRP12/03/24 11:32 AM
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https://web.archive.org/web/20180107192114/http://marriedmansexlife.com/2012/08/how-walkaway-wives-run-a-dirty-map/
/r/askMRP08/03/24 08:31 PM
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My God man, you need to shut up. Stop making mouth noises. I can guarantee you the more you speak, the less attracted to you she will be. Why? Because you are desperately seeking validation from her. You are desperately seeking validation in this post. It is unbelievably unattractive. You literally sound like a amalgamation of every nice guy beta that has ever posted here. Just shut up, go to the gym, do your reading, and if you want to say something, instead just punch yourself in the face. And…
/r/askMRP27/02/24 02:59 AM
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Classic stuff.
/r/askMRP31/01/24 03:52 PM
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I’ve read the rationale male next to my wife on a plane before. My collection of books is out in the open. You probably give too many fucks to do that though.
/r/askMRP30/01/24 01:05 AM
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Just go ahead and post your OYS and make it all about her so 3KL can ban you for many weeks.
/r/askMRP25/01/24 03:05 AM
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Upvoted for the great bolding.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:10 PM
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Getting to the point where he just links his own posts. Nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 03:41 AM
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I’m going to put this here - https://youtu.be/s2XMhGSXtaI?feature=shared
/r/askMRP07/01/24 10:04 PM
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Sounds like you are setting yourself on fire to keep her warm. Do you buy drinks for girls at bars? Same principle applies - if she’s not your girlfriend, she doesn’t get girlfriend privileges. No matter what your nice guy tendencies tell you what to do. You already got the ILYBINILWY, so you should know where you stand. Your marriage is over, it just sounds like you haven’t realized it yet. Because you feel guilty. I’m not even advocating that you treat her poorly, personally I would advise you…
/r/askMRP05/01/24 11:52 AM
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You are hosed. And I bet deep down that you know that she isn’t going to change and that she’s not the one for you but you are trying to rationalize it the other way. But hey, some people have to learn the hard way.
/r/askMRP29/12/23 03:58 PM
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Post a FR in a year. You get more out of it when it’s not on your mind 24/7.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/23 08:46 PM
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Man I wish WNP didn’t delete out, he had quite the post on just that topic.
/r/askMRP19/12/23 02:27 AM
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Take what you can…
/r/askMRP17/12/23 06:26 PM
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You want to know what is love?
/r/askMRP10/12/23 01:06 PM
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Dread is your answer. Passive dread. And while you’re doing that, reward good behavior and punish bad. Also you sound boring and uninteresting, and you give too many fucks. If people on here can pull that out from just your writing, your wife certainly can as well.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 01:02 PM
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Progress, step after step.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 12:34 PM
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Have you tried shutting your mouth?
/r/askMRP24/11/23 12:05 AM
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I talk about this in my guide. Reread the anger sections. Long story short you are not in a good place to make good decisions now - blinded by anger and regret. Go work on yourself for six months and see where you are and if you’re in a good place to make decisions or not.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 12:45 PM
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Buncha nerds here.
/r/askMRP07/11/23 01:29 AM
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Instant regret right there. Hope you got a new one.
/r/askMRP27/10/23 05:28 PM
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Nah, bans are for questions (which go to AskMRP) and poor posts. This post is fine. Do a 2yr report in a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 10:53 PM
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Spine fucking is next level.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 11:35 PM
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John Deere mowers are the best!
/r/askMRP22/10/23 01:14 PM
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Take a look at this from a frame perspective. What is her frame and what is yours. What do you see?
/r/askMRP20/10/23 09:30 AM
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You know the first thing we do is tell you to shut your mouth, and the first thing you do is open it.
/r/askMRP10/10/23 03:37 PM
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She didn’t hook up with the ex. Sure she didn’t.
/r/askMRP27/09/23 11:12 PM
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Post and we’ll approve it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/23 10:01 PM
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You need to reread NMMNG, then go turn it into a fine white paste and snort it through your nose. Maybe then you’ll get the lessons ingrained.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 03:43 PM
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I, too, like to live dangerously
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 03:40 PM
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Locked. May delete later.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/23 09:56 PM
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Dance, monkey. Dance.
/r/askMRP16/09/23 02:21 AM
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I think it was fine. There’s a J10 comment about what happens if you shit on your wife for many years and why would you need MRP to explain the situation, similar here. You sucked for many years and she became bitter. Now you are in this mode of getting better and dealing with shit tests, and she still is pissed off about the old you. I have a few women friends of mine who are divorced and one of the things they have mentioned was the amount of resentment of certain actions that their ex husband…
/r/askMRP24/08/23 06:01 PM
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You just received a MRP zen koan. You are wondering how to act when acting is your problem. Meditate upon this, grasshopper.
/r/askMRP17/08/23 12:55 AM
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Here’s your comment - https://reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/s/b9e3iaKK4j
/r/askMRP12/08/23 06:12 PM
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This will pass. Set your priorities for the weekend, make a plan. Whatever you do, don’t complain about it.
/r/askMRP07/08/23 05:48 PM
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“Women hate this one new trick…”
/r/askMRP04/08/23 10:32 PM
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Long time no see. Good to see you're alive.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 02:51 PM
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No, you need to shut up more.
/r/askMRP24/07/23 04:00 PM
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One shit test...
/r/askMRP24/07/23 03:58 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askMRP22/07/23 08:11 PM
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To be fair, if you are well and truly fucking your woman on the regular, making her cum like a champ, it gives you some leeway in the relationship. Maybe you forgot to do some chore - she’s not going to nag you. Shit tests go down. The relationship is greased when she’s getting good dick. You combine that with throwing out the scoreboard, and you’re in a pretty good place. I mean of course there are still power dynamics, and she’s in your frame, but if you threw out the scoreboard and bashed the…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/23 02:46 AM
25

Is it just me or are people overthinking cuddles here. Fuck your wife good and often, give her cuddles, sleep, and move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/23 05:40 PM
8

Fuck her mind throughout the day then fuck her in the evening.
/r/askMRP12/07/23 10:27 PM
12

Your post reeks of excuses. Excuses that you are making for your wife. So your wife has childhood trauma. That sucks. That does not give her the excuse to walk all over you and treat you like a doormat. And it's your fault that you are allowing this behavior.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 09:43 PM
17

Why the fuck are you excusing her bad behavior.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 08:40 PM
14

“But muh anxiety!” It amazes me the amount of disrespect that some men take. I mean this guy is working on video calls - having his wife walk in and start yelling at him for some minor thing would be a red line. It’s like publicly disrespecting him in front of peers. The real question is why doesn’t OP like himself enough to enforce a boundary.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 08:39 PM
14

If you were smart, you would go get a lawyer, start the divorce process, calmly send a note about the process, have a calm phone call with her, start recording your interactions with her, own your mistakes that you’ve made, and build your life from the rubble. Marriage can be good, but yours died a painful death, you just haven’t realized it.
/r/askMRP08/07/23 07:16 PM
6

100% agree with this comment. I went through OPs post history. It seems that many years of beta and unattractive behavior has checked her out. He is in dire need of increasing alpha and attractive behaviors, nonstop for a long time. His key first step is to stop being so damn needy and to stop living in his wife's frame, and start building his own.
/r/askMRP05/07/23 09:49 AM
3

Eh, it's vacation week.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/23 04:13 PM
2

grunts and crushes body count scouter “He’s learned to hide his body count!”
/r/askMRP29/06/23 12:57 AM
7

Tell her it's over 9000.
/r/askMRP27/06/23 03:48 PM
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Just a reminder before you post in this thread this week. OYS is to talk about what's important, not what is unimportant. So many people who post talk about the latter. Before you hit that save button ask yourself if you are talking about what is important. There's your warning this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 09:15 AM
41

Looks like a success story to me. Don’t let off the gas.
/r/askMRP26/06/23 08:16 PM
3

Oh man, the feelz. Bringing me back.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/23 01:47 AM
3

There is a 100% chance she will continue to snoop, and a 100% chance that you haven’t developed the frame to handle any questions. You should probably practice shutting the fuck up more.
/r/askMRP23/06/23 04:05 PM
5

You know, I was thinking of that same red curious post about using touch to overcome aversion as I was writing this post. Even went back and reread it when looking at content for this post but didn’t include it - I didn’t agree with his premise. It’s a good reminder you put up. My point with this post is that it is relevant for guys to take a look at themselves so that they can recognize where they are and what unattractive behaviors they are doing because of it. Never liked putting don’t eat pa…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 07:29 AM
11

It's literally in the top pinned post on the subreddit, and also on the sidebar. I can't help people who don't help themselves.
/r/askMRP14/06/23 08:57 PM
2

That's the exact book, it's a worthy read.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 07:46 PM
6

What defines people with anxious and/or avoidant attachment styles is that they act that way even when it's inappropriate/destructive given the context of their relationship. So, yeah, I'd say staying away from anxious behaviors is good advice for being attractive. Great to recognize that shit so you can cut it out. But I don't think it makes sense to try to say because you're anxious around sex you now have an anxious attachment style or because your wife avoids you she has an avoidant attachme…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 03:57 PM
15

Nope, don't talk about the book with your wife. I mention this in my guide.
/r/askMRP14/06/23 03:54 PM
2

https://giphy.com/gifs/chicken-marty-mcfly-LmUYhdnF5Y5d7Ef3If
/r/askMRP12/06/23 06:28 PM
2

I've already invested five seconds, I'm not investing any more.
/r/askMRP12/06/23 06:05 PM
14

Sounds like your frame is weak if you can’t handle a shit test.
/r/askMRP12/06/23 01:27 AM
1

Another post about scoreboards in the comments
/r/askMRP01/06/23 08:11 PM
2

You're right, that is bullshit thinking. There was some comment a while ago that goes along the lines of "look at your wife when she's at her best" when you are progressing through the process. It's probably worth doing some thinking along those lines.
/r/askMRP01/06/23 07:55 PM
15

Congratulations. You realized that you are working in power dynamics. You are correct in saying that he who cares least has the power. But I bet you don’t like it. In fact, you’re probably annoyed that you have to play the games in the first place. Why do you think we say be attractive, don’t be unattractive. People here make the most progress when they become not-fat, attractive, and their SMV rises above their wife’s SMV. Personally I think you are too in the weeds and not enjoying the process…
/r/askMRP31/05/23 06:05 PM
9

Typically posts have to be high quality. I’d accept a medium quality post if it is relevant and doesn’t ask a question - this includes field reports. There is a ton of low quality posts that are caught by the automoderator.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/23 11:28 PM
3

It’s even described on WebMD - https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/signs-cheating Lots of articles out there on this topic - https://www.newsweek.com/here-are-top-6-signs-partner-cheating-1526679?amp=1 , https://www.forbes.com/sites/stephaniesarkis/2019/02/25/projection-a-gaslighters-signature-technique/?sh=7be964eb514e , basically any news article about how to detect a cheater.
/r/askMRP27/05/23 01:54 AM
19

So I went through and reread your post history. I think in this situation that the ILYBINILWY is valid - Horns already linked his post. The item in your history that stood out was her comment about how you should go out and get a girlfriend. Aka cheat on her. And the reason this stood out was that this is classic projecting. 99% sure she has cheated on you, 1% that she is thinking about cheating. There’s not much coming back from this as a FYI. Sorry bro. I will tell you this. If you do the work…
/r/askMRP27/05/23 01:02 AM
2

Good material.
/r/askMRP16/05/23 08:57 PM
3

Giving people dynamite here. You are 100% correct. Even I have been known to create drama on purpose, but for most this will explode in their face.
/r/askMRP16/05/23 10:41 AM
3

Oh man, the Hunter Drew/Anthony connection right here.
/r/askMRP05/05/23 07:20 PM
3

"I can't, you're always too rational" - I can't remember my exact words but I AA'd the shit out of this shittest, but I failed it because it was a comfort test , I think Pro tip. "I" statements are comfort tests. "You" statements are shit tests. This excludes shitty comfort tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 03:52 PM
6

....that sounds wonderful. Do people really live this way? Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/23 06:09 PM
13

Your day starts the night before. Pack your gym bag, set it out, pre fill the coffee machine. Set your alarm and just go. What’s the harm in just doing that 4 times a week? Nothing, that’s what. Do that for a month. And then another. And another. You get the idea. Or don’t, and remain a loser.
/r/askMRP22/04/23 01:39 AM
8

I thought I was the only one that read "(her business)" as "her young Colombian lover". "Wife mentioned that when doing what she loves (her young Colombian lover), it is tearing her from the family. Wife says she loves the family and didn't want to go back but had to finish the young Colombian lover and wanted to go back soon because she loves doing it." Sorry bro, really looks like she cheated and is feeling guilty.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/23 07:17 PM
2

Done.
/r/askMRP12/04/23 03:11 AM
1

Statistical magic.
/r/askMRP11/04/23 10:32 PM
6

Underrated comment here. All the female surgeons I know are the same way.
/r/askMRP11/04/23 10:24 AM
1

So if you have read my guide, it tells you in there to shut your mouth.
/r/askMRP05/03/23 09:44 PM
4

I remember reading Roissy's dread post back in the day. Looking at it now, from a frame perspective, it sounds like you're in her frame and not in your own. Plus of course there's a lot of childish games going on here. Kid games, kid prizes and all that.
/r/askMRP03/02/23 02:20 PM
2

You completely missed the premise of MRP.
/r/askMRP28/01/23 12:05 AM
1

Yourself.
/r/askMRP17/01/23 03:13 PM
2

You forgot someone to be angry with.
/r/askMRP14/01/23 07:57 PM
2

One-day at a time.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/23 12:15 AM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/6x3uwc/new_to_mrp_starting_to_understand_the_concepts/dmcyrp5/
/r/askMRP11/01/23 12:07 AM
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It takes a lot to get banned from AskMRP. Oh well.
/r/askMRP10/01/23 07:01 PM
17

Wrong locker room.
/r/askMRP25/12/22 06:43 PM
2

Keep moving up the alpha spectrum and then you'll be eyeing centaurs.
/r/askMRP21/12/22 12:36 AM
4

Stop focusing on phases and start focusing on being attractive and having a solid frame.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 10:29 PM
7

I'm going to give you one small bit of real advice. You both are operating in power dynamics. Until you are higher value then she is, you will make zero progress, and your marriage counseling will fail. This includes looks, game, job, grooming, frame, everything that makes a man attractive. Sounds like you suck, and have a long way to go.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 10:28 PM
4

The supply is never ending. I think I'm in the wrong profession now.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 10:25 PM
1

Go take this post and put it on AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/22 03:21 PM
1

The irony of someone reporting the mod sticky. Heh.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/22 01:33 AM
5

Lots of good AWALTs out there... hypergamy, the female social matrix, women are at least a 4 crazy... great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/22 01:19 AM
31

So what you're asking is if your past super unattractive history can be forgiven and fixed, and what should you do with inappropriate behavior that is not to be tolerated in a relationship, with a woman who's branch swing failed... See, that's the thing about boundaries. You either have them or you don't. They either mean something or they don't. And it sounds like you don't have any boundaries at all and are asking us what boundaries are appropriate, when YOU should be figuring that out. Can yo…
/r/askMRP29/11/22 11:37 AM
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You should keep taking your birth control. Hormones are no joke!
/r/askMRP17/11/22 02:09 AM
15

