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Reading sidebar and been unplugging. Need help finding this article/book

Expensive-Ferret-413 · 2024-03-08T17:48:49+00:00

Started unplugging 7th Feb. Lost 12 lbs since then and started lifting. Read MMSLP, NMMNG, posts from OG TRP and MRP. I need to read this article from Athol...

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March 8, 2024

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Title	Reading sidebar and been unplugging. Need help finding this article/book
Author	Expensive-Ferret-413
Upvotes	4
Comments	18
Date	March 8, 2024 5:48 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/1b9uaqt/reading_sidebar_and_been_unplugging_need_help/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askMRP/reading-sidebar-and-been-unplugging-need-help.1426616 https://theredarchive.com/post/1426616

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Thnks.

Unfortunately, I have stopped caring about my spouse like I used to. Im not angry but dispassionate. Reading all this stuff made me realize the ugly truth:

Women have no morals or principles or gratitude. Even if they do it is way less priority than the next glittering thing or source of a feeling.

Originally I started MAP or what you guys call dread to get my wife back on track but then I realized that 'Dread' term should be renamed to 'Be a Man'. 'Dread' is rooted in her frame. It means a reaction from your wife but I deeply dont care about that anymore.

Why the fuck would I NOT want to be in better shape? Why the fuck would I NOT want to work hard all the time? Why do I NOT already have a good wadrobe

Why the fuck would I not hold myself to a higher standard and own my shit?

It took my wife to start throwing tantrums for me to realize it. I am extremely disappointed and pissed at myself.

Regardless of marital status this should be a default for every self-loving man and I am ashamed of my lazy ass and I think shaming (or a mild version of holding them accountable if the guys are gen Z) other men is good.

Literally, Stopped giving a shit. She and every other women has dropped down in my eyes just below what I think is respectable.

Every motherfucker male or female wants to cruise through life on easy mode including me.

No one wants to put in the work. Girls are branch swinging, guys are sofa-ridden. all this is to find the most comfort and ease in their life.

I am finding immense bliss in the grind. Anything worth achieving is difficult.

Signed up for a 10k race and 2 of my colleagues at my work are so motivated seeing me grind they signed up too. My boss has started treating me really well. People in the sauna have started acknowledging my presence.

But I still have deep rooted immense dispassion. Almost to the level of depression. I am not depressed I am calm but I don't feel things anymore. Recently one of the hottest chick at work gave me her phone number because she wanted to share AW fitness activities but I dont give a fuck. Any one of her 3-5 orbiters would be thrilled.

I guess my question is I am worried I might become a sociopath and not care anymore. Will this last? Is this permanent?

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