Better go find a good divorce lawyer, because even if her branch swing doesn't work out, she for sure doesn't respect you. Of course she might just be itching to say the line "But we were on a break!" ala Friends, but I doubt it.
/r/askMRP16/11/22 12:26 AM
2

There’s a lot of nuance to the sidebar. You have to wade through it. Like Bobby said, reread it a few times.
/r/askMRP08/11/22 03:16 AM
14

You have made the marriage counselor the judge in that situation, not yourself, because you've framed the MC as the higher authority.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 04:10 PM
3

Sounds like you're in the anger phase. Takes many different forms.
/r/askMRP03/11/22 04:02 PM
7

You already have your answer.
/r/askMRP02/11/22 11:28 AM
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Non serious responses only.
/r/askMRP30/10/22 01:27 AM
2

Make it a series.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 09:31 PM
2

If there are not snot bubbles, it's not a main event. Doesn't sound like you're even close.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 07:04 PM
3

Hah, true, and in the take a penny, leave a penny mentality I've gotten just as much out of as I've put in. Just a lot of stuff to cover.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 05:58 PM
4

I've thought about writing the sum total of MRP and publishing it somewhere, good that you're doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 02:17 PM
1

Prune juice.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/22 02:38 PM
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"Stumbled upon El Dorado, needs a guide"
/r/askMRP04/09/22 02:17 PM
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"I had sex (woo), should I make mouth noises"
/r/askMRP31/08/22 10:05 PM
2

In constant sorrow... https://youtu.be/sRnxr4XF9yA
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/22 01:13 PM
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Been a slow week. Non serious answers only. Don't disappoint. Edit: Some people can't listen to instructions.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/22 02:05 PM
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"I Make Mouth Noises, Why No Sex"
/r/askMRP27/08/22 02:04 PM
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"When I Beat The Meat I Feel Guilty"
/r/askMRP27/08/22 12:20 AM
6

back to fucking prom I'll have you know that in 1966, Al Bundy scored four touchdowns in a single game while playing for the Polk High School Panthers in the 1966 city championship game versus Andrew Johnson High School, including the game-winning touchdown in the final seconds against his old nemesis, Bubba "Spare Tire" Dixon.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/22 07:33 PM
3

I doubt that his wife will change. The real question is will R316 change.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/22 07:29 PM
4

Happy man, happy clan.
/r/askMRP24/08/22 11:33 PM
9

Front door pulls. Those are the best for you.
/r/askMRP23/08/22 01:21 PM
1

Questions go to AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/22 11:30 AM
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I'm going to approve this for a bit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 05:52 PM
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"They drew first blood, not me!"
/r/askMRP05/08/22 08:52 PM
6

Completely wrong.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:46 PM
16

You sound unattractive as fuck. Seriously. It's like you're a child whining when they don't get what they want. You have multiple issues that you need to fix. Frame, game, the list goes on. Initially I was going to leave you with a Borat quote and a link to the dancing monkey post, and some flair about desperately needing a banana, but I'm going to give you some real advice. Step one, stop being a little bitch. If you whine like this to us and we can all see it, I'm sure you are whining like thi…
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:26 PM
22

We've talked about this before. Check out https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2vykau/a_guide_for_beginners_to_mrp/ But to answer your question, something important that I like to do is called the mirror test. When I look at the guy in the mirror, beside the habitual flex, I check with myself - you good bro? Are you congruent? Getting your shit done? Giving your gift to the world? Taken care of the problems? If I smirk back and the guy in the mirror says yeah, I'm good bro, then we'r…
/r/askMRP01/08/22 11:57 PM
1

LOL. You really don't get it.
/r/askMRP01/08/22 01:14 AM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/22 06:21 PM
5

Look WJ, I read your posts and I see a guy with no frame, no backbone. I see nice guy traits, people pleasing, and more. You are still doing things for the wrong reasons. You haven't learned to operate in your own frame. On top of that you've jumped into MRP and are dancing around like a monkey. Do you even know what you want? Yes, I could spell it out for you, but I'm going to point you to NMMNG. Go reread that, then the dancing monkey post again.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/22 01:05 AM
5

I went back after reading this to read your other OYS posts and to me, it sounds like you are running the dancing monkey program, along with way too many nice guy traits.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/22 01:58 AM
1

Critical thinking is important when looking at the sidebar. Including stuff I've written.
/r/askMRP20/07/22 03:43 PM
3

Asked and answered - https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/clm5sl/robert_glover_in_nmmng_talk_about_fight_club/ Glover has recognized that talking with wife about NMMNG is counterproductive.
/r/askMRP19/07/22 07:31 PM
3

Denial isn't just a river in Egypt.
/r/askMRP12/07/22 12:42 AM
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I'm approving this, but mostly for the lulz.
/r/askMRP07/07/22 02:24 PM
15

Go breathe into a paper bag and realize that this is not a immediate process. Stop expecting to see immediate results. You clearly have self esteem issues as well, given that you are in your own head overanalyzing every fucking thing. Add that to your list of things to work on.
/r/askMRP13/06/22 01:21 AM
6

Done.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/22 04:36 PM
6

Google tells us - "A covert contract is an unspoken agreement you have within your head between you and somebody else. It's what you expect someone to do — based on what you're doing for them or based on what you expect from a relationship — without actually telling them about it." Perhaps a reread of NMMNG and the frame posts are in order.
/r/askMRP31/05/22 08:46 PM
3

Like a mere 4 months makes up for years and years of being unattractive.
/r/askMRP02/05/22 03:34 PM
5

You sound ungodly unattractive. You should read what you wrote and then look yourself in the mirror, and ask yourself about what you wrote, and then slap yourself in the face. And you need to STFU more. Verbal intercourse is optional.
/r/askMRP02/05/22 02:27 AM
1

I remember that comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/22 04:38 PM
4

Honestly I believe that J10's discussion on dread is what matters. Because dread, as we discuss it here, is the opposite of being taken for granted. Now, a lot of people are going to have trouble parsing that, and some get it right away, because there's a lot of things involved with not being taken for granted. What I don't care for in the original 12 levels of dread post, is everything past the stuff you should have been doing in the first place. Because as it is framed out, it is a massive mas…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/22 04:38 PM
1

This is correct, OP.
/r/askMRP04/03/22 12:58 PM
1

No bet.
/r/askMRP03/03/22 12:46 PM
3

Your post reminded me of the time my wife and I met a new couple. I heard the guy was from Wisconsin, so I offered him a old fashioned. I have never seen someone light up so fast. He and I are friends now.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/22 02:25 AM
9

I will just add that people won't remember what you say, but they sure as hell will remember how you make them feel.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/22 02:01 AM
7

Initially I was extremely nervous when even thinking about saying the "pussy" word to her. WISPIFG. But seriously, you need a read of NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:30 PM
9

Well deserved on the flair, Ragnar.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/22 11:24 AM
3

Nice catch.
/r/askMRP03/02/22 10:45 AM
15

Maybe you should stop setting yourself on fire to keep other people warm.
/r/askMRP29/01/22 10:57 PM
4

Gawd those covert contracts are a bitch, aren't they.
/r/askMRP18/01/22 01:31 AM
7

Did your ass hurt when you wrote this post? Because you may be going to the gym, but haven't internalized many items on the side bar, like being the prize or being your own mental point of origin. Rather you come here all butthurt, and for sure if we can see if, your wife can too. It's like you're dancing like a monkey.
/r/askMRP18/01/22 12:41 AM
11

I read these train wrecks and just shrug my head. It amazes me what people will tolerate with their lack of boundaries.
/r/askMRP17/01/22 02:20 AM
3

Obese diabetics are warned all the time that if they don't lose weight they will lose their feet. And, all the time, obese diabetics are having their feet amputated. You would think the threat of losing a part of your body would be enough motivation to lose weight. But, some people just don't get it or ever change their habits regardless of motivation. Reminds me of that bit in 12 Rules about people not liking themselves enough to take care of themselves.
/r/askMRP14/01/22 09:24 PM
2

How are you going to get some damn discipline in your life? You're sucking down beers every day, not working out, and not taking care of yourself. You clearly don't have a story to cling on to when times are tough. Picture the worst damn thing that could happen to you. You lose your job and can't get another one. Your kids think you're a loser and you never see them again. You get divorced and lose all your money, and drink yourself into a deep depression, all the while killing your lungs pack a…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/22 03:30 PM
2

I think that's part of it. The key thing is that MRP is a place where men swap notes. The contributions that I have given reflect the value that I've received, because MRP is also a gift - at least to the people who have received value out of it. To your point about communicating ideas and choosing, isn't there a quote about that - "Knock, and the door will be opened". But people have to choose to knock in the first place. And for them to choose to knock, there has to be a door. The door in this…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 05:08 PM
5

"Why do the mods here have such big egos?" You know, I could respond to all of the OYS comments and AskMRP comments with detailed instructions on what they would need to do. And I guarantee you, those posters would get zero benefit out of it. I could create a guide to give folks the basics of becoming attractive and understanding sexual dynamics, and yet people would never read it or feel that it's worthwhile, even though there are uncomfortable truths in there. Even if folks read the guide, if …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 03:04 PM
1

Man I miss that guy. He was a MRP genius.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 05:24 PM
25

You know, I don't normally approve these types of posts in the main sub, but briefly reading this guy's post history, I'm glad I approved this one. Because really, this guy is going to go through the mother of all angry phases. Let's recap, shall we. This guy, based on post history, has a history of being a gamer - 8 years ago , 4 years ago , 3 years ago , 2 years ago , plus some Magic and World of Warcraft over the past two years and recently. Side note for all those tuning in, gaming is a Demo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 04:40 PM
7

Always interesting to see how people get red pilled. I suspect right now he's sprinkling some alpha on it and getting results, and will crumble fairly quickly due to lack of frame. But what do I know.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 03:18 AM
1

No.
/r/askMRP11/01/22 12:47 AM
4

Reading through your post history, when did you first hear about MRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 12:47 AM
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Non-serious responses only. Don't disappoint me.
/r/askMRP11/01/22 12:41 AM
7

For all the guys tuning in, this is why frame and the basics are important.
/r/askMRP08/01/22 01:23 AM
2

WYGTCYFG - When You Go To Church You Feel Guilty. Just pick one church and go to that. Train someone to do the tech job and hand it over.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 11:58 AM
2

You may not need to get the LLM if you have practical experience with cybersecurity and data privacy. Add getting practical experience to your list.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 11:51 AM
13

Look, Fatty McFat, you need to put down the video games and only focus on losing weight. When you are attractive, you can do what you want. But you are not attractive. Video games are a DLV. Go do something worthwhile.
/r/askMRP02/01/22 06:02 PM
9

I'm going to throw a counterpoint, and feel free to say I told you so if it turns out there was someone else, but I can see a scenario where, for a year and three months, and probably more than that, if this guy was a cold SOB to his wife, fatter than fat, and drunk as a skunk every night, I can see his wife checking out even if there is no branch swing. The solution is still the solution, but this may be one of those times that as J10 mentioned one time if the guy takes a shit on his wife for y…
/r/askMRP27/12/21 03:01 PM
3

You know I read posts like this and all I can think of is Borat, where the unattractive guy goes to his wife, "I like you, I like sex, is nice". Pretty sad.
/r/askMRP25/12/21 02:34 AM
6

So did you sign up for a gym membership yet, Mr. DeadBedroom? You are not a attractive person. You are just a Ford Focus.
/r/askMRP24/12/21 05:18 PM
3

Look at you, not just recognizing at shit test, but passing it and understanding the deeper meaning. One step at a time, no matter where it goes.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 02:03 PM
10

Good stuff. I look forward to seeing where you'll be in a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 01:57 PM
5

The gifts just keep giving.
/r/askMRP21/12/21 03:56 AM
6

"Sorry boss, I would have recommended that we move forward with purchasing their 100M business... but none of them lift."
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/21 02:34 AM
5

Fuck that, everything is personal. "Tom, don't let anybody kid you. It's all personal, every bit of business. Every piece of shit every man has to eat every day of his life is personal. They call it business. OK. But it's personal as hell. You know where I learned that from? The Don. My old man. The Godfather. If a bolt of lightning hit a friend of his the old man would take it personal. He took my going into the Marines personal. That's what makes him great. The Great Don. He takes everything p…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 06:57 PM
2

Well deserved.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 11:49 PM
6

I'm going to give you a little practical advice here. Tonight, go pack your gym bag with workout clothes and professional clothes. Then set your alarm to 5am, and go to the gym at 5:10am. You'll have a whole hour or more to get shit done. If you have to get your alarm clock set earlier, then do that. Your good day starts the night before. While you're at the gym, lifting heavy things, let out all your anger, all your frustration, all your little bitchness. Focus on getting 0.5% better. In betwee…
/r/askMRP14/12/21 02:52 AM
9

So fucking angry, aren't you. Anger at your wife, covert contract anger for those agreements that you believe exist when they don't, anger at yourself for letting things go as much as they have, especially anger at yourself for letting YOURSELF go as much as you have. You're not going to make any progress until you deal with the anger. She reflects you, after all. If you're a angry little bitch, she's going to be one too. So puke on, but you are drowning in your anger and you need to fix that fi…
/r/askMRP13/12/21 07:50 PM
9

This, 110%. It's clear to me that she got dicked down or close to it. You just don't give her the tingles like this other guy does. Sorry bro. It wouldn't surprise me if she told you that she's in love with you but not "in love" with you. Prepare for divorce. Shut up. Read the sidebar. Go to the gym and become attractive. I mean, really attractive. And fix your damn mental models. Only then are you in a place to make good decisions, because you sure aren't in one now.
/r/askMRP12/12/21 02:20 AM
5

What if the moon was made of green cheese. What if what if what if.... Do you see how your mental models need to be adjusted?
/r/askMRP10/12/21 02:54 PM
6

Just remember, the first thing you penetrate is her nostril, so you damn well better smell good.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/21 11:54 PM
2

It was like watching a train wreck.
/r/askMRP17/11/21 11:26 PM
1

Some people have to wander 40 days in the wilderness before finding the sidebar.
/r/askMRP15/10/21 12:07 PM
1

If you have a few examples I would think folks would be interested.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/21 09:56 PM
2

You need to reread that post. Then print it out, shred the paper into fine particles, and snort it up your nose. Not sure you would internalize the message otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 12:55 AM
2

I wrote a post for people like you...
/r/askMRP29/09/21 12:02 AM
1

All good bro.
/r/askMRP01/09/21 12:09 PM
2

It's a reference to a J10 post which I link in my guide, talking about why it's important to make the conscious decision to give a fuck or not.
/r/askMRP29/08/21 11:05 AM
1

Always give a single fuck.
/r/askMRP28/08/21 02:11 AM
1

Re career, you have to ask yourself why you tolerate that shit at work. Sounds like you have a lack of options of other jobs and a lack of frame for handling work situations. WNS is right. Fuck you, prove it. And if you can't prove it, it's time to get on the career self improvement track.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/21 02:34 PM
5

You might want to figure out why you don't like yourself enough to take care of yourself, and why you keep shoveling the food in.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/21 08:26 PM
8

He's a doctor, not a miracle worker.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 12:07 PM
3

in Morpheus voice "What if I told you that the fact that you make 150k has zero ability to make your wife wet." "You think that's air you're breathing?'
/r/askMRP01/08/21 01:55 AM
3

Today I learned that u/SBIII is like the Nostradamus of red pill. The post history predicts the future.
/r/askMRP01/08/21 01:51 AM
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Locked.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 09:39 AM
1

You’ve been LARPing all this time. Take a month off and stop LARPing.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/21 11:27 AM
2

Don't get your dumb ass killed because you aren't paying attention in the car.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 02:04 AM
1

Hey Vartanovich. Take a look at your post here, and see if you can pick out the demonstrators of lower value, or as we say in the industry, DLVs. I see a lot of DLVs here. So you want to be a FM, eh. Good for you. But until you have the life you want, you don't get to do what other people do, Mr. 25% Body Fat. Take a real hard look at your goals here, because you don't have your priorities straight. You don't even have some important goals listed.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 02:00 AM
5

A couple of weeks ago LTR was dishonest about a couple of not-insignificant things from her past for about a minute before coming clean. Are we talking "I spent a extra few hundred bucks" or "I've been meeting up with the ex while I've been seeing you". What's the order of magnitude here.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 01:46 AM
2

At least you have done your reading about resetting every day. Edit: Go read Book of Pook again. You clearly don't think you are the prize.
/r/askMRP18/07/21 12:29 AM
4

Something I've learned over the years is it's not about what you say, it's how you say it. If he was flippant and congruent, then he would be fine. If he was weaksauce and not congruent, then yeah. Not good. But you're right. Cuddles aren't free.
/r/askMRP17/07/21 11:13 PM
6

I think you're going about this the wrong way: Yesterday, after a day out, initiated with my wife in the room. Did you game your wife? Were you being sexual and fun throughout the day, or just after a long day of walking around you go back to your hotel room, thinking about your covert contract of getting sex because you had a fun time, and only initiate right before bed? I stop, and break the STFU rule You mofo. The words that are coming out of your mouth are not attractive. "Please wife, tell …
/r/askMRP17/07/21 07:45 PM
16

Let's get back to basics, Mr. She She Her Her. Who's frame were you in here, and why is frame important?
/r/askMRP17/07/21 03:01 PM
2

Let’s be honest. You’re not as funny as you think you are.
/r/askMRP12/07/21 02:59 AM
1

One of Dalrock's best posts - https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/04/14/threatpoint/
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 04:26 PM
2

Threatpoint vs genuine desire.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 01:24 AM
2

Think about the reasons why you are doing the things you are doing. Are you doing them for you? Are you doing them for your wife? Are you seeking validation and just dancing like a monkey? You are still in your wife's head.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/21 04:16 PM
1

You are still in your wife's frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/21 09:58 PM
1

How about Scotty don't.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/21 06:49 PM
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Two for the price of one this week!
/r/askMRP30/06/21 02:19 AM
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It's been a slow week. Don't disappoint.
/r/askMRP30/06/21 02:05 AM
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He would ban 99% of posters and laugh at the other 1%.
/r/askMRP24/06/21 11:04 PM
2

It's a good one.
/r/askMRP23/06/21 10:59 AM
2

Don't let u/red-sfpplus live rent free in your head. Pretty soon it will all be about butt plugs and tren.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 12:47 AM
2

Sounds like you are the one who sucks, not her.
/r/askMRP21/06/21 01:12 AM
6

He's gonna have to get some ice for that burn. Doubly so since it's truthful.
/r/askMRP18/06/21 12:10 PM
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You are a lazy fuck, and you are now reaping what you have sowed. Good lesson for everyone else. You don't get out of the sexual marketplace just because you are married.
/r/askMRP17/06/21 07:52 PM
12

I bet if you keep setting yourself on fire to keep your wife warm that will surely work for you. I wrote a post for people like you. You should read it.
/r/askMRP17/06/21 07:48 PM
2

Stop self sabotaging yourself. Start by shutting your mouth.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/21 12:10 PM
4

Meh, I'm with the others. Book a appointment with the pediatrician. Go in, get the shots for your kid. Play for keeps, because you are doing the right thing. They'll need these shots anyway if they go overseas. Your frame should be "I am taking my kids to go get vaccinated as it is in their best interest to be so." Fuck all other arguments. If she divorces you over making good health decisions for your kids, she wasn't worth staying with in the first place. One note, talk to a pediatrician first…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/21 01:33 AM
1

Wait, I thought that there were not approved vaccines for 5 yr olds yet. Thought that was happening in September.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 10:32 PM
2

People really don't know what main events are. It is the utter fear of loss of a high value man followed by supplication. There are snot bubbles. So, wookie, lemme ask you. With all this monkey dancing, can you look in the mirror and say truthfully that you are a high value man?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 11:52 PM
3

Gotta catch em all.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 11:46 PM
3

All you guys like this need to reread J10s post on dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 07:27 PM
1

Kinda important. You can set out a nice maze, but you can't make the hamster like it.
/r/askMRP14/06/21 10:29 PM
1

Questions go to AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/21 02:34 AM
4

There are two appropriate J10 posts about this, one of them is his commentary on dread, the other is his highest upvoted comment.
/r/askMRP12/06/21 09:23 PM
11

This is like Schrodinger's butthurt right here. You're butthurt, but you're not butthurt at the same time. Just kidding, you're definitely butthurt. It's like mommy took away your toy and you are pouting because you didn't get your covert contract.
/r/askMRP11/06/21 05:12 PM
1

Check my guide.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 03:09 AM
2

The hell happened to you? Did the last year make you lose sight of goals/weight/everything?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 03:08 AM
2

I see two things. First, you have no frame (and thus no boundaries). Second, people are validating your weight loss and you suck it up like a greedy pig. Stop that. And reread the frame section.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 04:37 PM
3

Thanks SorcererKing, and 3KL/JA for running a excellent series. Not easy to write these kind of posts, and it's good stuff for all readers.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/21 09:24 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb/
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 08:42 PM
1

Nice guys repress their anger. You might want to read NMMNG again. And for sure you might be saying that you are not butthurt when you are rejected, but it shows you are in your writing, and if I can pick it out, your wife can as well. There's a great J10 post on this about not being butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 12:18 AM
2

If you have to issue a ultimatum, you've already lost.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 09:29 PM
6

Keep dancing, monkey. Also, rule 9 ban. You keep doing and framing things for your wife. Still living in her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 06:21 PM
11

Depends on if you have the strength to endure and overcome vs drowning in your misery, grief, and depression.
/r/askMRP01/06/21 12:04 AM
1

Your ex, according to you, is BPD. So first of all, assuming that’s true, she’s crazy. But to my point, think about how women fight with other women. What do they attack. What weak spots do they go after. “She’s a slut”, “Whore”, “Don’t go out with her, she gives it up too easy”, and so forth. Women can be vicious to one another, especially as they are playing for keeps… get the highest quality alpha male/beta bux they can. What do you think happens when your ex is faced with a wrong decision an…
/r/askMRP31/05/21 07:17 PM
7

You lack a understanding of the female social matrix.
/r/askMRP31/05/21 06:08 PM
3

He posted with a different acct the same post.
/r/askMRP19/05/21 01:46 AM
1

Questions go to AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 01:44 AM
1

All righty then.
/r/askMRP18/05/21 10:13 PM
1

Suspected of being a troll. If no response to this, it will be removed.
/r/askMRP18/05/21 09:43 PM
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Report: Low Quality Yes, yes it is. But this is FOR SCIENCE! Don't disappoint.
/r/askMRP18/05/21 09:33 PM
1

Look at you making progress. Good stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/21 09:37 PM
3

I'll recommend one of my old posts - https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/8hii49/60_dod_week_6_finances/
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/21 12:01 PM
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To all the lurker dads out here reading and not lifting or taking any action, happy mothers day to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 03:28 PM
1

I had to get a doctor on the phone to talk to my high risk parents to get a vaccine. Fortunately for me, they believed the doctor and got the vaccine. Sometimes you have to Rambo ahead to take care of your parents.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 11:01 PM
1

Questions go to AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/21 03:04 PM
5

Let me metaphorically punch you in the face with science.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 03:45 PM
3

I could tell you stuff about low n-count, why vetting doesn't work vs being awesome, and WNS's excellent post on why marriage is hard mode, but if I had to pick one, you shouldn't marry someone who will fuck you in the divorce. Oh wait...
/r/askMRP04/05/21 03:39 PM
3

You might as well give him a M60 machine gun and tell him to free the POWs.
/r/askMRP03/05/21 08:19 PM
8

You could go to the mall, the arboretum, the zoo, the museum, Home Depot, Best Buy, the library, the bar for a appetizer, etc. There are plenty of things to do. Don't be a loser. Build a interesting life.
/r/askMRP30/04/21 06:21 PM
4

Here's a thought exercise for you. List out 10 activities right now that you can go do out by yourself.
/r/askMRP30/04/21 01:05 PM
6

I was wondering who would catch that. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/21 10:58 PM
2

Thou art shadow banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 09:55 PM
3

You don't get it at all. Are you being willfully ignorant here? "Should be equal..." - do you even realize the words that are coming out of your mouth?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 07:41 PM
3

I'm going to say something important here, and it's related to my prior comment about telling yourself a story. You're here, you're starting out, and you're saying the right things. But I've seen people like you do this for a month or two, lose like 20 lbs, and stop, thinking that things are all better when they are not. Then they're back here six months ago right where they started. And then they get made fun of because they lack discipline. They get disheartened, stop, and revert back to where…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/21 04:13 PM
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Approved.... for science. Don’t disappoint me, guys.
/r/askMRP21/04/21 02:36 AM
7

All women are at least a 4 crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 01:59 AM
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Your job, for at least the next three months, is shutting up, losing weight, and building good habits. You will want to tell your wife that you lost five pounds on keto. No. Shut your mouth. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200. What’s that? You have to go to the grocery store to get specific food for keto? Talk about your diet plan with your wife? No, shut mouth and just go. Need to build better gym habits? My early morning gym routine starts the night before. Before I go to bed, I pack my gym b…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 01:34 AM
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You need a story. Something to pick yourself up. Imagine what your future would be like if you got your shit together, started lifting, lost all that weight, got yourself down to a normal BMI, broke all your bad habits, and reinvented yourself. Wouldn’t THAT be something. The other side is you continue on, not getting laid, continuing to eat and get fat, depressed, until your wife cheats on you if she hasn’t already, and you blow your brains out in a fit of depressive spite. Latch on to that pos…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/21 04:50 PM
3

Let go of your invisible friend - https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/
/r/askMRP18/04/21 04:41 PM
5

Something that helped me when starting out, and I still do it today, is before a piece of food or beverage goes in my mouth, I ask myself "Does this help me, or hurt me when achieving my goals?" Simple question, but it prevents me from falling into poor habits.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 12:29 PM
2

Hey you’re alive! Good to see that.
/r/RPChristians08/04/21 10:24 PM
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Ok folks, user is banned due to stupidity, nothing to see here, move along.
/r/askMRP07/04/21 02:19 AM
1

I didn't realize you weren't a mod here. Let me fix that.
/r/askMRP07/04/21 01:58 AM
1

I chuckled when I saw that. Warp speed to exredpill.
/r/askMRP07/04/21 01:32 AM
6

It's because your dl sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 09:31 PM
3

Something bogey said a few years ago resonated with me when I was starting out. He said "Lifting will fix 75% of your problems." At least for me, I've found this to be very true. It won't fix your fucked up mental models, but damn if it isn't a cure all for everything else.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/21 05:41 PM
6

Epic.
/r/askMRP29/03/21 10:38 PM
4

Great stuff, Rian!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/21 06:50 PM
2

There’s a lot here, but isn’t the question “How do I get my wife to do what I want?”. Which is a fundamental question, beyond “How do I get my wife to have sex with me?” But there are some common themes between the two questions. Leadership. Swoleness. Having a mission. Frame. Taking charge of a situation. Etc. Let’s say for example that you want to make a big life decision, like uprooting the family and moving while you start a new company. What do you think you would need to do in order to hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/21 04:32 PM
9

Your wife is a reflection of you, you lazy fuck. It's no surprise you are where you are.
/r/askMRP27/03/21 01:58 AM
2

Why do you think you need red pill to explain how she acted? Really dude, you need to stop worrying about stuff and hit the sidebar. You're not going to get it, but just hit the sidebar.
/r/askMRP25/03/21 11:25 PM
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I had to take some time digesting what you initially wrote, because you, like J10, really put a lot of depth in your words. Still giving too many fucks (I always think of fucks in this context like carrots on a farm, farming those fucks). Opening up doors for people to walk through. Bit of nice guy behavior seeping back in. Wife and others didn't have a brilliant realization on how the world works. Realization that leaders lead, and they lead people to be better. People know what you're doing is…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/21 10:52 PM
2

Blarg. Man. Why, after five+ years are you still worried about power dynamics? I would have thought you threw out the scoreboard ages ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/21 08:03 PM
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I think you're giving kids dynamite here, Horns. "And despite that effort, I have discovered that there still remains a natural level of dread that is in some cases too much for the average woman to handle without leadership of how to exit the maze." Problem is, a lot of guys are still angry. They might just be new into anger, having just found this place and having their viewpoint shattered. Or maybe they're in the mindfuck of realizing that it's all their fault... but they're still angry. Hell…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/21 07:17 PM
6

I just see some guy who needs to lose fat and is still in the angry phase running the dancing monkey improvement program.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 12:43 PM
11

Congrats on the flair, well deserved.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 12:29 PM
4

This guy needs some flair. So much wrong here.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 12:27 PM
2

Kids with dynamite...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 12:25 PM
8

Happy man, happy clan.
/r/askMRP16/03/21 12:22 PM
5

Yeah, you know I think that's one of the hardest things here. Because we all are angry. And even after the mindfuck that people realize they are really angry at themselves, it's still not like it's something that can be switched off. Between going to the gym, realizing to carpe diem, and not letting the past dictate the future, those are the things to move forward. Though some of us need a wise monkey to hit us in the head and say "Yes, that hurt, but it doesn't matter - it's in the past."
/r/askMRP15/03/21 01:10 PM
6

Sometimes I feel the brain cells actually dying when I read AskMRP.
/r/askMRP15/03/21 12:44 PM
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I need suggestions for flair for this guy...
/r/askMRP10/03/21 03:25 PM
2

Another +1 for PFP.
/r/askMRP10/03/21 03:23 PM
3

Note what happened to all the guys post-ILYBINILWY. Better start preparing now. Get swole and get your act together, and make decisions not when you are in the heat of anger.
/r/askMRP10/03/21 03:22 PM
6

Those new Vettes look nice though.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/21 03:01 AM
2

My bro got involved with a bipolar girl once. That girl was seriously messed up, and messed up the relationship he had with his family. Why do you have to be capt-save-a-ho... do you feel some overwhelming responsibility to this girl? Where is the "I'm a self respectable man and one of my qualifications for a life time partner is not being literally crazy"? You know, like having a girl who doesn't stab you... Sure the sex might be great, but you're slowly killing yourself...
/r/askMRP16/02/21 08:11 PM
2

Sorry to hear that, man. Hope he gets better. Good to hear though that you developed the strength to get you through tough times. Stay strong.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/21 01:08 AM
5

It’s like coming home.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/21 12:49 AM
6

Look, poser, you need to figure out why you don't like yourself and why you continually act the way you do if you want to make any progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 02:10 AM
3

Congrats! Don't regress into your old poor behavior. It's easy to do so, especially now that the power dynamics have started to slightly shift. Pedal to the metal.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 02:03 AM
1

You got a fuckload of red areas in your life. You better get your ass to work, and I mean work the fuck hard, or else nothing is going to change.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/21 01:53 AM
1

Plus it doesn't help that this guy will make any excuse to avoid the truth. But what can you say - the self denial is strong with this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/21 01:45 AM
3

Ugh, thanks for that...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 07:10 PM
2

Take the W for the year.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/21 05:35 PM
5

I remember when you first started posting to OYS. Your progress is great to see. Keep it up, man, keep it up. Another year, another challenge.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/21 02:09 AM
2

The real question is why hasn't he already done so.
/r/askMRP31/12/20 11:21 PM
2

Dude deserves his ban. But if I were a betting man, I think this guy is gonna make it - if he can start operating in his own frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/20 09:13 PM
2

You asked "Are you Smee?" to one OYS poster and it is very relevant to many newbies and Beta Bob wannabes out there.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/20 03:54 AM
6

He's been compromised. Send the rescue squad!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/20 03:49 AM
1

Did I hear someone offering to be a mod just now?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/20 03:06 AM
2

You have permission to punch yourself in the face every time you need to STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/20 01:43 PM
3

Preach!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/20 12:55 PM
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Your asshole is already sore. Your first few jobs are to function as a normal human (ie get a job) and to not be fat. Focus on the basics first - can’t walk before you crawl.
/r/askMRP25/11/20 12:51 PM
1

Take this post and head over to r/rpchristians
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 03:38 PM
3

I banned this guy on MRP 8 months ago, and nothing in his responses here and now or in his post history/deleted posts made me think he's learned anything.
/r/askMRP18/11/20 04:04 AM
2

Pisses me off too.
/r/askMRP18/11/20 12:55 AM
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OP has been banned. Maybe a few years off will make things better. I bet not though.
/r/askMRP18/11/20 12:54 AM
9

Go keep doing your unattractive behaviors, that will surely work. For the record, everyone is calling you out because you are acting like a little bitch. And if we can see through you, your wife can too.
/r/askMRP18/11/20 12:47 AM
3

People don’t seem to get that life is hard. So then, where are you going to find the strength to deal with things when challenges and struggles hit you. And if you don’t have anything bad going on now, just wait. And living life being super prepared and anxious about the future isn’t a way to live either.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/20 11:29 PM
1

I'm sure this is a troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/20 08:02 PM
3

Right in one. This was the same mental shift I went through years ago when I learned about MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/20 04:03 AM
2

I think he posted that when his username was TrainingTheBrain.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/20 11:49 PM
3

I got a friend who just sold his 8 figure boat. This is a true statement.
/r/askMRP12/11/20 03:33 AM
1

If I don't see a picture of you eating a donut at the gym I'm gonna be disappointed.
/r/askMRP06/11/20 06:17 PM
2

You might want to check out u/broneilbro and his post history.
/r/askMRP06/11/20 05:58 PM
1

Go back to playing with your Monopoly money.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 01:22 PM
2

Anything that starts with "Be me" reeks of incel and is ignored automatically.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 01:20 PM
3

Sex twice. Not the best we’ve ever had Who's fault is this?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 03:33 PM
6

It's like the guys who buy a exotic sports car and think that it will stop them from wanting stuff. Spoiler alert, stuff won't make you happy. Double spoiler alert, the new C8 is a sweet machine.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 03:29 PM
7

What would you tell a bro who laid that story on you?
/r/askMRP28/10/20 11:38 PM
9

At the gym, nobody cares. The only person who cares is you. It's more important to do front door pulls than any other exercise.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 11:35 PM
2

Hear hear.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 08:53 PM
3

Great stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/20 11:38 AM
6

Solid. Very solid, AR. So many guys come in here and beat themselves up over not STFUing in a certain situation or not calibrating correctly in a situation... but really, what matters is your point - we decide what failure looks like, and what we think about it... and what we will do to become better. As Blarg mentioned in his comment - "Good."
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/20 11:38 AM
2

It's so nice you can just link that post.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/20 10:57 PM
1

I know, right? I have high hopes!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/20 08:57 PM
3

What’s ironic is that I cover all these topics in my guide. It’s like I made a roadmap. But all you see is DEERing and lack of STFU... and $40 a week...
/r/askMRP17/10/20 11:01 AM
2

Daddy Thundercock or something like that.
/r/askMRP15/10/20 12:01 AM
1

There’s a name I haven’t seen in a while.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 11:54 AM
2

Have your upvote. Make it happen!
/r/askMRP10/10/20 11:29 PM
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Approved... for science! Don't disappoint me, guys.
/r/askMRP10/10/20 06:23 AM
1

I mean, it sounds like despite her clearly telling you with her actions what's up, you will still persist in trying to win her back because you're young, dumb, and full of cum, and have oneitis for the first girl you had sex with. Despite her telling you with her actions where she stands. There are so many red flags here I can't even. The ring for starters. But you do you buddy. Just know for a fact that it will not end well for you if you pursue this girl. But hey. Maybe you need to go through …
/r/askMRP08/10/20 12:42 AM
4

You sound like a guy who only learns things the hard way. Yep, that's you. Sorry bro, you're gonna have a hard time.
/r/askMRP06/10/20 10:52 PM
3

Worth putting in your collection post as a example on what to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 10:39 PM
3

You're going to give him a apostrophe.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 07:08 PM
4

You know, I have a buddy of mine who believes that “You never can rely on anyone but yourself!” At first glance, why wouldn’t you agree. But really, that’s a bit of a sad existence. He’s a bit of a loner type too. Life is just that much better with solid friends and good family.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/20 10:01 PM
1

Lifting posts always bring out the veterans.
/r/askMRP26/09/20 09:05 PM
3

For science!
/r/askMRP25/09/20 02:03 AM
1

I've watched a few WNS videos and enjoyed watching someone else's thought process on OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 09:18 PM
3

A even better question is "Do I respect myself? If not, why?"
/r/askMRP18/09/20 04:07 AM
1

Got any good whiskeys you'd recommend?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 09:38 PM
4

I kinda want to direct him to Rational Male Year One and have him go Rambo a bit.
/r/askMRP06/09/20 12:28 PM
3

It's because you dropped 1% less of being a little bitch and she's giving you a validation cookie. Savor that cookie! Savor it!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 10:41 PM
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User is banned for 999 days.
/r/askMRP01/09/20 10:07 PM
5

As a side note, u/weakandsensitive once said that all shit testing is congruence testing. I will leave it as a exercise to the reader on why this is true.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 08:27 PM
2

The biggest part is something you mention in your comment - congruence. The words that are coming out of your mouth have to be congruent with who you are, otherwise she won't believe you and you won't believe yourself. This is why when someone is like "just say I need my bikini model" it absolutely won't work and you'll be outed as a fraud - because that is not congruent with who you are. Baby steps. Build frame. Have the thoughts and words that come out of your mouth be congruent.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 07:41 PM
6

That is such a wall of truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 06:52 PM
5

A lot of times people don't have the SMV or frame to be able to AM or AA. That's fine - so then keep it simple. Brief comments and STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 01:56 PM
3

Man, what a gift! Hope you celebrate appropriately.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/20 04:42 AM
2

The more you detail your experiences, the better your advice gets from others.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 09:43 PM
3

Time to get back to basics.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 02:14 AM
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Cheat codes! Everyone wants the damn cheat codes! Quick, anything to beat the bad bad boss. Does it give me 30 extra lives or do I just have to have 3?!? I like this post a lot, Tyred, and had Horns not given you MRP APPROVED a month ago I would have done so on this alone. Well deserved, I would note. You're both right and you're not right. Three posts spring to mind: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/c32kq4/what_is_the_main_event/ ; https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comment…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 01:53 AM
3

Chuckling a bit - danger zone indeed.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 12:30 AM
1

Crossposting will not work
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 11:14 PM
2

It's that moment where he realizes that he's become his father...
/r/askMRP25/08/20 11:10 PM
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Fresh meat, guys.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 10:54 PM
1

Prodigal son returns.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 01:00 AM
1

So given that your wife had a emotional affair, maybe physical, and really damaged your relationship, where are you at with that? Because at the end of the day, you're the one who has to look at yourself in the mirror.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 12:53 AM
1

Well said. OP, get a sleep study if you have to. Good sleep is essential.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 12:51 AM
2

You should do that post. It's worth digging into.
/r/askMRP15/08/20 07:06 PM
4

I am basically married to a Karen RELEASE THE KAREN!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/20 11:51 PM
2

Some people only learn the hard way, sadly.
/r/askMRP12/08/20 11:41 AM
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Due to going out with my coworkers, got a bunch of shit tests from the wife. These were the same shit tests as a few weeks ago when I went out to hang out with my friend. Although I barely spent any time away from my wife since lockdown started, I still get accused of going out to cheat. It’s not really converting into dread either though. Last time when I went out with my friend, I was quick to provide evidence that I was not cheating and when I got home I was quick to talk about my day out of …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 04:59 PM
3

We see everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/20 07:27 PM
2

Damn I haven't heard this saying in years. Good times.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/20 03:50 PM
3

If he only had a mindful plan, he could generate some attraction.
/r/askMRP10/08/20 01:26 AM
13

Some blue pill wannabe who is jealous about other guys getting better.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/20 12:41 AM
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Hey Rambo, you arrived right on schedule. Your rage and butthurt comes clearly across. Well then, what to do. You STFU, you lift, and you sidebar. Get to basics. Get a good night sleep in, because sleep affects everything. Track your food. Track your workouts. Get a damn job, slacker. 8 resumes a day, that’s one a hour. No drinking booze. No smoking. Meditate for 10 min a day. Own your shit and function like a normal adult. Build frame, and get out of your wife’s head, and get a little better ev…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 11:25 PM
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What are you, a mind reader?!? It's like you are INSIDE her head. OP, it's absolutely clear that after lying for SO LONG, that she was planning to consider to break it off, and in no shape or form did her branch break. She said it was the biggest mistake of her life and never in a million years did she think she was capable of that. Have you not been doing your sidebar reading, OP?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 03:42 PM
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Look bro, there's nothing in your post about going to the gym, lifting, how fat you are, etc. What you need to do now, as in now, is to get up and go to the gym, register online if you have to, and then go. As in tomorrow. Now if you are in Covidland, as I am, then you do a home workout at your home gym. Bike, walk, run, lift weights etc. All this talk about SMV and your LTR is not what you should be focusing on. No, you STFU, you lift, and you sidebar. And you are in her head right now, btw. Ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/20 11:37 PM
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I told her That's the problem. You opened your mouth.
/r/askMRP02/08/20 08:50 PM
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Don't forget to shut your mouth. You've got a lot of work to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/20 06:51 AM
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https://therationalmale.com/2019/07/31/alpha-widows/ - this is who she is.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/20 01:54 AM
6

Some people can think about red pill too much. I agree on the need to step away from MRP every now and then. Personally, other then checking in every now and then to make sure the sub hasn't melted down, and OYS on Tuesdays, I don't really think about red pill that much. I've got bigger fish to fry. When you obsess about something, you lose the forest for the trees. Now granted, I have a great sex life and sex on demand, so I'm not thirsty, but it helps if you are in a place of abundance, apprec…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/20 12:18 AM
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it also talks about my physical mental and emotional improvement thanks in part to an "online mens group" which she (yes she) recommends I continue until I'm over my grief and resentment; Been talking about Fight Club, have you...
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 12:32 AM
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“I’m tired, you’re going to have to take care of yourself tonight” So then, how do you reward good behavior and how do you punish bad behavior, without showing how butthurt you are (because let's be honest, you sound pretty butthurt)?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 05:23 PM
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I wrote a post for people like you.
/r/askMRP28/07/20 03:23 PM
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You've really come a long way from the guy who first started here.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 08:58 PM
1

The ghost of MRP future is too busy fucking to be bothered right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/20 10:10 AM
9

Your post is fine but you are shadowbanned so no one can see it.
/r/askMRP18/07/20 09:58 AM
1

You are shadowbanned.
/r/askMRP16/07/20 10:33 AM
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You might need to jump on your Jump To Conclusions mat to make a decision.
/r/askMRP15/07/20 04:34 PM
1

Removed. Go post in the OYS thread itself, not a separate post.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/20 01:11 PM
1

Knee deep in anger, I see. Got any plans to deal with your anger or are you just going to blow up everything, Rambo?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/20 10:32 AM
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If I weren't concerned about doxxing, yes. But between Covid and work it's been a crazy 5 months and it's not over yet. Maybe when things settle down.
/r/RPChristians10/07/20 12:17 AM
7

High quality stuff here.
/r/RPChristians09/07/20 09:54 PM
1

Damnit I was JUST about to post the same thing. Word for word. Edit: I mention this in my guide. "Every time you feel the urge to talk about your gains or how you’re changing, you need to beat that urge down with a stick. Punch yourself in the face if you have to. “But why, Steel?” Look, I’ll break it down for you. Going to your wife about reading NMMNG or saying “look at my gains” is like going to your mommy for validation. Even worse than that, you are in her frame when you do that. "
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 09:22 PM
1

This reminds me of the time in Quito. Good times.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 09:18 PM
1

So I either have to find what will motivate me to make that effort, or accept myself for who I am. Or both.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 09:15 PM
1

The lack of respect is a fairly big indicator. You're probably not as far along as you think you are. Time to review the basics.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 09:07 PM
1

The only thing better is if he said something butthurt on her FB page.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 09:05 PM
1

You know that best performing manager is on his way out regardless, yes?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 09:04 PM
2

At least he got laid. For the first time in 4 years no less.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 09:02 PM
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Fresh meat, guys.
/r/askMRP09/07/20 05:18 PM
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Yep. Always have to remember who is the prize.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/20 08:08 PM
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Ice. We need some ice for this burn.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/20 06:15 PM
2

You just have to do something to lose weight each day. Then at the end of the day you can look yourself in the mirror and say that you made some progress, and feel good about yourself. Let all the other stuff go. You have a shitton of weight to lose. Just focus on that. Did you get better each day? Yes? Good then. Do it again tomorrow.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 10:37 PM
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So damn angry. Angry at your wife for your covert contracts, angry at the food you can't seem to stop eating, angry at yourself for letting you fall so low. So damn angry, amirite. You need to put a big pause on your anger. You aren't allowed to get angry, Mr. 6.0ft 265 lbs, until you get down to 20% body fat. Because really, can you blame your wife for not having sex with you? She is disgusted by you. And it's not her fault. No, you need to PAUSE your anger and do something every single day to …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 01:07 AM
1

Brief story. I took the family glamping this weekend because it's been a long 4 months in Covidtown, and we're way out in the middle of the country. In the nearest town, I found a nice place to eat. Pull up, sit down, waiter was a old guy. We started chatting, and the dude kept making these comments about his daughter and how his ex wife didn't give her the brains, he did, and a whole bunch of others. My wife and I kinda glanced at each other like WTF. He was bitter like you wouldn't believe. An…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/20 06:27 PM
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Bitterness is definitely a choice. I mean, for sure there are consequences for people's actions (like cheating), but people often choose to be bitter. And what does that get you? Just more anger, hate, and self-loathing.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/20 01:14 PM
1

Thanks for the heads up.
/r/askMRP27/06/20 01:36 PM
1

I do wonder sometimes how many people here have read my guide and eventually unfuck themselves. And OP, there's a section in my guide about STFU, in fact, there's a great definition in there. Don't be a autist.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/20 05:57 PM
3

Lay off the humblebrag, wouldya. I get enough of that at work.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 04:48 PM
3

Horns likes to overthink things sometimes. It is really this simple. Fuck your wife. Lift heavy things. Savor the fruits of your labors. Enjoy a good scotch. That's all there is to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 12:57 AM
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Banned.
/r/askMRP20/06/20 01:53 PM
2

He did better than he knew. He didn't negatively reinforce his wife when she said how about sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/20 09:10 PM
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Ever consider it’s not your wife that’s unattractive, it’s you, Mr. Butthurt?
/r/askMRP14/06/20 11:09 AM
2

Minor update in flair given the new job.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 09:53 PM
3

Solid progress. Flair updated.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 11:02 AM
1

Damn, that’s cold.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/20 01:28 PM
1

You know why STFU is one of the first things you learn? Because the shit that comes out of your mouth is unattractive as fuck. I definitely spouted off some redpill stuff. It wasn’t that she didn’t want to have sex, it was that she didn’t want to have sex with me. It was my fault for not being more attractive. I knew arguing wouldn’t do any good. You can’t negotiate desire. Shut the fuck up. Even if you are provoked. Even if you are angry as fuck. Just shut your mouth, before you do something re…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/20 01:23 AM
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You know, I read a article recently about how many hours it takes to become friends with someone, found it. So you're looking at 50 hours for casual friend, 90 hours to become real friends, and 200 hours for close friends. And this is why in college it is a great time to make friends - you won't have that kind of time later on when you have work, kids, wife, and life in your court. Also why it takes a long time to make friends when you move someplace new. It's gotta be a priority.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 11:07 PM
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Removed, 30 day ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/20 11:30 AM
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Sometimes the burdens of this world are too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/20 11:27 AM
3

And that’s why humans invented door locks. Heh.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 10:40 AM
3

Heh, what's scary is that my son has a better memory than me. Kid never forgets anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 02:25 AM
3

Great post, Johney. Really good stuff here.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 08:55 PM
3

Didn't I ban you last year? Still didn't learn your lesson...
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 08:38 PM
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Nothing to see here, move along.
/r/askMRP26/05/20 04:43 PM
2

I wrote about some stuff in my guide that might help you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 01:43 PM
1

Good point to remember. Bought my first home at the height of the financial crisis when real estate was at the lowest point - when I sold last year, I had a gain of 300k. Always try to buy when the market is down, but also don't ignore fundamentals.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 11:29 PM
1

This isn't about marriage and all. It is about you and your choices.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 11:22 PM
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It's sad that people don't take the time to learn about money. I really enjoyed reading The Millionaire Next Door - millionaires "allocate their time, energy, and money efficiently, in ways conducive to building wealth. Millionaires budget. They also plan their investments. They begin earning and investing early in life." Lots of people don't. Don't be a sheep. If You Can is a good short read - but most people won't do the hard work to learn about this stuff anyway. But then again, is that such …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 11:42 AM
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The medium IS the message. “We love you but we can’t hire you”, well, that’s the message. A quick note about lying about currently being employed. I work at a place that has a serious background check process, and if you lie about employment, you don’t get hired. And they do some serious digging too. I don’t advocate for going that route - I prefer some bs about learning new skills/consulting/taking care of elderly parents, but if you go that route, be aware of your industry.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 11:42 PM
2

You are missing the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 01:49 PM
2

Stop letting her live rent free in your head.
/r/askMRP12/05/20 11:47 AM
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You can't handle the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/20 05:37 PM
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You'd probably ban 95% of the posters.
/r/askMRP08/05/20 03:50 PM
3

Not gonna lie, I chuckled pretty hard at the wife post.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 10:36 PM
3

What's nice is that you can just link to that now.
/r/askMRP01/05/20 09:18 PM
1

You do realize that your work is a trainwreck waiting to happen, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 01:32 AM
5

Solid progress, guy who lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 01:26 AM
1

I don't even think about it anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 01:13 AM
2

He's already MRP Approved as far as I know.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/20 12:03 AM
3

Nope.
/r/askMRP26/04/20 11:40 PM
7

Crosspost this to the main sub, wouldya.
/r/askMRP26/04/20 11:39 PM
1

AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/20 11:18 PM
2

Hi Alex.
/r/askMRP26/04/20 04:45 PM
1

Not gonna lie, I look forward to your update a year from now.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/20 09:06 PM
6

Good stuff, especially for those of us with young kids at home imitating Wrestlemania. Perhaps not Rule Zero, but the quarantine is getting to me - keep this up for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/20 02:22 PM
2

Very cool. I’ll be getting it when it comes out.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/20 12:26 AM
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Go seek professional medical advice.
/r/askMRP15/04/20 07:23 PM
4

Next thing you know you'll be telling all of us how great Crossfit is.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/20 12:46 PM
1

Couple of comments here. Think about the lowest common denominator. There's a whole bunch of guys here who are now working from home who didn't prior, and there's a lot of temptation to not take care of yourself the way you did when you were going to work - thus stopping being attractive. Yes, the stop brushing your teeth is disgusting. I chuckle a bit about the shaving the balls thing. I tossed that in there to see if people were reading and got the reference to last year's DoD. Do it, or don't…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/20 09:21 PM
3

Never too late to stop making a mistake.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 05:46 PM
2

Hygiene and you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 12:18 AM
3

Progress, progress. Not bad, son.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/20 10:30 PM
1

This guy can’t even do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 10:40 PM
1

+1. Build up that home gym. I had to get a few things but now I'm all set.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/20 09:54 PM
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AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/20 12:28 PM
1

Now, I agree with just about everything Steel puts out, but this isn’t one of them. No worries, this is just a thread for discussion on what people are doing. I figured a reasonable amount of prep was something everyone should be doing - plus I have my reasons why I need to be prepared more than most. My threat model is a bit different than others.
/r/askMRP22/03/20 07:42 PM
2

Does the Alphagetti come with tactical soap? I need more Alpha if I'm going to be ready for the virus.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 01:16 PM
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Removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 02:07 PM
3

Then it's time to get some discipline for both of you.
/r/askMRP16/03/20 12:57 PM
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I’m going to give a bit of a different take. You see, you can’t change people. They have to want to do it. But you can start going with your dad to the gym. You can start getting a dinner with him and man to man give him some new realities of his situation. He can respond or not. That’s fine. But you do not use the words red pill. You shut up about hypergamy. Instead you can talk bluntly, but realistically, and give him advice and counsel. You can start calling him for a few minutes every other …
/r/askMRP15/03/20 11:03 PM
1

Removed for not following the posting guidelines. Just linking to a RPW thread and making a off the cuff remark is not going to get you any support.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/20 08:15 PM
1

I've had success going to the grocery store right when they open. It's a disaster any other time. I'm considering stocking up a bit more than normal given how real it just got here (for me personally, that is).
/r/askMRP15/03/20 02:13 PM
1

This comment made me want to taste a scotch and think about life.
/r/askMRP15/03/20 12:58 AM
3

You old guys know where it's at.
/r/askMRP14/03/20 01:12 PM
1

There's a AskMRP thread for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/20 01:03 PM
1

This cracks me up.
/r/askMRP14/03/20 12:36 PM
2

What people aren't talking about but will happen is the impacts to the supply chain. Between now and mid April, I think we're really going to be seeing some impacts.
/r/askMRP14/03/20 12:35 PM
2

That's pretty slick.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 08:18 PM
11

I'll start. I personally have stocked up on non-perishables for not just my immediate family but also my in-laws given their age and location. Water, canned goods, toilet paper, food for lunches, breakfast food, etc. I'd say I've got 3 weeks worth. Also got some of the dried food which you can't find anymore. I've packed bug-out bags for trips to the hospital. I've also restocked supplies for over the counter medicine and anti-diarrhea medicine to treat symptoms. I fully expect that one of my fa…
/r/askMRP13/03/20 02:05 PM
3

I'll only buy it if J10 does the forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 08:06 PM
2

Even if I told people it had the cheat codes, folks still wouldn't read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 06:27 PM
2

You know, I put that post and a bunch of others in my guide. You should reread it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 04:05 PM
6

Cheat codes. Everyone just wants cheat codes.
/r/askMRP10/03/20 03:19 AM
1

Sounds like you have a lot of things on lockdown. That's good. Your real challenge is dealing with your anger. I'm going to point you to a J10 post - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/374wln/what_we_talk_about_when_we_talk_about_dread_13/ "You have to like your wife. Not love. If I asked if you loved your wife, you'd probably reflexively say "yes." That's not a meaningful question. The more important question is: "Do you like your wife?" Dread will be effective if your answer is: …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/20 10:44 PM
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Taking all suggestions for flair.
/r/askMRP09/03/20 12:45 AM
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Post a update in OYS next Tuesday.
/r/askMRP08/03/20 02:03 AM
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I am notorious for not responding to texts timely. Pisses off my wife something fierce. Unless it's something important, in which case I will call her. Maybe I'm more old school, but I prefer a phone call if someone has to say something.
/r/askMRP06/03/20 05:43 PM
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I'm just on the armchair here, but I bet she won't file. And b, that website she is using is slick. I didn't even realize it wasn't official. I suspect she went through and paid the fees but hasn't pulled the trigger yet. You should probably handle any sort of conversation like a adult (also with frame). There might be a part of you that is out there, in the wilderness, having PTSD, and you're armed to the teeth and those cops that tossed you in the cell are hunting you. "They shot first, not me…
/r/askMRP06/03/20 05:39 PM
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Sugar mama.
/r/askMRP06/03/20 05:17 PM
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I had to parse this, but very well written, and overall I agree with all of your points. Going back to Blarg's post, here are the relevant aspects: "Level 4) How we COMMUNICATE those feelings: This is more along the lines of communication. Not acting the feelings out, but expressing them openly and honestly, or openly but dishonestly. IE, "I have a problem and I want you to know it" vs. "I have a problem and you should do something about it." It's hoping that by letting the problem be known and …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/20 05:11 PM
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Before I answer, where are you in your levels of dread? Take a real hard look at yourself and put that info out, because I have a idea on where you are, but before I skewer you I want to see your thoughts.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/20 04:43 PM
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User is banned, but we're keeping this thread here for weekly amusement.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 01:59 PM
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That anger phase is a bitch, isn’t it. Assuming you’ve stopped LARPing, which I doubt, and assuming you’re not still loaded with covert contracts, which I also doubt... what do you think we mean when we say be attractive, don’t be unattractive? Attractive people fuck. And when you have to negotiate her desire by telling her that we fuck or I am done, you’ve already lost. He who negotiates, loses. So you can wallow in your pity and anger, or you can get with the program. Or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 01:27 PM
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Post in OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 01:19 AM
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Day by day. That’s all it takes. And you have to learn to enjoy the grind as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 10:44 AM
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Some bans be like, why u no ban me so fast?!?
/r/askMRP29/02/20 06:33 PM
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Op stated he was a troll. Locked, and banned. Even thebluepill got suckered.
/r/askMRP29/02/20 03:47 AM
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I wrote about lemmings. Perhaps you should review...
/r/askMRP28/02/20 11:45 AM
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Report: Starfish. Yes, yes it is.
/r/askMRP27/02/20 03:44 PM
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Removed for low quality post - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4z84w5/posting_quality_guide_for_rmarriedredpill/
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/20 05:00 PM
4

It's his own personal bar mitzvah.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/20 12:54 AM
2

Accepting all suggestions.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 11:03 PM
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Play faggot polyamory games, win faggot polyamory prizes. Why the fuck do you need red pill to understand where you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/20 06:01 PM
5

Hey Rambo, they drew first blood, not me.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/20 07:15 PM
5

You haven't been around here long, have you...
/r/askMRP21/02/20 11:14 PM
3

Who's frame are you in.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 04:46 PM
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Be careful what you wish for... you might just get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 01:25 PM
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See when I read this, I see stuff like "gonna poison the husband" and I think wow, that's some shit right there. You could probably get some sort of protection order or something, with the kids. But I'm not a lawyer, nor are most guys here. Only a lawyer can advise you correctly on what to do and what not to do. Go get a lawyer right now. Start pulling in favors, get family to chip in, sell your record collection, but get the cash to get a lawyer. Stop fucking around.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 10:59 PM
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Get a lawyer. Follow what they say.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 10:00 PM
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If you can't spot the sucker in the first half hour at the table, then you ARE the sucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 04:53 PM
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You are overthinking this way too much. Relationships are a woman's job.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 02:33 AM
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Well you haven't stopped bullshitting yourself yet...
/r/askMRP11/02/20 07:22 PM
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The only person who cares is you. Nobody else does.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 07:06 PM
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You have to unfuck yourself first before making big life decisions.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 07:02 PM
5

Nice guys and their covert contracts. If only there was a book that discusses this...
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 04:22 PM
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Yes, because there's typically some version of "as a woman, blah blah blah."
/r/askMRP10/02/20 09:06 PM
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What, did she drape herself all over you or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 07:31 AM
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I wrote a post for people like you.
/r/askMRP08/02/20 07:19 AM
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Risk management. You're trying to manage your risk. But you need to accept, deep down, that no matter how things are right now, there is the possibility that you will end up divorced and lose half your stuff. So unless you're the pool boy for a multimillionaire heiress without a prenup, you need to understand deep down that things could go bad. And there is no "full on MRP". There is just you and what you do, and your boundaries. You never said why you wanted to get married. You want kids? That'…
/r/askMRP07/02/20 02:47 PM
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The autism is strong in this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 02:35 PM
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Setting up for going back to school in Fall if I don't get promoted Don’t let the promotion be the decision point on whether you go back to school.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 12:42 PM
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My bad. I didn't see the ban from MRP. Normally I allow the garbage but my patience is getting thinner these days. Banned for supreme value leeching.
/r/askMRP06/02/20 11:26 PM
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Hell I thought it was a troll playing the long game.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 11:05 PM
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OK, but his ass is still banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 09:48 PM
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I will build a guide to MRP--and nobody builds guides better than me, believe me--and I'll build it very inexpensively. I will build a great, great guide for MRP, and I will make Rian Stone pay for the guide. Mark my words.
/r/askMRP06/02/20 02:45 PM
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It's the guide I wish I had when I started.
/r/askMRP06/02/20 01:35 AM
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Taken care of.
/r/askMRP04/02/20 11:54 PM
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There's a lot of anger throughout your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 06:37 PM
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Banned.
/r/askMRP01/02/20 02:19 PM
1

Me either.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/20 01:02 AM
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Just own it. That’s all. Do what needs to be done. You know what you need to do. So get off your dead butt and get it done.
/r/askMRP01/02/20 01:00 AM
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User is banned. Locked.
/r/askMRP31/01/20 09:43 PM
1

Family likes the normal cocktail sauce you buy in the store. I eat them straight up.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/20 09:42 PM
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Paging u/RStonePT https://www.mccormick.com/old-bay/recipes/appetizer/old-bay-steamed-shrimp-with-cocktail-sauce <-- Steamed shrimp recipe, I use 1/3 cup Old Bay, beer instead of vinegar, and I season the shrimp after they are done with more Old Bay. https://www.amazon.ca/Old-Bay-Seasoning-Seafood-Original/dp/B00HEFA3A6 <-- Old Bay We all now expect a new food video. Just sayin.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/20 09:07 PM
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Steamed shrimp with old bay. That's what I'm looking forward to on Sunday.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/20 11:18 PM
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https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/08/11/losing-control-of-the-narrative/ Right in the midst of stage 4.
/r/askMRP30/01/20 09:24 PM
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Exactly. Saying shit like "She's not yours, it's just your turn." is such a cop out. I never agreed with that saying. Because it is personal. Dude has a wife who is cheating on him or who soon will be. You mean to tell me that he got married and it was just business? For sure it's personal. The fact that he became a drunk captain is personal. Him going Rambo is personal. Saying it's just her turn implies that you have no control over your own destiny. Well, shit happens. Yes, shit happens, but w…
/r/askMRP30/01/20 03:20 PM
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That's like saying “It’s not personal. It’s strictly business” I'm going to leave you with the real counter though: “Tom, don't let anybody kid you. It's all personal, every bit of business. Every piece of shit every man has to eat every day of his life is personal. They call it business. OK. But it's personal as hell. You know where I learned that from? The Don. My old man. The Godfather. If a bolt of lightning hit a friend of his the old man would take it personal. He took my going into the Ma…
/r/askMRP30/01/20 01:08 PM
3

I can't enjoy Star Wars any more. It's sad.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 10:20 PM
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Hey, OP, don't let this distract you from the fact that in 1966, Al Bundy scored four touchdowns in a single game while playing for the Polk High School Panthers in the 1966 city championship game versus Andrew Johnson High School, including the game-winning touchdown in the final seconds against his old nemesis, Bubba "Spare Tire" Dixon.
/r/askMRP27/01/20 10:57 PM
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I know a few ultra wealthy (think giant yacht and private jet) individuals, and what's very interesting is that I see these guys go after bigger dopamine hit after dopamine hit. They become obsessed with the dopamine.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 08:57 PM
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Life is too short to drink terrible beer. If I'm going to waste my calories, it better be on something good.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 08:50 PM
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No, no, it's nearly 200k. Not quite 200k. Because, you know, 200k. I'll take my 6 dollar music lessons now, Alex.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 05:23 PM
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Surprisingly, I know a few women who go all the way through medical school, hate it, then marry a rich husband and don't practice. I mean, 4 years of medical school and 3 years of residency... what a waste.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 05:16 PM
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Fresh meat, fellas.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 01:31 PM
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It looks like he will be keeping his site up - https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2020/01/24/message-heard/
/r/RPChristians24/01/20 09:21 PM
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I saw this and was surprised. If anyone has a copy of his blog, let me know.
/r/RPChristians24/01/20 01:04 AM
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Hell, it's better than the status updates and people posting stuff that doesn't matter. At least you realize it doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/20 02:38 AM
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Financial I wrote a post on this, with references.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 10:27 PM
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Damn, what I wouldn't have given to get this stuff at 21! Son, you've got a lot of work to do, but the payoff is yuge.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 10:26 PM
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He's already back. Couldn't stay away.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 10:25 PM
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If you get J10 to do the introduction, I'm buying it.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 05:12 PM
1

Why is this not a blog post!?!
/r/askMRP21/01/20 05:06 PM
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Way back when I first started MRP years ago, it was all about shutting up, getting up at 5am and going to the gym, following Stronglifts 5x5, shutting up, resetting each day, and shutting up. About three months in, my wife, who I would consider at that time and now of us having a great relationship, told me directly that she doesn't like guys with muscles. As soon as I heard that I thought in my head A-fuckin-WALT. Sure you don't, babe. So I smiled and smirked at her a bit and just kept doing wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/20 10:28 PM
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Yes folks, you too can sprinkle some alpha on it and have everything work out. Screw those MRP guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:26 PM
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You are shadowbanned.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 11:49 AM
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Rule 9. 14 day ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 11:46 AM
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Slowly making solid progress. I like.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 11:41 AM
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MOAR BUTT SLAPS!! That's all it takes to get to the Bone Zone, apparently. It amazes me how deeply he believes his own bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 12:12 AM
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Just wait till after a year. See what happens to your ability to care and empathize.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/20 11:58 PM
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"How do you kill that which has no life?"
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/20 07:02 PM
2

Someone's been reading their pickup manuals.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 05:02 PM
4

Banning is such a catty bitch move.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/20 04:55 PM
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No, his ego couldn’t take it, and he proceeded to direct message me, confirming everything I said about him.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/20 02:35 AM
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I have six dollars in my bank account.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/20 07:43 PM
2

Good to hear that.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/20 01:22 PM
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Every now and then there comes a post that provides a abject lesson on what not to do. This post really struck me as the perfect storm of ego protection. There is so much ego protection in this post, I'm not sure where to begin. It literally starts with the first sentence. "For a while the reason we weren’t having sex was 70% my fault." The following is the missmash of post history and comments: My wife HATES guys that lift. We make fun of guys like that all the time. Ego. I look exactly the sam…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/20 03:27 AM
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I love this math. 20 bucks a day times 365 = 7300 300 a hour times 10 projects a month (which I doubt) times 12 months = 36000 80 a hour times 10 projects a month times 12 months = 9600 So generously you're looking at 52900 a year. This is extraordinarily generous because the average musician salary in the US is 44349. I would be he's more along the lines of 25-30k. So much bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/20 02:37 PM
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A pure mix of alpha and beta!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 10:00 PM
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Impressive. I didn’t catch this upon the first read but I’m in agreement.
/r/askMRP10/01/20 02:09 AM
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Checklists in OYS are the new Excel. No introspection on what really matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 11:36 PM
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You don't engage. Do not engage.
/r/askMRP07/01/20 02:08 PM
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Text important conversations again, and you’ll get banned. Text is for logistics only.
/r/askMRP05/01/20 11:16 PM
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Weird, looks like it went up.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/20 02:11 AM
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My wife bumped up my life insurance and I found cut brake lines in my car, should I be worried?
/r/askMRP03/01/20 06:33 PM
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How bad do you miss 88Will88?
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:21 PM
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Absolutely right. Also: She trusts her instincts and does what she has to do to keep her man, to keep you happy. If that’s you, great, you’re one of the few, the proud, the top 20%. welcome to hypergamy, where a woman defers to her best option, try the crab cakes, they are delicious! I chuckle every time I read this.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/20 12:58 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/eizdz3/phone_call_with_an_mrp_expert/fcv8ya7/
/r/askMRP02/01/20 11:00 PM
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Paging u/RStonePT
/r/askMRP02/01/20 08:22 PM
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There's a lot of hoo-ah in this post but you'll be better served by shutting up for six months, breaking a lifetime of poor habits of not going to the gym and eating poorly, and getting your career and life in order.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 02:02 AM
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Put this on AskMRP and I'll approve it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 12:05 AM
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Shadowbanned. Too bad, this was interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 08:39 PM
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Removed time-out flair.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 08:29 PM
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You are shadowbanned from reddit.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 01:33 PM
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Do you ever listen?!?
/r/askMRP30/12/19 05:32 PM
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Post your question on AskMRP, and I'll approve it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/19 12:10 AM
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AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/19 11:18 PM
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Surprised nobody's mentioned the ILYBINILWY.
/r/askMRP28/12/19 10:02 PM
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They can't handle the truth.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:44 PM
4

You reek of anger.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/19 01:18 PM
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Rule 9 violation.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/19 12:57 PM
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Gotcha. You’d think after all the people overseas that I talk to I would have caught on faster. You got better advice above - lift, sidebar, and get your act in order in six months, then reevaluate. And lawyer up.
/r/askMRP25/12/19 11:47 PM
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No rest for the inebriated. My Highland Park 18 and I approve this message.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/19 11:32 PM
3

Solid progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/19 11:30 PM
2

Don’t worry too much. Just STFU, lift, and sidebar for six months, then reevaluate.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/19 11:28 PM
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I try not to think too much about things. My wife made turkey meatballs the other night. I said thank you. No problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/19 08:51 PM
3

Ok that makes far more sense. I was like wtf when reading it.
/r/askMRP21/12/19 10:52 AM
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my mate told me to read up on MRP Literally what the fuck. Your wife cheats on you and then instead of taking any sort of ownership she points you to MRP because she thinks it was your fault she cheated?!? Sounds like you got a real winner there, sport. You'll get guys who will say "The stay plan is the same as the go plan" and others who will call you a faggot, but really, you're the guy who has to look at himself in the mirror. Personally, if my wife cheated on me, and I kept her after she did…
/r/askMRP21/12/19 03:32 AM
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Post on AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/19 10:32 AM
7

And unicorn shirts.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/19 04:48 PM
1

That video is McRaven.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/19 02:55 PM
1

That was McRaven, not JP.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/19 02:14 AM
2

Moving on up the hierarchy...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 06:36 PM
1

How long have you been married? Standard improvement in situation (and I mean actual improvement, not dancing monkey) is about 1 month per year of marriage, but that is just a rule of thumb. I've seen guys take 2 or even 3 months per year of marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 11:19 AM
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That night she deposited the other 40%, but the next day took back 20%. You absolutely should follow up on this. Have you no boundaries?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 09:51 AM
3

Well said.
/r/askMRP17/12/19 08:57 AM
3

You should put that mod hat on your flair.
/r/askMRP17/12/19 08:55 AM
1

I'm stealing this acronym.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 08:11 PM
3

Meh, I'm a big fan of reaping what you sow, and making informed decisions. You want kids? Despite all the talk about having a woman living together and having kids but not getting married, generally speaking, for most women they're going to want to get married (to lock down the long term resources) for if and when you have kids. Right now, you're not into a place to make informed decisions. Oh sure, you think you are. But did you read the sidebar. Do you understand the risks and what a bad deal …
/r/askMRP13/12/19 03:21 PM
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Post this on AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/19 03:00 PM
12

Let me guess. You don't make enough to pay for a gym membership, right.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 11:27 PM
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It's not about the nail.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 11:22 PM
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He's got to want to do it. Until he wants a better life, nothing you do will help.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 11:18 PM
6

I could have sworn he was the Assistant Regional Manager.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 01:41 PM
3

But why is the rum gone?
/r/askMRP09/12/19 05:15 PM
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No breaks for a Friday.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 05:08 PM
3

Don't condition your wife negatively when she's doing something you want her to do.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 10:51 PM
1

Nah, I'll ban him there too.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/19 12:58 PM
4

Done.
/r/askMRP04/12/19 06:46 PM
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Guys, the best thing we can do is let him do what he wants. Go get em, sport! You got this. Locked for trolling.
/r/askMRP04/12/19 06:16 PM
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For what it's worth, I got a lot out of my MBA, and it has made a difference in my career.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 02:19 PM
4

You probably should start looking for a new job to have in your back pocket.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 10:52 AM
1

I gave him a break, and then he squanders it by being in his wife's head. Oh well, there's always two weeks from now.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 12:02 AM
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Alexa is a whore, that is true.
/r/askMRP03/12/19 03:09 PM
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AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 01:53 PM
1

Not looking for a change in flair, BTW, I'm more than happy with "Grinding Like Grandpa." Consider it a badge of respect. Personally, both my grandpas were in the armed services, and they were really people to look up to.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/19 03:24 PM
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There's enough problems without the mods stirring the pot.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 01:17 PM
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AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/19 02:32 PM
2

I chuckled a bit.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 07:20 PM
1

The kids question is a good one. First of all, they're not easy. Yes, money helps from a time and outsourcing situation for stuff like cleaning the house, but you're still going to be sucked into the timesink. It's not bad, of course - you have a little clone of yourself and you're working to raise them right and help them achieve their potential, but there's a lot of time involved. So then, the wife question. What sort of woman is this 23 yr old (besides hot, of course). Is she mentally tough. …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/19 09:48 AM
2

So did you ever unfuck yourself from that time you posted your first AskMRP puke? What is stopping you from killing the puppy?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/19 09:07 AM
2

I know, right. Sometimes it takes guys a long time before their hamsters wear out and they stop dancing. Interesting to see where this guy goes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/19 08:44 AM
12

I missed the post history. Now I need a appropriate flair for this guy. Taking all suggestions.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 12:39 AM
4

Good point.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 11:14 PM
14

In crisis, there is opportunity. Or not, if you don't get with the program.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 11:12 PM
2

So how are you going to deal with the finances situation? I like a lot of your OYS, but the finances are a major problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/19 09:31 AM
3

Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/19 01:49 AM
1

Personal foul. 15 yard penalty there.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 08:05 PM
1

AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 12:13 PM
1

Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 05:24 PM
4

360lbs down to 140lbs Damn dude.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 05:33 PM
1

That too. I did the same.
/r/askMRP15/11/19 10:26 AM
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Storytime. Way back when I started MRP and got my shit together, I kept forgetting to take my wedding band off when going to the gym, and having to shove it in my pocket when lifting. My wedding band is damn expensive, and I don't want to scuff it up. The solution was one of those Silicone fitness bands. So I put it on, and after a few days my wife makes a big stink that I'm not wearing 'MY' wedding band. "I don't want it to be scratched at the gym." "Blah blah blah you should wear your real wed…
/r/askMRP14/11/19 09:16 PM
2

Good God, y'all!
/r/askMRP14/11/19 04:45 PM
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All right, everyone has had their fun. OP needs to switch to dudes. Locked.
/r/askMRP13/11/19 10:56 PM
6

You acknowledged her feelz, and then STFUed. Good job. It's not about the nail. Now get back to the gym, game your wife, be positive, and shut your mouth more.
/r/askMRP12/11/19 10:10 PM
1

It's more like you called a mod a dick, and they weren't feeling charitable after cleaning the sludgefest that is AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 09:38 PM
1

AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 10:23 AM
2

The two days thing is because his post got caught by Automoderator and I've been on vacation. Newly created accounts get manually reviewed.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 01:52 AM
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Repost this in AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/19 02:06 PM
3

Man, I forgot about that post - https://theredarchive.xyz/archive/200487 . I remember reading it way back when I first started.
/r/askMRP09/11/19 02:51 AM
2

Wait, what?
/r/askMRP09/11/19 12:55 AM
3

He doesn't have the frame or even knows what he wants yet. But that is the answer.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 06:49 PM
28

I think it was J10 who said that a lot of guys, when they first come to MRP, would greatly benefit with 6 months of raw SMV increase and shutting their mouth. STFU, play nice card, go to gym, reset every day. Look, you're fighting with her. That's fine. I'd advise you to go on the date, reinvite her, and then reset the next day, be positive, and get stuff done. Look, I see all of her comments... Put the words "I feelz" before them. I see this as a feelz temper tantrum. And you're clearly not giv…
/r/askMRP08/11/19 06:48 PM
1

Yeah, he was - https://theredarchive.xyz/archive/206242
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/19 12:45 PM
1

I'm not quite sure you got the jist of my comment. Why do you think people do that sort of shit. I know a guy who just eats a freakin box of Snickers Ice Cream Bars AT A TIME (and he wonders why he gains weight even though he goes to the gym, SMH). People do that shit because the burdens of life are too much for them. They say to themselves "I fucking deserve this" and go out and self destruct. If not consciously, then unconsciously. Hell I see it all the time here. But you, you can't afford to …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/19 12:08 AM
1

Shades of Steve McQueen.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/19 07:53 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/co98m9/shit_test_again_same_shit_about_trt/
/r/askMRP06/11/19 08:11 PM
1

There is no secret ingredient.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 01:48 AM
7

He can come back in two weeks - there are too many guys wasting time on this guy. Edit: a month
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 10:26 PM
1

Fuck your self destructive behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 08:26 PM
1

I threw up in my mouth a little.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 08:25 PM
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Banned. Plant good seed and take care of it, else you're hosed.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 08:05 PM
1

Different post. The guy above added negative value, and got banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/19 07:56 PM
1

Half-assing it get you banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/19 05:42 PM
3

The question I have is how authentic is all of this, knowing that his wife is reading every post he makes. Would he really be posting about how much he cares for his wife knowing she's going to read it. Maybe he would. Maybe he wouldn't. Authenticity starts with frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 11:43 PM
1

Solid progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 05:20 PM
1

AskMRP. And read the damn posting guidelines.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 05:18 PM
7

Good on you for having the strength to do what needs to be done now, versus when you started. Your wife crossed your boundaries way too many times - you alluded to the cheating. Now get back to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 04:57 PM
5

She told me I could (and I quote): “Take your horns of apathy and shove them up your ass”. Hah. Sounds like you and Red need to go lifting some more.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 04:43 PM
1

There's a reason we say she is a reflection of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/19 07:15 PM
1

Didn't see this one to approve it.
/r/askMRP27/10/19 01:45 AM
5

Paper routes build character. Worked for Warren Buffett.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 07:26 PM
5

I love me a good STFU.
/r/RPChristians25/10/19 07:03 PM
1

Good one.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/19 11:06 PM
4

It's like I don't need to type anything at all, it's all here.
/r/askRPC23/10/19 07:04 PM
3

You are just regurgitating red pill as fast as you can swallow it . just wanted to be good enough that she would desire me. I couldn't admit that because I couldn't see it and own it even though others had challenged me like /u/hack3ge but I am fucking done dancing. You sure about that? Because to me it sounds like you are STILL dancing. Still needing a strong frame that doesn't have her as the primary focus. Still needing to break the covert contracts you've set up for yourself. Still needing t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 07:00 PM
1

Were there snot bubbles?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 02:52 PM
1

Big change there. Might have to hit Unplugging.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 08:27 PM
3

The Reynolds Pamphlet.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 05:32 PM
2

My wife tried to break my hand squeezing it when she was in labor.
/r/askRPC18/10/19 01:36 PM
2

You mods are too kind to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:30 PM
1

Depends on how swole you are.
/r/askMRP18/10/19 01:27 PM
1

Enjoy your participation trophy on the main sub.
/r/askMRP18/10/19 12:30 AM
2

I dislike the term passive game. You have to actively fix the areas of your life that need fixing. Don't have a girlfriend? Go on lots of dates (hint: it's not them, it's you that is the problem). Passive game implies waiting passively for stuff to happen to you. That's a losing strategy. Take the bull by the horns. Go make things happen.
/r/RPChristians17/10/19 10:52 PM
15

“Happy man, happy clan.”
/r/RPChristians17/10/19 09:19 AM
1

Really? Wife and I combined finances and there hasn't been any problems.
/r/RPChristians16/10/19 08:40 PM
2

That could be good... Or bad...
/r/RPChristians16/10/19 08:23 PM
2

"SEXYTIME APPROVED"
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 04:04 PM
1

That sweet sweet validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 09:34 AM
2

Ah, the silent treatment. Good time to get shit done. Reread the posts on frame, and stop being a Ford Focus and start being a C8 Corvette. And yes, act normal, don't let it bother you, reset every day. Don't forget to STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 06:43 AM
2

I'm convinced I'm missing something, because if she's a reflection of me, then I need to get my shit together. You already answered your own question.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 12:18 AM
2

I put a warning about this in my guide: "Are you in a good headspace to make decisions? If not, then you’re doing it wrong. Don’t make any important decisions if you don’t have to. Fix yourself first, and then make those decisions." Your detail is right on.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 12:15 AM
1

+1 And the follow up.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 10:13 PM
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You can't handle the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 08:04 PM
1

Wife's coworker who is a older grizzled guy (good guy) always calls me the 'ol man'. "Hey, how's the ol man doing?". Generational thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 04:09 PM
7

That link has a good discussion on that whole captain / FO dynamic. And you can see the whole "Executive Officer" thing dovetails nicely into Rollo's post: "Unfortunately, this push for ‘captaincy’ is self-defeated by the equalist-mindset compromise of allaying a woman’s inherent insecurities by giving her assurances that she will be the “first mate” in this new arrangement. Even in a position of instated headship (relinquished or otherwise), men predisposed to an egalitarian equalism still want…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 03:31 PM
9

All right, RedRanger207's wife. And "B" too. Post your lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 02:14 PM
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AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 12:45 AM
1

The guide would be too much. I think of some of my friends, and I doubt they could handle it.
/r/RPChristians15/10/19 12:31 AM
1

Proverbs 27:17, Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another. For what it's worth, I have been sharpened by MRP, and in turn have sharpened perhaps thousands of others (tens of thousands?). But steel is better than iron.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/19 07:25 PM
6

LOL!
/r/askMRP14/10/19 07:21 PM
1

Yes, there is hope.
/r/RPChristians13/10/19 09:30 PM
5

I have my own ideas, but as you say, some people aren't ready to be unplugged. Perhaps No More Mr. Nice Guy is a good starter.
/r/RPChristians13/10/19 01:21 PM
1

Open to suggestions.
/r/askMRP11/10/19 03:21 PM
6

You should. Would be a good post on the main sub.
/r/askMRP11/10/19 12:13 PM
2

Sometimes it is too easy.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 05:56 PM
3

The amount of fucks you still give and how angry you are is readily apparent. For a second, I thought this was a troll post and was going to ban you, but I see you posted a few times in OYS. Get a grip, Chief.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 04:02 PM
1

You are still a Ford Focus.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 12:23 PM
2

Good suggestion.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 07:47 PM
3

What, no link?
/r/askMRP08/10/19 06:04 PM
12

When you look in the mirror, what does it say to you.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 04:52 PM
3

This post is like not wiping your ass after a shower and then being surprised when you have tread marks in your boxers. Surprised much? You shouldn't be.
/r/askMRP07/10/19 04:39 PM
3

I've always found ladder theory to be amusing and slightly truthful. It is all a numbers game, in a sense. And never accept the friend zone. Rather, go find women who are interested in you, biblically, if you know what I mean.
/r/RPChristians07/10/19 12:44 AM
2

That's a dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/19 04:56 PM
1

Already been discussed.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/19 05:25 PM
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Report: Low Quality. Yes. Yes it is.
/r/askMRP02/10/19 03:53 PM
2

You are still loaded with covert contracts. "Sending a chocolate pic"... dance harder, nice guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 11:33 AM
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The only reason I'm not banning you is your post in OYS. Best to shut up, do the work, and stop your damn nice guy behavior, which is coming off as trolling.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 11:31 PM
1

I’ve said it before, vetting is like risk management, but you never can fully become risk-free. But it would be foolish to ignore risks/red flags.
/r/RPChristians29/09/19 11:43 PM
2

I think you owe that guy some scotch, if you know what I mean.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/19 12:56 AM
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This post needs to go. Standard viewership loses brain cells looking at the article.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/19 03:07 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/19 11:24 AM
1

I missed that one. Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:04 AM
1

Banned for more than a year now, 465 days to go until unbanned. Only if he asks though. Edit: Fuck it. Time served.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 10:33 PM
1

Yes he did. Big change from the guy who first posted here.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 05:38 PM
2

I remember when you removed it. Not worth the brain cells lost when you read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/19 01:20 PM
6

Good STFU there. No point arguing with her hamster. Get better, reset tomorrow morning, and enjoy the grind.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 01:16 AM
5

I got a Halloween invitation where my name was misspelled as Chad. I chuckled quite a bit on that one.
/r/askMRP26/09/19 07:57 PM
7

I read that as "beta bux".
/r/askMRP26/09/19 06:18 PM
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Enough of the spam.
/r/askMRP25/09/19 11:19 PM
10

Find TDEE. Eat less than TDEE. It's all about calories in, calories out.
/r/askMRP21/09/19 01:16 AM
1

Fixed flair.
/r/askMRP18/09/19 07:29 PM
1

coughmatrixcough
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/19 02:12 AM
1

I don't recall, but some shit went down. Happened maybe a year ago.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 09:01 PM
2

Has anyone HERE actually been doxxed and had legitimate fallout? There have been people who's lives have been affected. Triadis3 I think was a example - he was doxxed.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 08:12 PM
7

Spit out my coffee at that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/19 02:47 PM
2

Hell, I want to see the outcome, see if he unfucks himself or not. He's been doing this for years, and I've never seen anyone else so stuck inside one's head.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/19 02:42 PM
7

Your father in law is more red pilled than you.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 12:01 PM
8

I always like to use actions as the barometer. Actions are the real indicators, not words. What are her actions telling you?
/r/askMRP17/09/19 02:53 AM
1

There are no LDRs. And you know that you should be ending this. Real dating relationships are easy. This one is not.
/r/RPChristians16/09/19 08:10 PM
1

Their SEO is on point. It used to be this sub first.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/19 12:23 AM
1

True statement.
/r/askMRP12/09/19 05:56 PM
19

Hey, look at that. Someone moved up the hierarchy.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/19 06:15 PM
6

I wrote a post on this, and it was covered in 60 DoD.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 09:50 PM
1

No, and you get banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/19 12:50 AM
2

Don't remember writing that one. Though sometimes I reread my guide and am like, whoa did I write that...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/19 03:32 PM
1

AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/19 11:55 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/cz20iv/own_your_shit_weekly_september_03_2019/eyyj54f/
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 10:57 AM
2

It was appropriate.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 09:54 AM
3

That's what all self improvement is.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 02:02 AM
1

I'm not a fan. You want to find the women who are interested in you, not put one woman up on a pedestal.
/r/askRPC06/09/19 01:53 AM
0

Excellent!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 01:36 AM
3

Not a wife?
/r/askMRP04/09/19 08:18 PM
5

I'm sure you've heard this before, but dance, monkey! Dance! It's like you need to take that post, print it out, shred it into ultrafine pieces and snort it through your nose to internalize it. What's it going to take?!?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 11:16 PM
2

Nah.
/r/askMRP30/08/19 04:37 PM
2

That's only the stuff that gets through. There's a lot that doesn't - I personally liked the "MRP, how do I launder money" question.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 12:53 PM
1

Here is your answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 12:07 AM
4

You know some idiot is going to try this, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 09:49 PM
1

Go post this in AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/19 01:32 PM
1

You spoke too soon.
/r/askMRP23/08/19 05:27 PM
3

I was up at 4am today, at gym at 4:45. It was a good one this am.
/r/askMRP22/08/19 06:13 PM
7

20-35 guys per day join. I have no problem banning the ones that don't add value or waste people's time.
/r/askMRP22/08/19 04:39 PM
20

The mods don't care about you.. Banned for wasting people's time. But I'll keep the thread up to show people what not to do (and what lack of frame and ego protection look like).
/r/askMRP22/08/19 04:36 PM
4

My relationships suffer to some degree because of the things in my life that I'm unhappy with me, but there aren't any issues with them directly. Fixed that for you. What's not great is that, outside of work and my relationships, I feel like eating a bullet a few times a month because I feel like a massive waste of potential with no aim in life. I think this came primarily from focusing so much on "redemption" in terms of letting my business go down the drain initially instead of focusing on my …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/19 06:38 PM
4

Yeah, that was back when I had more free time. Nowadays, not so much. I remember that puke.
/r/askMRP15/08/19 03:36 PM
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Locked and banned.
/r/askMRP15/08/19 01:05 AM
1

Amen! Second this.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/19 12:58 AM
1

You need more TRM as well - https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/19 12:17 AM
1

but eventually she'd really like me to text her again when I'm ready Aka please be my beta orbiter in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/19 12:09 AM
1

Good one, Mr 60 DoD contributor.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/19 01:36 AM
1

Sometimes your insight is like a laser, sharp and burning. Good stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/19 01:29 AM
1

True statement. Adversity builds character.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/19 01:27 AM
7

I hit those levels already. At least for me, after 100k, money just became a scoreboard. Sure, it's nice to have more. Nicer house, bigger toys, more exotic vacations. But really, what does that get you? Nothing that matters. Your relationships with your family and friends, the things you do in life that have meaning, vision and mission, those are the things that matter. If you haven't read The Millionaire Next Door, I advise reading it - you get some good insights into what millionaires value. …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/19 01:26 AM
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No shit, Sherlock. Locked.
/r/askMRP13/08/19 05:56 PM
6

News flash, 125, 150, even 200k isn't going to make you happy. Ask me how I know.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/19 03:16 PM
4

Look. I have had way too much sangria. Kill your ego means you don't allow your ego to control you, that's all. It's ok to have a ego. But you can't let it control you.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 01:10 AM
1

Don't get married to get a residency. But hey, you got this, sport. Don't you listen to those scarred red pill guys! They don't know what they're talking about! If you want non sarcastic advice, I advise you to finish your education and get a job or get more established in your career, get some savings and reevaluate in 3 years.
/r/askMRP11/08/19 08:49 PM
3

Embrace the suck.
/r/askMRP11/08/19 04:19 PM
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Questions go to AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/19 10:18 AM
1

You had a very interesting comment two weeks ago about how you communicated to your wife that you didn't want to be married - and I'm wondering how that's affected things so far.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 04:49 PM
1

Another one for posterity - https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/cjadk6/check_out_a_and_b_below_help_me_reconcile_a_when/ , same OP
/r/askMRP04/08/19 03:04 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/cieym1/im_just_a_woman_standing_by_a_pile_of_laundry/ for reference to the original thread.
/r/askMRP04/08/19 03:01 AM
6

It is on my guide which is pinned, as well as literally the first post on the sidebar - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/acvzgx/steels_guide_to_married_red_pill/edb8y59/ If people don't read, they're only doing themselves a disservice.
/r/askMRP03/08/19 08:46 PM
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Steel says: You do not talk about fight club. I say it in my guide, it's been brought up many times here. I think even Glover later on recognizes that it was a mistake to talk about NMMNG.
/r/askMRP03/08/19 06:56 PM
1

Intelligence is important. You want to have smart kids, for multiple reasons. A doctor, for example, would theoretically be more intelligent than a woman with a high school education. Career is important. It shows that a woman has some drive. They won’t be a burden. If you decide to get married, you should marry a woman who you respect (and of course who respects you). Attraction is a different ball of wax though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:24 PM
7

They had morons in their marketing department.
/r/RPChristians03/08/19 12:47 AM
1

Automod removed the comments here, fortunately.
/r/askMRP02/08/19 02:32 PM
1

Same here.
/r/RPChristians02/08/19 02:31 PM
1

I replaced my platinum ring with a fitness silicone ring when discovering MRP back in the day. You should have heard the shit tests. I'm not damaging my expensive ring on the weights, nor am I damaging my finger by wearing a metal ring. I fogged for days. Nowadays, no comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/19 11:11 PM
1

Rian mentioned that if there's not snot rockets, it's not a main event.
/r/RPChristians01/08/19 10:57 PM
1

Take them to a diner at 6am for breakfast. No pre-study work. Just to chat.
/r/RPChristians31/07/19 10:12 PM
1

Had to go back to BPPs rules on the subject, but my understanding is that at least in Ask, women posters are tolerated, barely, based on their commentary. Their posts are scrutinized, and any post that goes beyond what is allowed is gone. Main sub, they're banned without warning. Most of the time folks report them on the main sub, makes life easier. Rare to see them here regardless.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 01:21 AM
3

If you didn't ban him already I would have. Dudes who operate in a fear mentality don't deserve MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/19 10:04 PM
2

Get practice gaming everyone, even while injured.
/r/RPChristians28/07/19 11:44 PM
6

Children with dynamite... I'd advise you not to make any decisions while in the grip of anger. And build your frame, son. Your lack of control shows you have none.
/r/RPChristians28/07/19 11:42 PM
1

OP is shadowbanned and gone.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 09:00 PM
1

I know, right. No banhammer this time.
/r/askMRP25/07/19 11:04 PM
1

That's quite the story.
/r/askMRP25/07/19 01:32 AM
1

Meh, this comment isn't banworthy.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 10:37 PM
1

You should post this in AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 09:34 PM
1

On the final note, is just picking and choosing the ones you think are the most effective strategies the best route. Can't use red pill tactics to get blue pill goals. I can also see how the whole thing can go horribly wrong with the Dread Levels. Tools in a toolbox. Also, MRP works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:31 PM
2

They drew first blood, not me.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 12:38 AM
4

Pretty awesome, actually. No complaints.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 02:06 PM
6

I married one. Hot stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 02:01 PM
3

Boundaries, vetting, frame... it's all risk management to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 01:51 PM
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Post this over in AskMRP, Rambo.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 09:44 AM
13

Hairdressers, redheads, strippers, girls named Tiffany...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 01:12 AM
15

You pre-empted my post, Taipan. Like most men, I vetted my wife, pretty seriously. Actually started with the Mystery Method (page 134), as it's not a bad starter list at all: An attractive woman who takes care of herself A woman who is social and has friends A woman who has a real thirst for life A woman who has a great energy and a positive outlook A woman who is not a flake A woman who is touch with her own sensuality, she's not a baby anymore A woman who can seek after her own fulfillment ins…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/19 11:10 PM
1

Manosphere drama. Main sub, Rollo, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/19 01:03 PM
2

That is awesome!
/r/askMRP22/07/19 10:15 AM
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Banned at 88 mph. No plutonium here.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 02:10 AM
4

For reference, the mods have removed all reference to 21 Convention from the sidebar, wiki, plus I removed it from my guide.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/19 01:56 AM
2

Genesis 9:3
/r/RPChristians21/07/19 02:04 PM
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Sperg alert. Locked and temporarily banned, for a long time.
/r/askMRP20/07/19 02:16 AM
4

No homo.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 11:07 PM
2

Fixed flair for both of you.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 11:11 PM
2

And for the love of God, stop eating donuts!
/r/askMRP18/07/19 11:07 PM
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Locked, because I dislike crossposts, nor do we need brigading from other subs.
/r/askMRP17/07/19 07:14 PM
2

Well now, look at you. You just made some serious progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 12:28 PM
2

STFU. Don't talk about fight club. Recognize that you are going to have to deal with a lot of shit and a lot of hard work is in your future. Start getting up at 5am, get your workout in. Be pleasant. Continue to adult. Own your shit. And recognize that all of the upcoming work that you have to do is just you getting back to par. Getting in shape. Working out. Dealing with years of beta behavior. What's that, you're angry? Well, you should be! All your butthurt is misplaced, because it's your fau…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 03:19 PM
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Go post this in AskMRP, you value sucking leech.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 03:04 PM
3

No More Mr Nice Guy will help you. If you have already read it, read it again.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 01:12 PM
2

Less I love you's. Why? Because they are not expressions of your contentment in your marriage, but rather you are saying ILY to supplicate her. Worse, she KNOWS it. She can hear it in the tone of your voice. Hell, I can hear it in the tone of your post. You need more STFU in your life. STFU and frame. And perhaps next time, when you are planning your social calendar, you make a plan, then you get her input on dates. I assume you like your wife and she adds value to your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 01:01 PM
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AskMRP is not your handout.
/r/askMRP16/07/19 12:52 PM
2

This is a massive anger phase waiting to happen.
/r/askMRP16/07/19 12:50 PM
3

Wish I could pin this post.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 10:25 PM
2

See, you and u/ReddJive need to check this out as it is applicable.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/19 08:28 PM
1

Competence is power.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:45 PM
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He used to be a Mormon, of course he has kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/19 02:16 PM
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All you guys here and in OYS, especially to that guys post who I just approved, you need a lot more SHUT UP and GO TO THE GYM. That's all you should be focusing on. Shutting up. Going to the gym. Building frame. These are obvious problems here - second sentence, 29% body fat. You focus on that. STFU. Gym. Frame. This is where you live. You live right here, ok. No expressing yourself - not like that you don't. Reread the sidebar. She's saying don't touch me? You get back to basics. Go to the gym.…
/r/askMRP11/07/19 09:03 PM
2

Read the posting guidelines. This goes to AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 09:08 AM
1

Amazing how things change.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 11:42 PM
2

The idea that it's your fault, that it all falls on you is being taken a bit too far. Yeah, you're right.
/r/RPChristians10/07/19 11:37 PM
1

Interesting. Reminds me of WNS's favorite post - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/45v64p/the_trope_of_the_beta_male_married_husband/ - which is more really a kick in the butt to take action... or not. Personally, I see it as a perspective shift. Imagine a naive young man coming in and finding out that "if your girlfriend or wife cheats on you, then it's your fault". Well now, that doesn't seem right. How is it YOUR fault if your spouse or girlfriend cheats on you. Picture this th…
/r/RPChristians10/07/19 11:35 PM
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Take to AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 11:07 AM
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Be your best self. Don't be yourself, be your best self. And know that first impressions are key. So don't screw it up. :)
/r/RPChristians09/07/19 04:16 PM
5

MRP. Building better betas since 2014.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 12:14 PM
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Hey sport, just so you know, you pause the shit out of dread when you have a pregnant wife. It’s the very first warning on the post - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 10:10 AM
2

You missed the fun on the main sub and Twitter.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 01:33 AM
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To be fair, that was only when they were dating, not when married. Not that it makes it any better, of course.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 06:51 PM
2

midget hobbit
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 01:58 PM
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Meh, for me it is the continued association with Anthony that has the jury still out for Hunter. Provide a platform. Speak at the Patriarchs convention. Seems great. Charge betas $2k a pop to hear people speak (nice business move there). That’s all well and good. It doesn’t change the fact that when you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas. Character is who you associate with. And I predict that Hunter will only associate with Anthony as long as he’s useful. When usefulness is at a end, so …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 01:58 PM
2

Ex army Scoutmaster for me. That dude was a badass.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 01:48 PM
1

Not worth wasting people's time over.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 01:44 AM
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Go to the gym. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/19 01:38 AM
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Tactical soap...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/19 07:28 PM
1

Low quality. Go to AskMRP. And be bloody thankful that you're not banned from here.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 04:38 PM
3

Yeah. I probably have about 1-2 drinks per week, like a glass of cab when I'm out with my wife and family at a restaurant, or a mojito yesterday for example after doing a large project outside in the heat. It's not worth it to go any further.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 04:37 PM
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We all reap what we sow. In her case, well, you see the results. Solipsism unfortunately will meet cold hard reality, and then people either change or wallow in their misery.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 01:40 PM
9

That was below the belt.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 12:57 AM
1

Bot. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 12:31 PM
4

Bot. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 12:29 PM
1

Hell, we literally tell people on the MRP sidebar to read the TRP sidebar. Granted, a lot of it will be different to most guys here because of the age difference and experience of the reader, but still.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 01:43 AM
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Already done.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/19 10:19 PM
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You are weak in every way that matters, and this belongs in AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/19 10:17 PM
1

The cliffhanger makes me want to read the next part.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/19 01:04 AM
2

+1 to see Anchorman.
/r/askMRP27/06/19 08:54 PM
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For the low quality stuff (even for AskMRP), don't forget to hit the report button. Locked (and banned).
/r/askMRP27/06/19 08:50 PM
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Plus say you go on lots of dates, figure yourself out, and figure out what you want in a partner. You'll want to position yourself best when you do meet those women who meet your requirements. And if you act like a fool on that date, there probably won't be round 2.
/r/RPChristians27/06/19 02:39 PM
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Man, I have stories on the girls who did that to me. Horror stories.
/r/RPChristians27/06/19 02:36 PM
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MRP dadjokes right here.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 11:20 PM
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All right, folks have had their fun. Locked and banned.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 11:09 PM
6

Yeah - sometimes I let these through as a thought experiment, see if they might get it. Clearly not here though.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 11:07 PM
6

I wrote a post for noobs like you.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 11:31 AM
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Consider yourself fortunate that you aren't banned for this.
/r/askMRP25/06/19 05:00 PM
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This belongs on AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/19 11:22 PM
1

The crab cakes were superb! Great clarifying post, Stoney.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/19 12:54 PM
1

Go post in OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/19 12:51 PM
1

"Next time, on Dragon Ball MRP..."
/r/askMRP22/06/19 11:48 PM
2

I think dread only works if you like your wife (reference J10 thoughts on dread). If you don't like your wife, then you'll be in the anger phase working through the dread levels, and you'll enjoy having the hamster in the maze too much. I can see how if you were betrayed, and the wife takes your kids away or other such betrayal - that dread wouldn't give a damn. At that point it's about becoming a HVM and protecting yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/19 11:42 PM
1

That's not what your shirt says.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/19 03:37 PM
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When you edit the post too many times the Automoderator flags it as spam and removes it.
/r/askMRP20/06/19 05:15 PM
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You sound like a woman, OP. Get your shit done. Get some time management skills. Get faster on stuff. Make your to do lists every day and get them done. Want to work out? I pull into the gym parking lot at 5am, and I see these old farts leaving the gym after a full workout... those old guys have already figured it out. And stop doing unnecessary stuff. Leave childish things behind and become a man.
/r/askMRP19/06/19 05:40 PM
2

Banned. But you can get grilled nuggets, the superfood side, and water and have a relatively healthy meal there.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/19 11:22 AM
2

All this Ibiza talk makes me want to check it out.
/r/askMRP16/06/19 11:49 PM
1

She's not respecting you, she's clearly not on your team, and in fact she is actively sabotaging you. You don't have any boundaries at all, because you've enabled this poor behavior. You think this is all about your finances. News flash - it's not. Got any controlled anger? Any consequences for mommy? Stuff like what she is doing would make me put a pause on everything else - building a second home, horse payments, and I'd lock down what I would be able to in order to fix the finances. Nothing w…
/r/askMRP16/06/19 09:48 AM
5

You may just be the most fucked up case here Not even close.
/r/askMRP16/06/19 08:38 AM
1

I've told plenty of guys that at some level, they should be thankful that they're getting shit tested - it just goes to show that she still thinks you're worth getting shit tested. It's when they do nothing and are indifferent is when you're hosed.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/19 01:18 PM
2

Year 4 (2019) Call for Contributors - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/at82sf/call_for_contributors_60_dod_2019_edition/ (A) Kickoff - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/b45byj/60_dod_2019_official_kickoff/ (A) Week 0 - Happiness - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/b4b9fp/60_dod_2019_week_0_happiness_is_your_long_game/ (A) Week 0 - How To Be Happy - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/b4imdm/dod_week_0_part_2_how_to_be_happy_the_3_step_gu…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/19 02:37 PM
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She said she was done reading Five bucks says she's still reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/19 12:59 AM
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Go read the sidebar, and stop asking for a handout. It’s all there.
/r/askMRP13/06/19 02:45 PM
1

Excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:38 AM
1

For the record, I assume you have now changed ALL of your passwords, checked for keyloggers, and encrypted your laptop/desktop (and stopped using the built in browser store password feature), yes?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 06:47 PM
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Put this in OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 11:20 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 06:32 PM
2

And we'll consider this to be the last word. No more, from the both of you.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 09:48 PM
1

WNS has a point. I look in your post history and you have six, count em, six removed AskMRP posts (though surprisingly, you're not banned from MRP yet). You post again this month, you're banned permanently. Your posts are low quality, even for AskMRP, and that's saying something. Consider it some time to read the sidebar. AskMRP is not your diary.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 07:44 PM
3

I see what you did there.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 08:19 PM
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Doesn't go to the gym? Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 12:40 PM
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That's the kind of info you need to make informed decisions. If I were in your shoes, I would next and move on.
/r/RPChristians02/06/19 05:19 PM
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I was so angry and hurt by this. We have a 4 year old daughter! We’ve built a great life together! We’ve been together since we were teenagers! We fucking promised to be together forever! Hypergamy doesn't care. This guy that she’s attracted to lives on the other coast and they just saw each other a few days at a conference and I guess there were sparks. Uh huh. I'll let the other guys tear you a new one. She has some deep religious sexual shame Aka you're not attractive, but fat and weak. Look.…
/r/askMRP29/05/19 09:46 PM
1

Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/19 02:27 AM
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Even the mods sleep every now and then. Removed and banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/19 10:36 AM
2

Great list, Sepean.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/19 07:15 PM
3

Sharks are no bueno. Can confirm.
/r/askMRP25/05/19 11:27 AM
2

Parable inside a parable.
/r/RPChristians23/05/19 11:01 PM
2

Banned.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 08:22 PM
1

All the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/19 12:14 AM
4

Wheymen.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 01:41 AM
3

I see posts like this, from our erstwhile plunger boy, and can’t help but think: Where is this guys frame?!? He has no frame. Frame is dread one, it’s the first step, but when I see stuff like “trying to please the wife even though she’s far away” it’s clear there is no frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 01:40 AM
1

Savage.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 01:33 AM
4

Removing your flair.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 01:20 AM
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No shit, Sherlock.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/19 02:03 PM
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Better to be silent and thought a fool than to open your mouth and confirm it.
/r/RPChristians19/05/19 01:23 PM
1

Yes, it’s the first post. Check the old format.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/19 10:33 AM
2

All of your replies have been spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 09:20 PM
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What's the lesson. Where's the value.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/19 07:27 PM
4

I agree with this. The desire seems genuine, but it still feels forced. Stoney likes that old 'naugahide remorse' post. This feels like a naugahyde imitation of the sex life I want. It’s because on one level it is negotiated, and that’s not what you want. Hence the disappointment.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 10:28 AM
2

Har har.
/r/RPChristians16/05/19 12:08 AM
3

Boundaries. You have to have them.
/r/askMRP15/05/19 10:36 AM
5

Be prepared to never sleep again. Good times, and congrats!
/r/RPChristians15/05/19 12:27 AM
1

Still in the hopper?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/19 10:37 PM
3

That's why I'm leaving it up on the main sub. Quality puke right here.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/19 12:52 AM
3

We'll count this as your one victim puke. No mas.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/19 10:51 PM
5

Whoa.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/19 02:26 AM
4

PS. Please don't ban me. Say this again and I'll ban you. Have some damn respect for yourself and your words.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 11:10 PM
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You are not a unique snowflake. Removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 12:32 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/RPChristians08/05/19 11:04 PM
1

So what's the story here - do you have specific examples that she was a outspoken or opponent of God's design?
/r/RPChristians08/05/19 10:24 PM
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No I’m not approving this. You clearly haven’t read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP08/05/19 05:35 PM
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